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PAT A. - Al-Anon Literature Fan

“CAL Chat” is where we talk about our favorite Al-Anon & Alateen literature and how it has improved our lives.

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In Part 6 of 6 (of Episode 1 from "CAL Chat - Deep Dive"), Evelyn and I talk about the next “field trip” for the Delegates to the World Service Office in 2023. To wrap up this episode, she offers some parting words to anyone that isn’t quite sure about standing for service.

Show-referenced links from Al-Anon's website:

  • Al-Anon's mobile app: https://al-anon.org/mobileapp
  • Archive of all the World Service Conference Summaries: https://al-anon.org/for-members/world-service-conference-wsc/world-service-conference-archive

Additional links mentioned:

  • Stepping Stones website:  https://www.steppingstones.org
  • 1961 Timeline:  https://worldhistoryproject.org/1961

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM EVELYN:

  • "We are all clueless about something in life, because we are all humans."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Courage to Change" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4, Episode 5: part 3 of 4, Episode 9: part 1 of 4, Episode 9: part 2 of 4, Episode 13: part 1 of 11, & Episode 13: part 7 of 11
  • "First Steps - Al-Anon 35 Years of Beginnings"

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In Part 5 of 6 (of Episode 1 from "CAL Chat - Deep Dive"), we focus on the Delegates’ “field trip” to Stepping Stones, the home of Al-Anon’s co-founder Lois W. Evelyn describes how the World Service Office was involved and how it felt to go back to the 2022 World Service Conference the very same day.

Show-referenced links from the Stepping Stones' website:

  • "Homecoming" video:  https://www.steppingstones.org
  • List of books in Lois and Bill W.'s library:  https://www.steppingstones.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/List_of_Books_at_Stepping_Stones.pdf

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM EVELYN:

  • "It is a museum, but it is a house!"

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Lois Remembers"
  • "2022 World Service Conference Summary"

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Continuing the discussion about the "1961 World Service Conference Summary" (P-46) in Part 4 of 6 (of Episode 1 from "CAL Chat - Deep Dive"), I explain how I time traveled as research for this particular show. Evelyn talks about what moved her spiritually and reveals a surprise about the 2022 Conference.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM EVELYN:

  • "...the whole Conference is a spiritual meeting!"

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "The Forum" (magazine) – Episode 5: part 4 of 4, Episode 6: part 1 of 4, Episode 6: part 2 of 4, Episode 7: part 4 of 5, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 12: part 4 of 5, & Episode 12: part 5 of 5
  • "First Steps - Al-Anon 35 Years of Beginnings"
  • "Many Voices, One Journey" – Episode 10: part 4 of 4, Episode 11: part 3 of 4, & Episode 13: part 4 of 11
  • "1961 World Service Conference Summary"

  • "2022 World Service Conference Summary"

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In Part 3 of 6 (of Episode 1 from "CAL Chat - Deep Dive"), we begin to explore the "1961 World Service Conference Summary" (P-46) and what Evelyn identified with from back then that is still happening in 2022. We discuss why the 2021 and 2022 Conferences were historic and what may lie in Al-Anon’s future 60 years from now.

Show-referenced links from Al-Anon's website:

  • Online version of the new "2022 World Service Conference Summary": https://al-anon.org/pdf/P46-2022-web.pdf
  • Archive of all the World Service Conference Summaries: https://al-anon.org/for-members/world-service-conference-wsc/world-service-conference-archive

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM EVELYN:

  • "...we'll survive the most difficult circumstances because of the way the founders of Al-Anon were thinking."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "The Forum" (magazine) – Episode 5: part 4 of 4, Episode 6: part 1 of 4, Episode 6: part 2 of 4, Episode 7: part 4 of 5, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 12: part 4 of 5, & Episode 12: part 5 of 5
  • "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2022-2025"
  • "1961 World Service Conference Summary"
  • "2021 World Service Conference Summary"

  • "2022 World Service Conference Summary"

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In Part 2 of 6 (of Episode 1 from "CAL Chat - Deep Dive"), Evelyn describes what she discovered about her Area Delegate position that she didn’t know about before she stood for it, how humor can be a spiritual principle when breaking down expectations, and what she would like Al-Anon and Alateen members to know about her position as a Delegate. We also cover how the WSC (World Service Conference) is different from the WSO (World Service Office).

Show-referenced links from Al-Anon's website:

  • Online version of the new "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2022-2025":  https://al-anon.org/pdf/P2427.pdf
  • A brief timeline of Al‑Anon’s history:  https://al-anon.org/for-members/wso/archives/al-anon-timeline
  • Frequently asked questions about Al‑Anon’s history:  https://al-anon.org/for-members/wso/archives/faq-al-anons-history

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM EVELYN:

  • "Language should not be a barrier to put your name as a Delegate... overcoming that fear is part of our recovery."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Hope For Today" – Episode 9: part 2 of 4 & Episode 13: part 7 of 11
  • "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2022-2025"

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What really goes on at an Al-Anon World Service Conference (WSC)? How is the WSC different than the WSO? What’s it like for a Delegate to visit Stepping Stones, the house of Al-Anon’s co-founder? Welcome to the very first "CAL Chat - Deep Dive" episode! This spin-off show is where we take a closer look at Al-Anon and Alateen Conference Approved Literature. This episode is in 6 parts and in Part 1, before we dive into the "1961 World Service Conference Summary" (P-46) - which was Al-Anon's first Conference - I introduce Evelyn, an Area Delegate, that has currently attended two Conferences. She compares the experience attending one virtually (in 2021) and in person (in 2022), and how she feels like a Millennial in a Senior’s body. I share about my first interaction with the greater Al-Anon organization when I received a “cease and desist” letter.

To see all the World Service Conference Summaries on Al-Anon's website, visit:  https://al-anon.org/for-members/world-service-conference-wsc/world-service-conference-archive

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM EVELYN:

  • "I knew that I have to follow something in order to have what I saw in other people."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "1961 World Service Conference Summary"
  • "1967 World Service Conference Summary"

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Diane wraps up the conversation in Episode 13's last part (#11), about the beauty that springs from the book "How Al-Anon Works" (B-32), community-building, and doing outreach/Twelfth Step work. She delivers an emotional "Last Words'' section which leads to an exchange of heartfelt gratitude and I reveal the reason why I'll keep doing this podcast for the rest of my life. 🤗

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM DIANE:

  • "...Al-Anon is a way for us to find our own light..."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 1 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, & Episode 12: part 2 of 5
  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 4: part 1 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, Episode 11: part 1 of 4, Episode 11: part 3 of 4, & Episode 11: part 4 of 4

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Diane mentions (in part 10 of 11 from Episode 13), how this podcast inspires her to try something new (like the audiobook version of "How Al-Anon Works" (eA-22)) and always reminds her that she has choices. She explains how the vision motto "Dream Big" applies to the long-term outreach project she's working on, more virtual recovery avenues we want to explore (especially for outreach purposes), and how a pandemic is similar to recovery.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM DIANE:

  • "...our experiences lift us up and not hold us down."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "How Al-Anon Works" (audiobook) – Episode 6: part 3 of 4
  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 1 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, & Episode 12: part 2 of 5
  • "How Al-Anon Works" (electronic book) – Episode 6: part 3 of 4
  • "As We Understood" – Episode 6: part 1 of 4, Episode 6: part 2 of 4, & Episode 10: part 2 of 4

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I compare the audiobook of "How Al-Anon Works" (eA-22) to the print version (B-32) in Episode 13's part 9 of 11. A moving story about suicide, Chapter 27's "Finding Reasons To Live," is highlighted because of what it taught me about expectations when listening to the audiobook version. The show wraps with an update given on all Al-Anon audiobooks available. Lastly, for the 2009 World Service Conference Summary, click this link www.al-anon.org/pdf/P46_​2009_web.pdf  to check out page 14 that is mentioned in this show.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM THE SHOW:

  • "...with the audiobook, my heart was more involved with the listening."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "How Al-Anon Works" (audiobook) – Episode 6: part 3 of 4
  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 1 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, & Episode 12: part 2 of 5
  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 4: part 1 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, Episode 11: part 1 of 4, Episode 11: part 3 of 4, & Episode 11: part 4 of 4
  • "Courage to Change" (audiobook) – Episode 3: part 4 of 4 & Episode 9: part 2 of 4
  • "One Day at a Time" (audiobook)
  • "Opening Our Hearts, Transforming Our Losses" (audiobook)

  • "2009 World Service Conference Summary"

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In Episode 13's part 8 of 11, Diane and I discuss the importance of libraries and how doing outreach is not a duty but a privilege. And she reminds me why I need to go back and listen to my own podcast! Click here for a video of the hardcover version of "How Al-Anon Works" (B-22) that was accepted into a local library. Also, at this podcast show's website,  www.calchatpodcast.com,  I've attached *bonus content* so you can see a screenshot image of the library's unique summary of the book and try to locate where they got the description from. Can you find it? Happy hunting! 🕵️

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM DIANE:

  • "...the rewards aren't in thinking about it, the rewards are in doing it."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 1 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, & Episode 12: part 2 of 5
  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 4: part 1 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, Episode 11: part 1 of 4, Episode 11: part 3 of 4, & Episode 11: part 4 of 4

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In part 7 of 11 (of Episode 13), Diane lists all the Spanish versions of books (such as "How Al-Anon Works" (SB-32)) that she has also included in the public outreach project. We talk about cross-germination and unintended ripples outreach can sometimes have. Lastly, at this podcast show's website,  www.calchatpodcast.com,  I've attached *bonus content* so you can see the final complete breakdown of Al-Anon and Alateen materials in the outreach project gift basket.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM DIANE:

  • "You don't have to get rid of all your worldly goods... to learn how to be kind. Get involved in Al-Anon service and you'll watch it, you'll see it, you'll feel it..."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 1 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, & Episode 12: part 2 of 5
  • "How Al-Anon Works" (Spanish) / "Cómo ayuda Al-Anon"
  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 4: part 1 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, Episode 11: part 1 of 4, Episode 11: part 3 of 4, & Episode 11: part 4 of 4
  • "From Survival To Recovery" (Spanish) / "De la supervivencia a la recuperación"
  • "Hope For Today" – Episode 9: part 2 of 4
  • "Hope For Today" (Spanish) / "Esperanza para hoy"
  • "Courage to Change" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4, Episode 5: part 3 of 4, Episode 9: part 1 of 4, & Episode 9: part 2 of 4
  • "Courage to Change" (Spanish) / "Valor para cambiar"
  • "Just For Today" (bookmark) – Episode 1: part 2 of 2, Episode 10: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 4 of 4, & Episode 12: part 4 of 5
  • "Just For Tonight" (bookmark) – Episode 12: part 4 of 5 & Episode 12: part 5 of 5
  • "Alateen Do’s & Don’ts" – Episode 8: part 2 of 3
  • Al-Anon Newcomer Packet – Episode 1: part 2 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, Episode 10: part 3 of 4, & Episode 12: part 4 of 5,
  • Adult Children of Alcoholics Newcomer Packet – Episode 1: part 2 of 2 & Episode 4: part 2 of 2

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Diane details (in part 6 of 11 from Episode 13), how she uses "How Al-Anon Works" (B-32) for outreach in a broader sense - especially in an extensive relationship-building project that just started. Find out how outreach is like mining gold!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM DIANE:

  • "...having this book available makes a big difference because anybody can pick it up... It's not too deep and it's not too scary."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 4: part 1 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, Episode 11: part 1 of 4, Episode 11: part 3 of 4, & Episode 11: part 4 of 4
  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 1 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, & Episode 12: part 2 of 5
  • "How Al-Anon Works" (Spanish) / "Cómo ayuda Al-Anon"
  • "Just For Today" (bookmark) – Episode 1: part 2 of 2, Episode 10: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 4 of 4, & Episode 12: part 4 of 5
  • "Just For Tonight" (bookmark) – Episode 12: part 4 of 5 & Episode 12: part 5 of 5

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In Episode 13's part 5 of 11, Diane's favorite book to use for outreach is the softcover version of "How Al-Anon Works" (B-32) and she points out how intimate individual outreach can still be done in an electronic (telephone/chat) or virtual (video) meeting. We reminisce about the days when we hauled Al-Anon books around in our cars.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM DIANE:

  • "Somewhere in these pages, folks will possibly see themselves."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 1 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, & Episode 12: part 2 of 5
  • "How Al-Anon Works" (audiobook) – Episode 6: part 3 of 4
  • "How Al-Anon Works" (electronic book) – Episode 6: part 3 of 4
  • 2021 CAL Catalog
  • "2018 World Service Conference Summary" – Episode 12: part 4 of 5 & Episode 12: part 5 of 5

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In part 4 of 11 (of Episode 13), Diane and I keep the discussion going about the book "From Survival To Recovery" (B-21) focusing primarily on the chapter "Untangling Confusion" from page 269 (or 270 depending on the book's edition), the infamous "Promises" section from page 267 (or 269 in the first edition) and the book's very last chapter on page 287 which leads to an idea for a possible workshop! To find a virtual Al-Anon book study group, visitwww.al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings and you can type into the search bar the term: “book,” or “literature,” or the particular book’s title that you’d like to study. Additionally, at this podcast show's website,  www.calchatpodcast.com,  I've attached *bonus content so you can see an image of the "From Survival To Recovery"* special bookmark/order form!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM DIANE:

  • "...there's no predicting anything."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 4: part 1 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, Episode 11: part 1 of 4, Episode 11: part 3 of 4, & Episode 11: part 4 of 4
  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 1 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, & Episode 12: part 2 of 5
  • "Many Voices, One Journey" – Episode 10: part 4 of 4 & Episode 11: part 3 of 4

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The conversation continues with Diane (in part 3 of 11 from Episode 13), about  "From Survival To Recovery" (B-21) which she feels is one of the most relevant books during the Covid-19 pandemic. She talks about what she does after climbing a high recovery mountain and we discuss one of the benefits of the pandemic with regards to literature. To find a virtual Al-Anon book study group, visit www.al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings  and you can type into the search bar the term: “book,” or “literature,” or the particular book’s title that you’d like to study. Last but not least, at this podcast show's website,  www.calchatpodcast.com,  I've attached *bonus content so you can see an image  (or click here for a video*)  of Diane's Al-Anon bookshelf mentioned in this part of the episode!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM DIANE:

  • "...we don't have to go out and grow a new tree!"

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 4: part 1 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, Episode 11: part 1 of 4, Episode 11: part 3 of 4, & Episode 11: part 4 of 4

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In Episode 13's part 2 of 11, Diane describes how cycles of violence and "predictable darkness" affected her while growing up in an alcoholic home. We touch on the story "Authorities Frightened Me" from page 253 (or 255 depending on the book's edition) in "From Survival To Recovery" (B-21) and Chapter 5 ("Becoming Aware" on page 21) from "How Al-Anon Works" (B-32). Lastly, I learn how a book can be a picture frame!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM DIANE:

  • "This book was a part of the freedom to tell the truth."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 4: part 1 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, Episode 11: part 1 of 4, Episode 11: part 3 of 4, & Episode 11: part 4 of 4
  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 1 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, & Episode 12: part 2 of 5

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How is a pandemic similar to recovery? What audiobooks are available from Al-Anon? Can a book also be a picture frame? In part 1 of 11 (of Episode 13), Diane explains why the title of the book "From Survival To Recovery" (B-21) is so appropriate, how it helped her tell her own personal story and experience authentic joyfulness in her life. Also, find out why we can't use highlighters when reading Al-Anon books! Lastly, at this podcast show's website,  www.calchatpodcast.com,  I've attached *bonus content so you can see an image of the two versions of "From Survival To Recovery"* mentioned in this part of the episode!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM DIANE:

  • "This book helped me to be seen..."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 4: part 1 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, Episode 11: part 1 of 4, Episode 11: part 3 of 4, & Episode 11: part 4 of 4
  • "Courage to Change" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4, Episode 5: part 3 of 4, Episode 9: part 1 of 4, & Episode 9: part 2 of 4

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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For more about my journey through Conference Approved Literature 📚 (and other Al-Anon adventures 🤗), visit the "CAL Chat" blog at: www.calchatblog.com. Thanks!

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Terry Anne highlights new upcoming Al-Anon literature in part 5 of 5 of Episode 12 and explains how the motto chosen for the "2018 World Service Conference Summary" (P-46) applies to her own personal life. To submit your suggestion for your favorite "Forum" article that you’d like to see in the new upcoming book, email it to: wso@al-anon.org– be sure to use the working title "The Forum Book" in the email's subject line and they’ll also need to know the article's title, and the month and year in which it appeared in the magazine. Visit this podcast’s website, www.calchatpodcast.com, to download and print out a PDF form if you’d like to send in your suggestions by regular mail. Lastly, to submit your sharing for the new Daily Reader visit: www.al-anon.org/for-members/members-resources/literature/​literature-resources** and click on the blue button that says “Send Your Sharing.”

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM TERRY ANNE:

  • "...there’s always room for me to grow more... I’m so grateful to be a work in progress."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "The Forum" (magazine) – Episode 5: part 4 of 4, Episode 6: part 1 of 4, Episode 6: part 2 of 4, & Episode 7: part 4 of 5
  • "Intimacy in Alcoholic Relationships" – Episode 11: part 4 of 4
  • "The Forum Book" (working title) – Episode 10: part 2 of 4
  • "Just For Tonight" (bookmark)
  • "2018 World Service Conference Summary"

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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In part 4 of 5 (of Episode 12), Terry Anne’s pick for her favorite outreach piece of literature is the bookmark "Just For Today" (M-12) and we talk about how it helps puts the focus on ourselves, not the alcoholic. Then we pull out our "2018 World Service Conference Summary" (P-46) to dive into page 51 regarding the new upcoming bookmark "Just For Tonight" (M-81) that originally came from the August 2016 edition of "The Forum" magazine. To download the free "2018 World Service Conference Summary" so you can see page 51, visit: www.al-anon.org/pdf/P46_ 2018_web.pdf.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM TERRY ANNE:

  • "The phone seems heavier at night."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Just For Today" (bookmark) – Episode 1: part 2 of 2, Episode 10: part 3 of 4, & Episode 10: part 4 of 4
  • "Just For Tonight" (bookmark)
  • Al-Anon Newcomer Packet – Episode 1: part 2 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, & Episode 10: part 3 of 4
  • "The Forum" (magazine) – Episode 5: part 4 of 4, Episode 6: part 1 of 4, Episode 6: part 2 of 4, & Episode 7: part 4 of 5
  • "2018 World Service Conference Summary"

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

  • Pinterest -  www.pinterest.com/​CALChatFan

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  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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Terry Anne (in part 3 of 5 of Episode 12) sums up the new book "Intimacy in Alcoholic Relationships" (B-33) in 3 words! I reveal my favorite sections from pages 18-19 and the story of loss on page 118 that still stays with me.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM TERRY ANNE:

  • "...we’re loved more for who we really are than anyone ever did for who we thought they wanted us to be!" 💗

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Intimacy in Alcoholic Relationships" – Episode 11: part 4 of 4
  • "The Forum" (magazine) – Episode 5: part 4 of 4, Episode 6: part 1 of 4, Episode 6: part 2 of 4, & Episode 7: part 4 of 5
  • "Reaching For Personal Freedom" – Episode 7: part 1 of 5, Episode 7: part 2 of 5, & Episode 7: part 3 of 5

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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In part 2 of 5 (of Episode 12), Terry Anne elaborates on communication from Chapter 3 of the brand new book "Intimacy in Alcoholic Relationships" (B-33). She explains how she has used this book in her personal life in recognizing and moving through old behaviors. We also discuss how labels and biases can hinder intimacy and that this book is an example of our evolving Al-Anon program.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM TERRY ANNE:

  • "...it didn’t seem to matter if you were male or female, ideas that were traditionally masculine were sometimes held by women just as much as a female perspective could be held by a man and I really enjoyed that!"

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Intimacy in Alcoholic Relationships" – Episode 11: part 4 of 4
  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 1 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, & Episode 13: parts 5 - 11
  • "Sexual Intimacy and the Alcoholic Relationship"

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

  • Pinterest -  www.pinterest.com/​CALChatFan

  • Twitter -  www.twitter.com/​CALChatFan

  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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How can it be easier to share about sex? How can spiritual solutions be brought into intimate situations? What new upcoming Al-Anon literature is on the horizon? Terry Anne shares, in part 1 of 5 of Episode 12, about the brand new book "Intimacy in Alcoholic Relationships" (B-33) that came out in 2018 at Al-Anon’s 6th International Convention. We discuss the workshop she once gave on the topic of sex, the different types of intimacy covered, and my strange experience with this book.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM TERRY ANNE:

  • "...many of those relationships have absolutely nothing to do with sex, but they’re still so very intimate, they’re very personal."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Intimacy in Alcoholic Relationships" – Episode 11: part 4 of 4
  • "Sexual Intimacy and the Alcoholic Relationship"

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

  • Pinterest -  www.pinterest.com/​CALChatFan

  • Twitter -  www.twitter.com/​CALChatFan

  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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Susan and I talk about different ways (in part 4 of 4 of Episode 11) to use the book "From Survival To Recovery" (B-21) for outreach purposes – including raffle baskets! We also explore how one can contribute to Al-Anon other than putting money in the Seventh Tradition basket. She singles out the section "Steps to the Future" from page 255 (or 257 depending on the book's edition) and we remember what it was like growing up in an alcoholic home. Lastly, we look forward to the brand new book that will be debuting at the international convention in 2018!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM SUSAN:

  • "I’ve never met an Al-Anon book I didn’t love." 💖

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 4: part 1 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, & Episode 13: parts 1 - 4
  • "Many Voices, One Journey" – Episode 10: part 4 of 4
  • "Intimacy in Alcoholic Relationships" – Episode 12: part 1 of 5, Episode 12: part 2 of 5, Episode 12: part 3 of 5, & Episode 12: part 5 of 5

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

  • Pinterest -  www.pinterest.com/​CALChatFan

  • Twitter -  www.twitter.com/​CALChatFan

  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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In part 3 of 4 (of Episode 11), Susan's pick for her favorite outreach piece of literature is the book "From Survival To Recovery" (B-21) because she grew up in an alcoholic home. She highlights the chapter "Picking Up The Tools" on page 107. We also talk about why 1994 was a good year for Conference Approved Literature (CAL) and how this book marked a turning point for Al-Anon Family Groups.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM SUSAN:

  • "I was an adult before I was the child."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 4: part 1 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, & Episode 13: parts 1 - 4
  • "Many Voices, One Journey" – Episode 10: part 4 of 4
  • "When I Got Busy, I Got Better"
  • "Al-Anon Sharings from Adult Children" – Episode 4: part 1 of 2

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

  • Pinterest -  www.pinterest.com/​CALChatFan

  • Twitter -  www.twitter.com/​CALChatFan

  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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I ask Susan a question in part 2 of 4 (of Episode 11) from page 23 of the booklet "When I Got Busy, I Got Better" (P-78). She explains helping vs enabling, we discuss a quote from page 2, how we could use the second half of the book in a meeting, and the difference between being grateful and thankful. A NOTE OF CAUTION: this is the first episode to include EXPLICIT language, so proceed accordingly!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM SUSAN:

  • "My worth is who I am – not what I do, not what I give you. I’m worthy just because I’m me."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "When I Got Busy, I Got Better"
  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 1 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 12: part 2 of 5, & Episode 13: parts 5 - 11

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

  • Pinterest -  www.pinterest.com/​CALChatFan

  • Twitter -  www.twitter.com/​CALChatFan

  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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Am I the right kind of busy? Where does self-worth come from? Helping versus enabling? Being a victim versus a participant? Susan shares, in part 1 of 4 of Episode 11, about how the booklet "When I Got Busy, I Got Better" (P-78) impacted her life. We discuss the different types of fear in Chapter One, how service keeps us from isolating, & that we're so glad there's no performance review in service work!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM SUSAN:

  • "I used to say I was born angry!"

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "When I Got Busy, I Got Better"
  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 4: part 1 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, & Episode 13: parts 1 - 4
  • "Alcoholism, A Merry-Go-Round Named Denial" – Episode 9: part 1 of 4

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

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  • Twitter -  www.twitter.com/​CALChatFan

  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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In part 4 of 4 (of Episode 10), Wendy shares what she is hoping for with a new change for the upcoming "2017 World Service Conference Summary" (P-46) due in August and what sets this item apart from the rest of the literature in the 2017 CAL Catalog (S-15). She also reveals a unique location to leave the "Just For Today" bookmark (M-12) that is too high of a risky spot for me. Discover what is on the second "Just For Today" bookmark (M-13) and what one word on the wallet card version (M-11) is hidden in our literature! Lastly, if you have an answer to the question posed at the end of this episode, please visit this podcast show's blog website,  www.calchatblog.com**,  to leave your comment at the very bottom of the blog post.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM WENDY:

  • "I hope everyone raises their hand and gets involved in service because it will just springboard your recovery."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Just For Today" (bookmark) – Episode 1: part 2 of 2 & Episode 12: part 4 of 5
  • "Just For Today" (wallet card)
  • 2017 CAL Catalog
  • "2003 World Service Conference Summary"
  • "2017 World Service Conference Summary"
  • "Opening Our Hearts, Transforming Our Losses" – Episode 5: part 3 of 4
  • "Many Voices, One Journey" – Episode 11: part 3 of 4
  • "Just For Today" (Alateen bookmark)
  • "Just For Today" (Alateen wallet card)

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

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  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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The bookmark, "Just For Today" (M-12), is Wendy’s favorite piece of outreach literature in part 3 of 4 of Episode 10. We talk about the current conversation at Al-Anon’s World Service Conference regarding the recommendation to remove the PRAYER FOR TODAY section. Using pages 57 – 60 of the "2016 World Service Conference Summary" (P-46), we explore the CAL process to remove, edit, or replace the prayer. Wendy shares about the interaction between the Literature Committee and the World Service Conference and how it’s important to not be afraid to have uncomfortable discussions that affect literature decisions.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM WENDY:

  • "I was always trying to change things... to adjust them to how I wanted them to be and it’s very exhausting to do that!"

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Just For Today" (bookmark) – Episode 1: part 2 of 2 & Episode 12: part 4 of 5
  • "Just For Today" (wallet card)
  • Al-Anon Newcomer Packet – Episode 1: part 2 of 2, Episode 4: part 2 of 2, & Episode 12: part 4 of 5,
  • "2016 World Service Conference Summary"

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

  • Pinterest -  www.pinterest.com/​CALChatFan

  • Twitter -  www.twitter.com/​CALChatFan

  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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The conversation with Wendy continues about slogans in part 2 of 4 (of Episode 10) from "How Al-Anon Works" (B-22 for hardcover, eA-22 for the audiobook version, B-32 for softcover). We focus on the slogan “Let Go and Let God” (especially the importance of faith in the 2nd half) and how a specific physical token can be used as a reminder to put this slogan into action! I give recommendations on other CAL pieces to reference for a deeper dive into the slogans and lastly, find out why I consider slogans are similar to jewels.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM WENDY:

  • "It was an illusion that I was controlling the outcomes, but I guess the illusion made me safe for a little while… but it never really lasted."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, Episode 12: part 2 of 5, & Episode 13: parts 5 - 11
  • "The Forum" (magazine) – Episode 5: part 4 of 4, Episode 6: part 1 of 4, Episode 6: part 2 of 4, Episode 7: part 4 of 5, Episode 12: part 4 of 5, & Episode 12: part 5 of 5
  • "The Forum Book" (working title) – Episode 12: part 5 of 5
  • "The Al-Anon Family Groups - Classic Edition"
  • "Alateen – Hope for Children of Alcoholics" – Episode 6: part 4 of 4
  • "Courage To Be Me" – Episode 6: part 4 of 4, Episode 8: part 1 of 3, & Episode 8: part 2 of 3
  • "Alcoholism, The Family Disease"
  • "As We Understood" – Episode 6: part 1 of 4 & Episode 6: part 2 of 4
  • "Alateen Talks Back On: Slogans" – Episode 6: part 4 of 4

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

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  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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What are good consequences? Where does the fear of letting go come from? What are literature discussions like at the World Service Conference? Wendy shares, in part 1 of 4 of Episode 10, about using the slogans from Chapter 9 of "How Al-Anon Works" (B-22 for hardcover, eA-22 for the audiobook version**, B-32 for softcover) as stepping stones to serenity and how serenity can eventually become a guiding force in our lives for making decisions. We also look closer at the slogan “Let it Begin With Me” as not just something that we say at the end of an Al-Anon meeting or having to do with outreach.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM WENDY:

  • "...I grew up thinking there were a lot of things you wanted in life… good relationships, and you wanted money, and you wanted a good job… but serenity wasn’t on my list really."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, Episode 12: part 2 of 5, & Episode 13: parts 5 - 11

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

  • Pinterest -  www.pinterest.com/​CALChatFan

  • Twitter -  www.twitter.com/​CALChatFan

  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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Pat explains in Episode 9's last part, (#4), that of all the things she has tried, how Al-Anon is the only thing that truly helped. We discuss ways to enhance the "Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism 2017" magazine while using it for outreach purposes and she wraps up with a “Last Words” section about amends and Step Nine. Lastly, at this podcast show's website,  www.calchatpodcast.com,  I've attached a PDF of the 2017 magazine as *bonus content* so you can download it and see all the pages mentioned on this episode.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM PAT:

  • "Al-Anon is something we can use just in daily living."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism 2017" – Episode 5: part 4 of 4 & Episode 7: part 4 of 5
  • Outreach Bookmark – Episode 7: part 4 of 5
  • "Are You Troubled By Someone’s Drinking?"
  • "Courage to Change" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4 & Episode 5: part 3 of 4

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

  • Pinterest -  www.pinterest.com/​CALChatFan

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  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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In part 3 of 4 (of Episode 9), Pat highlights sections from her favorite outreach piece of literature, the new "Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism 2017" magazine. Discover two things that were done on this edition that were a “first” in this magazine’s history. We remember back to how we felt coming into our very first Al-Anon meeting and how desperation can be a gift! Lastly, at this podcast show's website,  www.calchatpodcast.com,  I've attached a PDF of the 2017 magazine as *bonus content* so you can download it and see all the pages mentioned on this episode.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM PAT:

  • "I understood from that first meeting that these people had been in my situation..."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism 2017" – Episode 5: part 4 of 4 & Episode 7: part 4 of 5
  • Outreach Bookmark – Episode 7: part 4 of 5

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

  • Pinterest -  www.pinterest.com/​CALChatFan

  • Twitter -  www.twitter.com/​CALChatFan

  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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The conversation continues in Episode 9’s second part with Pat and her favorite page 199 (July 17th) from the daily reader "Courage To Change" (B-16). We explore more components that contribute to making it in recovery, which slogans have helped us out along the way, and how reading the literature can show that we’ve changed. Also find out a few fun facts about "Courage To Change."

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM PAT:

  • "I forget how my life became unmanageable and I think it’s easy to fall back into that just with daily living."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Courage to Change" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4 & Episode 5: part 3 of 4
  • "Courage to Change" (audiobook) – Episode 3: part 4 of 4
  • "Courage to Change" (electronic book) – Episode 3: part 4 of 4
  • "One Day At A Time" – Episode 2: part 1 of 2
  • "Hope For Today"

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

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  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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How can I get time back in my life? Are appointments needed to attend an Al-Anon meeting? How can I spot changes in myself? In part 1 of 4 of Episode 9, Pat shares how one particular sentence from page 199 (July 17th) from the daily reader "Courage To Change" (B-16) impacted her life. She breaks down some of the major components that are involved in her recovery, how this reading ties into the second part of Step One, and which roles she identifies with from the pamphlet "Alcoholism, A-Merry-Go-Round Named Denial" (P-3).

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM PAT:

  • "My life was miserable because I was making it miserable."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Courage to Change" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4 & Episode 5: part 3 of 4
  • "Alcoholism, A Merry-Go-Round Named Denial" – Episode 11: part 1 of 4

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

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  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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In part 3 of 3 (of Episode 8), Alateen members share what they would like to say to Al-Anon members, and they directly address the teenager that is living with alcoholism that hasn’t been to an Alateen meeting yet. They explain how Alateen is like a family environment and that they don’t bite! The show wraps up with a unique “Last Words” section from a couple of Alateen group sponsors, where they cover the importance of hearing from Alateen members, how the Seventh Tradition is practiced from an Alateen perspective, the unexpected benefits of doing Alateen service, and how participating in this podcast is similar to doing a gratitude list!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM AN ALATEEN MEMBER:

  • "One thing that Alateen has really taught me is how to manage friendships and it’s given me a really great place to develop healthy relationships with people and also with other adults."

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

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The conversation continues in Episode 8’s second part with three more Alateen members talking about their favorite parts from "Courage To Be Me" (B-23), page 8 from the booklet "Alateen Talks Back On: Detachment" (P-73), and pages 268-269 (September 24th and 25th) from the daily reader "Living Today in Alateen" (B-26). They highlight a letter written to a parent, how they struggle with expectations of love, and how a member can eventually resemble the image on page 269 from "Living Today in Alateen*." Also find out what message is repeated several times in "Courage To Be Me"*** and how it’s like a warm reminder!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM AN ALATEEN MEMBER:

  • "...I’ve learned through Alateen that it’s a disease... not myself or who I am that’s causing anything."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Courage To Be Me" – Episode 6: part 4 of 4 & Episode 10: part 2 of 4
  • "Alateen Talks Back On: Detachment" – Episode 6: part 4 of 4
  • "Alateen-a day at a time" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4 & Episode 6: part 4 of 4
  • "Living Today in Alateen" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4 & Episode 6: part 4 of 4
  • "Alateen's 4th Step Inventory" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4 & Episode 6: part 4 of 4
  • "Alateen Do’s & Don’ts"

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

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  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com

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How can I keep things simple? If my growth is like a tree, then what are my roots? What Alateen book can I bring to an Al-Anon meeting? In part 1 of 3 of this very special Episode 8, four Alateen members share what they like best about Alateen literature – specifically the Alateen Talk newsletter (no item #), "Courage To Be Me" (B-23), page 26 (January 26th) from the daily reader "Alateen-a day at a time" (B-10), and pages 25-26 from the "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2014-2017"** (P-24/27). They talk about a favorite Step, what Tradition One means, and some powerful characteristics that can define someone affected by alcoholism.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM AN ALATEEN MEMBER:

  • "My favorite Step is really the first Step. ...it was hard, but I was up for the challenge."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • Alateen Talk (newsletter)
  • "Courage To Be Me" – Episode 6: part 4 of 4 & Episode 10: part 2 of 4
  • "Alateen-a day at a time" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4 & Episode 6: part 4 of 4
  • "Living Today in Alateen" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4 & Episode 6: part 4 of 4
  • "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2010-2013"
  • "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2014-2017" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 3: part 1 of 4, Episode 3: part 2 of 4, Episode 3: part 3 of 4, & Episode 3: part 4 of 4

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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In part 5 of 5 (of Episode 7), the conversation continues with Mark about Alateen outreach to Alcoholics Anonymous and how service has helped his program. He shares what moved him emotionally at his first Area Assembly meeting and how it was similar to a Newcomer meeting! You can click this link to find this book, "The Best of Public Outreach" (P-90), online and to see Al-Anon’s TV public service announcements, visit: www.al-anon.org/media-kit/public-service-announcements. Lastly, the index I created for "Reaching For Personal Freedom" (P-92) can be downloaded as *bonus content at this podcast show's website,  www.calchatpodcast.com*.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM MARK:

  • "...there is a difference between being hopeless and being powerless."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "The Best of Public Outreach" (booklet)
  • "The Best of Public Outreach" (2012/2017 online version)
  • "Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism 2017" – Episode 5: part 4 of 4, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 9: part 3 of 4, & Episode 9: part 4 of 4

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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Mark’s favorite piece of literature to use for outreach purposes is the service tool "The Best of Public Outreach" (P-90) in Episode 7’s part 4 of 5. He shares how public outreach is what first got him into service in Al-Anon and calls out a “Getting Started” section on page 7, as well as pages 12-19 for several lists of outreach ideas. He also explains how the workbook helped with a big outreach project he was involved with that was done in honor of Al-Anon’s founder, Lois Wilson, and how projects don’t need to be big to be effective. Lastly, we discuss what it’s like to talk to people that are not familiar with the Al-Anon program.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM MARK:

  • "...any Al-Anon member is a great candidate to get involved in public outreach."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "The Best of Public Outreach" (2012/2017 online version)
  • "The Forum" (magazine) – Episode 5: part 4 of 4, Episode 6: part 1 of 4, Episode 6: part 2 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 12: part 3 of 5, Episode 12: part 4 of 5, & Episode 12: part 5 of 5
  • "Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism 2017" – Episode 5: part 4 of 4, Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 9: part 3 of 4, & Episode 9: part 4 of 4

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

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In part 3 of 5 (of Episode 7) find out what two words I discovered are inter-related after creating an index for "Reaching For Personal Freedom" (P-92). (The index can be downloaded as *bonus content at this podcast show's website,  www.calchatpodcast.com.) Mark also talks about how he used to be before* he came into the Al-Anon program and explores what I call a “big ticket item!”

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM MARK:

  • "...I think for me, personal freedom means mitigating fear in my life... minimizing it."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Reaching For Personal Freedom" – Episode 12: part 3 of 5

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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Freedom is specifically discussed with Mark in part 2 of 5 (of Episode 7) from the workbook "Reaching For Personal Freedom" (P-92). He compares this book to other Al-Anon workbooks, explains how it differs, and I reveal a surprise… I’ve created an index for this book! (It can be downloaded as *bonus content at this podcast show's website,  www.calchatpodcast.com*.) Also, find out what patterns I learned about the Legacies from creating an index!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM MARK:

  • "...this workbook has helped me get a better understanding too of... assets that were taken to extremes and turned into defects."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Reaching For Personal Freedom" – Episode 12: part 3 of 5

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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What do I want to be free of? What exactly are character defects? Can Alateen outreach be done to AA members? In part 1 of 5 of Episode 7, Mark shares how he used the workbook "Reaching For Personal Freedom" (P-92) in studying the Steps, Traditions, and Concepts horizontally. He also highlights how a section on page 12 led to a spiritual awakening for him.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM MARK:

  • "...there’s a difference between saying you’re powerless and then accepting powerlessness."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Reaching For Personal Freedom" – Episode 12: part 3 of 5
  • "Blueprint For Progress"
  • "Al-Anon’s 12 Steps & 12 Traditions"
  • "Paths To Recovery"
  • "Paths To Recovery" (workbook)
  • "Discovering Choices" – Episode 5: part 1 of 4 & Episode 5: part 2 of 4

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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In part 4 of 4 (of Episode 6), the conversation continues with Nancy about her favorite Alateen literature and how being an AMIAS (Al-Anon Member Involved In Alateen Service) is her way of giving back. She explains the requirements to become an Alateen Group Sponsor and shares an innovative way an Alateen Group Representative used the words in the index of "Alateen-a day at a time" (B-10). At this podcast show's website,  www.calchatpodcast.com,  I've attached a PDF document as *bonus content* that you can download to use the list of words.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM NANCY:

  • "...these are stories from children that have ‘been there, done that.’ To me that’s what makes it the most powerful... it’s real."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Alateen-a day at a time" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4 & Episode 8: part 1 of 3
  • "Living Today in Alateen" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4 & Episode 8: part 2 of 3
  • "Alateen's 4th Step Inventory" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4 & Episode 8: part 2 of 3
  • "Alateen – Hope for Children of Alcoholics" – Episode 10: part 2 of 4
  • "Courage To Be Me" – Episode 8: part 1 of 3, Episode 8: part 2 of 3, & Episode 10: part 2 of 4
  • "Alateen Talks Back On: Slogans" – Episode 10: part 2 of 4
  • "Alateen Talks Back On: Acceptance"
  • "Alateen Talks Back On: Detachment" – Episode 8: part 2 of 3
  • "Alateen Talks Back On: Serenity"

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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Nancy’s pick of literature to use for outreach purposes is "How Al-Anon Works" (B-22 for hardcover, eA-22 for the audiobook version**, eB-22 for the electronic version, and B-32 for softcover) in Episode 6’s part 3 of 4. She highlights the slogan “Think” (page 71), “Lois’ Story” (pages 152-155), and how interesting it is to get the Al-Anon founder’s point of view on the Twelve Steps (pages 155-160). We also talk about participating in a Meeting on Wheels and doing outreach at facilities using just the pages 14 and 15.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM NANCY:

  • "..it’s interesting to get the [Al-Anon] founder’s point of view on things and what her thinking was..."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2, Episode 10: part 1 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, Episode 12: part 2 of 5, & Episode 13: parts 5 - 11
  • "How Al-Anon Works" (audiobook) – Episode 13: part 9 of 11 & Episode 13: part 10 of 11
  • "How Al-Anon Works" (electronic book)
  • "Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism 2017" – Episode 5: part 4 of 4, Episode 7: part 4 of 5, Episode 9: part 3 of 4, & Episode 9: part 4 of 4

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

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Find out, in part 2 of 4 (of Episode 6), what "As We Understood" (B-11) was the first Conference Approved book to do in Al-Anon’s history. We talk about misconceptions about the book and the goal of learning something every day no matter how small. Nancy shares how important choices are, dealing with change, and she answers one of the toughest questions I’ve asked so far!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM NANCY:

  • "...this is where I learned that I had choices, when I came into the [Al-Anon] program..."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "As We Understood" – Episode 10: part 2 of 4
  • "The Forum" (magazine) – Episode 5: part 4 of 4, Episode 7: part 4 of 5, Episode 12: part 4 of 5, & Episode 12: part 5 of 5

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

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Can I fire my Higher Power? What is a "Meeting on Wheels?" What is not allowed in recovery literature when bringing it into jails? In part 1 of 4 of Episode 6, Nancy talks about her favorite book "As We Understood" (B-11) and shares how its positive uplifting take on our program has kept her using it. In particular, we discuss two prayers on pages 213 and 214 and how this book is different than a daily reader. We explore the spiritual (non-religious) nature of the program, what a Higher Power can be, and a possible new slogan!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM NANCY:

  • "...the [Al-Anon] program has given me so much understanding of a Higher Power. It’s just changed my way of thinking as far as… it can be anything..."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "As We Understood" – Episode 10: part 2 of 4
  • "Forum Favorites" (Volume 2)

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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In part 4 of 4 (of Episode 5), the conversation continues with Theresa about other Conference Approved Literature that is available for parents and how CAL is not like other self-help/recovery literature. Lastly, find out why her favorite outreach piece, "Parents of Alcoholics"** (R-18), may not be around much longer!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM THERESA:

  • "...I bought every self-help book… until I walked into the rooms of Al-Anon. I never made it through one of the books!"

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Parents of Alcoholics" (reprint)
  • "To Parents of Alcoholics" (pamphlet)
  • Parents’ Newcomer Packet – Episode 1: part 2 of 2
  • "The Forum" (magazine) – Episode 6: part 1 of 4, Episode 6: part 2 of 4, Episode 7: part 4 of 5, Episode 12: part 4 of 5, & Episode 12: part 5 of 5
  • "Hope & Understanding for Parents & Grandparents"
  • "Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism 2017" – Episode 7: part 4 of 5, Episode 9: part 3 of 4, & Episode 9: part 4 of 4

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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Theresa’s favorite piece of literature to use for outreach purposes is the reprint "Parents of Alcoholics" (R-18) in Episode 5’s part 3 of 4. It’s only 12 pages, but so powerful! She shares the moment she hit her “bottom” and what brought her into the Al-Anon program. We also talk about being able to differentiate between helping versus enabling and what is one** thing a parent can definitely do for their alcoholic child.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM THERESA:

  • "...our children come through us, not to us."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Parents of Alcoholics" (reprint)
  • "Courage to Change" – Episode 3: part 4 of 4, Episode 9: part 1 of 4, & Episode 9: part 2 of 4
  • "Opening Our Hearts, Transforming Our Losses" – Episode 10: part 4 of 4

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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Chapter 13 from the book "Discovering Choices"** (B-30) is the focus in part 2 of 4 (of Episode 5) where Theresa breaks down how service work (and especially the Concepts 4, 5, and 10) helped her grow in all areas of her life. She explains the benefits of having a Service Sponsor, how we’re never alone, and addresses the fear behind willingness. The conversation moves into the importance of failure and we discover a new way to look at the cover of the book!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM THERESA:

  • "...service work has helped me grow in so many areas of my life that I didn’t even realize there were problems in!"

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Discovering Choices" – Episode 7: part 1 of 5
  • "The Dilemma of the Alcoholic Marriage"

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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What is failure really about? How can I be ok with not being in control? What can help with delegating? In part 1 of 4 of Episode 5, Theresa focuses on chapters 1 and 9 from one of her favorite books "Discovering Choices" (B-30) and shares how, after coming in the Al-Anon program, reading the literature can start the recovery process. We also talk about the benefits of belonging to a CAL study group, setting different types of boundaries, how we use our nose and knees in recovery, and detaching without** using a hatchet!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM THERESA:

  • "...I can love the alcoholic without loving the alcoholism."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Discovering Choices" – Episode 7: part 1 of 5

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

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The conversation with Jan continues in part 2 of 2 (of Episode 4) with her favorite piece of outreach literature, the leaflet/questionnaire: "Did You Grow Up With A Problem Drinker?" (S-25). This can be an eye-opening piece for people that realize they experienced the effects of alcoholism in their family, rather than just in their current relationship. We discuss ways it can be used for outreach, workshops, and as a barometer for our recovery progress. Find out what is like peanut butter and chocolate, and what we’d like to see on a bumper sticker!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM JAN:

  • "I’ve learned to be a human being and not a human doing!"

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Did You Grow Up With A Problem Drinker?"
  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 11: part 1 of 4, Episode 11: part 3 of 4, Episode 11: part 4 of 4, & Episode 13: parts 1 - 4
  • Al-Anon Newcomer Packet – Episode 1: part 2 of 2, Episode 10: part 3 of 4, & Episode 12: part 4 of 5
  • Adult Children of Alcoholics Newcomer Packet – Episode 1: part 2 of 2

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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How is alcoholism a disease of extremes? What does the term "Adult Child" mean? Am I trapped in a compulsive need? In Episode 4 (part 1 of 2), Jan talks about her favorite section, pages 14-15, from the book "From Survival to Recovery: Growing Up in an Alcoholic Home" (B-21). She shares which qualities of an Adult Child of an alcoholic that she identifies with, what a literature study group is like, and how this book can touch members of Alcoholics Anonymous too!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM JAN:

  • "...you’ve got to feel it, before you can heal it and that’s the really good part of this book. It really helps you to dig in!"

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "From Survival To Recovery" – Episode 11: part 1 of 4, Episode 11: part 3 of 4, Episode 11: part 4 of 4, & Episode 13: parts 1 - 4
  • "Al-Anon Sharings from Adult Children"
  • 2016 CAL Catalog

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Outreach literature is the focus of this part 4 of 4 of Episode 3 where Cindy describes how she has creatively used the daily reader "Courage To Change" (B-16, B-17 for large print, eB-16 for the electronic version, and eA-16 for the audiobook version). We eventually move into talking about Alateen literature and how those pieces can flow into Al-Anon and vice-versa because it’s all one program. Everything is available to be read by anybody! Lastly, listen to find out what page is possibly read the least in each daily reader!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM CINDY:

  • "...what do you do about the alcoholic? ...Tradition 5 tells us we encourage and understand. I think that might be hard for a newcomer... to understand and encourage?!? I'm trying just not to kill them!"

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Courage to Change" – Episode 9: part 1 of 4 & Episode 9: part 2 of 4
  • "Courage to Change" (audiobook) – Episode 9: part 2 of 4
  • "Courage to Change" (electronic book) – Episode 9: part 2 of 4
  • "Alateen-a day at a time" – Episode 6: part 4 of 4 & Episode 8: part 1 of 3
  • "Living Today in Alateen" – Episode 8: part 2 of 3
  • "Alateen's 4th Step Inventory" – Episode 6: part 4 of 4 & Episode 8: part 1 of 3
  • "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2014-2017" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2 & Episode 8: part 1 of 3

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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Part 3 of 4 (of Episode 3) on the "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2014-2017" (P-24/27) moves into discussion with Cindy about how childhood experiences can influence how we see perfection, the Warranties (especially nonresistance from page 224), and punitive actions. She also relates how Concepts 6 and 7 (from pages 193-194) have applied to her relationship with her children.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM CINDY:

  • "When we're making progress, that is enough."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2014-2017" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2 & Episode 8: part 1 of 3

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

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The conversation continues (in part 2 of 4 of Episode 3) with Cindy and her favorite book, the "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2014-2017" (P-24/27). We explore pages 68-69 about moving forward, what progress realistically looks like, and how disagreements can actually be a good thing! Pages 229 and 235 are also highlighted from the Concepts Amendments section and how it reminded me of a ring being passed down in a family. Cindy shares about how this fellowship is an opportunity to belong to something bigger than ourselves and where newcomers and long timers can meet together on pages 26-27.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM CINDY:

  • "...old-timers who've been around a long time have something unique to give and the newer members also have something unique to give and there is a place for all of it – and I find it in the Service Manual."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2014-2017" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2 & Episode 8: part 1 of 3

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

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How can I give the gift of dignity to the alcoholic? What page is possibly read the least in each daily reader? How can my inner child voice be heard in a different way? Episode 3 features a talk with Cindy about how the "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2014-2017" (P-24/27) has improved her life. In this part 1 of 4, we discuss the spiritual principle of anonymity (from pages 91-94), how it is not a rule book, that it’s always evolving (much like our own recovery), and what it has in common with a Sponsor.

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM CINDY:

  • "Al-Anon's always waiting there for me. ...I feel that gentle recovery of other people helping guide me as I'm looking for answers and looking for guidance – it's there."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2014-2017" – Episode 1: part 1 of 2 & Episode 8: part 1 of 3

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

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Part 2 of 2 (of Episode 2) continues the conversation with BJ and her favorite piece of outreach literature, the "Detachment" (S-19) leaflet. We discuss detaching with love, being able to separate the disease from the alcoholic, and how Al-Anon is not a self-help program, but a we program!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM BJ:

  • "I actually have this [Detachment] piece tattooed on the back of my eyelids!"

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "Detachment"

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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Why is Al-Anon not considered a self-help recovery program? How is detaching different than separating? Am I making my spirit sick? In part 1 of 2 (of Episode 2), BJ talks about her favorite reading, June 14th (pg 166), from the daily reader "One Day At A Time In Al-Anon" (B-6). She shares her definition of serenity and mentions other possible side effects from taking the medicine of recovery. A special *bonus material* hunt is involved with this particular page… Can you find it? Happy hunting! 🕵️‍♀️

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM BJ:

  • "If Al-Anon literature were children, this would be my favorite child."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "One Day At A Time" – Episode 9: part 2 of 4

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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This podcast is part 2 of 2 of Episode 1. The interview with Michael continues as he highlights his favorite parts from the Al-Anon Newcomer Packet (K-10) as outreach literature. He also shares his experience coming to his first Al-Anon meeting! We discuss the tendency to close ourselves off to literature that we think doesn’t apply to us and in the “Last Words” section, find out what Michael has in his life now more than he’s ever had!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM MICHAEL:

  • "...I’m going through a whole renaissance in my life… that’s really open and full of wonderful surprises. And even the challenges are ok because I’ve got a Higher Power that’s in charge and I’ve got guidance galore!"

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • Al-Anon Newcomer Packet – Episode 4: part 2 of 2, Episode 10: part 3 of 4, & Episode 12: part 4 of 5
  • "Just For Today" (bookmark) – Episode 10: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 4 of 4, & Episode 12: part 4 of 5
  • Men’s Newcomer Packet
  • "Al-Anon Is For Men"
  • Parents’ Newcomer Packet – Episode 5: part 4 of 4
  • "Al-Anon Spoken Here"
  • Adult Children of Alcoholics Newcomer Packet – Episode 4: part 2 of 2
  • "Does She Drink Too Much?"

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

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Welcome to "CAL Chat" where we discuss our favorite Al-Anon and Alateen Conference Approved Literature. How many different types of Newcomer Packets are available? Which one pamphlet does Michael find helpful to read before his second Al-Anon meeting? How can forgiveness be considered another tool in our recovery? Episode 1 of this podcast is in 2 parts. Part 1 of 2 features an interview with Michael where he focuses on a section from the book "How Al-Anon Works" (B-22 for hardcover, eA-22 for the audiobook version, B-32 for softcover, and eB-22 for the e-book version) about forgiveness and how it changed his relationship with his father. We also talk about suicide and an entirely different way to read this book – by the index keywords! At this podcast show's website,  www.calchatpodcast.com,  I've attached a PDF document as bonus content** that you can download to use the expanded list of keywords which are already sorted by page number from the preface to page 396. Enjoy a new reading experience!

QUOTABLE MOMENT FROM MICHAEL:

  • "Everything in this book is illustrative of what I need to know to lead a healthy and more spiritual life than I did before I came into the rooms."

LITERATURE MENTIONED & RELATED EPISODES:

  • "How Al-Anon Works" – Episode 6: part 3 of 4, Episode 10: part 1 of 4, Episode 10: part 2 of 4, Episode 11: part 2 of 4, Episode 12: part 2 of 5, & Episode 13: parts 5 - 11
  • "Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual 2014-2017" – Episode 3: part 1 of 4, Episode 3: part 2 of 4, Episode 3: part 3 of 4, & Episode 8: part 1 of 3

OTHER WAYS TO EXPLORE & CELEBRATE AL-ANON / ALATEEN LITERATURE:

  • Visit my "CAL Chat" blog -  www.calchatblog.com

  • Instagram -  www.instagram.com/​CALChatFan1

  • Pinterest -  www.pinterest.com/​CALChatFan

  • Twitter -  www.twitter.com/​CALChatFan

  • "CAL Chat" website -  www.calchatpodcast.com