Dear Young Married Couple: Recent Episodes
Adam & Karissa King
Marriage Counselors, Adam King, MA and Karissa King, MA talk with couples, pastors, and therapists about marriage as a busy couple: communication, sex, finances, parenting, and building trust.
Kim Moore’s story starts out like many other young women with shame around sex - her wedding night was tough, she didn’t truly understand the biblical WHY for sex, and was rejected when she sought help. 👩❤️💋👨 She decided early on that God wanted MORE for her sex life, and that she would find the answers in His word. Her research has helped couples of all ages achieve fulfilling, God-honoring intimacy in their marriage. Tune in for some fun facts you may not have known about the Song of Solomon.
Resources:
Song of Solomon Greeting Cards https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/opt-in-6c58d828-00ca-4284-8b16-93da7799331f
Kim’s Website: Www.Kimmoore.net
Kim’s Books:
Now That’s Romantic https://amzn.to/3P4CvFL
Unlock the Secret to Lasting Intimacy https://amzn.to/3P8mFK9 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
We messed up… Does God still see us as pure? ♥️ This week, we received an anonymous question from a gal who recently got engaged. Her fiancé has had sexual relations in the past and she shared that they had crossed this boundary together as well. ♥️ Her question goes something along the lines of this: After having sought forgiveness and intending not to cross this line again, how could I see myself as PURE walking into marriage after already crossing this line? ♥️ Spoiler alert: God forgives and forgets. Tune in to hear our reply!
Resources:
Adventure & Intimacy Retreat in Myrtle Beach, SC https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/adventure-and-intimacy-marriage-retreat-1
prEquipped: The DYMC Premarital Course https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/sales-page
SPEAK Pipe: Submit an anonymous question https://www.speakpipe.com/DearYoungMarriedCouple
Premarital Boundaries for Dating Christians https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-young-married-couple/id1494555036?i=1000494579158 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Alright mamas, you’ve been reading up about this self-care trend lately and you wonder… does this really go beyond pedicures & bubble baths? Let’s be honest - these activities are great, but they’re usually something we resort to when we’re overwhelmed or we’ve just had enough. What if there was a way to care for yourself that actually helps PREVENT burn out? Today we interviewed Dr. Morgan Cutlip to answer this question. Tune in and let us know what you think! 👩👧👧
Resources:
Adventure & Intimacy Retreat in Myrtle Beach, SC https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/adventure-and-intimacy-marriage-retreat-1
MOMFIDENCE - For Confident, Present Mamas https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/Momfidence
Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself https://amzn.to/3saQgK3
The Sexual Standoff https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-young-married-couple/id1494555036?i=1000493766715
IG: @DrMorganCutlip Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
If you're a parent, you're well aware that becoming a parent for the first time exacts a significant toll on both your mental and physical well-being. If you're currently navigating these challenges, you'll want to join this discussion with trauma therapist, Natalie Brunswick. She not only relates her own experiences but also offers practical resources to effectively manage the overwhelm that often accompanies new parenthood. 👶🏻
Resources:
Registration for our Adventure & Intimacy Retreat - East in Myrtle Beach, SC ends September 1st! You don’t want to miss this event October 20-21, 2023! Click here for more info. https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/adventure-and-intimacy-marriage-retreat-1
FREE: 21 Things to do Before Baby Arrives https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/gifts-and-goodies/
Christian Meditation Soundtrack https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-young-married-couple/id1494555036?i=1000542455454
Natalie’s Prenatal Course https://highlysensitivefamily.com/links?fbclid=PAAaYqmdIvrJm1BIuAnq_Nb8aIH5HFQkFxPQVtlsOCqKTwBBlATyotL7RgNSs_aem_AV-f9hOiU3bCPUDs-k4XwFC6kH1D8vjA9tphdj92BXVST5zvWV7LHP07N5hsUgwlf4Q Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Whether your kids are already back to school, are going back soon, or you just want to be equipped when your children are of school age, this episode is for YOU! ✏️📓 Korena Hendryx, MA is a parent + principal of a growing private school and provides lots of tips to keep your mornings smooth + structured. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have you ever doubted or questioned whether or not you got married in the will of God, or your own desires? Perhaps you prayed about your union to your spouse, but never saw a clear sign you hear all these stories about. What happens when you marry OUTSIDE the will of God? 🤔 Tune in to hear our response to a question we received from a follower recently. We kept the name redacted for privacy, but their voice represents a lot of married people who have struggled with the same questions.
Resources:
PreEquipped: The DYMC premarital course https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/sales-page
Submit an Anonymous Question! https://www.speakpipe.com/DearYoungMarriedCouple
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Who says your sex life has to die when you retire, go through menopause, or when you reach ____ age? Let’s hear from Dr. Cliff + Joyce Penner, an 80-year-old couple that’s dedicated to keeping your God-given sex life alive, fun, + adventurous. They’ve been married for 60 years, are highly educated, and the fruit of their labor is evident in the lives they’ve touched. Join the conversation! 👵🏼♥️👴🏼
Resources:
FREE: 10 ways to spice up your sex life https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/sexpectations
The Gift of Sex - Joyce + Clifford Penner Getting Your Sex Life off to a Great Start https://passionatecommitment.com
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There is HOPE after an affair when you get everything into the light. ❤️🩹 Do you have broken TRUST or some emotional distance in your marriage? We had the privilege of speaking to Pastor Garrett and Brenna Naufel, a couple who experienced infidelity in their marriage, BUT there is a plot twist you’ll have to listen for. We are so grateful they are sharing their story and providing helpful tools for other couples in the same boat. Listen in as we hear about HEALING from a double-affair.
Adventure and Intimacy Retreat - East information here: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/adventure-and-intimacy-marriage-retreat-1
Resources:
Brenna’s Book: From Lover to Beloved Fromlovertobeloved.com
FREE: 5 Steps When Trust Has Been Broken
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We live in a very trigger-avoiding culture. ⚠️ We will cancel everyone + everything if they inconvenience us or cause some deep-rooted issues to surface. This is NOT a healthy way to be living our lives! Is there a better way to go about our triggers that is God-honoring? Let’s find out in this episode with Dr. Debra Fileta!
Adventure and Intimacy Retreat - East information here: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/adventure-and-intimacy-marriage-retreat-1
Resources: Debrafileta.com RESET by Debra Fileta - Powerful Habits to Own Your Thoughts, Understand Your Feelings, and Change Your Life FREE Resource: Truths & Lies PDF Our Last Episode with Debra Fileta and Gary Thomas called "Married Sex" https://youtu.be/4a-GZjJuchg Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have you ever experienced a time of transition that was extremely difficult to navigate? Have you ever felt guilty for grieving the loss of something that was replaced by something better? We had the privilege to discuss this with Zim Flores, who has experienced much of the same. She has been named a leader by Oprah Winfrey, she’s been featured in Times Magazine, she was an awardee for Forbes 30 under 30, and she had to go through some pretty painful transitions. Tune in as we hear her story about giving up her multimillion-dollar company in order to answer a deeper calling.
Adventure and Intimacy Retreat - East information here: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/adventure-and-intimacy-marriage-retreat-1
Resources:
Zim’s Book: Dare to Bloom https://a.co/d/d64qfjd
Lies We Tell Ourselves Freebie https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/Truths-Lies
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Time to celebrate 🎆FREEDOM🎆….. in the bedroom. 🛏 That’s right! There are so many issues we see in couples that act as barriers to an amazing, adventurous sex life. Here’s the truth: God WANTS you to ENJOY sex with your spouse, and He’s given us scripture for ways to do this/not to do this. Kick insecurity, shame, and boring sex out the window. It’s time to experience FREEDOM in the bedroom.
In this episode, we answer touchy questions like: What does the bible say about sex? Is masturbation ok for Christian couples? Marriage advice on intimacy? What is and isn’t allowed in bed? What does the Bible say about anal sex? What can you do and what can’t you do in intercourse as a Christian? Christian sex dos and don’ts. From a biblical perspective, what can partners do and not do sexually? What if we look at porn together?
FREE Resource: 10 Ways to Spice up Your Sex Life PDF https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/sexpectations
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We all, at one point or another, have experienced INSECURITY. 🙍🏼♂️🙎🏻♀️ It’s that feeling of falling short in certain areas of your life that can hold you back from reaching your full potential. Tune into this episode with Rev. Ryan Franklin, Assistant Pastor of Pentecostals of Alexandria, as he shares the secrets to overcoming insecurity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
You are VALID in your feelings of hurt and betrayal. 💔 However, allowing yourself to DWELL aimlessly on these feelings will not get you the healing you desire. Want to know HOW to heal and begin to process your emotions effectively? Click the link below to download our FREE resource: The Honest Letter Template.
Resources FREE Resource: The Honest Letter dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/honestletter
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Dear Young Married Couple: You’ve likely experienced significant loss in your life. 💔 You may be going through grief and loss presently, and feeling the pain of that loss. Grief is a multi-faceted emotion, and loss comes in many different forms. If you run from it, bury it, or don’t address it, you will never find true healing. Tune into this episode with Dr. David Norris as we walk through this healing process and explore healthy grief.
Resources Sweet Pain: Joy on the Road Less Traveled by Dr. Norris https://www.amazon.com/dp/0982403208?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_DTVTD8YQ6AQEFB684M11 Improving your Serve by Charles Swindoll https://a.co/d/5N0yEVq
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Our life circumstances, communication struggles, and sex differences really have a way of dimming the spark with our spouse. If this is you, we have the solution to not only get the SPARK back, but also turn it into a FLAME!
Adventure + Intimacy Retreat Register Here: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/Retreat
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Are the holidays all about the warm and fuzzies, OR are they all about stress? A lot of couples experience both. Join Adam and Karissa as they share SIX holidays rules for a healthier marriage during the holidays!
Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!
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Do you find yourself blowing up on your spouse when THAT thing is brought up? If this is you and you want help working through that resentment, Join Adam and Karissa as they chat with Dr. Wyatt Fisher.
Recommended Resources: https://www.drwyattfisher.com Dr. Wyatt’s Podcast Reunite Tool
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If you have a strong-willed child, you’re not alone! We do too! Join Adam + Karissa as they share some tips and tricks on how to parent a strong-willed child!
Resources: www.havingthetalks.com SpeakPipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/dearyoungmarriedcouple
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If you want to start working as a team with your spouse, start TODAY! Join Adam and Karissa as they share the ONE tactic that can help you do so!
Recommended Resource: Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg
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This week, we recorded a special episode with Will Guidara about “Unreasonable Hospitality”. Join Adam and Karissa for this unforgettable episode that will inspire you to want give more than ever before.
Recommended Resources: Will’s NEW BOOK “Unreasonable Hospitality”: https://amzn.to/3Evt2SX Eleven Madison Park Cookbook: https://amzn.to/3EwOS8C NoMad Cookbook: https://amzn.to/3EyekdW I Love New York Cookbook: https://amzn.to/3fO8RFy
Setting the Table by Danny Meyer: https://amzn.to/3Vhdb0r
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Want to know the steps to get your brain into Positive Sentiment Override (PSO)? Listen to the short episode with A+K. We pray it nudges you out of hopelessness and gives you hopeful direction for change in your marriage.
Foundations Card Deck on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3EOze8Q prEquipped Course: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/sales-page Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix and Helen Hunt: https://amzn.to/3yThxkH
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Did you know that FOOD can have power over your mood, stress, and even SEX?
Join us THIS Friday, October 14th, for DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we'll be diving into this topic with dietician + DYMC team member, Karlee Cranford, live at 5pm PST!
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The question is not IF your marriage will go through storms, but WHEN will it go through storms. Join Adam + Karissa as they chat with Gary Thomas about HOW to withstand the storms WHEN they come!
Recommended Resources: Gary’s NEW BOOK: Making Your Marriage a Fortress Sacred Marriage
Previous Episodes w/ Gary Thomas: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-you-didnt-know-about-the-five-love-languages-w/id1494555036?i=1000507436880 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-if-marriage-wasnt-meant-to-make-you-happy-w-dr/id1494555036?i=1000523030215 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/married-sex-w-dr-gary-thomas-debra-fileta-lpc/id1494555036?i=1000540499945
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Do you know how to talk with your kids about HOMOSEXUALITY both graciously + faithful to scripture? Join Adam + Karissa as they have a convo with Dr. Sean McDowell about how to do so!
Sean’s Books:
A Rebel’s Manifesto
Same-Sex Marriage
Chasing Love
Sean’s Recommended Resources: https://christopheryuan.com https://www.rachelgilson.com/about
Connect w/ Sean: IG - @seanmcdowell Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/c/SeanMcDowell-info
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Having the talkS is LIVE. Go to www.havingthetalkS.com to order yours today!
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Are you struggling with anger? Do you feel like it’s controlling YOU, rather than you controlling IT? Join Adam + Karissa as they talk with Natalie Hixson about how you can get your anger under control TODAY!
Natalie’s Recommended Resources
Trigger Tracker
nataliehixson.com
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If we want to heal from our pain, we actually have to move TOWARD it. If you’re ready to begin your healing journey today, join Adam and Karissa as they chat with Jenna Riemersma, LPC. Finding healing isn’t always easy, but it’s worth it!
Jenna’s Recommended Resources
Altogether You
Movetoward.com
Christian IFS Therapist Directory
Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night THIS FRIDAY where we’ll dive into "High Drive-Low Drive: Addressing the Gap" with you LIVE for 90 minutes!
Having the talkS is LIVE. Go to www.havingthetalkS.com to order yours today!
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The first step to becoming the best version of yourself: REALLY understanding you’re not okay. Join Adam and Karissa as they chat with Debra Fileta about answering this question: Are you REALLY okay?
Debra Fileta’s Resources
Book - Are You Really Okay?
Podcast - Love + Relationships
Resources - https://debrafileta.com/counseling
DYMC’s Resources
Podcast Episode - “Married Sex” w/ Debra Fileta + Gary Thomas
Premarital Course - prEquipped
a 7-week course, designed to help seriously dating and engaged couples get the tools that they need to become equipped for a thriving and intimately connected marriage♥️
Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!
Having the talkS is LIVE. Go to www.havingthetalkS.com to order yours today!
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Do you fear that if you’re the “fun” parent, then you won’t be respected by your teens? Join Adam + Karissa as they chat with Kristen Duke about how you can be your teen’s best friend and parent. You don’t have to choose!
Recommend Resources: Intentional Connection Playbook
Connect w/ Kristen: @kristendukechats kristenduke.com
Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!
Having the talkS is LIVE. Go to www.havingthetalkS.com to order yours today!
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Do you struggle with wondering WHEN is the right time to start investing? We get it! It can feel overwhelming. This is why we had a chat with Byron Tanner, CFP(R). Join as we talk about how NOW is the right time to start investing!
Recommend Resources: Hope Financial Services Financial Calculator
Join us this FRIDAY at 5pm PST for DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we’ll be digging more into “Investing For Married Couples” with Byron Tanner, CFP(R) with you LIVE for 90 minutes!
Having the talkS is LIVE. Go to www.havingthetalkS.com to order yours today!
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Do you know what your ACE score is? MOST people are experiencing one of the 10 ACE scores. If that’s the case and you’re in the category of MOST people, then you need to be processing that. Join our chat to find out how you can start processing today!
Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!
Having the talkS is LIVE. Go to www.havingthetalkS.com to order yours today!
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Trying to decipher the right words to say when someone you love is grieving can feel overwhelming. Join Adam and Karissa as they share five scripts to equip you to help others go through grief.
Recommended Resources: When Children Grieve
Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!
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Do you feel like you can’t get out of the yucky arguing cycles? Join Adam + Karissa as they share the 4 Horsemen culprits, as well as how to overcome them!
Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!
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Are you interested in pursuing a career/ministry in counseling? If this is you, join Adam + Karissa as they share some common questions they receive about counseling and how to pursue it!
Resources: Wilson College http://wilsonuniversity.org/christian-counseling/ Application Due 9/12/2022 for 9/26/2022 start date
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About 40% of couples ARGUE on vacation? Why is this? Join Adam + Karissa as they share FIVE reasons why couples argue on vacation!
Family Vacation Packing List: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/vacation-packing-list
Join us for DYMC Monthly Live Date Night THIS FRIDAY, July 22nd at 5pm CST. We’ll be interviewing Pastor Jason Carr, MFT in person at the PEAK conference in Houston about “How NOT to BURNOUT”. This is specifically for couples in ministry. If you’d like to join us LIVE, we’ll be at the Wilson University Booth which is right outside of the convention center in Houston. If you’re coming LIVE, you can come for FREE.
We’re going to ask him YOUR questions, so two things we want you to do:
Submit your questions on IG about burnout
DM us the word “STRESS”, and you can get a $5 OFF coupon for your first month of MLDN.
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Join Adam + Karissa as they chat with Dr. John Delony on the importance of OWNING our pasts and how to do so to create the future we desire!
Resources: Own Your Past Change Your Future The Dr. John Delony Show Podcast
Connect with Dr. Delony: Johndelony.com @johndelony
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Opening up about topics like church with your spouse can feel difficult, because you don’t know where to start. Join Adam + Karissa as they share some easy and practical stems to get the convo flowing about church with your spouse in a healthy way!
Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night on Friday, July 22nd @ 3pm PST, 5pm CST, 6pm EST about "How Not to Burn Out". We'll be interviewing Pastor Jason Carr, LMFT and this session is geared primarily toward couples in leadership/ministry. Sign up here: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/monthlylivedatenight
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Join Adam + Karissa w/ Certified Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional, Drew Boa, as they chat about the MISSING INGREDIENT in recovering from porn addictions.
Resources: drewboa.com Husbandmaterial.com
Connect on Instagram: @drew_boa @husbandmaterialmen
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We just got back from EntreLeadership Summit where we heard Patrick Lencioni speak. His book "5 Dysfunctions of a Team" is so powerful and SO APPLICABLE to marriage, so we figured we'd share our reflections on these dynamics with you!
You can grab his book here: https://amzn.to/3zAKBhY
Join us for Monthly Live Date Night this Friday, 6/24 @ 5pm PST where we'll discuss "having the talkS". Come ready to create a plan for launching your children into adulthood as sexually confident and godly humans.
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We just got back from EntreLeadership Summit where we heard Patrick Lencioni speak. His book "5 Dysfunctions of a Team" is so powerful and SO APPLICABLE to marriage, so we figured we'd share our reflections on these dynamics with you!
You can grab his book here: https://amzn.to/3zAKBhY
Join us for Monthly Live Date Night this Friday, 6/24 @ 5pm PST where we'll discuss "having the talkS". Come ready to create a plan for launching your children into adulthood as sexually confident and godly humans.
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Adam + Karissa chat with Kristen + Bethany from Girl Defined about disappointment. Join them as they share some practical steps to overcome those tough moments and/or seasons of disappointment.
Recommended Resources: www.girldefined.com/trust www.girldefined.com/bookdub Girl Defined Love Defined Sex, Purity, + the Longings of a Girl’s Heart Shine Bright Ynab App
Connect w/ Kristin + Bethany on Instagram: @girldefined
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Adam + Karissa have a real + raw chat with Josiah Aston, MA + Amber, Aston, MA about ADOPTION. Join them as they share the highs and lows of navigation adoption.
Recommended Resources: How to Talk So Kids Will Listen What to Expect the Toddler Years Smart Money Smart Kids: Raising the Next Generation to Win with Money The New Strong-Willed Child The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind, Survive Everyday Parenting Struggles, and Help Your Family Thrive
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In this episode, Adam, Karissa, and Korena interview Kimberly Horton (mother of 5, including Karissa and Korena) and wife of 37 years about all things parenting. She’s also a coach for parents, holds a Christian Counseling Certificate, and is Prepare-Enrich certified.
Book a parent coaching session with Kim Horton by emailing her at: kimforparents@gmail.com
Tuesday, 5/31 is the final day to pre-order having the talkS! Go to www.havingthetalkS.com
(They’ll be on Amazon in a few weeks, but without all the pre-order perks!)
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Adam + Karissa were joined with Author + Parenting Expert, Erica Souter, to chat about having those hard conversations with your kids. Join them to find out how to have these chats with your kids, because they’re important!
Recommended Resources:
How to Have a Kid and a Life: Survival Guide by Erica Souter
ericasouter.com
Connect with Erica on IG: @ericasouter
www.havingthetalks.com
Pre-order your “having the talkS” deck TODAY and get tons of free bonus items for your family (while supplies last): www.havingthetalks.com
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Family Pastors, Justin + Hillary Jeter, join Adam + Karissa to have a chat about the importance of sexuality discipleship WITH your children, and how as parents, we CANNOT stay silent on this topic.
Previous Podcast Episode w/ Justin + Hillary: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/discipling-your-children-at-home-w-justin-and-hillary/id1494555036?i=1000469338918
Recommended Resources:
God Made Me Special
The Princess and The Kiss
The Squire and The Scroll
God’s Design For Sex
The talkS Resources: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/the-talks-resources
Connect with Justin + Hillary on IG: @justin_jeter + @hillaryjeter + @resolutefamily
Pre-order your “having the talkS” deck TODAY and get tons of free bonus items for your family (while supplies last): www.havingthetalks.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Cole + Cate Zick of Moral Revolution chat with Adam + Karissa about the process to becoming ASKABLE parents and how to un-awkwardly answer the “awkward” questions.
Previous Podcast Episode w/ Cole + Cait: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-young-married-couple/id1494555036?i=1000492107569
Recommended Resources: $50 OFF Parent Well
www.havingthetalks.com
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Join Korena + Karissa as they have a talk with Mary Flo + Megan of Birds and Bees about the importance of having many talkS with your little ones at an early age.
Recommended Resources: Birds + Bees Podcast 75 Minute Online Course (Workbook Included) Good Pics Bad Pics God Made All of Me God’s Design for Sex Series Birds-bees.com
Use discount code “DYMC” for 20% OFF Birds + Bees’ Course.
Connect on Instagram: @birds_bees
www.havingthetalks.com
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Join Adam + Karissa as they share a BIG ANNOUNCEMENT about “having the talkS” w/ Sex Ed Teacher Korena Hendryx, MA.
Pre-order your “having the talkS” deck TODAY and get tons of free bonus items for your family (while supplies last): www.havingthetalks.com
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Raising kids in ministry isn’t about balance, but it’s about fairness. Join Adam + Karissa as they chat with Rev. Aaron + Heather soto about how to raise kids effectively in ministry.
Recommended Resources: You Can’t Make Me, but I Can Be Persuaded
Contact Rev. + Heather Soto on Facebook at Heather Soto
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Join Adam + Karissa as they chat with Clifton + Paula LeJeune about how they have overcome and created the healthy family that they were not raised in.
Recommended Resources: The Perfectly Imperfect Princess by Paula LeJeune Lost in the Woulds by Clifton LeJeune Enemies of the Heart by Andy Stanley www.peoplemover.us www.jesusworshipcenter.com
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Join Adam + Karissa as they chat with Dr. Josh + Christi Straub of Famous at Home about how to express and control our emotions both individually and as a family.
Recommended Resources: What Do I Do with Worry? What Do I Do with Anger? What Am I Feeling? Famous at Home Podcast Famous at Home Website
Pre-Order Famous at Home Book Here: https://www.amazon.com/Famous-Home-Decisions-Competing-Attention/dp/1496454863/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=famous+at+home&qid=1648141805&sprefix=famous+at+home%2Caps%2C68&sr=8-1
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It's not always easy to know the steps to take to repair after a nuclear argument. Join Adam + Karissa as they share how you can repair + the steps to do so!
Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!
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Have your arguments been going nuclear? Join Adam + Karissa as they share a tool to rescue your toxic arguments, along with some simple, easy steps to apply it!
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CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam-Holmes, shares with Adam + Karissa how it is possible to SAVE your marriage if you feel like it’s ending! Join us to find out how!
Recommended Resources:
PIES Episode
3 Day Workshop w/ Marriage Helper
Smart Contact Toolkits
Free Mini Course
www.marriagehelper.com
Marriage Helper on Youtube
Sponsor: intimately.us + Intimately Us App
Connect on Instagram: @kimberlybeamholmes + @marriagehelper
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Join Adam + Karissa with Dan Purcell, Founder of “Get Your Marriage On” as they dive into the difference between wanting sex + wanting your spouse.
Recommended Resources:
Getyourmarriageon.com
Just Between Us App
Intimately Us App
Connect on Instagram: @getyourmarriageon
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Carl Thomas, MTS shares with us parts of his own personal struggle with pornography, as well as how to overcome it and prepare for exposure. Join Adam + Karissa to be a part of the chat.
Recommended Resources:
livefreecommunity.org
livefreewives.org
smallgroupsonline.com
whenshamegetsreal.com
xxxchurch.com
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Join Adam and Karissa as they chat with Dr. Ron Ramsey as he shares 6 STEPS on how to FORGIVE.
Recommended Resources:
40 Days to Forgiveness: A Christian’s Field Guide to the Forgiveness Journey
40 Days to Forgiveness Workbook
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Guys, if you’re looking for the good guy’s guide to GREAT sex - this one is for you! Join Adam + Karissa as they talk with Dr. Keith Gregoire + Sheila Gregoire, LMFT.
Recommended Resources:
The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex
The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex (new edition!)
Great Sex Rescue
Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
Sheila’s Website: www.baremarriage.com
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Do you want some practical secrets on how to have LASTING LOVE with your spouse? Come and be a part of our chat with John David Mann + Ana Gabriel Mann to find out how!
Recommended Resources:
I Don’t Want to Talk About It
Getting the Love You Want
The Go-Giver
The Go-Giver Leader
The Go-Giver Marriage
www.johndavidmann.com
www.gogivermarriage.com
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Regardless of who we are or the title we hold, we all need boundaries in our life. Join Adam + Karissa as they talk with Pastor Daniel McKillop about how boundaries protect us!
Recommended Resources:
An Affair of the Mind
The Demise of Guys
Boundaries
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If you want to bring more fun and passion into your marriage, wives, this episode is for you. Join Karissa and Lisa Jacobson as they discuss the FLIRTATION experiment!
Recommended Resources: 100 Ways to Love Your Husband 100 Way to Love Your Wife The Flirtation Experiment Club31women.com
Connect with Lisa Jacobson on IG: @club31women
Want to go adventuring with us and give your marriage an intimacy boost? Come join us for the: INTIMACY AND ADVENTURE RETREAT St. George, Utah March 11-13, 2022
We only have a few spots left and we’d love for you to be one of those few couples! Reserve your spot here: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/StGeorgeMarriageRetreat
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Addiction is a very real and powerful battle that many people face. Join us as we chat with Jake Wolf + Dr. Denise Wolf as they share parts of their story with us about their own experiences with addiction + how they overcame it.
You can contact Jake and Denise for their free Facilitator’s Manual:
Info@savedandsober.com
FB: https://www.facebook.com/SavedandSoberMinistry/
IG: @saved_sober
www.saveandsober.com
(916) 622-4269
Recommended Resources
Alcoholics Anonymous
Narcotics Anonymous
Gamblers Anonymous
Overeaters Anonymous
Food Addiction Anonymous
Alanon
Alateen
SAMHSA: https://www.samhsa.gov/
Register for the workshop on "Our 2022 Habits" - Friday, January 21st @ 5pm PST: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/monthlylivedatenight
Want to go adventuring with us and give your marriage an intimacy boost? Come join us for the: INTIMACY AND ADVENTURE RETREAT St. George, Utah March 11-13, 2022
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Have you wanted to talk to your spouse about health + fitness, but you're just not sure how to start the conversation or what to steer clear of? Join Adam + Karissa as they share some tips and scripts on a topic that can sometimes be taboo.
Workshop on 2022 Habits - at MLDN: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/monthlylivedatenight
Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!
Want to go adventuring with us and give your marriage an intimacy boost? Come join us for the: INTIMACY AND ADVENTURE RETREAT St. George, Utah March 11-13, 2022
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Facing fears and putting on courage isn’t always easy, but it can serve a purpose! Join Adam + Karissa as they share some practical tools to help work through fears and put on courage.
Recommended Resources:
Hebrew Word Study Devotional
Planner
Fear Setting Ted Talk by Tim Ferris: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5J6jAC6XxAI
Workshop on 2022 Habits - at MLDN: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/monthlylivedatenight
Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!
Want to go adventuring with us and give your marriage an intimacy boost? Come join us for the: INTIMACY AND ADVENTURE RETREAT St. George, Utah March 11-13, 2022
We have 9 spots left and we’d love for you to be one of those 9 couples! Reserve your spot here: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/StGeorgeMarriageRetreat
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As you think about what 2022 holds, join Adam and Karissa and learn some tools for how to craft your ideal week.
Recommended Episodes for personal growth and development:
Growing into a BETTER US w/ Rev. Drs. Myles and Sheila Young
What I Wish I Would've Known About MONEY Before I Got Married w/ Rachel Cruze, Finance Expert
When PLAYING SAFE Means LIVING SMALL w/ Andrew Bentley
Going to SCHOOL as a Married Couple w/ Curtis Hendryx, Esq. and Korena Hendryx, MA - Attorney and Science Teacher
A New Year's Resolution for My SEX LIFE? Say What?!
Recommended Resources:
Your Best Year Ever by Michael Hyatt
Hero on a Mission by Donald Miller
Traction: Get a Grip on Your Business by Gino Wickman
Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg
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Want to go adventuring with us and give your marriage an intimacy boost? Come join us for the: INTIMACY AND ADVENTURE RETREAT St. George, Utah March 11-13, 2022
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There are 3 culprits that tend to sabotage our flow during the holiday season - tune in to hear what they are!
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Join us in this special episode with Pastor Douglas Walker about the “Worst Gift EVER for Your Spouse”.
*Video footage and images in Pergamum, courtesy of Truth Church Media Team: Mindy Gill, Stephen Gill, Anna Gill, Preston Walker
Resources Truth Talks Podcast Crucial Conversations Crucial Accountability
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Men, this episode is for you! Join us as we chat with Author + Speaker, Morgan Snyder, about pursuing healthy masculinity.
Resources www.becomegoodsoil.com Become Good Soil Podcast Becoming a King Study Guide by Morgan Snyder
My favorite brand for Mamas: KINDRED BRAVELY www.kindredbravely.com Use code DYMC20 for 20% off your purchase!
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Hi friends!
We’re excited to be growing with you on this podcast. We’ve shared interviews with therapists, pastors, and other couples, and now we want to connect with you on a personal level.
Join us as we share how we met as teens, our dating story, and the story of “Dear Young Married Couple”. Leave us a review here and tell us where you’re from so that we can get to know you too!
We hope to meet you in person at a conference or retreat coming up in your area this year!
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Are you IN or OUT of rhythm in your marriage? Join us as we have a conversation with Chris + Jenni Graebe as they share FIVE rhythms to a thriving marriage!
Resources The Rhythm of Us Book The Rhythm of Us Podcast https://www.therhythmofus.com
Connect with Chris + Jenni @jennigraebe @chrisgraebe
My favorite brand for Mamas: KINDRED BRAVELY www.kindredbravely.com Use code DYMC20 for 20% off your purchase!
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No one is born average. We’re all fearfully and wonderfully made. Join us as we chat with Author + Speaker, Darin Sargent, on “Living Above Average”.
You can contact Darin Sargent: www.darinsargent.com IG: @darinsargent Podcast: The Darin Sargent Show
“Nobody is Born Average” Course: www.nobodyisbornaverage.com
“Thank you, Mr. Jenkins” (Children’s Storybook by Darin Sargent) “Mr. Jenkins Interview” on YouTube (4th Grade Teacher)
Other Recommendations “Storyworthy” by Matthew Dicks Sample of a Bullet Journal: https://amzn.to/2YacBsG
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Free 5-Day Devotional: https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/opt-in-7951d525-a747-4745-ab18-4905adf7558e
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We all have different needs, and it’s important that we know what they are! Join us as we have a conversation with Andrew Bentley about HIS needs and HER needs.
When PLAYING SAFE Means LIVING SMALL w/ Andrew Bentley
Contact: @bentley238
Recommended Resources: Body Keeps The Score Brene Brown Books When The Body Says No
My favorite brand for Mamas: KINDRED BRAVELY www.kindredbravely.com Use code DYMC20 for 20% off your purchase!
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Finding balance between serving the church and not losing your family can be tough. Join us as we have a conversation with Rev. Nathan + Ashley Whitley on how to find balance through practical steps.
Resources: Cut It Straight Podcast Mastermind Leadership Podcast @mastermindleadership Free Mastermind Leadership Assessment
My favorite brand for Mamas: KINDRED BRAVELY www.kindredbravely.com Use code DYMC20 for 20% off your purchase!
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Did you know that God CELEBRATES sex? Join us as we have a conversation with Dr. Gary Thomas + Debra Fileta, LPC about “Married Sex”!
Recommended Resources: marriedsex.us Are You Really OK?
Contact: truelovedates.com @debrafieleta garythomas.com
My favorite brand for Mamas: KINDRED BRAVELY www.kindredbravely.com Use code DYMC20 for 20% off your purchase!
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Finding your calling can feel tough, but doesn’t have to be! Join us as we chat with Arden + Christian Bevere about how finding your calling isn’t as tough as you think.
My favorite brand for Mamas: KINDRED BRAVELY www.kindredbravely.com Use code DYMC20 for 20% off your purchase!
Their Book https://amzn.to/3ALd5mm
Recommended Resources https://amzn.to/3DMqAnG https://amzn.to/3E0FwyL
Contact www.https://www.sonsanddaughters.tv @sonsanddaughters.tv @ardenbevere @mrschristianbevere
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In this episode, Adam and Karissa share what they learned while traveling in Europe and Asia this month (both with their kids and without) and why you should travel too!
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If you’ve been wanting to not only ditch the baggage and change your life, this episode is for you! Join us as we chat with Melanie Wise of Mercy Multiplied as she shares 7 keys to lasting freedom!
Recommended Resources 5 Steps When Trust is Broken
Melanie Wise’s Recommended Resources Ditch the Baggage, Change Your Life: 7 Keys to Lasting Freedom Keys to Freedom Study Program Mercy Multiplied
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Join us as we chat with Rabbi Mannis Freedman about how intimacy is the goal of every relationship, including our relationship with God.
Resources
https://itsgoodtoknow.org/free-audio-book-2/
https://itsgoodtoknow.org/
The Joy of Intimacy
Doesn’t Anybody Blush Anymore
Creating a Life that Matters
Art Scroll
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We recorded a special episode about one of our most frequently asked questions - “How do I know if he/she is the ONE?”. Join us as we chat about five criteria for discovering if he/she could potentially be "the one" for you! Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Has the enemy been trying to convince you that your hurt isn’t as severe as someone else’s that you might know of? Join us as we talk with Dr. Dan Allender about how this is just an evil fruit of the enemy, as well as how to overcome your hurts.
Recommended Resources
The Allender Center
Healing the Wounded Heart
Healing the Wounded Heart Workbook
Anatomy of the Soul
The Body Keeps the Score
Online Courses at the Allender Center
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Did you know that you can reduce your chances of divorce by 31% if you do this ONE thing BEFORE you get married? Watch this video to hear what it is!
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You guys! Today, we’ve officially produced 100 EPISODES on the #DYMCpodcast!
What better way to celebrate than by featuring YOU - our community of couples? We enjoyed sifting through the recordings that you guys submitted and these couples that we featured have a special place in our hearts - they’re core people in our DYMC Fam.
It was really special to feature Joel and Bekah’s advice, since they’re the real couple that we worked with in our prEquipped course (launching in just 4 days on Tuesday, September 14th!). They gave permission for us to film their premarital counseling sessions (totally unscripted) so that premarital couples can learn from them for years to come. We’re so proud of them and the work they’ve put into equipping themselves for a strong, healthy, and intimately connected marriage.
We love you all and we appreciate the love and support you pour into the community. The DYMC Fam wouldn’t be what it is without you. #dearyoungmarriedcouple
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In this episode, we address:
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Why People are Against It (0:19)
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Five Reasons Why We Think You Should (5:29)
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When To Get Premarital Counseling as a Dating Couple (17:16)
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When we think of postpartum depression, we often think of specific symptoms that could "never happen to me". Nope. Join us as we chat with Sarah Sanders on how it can actually look very different in each mom, which is why it's so important that we talk about all the different ways it can look.
Recommended Resources
Postpartum Support International
The Body Keeps the Score
Beyond the Blues: Understanding and Treating Prenatal and Postpartum Depression & Anxiety
Mom Genes Fight PPD App
Psychology Today
Moms With Young Kids Support Group
You can reach Sarah Sanders:
Website: www.sarahsanderslmft.com
Email: sarah@sarahsanderslmft.com
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Do you realize how many people struggle with anger? We can tell you - It’s A LOT! Anger is a form of communication that is telling us something. It's our job to go in and find where it's coming from. Sometimes we don’t know, and sometimes it’s very clear. Join us as we dive a little deeper into the topic of Anger and share some tips for what to do when you flip your lid.
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Why is it that humans are so ready to box sexuality in this corner that’s not touched by God’s glory? Join us as we talk with Author David Grams on this question and the power of sex as God intended it.
David’s Books on Sex and Marriage:
Undefiled
Christ and the Church
You can contact David by going to valiantmi.com/contact.
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Have you felt less confident sexually since having babies? Then MOMFIDENCE is for you! Just go to www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/MOMFIDENCE to register and you’ll get your ticket info via e-mail.
Here’s what else you’ll get:
❣️ A 3-hr LIVE online power-packed workshop
❣️ Sexual Health Self-Assessment
❣️ Mini Sex-Ed Course for Moms
❣️ 3 Exercises for Strengthening the Pelvic Floor
❣️ A Mindfulness and Breathing Exercise
❣️ Ways to feel more energized and look forward to connecting with your husband, both in and out of the bedroom
❣️ A workbook, with some pretty epic homework assignments
Can’t make it live? Register anyway, and you’ll have the replay available for 1 week (plus all the good stuff in the list above). It’s time to become sexually secure after babies, ladies!
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Repairing broken trust is not always easy, but it's worth it! Join us in discussing one common mistake made by people when trying to repair trust, as well as tips to help the healing process.
Resources
5 Steps When Trust Has Been Broken:
https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/recommended-resources/
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Do you want to learn how to view every normal moment in life as a gift? Join us in our interview with Todd and Brooke Tilghman to learn how!
Todd and Brooke’s book: Every Little Win
Instagram: @todd_tilghman + @brooke@tilghman
Facebook: @toddtilghmanmusic
Twitter: @todd_tilghman
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Are you feeling the weight of other people's problems? If so, we interviewed our Executive Vision Ninja and Creator of Opportunities, Rev. Evan Grizzle, MA and Rev. Ashley Grizzle, MA, on the topic of “How to NOT Carry Their BAGGAGE”, and this episode is for you!
You can reach Evan and Ashley:
Podcast on YouTube @biblosnetwork
Instagram @thinkonthesethingspodcast
Text: (910) 600-0498
Recommended Resources
Ordering Your Private World
Soul Keeping
Didn’t See it Coming
When Helping Hurts
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Do you really know the true meaning of love and where it comes from? Rev. Joel Urshan powerfully explains the true meaning of love, its origin, and how aiming to be like John the Beloved will change your marriage in this episode!
Rev. Joel Urshan Recommended:
Tree of Life Church - Joel Urshan (Podcast)
Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
The Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman
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Are you in a long-distance relationship with your spouse? Whether the distance is due to the military, ministry, or a work trip that has you and your spouse separated for a period of time, this episode with Abe and Elaine Romero, LMFT is for you!
Abe and Elaine recommended:
Ultimate Intimacy App (for married couples)
Grub Hub/Uber Eats Surprises to Each other
Cooking/baking competitions
Virtual Vacation
Love is in the Air Podcast
You can contact Abe and Elaine:
@commutermarriagesupport
Elaine.romero@shcounseling.org
https://linktr.ee/LOVEISINTHEAIR_
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Kristen Clark, Cofounder of Girl Defined Ministries, shares so much helpful insight on walking through seasons of recurrent miscarriages and infertility. If you are like Kristen or know someone who is, you’re going to want to listen to this episode.
You can contact Kristen through Girl Defined:
www.girldefined.com
@girldefined + @krstnclark
kristen@girldefined.com
Check out the books by Kristen and Bethany at Girl Defined:
Girl Defined
Love Defined
Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl's Heart
Shine Bright: 60-Day Devotional
Not Part of the Plan
Other Resources that Kristen recommended:
Dealing Hope in the Darkest of Nights (article on John Piper’s website)
Therefore I have Hope by Cameron Cole
30 Days of Praying the Names and Attributes of God
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77% of couples can’t talk about money well. Tune into this episode to hear Shaunti Feldhahn (author and researcher) talk about why this is and how to fix it in your marriage!
Shaunti’s Resources:
Thriving in Love and Money
For Women Only
For Men Only
www.thriveinloveandmoney.com
www.shaunti.com
Join us at a LIVE event on Zoom, coming up THIS FRIDAY on 6/25/21 @ 5pm PST:
MONEY AND YOUR MARRIAGE
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In today's episode, an anonymous listener asks a question about feeling stunted in growth where she and her husband are now and whether or not they should move.
While we talk about prayer in this episode, we place special emphasis on how prayer is sometimes more about getting you THROUGH something, rather than OUT of something. Tune in to hear more of our answer for this listener.
To record your own question for an upcoming ASK episode, go to: www.speakpipe.com/dearyoungmarriedcouple
Join us at a LIVE event on Zoom, coming up on 6/25/21 @ 5pm PST:
MONEY AND YOUR MARRIAGE
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Recommended Resources:
“How to Say Yes” Video on YouTube
The Circle Maker by Mark Batterson
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If you're married to a man, then you've probably tried various approaches to get him to have a deeper conversation with you. The problem is, most of us have likely attempted this in not-so-helpful ways.
In this episode, Laura Doyle shares 4 very practical scripts to help you ACTUALLY have a deeper conversation with your man.
You can contact Laura:
Website: www.lauradoyle.org
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauramdoyle/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lauradoyle.org/
Twitter: @lauramdoyle
Laura’s Resources
The Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle
The Surrendered Wife by Laura Doyle
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Are you an entrepreneur or minister? If so, you don't want to miss the advice and tools that Adam and Karissa share for your marriage in this episode.
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Dr. Gary Thomas presents revelatory soundbites that are just a preview to the rich theology that you find in his book "Sacred Marriage". If you're looking to be challenged as a Christian, listen to this episode.
Contact Gary Thomas:
FB: Author Gary Thomas
Some of Gary’s Best Books (relevant to this episode):
Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas
A Lifelong Love by Gary Thomas
Cherish by Gary Thomas
Loving Him Well by Gary Thomas
Gary recommended these books:
Together Through the Storms by Sarah and Jeff Walton
After You Believe by N.T. Wright
The Meaning of Marriage by Tim Keller
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$1 DATE NIGHT: http://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/dollardatenight “Jesus deals so much with money in the Bible... We know for a fact that Jesus spent a lot of time talking about money. 16 out of the 38 parables that Jesus gives are about money and possessions!" We can either worship wealth or we can worship WITH our wealth. Which one do you pick? Come join us for our $1 DATE NIGHT on Friday, June 25th @ 5pm PST. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR JUST $1: http://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/dollardatenight Can't wait to see you there! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dav and Bethany have been married for 2.5 years and they reflect in this episode about 5 lessons they learned during the first year as a married couple.
You can contact Dav and Bethany through Girl Defined:
www.girldefined.com
@girldefined
Check out the books by Bethany and Kristen at Girl Defined:
Girl Defined
Love Defined
Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl's Heart
Shine Bright: 60-Day Devotional
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Tune in to hear A+K discuss the essential steps for how to apologize to your spouse for the "everyday" stuff.
When trust has been broken or there are deeper wounds, use the steps in this PDF/video series: https://dearyoungmarriedcouple.us18.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=08c1930b38357569690d525e6&id=41a4944e26
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Miguel Gallegos grew up as an aspiring shot-caller for a prominent gang in the Sacramento area. He soon found himself in prison, which was considered an accomplishment by his gang family.
That all changed when he found God one day. Now, he's a therapist, author, minister, speaker, and soon-to-be Dr. Gallegos. Tune in to hear him talk about what gang culture can teach us about connection in a family.
You can contact Miguel Gallegos here:
miguelgallegoscounseling@gmail.com
cell: (916) 717-8905
Miguel recommended:
Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
Hold On to Your Kids by Gabor Mate and Gordon Neufeld
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Dr. Douglas Carpenter experienced an emotionally absent father growing up and he shares the impact that it made on him in today's episode. His career and calling are now all about helping people impacted by the same. He's an author, speaker, and psychologist who works to heal the wounds of trauma and fatherlessness.
You can order Dr. Carpenter's book here.
You can contact Dr. Carpenter here:
www.insightcounselingpc.com
drdwc69@me.com
Dr. Carpenter recommended:
Trauma and the Non-Alpha Male by Dr. Douglas Carpenter
Changing Course by Claudia Black
Healing the Shame that Binds You by John Bradshaw
The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
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Are you a 'good' couple? In today's episode, Rev. Donny Willis issues a challenge to you and shares so many nuggets of wisdom to help you move from your comfortable place of 'good' to something so much BUTTER. (P.S. He's "The Butter Man" from the Macy's Day Parade in 2019".)
You can find Donny's book here.
You can contact Donny at: www.donnywillis.com
Donny recommended:
The One Thing by Gary Keller
Leadershift by John Maxwell
It’s Not About Me by Max Lucado
The Greatest Salesman in the World by Og Medino
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Today we released a podcast episode that was originally aired on the "Husband Material Men" podcast, where CEO, Drew Boa, interviews us on rebuilding Sexual Intimacy after pornography use.
Some of Drew Boa's Resources:
Redeemed Sexuality by Drew Boa (book for small groups)
Unwanted Workbook by Jay Stringer and Drew Boa
HusbandMaterialMen.com (FB Group)
Husband Material Academy (Coaching Program)
Husband Material Podcast
You can reach Drew Boa at:
Text: (805) 881-3673
E-mail: drew@husbandmaterial.com
Website: www.husbandmaterial.com
IG: @husbandmaterialmen
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Today we released a podcast episode that was originally aired on the "Husband Material Men" podcast, where CEO, Drew Boa, interviews us on our 5 Steps To Take When Trust Has Been Broken. Here's a link to the free PDF with these steps.
Some of Drew Boa's Resources:
Redeemed Sexuality by Drew Boa (book for small groups)
Unwanted Workbook by Jay Stringer and Drew Boa
HusbandMaterialMen.com (FB Group)
Husband Material Academy (Coaching Program)
Husband Material Podcast
You can reach Drew Boa at:
Text: (805) 881-3673
E-mail: drew@husbandmaterial.com
Website: www.husbandmaterial.com
IG: @husbandmaterialmen
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"We were in the hardest part of our marriage when Seth was in graduate school becoming a therapist, we had 1-year-old and I had just given birth to our second son two weeks before. Two kids in 15 months was already a lot. Then, Seth came up to me one day and confessed that he had been lying and looking at pornography." - Melanie from Anatomy of Marriage
Tune in to hear Seth (LMFT and marriage coach) and Melanie (marriage coach) share their journey of growth in crisis, and how they've used it to help other couples heal and grow too!
You can contact Seth and Melanie:
hello@anatomyofmarriage.com
www.thestudleys.com/aom
"Get Your Marriage On" App
Seth and Melanie recommended:
Miracle Morning by Hal Arod
The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks
Wild at Heart by John Eldredge
Change Your Thoughts. Change Your Life by Wayne Dyer
I am Enough by Marisa Peer
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It's Friday, which means some of you are doing DATE NIGHT! Here are a few tips from us about going DEEPER at DATE NIGHT! We also share a few practical resources to help you get creative and find novelty in your date night and sex life:
Use "DYMC" until 4/2/21 for 15% off of The Adventure Challenge (10% off after that). Such a FUN way to switch things up with your spouse: https://www.theadventurechallenge.com/collections/products
Get "The Position Post" for monthly dating, relationship, and sex tips here: http://link.oneextraordinarymarriage.com/positionpost/p2
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"Don’t just pray for blessing. Pray for the capacity for blessing." - One of our favorite quotes from Hunter and Brookelyn during this power-packed episode.
Hunter and Brookelyn are a kingdom-minded, successful, young married couple that we had the privilege to interview. They cover everything money and your marriage:
Becoming wealthy
Having more than you need
Entrepreneurs and Intrapreneurs
Financial backgrounds and mindsets from childhood
God's math
Budgeting and Investing
Getting on the same page with your finances
Blessing
You can contact Hunter and Brookelyn:
The Blessed Business website
The Blessed Business podcast
Hunter and Brookelyn recommended:
The Go-Giver by Bob Burg
The Noticer by Andy Andrews
Love Your Life. Not Theirs by Rachel Cruze
Three Feet From Gold by Napoleon Hill Foundation
Thou Shall Prosper by Rabbi Daniel Lappin
EntreLeadership by Dave Ramsey
Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey
The Principles of Success on The Blessed Business Podcast
How to Get Rich on The Naval Podcast
Building a Storybrand by Donald Miller
Marketing Made Simple by Donald Miller
Business Made Simple by Donald Miller
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Does your sex life need a rescue? Today, we have Sheila Wray Gregoire back on the podcast, author of The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex. She is joined by her daughter and co-author of the The Great Sex Rescue, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach, and they share the results of their giant study of 22,000 Christian women in this episode. These are incredible insights that will help rescue not only your sex life, but the message around sex and sexuality in the Christian movement at large.
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Sheila and Rebecca recommended:
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex (book)
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex (podcast episode)
The Great Sex Rescue (their new book!)
The Orgasm Course
You can reach Sheila and Rebecca at:
www.tolovehonorandvacuum.com
sheila@sheilawraygregoire.com
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This episode was recorded from the Island of Roatan, Honduras.
Missionaries Steven and Rachel Jones decided to follow the call of God and make the move from California to Roatan to become missionaries after just a few years of marriage. Listen in to hear how they made that decision and managed the risks involved.
Steven and Rachel recommended:
Wilson University
Love and Respect
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“The biggest misstep that we've taken is that we’ve flattened this robust, multi-dimensional, layered, nuanced experience of our sexuality into a one-dimensional act of sex. We’ve flattened this experience into a set do's and don'ts.
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It’s much easier to preach ‘Don’t even get close. Just don’t do anything at all.’ It’s much easier to offer a black and white sound bite than to equip people to actually seek God and look at the scriptures.” -- @therefinedwoman
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SINGLE people - take the time to tune into this episode and be enlightened with HOW to express your sexuality as a single person. Expressing sexuality is NOT all about having sex.
You can pre-order Kat's book Sexless in the City here.
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The issue of shame, not just about pornography, but shame around sexuality in general, is probably the #1 issue we see in our counseling office. Some are coming into counseling because of sexual issues or they’re coming in for other reasons and, as we dig to the root, we often realize that it’s due to shame around sexuality. ♥️ We, as parents, can mitigate this if we’re working with our children from a young age to have open conversations around sexuality. We can celebrate sexuality and we can even be the “go-to” for our children when they have questions on these topics.”
Recommended Resources:
SEXPECTATIONS Card Deck for Married Couples (by Yours Truly)
The Talk: 7 Lessons to Introduce Your Children to Biblical Sexuality by Luke Gilkerson
Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart by Kristen Clark and Bethany Beal
A Celebration of Sex: A Guide to Enjoying God's Gift of Sexual Intimacy by Doug Rosenau
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex by Sheila Wray Gregoire
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In this episode, Kimberly Beam-Holmes, founder of PIES University and CEO of Marriage Helper, shares the 4-step formula for falling in love and staying in love:
Attraction
Acceptance
Attachment
Aspiration
She also shares important aspects of attraction and how there are actually FOUR types of attraction:
Physical
Intellectual
Emotional
Spiritual
Listen in to hear SO MANY nuggets of wisdom!
You can contact Kimberly:
IG: @kimberlybeamholmes
www.ItStartsWithAttraction.com
Free Attraction Assessment
To contact Marriage Helper:
www.MarriageHelper.com
YouTube.com/marriagehelper
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We can only hope that you will be as blessed as we were by this interview we had with the New York Times best-selling author, Dr. Gary Chapman.
Dr. Chapman is best known for his book "The Five Love Languages", but many of you were curious about things that you didn't see in the book, so we shot your questions to him in this 30-minute conversation.
You can discover your love language by taking the 5 Love Languages Quiz here.
Dr. Chapman discussed and recommended the following books:
The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married by Gary Chapman
Anger: Taming a Powerful Emotion by Gary Chapman
The Love Languages Devotional Bible
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🎉 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT! Coming to an Amazon near you in February: FUNDAMENTOS Baraja de cartas 🎉 ♥ You guys! We can't tell you how excited we are for this project to come to fruition. So many of you have asked about the DYMC card decks being available in Spanish because you have a spouse, friends, or family members who don't know English, but would love this resource. This has been in the works for a long time and it will finally be ready to ship to you (2-Day Prime shipping on Amazon) in February. Listen to Adriel and Magdiel (who also served on the translation team) share their experience with the #DYMCdecks: ♥ “The FUNDAMENTOS deck has been such a blessing to us! Every Friday, we have date night and on our way to the place, we do the DYMC cards (but we usually only get through one card)! We spend all 30 minutes talking about ONE thing. Oftentimes, the one card gets us started talking about different topics that we really needed to talk about. ♥ In our culture, it’s not common for men to be very open. On top of that, even if the husband IS being open, sometimes we don’t even know where to start. It can be so frustrating to have the desire for your suppose to really understand how you’re feeling, but not know the words to start a deep conversation like that. ♥ The cards do a great job of breaking down the wall for men to be sensitive about your feelings. It just takes a little card from this deck that can provide an opportunity for you to express yourself and be vulnerable to your spouse. ♥ Sometimes my husband even wants to dig further and says, ‘Tell me more about this!’ These decks have been such a blessing to our marriage that now we even keep them in our car.” — Adriel Solís and Magdiel De Salas de Solís. ♥ Listen to this episode with our Dominican (+Puerto Rican, +Wisconsian 😅) friends as they share some powerful insights about their experience in a Hispanic culture and observing many other Hispanic cultures. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
3 Blended Family Pitfalls that Can Destroy a Marriage:
Putting your children before your spouse
Reactive instead of proactive communication
Thinking you’re alone in the storm
Cynthia shares practical solutions for each of these challenges in this episode. Listen in to become equipped as a blended family.
You can contact Cynthia at:
www.imaginemeefc.com
IMCynthia@imaginemeefc.com
(916) 272-0950
Cynthia recommended these resources:
Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages and Becoming Stepfamily Smart by Gary Chapman and Ron Deal
Black and Married with Kids
Smart Stepfamilies - Ron Deal
STEP PARENTING: 50 One-Minute DOs and DONTs for Stepdads and Stepmoms
Family Life Blended
While these books are written to help children and teens understand their blended family, their messages are great for the entire family.
Do You Sing Twinkle? A Story About Remarriage and New Family
Step One, Step Two, Step Three and Four
The Things About Leftovers
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"But when you turn off your emotions to the people you love, all it does is create distance. Especially us, as men. We tend to turn off all emotion, even when we don’t need to. That used to be me, but it all changed after I found myself on Ground Zero as a firefighter during 9/11. ♥️ The NYC fire department lost 343 firefighters. Being there on that day was like being on another planet. I saw so many people I knew just... vanish. But it was the months afterwards that were incredibly stressful. ♥️ We firefighters don’t get a lot of help with learning to talk about stressful events. We learn to separate our work from our home and that’s about it. The problem was that my wife was stressed out too. She felt like she couldn’t talk to me because she didn’t want to make me feel worse. Then, I couldn’t talk to her because I didn’t want to bring work home. What do you think started happening to my marriage? ♥️ There was no oxygen to give life to my marriage, so the distance crept in. So much of what I teach now is what I learned to do back then. It's called Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT). I never thought I’d be traveling around the world talking about emotions. It’s all about flexibility. If we’re okay getting help to turn it off, we should all be okay getting help to turn it back on.” — George Faller, MS, LMFT
You can reach George Faller at:
www.georgefaller.com
www.successandvulnerability.com - for therapists
New York Center for EFT
George recommended:
Magnificent Sex by Peggy Kleinplatz
Sacred Stress by George Faller
Created for Connection by Sue Johnson
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In this episode, Adam and Karissa reflect back on October 8, 2007 - a date that Adam was 10 minutes from death and called Karissa while stuck in the cab of an old truck at the bottom of a 40-ft ravine (while his lung filled up with blood). Listen in to hear the story and lessons learned.
Hope you'll join us LIVE on 1/15/21 @ 5:30pm where we'll share a template for YOUR goal setting session and we'll share OUR 2021 goals. We'll also cover "How to Write a Marriage Mission Statement". Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Every year between 12/26 and 12/31, we sit down with intentionality and map out new habits for each area of our life and marriage - including our sex life! Hope you'll join us LIVE on 1/15/21 @ 5:30pm where we'll share a template for YOUR goal setting session and we'll share OUR 2021 goals. :) Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com
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Don't get so caught up with the holiday hurry that you miss out on sweet moments with each other. Try these 5 things to stay connected with your lover this week! Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com
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In this episode, we interview Nick and Amy McKinlay, the creators of the Christian marriage app, @ultimateintimacyapp. This couple figured out how to attain and maintain ultimate intimacy, so they created an app for it so that they could help many more couples on this journey!
Hear their story about how they went from quantity sex to quality sex after having four children.
You can reach Nick and Amy at:
amy@ultimateintimacy.com
Nick and Amy Recommended:
Ultimate Intimacy App on Apple
Ultimate Intimacy App on Google Play
www.UtlimateIntimacy.com
IG: @ultimateintimacyapp
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In English, we can love vegan tacos, our golden doodle, Christmas lights, Jeeps, our spouse, and God -- but we call it all "love". The Bible, however, uses FOUR different Greek concepts of love: ♥️ 1. storge // affection love 2. philia // friendship love 3. eros // romantic love 4. agape // selfless love ♥️ We dive into each of these on today's podcast, so get ready to nerd out with us for a bit. :) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this interview, we interview Christian apologist Nancy Pearcey on her new book, Love Thy Body. Yes, the title is a little shocking to some, but it is, as she argues, the biblical point of view. The body is created by God and is good. Down through the centuries, as secularism has taken root, the reverence for the body as God's creation has been displaced. We explore these topics along with asking, "What, if any, non-biblical ideas about the body have infiltrated Christianity? What's the societal result of not loving your body?"
Tune in for this fascinating conversation.
You can reach Nancy at:
www.nancypearcey.com
Nancy Recommended:
Love Thy Body by Nancy Pearcey
Please Understand Me by David Keirsey
16Personalities.com
Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman
The New Rules of Marriage by Terry Real
The Secrets of Happily Married Men by Scott Haltzman
Soft Patriarchs by Bradford Wilcox
The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie Vernick
Necessary Endings by Dr. Henry Cloud
Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix and Helen Hunt
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"If you’re hesitant in moving forward with your relationship because it might take away from your degree, then you might need to take a step back and think about several other things going on in your relationship.
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When you make the decision to get married while in school, you have to make it as a team. You need to have the mentality that says, ‘I’ll be there for you.’ or ‘I’ll go back to school with you.’" - Curtis and Korena Hendryx
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Take it from a couple that obtained a bachelors, masters, teaching credential, law degree and passed the bar exam... all within 7 years of marriage. Even if you or your spouse don't plan on going to school but want to be successful as a couple, you don't want to miss this podcast episode!
Resources recommended in the episode:
Debt Free Degree by Anthony O’Neal
Fear Setting by Tim Ferris
Find Your Why by Simon Sinek
The Disciplined Life by Richard Taylor
The Celebration of Discipline by Richard Foster
Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg
Sheet Music by Kevin Leman
Men are From Mars. Women are from Venus by Dr. John Gray
Jordan Peterson Podcast
The Bible Project
You can reach Curtis and Korena on IG:
@chendryx + @korenahendryx
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“My biggest piece of advice for the wedding night: Don’t aim for intercourse, aim for arousal. ♥️ Christian women experience sexual pain at twice the rate of the general population… so this is OUR problem. I think a large part of that is due to the rushing for intercourse on the wedding night, even if she’s been looking forward to sex her whole life. ♥️ The reason we tell dating couples to avoid lying down on a couch together and making out is because once you start in that progression, it can be hard to stop. The couples that avoid those things when they’re dating often end up completely skipping steps on their wedding night. They’re thinking, 'Now we can have sex, so why would you do all those middle things?' ♥️ That’s why I ask couples to ask themselves why it is that those middle things are arousing? Why is making out while your hands wander arousing? It’s often because you’re not aiming for anything — you’re just enjoying each other. You’re taking a really long time and you’re RELAXED together. ♥️ What happens for many couples on their wedding night is that they feel like they have to have sex… so they take off their clothes and try intercourse. In the surveys that we did, a lot of women said that they were not aroused the first time they had sex and that’s a problem… ♥️ Instead of aiming for intercourse on your wedding night, aim for arousal so you can stay relaxed together. I know it’s really difficult because you’ve been looking forward to this your whole life, but just trust me on this one.” — Sheila Wray Gregoire, MA ♥️ Listen in to hear the much-needed conversation we have with award-winning author/public speaker, Sheila Wray Gregoire.
Sheila recommended:
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex by Sheila Wray Gregoire
31 Days to Great Sex by Sheila Wray Gregoire
The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Wray Gregoire
The Orgasm Course
Boost Your Libido Course
You can reach Sheila at:
www.tolovehonorandvacuum.com
sheila@sheilawraygregoire.com
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We all need connection and we aren't designed to get that solely from our spouse, hence the reason we got asked this question. ♥️ In this episode, we share some easy-to-learn tips for gaining friends and keeping them.
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Here's the link to How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.
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Are you enjoying these mini ASK episodes with your voices recorded in them? You can record your own question for our next episode here.
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In today's episode, we featured another question from YOU!
"How can a spouse learn to be more empathetic when they were not shown empathy growing up?"
We have three answers for you, so listen in on this quick 10-minute episode! :)
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"My generation was raised by pornography. When it comes to learning sexuality, porn was our parent. Porn was our substitute girlfriend. Porn was our Sex Ed teacher. More importantly, it became our pacifier." - Drew Boa, MA
Drew Boa is passionate about helping men become porn-free before marriage and he runs the "Husband Material" programs (links below). In today's episode, he shares a method to help you get to the bottom of a pornography addiction.
To download a FREE PDF of the FLOSS method discussed in the episode today, go here.
Drew recommended:
Redeemed Sexuality by Drew Boa (book for small groups)
Unwanted by Jay Stringer
Unwanted Workbook by Jay Stringer and Drew Boa
HusbandMaterialMen.com (FB Group)
Husband Material Academy (Coaching Program)
Husband Material Podcast
You can reach Drew Boa at:
Text: (805) 881-3673
E-mail: drew@husbandmaterial.com
Website: www.husbandmaterial.com
IG: @husbandmaterialmen
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To all of the busy couples in our tribe: this one is for you! Pastor Yuri Sangueza and Dr. Cami Allard Sangueza, a Pastor-Psychologist couple in Norway, join us in a discussion about avoiding burnout in your marriage and it's chalk-full of excellent tips. We cover:
Symptoms of Burnout
Identity in Ministry
Asking for Help
Sleep Hygiene
Practical Tips for Self-Care
Yuri and Cami recommended:
Journaling
Grit by Angela Duckworth
The Best Yes by Lysa TerKeurst
You can reach Yuri and Cami at:
camiallard1@gmail.com
IG: @casnlaci + @ysnlaci
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This is a multifaceted question (and a question that we receive a lot here at DYMC), but we cover what the answer to this question ultimately comes down to in today’s ASK episode on the #DYMCpodcast.
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"In the premarital stage, what are some good boundaries to have sexually?" When we get this question, we like to use a model called "The Dating Ladder" to answer it. We got the idea from our friends over at Moral Revolution (they dubbed it "The Intimacy Ladder" and we expound upon it in today's episode on the #DYMCpodcast).
This question was asked from the SpeakPipe (where your recorded voice is actually in the episode). Record YOUR question for our next ask episode here on SpeakPipe.
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One of you asked this question on our SpeakPipe, and we thought it was important to clarify a better question to ask. Listen in to hear the better question and let us know your thoughts by commenting below.
Record YOUR question for our next ask episode here on SpeakPipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/dearyoungmarriedcouple
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"Don’t wait to give until you get... It goes both ways: don’t wait to have sex with your partner until they’re doing all the things outside the bedroom. On the other hand, don’t wait to do things outside the bedroom until you’re getting the sex you want inside the bedroom. It’s important for couples to work on meeting these needs so that they can move TOWARD each other." - Dr. Morgan Cutlip
Today's episode covers the not-so-talked about dynamics of your sexual relationship. Tune in to hear our interview with Dr. Morgan Cutlip, relationship expert and course creator.
Dr. Morgan Cutlip recommended:
For Women Only: Sex and Marriage
Online Courses: online.mylovethinks.com
You can reach Dr. Morgan Cutlip at:
Website: https://www.mylovethinks.com
IG: @mylovethinks
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"I worked with women when they’d come in for their annuals and I'd ask them, 'How is it going with your sex life?' Sometimes, they would tense up and wouldn't want to talk about it. Then, I started thinking to myself, 'Wow! Sexual dysfunction is far larger of a problem than I realized when I was in school.'" - Kimberly Mathis
Listen in to what the medical professionals have to say about sexual arousal and pain disorders in today's episode of the DYMC Podcast.
Kimberly and Meredith recommended:
ISSWSH articles
Etiology of Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder and Implications for Treatment: Four Case Scenarios by Brooke M. Faught, DNP, WHNP-BC, NCMP, IF, and Susan Kellogg-Spadt, PhD, CRNP, IF, FCST
UpToDate (access to medical professionals)
Contact Info:
Kimberly Mathis, WHNP-BC, RNC-OB, MSN
Women’s Health Nurse Practitioner (Urogynecology and Reproductive/Infertility Specialist)
E-mail: kimberly.b.mathis@gmail.com
Meredith McWhirter, MSN, RNC-OB, APRN, NP-C
Family Nurse Practitioner (Urology Specialist)
E-mail: meredith.mcwhirter@gmail.com
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"We’re so open about sharing our story, as many times and as often as necessary, because if one more person can realize this happens, that this is a thing and that they can get out of it, then it’s so worth it." - Cole and Cait Zick, Directors of Moral Revolution
In this episode, Cole and Cait share their story of having entirely different upbringings around sex and sexuality, how they merged their lives, and how they healed from being completely disconnected in their sex life. Now, they have a thriving and healthy sex life and they're here to share how they did it.
Cole and Cait recommended:
The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk
Intimate Issues by Linda Dillow
Look at You, Girl by Caitlin Zick
“Sex. Church. Culture.” E-Course
Parenting Sexuality E-Course
Sexpectations Card Deck
You can reach Cole and Cait:
IG: @colezick + @caitlinzick
Website: www.moralrevolution.com
E-mail: contact@moralrevolution.com
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If you're looking to destress your life/marriage and if you like having clear, practical steps, this podcast is for you! It consists of 5 tips to simplify your life, explained thoroughly and practically by the lovely minimalist, Shelley Coon. We like to think of her tips as "attainable minimalism". :) Shelley recommended:
Evernote
Going Paperless (blog post)
Free to Focus by Michael Hyatt
Full Focus Planner by Michael Hyatt
The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo
The Minimalist Home by Joshua Becker
Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport
You can reach Shelley:
E-mail: shelleycoon@gmail.com
Website: www.thegoodnessmargin.com
IG: @thegoodnessmargin
Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode:
FOUNDATIONS: https://amzn.to/2RaXF7g
SEXPECTATIONS: https://amzn.to/2GbVMRA
REALIZATIONS: https://amzn.to/3brNTWh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How can we have empirical data to back up the claims we make or advice we give about something so subjective (like relationships)? Hear all about that in this episode as we interview Don and Carrie Cole, Licensed Professional Counselors and Directors of the Gottman Institute.
Don and Carrie share incredible research from the most robust marriage studies ever done, involving 40+ years of observing 3000+ couples in the Love Lab in Seattle. Their insights are grounded on what actually works in relationships that are happy and stable. Listen to this episode to see for yourself why millions of couples worldwide have benefited from the Gottman Method.
Don and Carrie recommended these resources for couples who want to invest in their relationship:
The Art and Science of Love Workshop (ASL)
30 Days to a Better Relationship
Eight Dates by John and Julie Gottman
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman
What Makes Love Last? by John Gottman
The Mathematics of Marriage by John Gottman
Principia Amoris by John Gottman
You can reach Don and Carrie:
IG + FB: @gottmaninstitute
Website: www.centerforrelationshipwellness.com
Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode:
FOUNDATIONS: https://amzn.to/2RaXF7g
SEXPECTATIONS: https://amzn.to/2GbVMRA
REALIZATIONS: https://amzn.to/3brNTWh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
We go deep "real quick" in this episode, answering these questions:
What role do SMELLS play in physical intimacy?
Is it normal to have sexual TEMPTATION as a married Christian man?
How do I deal with a very ANGRY spouse?
Come join us as we dive even further into like topics at our Monthly LIVE Date Night! (Next one is September 11th @ 5pm-6:30pm PDT and it's called Your Brain, Your Body, and the Bedroom.)
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Anthony and Kelli are a Student Pastor and Teacher/RN in Tennessee who have a 1-year-old baby girl. In this episode, they talk about how to keep your marriage alive with an infant. They discuss:
Co-Sleeping and Sleep Training
Date Nights
Traveling before Baby
Traveling Alone after Baby
PDA
Speaking Highly of your Spouse
You can reach Anthony and Kelli:
IG: @kelli.danielle
E-mail: kellimccool91@gmail.com
Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode:
FOUNDATIONS: https://amzn.to/2RaXF7g
SEXPECTATIONS: https://amzn.to/2GbVMRA
REALIZATIONS: https://amzn.to/3brNTWh
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"Having been married for only 3 weeks, we were just home from our honeymoon, unpacking, building our new life, and excited for our first home.
We were on track. We were headed toward our goals. We were right on schedule. I was a nurse and Kevin had just started his third year of medical school.
In an instant, it all changed. An explosion in our home initiated the scariest challenge ever given: the fight for our lives.
While Kevin was also injured, his recovery is often overshadowed by mine. Even so, he endured much pain as well, having:
• 35% of his body burned mostly to the 2nd degree. • Some 3rd degree. • 2 days in the burn ICU. • 3 weeks hospitalized. • 4 surgeries.
For me:
• 96% of my body was burned to the 2nd and 3rd degree. (Chance of survival, slim). • 2 weeks of a medically-induced coma. • 3 months in a burn ICU. • 2 months in a rehab hospital. • 27 surgeries.
So, many other things... One day, we will talk about it all.
Words cannot articulate all of my feelings, but God...
He stepped in that day, exactly one year ago, and He’s been there every painful day since then."
-Kevin and Medley Bokun, a newlywed couple, shares their story in this episode and lessons learned from the first year of marriage.
You can reach Kevin and Medley:
IG: @medleyregan
FB Group Page: Kevin and Medley's Road to Recovery
Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode:
FOUNDATIONS: https://amzn.to/2RaXF7g
SEXPECTATIONS: https://amzn.to/2GbVMRA
REALIZATIONS: https://amzn.to/3brNTWh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
"When we talk about scheduling sex, we’re not necessarily saying Tuesday at 9:07pm. Scheduling sex is looking at how frequently the two of you want to have sex and then saying, ‘Okay. What does it look like to start dividing up the week?’"
This episode addresses the common debate around scheduling sex. Join in on the conversation we have with the amazing creators of One Extraordinary Marriage, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo.
Tony and Alisa recommended these resources for couples who want to work on their sex life and their marriage in general:
The Intimacy Lifestyle Planner
19 Questions to Amazing Sex
Coffee Break
You can reach Tony and Alisa:
IG + FB: @oneextraordinarymarriage
Website: www.oneextraordinarymarriage.com
Podcast: The One Extraordinary Marriage Show
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FOUNDATIONS: https://amzn.to/2RaXF7g
SEXPECTATIONS: https://amzn.to/2GbVMRA
REALIZATIONS: https://amzn.to/3brNTWh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
When you constantly live in your adaptive self so that you don't have to risk being rejected, you might be safer -- but you might also be limiting yourself big time.
Today, we had the honor of interviewing our mentor and coach, Andrew Bentley. In this episode, he shares key insights for folks who aren't satisfied with settling and he gives practical tips for taking action now!
Andrew Bentley recommended these books for those just getting started with a dive into personal development:
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey
Great by Choice by Jim Collins
Emotional Intelligence 2.0 by Travis Bradberry
Crucial Conversations by Patterson, Granny, McMillan, and Switzler
Andrew says he has been on a "consciousness kick" lately, so he also recommends these books to folks who are interested:
A Ghost in the Atom by PCW Davies
How the Mighty Have Fallen by Jim Collins
Am I Just My Brain? by Sharon Dirckx
Self Comes to Mind by Antonio Damasio
Mind & Cosmos by Thomas Nagel
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Your marriage deserves a retreat!
DYMC VIRTUAL MARRIAGE RETREAT: August 14-15, 2020
DYMC COUPLES CRUISE: June 14-18, 2021
We can't wait to hang out with you at two upcoming events:
DYMC VIRTUAL MARRIAGE RETREAT:
This LIVE event is just around the corner, so be sure to register right away! August 14-15, 2021 - just $37
Learn 5 Communication and Conflict Resolution Tools
Talk Confidently about your Sex Life
Download the Workbook with all the Tools and Handouts
Interact with other Couples
Take a Custom Online Assessment for Your Marriage
DYMC COUPLES CRUISE:
June 14-18, 2021
We want to keep the cruise relatively small, so we will cap the registration. Sign up today and our travel agents will be in touch to collect a $200 registration deposit.
Depart from Miami, Florida on Monday, June 14th, 2021 on Navigator of the Seas
Visit Nassau, Bahamas and CocoBay, Bahamas!
Includes: Beautiful Stateroom, All Food, Tips, Tax, and Registration Fees
Includes: 4 Marriage Bootcamp Group Sessions with Adam and Karissa
Optional individual or couple's counseling with Adam, Karissa, or another counselor (limited slots available upon request - sign-ups start in 2021)
Optional Couple Massage and Other Couple Activities
E-mail us with any questions you have!
hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com
Here are the links for the two events. We can't wait to be with you!
DYMC VIRTUAL MARRIAGE RETREAT: August 14-15, 2020
DYMC COUPLES CRUISE: June 14-18, 2021
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Ever wonder why your spouse doesn't receive your feedback well? In this episode, you'll learn lots of tips for how to make sure you're actually giving feedback and not criticism.
Our guests for today's episode are Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman of The Empowered Couples Podcast and authors of "The Argument Hangover".
They cover everything "Conflict Resolution" in this episode as they share helpful hints for the person giving feedback and also valuable tools for the person who wants to learn how to receive feedback better. In short, you'll learn how to fight smarter.
Aaron and Jocelyn recommended:
The Argument Hangover
The New Power Couple
The Empowered Couples Podcast
You can reach Jocelyn and Aaron via their website at: www.meetthefreemans.com Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode:
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In today's episode, we have a conversation with Yvette Kumar, LMFT about how anxiety impacts us as individuals and how it can affect the marriage.
Yvette teaches several practical tools for overcoming anxiety and all from a Christian perspective.
Yvette recommended:
The Whole Brain Child by Daniel Siegel
The Assertiveness Guide for Women by Julie de Azevedo Hanks
The Assertiveness Workbook by Randy Paterson
Butterflies on the First Day of School
You can reach Yvette via e-mail at: ykumar.lmft@gmail.com Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode:
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In last week's episode, we shared some tips for speaking about difficult topics like SEX and MONEY. This week, we're sharing some tips for how to listen and understand when your spouse does bring something up.
Here's the link to our upcoming live VIRTUAL MARRIAGE RETREAT: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/1/n6075a7
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Sex and Money - two topics of conversation that often get you to shut down or heat up (maybe in more ways than one?).
If you're going to bring up a conversation that you think could cause some more-than-normal tension, trigger unpacked emotions, or even some pain, it's important to let your spouse know that you're going to throw the ball. If you don't give them the heads-up, you might hit them in the back of the head, causing further negative emotion, pain, and tension around the topic next time it gets brought up.
Here are some ways to give your spouse a heads-up:
"Babe, I need to unpack a pretty big conversation box with you that has to with our sex life. I want to make sure we're both in a good mental space for it. Would tomorrow during the kids' nap time be a good time for us to discuss a few needs that we both have about our intimacy?"
"I know we both want to win with money and we each have some ideas to put on the table for how to best do that. Do you think we could both do some research between now and Saturday on retirement investment options and then we could work toward a decision together on Saturday after breakfast?"
"Babe, I have an important need to share with you about our spending. Is now a good time to chat?"
"Hey Babe - when in the next week or so would be a good time for us to have a check-in about how often we have sex? I know today's probably not the best day and I'd like for us both to have time to think about it before we check-in."
P.S. If you call your spouse something other than Babe, that works too. 😆 More about these conversation stems in today's episode.
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Whether you think you're married to someone from a different culture than your own or not, this podcast is for you!
The truth is, we all come from different family cultures, and when we marry someone, we're faced with many challenges of adopting, adapting, or dismissing various family traditions and norms that we bring into the marriage.
In today's episode, Jonathan and Tiffany Bonilla, youth pastors in Florida, share their experience marrying into a culture different than their own. They discuss language barriers, familial expectations, spiritual alignment, and more.
Jonathan and Tiffany recommended:
Andy Stanley Podcast
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
@ianmorgancron (author of "The Road Back to You")
Take notes and soak up lots at marriage seminars and church!
Read the Word of God
You can find Tiffany and Jonathan on IG: @tiffboni + @jonboni_ Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode:
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Rachael was born by artificial insemination to two moms and moved every few years while Montie grew up witnessing the outgrowth of "street life" and the conflicts that surround gang culture - their story about changing generational patterns in your marriage is one you don't want to miss.
“One of the biggest impacts for both us, even when we were just dating, was going to families’ houses in the church and being blown away at the family interactions and all their love. Neither of us had seen that growing up. It was like a dream to look at them and think ‘We can create that for own family.’” Montie and Rachael Easter
How do you pursue a godly relationship that was originally founded by the world’s standards? How do you create a thriving, two-parent household without having that example growing up? Come join the conversation on today's episode.
You can find Montie and Rachael on IG: @rachael.easter + @montie_trc Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode:
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"Looks actually do matter," says Pastor Myron Wideman Jr., in reference to looking for a potential spouse. Myron is Karissa's former student in the Bachelor of Science in Human Development Program at Wilson University and he earned a concentration in Counseling. He's also the Associate Pastor at Dekalb UPC in Stone Moutain, GA (Metro Atlanta Area). In this episode, we discuss:
Biblical Perspective of Physical Attraction
Keeping up with Your Physical Appearance while Married
Ways to Support Your Spouse's Eating/Exercise Goals
Sex vs. Intimacy
Scheduling Sex
Coming to Bed Intentionally
Myron Wideman Jr. recommended:
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Before You Say "I Do" by H. Norman Wright
After You Say "I Do" by H. Norman Wright
Dr. R.A. Vernon's 10 Rules of Dating by R.A. Vernon
You can find Myron Wideman on IG: @myronwidemanjr Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode:
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Wow... We just finished learning from three amazing friends and colleagues about their experiences, perspectives, insight, and lessons. As we type this description (today, Juneteenth), our hearts are heavy and our motivation is high to listen, learn, and continue this conversation -- or as one of our panelists suggested, "Don't stop the conversation when it gets uncomfortable."
Our prayer for you is that you can take down your walls as you listen to these stories and try to learn from the lessons that they teach us -- all of us.
Our guests on the panel are:
—Cynthia Eldridge: Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and School Counselor at a Community Day School in Sacramento
—Dr. Daniel Blash: Licensed Psychologist, Pastor, and Vice Dean of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion at St. Louis University School of Medicine
—Kevin Goward: Owner of a Signing Agent Service Company (Banking/Finance Industry for 16 years) and Licensed Minister
Some of the topics that our panelists covered (based on your and our questions) are:
Significance of Juneteenth
Black Lives Matter as a statement vs. organization
Identity as People of Color (Black, African-American) and Identity as a Child of God
Experiences with racism as a child and adult (both decades ago and months ago)
Statements like "All Lives Matter"
Interracial Marriage
Racism in the Church
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Nic and McKenzie Norris dated long-distance (from two different countries, actually), and they shared several tips from their experience in this interview. Listen in as we discuss:
Benefits of Long-Distance Dating
Challenges of Long-Distance Dating
Immigration
Communication
Trust/Transparency
Boundaries when Dating
This was a special episode for us since McKenzie is actually Adam's sister. So it was fun reminiscing and laughing about old dating memories. Whether you're a dating couple (long-distance or not) or a married couple who dated long-distance, you'll really enjoy the reflections and nuggets of wisdom in this episode.
Nic and McKenzie Recommended:
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
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This was a special interview for us because Linda Carlos, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, was Karissa's supervisor before she became licensed several years ago.
Linda was trained at Fuller Theological Seminary and has a deep understanding of how to integrate faith and practice. She has been a therapist for 30+ years, has two private practices in California and is an expert on attachment. In this podcast episode, Linda helps us understand attachment styles and how they impact our relationships as adults.
Linda recommended:
The Attachment Theory: How Childhood Affects Life (YouTube)
How Your Childhood Affects Your Love Styles (You Tube)
What Your Love Style Says About Your Childhood (YouTube)
The Four Attachment Styles of Love (YouTube)
How We Love (Quiz)
Attachments: Why You Love, Feel, and Act the Way You Do by Clinton and Sibcy
Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson
Created for Connection by Johnson and Sanderfer
How We Love by Milan and Kay Yerkovich
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When faced with a cancer diagnosis, the way you respond (both as an individual and as a couple) speaks volumes of your maturity, character, and depth.
We had the privilege of interviewing Dr. Daniel Blash and his lovely wife Annemarie Blash about various struggles and setbacks they've experienced in their lifetime together. Their response was unique and reflected the depth of trust they have in God -- a faith that doesn't deny the facts, but defies the facts.
Together, Daniel and Annemarie pastor in St. Louis, Missouri and Dr. Blash also practices as a Psychologist in St. Louis, Missouri.
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A recent survey showed that couples fight about money more than any other subject (including sex, chores, communication, and what's for dinner). As young married couples, it's most common for us to argue about:
frivolous purchases
budgeting
credit card debt
not having a great emergency fund
frustrations about retirement plans
not living up to the same money status as friends or family
In this episode, Ramsey Personality and Personal Finance Expert, Rachel Cruze, tackles these subjects as she shares with us what she wishes she would have known about money before she got married (which is quite ironic, since she's Dave Ramsey's daughter).
Rachel recommended:
Financial Peace University (14-day Free Trial as of May, 2020)
Every Dollar App
You can check out more of what Rachel has to offer here:
The Rachel Cruze Show (podcast)
Love Your Life, Not Theirs: 7 Money Habits for Living the Life You Want (book)
The Contentment Journal (90-day journey - learn to love your life and not someone else’s)
You can contact Rachel at: www.rachelcruze.com or @rachelcruze on IG
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This is our third "ASK" episode! Every now and then, we'll take a few of your questions and answer them here in a short 10-15 minute episode. Many of you asked questions about keeping your marriage alive while parenting, so we decided to share some reflections on these topics:
What is the best way that you have found to stay intimately connected when you have kids?
Did you have any systems that you put in place once you had children to make sure you stayed connected?
What was the biggest adjustment for your marriage after you had your first child?
As a stay-at-home mom with a 20-month-old, how do I get out of feeling like my life is a re-run?
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Depression is the leading cause of disability in the United States among people ages 15-44 and 2/3 of them don't actually seek or receive proper treatment.
In this episode, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Beth Baus, tells us how depression can affect the marriage, and she gives practical steps for both the depressed person and the spouse for how to deal with depression.
Beth recommended:
It's Not Supposed to Be This Way by Lysa TerKeurst
Hope Prevails by Michelle Bengtson
I want to Change My Life by Steven Melemis
When Your Spouse is Depressed (Focus on the Family article)
Christian Counseling: A Guide for Pastors, Ministers, and Christian Counselors by Beth Baus
You can contact Beth Baus: www.ourhealthyfamilies.org or @bethdbaus on IG
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Ever wish you could pick the brain of a Christian sex therapist? Well we did just that in our interview with Laura Brotherson, LMFT, CST and we get to share it with you!
These 12 "T's" provide a recipe of key ingredients, especially for women, to embrace their sexuality and wholeness - necessary for a "Sextraordinary Marriage." You can rate yourself in each of these areas to see where you might need to focus your efforts.
Laura recommended:
Knowing Her Intimately: 12 Keys for Creating a Sextraordinary Marriage
From Honeymoon to Happily Ever After: 23 Keys to Prepare for a Sextraordinary Marriage (use code: honeymoonprep to get this book for $10!)
Rocket Fuel for Female Sexual Desire (PDF)
5-Minute Meditation Text and Audio
Sexual Wholeness Workshop for Women
The Gift of Sex by Cliff and Joyce Penner
Celebration of Sex by Doug Rosenau
The Marital Intimacy Show Podcast w/ Laura
You can contact Laura Brotherson: info@strengtheningmarriage.com or @strengtheningmarriage on IG Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode:
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This is our second "ASK" episode! Every now and then, we'll take a few of your questions and answer them here in a short 10-15 minute episode. These two questions were asked in various ways this month, so we decided to share some reflections on these topics:
Can you talk about embracing your sexuality? How do you go from no sex, to sex all the time?
Do you think that God will still bless a marriage if you had premarital sex?
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Last week, we heard from a couple who shared their story of recovery from pornography addiction. This week, we get to hear from an expert in the field, Rev. Timothy Hadden, CADC-R, an outpatient addictions counselor.
He sheds some light on how addictions form and the red flags to look out for if you suspect that your spouse is addicted. He covers common addictions that he sees in church circles, like prescription medications and pornography, but also shares insight for other addictions like drugs, alcohol, gambling, and internet addiction. Timothy also shares guidelines and boundaries to have in place for a marriage to stay free of addictions.
Timothy Hadden recommended:
Worthy of Her Trust by Stephen Arterburn
Hope Casting Podcast
Hope Connect Community
@hope_connector on Instagram and Facebook
You can contact Timothy Hadden: recovery@hopeconnect.net Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode:
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This is the second part of a 2-part exclusive interview with Nathan and Martha Driskill, the Young Married Leaders at Christian Life Church in Mequon, WI. (If you haven't listened to Part 1, go back and do that now!) In this interview, Nathan shares his childhood story of how the addiction to pornography began and how it followed him into adulthood. Martha joins the story when she shares how she met, dated, and married Nathan, and then how the porn addiction stayed hidden until their 7th year of marriage.
In part 2, Martha shares how she found out about Nathan's addiction and then Nathan and Martha discuss practical steps they took toward healing over the last 13 years (including resources that they recommend to other couples who find themselves in this place of pain and fear).
Nathan recommended the following books for the spouse with the addiction:
Every Man's Battle by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker
Every Man's Marriage by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker
Intoxicated with Babylon by Steve Gallagher
At the Altar of Sexual Idolatry by Steve Gallagher
Pure Desire by Ted Roberts
The Walk of Repentance by Steve Gallagher / Pure Life Ministries - 24-week course: the first 12 weeks are overseen by a mentor and the final 12 weeks are completed solo. (Martha and I went through this individually in 2013. It was crucial in Martha's recovery and further solidified my recovery as it led me even closer to God's heart for us in this world.)
The Conquer Series (Our church recently went through this program. I served as a group leader in this 10-week series as well as the following series)
7 Pillars of Freedom Workbook by Ted Roberts (28-week men's group series: I am currently leading this series with a group of men from our church - Good stuff!)
Martha recommended the following books for the wounded spouse:
Every Heart Restored by Fred and Brenda Stoeker
The Healing Choice by Brenda Stoeker and Susan Allen
When His Secret Sin Breaks Your Heart by Kathy Gallagher
Every Man's Battle by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker (This book was very helpful for me to understand men’s struggle.)
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This is the first part of a 2-part exclusive interview with Nathan and Martha Driskill, the Young Married Leaders at Christian Life Church in Mequon, WI. In this interview, Nathan shares his childhood story of how the addiction to pornography began and how it followed him into adulthood. Martha joins the story when she shares how she met, dated, and married Nathan, and then how the porn addiction stayed hidden until their 7th year of marriage.
In part 2, Martha shares how she found out about Nathan's addiction and then Nathan and Martha discuss practical steps they took toward healing over the last 13 years (including resources that they recommend to other couples who find themselves in this place of pain and fear).
Nathan recommended the following books for the spouse with the addiction:
Every Man's Battle by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker
Every Man's Marriage by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker
Intoxicated with Babylon by Steve Gallagher
At the Altar of Sexual Idolatry by Steve Gallagher
Pure Desire by Ted Roberts
The Walk of Repentance by Steve Gallagher / Pure Life Ministries - 24-week course: the first 12 weeks are overseen by a mentor and the final 12 weeks are completed solo. (Martha and I went through this individually in 2013. It was crucial in Martha's recovery and further solidified my recovery as it led me even closer to God's heart for us in this world.)
The Conquer Series (Our church recently went through this program. I served as a group leader in this 10-week series as well as the following series)
7 Pillars of Freedom Workbook by Ted Roberts (28-week men's group series: I am currently leading this series with a group of men from our church - Good stuff!)
Martha recommended the following books for the wounded spouse:
Every Heart Restored by Fred and Brenda Stoeker
The Healing Choice by Brenda Stoeker and Susan Allen
When His Secret Sin Breaks Your Heart by Kathy Gallagher
Every Man's Battle by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker (This book was very helpful for me to understand men’s struggle.)
Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we created for couples who want to become more connected:
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Dr. Daniel Blash, a psychologist and pastor in St. Louis, Missouri is anointed, educated, and gifted. It was an honor to interview him about the impact that trauma can have on the marriage. In this episode, Dr. Blash addresses:
What trauma is vs. what it looks like
Five domains of intimacy
Small traumas that build up and the impact they can have on your marriage
Holding on to stuff and letting trauma take space in your life
How people get triggered
How to work through a sexual history
Healing through encounters with God and through godly counsel
Dr. Blash recommended:
His Needs Her Needs by Willard Harley
We also recommend these books for couples healing from sexual trauma:
Healing the Wounded Heart by Dan Allender
When a Woman You Love was Abused by Dawn Scott Jones
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Studies show that how often you argue actually doesn't matter when it comes to your satisfaction in the marriage; how those arguments are handled, however, will definitely be a determining factor in predicting not only satisfaction, but divorce rates and other important dynamics in your marriage.
So how do we argue well? Today on the podcast, Matthew and Sabrina Schlesinger share five rules for arguing effectively:
Seek first to understand.
Call a grown-up time-out.
Don't go to bed angry.
Respect their process.
Become a safe place.
One of our favorite things that Matthew and Sabrina said during this episode was, "Have a good customer service desk for your spouse." You may not always agree, but seek to understand. This will definitely result in a much happier customer.
Matthew + Sabrina gave a couple of book recommendations:
The Naked Marriage by Dave and Ashley Willis
Hedges: Loving Your Marriage Enough to Protect It by Jerry Jenkins
You can contact Matthew and Sabrina at www.mommentor.org or hello@mommentor.org (or on IG: @sabrinaschlesinger). Their two podcasts are "Marriage on the Go" and "Parenting on the Go" Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode:
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So little clarity and so much unrest... Such a perfect time to release an episode on grief that is desperately needed in this moment of folks grieving various forms of loss.
We interviewed Dr. Chelsea Hall before the globe was in the state of pandemic, but in this episode, you'll see that so much of what Dr. Hall discusses about grief can be applied to what we are all feeling in this season. Whether you recently had unexpected news about the health of a loved one, whether you recently lost a loved one, or whether you are grieving the loss of normalcy in your life, job, and relationships, this episode is for YOU.
Dr. Hall gave several book recommendations:
A Grief Observed by C.S. Lewis
The Problem of Pain by C.S. Lewis
Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing After Loss by Pat Schweibert and Chuck DeKlyen
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During times of economic uncertainty, there can be a lot of tension around the finances and just talking about it can feel like an argument is about to explode.
In this episode, Adrian Hildebrand, Certified Financial Education Instructor, shares some practical tips about discussing the finances as a couple. She tackles debt, budgeting, investments, financial infidelity, joint accounts, spending limits, and managing an economic crisis.
Adrian also discusses the COVID-19 pandemic specifically and shares some insights on financial do's and don'ts. She shared a specific resource about what you can do with retirement contributions (401Ks and IRAs) right now with the new CARES act -- here is a FORBES article from March 28th that explains the details.
Here are Adrian's Book Recommendations:
The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey
Your Money, Your Marriage by Cherie and Brian Lowe
You can connect with Adrian at www.faithinfinance.org or on IG @faith.in.finance
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This is our very first "ASK" episode! Every now and then, we'll take a few of your questions and answer them here in a short 10-15 minute episode. These three questions were asked quite a few times this past month, so we decided to share some reflections on these topics:
How did you know your marriage was ready for a baby?
Any advice for the first night?
How do I get my spouse to go to counseling?
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"Isn't it the church's job to teach my children about the Bible?" This is a sentiment that is all-too-often shared by many busy, young married couples throughout North America. Now more than ever, we need to be equipped as parents to pour into the hearts of our children at home. We met Justin Jeter in a hotel lobby when we were doing a marriage seminar in Arkansas last year and he was doing a children's conference in the same town. The more we learned about Justin and Hillary, the more we got excited about connecting with them and their ministry. Justin and Hillary Jeter are the founders of THE RESOLUTE FAMILY, and they're also the Family Pastor and Director of the ECE ministry at their local church. They have such creative ideas about discipling your children at home and they even have free resources available for you! In this podcast, Justin and Hillary share practical tips for us as young, married parents and they give so many examples for you to implement right away (and Lord knows we need more help in the home during the COVID-19 crisis). Here are their book/resource recommendations:
Five-Minute Fatherhood Podcast
31 Creative Ways to Build Your Family Team by Jeremy and Kelsey Pryor
From Tablet to Table by Leonard Sweet
Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles by Paul David Tripp
Sticky Faith by Kara E. Powell
Usborne Book of Bible Stories
Friends with God Story Bible
WordSong Scripture Memorization by Denee Varnum
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This is an introduction and explanation to the next episode. We wanted to keep the next episode limited to just the track itself with no explanation, in case you wanted to use it as a sleep tool or prayer.
In times of uncertainty, it can be helpful to have tools to be able to combat the anxiety and fear that can arise. This is one of many tools that we'll be sharing with you in the coming weeks and it's called MEDITATION. Meditation is a very biblical concept.
Here, we talk about how the world has taken the word meditation from us as Christians.
Eastern meditation focuses on detachment. Christian meditation focuses on attachment.
Eastern meditation is passive. Christian meditation is active.
Eastern meditation focuses on union or oneness with God. Christian meditation focuses on communion with God.
Eastern meditation focuses on emptying yourself. Christian meditation focuses on filling yourself.
If worry has overwhelmed you or anxiety has taken control of your thoughts during the COVID-19 pandemic, we encourage you to listen to the next episode and meditation on the Lord (P.S. See if you can recognize all the scriptures in the meditation). :)
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"There were times when I felt like God completely forgot about us. So I had to lean on Alana to tell me that this IS worth praying for." In this episode, we interview Danny and Alana Opdyke, who share their story of conquering the low-lows that your marriage can experience when going through chronic pain.
Over the past 20 years of their marriage, Danny has had the following surgeries/procedures:
2002 - Laminectomy / Discectomy of L4/5-LS1 2004 - Anterior & Posterior Lumbar Fusion 2004 - Broken Foot 2006 - Pain Pump #1 2012 - Pain Pump #2 2015 - Snapped Tibia - Rod Placed 2015 - Knee surgery 2016 - Oral Surgeries 2017 - Pain Pump #3 from internal pump failure 2018 - Plantar Plate Rupture/ plate installed / multiple toes fused.
Here are the books that Danny + Alana recommend for someone in a chronic health/pain situation:
You'll Get Through This by Max Lucado (free on Kindle with Prime)
It's Not Supposed to Be This Way by Lysa TerKeurst
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Google searches for “sexless marriage” are 3.5x more common than “unhappy marriage”. So what exactly makes a marriage sexless? There’s no precise definition, though some experts say it’s when a couple has sex less than 10x/year (or about 1x/mo) while others say it has more to do with one spouse wanting sex more than the other and not feeling like they’re having enough sex.
Today, our podcast guest is Rev. Jason Carr, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (and pastor) in Beaumont, TX. He says, “I don’t know that I’ve ever counseled with a couple that were on the same page when it comes to the desire for sexuality.” Why?
He says, “Sex is the thing that nobody wants to talk about in many church circles. It’s rarely (if ever) addressed in premarital counseling, and when it is, it’s usually the pastor handing the couple a book and saying, ‘Here, good luck,’ and they don’t actually talk about it. 90% of marriages have problems in their sex life and don’t actually talk about it. They might hope it gets better or even pray it gets better, but having the boldness to open up and communicate about it requires an intimate relationship.”
All about that today on the #DYMCpodcast
You can get in contact with Rev. Jason Carr by going to www.tac.life.
The book recommendations he made is "Sheet Music" by Kevin Leman.
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"Find someone you can glorify God with and someone you can grow with." In this episode, Tovares and Safa Grey of @godlydating101 offer many practical dating tips for both premarital and married couples.
Check out their podcast for dating couples by searching "Godly Dating 101" and catch them up Instagram where they offer daily dating advice.
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People don't wake up and say, "I'm going to have an affair." People usually “slide” into affairs. They think that crossing a boundary will feel like an electrical fence (“Ouch! I don’t ever want to do that again!), but it doesn’t — it often feels good. It can feel liberating because it usually involves feeling heard and understood by someone. It doesn’t even seem like a problem at first. In today’s episode, Lori Pearring, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, walks us through very practical steps for affair-proofing your marriage. She also guides us through some affair-recovery principles that she uses in session with couples. Here are the books that Lori references in the interview:
Torn Asunder by Dave Carder
Torn Asunder Workbook
Hold Me Tight: 7 Conversations for Connection by Sue Johnson
Created for Connection by Sue Johnson + Kenneth Sanderfer
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She blushed as we questioned, “HOW did you make it special when he came home?” and then she responded: “A special meal, special candles, special music...”
This was all part of their intention to “have something familiar in the midst of the crazy”, both as a couple and as a family in the military.
Today on the podcast, Pastor Robert + Maria Rodriguez, Missionaries to Mexico, talk about their experience in the military for decades, and they give practical tips for couples with this dynamic in their marriage and family. Link in bio or swipe up in our story.
We had the privilege of doing a #MissionsForMarriage retreat with the church that this couple pastors in Mexico, and we put pictures of their building in our story today. They did NOT ask us to do this, but we felt the Lord laid it on our hearts to put their account out there for folks to contribute to the building needs for this growing church. Give to their missions efforts here (even if it’s a small amount, it all counts): www.paypal.me/ensenadamxmissions.
Book Recommendations from Team Rodriguez:
Love and Respect
Amor y Respeto
The Five Languages
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You’ll hear a snippet of a story in the very beginning about a broken man (warning: it’s about a man who pulled the trigger with a gun held to his head)... and then the beauty that came from this brokenness when he committed to intentionally building his marriage and family.
In this episode, Pastor Paul and Lori Elder (pastor in Pueblo, CO for 30+ years) teach us practical tips about building traditions in our marriage and family — whether we come from intact families or from broken homes.
The “I love your more than ______” is a tradition that Pastor Paul and Lori Elder have done in their marriage and with their kids for decades. “Our intention with that was to instill the idea that love for one another is greater than things,” he said. And then she added, “You can make anything a tradition — just something that you repeat, that the kids know is going to happen.” From ways to read Chinese fortune cookies to Totino pizzas in a mini oven, to the very traditions that bind us together as a church family — this episode is chock-full of practical traditions and spiritual insight for your marriage and family.
Book Recommendations from Team Elder:
Creative Correction
The Book of Virtues
Zeal without Burnout
"Mary Did You Know" - by the Elder Family Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode:
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“People have these rich fantasy sex lives with decades of porn use and then they go into marriage and they’re thinking it’s going to be a different kind of sex life.
It creates an incredible conflict and it’s difficult to just “get over”. Some people think that if they just kick the habit then they can get on with a healthy marriage and it doesn’t work that way at all.” - Dr. DeVon Mills
Today’s podcast episode is about HEALING YOUR MARRIAGE FROM PORN. Did you know that about 75% of millennial Christians (regardless of gender) are viewing pornography on a weekly basis? In this episode, we interview Dr. DeVon Mills about the effects of pornography on the marriage, but also how to heal from it.
There IS hope. Send this podcast link to somebody who can use it as a resource. More importantly, pray for that person, that couple, that spouse, or even yourself. Pray that God would equip you with tools to take action in a healthy direction.
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We had the privilege of interviewing Pastor Myles and Sheila Young, who also happen to be our very own pastor here at The Rock Church in Elk Grove, CA. Having them as our first podcast guest was very intentional - they have supported us from teenhood through present day and have guided us through each decision we've made for the Dear Young Married Couple ministry.
We look up to them for how they support each other's dreams - but they don't stop with simply supporting each other - they are also committed to their own journey of personal growth. We've seen many marriages in which one spouse is committed to growing in their ministry, education, physical fitness, or career, while the other spouse supports, but stays personally stagnant.
In this episode, we ask them practical questions about how to grow WITH your spouse and not just support his/her dreams. Pastor Myles Young is currently finishing his doctoral degree in Missiology and Sis. Sheila Young is currently finishing her doctoral degree in Economics, Leadership and Development.
Book Recommendations from Team Young:
DiscipleShift
Leading Change
Atomic Habits
A People's History of the United States
Lift Up Thy Voice
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