BecomeHim: Recent Episodes

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BecomeHim is a platform where we address the topics to help us men become a better Him.

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Talking to Samantha is like talking to an older sis. In this episode we converse about what she learnt from the older generation and what she chooses to pass on to the next...

We also touch on topics such as submitting to your husband, learning from the past and so much more.

We hope you enjoy the conversation.

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Dawn takes us through her journey of no regrets. Being at a point where she is now able to help others by sharing her story, we chat about her going through two divorces and also touch on daddy issues. Touchy topics but such a positive vibe. Enjoy!

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When the pandemic hit, it affected all of us. Those on the streets had it even harder with many of them not having anywhere to go. On this week’s episode I sit down with Charlton to discuss how the work he does aided in providing a safe space for the homeless. Not only reaching the physical needs of people but also addressing their emotional and spiritual needs.

We dive into other topics such as marriage and ministry making this an all-round episode.

We hope you enjoy the conversation.

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On this week's episode I sit down with a good friend of mine and partner of the podcast to talk about a topic that is monumental for men who are fathers and those who aspire to become fathers. Jono shares a bit of his personal experiences as a father, diving into some challenges and joys that come with fatherhood. We end the episode on legacy and the importance thereof. I hope you enjoy this episode.

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On this episode I sit down with police woman Michelle Davids to talk about why she started her foundation. She elaborates on the consequences of having a criminal record and how it prevents people from bouncing back from one time mistakes, which then leads to poverty.

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The private chef and founder of Keanon's Kitchen shares a bit about himself and his passion for cooking.

He also gets real transparent and we dive into healing from past relationships.

We hope you enjoy this episode

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Young single mothers get a pen & paper and take some notes 📝

Shayna's story helps both parties take a step back and do some self introspection. She hits the record of being the first woman to admin she was wrong(lol on record)

Males and females will enjoy this episode.

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Our guest this week is a young, hip and real speaker Jason Stephens.

We dive into various interesting topics including dress code, your role as a husband sexually and relationship over religion.

In my pursuit of finding God I lost my religion and gained a relationship - Jason Stephens

Please note that the views expressed by guests on the podcast are not necessarily those of Jéan Davids and do not represent BecomeHim Podcast.

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We experience preaching as if he's behind the pulpit and also dive into the huge issue of absent fathers and the effects it has on men. This episode is not all serious stories, you'll also hear about young Peter wearing pleated jeans to the club.

Young and old, you need to listen to this.

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This week on the podcast we welcome to the podcast author and speaker, Errol Van Schalkwyk. We discuss the principles of business and how to be successful in your respective industry.

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Young financial advisor Tevin Fritz shares about the financial mistakes he has made and gives us some tips on how to avoid common pitfalls.

We learn more about financial planning and being wise with our money.

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In this week's episode we welcome to the podcast another female guest. Sidwena Hobbs and I dive into a great conversation discussing love, self awareness in relationships and ofcourse becoming better.

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This week on the podcast we have a female guest!! Please help me welcome a good friend and poet, Chelsea Goliath.

Opening up about her personal experiences, we dive into topics such as toxic masculinity, daddy issues, relationship status and love languages. This was such a good conversation.

I know you will enjoy this episode so please like and share with a friend or two :)

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They say "when you know better, you do better". Considering the former statement, I decided to sit down with a friend and also business associate, Jono Green. He shared a bit about his story, love life and business.

His transparency together with his humorous personality made this episode so enjoyable. From tips on how to get a girl to placing your trust in God, this conversation covered various subjects.

You don't want to miss this 😉

"It is believed that it would be better advice if it came from older persons rather than the young."

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As we enter the 'month of love' , we thought it would be a good idea to celebrate by talking about love. This week I chat to a young newly married gentleman, Justin Hendricks.

We converse about the stereotypical 'honeymoon phase' and he shares about his wife being his helpmeet.

We had so fun with with his spiritual gift of preaching, you're going to be so blessed by this episode.

Young married couples (and those wanting to get married), this one's for you.

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They say first impressions last and a huge part of that is appearance.

This week we sat down to chat with Travis-Lee Gilbert, founder of Truth Garments and Trippy Graphix Media. We spoke about fashion, personal style and the importance of a man's dress code.

Suit up and enjoy this episode

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Wrapping up season 1 of the podcast, we thought we'd bring you something different with this last episode. We brought back multiple guests from season 1 to discuss a variety of topics. Jean engages with Teneale, Phinius, Kelvin, Emlyn and Deezy to bring you this wisdom packed episode that will help encourage, educate and motivate you.

We hope you had a great festive season and wish you a blessed New year.

Remember that 'becoming' is not a place, it's a process.

This episode is sponsored by @gsquaredcoffee

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This week on the podcast I speak to dancer, choreographer and owner of Elite Movement Dance Studio, Lyrical Deezy.

We start the conversation off with the affects of the Lockdown and how it impacted those of us in the entertainment industry.

Diving into what it means to remain faithful, humble and maintain character when being placed in unusual environments as a result of his craft, Deezy shares how he manages to stay grounded.

We get real and touch on the challenges of becoming a young father, being a plus sized dancer, co-parenting and running a full-time business.

This conversation was filled with so much transparency and wisdom.

You don't want to miss this one.

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In order to build something strong you need to be consistent.

This week I am joined by the founder of FlexNation, Daiyaan Ford. We converse about his journey of body transformation and brand building. Discussing some of the struggles he had along the way and despite lack of support we unpack how he remained persistent in pursuing his passion.

We also touch on mental health, insecurities and self esteem.

We hope you are edified by the conversation.

This week's episode is sponsored by @rooted1618.

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This week Becomehim reaches its first double digits episode and what better way to celebrate than to have two guests join us.

Dorian Hendricks and Xhavier Taylor are both young, married and entrepreneurs in their respective fields. We casually discuss some of the challenges we've encountered on our own journeys as well as common struggles even though we're in different industries.

The conversation took a turn from business to marriage and as we know we can never be fully prepared for marriage but we can always glean and learn from others' experiences.

This episode turned out to be one of those 'mancave environments' with silly chats and lots of laughter while still producing content to help us all become a better him.

We hope you enjoy this episode.

This week's episode is sponsored by @rooted1618.

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This week I am talking to the founder of Brown Pride. A local apparel business which started in the midst of the national lockdown. We discuss the uniqueness of the brand, being relatable and what exactly sets his business apart. He shares how he aims to impact the culture by spreading positive messages with his clothing lines.

"Be proud of who you are, we are much more than what they say and keep that in mind" - Emlyn.

I hope you enjoy this episode.

This week's episode is sponsored by @rooted1618.

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One of the best ways to learn is by engaging with those who have been at it for a long time.

This week I am joined by Business owner and Executive Director of Fern Funerals, Peter Solomon. We speak about remaining humbled and disciplined when building a business. We discuss being faithful with little and delivering excellent service so you can increase capacity for more. If you're already building or want to build a business this episode is for you!

I hope you enjoy this episode.

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On this week's episode I do a little introspection and call out my own trashy ways. Interviewed by Crystal-Leigh Abrahams, we converse about how I recognized and unlearnt these ways and embarked on this journey of becoming better. Acknowledging that I have not arrived and that this is a process not a place. Crystal shares her first impression of me and how she views me now. We've all had to get rid of unhealthy habits and traits at some point - myself included. So walk this journey with me.

I hope you enjoy this episode.

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So as men, who sets the standard for us?

Sharing his story of adoption, we converse about redemption, being chosen by God, and misdirected worship. With the objective of becoming a better Him, we discover that Christ is the ultimate 'Him' standard. We realise that we’ll continuously fail to do or be better without the guidance of Jesus.

We learn that the “church boy” is not the standard. The world should not be the standard, we are not the standard - Jesus is and that is why we should diligently pursue Him. Psalm 25:15 If I keep my eyes fixed on God, I won't trip over my own feet. (MSG)

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Break-ups are one of the hardest experiences in life - we've all been there at some point. However, it can become easier to deal with when you take responsibility for your own actions. In this episode we become self aware and discover that sometimes your ex was not the only one with toxic traits in the relationship.

Reflecting on her previous relationship, we discuss the importance of loving yourself first. We also touch on body positivity, personal preferences and not compromising our standards.

We hope you enjoy this episode.

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In this episode I am joined by our very first male guest, Phinius Sebatsane. Being bold enough to dig into our childhoods, we address both the physical and emotional implications growing up without the guidance of our fathers had on us. Facing the reality of many who have been given no instruction manual or tools, we discuss how we can equip ourselves and others to be the fathers we wish we had but also the fathers our unborn sons will need.

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I am joined by our very first and special guest Teneale Williams. Tackling one of our country's major issues of Gender Based Violence, she shares her story of being in a toxic, abusive marriage. We converse on loving yourself enough to leave, identity issues and what women look for in men. Tune in as we dissect how she went from Broken to Brave. Enjoy.

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A different perspective on the current hot topic of entanglement. JD addresses the role of husbands loving their wives as Christ love the church.

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BecomeHim is a platform where Jéan Davids addresses topics, struggles and issues that will assist, inform and encourage us men to become a better Him.

Look out for special guests and bonus episodes.

I will be addressing topics such as: Mental Health Relationships Physical Health Self Development Family Faith Finance

The value of a man is not measured by what he does for himself to make his life easier but measured by what he does for others to make their lives easier.