The Union Podcast: Recent Episodes
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The Union Podcast brings gospel-centred conversations that will help you find wholeness in the areas of sexuality, identity, and relationships.
What happens when cultural ideology reshapes how we read the Bible—especially when it comes to sexuality and identity?
In this compelling conversation, Tim Barnett—apologist, speaker, and co-author (alongside Alisa Childers) of The Deconstruction of Christianity: What It Is, Why It’s Destructive, and How to Respond—joins us to unpack the growing trend of deconstruction today. Together, we explore how cultural ideology around identity, sexuality, and personal autonomy is shaping the way many believers approach Scripture, and why the biblical sexual ethic often becomes a flashpoint in the process of walking away from historic Christian faith. Tim thoughtfully addresses the rise of revisionist interpretations of Scripture, the philosophical undercurrents of deconstruction, and the ways in which church leaders can respond with both truth and grace. Whether you're wrestling with these questions yourself or leading others who are, this episode offers clarity, conviction, and hope for holding to a vibrant faith in a rapidly shifting cultural landscape.
Tim Barnett is an apologist and speaker with Stand to Reason (STR), an apologetics ministry dedicated to training Christians to think more clearly about their faith. Tim travels across the US and Canada, speaking to thousands of people each year. He’s also a frequent guest on podcasts and YouTube channels.
Before starting STR in 2015, Tim worked as a professional teacher, employed in both the private and public sector. He has earned a Bachelor of Science in Physics from York University, a Bachelor of Education from Ontario Tech University, and a Master of Arts in Philosophy from Southern Evangelical Seminary. Between 2014 and 2022, Tim served on the pastoral staff at Cedarview Community Church.
In 2020, Tim began Red Pen Logic with Mr. B, an online ministry that assesses bad thinking on social media by using good thinking. Across all social media platforms, Red Pen Logic (RPL) reaches millions of people every month.
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In this powerful episode of The Union Podcast, we sit down with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, for a candid and hope-filled conversation designed specifically for church leaders.
As pastors, ministry leaders, and youth workers navigate the pressures of spiritual leadership, many also face private struggles with sexual brokenness — often in silence. Nick shares his own story of battling pornography addiction while in pastoral ministry, and how coming into the light became the starting point of healing, not the end of his calling.
We also discuss the sobering results of “Beyond the Porn Phenomenon,” a Barna study conducted in partnership with Pure Desire, which highlights just how deeply pornography is affecting the Church — including its leaders.
This episode is an invitation to move from isolation to integrity — and to rethink how churches can cultivate a culture of grace, transparency, and long-term restoration.
Topics Covered:
Nick’s personal journey through addiction and healing
The role of Pure Desire Ministries in helping leaders find freedom
The Church’s response to pornography and sexual shame
How to create safe, accountable spaces for healing in leadership
Practical next steps for pastors and church staff who feel stuck
Whether you’re leading others or trying to lead yourself well, this conversation will encourage you: you’re not alone, and there’s a path toward wholeness.
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In this compelling episode, Bryan sits down with Dr. Robert Smith, lecturer in Theology, Ethics, and Music at Sydney Missionary and Bible College, to discuss his new book The Body God Gives: Biblical Answers on Gender Identity. With clarity, wisdom, and pastoral care, Robert unpacks the biblical foundations for understanding gender and sexuality in a time of cultural confusion.
We explore:
Why this conversation is vital for the church today
How pastors can begin engaging these topics with both truth and grace
The tension between conviction and compassion in polarized times
Scriptural responses to affirming interpretations of gender identity
The debate around pronoun usage and what true hospitality looks like
Practical steps for gospel-centered evangelism among transgender individuals
How Christians can respond to pressure in schools, workplaces, and public life
What the future of this conversation may look like—and how the church can prepare
This episode offers thoughtful, theologically grounded insight for anyone navigating these conversations in ministry, discipleship, or daily life. Whether you're leading a church or having coffee with a friend, this conversation will help you engage with humility, courage, and biblical conviction.
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In this episode of The Union Podcast, we’re joined by Glen Scrivener—author, evangelist, and CEO of SpeakLife—for a rich and thought-provoking conversation on how the gospel has shaped the way we understand sex, consent, and human dignity.
Glen is well known for his work with SpeakLife, a UK-based ministry that uses creative storytelling, media, and digital content to engage hearts and minds with the truth and beauty of Jesus. Whether it’s through spoken word films, interviews, or cultural commentary, Glen and his team are passionate about helping people see how the gospel speaks into every area of life—including some of the most difficult and sensitive topics in our world today.
In this episode, we dive into his book The Air We Breathe, exploring the surprising ways Christianity has influenced the moral foundations of Western culture. Focusing especially on the concept of consent, we look at how the Greco-Roman world understood sexuality—often marked by power, dominance, and inequality—and how the early church introduced a radically different ethic, one rooted in the worth and dignity of every person.
We talk about what made the Christian view of sex so distinct in that cultural moment, how the gospel reframed relationships not just with rules but with reverence, and why this matters deeply in our modern conversations around consent and human value. Glen also shares how the early church's faithfulness to the teachings of Jesus told a better story—one that brought hope and healing then, and still has the power to do the same today.
If you've ever wondered whether the gospel has anything meaningful to say about sex, relationships, and the deep wounds so many carry—this episode is for you.
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In this poignant and heartfelt episode, host Bonnie Pue invites her dear friends Ruth Erickson and RaeChelle Koop for a raw and honest dialogue that celebrates the female body's beauty, challenges, and profound purpose. As we conclude our enlightening mini-series, That Time of the Month, we embark on an intricate journey through the various stages of womanhood—from the tender beginnings of puberty to the exhilarating yet complex experiences of motherhood, and the gradual transformations of perimenopause.
With personal anecdotes and uplifting biblical encouragement, we courageously unpack the myriad struggles many women face. Together, we explore the tumult of hormonal fluctuations, the insidious cultural shame that often shadows femininity, and the emotional and physical evolution that accompanies each phase of life. If you’ve ever found yourself grappling with the weight of your body’s design, we sincerely hope this conversation inspires you to embrace the intentional and purposeful creation that God has crafted in you.
And fellas, this episode is for you too! Whether you’re a husband, father, brother, or friend, we offer insights that will help you better love and support the remarkable women in your life with a deeper understanding. Join us for this enriching, gospel-centred discussion, and be uplifted by the reassuring truth that God's design for us is always good.
How does Scripture view the female body and its natural rhythms?
In this episode, we explore God’s design for women’s cycles, hormones, and maternal nature—and how they reflect His nurturing character. We discuss how hormonal changes impact mood, energy, and spirituality, as well as practical ways to thrive in career, ministry, and family while honoring biological rhythms.
With insights from the Bible and expert guidance from FEMM Educator and Hormone Coach Bekah Yawn, we uncover how understanding cycles can support natural family planning and the meaning behind “unclean” concepts in Scripture. Plus, we take a good look at what the Bible says about aging and wisdom.
Join us for a thoughtful conversation on faith, the female body, and embracing God’s design at every stage of life with our incredible guest.
Bekah has worked with dozens of women and couples nationwide to empower them in their fertility health. As a Psychology major, FEMM Educator, Hormone Coach, and Doula, she is well respected in the fertility education community. She loves helping women understand their bodies in God’s design and how to support them naturally so they can get pregnant. This is all part of the journey you can take through her course, Fertility Framework.
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In this first episode of That Time of the Month, a Union Podcast mini-series, we explore the beauty and complexity of a woman’s God-given biological design. Hosts Bonnie and Bryan Pue explore how the menstrual cycle influences a woman’s physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being and how husbands can support their wives with understanding and grace.
Bonnie introduces the heart behind this mini-series, addressing misconceptions about gender roles in the church and emphasizing that God designed men and women with intentional differences beyond physical anatomy. She encourages women to ask, “How did God make me? What am I resisting or ignoring about my design that I could lean into and work with?”
Bryan joins the conversation to unpack 1 Peter 3:7, specifically discussing what it means for a husband to honour his wife as the “weaker vessel.” He and Bonnie explore the role of a woman’s menstrual cycle in her physical limitations and the importance of a husband living with his wife in an understanding way. They share practical ways for men to support their wives, from offering patience and empathy to recognizing hormonal shifts without dismissing them.
The episode also tackles a tough but crucial topic—how Ephesians 5 calls husbands to lay down their lives for their wives, especially in a culture that often objectifies women. Bryan shares personal insights from navigating pregnancy, postpartum challenges, miscarriage, and sleepless nights, offering wisdom on how men can provide both emotional and physical support through every season.
Join us for this honest and insightful discussion as we seek to embrace God’s design for that time of the month.
Drum roll, please!… It’s the 100th Episode! Wooo!
With Valentine’s Day upon us, we thought we’d take some time to discuss some of the top questions we received through our text in the Q&A we did at past events. Navigating relationships as a Christian can feel overwhelming—especially when faced with deep questions about trust, boundaries, and God’s plan for your love life. How much of your past should you share with your partner? What does it look like to set healthy emotional and physical boundaries while honouring God? And how do you know if the person you're dating is truly "the one" God has for you?
In this episode, Bryan and Bonnie tackle these tough but important topics with honesty, biblical wisdom, and practical advice. They discuss how to approach conversations about your past in a way that builds trust instead of insecurity, the struggles some people face when wrestling with a partner’s history, and how to navigate the pressure to find "the one" in Christian circles. Plus, we’ll break down what it means to have a Christ-centered marriage—not just in theory, but in everyday life.
Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this conversation will give you the tools and encouragement to pursue relationships with confidence, faith, and clarity. Join us as we dive deep into the realities of Christian dating and discover what it means to love and be loved in a way that honours God.
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How do you lead young adults effectively in the current cultural moment we are in?
We are pumped to have Pastor Fredy Orozco, Young Adult Pastor at Northview Community Church, join us to tackle this very question. Fredy and his wife Rebecca have been married for 10 years and are the proud parents of three lively children: Isaiah (4), August (2), and Olive (1). For the past eight years, they have poured their hearts into serving at Northview Community Church, where Fredy has been pastor of young adult ministry for the last three years. Fredy deeply loves team sports, revelling in the excitement of soccer, football, and basketball games. He is also deeply committed to theology and has dedicated himself to teaching the Scriptures with clarity and passion to audiences of all ages and backgrounds.
In this episode, we explore one of the most pressing and complex conversations facing Young Adult pastors today: how to lead with both truth and grace in discussions of sexuality and gender. We aim to equip pastors and leaders with biblical wisdom, practical strategies, and approaches to engage in these conversations without fear while remaining faithful to Scripture.
We explore how to create a welcoming space for tough questions, share the historic Christian view with clarity and love, and navigate these topics' cultural and emotional complexities. How can pastors balance theological integrity with genuine empathy? How can they prepare themselves for grace-filled discussions, especially when faced with disagreement or pain? And how can they help young adults discern biblical truth in a world shaped by deconstructionism and postmodern thought?
Join us as we unpack these questions and provide encouragement for leaders striving to reflect Jesus in every conversation.
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Well, just like that, The Union Conference has come and gone. As Bonnie and I reflect on various aspects of the event, we are in awe of God’s goodness and faithfulness. Throughout our meetings with volunteers and team leaders, we consistently emphasized that every aspect of the event—whether it was hospitality, registration, or any other area—was designed to facilitate an encounter with the Lord for our attendees. By God’s grace, this focus was a clear hallmark of the conference.
In this episode, we look back on the event and are joined by our incredible interns, who share their unique experiences. Together, we unpack the highlights, including moving testimonies of how God worked in and through the sessions, moments of deep connection during worship, and the rich teachings that encouraged attendees to live in truth and grace.
Whether you attended the conference or are hearing about it for the first time, this episode is filled with heartfelt reflections and inspiring stories that remind us of God’s faithfulness. Join us as we celebrate all that He did and look forward with hope!
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Racial reconciliation is a significant topic in our current cultural moment. The key question is: Is the approach taken by the world effective? We argue that it is not and that the Scriptures and the Gospel of Christ offer a better solution. This was the focus of our recent interview with Monique Duson. Monique helps us better understand how intersectionality and Critical Race Theory (CRT) influence today's perspectives on human sexuality. Additionally, we discussed her new book titled "Walking in Unity."
"Walking in Unity" aims to provide Christ-centered solutions to the issues surrounding race and racism. Authors Monique Duson and Krista Bontrager address the distinctions between secular approaches to achieving consensus and the biblical call for unity. They explore what Scripture teaches about racial harmony and emphasize how Christians can find a shared identity through faith in Christ.
Monique Duson is the President of the Center for Biblical Unity. With a social services and children's ministry background, she has worked with a diverse range of underserved communities. Monique served as a missionary in South Africa for over four years, helping children and teachers affected by drugs, violence, and trauma. For two decades, she advocated for Critical Race Theory (CRT), but after experiencing a series of events, she began to recognize the contradictions between CRT and the historic Christian worldview. Monique is now convinced that CRT is not the best path to achieving racial unity, and she actively speaks out against its application within the church.
Monique has appeared on various shows, including Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey, the Alisa Childers Podcast, and Breakpoint with John Stonestreet. She holds a BA in Sociology from Biola University and is currently pursuing an MA in Public Theology at Birmingham Theological Seminary.
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In today’s episode, we uncover the complex and often misunderstood realities of human trafficking in Canada and beyond. Unlike the kidnapping or smuggling scenarios frequently highlighted in the media, trafficking often unfolds as a deeply relational crime. Perpetrators build trust and meet unmet needs in unhealthy ways, preying on vulnerable individuals to establish control. In Canada, this issue significantly impacts, disproportionately affecting Indigenous communities, along with women and girls.
Joining us today is Sofia Friesen from Ally Global, a Vancouver-based charity dedicated to combating sex trafficking, especially the exploitation of minors. Together with local partners in Nepal and Cambodia, Ally provides safe housing, education, and aftercare for over 200 children who have been rescued from human trafficking and abuse. Additionally, our local leaders conduct anti-trafficking presentations in high-risk areas, educating students, teachers, and the wider community about the dangers of human trafficking. In Canada, their mission is to prevent the sexual exploitation of minors through engaging and educational resources. These resources aim to equip children and youth with the skills they need to navigate online interactions and relationships safely and healthily.
This episode provides a heartfelt and enlightening discussion about the larger issue of human trafficking and the important efforts being made to combat it.
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The shame from past sexual experiences can be a heavy burden, affecting our current and future relationships. In today's world, influenced by hook-up culture, hyper-sexualization, and widespread use of pornography, many people struggle with feelings of regret and guilt that impact their self-worth. This shame can lead to fear and insecurity, making it challenging to trust, be vulnerable, and fully experience the love and intimacy necessary for healthy relationships. It's important to recognize that this doesn't just affect the person with the sexual past, but also their partner.
In this deeply personal and insightful interview, Richard De La Mora, a respected pastor, devoted husband, and co-founder of LoveAlwaysMinistries.com, sheds light on his latest book, "Body Count." The book addresses a sensitive and vital issue in today’s hyper-sexualized world: navigating a relationship when one partner has a significant sexual history. Richard candidly shares his own journey of marrying a former adult film actress and how they successfully navigated through challenges such as jealousy, shame, and societal judgment. The interview delves into the book's core themes, exploring how to cultivate a thriving relationship despite a partner's past and how to overcome mental obstacles like recurring negative thoughts or "mental movies." Richard emphasizes the transformative power of grace, both in receiving it from God and extending it to a partner who may have a challenging sexual past.
Richard De La Mora is a husband, father, pastor, evangelist, and author. His deep love for Jesus and passion for people led him to San Diego, CA, in 2012, where he began working in full-time ministry. He married his wife, former porn star Brittni, in 2016. Shortly after, they began preaching the gospel and sharing their unique story worldwide, which depicts a modern-day version of Hosea and Gomer. In 2020, Richard and Brittni founded Love Always Ministries. A ministry that helps people walk in their calling by discovering God’s love and leading a victorious life through purity.
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When faced with continuous challenges and unexpected obstacles in life, how can we create a fulfilling and close marriage? How can we transition from feeling stressed and overwhelmed to feeling energized and motivated, and find the strength to improve our marriage relationship? In this episode, hosted by Bryan Pue, we will hear from Robert Paul, and return guest Tara Lalonde, as they unpack principles from their new book entitled “Empowered To Love”. Robert and Tara provide practical, biblically based tools for husbands and wives to enhance their personal lives and empower their marriage. Instead of simply hoping and praying for something better, couples are encouraged to actively take steps to care for themselves and prioritize their most important relationship.
Through insightful guidance, Robert and Tara will address questions like:
Why is Empowered to Love so important in today’s cultural moment, and how can it offer hope for struggling marriages?
How can couples focus on personal development without falling into self-centeredness?
What are the greatest threats to creating a marriage that feels safe emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally?
Why is personal responsibility so crucial in maintaining a healthy relationship?
How can we avoid codependency and recognize when we are taking on too much responsibility for our spouse’s emotional and spiritual health?
What does it mean to “guard your heart” in an unhealthy marriage while still showing up as the best version of yourself?
How has the modern view of love and commitment in marriage gone off track, and how can we reclaim the true meaning of covenant love?
Is love a feeling or a choice, and how do both perspectives shape a lasting marriage?
What words of hope can we offer to couples who feel stuck in negative patterns and don’t know how to move forward?
Whether you’re a newlywed or a couple facing years of unresolved tension, Empowered to Love offers real hope, practical strategies, and transformative insights that can help your marriage flourish in today’s fast-paced world. Tune in and take the next step toward a healthier, more empowered relationship.
Robert S. Paul, M.S., is the vice president of the Focus on the Family Marriage Institute and the primary architect of the Hope Restored marriage intensive programs. He is a licensed professional counsellor with over 30 years of experience and is an international speaker. He has coauthored six books, including The DNA of Relationships with Gary and Greg Smalley and, more recently, 9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage. Robert and his wife, Jenni, have been married for 43 years and have four children and seven grandchildren.
Tara Lalonde, PhD, is a registered psychotherapist in Ontario and has been counselling adults and couples for over 20 years. She is a lead marriage therapist with the Hope Restored marriage intensive counselling program in Ontario, Canada. She is also the author of An Unexpected Freedom: Discover Peace and Joy in the Reality of Life. She and her husband, Vince, have been married for 19 years.
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Healthy and thriving marriages filled with love are cultivated over longer periods. Just like with grapes grown to make wine, it can take years of purposeful attention to the proverbial soil quality of this covenantal relationship. Sometimes there can be little rocks under the surface that end up choking the life and love out of marriages. Little things left unchecked can become big problems.
So, how do we identify these rocks and get them out of the soil of our marriages so that the fruit of this relationship can be intoxicatingly healthy?
This is exactly what we are going to discuss in today's episode with Neil & Sharol Josephson from FamilyLife.
Before stepping into the call to work with FamilyLife, Neil worked as a Bible school president and Sharol as a TV broadcaster. Together they also worked as marriage pastors at a large church in Southern California. In addition, they have served as the directors of FamilyLife Canada and have recently stepped into a role as the directors of FamilyLife International. Neil and Sharol have been married for over 40 years and have a great depth of understanding and wisdom in what it takes to have a thriving marriage. This was a great conversation and we know it will impact your life.
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We often talk about how God is the "Author and Finisher of our faith" and how He "orders our steps". However, when it comes to the reality of singleness, we have a hard time believing that it could be under His authorship. This is compounded by the overemphasis that can be placed on marriage within the church at times, which leaves us wondering, "Do I write my story, or is God writing my story?" In this conversation, we will be discussing these very issues with our guest, Meisha Watson.
Meisha has worked in the Canadian entertainment industry for over 12 years. She has hosted on YTV's The Zone and the ZoneWeekend, presented at the Canadian Screen Awards, and interviewed top chefs from across Canada. Meisha is the executive producer of the hilarious, musically led, biblical teaching variety show for kids called 'HEY MEISHA!', which airs on Saturday mornings on YES TV and streams on YouTube, Yippee TV, and the Castle TV App. In addition, Meisha also produces and hosts the podcast "My Single Story", where she gets real about the dynamics of being a single Christian. Meisha's guests join her to discuss not only the good, the bad, and the cringeworthy, but also to make space for community as we are equipped, heard, and cherished by God. You can find "My Single Story" podcast on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube. Check the show notes to stay up to speed and follow along with Meisha.
In This Episode we cover:
-How to breakthrough in trusting God in your singleness
-Recommendations for people in the “dating world”
-How to stay hopeful
-How to hold to convictions
-How to involve your community
-Navigating the challenges of the online dating world
And more…
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Have you ever wondered how we ended up in a world where masculinity gets a bad rap? You might have seen headlines like "Why Can't We Hate Men?" or come across hashtags like #KillAllMen. It's a trend that's hard to ignore, with articles titled "I Hate Men," "No Good Men," and "Are Men Necessary?" You might have also heard claims that evangelical Christian men are prime examples of toxic behaviour. However, the research tells a different story. Studies show that men who are committed to their families and attend church regularly are often the most loving husbands and dedicated fathers out there. And get this—they also have the lowest rates of divorce and domestic violence in the country.
In her book, The Toxic War On Masculinity, Pearcey takes us on a journey through history to uncover how the idea of masculinity became tangled up with negativity. But it's not all doom and gloom. She's also armed with solutions for how we can turn things around. These sociological insights challenge the stereotypes we often hear about men and show us that embracing traditional Christian values can help bridge the gap between the sexes. So, next time you come across a #KillAllMen tweet or a book bashing masculinity, remember that there's more to the story—and that there are steps we can take to create a flourishing world for everyone.
Nancy Pearcey's latest book is The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes. Her earlier books include Love Thy Body: Answering Hard Questions about Life and Sexuality, The Soul of Science, Saving Leonardo, Finding Truth, and two ECPA Gold Medallion Award Winners: How Now Shall We Live (coauthored with Harold Fickett and Chuck Colson) and Total Truth. Her books have been translated into 19 languages. She is a professor and scholar in residence at Houston Christian University. As a former agnostic, Pearcey has spoken at universities such as Princeton, Stanford, USC, and Dartmouth. She has been quoted in The New Yorker and Newsweek highlighted as one of the five top women apologists by Christianity Today, and hailed in The Economist as "America's pre-eminent evangelical Protestant female intellectual."
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In the journey of building meaningful relationships, it's essential to recognize the impact societal influences, like pornography, can have on our expectations. While it's often unspoken, the truth is that pornography can subtly chip away at the trust and sense of security vital for any relationship to thrive. Yet, in acknowledging this reality, we're presented with an opportunity to foster deeper connections.
Let's envision a future where trust and safety are the cornerstones of our relationships, where love flourishes and freedom reigns. It's about creating spaces where authenticity and intimacy can truly blossom. So, how do we keep porn out of our lives and relationships in a way that leads to flourishing and freedom?
This is why Layton and Chelsea Boeve, from the Liberator Podcast, join us here on episode 86. Layton and Chelsea are a married couple from Northern Michigan and are the hosts of the Liberator Podcast. The Liberator Podcast is a discussion of pornography’s hard truths through the lens of stories, science, and Scripture. They bring the perspective of both a man and a woman to remove the barriers of shame and embarrassment that stifle conversations and community around the effects of pornography.
In this episode, we discuss:
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How does porn addiction affect relationships, and how can young adults navigate open conversations with their partners about this issue?
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Breaking the stigma surrounding porn addiction can be tough. How do you think we can work together to break the stigma while still acknowledging the severity of its effects on our lives?
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Societal perceptions influenced by pornographic content can create unrealistic expectations within relationships. What do you think distinguishes positive sexuality from porn's portrayal of sex?
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When trust is compromised due to issues related to porn consumption, what steps can couples take to rebuild trust and strengthen their emotional intimacy?
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Are there any specific trust-building exercises or communication techniques that can aid in the healing process?
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In the past few months, we had the privilege to speak at various Young Adult ministries and engage in Q&A sessions. Our discussions revolved around sexuality, identity, and relationships. In this particular episode, we will be addressing the top 5 questions about healthy relationships and marriage.
In this episode we cover:
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How to handle insecurity while being single but desiring a romantic partner.
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How to navigate conversations about gender identity and previous sexual experiences in a romantic relationship.
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How to prioritize God and keep Him at the centre of your life.
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How to move forward and pursue healthy connections without being defined by past experiences.
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How to ensure that physical intimacy aligns with holy sexuality in marriage, preventing issues like lust and maintaining healthy boundaries.
Join us in this riveting episode as we delve deep into the complexities of unresolved trauma, exploring its impact on friendships and marriages. Our expert guest, Tara Lalonde PhD, a seasoned psychotherapist and marriage counsellor, shares profound insights and practical advice for supporting individuals amid their trauma journeys. Tara recently worked with Focus On The Family Canada in producing a resource centred around helping people find Healing From Un-resolved Trauma. If you find this podcast episode helpful and want to go deeper we would highly recommend signing up for this free resource.
Episode #84 Highlights:
-Demystifying Trauma: In a world increasingly aware of trauma, our guest breaks down the concept for listeners, providing a clear understanding of what is meant when we speak of trauma and its various forms.
-Big T vs. Little T Trauma: Explore the distinctions between Big T and Little T trauma, gaining valuable insights into why these nuances matter in mental and emotional well-being.
-Procedural Maps and Life Filters: Unpack the fascinating concept of procedural maps and how they become the lenses through which we navigate life, shaping our perceptions and responses to the world around us.
-Childhood Trauma Unveiled: Understand why experiences from our formative years persist into adulthood, affecting relationships and emotional well-being…and more!
Tara Lalonde, a registered psychotherapist in Ontario, has been counselling adults and couples for over 20 years and is a lead marriage therapist with the Hope Restored marriage intensive counselling program in Ontario, Canada. She also has a private practice focusing on trauma recovery. Tara holds a doctorate in professional counselling from Liberty University and has theological training through her Master’s of Divinity in professional counselling, minoring in pastoral studies, from Tyndale Seminary. Tara has appeared on 100 Huntley Street and 700 Club along with radio programs and podcasts in Canada. She is also the author of An Unexpected Freedom: Discover Peace and Joy in the Reality of Life. She is also publishing a new book she co-authored that will be out in July 2024. Tara and her husband Vince have been married for 19 years.
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Welcome to the first episode of season 4 of The Union Podcast.
We frequently receive numerous inquiries about singleness, how to begin healthy relationships and the key ingredients for a successful marriage. Therefore, we have dedicated this entire fourth season to exploring these subjects. We have some outstanding guests lined up that we are confident you will enjoy.
In this episode Bonnie and Bryan cover:
-Unpacking the profound truth, "It's not good for man to be alone"
-Exploring current trends of marriage and singleness, and their impact.
-The remedy for loneliness in the church.
-Addressing the challenge of connection and fostering meaningful bonds to combat isolation.
…and more.
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I’ve heard it said that “ the only key for better sex in marriage, from a man’s perspective, is for the wife to bring food and show up naked.”
All joking aside, being an authentic man is a challenging topic for many guys. As men, we hear a wide variety of voices calling for everything from the crushing of the patriarchy and the ever-growing definition of toxic masculinity to the other extreme of “red-pill” masculinity that sees manhood as being defined by money, power and sex. How we see these topics will affect the type of man we become and the health of sexual intimacy we have in marriage. That’s exactly what Bryan and Pastor Matthew Schlesinger talk about in this episode.
Matthew, and his wife, Sabrina were married in 2000 and served as pastors alongside Matthew’s parents for ten years in Oregon. The dream God placed in their hearts years earlier unfolded and in December of 2012 they joined the Grace team as Lead Pastors in their favorite city, San Diego. Matthew is fun and authentic. He loves God’s Word, places priority on His Presence, and believes that the local church is the hope of the world. Matthew & Sabrina are the proud parents of three beautiful daughters and one amazing son. Their family mission is to populate heaven and plunder hell. Matthew and Sabrina host both the Marriage on the Go and Parenting on the Go podcasts.@matthewschlesinger
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The statement that “sex before marriage is bad” can quickly become “sex is bad” if we don’t see sex as the beautiful gift from God that it is. In this episode, Bonnie chats with Sabrina Schlesinger about how women can have a healthy perspective toward their sexuality and experience a better sex life within their marriages.
Sabrina is a wife to Matthew, mother, pastor, speaker and podcast host. Sabrina and Matthew host two podcasts, Parenting on the Go and Marriage on the Go. Both podcasts offer Biblical and practical advice on parenting and marriage. Every episode is brief so you can listen to them in the carpool lane, at the gym, grocery shopping, and anywhere you are "on the go!" You can subscribe and listen to them every week on iTunes, Google Play, and Spotify. Sabrina also wrote a book for moms called, What Other Moms Never Told Me. It is available on Amazon as paperback or Kindle.
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In a world that has become so preoccupied with progress, have we lost what it means to be human?
We are so pumped to have Dr Andy Steiger join us to talk about how we can find what it truly means to be human within God’s restorative plan in Jesus.
Andy Steiger is the founder and president of Apologetics Canada Ministries (AC). He passionately engages in pressing issues related to our humanity from a Christian perspective. He has presented at various venues such as Cambridge University on philosophical issues related to Artificial Intelligence, provided ethical guidelines on robotics for the United Nations, and addressed legal concerns over rights of conscience at the World Congress in Philosophy of Law.
Andy has published widely from children’s books to a Supreme Court Law Review. His most recent book, Reclaimed: How Jesus Restores Our Humanity in a Dehumanized World was awarded runner-up to evangelistic resource of the year. Andy is known for making complex theological and philosophical ideas understandable through the art of storytelling as seen in AC’s video resources. The Human Project video series debuted at film festivals around the world and won a number of awards including Best Short Film and People's Choice. Recently released is BRANDED: A Series on Identity which is now available on RightNow Media. Between his 20 years of pastoral experience and a PhD from the University of Aberdeen, Andy brings both experience and research to his work.
Andy currently lives in Abbotsford, British Columbia, with his wife, Nancy, and their two sons. Most weekends you’ll find the Steigers in the mountains or lakes of BC.
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You may not know what Babel is but trust me, it’s all over the place. Babel is a way of thinking, speaking and living apart from God. We see its influence nowhere stronger than in the realm of sexuality. It shows itself in everything from the culture’s addiction to pornography, to even the views of marriage that some people hold, even in the church. We are so pumped to have had the opportunity to sit down with Nikki Dent and talk about her new book, BREAKING UP WITH BABEL- The Gospel Of Sex, Dating and Relating In A Culture Of Confusion.
This hope-filled and captivating teaching provides a Scripture-based perspective on sex, dating, and romance that compels Christians to walk in purity and passion. By exploring a positive and powerful theology on sex and dating, Breaking Up with Babel presents a sexual gospel that outshines the humanistic messages of broken sexuality, pornography, sex outside of marriage, and digital dating in a Babel-weary world. God's people are called to live their most fruitful lives by answering questions such as:
How does sex affect our body, soul, and spirit?
Why should we wait until marriage to have sex?
Why is pornography terrible for our sex life?
How do we date biblically in a digital world?
Why do we need boundaries to have healthy relationships?
How can we be restored from heartache and brokenness?
Nikki is a passionate Bible preacher who lives with her husband, Paul, and three daughters on the east coast of Australia. Paul and Nikki also serve as Pastors at Eastgate Church in Byron Bay. She has passionately taught on sex, dating, and relationships from a Christian worldview for ten years in Christian leadership academies, discipleship training schools (YWAM), churches and young adult ministries.
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What is the self? What does it mean to be human? These are some of the major questions being asked in our cultural moment. The good news is that we can find creditable answers for them in the words of Jesus.
In this episode, Bryan & Bonnie Pue discuss what Jesus is talking about in Luke 9 where He says, “What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit their very self?”
We cover the topics of:
-The biblical view of the self compared to the secular psychological view.
-The human identity in creation, redemption and glorification
-Humanity being made in the image of God.
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The integration of body, soul and spirit.
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Gnosticism and modern gender theory
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The hope of redemption we have in Jesus
Jessica Harris has first-hand experience of what it is like as a woman to face the shame of porn addiction when it was assumed to be a man’s issue. Statistics show that there is a rising number of women who have sought out sexual content to view; this isn’t a fringe topic and ignoring it won’t make it go away.
That’s why Jessica Harris is committed to breaking the silence, and we are glad to be able to share this conversation with you. Bonnie and Jessica sat down to talk about:
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Jessica’s story of how she overcame the grip of pornography in her life
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Common symptoms of shame and what true freedom looks like
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How followers of Jesus can find true satisfaction for their souls
Jessica Harris is a writer, speaker, and creator of “Beggar’s Daughter”, a blog for Christian women struggling with pornography and sexual sin. She is recognized as a leading voice on the topic of female porn use and addiction in the church. She is author of the recently released book, “Quenched: Discovering God’s Abundant Grace for Women Struggling with Pornography and Sexual Shame”.
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If you were not aware, Canada is one of the few countries in the world with no laws around abortion. That means that a baby's life can be taken at any stage up until complete birth, even at 38 weeks. This is exactly what happened at a Montreal hospital in early February of 2023.
In this podcast, Bonnie and Bryan discuss the heartbreaking realities of abortion and its effects on the nations of the earth.
We cover topics of:
- Human beings are created in the image of God
- Objective vs subjective moral reasoning & a two-tiered worldview
- Abortions connection to sexual immorality
- The Biblical history of human sacrifice in false god worship practices
- Innocent bloodshed & demonic empowerment
- A gospel response to the injustice of abortion.
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There are lots of things that can keep leaders from talking about sexuality. Whether it’s intimidation from the masses or shame from their past, wading into these waters can seem daunting.
Here is Episode 71, Bryan kicks off our two-part series on the 7 ways leaders can start talking about sexuality, by looking at some of the reasons why leaders don’t.
Covered in this episode:
1) Dodging The Need
2)Feeling Under-equipped
3)Shadows from the past.
It’s easy to be overwhelmed by the hyper-sexualization of our society. Often, we see what is happening as new when in actuality it is just re-packaged. Modern-day transgenderism and gender theory are actually ancient Gnosticism just wearing a new shirt.
The hope we have is that Jesus used His church of the first century to rescue lost people out of the folly of these ideas. If we are willing to do what they did we can see what they saw.
In this episode, we are highlighting a message Bryan preached at a recent MFI Canada Conference.
He covers:
-The template of Satan’s strategy found in the garden of Eden
-The re-occurring cycle of God’s judgment towards idolatry.
-The hope of the Gospel to bring people out of brokenness into wholeness.
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In Episode 65, we sit down with Ruth Erickson as she unpacks some of the keys to finding healing after a marriage experiences adultery even when the marriage doesn’t survive. Ruth is a mama and step-mama in a beautiful blended family. Ruth has a heart for worship and for helping women, who are recovering from infidelity trauma, find hope & healing and to equip the church to love these women well. God has re-written the most painful parts of her story to prove His promises.
Ruth’s new book, (Un)Faithful, is a guide through the firestorm of infidelity. Ruth Erickson’s story of heartbreak and healing is an invitation for all women who have suffered the betrayal of an affair to discover the depths of the faithfulness of God. Ruth offers wisdom, perspective and hope, standing years beyond her own fire, yet the book also journeys back in time to include riveting and honest poetry and journal entries from her real-time experience.
Wrapped in forgiveness and faith, (Un)Faithful is a raw and reverent journey to healing, whether the marriage survives or not. While every story is unique, this book offers timeless, biblical principles by which any woman can walk into safety and dignity under the covering of a gracious God.
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The gospel of Jesus and sexuality are NOT mutually exclusive.
It’s easy to relegate gospel preaching to only be about the initial introduction to Jesus that leads someone to faith in Him. This, unfortunately, leaves a large space in between the moment of that decision and the moment of someone’s death. So, what happens in between?
This space is where the gospel continues to work as our lives are healed by the good news of Jesus. As Christian leaders, we cant talk about this work without talking about sexuality.
In Episode 56, Bryan and Bonnie share some key points on how we can develop a gospel-centred perspective towards sexuality in our churches and ministries.
They thought that it was all over. They had been high school sweethearts, married for multiple years, but Chris had begun to live a double-life.
Though he was leading worship on Sunday mornings at his church, doubts and questions about his faith were nagging at him. It was a battle in his mind, but also in his soul as he began to live without restraint.
The foundation of their marriage was eroding, and Steph was shocked the day that Chris told her it was over. Shortly after, the divorce papers were signed. But, it wasn’t as over as they thought.
We are grateful to be able to share our conversation with this remarried couple from Out of the Dust music over on The Union Podcast today.
This conversation will help you: - See the value of transparency, starting right now, today - Understand the processes of forgiveness and learning to trust again - Realize the need to put your hope in a God who will not fail you - Find hope that restoration for your soul is always possible through Jesus
You can find this episode over on our website, on Apple, Spotify, or Google Play. We welcome you to subscribe, rate, and share so that these messages of hope can be found by many more listeners who are at a vulnerable spot and need some love!
And be sure to follow along with Chris & Steph to listen to the beautiful music they have released and to see them live!
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Leaders face a cost when they raise their voices on the topics of sexuality and morality. But never forget that the cost of silence is far higher.
And the young generation desperately needs us to pay that price and give them some kind of bearing. Give them some guidance through the minefields of moral relativism, identity crisis, and walking your way back from heartache and shame.
God never shied away from the topics around sexuality that can make us blush and squirm in church auditoriums or Bible study classrooms.
In this episode, Bryan and Bonnie talk about: - the pressures that church leaders are facing - the topics that the next generation desperately need some wisdom on - the link between spiritual awakening and sexual wholeness - how you can take one step forward this year for the sake of your church community
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In this episode, Bryan & Bonnie continue on in the theme of identity and the complexities of the current discussion around gender.
In this episode we cover:
Seeing the topic of gender confusion, with a Biblical and historical lens. Seeing that this topic is not really new.
Recognizing that rigid, cultural stereotypes aren’t placed there by God. There are differences between men and women, and there are unique assignments entrusted to men and women, but there is so much space for individual expression within those assignments.
Knowing the love of God for the “eunuch” , the one who has had surgical alteration to their body in order to resist their biological gender, and that God has a place of belonging prepared for those who would surrender these decisions to Him.
For those who are wrestling - God is coming to you. Just like the account of Jacob in the Book of Genesis, God came looking for a lost confused young man who longed to be blessed in who he was.
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The landscape around gender and identity has changed significantly in the last 20 years. And with this change, new language has developed to express it. But, it leaves many feel like they are falling behind or that they are at risk of being cancelled if they say something wrong.
If you feel like you’re falling behind, you’re certainly not alone. (And the idea of just doing a broad Google search seems like an exercise in futility.) When I recently picked up the book written by Dr. Mark Yarhouse and Dr. Julia Sadusky, I realized that they had compiled so much of the information we are needing today, while maintaining both a compassionate and logical tone.
We are so glad to be able to bring this conversation with Dr. Sadusky to you today. We talked about:
⁃ Why it is so imperative for church leaders to learn about and approach the topic for the sake of people who are looking for guidance and support ⁃ Some key terms and definitions (like even the difference between gender dysphasia and transgenderism) ⁃ key theories about WHY there has been such a steep incline in the number of young people who are identifying themselves in non-binary terms ⁃ the damaging affect of rigid gender stereotypes that have not originated from God, but from culture
I hope you take the opportunity to learn with us today, for your sake, but also for the sake of growing as a compassionate, truthful witness for Christ in your place to influence.
As you listen, we encourage you to share the episode with anyone that is looking for some answers today on these complex issues.
Dr. Julia Sadusky is the co-author of “Emerging Gender Identities: Understanding the Diverse Experiences of Today’s Youth” along with Dr. Mark Yarhouse.
Dr. Sadusky is currently a research fellow of the Sexual & Gender Identity Institute in Wheaton, IL. and an advisor to the Center for Faith, Sexuality and Gender. She is a licensed psychologist based in Colorado, where she offers individual, family, couples, and group therapy in addition to consultations for individuals and families around sexuality and gender.
Do you ever wonder if you should go back to an ex? Were they your best chance for love? Or maybe you are wrestling with the fear that your standards are too high, but you’re not sure what to negotiate on. Perhaps you are even sensing the need to take a hiatus from dating in general because you feel like you are losing confidence along the way. Mandy Hale, the amazing 40 year old single woman and best-selling author of the newly released book, “Don’t Believe the Swipe” has some strong encouragement (and challenges) for you in today’s podcast episode. We talk about: -How your value is not connected to your relational status -The changing landscape of dating in a digital world -Not being afraid to define your deal-breakers and non-negotiables -How to include a support network into your relationship decisions You can follow Mandy online @thesinglewoman, and find more of her content at www.mandyhale.com.
Have you ever gone through a break up?
They aren’t easy. There can be so much pain and emotional anguish connected to them, especially if there have been lines crossed emotionally and sexually.
In this episode Bryan and Bonnie discuss key elements of how to respond and re-focus after a breakup, as well as fight the real lies that will try to speak to you about who you are and what is in your future. We cover these topics: -confronting your past -handling memories -walking out of shame and regret -finding identity and purpose as a single person -identifying true compatibility
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One of the major challenges as a parent, who follows Christ, is to raise your children in such a way that they grow to genuinely love Him too.
In this episode we sit down for part 2 of our conversation with our friend Jim Anderson, to hear wisdom and practical tips on how Jim and his wife Lisa have raised 8 children.
Often we are asked why the topic of God’s design for sexuality and identity is so important to us. We decided that in this episode we would answer that question by sharing our own personal stories and how we ended up starting The Union. We hope that you enjoy it.
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Far too often we separate what it means to be a disciple of Jesus and the choices one makes in the realm of sexuality.
In this episode, Bryan sits down with Adam Narciso and they discuss how vital the connection between discipleship and sexuality really is.
Adam lives with his wife, Jenny, and their four children, in Franklin, Tennessee. He is the author of "New Identity: 30 Days of Prayer for Spiritual Transformation" and producer of multiple e-courses, as well as the Jesus Movement Now Podcast. Since 2009 Adam has trained and mobilized over 40 international evangelism teams and has equipped thousands in the areas of identity, hearing God and evangelism via seminars around the world. You can find him on Instagram @adamnarciso, or on his website www.adamnarciso.com
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Where do you stand on the issue of feminism? Some people hate the word and equate it with being a man-hater. Others embrace modern feminist philosophies without question, eager to throw off all traces of male leadership.
Instead of riding the waves of cultural trends, as followers of Jesus, we have to follow God’s heart, intention, and teachings.
In this episode, you will hear about: ⁃A basic overview of the history of feminism ⁃Where feminism shows up in the Roman Empire (where the early church was planted) ⁃How men can begin to think, serve, and lead like Jesus so that the women around them feel supported, not oppressed. ⁃How women can find identity as followers of Jesus, rather than as victims or goddesses
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Like an inheritance that grows exponentially, God loves to see one generation release blessing onto the next.
Adversely, the Bible talks about a spiritual enemy who does everything in his power to divide generations and cut off God's design for the young.
Too often we are short-sighted and impatient, wanting to experience personal ease at the expense of the younger generation.
In this episode, we look at Scripture to see:
⁃ How God’s promises can find fulfillment in our children and children’s children
⁃ How our investment into other generations can release healing and blessing in our nations
⁃ How we must face our own pain and dysfunctions for the sake of our own children and anyone we influence.
God is commissioning His followers to lean into the temporary discomfort and be resolute in sexual morality and righteousness, for the sake of the next generation.The health of a nation is as strong as the church, as strong as the families, as strong as the marriages, as strong as the young men/women
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God thinks generationally with a desire to increasingly BLESS (Abraham, promise comes to him, but isn’t fulfilled until Joseph)
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The enemy hates the young generation. Targets the foundations to cause suffering.
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To invest in the young generation (your children) is to invest in the kingdom (too often we are short-sighted, impatient)
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Redemption always possible with Christ. (Sin of fathers to 3rd and 4th generation, but His mercy to the 1000th generation)
One of the most amazing things about God is that He is able to make things new. Not just “like new” but brand new! He does it time and time again in our life. Bryan recently sat down with Richard and Brittni De La Mora to discuss how Jesus brought Brittni out of the porn industry, and how they processed those dynamics within their relationship to experience God’s new beginning.
Richard and Brittni De La Mora are parents, pastors, evangelists and oversee XXXchurch.com Life didn't always look like this for them. While many once knew Brittni as one of the world's most famous porn stars, Richard grew up in the church. They met in 2013 after Brittni started attending his uncle's church and got married in 2016. They recently founded Love Always Ministries, a ministry that helps people walk in their calling by discovering God's love and leading a victorious life through purity.
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It’s not all sunshine and roses, but there are some key things that we’ve learned that have made BIG differences and helped us weather storms and grow in our relationship.
Recorded the week of our wedding anniversary, we wanted to take some time to reflect on the lessons we’ve learned in our relationship.
Things like:
not putting pressure on your spouse to make you happy all the time & getting needs met by God.
recognizing that your marriage isn’t just about YOU, but is meant to be a reflection on earth of a divine mystery.
having purposeful conversations and boundaries with your spouse in order to safeguard your future together.
What do you do when you are having success in ministry but your internal life is falling apart? What happens when the secret life becomes public?
In this podcast, Bryan sits down with Drew Riach to discuss how he has found restoration after a moral failure as a young church leader. Drew speaks in an honest and transparent way that is truly impacting.
Drew and wife Andrea call Windsor, ON home and pastor Exchange Church. Their heart is to build a community where others can exchange their old way of life for lives that are new and fully alive in Christ.
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It’s not something we’ve talked about before on The Union Podcast, but when I saw Julie Christine share on her IG about the purposeful ways she is building healthy body image in her family, I knew we needed to have her as a guest.
In this episode, Julie and I have some open conversation about Julie’s past experience with a severe eating disorder and her journey back to health.
A few highlights from the conversation for me were: - Identifying that men deal with body image issues too - Recognizing contributing factors that are leading to eating disorders or mental health trouble regarding body acceptance - How having a deeper sense of PURPOSE was a game-changer in Julie’s journey - Words and phrases we can use to set our kids up for success in this area - How to avoid body-shaming without getting trapped in body obsession, avoiding the objectification or exploitation on digital platforms.
Marriage can be challenging...scratch that, it is challenging. But it is so worth it!
In this podcast, Bryan & Bonnie Pue discuss the unique dynamics in the early years of marriage. They unpack the foundation of the powerful effect of the marriage covenant, as well as, ways to express expectations and communicate clearly.
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What a world we are living in! Who would've thought we'd be confronted with some of the major changes that we have been. For many of us, these changes to life's routine and the fear of what may be ahead has caused a substitution of pain for pleasure. In this episode, Bryan and Bonnie Pue sit down to discuss the realities of running to a sexual experience to escape from fear, confusion and high levels of stress, and how we can access power to heal and be in peace.
Wow! Things sure have changed in the world. We hope that with all the upheaval of life due to Covid-19 you are able to take time and renew your mind and soul with God's truth. In this episode, Bonnie sits down with our good friend Rae-Anna from Pure Heart Japan and they discuss handling your sex drive while single and how to walk out of shame.
The tendency, in today’s culture, is the thought that you can take whatever path feels right to you and still end up at the proper destination. That may work for getting to the mall but it definitely won’t work for the choices you make around your sexuality.
In this episode, Bryan Pue sits down with pastor, worship leader and fellow podcaster, Joel Ecklund and they discuss how God’s pathway for sexual purity is way better than yours.
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It is so easy to put people into boxes. Quite often it is so we can have a feeling of control. This is no different when comes to the topic of gender.
In this episode, Bryan and Bonnie Pue discuss the effect that gender stereotypes have on culture and how we can have a truthful perspective on the beautiful differences between men and women.
There's an unrealistic expectation to go through life and never have a conflict with those whom you love. Not in marriage or other areas of life is this possible. This doesn't mean that you have to have blowups and blowouts. You can learn to develop healthy processes and keys that will lead you to have fights that are done right.
In this podcast, Bryan and Bonnie Pue share some of their story of learning how to have healthy and beneficial conflict within marriage.
Pornography, adultery, addiction, trauma, STDS and beyond. This is the world people are living in. If we are going to lead effectively at this time, we need to have more than just a couple Bible verses ready to go. We need understanding and compassion.
In this episode, Bryan and Bonnie talk about 4 Keys to Leading with Hope: finding freedom in your own life, thinking generationally, lead preventatively, and recognize the cultural temperature
Quite often it's the little things that can cause the most trouble in a marriage. These little things become big things that then take marriages down. In this episode, Bryan and Bonnie Pue discuss how they have set up practical values and boundaries in order to safeguard their marriage so that it continues to grow strong.
Did you ever have "the talk" when it came to sexuality? Many of us didn't. But, for those of us who did it was a one time, awkwardly drawn out and left us with a huge longing to never experience it again. That can end up being the viewpoint you carry with you into your marriage. Today Bryan & Bonnie Pue discuss how you can reshape your viewpoint of sex within marriage and discover a greater depth of unity and intimacy in sexual experience within your marriage.
In episode 11, The Union team member, James Reath joins up with Bryan Pue to discuss some keys to experiencing consistent freedom from porn through genuine accountability. James shares his story of how he was able to experience freedom from porn, and secondary realities, not just by stronger external boundaries but through an internal transformation. His journey will give you a new appreciation for beauty and life.
In Episode 10, Bryan and Bonnie Pue discuss the negative effects of porn on culture, the relationships we build and our own mental, emotional and spiritual health.
In this Episode, Bryan and Bonnie Pue discuss the key phases of romantic relationships that are healthy and honouring.
Here in Episode 8, Bryan and Bonnie continue the conversation with Shawn and Keri Harvey about some of the great benefits and challenges of living a single life. If you are single, we hope you will be encouraged to live life to it’s fullest, and if you are in a relationship, we encourage you to be inclusive to the single folk around you.
In this episode, Bryan and Bonnie sit down with our good friends, Shawn and Keri Harvey. We get to hear their story as well as discover some of the key principles they've learned in order to navigate the journey of singelenss.
In this episode, Bryan and Bonnie Pue discuss the why guarding the innocence of your children is so vital. As well, as the practicalities of how to do it in an authentic and life-giving way.
As a parent, the idea of talking to your kids about sex can seem like an overwhelming task. There is good news! It doesn't have to be. In this episode, Bryan & Bonnie Pue discuss key principles in how you can talk to your children about sex in an honest, safe and respectful way.
In this episode, we continue our conversation with Pastors Mitch & Bonnie Borrows on how the church they lead was able to grow in a healthy atmosphere regarding shame.
In this episode, Bryan sits down with Pastors Mitch & Bonnie Borrows of HillCity Church. They discuss how they were able to lead the church into a place of vulnerability, transparency and safety for people dealing with sexual shame and guilt.
Have you ever felt shame? The truth is, we all have felt shame at one time or another. Unfortunately, many people today live, trying to cope, under the overbearing weight of it. In this episode of The Union Podcast, Bryan and Bonnie Pue discuss what shame is, how it works and how to process it in order to live free.
In this episode of The Union podcast, founders Bryan and Bonnie Pue discuss how when the truth of God’s design for sexuality is spoken and applied to our lives, it has great power to break shame. We also discover how the simple act of confession can be a great weapon against condemnation and isolation.