Overworked? Overwhelmed? Overweight? Eating when you’re stressed about work makes it hard to lose weight because of the enormous stress you’re under. You feel hopeless when you think about giving weight loss another try because you always buckle under the pressure of your job and all of your other obligations. This podcast will teach you the simple strategies you need to stop eating when you’re stressed so you can feel healthier, happier, and more relaxed.
Do you struggle with making decisions? Do you agonize in the “what if” scenarios? This week, we discuss a big personal decision I just made and why making decisions seem so difficult.
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Do you want to change your habits or behaviors? Have you had trouble taking action on your weight loss goals? This week, we look at stages of behavior and how you can learn to make the changes you need to meet your goals.
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Do you ever struggle to figure out what to eat when you’re on a diet? Have you ever spent hours looking at healthy recipe ideas on Pinterest and never finding exactly what you want to eat? This week, we discuss the issues that some have around planning their meals and get to the heart of why this is so difficult.
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When losing weight, the idea of eating for pleasure can bring up a rollercoaster of emotional thoughts. “What if I never stop?” “What if these M&Ms make me gain 10lbs?” Because of this, you may be white-knuckling your way through your journey, which never works long-term.
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Every decision you make in a day has short and long-term effects. How often do you think about those effects when making decisions? This week, we discuss an exercise that can help with making decisions through uncomfortable urges and feelings.
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If there was a magic pill you could take to suddenly become thin, would you take it? Of course, you would! Do you think you’d be able to maintain your new perfect body long-term? Maybe not. This week, we discuss how important the process is when losing weight.
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Losing weight isn’t easy but sometimes it seems harder than it really is. This week, we look at some strategies to help understand why weight loss can seem a lot harder than it is and how you can make weight loss less difficult.
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Have you ever assumed that others were judging you when you talk about your newest weight loss effort? Have you ever decided not to start a new program because you’re afraid of what others will think of you? This week, we discuss how you are holding yourself back by paying attention to all of that drama.
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What do you tell yourself about exercise? Do you hate it? Do you love it? Do you avoid doing it because you are so disgusted with yourself that you don’t see the point? This week, we look at some tips to improve what you’re telling yourself about exercise so that you can be more motivated to do it for a healthier body.
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Do you worry all the time? Does worrying impede your sleeping? Do you find yourself worrying so much that the only relief you can find is in the bottom of a Milk Dud box? This week, we discuss strategies and tips to help you stop worrying.
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Do you ever notice that after a few weeks of doing well on a new routine, you find yourself falling back on your old habits? Do you stress about why this keeps happening or vent to your support group? This week, we look at how this practice of focusing on the why isn’t actually helping you meet your goals.
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Accountability can make or break a new exercise plan, food plan, or healthful routine. Having an accountability partner can help keep you on track when you’d rather sleep in or want to stress-eat a pint of chocolate brownie ice cream before bed. This week, we discuss a few ways to ensure your accountability partnership can be successful.
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Do you ever find it difficult not to snack when you do certain activities like watching TV or working? Have you ever tried to replace your snacks with healthy options or busy your hands with other distractions to help curb those urges? This week, we discuss why we have these urges when we do these routine activities and how all of those substitute actions may not actually be helping you.
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Have you ever started a diet believing that you’ll be successful and then find yourself face first in a box of donuts a few days later? Or do you ever give up on your new exercise regimen after a couple of days because you just want to sleep in? This week we discuss this type of behavior and how it doesn’t mean that you’re flawed or destined to fail.
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Is there something in your life that you want to change? Do you ever get stuck on the “how” to make it happen? The “how” is important but it’s not the first step. So many believe that if you don’t know the “how”, you can never make a change. This week’s episode will explain why that’s not true.
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Do you ever wish things could be different? Is there an aspect of your job, relationships, or body, that you just wish were different? This week, we discuss these thoughts and how they cause stress in our lives.
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Have you ever thought “I just need to lose 20lbs so I can be happy” or “Once I meet my goal weight, I’ll be happy”? This week, we discuss these thoughts and how gratitude can shift your perspective to be happy right now.
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Our brains are constantly telling us that we shouldn’t do things or that we can’t do things because those things are outside our comfort zone. This week, we discuss these thoughts and how to combat them.
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In a departure from our normal podcast format, this week I wanted to take some time to give you all a message of support, love, and encouragement. I know how difficult your journey is and you should know that there is someone out here who is rooting for you!
Health and weight loss aren’t always about the numbers on the scale. In this episode, I discuss some other healthy habits that I find beneficial to track for my personal health and how these and others could apply to you.
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Our beliefs about ourselves drive every aspect of our lives. If negative, these beliefs can deter any progress in meeting goals. Continuing last week’s discussion on weight loss beliefs, we discuss the long-held beliefs that you have about yourself that may not be serving you or helping you live the life you want.
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Is losing weight hard? Do you have to exercise to lose weight? Are you too busy to lose weight? This week, we discuss the long-held beliefs that may be keeping you from losing weight and walk through some tools that will help combat those beliefs.
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What beliefs do you have about losing weight? Do you believe that you can eat the foods you love and still lose weight? This week, we take a look at these beliefs and discuss how they might be keeping you from reaching your goals.
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Starting a new workout routine can be challenging physically and mentally. Do you ever feel like people in the gym are judging you? This episode discusses how to get out of that negative thought spiral and focus on WHY you’ve decided to work out.
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Do you ever punish yourself with salads and exercise because you overate or ate outside your plan? Do you tell yourself that you’ve “been bad” when this happens? This week, we discuss how treating healthy foods and/or exercise as punishment isn’t helping you lose weight.
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Plateaus or roadblocks are common with any weight loss journey. It’s important to track progress in many important areas while also tracking your weight so you can focus on ALL of your success even if the scale doesn’t budge.
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If you’re struggling with the feeling of being judged by others concerning the food on your plate or the choices you’re making for your health, you’re not alone. This week we discuss these feelings, where they come from and how to deal with them so that you feel confident about your choices.
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If you had to give up your favorite food for health reasons or to meet your weight loss goal, would you be upset? Would it feel like you were losing a good friend? We turn to food in some of our happiest, saddest, most stressful, and most boring moments. When we rely too closely on food to get through tough situations or to magnify joyous occasions, it becomes harder and harder to let those foods go when we need to cut them out of our diets to meet our goals.
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If you had to give up your favorite food for health reasons or to meet your weight loss goal, would you be upset? Would it feel like you were losing a good friend? We turn to food in some of our happiest, saddest, most stressful, and most boring moments. When we rely too closely on food to get through tough situations or to magnify joyous occasions, it becomes harder and harder to let those foods go when we need to cut them out of our diets to meet our goals.
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If you had to give up your favorite food for health reasons or to meet your weight loss goal, would you be upset? Would it feel like you were losing a good friend? We turn to food in some of our happiest, saddest, most stressful, and most boring moments. When we rely too closely on food to get through tough situations or to magnify joyous occasions, it becomes harder and harder to let those foods go when we need to cut them out of our diets to meet our goals.
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Do you ever wish that the relaxing feelings you have when you’re on vacation carried over to your everyday life? Do you ever wish you could just stay on vacation forever? This week, we look at how our thoughts about those relaxing times on vacation can help form our thoughts on a daily basis.
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Do you have to deal with people that don’t respect you, are rude to you, or that you just don’t like? Continuing last week’s discussion on unconditional love, this week we include other people and how their actions affect us.
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Is your love for yourself conditional? Are you waiting until you’ve reached your goal weight, gotten a promotion, or found “the one” before you fully accept and love who you are? Building on last week’s episode, this week we explore the benefits of loving and accepting without stipulations or conditions.
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Do you hate your body? Has hating your body ever gotten you to your goal weight? So many of us spend a lot of energy actively hating, talking badly, and avoiding our bodies. But, you know what? You can’t hate yourself thin. Trust me.
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It’s confession time, folks! This week, after almost three weeks of eating all the things, I discuss my thoughts around the types of foods that aren’t fueling my body and why I continue to eat them. . .even when I know I shouldn’t. Sound familiar? I also share a power thought that is helping me choose better options.
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What beliefs do you have that you find difficult to change? Are these beliefs keeping you from reaching your goals? Beliefs are simply thoughts that we’ve had for a long time, and they can be difficult to change. But I promise it’s possible.
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Do you ever have thoughts you just can’t seem to get rid of? Thoughts that seem to pop up when you’re feeling vulnerable or upset? These habitual thoughts can be extremely difficult to recognize because they feel so true.
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Do you often find yourself judging others for their choices and/or actions? Do you think they should or shouldn’t do, be, or act a certain way? This week we discuss specific questions sent in by listeners and dive into some real scenarios.
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Do you believe that people stress you out? Do you often think other people “should” do things differently so you’ll feel better? Continuing the discussion on stress, this episode dives into our beliefs about others’ actions and how they affect our stress.
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Do you ever look at your workload and feel stressed? Continuing the discussion on stress, this episode dives into our thought processes around the concept of being busy and having so much to do.
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How do you deal with stress? How does stress affect your life, eating habits, personal well-being? Many people cope with stress with food and/or alcohol which can have negative effects like weight gain and regret.
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No matter when you started your weight loss journey, dieting is extremely difficult and you’re never going to be “perfect” on any diet plan all the time. Overeating or eating something that you hadn’t planned is very common, but is it self-sabotage?
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It can be really difficult to follow your diet plan when everyone else is eating junk. It’s easy to sit around and feel sorry for yourself or be upset with everyone else because they aren’t supporting you buy eating what you eat. It’s possible to change how you feel even when those around you are making it harder on you.
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As 2019 begins, Michelle addresses the questions asked in last week’s episode for her reflection of 2018 and what she will commit to in 2019.
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As 2018 closes, it’s important to look at all the areas of your life and reflect on how the year went and how you can start 2019 off with a commitment to yourself.
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Social functions around the holidays are typically accompanied by food and, with food, comes Food Pushers. Being around those who “push food” can cause anxiety or even a sense of obligation which can have an adverse effect on getting through the holidays with your weight loss goals intact.
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Striving for perfection while trying to lose weight is extremely common. Perfection isn’t always realistic and having an “all or nothing” attitude is just a setup for eventual failure. After all, you should strive to lose weight in the same way you want to live the rest of your life.
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A new year typically means new beginnings and for many of you, it will mean a new commitment to changing your health and lifestyle. This week Michelle applies Dan Sullivan’s 4 C’s Formula to weight loss and discusses how to apply this strategy to gain the confidence you’ll need to succeed.
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Changing a long-held belief can seem impossible, especially when those beliefs feel ingrained in your identity. The good news is there is a simple tool you can use to let go of those beliefs and move toward a thought that will help you reach your weight loss goals.
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So, you ate the food and you enjoyed the time with your family, but accepting that and planning for it doesn’t chase away the shame and guilt. How are you going to deal with any negative thoughts or feelings on Friday?
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Losing weight in a sustainable way means being able to maintain a diet that includes foods you enjoy. Thanksgiving meals are often filled with lots of carbs, fats, sugar, and most importantly, joy. There is no reason to sit down to your Thanksgiving meal and worry about how that food will affect your waistline.
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Too often, we blame other people or situations for how we are feeling. Continuing the discussion around emotions, this week’s episode discusses taking ownership of your feelings to feel empowered and to gain control over your results.
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For numerous reasons, we learn to ignore or comfort ourselves when we have negative feelings in our bodies with things like shopping, social media, gambling, drugs and alcohol, and food. Building on last week’s episode, Michelle dives deeper into breaking down what feelings are and how you can get through them without turning to food.
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The misconception surrounding the feelings of stress, unhappiness, boredom, and any other negative feeling help perpetuate the notion that food will make us feel better. Learning how to manage those feelings will help you reach weight loss goals and make their attainment all the sweeter.
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Losing weight and keeping it off is difficult and typically is not without setbacks. This week, Michelle gives a personal account of how prepping for and going on vacation set her back on reaching her personal goals and how she plans to get back on track.
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Too often, on your weight loss journey, you will mess up and eat something that isn’t planned, you won’t exercise, or you’ll do something that could derail your progress. In those moments, the thoughts in your head will tell you to quit. These thoughts will even make it seem like you HAVE to quit, but you don’t.
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Anytime you try to make changes in your routine, your brain will resist and send you excuses to keep from dealing with anything new. Meal planning is no different. The lies that your brain will tell you to avoid planning are inevitable, but the good thing is those lies are just thoughts and you can change them.
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Typically, most women are stressed and busy during the week and determining what is for dinner can cause a lot of stress and drama. Ultimately, it’s just simpler to hit a drive-thru when you don’t have the mental energy to figure out what to cook. Planning meals ahead of time can take all of the guesswork, drama, and stress out of mealtimes and lead to healthier choices.
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The temptation to overeat or eat foods that don’t fuel your body is especially difficult when you’re dining out at a restaurant. Asking yourself the right questions before, during, and after your meal can help keep you focused on achieving your long-term goals.
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It’s easy to make excuses and veer off your plan when you’re traveling for work or for vacation. Those excuses are just thoughts that can keep you from reaching your weight loss goals. By using the three tips discussed in this episode, you can ensure that you stay on plan and actually lose weight while traveling.
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Developing a daily or weekly exercise routine isn’t simple and is often dependent on an internal battle of our thoughts. Building on last week’s episode, this week Michelle walks us through the three steps she took to make exercising a habit in her own routine.
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Despite the common perception that in order to lose weight you must work out, it is possible to lose weight without exercise. However, there are many benefits from exercise that have nothing to do with losing weight and are extremely valuable to your overall health.
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What if food could just be an ingredient on a table and not this looming presence controlling our lives? Michelle’s guest this week, Laura Kalister, shares her story and offers some simple tips to train your body to cope with stress without turning to food.
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Stress associated with change can cause the urges to eat to be much stronger. The immediate gratification of eating when you’re stressed can quickly change to thoughts of shame so it is important to think about your future self when you face this situation. Michelle shares her recent experience with an urge to stress-eat and how thinking of her future self helps her resist.
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Too often we get caught up in the hype surrounding the term “diet” or the act of “dieting”. Ultimately, succumbing to negative beliefs about dieting or the feelings of deprivation of certain foods lead to negative outcomes. Changing your thoughts about what your diet can include and focusing on sustainable choices will result in long-term success.
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All of the evidence in your past makes you believe that you are unable to lose weight and keep it off. This evidence is just a thought in your head and can be changed if you’re ready to be open to the possibility that this weight loss model can work for you.
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Tuning in to WHY you want to lose weight is the ammunition you need when you’re faced with unexpected snacks and desserts in your day-to-day life. Assigning feelings to those WHYs adds another layer of ammunition to have the confidence to turn down the cupcake.
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With most weight loss experiences, we are consistently told WHY we should lose weight, but they don’t always motivate us. In this episode, Michelle asks the question “Why do YOU want to lose weight?” From body image to living a healthier life, it’s important to reflect and dive into the whys of your journey so that you have that foundation when you start doubting yourself, the plan, or your healthy choices.
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It’s easy to ignore your feelings or drown them in chocolate cake. What takes work and is a struggle is feeling your feelings as they arise so that you aren’t dependent on the quick hits of dopamine released when you eat to feel better.
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Your thoughts have a significant effect on your ability to lose weight but also on your everyday life. When you stop listening to all of the drama in your head and really pay attention to where your thoughts are heading, you can gain some control and change direction. However, when you do give in and you overeat, just do the next right thing and forgive yourself. Michelle shares her recent experience with an urge to binge and how she overcame it.
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During your weight loss journey, your thoughts can make or break your progress. Paying attention to the thoughts surrounding your food, exercise, and overall health will give you control over your urges to eat when you’re not hungry and to quit because it’s hard.
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How your thoughts control your feelings, actions, and results.
How your circumstances don’t have to change for you to be successful.
Processed sugar is extremely addictive and can cause cravings making it harder for you to lose weight and keep it off. By relegating sugar intake to only 10% of your diet as joy food, you can train your body to be less dependent on sugar and you can truly enjoy every bite!
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Traditionally, the diet industry tells you that cutting foods out of your diet is the way to lose your weight. No matter the approach, the plan usually works but has never been sustainable long-term. Combining the hunger scale lesson from Episode 002 and eating nutrient-rich foods is the secret to losing weight and keeping it off.
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The first tool for weight loss doesn't really have anything to do with the food we eat. Most diets jump straight to the food, but this new approach actually focuses on our bodies. In this episode, you'll learn how to determine when it's time start eating and when it's time to stop eating. You'll also learn the two types of hunger that cause most people to overeat and gain weight.
The Weight Loss for New Leaders Podcast launches with a story and a promise. Weight loss and leadership coach, Michelle Arant, shares with you a story of her lifelong struggle with emotional eating and yo-yo dieting caused by years of stress around her job. Her promise is to share with you in upcoming episodes the exact tools and techniques she used to lose 50 pounds so that you can stop the over-desire to eat, lose your weight and feel in control around food.
Get full show notes and information at www.michellearantcoaching.com/001