DECONSTRUCT: Recent Episodes
Deconstruct
We dive head first into conversations breaking down things like religion, sex, spirituality and the world around us. And although we now consider ourselves to be somewhere between agnosticism and mystical atheism, we speak from our experiences from our time in the Christian Music Industry and religious upbringing. We bring on a variety of guests to help us demystify the topics that we were once taught to fear or ignore; expanding the lenses with which we see the world through. @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @adamfrost.official
144: In this episode, I dive into the profound realization that just because I like something, doesn’t mean it’s meant for me. As an excitable person with open centers in my human design, I often project others' excitement, making my life a vibrant, yet sometimes confusing journey of self-discovery. Join Adam and me as I recount a recent experience of getting nails done with my sister, reflecting on our different styles and the acceptance that comes with it. I'll share my struggles and breakthroughs in distinguishing between appreciating what others have and identifying what truly resonates with me. Learn how I transitioned from feeling passive and overwhelmed by options, to embracing my nature as a specific manifestor. I’ll explain how visualizing my current self, rather than a future ideal, has helped me pinpoint my true desires in style, career, and life. This episode is a celebration of excitement, self-acceptance, and the empowering journey of finding what I really want. Keep listening to explore how embracing our uniqueness can lead to a more fulfilled and authentic life.Curiocity Pod: https://bit.ly/3szbD8rLauren DeLeary: https://bit.ly/3FXuq0iAdam Frost: https://bit.ly/3QyNCGt
143: Today we are taking a trip into the world of Jordan Short, a seasoned commercial artist turned empowering coach, as we explore the depths of creativity and human connection. From crafting brand stories that resonate deeply to diving into the concept of "relational creativity," Jordan shares insights gained from over 15 years of experience in the industry. Discover how his Midwest roots and global experiences have shaped his unique perspective on creativity and storytelling. Gain valuable tips on nurturing creativity, both personally and professionally, and learn how parenthood has become rocket fuel for his innovative ideas. Get ready to be inspired and empowered to unlock your own creative potential as Jordan unveils the magic of relational creativity.
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142: Just the two of us... Hear all the juicy details (specifically from Adam's perspective) of how I broke off an engagement with my ex-fiancé and soon after/during? found my way to Adam.
We spice things up with a fun chat about jealousy in our relationship – who gets more jealous, me or Adam?
As a fellow Enneagram 5, I know the thrill of deep dives into niche interests. Find out if Adam joins me down those fascinating rabbit holes or if he prefers to stay on the surface.
We also reflect on the best lessons we’ve learned in our 20s and 30s. Turning 30 can bring profound shifts, and we share how we’ve grown and what we’ve learned along the way.
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Lauren DeLeary: https://bit.ly/3FXuq0i
Adam Frost: https://bit.ly/3QyNCGt
141: Join us on a deep dive into the transformative journey of singer-songwriter Chelsea King as she shares insights from her upcoming album centered around rediscovering and healing her femininity. From her experiences working with shamans and meditating around the world to her deep understanding of karma, karmic ties, and past lives, Chelsea takes us on a spiritual voyage like no other. Discover the profound impact of sobriety, the mystical allure of moldavite, and cultural heritage in Chelsea's exploration of self-discovery and healing. Whether you're a seasoned spiritual seeker or simply curious about alternative healing modalities, this episode offers wisdom, inspiration, and a glimpse into the power of music as a tool for transformation.
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Lauren DeLeary: https://bit.ly/3FXuq0i
Chelsea King: https://www.instagram.com/kingchlsy?igsh=MTFudGNqc241ZGZxNg==
In this episode, Adam and I start with a discussion on home aesthetics, sharing how we describe our current style, our plans for its evolution, and what our dream homes look like. Next, we reveal our TBR (to be read) lists, talking about the books and authors we're excited to dive into.
We also tackle a timely question: do we care about the Olympics, and will we watch? Then, we get personal, discussing how we prioritize our relationship and family needs. We discuss how we may appear so different, but are really so alike and how we work together. Finally, we offer tips on cultivating intimacy outside the bedroom. Keep listening for an episode filled with insights, personal stories, and practical advice!
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Adam Frost: https://bit.ly/3QyNCGt
Today we are diving into the inspiring journey of Jasyra Santiago-Hines, a registered nurse turned social media influencer and CEO. From her early days in North Philadelphia to her transition from bedside nursing to entrepreneurship, Jasyra shares her passion for complete wellness and the transformative power of holistic healing. You will discover how she balances motherhood, advocacy for mental health, and running her business, while empowering women to lead lives by design. You’ll gain insights into making healthier decisions for your family and yourself, and be inspired to embark on your own journey toward total body healing and wellness.
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Today, we're having a casual, chatty conversation with both Adam and me. Adam is back by popular demand, and we shoot the shit before diving into the main topic of the conversation, inspired by some convos on insta: why the idea of motherhood is at the root of most of my evolutions. We then wrap up the conversation by discussing our upcoming curious cutie meet-up/walk scheduled for May 25th. If you’re in Nash—come! We’d love to squeeze ya!
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137: Dr. Allyson Brennan, the visionary founder of Emogene & Co. shares the incredible story of her transition from a successful career in Neurology to becoming a trailblazer in the beauty and wellness industry. You’ll discover the science-meets-nature approach that defines Emogene & Co.'s skincare revolution, and learn how Dr. Brennan's expertise as a pharmacist and dedication to her daughter's well-being fueled the creation of this powerhouse brand. From accolades like the Drug Store News National Rising Star award to being featured in Who's Who in America, we explore the triumphs, challenges, and the woman behind the thriving all-female team at Emogene & Co. So, Curious Cuties — get ready to uncover the secrets to radiant skin and a thriving business in this captivating conversation!
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136: This week Adam and I are giving you all the deets on gummy gate… our unwelcomed trip to the hospital in an ambulance. It was a night from hell. But before that! We take some time to answer a few of your other burning questions… we discuss everything from our dream vacation destinations to Adam's evolving worldview and plans for the future of the podcast network. Plus, find out if the AC is finally on and if Adam still identifies as a reluctant atheist. Whether you've been around for a while or a new Curious Cutie, keep listening for an episode filled with laughter, edible trauma, and well, plenty of surprises!
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Diving into the life and artistic journey of Annabelle Fox, a Nashville-based actress, designer, voice teacher, wife, and mama. From her roots in Connecticut to the bright lights of Broadway, Annabelle shares her experiences performing in and out of New York City, the impact of the pandemic on her life and career, and the exciting ventures she's pursuing in the vibrant Nashville scene. We explore her passion for curating beauty, honing aesthetics, and the delicate balance of family and artistic pursuits. From upcoming musical theatre projects to a peek into her spiritual journey, this episode is a rich tapestry of art, passions and the joys of raising a family. So keep listening for the heartwarming and inspiring stories that make Annabelle Fox's journey truly unique!
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134: Hey curious cuties. Or should I say, Bonjour? Today I’m taking you on a journey with my besties through the streets of Paris as we share the highlights, cultural immersion, unexpected moments, and reflections from our girls trip to the City of Light. From pre-trip planning to post-trip reflections, we dive into our favorite landmarks, traditional French foods, navigating the language barrier, and managing budgeting and logistics. Plus, we discuss how the trip strengthened our friendships and share valuable travel tips for you cuties dreaming of your own Parisian adventure. So grab a croissant and tune in for a dose of wanderlust and friendship!
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133: Today we are diving into the extraordinary world of Deborah Anderson, renowned fashion visionary and award-winning filmmaker. From 'Belle Aura’, adorned by global influencers to the vibrant landscapes of Peru that sparked the creation of WYLDSAGE, Deborah's evolution in the world of creativity is nothing short of inspiring.
However, the spotlight shines brightest on her latest venture, the groundbreaking documentary "Women of the White Buffalo." We unravel the mysteries behind the film, exploring its deep connections to indigenous cultures.
With exclusive insights from Deborah, we delve into the challenges faced during the film's production and the call to action that makes this documentary more than just a cinematic experience.
Discover the power of storytelling, the resilience of indigenous communities, and the transformative potential of art. Welcome Deborah Anderson.
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Deborah Anderson: https://www.instagram.com/deborahandersoncreative?igsh=MXMzeGEyOTFwNnpxMA==
Her Web: http://deborahanderson.com/?fbclid=PAAaZtNc4T0xuL-aEAiLdNIlS7noP8AujbXBztlnQo5fACtTIAcPUkGAToLoQ_aem_AQ5ZQaRA80CXgpjzW7Y05KhalkjheX64Du0ueYafmcQbIe_RgfgcIALwuZm4DPI_8NY
132: Get ready to uncover the secrets to a love that stands the test of time! In this sizzling episode, we're spilling the tea on everything from handling conflicts like pros to keeping the sparks flying in the bedroom.
Join us as we dish out advice on aligning personal values, finding balance between routine and adventure, and reigniting the passion in your relationship. Whether you're a seasoned couple or flying solo, this episode is packed with juicy insights to level up your love game.
Keep listening for real talk, hot tips, and plenty of laughs as we dive deep into the heart of what makes love last and the ultimate guide to relationship success!
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131: Today we are diving into the world of health sovereignty and tonic herbalism with our extraordinary guest, Mason Taylor, the CEO/Founder of SuperFeast and a renowned tonic herbalist. Mason shares his fascinating journey from the roots of Daoist philosophy to the creation of SuperFeast, guiding tens of thousands on the path to discovering the healing power of medicinal mushrooms and adaptogenic tonic herbs. Brace yourself for a unique blend of wisdom and humor as Mason, not just a health expert but also a budding comedian, bursts the bubble on the "health scene." Keep listening for an insightful conversation on balancing business and passion, debunking myths about herbs, and envisioning the future of wellness.
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130: In this solo episode, join me as I explore the art of "theme-ing up" your life, with a special focus on the vibrant month of March. I delve into the fascinating history of St. Patrick's Day, unraveling its cultural significance and the stories behind this festive celebration. Sharing personal anecdotes of St. Patrick's Days gone by, I touch on the diverse aspects of my heritage and the importance of embracing both my white and indigenous ancestors. Discover how intertwining these cultural threads has become a crucial part of my personal journey.I offer practical tips on infusing green themes into various aspects of your life – from home decor to fashion choices. But it's not just about aesthetics; I guide you through incorporating these themes into your personal growth and wellness journey. Uncover healthy food choices, refreshing drinks, and explore the benefits of meditation with actionable tips.Throughout the episode, I provide insightful journal prompts to encourage self-reflection and mindfulness. Join me on this enriching journey of embracing March, St. Patrick's Day, and the color green as more than just symbols, but as catalysts for positive change and holistic well-being. March into a life that resonates with the vibrancy of the season!Curiocity Pod: https://bit.ly/3szbD8rLauren DeLeary: https://bit.ly/3FXuq0i
129: In today’s episode, we dive deep into the realm of Indigenous healing with the incredible Asha Frost, an Ojibwe Medicine Woman, bestselling author, and guide. You’ll discover the power of ancestral wisdom, as Asha shares her profound insights and experiences, bridging the gap between traditional Indigenous teachings and the modern world. You’ll explore the pages of her bestselling book, "You are the Medicine," and unlock the potential within yourself. You’ll learn about the significance of ceremonies, the creation of The Sacred Medicine Oracle, and witness the magic as Asha guides us through the journey of personal empowerment. Keep listening for an enlightening conversation that promises to reconnect you with the medicine within and inspire you to rise into your own power. Settle in and get ready to embark on a journey of healing, wisdom, and self-discovery with Asha Frost.
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Asha Frost: https://www.instagram.com/asha.frost?
igsh=b2hqd3N3cnNhdW0zhttps://ashafrost.com/about/
Get ready for a rollercoaster of candid conversations! In this episode, we spill the tea on everything from my foundational 3 tenets to our favorite sex positions. We talk about movies that make us cry, our fav cheat meals, and even talk about our dream cars. From fashion inspirations to handling anxiety, no question is off-limits. So stay tuned for an intimate peek into our lives – answering your burning questions with honesty, humor, and of course a dash of spice!
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127: Dive deep into the extraordinary life and unfiltered insights of Alice Greczyn – actress, author, and self-proclaimed philosophical hedonist. Discover the pivotal moments that led her to embrace a path of philosophical nihilism and hedonism, explore her diverse experiences as a Playboy Bunny and creator on OnlyFans, and unravel the intersections of spirituality and pleasure in her unconventional journey. From challenging cultural norms to finding balance in a life guided by curiosity and pleasure, this conversation is a captivating exploration of love, identity, and the pursuit of fulfillment. Get ready for a candid and spicy conversation that goes beyond the surface to uncover the layers of Alice Greczyn's unaccountable and multifaceted life.
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In this solo episode, I dive deep into your burning questions, exploring my recent obsession with money mindset, quantum physics and manifestation. I talk about how I prioritize healthy groceries, and why cutting back on drinking has given me clarity. Get ready for a Valentine's Day history lesson and a segment where I share my nighttime routine and stress relief hacks. Lastly, discover the dreams and motivations behind my desire to hire employees and be a boss.
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125: Join us in this dynamic episode as we delve into the vibrant world of Zamaria Thompson, a certified holistic health coach, social media manager, and content creator. With almost a decade of social media expertise, Zam shares insights on infusing a mind + body + spirit approach into brand strategies and creating content that sells. Discover the intersection of spirituality and Zam's rich Mexican/Native American/European heritage, exploring how her upbringing has influenced her spiritual wellness journey.
In this conversation, Zam opens up about her passion for nervous system regulation, dating coaching, and her upcoming projects, including social media courses. We explore the fascinating connection between spicy food and well-being, and Zam shares her favorite spicy dish. As a demisexual individual, she offers valuable perspectives on building meaningful connections in today's dating landscape.
Tune in to uncover Zam's secrets to authentic online presence, her unique approach to relationships, and how curiosity serves as the spark of joy in her magical life. Get ready for an episode that transcends boundaries, leaving you inspired to embrace your power and live authentically.
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124: Buckle up for an unfiltered ride through the rollercoaster of love! Join us as we spill the tea on moving in together, wild compromises, and steamy details about our intimate journey. Uncover the truth behind overcoming religious shame, deconstructing faith, and the unexpected twists in our love story. No holds barred, no filters – this episode is a juicy dive into the uncharted waters of our marriage. Get ready for real talk, shocking revelations, and a dash of humor that will keep you hooked from start to finish!Tarrow’s Arrow: https://www.tarotsarrow.com/ ; code CURIOCITY50 for 50% offCuriocity Pod: https://bit.ly/3szbD8rLauren DeLeary: https://bit.ly/3FXuq0iAdam Frost: https://bit.ly/3QyNCGt
123 Clementine Morrigan is a powerhouse writer, zine-maker, and socialist. Delve into the depths of her journey, from the roots of zine-making in 2000 to her bold Instagram style. Clementine opens up about navigating controversies, discussing compelling topics on the "Fucking Cancelled" podcast, and the intricate weaving of healing, trauma, addiction, and relationships in her work. Uncover the intersection of socialism with personal and interpersonal dynamics, exploring the role of principles in her creative process. Discover the essence of her books and the impact she hopes they have on readers. Get ready to face the entire human experience head-on in this enlightening conversation with Clementine Morrigan.
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122: Dive into an intimate solo episode where I spill the beans on your burning questions! Join me as I share my New Year Resolutions and the intriguing ways I'm integrating my Human Design to make them stick. Explore the magic of manifestation in my daily life, uncover updates from the DeLeary Frost household, and get the inside scoop on my tried-and-true hair routine. Hear my not-so-predictable thoughts on "everything happens for a reason" and the inevitable journey of aging. Discover a candid revelation about a once-deeply held belief I'm now questioning (non-religious), and let's chat about self-care strategies when navigating the tricky waters of friend drama. It's a candid, insightful, and personal journey you won't want to miss!
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121: In this episode, we dive into Human Design with Erin Claire Jones, a renowned guide, coach, and speaker. We explore how Human Design blends ancient wisdom and modern science to empower individuals and companies to live authentically. Erin shares her journey and offers practical tips, drawing on her community of over 250,000 people. Discover how understanding your Human Design type can lead to success and fulfillment, and how curiosity serves as a life compass. Erin also shares insights into the future of Human Design. If you seek self-discovery, personal growth, and living authentically, this episode is a must-listen. Join us for a transformative conversation that will inspire you to embrace your fullest potential through Human Design.
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Here's a link to look up your design: https://humandesignblueprint.com/
Here's the link to get your Blueprint, a personalized guide to their unique design: https://humandesignblueprint.com/buy-a-blueprint-book/
The code CURIOCITY will get them 10% off their Blueprint guide :)
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Here's a link to study human design with Erin: https://humandesignblueprint.com/take-the-classes/
We didn't want to leave you hanging on Christmas. As we know, there is quite a variety of Christmas feelings and experiences. Some people love it, some people hate it… some people are around family and loved ones, some people aren't. Either way, we wanted to gift this special to you for Christmas. We originally recorded this for the Patreon account but decided to spread some more Christmas cheer. GRAB A DRINK and play Christmas-themed drinking games with Adam and me.
Love you guys. Merry Christmas. See you in the New Year!
Lauren DeLeary + Adam Frost
119: In this episode, Lauren sits down with Ashley Khristine Clemens, a health coach, nutritionist, and personal trainer, who is on a mission to help people achieve their healthiest and happiest selves. Ashley shares her unique journey, influenced by 90's dieting culture and a childhood loss that shaped her approach to wellness. Discover the key principles for building balanced, healthy lifestyles and explore the upcoming course that Ashley is launching to empower women in optimizing their health through nutrition, fitness, and strategies for longevity. Join us as we delve into the world of well-being, lifelong learning, and the pursuit of happiness through health.
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118: In this Solo episode, Lauren unveils some secrets while diving deep into your most intriguing questions... exploring the untold stories and experiences that have shaped her life.Questions Addressed:Were you intimate with anyone before your marriage with Adam?Did you tell your family you were changing your mind on your religion?Have you ever thought you liked girls?Do you ever wish you had a "crazy season" before marrying Adam?What's a big life dream you have that's non negotiable?What food did you miss the most when you were vegan?What's your relationship with your sister like?Do you believe in past lives? And why?Get ready for an intimate conversation that peels back the layers of Lauren’s life.Blossom: drinkblossom.com use code Curiocity for 20% offSOCIALS: Curiocity Pod: https://bit.ly/3szbD8rLauren DeLeary: https://bit.ly/3FXuq0i
117: As a mom, an IT director for a growing celebrity business, a Thai woman, and a reality TV alum from "Very Cavallari," Brittainy Taylor's life is a patchwork of diverse experiences.
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Brittainy Taylor's diverse life journey
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Reality TV insights and impact
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Balancing motherhood, IT career, and entrepreneurship
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Exploration of her Thai heritage
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Parenting influenced by her grandmother's wisdom
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Choosing partnership over marriage
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Curiosity as a key to personal and professional success
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Entrepreneurship motivations and gardening passion
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The role of curiosity in Brittainy's life and mindset
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Reflection on personal growth and transformation
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116 - Meet the dynamic duo, Brooke and Jack, the driving force behind Trailer Flowers, and witness the incredible power of resilience and creativity in their story.
In this episode, we discuss:
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Trailer Flowers' origin during the pandemic
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Serendipitous connection as roommates in Nashville
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Journey from mutual fans to forming the duo
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Exploration of their unique music style and vision
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Focus on their single "Daughter of a King" and its creative process
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Insights into electrifying live performances and audience engagement
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Overcoming childhood abuse and advocacy for personal growth
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Heartfelt advice for navigating tough times
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Discussion on maintaining the "health of the soul"
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Deep dive into mental health and the role of food as medicine
This transformative conversation with Trailer Flowers celebrates their harmonious journey through life's trials, resulting in the creation of beautiful music—a symphony of resilience and creativity that underscores the healing power of art and self-discovery.
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115 Lauren DeLeary does a solo episode answering YOUR questions.
Q: How do you stay motivated to get up to exercise?
Q: What do you use to edit your pics with?! Presets? How do you take the cute flash photos?
Q: Where do you get your clothes? They're so fun!
Q: How has your sexual ethic evolved coming out of evangelicalism & purity culture?
114: Cheyenne Conrady is a digital marketing manager with a passion for painting, reading, and critical thinking. Explore her deep-rooted feminism inspired by bell hooks, her critique of oversimplified narratives and cancel culture complexities. As an oldest daughter, discover how her unique role shaped her worldview and made her a challenger. Learn about her family's history, her mother's adoption, and her curiosity about her Indigenous heritage.Growing up without religion in a religious community, Cheyenne shares insights into the challenges and lessons. Journey through her recent spiritual awakening and how it transformed her life.Delve into her unexpected journey into marriage and the unique insights gained. Lastly, discover how she fosters critical conversations and curiosity in her life and community. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation challenging norms and celebrating curiosity.SOCIALS: Curiocity Pod: https:/bit.ly 3szbD8rLauren DeLeary: https://bit.ly 3FXugOiAdam Frost: https://bit.ly/3QyNCGtCheyenne Conrady: https://bit.ly/3FUwbv1
Your hosts, Lauren DeLeary and Adam Frost sit down to explore the profound concept of finding meaning and purpose for self-growth, rather than fixating on other people's problems. We delve into the intriguing dynamics of how society sometimes villainizes proactive problem solvers and why it's essential to strike a balance between personal growth and external impact. Join us as we challenge conventional perspectives and discuss strategies for living a more purposeful and growth-oriented life while making a positive impact without being seen as 'villains.' Get ready for a conversation that will inspire and empower you to reevaluate your approach to personal development and societal change.
Join us on Curiocity for a captivating episode with multi-talented Audrey Assad, a musician, writer, and seeker of life's mysteries. Audrey's journey, from devout Christian roots to embracing mysticism, is truly remarkable. In this episode, Audrey shares her love for music, family, and how her multicultural heritage influences her creative process.Her story is one of evolution and self-discovery, exploring nihilism, woo-woo, and embracing a mystic outlook. Discover how she draws inspiration from unexpected sources like Celine Dion and the TV series Severance, weaving these influences into her creative work. Audrey's curiosity is a central theme, evident in her habit of writing question marks on her hands to encourage questioning and challenge binary thinking.Blossom: drinkblossom.com use code Curiocity for 20% offCuriocity: https://instagram.com/curiocitypod?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Lauren DeLeary: https://instagram.com/laurendeleary?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Adam Frost: https://instagram.com/adamnfrost?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Audrey Assad: https://instagram.com/audreyassad?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Audry's Links: https://linktr.ee/audreyassad?fbclid=PAAaZRFFvAYvfgPEkfJwyhAeaWqQ9ogyhHh2BipRdFEnt5_PfE6CHv42Flgfc_aem_Ad35hrpbyLDXtyQbNJwKBLGPk6nJmt8spx6uR1WeUBWpzP3864Nh7Cl0eGlVuBJbX9w
In this engaging conversation with the multi-talented Allie Gonino, we dive deep into her diverse creative journey and personal growth. We discuss how she manages being an actress, violinist, and writer while finding inspiration in these unique outlets. We explore the inspiration behind her music and how it intertwines with her artistic path.Allie takes us into the world of "Balanced Bae," a community she founded, and shares the exciting rebrand that’s happening in the future, as well as the principles that drive sustainability and well-being. Discover how her artistic pursuits align with her commitment to being a "Tree Hugger."We uncover her spiritual practices and how they shape her approach to life and creativity. Allie shares her experiences in Brooklyn and how the city's vibrant culture influences her artistry.But that's not all! We get real about balancing the spiritual with the everyday, and we even touch on sex magic and healthy beauty routines. Tune in to gain insights and advice from Allie for those pursuing a multi-faceted creative life. This conversation is a delightful mix of woo-woo and woohoo, as we explore various aspects of life, play, and pleasure. Don't miss this candid discussion with Allie Gonino.Blossom: drinkblossom.com use code Curiocity for 20% offCuriocity: https://instagram.com/curiocitypod?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Lauren DeLeary: https://instagram.com/laurendeleary?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Allie Gonino: https://instagram.com/go_nino?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
Join us for an enlightening conversation with Megan McCluer, a writer and photographer whose journey is a beautiful fusion of spirituality, sensuality, and self-discovery. In this episode, we explore Megan's unique path to becoming a photographer and writer while embracing the art of slow living.
Discover the profound influence of astrology on Megan's creative work and personal growth. Megan shares specific astrological insights and practices that have played a meaningful role in her life and creative endeavors.
Explore Megan's Substack, "Sensually Alive," and delve into themes like sensual living. Learn how she skillfully weaves personal stories, emotions, and astrology into her writing to inspire and uplift her readers.
Megan reveals the challenges she faced on her journey and offers valuable advice for curious individuals looking to pursue a creative career without sacrificing a slower-paced life.
Dive into Megan's love for nature, romance, and coffee, and discover how these elements infuse her creativity and daily life with poetry and beauty.
Explore the world of astro-poetry for new and full moons as Megan shares her creative process and the significance of lunar phases in her work. Understand the deep connection between astrology and personal growth in her writings.
Join us in a discussion on personal and creative evolution, as Megan reflects on transformative moments and experiences that have shaped her journey.
Discover the role of curiosity in Megan's life and creative process and gain insights into how self-improvement aligns with her mission.
Tune in for a candid conversation about navigating dark nights of the soul through breakups and the powerful influence of Saturn returns. Megan McCluer's story is an inspiring testament to the beauty of embracing slow living and evolving creatively while staying true to oneself.
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Welcome, fellow citizens of Curiocity! In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the world of natural health and herbal medicine with the incredible Maddie Miles. As a naturopath and clinical herbalist, Maddie shares her fascinating journey into the realm of holistic wellness and the inspiration behind her venture, "Peace Love Hormones."
Discover the magic of Maddie’s herbal tinctures designed for women's health and learn how she skillfully weaves together the mind-body connection in her treatments.
But it's not all serious! Get to know Maddie on a personal level as we ask her about her partner's journey into health, her thoughts on cold plunging and ice baths, and her favorite mocktail recipes. Plus, find out what Maddie recommends for a friend dealing with a pesky hangover.
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In this special edition of Curiocity, we hit the road to celebrate Lauren’s Dad's 62nd birthday in Atlanta! Join us as we capture the candid moments and conversations with Lauren’s sister Brooke, her husband Spencer, as well L’s mom, Carrie and her dad Geoff, all while sipping on espresso martinis that took an unexpected turn.
Mom's Take:
We sit down with Lauren’s Mom as she shares her thoughts on the rebrand of the podcast to Curiocity.
Dad's Journey:
From the University of Michigan to becoming a urologist, Lauren’s Dad takes us through his path and gives us insight into his views on the podcast's rebrand. Plus, he ponders why curiosity seems to come so naturally to this generation.
Brooke's Perspective:
Brooke draws an intriguing parallel between Curiocity and Barbieland, highlighting the endless possibilities that come with embracing curiosity. Join us as she delves into the world of imagination and exploration.
Spencer's Struggles:
We dive into the world of health anxiety with Spencer, exploring what it is and how we all grapple with it in our own ways. It's an honest and eye-opening discussion about a topic that affects many.
Behind the Scenes:
And of course, we take you behind the scenes of "Stories of a Urologist," where we uncover some vasectomy tales that didn't quite go as expected. It's a peek into the unexpected side of medical practice.
Join us for a family-filled, curiosity-fueled adventure in this episode of Curiocity Vlogcast, where the espresso martinis may not have turned out as planned, but the conversations are pure gold.
Hey Curious Cuties. Welcome to the exciting relaunch of our podcast! We've undergone a transformation, and today, we're thrilled to introduce you to the brand new world of "Curiocity." 🌏
In this episode, we dive deep into why we decided to go back to the drawing board and how "Curiocity" perfectly captures the essence of what we're all about. The journey from "Deconstruct" to "Curiocity" represents a shift in focus, away from just breaking things down and questioning, towards a more celebratory and diverse exploration of the rich tapestry of life.
Join us as we unveil how this evolution allows us to bring our whole selves to the podcast and why we felt it was time for this change. We share our revelation of when we realized our community was ready to move past "deconstruction" in our lives and how this transformation will draw you, our cherished listeners, deeper into community.
Discover how our podcast's future will embrace both the spiritual and the relatable social topics, offering you a more grounded and fun listening experience. We're excited to announce that we'll FINALLY be hosting in-person guests, adding a whole new dimension to our conversations.
And that's not all! Learn how Curiocity is not just a podcast; it's a whole world we're creating together. Think of it as the radio station of Curiocity, with exciting plans for a virtual movie theatre, town hall, and streets to explore. It's the Earthy girl's version of Cosmo, celebrating the multifaceted nature of life.
We invite you to join us on this journey of self-discovery, personal growth, and endless curiosity. Welcome to Curiocity, where we celebrate life's beauty, ask the big questions, and have a whole lot of fun along the way. Get ready to revel in the world of Curiocity—it's a dream come true, fully encompassed in all its wonder.
Hey Curious Cuties! Welcome to Curiocity, the podcast that invites your mind to wander freely through the fascinating streets of the human experience. Whether you're a seasoned explorer of the soul, a lover of the latest trends, or someone who simply enjoys a good night out with friends, you're officially a citizen of Curiocity, and this is your playground.
I’m your host, your personal tour guide, and your loving Mayor… Lauren DeLeary and I'm joined by my co-host, partner in crime, Adam Frost. We're two married millennials on a mission to celebrate the diverse spectrum of life. Our episodes are designed to resonate with you on a personal level, because here in Curiocity, we believe in genuine, relatable, and always on-trend conversations.
Picture our citizens, our beloved listeners, as a vibrant mosaic of humanity. On one hand, we have the spiritual seekers, the earthy philosophers, and the anthropological adventurers delving into self-development and harnessing the power of energy. On the other hand, we have the fashion enthusiasts and pop culture aficionados who love nothing more than a night of dancing with friends. And guess what? They’re often the same person! Because here in Curiocity, we expertly blend the "woo-woo" with the "woohoo."
In our charming town of Curiocity, we nurture curiosity about all aspects of life, encouraging each other to explore the rich tapestry of the human experience. The central themes of our episodes revolve around growth and evolution, serving as constant reminders that we are never stuck in one place and can transform as often as we desire.
But what makes Curiocity truly special is you… our fellow citizens… the curious cuties that you are. While we all evolve, grow and even change our minds - we are united by the thread of curiosity.
So, fellow citizens, Curious Cuties, let's embark on this thrilling adventure together, where curiosity is our most cherished attribute as humans. Join us in embracing life's vast experiences, in our journey toward self-improvement, and in savoring it all with a generous sprinkle of fun. After all, life is a playground, and we're here not just to observe but to play, explore, and revel in its beauty. Where curiosity reigns supreme - Welcome to Curiocity!
Two besties, a Virgo and a Gemini, walk into a podcast studio… and get tipsy. Join us for a heartwarming and candid conversation as Lauren and her best friend, Kelsey, sip on some sizable drinks and spill the tea on their incredible journey together. In this episode, they reminisce about how they first met and the day their friendship blossomed into something truly special. Prepare to be moved as Kelsey, who once thought marriage wasn't in her cards, shares her engagement story, with Lauren serving as her Matron of Honor.
Discover why Kelsey wasn’t originally a fan of the podcast (don’t worry - she is now!) and delve into her unique upbringing as a non-religious individual who found solace in faith during challenging times, including her battle with cervical cancer in her 20s. Listen closely as they explore the profound impact of Kelsey's diagnosis on her life, particularly the poignant loss of the choice to carry a child, an experience she feels is isolating.
The episode delves into the emotional and relational complexities that arise as Lauren expresses her desire for children while being mindful of Kelsey's traumas. Together, they navigate the terrain of their friendship's future, offering deep insights and laughter. Grab a drink, get cozy, and join us for this heartfelt and thought-provoking episode.
In this episode, we dive deep into the intricacies of human relationships as we recap Lauren’s recent birthday celebration. Join us on this heartfelt journey as we explore the themes of self-reflection, the influence of parents, and the complexities of soulmates and empathetic conversation.
We start by unraveling the enigmatic Lauren and her intriguing dynamics within our relationship. As we discuss our relationships, we emphasize that, at the core, we are never out to get each other. Instead, we believe in fostering an environment where constant curiosity fuels our connection.
Our conversation touches on the concept of soulmates, and we share our thoughts on what it means to find that special connection. We also delve into the importance of reading context clues and engaging in empathetic conversations to nurture meaningful relationships.
Throughout this episode, we stress the significance of maintaining a constant flow of conversation within relationships. Whether it's with friends, family, or partners, staying open and engaged is key to growth and understanding.
Lastly, we acknowledge a truth that often lingers unspoken: divorce is always on the table. While it may sound daunting, we explore why acknowledging this fact can lead to healthier, more resilient relationships.
Tune in as we embark on a thought-provoking journey into the depths of human connection, with the hope that our shared experiences and insights can help you navigate your own relationships with a renewed sense of curiosity and understanding.
** Lauren’s mic cuts out at 14:21 , but come back in 18:37
and again at 27:07 and comes back 29:35 **
In this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of post-Christian life, self-discovery, and personal growth. Join us as we tackle some of the most pressing questions from YOU, our listeners, and provide practical advice for those seeking clarity, purpose, and healing on their unique journeys.
Segment 1: Unearthing Your Core Passion
Have you ever felt lost in the vast sea of possibilities after leaving behind a once certain path? Our first listener asks if it's possible to find that elusive dream, that core essence of life they've been seeking. We explore the struggles of rediscovering purpose and identity post-Christianity and share strategies to help you uncover your true passions amidst the uncertainty.
Segment 2: Embracing the Old and New You
Balancing the past and the present can be a daunting task. We delve into the art of accepting your past passions while embracing the evolution of your identity. Join us as we discuss ways to honor your journey and integrate your past experiences with your present self, creating a harmonious narrative that drives personal growth.
Segment 3: Navigating Goal Overwhelm
The world offers an overwhelming array of options and opportunities, often making it challenging to stay focused on your goals. We provide practical techniques for streamlining your ambitions and effectively pursuing your dreams, even in the face of countless distractions.
Segment 4: Rediscovering Community Beyond the Church
Leaving the church can sometimes lead to a sense of isolation. Our conversation centers on strategies for finding and building new communities that resonate with your values and beliefs, helping you forge connections and a sense of belonging outside the religious context.
Segment 5: Reclaiming a Healthy View of Sexuality
Growing up in purity culture can leave deep-seated concerns about sexuality. We address the struggle of finding a healthy perspective on sex after shedding the confines of virginity expectations. Our advice aims to foster a positive and respectful approach to intimacy, free from shame and guilt.
Segment 6: Navigating Love After Heartbreak
Breaking up with someone you still love is undoubtedly tough. We offer guidance on navigating the delicate path of acceptance and moving forward, while acknowledging the genuine love that still lingers. Discover strategies for finding closure and pursuing personal growth, even in the midst of lingering feelings.
Tune in to this episode as we unpack these complex topics with empathy, authenticity, and actionable steps to empower you on your journey of self-discovery and personal transformation. Remember, you're not alone in this adventure of growth and healing.
Join us in this captivating episode as we embark on a soul-stirring journey, where personal narratives intersect with cultural heritage and spirituality.
We delve into the complexities of locational disconnection from one's heritage. Lauren shares her poignant story of not growing up in Canada, and at times feeling disconnected from her family’s roots. We explore the challenges she faced in reconciling her identity, navigating the push and pull between assimilation and preservation, and how her trip to Canada was a mixed bag of emotions. Through her eyes, we witness the power of place to reconnect us with our ancestral roots and discover the beauty of embracing one's cultural identity while embracing the culture of one's surroundings.
But what does it mean to embrace spirituality in a world that often presents doubt and skepticism? Adam brings us on his introspective journey as he explores his evolving spiritual beliefs. He opens up about his struggle with identifying as an atheist and his quest to find a sense of belonging beyond religious labels. He’s also been learning to embrace his Norwegian traditions and shares the highs and lows of that connection.
Tune in to this enlightening episode as we weave together stories of heritage and spirituality. Through personal tales of discovery and connection, we explore the intricate dance between past and present, belief and doubt, and the profound impact of seeking to understand who we are in a world brimming with possibilities.
We dive headfirst into the intriguing intersection of personal growth, evolution, and the unbridled joy of childhood. Join us as we explore the transformative journey of "30 Going on 13" and discover how embracing childlike wonder can lead to profound shifts in our lives.
- Modes of evolution – the battle between chunks and gradual shifts. We uncover how our personal evolution often mirrors these modes, and how letting go of the fear of reconstructing can lead to unexpected breakthroughs.
- The difference between reframing the "I am Kenough" mindset. We share practical advice on how to navigate the fine line between adulthood and childlike exuberance.
- Get ready to unleash your inner child as we explore the art of embracing childlike joy. We discuss the power of allowing play to precede safety, and how deprioritizing emotional consistency can open doors to authentic experiences. We share personal anecdotes and guide you through accepting your joy community, encouraging you to let the little things be little and allowing yourself to feel foolish without reservations.
- We delve into unexpected territories, exploring how reality TV can surprisingly serve as a form of spiritual healing. Plus, we redefine research as solo-play, encouraging listeners to indulge their curiosities and tap into the joy of discovery.
- We examine the masculine energy of deconstruction and how it can pave the way for a more authentic existence. Our conversation touches upon the fear of reconstructing and how, by confronting this fear head-on, we can uncover new facets of our true selves.
Join us on a rollercoaster of laughter, insights, and personal revelations, as we uncover the transformative power of embracing childlike joy, letting go of inhibitions, and rewriting the script of our lives. It's time to redefine personal evolution, one playful step at a time.
Tune in and embark on a journey of self-discovery that proves that age is just a number, and joy knows no boundaries.
Welcome to an out-of-this-world episode of our podcast! In this mind-boggling installment, we delve into the enigmatic world of aliens and unexplained phenomena.
First up, we analyze intriguing TicTac sighting info that has puzzled both experts and enthusiasts alike. Then, we explore pilot report statistics that shed light on the strange and inexplicable encounters in our skies.
The perplexing phenomenon of our inability to combat UPAs takes center stage, leaving us questioning our own place in the universe. Our imaginations run wild as we contemplate the chilling scenario of aliens invading our world.
We unravel the startling theory that aliens possess pre-ice-age intelligence, making their existence even more fascinating.
But here's where things get truly mind-bending - the notion that "Aliens are us." Could they be somehow linked to our own species in ways we can't comprehend?
Would you want to see aliens face-to-face? We tackle this thought-provoking question, considering the implications and emotions it evokes.
The mystery deepens as we explore the tantalizing possibility of a Government conspiracy involving aliens. Are there hidden agendas and secrets that we aren't aware of?
Curiosity leads us to question the timing of it all - "Why now?" - as we seek to understand the sudden surge in alien-related discussions and discoveries.
As we ponder the question "Is it a privilege to care?" in the context of extraterrestrial encounters, we're forced to confront our own values and perspectives.
A surprising revelation awaits as we uncover the concept of a "space garage," an intriguing idea that takes us on a journey beyond our atmosphere.
But that's not all - there's a giant red cube that defies explanation and challenges our understanding of reality.
And as if that's not enough, we come face-to-face with the mesmerizing phenomenon of astral projection, transcending the boundaries of space and time.
In the midst of it all, we find time to explore the enduring influence of sci-fi movies, shaping our perceptions of alien life and the cosmos.
Lastly, we contemplate the seemingly unthinkable - "Benefits of Alien invasion." Is there a silver lining to such an event, or is it just a far-fetched notion?
Prepare to be captivated, challenged, and mystified as we embark on this extraordinary journey into the unknown. Join us for an unforgettable episode that will leave you questioning the very fabric of reality!
*Emotional metabolism: how emotional experiences are "processed" or “digested” through the physical and emotional body of an individual.
We delve into the complex relationship between gratitude, responsibility, and the impact of our choices on ourselves and the planet. We start by exploring the practice of solely thanking a god or creator for the food on our plates, without acknowledging the lives of the animals involved. We highlight how this approach can be seen as lazy and a way to escape the responsibility of our actions, contributing to desensitization, which has far-reaching consequences for both humanity and the environment.
Next, we discuss the power of perception and self-limiting beliefs. Our conversation takes a fascinating turn as we explore the idea that if something truly was impossible for us, we wouldn't even perceive it as a possibility. This perspective challenges our notions of self-imposed limitations and encourages us to broaden our horizons.
Furthermore, we address the concept of empathy and its potential pitfalls. While being an empath can be a beautiful gift, it's crucial to avoid getting entangled in someone else's negativity. We share practical tips and strategies on how to maintain healthy boundaries and self-care while still being a compassionate and supportive presence for others.
Finally, we wrap up with a discussion on the fallacy of sacrificing our own well-being to help others. We explore the idea that making oneself poor or sad does not genuinely benefit someone else, but rather, it perpetuates a cycle of suffering. Instead, we challenge you to seek more sustainable and effective ways to contribute positively to the lives of others without compromising their own.
Join us as we navigate the complex dynamics of gratitude, responsibility, empathy, and self-care in our quest for a more conscious and compassionate existence.
*an original Lauren and Adam concept/term
Evolving Ethical Living: My Journey of Becoming Un-Vegan
Join us in this thought-provoking podcast episode as we delve into our personal journey of "becoming un-vegan." We share our 8-year pilgrimage of empathy and self-sacrifice for the greater good, exploring the evolution of our relationship with veganism and animal rights.
Through candid reflections, we discuss the challenges of feeling responsible for the pain in the world and the never-ending pursuit of ethical living, drawing parallels to religious sanctification and the intensity of outrage culture. The episode explores how we navigated the balance between consciousness and intentionality in supporting ethical and sustainable practices.
With a focus on avoiding conventional factory farming practices and seeking out quality animal welfare practices, we share our commitment to supporting local, small-scale farmers prioritizing sustainable farming methods. Organic, grass-fed, free-range, and pasture-raised choices are essential, along with certifications like the Marine Stewardship Council (MSC) label for seafood, indicating sustainable fishing practices.
You will gain insights into our mindful approach to consumption, our efforts to avoid non-intentional animal products, and our conscious efforts to conserve water, use energy wisely, and shop second-hand. And truly, how we still am in process of figuring out what works best for us.
Tune in to discover the heartfelt journey of self-discovery and continuous evolution towards ethical living, where the earth has always been a priority, and animals play an integral role in this conscious approach to life.
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Join Lauren and Adam in this captivating episode as they delve deep into the transformative journey of evolving from peace to passion.
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Discover why you deserve more than the baseline and how to establish unwavering self-worth through self-respect.
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Prepare to be enlightened as they explore the power of comedy in humanizing our thoughts instead of demonizing them.
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Tune in to learn about the profound impact of writing your goals and dreams down.
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Gain valuable insights from their honest conversation about goals and expectations within and beyond their marriage.
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Plus, they share an intriguing reference to the thought-provoking podcast 'To Be Magnetic,' which is guaranteed to leave you wanting more. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/expanded-podcast-by-to-be-magnetic/id1419732648
Don't miss out on this thought-provoking episode that will empower and inspire you to unlock your true potential!
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🎙️ Join Lauren, Adam, and Lauren's sister Brooke on today's VLOGCAST! 🌟
Yes, we recorded an episode on a tiny camera while galavanting in our hometown. It was epic. 🎥✨
You get to be a fly on the wall during our family discussions. And a sneak peek at our new baby niece and her amazing mama, our sis-in-law, Bri! 👶💕
In this episode, we dive deep into thought-provoking topics that everyone can relate to:
👶 Exploring the joys and challenges of babies, expectations, and the role of grandparents.🏡 Comparing suburban vs. city life and why the grass always seems greener on the other side.🚀 Reflecting on why we leave our hometowns and the search for happiness in new places.💭 Discussing the importance of coming back to the basics and finding fulfillment in simple things.
We've got some fascinating insights and personal stories to share with you. So, grab your headphones and tune in to our latest episode to hear more about our hometown adventures and thought-provoking conversations! 🎧💬
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- We’re back! Better and realer than ever. We’ve got some updates!
- Lauren and Adam take on Cannes, France
- Lauren wins two GOLD Cannes Lions Awards as Screenwriter for Missing Matoaka Project.
- Adam experiences Sleep Anxiety for real for the first time.
- Lauren gets blocked on Instagram.
- Adam gets ROOFIED at an exclusive Pool Party in France.
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Can we reclaim "Conservative" Language?
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Can we borrow "Christian" terms & lingo?
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Can we social justice our way out of physiological burdens?
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It is irresponsible to rid ourselves of all expectations that don't feel like fit us?
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Can masculine energy really be toxic? Or is it just toxic behavior?
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What does it mean to "take a back seat" as someone with "privileged identities"?
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Does being mixed give us a leg up on finding nuance?
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Are we able to place nuance where there is none (or so we think)?
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In today's episode, Lauren + Adam discuss:
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A family member recently telling us they think we are going to hell.
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We chat about how everyone we know, makes an exception for a loved one that passes - believing they’ve gone to heaven, regardless of religious belief. No one attends a funeral of a loved one saying, “Too bad they’re in hell”.
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Believing someone is going to hell, without being upset about it means you’re either entirely unloving or you don’t really believe it.
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We compare the Bible to Tarot cards.
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How the art of learning feels spiritual. Not needing to embody or believe it, for information to have significance.
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In this episode, Lauren + Adam discuss:
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Being present and the distraction of technology.
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We touch on cancel culture.
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We ask if being physically present is even necessary in the future.
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If you keep following your curiosity - eventually, someone might ged mad. How to handle that.
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We discuss how to align with someone in the way their brain asks questions - Not the conclusions they come to.
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We navigate the difficulty of asking uncomfortable questions online, because IRL conversations are far less cancel-able.
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We talk about our younger selves and what our inner child is telling us.
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In this episode, Lauren + Adam discuss:
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Lauren's personal experience from the social chaos that occurred after a photo with some of her close friends, celebrating liberation from purity culture, was shared online.
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This entire experience from start to finish is incredibly nuanced + we couldn't possibly cover everything. We hope you hear our hearts.
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Adam speaks on allowing others to live in their joy.
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We discuss that many people find themselves - again - giving away their power, and lacking voice or opinion after leaving church culture. How they choose to be lead by a select few that check off new boxes to make them believe they posses no self-identifying discernment. What we can do instead...
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A lot of white folks don't consider the fact that they have ancestors too. We talk about how to tap into that and why it is so necessary to stop perpetuating performative behavior that lacks critical thinking.
Sources mentioned in the episode:
Brown Identity, White Privilege: https://youtu.be/CGNv7LShjLA
Lauren's Screenwriting project (Pocahontas' Real Story): https://youtu.be/CGNv7LShjLA
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In this episode Lauren + Adam discuss:
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How healthy masculinity actually encourages play.
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Subverting appropriation by reclaiming your OWN heritage. Adam shares on his search for his Norse ancestors' spiritual practices.
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Reimagining Spirituality as a contemporary Indigenous woman (Lauren).
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What true healthy masculinity looks like. Aka - Knowing, caring for, providing for, interceding for others in times where they don’t or can’t for themselves. It’s a protection energy we can aspire to. Adam opens up about his struggle to embrace his masculinity in today's world.
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Embracing that time is not linear. Not only do we have ancestors. But we ARE our ancestors. And the best way to connect with them is first to connect with & love ourselves.
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In this episode, Lauren + Adam Discuss:
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Finding spirituality through humanity.
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Desperate times call for desperate prayers.
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Choosing to explore the spirituality of our ancestors - what they believed that they could be interacting + interfacing with to bring growth + healing in the world.
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It takes some bravery to speak boldly on something. It takes the greatest bravery to be vulnerable enough to stand for something AND allow space for that to change.
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Welcome to Deconstruct - an evolving space to support your expanding curiosity. Join us, Lauren DeLeary + Adam Frost for honest, playful, always real, funny + heart-felt conversations. Together we’ve always contemplated life’s biggest questions, but shortly after getting married - we decided it was time to hit record + bring you in.
We dive head first into topics like:
- Spirituality (+sometimes lack thereof): working with our ancestors + caring for the earth
- Our approach to mental + physical health
- Navigating relationships with each other, friends + family
- Pushing back on socio-political expectations; sharing ourhilarious hot takes + conspiracy theories
All while staying true to ourselves + our current perspectives.
Remember. You are your safest person. Your body is your safest space. Keep what works + leave the rest.
If you’re ready - keep listening + allow yourself to be your very best guide.
*Seasons 1-9 focus primarily on the deconstruction of our religious faith in REAL time + the effects of growing up in purity culture. If that’s where you are - we encourage you to start at the beginning.
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Cori is passionate about LGBTQ+ equality, freedom from sexual shame and talking about “taboo” subjects. She is an enneagram 4, and loves to deep dive about the vastness of emotions. She grew up Southern Baptist in Arkansas but after coming out at 22, her faith changed substantially. She is still fascinated by the person of Jesus but, like a lot of us - she has some issues with the church. Fun fact: she is firefighter in Washington! @corilatousek @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @adamfrost.official https://linktr.ee/CoriLatousek
CHRISTENA CLEVELAND Ph.D. is a social psychologist, public theologian, author, and activist. She is the founder and director of the Center for Justice + Renewal as well as its sister organization, Sacred Folk, which creates resources to stimulate people’s spiritual imaginations and support their journeys toward liberation. An award-winning researcher and former professor at Duke University’s Divinity School, Christena’s work has appeared in magazines ranging from Essence to Christianity Today. She lives in Boston, Massachusetts. http://christenacleveland.com ; http://patreon.com/cscleve @christenacleveland @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @adamfrost.official
Rev. Brandan Robertson is a noted author, progressive Christian minister, activist, and public theologian, working at the intersections of spirituality, sexuality, and social renewal. @brandanrobertson @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @adamfrost.official https://linktr.ee/BrandanRobertson
We cover abortion and personal stories surrounding abortion. Listen with an open heart & remember we are all human beans just truly trying our best. @godisgrey @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @adamfrost.official https://msha.ke/godisgrey/
Tim Whitaker, aka @thenewevangelicals on Instagram was Homeschooled, grew up in church and over time deconstructed. He is Passionate about the christian tradition and resisting christian nationalism. https://linktr.ee/thenewevangelicals @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @adamfrost.official
Kat Harris is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, and Co-Founder of the online publication The Refined Woman. Her first book Sexless in the City hit bookstores April 2021. She coaches and equips women all over the world in dating, relationships, singleness, sexuality, faith and how to build a renewed and healthy biblical sexual ethic rooted in freedom, truth and grace as opposed to the oh-so-common shame and fear narratives so many experienced growing up in evangelical culture. She believes in the power of story, that done is better than perfect, quality triumphs quantity, and that the journey truly is the destination. Ultimately, her vision is for women to know their beauty, identity, worth and value and to experience untapped freedom and joy in their lives regardless of their relationship status. @deconstruct.pod @therefinedwoman @laurendeleary @adamfrost.official https://linktr.ee/therefinedwoman
Stelle Jacobson currently works full-time as a legal specialist for a law firm and is passionate about law, policy, and research. She has international experience with refugees having spent four consecutive months on the ground in Mosul, Iraq working with an international NGO. She currently volunteers with the IRC and helps asylum seekers settle in the States. She is an AmeriCorps alumni member and has worked with the Arizona Supreme Court helping less privileged and under-resourced populations re-enter society. @astelleau @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @adamfrost.official https://form.jotform.com/212585554067158
Today we have Kevin Garcia. A Digital pastor, spiritual coach, author and speaker, woo woo vibey ass bitch. Passionate about helping people create spiritiual practices to heal from spiritual trauma and crafting miraculous lives. Ex-evangelcial, queer and expansive spiritualist, sometimes christian, often a witch. https://linktr.ee/thekevingarcia @thekevingarcia @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @adamfrost.official
The decolonized Christian grew up in Western Canada, a homeschooled kid from an evangelical Christian home. While this taught him a biased worldview from a very conservative Christian lens, He developed a love for learning, reading, and asking questions outside of the box. This inevitably led him to a journey of deconstructing his faith while also becoming a pastor and working in a church. He is passionate about Church history, educating Christians about the ways white supremacy has dominated the Western church and caused harm, and decolonial theologies. https://linktr.ee/TheDecolonizedChristian @the_decolonized_christian @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @adamfrost.official
After 30 years in the church, David Hayward (aka NakedPastor) left the ministry to pursue his passion for art. He uses words and images to challenge the status quo, deconstruct dogma, and offer hope for those who struggle and suffer under it. @nakedpastor @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @adamfrost.official https://linktr.ee/nakedpastor
This weeks episode is a bonus episode in between our eighth and ninth season. We had the honor of speaking on the podcast stage at the wild goose festival this year. We go through our story and how we got here. What’s next? 😌
Mimi Cole is a graduate student currently pursuing her Master’s degree in Clinical Rehabilitation and Mental Health Counseling. She is passionate about disordered eating and obsessive compulsive disorder, and started deconstructing her faith during college. When her experiences with scrupulosity were named for her - it was an incredible first step in her healing. She is continuing to do a lot of work around what She wants spirituality to look like in her life and to heal from the religious trauma of being in a constant state of hyper vigilance & afraid of hell. @the.lovelybecoming @deconstruct.pod @officialadamfrost @laurendeleary https://linktr.ee/Thelovelybecoming
Stephanie Green is a queer single mama of 2 amazing cisgender kids and 1 epic trans boy. She was raised in an evangelical home and spent half a lifetime working for christian ministries, but she slowly deconstructed for over a decade before finally leaving religion, church, and - as happens for a lot of people - most of her community. She’s a beautiful writer and poet. @lovestephaniegreene @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost @deconstruct.pod https://linktr.ee/lovestephaniegreene
Tara Teng is an Embodiment Coach who works in the intersections of spirituality and sexuality. She helps people find their way back to their bodies, overcome shame, and dismantle purity culture in a way that is in alignment with their values and beliefs so that they can build a healthy, sexual ethic and thrive in freedom and wholeness. https://linktr.ee/misstarateng @misstarateng @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost @deconstruct.Pod
Yeamah Logan is a Queer woman of African descent who identifies as Christian. She helps LGBTQ+ Christians make peace with their sexuality and faith. She is passionate about reuniting the queer community with a God who loves, accepts and affirms them. She was baptized in the seventh Day Adventist tradition and ended up in a charismatic non-denominational, hyper-grace Bible college with a masters in Biblical studies.
Hannah Moon is an intuitive coach focused on helping those with a religious upbringing to deconstruct their own ideas, beliefs, and fears to live an authentic and joy-filled life. She is an inter-faith, inter-spirituality coach who believes there is truth weaving through all cultures and practices guiding us to love, inner divinity, and wholeness. Hannah began her own deconstruction journey after being faced with the reality that the dreams she was pursuing were for the approval of those around her, versus true fulfillment. Her surface-level authenticity led her to discover a deeper understanding of who she was by unpacking harmful rhetoric, trauma, and ideology that didn't belong to her. Hannah’s main message is to empower individuals to invest in their own education and by being more knowledgeable, people are able to think critically and be grounded in the way they choose to live their lives.
https://msha.ke/thehannahmoon/
@thehannahmoon @jesuswitch @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost @deconstruct.pod
Dr. Laura Anderson is a Psychotherapist specializing in complex trauma focusing on sexualized violence, domestic violence and religious trauma. She is Co-founder of the Religious Trauma Institute and founder of the Center for Trauma Resolution and Recovery which is an online coaching practice with all of their practitioners specializing in working with people who have experienced religious trauma, adverse religous experiences, faith deconstruction, healing from purity culture, & more.
@religioustraumainstitute , @traumaresolutionandrecovery, @lauraandersontherapy @laurendeleary @deconstruct.pod @officialadamfrost
Alice Greczyn is an actress, author, and the founder of Dare to Doubt. Midwest-raised and LA-based, Alice’s nomadic childhood moved her around the United States until her modeling career as a teenager led to an acting career in Hollywood. Alice is fascinated by the subjective experience of life, which she explores through acting and storytelling. Her own story includes a painful but rewarding transition from evangelical Christianity to atheism, a journey that inspired her to found DaretoDoubt.org, a resource site for people detaching from belief systems they come to find harmful. Encouraging people to trust themselves and live courageously in their own truth is what gives Alice a sense of purpose. She lives in Los Angeles and loves hiking, traveling, and the relentless pursuit of knowledge. @alicegreczyn @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost @deconstruct.pod https://tell.ie/Alice/oQ6KAIuGYOBu
Andrew Kerbs aka deconstruct everything on Instagram grew up as a Seventh-day Adventist in the Bible Belt. He is currently a licensed therapist and writer. He is most passionate about helping people deconstruct harmful religion and learn to live a life that is meaningful to them. @deconstruct_everything @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost @deconstruct.pod @traumaresolutionandrecovery
Anjelah and Manny host a podcast along with their friend Brandon called nights at the roundtable where they talk about faith, love, life, and the deconstruction and reconstruction of all of those ideals. Anjelah is an actress and a comedian Manny is a music artist (used to be in the Christian music industry ) and they have been married for 10 years.
@anjelahjohnson @manwellreyes @nightsattheroundtable @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost @deconstruct.pod
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Liz Milani is Co-Owner and author at The Practice Co. Creating space for holistic and embodied spirituality. Liz writes daily devotions through a faith lens to lead people to their truest self.
https://www.thepracticeco.com
@thepracticeco @liz.milani
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Jonathan Merritt is one of America’s most popular writers on issues of faith and culture. He is author of several critically-acclaimed books, including Learning to Speak God from Scratch: Why Sacred Words are Vanishing - and How We Can Revive Them, named “Book of the Year” by the Englewood Review of Books.
Jonathan is an award-winning contributor for The Atlantic, a contributing editor for The Week, and a regular columnist for Religion News Service. He has published more than 3000 articles in respected outlets such as The New York Times, USA Today, Buzzfeed, The Washington Post, The Daily Beast and Christianity Today.
In addition to the written word, Jonathan regularly contributes commentary to television, print, and radio news outlets. He has been interviewed by ABC World News, CNN, MSNBC, Fox News, NPR, PBS, and CBS’ “60 Minutes.”
Jonathan is also a sought after speaker at colleges, conferences, and churches on topics relating to spirituality, politics, and current events. Whether he is delivering an academic lecture or inspirational sermon, Jonathan’s captivating communication style and powerful presence are well-suited for intimate gatherings of hundreds or arenas filled with thousands.
As a collaborator or ghostwriter, Jonathan has worked on more than 50 books, with several titles landing on the New York Times, USA Today, and Wall Street Journal bestsellers lists. Additionally, he trains hundreds of young writers through his Write Brilliant seminars and online course. He is often available for exclusive one-on-one coaching for a select number of advanced writers.
Jonathan holds a Master of Divinity from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary, a Master of Theology from Emory University’s Candler School of Theology, and has done additional graduate work focused on ascetical theology at The General Theological Seminary of the Episcopal Church.
He is the recipient of numerous awards and accolades including the Wilbur Award for excellence in journalism, and the Religion News Association’s columnist of the year award.
Jonathan currently happily resides in New York City. He is an aspiring dog dad, a college football fan, and intolerable before coffee. @deconstruct.poc @officialadamfrost @laurendeleary
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Lauren and Adam here. Today, we decided to put our sassy pants on and talk all things meme culture, tik tok and dishing out our best hot takes. Enjoy. @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost
Erica Smith is a sexuality educator with over 20 years of experience in the field. She's known for her signature Purity Culture Dropout Program, developed in 2019 to teach folks recovering from purity culture all of the accurate, comprehensive, queer inclusive, trauma informed sex ed that they missed. Previously she worked with young women and LGBTQ+ youth in the juvenile justice system and in HIV prevention.
Erica did not grow up in a religious environment, but tailors her sex education to folks who need it the most- and at the moment, that's folks coming out of high demand religions. She lives in Philadelphia with her husband and a house full of rescue animals.
https://bio.fm/ericasmith-sex-ed
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SUSAN COTTRELL is an international speaker whose TEDx talk has 1.5 million views. OutSmart magazine called her “The Mother of All MamaBears.” The Advocate dubbed her “our favorite affirming matriarch.” She is a prominent voice for the LGBTQ community and their faith parents who has been featured on ABC’s 20/20, Nightline and Good Morning America, on NBC News Out, and as a contributor on the Our Bible app. She is a public theologian and through her nonprofit organization—FreedHearts—Susan champions the LGBTQ community and families with her authentic love; and she challenges Christians to love as the foundation of faith. She spent 20+ years in the nonaffirming Evangelical church, has a Master of Arts in Theological Studies, and served as the Vice-President of PFLAG Austin. Her FreedHearts Blog and YouTube videos have millions of viewers, and her books “Mom, I’m Gay”—Loving Your LGBTQ Child and Strengthening Your Faith; True Colors: Celebrating the Truth and Beauty of the Real You; Radically Included: The Biblical Case for Radical Love and Inclusion; and Be the Love You Want to See in the World are critically acclaimed. She and her husband Rob have been married for 33 years and have five children, two of whom identify as queer. “Susan has this fierce, loving, don’t mess with me, Mom vibe.”—Rev Ashley Harness, Auburn Seminary
www.FreedHearts.org and @freedhearts on social media
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Josh and Adrian are former evangelical worship leaders, pastors, church planters who started Dirty Rotten Church Kids Podcast as a means to process life on the other side of the evangelical bubble. Equal parts heavy and light, the duo unpack their stories, interview incredible guests and hear from their listeners the Bad Apples with the hope that "it's all gonna be okay". @dirtyrottenchurchkids @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @adamfrostofficial https://linktr.ee/DirtyRottenCK
Spilling the tea. Catching up. What’s been going through our minds lately. HE GOD SHE GOD THEY GOD NO GOD. listen to the episode to hear where that comes from.
Nikki Mayeux is a queer ex-Evangelical writer and educator from the strangest city in the Deep South, New Orleans. She completed her MFA in Creative Writing at the University of New Orleans and works in special education advocacy. She also performs public storytelling and produces SANCTUARY, a performance series uplifting stories of religious trauma and deconstruction. Her work has been featured in Infection House, Dinner Bell, Room 220, Ginger Zine, and elsewhere. Her debut chapbook, Ordinary Time, is available from Tilted House. @nikki.mayeux @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost @deconstruct.pod nikkimayeux.net
Brenda Davies is the Author of On Her Knees & creator of God is Grey, where she advocates for sex positive, lgbtq+ affirming, science-believing faith. In this episode - we talk about women and MONEY.
Will Thorpe, aka, Heretical Theology describes himself as a humanist, heretic, apostate, and atheist. Although he spent 20 years identifying as a Christian previously and even fundamentalist 15 of those years. Through his online community, he helps those who are deconstructing in Christianity. He believes that theology without history is just fantasy. And Because of that - his main objective is to discuss the historical authenticity and textual criticism about the bible and apply critical thinking to christian theology. https://linktr.ee/heretical_theology @hereticaltheology @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost @deconstruct.pod
Brian Peck aka @roomtothrive is a licensed clinical social worker in Boise, Idaho, and he is passionate about reducing the ongoing impacts of adverse religious experiences and helping survivors resolve religious trauma and restore vitality and meaning through body-centered therapy & trauma-informed coaching.
He was raised within the conservative holiness movement, including K-12 Christian education and one year of Bible college before beginning his deconstruction journey.
He enjoys connecting with nature and sharing this one life with his partner and their two kids. In the words of Mary Oliver, He is all about letting “the soft animal of my body love what it loves.” https://linktr.ee/RoomToThrive @roomtothrive @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost
Grace Baldridge aka Semler is a queer recording artist. She’s just beginning but that doesn’t mean much. Because this gal jumped straight to the top of Apple Music #1 in Christian music. This is the first time an openly queer person has even been charting in christian music. And we get into alllll that. Enjoy. And go stream “Preachers Kid”. https://linktr.ee/gracesemlerbaldridge @gracebaldridge @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost
Your favorite heretics, aka Rachel & Derek are a wife & husband duo creating a safe space for deconstruction and recovery from church trauma. They are passionate about advocating for spirutual agency and freedom. They are deconstructed evangelicals. Derek has a biblical studies background & rachel is pursuing a masters in religious studies. Your Favorite heretics was born out of a desire to bring clear, easy to understand deconstruction perspectives to those who are interested to learn about it. They desire to give words to experiences and help sort through church trauma. Sound a little bit like another couple you know? @yourfavoriteheretics @deconstruct.pod @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost
Blair aka, Talk Purity To Me is a fellow ex-evangelical purity culture survivor. She is committed to unlearning the shame that purity culture taught us. Between her words of wisdom, hilarious memes and on point tik tok - Blair provides humor & healing to thousands of us who are ready to say goodbye to shame. @talkpuritytome @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost https://linktr.ee/talkpuritytome
Kevin Garcia is a digital pastor, creative mystic, public theologian and intuitive soul coach based in Atlanta, GA. After coming out in the fall of 2015 as a queer Christian, Kevin has reached thousands of individuals across the globe with messages of God’s unending love for all people. regardless of who they are, what they profess, or what they actually believe. Kevin’s the author of Bad Theology Kills: undoing toxic beliefs and reclaiming your spiritual authority, published Janurary 2020. Kevin’s work also appears in several anthologies by queer people of faith.
Through their work as a digital pastor and public theologian, Kevin has used their writing, podcast, and YouTube Channel to help foster communities of authentic spiritual seeking, pulling apart the bad theology and beginning to reconstruct sustainable spiritual practices. Kevin believes that by telling our stories, we set others free to tell their own. @thekevingarcia @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost
What to expect:
Is... “Everything is a miracle or nothing is”, true?
Adam may be the most enlightened non-spiritual person you know.
Am I an atheist?
You can lose your religion, but can you really lose your faith?
Is consciousness the same as spirituality? @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost
Phil Drysdale is a PK (pastor’s kid) who had spent his whole life in the church in various capacities including church leader, "pastoring" a thousand church leaders in a global church network and travelling around the world and speaking in over a thousand churches, conferences & colleges about faith. Now, over the last 8 years, he has helped thousands of people around the world who are deconstructing their faith. He conducts research into the deconstruction community, helps people find others in their local area and creates a digital space to connect. He is also the host of a twice a week show where he talks with people who have deconstructed their faith. @phildrysdale @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost https://linktr.ee/phildrysdale
Today we reflect on the year 2020 - what we gained & what we lost. We also talk about productivity & loneliness. As we wrap up the year, it may be hard to find the positives or even admit some of the good things that may have happened to or for us this year... We almost may feel guilty because this year, overall, was a very very hard year. We recognize that. But this is a safe space for all. And if you have anything that blessed you, grew you or positively affected you this year... we want to hear it. Let us cheer you on! Leave some comments down below on ways that this year has positively affected you. :)
Look, Christmas comes with its own set of issues. But then you are going through deconstruction AND a pandemic. And quite honestly - it becomes VERY confusing emotionally. We are here to talk about it all.
Ahsaki Chachere is the ceo/founder of ah-shi beauty, the first native American owned and operated luxury skincare and cosmetics brand in the united states.
She is a proud dine (Navajo) tribal member and African American woman. the odds were against her as she faced social and economic challenges as a dark-skinned native American. this gave her the fuel she needed to build ah-shi beauty. She gets to showcase that we as native americans/indigenous people are diverse. we are not the pervasive image the media continues to perpetuate.
in Navajo, ah-shi means: "this is me, this is mine." Ah-Shi Beauty - This is my beauty! Her customers set their own beauty standards. She feels it is her responsibility that when her customers look in the mirror, they see themselves, feel empowered and continue to love the skin they are in. ah-shi beauty has the opportunity to help the 500+ recognized reservations that are ignored. for the first time in history, They have a beauty brand with two locations that proudly operates both on and off a tribal reservation. She is also in the position to expand and scale to exponential heights.
all tribes across the country can relate to ah-shi beauty. as the face of the brand, She is always pushing the narrative to show the world that we are here and our indigenous beauty will be recognized and respected. ah-shi beauty is going to bring positive change to the beauty industry. They are a part of the movement that is resetting and reshaping beauty standards. the beauty industry can now include a member from the reservation at the table. She represents hope to her people. She is ready to work, learn and be the next timeless iconic beauty brand. @ahshibeauty @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost https://www.ahshibeauty.com/home
Dr. Randy Woodley is an activist/scholar, distinguished speaker, teacher and wisdom keeper who addresses a variety of issues concerning American culture, faith, justice, our relationship with the earth and Indigenous realities. His expertise has been sought in national venues as diverse as Time Magazine, Christianity Today, Moody Radio and The Huffington Post. Dr. Woodley currently serves as Distinguished Professor of Faith and Culture at George Fox University/Portland Seminary. His books include: Decolonizing Evangelicalism: An 11:59pm Conversation, The Harmony Tree: A Story of Healing and Community, Shalom and the Community of Creation: An Indigenous Vision and Living in Color: Embracing God’s Passion for Ethnic Diversity. Dr. Woodley’s chapter writings are in dozens of books and in many magazines and journals. His Podcast, “Peacing it all Together” www.PeacingItAllTogether.com Randy was raised near Detroit, Michigan. He is a legal descendent of the United Keetoowah Band of Cherokee Indians in Oklahoma. Randy has served as a member of the Oregon Dept. of Education American Indian/Alaska Native Advisory Board.
Edith Woodley is a speaker/mentor on issues concerning Native American Spirituality and Creation. As a full-time mother, grandmother and farmer, she has developed a unique relationship with the land and insights concerning how to raise a family on a small farm. Edith is an Eastern Shoshone tribal member who was raised on the Wind River Reservation in Wyoming. She graduated from Bacone Indian College in Muskogee, Oklahoma and is co-founder of several organizations with Randy Woodley including Eloheh Indigenous Center for Earth Justice www.eloheh.org and Eloheh Farm & Seeds www.elohehseeds.com They served together on the Greater Portland Native Climate Council.
Together, the Woodleys have been involved in mentoring Indigenous leaders and others, for almost three decades. Their service for over 30 years to the most disenfranchised people in America led them to become serious about important issues such as peace, racism and eco-justice. @eloheheagleswings @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost
Emily Sauer is a spritely entrepreneur who has always been passionate about creating catalysts that spark human connection. While developing Ohnut (an intimate wearable designed to help women and couples who experience deep dyspareunia) she co-founded the Lady Bits League, founded the Pain Perception Project, and is now launching Pelvic Gym to connect people and professionals from all over the sexual and pelvic health world, through education and story. Emily has redefined her life as a proud entrepreneur, maker, community leader, and sexual health advocate. @ohnutco @sauerhour @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost
Election week is about to be hella crazy. Can I say that? Just did. There’s no right or wrong way to process. Boundaries include social media & TV. Make an election night plan now. Figure out how you want to spend the day/night of down to the details. Prep your meals. Practice self-care. It’s okay to not tune in. It’s okay to stuff your face with jalapeño chips & game all night. How you process is up to YOU. And we are here to support you all the way. And of course, if you haven’t already - go vote. Your voice matters. Love you. Xoxo @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost
Kiona, Ph.D., M.S., M.A. is the founder of the award-winning digital platform How Not To Travel Like A Basic Bitch, which was launched in 2016. Seeing the deficits in academia where rarely Brown and Black people are rarely deemed experts in their own cultures and access to higher education is placed behind a huge paywall, she created a platform that does the opposite. She travels the world spotlighting different cultures, redefines the expert, and uplifts marginalized voices, hosting and teaching publicly streamed lessons for free on a gift-based model. Making global education accessible to anyone with a smartphone.
Her work has gotten her Travel Content Creator of the Year by Audacity Fest and World’s Best Influencer by Fodor’s Travel. In addition, her travel expertise has gotten her features in Outside Magazine, Huffington Post, Washington Post, Pop Sugar, Next Shark, and many more. She’s been the keynote speaker at the Cosmos Summit, diversity expert panelist at World Travel Market, and moderator at MissFits Fest.
She hosts a biweekly podcast called How Not To Travel which has hit Top 10 in UK/Ireland, USA, France, and Australia. She also has taken her educational classes offline and does monthly education trips to Cuba where her study abroad program is sold out a year in advance. She also runs a mentorship program called How Not To Grad School Like A Basic Bitch, which facilitates People Of Color getting into graduate school on fully funded programs.
Born and raised in Hawai’i and of mixed race Korean/Austrian descent, she frequently discusses the intentional erasure of Asian history, voices, and representation and advocates for Asian & Pacific Islander Americans in the media. @howtonottravellikeabasicbitch @laurendeleary @officialadamfrost https://hownottotravellikeabasicbitch.com/links/
Dr. Hillary McBride is best known as co-host of the Liturgists podcast and host of the CBC podcast Other People’s Problems. But that work has only been possible with years of clinical practice as a counselor and research as a psychologist, a base of expertise that includes work at the intersection of spirituality and mental health, trauma and trauma therapies, body image, eating disorders, sex and sexuality, and feminist approaches to psychology. Her first book, Mothers, Daughters, and Body Image: Learning to Love Ourselves as We Are, was published in 2017; her next book, This Is My Body: Embodiment and Why It Matters for Just About Everything, will be out in 2021. She has been recognized by the American Psychological Association, and the Canadian Psychological Association for her research addressing our relationships with our bodies across the life span, and how to make a home within our bodily selves, in a world that asks us to leave our bodily homes from the moment we're born. Hillary makes her home in Vancouver, British Columbia. @hillaryliannamcbride @laurendeleary @adam.budnick
Should your go to person for deconstruction and spiritual discussions be your partner? Can you cultivate a thriving relationship while one deconstructs and the other doesn’t? Is it possible for two people to be in different stages of deconstruction and be together? If the closest people in my life only hear my process as rebellion, how do I invite them in? How do you navigate conversations about church and parenting? How do you handle sexual ethic deconstruction changes while in a relationship? What is your perspective on how to navigate newfound independence within the boundaries of marriage? How do you communicate deconstruction/fluctuating beliefs when dating in the Bible belt? Can you have the same core values & beliefs and express them in different ways (i.e. church no church)?
Elizabeth Earnshaw (aka Liz Listens) is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Gottman Therapist. She owns A Better Life Therapy in Philadelphia, PA where she and her colleagues have supported hundreds of couples. Elizabeth also writes and speaks on relationships. She shares many of her insights on her Instagram account @lizlistens and within her membership program Love Lessons 365.
Matthias Roberts is a therapist, author of Beyond Shame: Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms (Fortress, 2020) and host of Queerology: A Podcast on Belief and Being which was recently named as one of the "12 Best LGBTQ+ Podcasts of 2020" by O: The Oprah Magazine and the #1 Podcast to Listen to on National Coming Out Day by Radio.com. He holds two master's degrees, one in theology and culture and one in counseling psychology from The Seattle School of Theology and Psychology. In his psychotherapy practice, Matthias specializes in helping LGBTQ+ teens and adults live confident and fulfilling lives. He writes and speaks nationwide about the intersections between gender, sexuality, mental health, and theology. @matthiasroberts @laurendeleary @adam.budnick https://www.eventbrite.com/e/beyond-shame-healing-day-tickets-112897112302
Crystal Cheatham is the CEO & founder of @ourbibleapp 🙏🏽 She received her MFA from Antioch University & is an LGBTQ+ rights activist with a focus on religious liberty. Since 2011 Crystal has worked simultaneously as a ghostwriter and queer rights activist with groups such as Soulforce and the Attic Youth Center. As an entrepreneur Crystal is the founder of two projects: Follow the Red Balloon and The IDentity Kit, both of which provided resources for marginalized communities of faith. As an outspoken activist she has written for The Huffington Post on the intersections of faith and sexual identity, a faith and spirituality column for the Philadelphia Gay Newspaper, sat on the steering committee of the HRC as the Faith & Spirituality chair, and partnered with Equality PA to influence clergy to support non-discrimination legislation. She is the host of Lord Have Mercy, a podcast about God, sex and the bible, and has been featured in TeenVogue, Autostraddle, and LGBTQNation amongst others. Twitter,FB,IG @Ourbibleapp and T: @crystalcheatham IG: @TheCheath @laurendeleary @adam.budnick
Jon Steingard - you probably know him as the singer for Hawk Nelson. As of late, he has been deconstructing his faith in public. He is curious about matters of faith and spirituality... any of this sound familiar? @jonsteingard @laurendeleary @adam.budnick
Colby is passionate about helping people come more alive. About seeing us wake up to the truth about who we really are: loved children of God. Some of the ways He does that is with his books: (UnClobber and The SHIFT). He also co-pastors a church, Sojourn Grace Collective, with his wife & co-hosts a podcast with his wife (The Kate and Colby Show). They are raising four sons: ages 15, 14, 10, & 8. He was raised conservative baptist, deconstructed for several years after leaving Bible College, & now has reconstructed a sort of post-evangelical progressive christianity. @colbymartin @laurendeleary @adam.budnick http://www.colbymartinonline.com
Fifi Buchanan began her career journey as mechanical engineer, and now works as a copywriter, content creator, and voice actress. She currently lives in Southern California, where she enjoys writing and podcasting for her own brand as well as others. Fifi hosts a lifestyle improvement podcast called Wonderfully Made, where she uses storytelling, soothing sounds, and personal experiences to help others reflect on some of life’s biggest questions and challenges. She believes affirmation and encouraging words can propel us forward into healing and great sense of life fulfillment. She got saved at 6 years old, grew up in church and was pretty sheltered. Her dad became a pastor when She was 10. She’s currently experiencing a new journey of questioning, which she believes is the start of a deconstruction of her beliefs.
@divinehostess - Fifi Buchanan @laurendeleary @adam.budnick - Us Divine Hostess YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/thedivinehostess Wonderfully Made Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/72zD4zSipqFMmxfINVg0cH?si=lQyoS2hyQbKFgExRAm7PrA
Reverend Sarah Heath is a speaker, pastor, author, podcaster, designer, actress, dancer, & science nerd. She is an ordained United Methodist clergywoman who loves to use her unique experiences to teach others to lead with authenticity, reframe their stories, build relationships with people who are different than them, connect the spiritual and the ordinary, and renew their space in a way that renews community. She helps people see the potential beauty that already exists in their own lives and spaces. @revsarahheath @laurendeleary @adam.budnick https://m.youtube.com/revsarahheath/?uid=rUKVyg6w4foRai_XsQmKbA
Mini Series: revisiting some of our most popular episodes thus far - reassessing our OWN deconstruction. How have our perspectives & languaging shifted over just one year? Today we dive into our episode “Recovering From Purity Culture w/ Linda Kay Klein. (Season 2, Episode 7). To listen to that full episode, click here: https://anchor.fm/deconstructpod/episodes/Recovering-From-Purity-Culture---Linda-Kay-Klein-easldf
Mini Series: revisiting some of our most popular episodes thus far - reassessing our OWN deconstruction. How have our perspectives & languaging shifted over just one year? Today we dive into our episode “What To Make Of Worship & God Within Us” (w. Madison Morrigan Hedlund), Season 2, Episode 4. To listen to that full episode, click here: https://anchor.fm/deconstructpod/episodes/What-to-make-of-worship--God-within-us---Madison-Hedlund-eaeolu
The Podcast is ONE years old now! And for a season, we are revisiting & reevaluating some of our most popular episodes thus far. We are ever changing, ever growing & evolving. We are reassessing our OWN deconstruction. Where do we land on certain topics even just one year later? The same? Or have our perspectives & languaging shifted over time? Today we dive into our episode “Purity Culture, Josh Harris & Now What (w. Ashley Trabue), Season 1, Episode 2. If you haven’t listened to that one, be sure to check it out: https://anchor.fm/deconstructpod/episodes/Purity-Culture--Josh-Harris---now-what--ASHLEY-TRABUE-e4of3d
Jo Luehmann was born and raised in Colombia and is a pastor with a masters degree in ministry and theology. She speaks and teaches about decolonizing church, theology, spirituality and faith, as well as the importance of dismantling white supremacy, patriarchy and capitalism both individually and collectively. @jojuehmann
https://linktr.ee/joluehmann
Allison Del Fium is co-host of the What The Faith podcast, a space for the faith curious, helping people become more interested in the journey than the destination, more passionate about conversation than conversion and more driven by empathy than by division. After meeting and falling in love with an ex-cult member, Allison now navigates and thrives in a mixed faith relationship. @allison_delfium https://linktr.ee/whatthefaithspace
Discussing our families opinions of our deconstruction.
podcasts that more specifically dive into the important conversations around racial equality & justice.
1619 - The New York Times About Race - Reni Eddo-Lodge Code Switch - NPR The Diversity Gap - Bethaney Wilkinson Intersectionality Matters! - Kimberle Crenshaw Momentum: A Race Forward Podcast - Race Forward Pod For The Cause - The Leadership Conference on Civil & Human Rights Pod Save The People - Crooked Media
https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/
Tyler George is one half of the pop/soul duo “The George Twins”. A band with over 13 Million views on YouTube & 70,000 Monthly listeners on Spotify. Tyler grew up a pastors kid and over the last couple years has been deconstructing the difference between religion & spirituality through the lens of Christianity. @tylergrahamgeorge
Kaitlin Curtice is a citizen of the Potawatomi Nation, a Christian, and a poet who speaks on faith and justice within the church as it relates to Indigenous peoples. She most recently released a book called Native. It’s a book about identity, soul searching, and the never-ending journey of finding ourselves and finding God. As both a citizen of the Potawatomi Nation and a Christian, Kaitlin shares what it means to experience her faith through the lens of her Indigenous heritage and encourages us to embrace our own origins. @kaitlincurtice
https://linktr.ee/kaitlincurtice
Brooklyn is a curious human-being in the midst of her deconstruction. Born and raised LDS, she left the church with a quick turn around and deep dive into Evangelical Christianity. Now, she has been released from any religious label and introduces herself as an Aries, enneagram 3, and sexuality advocate.
Some topics we covered:
What does it mean to be Mormon and what are some key principles to live by?
Do Mormons really believe they become god of their own universe when they die?
What exactly do Mormons believe in for the afterlife?
Is the Mormon religion different to each person or does everyone follow the same “rules”?
Is Mormonism a cult?
Why did you leave Mormonism?
Why did you join the evangelical church?
Why did you leave the evangelical church?
What does your spirituality look like now?
@brooklyndaron
This is J. He’s another fellow creative here in Nashville. He is a writer, artist, coach, & brand developer. He is passionate about helping artists build their brand without losing their soul. He’s an enneagram 9 and an all around amazing friend. He has also gone through a deconstruction phase of his own. In our conversation with him... we discuss reframing spirituality through empathy and curiosity. @churchill.morris
https://www.jchurchillmorris.com/
How did Adam become a feminist? How he responds to Lauren’s social media trolls... andddd more @laurendeleary & @adam.budnick
Josh Scott is the lead pastor at Gracepointe church here in Nashville. Gracepointe is an affirming, progressive Christian church. WHAT IS PROGRESSIVE CHRISTIANITY?? Who is it for?? josh@gracepointe.net
Up next on the podcast, we have Lintu Holman and we are so excited to have her on! Not only is she a great friend of ours, but she’s super talented. She’s an award winning beauty & makeup FX artist & makeup instructor. She is also a creative director and engineer. Lintu also has been involved & been a member of TST (The Satanic Temple)., AND she believes in God. Which, if you don’t know know much about TST- can sound ??? We’ve learned a lot throughout our friendship and she’s been so generous to say to yes to an interview to potentially answer some questions YOU may all have... @lintumarie
Getting creative during quarantine? Is creative burnout a thing? To truly be appreciated for raw, “unfiltered” content... do we first need to be polished and “filtered”? What about people who are just beginning their craft?
Allison Fallon is a a bestselling author and founder of Find Your Voice—a community that offers workshops, coaching, editing and support for anyone who wants to write a book (yes, even if you’re not a “real” writer). She has written and published 13 books and counting, coached hundreds of writers from total beginners to New York Times Bestselling authors, hosted workshops all over the country and world, and helped hundreds of thousands of people use writing as a tool for their own personal growth. The book we are personally most interested in is her book “Indestructible: Leveraging Your Broken Heart To Become A Force of Love & Change In The World”. Indestructible tells the shocking story of a marriage that didn’t go as planned, the truth that shattered everything, and the beautiful unfolding of a woman who decided that saving her marriage wasn’t worth losing herself. And that woman is Allison herself.
@allyfallon @laurendeleary @adam.budnick
https://linktr.ee/allyfallon
Brenda Marie Davies also known as GOD IS GREY is a YouTuber and Podcaster advocating for SEX POSITIVE, intellectual and affirming CHRISTIANITY. She is a very important person in my life and so many others. We are so honored to be speaking with her today.
Grace Semler Baldridge is a writer and a producer and a musician. She has a docuseries on Refinery 29 called State of Grace. It is a series that explores the intersection of human rights, sexuality, and faith. Grace dives into controversial societal realities that Americans face everyday and how to navigate the modern world while remaining faithful. She’s also a really dope & fun human being. Can’t wait to share with you our episode with her next week! And sneaky sneak.... Lauren may be appearing in an upcoming State of Grace episode. Stay tuned. ;)
@gracebaldridge @laurendeleary @adam.budnick
https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJEQBmLpTgd8i84kwlWXsOCNcrNGeWIOy
Sophia is a wife and a mother to two sweet girls Beatrice Eleanor and Elouise Lucille & a little boy on the way! She has a passion for photography and writing. Both of which shows the magic, excitement, struggle, and inspiration that life (and specifically motherhood) has to offer. She is a lifestyle and brand enthusiast on a journey to help others feels supported and loved through their own unique journey. She does Raw Topic Mondays on her instagram including topics like religion, sex & parenting.
@sophiaelrae @laurendeleary @adam.budnick
https://sophiaelrae.com/blog/
Linda is the Founder and President of Break Free Together, a not-for-profit organization that uses story exchange to break silence and shame stemming from purity culture. The organization was born out of Linda’s 15 years of research on gender and sexuality among girls raised in conservative evangelical churches documented in her award-winning book, Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement that Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free.
In this episode we hear about Linda’s background and deconstruction period of her life. We talk on how purity culture has caused many people to settle in love and happiness. And the struggle of figuring out what a relationship with God is like without the constant guilt of sexual shame we grew up with.
http://lindakayklein.com/
@lindakayklein @laurendeleary @adam.budnick
Berry is a singer and songwriter based out of London, UK, but originally from Jacksonville Beach, Florida. She is Polish and Ethiopian but was importantly only raised by her single mom, grandma and uncle who were from Warsaw, Poland. Berry‘s perspective is unique but hardly solitary, it’s one most all mixed people can relate to. She advocates the importance of respecting those who look biracial and not asking or assuming they identify with the culture of the most physically presenting race and when someone tells you who they are, accept it.
@berrytheartist @laurendeleary @adam.budnick
Morgan Day Cecil is a believer, wife, mama, lover of Jesus and sexy vacations. She helps women who feel some kind of connection to the holy spirit find freedom and wholeness in the deepest layers of their body, mind and soul, so that they can experience love (and pleasure) to the full—in the bedroom and beyond. Her super power is separating women from the old shame of religious conditioning and giving them their sexy and sacred back. It starts by hearing a new story of how it could be...
@morgandaycecil @laurendeleary @adam.budnick
http://morgandaycecil.com/the-emerging-woman
What is worship? Who is Jesus? Madison is a life coach, speaker and worthiness mentor. Centered on radical responsibility, resilience and uncovering that authentic magic only you can bring to the table, she coaches ambitious and creative women as they reclaim their power and become the heroes of their own story.
@madisonhedlund @laurendeleary @adam.budnick
https://msha.ke/madisonhedlund/
Sophia Spallino, the host of the Enlightened Podcast, shares practical, relatable, raw conversations that inspire personal growth. Her goal is to cultivate a safe space for all to bravely shed light on real-life struggles, honestly ask hard questions, and actively choose self-growth. She’s had similar deconstruction to us. But a few things that are unique to Sophia... For one, she has coined the hashtag #halfhippiehalfgucci & is in a loving relationship with someone 25 years older.
@sophiaspallino @laurendeleary @adam.budnick
https://linktr.ee/sophiaspallino
Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers is a therapist, sex educator, speaker, author, mother, and wife. She wrote the book “Sex, God, and the Conservative Church” which helps everyday people and clinicians to understand what it means to grow up with abstinence education or a faith mired in sexual shame and dysfunction. This book provides new narratives and practices for those who desire to both heal and hold on to their faith orientation.
In this episode we dive into questions like why so many Christians are scared of sex and how to overcome guilt from sexual “sins” from the past?
@drtinashamlesssex @deconstruct.pod
https://www.tinaschermersellers.com/social-links
In this episode we go into detail about how deconstruction and even our own parents’ relationships have affected our marriage. We give our advice on how to be happy single & if marriage is really worth the hype. We tell a bit more of our story & our experience dating on the road.
Naked Pastor, David Hayward, shares the purpose behind his cartoons which challenge the status quo of religion. He reveals the meaning of deconstruction and offers hope for people of all walks.
@laurendeleary @adam.budnick @nakedpastor
https://www.nakedpastorstore.com
GLOVES - Lauren DeLeary
stream/download the song here: spotify: https://spoti.fi/2NygHTp apple music: https://apple.co/2WZ41rs iTunes: search “Lauren DeLeary - Gloves” youtube: https://bit.ly/2KdbNZT
Mesa grew up non-religious and made the conscious decision to remain non-religious in her adulthood. In this episode she answers questions like...
Where do you get your values and wisdom from & how do you weigh moral issues?
When times are tough, who do you depend on?
What gets you through at the end of the day?
Do you believe in fate/destiny or anything like that?
Do you think Christians hate you?
Thank you for listening! @laurendeleary @adam.budnick @mesamendoza_
Jessica is the director and producer of “I survived I kissed dating goodbye” which is a documentary about the various responses to the purity movement and models for Christian dating and relationships over the last 20 years.
In early 2016, Jessica approached Joshua Harris (the author of the now UNPUBLISHED book “i kissed dating goodbye” while they were both pursuing master's degrees at Regent College in Vancouver, B.C. to discuss the idea of making such a film together. The documentary released last year.
@isurvivedikdg @jessvdw
https://m.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=ybYTkkQJw_M
This is just part ONE of our conversation with Adam Palmer. Stay tuned for more in the coming weeks. This week we talk about our Christian music bands and our experience with mental health challenges and the response of the church.
@theadampalmer_
We don’t have answers, just experiences. Purity Culture is a HUGE topic with many varied experiences. The three of us had similar upbringings, but different journeys that lead us to where we are today. If you align with purity messages, this is not in any way condemning you - I’m happy it worked for you. For us, however, we have each had damage we’ve had to work through because of the purity messages preached at us. I hope this inspires you to look inward and potentially join us in this conversation.
Insta: @ashleytrabue Her link to all her sites: https://linktr.ee/ashleytrabue
In this episode we talk to the ever so lovely Kee Dwane. She finds her identity in her faith - through Jesus. Years ago, she came out as gay, then trans, and since then doesn’t really “identify”, as she now recognizes and finds identity in her faith through Jesus - not her appearance, gender, sexuality or preference. She shares her struggles of being pulled between a more conservative upbringing and the pressures she felt through the LGBTQ+ community. She bravely battles with dysphoria and the confusion that brings in an already confusing world. She is a courageous soul with a compassionate heart. She loves Jesus and welcomes anyone who so desires to reach out to her. See her contact below. Email: authentikee@gmail.com Facebook: Kee Dwane Instagram: @authentikee
So it begins. In this episode, we introduce ourselves. We open up to you about who we are and a few things that we are passionate about. In the future episodes, we will have interviewees all from different backgrounds. We open up the conversation to people from all walks of life. We will also include our own stories and share things we have been through that shaped us today. I hope you found this episode fun and somewhat insightful. Thankful for everyone who joins this conversation. Even by tuning in. We love you!