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Two women- one working in academia, the other a dating behavior specialist & certified coach - give incisive and unflinching dating advice while reminding women staying single is a valid (and sometimes optimal) choice.
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Jekyll and Hyde (01:00)Tiktok is full of performative white men who pander to women. We talk about one man in particular who expertly plays the Good Guy until a woman questions him. That's when Mr. Hyde appears.
"You Need A Dick" (05:40)Certain people need to learn that accusing someone of being single or celibate isn't an insult. We discuss this antiquated retort and remind people asexuality is a thing.
"Men Are Trash." (24:10)A woman found texts her husband wrote when they first met and was horrified to learn he told people she was ugly and desperate.
Single Is A State of Mind (33:45)A woman went viral for revealing she was in her forties and had never had a romantic relationship. Sarah and I discuss why women place more emphasis on romantic relationships over any other. We also address the dangers of making your singlehood your entire personality.
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You're not being overly sensitive. He's a dick. (01:15)
A woman questions if she's overreacting to her boyfriend's lack of appreciation for a celebration party she had organized for him. He further exacerbated the situation by posting on Instagram, not about her, but about a female friend.
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Men are stupid, and we don't respect them. (14:10)A man acknowledges he knowingly wasted two years of a woman's life and wants to break up with as little fallout as possible. All because he couldn't be alone. BOOOOOOOOOO to you, sir.
Aidan was a Petty Betty. (24:40)When we talk about Carrie's most toxic moments, many of us recall the episode where she barges into Charlotte's Park Avenue apartment, asking why Charlotte didn't offer her the money to buy her co-op. What we never talk about is the pettiness and financial abuse involved with Aidan's demand that Carrie buy him out of the apartment HE chose to purchase.
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We kick things off with a discussion about ADHD medicine shortage and how it's affecting us. Hint: Not well.
The rest of the episode is dedicated to the viral Tiktok trend asking people to share Carrie Bradshaw's most toxic moments.
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Be sure to listen until the end. We cover a story about a psychopath and how they can mask FOR YEARS without showing signs they're dangerous.
QUESTIONS ANSWERED IN THE EPISODE
- Why do women find Jack Black attractive, and why does the answer bother so many men?
- What's the proper response when someone asks, "What's your nationality/ethnicity/race?
- Is it possible to live with someone for years and not know they're a psychopath?
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Questions answered in this episode
Should lying about your age on dating apps be illegal?Why is everyone turning on Jennifer Lopez, and is Ben Affleck next?*How do you know if they see you as their end-game relationship or are stringing you along.
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Resources Mentioned in this EpisodeJ-Lo’s Documentary
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Brace yourselves!Men's dating coach Alpha Dom made quite the splash this week on social media with his problematic advice.Sarah and I deconstructed his videos and determined he's sometimes right.HEAR US OUT BEFORE YOU JUDGE!Dom does have an idea of how women think and what they want. The problem is he often veers off course because his understanding of women is limited.We can't wait to hear your thoughts!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Get exclusive bonus episodes & content by subscribing to our Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content.Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/thechristanmTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoachYoutube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew
IN THIS EPISODE:A man lectures women on how they should dress at the gym and immediately regrets it.If you've spent time on social media this week, you've probably seen clips of Ryan Gosling singing "I'm Just Ken" at The Oscars. We discuss the performance, John Mullaney's infidelity, and why Cillian Murphy's win made me cry.A woman has a brilliant idea of wearing statement t-shirts on first dates to let men know we won't accept low-effort nonsense. Ariana Grande's new song, "We Can't Be Friends," aptly describes trying to move on from a breakup. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Get exclusive bonus episodes & content by subscribing to our Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content.Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/thechristanmTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoachYoutube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew
I was quoted in an article about the dangers of Are We Dating The Same Guy groups. The article interviews women who have been stalked or harassed after posting to the groups. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE ON OUR PATREON:https://www.patreon.com/posts/99928272A woman wants to know if she should tell her man's mistress he's not as rich as he'd led her to believe.The critical reason you need to ditch your frenemies.We hop in the time machine and discuss the Dave Coulier/Alannis Morissette relationship, how he found out he inspired the album, and how You Oughta Know impacted women.We're making an Angry Lady Playlist. Leave your suggestions in the comments of our Patreon. Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content.Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/thechristanmTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoachYoutube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew
An author thinks her writer husband is trolling her online and leaving negative reviews on her latest book. After some Googling, Sarah and I suspect that the woman who wrote the letter about her husband harassing her online and the columnist providing advice are the same person.SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON FOR EXCLUSIVE BONUS EPISODEShttps://www.patreon.com/dateologycoachAlso in the episode:Green flags you should never ignore when you first start dating someone that are actual green flags and not just a guy doing the bare minimum.Why are we drawn to the same type of person, and when does it become problematic?Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content.Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/thechristanm TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoachYoutube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew
It was only a matter of time. Are We Dating The Same Girl groups are cropping up across Facebook. Women make these groups to ensure they're not dating a cheater or abuser. Men create them to whine about women who call them on their creepy behavior. JOIN OUR PATREON FOR EXCLUSIVE EPISODES AND BONUS CONTENT:https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoachIn This Episode:A listener tells a story about being posted in an AWDTSGirl group that proves men lack boundaries and feel entitled to women's bodies.A Tiktok creator teaches women how to identify and avoid Red Pill men.How to properly delete your dating apps when you decide to be exclusive.A woman snoops around her new boyfriend's bathroom and immediately regrets it.
A man claimed men know when they've met a great woman, and they don't let her get away. LOL. K.We revisit the topic of publicly dissing your ex and how, if you make it your brand, it could interfere with your relationships.A beautiful woman catches her VERY mid-looking boyfriend cheating and he proceeds to gaslight her until she calls his mistress.A man is creeped out by his girlfriend's constant nudity around her dog. A listener wants to know if she handled a male co-worker's awkward behavior.Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content.Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/dateologypodTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoachYoutube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew
We reviewed a list of First Date Green Flags and debates, which are good signs and which praise people for doing the bare minimum.Are dating apps over? That's what some experts are saying.JOIN THE PATREON TO LISTEN TO BONUS EPISODES:https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoachFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/dateologypodSUBMIT A DATING QUESTION:https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question
Prepare to get ragey! A man wants his ex to be his new girlfriend's surrogate because he doesn't want her to ruin her hot body.JOIN THE PATREON TO LISTEN TO BONUS EPISODES:https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoachAlso in this episode:We talk about Greta Gerwig's Oscar snub.A woman wants advice about whether she should be a surrogate for her ex and his new girlfriend.An article in Buzzfeed sparks an insightful discussion about internalized misogyny. I talk briefly about my experience with police while trying to file for a restraining order.Sarah gives a very quick recap of the new Netflix series American Nightmare, which is about a woman who was kidnapped and returned home only to be accused of orchestrating her own disappearance.We discuss the scrutiny and judgement women experience by seeking out casual sex.
Listen in as we talk about the pending lawsuit against Are We Dating The Same Guy Founders and why this whiny prick might actually win.Follow us on Patreon for more episodeshttps://www.patreon.com/dateologycoachAlso in the episode:A TikTok creator provides four key questions to ask your dates to determine if your political views align.Buzzfeed compiled stories from people that proving that dating in 2024 is a cesspool of low effort/high crazy people. Dating Has Become A Literal Cesspool, And These 32 Awful People Prove Ithttps://www.buzzfeed.com/hannahmarder/photos-that-prove-how-rough-dating-is
A Tiktok creator is convinced a restaurant hired someone to pose as a single guy on a dating app to get her to show up at their venue and order food. Girl, what? Plus, we offer tips to help women avoid being stood up.LISTEN TO THE Fhttps://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/devious-ways-men-scam-single-womenULL EPISODE:ALSO IN THE EPISODE:A woman wonders if she’s being too sensitive or if the man she’s dating is as awful as he sounds.We start our review of the can’t-look-away trainwreck that is Netflix’s Escape From Twin Flames documentary. The series focuses on two scammy “love gurus” and their cultish “university” that exploits vulnerable single women. PAY CLOSE ATTENTION. This documentary gives women exceptional insight into how narcissistic men target vulnerable women.Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content.Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/dateologypodTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoachYoutube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew
Enjoy a teaser for this Wednesday's episode.I wasn’t sure if I wanted to talk about this publicly. This guy was the catalyst for my decision to cut back on discussing my personal life publicly. It’s also one of the areas I focused on narcissistic abuse when I sought my trauma recovery certification. This was a dark rabbit to go down, Nuggets.SUBSCRIBE & LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:Become a Substack subscriber for $5 a month and get two Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and one full-length episode on Fridays.https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/law-and-order-ftg-abusive-narcissistFollow us on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content.Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/dateologypodTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoachYoutube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew
It's all fun and games until a guy jizzes in your eyes. In this episode, we read a Reddit post written by a woman who thinks she made a big mistake moving in with her lazy-ass boyfriend. We also discuss an outbreak of ocular syphilis that traces back to one man all the women met online.SUBSCRIBE & LISTEN TO MORE FULL EPISODES:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/FOLLOW US:Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/thechristanmTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoachYoutube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew
Sarah and Christan discuss an unemployed man who took to the internet to whine that his girlfriend won't pay his rent. In Nugget #2, we offer advice to a woman who's fallen in love with her guy best friend, who's been using her until he found a girlfriend. ******Send your dating questions to hello@dateologycoach.com and follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content. You can find links in the episode description. Become a Substack subscriber for $5 a month and get two Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and one full-length episode on Fridays.Listen to full episodes at https://dateologycoach.substack.comInstagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/dateologypodTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoachYoutube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew
Is "open to non-monogamy" code for something else? Plus, does your sociosexuality determine if you'll be ghosted after sex? Enjoy a teaser of this week's full-length episode.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/does-this-one-thing-determine-if#detailsSUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE FOR MORE FREE CONTENThttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ewSUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES - SAVE 20%You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberLISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.comSUBMIT A DATING QUESTION:https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question
The nuclear family isn't what it used to be. Dating needs to catch up with the times.SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE FOR MORE FREE CONTENThttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ewSUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES - SAVE 20%You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberLISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.comSUBMIT A DATING QUESTION:https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question
Gather round and hear us explain why women who date men should avoid separated men at all costs.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/fck-that-guy-sketchy-separated-guy#detailsSUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES:You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberLISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.comSUBMIT A DATING QUESTION:https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question
A therapist recently stitched this Tiktok of mine and gave her thoughts on single-by-choice women. She believes that women who forego dating are likely avoidants struggling with unhealed wounds. I believe that’s bullshit.SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES:You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberLISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.comSUBMIT A DATING QUESTION:https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question
A woman’s avoidant boyfriend has been running hot and cold. How much longer should she stay on this rollercoaster?SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES:You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberLISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.comSUBMIT A DATING QUESTION:https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question
Enjoy a teaser from our first Law & Order: FTG (Fck That Guy) Unit episode.It’s time to break out your deerskin hats and magnifying glasses and help me decipher a mysterious email I received this week from the son of an ex looking for proof of his father's affair. Who really* wrote this email? I know it wasn't a 17-year-old.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/law-and-order-ftg-fck-that-guy-unit#details
We discuss our thoughts on having an open phone policy with your partner and why you shouldn’t advertise that policy in a dating profile. Telling a stranger you have an open phone policy is one of the fastest ways to attract someone who is controlling and insecure. Agree or disagree?Here’s what else is in store for today’s episode:Why you should never discuss anything related to money or financial stability in your dating profile.The pros and cons of selecting the spicy pepper icon for sex positivity in your Bumble profile and what it means when men check it off.LISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.comSUBMIT A DATING QUESTION:https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionSUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES:You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberJOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITYThe Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientationshttps://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/Book A Dating Profile Review - Use code PODCAST30 to save $30It’s fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you’re ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It’s possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it. https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession
Let’s discuss the “Where’d She Go?” approach to dating all women should start implementing ASAP.LISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.comSUBMIT A DATING QUESTION:https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionSUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberJOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITYThe Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientationshttps://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/Book A Dating Profile Review - Use code PODCAST30 to save $30It’s fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you’re ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It’s possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it. https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession
Let’s talk about setting expectations and how to write messages that won't get you unmatched.SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION:https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionBECOME A SUBSCRIBER TO You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast for $4 monthly.Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberBook A Dating Profile Review - Use code PODCAST30 to save $30It’s fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you’re ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It’s possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it. https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession
The majority of the episode is based on an article and Tiktok about women’s frustration with situationships and the internal conflict we experience when we want to de-center men but also crave a romantic relationship. LISTEN TO THEFULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/how-do-you-de-center-men-when-you#detailsSUBMIT A DATING QUESTION:https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionSUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberJOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITYThe Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientationshttps://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/Book A Dating Profile Review - Use code PODCAST30 to save $30It’s fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you’re ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It’s possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it. https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession
The advice to choose better men is reductive and insulting. It goes much deeper than that.SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION:https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionSUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberJOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITYThe Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientationshttps://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/Book A Dating Profile Review - Use code PODCAST30 to save $30It’s fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you’re ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It’s possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it. https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession
A woman wants to know if she should give a man who abruptly dumped her a second chance. NOPE! No, she should not. Thank you for coming to our Ted Talk.In The Full Episode:Tik Tok’s Aba n Preach Editor (abanpreacheditor) show women the appropriate response when someone who ghosted them returns from the dead.We discuss one sure-fire way to end up dating a low-effort man.The economics of thinness and how they affect hiring.How does a man explain his lack of sexual experience to the woman he just started dating?LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/zombies-ghosts-and-other-dating-horror#detailsSUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberJOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITYThe Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientationshttps://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/Book A Dating Profile Review - Use code PODCAST30 to save $30It’s fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you’re ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It’s possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it. https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession
This episode is about ensuring you know having certain expectations does not make you needy or demanding. Because f*ck that guy.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/having-standards-does-not-make-you#detailsSUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberJOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITYThe Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientationshttps://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/
A man cancels a date at the last minute, claiming he’s sick. His date gets understandably upset. Even though he showed poor manners, she’s attacked because OF COURSE. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/fck-that-guy-men-are-trash-edition#detailsSUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberJOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITYThe Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientationshttps://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/
In this episode, we’re critiquing (and praising!) men’s dating profiles and sharing ways men demonstrate their emotional intelligence.GET MORE DATING ADVICETo listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and Friday’s full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberDO YOU WANT A PRAISE WORTHY DATING PROFILE?Do you want a praise-worthy profile that grabs people’s attention? Click the button below and book a session with me. Let’s write a story that pulls potential matches in and shows them you’re ready for your first last date. Profile assistance is available to men, women & non-binary singles. Use code PODCAST30 to save $30https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession
I’ll warn everyone ahead of time that this is not a dating-related episode. Sarah and I will be recording again this weekend and have a Nugget posted on Monday.In this episode, we talk about the fatphobic and misogynistic rant Samantha Aquilina (samanthatherese6), Sydney Alexis Norton (bratnorton), and Alyssa McGrath (LunaNoir) went on about me this week (with clips), how online hate towards women is minimalized, and how The Halo Effect often comes into play in these kinds of dynamics.See full Live discussed in this episode below:https://youtu.be/UoYaAWP2r4Q?si=SSKeMiEmk9ygOw1p
Dear Men: The call is coming from inside the house. Stop telling women they're shallow golddiggers. You wrote the playbook. We're just playing by your rules.
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A woman writes in and wants to know how to get her new boyfriend to see his Ex trying to sabotage their relationship. Plus, we review men's Bumble dating profiles and unlock new Icks.SUBSCRIBE HERE AND LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES FOR ONLY $4 A MONTHhttps://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmemberLISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/what-should-she-do-about-his-co-dependent#detailsSUBMIT A DATING QUESTIONhttps://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGET A DATING PROFILE REVIEW & POLISHhttps://www.dateologycoach.com/profilereview
If all your brain knows is toxic behavior, all you'll meet is toxic people. Listen to this episode to hear how to fix that.
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Enjoy a teaser of today’s 60-minute interview with The Burned Haystack Method’s Jennie Young. You don’t want to miss it. We discussed coded language in men’s dating profiles, messaging clues to tell if someone will waste your time, subtle signs of deception, and much more!
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I’m so excited for this episode I can barely contain myself. Ever heard of The Burned Haystack Dating Method? It's where you try to turn off as many men as possible to "burn the haystack" so you can find your needle. The method was developed by Jennie Young, Ph. D. in rhetoric and Prof. @ UW Green Bay.
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As single women, we’re often encouraged to prioritize the time and feelings of women in relationships with men over our own. We don’t discuss the grief involved with the prospect of losing a friend to a relationship. Nor do we acknowledge the very normal jealousy and sense of inadequacy that can crop up when a friend makes their relationship their entire personality.
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We're talking healthy boundaries, stripper dating problems, and the chilling revelation Carrie makes about Big in this week's episode of And Just Like That.
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In This Episode: A woman learned the man she’s dating updated his Bumble profile. What’s her next move?
A woman’s boyfriend told her he wanted her to stop stripping if she wanted to get engaged. She wants to know if asking him to compensate her for the financial loss is realistic if she quits.
We discuss the dos and don’ts of stating boundaries with your dates.
And Just Like That Episode 8 recap. We have whiplash. Seema gets real about what it’s like when you watch from the sidelines as your friends find love. Carrie is delusional. Che is tolerable. Charlotte is shallow. Judgey Miranda is back.
In This Episode: Let's talk about the idea that being chronically single is bad and results from being “too broken.”
Also in this episode: A woman’s crush on her therapist inspires a conversation about the connection between trauma and limerance.
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In This Episode: We discuss a listener-submitted letter about a dehumanizing experience with a man on a dating app.
How some men disguise their sexual dysfunction by not showing interest in physical intimacy and by “being respectful.”
We review an article stating that the lack of quality potential partners is compelling many women to freeze their eggs.
We recap And Just Like That Ep 7 and our favorite masochists, Carrie and Aidan’s reunion.
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Listen to three examples of men lecturing women about having standards and preferences.
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Enjoy our re-cap of And Just Like That Episode 5. In this week's installment, we learn Carrie is still socially inappropriate and makes us cringe. Also, the writers finally expose Che Diaz.
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He told her he thinks they should be FWB before dating. Bless his heart. He thinks the decision is up to him.
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Listen to a story about a real-life Carrie, Big, Aidan toxic love triangle
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Boy are those feminine energy coaches going to be PISSED. We discuss an NPR article that shatters the myth that men are hunters who like the chase.
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In This Episode: A woman fears a man will reject her if her appearance changes.
Is your partner obligated to stay in shape and maintain their appearance throughout the relationship?
Are all men that don’t wear wedding rings sketchy?
We blow the doors off the “men are hunters” myth
Analysis of And Just Like That Episode 4. Spoiler alert: Che still sucks.
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In This Episode: Why a malignant narcissist is so dangerous.
If you don’t prioritize dating or stop altogether, does that mean you’ve given up?
Why are so many people bothered by plus-sized women’s confidence?
Should you date when you’re in debt?
A woman wonders is she should remove her impressive careers from her profile to avoid matching with creeps.
Should a woman pursue a relationship with a man at work?
We recap Ep 3 of And Just Like That.
In this Nugget episode, I discuss preferences, standards, and how nobody gets to decide them for you.
A man with significant debt keeps getting ghosted after he discloses his financial situation. Should he take a break from dating?
A writer has many thoughts about a plus-sized woman having the audacity to be attracted to conventionally fit men.
Single people with visible or invisible disabilities (or anyone who doesn’t meet conventional beauty standards) are allowed to have preferences.
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Enjoy a special And Just Like That… analysis episode. Spoiler alerts abound, so listen with caution.
Topics covered:
How women are discouraged from listening to their instincts.
Miranda’s transformation into Carrie 2.0.
Freeloading men.
How women hold it all down when the men around them are losing it.
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In “F*ck This Guy” news, a man on Tik Tok thinks that if a woman has a high body count, she has low standards. The problem with this argument is that it implies men only sleep with women that meet their standards.
And we know that isn't true.
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In this teaser episode, we talk about why scaring off your situationships is a superpower every woman needs.
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In This Episode: A man wonders why the single mom he’s dating doesn’t need him aka doesn’t make more time for him.
We dissect the confirming the date issue. How often should you communicate after you set the first date? Who should confirm and when?
We tell the male listeners the key to getting women to date them.
How some signs of narcissistic behavior might actually be neurodivergence.
A woman calls out a clout chaser who posted a video of her friends and made up a story for attention.
What happens when women finally say the quiet part out loud to their situationship.
Listen as a man whines about women using filtered photos on dating apps as though he doesn't know humans have pores, and we aren't born with glittery pink shadow on our eyelids.
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In This Episode:
Kim Cattrall is returning to And Just Like That for a cameo and we discuss why she left the franchise.
Is it women that baby trap men or the other way around?
Is this the new way men tell women they’re open to a relationship?
Why the advice to hold off on sex until a commitment is offered is toxic to women.
Three women talk about what they did when they found out their partners bought fake engagement rings.
STI testing and why it’s unlikely men will do it when asked.
A man complains about women using filters on dating apps and insists men don’t lie about their appearance.
Enjoy a teaser of this week’s podcast. Listen as we dissect the ranting of an angry man who thinks women should alter their preferences and lower their standards so more men can get laid. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/angry-short-men-breakup-guilt-and#detailsIn This Episode:A man tells women to consider short men’s feelings and asks them how they’d feel if rejected for superficial criteria. Sir.We discuss the myth of getting attached after sex and having sex “too soon.”Do men worry that a woman will get attached after sex, or is that only something women worry about?We talk about the Jodi Arias case and the psychological abuse that made her kill her ex-boyfriend.How much effort should you make when you first start dating someone?Are breakups harder for the person initiating the breakup?Is there ever a good time to get back with an Ex?Why you should buy a fake engagement ring and how it will make you more successful at dating.JOIN OUR COMMUNITY OF BRILLIANT, EMPATHETIC, AND INSIGHTFUL WOMEN:Become a Substack subscriber and meet other single women currently navigating the dating scene or who are choosing to stay single. We host group activities, check-ins, dating advice sessions and other community-focused events. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
This week’s podcast teaser covers one of my favorite Sex & The City episodes, “I Love a Charade. We discuss the false narrative that women must fix themselves to find love, how society defines love and marriage, and why Carrie was the worst sex columnist ever.Also, a few of us met on Zoom last night, and everybody shared their dating profiles. People found the feedback so helpful I’ve scheduled another for May 23rd. To attend and get a free profile review and access full-length podcast episodes, just become a paying subscriber and save 20%. (Only $8 a month!)SUBSCRIBE HEREhttps://dateologycoach.substack.com/subscribe?coupon=58c60f68Here is a list of upcoming Zoom sessions:May 16 - Plus-Sized Dating Support SessionMay 18 - Check-in & Support Session - 5pm Start TimeMay 23 - Group Dating Profile Review Session - 5pm Start time - Note: Certain session parts may be recorded and posted on Substack. You can turn off your camera if you don’t want to be recorded.May 23 - Dating Advice Session - 6pm start timeJun 1 - Group Check-In & Support SessionJun 6 - Plus-Sized Dating Support SessionJun 8 - Group Check-in & Support Session - 6pm Start time
Will men ever get it together? We say YES. Listen as we discuss important signs that tell you a man will be a good partner.LISTEN TO THE 90 MINUTE EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/do-men-still-care-about-looks#detailsIn The Full-Length Episode:We talk about Pear Rings and whether or not they’ll be the next big dating trend.Do men still care about looks, or is it all about brains and personality now?Are we in the middle of a dating crisis?A woman wants to know how long it will take for men to get it together and evolve.In our Sex & The City Revisited segment, we discuss how misunderstood Natasha was and why she was aspirational. #JusticeforNatashaWe also discussed the episode “I Love A Charade” and how it challenged our idea of love and marriage.JOIN OUR COMMUNITY OF BRILLIANT, EMPATHETIC, AND INSIGHTFUL WOMEN:Become a Substack subscriber and meet other single women currently navigating the dating scene or who are choosing to stay single. We host group activities, check-ins, dating advice sessions and other community-focused events. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
We discuss women who constantly brag about being in a relationship and why it’s toxic; a man who berates women for having the audacity to think their time is as valuable as their money; and dating profile tips to filter out fboys.LISTEN TO THE FULL 90-MINUTE EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/lets-normalize-disappointing-men#detailsJOIN OUR COMMUNITY OF BRILLIANT, EMPATHETIC, AND INSIGHTFUL WOMEN:Become a Substack subscriber and meet other single women currently navigating the dating scene or who are choosing to stay single. We host group activities, check-ins, dating advice sessions and other community-focused events. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Never let anyone tell you to change who you are to get someone to love you. There are plenty of people out there who will love you for exactly who you are, as is.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/no-youre-not-single-because-youre#detailsGet my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
A listener wants to know why a man would spend weeks talking then cancel right before their first date. We tell her it's time to be toxic.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/always-swipe-left-on-this-red-flag#detailsIn The Full Episode:In This Episode:A man writes hateful commentary about women and gets run off the internet.How women evaluate men’s looks vs. how men evaluate women’s looks.What does “Looking for long-term but open to short” in a dating profile mean and why it’s a red flag to swipe left.In Sarah’s News Nook segment, she discusses developments in medication abortion and how even when wives out-earn their partners, they still perform the majority of domestic labor.Why do men say they’re looking for someone who doesn’t take herself too seriouslyWe discuss a powerful essay about dating with a disability.A listener wants to know why a man would spend weeks talking then cancel right before their first date.Revisiting SATC: We debate whether Samantha was as secure as she presented or if she used sex to get validation from men. We also talk about why none of Miranda’s relationships worked out when she dated men on her level.JOIN OUR WEEKLY ADVICE & SUPPORT ZOOM SESSIONS:Become a Substack subscriber and meet other single women currently navigating the dating scene or who are choosing to stay single. Vent, get insight, give support, and feel seen. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Enjoy another teaser from this week’s podcast. We’re deconstructing the Carrie/Russian Samantha/Smith relationships.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/the-dangers-of-exposing-bad-men#detailsIn The Full Episode:I share a story about a man harassing me since listening to my appearance on the Crawlspace podcast.We talk about an article from The Cut written by a woman whose husband made her feel guilty for achieving a milestone in her career.A woman wants to know what to say when someone tells you you don’t look like your photos, even when you post recent/accurate pics.We talk about Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook groups and the rash of women being exposed for posting to the group to the men they’re exposing.A woman writes in and wants to know why a married old flame from college has tried to connect with her on social media.JOIN OUR WEEKLY ADVICE & SUPPORT ZOOM SESSIONS:Become a Substack subscriber and meet other single women currently navigating the dating scene or who are choosing to stay single. Vent, get insight, give support, and feel seen. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Welcome to a teaser of this week’s podcast episode. To listen to the full episode, become a paid subscriber at https://dateologycoach.substack.com/ . In this episode, we’re discussing the dangers of Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook groups, why married men try to reconnect with old flames, and why Carrie and The Russian were doomed from the start.Listen to the full episode here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/the-dangers-of-exposing-bad-men#detailsJOIN OUR WEEKLY ADVICE & SUPPORT ZOOM SESSIONS:Become a Substack subscriber and meet other single women currently navigating the dating scene or who are choosing to stay single. Vent, get insight, give support, and feel seen. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Enjoy a teaser of this week’s podcast. A woman writes in and wants to know what she’s doing wrong because she can’t get any second dates, and her friends told her to change to be more attractive to men. Plus, we dive into how Sex and The City’s Miranda wasn’t the catch she and everyone else who watched the show thought she was.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/would-you-put-your-partner-on-a-performance#detailsJOIN OUR WEEKLY ADVICE & SUPPORT ZOOM SESSIONS:Become a Substack subscriber and meet other single women currently navigating the dating scene or who are choosing to stay single. Vent, get insight, give support, and feel seen. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
In this bonus episode, we answer the age-old question, “Do men really love bitches?” In a nutshell? WHO CARES WHAT MEN LIKE?Listen to the full episode here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/do-men-really-love-bitches#detailsJOIN OUR WEEKLY ADVICE & SUPPORT ZOOM SESSIONS:Become a Substack subscriber and meet other single women currently navigating the dating scene or who are choosing to stay single. Vent, get insight, give support, feel seen. Subscribe here:dateologycoach.substack.com/s/advice-an…rt-sessionsUPCOMING SESSIONS:Mar 21 - Dating With Disabilities Advice & Support SessionMar 23 - Dating Advice & Support Session - Open To All (Free & Paid Subscribers)Mar 30 - Dating Advice & Support Session for Paid SubscribersApr 4 - Dating Advice & Support Session for Paid Subscribers - 1pm EasternApr 4 - Plus-Sized Dating Advice & Support SessionApr 11 - Women of Color Dating Advice & Support SessionGet my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
What happens when avoidants like Carrie Bradshaw date insecure men like Aidan Shaw? Find out in this week’s teaser.Listen to the full episode:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/covert-manipulation-coded-language#detailsIn The Full Episode:The sex was bad, so he pulled away and she broke things off. Now she’s wondering if she was too harsh.More Sex & The City analysis and why Berger wasn’t as bad as we thought and covert ways men manipulate women.How do you handle a co-worker/former romantic prospect who ignores your request to keep things professional?Men are disappointed because their AI girlfriends are starting to understand consent and boundaries.Coded language men use when talking about their ideal womanJOIN OUR WEEKLY ADVICE & SUPPORT ZOOM SESSIONS:Become a Substack subscriber and meet other single women currently navigating the dating scene or who are choosing to stay single. Vent, get insight, give support, feel seen. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/s/advice-and-support-sessionsUPCOMING SESSIONS:Mar 21 - Dating With Disabilities Advice & Support SessionMar 23 - Dating Advice & Support Session - Open To All (Free & Paid Subscribers)Mar 30 - Dating Advice & Support Session for Paid SubscribersApr 4 - Dating Advice & Support Session for Paid Subscribers - 1pm EasternApr 4 - Plus-Sized Dating Advice & Support SessionApr 11 - Women of Color Dating Advice & Support SessionGet my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
In this podcast teaser, we’re discussing garbage advice to women about moving in with someone, the importance of cohabitation agreements, and giving feedback to a woman dumped just a few weeks after she’s asked to be exclusive with someone she met on vacation.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/she-ditched-her-date-over-3-cheese#detailsJOIN OUR WEEKLY ADVICE & SUPPORT ZOOM SESSIONS:Become a Substack subscriber and meet other single women currently navigating the dating scene or who are choosing to stay single. Vent, get insight, give support, feel seen. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/s/advice-and-support-sessionsUPCOMING SESSIONS:Mar 21 - Dating With Disabilities Advice & Support SessionMar 23 - Dating Advice & Support Session - Open To All (Free & Paid Subscribers)Mar 30 - Dating Advice & Support Session for Paid SubscribersApr 4 - Dating Advice & Support Session for Paid Subscribers - 1pm EasternApr 4 - Plus-Sized Dating Advice & Support SessionApr 11 - Women of Color Dating Advice & Support SessionGet my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
The internet turned on a woman who ditched her date because he didn’t want to pay an extra $3 for cheese on his burger. We have thoughts.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/she-ditched-her-date-over-3-cheese#detailsJOIN OUR WEEKLY ADVICE & SUPPORT ZOOM SESSIONS:Become a Substack subscriber and meet other single women currently navigating the dating scene or who are choosing to stay single. Vent, get insight, give support, feel seen. Subscribe here:https://dateologycoach.substack.comIn This Episode:We’re talking Oscars and why Angela Bassett had every right to be pissed that she lost to a mid-to-average performance from a white woman. AGAIN.A woman wants to know how to determine if the man she’s dating is financially stable.The internet turned on a woman who ditched her date because he didn’t want to pay an extra $3 for cheese on his burger.A woman fell for a guy she met on vacation. After dating for two weeks, he asked her to be exclusive…then dumped her a few days later. She wants to know why.Should you move in with someone before getting married? Yes, and we’ll tell you why.Do you believe in destiny and that the Universe leads you to Your Person?Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/stop-giving-men-microphones#detailsIn This Episode:Jane Pratt is back with a glossier version of xoJane. We discuss women’s media and how it exploits women’s trauma for profit.How do women learn to ignore the threats of ending up alone?Comedian Matt Rife comes under fire for his dehumanizing comments about women’s bodies and the pick mes run to defend him.The difference between men being objectified and women being objectified.How pick-up artists and male dating coaches encourage coercion.Ways men exploit women’s insecurity to get laid.A man with a microphone thinks women have it easier because “they can just get an abortion” if they get pregnant.Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Once again, we ask men, "What are you for, sir?"LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/short-kings-whiny-husbands-and-why#detailsIn This Episode:Our Statements Only approach is taking off! Listen in to the new tip we have to weed out people who will waste your time.A woman is trying to figure out if a man from Linkedin is interested in her orWe discuss classism and divorce and whether coming from divorce is a predictor for long-term ability.Do short men make better partners?Is dating more difficult for straight men or straight women?Is hook-up culture still a thing?If women make sex so accessible, why are so many men single and alone?Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Listen as we vehemently disagree with a love coach who tells women to “meet men where they are.” Enjoy the floor, ladies! They're not interested if you need to prod them to see you again.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/love-bombing-low-effort-men-and-dating#detailsIn This Episode:How love-bombing can be insidious and not always obvious.Why meeting men where they’re at will lead to dating low-effort men.Reasons some men feel so comfortable insulting plus-sized women and signs to look for to avoid them.A listener asks for advice about the best dating apps for women of color.Are social media platforms like Instagram and Tik Tok becoming the new dating apps?How to make rejection hurt less.We debunk the 80/20 rule that states 80% of women go after the top 20% of men and why discuss why men try to use it to prove women are shallow.Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Enjoy A Teaser Of This Week’s Podcast.Sarah and I analyze an article lecturing women to lower their standards and stop dating hot guys lest they end up alone.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/alpha-widows-anxious-attachment-and#detailsTo listen to the full episode, become an exclusive subscriber. Your $7 subscription will also include:Weekly full length-podcast episodesFree access to my Members Only Medium articlesExclusive Substack-only dating advice postsFree admission to 3-4 dating support group Zoom sessions a monthIn This Episode:We talk about how uncomfortable Ben Affleck looks whenever he’s around J-Lo.A woman wants to know how much time she should give a man who’s grieving before she moves on.Why abusive men pursue strong women.We discuss the misconception we can’t change our attachment style.How people mistake anxious attachment with normal reaction to being treated poorly.Madonna’s appearance at The Grammy’s sparks a discussion about women and aging.Are single women doomed to be Alpha Widows?Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Enjoy a teaser of this week's episode. We're talking men looking for a caretaker, sleazy matchmakers, video dating tips, and dating men who aren't on your level.In This Episode:Should you ever get back together with someone that dumped you?Sarah masterfully deconstructs a man’s claim women want to go back to the 50’s.Why aren’t more women seeking ethical non-monogamy?How to make video dates more comfortable.Why don’t some men want to date women who make a lot of money?Why should women date men whose lives are less stable than theirs? (credit: @sistatalkswithsahar on Tik Tok)Reasons dating has become so hard for men.If you’re not a paying subscriber, what are you waiting for? For $7 a month, you’ll get:Weekly podcast episodesFree admission to our advice and support sessions (3-4 sessions a month)Exclusive dating advice columnsSUBSCRIBE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Enjoy a free full-length episode!In This Episode:A woman wants to know if she should consider Kitchen Table Polyamory with a man she doesn’t know very well.Was Aidan Shaw the great boyfriend we thought he was, or was he manipulative and toxic?What it’s like to date someone with dismissive avoidance.A woman wants to ask her situationship of 10 years to let her move in so she doesn’t have to move away.If you’re not a paying subscriber, what are you waiting for? For $7 a month, you’ll get:Weekly podcast episodesFree admission to our advice and support sessions (3-4 sessions a month)Exclusive dating advice columnsSUBSCRIBE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
A man goes on a rant about women not being grateful for his attention and gets run off the internet.LISTEN TO THE FULL-LENGTH EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/single-parent-dating-tips-and-why#detailsIn This Episode:We talk about how much it sucks to realize people you thought were your friends aren’t.I discuss my avoidant attachment and how it was triggered to the point I was a weeping mess this weekend.A man tells ugly women they need to smile more often, and women chase him off the internet.Why do men try to make women go 50/50 on everything? Do they want women to be financially successful?Why aren’t men ever warned about ending up alone?Tips for single parents looking to start dating again.Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Enjoy a teaser of this week’s podcast! Sarah and I discuss the merits of a Dating Pre-Nup, whether or not broke people should be dating, and how to cope when your situationship commits to the person they date after you.LISTEN TO THE FULL-LENGTH EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/how-to-cope-when-your-situationship#detailsIn This Episode:The podcast Sweet Bobby and the dangers of befriending people on the internet.The latest Tik Tok mystery I’ve been pulled into about a woman stalking herself.We take a scummy man down a peg for humiliating a woman just for flirting with him.Why it’s so hard to see our situationship commit to someone else.Should someone date if they’re broke?Tips for how to date when you’re struggling financially.How men only care about women’s well-being when they share an equal amount of risk.Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Enjoy a teaser of this week’s podcast! With season 2 of And Just Like That around the corner, we talk about the decision to bring Aidan back and again plead to Bring Berger Back. Also included: A woman wants advice about why the guy she’s dating isn’t showing interest in sex, a man gets offended because women call him an incel & profile tips to make more intellectual matches. LISTEN TO THE FULL-LENGTH EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/im-sorry-i-cant-dont-hate-me#detailsGet my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
On November 13th, four Idaho University students were brutally murdered after a night out partying. In the following weeks, the internet exploded with theories until a suspect was arrested on December 30th. In this free episode, we talk about internet sleuthing gone wrong, unsettling social media admissions by the alleged killer, his rage toward women, and the misogyny that fueled much of the speculation.
Enjoy a teaser to this week’s podcast! We’ve got another mega-episode for our paid subscribers. We talk about pick-up artistry creepiness, men who lose respect for women after sex, and cover the internalized misogyny and incel culture involved with the Idaho 4 case. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/dad-bods-murder-and-pick-up-artists#detailsIn This Episode: The Idaho 4: We discuss the affidavit and talk about the incel culture & misogyny involved with this case. How to analyze dating profiles and messages to determine if your match isn’t who they say they are. How genetics plays a role in who we find attractive and whether conventionally attractive women have more success at dating. We pick apart a man’s admission he loses respect for women after they sleep together. A man wants to know why dating advice for men is so bad. Is pick-up artistry as creepy and counter-intuitive as we think? (Answer: Yes.) Why women like Dad-bodsGet my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
It’s New Year’s Eve Eve and the last episode of 2022! We revisit Edward Norton’s scathing letter to New York magazine defending Courtney Love - and women like her - who are complex, messy, and ever-evolving.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/what-i-want-a-man-that-can-handle#detailsWe also discuss why we justify situationships, how to tell if men are threatened by women who out-earn them, and why so many men are bad at dating.Plus, we shout out some regular listeners and their contributions to this year’s shows.P.S. We’ve got some new intro music! Tell us what you think about it in the comments.Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Merry Crisis!We’ve got an extra-long episode for you guys this week. In the first 30 minutes or so, we get a little person regarding the difficulties around the holidays when you’re single or not close to your family. Then we get into the Coco Briscoe drama and the news we’ve been DYING to share.To skip that part of the show, fast forward to about minute 35:00. There’s an additional 50-60 minutes of dating content.In This Week’s Mega-Episode: Why do people unmatch if you don’t respond right away? Why do married people love giving dating advice? A new dating app scam you need to be aware of in 2023 How should she deal with her antagonistic ex who won’t leave her alone? Are men opting out of dating because they aren’t making enough money? Should you trust a straight woman who tries to set you up with her male friend?Links:The Way To A Woman’s Heart Is Thru A Double Espressohttps://jessicalexicus.medium.com/the-way-to-a-womans-heart-is-through-a-double-espresso-fdeacf6a9b7eGet my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/In Defense of The Classic Coffee Datehttps://medium.com/moments-of-passion/in-defense-of-the-classic-coffee-date-ca3fe65c1c8c
One the first day of Christmas, Tik Tok gave to me:…One man a weeping, two Pick Mes picking, three tips for dating app success, and one pretentiously long Medium dating essay about ghosting that Sarah savagely shreds.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/is-what-youre-wearing-keeping-you#details Did she really dump him because of his dog? The problem with first date oversharing Is what you’re wearing keeping you single? How do you tell the difference between a low effort first date and a casual first date? The two things you must do to find love online Why compromising isn’t the same as settling Why do men overestimate women’s sexual interestGet my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionswww.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/ft…esentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursedateologycoach.thinkific.com/
We have a theory as to why dating apps aren’t working for you and you keep matching with the same types of people over and over. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/how-to-stop-matching-with-creeps#detailsIn this episode: Why are men in the year of our lord 2022 refusing to wear condoms? Should a woman tell her friend that her Ex is using her? How men make women the bad guy and why they do it Why dating apps are dangerous for plussized women The Female Delusion Calculator and why bros everywhere can stay madTo listen to the full-length episode become a Substack subscriber here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/why-men-like-to-make-women-the-bad#detailsExclusive members receive: Weekly full length-podcast episodes Free access to my Members Only Medium articles Exclusive Substack-only dating advice posts Free admission to monthly dating advice Zoom sessions.Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/writethebestdatingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionshttps://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Course https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/fthatguypresentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/
A man creates The Female Delusion Calculator, and women everywhere laugh.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/why-men-like-to-make-women-the-bad#detailsIn this episode: Why are men in the year of our lord 2022 refusing to wear condoms? Should a woman tell her friend that her Ex is using her? How men make women the bad guy and why they do it Why dating apps are dangerous for plussized women The Female Delusion Calculator and why bros everywhere can stay madTo listen to the full-length episode become a Substack subscriber here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/why-men-like-to-make-women-the-bad#detailsExclusive members receive: Weekly full length-podcast episodes Free access to my Members Only Medium articles Exclusive Substack-only dating advice posts Free admission to monthly dating advice Zoom sessions.Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/writethebestdatingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionshttps://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Course https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/fthatguypresentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/
LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/do-men-lose-interest-if-a-woman-pays#details Are women more discerning than men when just looking for sex? How can plus-sized women avoid being accused of catfishing? Do men lose interest if a woman pays? How often should you try to date out of your league? Signs they have no intention of committing. The importance of setting expectations early to see how sincere they are. What to say when people ask, “Are you seeing anyone?” Are women more discerning than men when just looking for sex? How can plus-sized women avoid being accused of catfishing? Do men lose interest if a woman pays? How often should you try to date out of your league? Signs they have no intention of committing. The importance of setting expectations early to see how sincere they are. What to say when people ask, “Are you seeing anyone?”To listen to the full-length episode, become a Substack subscriber here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/do-men-lose-interest-if-a-woman-pays#detailsExclusive members receive: Weekly full length-podcast episodes Free access to my Members Only Medium articles Exclusive Substack-only dating advice posts Free admission to monthly dating advice Zoom sessions.Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/writethebestdatingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionshttps://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Course https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/fthatguypresentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Ever heard of a buffer date? We have, and we think they’re bullshit. Listen as we explain - AGAIN - why women are demanding more effort from men. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/do-men-lose-interest-if-a-woman-pays#details Are women more discerning than men when just looking for sex? How can plus-sized women avoid being accused of catfishing? Do men lose interest if a woman pays? How often should you try to date out of your league? Signs they have no intention of committing. The importance of setting expectations early to see how sincere they are. What to say when people ask, “Are you seeing anyone?” Are women more discerning than men when just looking for sex? How can plus-sized women avoid being accused of catfishing? Do men lose interest if a woman pays? How often should you try to date out of your league? Signs they have no intention of committing. The importance of setting expectations early to see how sincere they are. What to say when people ask, “Are you seeing anyone?”To listen to the full-length episode become a Substack subscriber here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/do-men-lose-interest-if-a-woman-pays#detailsExclusive members receive: Weekly full length-podcast episodes Free access to my Members Only Medium articles Exclusive Substack-only dating advice posts Free admission to monthly dating advice Zoom sessions.Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/writethebestdatingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionshttps://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Course https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/fthatguypresentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/
In this episode, we discuss why so many men on dating apps are miserable, how guys try to coerce women into sex with faulty logic, and the drama involved with dating multiple men.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/coffee-dates-are-for-cheap-lazy-men#detailsIn This Episode:In This Episode: Why dating apps don’t work for so many people How to handle age-related compliments/insults The real reason women say, “I don’t typically do this” when they hook-up How men coerce women into sleeping with them after only a couple dates Why this is the best time to be on dating apps Did a woman dating multiple men say the wrong thing or dodge a bullet? How do you handle a friend with constant dating drama who refuses to change?Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/writethebestdatingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionshttps://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Course https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/fthatguypresentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Listen as we blow holes through one mansplainer’s theory about why men refuse to date women their age.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/why-this-is-the-best-time-of-year#detailsIn This Episode: What would happen if women made less effort for first dates Ways we put our safety at risk when dating online that we never even considered How to keep your identity safe when dating online Is reverse catfishing becoming a trend? The problem with rewarding vile men with sex How men can avoid looking like they’re dating to find a caregiver Would you ask your date to reimburse you if they canceled a date at the last minute?Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/writethebestdatingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionshttps://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Course https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/fthatguypresentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/
In this episode, we get into why coffee dates are bullshit. It’s great that you prefer coffee dates. That’s not the issue. What’s being pointed out is why men suggest coffee dates in the first place.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/coffee-dates-are-for-cheap-lazy-men#detailsIn This Episode: What would happen if women made less effort for first dates Ways we put our safety at risk when dating online that we never even considered How to keep your identity safe when dating online Is reverse catfishing becoming a trend? The problem with rewarding vile men with sex How men can avoid looking like they’re dating to find a caregiver Would you ask your date to reimburse you if they canceled a date at the last minute?Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/writethebestdatingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionshttps://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Course https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/fthatguypresentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Welcome to a teaser to this week's new podcast episode. A frustrated woman writes a letter about not being able to find a long-term partner and asks for encouragement.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/a-story-about-stalking-and-social#detailsIn This Episode: Are we done sending men noodes yet? Men on Tiktok claiming they’re being sexually harassed How do you get over your fear that you’ll never find Your Person Should you tell someone you’re dating other people? Why won’t the man she’s dating ever compliment her? How to respond when men comment on other women’s bodies/looks in front of you Is her date love-bombing her or just over-eager? More Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook group dramaGet my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/writethebestdatingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionshttps://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Course https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/fthatguypresentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/
Boo, you whores. We kick things off with a terrifying story about revenge-porn, stalking, and social media you won’t soon forget. Become a subscriber to listen to the full episode. You’ll receive weekly podcast episodes, exclusive dating advice posts & free admission to our monthly Zoom Dating Advice Session. (Next one is Nov 8.)Listen To The Full Episode Here:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/a-story-about-stalking-and-social#detailsIn This Episode: Are we done sending men noodes yet? Men on Tiktok claiming they’re being sexually harassed How do you get over your fear that you’ll never find Your Person Should you tell someone you’re dating other people? Why won’t the man she’s dating ever compliment her? How to respond when men comment on other women’s bodies/looks in front of you Is her date love-bombing her or just over-eager? More Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook group dramaGet my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/writethebestdatingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionshttps://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Course https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/fthatguypresentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/
LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/the-problem-with-dating-a-fixer-upper#detailsIn The Full Episode: Why are so many Moms threatened by trans women? The problem with dating a “fixer upper” “Nice gestures” from men that are actually insults Ways men try to coerce women into sleeping with them Why do women get played by “medium ugly men?” Men’s fear of rejection and why they need to get over it The problem with women making the first move The many reasons women prefer men message first on dating appsGet my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/writethebestdatingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionshttps://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Course https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/fthatguypresentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/
LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE:https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/the-problem-with-dating-a-fixer-upper#detailsIn The Full Episode: Why are so many Moms threatened by trans women? The problem with dating a “fixer upper” “Nice gestures” from men that are actually insults Ways men try to coerce women into sleeping with them Why do women get played by “medium ugly men?” Men’s fear of rejection and why they need to get over it The problem with women making the first move The many reasons women prefer men message first on dating appsGet my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/writethebestdatingprofileSubmit Your Dating Questionshttps://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-questionGet my Understanding Male Dating Behavior Online Course https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/fthatguypresentationGet my Master Online Dating Online Coursehttps://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/
In The Full Episode:
How people weaponize silence to get what they want and avoid conversations
The difference between scaring someone off and turning them off
Can you talk someone out of liking you?
Why do people ghost when we start matching their energy?
Do you tell your date they smell?
Is cheating more painful for men than women?
LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/dating-and-dieting-going-dutch-and#details
In This Episode:
Women who make being married their entire personality 🙄
Do men really know if they want to commit to someone after two dates?
A woman wants feedback on dieting in order to get more dates
Men’s feedback on women’s dating profile pics and why what they think doesn’t matter
Why men are intimidated by women who post profile pics where they look “too perfect.”
What to do when a man asks you to go Dutch on a 1st date and why they do it
Should you warn other women about a man you know is toxic?
LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/can-women-be-too-independent
In The Full Episode:
Can women be too independent?
Why does so much advice encourage women to downplay their success?
Should you follow up with a match that doesn’t respond to your first message?
Is it possible someone who isn’t ready for a relationship might change their mind?
What made her online flirtation go from hot to cold?
Are we subconsciously drawn to unavailable people because we’re unavailable?
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IN THE FULL EPISODE: We talk about Netflix’s upcoming series The Watcher about a family being terrorized by an anonymous voyeur watching their every move.
We offer some solutions to a woman afraid she might end up alone.
A woman wants to know if she should lie about her age on her dating profile so she can date men close to her real age.
Why men lie about their age versus why women lie about their age
Do F*ckboys ever change?
Can a woman make a guy want to be a better man?
The red flags we miss when we’re in Smug Love
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In This Episode:
Are Facebook groups like “Are We Dating The Same Guy?” empowering or toxic?
Why other women’s trauma is so compelling
Creative ways to meet men over 50
Is there a shortage of single men over 40?
Why we often ignore red flags in the beginning of a relationship
How long do you wait for someone to follow up before you’re being ghosted?
Why some people struggle with small talk on dating apps
What to do when your dating app conversations are boring
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In This Episode:
Are Facebook groups like “Are We Dating The Same Guy?” empowering or toxic?
Why other women’s trauma is so compelling
Creative ways to meet men over 50
Is there a shortage of single men over 40?
Why we often ignore red flags in the beginning of a relationship
How long do you wait for someone to follow up before you’re being ghosted?
Why some people struggle with small talk on dating apps
What to do when your dating app conversations are boring
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In This Episode:
Was she ghosted for venting?
When do you start letting the person you’re dating see “the real you?”
A man whines because his wife doesn’t want him leering at her while she showers
A woman wants to know what to look out for if she dates a man with a large social media presence or following.
How long is too long to wait to be engaged?
Should women propose to men?
When should you tell someone you are looking for marriage/kids?
What do you do when the person you’re dating says they need more time before they commit?
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In This Episode:
Was she ghosted for venting?
When do you start letting the person you’re dating see “the real you?”
A man whines because his wife doesn’t want him leering at her while she showers
A woman wants to know what to look out for if she dates a man with a large social media presence or following.
How long is too long to wait to be engaged?
Should women propose to men?
When should you tell someone you are looking for marriage/kids?
What do you do when the person you’re dating says they need more time before they commit?
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This isn't your typical Dateology Coach Podcast. For the past year, Tik Tok influencer Coco Briscoe has been building her platform on a story about being arrested for making Tik Toks and harassed by bartenders in her neighborhood. She's alleged police corruption, stalking, and online harassment by a group of bartenders in her neighborhood. This 15-month campaign has resulted in multiple women being harassed online, physical assault, and what could have been a devastating loss of business for two bars.
In this episode, we talk about how large creators like Coco prey on follower's vulnerabilities.
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In This Episode:
Should you date someone more into you than you are into them?
The difference between deception and diplomacy in dating
Is it unrealistic to want your partner to think you’re model-level attractive?
Can physical attraction grow over time or does it need to be present at the start?
Is there such a thing as seeing too many red flags?
He goes radio silent on weekends and co-parent’s at his ex’s place. Is he married?
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This isn't your typical Dateology Coach Podcast. For the past year, Tik Tok influencer Coco Briscoe has been building her platform on a story about being arrested for making Tik Toks and harassed by bartenders in her neighborhood. She's alleged police corruption, stalking, and online harassment by a group of bartenders in her neighborhood. This 15-month campaign has resulted in multiple women being harassed online, physical assault, and what could have been a devastating loss of business for two bars.
In this episode, we talk to Charlotte, the bartender at the center of this controversy.
This isn't your typical Dateology Coach Podcast. For the past year, Tik Tok influencer Coco Briscoe has been building her platform on a story about being arrested for making Tik Toks and harassed by bartenders in her neighborhood. She's alleged police corruption, stalking, and online harassment by a group of bartenders in her neighborhood. This 15-month campaign has resulted in multiple women being harassed online, physical assault, and what could have been a devastating loss of business for two bars.
In this episode, we talk to Charlotte, the bartender at the center of this controversy.
This isn't your typical Dateology Coach Podcast. For the past year, Tik Tok influencer Coco Briscoe has been building her platform on a story about being arrested for making Tik Toks and harassed by bartenders in her neighborhood. She's alleged police corruption, stalking, and online harassment by a group of bartenders in her neighborhood. This 15-month campaign has resulted in multiple women being harassed online, physical assault, and what could have been a devastating loss of business for two bars.
In this first episode, we're talking to Coco's former roommate from California. Briscoe has claimed her roommate was the aggressor. After being silent for almost two years, she's ready to tell her side of the story and how she's been coping with that traumatic night being used for Tik Tok fodder.
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In The Full-Length Episode:
A quickie explainer about my involvement with the Coco Briscoe situation and why I chose to advocate for the women she’s been harassing for a year
Why do some men feel compelled to let plus-sized women know they’d never date them?
A common way people sabotage themselves on dating apps
What to focus on when messaging with matches & why you should avoid interview-type questions
Why becoming official & titles (ie girlfriend, boyfriend, etc.) aren’t the big steps people think it is
Why some women place so much importance on being official
How to react when someone drags their feet about planning the first or second date
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In The Full-Length Episode:
Why conservative men are trying to match with liberal women
Why some men are turned off when a woman makes the first move
We deconstruct a woman’s experience with a narcissist and red flags to watch out for
Why some people abruptly lose interest or ghost
Do dating milestones really matter?
How some people use milestones to expedite physical intimacy
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In This Episode:
What women really mean by “the bare minimum” and what men can do to step it up
The mask slips on a creepy male dating influencer
The problem with using sex as currency
Dating, sexual health & birth control advice for women starting college
One woman’s advice on how to get a man to commit
Why advice about how to get a man to commit is misleading
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Would Samantha be a Secure or an Avoidant? What about Steve? Aidan is Anxious for sure, right?
We’re talking about anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment styles, why they cause us to be attracted to the wrong people, and why they all seem to be on dating apps.
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In the full episode:
Why avoidants and anxiously attached types prefer online dating than meeting in real life
We speculate on the attachment styles of the Sex and The City cast and why they need to Bring Back Berger in season two of And Just Like That…
Ways men try to set the bar low that they think are endearing
A woman buys a house with her partner only to find out he’s been lying about how much he makes and has been stealing from her
A man asks women to do more emotional labor so men don’t end up alone
A man wants to know if he can re-purpose his dead wife’s vibrator
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Confused by people that ghost after a great first date? This is the episode for you.
Also in this episode:
Have men given up on dating?
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Listen to a teaser of this week’s first of two podcast episodes.
We weigh in on whether you should end a thank you text after a first date, signs he’s never going to commit, and whether a woman should dump her boyfriend for lying about his vacation.
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In This Episode:
A woman wants to know how to juggle a relationship when you have other more important priorities
How do you prevent from matching with people with polar opposite values and interests?
Is her FWB a covert narcissist?
Why it’s usually a red flag when men talk about their intimacy issues
What is your definition of cheating and why you need to discuss that with someone before you become exclusive
The difference between guys who want The Girlfriend Experience and guys who want to be Just Friends
Men’s difficulty remembering details
A woman finds out her FWB has a girlfriend. Should she tell her that he’s cheating?
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In This Episode:
A woman wants to know how to juggle a relationship when you have other more important priorities
How do you prevent from matching with people with polar opposite values and interests?
Is her FWB a covert narcissist?
Why it’s usually a red flag when men talk about their intimacy issues
What is your definition of cheating and why you need to discuss that with someone before you become exclusive
The difference between guys who want The Girlfriend Experience and guys who want to be Just Friends
Men’s difficulty remembering details
A woman finds out her FWB has a girlfriend. Should she tell her that he’s cheating?
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In This Episode:
A man wants to know how to tell if his girlfriend is talking to other men on social media
Would you want someone to sell a prized possession to buy you an engagement ring
Dating in the early stages of sobriety
Co-dependency & dating an addict
Man claims he’s being stalked by a woman he met on a dating app
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In The Full Episode:
Man gives women terrible dating profile tips
Do women only want a ring and a sperm donor?
How to do the friends first approach to dating without attracting the wrong people
A woman gets tricked into going home with a man that ghosted her.
Another example of why men don’t deserve second chances
Dating app messaging tips & how NOT to keep the conversation going.
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In This Episode:
How to avoid getting attached to your situationship
Don’t fall for the mass text trick guys play after they ghost
How to plan and conduct a successful video date
How to use the Statements Only Approach to get exclusivity
We deconstruct a man’s complaints about women not wanting to date him because he has kids.
Men who try to date out of their league
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In This Episode:
Why the “no contact” advice only works on emotionally unavailable men
Bennifer wedding news
Messages from fat-phobic men & personal trainers using dating apps to find clients.
Are cults using dating apps to recruit members?
A man wants to know why he gets so bored with the women he dates
Brain chemistry and why some men lose interest so quickly
Is her long-distance relationship stringing her along?
How men use honesty to manipulate women.
We're talking guys who put you on the backburner and ghost after the first date.
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In This Episode:
What do you do when you hate your friend’s partner?
How should you communicate expectations without turning someone off
How often should you be texting someone you just started dating?
Feedback on The League dating app
Why do guys behave poorly on dating apps?
Why won’t many women from the US date foreign men?
Why are men turned off by women who display traditionally masculine traits?
A woman wants to know why no one has developed romantic feelings for her
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In This Episode:
A woman who has exclusively dated men wants to know how to go about dating women
Why are men opting out of marriage?
How men disproportionately benefit from marriage compared to women.
Is it a red flag if he doesn’t disclose having children?
What do you do when a woman from your man’s past won’t leave him alone?
Why there’s always more to the story when he talks about “his crazy ex.”
Should she stay friends with her ex that cheated?
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In This Episode:
Check out my appearance on The Radical Sex Witches
Slow faders & why sometimes you need to give people the benefit of the doubt
How dating app algorithms affect your swiping experiences
What to say when a man starts to pull away
Tricks to make the dating app algorithms work in your favor
Mental health awareness mentions in dating profiles & what they mean
How long will a man wait if he’s just looking for sex?
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In this episode:
Do you ask your match about their disability?
What do you say when asked, “What are you looking for?” Should you reveal a list of qualities you’re looking for in your ideal partner?
The new concept of “hardballing” and laying your expectations out on the table by the first date. (Sounds eerily familiar, doesn’t it?)
Are first date comments like these compliments or condescending?
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In the full-length episode:
How and when do you tell someone you’re sober?
Is it a red flag if he’s best friends with a former FWB?
Why it’s so hard for women to be secure with their looks
Why talking publicly about your disaster dates will keep you single
How do you stop worrying that your partner will find someone else?
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In this week’s episode:
How much pre-first date Googling is normal?
Ways your first dates test your boundaries
Should women get makeovers to attract a man?
Why some men want “feminine” women
Are you always the caretaker in your relationships?
When should you ask someone why their last relationship didn’t work out?
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In Today’s Episode:
Which attachment style is more likely to cheat?
How does a newbie approach online dating and dating apps?
Online dating tips for Singles over 50
Dating lessons from Sesame Street
What are the more common reasons men lose interest?
How to deal with men’s inconsistency
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@heartofdating
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In The Full Episode:
A male dating coach tries to convince women their standards are too high
How and when to reveal a medical issue from your past?
The real reason women want men who are fit
The link between loneliness & trauma-dumping
Why did her match ghost & block her?
One clear sign your match is hiding something
Can you have intimacy without having sex?
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In The Full-Length Episode:
Have you ever lost a friend because they didn’t like your partner?
Can you avoid being ghosted after sex? What are the signs?
If a man you’re dating asks if he has any red flags is that a red flag?
Why you never have to justify having bad vibes about someone
Signs of an unavailable man
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In The Full-Length Episode:
We finally delve into the Johnny Depp/Amber Heard trial and the misogyny surrounding it
Why that awkward pause during messaging and first dates is your friend.
Why so many men don’t ask questions on first dates
The problem with using sex to get attention from men
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In This Episode:
A woman’s ex-husband cockblocks her attempts at dating someone new
How close should you stay with an ex?
Is he using his Ex-girlfriend for free daycare?
The dangerous advice men give about approaching women in public
Should you break up with someone that doesn’t like your pet?
Do men just want a Stepford Wife?
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In This Episode:
Would you date someone who believed in astrology? Ghosts? Aliens?
What do you do when you find out the person you’re dating doesn’t want kids?
Man claims his girlfriend is trying to trap him by poking holes in his condoms
Why aren’t more men responsible for birth control?
Common dating profile phrases that give people The Ick
How do you know if someone is flirting with you or just being nice?
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In This Episode:
How long should a first date be?
The first date sign that he’s going to ask for a second date
Online dating tips when you’re still grieving your last relationship
Why so many men struggle to communicate their feelings
A man with a face like a Picasso teaches men how to find out if a woman is overweight
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In The Full Episode:
How do you regain your power after you sleep with a man?
Why men are failing on dating apps
What should men be doing to support the current threat to Roe v. Wade
How much time should we give a man to prove they’re worth our time?
Is Bumble keeping women single?
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In This Episode:
Why it’s so hard to make single women friends
Questions you should never answer before or on a first date
Common behavior of emotionally unavailable people
Why we need to stop making so much effort for first dates
Who pays more for first dates - men or women?
Ways men try to test your boundaries before you meet
After an incredibly awkward first date full of gaslighting, a woman wonders if dating gets better
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In This Episode:
Men who lie about their age on their dating profile
Why isn’t he getting any matches on Tinder?
She found evidence her man is cheating. Should she leave him?
Hinge bans a creep for being a creep
Why it’s hard to make other single friends as you get older
What is Girl Code and should a woman reject a man because he dated her Bumble BFF match?
How often should you text with someone after the first date?
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In The Full Episode:
The dangers of being Dickmatized
Ethics around snooping
When you should tell someone you don’t have sex without exclusivity
A man lets a woman drive to the airport to meet him just to ghost her
Ways you might be sabotaging yourself because you fear intimacy
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In This Episode:
Fire up the Mystery Van! We think we’ve uncovered an incel cult on Tik Tok
A woman wants to know if it’s okay to reject a man because he can’t get it up
Bumble Hobosexuals and men who live with their Exes
How to let a man’s significant other know he’s cheating without traumatizing them
How long should you wait for someone to ask you on a second date?
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IN THIS EPISODE:
Why you shouldn’t listen to people who tell you to quit online dating
Why it’s important to know your dating league
How come his friends never ask to set him up?
Should she ask her FWB to make things official?
Do you really want someone to chase you?
Gold-digging men
A woman wants to know how to overcome her fear of dating after experiencing a trauma
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IN THIS EPISODE:
The stupidity of gender reveal parties and how our beliefs about gender need to change
Would you date a woman’s male best friend?
Why are so many women dating their friend’s exes?
Would you be hurt if your friend dated a man you recently dated?
How to know if you’re being paranoid or if they’re love-bombing you
How men’s dating advice teaches them to be toxic
Are men just looking for caregivers?
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In This Episode:
Do men use shit tests?
If he says he’s not ready for a relationship, should you wait around until he’s ready?
When do you tell matches that you’re bisexual/pansexual?
First dates, neurodivergence & masking
Why a woman should offer to pay her share on a first date
How many red flags should you overlook before you leave?
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IN THIS EPISODE:
Why men try to get women to talk dirty on dating apps🤢
Things women do that men think makes them look desperate and why women should do them anyway 🙄
Is he a Pick Up Artist or a Lovebomber?
The difference between courting and dating
How do you address that you’ve moved back in with your family?
Why it’s okay to have a dating timeline
Man cancels a first date last minute with a lie and gets caught What’s the best way to bring up that you want to be exclusive? Men's habit of calling women crazy instead of taking responsibility for their abusive behavior Why first date butterflies and intense connections are red flags The difference between an avoidant and someone who is manipulating you Why you keep meeting the wrong people on dating apps
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DISCUSSED IN TODAY’S EPISODE:
Why men ghost just as things are getting serious & more sexist dating advice
How long should it take someone to text you back?
Should you tell someone why you’re rejecting them?
A woman stalks a man’s Venmo to find out if he’s cheating
Grifter tricks to get money from single women
Why LinkedIn should not be used as a dating app
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IN THIS EPISODE:
How to avoid trauma dumping on a first date
Dating while sober
Bi-phobia and latent homophobia in online dating
Predatory tricks men use to get women alone
How to find a man with a high sex drive
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IN THIS EPISODE: How do I phrase on a dating app that I am interested in dating a man with an income in a certain range?
ALSO IN THIS EPISODE:
How does she tell her friend she’s dating a narcissist?
What do men mean when they say they want to meet someone “chill?”
Should you give someone a chance even if you’re not attracted to them?
Tips to avoid getting stood-up and ghosted before the first date
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How should you respond to a guy who asks if you would ever take a guy out and pay for everything including his tab?
ALSO IN THIS EPISODE:
A man snoops through his date’s bathroom and finds her meds. Ignorance ensues.
Are women bullying men into not revealing their emotions?
How long should it take for someone to fall in love?
What do you do when someone tells you that you don’t look like your profile photos?
Why men insult women instead of just telling them they aren’t interested.
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Here's a little encouragement for those of you who feel like you're never going to meet someone. Keep the faith and know you are someone's Main Character.
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IN THIS EPISODE:
Provocative Instagram photos and how they affect your relationship
Red flags in women that nobody cares about because, men
Insidious signs of Narcissistic Abuse and why people overlook them (Listen to this week's Substack episode for part 2.) https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/the-after-sx-text-narc-abuse-and?s=w
A woman asks if she should still date even though she's broke
A man's overreaction to a woman no longer being a virgin. Because, MEN.
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IN THIS WEEK’S PATREON EPISODE:
Googling First Dates
What it means when men call you crazy
What to do when you catch your date scrolling on a dating app
What’s so bad about choosing to stay single?
How to get over an Ex really fast and profit from your break-up
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IN THIS WEEK’S FREE EPISODE:
We cover the Chelsea Hart/ Modern Warrior Tik Tok scandal, the ensuing discourse, and why this love triangle was so triggering for people of color.
Men who lie to get sex and the slippery-slope of informed consent (Subscribe to The Dateology Coach Substack to listen to part 2 of this discussion. https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/trauma-bonds-toxic-exes-and-men-lying?s=w)
The Fatal Attraction trope and how it’s damaging to women and mental illness
Why de-centering men will make your dating life exponentially easier
Why we are afraid of deleting our dating apps
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IN THIS EPISODE:
The benefits of diversity in dating
Cringey sexual role-playing by men that don’t understand women.
Should you date someone from a different political background?
Should you ever tell someone you cheated or were involved with someone in a relationship?
How do you determine your dating league?
Is it weird he posted a picture of his deceased wife to his profile?
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IN THIS EPISODE:
Scam culture, The Tinder Swindler, and women's attraction to bad boys
Why younger men on dating apps pursue older women
What to do when your fight or flight/anxiety kicks in on or before a date
Complementarity and why wanting to date someone with a similar background, opinions & interests might be keeping you single.
Why we need to get rid of dating advice that slut-shames women
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IN THIS EPISODE:
Tinder Swindler scams and why it's more likely to be white women to fall for them.
A man provides a totally illogical explanation for why men cheat versus why women cheat. (Check out our Substack episode for coverage of his follow up Tik Tok about how only men with options cheat. https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/listen-to-a-garbage-take-on-why-men )
A woman wants to know why a flirty co-worker is suddenly ignoring her.
What do you do when you find out your match has a criminal record?
Why you can know your value and have high self-esteem but still attract the wrong person.
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In this preview, we talk about why we've been letting men decide when a relationship becomes exclusive and how we're going to change that.
IN THIS WEEK’S EXCLUSIVE MEMBERS-ONLY EPISODE:
Why you shouldn’t give a man more than a month to decide if he wants to be exclusive.
A woman wants to know why a man rejected her offer of sex
The good and bad of the And Just Like That finale
How do you attract a viable partner and why you might be dating the wrong people.
Why does her man refuse to have sex but will go down on her?
How does she state in their profile that she doesn’t want to date someone with young kids at home?
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IN THIS FIRST OF THE MONTH FREE FULL-LENGTH EPISODE:
A man laments about getting wiped out in his divorce and how he wishes women would stop bragging about their jobs and financial stability.
Why you should try to never cancel a first date.
Is it a red flag if someone doesn’t use their real name on their dating profile?
Is ghosting ever appropriate?
Why aren’t non-traditional relationships more common? (Hint: It rhymes with schmen.)
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IN THIS WEEK’S SUBSTACK EPISODE:
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A fuckboy explains why men act like your boyfriend but don’t want a relationship
Should you dump a guy who won’t go down on you?
A 23 year-old wonders why the 55-year old man she dated has ghosted
How to detox from your FWB
Why we don’t trust men with women best friends
Why men say they’re interested in a second date but never follow up
Signs your match is a Serial Dater
Can you have a healthy long-term relationship if you don’t live together?
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Let's all agree to stop giving men The Girlfriend Experience and make them earn relationship benefits.
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IN THIS WEEK’S PATREON EPISODE:
Men who blur the lines of an FWB and want relationship benefits in their situationships
An awful story of a woman who made an alcoholic relapse on a second date
Dating someone who’s sober
How do you move on after your situationship ends
How to have sex with men without getting ghosted
What men really mean when they say "No Drama!" in their dating profiles
Don’t forget! We post 2 episodes per week. One here and one on my Substack.
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I'll say it again: Hinge is THE WORST. It gives fuckboys like West Elm Caleb home-field advantage.
In this episode, we dissect The West Elm Caleb escandalo and how he used subterfuge to convince women they were The Main Character.
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ALSO IN THIS EPISODE:
The ways men circumvent exclusivity so they can sleep with multiple women
Plus-size dating and how men reveal they have little to no experience with three-dimensional women
A man wants to understand his girlfriend's blow-job related kink
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$100 for cancelling a Bumble date? An expensive care package after one date?
Nope.
Listen to this snippet from this week's Patreon podcast to hear why.
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IN THIS EPISODE:
A woman wants to know if she said "Fuck That Guy" too soon
Are men really paying women cancellation fees for canceling dates?
Why does he still have photos of his ex on social media and is that a red flag?
Is he a fuckboy or a dangerous narcissist?
How male influencers exploit women's loneliness and the scams they run
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A woman writes in looking for advice about a sexting affair she had with her co-worker.
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IN THE FULL EPISODE:
Should you give your socials or last name to people before a first date?
The problem with "never settle" and why you should take dating stories on the internet with a grain of salt.
Sex toys, masturbation & cheating
Men's insecurities around female sexuality
Reasons people try to get you to quit dating apps and why you shouldn't.
If they cancel your date how long do you wait for them to reschedule?
Intra-gender competition's role in dating
Happy 2022!
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IN THIS EPISODE:
We talk about how men are like velociraptors and duffel bags
The real reason most people talk about their love of travel in their dating profiles
What you should consider before you take back your Ex
How long should it take someone to respond to a text?
Why most guys try to rush you off the dating app and ask for your Instagram or Snapchat
Why people need to earn access to your social media pages
Should she call out a man that ghosted her after NYE sex?
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Happy 2022!
Since it's the first episode of the month, please enjoy this free full-length episode.
TW: As some of you know, Christan's sister passed away rather unexpectedly over the weekend. If you want to skip right to the dating-related content, fast-forward about 9 minutes.
Is her FWB's semi-satisfying penis worth keeping around while she tries to date other men?
Was her date pretending to be self-aware and sensitive just to get quick sex?
The difference between someone who's genuinely interested in you and someone who's just mirroring your feelings.
How single male TikTokers use their followers to harass women.
Enjoy a free end-of-year full-length episode!
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IN THIS EPISODE: And Just Like That Ep 4 Recap & Spoilers (Fast Forward about 17 minutes if you don't want to listen.)
Empaths - Are the real or are they bullshit?
Why some men use dirty talk to soothe their fragile ego
What to say when men give you unsolicited advice about your looks
Why some older men date twenty-something women
She's 40, single & never had a relationship - How does she change that?
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IN THIS EPISODE:
Questions to ask your 1st date to see if they're emotionally available/intelligent
Should you give someone who ignored your boundaries a second chance?
Tips for online dating when you have a visible disability
Insights on dating when you're not conventionally attractive
How to casually date without attracting creeps
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IN THE FULL EPISODE: Learn the one and only way to figure out if a man is just looking for sex
Do you try to be The Cool Girlfriend? STOP DOING THAT!
Addressing your gender identity, politics, and orientation in your dating profile
How to have a fulfilling casual sex relationship
This is a Harry Goldenblatt stan podcast!
Listen as we discuss the first two episodes of the Sex & The City continuation And Just Like That...
Spoilers!!!!
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IN THIS EPISODE:
How to avoid getting too attached, too quickly
Why you shouldn't describe yourself as "independent" in your dating profile
Do you set yourself up for rejection? If so, why?
Can men be shamed?
When you should & shouldn't call someone out
How to write a dating profile when you're more of a Harry Goldenblatt than an Aidan Shaw?
Gather, children. We're going to read you what we hope will be a new holiday classic: The Story of Ol' Saint Soggy Dick.
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IN THIS BONUS EPISODE:
Why Friends With Benefits only benefits men
Golden showers & other "kinky" requests
How women are dating like men and men aren't happy about it.
It's our First of The Month Free Episode!
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Listen to a guy whip up a bogus word salad excuse for keeping a woman on the hook so he can continue to get laid.
How to stop a fuckboy in his tracks
Is there a way to vet potential new partners for toxic relationship patterns?
Why do men give the silent treatment?
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IN THE FULL EPISODE: We kick off the episode with a little pop culture.
IN THIS EPISODE:
Let's normalize using men for sex
Why Chris Pratt is misogynistic trash & Paul Rudd is an unproblematic king
Taylor Swift's call-out of Jake Gyllenhall and the downside of publicly discussing your love/sex life.
A man's take on why men lose interest so quickly
The STD Step - Why do people really ask you to get tested?
Should you tell someone you're a virgin & how common it is to be a virgin over 30.
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IN THIS EPISODE:
Why the whole masculine/feminine energy discussion is bullshit rooted in homophobia
A dating story with more red flags than a carnival
What men really mean when they say they're looking for someone "open-minded"
The new trend of women flying across the country to meet strange men from the internet
What constitutes a "real" relationship
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IN THIS FIRST OF THE MONTH FREE EPISODE:
Why men are so bad at making conversation and don't ask questions on first dates.
How should you react when they tell you they're dating other people?
Signs the person you like has put you on the back burner.
Why it's so hard to get over toxic people.
Two red flags NEVER to ignore.
Why Interacting With Women Can Leave Men Cognitively Impaired https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/why-interacting-with-woman-leave-man-cognitively-impaired/
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You've stated your intentions in your dating profile. You're both on the same page. Now learn how to avoid having your time wasted.
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Hold on to your butts. We go on a RANT about why women need to stop caring if men ghost after sex. It doesn't matter, ladies. Fuck that guy and then FUCK THAT GUY.
IN THIS EPISODE:
Why it's a red flag if your match shows their friend your profile before you meet
Creepy men who obsessively trash women that reject them
When should men tell women they don't want anything serious?
Signs your match is a flake and wants you to do all the work
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IN THE FULL EPISODE: IN THIS EPISODE:
How does she convince her matches not to want marriage and kids?
A man has a tantrum about women not looking like their dating profile photos
Should a man continue to support his professionally & financially unstable girlfriend?
What to do when their mental health is interfering with your relationship
Why you shouldn’t wait too long to tell a man you’re looking for a relationship.
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IN THIS EPISODE:
Who's The Bad Art Friend? A woman sues a friend for writing a snarky short story about her attention seeking Facebook Group
Christan's experience with trauma brain
Men who lie about having kids
The secret to finding a relationship online
Lying about your age in your dating profile & how to attract matches your age
Is her boyfriend losing interest or is she being insecure?
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IN THE FULL EPISODE:
A Bumble conversation that went horribly wrong
Why can she only attract younger men?
Should she tell two women they’re dating the same man?
Should she dump her unemployed boyfriend?
Enjoy our First of The Month Free Full-Length Episode!
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In this episode:
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The #Couchguy viral video on Tik Tok and why it's another example of people getting off watching a woman be humiliated.
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Pervy messages and the common pattern they follow.
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Requests for nudes and the double standard involving women being judged for sending but men not being judged for asking.
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How being lonely can actually help you find a great relationship.
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Should you circle back to a match that ghosted you mid-conversation?
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Enjoy a teaser from this week's full-length episode.
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IN THIS EPISODE: *Why more and more women are ditching their husbands and getting divorced
*Just looking for a hook-up? How to do it without matching with creeps
*What to say when someone asks your body count
*Why sexual exclusivity is not a thing
*Dating someone who isn't on your financial level
Here's a teaser of this week's Substack Podcast.
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IN THIS EPISODE:
*Should she give men who rejected her before she lost weight a second chance?
*Is it worth teaching men what you like in bed or are their egos too fragile to take instruction?
*Is she dating the same toxic person over and over?
*When should you block an ex on social media?
Here's this week's teaser for our full-length episode available only to Patreon subscribers.
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In this episode:
*How do you avoid matching with tourists?
*Are women to blame for why men don't want to commit?
*Has the pandemic made people more avoidant?
*How does she stop meeting guys who ghost, cheat or blow her off?
*Is he interested or is he using her for a ride to the gym?
It's our Free First Episode of The Month! Alternate title: F*ck That Guy: Endgame
Listen to all of our weekly full-length and bonus shows by subscribing to our Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod In this episode:
*We kick things off by discussing Ryan Murphy's fatphobia
*The reason men love relationships with a pre-determined endings.
*Why men cheat instead of breaking-up with you.
*Casual sex and why if he wanted to, he would
Here’s a teaser from this week’s Substack exclusive podcast episode.
We discuss a woman's "strategy" for getting a guy that ghosted to come back.
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Welcome to the weekly teaser!
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IN THIS EPISODE
*Should she mention in her dating profile that she had weight loss surgery?
*Dating profile photo tips when you have a physical feature you're trying to hide.
*Should women date more than one man at a time?
*Messing tips and how to avoid being boring.
*How do you know if someone has more dating options than you?
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Listen to Tik Tok Creator AsianBimbo69 explain how her time working in real estate prepared her for vetting potential matches and weeding our guys who are going to waste your time.
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We might have to come up with a new catch phrase after this episode.
*A woman writes in asking how she can get her boyfriend to stop making fun of her
*We listen to a Tik Tok from a woman whose date had the audacity to suggest she lose 100 pounds.
*A woman wants to know how to get over the man that possibly used her to leave his wife.
*We talk about how to vet your matches to see if they're emotionally available
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Also discussed:
Should I start a Youtube Channel?
“Exposing” male dating coaches
Why break-ups are so painful
Guys who check casual sex & long term relationship on their dating profiles
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It's our first of the month free episode!
Unsolicited Dick Pics. Why? In addition to deconstructing that mystery of The Universe in this episode we talk about:
Bitchy dating profiles Questions to ask your matches to see if they're toxic or just looking for sex Our suspicion that liberal women are being targeted on dating apps How long does it take for someone to know if they want to commit?
Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write A Bitchy Dating Profile https://betterhumans.pub/want-to-meet-decent-men-online-write-a-bitchy-profile-10de19d262d9?gi=db162a8deef4
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IN THIS EPISODE:
Should men have to pay if they're not interested in a 2nd date?
Will it be hard for her to find someone who doesn't want marriage and kids?
How much should you chat before and how do you confirm your first date?
Are first dates at his place a red flag?
Are people now using 1st dates as free therapy?
Dating lessons we learned from The Godfather
Over the course of the next month he made amends by going back to being attentive and consistent..by now it’s Valentine’s Day and I asked him what were we doing for that date and he said that was a day for kids/teens!!!..He did nothing special for me despite my telling him I wanted to..We had one more date after our first one and I could tell he expected sex but I felt I wasn’t ready to take that step just yet..that was the last time I saw him physically...
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It’s Peen Week here on The ‘Stack.
Listen in as Sarah and I break down:
*Why men with broken penises have THE AUDACITY
*Why public claims of maintaining a rotation of men - if true - is harmful to other women.
*Red Flags in women that aren’t actually red flags
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In this episode:
*We get a little true crime-y and discuss Netflix's Sophie: A Murder In West Cork
*How does she get rid of her meth-loving match?
*Beware The Low Effort Man
*Should she stick out her rocky marriage?
*Ways to filter out sex-seeking time-wasters
Cat Person:
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/12/11/cat-person
“Cat Person” and Me
https://slate.com/human-interest/2021/07/cat-person-kristen-roupenian-viral-story-about-me.html
In this Patreon episode:
How and when does she tell men she wants to adopt? Why isn't she sexually attracted to her partner anymore? Is her boyfriend in love with his female best friend? How does she find out if her best male friend wants to date her? He dumped her to go back to his ex. Should she give him a second chance?
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Why I side-eye older women/younger men relationships How men need to step it up in the self-care department Should she stay with a man who’s broke? The pitfalls of texting with someone for too long without meeting
We're back! Thank you for allowing us a little time to decompress. Here's this month's First of The Month Free episode.
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IN THIS FREE EPISODE:
*Vice London featured Christan in a story about a marketing scam of men posing as single women on the internet. See story here: https://youtu.be/e2QpVBrVtMo
*Inter-racial dating & concerns people in marginalized communities have about dating online.
*How to handle dating when you have a strained relationship with your family
*Signs your date isn't interested they're just looking for validation
*Sneaky ways men try to earn "vagina credit."
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Buckle up, because we're calling some people out in this episode. Content thieves, smug male creators and women that perpetuate Bro-Science myths regarding sex, attachment and making men wait for sex.
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IN THIS EPISODE:
*Should she leave her married boyfriend?
*What is masculine and feminine energy and is it total bullshit?
*Why masculinity is trash.
*Will looks always win over personality?
*Should she do a background check on her daughter's new man?
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We've got follow-up from the woman from last week's episode who found emails from her boyfriend to his ex!
Also in this episode:
*Our thoughts on including Astrological signs & Myers Brigg's personality types in your dating profile
*When to ask someone if they want kids
*Should you date more than one person at a time?
*A Tik Tok Influencer who can never admit he's wrong can't understand why he's still single.
*Why do some couples always want to hang wout with their single friends?
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IN THIS EXTENDED TEASER EPISODE:
Why situationships & FWBs rarely work in the woman's favor. Should she leave if he doesn't sign a pre-nup? Why do women settle for The Girlfriend Experience instead of the real thing? When someone says in their profile they're looking for someone "athletic" what does that really mean?
No Brokies! In this bonus episode we discuss whether a woman's financial security and independence is a selling point, dating profile tips to avoid attracting grifters & why "men want women to be more feminine" is utter bullshit.
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You're not going to want to miss this one. In this episode we ponder how a man can tactfully ask a woman to help pay for dates. We also analyze one of the most obnoxious dating profiles we've ever seen.
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The letter writer from last week's show follows up with more info about why her new boyfriend's ex sent her a friend request. The story involves romance scammers, brain injuries & LOTS of hurt feelings.
We also discuss:
*A woman wants to know how if she should leave her younger man because he wants kids.
*The problem with TMI on a second date.
*Are political differences THAT important? (Hint: YES.)
*Why you probably keep matching with creeps from out-of-state.
*Signs they're still married.
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In this episode:
Why do we define success by marriage and kids? Ways to improve lingering trust issues How does she get her partner to plan more dates? Tips for online dating when you're newly single after divorce. Why is her new partner's ex trying to befriend her? Tips for dating when you're on the asexuality spectrum. *Signs you shouldn't date someone with kids.
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Listen in as Sarah shares her tested method for determining if your Bumble match is a racist homophobe.
Letters answered:
*How do I know if the person I'm dating is a bigot?
*Why are we still encouraging women to use sex to get a relationship?
*How does she get her toxic ex to leave her alone?
*Why isn't the man she's dating contacting her more frequently?
Is it just us or are more and more women getting stood up on dates? What's going on??
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Topics covered in this week's full episode:
*Are older men that try to date much younger women predators?
*Why do men keep unmatching her?
*Why are so many women getting stood up?
*Will she scare a man off if she tells him she's looking for a relationship?
*What to say when your match asks you what you're looking for.
*Dating App Red Flag: You only communicate on the app
A woman writes in wanting to know how to discuss her involvement with the BDSM community with her matches. We also delve into a story about a woman dating man who shows signs of being psychologically abusive.
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Have you heard of Post-Nut Clarity? Men say it's the moment after someone orgasm's when they realize they aren't really into the person they just had sex with. It's a thing, apparently. Only...it's not. We discuss what that post-climax ennui is really all about and why too many people use it as an excuse to ghost.
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Sarah has had a week so buckle up. We talk about dating on the asexuality spectrum, people that unload their problems on unsuspecting Bumble matches, the importance of enthusiastic consent and awkward first dates with clingy men.
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We're talking about awkward first date kisses, an overly sensitive Ted Talker on Bumble, one reason why people block you on social media and why it's toxic, and how to avoid the dating app time wasters.
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Here's the teaser for this week's episode.
We're talking why some men choose porn over having sex with their partners; why you shouldn't Google your dates if you have trust issues; how to break toxic dating patterns; and how you recover when that guy you met online dies.
Yes. Actually dies.
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Enjoy the teaser to this week's full-length Patrons only episode. We're talking about toxic dating rules and why they all need to die in a fire.
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What would you do if you went home with someone after a date and saw two empty condom wrappers in their waste basket? That happened to one man and we talk about it in this episode. Also covered:
The struggle of dating with an anxious attachment style One woman's refusal to post full-body shots to her profile & why that could lead to a very uncomfortable first date. *How some people think they want a relationship but really don't
Was he always going to break up with her? https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/was-he-always-going-to-break-up-with
Online dating study quantifies what’s ‘out of your league’ https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/speaking-of-science/wp/2018/08/08/online-dating-study-quantifies-whats-out-of-your-league/
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We open with Christan's experience with a hostile Tik Tok Troll and why women fear rejecting men. We keep it moving with letters about men using women for their apartment, dead end situationships, getting too invested after first dates and why your male BFF might be toxic.
DOES HE REALLY LIKE HER OR IS HE JUST USING HER? https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/does-he-really-like-her-or-is-he
HOW TO AVOID THE POST-FIRST DATE FREAK OUT https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/how-to-avoid-the-post-first-date
Can't seem to get a second date and wonder why? We've got an answer!
We're talking a boyfriend who wants to go on The Bachelor, a man who wonders why he loses interest after every first date, a woman engaged to an emotional trainwreck, and why we sometimes fixate on people we know don't want us.
You might still be single because of something called the 'paradox of choice' — here's what it means https://www.businessinsider.com/how-the-paradox-of-choice-could-explain-why-youre-still-single-2018-2
We answer more listener letters:
Are men intimidated by her post-grad degree? Who invests more on dates: men or women? Why did he lie about sleeping with someone else? Dating Profile Decoder: What he really means when he says he's affectionate
Questions answered on today's episode:
- When someone ghosts, how do you get closure?
- Signs your match isn't really single
- The challenges of dating with an STD.
- Is it okay to quit dating for good?
Is Bumble protecting white supremacists? We discuss.
Letters answered on today's show:
- If they're sexting why hasn't he made a move?
- Signs your new relationship is on the right track...or not
- Is he still in love with his Ex?
- Is her intelligence scaring men off?
Bumble removed its political filter after people said they used it to lure conservatives who were at the Capitol riot into sending incriminating evidence https://www.businessinsider.com/bumble-removes-political-filter-encouraged-find-capitol-rioters-evidence-2021-1
Tune in as we answer listener letters.
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Is my choice to be celibate keeping me single?
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How do I let go of my ex?
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Signs you're a rebound
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Dating profile photo problems
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Why aren't I matching with anyone I like?
Hate those fish pics men post to their dating profile? We know why! We're talking profile pics, financial inquiries and why trying to make men jump through hoops never works.
Single moms with “stay at home parent” for a career https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/kt55w0/single_moms_with_stay_at_home_parent_for_a_career/
To bikini photo or not to bikini photo...that is the question. https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ksrain/to_bikini_photo_or_not_to_bikini_photothat_is_the/
A woman wants to know if she should keep dating her Christian Grey-ish Bumble match and let him pay off her bills or dump him because he's a controlling asshole.
We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried if she's being stalked by her man's ex. Also listen as we discuss why childless singles struggle to date partners with kids.
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How do I (30F) balance the amount of effort I put into OLD in a culture of extremely low effort dating? https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/klemn9/how_do_i_30f_balance_the_amount_of_effort_i_put/
Is He Hiding A Secret Life? https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/is-he-hiding-a-secret-life
A man decides to tell a woman exactly why he ghosted her. That kicks off a discussion about online dating for plus sized singles and how hateful messages they receive might have a connection to the current political climate. We also answer two listener letters from women about how to handle a man's erectile issues and what to do when someone doesn't respect your boundaries.
We dig in to the groundswell of negativity towards online dating that's spreading across the internet. Has COVID made it worse? Are men to blame or are women being too picky? How can we turn things around? BONUS: We give you an online dating hack that might be the very thing that helps you find love.
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They’re Not Dating “Horror Stories” Anymore, They’re Just How It F*cking Is https://shanisilver.medium.com/theyre-not-dating-horror-stories-anymore-they-re-just-how-it-f-cking-is-789fc20f1932
SPOILERS ABOUT THE UNDOING IN THIS EPISODE!
They'd been dating 3 months when she learned he'd been sleeping with other women the whole time. Now what does she do? We also talk about background checks, Googling dates and when it's appropriate to put a cheater on blast.
We've got it all this episode! First we talk about value judgements around first date sex and why sex should never be traded for exclusivity. Then we discuss why it's time we normalize being long-term single or never having had a relationship. We throw in a bit of mad-cap self-created dating app drama and close with a talk about co-habitation and whether you should hold on to your apartment until you're married.
The pandemic isn't over just because you're over it, kids! We're talking COVID dating problems and why it's okay for men to show interest in sex. We also discuss how we sometimes conflate getting used for sex with someone simply losing interest. And don't miss our take on why there's a line when you decide to take revenge on an ex.
I(30F) missed so many signs that it was just a hookup for him(32M)... feeling very used https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jteqax/i30f_missed_so_many_signs_that_it_was_just_a/
Are Women Partially Responsible for Some of Men’s Bad Dating Habits? https://medium.com/girl-get-you-shit-together/are-women-partially-responsible-for-some-of-mens-bad-dating-habits-243d198d6db6
We talk about expectations around who confirms the date and when, messaging on dating apps and video dates. Also covered is dating while you're losing weight and the importance of posting accurate photos.
We're talking fake engagement rings and why some women wear their wedding bands after divorce. We also discuss a woman contemplating outing her married FWB to his wife. Plus, we introduce our new segment called There's A Sex & The City Episode For That.
I’ve Been Sleeping With My Friend for Eight Years. Should I Tell His New Wife? https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/10/dear-prudence-sleeping-with-friend-tell-new-wife.html
If you knew something about a friend's appearance was keeping them single, would you tell them? We discuss that and ways people set their first dates up to fail.
Should I tell my friend that her stained teeth might be holding her back in OLD? https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jdtrfk/should_i_tell_my_friend_that_her_stained_teeth/
We're talking the ups and downs of dating in 2020, social media stalking and signs that connection you think you have with someone is all in your head.
Follow us on Instagram: @thechristanm @1sarahg
Sex, Lies & Expectations https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/sex-lies-and-expectations
Boyfriend blocked me on social media https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/j595vp/boyfriend_blocked_me_on_social_media/
Drama! We talk about why a man's best friend might be sabotaging his engagement. (Hint: Girl, get a job!) We also discuss why trying to change a man's bad behavior rarely works.
My Boyfriend’s Best Friend Is Urging Him Not to Marry Me https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/09/dear-prudence-boyfriend-best-friend-no-marriage.html
Stop “Teaching” Women How To Deal With Men They’re Dating https://medium.com/@shanisilver/stop-teaching-women-how-to-deal-with-men-theyre-dating-5b54af6fb636
A woman asks why she's always the side-piece but never the girlfriend; an obnoxious British man can't figure out why he's still single; and we talk which dating sites are full of scammers and which apps work best for singles over 40.
Always a Mistress, Never a Missus https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/j5xdf2/always_a_mistress_never_a_missus/?sort=new
Snobby Brit https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/j4nxmo/so_i_guess_im_here_dating_vent_advice/
The Best Dating Apps For Singles Over 40 https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/the-best-dating-apps-for-singles-over-40
Anybody else sick of the Brad Pitt/Jennifer Aniston saga? Because we are. We're talking James Comey fuckery, The Notorious RBG, dead parents that aren't really dead, and the stigma around not being close with your family.
Submit a Dating Advice Letter https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question
I’m Estranged From My Parents, but I Tell People They’re Dead https://slate.com/human-interest/2018/11/dear-prudence-estranged-parents-lie-death.html?fbclid=IwAR2xdmfHCLVjrWerrcxRc5s61Ln9EaYwNSrVJnF7JyRQsnUkYQ2AewkD4h0
That Time RBG Told Her Children’s School To ‘Call Their Dad’ https://www.scarymommy.com/time-rbg-told-her-childrens-school-call-their-dad/?utm_source=FB&fbclid=IwAR0qCikSuLuLdz8j0TZmXBB7E9-2GAHTDBS1-HMtK0zHhbSgnb0NeO5A2-o
This one has it all! Listen to a man's Tinder Tirade after being rejected and a woman's Tik Tok rant about having to pay her half of the tab. PLUS we get break down what people really mean when they want someone "healthy."
Free Online Dating Advice Zoom Session https://www.eventbrite.com/e/singles-ask-answer-online-dating-advice-session-wcertified-dating-coach-tickets-122868012533
Sydney man sacked after allegedly bombarding woman with ‘vile’ Tinder messages https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/news-life/sydney-man-sacked-after-allegedly-bombarding-woman-with-vile-tinder-messages/news-story/270066d39ed5f5605dfe873109a34156
She still won't leave me alone... https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/iyyzng/she_still_wont_leave_me_alone/
A reader asks what she should do about being uninvited to events because she's single. Sarah and I also parse an essay by a man weirdly proud of being dumped for no reason. Also listen in as we advise a PhD candidate on whether she should prioritize her education or dating.
PLUS! We have the PERFECT response for the age old question "Why are you single?"
She Ended Things After the Second Date and Gave me a Rundown of What Went Wrong https://psiloveyou.xyz/she-ended-things-after-the-second-date-and-gave-me-a-rundown-of-what-went-wrong-f6235e8757b4
To mask up or not to mask up during sex. That is the question. We also talk about Chris Evans' apparently unremarkable penis and why men's opinions of women don't matter.
This one's about figuring out your dating league and when to shoot out of it. We also talk about the dangers of dating a narcissist.
FOLLOW US ON IG @thechristanm @1sarahg @womenologypod
Is it a bad idea to continue to sleep with someone (36m) who indicated he’s not looking for a relationship? https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/inpi8k/bad_idea_to_continue_to_sleep_with_someone_36m/
Having a hard time finding a friends with benefits with a man I'm really attracted to https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/inv26q/having_a_hard_time_finding_a_friends_with/
We talk about the Glossier cosmetics drama and toxic work environment, discuss whether oral sex is necessary for a great sex life and once again out a fake Medium writer who's probably a dude.
OUTTATHEGLOSS ON INSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/outtathegloss/
I HATE GIVING ORAL SEX TO WOMEN https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/dislike-oral-sex-advice.html
A listener asks if she should dump a guy for oversharing on their second date. We also discuss how to answer that awkward question of "What do you do?" when you're unemployed or unable to work.
Should She Dump Him For Oversharing https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/should-she-dump-him-for-oversharing
We talk about how Bella Thorne massively screwed over sex workers, the stigmas single women over 40 face, and say "Fuck That Guy!" about a man who used a woman for sex and then blamed her for gaining weight.
The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/the-stigma-of-being-40-never-married-childless
Dumped for Gaining Weight https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ijc1d1/dump_for_gaining_weight/?sort=new
We're talking why women settle for casual sex, the dangers of marathon dates and red flags we often ignore.
Sexting after marathon date https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/igrwll/speechless/
Guy messages me asking for something casual https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ifak8d/guy_messaged_me_asking_if_im_interested_in/
Why do women settle for FWB? https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/why-do-so-many-women-settle-for-friends-with-benefits
We talk the pair and a spare theory and how men aren't the only ones that date multiple people at the same time. Also discussed is a creepy story about a Tinder match gone wrong and how to protect yourself from dating app stalkers.
WHY DID SHE DUMP HIM AFTER SEX? https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/is-she-stringing-him-along
We talk about a man who wishes his girlfriend would wear more make-up, creepy Tik Tok pick-up artist/sex pest Russell Hartley, and why men are so intimidated by women who enjoy sex.
Help! Is There a Non-Sexist Way to Tell My Girlfriend She Should Wear More Makeup? https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/dear-prudence-dating-makeup-beauty-sexism-advice.html
Russell Hartley on Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@russellhartley/
Why Men Are So Bothered by Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion’s ‘WAP’ https://level.medium.com/why-men-are-so-bothered-by-cardi-b-and-megan-thee-stallions-wap-94aed0bb7024
The Critics of “WAP” Just Can’t Stop Owning Themselves https://observer.com/2020/08/wap-video-cardi-b-megan-thee-stallion-ben-shapiro-ceelo-green/
Whether it's a physical impairment or invisible illness, dating with a disability is a conversation we don't have often enough. In this episode, we discuss how and when to disclose a disability and the awkward conversations that arise; what should be included in a dating profile; and why able-bodied singles need to educate themselves about how people with disabilities navigate day-to-day life.
On Aug 26th, join us for a free online zoom session where we discuss dating with mental illness & disabilities. RSVP Here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dating-with-disabilities-mental-illness-free-zoom-discussion-social-tickets-116522876059
Why do people have to ruin a perfectly good Zoom date by being creepy? Get tips on how to navigate those awkward on and offline date moments. Also listen in as we discuss older women/younger men relationships and why so many women take to the internet with their stories.
AWKWARD FIRST DATE TIPS https://www.christanmarashio.com/post/let-s-talk-awkward-zoom-dates
A BEGINNER'S GUIDE FOR THE YOUNGER MAN WHO WANTS TO DATE OLDER WOMEN https://psiloveyou.xyz/a-beginners-guide-for-the-younger-man-wanting-to-date-an-older-woman-4306931b1690
We're talking about emotional affairs, why women feel guilty about getting angry, a man who can't stop playing with his arm-penis and whether or not open relationships are just an excuse to let one person cheat. We also delve into the Ellen mess and who we think will be taken down next.
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I'M TIRED OF EXPLAINING MY FRIENDSHIPS WITH MEN https://medium.com/liberty-76/why-im-tired-of-explaining-my-friendships-with-men-7d2758803ff3
NAVIGATING MY COMPLICATED FRIENDSHIPS WITH MEN https://psiloveyou.xyz/navigating-my-complicated-friendships-with-men-848fa4cc2789?gi=18b066789aff
HOW I FOUND MYSELF IN THE MIDDLE OF AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR https://medium.com/candour/how-i-found-myself-in-the-middle-of-an-emotional-affair-eaab4e92ff22
MY HUSBAND WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH HIS FEMALE BEST FRIEND: https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/07/dear-prudence-boss-x-rated-conversation-zoom-advice.html
INDIGENOUS CREATORS TO FOLLOW ON TIK TOK @martinadene @sophia.sioux @navabroisss @notoriouscree
Safe sex takes on a whole new meaning in 2020. Is there any point to dating during the pandemic? What about sex? Should singles fly solo until 2021?
Want to see my dogs? https://www.instagram.com/thechristanm/
Sex & The City: COVID Edition https://www.christanmarashio.com/post/canyouhavesexduringcovid
Ready To Social Distance Date? Add This To Your Dating Profile ASAP https://www.christanmarashio.com/post/ready-to-socially-distance-date-update-your-dating-profile
Lots to unpack in this episode. First we discuss a woman who refuses to dump her boyfriend even though she thinks he's ugly. Then, we analyze a woman who cheated on her fiancee at her bachelorette party, got dumped, then catfished her ex.
Where the Only Pain Is Champagne https://www.theroot.com/where-the-only-pain-is-champagne-1844478644 I'm not physically attracted to my boyfriend. Can this work? https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/07/boyfriend-ugly-advice.html
I cheated on my fiancee at my bachelorette party https://medium.com/@evangeline.grace/i-cheated-on-my-husband-a-week-before-our-wedding-e348932d7473
I catfished my ex https://psiloveyou.xyz/i-catfished-my-ex-after-he-dumped-me-e0e309dc84af
My best friend is dating my ex-husband https://psiloveyou.xyz/my-best-friend-is-dating-my-ex-husband-26bb34b7bf4a
In our first ever Dateology episode, we give tips to help you avoid common online dating pitfalls, make more matches and meet fewer flakes.
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Five ways to enjoy online dating while improving your chances, according to a psychologist www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/wel…b1_story.html
Get Our How To Write The Best Damn Dating Profile E-guide for $5 here: www.ko-fi.com/s/cebfc0c135 Get Our Avoid Flakes, Fakes & Scammers E-Guide - $5 www.ko-fi.com/s/d7f67c66c1
We unpack a woman's hostile voicemail left for her ex-husband's new wife and decide he's the asshole. Plus we debate if average looking men get more messages on dating apps. And don't miss our recap of the worst possible things people say in their dating profiles.
Make sure to check out Tiffany Aliche "The Budgetnista" for getting your finances in order post-COVID.
How to Recover From Losing Everything https://thebudgetnista.com/ https://www.thecut.com/2020/07/the-budgetnista-on-getting-out-of-debt.html
Delete These Phrases From Your Dating Profile ASAP! https://www.womenologypod.com/post/baddatingprofile
My Husband’s Ex Left Me a Crazy Voicemail https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/07/husband-crazy-ex-wife-care-and-feeding.html
‘Average’ Looking Men Get More Messages On Dating Apps https://medium.com/refinery29/average-looking-men-get-more-messages-on-dating-apps-7d4aff590f85
Show many sketchy white guys, so little time. Put on your tin foil hat and pull up a chair. We're talking the mysterious death of Rey Rivera. His body plunged through the roof of a Baltimore hotel. Did he jump or was he pushed? Sarah and I also talk about easy it is for white men to ask for money for essentially doing nothing. Plus...random texts from ex-boyfriends. For why?
We kick things off with a story about a threesome between a father, a mother and their daughter-in-law. Next up, we discuss why it's okay to not want kids. Closing out the episode, we rant about a rapey "erotic essay" on Medium we believe was written by a man posing as a woman.
I'M NOT A PRUDE FOR NOT LIKING YOUR RAPEY EROTICA https://www.womenologypod.com/post/mediumsmisogynyproblem
MY BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME BECAUSE I DON'T WANT KIDS https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/06/good-men-want-kids-care-and-feeding.html
MY TEACHER PUNISHED ME FOR BEING A BAD GIRL https://medium.com/sexual-tendencies/my-teacher-punished-me-for-being-a-bad-girl-2762cbcddd51
We talk about racial biases & bigotry in dating profiles, why The Other Woman isn't the real enemy, and how to ensure your Bumble match will think you're the worst. Plus! We answer NotKaren's letter asking why some men come on strong then ghost without notice.
WHO IS THE OTHER WOMAN? https://medium.com/fearless-she-wrote/who-is-the-other-woman-6c8877f5fbff
DID HE FIND SOMEONE ELSE OR JUST FLAKE? https://www.womenologypod.com/post/did-he-find-someone-else-or-is-he-just-flake
No, seriously. Why?
With no child care or summer camps, women are being edged out of the workforce https://www.thelily.com/i-had-to-choose-being-a-mother-with-no-child-care-or-summer-camps-women-are-being-edged-out-of-the-workforce/
Title says it all! Listen in as we verbally facepalm a guy who cheated on his then-girlfriend/now-wife and is about to get caught. In our new Awful Medium Essays segment, we talk about that tale as old as time called "I met a guy and ditched my friends." AND! We have a listener letter about why some people are on dating sites but don't seem to want to, you know, date.
Dear Fuck-Up: I’ve Been Lying to My Wife https://jezebel.com/dear-fuck-up-i-ve-been-lying-to-my-wife-1843572244
How Do You Date When You Don't Know What You Want? https://www.womenologypod.com/post/how-do-you-date-when-you-don-t-know-what-you-want
My New-Found Love Derailed My Friendship. https://medium.com/heart-affairs/my-new-found-love-derailed-my-friendship-1662002e60f3
99.9% of the super hot people on dating apps are assholes. Change my mind. Listen to one woman's story about a first date with a model/sugar baby. See if you can identify all the red flags she missed. We also talk about how COVID-19 might be the best thing to happen to ridiculous beauty standards. And - of course - we catch you up with this week's influencer antics our new Callowayology segment.
The Drama of Falling For Someone with Histrionic Personality Disorder https://medium.com/invisible-illness/the-drama-of-falling-for-someone-with-histrionic-personality-disorder-b39a5f37cc70
OnlyFans, Influencers, and the Politics of Selling Nudes During a Pandemic https://www.elle.com/culture/a32459935/onlyfans-sex-work-influencers/
I Don’t Know How Else to Say This, But… I Miss Feeling Hot https://www.manrepeller.com/2020/05/quarantine-hotness.html
What color crayon is your heart? We ask ourselves that as we delve into the intra-gender bullying and the Mean Girl Myth. Speaking of myths, we also discuss the 3 Date Rule and whether it still exists. We also cover why Facebook engagement announcements are the worst.
WHEN MEAN GIRLS BECOME MEAN WOMEN https://medium.com/the-partnered-pen/friendship-is-like-a-box-of-crayons-choose-your-colors-carefully-db62962c79c
WHAT TO DO IF YOU STRUGGLE WITH GIRL FRIENDS https://medium.com/fearless-she-wrote/what-to-do-if-you-struggle-with-female-friendship-dfe7c3af350b
WILL SOMEONE STOP GAWKING AT CROLINE CA*OWAY LONG ENOUGH TO HELP HER? https://medium.com/@amandaleahluke/will-someone-stop-gawking-at-caroline-calloway-long-enough-to-help-her-6e0764458fc1
MY HUSBAND WON'T PICK UP MY TOE NAIL CLIPPINGS https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/04/dear-prudence-husband-toenail-clippings-coffee.html
Sarah makes some questionable Fuck, Marry, Kill Choices with the men from Sex & The City and we debate whether Aidan was a needy mess. We also discuss the pros and cons of quarantining alone and if COVID-19 will encourage more women to stay single.
A WOMAN LIVING ALONE https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2020/the-lily/coronavirus-women-living-alone/
We talk about getting dumped on Zoom aka "zumped", a man with the lamest excuse for breaking up with his girlfriend and why you keep meeting men just looking for sex.
ARE MEN ON DATING APPS JUST LOOKING FOR SEX? https://www.womenologypod.com/post/are-dating-apps-full-of-men-just-looking-for-sex
BREAK-UP BY ZOOM https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/juliamoserrrr/breakups-quarantine-zoom-getting-dumped
Guys, Caroline Calloway posted her long-awaited reaponse to frenemy Natalie Beach's essay (and nudes)and broke the internet. We talk about it and why everyone should be #teamcalloway. We also take a visit to England where we meet Carsten Graff, first-time sugar daddy and perpetual creep. Plus, Jen and Ada write in about why men talk about their exes and how to avoid dating men with kids.
CAROLINE CALLOWAY'S NATALIE RESPONSE IS HERE! https://www.papermag.com/caroline-calloway-natalie-response-read-2645603314.html
THE NIGHT I LOST MY SUGAR DADDY VIRGINITY https://medium.com/love-stories-from-other-planets/the-night-i-lost-my-sugardaddy-virginity-9fe9f95ccbe2
SARAH'S SUGAR DADDY SLOW JAMS PLAYLIST https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5Gvt0TH85SZBXebYODIrtp
Ugh. First up, we talk about how one vindictive man tried to ruin the life of a female professor by falsely accusing her of sexual misconduct. Then we parse a letter from Kevin, who's convinced all women that don't have sex with him are dinner whores. We close with a story about a man who broke-up with his girlfriend then tried to reboot the relationship, but without all that commitment and exclusivity stuff.
The Accusations Were Lies. But Could We Prove It? https://www.nytimes.com/2020/03/18/magazine/title-ix-sexual-harassment-accusations.html
Why Do Women Sleep With Other Men But Not Him? https://www.womenologypod.com/post/why-do-women-sleep-with-other-men-but-not-him
Beware The Relationship Rebooter https://www.womenologypod.com/post/beware-the-relationship-re-booter
In this episode we talk about how social media has made breakups even worse, the way to handle unsolicited dating app sex talk and the new reason men won't pay for dates. Plus, Sarah goes off on the misogyny and racism behind proms.
MY EX IS DATING LADY GAGA https://www.nytimes.com/2020/02/27/opinion/sunday/lady-gaga-boyfriend.html
HOW TO STOP CREEPY DATING APP SEX TALK https://www.womenologypod.com/post/how-to-stop-creepy-dating-app-sex-talk
A MOM FIGHTS FOR HER DAUGHTER'S RIGHT TO SAY NO https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2020/02/27/rape-culture-school-dance/
We're talking creepy male feminists, woo-woo wellness influencers and problematic women-on-women criticism. We also school Jay on the fact that not all women want to be someone's girlfriend.
FIGHTING THE TYRANNY OF NICENESS https://www.theguardian.com/books/2020/feb/15/feminism-feminists-tyranny-niceness-complexity
WHY DO WOMEN KEEP DUMPING HIM https://www.womenologypod.com/post/why-do-women-keep-dumping-him
HAVE YOU BEEN DAYGAMED? https://medium.com/refinery29/have-you-been-daygamed-the-new-method-men-are-using-to-attract-amazing-women-28aa35d1ce4
We're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past dates; toxic boyfriends who pit women against each other; and the uglier side of being a Sugar Baby.
SUGAR COATED PIMPING https://www.truthdig.com/articles/sugaring-is-sugar-coated-pimping/
MY FIANCE'S STALKER DELIVERED MY PIZZA https://psiloveyou.xyz/my-fiances-stalker-delivered-my-pizza-today-c3aba78ad1f1
HE CAN BE BOTH VICTIM AND VILLAIN https://medium.com/@thechristanm/he-can-be-a-victim-and-a-villain-at-the-same-time-35538641c68d
WE SHOULD ALL BE MIRANDAS https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07LC9MFYL/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1#ace-g8881249860
We're talking sex cults, obsessed exes, performative white feminism and no-sex ghosting. Also discussed are my Tinder-triggered panic attacks, why everybody loves Laura Dern and that 3 hr borefest known as The Oscars.
We're thirsty bitches, so follow us on Instagram @1sarahg @thechristanm
The Alleged Mastermind of the Sarah Lawrence ‘Cult’ Has Been Charged https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2020/02/sarah-lawrence-sex-cult-dad-lawrence-v-ray-charged.html
Natalie Portman - Caped Crusader https://dlisted.com/2020/02/10/natalie-portman-caped-crusader/
I Think About My Husband’s Former Wife https://psiloveyou.xyz/i-think-about-my-husbands-former-wife-b224f54abbc5
Bella's Letter https://www.womenologypod.com/post/why-did-he-suddenly-blow-her-off
Think your dates are intimidated by you? THINK AGAIN! We dissect the myth that men are too intimidated by strong successful women to date them, that choosing to be single is awesome and sometimes - just sometimes - it's you, not them. We also side-eye a guy named TJ who desperately wants to date hot young women but is far too virtuous to lie about his age even though EVERYBODY says he should. Finally, we talk about whether or not you should tell your online date they don't look like they're photos.
HOW TO BE TOO MUCH https://medium.com/@shanisilver/how-to-be-too-much-c02d03c07daa
TJ'S LETTER https://www.womenologypod.com/post/should-he-lie-so-he-can-date-younger-women
SHOULD YOU TELL SOMEONE THEY DON'T LOOK LIKE THEIR PHOTOS? https://www.buffsandbrainiacs.com/post/should-you-tell-someone-they-don-t-look-like-their-photos
Women get shit done. That's what you'll be saying after hearing the true story of grifter romance scammer Derek Alldred. Learn how he juggled multiple identities and relationships while conning single women out of hundreds of thousands of dollars. And stay the hell away from Our Time!
We also parse a letter from DL, a man who hasn't had sex in 10 years and wants to know how to navigate a casual hook-up without leading the woman on.
THE PERFECT MAN THAT WASN'T: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2018/04/our-time-com-con-man/554057/
READ DL'S LETTER HERE: https://www.womenologypod.com/post/podcast-the-new-dirty-john
This episode we have guest co-host and women's empowerment coach Heidi B talking about unhealthy dating patterns, insensitive fuckbuddies, Cool Girl Syndrome and this week's Oscar nominations. Oh, and dogs!
READ THIS WEEK'S DATING QUESTION HERE: https://www.womenologypod.com/post/casual-sex-trauma-rude-f-ckbuddies
Note: The audio on this one is a little janky, but the stories Heidi and I tell about being emotional trainwrecks totally make up for it.
HEIDI B'S INFO - FOLLOW HER! IG: @honeyb52 FB: facebook.com/heidi-busche website: https://www.heidbcoaching.com Buy the book - https://www.heidibcoaching.com/relationship-ready-the-book
Guy resents paying for dates, thinks all women are spoiled. Groundbreaking.
READ CECELIA'S LETTER & COMMENT HERE: https://www.womenologypod.com/post/is-he-cheap-or-just-bitter
When you have sex does not determine if you'll make a good partner. Fun Fact: The 3 Date Rule is not a thing. Never was! Never forget: Nobody gets to decide if your relationship material but you.
READ NICOLE'S LETTER HERE: https://www.womenologypod.com/post/is-he-just-in-it-for-the-sex
Guys! Tinder Tips to beat the algorithm And...Barb's man dirty dances with his unhealthily close female friend and he doesn't get why that's a problem. We also reflect on a lovely article that inspires women to stop fearing they'll die alone and stay hopeful. We also give some real talk to FitGirl, who fears she looks to young and vibrant and men her age won't date her. Because, like, that's a thing?
I PLANNED ON DYING ALONE https://www.thecut.com/2019/12/i-planned-on-dying-alone.html#comments
STOP PLAYING THE COOL GIRLFRIEND & DUMP HIM https://www.womenologypod.com/post/stop-playing-the-cool-girlfriend-and-dump-him
RUPI KAUR IS THE WRITER OF THE DECADE https://newrepublic.com/article/155930/rupi-kaur-writer-decade
THE PROBLEM WITH RUPI KAUR'S POETRY https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/chiaragiovanni/the-problem-with-rupi-kaurs-poetry
Pilot Girl wonders if she went too far by playing hard to get.
READ HER LETTER HERE: https://www.womenologypod.com/post/why-playing-hard-to-get-never-works
We get a little true crime-y this episode with talk about Netflix's Don't F*ck With Cats, Jody Arias and Crazy Girl Sex. Then we parse a letter from Rose, who can't find any hot alpha men her age. After that, we cover cohabitation agreements and men too attached to their Mommies.
MY BOYFRIEND WANTS ME TO SIGN A PRE-NUP https://www.thecut.com/2019/12/boyfriend-wants-me-to-sign-a-prenup-before-moving-in.html
WHY CAN'T SHE FIND HOT ALPHA MEN HER AGE? https://www.womenologypod.com/post/why-can-t-she-meet-any-hot-alpha-men-her-age
WHAT I LEARNED FROM GOING ON A SEX CLEANSE https://betches.com/is-it-the-weekend-yet-your-weekly-horoscopes-december-16-22/
We talk about my Devil Wears Prada experience and upcoming Tinder dates, annoying celebrity couples, Jlo's weird history of punching down romantically AND...Audrey responds! She filled us in on her awkward break-up date with slut-shamey Conner.
Everyone, Let's Circle Around Justin Timberlake Again and Keep Pointing Our Fingers at Him https://jezebel.com/everyone-lets-circle-around-justin-timberlake-again-an-1840234728
Audrey, this one's for you!
We're talking sexual history conversations, slut-shaming by men and women with fragile egos & why nobody cares if your toddler can't fall sleep, lady.
SARAH'S KICK-ASS RESPONSE TO AUDREY'S RESPONSE: https://www.womenologypod.com/post/f-ck-that-guy-mansplainy-slut-shamer-edition
DEAR PRUDENCE https://slate.com/human-interest/2019/12/neighbors-illegal-rental-building-code-advice.html
Happy Thanksgiving! We're talking Turkey Day Family Drama, Tinder fails, Hallmark movies and why women shouldn't ask men out. We also cover signs a guy is just looking to get laid, why testing our dates is a bad move and the best way to make online dating as awful as possible.
DO I HAVE TO REIMBURSE MY SISTER FOR HOSTING THANKS GIVING? https://www.thecut.com/2019/11/reimburse-my-sister-for-hosting-thanksgiving.html
TRIGGER WARNING: Discussions and sound clips of verbal abuse.
This episode covers abusive boyfriends, how every superwoman needs a nemesis, co-worker crushes that backfire and bad online dating etiquette.
Am I Too Obsessed With My Nemesis? https://www.thecut.com/2019/11/ask-polly-am-i-too-obsessed-with-my-nemesis.html
Did you know Vagina Panic was a thing? It sure is! We're talking about spoiled cheating sisters, Dads obsessed with daughter's virginity and dating when you need more me-time than your partner can handle.
My Sister Called Off Her Wedding and Is Furious I’m Going on Her Honeymoon https://slate.com/human-interest/2019/10/dear-prudence-sister-called-off-wedding-who-takes-honeymoon.html
Why do so many dads think it’s their duty to monitor their daughters’ virginity? https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/why-do-so-many-dads-think-its-their-duty-to-monitor-their-daughters-virginity/2019/11/07/be8ffaee-016c-11ea-9518-1e76abc088b6_story.html
Ugh. This episode covers why most men should never be trusted ever. Among other things, we talk about men who cheat and and guys who gets off stringing women along.
NOTE: We discuss an article posted on The Daily Mail, but because that site is a dumpster fire that posted nude photos of a woman without her consent, we won't be linking to it.
Today we're talking about SoIntoHim and her, uh, interest in a trainer at her gym. Is he afraid to get hurt? Just really busy? Or does he worry he's going to find a bunny boiling on his stove? Tune in to find out. Plus we talk about Dennis Quaid's 65 yr. old penis, Amazon's mediocre Modern Love and review the insanely sexist do's and dont's discussed at a women's leadership seminar.
Women At Ernst & Young Instructed On How To Dress, Act Nicely Around Men https://www.huffpost.com/entry/women-ernst-young-how-to-dress-act-around-men_n_5da721eee4b002e33e78606a
When A One Night Stand Becomes An Obsession https://www.womenologypod.com/post/what-to-do-when-they-ll-have-sex-with-you-but-not-date-you
We're talking bridal and wedding shower scams, office politics and whether or not how much your date spends on you really matters. Also check out the new Matreon - where women are paid for the emotional labor involved with listening to stupid whiny men.
4 Bridesmaid Duties You Should Absolutely Say No To https://betches.com/4-bridesmaid-duties-you-should-absolutely-say-no-to/
Does How Much He Spends = How Much He Cares? https://www.womenologypod.com/post/does-how-much-he-spends-how-much-he-cares
Matreon: The Patreon Platform for Emotional Labor https://www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/matreon-the-patreon-platform-for-emotional-labor
TW: ASSAULT
We discuss a groom-to-be that assaulted a bridesmaid; alimony for men & which dating apps work best and why. We also read a dating advice letter from a listener and rant about bad tippers.
What Is “Manimony” and How Does It Affect Women? https://www.brides.com/story/what-is-manimony-and-how-does-it-affect-women
Groom sexually assaulted bridesmaid days before his wedding https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/groom-sexually-assaulted-wife-s-bridesmaid-days-their-wedding-police-n1063356
Let's Talk Online Dating Scams https://www.womenologypod.com/post/let-s-talk-online-dating-scams
We're talking ageism when job hunting, creepy serial killers, sex with younger men and why social media cray cray will keep you single.
Man wins $750,000 lawsuit against his ex-wife's lover https://www.cnn.com/videos/us/2019/10/03/north-carolina-divorce-alienation-affection-law-vpx.witn
Darkness on the Edge of Cougartown https://www.thecut.com/2019/10/what-no-one-tells-you-about-dating-a-younger-man.html
Netflix's Haunted 'The Slaughterhouse' episode has left fans with a ton of unanswered questions https://www.popbuzz.com/tv-film/news/netflix-haunted-episode-2-serial-killer/
A man wants his fiancee to help pay his student loans; a woman can't stop being a black hole of need and a boyfriend in love with his best friend. Plus, a listener writes in wondering if her new guy is relationship material or just wasting her time.
Help! Shouldn’t My Fiancée Help Me Pay Off My $230,000 of Student Debt? https://slate.com/human-interest/2019/09/student-loans-marriage-advice.html
‘I’m Constantly Worried My Boyfriend Will Leave Me!’ https://www.thecut.com/2019/09/ask-polly-im-constantly-worried-my-boyfriend-will-leave-me.html
Don't Blame Women Because Your Boyfriend Is a Dick https://www.womenologypod.com/post/don-t-blame-women-because-your-boyfriend-is-a-dick
Is He Relationship Material or Just Wasting Her Time? https://www.womenologypod.com/post/is-he-relationship-material-or-just-wasting-her-time
Brace yourself, because this one gets a little filthy. We talk being secretly slutty, women's sexual desire, screwing a co-worker and - of course - that article from The Cut.
I WAS CAROLINE CALLOWAY https://www.thecut.com/2019/09/the-story-of-caroline-calloway-and-her-ghostwriter-natalie.html
ARE STRAIGHT WOMEN OK? https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/shannonkeating/lisa-taddeo-three-women-are-straight-women-ok
In this bonus episode: How narcissists keep tabs on their supply long after the relationship is over and a a self-absorbed Mom who's afraid her non-binary daughter won't give her anything to brag about on Facebook.
My Kid Is Non-Binary And I Can't Get Over It https://www.thecut.com/2019/09/ask-polly-my-kid-is-nonbinary-and-i-cant-get-over-it.html
Why do survivors of narcissistic abuse feel so compelled to read and sometimes write about Narcissists? Are there survivors of this particular kind of abuse that just walk away, start over and feel healed? https://www.quora.com/Why-do-survivors-of-narcissistic-abuse-feel-so-compelled-to-read-and-sometimes-write-about-Narcissists-Are-there-survivors-of-this-particular-kind-of-abuse-that-just-walk-away-start-over-and-feel-healed
We talk staying friends with an ex, the brilliance of Brittany Runs A Marathon, the #MeToo backlash & how not to be treated like an option.
The #MeToo Backlash https://hbr.org/2019/09/the-metoo-backlash
Tune in as we vent our rage about some truly awful and misogynistic dating advice, talk AGAIN about who pays on a first date and hear about how we just might have a copy cat on our hands.
We've heard a lot about signs of abuse when you're in a relationship, but what about people you've just met? Included in this mini-sode are warning signs of abuse we often confuse with genuine affection and interest.
Read the full letter here https://www.womenologypod.com/post/look-out-for-these-sneaky-signs-of-abuse
On this mini-episode, I read a letter from Colleen, who wonders why a guy she thought really liked her faded. Learn about the stages of dating denial and how we often ignore what's right in front of us.
READ COLLEEN'S LETTER HERE: https://www.womenologypod.com/post/why-did-he-act-so-interested-then-blow-her-off
This episode we listen to a woman rationalize tricking a man into telling her if they’re monogamous. We also side-eye an Ask Polly letter about killer mushrooms and murderous in-laws.
ASK POLLY: My In-Laws Are Careless About My Deadly Food Allergy! https://www.thecut.com/2019/08/ask-polly-my-in-laws-are-careless-about-my-food-allergy.html
READ THE FULL DATING LETTER HERE https://www.womenologypod.com/post/stop-accepting-casual-sex-when-you-really-want-a-relationship
Hold on to your butts, people. This episode is all about bad behavior. We talk annoying gym members; competitive BFF's; and one woman's bizarre and terrifying story of online harassment.
DEAR PRUDENCE - MY BFF IS PHOTOSHOPPING ME TO LOOK FAT https://slate.com/human-interest/2019/07/dear-prudence-friend-edits-photos-heavier.html
THE CUT - A MILLION BAD MEN https://www.thecut.com/2019/07/the-cut-on-tuesdays-revenge-porn-and-online-harassment.html#comments
We kick things off with common dating profile mistakes then parse an article on forgiveness and debate whether some people are just too limited to know they’re an asshole. In “F*ck That Guy” news, we discuss a letter submitted by N., a woman in NYC who became obsessed with a man she met on OKCupid. We’ve all gotten too invested, too quickly, but N.’s attachment level set off warning bells for me. Sarah and I disagree on how the situation played out, but we both agreed the guy wasn’t the catch N.thought he was. Sarah felt N. came off too needy, but I countered that - no matter what N. did - this guy was always going to treat her like an option. We also say farewell to an uneven, disjointed and ultimate unsatisfying second season of Big Little Lies. Girl, bye.
N.'s full letter https://www.womenologypod.com/post/forgiveness-obsession-dating-profile-mistakes
How the concept of forgiveness is used to gaslight women https://medium.com/@kingsophiesworld/how-the-concept-of-forgiveness-is-used-to-gaslight-women-8d6e4a04e07e
Have more dates, meet fewer flakes. Listen and learn keys to mastering any dating app and common red flags people overlook. Plus: New pod, who dis? We've got a new name!
We talk Gaga and other celebrities who need to practice what they preach; how to get laid using Tinder, Emmy snubs, the mess that is Big Little Lies and read more Deep Thoughts from sleazy “love coach” Myles With a Y.
Is Aziz Ansari uncancelled? We talk Ansari's new comedy special and the Babe.net viral article that outed his bad behavior. We also discuss The Cut's expose revealing the Babe.net office was a hotbed of sexual misconduct. Plus: American Horror Story casting news, why Emma Roberts keeps getting work, angry bagel guy and the plight of the short man.
THE RISE AND FALL OF BABE.NET https://www.thecut.com/2019/06/babe-net-aziz-ansari-date-rise-and-fall.html#comments
I WENT ON A DATE WITH AZIZ ANSARI https://babe.net/2018/01/13/aziz-ansari-28355
I BECAME A FIRST PERSON HUMAN TRAFFICKER https://www.thecut.com/2015/09/happened-to-me-happened-to-me.html
I met up with my ex this weekend and I have thoughts. We also discuss Goop Wellness Summits and the crazy rich white ladies that love to hate them, social media thirst-trapping, and a fiancee that wants to charge her husband rent.
GOOP RETREAT https://www.thecut.com/2019/07/goop-uk-wellness-summit.html#comments
CAN SHE CHARGE HER HUSBAND RENT? https://www.thecut.com/2019/07/can-i-still-charge-my-boyfriend-rent-once-were-married.html
We talk Big Little Lies and it's questionable therapist; why some people accrue thousands in debt for a wedding; and how to handle being rejected without getting defensive.
WEDDING DEBT ARTICLE: https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/06/19/married-debt-couples-are-taking-out-loans-pay-their-weddings/?utm_term=.2734e56c4729
A cash only bar. A man with no debit card. A woman with an appetite. What could possibly go wrong???
Read the full letter here: https://www.womenontoppodcast.com/post/bonus-episode-was-he-a-dinner-whore-or-is-she-a-bad-date
Do you think he scammed her? Share your thoughts on Instagram. https://www.instagram.com/p/BzO-C4bnJPx/
We talk dating addicts & psychological abusers; eye-roll over RHONY toxic melt-downs and praise the perfection that is Laura Dern.
He committed after dating only a week. Is he her Dream Man or her Worst Nightmare? Read the full dating question here https://www.womenontoppodcast.com/post/is-he-her-dream-man-or-her-worst-nightmare
Even cults have a glass ceiling. We talk spiritual guru Teal Swan and how one man might have murdered his wife to be with her. Next up is Big Little Lies and the casting Meryl Streep. In Fuck That Guy news, is "like f*cking" women on Instagram a dumpable offense? Finally, how does growing up without a Dad affect your love life?
ASK POLLY: WHY DO MEN ALWAYS DISAPPOINT ME? https://www.thecut.com/2019/06/ask-polly-men-always-disappoint-me.html
Gather round, ladies. Myles With A "Y" has written a tell-all essay about his past as a fuckboy and why it's women, not men, that need to level-up. Also discussed is a soul-aching essay about crushes and why we cling to them even when all signs say the feeling isn't mutual. Oh, yeah, we parse more awful dating advice from men.
The Definition of 'Fuckboy' Is Not What Bad Trend Pieces Are Telling You https://jezebel.com/the-definition-of-fuckboy-is-not-what-bad-trend-pieces-1725157828
We Had a Beautiful, If Imaginary, Relationship https://www.thecut.com/2019/04/we-had-a-beautiful-if-imaginary-relationship.html
Confessions of a Former Fuckboy http://www.thebabereport.com/confessions-of-a-former-fuckboy/
After He Flakes, Send Him This Text https://youtu.be/0ROFTqkmQkc
We get ragey discussing The Cut's article about incels & toxic masculinity. In this week's Fuck That Guy segment, we parse more bad dating advice from men. We also share podcasts we like by women.
THE CUT https://www.thecut.com/2019/05/incel-plastic-surgery.html#comments
SHITTY DATING ADVICE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4uQBKBXfJ0
We talk about Tony Robbins, Matthew Hussey, and why "Fuck that guy" should be your new mantra. We also parse The Rules and discuss whether they're still relevant today.
I ain's sayin' he's a gold digger. Oh wait. Yes I am. Our latest episode pokes fun at a man suing his ex-wife fraud because she won't give him any of her money. We also facepalmed a man who doesn't understand that body-positivity has nothing to do with what he - or any man - finds attractive.
GOLD DIGGING HUSBAND https://nypost.com/2019/05/11/inside-the-most-glamorous-star-studded-fake-wedding-ever-celebrated/
CURVY WIFE GUY https://www.thecut.com/2019/05/i-had-a-candid-conversation-with-curvy-wife-guy.html#_ga=2.113617479.1566964247.1558023476-784483517.1547588605
http://nymag.com/intelligencer/2017/08/man-dragged-for-instagram-post-about-loving-curvy-wife.html#_ga=2.82218710.1566964247.1558023476-784483517.1547588605
We talk about how I got dumped; a woman who got taken by an online dating scammer for a million dollars; a break-up between an ex-con and a woman desperate to have a baby; and how that guy you matched with on Bumble might actually be dead.
I GOT SCAMMED FOR A MILLION DOLLARS https://www.thecut.com/2019/04/i-lost-a-million-dollars-in-an-online-dating-scam.html
BOTH SIDES OF A BREAKUP https://www.thecut.com/2019/04/both-sides-of-a-breakup-the-rumors-about-him-were-true.html
A run-in with a sleazy family friend triggers a shitstorm. Plus, listen to us parse a batshit bachelorette's letter and sex diary entry from a 26 year old cheating on her husband with her boss.
Links. - You might want to read this before listening. https://www.thecut.com/article/sex-diary-the-graphic-designer-meeting-her-boss-at-the-bowery-hotel.html
https://www.someecards.com/life/lifestyle/bachelorette-party-guest-vegas-rules/
Do you keep dating toxic people that make you feel unlovable and unworthy? On this episode, I share my own history of abuse and why I pursued unavailable men.
Humblebragging about getting laid is never a good look. We're talking about men and women who refuse to date people their own age and why they do it. I also explain why people who whine the loudest about not being able to get a date are alone for a reason. Read the article discussed in the episode here https://www.glamour.com/story/men-my-age-wouldnt-date-meso-i-became-a-cougar
We talk J-Lo and why it took her so long to find a man on her level, whether men are intimidated by self-sufficient women and why getting someone to commit isn't the accomplishment you think it is.
This episode covers Monica Lewinksy and how she withstood two decades of slut-shaming; douchey men with massage tables; and why settling isn't so bad.
Narcissists are THE WORST. Today we're talking about how to deal with toxic people and signs your friend or love interest is a total douche. We'll also parse why "the za za zu" is total bullshit and only found in toxic relationships like the one Carrie had with Big.
Was Ted Bundy Emotionally Unavailable? Uh, I guess you could say that. Barbara and I take a deep dive into the psyches of people drawn to unavailable partners; whether or not Ted Bundy was attractive and charming or just a basic bitch; and whether Rami Malek deserved that Oscar
How do you avoid getting too invested in a guy before you meet him and what are signs that he's going to flake? Introducing our weekly mini-dosde, where we'll cover a dating/sex/relationship letter submitted from a reader/listener.
Before you uninstall all your dating apps, listen to me and Dating Is Delicious founder Kira Citron discuss why so many people are struggling and what to do about it. We also discuss why dating coaches and Tinder Whisperers are big fat scams; how fear keeps us from truly connecting with people; and how I got my sexual groove back.
We're covering a lot this episode. To start, we discuss how to spot signs your internet date is a rage machine. Next, we explain why the wage gap is no excuse to make men pay the tab. (That's some white feminist BS.)Then we head over to Instagram and talk about the internet's latest social media obsession, Caroline Calloway, and our obsession with spoiled privileged white girls with too much money and not an ounce of self-awareness. As a palate cleanser, Kristin and I discuss why Carrie Bradshaw was - unequivocally- the absolute worst.