Before You Say I Do: Recent Episodes
Ephraim Chepaka
This is a show that helps people in a Relationship, especially intending couples understand themselves better as they journey towards marriage. Have you got questions or do you need clarity to understand better? Send an email to jinnycheps@gmail.com
The fun part of every relationship is in the growth of the relationship. When two people who are romantically involved both refuse to grow or one partner grows and the other one doesn't , it automatically creates an unhealthy atmosphere that makes it difficult for the relationship to thrive. On today's episode we explore other signs of a growing relationship.
Growth is important in every aspect of life especially when it has to do with areas that can shape the entire course of one's life. On today's episode we look at other areas in a relationship that both partners must show signs of growth.
Growing is an important aspect of life and relationship is no different. For every relationship to thrive the both partners must consistently show signs of growth in other for the relationship to succeed.
There's is no better way to know someone before dating than being friends with them first.
Dating without knowing the person to an extent is like buying an expensive product just because it looks fine and exotic without actually knowing what it's used for, it doesn't make sense.Today we explore more areas of importance as regards doing friendship before dating.
We continue our series titled Friendship before Dating as state several points that bothers on the importance of being friends with a person before dating them.
Friendship is a process of building a close bond with someone you are interested in dating. On today's episode we move on by stating more important points that will promote friendship before dating.
Dating is such a beautiful experience that both partners get to enjoy especially when they started out first as friends before getting into the relationship. So today we begin "Friendship before Dating" series and we'll generally be discussing the importance of building friendship before dating.
Today we end the 4 week journey of our series;Long Distance Relationship Requirements and on today's series finale we'll touch a few more areas about what it will take you to get involved in a long distance dating.
Dating will require commitment to one's partner to help the relationship grow but long distance relationship will require more than commitment, it will require a deep level of trust to keep the relationship fire burning. So on today's episode we continue the series by revealing more requirements for long distance dating.
Long distance dating surely has it's benefits as they are people who truly are benefactors of this type relationship however, there are still some people who have their reservations about it and that is why there are some requirements for anyone who intends to get into such a relationship. So on today's episode we explore other requirements of a long distance relationship.
Long distance relationship is honestly not the easiest type of relationship to get into and therefore,if you must get into such relationship, you have to do so knowing what it entails when dating someone who isn't geographically close to you and that's what this series is all about.
On today's episode, we'll be talking about more precise ways to resolve conflicts and this time, it will be from a more personal angle, as my wife and i will be discussing practically how the both of us resolve conflicts in our marriage.
Conflict in relationships/marriages are what partners will have to deal with every now and then, so to not be prepared in advance with effective strategies on how you can easily resolve these conflicts will do your relationship more harm than good.
Conflict resolution is a very intentional process, so if you must settle a dispute with your partner you must make sure you are ready to do things that will show that you really want to resolve the conflict.
If you must resolve conflicts in your relationship/marriage, you must be intentional and ready to put pride and every bit of sentiment away. So on today's episode we'll be looking at other effective ways we can resolve conflicts.
We begin a new series Resolving Conflicts toda, this series will center on various ways you and your partner can resolve your misunderstanding maturely and that's what we will be discussing for the next couple of weeks till the end of March.
Today we will be concluding the series; "Could This Be Love" this series has enabled people to rethink the aspect of just jumping into a relationship just because someone professes love. So on today's finale, we will continue to establish how to ascertain when someone truely loves or not.
Love can never be felt in uncertainty, so being in a relationship without being sure if you're loved by your partner is a wrong move. So today we continue our series on how you can verify if someone truely loves you or not.
Understanding what is love and what is not love, is the first step to dating the right person and also, eventually marrying right as well. On today's episode we look at how we can identify true love.
Finding love and being loved is one thing but making sure it's a genuine feeling is more important. This season of love(February),we'll be talking about how to identify real love and not be deceived by people all in the name of love.
We end a four week journey today in which we started be discussing the roles of a man in a relationship and we continued by also discussing the roles of women in a relationship. On today's episode, we'll be finalizing the roles women play in a relationship.
For two weeks we've talked about the roles of a man in a relationship and today we'll be talking about the roles of a woman in a relationship as well and we'll be doing this for the next two weeks.
Knowing your roles as a man and a woman in a relationship or marriage is essential to the success of the relationship. So on today's episode, we'll be discussing the the final part of the roles for men in relationships.
The positive outcome of a thing rest heavily on the functionality of that thing and also in the decisions it takes. On today's episode and series opener we will be looking at the roles of men in relationships and marriages.
Dating without marriage in mind is like casting a net in the river and not expecting to catch a fish, makes no sense.
here can never be any such thing as too much spices when it has to do with someone you're in a relationship with and today a 5week journey comes to an end as we talk about some more spices needed to grow your bond with your partner in the relationship.
On this fourth part of our series, we're going to be discussing some more interesting ways to spice up your relationship that will leave you grinning from ear to ear by the amazing outcome you'd get.
The more the merrier isn't just a cliché but a real expression in this context of relationship spicing. The more spices you add to your relationship,the more flavor it gives to the relationship. So on today's episode we'll talking about other spices you can add to our relationship.
Including some spice to your relationship is essential to keeping the love and fire continually burning.On today's episode, we'll be discussing other ways you can spice up your relationship.
Relationships needs to be spiced always in other to avoid it being stale and boring. For you add spice into your relationship, means that you have to be intentional and sincere when your relationship tilting towards that way in other to save it from crashing.
Just as you put in intentional efforts to start a relationship with your partner, do same when it comes to staying faithful with them. Today we end the 4 weeks journey by dropping some more salient points as it has to do with staying faithful.
The responsibility of a healthy relationship and a partner who doesn't cheat is dependent on the treatment of our partner or on how our partner treats us. So on today's episode, we discuss things to do and how we can encourage our partners to be faithful in the relationship.
Being faithful is important but it's more important to sustain it after being faithful. So on this episode we discuss various ways by which we can stay faithful.
Today, we begin a new series that will be channeled towards helping people in a relationship stay faithful and how they can advance their relationship as well. This and more we'll be treating on today's episode.
There's never a time as too early for you to prepare for marriage as early preparation will always prevent poor performance. So we end this amazing series with a bang as we point out some more areas adequate preparation is needed before marriage.
I've never seen a prepared person battle several problems and issues relating to a particular area without having solutions to them and I've never seen any prepared person be overwhelmed by issues in areas where they are well prepared. On today's episode we continue by stating valid preparation points for those intending to marry.
For one to be successful at anything, adequate preparation must be done to ensure a positive result out of it and marriage is no different. On today's episode we continue stating more areas should prepare in when planning to settle down.
Preparation for marriage as a process that is never ending for everyone who is intentional about settling down.So on today's episode, we look at more areas one needs to work on.
We begin a new series today titled; PREPARATION FOR MARRIAGE and on this series we'll be touching notable areas dating partners and intending couples should work on as they prepare for marriage.
Someone who likes you and is interested in being in a relationship with you, would express some obvious signs in that direction. This and more are what we will be discussing on this series finale.
Being accepted by the one you like is a beautiful feeling but that can only happen when you've read the signs properly because the result you get is always fulfilling.On today's episode we'll be discussing on how to identify the right signals.
Signals are what shows the potential of something coming to being or not and that's what we'll be talking about on today's episode, as we explore what type of signal to watch when looking to date
There are somethings you should look out for in order to know if someone is interested in being in a relationship with you or not. In this series, we'll be discussing on some of these dating signals.
Relationships are meant to bring the best in you, relationship is meant for connections and relationship is meant for growth. On today's episode and series finale we'll discussing how speaking HURTFUL words to your partner or spouse will affect the way you connect, grow and bond in your relationship.
Your words are powerful,so powerful that it can impact greatly on your partner's mood and generally the emotional state of being and equally have a negative effect on the level of productivity in work, business and in career. So on today's episode we'll continue by creating the awareness and effect HURTFUL words have in relationships
We continue today with the part 2 of our new series "Hurting Relationship". The effect of negative words cannot be overemphasized and on today's episode we will be talking about how to use positive words that will help build our partners and elevate them in every sphere of life.
We begin August by introducing a new series "Hurting Relationships" and on this series we'll be talking about how to navigate your relationship with positive words and not negative words and also the effects of bad words in relationships.
Having your family love your partner and actually accept them is very important and vice versa. Winning your potential in-laws takes a willing partner, so you have set your mind in order to win them over and bear in mind that it won't be easy, so be prepared. This is and more we will be talking about on today's series finale.
There's no parent with grown up children that won't be looking out for the time their kids will be fully ready to take marital decisions, so they too are looking forward to having someone win their heart. So if you're intentional you'll definitely find it easy to win them
Being intentional about working on your behavior in order to be on the good side of your prospective in-laws is very vital if you must become a part of the family. This and more are what we'll be discussing on today's episode.
Every parent of the person you're in a relationship with is your prospective in- law and getting to be on their good side will help take the relationship to the next level. These and more are some of the vital points we'll be considering in this episode
Winning over a Prospective In-law can be a hassle if you don't know what to do and what not to do, so on this new series we'll be helping you with what you need to do to win your date's parents and ultimately become an in-law to them.
Consistency is one of the most important element in any relationship and that's what we've done for the past four weeks by sharing our relationship journey with you.
So, on today's series finale, we'll be wrapping up by discussing specifically about our wedding preparations and the challenges we encountered.
Relationship don't just last without you putting conscious effort to make them work. So we continue today by discussing about the last 6months of our dating relationship and the proposal.
Dating is a very important phase in a relationship as it is period of getting to know each other which will further foster the thoughts of embarking on the journey of marriage or not. On this episode, we would be discussing about the first six months of our dating period.
This series will see my wife and i carry you on the journey of how we met,to how we started dating, to proposal and marriage proper.
Dating is never a stage for preparation but for preparedness. One of the signs of readiness to date is preparedness, so please make sure while you wait, prepare in advance before you relationship, so that you become a joy giver to the person you date and not a problem.
Readiness to date always goes with the positive attitude of learning, relearning and unlearning in other to get the best out of the relationship. So we continue the journey of letting those single know when they are actually ready to date.
Being ready to date is not about your feelings for people you like or the feelings of the people that like you but about your level of preparedness to enter into a relationship.
Dating when it's right is always adviced rather than dating when one desires. So on this new series we'll be looking at signs that shows we are ready and ripe for a relationship.
Wrong ideologies about relationship will never help any relationship grow and get to the permanent site, which is marriage. On this series finale, we discuss on some more key issues with regards to the relationship.
Dating involves being strategic and intentional with every action taken and words spoken in the relationship especially when both parties are serious about taking the relatationship to the next stage, which is marriage. Today's episode we continue to reveal the wrong approaches disguised as right when it comes to dating.
Relationships are better enjoyed when both partners go in with the right understanding and attitude and on this episode, we'll be talking about how the wrong attitude or mentality about relationship can ruin the the relationship.
Dating requires a right mindset and attitude to thrive and so it's important that your thoughts and idea about it is clear and not sentimental in any way. That's why on today's episode, we'll be talking about several wrong ideologies that can affect your understanding about dating.
We begin a new series today ; Myths Of Dating. We will be starting up today's episode of this new series by looking at what myths are when it has to do with relationship and the proper way to approach it.
Roadblocks are possible eventualities often faced in life and for three weeks we've discussed several Roadblocks that destroy a relationship, so on today's episode, we will be wrapping up by stating other areas that can cause problems in relationship over time.
Hitches do happen in every aspect of life and relationships are also included as well but this doesn't have to spell the end of the relationship but all it means is that you both should give more attention to the particular issue that is hindering the flow of love in the relationship.
Roadblocks in relationships doesn't have to be the end of your relationship journey or doesn't mean your relationship challenges should get the best of you till it destroys your love life. So on today's,we discuss ways on how we can navigate through some of these Roadblocks.
Relationship is beautiful when both partners agree to work towards growth of the relationship and have the common interest of marriage at heart. Today's series opener will touch few a roadblocks/problems in a relationship that hampers on the growth of any relationship.
When your unaware of what you want in a relationship or when you're dating without any intentions you will fail to ask the right question when dating. So on today's episode and series finale, we pick the brains of Mrs Kachi our guest on the show when it comes to the type of questions to ask while dating.
Questions are important in everyed. Without asking such questions, you will only be assuming things in the situation especially in a relationship setting because questions helps bring clarity as to how serious the relationship is and where it's head relationship about your partner.
Being accepted by your partner's parents is something you need to to know for yourself. Because being in a relationship with someone whose parents don't accept you will lead to frustration in that relationship.This is one of the questions we will be treating on today's episode.
Dating without asking yourself some important questions can be compared to cooking a dish from start to finish without tasting the dish, it doesn't make any sense. So on this series we'll be reminding you the type of questions to ask your partner while dating in other to properly evaluate the relationship.
On today's series finale, we will discuss how important it is to have a road map of your relationship, with marriage as the final destination of course because falling in love without any idea of where you'd like the LOVE to take you both is an error.
Being accepted fully is what you want to make sure about before you fall in love, because there is nothing worse than falling in love and finding out that the person whom you've fallen in with doesn't fully accept your or even everything about you. This and others will be discussed on today's episode.
Relationship don't just work because you want them to or because you are a good person, it works when you follow laid down principles that makes relationships work, that people have used to make theirs work. So today we look at more areas from compatibility, to others, that you must consider before you fall in love.
Falling in love isn't something you do carelessly without planning intentionally.We continue today's episode by discussing on several other aspects you need to work on before you fall in love and get into a relationship.
Falling in love is the easy part but staying in love is the hard part and that's why you have to be intentional when it comes to staying in love. Meaning, you have to have a list of things that will guide you and help the relationship be a success even before it begins.
The right person for you will never seem like the right person for others, meaning that, the right person for you will posses most of your important qualities in the opposite sex. We finish this series with a bang by talking about some other important areas that helps one in connecting with the right person.
Life is ruled by processes, strategies and principles, this is not different when it has to do with knowing the right person. So on today's episode we reveal more of these strategies on how you can know you're with the most suitable person for you.
It's sweet to date really but it's way sweeter to know that you're dating/courting the right person. On today's episode, we discuss a few other areas that will imply or show that you are with the right person, that you are dating the right partner or courting the right person.
Finding the right person doesn't have to seem complicated as people always assume it to be. So today we begin this new series which will guide you on knowing whether or not you've found the right person to spend the rest of your life with.
As an individual that is serious with your relatationship life, living by a code should be a normal thing for you, especially when it has to with starting a new relationship and protecting it from your eX, you must live by a code or principles if your relationship must last, these and more we'll be discussing on today's episode.
Your past and present relationships are important but without adequate balancing,the former can ruin the latter. So we dive in deeper on today's episode, as we discuss other aspects you shoud put into consideration when it involves your eX and NeXt.
We start a new a series today; Your Ex and Your NeXt. This series centers on how to manage your relationship, from the final part of it to the end and then to the next relationship(Present relationship), this will show practical steps on how to basically balance the two.
When you are dating someone and the person you are dating, cares more for themselves than you and never sees any reason to treat you any better no matter how much you complain, then you know that enough is truely enough, you need to leave the relationship, this and more we'll be discussing about on today's episode and series finale.
There will never be a right to leave a bad relationship, an abusive relationship, a relationship that has affected your self esteem and even your sound judgement, there'll never be a time more right than now for you to take action and leave.
We continue on this third part of the series which has been sooo impactful. This episode will continue from where we stopped on our last episode. Today we'll be looking at being stuck in an unfavourable relationship and how you can take the right steps in breaking free.
When you're ready to take crap from people, from your friends, family and most especially your partner, they'll be more than happy to give you crap for free.Life is choice driven, you'll either live or die by the choices you make in that relationship, so choose life, choose to survive rather than die from that relationship.
So many people have gone too early because they didn't know when enough was actually enough, they took all the crap and spoke in favour of their abusive partner all because he stopped hitting them with hands and started using his words, so they felt they were safe until it was too late to run for their safety. "When is Enough ENOUGH?" the series we'll be treating all all Sundays in October.
The journey we began 3 weeks ago has finally gotten to it's climax as today we bring you the series finale of Being the Right Person and on this episode we are ending with a serious bang because I won't be alone on this one, Harry Loveth my guest, tagged along and dished so much value as it is always the case on each episode of this show and this series finale was no different.
We continue the journey of being the right person on this episode. The ability to intentionally work on yourself shows how serious you are about wanting to be the right person and that gives you less problems to handle when you get into Marriage.
Today's episode exposes another opportunity to assess yourself fo see if you have what it takes to be attract the right person while being the right person at the same time.
Everyone wants to meet the right person that they'll fall in love with and ultimately get married to but nobody wants to put in the necessary work in other to become the right person themselves. So as we begin this new series, we look at things we could possibly do in other to become the RIGHT PERSON you desire.
Today we end our 4week series HEARTBREAK RECOVERY on special note by discussing how to give yourself better and quicker chances of recovery. You can't be fully recovered from a heartbreak when your not intentional about it and consistent with your recovery process.
Break up never just occur, they always show signs in advance before they eventually happen. So when it gets to the stage of the "heartbreak" it's important to face it squarely and not be in denial and that is what this episode is about; ways to deal with heartbreak.
Recovery in any area of life is never an instant process or short process but a long process that doesn't have to be boring if you put in your heart to it and follow the entire process discussed here on today's episode. Make sure you have fun while you're at it, this is very important.
Heartbreak doesn't have to be the end of your love life or even your life in general if you follow due process to recovery. See it as an opportunity to restart and reevaluate decisions you've taken in the cause of the past relationship causing you to hurt.
So you feel sex is you bonding with your partner even when it's done outside the confines of Marriage but you're wrong, rather it's you taking out the actual genuine bonding time because real bonding starts from normal activities you both do together and not from sexual activities. This and more we'll be discussing on this final episode of the series "Premarital Sex Dangers".
The idea of sex was made to be enjoyed in marriage and not in a relationship, so having sex in a dating relationship is an abuse of something beautiful that is supposed to be enjoyed in the confines of Marriage. Today we discuss the dangers sex brings outside marriage.
Did you know that the level of interest in your partner starts to decline as premarital sex is introduced and it also kills the self control in marriage when you both had sex before marriage. So these and more we'll be discussing on today's episode.
We continue with the part 2 of our series Premarital Sex Dangers, by stating the negative effects of sex before marriage and how it directly affects those involved in it.
No matter how pleasurable sex might seem, there are losts of dangers attached to it. On the this new series we'll be sharing dangers associated with premarital sex. Stick with us to find out what they are.
We've come to the climax of our series; "Why You Keep Dating Wrongly" today with a bang and we'll be revealing to you some more signs that shows you are dating wrongly and how to correct the mistakes you might have made earlier.
Avoiding wrong relationships isn't by chance but an intentional effort to consciously date rightly by choosing the right partner. Today's episode showcases a different aspect of the series that will expose you to learning something new about dating right.
You can't enter into a relationship without a clear cut direction of where the relationship is headed,it's totally wrong.Just like the saying goes "if the aim of something isn't known, abuse is inevitable", this and more are what we'll be discussing on today's episode.
This June, we begin a new series "Why You Keep Dating Wrongly".What this series will be centering on will be ways on how you can avoid dating people who are not serious when it comes to relationships and commitment.
Relationship failure doesn't always mean lack of preparation but rather lack of proper/adequate preparation.So if your relationship fails it means something wasn't done completely right and that's why on today's episode and series finale,we wrap up with a bang with the final areas to work on to avoid relationship failure.
Relationships don't just fail without your help whether consciously or unconsciously, so it's better you consciously work on your relationship to avoid it failing.So on today's episode we discuss what to do to avoid relational failure.
We've discussed a whole lot of reasons why relationships fail, so today we point out other factors that cause relationship failure.
Relationships doesn't just fail, they fail because one or both partners fail to invest intentionally in the growth of the relationship. This episode we continue to reveal core areas that in disguise leads to relationship failure when overlooked.
As we enter into a new month, we enter into this month with so much intentionality towards learning the reasons why relationships fail, this is what we will learning about for the entire month of May in order to do relationship better.
We wrap this 4 week journey with a power packed episode that will forever be a blessing to your relationship, whether it's your marital relationship or dating relationship. If you've missed other episodes of this series, you can scroll down to listen to them.
The level of of your commitment to your relationship can be the factor that determines whether or not your relationship will last long or not. This episode, we'll explore more areas that can contribute to a long healthy relationship/marriage.
We started our new series "Long Lasting Relationship" last week by laying the foundation of the series. Today's episode we continue by building on the foundation already laid as we discuss things that will make your relationship last long.
Relationships don't just last long without deliberate effort being put to see it grow. The growth of any relationship is solely vested on both partners involved, both of them not one of them has to cooperate to see it work and that’s what this episode is about.
Marriage is an intentional move, so if you must do it you must be intentional. So soday,we end our series Preparation for Marriage with the final two areas to work on as you get set for your marital journey.
Most times, the most prevalent issues in marriage never started in the marriage but before the marriage and that's why it's important to personally prepare adequately before marriage. On today's episode, we continue the exciting series we started 3weeks ago; Preparation For Marriage,by dropping more areas to work on before getting married.
Preparation for marriage will require that you are available,selfless,and that you are open minded. Today's episode will give us two more areas to give attention to as we get set for marriage.
Today, we begin a new series "Preparation for Marriage" as the names implies this series entails simple but important steps to take in other to ready yourself for marriage.
There's a nothing more important than a Green Flag sign of LONGEVITY in a relationship, so today we bring in a couple who recently got married to discuss this practicely,and tell us how they took a decade long friendship into the permanent site (marriage).
One of the things that will be prevalent in marital relationships are misunderstandings between you and your partner's family, so having a guy/lady that defends or protects your interest is one of the signs that he/she will do so in marriage and not only about family but generally protecting you publicly as well and that's a green flag which is where we will center today's episode on.
Today's episode centers on the Green Flag of forgiveness after an arguement.It's normal to argue but abnormal to hold on to your anger and not forgive, so we are basically looking at how it is a positive sign if he gets angry from time to time and forgives you easily.,it is a major sign and shouldn't be overlooked.
This new series Relationship Green Flags will be giving us a hint on how a healthy and fruitful relationship looks and feels like. Today's episode lntroduces the series and an area which depicts a positive sign in your relatationship and how you can continue to build on it.
Without a relationship with God as your creator you cannot really love your partner the right way. That's why today's episode emphasises on dating your fellow Christian or dating someone that loves God as much as you do.
Commitment and trust are the life of every relationship and should be taken seriously. Today's episode will be dealing with how the lack of commitment and trust of a partner now in a relationship is a shadow of things to come in marriages and so shouldn't been ignored.
Respect they say is reciprocal especially in the aspect of relationship/marriage. Respect is what validates love in a relationship. Today's episode speaks on "Respect" and how important it is to restore it if lacking in a relationship.
Its beautiful to have a good conversation but it's more beautiful to enjoy the conversation, to be excited as you converse with your partner.Today's episode emphasises more on the lack of "excitement" in the conversation and the importance of it in a relationship.
Relationship is so special and so we have to treat it as such and be sensitive to its need. Today's introductory episode of "Relationship Red Flags", we'll be looking at one of the most important signs in a relationship that isn't really working and what it means to individuals in the relationship.
On this Christmas special and we'll be ending the 4 week series on "Why Am I Single" by talking about how when we align with God, he gives us the desires of our heart.This episode is basically about how our relationship with God can affect our relationship status as well and who we choose.
Mostimes, people think other people are the reason why they are not making it life and most specifically in relationship but what they don't realise is that, its we,ourselves who are the problem. This episode will help you identify the problem and how it contributes to your being single.
On this episode, we'll talking about how being friends with the wrong set of people can play a huge part in your being single.
There are so many reasons why people aren't in a relationship even if they desire to be but for reasons unknown to them they are still single. This series will help people in this category know how to handle it.
We wrap up a 4 week journey of UNEQUALLY YOKED with our distinguished guest James Ekuma. Our second ever guest on the show, who shares his ideas and experiences as it relates to the topic of our series; UNEQUALLY YOKED.
This episode will be talking about being unequally yoked in a relationship aspect. It basically talks about why people face hindrances in this setting when one is dating someone with generally a different mindset/understanding.
Today's episode will shed light on the aspect of doing friendship with people who you are not equally yoked with and how it can affect certain aspects of your life.
We begin a new series; UNEQUALLY YOKED. This series will disabuse our minds from the default understanding of what UNEQUALLY YOKED means. It's more than just when an unbeliever dates a believer, or partners with a believer,it basically cuts across various aspects of life in which there isn't a balance in that particular relationship, whether it's at work, school or in business.
We end this amazing series ; Dating 2 Change today and I must say it's been a jolly ride. So on this final episode of the aforementioned series we'll be sharing about how it feels when you date someone and advice them against a family member of theirs and its effect on the relationship.
In dating you shouldn't be selfish because it's never about just you but about the both of you with your partner coming first. In today's episode we will be talking Dating 2 Change ones friend circle and how bad it is to do so.
Today we continue with the part 3 of our series "Dating 2 Change" and today's episode we'll be talking about dating with the intrest of changing the way our partner speaks. Like you see that the person has bad construction of grammar and you overlook that area before dating only to start lecturing them when you start dating.
Today, we narrow the series down and as we talk about dating to change one's PRINCIPLES and how it affects the relationship ultimately.
This new series will be centered on dating with the desire to change your partner and how it affects the sincere growth and success of the relationship. This episode is generally an introduction about what we are to expect from from the series.
Today's episode is very special because for the first time we are having a guest come share her wealth of wisdom as it relates to "Relationship Patterns" and stories that will bless your lives and inspire your Relationships as well.
Patterns are generally overlooked by those intending to go into a Relationship and this is where they miss it usually. If you ask the right questions earlier, you'd find out things you ordinarily wouldn't have known if it wasn't talked about. So, this episode will be treating issues that has to do with "Anger" as relates to relationship.
Your relationship history is key to shaping subsequent relationships you enter. So working on negative dating patterns can help one get better relationally. Today's episode we will be talking about "love' as a relationship pattern and how expressing love wrongly can affect your relationship.
Relationships can be patterned in a negative way ignorantly and this might lead incessant break ups if it's not solved. As we begin this series today, this episode will be basically introducing our series from a general point of view.
Journey to forever is all about active Preparation for Marriage. As marriage is not something you passively enter into but what you have to fully prepare for. We end this series by discussing Respect as an important aspect you need to work on as you prepare for marriage and how it can further affect the kind of choice you make when it comes to whom you should marry.
Forgiveness is like the fuel of every relationship especially a marital relationship or any relationship that's headed towards marriage.This episode will discuss the role forgiveness plays in one's journey to forever(marriage).
Selfishness is one area people who have intentions of dating or getting married really overlook. So on this episode of the Journey To Forever series, we will be looking at how one can prepare better by working on being more "Selfless" before marriage.
Marriage is not something you stumble into but something you actively prepare for. When we actively prepare for a thing we naturally do well when we eventually get into it.
We start a fresh series "Journey To Forever" today. Journey To Forever means the steps one has to take as to further prepare for marriage and to be married. This episode will touch every aspect in general when it has to do with preparation for marriage.
Today,we wrap up what we began 4 weeks ago on "Trust Again". We conclude by speaking on how Trusting Again from different facets of life's relationships, whether it's in the office, your school, your company or even in your home with your siblings is possible.
Trusting again is truly you risking it all to believe that someone who hurt you before won't hurt you once more. Today's episode will reveal to us on how we can trust again in our relationships after our dates must have cheated on us.
Last week was amazing but this week will be even more amazing as we we'll be talking about how you can trust your spouse after he/she must have cheated on you. We'll be discussing ways to getting to trust them again.
Trusting again after you might have had your trust betrayed isn't easy, maybe you were lied to, spoken bad about or even cheated on I know it's difficult but in this month's series we'll be talking about various ways we can get to trust again and today's episode will give an Introduction of what the series is generally about.
Doing something without knowing the good and bad sides of it, isn't the smartest of decisions to make.On this final episode of the series "2sides of Dating" we reveal more about the positives and negatives when it comes to dating.
Having an open mind in a relationship is very important because it helps partners easily cope with an unfavorable situation and also to resolve it. Today's episode will shed light to that.
People are quick to get into a relationship without weighing the risks involved and the lessons they stand to learn. This new series will help to break down the 2sides into positives and negatives when it comes to dating.
Falling love is always the easiest when it comes to relationship however, staying in love is hardest as there is much work to be put in place to keep it going consistently. This episode would be the icing on the cake as we end this series amazing ; Consistency of Loving.
Our love for our partner isn't validated by what we profess only but also by our consistent actions towards them. This episode we pick up from where we left off as we draw nearer to the end of this series.
This episode will dive deeper on how we can love consistently,it discusses furthermore that how forgiveness validates love. Plus this episode will teach us how to love rightly in a way that resonates with our partners.
It's easy to love but not easy to keep at it. So before you decide you want to love,you have to first of all commit in your heart to be consistent no matter what. So today's episode will shed more light on how to consistently love.
Pride is one of the reasons why you can't submit to the person you're in a relationship with. They may seem like they don't deserve your submission but if they were good enough to be loved, then you must learn to submit to them.We end this series "Letting go of your pride" as we discuss submission on this episode.
We know that pride is a destroyer of things and for the past two weeks we've been learning how we can deal with our pride and ultimately let go of it.This episode we'll be learning how to let go of pride in other to make it easier for us to forgive our partners.
Pride will make you feel that you are humble in your own eyes and that your partner is the one always at fault,not you. So this episode continues from where we stopped from our last episode and we'll be focusing on the aspect of forgiveness and how pride leads to Unforgiveness.
We introduce a new series "Letting go of pride". This series will be ironing issues that get in the way of our relationship bliss as a result of pride. Today's episode will be giving us a general idea of what it means to do away with pride in our relationship.
There's nothing good that comes without sacrifice and relationship is no different. For your relationship to work and thrive better you must be ready to sacrifice so many personal things as we have said for the past 3 weeks.
There's no relationship without sacrifice, and for the past 2weeks we've been discussing about sacrifices and relationships respectively. Today,we'll be diving deeper into the topic, so stay with us.
Relationships are the bedrock of advancement in life and in career. Your marriage and relationship is advancing and it because of your openness to learn and unlearn things in this area. In this episode we talk more about relationship.
We begin a new series this month titled;Relationship and Sacrifice. So today's episode is basically an introductory episode to this month's series. Remember just like bread and butter, there's no relationship without sacrifice.
This episode which is the finale 2.0, we looked at how started the series first the month and we revisited some important issues previously discussed and even touch on new areas too. Happy Listening 🥰
All good things must surely come to an end! If you think you've been living in love,wait till you listen to the final episode of This month's series to confirm if you really have.
As a Valentine's special episode, we'll be continuing from where we left off last week,so today we'll be focusing on things that can keep us away from having to live a life of love,as there'll be pressures that will distract us from living right, especially on such a day as this.
Love most times is a feeling or emotion everyone feel they know and can express to their partners easily especially when it's a new relationship because they feel it's just an emotion not knowing, its rather a way of life. This episode will give you a refreshing side to it.
They say there's no smoke without fire meaning nothing just happens all of a sudden,no relationship fire just stays and quenches on it's own,because something must have gone wrong for it to deteriorate to the point where it is now,the point where both partners no longer feel the need to please eachother. Today's episode will give some insight to how it can be revived.
So many people want to get back to the honeymoon phase of their marriage/dating relationship but not everyone is willing to put in the work to get the relationship back to where it used to be. This episode will give you an idea on how to reactivate the lost passion in your relationship.
It's a new year and new month,which means some vital areas of your relationship that has been deactivated subconsciously due to last year's challenges or from work or even due to consistent disagreements needs immediate activation and renewal.This episode will shed light on how to go about it. If you have questions or need clarity email us at jinnycheps@gmail.com
The past of a thing matters but does it matter to the point of of affecting one's relationship? Listen to find out.For more clarity and questions, please send us an email to jinnycheps@gmail.com
There are times where so many uncertainties plague intending relationships and equally those in relationships from will he marry me, to I'm I his spec, to do you think she will respect me since she earns more. This episode will be dealing with these fears that make most men/women not take that leap of faith to secure their place in their partners life. For clarity or questions email us at jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp us on +2347012579422
Crushing on someone isn't bad as even married people have their crushes too which their partners are aware of. When it gets ugly is when the motives are beginning to turn negative and when you're equally beginning to loose your self worth in the process then you should stop. Email us at jinnycheps@gmail.com for more clarity.
Many times, most partners are faced with the reality of having to choose between forgiving a partner who claims he/she is sorry but doesn't really act like it.This episode will shed light on whether or not you should actually forgive. For more clarity or questions email us at jinnycheps@gmail.com or send us a message on WhatsApp on +2347012579422
This is basically the part 2 of the episode "How To Give GreenLight To A Man You Like". So this episode is for the ladies, it will easily reveal to them the men who have eyes for them and help them to respond accordingly. For more clarity or questions email us at jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp +2347012579422
Trust is like a business, it is very risky but very essential as well. For any relationship to thrive there must be trust as the underlying factor. This episode promises to project the very importance of trust not just in a romantic relationship but in relationships at large. Email us jinnycheps@gmail.com for more clarity or questions.
Most times people rush into dating without carefully observing the habits of the person they intend to date or get married to.This episode will help remind us of some key areas we need to improve on while dating or before deciding to marry them. For more clarity or questions email us at jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp us on +2347012579422
This episode will reveal 8 things to do in other to keep your marriage relationship alive. For more clarity or questions email us jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp us at +2347012579422
Last week, we discussed some of the important reasons why you should marry,this week we'll be looking at why you should not just marry anyone but a Christian especially if you're one yourself. For more questions and clarity email us at jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp us on +2347012579422
Alot of people are developing the urge to get married because of several reasons, some desire marriage because of loneliness, some because of Age, financial gains or even peer pressure. This episode will help reveal the right reasons to be hitched forever to that special someone. For more clarity or questions email us jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp us on +2347012579422
Communication in a relationships is very vital because it's not only the vehicle of relationships but also the engine, it's not only the fuel,the oil, you name it, Communication is everything not just in a romantic relationship but In relationships at large.This bonus episode will help us be reminded of its importance. For more clarity or questions email us jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp us on +2347012579422
Often time, the problems we see today in our society came about as a result of bad parenting from abusive husbands, to people wanting to reap where they did not sow, to women not being homely enough, you name it started out as neglect of duties by parents or guardians of kids. This episode will help reveal some important areas parents should focus on while bringing up their children to be better Husbands/Wives in future. For more information or clarity email jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp us +2347012579422
Everything in life has processes and procedures and so does Relationship, Marriage and Sex too. Having the desires for these things is cool and fine but knowing how to go after them in the right way is best. For more clarity or questions email us jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp us on +2347012579422.
So many couples get married and immediately they have their first child it automatically seems as though the relationship is not as intresting as it used to.This happens most times when both parties are not able to balance their love for eachother and the love they have for their new born baby.This episode will help partners balance things in their relationship.For clarity or questions email us jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp us +2347012579422
Last week it was all about the males,this week,we'll be looking at love languages from the female perspective and how men can intentionally please the female folks when it comes to Love and pressing the right buttons. For more clarity or questions email us jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp:+234701257942
Falling in love is good but knowing how to love a person is best. In this episode we'll be learning about the love languages that are mostly peculiar to the male folks in order to please them appropriately.Sending signals of love is important as well,but sending the right signal is more important. For more clarity or questions email us at jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp us +2347012579422
In relationships, it's important that you know your worth/values, so that when they being disregarded by your partner you can easily call your partner's attention to it. This episode will serve as a reminder to ladies,not just those in a relationship but also those aspiring to be in one.
The level of of effort you put into your relationship/marriage is directly proportional to the level of success you'll enjoy in that relationship.When efforts made are more negative than positive,your relationship can't work. For more clarity or questions email us jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp us on +2347012579422.
Marriage is not a place for trial and error, so make conscious effort to prepare adequately before entering into it.For more clarity or questions email us at jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp +2347012579422
Most times the guy you like, likes you back but he's waiting for the right time to strike, he's waiting for the right confirmation,he's waiting for your GreenLight. This episode will give light on how to go about letting him know he can shoot his shot without you having to lose your respect in the process. For more clarity or questions email us jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp:+2347012579422
Train up a child in a way he should grow and when he is old he will not depart from it. I am sure you know that scripture but today we'll be getting to know another aspect that we need to teach kids in order to prepare them to be better husbands/wives in future.
A lot of times people enter into relationships without following some process to ensure that they don't date wrongly. Today's episode will help you make sound decisions regarding whom to date. For more clarity or questions email us at jinnycheps@gmail.com
Sex, something specially made by God to be enjoyed exclusively by married people,has easily become come a norm in most relationships.This has seen alot of singles who are in a relationship abuse it and compromise without taking into cognisance the dangers in it. This episode will reveal some of those dangers.For more clarity or questions email us jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp:+2347012579422
Everyone wants a long lasting relationship and equally a fulfilling relationship but not everyone is willing to put in the work to get it to that point. This episode will help you not only to desire a lasting relationship but it will highlight ways to which it can be achieved. For more clarity or questions email us jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp +2347012579422
Most times saying I love him/her often comes so smoothly until your partner annoys you,until they take money from your purse without informing you, until they even cheat on you. This episode would encourage you to search your heart If you really love your partner and if that love is actually unconditional. For more clarity or questions email us jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp us on +2347012579422
For most men,identifying a lady they intend to date and eventually settle down with isn't much of a hassle as men generally don't want much so long as they feel at peace being with you amongst other things they are ready to take the relationship to the next phase. This episode will reveal some of the not so complex things a man looks out for in a lady he intends to spend forever with.For more clarity or questions send an email to jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp +2347012579422
As a lady it's very important to put into perspective the kind of man you'd like to be with or settle down with so you wont be swayed by just any kind of man. This episode will guide you through. For more clarity and questions please email jinnycheps@gmail.com or WhatsApp +2347082908981
Being intentional whilst building friendship automatically adds spice to the friendship and equally makes it easy for us to identify its importance and that's what today's episode is about. For questions and more clarity send us an email to jinnycheps@gmail.com or WHATSAPP +2347082908981
So many times alot of people go through heart breaks and find it difficult to navigate through that traumatic situation, today's episode will help them get through that period and drive them towards full recovery. For questions and more clarity email us jinnycheps@gmail.com or WHATSAPP us : +2347082908981
Ever been in situation where you leave the friendship phase so quickly because of the sparks, butterflies and all the lovey- dovey feelings and you forget to ask yourself some critical questions before moving to the dating phase? This episode will help you revisit some of those important questions. For question or more clarity email us jinnycheps@gmail.com.
As you grow in your Relationship with God, become equally as intentional with your Romantic Side,grow that side too,so as you bless people with your Spiritual side you will also bless your partner when you come home with your Romantic Side. God's purpose for you is for you to PROSPER in ALL you do and that includes your RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE and this is what today's episode is about. Please send in your questions and contributions to jinnycheps@gmail.com and we'll be sure to get back to you as soon as we can.
This week's episode will be opening our eyes to 5 areas we should consider before falling in love. Now there are several others but these 5 will help you make the right choice of whom you should actually be catching feelings for.
On this episode -zero, I talk about myself and about how I ventured into music as an actor and MC and then how I eventually started speaking about relationship; WHERE IT ALL BEGAN.