The Simply Wealthy Podcast was born to redefine the thoughts and beliefs that people have about wealth. It is hosted by Sharkina Parker who realized that wealth is all about mindset and the behaviors that follow. We create our own realities and each week you will hear enlightening messages relating to how faith, consistency, confidence, relationships, wisdom and money all work together to create the lives we want and deserve.
Sometimes the shift is the scariest part.
It makes you feel like. you don't exactly know who you are yet you're further away from who you've been.
This is because becoming someone different means experiencing something different as well.
In this episode we discuss:
-How to remind yourself of your why to stay the course
-Allowing newness
-Training yourself to believe that you deserve it
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Have you ever felt trapped by your circumstances?
So much so that you feel like you've adopted a habit of struggling which leaves you unmotivated and uninspired?
Honestly, it's more common than you think.
However, you are actually trapped in your behaviors not your circumstances.
In this episode we discuss:
-Deciding what you are ordering for yourself
-What fragile thought patterns currently exist
-Identifying the lasting change to dissolve those thoughts.
This is how you build your belief to support building your life which not only shifts your relationship with yourself but your external reality as well.
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It's easy to feel uneasy in new spaces.
It can make you question yourself and ultimately cause you to shy away from the things that you know that you want.
This is because you are connecting your value to what you do.
In actuality, your value comes from who you are not what you do.
In this episode we discuss:
-Understanding how you got to a particular place
-How your value is connected to your personal evolution
-The importance of consistency
All of these are the foundational building blocks that strengthen and stabilize your personal value which helps you to build your belief in yourself and what you are deserving to have in this lifetime.
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Sometimes your best does not look like what you expected.
These are the times when you have to decide if you're more attached to the look of it or the process to truly obtain what it is that you want.
There are times when it looks like a waste but in actuality it can be a form of redirection.
Tune in with yourself always.
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It's normal to want to progress to a new stage in life but feel anxiety about it.
However, it becomes a problem when that fear and the feelings of resistance overpower you.
This is when you have to be intentional about remembering that it is you against you.
In this episode you'll learn how to:
Identify intentions over fear
Learn to guide your behavior instead of giving in to it.
Prove your abilities to yourself but doing one thing one time.
These elements collectively will help you identify who you are in your effort to become a better version of yourself which will ultimately lead to all the small wins that make up your specific version of success.
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Have you ever felt like people just don't get you?
The thought of it just makes you sad so you find yourself "being humble" and avoiding the process of breaking through your own barriers.
You think that this will create peace in your environments but it really doesn't.
It just continues the cycle of neglecting yourself.
It's like cancelling your own plans to do something you enjoy in order to please someone else.
What you need to know is that elevation requires separation (initially).
A few ways to transition into this process smoothly are to:
-Write down where you are, how you got there and how to resolve it
-Get comfortable with getting uncomfortable in all areas of life.
This allows you to get clear in order to activate your elevation which essentially helps you to move through your own process with an understanding of the importance, and what clearly needs to be left behind.
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Have you ever felt scattered and felt like you were creating more confusion?
Then you find yourself sitting in your overwhelm and not getting anything accomplished.
This is when you just sit on the couch and act like no responsibilities exist 😂.
However, your attitude predicts your results.
This means that you can't go into something new already counting yourself out.
Check in to this episode to unpack how you can continuously explore more without the burnout.
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Have you ever felt like no one gets you?
Then you unintentionally settle in your smallness because you're in disbelief that your true people are out there.
This is the exact space that keeps you where you are and prevents you from going where you want to be.
Instead, realize that your tribe will match your vibe.
-match you mentally
-match your hobbies/conversation
-math your intentions monetarily as well as your overall dreams.
This allows you to grow into who you really are and live more of a purpose driven life instead of a problem filled life.
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Have you ever felt so overwhelmed that you couldn't even think clearly?
Only to realize that the lack of clarity that you're experiencing is increasing the intensity of the overwhelm, so much so that you're overwhelmed from the inability to make a decision.
I get it and it's very normal.
However, you have to understand that difficult decisions should always be directed towards supporting the future version of yourself that you're shifting into.
Start by:
-Think about what you want and not where you are currently
-Practice making daily decisions that support becoming that version of you
-Give yourself permission to grow through the associated discomfort
All these things work together to help you to consistently practice what you want instead of simply saying what you want, which increases your ability to participate in creating your life instead of simply existing in a life that is created for you.
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Have you ever checked who you're connected to?
You know that your influence is determined by who influences you, yet you don't check in on your influencers.
As crazy as that sounds, we all do it.
We collect people throughout our lives that we don't even vet.
That is until we feel like something is off.
But why do we wait until it gets bad to notice negativity or simple disruptions in our atmosphere.
If you've never taken the time to thoroughly assess who you're allowing around you and within your influence this episode is for you!
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It really is you versus you.
However, sometimes you are the problem, but you might not be aware of it.
Your habits are the indicator but it's up to you to pay attention.
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There is no shame in quitting.
In actuality, quitting sometimes gives you the space to do the things that you're meant to do instead of simply the things you feel like you have to do.
It's the fear of others that try to keep us stuck in the space of struggle (unintentionally), which leads us to believe that we should be grateful for the bare minimum.
However, your pivot opens your possibilities.
In this episode we'll discuss:
-Why your pivot induces fear and how to navigate that
-What pivoting allows you to gain
-Why pivoting leads you back to yourself.
If you feel like it's time for you to pivot but your attachment to your money is currently holding you back, I invite you to check out my newest course Prepped to Prosper where you'll learn how to position yourself to make more money with ease.
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The thought of failure induces fear.
However, resting in the idea of fear adds negative possibilities before they even happen.
It's like making an issue that was never an issue before 🤔.
Whether, you realize it or not failure is simply feedback:
-Feedback for what you need to learn
-Feedback on what you need to give up
-Feedback on what you're unwilling to do that will benefit you
In all, failure is simply a blueprint to navigate towards your desired result if you're willing to accept it to change your lifestyle.
However, if you still feel like you're stuck in between knowing something needs to change yet are still crippled of the fear of the unknown, my course Prepped to Prosper is for you.
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Being treated less than you deserve is tired.
It causes you to do things that don't add to your growth.
It causes negative shifts in your energy and overall attitude.
It's like doing an activity with your friend that you have no interest in only to hate it the entire time.
However, you must evaluate what you value, not only what values you.
Start by:
-identifying what interests you that you can add to
-identifying who you can partner with to add value to you
This allows you to operate in the value you bring from your worldview and experience.
You'll feel valued and your actions speak for you which then open other doors for you.
You’re not responsible for doing everything but you are responsible for who you’re being.
Who you’re being is what impacts your overall well being including the money that you receive.
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Feeling stuck is not a fun experience.
However, it gives you access to information that you would have otherwise continued to avoid.
Being stuck is equivalent to a pause.
That's it.
In most cases, it is a form of redirection to get you to pay attention to the things that actually matter for your personal and external wellbeing.
So if you're currently feeling stuck and know that something needs to change and desire to make the first move to regain your clarity, check out the 5 Ways to Get Mentally Unstuck Guide.
Link is here!
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Everything does not have to be hard.
This is how you lose your enthusiasm as well as yourself.
You lose your identity, and your joy.
However, you will never make more money than your mind will allow.
This requires you to stretch your mind, your contribution and your value in order for your new input to be demonstrated in your external output.
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Patterns continue to exist in different forms until you address the root cause.
This can cause you to feel frustrated because you know that there is a problem yet you don't know how to fix it.
However, self sabotage is rooted in self.
This means that your focus should be geared towards why the behavior is occurring instead of simply focusing on changing the behavior.
This will strengthen your sense of self control as your default setting which support you in your personal journey.
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Do you ever get tired of just figuring it out?
You find yourself just doing any and everything only to realize that your day is just becoming busy but you've entered a pattern of really doing nothing at all.
However, hustle culture is not sustainable.
It increases burnout which causes you to feel like you always need to "catch up".
To reduce this you need to:
-Identify your value as a person
-Redirect yourself where it is valuable
-Identify what's holding you back
This allows you to continuously choose yourself while navigating your life will ultimately lead you to your money.
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Feeling like you are a burden to other people is a real thing but have you ever asked yourself why?
Why you carry extra baggage around and call it humility.
Only to feel under appreciated, undervalued and unmotivated.
It's like doing something to surprise someone only for them not to care at all.
However, it's easier to stay in your ego than to let go.
Here's why:
-It reveals vulnerability
-Pushes you to work on your shadow areas
-Forces you to practice new ways of being.
These key things allow you to fully express yourself in the truest way possible.
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Letting go of control is no easy task.
It makes you feel uncertain and develop fears because it feels like an unsafe experience.
However, holding on to your idea of control is only limited to what you currently understand.
In other words control:
-makes life harder
-signifies that you don't believe that there is more for you
-ignore people and opportunities meant for you but are not packaged in your limited awareness
In order to reverse this, you must allow yourself to go through the process of experiencing something new.
Over time, this trains you to see more and be more than what your current limits have the capacity for.
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Have you ever ran away from the discomfort that you know that you need to deal with?
It's as if the discomfort is so overbearing that you just can't deal with it (and you don't want to either).
This immediately makes you want to go and do something rewarding.
Just because 🤷🏽♀️.
However, there is comfort in discomfort.
-comfort in your mentality towards where you're going
-comfort in realigning yourself with your purpose
The list goes on and on.
Adjusting to this mindset will allow you to navigate the discomfort within yourself to move through your own journey.
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Is overworking your success strategy?
So much so that you've been normalizing struggle.
It's the "late nights early mornings" mentality which ignores your emotional well being until it eventually catches up to you.
However, struggle is unnecessary.
It comes from:
-Not understanding yourself
-Common form of operating
However, intentionally reprogramming your patterns will allow you to experience the opposite of what you're currently experiencing.
This not only helps you to increase your belief in your ability to have what you want, but to actually experience it as well.
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Feeling uneasy at the thought of not having money can be normal.
However, it can cause you to do more to ease the feeling of not having it which adds more burnout and emotional stress to your life.
You find yourself not being able to think straight.
You're less productive yet you convince yourself otherwise.
However, your financial trauma will always lead you until you decide to lead yourself.
You must:
-identify your dominant programming in order to identify your relationship with money
-decide what is working for you and what is not working for you
This allows you to emerge yourself in the process of your own healing to unravel old beliefs and ways of processing in order to replace it with something that not only feels good, but is also more sustainable to your well being.
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Have you ever felt that if you didn't have a certain amount of money that you would just fall apart?
You find yourself consistently thinking about money and surviving that you leave no room in your life to see or engage in other opportunities to increase your finances.
However, your finances are a reflection of the story you have related to money.
For example, if you think making money will be hard that is exactly how it will present itself.
You must:
-Identify how you learned about money
-Identify the energy behind how you learned about money
-Identify how it impacted your view and how you currently operate.
These factors will allow you to see what your current programming is and define your next steps in changing it.
This also helps you to expand your limited mindset and allow you to develop a new story that supports you instead of one that disrupts you.
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Have you ever felt so overwhelmed that you couldn't even think clearly?
Only to realize that the lack of clarity that you're experiencing is increasing the intensity of the overwhelm, so much so that you're overwhelmed from the inability to make a decision.
I get it and it's very normal.
However, you have to understand that difficult decisions should always be directed towards supporting the future version of yourself that you're shifting into.
Start by:
-Think about what you want and not where you are currently
-Practice making daily decisions that support becoming that version of you
-Give yourself permission to grow through the associated discomfort
All these things work together to help you to consistently practice what you want instead of simply saying what you want, which increases your ability to participate in creating your life instead of simply existing in a life that is created for you.
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Sometimes all it takes is courage.
You, your courage, your confidence and your authenticity
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Have you ever felt drained from putting everyone else first?
So much so that you find that putting everyone else first is becoming a task and one that you never signed up for.
Now you feel overburdened but you also try to manipulate yourself to think you're being of service.
However, this trains people to continuously take from you because you've trained them to think that you're always available.
In reality, the truth is that you should put yourself first and the rest will follow.
You do this by:
-Setting a specific time aside just for you (without interruption)
-Start inputing more than you output
-Value your yes
These things help you to regain your energy which will allow you to operate from a willing place to help others instead of force.
These also allow your life to include you at the center in all ways always.
Over time, you'll notice quicker, sooner, faster when you feel off and make adjustments immediately.
This also keeps you in a place of managing your peace on the front end instead of on the back end.
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The idea that consistently doing more is the only way to have more is expired.
This mentality causes you to miss out on identifying yourself in the process because you're always in a mindset of operating that puts your lifestyle before yourself instead of yourself before your lifestyle.
It like saying you're going to workout after you run all your errands only to not ever make it to the gym.
A complete fail.
Instead, identify who you are which will then allow your lifestyle to match that.
Operate from a space of clarity that requires work but without the force.
Have a wiling attitude to engage in your endeavors because they nourish your soul and not just your pockets.
Do more with less effort in order to give yourself the ability to create more and have more while not losing yourself in the process.
All these things work together to release the unnecessary stress and tension.
They also get you in the mindset of operating from a deserving space instead of simply a begging space because you are deserving simply for who you are.
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Feeling nervous is not something that should stop you.
Even though you might might fully understand why you have a desire for more allowing panic to rule you will only cause you to run away from your idea instead of explore it.
However, you must realize that you have a contribution to the world.
-It starts with an idea/urge
-You must identify how to protect that idea by inviting things that align with it and disregarding those things that do not.
-Part of the process requires learning (which also creates more joy around it)
-Lastly, you must make a decision. Deciding signifies agreement.
All of these things help to relieve you of the internal pressure and truly rely on what feels good and true to you, which will ultimately give you the courage to get back to you.
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Being treated less than you deserve is tired.
It causes you to do things that don't add to your growth.
It causes negative shifts in your energy and overall attitude.
It's like doing an activity with your friend that you have no interest in only to hate it the entire time.
However, you must evaluate what you value, not only what values you.
Start by:
-identifying what interests you that you can add to
-identifying who you can partner with to add value to you
This allows you to operate in the value you bring from your worldview and experience.
You'll feel valued and your actions speak for you which then open other doors for you.
You’re not responsible for doing everything but you are responsible for who you’re being.
Who you’re being is what impacts your overall well being including the money that you receive.
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Sometimes you just have nothing left to give.
You find yourself not thinking just doing.
So much so that there is no room for long term thinking because you're always in a quick fix and right now type of mentality.
However, your finances require planning and failure to plan is planning to fail.
This requires you to remove something to add something new in
This should be out of your routine that doesn't necessarily relate to money.
This also forces you to see what's missing in your life that you want more of.
This also strengthens your mental capacity to go through the process of change to have the capacity to incorporate it into your lifestyle.
Once you engage in it, you'll realize the benefits of it and it will help you to start being intentional about planning your money so that you receive more that life has to offer while relieving yourself of your financial burden.
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Effort can be demonstrated but directed in the wrong places.
This is how you develop comfort in a routine that doesn't provide you the life comfort that you desire.
As a result, the longer you stay in this position the less encouragement you have to move on to bigger and better things which means more misplaced effort and more misplaced money.
Instead, direct your effort and your energy to be in alignment with what feels natural to you instead of what's being forced upon you.
Not only does this allow you the space to discover what that thing is, it influences you to get into the habit of feeling good about who you are and what you give your energy to.
This promotes feeling good so you that you can do good, which means your effort is applied to something you like to produce the money you like to see.
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Have you ever been been grateful for an opportunity yet still felt unqualified?
It's like you're stuck between thank you and no thank you 🥴.
Then you find yourself questioning your ability to develop and maintain what is being given to you, even though you asked for it.
The conflict gets real
However, feeling unqualified simply shows you where you personal work lies.
-It gives you your personal blueprint for personal growth
-It trains you to look within instead of outside of yourself
Collectively, it allows you to take the necessary steps to overcome your own internal barriers in order to rely on yourself to qualify your needs.
This is essential in order to develop your mindset, skillset and overall willpower to not only meet your needs but inspire and obtain your wants as well.
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Achievement is not the end goal.
You can be in a cycle of consistently looking at your output that you fail to look at yourself and your true needs.
This can keep you in a way of thinking that trains you to believe that your only source of validation is by looking at the evidence of things that other people have applauded you for.
However, it's essential to realize the true essence of this life is to achieve different levels of fulfillment not just achievement.
Start by:
-Realizing that your experiences serve as your blueprint and the building blocks of life.
-Identify patterns that continue to come up for you and make a conscious choice to explore them.
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Have you ever been confused about the boundaries between being humble and being distracted?
It's like you still stuck and feel bad but you're not exactly sure why.
Then you realize that you're only wasting time, energy and effort in that space which is not at all improving or benefiting your life.
This typically stems from the idea of money.
However, money is simply a resource that is used to determine value.
-More money allows you to invest in yourself in areas that you need (i.e. family, owning homes ,etc.)
-More money allows you to have access to more places which expand your mind and your abilities which leads to more representation.
-More money allows you to invest in your wants (and not just your needs) which allow you to program yourself to believe that you can have what you want without limitations.
All of these areas help you to invest in yourself as well as your wealth.
This then creates a cycle of being willing to create more for yourself by choice instead of by force.
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Have you ever felt like you wanted to shrink because you felt unprepared?
Unprepared for the vulnerability that is necessary for your next level.
So much so that it causes you to avoid your progress and your overall prosperity.
It's like trying so hard to avoid someone else that you miss the opportunity that was in your presence that could have been what you've been asking for.
It happens to all of us.
However, your maximum reward will be granted through stepping into your potential.
You can start by:
-Identifying what you would like to get back involved in (big or small)
-What makes this important to you
-Why you believe you should have this in your life and identify why you deserve it.
These things allow you to start the process of seeing yourself as deserving which will then helps you to operate like you deserve all things.
This will also help you to continue to unlock doors for yourself and gain confidence in doing so which translates into a new way of being to have more of what you actually want and less of what you don't want.
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Have you ever felt like you don't know what to do yet you feel so uncomfortable in that space?
You feel like you're losing control and mentally you feel like you're doing something wrong yet you don't have the answers 🤔.
It's like when you try to put something together yet for some reason the pieces aren't creating the image that the picture says it's supposed to create.
So frustrating I know
However, what you need to know is that giving up control is how you get unlimited access.
This is because control is limiting. It only allows you to operate from what you currently know.
-Letting go of control allows you to open your mind
-If you want something that you haven't had before your awareness has to change
These things will allow you to cultivate a sense of calmness that will serve as your default setting instead of control.
This will allow you to become more, do more, and have more overall.
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Simplicity can make you emotional.
Weird right?
However, often times you ignore your true needs for your desires.
This comes off as hardworking and allows you to convince yourself that you're just goal oriented.
However, these are a few things that I want you to consider:
-Who are you when you aren't directly speaking about your goals and/or money
-Be willing to go through the process of discovering your true identity and be okay with starting with the basics.
This is allows you to get back to who you truly are, which allows you to create a reality that feels good and looks good instead of just looking good.
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Have you ever felt like people just don't get you?
The thought of it just makes you sad so you find yourself "being humble" and avoiding the process of breaking through your own barriers.
You think that this will create peace in your environments but it really doesn't.
It just continues the cycle of neglecting yourself.
It's like cancelling your own plans to do something you enjoy in order to please someone else.
What you need to know is that elevation requires separation (initially).
A few ways to transition into this process smoothly are to:
-Write down where you are, how you got there and how to resolve it
-Get comfortable with getting uncomfortable in all areas of life.
This allows you to get clear in order to activate your elevation which essentially helps you to move through your own process with an understanding of the importance, and what clearly needs to be left behind.
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There is always so much to do yet so little time.
When you feel like this do you ever find yourself just sitting there wasting time that you know you need to actually be doing the "things" 😂.
Only to get behind thinking that just sitting there was helpful 🥴.
We've all done it (more times than necessary haha).
However, you don't need more time, you need more discipline.
Start by:
-Dividing your life between personal and professional responsibilities
-Create subcategories for each category (i.e. self care and housing)
-Have specific days that are themed for certain things (i.e Self Care day)
-Leave room for thinking or "what if"
These methods help to train you to have a more focused day with time to reflect and rearrange as necessary.
Most people forget to consider space to rearrange or room simply for miscellaneous things that come up which causes them to slip into overwhelm and get off track.
By having these things in place, you allow yourself to clearly see what you did and did not get done in the day/week and the extra time that you gave yourself to fulfill those things.
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Is overworking your success strategy?
So much so that you've been normalizing struggle.
It's the "late nights early mornings" mentality which ignores your emotional well being until it eventually catches up to you.
However, struggle is unnecessary.
It comes from:
-Not understanding yourself
-Common form of operating
However, intentionally reprogramming your patterns will allow you to experience the opposite of what you're currently experiencing.
This not only helps you to increase your belief in your ability to have what you want, but to actually experience it as well.
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Have you ever felt like no one gets you?
Then you unintentionally settle in your smallness because you're in disbelief that your true people are out there.
This is the exact space that keeps you where you are and prevents you from going where you want to be.
Instead, realize that your tribe will match your vibe.
-match you mentally
-match your hobbies/conversation
-math your intentions monetarily as well as your overall dreams.
This allows you to grow into who you really are and live more of a purpose driven life instead of a problem filled life.
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Unsure of how to get to a place of clarity that feels good for you?
You're clear that you want more and that your right now is not working for you.
It's like finishing a puzzle that you've been working on for a while to figure out.
However, the biggest key is that you mind has to be set.
-Set on the money you need and/or want.
-Set on ways to strengthen your mind to believe you can attain it.
-Set on ways to strengthen your mind on how to make it simple.
-Set on strengthening your mind to view yourself as an asset in all ways.
This allows you to reset your default thinking to prosperity instead of limitations.
Over time, this shifts your patterns from begging to expectation.
This is why I have created and now have enrollment open for my coaching program Prepped to Prosper.
So if you're ready to stop chasing money and desire to create more clarity, consistency and cash to buy back your time without doing more Prepped to Prosper is for you.
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Working for money is the minimum not the maximum.
Not only is that thought process exhausting, once you receive the money you need now you're left to think about "what else"?
This is where you start to feel confused as to what the trajectory of your life because you've struggled this long to get the money.
This is why working for money is only the starting point and not the end point.
Consider these things:
-Work for money to become self sufficient
-Expand your mind and your capacity to become self actualized
-Expand your resources to become self less.
This helps you to develop the dominant mindset to stop working for money and work on yourself to attain the money.
This then serves as a catalyst to do things you're truly connected and committed to instead of things that bring up resistance for you.
This is why I have created and now have enrollment open for my coaching program Prepped to Prosper.
So if you're ready to stop chasing money and desire to reclaim your time and energy this is for you.
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Do you find that your mind is always cluttered and unable to focus?
Then you find yourself frustrated, overwhelmed and in an overall lack of motivation.
Worst of all you might not even realize where any of this came from.
However, the secret is that your environment is either draining or pouring into your energy tank, you're just not paying attention.
-Chaotic environments produce chaotic results
-Chaotic friends turn into chaotic situations
-The focus does not need to just be money but how that money can get you into a different environment.
-New environments cultivate results that are conducive to what you want
All these factors help you navigate with more intentionality and understand that you can't be any and everywhere.
Ultimately, this is what then allows you to clearly identify the differences in how you feel in difference environments which is the guide to help you not only in your personal life but your professional life as well.
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Have you ever wondered how you do one thing to relieve one problem and that same thing seems to add an additional problem?
Then you're in a spin cycle of stress and you realize you've stretched your capacity in the wrong areas.
(the chaos of it all 😫)
However, what I need you to know is that instead of looking at the external need, look at the internal qualities that would be necessary to fulfill the need.
This will help you to:
-Have intangibles that can be used elsewhere and built upon
-Establish versatility in your personal portfolio
-Eliminate fear that is associated with starting over
All of these things will be the foundation in preparing you before things occur so that you can pace yourself when they do come.
Also, this is how you develop a mindset of resourcefulness instead of one that is simply reacting.
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Feeling nervous is not something that should stop you.
Even though you might might fully understand why you have a desire for more allowing panic to rule you will only cause you to run away from your idea instead of explore it.
However, you must realize that you have a contribution to the world.
-It starts with an idea/urge
-You must identify how to protect that idea by inviting things that align with it and disregarding those things that do not.
-Part of the process requires learning (which also creates more joy around it)
-Lastly, you must make a decision. Deciding signifies agreement.
All of these things help to relieve you of the internal pressure and truly rely on what feels good and true to you, which will ultimately give you the courage to get back to you.
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Are you struggling with feeling like you're not enough?
If so, you might not realize it but you're promoting and strengthening inadequacy.
Unfortunately this leads you to walk into self defeat and continue to convince yourself of your "not enoughness".
However, you must realize that everyone starts from the beginning.
In order to move through this gracefully you must:
-Not knowing is a form of motivation
-The more you know the more you'll get comfortable in the stages of not knowing
Understanding these key concepts allows you to strengthen and expand your capacity which allows you to expand and move into who you really are without the burden and limitations put on you by other people.
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When you know you need to improve an area of your life it can be exciting yet scary.
It's like you're mentally willing to take on the task, but you're frightened because it opens you up to your own triggers.
In reality, you might not have truly been taught to stand on your own without the permission of other people.
However, it is important to realize that no one is coming to save you and that you have to be willing to save yourself.
This comes with the acceptance of what is and the willingness to change.
You must check what you're attached to and be in the mindset of moving so that doors of opportunities can present themselves instead of operating from the perspective of seeing the doors first and then moving.
This will allow you to operate from a place of expansion and over self trust and improvement.
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Have you ever stopped to think if you are unconsciously placing your life in the hands of someone else?
If so, you might feel tricked and that's fine (initially).
It might also make you think about how you perceive yourself and the world around you.
However, you have to identify who you are by identifying what your own freedom looks like to you
-Identify what freedom would feel like in all aspects of your life.
-Identify what beliefs stop you from pursuing that feeling
-What beliefs do you need to replace those to align with your idea of freedom.
This will allow you to truly see yourself to identify you for yourself and not by someone else.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of understanding patience in achieving any type of success. Patience is an aspect of life that we understand but can easily disregard.
Takeaways:
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Do you find yourself constantly working to feel adequate without actually feeling?
It happens to the best of us.
What you need to know is that what you're really doing is working outside of yourself instead of on yourself.
This essentially makes you disconnected from your own possibilities.
It's like going to work everyday without ever even asking yourself if you even enjoy the work.
When you're disconnected from your own possibilities, you're really disconnected from your belief in yourself and what you can create.
What you need to do is practice building belief through repetition of various forms.
This will allow you to challenge yourself and see your work in action to spark the belief in yourself and continue to operate in it over time.
Once this is done you'll realize that it all comes down to expansion and you'll eventually come to a point where you believe first and you'll be able to flow into whatever it is that you want.
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Feeling ashamed of allowing smaller things to become your priority can be hard.
It can make you feel like you're playing small which then shifts your focus on small things instead of the larger things.
Over time, this can keep you in your comfort zone and settle there.
However there is hope. You must first realize that big things take more work and more effort to maintain.
Start by:
-Scheduling a specific day to focus on the larger habit
-Write down what you want to accomplish in advance
-Give yourself time to think about what doing this task will mean for you
-Actively engage in it
These things will allow you to be proactive instead of reactive in order to clearly identify what you're working towards. This also allows you to have something tangible to come back to get you out of that feeling of being behind.
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Simplicity can make you emotional.
Weird right?
However, often times you ignore your true needs for your desires.
This comes off as hardworking and allows you to convince yourself that you're just goal oriented.
However, these are a few things that I want you to consider:
-Who are you when you aren't directly speaking about your goals and/or money
-Be willing to go through the process of discovering your true identity and be okay with starting with the basics.
This is allows you to get back to who you truly are, which allows you to create a reality that feels good and looks good instead of just looking good.
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You can be confident in your abilities yet unclear how they will be sustained.
This is where self doubt is introduced and your lack of trust in yourself gets stronger which encourages delays in putting actions behind your intentions.
Let's make a perspective shift.
Instead of focusing on sustainability focus on skillset.
This allows you to:
-You'll show up for yourself even without the certainty of someone else responding to you
-You eliminate the begging mentality and replaces it with the brilliance that is you.
All of these things allow you to demonstrate and articulate your value without the need of applause.
As a result your self esteem, your self worth and your self discipline enlarges in environments that once seemed big which then gives your the opportunity to enlarge your resources (i.e. money).
If you're having issues gaining clarity and planning with purpose check out my Clarity and Planning with Purpose Guide.
Link is here!
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I wanted to bring this message back around as a reminder as we slowly enter into 2022 so that your mindset is aligned with your output so that you create better results
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of changing your plan of action without changing your actual goals. When you start something new you don't know all of the intricate aspects necessary in order to accomplish what you want. It's all a learning process that we must go through in order to sustain our success.
Takeaways:
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You can be both embarrassed about your financial situation while trying not to stay stuck in the problem.
However, you will experience an internal battle that causes you to want to force your happiness while trying to forget and change your reality.
It's like a tug between your past which got you to where you are, and the future that you know you deserve.
However, the first thing you must do is just face it 🤷🏽♀️.
From there:
-You need to identify what one step would make the biggest difference currently (add up all the small wins here)
-Stretch your capacity with intentionality.
All of these things will allow you to prove to yourself that you are capable because you'll have proof that you've done it before.
Over time you'll make it a habit to expand instead of shrinking so that you'll continuously expand your mind and magnify and magnetize what you want and what you need.
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It's so easy to feel like there is more that you don't know in comparison to what you do know.
This causes overwhelm and a feeling of "being behind".
Ultimately, this leads to draining of your energy, effort and your overall emotions.
However, it is important to understand that what you know got you to where you are.
In order to continue with your progression with limited overwhelm you must:
-Shift your mindset from "I don't know" to "what do I need to know"
-Follow the next best step (one step forward is plenty).
-Understand that slow and steady is always the right track.
All of these help actualize your own path even if parts of it is already created. With this, you'll begin to influence those around you and inspire them to begin their own journey and create even greater and long lasting impact.
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The thought of reinventing yourself can make you cringe.
This causes you to be resistant to the process altogether and avoid the dismantling process that will be necessary to rebuild.
However, you must realize that there is pain in the process of evolving.
You'll be challenged over and over again but that's normal.
It's apart of the process of building your foundation to freedom based on what you're committed to.
That's why I am now opening up and accepting applicants for my coaching program Prepped to Prosper!!
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This is for you if:
-You're tired fo feeling scattered with no clear direction
-Over it in terms of living in a state of fear of the unknown when it comes to your money
-Tired of being in a constant race that exhausts you in your pursuit for more.
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Doing all things is a form of control.
It looks like being "self sufficient" however it can quickly turn into uninviting help and inviting overwhelm instead.
This also trains people not to extend help to you which keeps you in the mentality of constantly thinking that no one cares.
However, you might not realize that you're stuck because you're blocking receiving and therefore this is something that you need to develop discipline around.
It helps you:
-Heal yourself and your relationship with money
-Clear out your mentality and helps you to stop avoiding the stretching process and let your feelings pass through
Ultimately, you get to choose what you agree to but agreeing to something different is agreeing to the change that you so desperately want and need to unlock the version of you that feels free and fulfilled.
That's why I am now opening up and accepting applicants for my coaching program Prepped to Prosper!!
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This is for you if:
-You're tired fo feeling scattered with no clear direction
-Over it in terms of living in a state of fear of the unknown when it comes to your money
-Tired of being in a constant race that exhausts you in your pursuit for more.
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Holding onto people is not a representation of being humble.
It's actually a hand raise for exhaustion and consistently being unsatisfied.
This causes your energy to be depleted while attempting to remain around people and/or circumstances that do not pour into you.
It's time to let that go.
Let go to:
-Allow you to explore and be more open minded
-Increase your capacity for things that you actually desire
-Establish consistent peace instead of sporadic peace.
Allowing yourself the room to embark on these things will allow you to fully show up for yourself in way that are important to you so that you become a magnet for success.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of understanding your perspectives on life and your day to day activities. Your perspectives determine how you see life and the situations that unfold throughout your lifetime.
Takeaways:
-Do you view things that occur in your life as a current circumstance or an everlasting battle?
-Are you easily influenced by what everyone else tells you or are. you mentally strong enough to discern distractions?
-Your perspective ultimately allows you to identify how you relate to other people.
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Often times we feel overburdened with everyone else's problems and eventually you start to feel as if they are your own.
Then you weirdly feel obligated to come to their rescue even if you're drowning in your own problems.
I know the feeling all too well and unfortunately rescuing everyone else can cause us to neglect our own feelings and ultimately silence ourselves altogether.
We might think that this is humble but in actuality we are always teaching people how to treat us and if we silence ourselves we are telling others that we don't need to be heard.
However, that needs to end and here are some ways to get started:
-Set boundaries for yourself so that you can free yourself.
-Be okay with letting the problems of others fall so you can pick yourself up.
-Understand that finding your voice is the key to finding your originality and that's what gets you back to understanding who you are.
You deserve better and you will receive better.
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If there isn't enough time make the time.
It's not enough to just say "I'm just so busy" because over time you become a willing participant in the delay of your destination and make a choice to exist instead of excel.
You must realize that at certain times in your life, you must choose and agree to sacrifice.
This means sacrificing your time, energy, people and money.
However, you'll start to realize that sacrifice breeds clarity, which allows you to become your own problem solver instead of just a problem complainer.
This will allow you to save yourself in order to adequately save other people at a much greater level.
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It's okay to not know what to do.
However, it is not okay to remain stagnant and allow yourself to continuously fall victim to frustration and give up on yourself.
One experience does not determine the full scope of your reality or the reality that you are attempting to create for yourself.
Instead, realize that clarity comes with consistency.
It's completely fine to not have everything figured out but you need to identify:
-What things do not support your new change(s)
-3 things that you do know that you need to accomplish change long term
-A "what if" strategy for when life and distractions come to get you off track
These key things will allow you to be intentional about having a "maintenance" strategy that goes beyond just doing the activity or activities and allow you to continue your pursuit to a greater you.
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You might think that if it's not hard then there's more to be done.
However, that is a mindset that keeps you in struggle unnecessarily and allows you to constantly operate from a place that prevents you from accepting the fact that certain things are just that simple and only require dedication instead of exhaustion.
Instead, you should place your focus on operating with clear intentions in order to get clear results.
Not perfect results or quick results but simply clear.
This is how you get started:
-Plan intentionally to allow yourself the space to move from a place of stress to progress with clear direction
-Decide time frames that you want them by and be strategic with your time to accomplish those activities.
This allows you to build success habits which help propel your momentum for follow through and continue towards your path of fulfillment.
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Achievement is not the end goal.
You can be in a cycle of consistently looking at your output that you fail to look at yourself and your true needs.
This can keep you in a way of thinking that trains you to believe that your only source of validation is by looking at the evidence of things that other people have applauded you for.
However, it's essential to realize the true essence of this life is to achieve different levels of fulfillment not just achievement.
Start by:
-Realizing that your experiences serve as your blueprint and the building blocks of life.
-Identify patterns that continue to come up for you and make a conscious choice to explore them.
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When you know you need to improve an area of your life it can be exciting yet scary.
It's like you're mentally willing to take on the task, but you're frightened because it opens you up to your own triggers.
In reality, you might not have truly been taught to stand on your own without the permission of other people.
However, it is important to realize that no one is coming to save you and that you have to be willing to save yourself.
This comes with the acceptance of what is and the willingness to change.
You must check what you're attached to and be in the mindset of moving so that doors of opportunities can present themselves instead of operating from the perspective of seeing the doors first and then moving.
This will allow you to operate from a place of expansion and over self trust and improvement.
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It's Our Anniversary!!
One year ago I started this podcast as a way to breakthrough my own barriers.
I wanted to challenge myself to break down the walls that were not serving me.
It was like me against me and I knew that freedom would never come if I didn't actively invite it in.
Like me, you probably know that what you need to do to engage in your own breakthrough but the question is are you willing to participate in the process of saving yourself?
The key is to first make the decision. You'll realize (eventually):
-Your human mind can't process all the ways that your decision will open doors for you which is why you have to take the first step
-Understand that what you desire desires you as well (I keep this mantra close to me)
-Feeling like you are on the edge is the exact place where you receive the next step
-Understand that everything eventually becomes a habit (so the unknown will eventually become your new norm and so on)
Thank you for your continued support! Only up from here ☺️.
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Summer Rewind: This is just a reminder to be proactive in creating more time in your day to focus on the things that have importance and not just urgency.
In this episode, I discuss the importance of understanding what needs to be done less in your life. You deserve to be happy and fulfilled. In order to achieve that goal, you must place less of your focus on things that do not allow you to move forward in life. An important question to keep in mind is to ask yourself "Why am I doing this" in your daily routine. If you don't have a great answer, it most likely means that you are just doing busy work and in a cycle of familiarity.
Takeaways:
-Being busy does not mean that you are productive. In fact extreme busyness makes you feel depleted which blocks creativity.
-You need to develop less assumptions about what people think of you which are usually not even true. Instead focus on yourself and what you need to succeed.
-Distractions come in all forms to trick you into stepping away from the things that can have a true and positive impact on your life. It is essential to identify the difference between taking breaks and creating distractions.
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Sometimes it can feel like you're doing something but nothing all in one.
It's like you're actively doing something while also feeling like there is something missing.
This then causes you to ponder on what's missing only to look up and realize that an hour or two has gone by.
This is how you find yourself stuck in a headspace as a result of identifying the problem but not yet stepping towards an actual solution.
When these situations arise, you have to first realize that you're in a space of doing something that you've never done before which is causing your mind to expand. Next:
-Realize that there will be a period of resistance that will soon fade (don't get caught up in it)
-Allow yourself to into the flow where the answers you seek have room to come to you and ultimately you develop resolutions to previous problems.
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Often times you want answers that you aren't willing to look at yourself for.
You do more of the unnecessary things in your life.
Your emotions get out of control because you feel like no progress is being made.
Yet somehow you always look outside of yourself for the solution.
The problem with this is that you're not giving yourself space to uncover the deep rooted blockage that is getting in your way from receiving what you're asking for.
Although self awareness might be developed in a few areas, you still need to:
-Make sure that your self awareness is balanced in all areas of your life
-Take intentional time to BE STILL (while dropping the narrative that you are wasting time).
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Sometimes you're the cause of you feeling small.
You create self imposed boxes that you put yourself in.
This leaves you feeling crippled and inadequate.
It's like you see the bigger picture but you won't move forward.
The issue is that you've created borders around your life experiences and your perceptions currently match that.
The key is to get out of your head into action by:
-Choose which thoughts you want to engage with (choose your own radio station).
-After thoughts, choose the actions that go along with the thoughts that best serve you (your actions are a direction reflection of your thoughts.
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Sometimes you have to just take a look in the mirror.
You have to realize that you are hiding from yourself.
That you're scared to face the reality of where your life is and how you allowed it to happen.
It's okay. You can turn it around.
Your lack of awareness is not a life sentence.
It's an opportunity to wake up to your power and the importance of your existence by:
-Creating space to identify how you have left yourself open to be at the disposal of others
-Realize what are the things that actually make you happy and feel present
-Choose powerfully to do something different while realizing that it is not humble to disrespect yourself
You are more than capable to make the change, you just have to be willing to.
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Meeting people that align with you in an environment that you've outgrown can feel confusing.
It's like you develop a sense of community that you've never experienced.
You never get tired of the conversations because they always feed your soul and help you discover new things.
The only problem is that you're realizing that you've never had to disappoint people who truly match your hustle, your drive and your personality.
This can leave you at a crossroad. However consider these things:
-Identify what feels right (drop the logic for now) by seeing how your body is responding to your decision and not your mind.
-Ask yourself "is the temporary disappointment of others worth the permanent regret that you will face?"
-Do you feel like there is more to learn where you are currently or are you just collecting appetizers instead of full course meals 🤔
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The inability to truly be yourself can take you by surprise.
You start to question and ask yourself "how is it that I don't know who I truly am?".
You question why you didn't have space in your life to truly and confidently explore your true self.
Then you realize that you have to grow through the conditioning that you've been taught to identify what is for you and what is not.
In order to grow through it to get the other side to freedom you must:
-Realize the current barriers that you have in the current moment that needs to be addressed.
-Identify what actions are necessary to move through it.
-Decide how you will reward yourself once you accomplish these things.
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Plans can start but never get completed which might cause you to feel like a failure and to question if it's even worth trying at all.
It's as if life wants you to be in a constant state of chaos and confusion.
Ultimately, these interferences can cause you to take extensive breaks with no true ending, which then make the decision to get back on track even harder and trick yourself out of staying true to your vision of your life.
In order to protect your vision:
-Determine the timeline that the vision entails
-Identify what success looks like to you within that timeline
-Reevaluate the vision over time as you grow through circumstances within your life.
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Feelings of disruption and confusion can become your norm if you're not careful.
In your attempts to create a life that matches your desire, it can seem as if you're experiencing obstacle after obstacle with no clear ending.
It's as if life is attacking your mind so that it can ultimately attack your future, your plans and your destiny.
However, it's up to you to create barriers to decrease the impact of life beating you up.
Start by:
-Creating a clear vision of what it is that you want.
-Realize that detours are not damaging.
-Understand that your perception influences your possibilities.
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Shifts are constantly taking place that can make you feel unable to get adjusted to your newest level of growth.
The more you mature the quicker that changes occur.
While, you might be grateful on one hand you can also feel like you want to retreat.
However, the problem with this is that you're forgetting that the larger the ask, the larger the task.
Instead focus on these key things:
-Allow yourself to work through your feelings in order to step into your new identity.
-Ask yourself what your current stage of life is preparing you for in the larger scheme of what you asked for
-Remind yourself what it will mean once you conquer this current stage that you're in.
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Are you doing something that seems right but don't feel free?
It's almost as if your internal state and your external reality don't add up.
You end up training yourself to deal with or simply ignore your true feelings because they might seem irrational.
However, the problem with this is that you're training yourself to ignore yourself out of fear.
You must realize these key things:
Realize that sameness is the consequence of mediocrity
You must realize that you have to offer support to yourself initially when you're choosing yourself.
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Life is often times influencing you instead of you managing your influences.
As a result of this, you can easily fall victim to looking at your long days and unwanted tasks as energy stealers.
While, you will always be responsible for something that you don't particularly like or want to be involved in, it is your responsibility to manage your responses to your circumstances.
Otherwise, your days will continuously be unfilled and energy drained before you even get to participate in the day.
This is why you must take ownership of your attitude because this is essentially what affects your altitude. You must remember these key things:
-Your attitude shows the commitment you have to yourself which is then transferred over to everything else that you do.
-A positive attitude helps you look for ways to stay focused on the task at hand instead of focusing on your emotions.
-Your attitude helps you look for solutions to your problems for yourself instead of waiting for someone else to do it for you.
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This episode is meant to be a reminder that you all have the power to reset consistently and constantly.
Each time you do so, you allow yourself to gain more clarity and redirection towards all that you want and deserve.
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Have you ever thought about why you believe what you currently believe?
In this episode, I just wanted to have a candid discussion surrounding beliefs and how they can essentially be blocking you from reaching your desired life.
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When your goals seem out of reach, you can find yourself continuously going through the motions of life.
You feel like something is off but might not have a clear path to help you figure it out so that you can take the necessary action.
So what do you do?
You keep doing your routine behavior while simultaneously knowing that something has to change.
However, what you might not realize is that this behavior is creating a foundation for stagnancy.
Instead you need to focus on these core things:
-Be consistent enough to broaden your awareness to see the opportunities that present themselves to you.
-When you're invited to participate in something that is in line with your intention(s), do it even if you feel unqualified.
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It takes less effort to identify what you don't want in comparison to identifying what you actually do want.
For instance, you might know what your unique style is in terms of clothing. You know the colors that you like wearing and the way you want them to fit.
However, it takes so much effort to pick an outfit when it's time for a specific occasion (I can relate 😫).
This is exactly what we tend to do in our real lives with the important aspects of our lives.
We can identify what doesn't work for us yet we haven't truly taken the time to identify what we want to accomplish in this lifetime.
In this episode, I challenge you to truly identify these key things:
-What gives you fulfillment?
-What would make life feel worthwhile?
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In this episode, I wanted to have a candid conversation about the transitions that I'm having that are leading me to the next phase of life.
However, the perspective is a bit different.
You don't always reach a new phase in life based on negative situations. Sometimes, the changes occur and your growth emerges even when your current situation and experiences are not negative.
This is when it's even more essential to listen to yourself in order to prevent yourself from retreating from your own blessings.
Your elevation is dedicated for your specific timing and it's always up to you to continue to choose the path that you know is meant for you even when it makes you uncomfortable.
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Often times we feel overburdened with everyone else's problems and eventually you start to feel as if they are your own.
Then you weirdly feel obligated to come to their rescue even if you're drowning in your own problems.
I know the feeling all too well and unfortunately rescuing everyone else can cause us to neglect our own feelings and ultimately silence ourselves altogether.
We might think that this is humble but in actuality we are always teaching people how to treat us and if we silence ourselves we are telling others that we don't need to be heard.
However, that needs to end and here are some ways to get started:
-Set boundaries for yourself so that you can free yourself.
-Be okay with letting the problems of others fall so you can pick yourself up.
-Understand that finding your voice is the key to finding your originality and that's what gets you back to understanding who you are.
You deserve better and you will receive better.
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Talent might get you to the door of opportunity, but effort keeps you there.
It is easy to look at other people and get stuck in the cycle of comparison.
You start to think "they're so talented" or "I wish I could (insert here....)".
Now you're all in your head about what you're lacking instead of focusing on your own extraordinary capabilities.
However, effort will always be a prominent factor in success with or without talent. Some key things to keep in mind include:
-Talent might mean that you have to work less initially, but effort is driven by character.
-Your attitude affects your altitude.
-Effort influences feedback which ensures that you're making consistent improvements and allowing others to join you in your journey which is essential for growth.
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Trying to fit into the picture that someone created for you is essentially denying yourself your own desires.
It makes you feel like you're living life for someone else instead of yourself. Over time, you become accustomed to neglecting yourself to the point where it becomes a habit.
However, there is hope! By painting your own picture of your life and determining the impact that you want to make you are:
-Allowing yourself to dream which allows you to get back in touch with your own creativity.
-You give yourself direction which allows you to understand what to focus on and what the next steps are.
-Creating a version of happiness that fits you and who you desire to become.
Don't deny yourself the ability to experience peace and happiness.
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If you've ever felt alone and confused during a phase in life where you've experienced a transition this episode is for you.
Often times, there can be a battle between letting go of the older versions of ourselves while stepping into the phases of growth that lead us to excellence.
Three things to master during these uncertain times are:
-your mindset
-your view of life as you are experiencing change (even if you don't quite understand it yet)
-the impact that your friends and family make on your decisions to step in your greatness.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of building the muscle of making decisions. Although we make decisions daily, not all decisions require us to to truly think and consider the costs or benefits of the decisions that we make. However, by not being intentional in consistently making decisions we can unintentionally be limiting our own ability to develop our beliefs in ourselves.
Takeaways:
-Continue to practice making small decisions quickly. Start small and with things that are timely.
-Make a habit of developing the ability to sort through things within your day that are not worth your time. Time is of the essence and by sorting quicker you strengthen your sense of discernment.
-Always align your decision making with your core values. Always remember that you can always course correct if your decision did not lead to the results that you expected.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of staying connected to other people through every circumstance of your life. Although, it is essential to take time for yourself, having the right people around you will always allow you to grow at a faster pace because of the sharing of ideas and experiences.
Takeaways:
-Having other people perspective's (that you trust) allows you to identify the blind spots that you didn't even know you had. This allows you to truly understand how you're showing up in the world.
-Other people also have the ability to help you break bad habits and develop strategies that support the habits that you are attempting to build. Your old habits cannot go with you in your next level of growth.
-Other people have the ability to identify your gifts and skillsets that can bring awareness to aspects of your life that you need to explore more deeply.
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In this episode, I discuss how we need to be intentional about creating space for our progression so that we aren't overcommitted to others but underdelivering in regards to ourselves.
Takeaways:
-It's time to do some trade ins within our schedule. Trade in tasks, situations and opportunities that are not necessary or beneficial at the moment. This will allow you to buy back your time and space.
-Sometimes technology is wrapped in a box of distraction. It eats away at our time by convincing us that we're relaxing but some of that time can be used to create necessary space for other important aspects of our lives.
-Check your routines to make sure that they are not habits that don't influence progression. Routinely check in to ensure that you are creating space for new habits to be formed.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of understanding what needs to be done less in your life. You deserve to be happy and fulfilled. In order to achieve that goal, you must place less of your focus on things that do not allow you to move forward in life. An important question to keep in mind is to ask yourself "Why am I doing this" in your daily routine. If you don't have a great answer, it most likely means that you are just doing busy work and in a cycle of familiarity.
Takeaways:
-Being busy does not mean that you are productive. In fact extreme busyness makes you feel depleted which blocks creativity.
-You need to develop less assumptions about what people think of you which are usually not even true. Instead focus on yourself and what you need to succeed.
-Distractions come in all forms to trick you into stepping away from the things that can have a true and positive impact on your life. It is essential to identify the difference between taking breaks and creating distractions.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of understanding your perspectives on life and your day to day activities. Your perspectives determine how you see life and the situations that unfold throughout your lifetime.
Takeaways:
-Do you view things that occur in your life as a current circumstance or an everlasting battle?
-Are you easily influenced by what everyone else tells you or are. you mentally strong enough to discern distractions?
-Your perspective ultimately allows you to identify how you relate to other people.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of understanding that building your belief system is simply a skill that takes willingness and repetition. I discuss how our belief systems have been influenced us over time and how to embrace the changes necessary to rebuild new beliefs.
Takeaways:
-You have to nurture your gifts in order to get comfortable with them. Once you develop your personal gifts you have to recognize your ability to accomplish them.
-You have to embrace the changes that are being made as a result of you operating as who you truly are. You must realize that you are growing as a result of your dreams growing.
-Give yourself credit throughout every step of your journey.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of your health in relation to your money. Often times, we think of our health as an option when it should always be classified as a priority.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of developing your network. Your network is your support system and it should always be a priority even if you aren't currently changing major aspects of your life.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of resisting the feeling of resistance that appears when we decide to change various aspects of our lives. It is important to be able to identify resistance because it shows up in different ways that can trick us into staying stagnate and not pursuing our goals and fully fulfilling our ultimate vision.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of distinguishing between time management and distraction management. Time will always be the same but the way you manage your distractions is the choice that puts a vote in for either increasing or decreasing what you accomplish in a day based on the time that is presented. By managing your distractions you are making a decision to manage your life and take control of your destiny.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of examining your mental peace and identifying what areas of your life are disrupting your peace. When your mind is at ease you have clarity and a sense of calm that helps you make the necessary decision to progress forward.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of continually showing up for yourself to avoid falling into the trap of comfort even when things in life are going well. We must continuously grow to reach our next heights even when we are thriving.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of understanding patience in achieving any type of success. Patience is an aspect of life that we understand but can easily disregard.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of partnering with other people in order to increase your skills, reach and expand your mind to unlock new possibilities.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of knowing yourself and being honest with yourself in order to grow and develop. During this process it is essential not to tear yourself down and experience setbacks more frequently because of your inner fears. Growth will occur through each phase of our lives so it's time to embrace it and go through it to grow through it.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of changing your plan of action without changing your actual goals. When you start something new you don't know all of the intricate aspects necessary in order to accomplish what you want. It's all a learning process that we must go through in order to sustain our success.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of understanding your current mindset and how that mindset only feeds your current reality. In order to elevate, our mindsets have to continuously be expanding which in turn expands our perception and awareness of opportunities and areas where change needs to occur.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of allowing each individual person to go through their own journey of change while accepting that change cannot be forced. Also, I discuss the importance of thinking of change in a long term fashion instead of current circumstances.
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In this episode, I have a candid discussion regarding the ways in which our constant consumption might be blocking our progress. Consistent consumption of the things relating to other people block our capacity to understand the necessary things that we should be doing to create.
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In this episode, I have a discussion regarding discipline and how our mentality and behaviors should reflect direction. It is not enough to act without having a growth mentality.
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In this episode, I discuss how your energy is relative to your money. I also give you some tips to shift your energy to ensure that you are showing up as your best self and doing your best work to receive your desired income.
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In this episode, I discuss the ways in which your beliefs shape how you think about yourself and how those beliefs are keeping you stagnant.
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In this episode, I reframe the way in which we think about accomplishments while making it clear that all accomplishments are not associated with money.
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of developing your character as a strong foundation in reaching success in all aspects of life. Character allows you to have a strong mind and focus on what aligns with where you are going in life.
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In this episode, I discuss ways to build and redefine confidence to ensure that we are all stepping into our greatness.
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In this episode, I discuss the different stages of building relationships and why each stage is important in molding us to become the people that we need to be in order to establish long lasting relationships.
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In this episode, I discuss ways to get out of your own way as a mechanism to achieve your goals with the right focus while embracing the process.
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In this episode, I discuss ways to build and redefine confidence to ensure that we are all stepping into our greatness.
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In this episode, I talk about ways to find joy each and every day. It is not an option. It is a necessity. We have to make sure that we practice this so that the various things that happen to us in life don't control the essence of who we are.
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In this first episode, I just wanted to introduce myself and let you all know who I am, what I'm about and a few things you can expect from me and this podcast. I'm so glad you joined me and I look forward to connecting with you all soon!!!
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