What to Say & How to Say It with Nina Roesner: Recent Episodes

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What to Say & How to Say It with Nina Roesner: STOP REACTING in conflict situations, and discover how to RESPOND instead! Conquer people-pleasing, establish boundaries - create authentic relationships!

Learn how to navigate marriage conflict with better communication. Discover practical steps to build connection as a couple.

In this episode of the Marriage Transformation Series, hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner address the specific challenges Christian couples face when trying to resolve arguments. If you often struggle to find the right words during tense moments, this discussion provides a roadmap for healthier interactions. We break down actionable ways to speak to your spouse with clarity and grace, ensuring that your conversations lead to understanding rather than further division.

Effective couple communication requires more than just good intentions; it requires a strategy. By applying the principles of healthy marriage habits discussed here, you can lower the tension in your home and foster a deeper emotional bond. Whether you are navigating a current disagreement or simply want to improve your daily interactions, this marriage advice offers a clear path forward for those seeking a stronger, more connected relationship.

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Setting marriage boundaries is essential for navigating conflict and building a stronger connection with your spouse. Learn how to protect your relationship and foster a thriving partnership. Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner share practical Christian marriage advice designed to help couples manage disagreements effectively. Whether you are struggling to communicate or simply want to strengthen your bond, this discussion provides actionable steps to implement better marriage boundaries today. This series is built for those looking to apply biblical principles to everyday relationship challenges. By focusing on intentional communication and setting boundaries, you can reduce recurring arguments and create a more peaceful home environment. We break down the specific habits that lead to healthier interactions and long-term stability. If you feel like you are stuck in a cycle of conflict, these insights offer a clear path toward resolution and emotional closeness. Subscribe for weekly marriage advice breakdowns to keep growing your relationship. Leave a comment below sharing one area where you are currently trying to set healthier boundaries in your home.

Nina Roesner and Kyle Hargrove discuss controversial topics on this episode of Out Loud and On Purpose. Gain a fresh perspective. In this session, Nina Roesner sits down with licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove to navigate a subject that frequently sparks debate. If you are looking for nuanced dialogue on complex social issues, this conversation provides the clarity you need to form your own informed opinion. We break down the arguments surrounding these controversial topics to help you understand different viewpoints. Kyle Hardrove applies his background in professional counseling to analyze the discourse, ensuring the talk remains grounded and practical. This episode is essential viewing for anyone tired of surface-level debates and ready for a deeper look at how we communicate about sensitive matters.

Do you feel emotionally exhausted after every argument with your spouse?

If conflict in your marriage leaves you feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or emotionally numb, you're not alone. In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, you'll discover seven biblical habits that help Christian couples recover from emotional wounds, restore peace, and strengthen their relationship with God and each other.

You'll learn:

✔ Why repeated conflict affects your emotional and physical health

✔ Biblical self-care that honors God—not selfishness

✔ How prayer, sleep, exercise, and healthy relationships support healing

✔ How to stop living in survival mode after difficult conversations

✔ Practical ways to experience peace, hope, and emotional restoration

Whether you're navigating constant arguments, emotional exhaustion, or feeling disconnected in your Christian marriage, this conversation offers biblical encouragement and practical tools to help you heal.

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Are boundaries biblical? Can setting boundaries actually strengthen your christian marriage instead of hurting it?

In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina Roesner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove explore why healthy boundaries are essential for thriving Christian marriages and relationships.

Many Christians believe boundaries are selfish or unloving, but Scripture paints a very different picture. Learn how Jesus modeled healthy boundaries, why emotional maturity matters, and how respecting personal responsibility leads to stronger, healthier relationships.

In this episode, you'll learn:

✔️ What healthy boundaries really are—and what they are not

✔️ Why boundaries are biblical, not selfish

✔️ How to communicate boundaries with love and respect

✔️ The difference between controlling someone and controlling yourself

✔️ Why saying "no" can actually strengthen your marriage

✔️ How boundaries reduce resentment and improve communication

✔️ Biblical principles for healthy Christian relationships

Whether you're struggling with conflict, people-pleasing, family dynamics, or marriage communication, this episode offers practical, Bible-based wisdom to help you build healthier relationships.

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Are you stuck in constant conflict with your spouse?

In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Shai Lewis and Nina Rosner unpack The Love Ladder, a biblical framework that helps Christian couples move from unhealthy conflict to lasting connection.

Many couples try to solve communication problems before addressing the real issue—their identity in Christ. Discover why healing, boundaries, emotional maturity, and a Christ-centered mindset are essential before true problem-solving can happen.

In this episode, you'll learn:

✅ Why communication skills alone won't fix your marriage

✅ How your identity in Christ changes your relationship

✅ The "No Losers Policy" for healthy conflict resolution

✅ Why emotional triggers aren't your spouse's responsibility

✅ How to stop blame and criticism before they destroy intimacy

✅ The power of creating a biblical family culture

✅ Practical Christian marriage advice you can apply today

If you're looking for Christian marriage advice, biblical relationship help, or practical tools to strengthen your marriage, this episode is for you.

🙏 Whether you're newly married or have been together for decades, God can transform your relationship.

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Have you lost yourself in your marriage? If you've ever wondered "Who am I anymore?" or felt like your identity has become wrapped up in your spouse, conflict, or past hurts, this episode is for you.

In this episode, explore how reclaiming your God-given identity can transform your christian marriage. You'll discover why so many Christian couples struggle with conflict, people-pleasing, insecurity, and emotional distance—and why the solution starts with knowing who God says you are, not who your spouse or your circumstances say you are.

In this episode, you'll learn: * How identity affects every area of your marriage * Why looking to your spouse for validation leads to disappointment * What the Bible says about your identity in Christ * The four pillars of a healthy identity: spiritual, emotional, relational, and physical * How attachment styles influence conflict and connection * Practical ways to rebuild confidence and strengthen your marriage through God's truth

Whether you're newly married, have been together for decades, or feel stuck in unhealthy patterns, this conversation offers biblical wisdom and practical tools to help you experience lasting transformation.

Are you feeling stuck, unmotivated, or like you're simply drifting through life? Dive into three practical hacks that can help you become more intentional, productive, and purposeful every day.

You'll discover:

How to start each day with clarity and direction
Why small, consistent actions outperform massive efforts
The mindset shift that helps you make real progress
How intentionality impacts your marriage, faith, relationships, and personal growth
Practical strategies to stop drifting and start living on purpose

Whether you're looking to strengthen your marriage, grow spiritually, improve your habits, or simply become more effective in daily life, these simple intentionality principles can help you create meaningful change.

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Do you feel stuck in the same arguments, frustrations, and disappointments in your christian marriage?

Explore the powerful mindset shift that can transform your relationship: moving from Victim Alley to the Leader Highway.

Many christian couples unknowingly fall into patterns of blame, judgment, resentment, and hopelessness. But what if lasting change starts not with changing your spouse, but with changing the way you respond?

In this conversation, you'll learn:

✅ The signs you're operating from a victim mindset

✅ How blame and rumination damage relationships

✅ Why healing is essential for healthy conflict resolution

✅ The difference between reacting and responding

✅ Biblical principles for personal growth and marriage transformation

✅ How to move from hopelessness to hope in your relationship

Whether you're newly married or have been together for decades, this episode will help you identify unhealthy patterns and discover a Christ-centered path toward healing, growth, and connection.

💬 Question for the comments:

Have you ever caught yourself walking down "Victim Alley" in your marriage? What helped you shift your perspective?

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Dive into one of the most powerful communication skills in christian marriage: validation.

If you've ever felt unheard, misunderstood, or stuck in the same conflict patterns with your spouse, this conversation will help you learn how to create emotional safety, deeper connection, and healthier communication in your Christian marriage.

This episode is part of the Marriage Transformation Series and focuses on how validation helps your spouse feel truly heard — even when you disagree.

You'll learn:

What validation really means in relationships
Why validation is biblical and transformational
The 5-step validation process for healthy communication
How to reduce defensiveness during conflict
Why empathy builds emotional safety in marriage
How to handle difficult conversations without escalating
Daily habits couples can practice to strengthen connection
Practical examples for Christian husbands and wives

Whether you are newly married, struggling with communication, or wanting to deepen intimacy in your relationship, this episode will give you practical tools to improve your marriage.

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Feeling discouraged, overwhelmed, or emotionally drained? You're not alone.

In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina Roesner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove explore why discouragement has become so common—and how Christians can overcome it with practical, biblical wisdom.

From the effects of social media and negative thinking to unhealthy relationship patterns like DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender), this conversation offers hope and simple daily habits that can help you regain peace, joy, and direction.

In this episode, you'll learn: * Why discouragement feels so overwhelming today * How social media fuels fear, anxiety, and negativity * What DARVO is and how it impacts relationships * Three practical habits to help you move forward every day * How to replace discouragement with biblical hope * Why small, intentional actions lead to lasting transformation * How to focus on progress instead of perfection

Whether you're struggling in your marriage, overwhelmed by the world around you, or simply feeling stuck, this episode will encourage you to take your next faithful step toward hope.

Key Takeaway: You don't have to fix your entire life today. One intentional, God-honoring step is enough to begin moving forward.

What if the biggest breakthrough in your marriage starts with TWO simple boundaries?

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner begin the Marriage Transformation Series by unpacking the first two guardrails for a healthy Christian marriage:

✔️ Why emotional conversations destroy connection ✔️ How to pause conflict before it escalates ✔️ The danger of bringing up the past in arguments ✔️ How healthy couples handle difficult conversations ✔️ Biblical wisdom for communication and emotional regulation ✔️ What to do when your spouse won't stop pushing conflict

If you feel stuck in repeated arguments, walking on eggshells, or struggling to feel heard in your marriage, this episode will give you practical and biblical tools to create safety, understanding, and connection again.

📖 Featured Scriptures:

Proverbs 17:27
James 1:19
Ephesians 4:26

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💬 QUESTION FOR YOU: Which boundary is harder for you: pausing emotional conversations or staying on one topic at a time?

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Most couples don't actually have a communication problem—they have a connection problem.

If your conversations keep turning into the same arguments on repeat, it's not because you don't know how to talk… it's because you're missing a key habit that builds trust and emotional safety.

In this episode, Nina Roesner and licensed counselor Kyle Hargrove break down a simple but powerful practice: "Debrief Your Day."

It's not about fixing, correcting, or giving advice. It's about showing up, listening, and being fully on your spouse's team.

💡 What you'll learn:

Why "just talking more" doesn't fix communication
The difference between arguing vs. actually connecting
How to validate your spouse (without agreeing with everything)
A simple 7-minute daily habit that builds trust fast
The question that instantly deepens connection: "What feels like love right now?"

This might feel unnatural at first—but the impact is real. Small, intentional moments can create big breakthroughs.

🎧 Try it tonight. Start small. Stay consistent. Watch what changes.

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What if the reason your relationship feels "off"… is actually because it's finally healthy?

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner unpack a surprising truth: healthy love doesn't always feel exciting—it often feels calm, steady… even boring at first.

If you're used to emotional highs and lows, peace can feel unfamiliar—even uncomfortable. But that doesn't mean something is wrong. It may mean your heart, mind, and nervous system are learning a new way to love.

In this episode, you'll learn:

Why we confuse intensity, anxiety, and drama with love
How your past shapes your relationship patterns
What healthy love actually feels like (especially if you've never experienced it)
Why peace can feel like withdrawal—and how to push through it
How to break cycles of chaos and step into stability, joy, and true connection

You'll also hear practical insights on: ✔️ Rewiring emotional patterns ✔️ Letting go of drama addiction ✔️ Setting boundaries without guilt ✔️ Finding peace even when your relationship isn't perfect

If healthy feels boring right now, don't run from it—lean in. What feels unfamiliar today may become your new normal.

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💬 Question for you: Have you ever mistaken chaos for love? What did "healthy" feel like for you at first?

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Awareness alone doesn't heal trauma—action does.

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Shy and Nina conclude their series on healing generational trauma with Step 6: acting with integrity. This is where real change becomes visible. Not just understanding your patterns, but choosing to do something different in the moment.

You can recognize the triggers, name the wounds, and understand your past—but if your behavior stays the same, the cycle continues. Healing happens when you choose integrity over instinct.

In this conversation, we explore:

Why awareness is not enough for transformation
The role of decision and obedience in real change
What acting with integrity looks like in everyday marriage life
How emotional regulation changes communication and connection
Why small consistent actions break generational patterns
How gratitude, mindset, and follow-through reshape relationships

This episode will help you move from insight to action—so healing doesn't just stay in your understanding, but shows up in your relationships.

If you've been stuck knowing what's wrong but struggling to change it, this conversation will give you a clear next step forward.

👉 Download free resources: • 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells • Free Marriage Assessment at greaterimpactcouples.org

Do boundaries belong in a Christian marriage? Absolutely.

Many couples believe that healthy marriages shouldn't need boundaries—but the opposite is true. Healthy boundaries create trust, safety, respect, and deeper connection.

In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina Roesner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove unpack two essential relationship boundaries that every Christian couple should practice to prevent destructive conflict and build a marriage that honors God.

If your conversations escalate into arguments, old wounds keep resurfacing, or you're unsure how to communicate without hurting each other, this episode offers practical, biblical wisdom you can apply immediately.

In this episode, you'll discover: * Why healthy marriages need healthy boundaries * The biggest misconception Christians have about boundaries * Why you should never have important conversations while emotional * How to pause conflict without damaging your relationship * Why bringing up the past keeps couples stuck * The role fear plays in unhealthy communication * How biblical boundaries create safety, respect, and lasting intimacy * Practical ways to communicate with wisdom instead of reacting emotionally

Healthy boundaries aren't walls that push your spouse away—they're guardrails that protect your relationship and strengthen your covenant.

When you learn to communicate with grace, patience, and self-control, conflict becomes an opportunity for growth instead of division.

What if the breakthrough in your marriage isn't about fixing your spouse—but owning your part?

In this episode, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner continue the Healing Generational Trauma series with Step 5: The Power of Taking Responsibility.

This is one of the hardest—and most transformative—steps in healing. When God gently invites us to look at our part (not our spouse's, not our past), it can feel uncomfortable… even scary. But biblical responsibility isn't about shame—it's about freedom.

In this conversation, you'll learn:

The difference between shame and godly conviction

Why taking even 2% responsibility can change everything

How generational patterns show up in your marriage

The cycle of blame, avoidance, and escalation—and how to break it

What it looks like to take ownership without carrying all the weight

Practical questions to help you respond differently in conflict

You'll also hear real-life examples of how God brings healing—even in the most broken situations—and how taking responsibility moves you out of a victim mindset and into hope.

💬 Plus: We answer a real question about a spouse who threatens divorce during conflict—and how to respond with strength, boundaries, and wisdom.

📥 Free Resources

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Take the Free Marriage Assessment

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What if the very thing that feels uncomfortable… is actually where your healing begins?

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner unpack Step 4 of healing generational trauma—learning to receive gentle truth from the Holy Spirit.

This is the turning point.

It's where defensiveness fades, clarity increases, and real transformation begins. Instead of shame or fear, God meets us with truth that restores, rebuilds, and redefines who we are.

You'll learn:

How to recognize the voice of the Holy Spirit vs. fear, shame, or accusation

Why truth can feel unsafe (and how to move through it)

How healing shifts your relationships—ending blame, increasing forgiveness, and building secure identity

Practical ways to hear God more clearly in your daily life

If you've ever struggled with confusion, emotional triggers, or feeling stuck in patterns you can't break—this conversation will give you a roadmap forward.

💡 Healing doesn't start with fixing others. It starts with receiving truth.

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• "5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells"

• Free Marriage Assessment

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Welcome to today's episode of What to Say and How to Say It with Nina Roesner and Kyle Hargrove.

Have you ever confronted someone… only to somehow end up feeling like you're the problem?

You're not crazy—and you're not alone.

In this episode, we unpack a powerful and often misunderstood manipulation tactic called DARVO:

👉 Deny

👉 Attack

👉 Reverse Victim and Offender

This pattern is more common than you think—and it can quietly damage marriages, relationships, and even your sense of identity if you don't recognize it.

We'll break down:

✨ What DARVO actually looks like in real conversations

✨ Why it's so effective (hint: emotions + confusion)

✨ Real-life examples (infidelity, addiction, everyday conflict)

✨ How to recognize when it's happening to you

✨ Practical ways to respond without getting pulled into the cycle

✨ Why your identity matters in breaking free

If you've ever walked away from a conversation feeling confused, blamed, or questioning yourself—this episode is for you.

💡 Take the next step:

Head over to greaterimpact.org and take our Marriage Assessment.

Whether you're thriving or struggling, it's a great tool to help you grow.

🙏 Remember:

Healthy relationships require truth, clarity, and responsibility.

You don't have to stay stuck in unhealthy patterns.

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We'd love to hear your thoughts and continue the conversation.

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner continue their series on healing generational trauma using the Connection Steps.

Many of us learned how to survive growing up—pushing down emotions, overfunctioning, or trying to fix everyone else. But God doesn't heal us by shaming our pain. He heals us by comforting it.

Today we talk about how to move from survival mode to soothing, learning to become a safe place for your own heart while receiving God's comfort.

In this episode, you'll learn:

Why many families pass down emotional neglect
How trauma disrupts our ability to self-comfort
The difference between validation and comfort
Simple ways to regulate your emotions and nervous system
How inviting God into your pain brings real healing
Why learning to self-soothe helps break generational patterns

When we learn to receive God's comfort, we stop demanding others regulate us and start showing up in healthier ways for our marriages and families.

📥 Free Resource:

Get the free PDF "5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells" and take the free marriage assessment at:

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Marriage problems often begin when "we" turns into "me."

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Nina Rosner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove talk about how selfishness quietly damages marriages and why many relationships become transactional over time.

They discuss how the enemy uses blame, resentment, and score-keeping to divide couples—and how shifting from "What's in it for me?" to "What's in me for it?" can transform a relationship.

You'll also hear a simple framework for healthy connection in marriage:

5 – How can I help you?

4 – I'm proud of you

3 – I love you

2 – Thank you

1 – We

When couples choose service over self, marriages grow stronger.

Take the free marriage assessment at:

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What do you do when your marriage is hard… but not abusive?

How do you stay healthy when the relationship feels disconnected, disappointing, or exhausting?

In today's episode of What to Say and How to Say It, host Shy Lewis sits down with licensed counselor Lyndee Horne, founder of Narrow Gate Counseling Services, to talk about what it truly means to show up in a healthy way in a difficult marriage.

This conversation is for the Christian woman who:

Feels disconnected in her marriage

Struggles with people-pleasing or codependency

Is unsure what biblical submission really looks like

Wants to grow in her identity in Christ first

Desires healing without shame

Lindy shares powerful insight on:

✨ The difference between a difficult vs. destructive marriage

✨ Why identity in Christ must come before fixing the relationship

✨ How to stop striving and start resting in God

✨ What healthy boundaries look like in marriage

✨ Breaking survival behaviors like avoidance and emotional withdrawal

✨ Grace + truth in biblical submission

✨ The power of intercession for your husband and family

If you've been walking on eggshells, striving to fix everything, or feeling spiritually weary — this episode will redirect your focus back to the One who actually transforms hearts.

🎁 Free Resources

Visit greaterimpactwives.org to download:

✔️ 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells (Free PDF)

✔️ Free Marriage Assessment

✔️ Book a call with a coach

📍 Connect with Lindy Horn

If you are located in North or South Carolina, you can reach out to Narrow Gate Counseling for a free consultation:

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Many of us were taught that emotions were dangerous — too loud, too weak, too sinful, or simply inconvenient.

In Part 2 of our Breaking Generational Trauma series, Shai Lewis and Nina Rosner explore why normalizing emotion is a powerful step toward healing your marriage and disrupting painful family patterns.

If you grew up hearing:

"Be strong."

"Just pray about it."

"Other people have it worse."

"You're overreacting."

…then this episode is for you.

We discuss:

✔️ Why suppressing emotions creates disconnection

✔️ How unprocessed feelings show up in marriage

✔️ The difference between regulating and exploding

✔️ How Jesus modeled emotional validation

✔️ Why normalization builds secure attachment

✔️ What to do when your spouse rewrites history

Scripture reminds us in Romans 12:15 to "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn." Emotional presence is not weakness — it's biblical.

You cannot heal what you refuse to feel.

When you normalize emotion — in yourself and in your spouse — you stop reenacting generational pain and start building a thriving, connected marriage rooted in truth and grace.

👉 Download your free PDF: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells

Visit: https://greaterimpactwives.org

👉 Take our Marriage Assessment and connect with our team.

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Generational trauma doesn't start with cruelty—it starts with avoidance.

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Shai Lewis and Nina Rosner talk about "the interruption"—the courageous first step that breaks unhealthy family patterns and begins real healing: recognition.

Because what we refuse to name… we repeat.

Many families survive by staying silent."We don't talk about that.""That's just how they are.""Why bring up the past?"

But silence protects dysfunction—and keeps marriages stuck.

Today we discuss:

What generational trauma really is (and what it isn't)
How avoidance gets passed down in families
Why speaking truth can feel like betrayal
The spiritual battle behind family dysfunction
How God uses one brave truth-teller to change an entire bloodline
Practical questions to help you identify hidden patterns
PLUS: Coaching advice on boundaries when your spouse resists them

If you've ever felt like you're walking on eggshells or repeating the same painful cycles, this conversation will help you step into truth, courage, and connection.

Freedom starts with naming what's really happening.

Download your FREE guide:5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells

Visit: greaterimpactwise.org

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Is your marriage relational… or transactional?

Do you give to your spouse freely — or only when you expect something back?

Many couples unintentionally keep score. "I did this, so you should do that." But healthy relationships aren't vending machines. They're built on connection, presence, vulnerability, and genuine care.

In this conversation, Nina and Kyle explore:

• The difference between relational and transactional love

• Why keeping score quietly damages intimacy

• How conditional thinking sneaks into marriage

• What emotional availability really looks like

• Practical ways to become more present, authentic, and connected

• How to grow if relationships don't come naturally to you

If you want a marriage marked by trust, grace, and real connection — not tit-for-tat exchanges — this episode is for you.

Distance in marriage doesn't usually happen all at once—it happens quietly, over time, and often without intention.

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Nina Rosener is joined by licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove to tackle one of the most common (and misunderstood) challenges in marriage: emotional and physical distance.

Can healthy boundaries actually save your marriage? Absolutely.

Many Christians believe boundaries create distance in a relationship—but biblical boundaries actually create trust, respect, safety, and deeper intimacy.

In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina Roesner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove explore three foundational truths about healthy boundaries and why every thriving Christian marriage depends on them.

You'll also discover why boundaries are often misunderstood, why people resist them, and how loving boundaries can stop destructive conflict while strengthening your relationship.

In this episode, you'll learn: * What healthy boundaries really are (and what they are not) * Why every Christian marriage needs boundaries * The difference between controlling someone and protecting your peace * Why people often resist healthy boundaries * How fear keeps couples from setting necessary boundaries * The #1 boundary every couple should implement immediately * How boundaries create respect instead of resentment * Biblical wisdom for handling conflict with love and self-control * Why boundaries are essential for emotional and spiritual health

One of the biggest takeaways from this conversation is that healthy boundaries aren't walls that push people away—they're guardrails that protect what God designed.

If you've struggled with unhealthy conflict, emotional outbursts, people-pleasing, or fear of confrontation, this episode will equip you with practical, biblical tools to build a healthier marriage.

📖 Scriptures Mentioned * James 1:19 * Romans 12:18 * Ephesians 4:26 * Galatians 5:22–23 * Proverbs 15:1 * Matthew 5:9

About What to Say & How to Say It Hosted by Nina Roesner, What to Say & How to Say It provides practical, biblical guidance to help Christian couples communicate better, resolve conflict, and build marriages that glorify God.

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How do you trust God's timing when you want your marriage restored now?

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner dive deep into the tension between waiting and moving forward in marital reconciliation. We talk about false starts, emotional capacity, boundaries, rest, and how God uses waiting seasons to heal what rushed reunions often break.

You'll learn:

Why reconciliation fails when it's rushed
How to recognize signs God is saying wait vs. proceed
The role of capacity, boundaries, and emotional regulation
Why rest is not optional in the healing process
What healthy reunification should actually look like

If you or someone you know is navigating separation, reconciliation, or rebuilding trust, this conversation will help you move forward with wisdom, patience, and faith.

👉 Visit greaterimpactwives.org for a free marriage assessment and our free PDF: Five Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells.

Are you really healing, or are you hurling your hurt at others?

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Nina Roesner and counselor Kyle Harrove talk about what forgiveness truly is — and what it isn't. We discuss why "forgive and forget" doesn't work, how to set healthy boundaries, and how to move forward without returning hurt for hurt.

If you've been wounded and don't know how to forgive, this conversation will help.

🌐 Take the Marriage Assessment: greaterimpact.org

Reconciliation after separation can feel overwhelming, confusing, and even hopeless. If you are separated from your spouse or seriously considering it, this episode is for you.

In today's episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Shai Lewis and Nina Rosner walk through what biblical reconciliation after separation actually looks like. Not theory. Not clichés. But a real, faith centered roadmap for couples who want to do this God's way.

Welcome to another episode of What to Say and How to Say It. I'm Nina Rosner, joined by Kyle Hargrove, licensed professional counselor and one of our favorite Texans. Maybe it's the wide open spaces or the fact that both Montana and Texas have animals that can kill you—either way, we get along great!

Today, we're diving into something foundational to every marriage: identity.

At the core of most marriage struggles is an identity crisis—who you believe you are, where you get that belief, and how it shapes the way you interact with your spouse. If you're sourcing your identity from the wrong place, everything you do to "fix" your marriage will hit a wall. Identity is the platform that every change sits on.

Before we jump in, visit greaterimpactwives.org or greaterimpactcouples.org to take our free assessment. It's built on research-based indicators of marital health and can help you see where you're thriving—and where you might need support.

In today's episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner dive deep into one of the most difficult questions Christian husbands and wives ask:

👉 "Why should I stay married?"

After the pain…
After the disappointment…
After the loneliness…
After the hope starts to fade…

Is staying still worth it?

You might be thinking:

"I'm unhappy."

"We only stay together for the kids."

"I don't want to be alone."

"We have a ministry/business together."

"Leaving would ruin my reputation."

"I don't feel anything anymore."

In this brutally honest and hope-filled conversation, Shai and Nina unpack the real reason to stay in a marriage — and it's deeper, truer, and more transformative than lifestyle, kids, fear, or even happiness.

They also tackle:

Staying for the wrong reasons
Why unhappiness isn't a sign to give up
The trap of "I don't want to be alone"
How kids are affected by conflict vs. divorce
Reputation, ministry, and fear of man
What God actually says about marriage
Why covenant still matters today
The power of gratitude, growth, and spiritual maturity
How God can restore even the most broken stories

If you're feeling lost, discouraged, or unsure whether to stay or go, this conversation may give you the clarity and hope you've been praying for.

⭐ FREE RESOURCES

Download Five Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells

Take our Free Marriage Assessment

Visit: greaterimpactwise.org

You are not alone.

There is a path forward.

And God is not done with your story.

Welcome to today's episode of What to Say and How to Say It, the podcast that helps you fix your marriage and communicate in ways that actually work.

In this episode, we explore:

Why your early caregiver becomes your first "image of God"
Why Christians can know Scripture but still struggle to feel loved
How anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment show up in your walk with God
How Jesus meets us in our wounded places
How secure attachment to God helps create secure attachment in marriage
What to do if YOU start healing…but your spouse isn't there yet
How to recognize God's voice vs. shame, fear, or the enemy

⭐ FREE RESOURCES

Download Five Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells

👉 available at greaterimpactwise.org

Take our Free Marriage Assessment

👉 If you want help after completing it, reach out—we'll guide you to the next right step.

Ever heard of gray rocking?

It's a popular communication strategy meant to protect you from toxic people—but when used in your marriage, it can destroy emotional connection and intimacy.

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Nina Roesner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove dive into the truth about gray rocking in relationships.

You'll learn:

✅ Why gray rocking doesn't work in marriage

✅ How it shuts down intimacy instead of creating peace

✅ What to do instead—how to set boundaries with love and courage

✅ How to have courageous conversations that actually heal and connect If you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of emotional shutdown, this conversation will give you hope and a path forward.

👉 Take the free Marriage Assessment at greaterimpact.org to discover what's helping or hurting your relationship.

Let's grow in communication, courage, and Christ-centered connection—together.

#ChristianMarriage #MarriagePodcast #Communication #FaithBasedMarriage #Boundaries #GrayRocking #MarriageAdvice #ConflictResolution #WhatToSayAndHowToSayIt

Are you stuck in the mindset of "That's just the way I am"?

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner unpack why so many Christian husbands and wives stay trapped in childhood pain and emotional habits—and how to let God transform them.

💬 Learn how to:

Recognize when you're letting pain define your identity

Break free from cycles of blame and emotional immaturity

Invite God into your healing so you can grow and thrive in your marriage

Take responsibility for your mindset and respond differently in conflict

🎧 Free Resources:

👉 Download Five Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells and take our Marriage Assessment at greaterimpactwives.org

Change. Conflict. Courage. Three words every marriage faces—yet few couples know how to navigate them well.

In today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina Roesner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove dig deep into how courageous conversations can transform your marriage.

They unpack:

💬 Why "change" often leads to chaos and conflict

💬 How to talk about hard issues without blame or accusation

💬 The difference between being assertive vs aggressive

💬 Why logic—not emotion—solves problems

💬 How to stay open-minded, manage emotions, and build trust again

If you've ever thought, "I don't do conflict," this conversation will lovingly challenge that belief—and show you that healthy confrontation is actually the gateway to deeper intimacy and lasting change.

✨ Watch now to learn how courage, humility, and truth can heal your marriage from the inside out.

Welcome to What to Say and How to Say It, the podcast that helps Christian couples communicate better, resolve conflict, and build a thriving marriage rooted in faith.

In today's episode, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner talk about how accountability can heal your marriage — and how truth, grace, and humility can strengthen your relationship with your spouse and with God.

💡 Take the next step in your marriage:

👉 Download our FREE PDF: Five Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells

👉 Take your Free Marriage Assessment at greaterimpactwives.org

If you've been struggling with communication, trust, or emotional distance in your marriage, this episode will help you see how godly accountability leads to peace, healing, and deeper connection.

💖 Subscribe for more episodes on Christian marriage help, communication tips, and biblical wisdom for couples.

#ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp #MarriageAdvice #FaithBasedMarriage #Accountability #MarriageCommunication #ChristianPodcast #NinaRosner #ShyLewis #WhatToSayAndHowToSayIt #ChristianRelationship #MarriageHealing #BiblicalMarriage #GodlyMarriage #MarriageCoaching

Today, we're talking about change — not the kind you keep in a jar, but the kind that shakes up your life and relationships. Change is constant, and whether it's good or bad, it always brings some level of chaos and conflict.

💡 In this episode, you'll discover:

✅ Why change (even positive change) often leads to chaos

✅ How conflict can actually bring growth — if handled well

✅ The importance of courageous conversations in healthy relationships

✅ What the Bible says about confronting one another with love

✅ Why avoiding conflict keeps you stuck in unhealthy patterns

If you're struggling with change in your marriage or relationships, this episode will help you face it with courage and faith.

🌐 Visit greaterimpact.org

to:

Take the Marriage Self-Assessment

Learn more about the Marriage Transformation Program

Discover practical ways to fix what's broken in your relationship

💬 Need help working through fear or conflict?

Reach out to Kyle Hargrove, LPC — email: kylehargrovelpc@gmail.com

(Texas-based counseling)

Don't forget to subscribe, like, and share this video to help others handle change with wisdom and grace.

#relationships #marriageadvice #communication #faith #growth #relationshiptips #couplestherapy #ChristianMarriage #change #conflictresolution #WhatToSayAndHowToSayIt #NinaRoesner #KyleHargrove #greaterimpact #emotionalhealth #courageousconversations #ChristCenteredMarriage

In this powerful episode, hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner sit down with Sarah Karlich, a Licensed Professional Counselor, to explore how her personal and professional journey through trauma, emotional dysregulation, and the Greater Impact Marriage Intensive transformed her marriage and faith.

👩‍❤️‍👨 Sarah shares how:

Emotional regulation changed how she communicated with her husband

Childhood trauma shaped her reactions and belief systems

God used surrender, truth, and community to restore her heart

Her marriage went from disconnected to deeply healing and connected

🎯 Key Takeaways:

Why blame is the enemy's language—and how to break the cycle

How healing starts with you, not your spouse

What emotional safety looks like in real marriage transformation

The difference between managing behavior and true spiritual change

📥 Get your FREE resources:

💡 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells

📝 Free Marriage Assessment

💬 Whether you're feeling stuck, frustrated, or alone in your marriage—this episode will give you hope and practical wisdom rooted in God's Word.

🔔 Don't forget to subscribe, like, and share this episode with someone who needs encouragement and truth today!

#ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp #EmotionalRegulation #ChristianPodcast #GreaterImpact #MarriageTestimony #FaithAndMarriage #ChristianCounseling #MarriageRestoration #EmotionalHealing #BiblicalMarriage

Are you feeling anxious, avoidant, or just out of your comfort zone in your marriage? You're not alone. In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Shai Lewis and Nina Roesner dive into what happens when your attachment style gets stretched — and how to choose growth over fear.

Discover practical, biblical tools to build a secure connection, communicate with confidence, and repair conflict in healthy ways. Learn how to love with maturity, even when it's hard.

💬 Question of the Day: How do you deal with a spouse who struggles with jealousy over your past?

🎁 Grab your FREE PDF: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells at greaterimpactwives.org

Are you fighting with your spouse instead of for your marriage?

In today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina Roesner and guest Kyle Hargrove unpack how the enemy creeps into Christian marriages — not just through conflict, but in how we speak, how we listen, and how we forget who the real enemy is.

💔 Whether you're in a tough season or just want deeper connection, this episode will help you recognize the spiritual dynamics at play and give you tools to fight with your spouse — not against them.

👇 Resources:

🔗 Marriage Assessment: https://greaterimpact.org

📧 Contact Kyle: kylehargraveLPC@gmail.com

Are you stuck in a cycle of unforgiveness or resentment? 😔 You're not alone — but the consequences are deeper than you think.

In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina Roesner and Shy Lewis dive into the neuroscience of bitterness, exposing how unforgiveness rewires your brain, damages your communication, and even impacts your health, memory, and spiritual life.

💔 If you've ever:

Replayed past hurts over and over

Felt emotionally drained just thinking of "that person"

Struggled with anxiety, sleeplessness, or depression due to unresolved pain

...this episode is for you.

You'll learn:

🧠 What happens in the brain when you're bitter or resentful

🙏 Why forgiveness isn't just biblical — it's biologically necessary

❤️ How choosing to forgive can literally change your brain chemistry

💡 How to take back emotional control and walk in peace, joy, and clarity

🎁 Free Resources:

👉 Download our 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells PDF

👉 Take the free Marriage Assessment

🔗 Visit us at GreaterImpact.org

📌 Question of the Day:

What do you do when your spouse won't own their mistakes and denies past harm? We give heartfelt advice for how to move forward in this tough situation.

👀 Watch next:

🔹 How Your Nervous System Affects Your Marriage

🔹 The Power of Emotional Regulation in Conflict

🔹 Steps to Heal After Betrayal

Ever feel like life bucked you off? Whether it’s in marriage, business, or faith, the fastest way to win again is to Get Back On.

Join Nina Roesner in this powerful and hope-filled episode of What to Say & How to Say It as she interviews Drs. Michelle and Paul LeCompte, DVM, a couple who know firsthand what it means to fall—hard—and get back up with God’s help.

Now celebrating 39 years of marriage, they’re embarking on a horseback journey across southern Ohio to inspire others to Get Back On—no matter what life throws at you. From healing through lupus, battling addiction, and navigating conflict in marriage and business, their story proves that God still writes beautiful stories from broken beginnings.

🪶 Paul has written several books on overcoming adversity and discovering God’s purpose for your life. Check out his work here: 📚 https://a.co/d/cM2uA4M

💛 Want to support their ride and help Christian marriages thrive? Donate to the Get Back On Fundraiser for Greater Impact Ministries here: 🌱 https://greaterimpact.org/donate All proceeds go directly to healing and strengthening marriages in Christ.

🙏🏼 If you’ve ever struggled in your relationship or needed a reminder that God’s not done with you yet—this is your episode. Don’t miss it.

👇 WATCH. SUBSCRIBE. SHARE HOPE.

Struggling with conflict in your marriage?

This episode of What to Say and How to Say It is for you.

Join hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner as they unpack the Four Stages of the Competence Model and how it mirrors God's process of transformation in marriage—from blindness and blame to wisdom and Christlike love.

💡 Discover:

Why your complaints aren’t working

What “conscious incompetence” means (and why it’s actually good news)

How God uses conflict to shape us

The difference between trust and respect

How to partner with the Holy Spirit in your marriage healing process

📥 Download your FREE PDF: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells

📊 Take the Free Marriage Assessment: greaterimpactwives.org

🎧 Don’t forget to Like, Subscribe, and hit the 🔔 to be notified when new episodes drop!

Have you or your spouse ever said, "I didn’t sign up for this"? You're not alone. In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Nina Roesner sits down with licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove to explore the concept of double-edged history—how past trauma, bad choices, and unresolved emotional pain can impact your present-day marriage.

They get real about:

Triggers from your spouse’s past (or your own)

Why healing is your responsibility—not your partner’s

How past wounds leak into the present

David’s biblical example of lingering consequences

What to do when your history shows up uninvited

Why owning your story is the first step to healing

Whether you're dealing with emotional scars, past abuse, regret, or you're just tired of living in yesterday’s pain, this conversation will help you build emotional intelligence and start healing in partnership with God. 👉 Don’t miss this honest, grace-filled, and practical episode.

📌 Subscribe for more tools on navigating marriage and communication with faith and wisdom. #ChristianMarriage #EmotionalHealing #MarriageHelp #EmotionalIntelligence #WhatToSayAndHowToSayIt #FaithAndMarriage #HealingFromThePast #RelationshipAdvice

In today’s episode, hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner talk about how to stay cool in the chaos — especially when conflict strikes at home. Learn practical tools to manage your emotions, strengthen your self-regulation, and respond rather than react.

We’re diving deep into emotional intelligence (EQ) from a faith-based lens — how it applies to marriage, what triggers us, and how to build resilience. Whether it's learning how to breathe through an argument or finally naming that hard emotion, this episode is full of tools you can start using today.

Welcome to What to Say and How to Say It, the podcast that helps you fix your marriage with wisdom and grace. I'm Shy Lewis, here with Nina Roesner, and today we're diving into the Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style—what it looks like, why it happens, and how to respond effectively in a Christian marriage.

🔎 In this episode, we cover:

What dismissive avoidant behavior looks like in a relationship
How to communicate clearly and calmly without triggering shutdown
Why managing your emotions is key to connection
How to set boundaries and follow through—without issuing ultimatums
Real-life tips to avoid chasing, increase your partner’s capacity, and create safe space

If you're tired of walking on eggshells, visit greaterimpactwise.org to download your FREE PDF: "Five Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells" and take the free marriage assessment.

This episode is for any Christian husband or wife who wants to move from conflict to connection, especially when emotional shutdowns, avoidance, or stonewalling get in the way.

💬 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs encouragement and clarity in their marriage journey.

#ChristianMarriage #AttachmentTheory #MarriagePodcast #DismissiveAvoidant #RelationshipAdvice #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageCommunication #WhatToSayAndHowToSayIt

What if the biggest roadblock in your marriage isn't your spouse—but your own mindset? In this powerful episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Nina Roesner and licensed counselor Kyle Hargrove unpack how a closed mind, especially one masked by victimhood or pride, can paralyze growth in a relationship. They share real stories, honest truths, and godly wisdom to help you—and your marriage—move from stuck to surrendered. Ready for change? It starts with humility. 💬❤️ #MarriageHelp #ChristianMarriage #GreaterImpact #RelationshipGrowth #HumbleHeart

Welcome to today’s episode of What to Say and How to Say It with Nina Roesner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove. 👋

Today, we’re digging into a difficult—but essential—topic: 👉 Is your partner attached to manipulation? 👉 Are you unknowingly using manipulation in your own relationship? 👉 What’s the difference between manipulation and motivation?

We’re unpacking attachment styles, passive-aggressive behaviors, fear of conflict, and the silent lies that erode trust over time. 😶‍🌫️💔 You might be surprised to learn how common manipulation is—even in well-meaning relationships—and what to do about it.

Welcome to this episode of What to Say and How to Say It! I'm Nina Roesner, and I'm here with our favorite licensed professional counselor, Kyle Hargrove.

Today we’re diving into a tough but important question: Is your complaining ruining your attachment?

💡 Key Takeaways: How complaining changes your brain What attachment styles really are—and how they form Can someone change their attachment style? (Spoiler: Yes!)

What therapists can and can’t say about someone they've never met Why it’s dangerous to “diagnose” your spouse

👉 Take your next step: Visit greaterimpactlife.org to take a free marriage assessment and find out if you’re ready to mentor others—or if it’s time to get some help for your own relationship.

Welcome to today’s episode of What to Say & How to Say It—the podcast that helps you fix your marriage with grace and truth.

Today we dive into the world of respect in marriage with special guest Madison Agostini, leader of the wildly popular Respectful Wives Club (yes, 20,000 members strong!). Madison shares what it’s really like to lead Christian women through the challenges of respect, boundaries, and obedience—and she does it all with humor, heart, and bold honesty.

Welcome to What to Say & How to Say It—the podcast that helps Christian married couples fix communication and build deeper connection. In this episode, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner unpack attachment theory, focusing on the anxious attachment style and how to set healthy boundaries in marriage.

Learn how childhood wounds impact adult relationships, what to expect when dealing with anxious partners, and how faith, communication, and consistency can bring healing. With practical examples, biblical wisdom, and tools you can apply right now, this episode offers hope and direction for couples navigating conflict and emotional intensity.

🔗 Download our FREE PDF: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells 📊 Take the FREE Marriage Assessment ➡️ Visit: https://greaterimpactwives.org

Is complaining just venting—or is it silently reshaping your brain and relationships? 🤯

Join Nina Roesner and counselor Kyle Hargrove as they unpack the science behind chronic complaint, explore neuroplasticity, and show how shifting your words can shift your life. 💭✨

#WhatToSay #BrainHealth #StopComplaining #Neuroplasticity #MindsetMatters #GreaterImpact

Welcome to this episode of What to Say & How to Say It with Nina Roesner and Licensed Professional Counselor Kyle Hargrove! 🎙️ Today, we’re diving into a powerful (and maybe convicting!) conversation: Are you creating drama in your marriage?

We’re breaking down the Drama Triangle — the Victim, the Villain, and the Hero — three roles you DO NOT want to play if you’re serious about building a healthy, God-honoring relationship.

Are you unintentionally sabotaging your marriage by trying to rescue your spouse? Are you falling into patterns of blame, manipulation, or emotional chaos? Or maybe, just maybe, you’re stuck in a cycle you didn’t realize you were even in…

This episode is full of wisdom, humor, real-life examples, and biblical encouragement for anyone looking to stop the cycle of drama and start building connection instead.

👉 Take our FREE marriage assessment at https://greaterimpact.org to find out if coaching is right for you or if there are practical steps you can take to strengthen your marriage TODAY.

Welcome to today's episode of What to Say and How to Say It, the podcast designed to help you fix your marriage! Join Shai Lewis and Nina Rosner as they dive into the topic of the Martyr Complex—an unhealthy mindset that can trap us in conflict and distance within our relationships.

In this episode, we discuss the signs of a martyr or savior complex, how they show up in our marriages, and how to break free from the victim mentality that holds us back. We also explore ways to retrain your thinking and embrace personal responsibility to bring healing to your marriage.

📌 Visit our website greaterimpactwives.org for a free PDF, "5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells" and take our free marriage assessment to get started on your journey toward a stronger, more connected marriage.

🔔 Subscribe for more tips on building a thriving, Christ-centered marriage!

Are you feeling stuck in your marriage? In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner dive deep into the victim mindset and the lies that keep us trapped. We explore biblical truths that help rewire your thinking, build stronger connections, and navigate conflict in a godly way.

2 Corinthians 10:5 – "Take every thought captive and make it obedient to Christ."

Topics Covered:

The 4 lies that keep you feeling powerless

How to shift from a victim to a victor mindset

Why God’s timing matters more than our expectations

Setting healthy boundaries in marriage

The truth about submission & faith over fear

Free Resources! 🔹 Download: Five Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells → Visit greaterimpactwives.org 🔹 Take our Free Marriage Assessment! 💬 Let us know in the comments: Which mindset shift resonated with you the most?

Welcome to today’s episode of What to Say & How to Say It! Are you the villain or the victim in your marriage? Or is your spouse? Licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove and host Nina Roesner dive deep into how these roles play out in relationships—and how your perception shapes everything.

We’ll uncover: ✅ The exhausting cycle of victimhood ✅ How villains are created (and why it’s not always what you think) ✅ The power of perception in relationships ✅ What God says about complaining and taking thoughts captive

Don't let toxic patterns take over your marriage! Take our free marriage assessment at greaterimpact.org and discover your next steps.

Welcome to What to Say & How to Say It, the podcast that helps you navigate conflict and build a thriving marriage. In this episode, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner continue their series on narcissism—this time exploring healing.

If you've been in a relationship with a narcissistic person, you know how challenging it can be to regain your sense of self. Today, we’ll discuss: ✅ The impact of prolonged exposure to narcissistic behavior ✅ How healing is possible with God ✅ The role of radical acceptance in your journey ✅ How to stop taking things personally and break free from the enemy’s cycle

📥 FREE Resources: ➡ Download 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells at greaterimpactwise.org ➡ Take our Marriage Assessment to see where you stand

In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina Roesner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove dive into three key ways narcissists deflect — and how these behaviors may show up in your relationships. Whether you've experienced deflection or have been guilty of it yourself, this conversation offers practical insights to help you improve communication, take ownership, and build stronger connections. 💬 Learn more at greaterimpact.org 👍 Like, share, and subscribe for more relationship insights!

We’re tackling the tough and often confusing topic of narcissism — what it really is, what the experts say, and how to handle these challenging behaviors when they show up in your marriage. Are you married to a narcissist — or just dealing with narcissistic behaviors? Either way, you’ll come away with practical, faith-based strategies to help you show up differently, set boundaries, and protect your heart.

👉 Download our FREE PDF: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells at greaterimpactwives.org

👉 Take our FREE Marriage Assessment to check in on your relationship.

Welcome to another episode of What to Say and How to Say It! Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s becoming more common in conversations: Are you a narcissist? You may have been called one or wondered if you are—but what does narcissism really mean? Licensed professional counselor Kyle Harrove joins us to break it down. We’ll explore the difference between everyday selfishness and true narcissism, how our early years shape us, and what it takes to build healthier relationships.

👉 Take our free marriage assessment at greaterimpact.org to discover where you stand.

We often break promises, overcommit, or underestimate the work involved in our commitments—leading to frustration and a loss of trust in relationships. In this episode, we explore how inconsistency affects respect and connection, why follow-through matters, and practical ways to avoid this common pitfall.

Download our FREE PDF, 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells, and take our marriage assessment at greaterimpactwives.org.

Joining us in today's podcast is Madison Agustini, the leader of the Respectful Wives Club on Facebook, to discuss the book The Respect Dare—a 40-day challenge that transforms relationships by fostering deeper respect and understanding.

In this episode, you'll discover:

How The Respect Dare can strengthen your marriage
The power of daily challenges in changing relationship dynamics
Why respect is a man's greatest need and how it impacts your connection
Real-life testimonies of marriages transformed

Join the next Respect Dare challenge starting February 17th!

Take our FREE Marriage Assessment: greaterimpact.org

Feeling unappreciated in your marriage? You’re not alone. In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner dive into the silent killer of relationships—lack of appreciation. Learn why couples drift apart without realizing it and how small, intentional actions can break the cycle.

📥 Grab your FREE resources: 📌 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells 📌 Marriage Assessment ➡️ Get yours at greaterimpactwives.org

Don’t let unspoken gratitude create distance. Tune in now and start strengthening your marriage today!

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Nina Roesner and Kyle Hargrove explore how shared values shape respect and harmony in marriage. They discuss practical ways to identify, discuss, and align core values with your partner—whether it’s about parenting, finances, faith, or conflict resolution. Tune in for real-life stories, expert advice, and actionable insights to strengthen your relationship.

👉 Visit greaterimpact.org to take our marriage assessment and discover more resources. Interested in working with Kyle? Stay tuned for details at the end of the episode!

In today's episode of What to Say and How to Say It, it's all about the lack of respect that often shows up in relationships, how it leads to communication breakdowns, and what you can do about it. Whether you're dealing with stonewalling or just a communication gap, this podcast provides actionable insights to help Christian married couples rebuild trust and connection.

We discuss how to make the first move with small gestures, understand the importance of giving space, and even address the complexities of the "no contact" approach when things go terribly wrong in a marriage. Tune in for practical advice, support, and wisdom on how to navigate tough moments and re-engage with your spouse.

Free PDF: Five Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells
Marriage Assessment: Available at greaterimpactwives.org

Welcome to today’s episode of What to Say & How to Say It – the podcast that helps you fix your marriage! Join hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner as they tackle the thought-provoking topic: "Is self-love or self-respect selfish?"

In this episode, we explore the fine line between self-love and selfishness from a Christian perspective. How do self-care and dying to oneself, as taught in the Bible, coexist? What does it mean to navigate relationships with self-respect while staying rooted in Christ-like values?

We share powerful stories, including how prioritizing self-respect can transform relationships, and offer practical insights on setting boundaries and expressing needs clearly. Plus, we reflect on the cultural confusion around self-love and the role of faith in guiding these choices.

📖 Check out our free resources at greaterimpactwives.org: ✨ 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells ✨ Marriage Assessment

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, we're diving into the buzzword authenticity—what does it actually mean, and how can it transform your relationships? Join Nina and Kyle as they unpack the true essence of being authentic in relationships, explore the challenges of intimacy, and share practical tips for growth.

Discover how self-reflection, vulnerability, and faith play key roles in fostering authentic connections. Don't forget to visit greaterimpact.org to take our marriage assessment and access your free guide on how to stop walking on eggshells. Let's get real—starting today!

In this episode of "What to Say and How to Say It," Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner dive into practical, faith-based strategies for navigating conflict and building connection in marriage. Learn how to become winsome in your communication, even in tough situations, and discover how these principles can transform not only your marriage but also your relationships with children, coworkers, and others.

Download free resources at Greater Impact Wives and start thriving today!

In this episode of "What to Say and How to Say It," Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner dive into practical, faith-based strategies for navigating conflict and building connection in marriage. Learn how to become winsome in your communication, even in tough situations, and discover how these principles can transform not only your marriage but also your relationships with children, coworkers, and others.

Download free resources at Greater Impact Wives and start thriving today!

Welcome to today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It! 🎙️ I’m joined by my favorite licensed professional counselor, Kyle Hargrove, as we dive into a topic that challenges marriages everywhere: "Truth and Transparency"—and how these impact your relationship.

We’re exploring the tricky dynamics of honesty:

When is telling the truth healing, and when can it cause harm?
How do we navigate transparency in ways that build trust without unnecessarily wounding our spouse?
Why are we, as a culture, so prone to dodging honesty—often without realizing it?

The truth can set us free, but it requires wisdom, timing, and grace. This episode will give you insight into understanding the role of truth in your marriage and practical ways to communicate effectively without blowing things up.

👉 Take Our FREE Marriage Assessment: Find out where your relationship stands and how we can help at greaterimpact.org.

🛑 Need More Support? Visit greaterimpact.org for tools and resources to strengthen your marriage.

👍 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell so you don’t miss our next episode!

Welcome to What to Say & How to Say It, the podcast designed to help you transform your Christian marriage! Today, we’re tackling a tough but crucial topic: 4 things you need to know when trust is broken in your relationship.

Why is this even a topic for Christian marriages? Because, like everyone else, we face struggles—but with God’s help, we can heal and rebuild.

Join our host and licensed professional counselor, Kyle Hargrove, as we dive into understanding broken trust, its challenges, and how to move forward in a way that honors God and strengthens your marriage.

💡 Key Topics Covered:

What happens when forgiveness doesn’t mean immediate trust.
The role of confirmation bias in damaged relationships.
How small things, like forgetting milk, can feel exponentially bigger after betrayal.
Practical steps for rebuilding trust with wisdom and faith.

🌟 Need support? Visit Greater Impact to take our marriage assessment and discover tools to navigate your challenges—whether you’re in a season of struggle or success.

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with others who might need encouragement in their relationships!

Welcome to What to Say & How to Say It! In this episode, Shy Lewis and Nina Roeser dive into how feminine energy can be a powerful tool in leadership—whether you're leading at home, work, or in ministry. With biblical insights and practical examples, we'll explore how embracing Christ-centered feminine leadership can help you navigate conflict, build stronger connections, and lead with grace and confidence.

📘 Download our free resource: 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells at greaterimpactwives.org.

🎙️ Don’t miss this empowering conversation about stepping into your God-given calling while staying true to your faith and identity. Whether you're facing challenges in marriage or ministry, there's wisdom here for you!

Welcome to What to Say and How to Stay, the podcast dedicated to helping Christian married men and women navigate conflict and build connection for a thriving marriage. 🎙️

In today’s episode, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner tackle the topic of mental load. From the unspoken expectations in modern marriages to understanding the biological and emotional differences between men and women, we explore how to manage responsibilities and reduce stress in your relationship.

👉 Free Resources:

Five Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells
Free Marriage Assessment

💬 Let us know in the comments: How do you manage the mental load in your marriage?

Subscribe for more insights and practical advice on building a stronger, more connected marriage! 🙏

In this episode, we're diving into 3 powerful ways to make vulnerability your superpower in challenging conversations. 💬✨

Discover how:

Vulnerability fosters trust and deeper connections.
Naming your feelings disarms fear and empowers clarity.
Embracing God’s truth transforms your heart and relationships.

Plus, learn why vulnerability is not a weakness but a confidence-builder in disguise!

🛑 Don’t miss this! Also, grab our FREE resources: 👉 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells 👉 Marriage Assessment at greaterimpactwives.org

Let’s journey together toward healing and thriving marriages. Hit like and subscribe for more! 💖

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Nina Roesner and Kyle Hargrove dive into a challenging but essential topic: dealing with entitlement. We’re exploring what entitlement looks like in adult relationships, how it affects connections, and how to navigate these interactions effectively.

Are you in a relationship with someone who acts like the world owes them? Or maybe you're finding entitlement tendencies closer than you’d like? Let’s talk about what causes entitlement and why it’s so common today, from low standards in culture to self-focused attitudes. We'll discuss practical steps to influence these situations from a place of strength and character, including staying true to biblical principles that promote unity and understanding.

Join us as we tackle these tough questions, reflect on how entitlement and victimitis impact our relationships, and talk about how to approach these issues with humility, resilience, and faith.

💡 Ready to learn more about yourself and your relationship? Check out our marriage assessment at greaterimpact.org!

In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner delve into the fascinating topic of adult development and how it impacts your relationships, especially marriage. Just back from an inspiring Strength and Dignity Conference, they’re sharing insights from Dr. Robert Keegan’s Constructive Development Theory (CDT) to help you better understand yourself, your spouse, and how maturity affects relationship dynamics.

Do you ever wonder why conflicts keep surfacing in your marriage? Or feel like you and your partner are on different pages in handling challenges? This episode explores the stages of adult development, from the egocentric self to the socially aware self, and how these stages influence our behaviors, expectations, and emotional responses in relationships.

Plus, download our free PDF, “5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells,” at greaterimpactwives.org to start transforming your interactions today. Whether you’re looking to strengthen your connection, manage conflict better, or deepen your self-awareness, this conversation will provide essential tools to foster a more understanding, compassionate, and mature marriage.

Tune in, reflect, and take your first steps toward a more connected and thriving relationship.

Tired of feeling stuck in difficult situations or relationships? In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, we dive into three powerful ways to overcome a victim mindset and step into a more empowered life! Join us as we explore how taking personal accountability, setting healthy boundaries, and embracing assertiveness can transform your relationships and overall well-being. Nina Roesner and Kyle Hargrove shares invaluable insights on reclaiming your life from victimhood and moving towards a future filled with confidence and joy. Tune in for practical steps, heartfelt advice, and encouragement on your journey to freedom!

Get our free guide: Find Your Voice: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpactwives.org.

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, we dive deep into the impact of unspoken thoughts and hidden feelings on relationships.

Licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove joins us to unpack why staying silent can cause resentment, misunderstandings, and even damage to the connection with your partner. Discover how fear, vulnerability, and people-pleasing tendencies often keep us from expressing our true selves—and why sharing openly can be a game-changer for intimacy and trust. Don't let fear hold you back from a stronger relationship!

Get our free guide: Find Your Voice: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpactwives.org.

Welcome to today’s episode of What to Say & How to Say It, the podcast designed to help you build a thriving marriage by navigating conflict and strengthening connections. Listen to Shy Lewis with Nina Roesner as they dive into a crucial topic: what to say when boundaries collide. Even in the healthiest relationships, boundaries can clash, causing misunderstandings and frustrations. We’ll explore how to handle these situations, discuss the dynamics in both healthy and unhealthy relationships, and offer practical tips for finding win-win solutions when you and your partner seem to be on different pages.

Looking to strengthen your marriage? Download our free PDF and take the marriage assessment at greaterimpactwives.org. Plus, don’t forget to sign up for our upcoming marriage conference where you can connect with others and gain valuable insights. Join us as we tackle real-life scenarios, offer biblical guidance, and share tools that help you navigate the complexities of relationships with grace and wisdom.

In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner dive into a powerful conversation on how competition in marriage can either bring couples closer or drive them apart. Inspired by a story from the Paralympics, we discuss 3 practical ways to navigate competitive tendencies and build a unified team in your marriage.

We also talk about healthy competition, dealing with insecurities, and how to celebrate each other’s wins. Don't miss this insightful episode packed with biblical wisdom and real-life stories to help you create a thriving, Christ-centered marriage!

FREE Resources: 🌟 Download our FREE PDF: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells 🌟 Take our Marriage Assessment to see where you and your spouse stand! 🌟 Join us for the Strength & Dignity Conference this September – a time of healing, fun, and connection! (NOTE: Although the Strength and Dignity Conference has already passed, you can still explore other opportunities to join us for future events.)

Check it all out at: greaterimpact.org

In this episode of What Toes Say and How to Say It, we tackle a crucial question: Are you truly willing to do the work to fix your marriage?

Join us as we dive deep into the difference between wanting and being willing, featuring expert insights from licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove.

Discover the steps you can take to restore your relationship, the importance of communication, and why showing up isn't enough without intentional action. Get ready to stop complaining and start making real change in your marriage. Don't miss out! 🌟

Get our free guide: Find Your Voice: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpactwives.org.

Welcome back to "What to Say and How to Say It"! I'm Nina Roesner, joined by the incredible Madison Agostini, known for her impactful work with the Respect Dare and the Respectful Wives Club. In this special episode, Madison shares her expertise on building meaningful community connections. Whether you're struggling with loneliness or looking to enhance your existing relationships, Madison's insights will guide you on how to cultivate genuine connections. Tune in to learn practical steps on how to create and deepen your community, and why having strong, supportive relationships can transform your life. 🌟 Don't miss out—watch now!

Get our free guide: Find Your Voice: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpactwives.org.

You may have heard of Riley Gaines, but you may not know one of her speaking team mates, Olivia Krolcyzk. Join us today to put your own conflicts in perspective, see an example of solid identity, and discover an outcome of social media. Please consider making a donation to the RileyGainesCenter.org

In this episode of "What to Say and How to Say It," host Nina Roesner speaks with Olivia Krolczyk, a bold advocate who faced intense backlash after standing up for her beliefs in a college gender studies course. Olivia shares her personal journey, the challenges of navigating cancel culture, and how she remained respectful while fighting for her rights. Tune in to hear how her story has sparked a national conversation and why she continues to speak out with grace and conviction.

Get our free guide: Find Your Voice: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpactwives.org.

More info hear: https://rileygainescenter.org/ambassadors/olivia/

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Listen to this podcast to know more.

Experiencing loss places you in the realm of "used to be." You used to be married, employed, pregnant, healthy, sober, thin. You used to be a son, daughter, sibling, or parent. This space is filled with emptiness, loneliness, and sorrow, but it’s not where you’re meant to stay.

To move forward, explore the unseen aspects of grief. Join Shy Lewis, Pastor Chuck Elliott, and counselor Ashley Elliott as they share biblical wisdom and mental health techniques. They help you feel and face your grief, hold onto faith, and develop a healthy outlook on yourself and your loved ones. They offer strategies for seemingly impossible times and guide you toward true healing and growth.

You may have "used to be" something, but a future awaits where you "will be" once more.

When was the last time you had a truly meaningful conversation?

Our society is grappling with a shift. Differences of opinion have always been part of life, but today's culture sees nearly a third of individuals cutting ties over disagreements.

Join Shy and special guest Prof Tim Muehlfhoff as we tackle ending the stalemate of cancel culture and fostering meaningful conversations. Check out End the Stalemate: Move Past Cancel Culture to Meaningful Conversations on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/End-Stalemate-Culture-Meaningful-Conversations/dp/1496481151.

Grab our free pdf, Find Your Voice: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpactcouples.org

So today we want to give you 3 ways to rediscover your femininity & connect with your spouse.

Struggling with setting boundaries? Here's help!

Most relationship experts agree that the healthiest friendships and marriages have boundaries. What does that mean? What's it look like? If you are wondering how to change your marriage, you won't likely do it without boundaries. Join Kyle Hargrove LPC and Nina Roesner as they dig into this topic! You can reach Kyle at kylehargrove@gmail.com if you live in Texas, and be sure to grab the free resources from greaterimpact.org!

Been walking on eggshells much? Caught yourself saying something to avoid hurting your spouse, but wish you could actually tell them? Join Nina and Kyle as they dig into this important topic today! Grab our free pdf, Find Your Voice: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpactcouples.org

So, what will you do with the information you have today? We invite you to check out our website pdf “Find Your Voice - 5 steps to stop walking on eggshells” We also have a FREE space on Facebook if you’re new to Greater Impact and you wanna take a test run. It’s an intro to our ecourse Strengh & Dignity where we dive into more depth around respect and self-respect.

Don't miss this man's story about how God changed his marriage!

Everyone eventually figures out how hard marriage actually is. Dr. Paul LeCompte shares tales from his book, "From Broken to Blessed - a prodigal life." You'll walk away with encouragement about how powerful God is, and how you can find the joy and peace He's worked into Paul's life. Grab your copy at Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Broken-Blessed-Prodigal-Life-ebook/dp/B0B94VRW38/ref=sr_1_1?c[…]refix=from+broken+to+blessed+paul+lecompte%2Caps%2C108&sr=8-1

Your marriage is in trouble if you don't do these 3 things!

In today's episode, Nina and Kyle take a deep dive into what can heal a broken marriage - what a healthy marriage needs to maintain itself, and how to start the process of healing a broken one. Grab our free pdf "Find Your Voice" at https://greaterimpactcouples.org

Men and women both need a combination of love and respect in their marriage. However, our modern culture has blurred the lines between genders to the point where relationships have become more confusing than ever! Nina Roesner recognizes this, and she has addressed it powerfully in her books and her ministry, Greater Impact Ministries. Nina is the executive director of the program, and she is experienced with coaching married couples who are on the brink of divorce. “Our respect for someone else should be because we’re a respectful, godly person not because we judged them as being worthy of it,” she explains. Nina offers pointers on how women can create an environment that allows their husbands to step into their role of Biblical leadership. Check out The Counter Culture Mom: https://counterculturemom.com/ Be sure to grab our free pdf, Find your voice - 5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpactwives.org

Are you ever surprised by the difficulties in your marriage? Today Nina & Kyle Hargrove (LPC) talk about three ways to get your marriage back on track when you run into problems. Be sure to grab our free pdf, Find your voice - 5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpactwives.org

David and Susan both felt super frustrated with how they went about trying to solve problems. Seems like every conversation blew up in their faces with both of them hurling insults at each other. Sound familiar? There is a way to navigate conflict confidently and solve the problems in your marriage. Join Nina and Kyle as they dig into this all-too-common topic today! Grab our pdf “5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells” off our website at https://greaterimpact.org

When Tina and Greg got married, like most couples, they seemed to agree on everything and didn’t have arguments. Two years into the marriage, they started have issues and didn’t know what to do. So they started the pattern of avoidance and then blowing up. What happened? Listen to this episode as Nina and Kyle explore the causes and the solutions. Be sure to grab our free pdf: Find Your Voice, 5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpact.org

Women around the globe are walking a hard path, one paved with tears and also JOY, to save their marriages. Today, Nina interviews Sally, a Strength & Dignity graduate and facilitator. Learn what saved her marriage and how you can handle tough situations in yours. Sign up at https://greaterimpactwives.org

Carol sat stunned in silence as she read the paperwork the deputy handed her. She knew she had overreacted to Jessie’s spending too much money on a golf tournament... she knew she had upset him when he left that day, now a week ago. She had no idea he would file for divorce, however. Her chest tightened, stomach knotting, and her voice escaped her. Don't find yourself in Carol's shoes. If you are dealing with emotionality in your marriage, know if you don't handle it the escalation will continue! Listen in as Kyle and Nina talk through the three ways emotionality is destroying your marriage.

Be sure to grab our free pdf: Find Your Voice, 5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpact.org

Emma and Jack are facing a problem they didn't even realize they had: not understanding each other's feelings about respect. Emma, busy with work, felt ignored, while Jack, taking care of their home, wanted appreciation. This led to tension until they figured out what the problem was.

To learn more about respect in relationships, check out this episode. Discover how a small change can make a big difference and learn the secrets to a happy marriage! Listen to this episode as Nina and Kyle explore the causes and the solutions. Be sure to grab our free pdf: Find Your Voice, 5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpact.org

Jake and Emma found themselves at a crossroads. The weight of constant strength and resilience, which had long defined their journey together, had become a silent burden.

One evening, as they sat in the soft glow of their living room, Emma sighed, breaking the unspoken agreement to always be the pillar of strength. Jake, sensing her weariness, encouraged her to share what was on her mind.

Emma hesitated, but the floodgates opened when she realized Jake was there not only as her partner but as a fellow traveler in vulnerability. She spoke about the fatigue of always being strong, the pressure to have it all together. Jake listened, not with solutions, but with understanding. The conversation wasn't about fixing things; it was about acknowledging the human need for vulnerability.

Learn how to navigate this chapter, watch this episode now with Nina and Shy!

Sarah and Mark used to be really happy, but things got tough. They started arguing a lot and not talking about how they felt. It made their love feel hard.

Learn how emotions, when handled with care and understanding, could be the catalyst for growth and a stronger, more profound connection. Watch this episode now!

Claire and Tom have hit a rough patch in their marriage. They stopped discussing their concerns, and it seemed like they were drifting apart. If you're sensing similar challenges in your marriage and feel unsure about what to do, you're not alone.

Though it's not easy, addressing these issues together can bring you closer again. Join Nina and Shy in this episode for insights and advice on navigating through rough times in a marriage.

Pure Heart: Restoration of the Heart through the Beatitudes" is a journey into the deep treasures of Jesus' Sermon on the Mount. Each chapter addresses one of the eight Beatitudes in a unique approach to inner healing. God longs for us to know Him, and He wants to heal the wounds in our hearts. You may find it difficult to receive love from God or from others because of past abuse or neglect, but desire to go deeper into the Lord's heart. This book is for you. You will discover God's abiding affections toward you and explore His promises over you. As you seek Him for healing, may He restore your heart to wholeness and fulfill the promises of blessing in your life. Check out the book here: https://www.amazon.com/Pure-Heart-Restoration-Through-Beatitudes/dp/0986427705

Pure Heart: Restoration of the Heart Through the Beatitudes

This episode was initially intended for release before the holidays, but due to our packed schedule, it's just joining the lineup now. We trust it will resonate with you, even outside the holiday season!

Today we have special guest Katie Millar-Wirig to discuss Becoming a Mean, Teen, Parenting Machine.

Creating a happy and emotionally healthy teenager begins with interactions with parents. The Parenting Machine reveals the keys to transforming your relationship with your adolescent children. Teenagers are a maze of emotions and many parents are throwing up their arms wondering what happened to their sweet, obedient child. Taking it back to the basics, mother and educator Katie M. Wirig demonstrates how to implement tried and true principles that will ensure results. Break free from reactive parenting by focusing on topics such as:

How to have hard conversations
How to build reciprocal trust
Preventing emotional burnout in your teens

Using real life experiences from parents and educators alike. Those who apply these principles will enjoy happier and more peaceful homes. Check out the book here: https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Parenting-Machine-step-step-ebook/dp/B0BWGTVP11.

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Jack, a practical thinker, often showed his affection through acts of service, like fixing things around the house. Lily, on the other hand, valued emotional connection and expressed her love through heartfelt conversations.

As their relationship blossomed, Jack assumed Lily would appreciate his practical gestures, but Lily longed for more verbal affirmation and this turned into resentment.

Discover the fascinating insights into the distinct ways men and women think! Tune in to our podcast and gain valuable perspectives that resonate with you. It's an enlightening journey into understanding the unique thought processes of both genders. This podcast is crafted just for you!

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Alex and Jordan found themselves discussing future plans. Alex, excitedly sharing their dreams, noticed Jordan interjecting with thoughts on Alex's behalf. Though well-intentioned, Alex felt a bit overshadowed.

Discover the right words to reclaim your voice when someone speaks on your behalf without permission. Communication is key, and finding the right response is crucial. Watch now! 🔊

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

They had been married for several years, facing life's challenges together. However, over time, Emma started feeling a growing sense of disconnect and lost respect for Mark due to differences in communication and priorities. Are you in a similar situation and don't know how to address the situation? Check out this episode with Nina and Kyle and know what to do when you've lost respect for your spouse. Learn how to keep your marriage healthy and happy!

Emily and Chris, a couple deeply in love, faced a challenge. Emily, feeling the need to silence her voice in their relationship, began to withdraw her opinions to avoid conflict. Emily has a fear of disagreement and wants to maintain harmony in the relationship.

Join Nina and Shy and learn the importance of open communication and how to express opinions without judgment.

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

In a seemingly perfect relationship, Lisa and Michael hid a dark secret: Michael's alcoholism had become a normalized dysfunction. One day, Lisa bravely confronted Michael, telling him that his drinking was tearing them apart. Initially in denial, Michael eventually sought help, realizing that their love was worth more than his addiction. Lisa's courage to speak up became a turning point, proving that love could conquer even the darkest demons when the truth was spoken.

Listen to Nina and Shy and learn what to say when dysfunction is normalized in your relationship.

The purpose of medicine is to heal and maintain the health of the patient. Abortion does neither one of those two things for either the woman or the child. Since the dawn of western medicine abortion was rejected as quackery. What changed?

When a patient entrusts herself to a physician, it is only medical ethics that insulate her best interests from being subordinated to a political agenda or the pocketbook of an abortionist.

Every life is valuable and deserving of protection, and fostering a culture that respects and supports life can lead to a more compassionate and just society. Check out this episode with Nina, Shy, and Rev. James R. Harden, M.Div., CEO of CompassCare Pregnancy Services as they navigate the topic of Ethical Theory and Pertinent Standards in Women’s Reproductive Health.

Check out the book here: https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Theory-Pertinent-Standards-Reproductive/dp/195443779X

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Sarah and Mark has growing distance began to set in, and Sarah's heart became sealed off. They had faced their share of trials—job changes, financial stress, and the demands of raising a family. Amid these challenges, they had drifted apart, and their once-close connection had become strained.

As the emotional gap widened, Sarah started to withdraw. She built a protective wall around her heart to shield herself from further hurt. Gone were the days of heartfelt conversations, laughter that filled the room, and the simple joy of being together. Mark, too, noticed the change in Sarah. He sensed that something was amiss, but he wasn't sure how to bridge the gap. Their once-vibrant marriage had fallen into a routine of mere coexistence.

Are you in a similar situation? Are you determined to heal your relationship? Learn how to break down the barriers around your heart and begin to rediscover the fullness of life.

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Chances are every human being has suffered trauma at some level. How an individual reacts to the traumatic event will determine its duration. Join Shy and author, Dr. J. Otis Ledbetter, as they talk about being set free from trauma.

This topic will speak mainly to those whose enduring trauma hasn’t already become an overpowering psychological confusion.

If you are wrestling with an abiding, severe emotional/psychological aftermath caused by the traumas of war, rape, abandonment by parents, etc., please seek in-depth professional help. But for those who have had bad things happen and are years later, still struggling and suffering from the chronic reaction to that trauma, this book is for you!

Check out SET FREE: Released from the Damage of Trauma: https://www.amazon.com/Set-Free-Released-Damage-Trauma/dp/B0BJSTW7BL

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Mia and Ethan, a once-happy couple, found themselves at a breaking point. Their busy lives had strained their relationship, leading to constant arguments and emotional turmoil.

Is your marriage in peril? Check out this episode and learn how to confront the issues so you can emerge stronger and more connected than ever before in your relationship.

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Learn how to prioritized open communication, dedicating time to discuss the relationship without judgment.

Listen to Nina and Kyle as they talk about navigating a conflict situation where you don't focus on the problem but on the solution.

Listen in today as Nina & Kyle covers how to prevent destruction in your marriage.

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Listen in today as Nina & Shy cover how to increase self-awereness.

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Greg and his wife can't control their emotions in a middle of a conflict. They automatically enter into a “fight or flight” mentality and always end up hurting each other emotionally.

Learn how to have a more productive discussion. This episode is a must-watch! Listen to Kyle and Nina as they talk about what to do when emotions are hot in conflict. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

DO YOU BELIEVE GOD’S GRACE REDEEMS LIVES?

Discover how God’s grace can redeem a life and point to Jesus and the Gospel. No matter where you are coming from, what your life has been, or how you are feeling these days, Odd Moms Out can speak to your heart and into your life. Even if you are not a mom, the encouragement of God’s grace redeeming, penetrating, and transforming the lives of women in the Bible will open your heart to seek more of Jesus Christ, the giver of this grace.

This episode is a must-watch! Join Nina Roesner & Shy Lewis with guest author and ministry leader Tamar Miller on this episode, where they talk about her book, Odd Moms Out: God’s Redemptive Grace in the Lives of Five Biblical Mothers.

Tamar Miller is a pastor’s wife of 25 years and mom of two teenage sons. She is committed to her local church family in SW Florida where she serves in Women’s Ministry and as a Bible teacher. You may find her at www.tamarmiller.com

Discover how God’s grace can redeem a life and point to Jesus and the Gospel.

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Learn how to work together as a team to keep your marriage healthy and happy! Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Learn how to work together as a team to keep your marriage healthy and happy! Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

This episode is a must-watch! Join Nina and Kyle as they talked about needs vs the thing I want my spouse to do. Learn how to work together as a team to keep your marriage healthy and happy! Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Learn how to work together as a team to keep your marriage healthy and happy! Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Is there a broken trust in your relationship? Here's how to refine your communication style, join Nina and Shy as they talked about what to say when you need to restore trust in your relationship. Learn how to work together as a team to keep your marriage healthy and happy! Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

This episode is a must-watch! Join Nina and Kyle as they talked about how to be confident in the middle of conflict. Learn how to work together as a team to keep your marriage healthy and happy! Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Join Nina and Shy as they talked about what to say when gaslighting happens in your relationship. Learn how to work together as a team to keep your marriage healthy and happy! Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Gina told her husband something personal and she felt like she should never have told him about it. She thinks he's probably judging her for it and she's wondering what he thinks about her. Gina started questioning in her thoughts why her husband loves her in the first place or does he ever love her.

Thoughts like these might ruin your relationship. This episode is for you! Join Nina and Kyle and learn how to stop anxiety from destroying your relationships. Learn how to work together as a team to keep your marriage healthy and happy! Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Join Nina and Kyle as they dig into what to do if you're causing more trouble in your relationship. Learn how to work together as a team to keep your marriage healthy and happy! Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Are some people just born happy? Most of us grew up thinking that joy is random and fleeting, instead of something we can actually count on or build our life around. But brain science has revealed that joy is the perfect word to describe the fuel on which our brains run. So how do we live a joy-filled life?

Joy is possible. It doesn't have to be a random experience that catches you off guard now and then. Some of the most joyful people have endured unbelievable trauma.

Joy-filled living expands our world. It makes life an adventure and teaches us to live for what is truly satisfying. Discover the skills and habits you can develop that will enhance your very quality of life.

This episode is a must-watch! Join Nina Roesner and author Marcus Warner on this episode where they talk about how to build habits that fill our lives with greater joy and satisfaction. Based on the latest neuroscience and attachment theory--but written in everyday language--The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled People book is practical and easy to comprehend. The authors provide exercises and tools you can put into practice immediately. Download the book here: 4habits.org

Experience the joy and abundant life God intended for you in your relationships. Learn how to be heard and feel connected. In this episode, Nina and Shy share their experience from a previous Strength and Dignity Conference.

Now is the time to experience the joy and abundant life God intended for you in your relationships! If you feel like this event could empower you to make positive and imperative changes in your relationships, join our Strength and Dignity Women's Conference on May 17-21, at Jesuit Center, Milford, OH.

Register here: https://courses.greaterimpact.org/strength-dignity-conference

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today.

This episode is a must-watch! Join Nina and Shy as they talk about how to deal with a complainer in your relationship.

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Wives, join our e-course Strength and Dignity which can help you connect deeply with your spouse, we also offer courses that equip married couples to live a transformed life. Visit our website to know more, greaterimpact.org.

This episode is a must-watch! Join Nina and Shy as they talked about self-respect.

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Wives, join our e-course Strength and Dignity which can help you connect deeply with your spouse, we also offer courses that equip married couples to live a transformed life. Visit our website to know more, greaterimpact.org.

This episode is a must-watch! Join Nina and Kyle as they talk about how to navigate pain.

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Wives, join our e-course Strength and Dignity which can help you connect deeply with your spouse, we also offer courses that equip married couples to live a transformed life. Visit our website to know more, greaterimpact.org.

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Wives, join our e-course Strength and Dignity which can help you connect deeply with your spouse, we also offer courses that equip married couples to live a transformed life. Visit our website to know more, greaterimpact.org.

Angelica asked her husband to help her with the dishes. Her husband replied that since she did not help him with his favor earlier, he won't help her with the dishes. Do you feel like your marriage starts to feel transactional? Do your relationships feel like work? You won’t want to miss this episode with Nina & Shy if you ever find yourself in this situation.

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Wives, join our e-course Strength and Dignity which can help you connect deeply with your spouse, we also offer courses that equip married couples to live a transformed life. Visit our website to know more, greaterimpact.org.

Join Nina and Kyle as they dig into this topic. Learn how to work together as a team to keep your marriage healthy and happy! Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Join Nina and Kyle as they dig into this topic. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

“I never would have yelled at you if you hadn’t said that to me first,” “You’re the one who’s always starting these damn arguments,” or “You’re the real problem in this relationship.” Does this seem fit for you when you are arguing with someone else? Or do you hear these things when you're arguing with someone, especially your spouse?

Join Nina and Shy as they discuss what to say when you're hit below the belt in conflict. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Join Nina and Shy as they talk about what to say when boundaries become punitive. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Join our free webinar! 2.0 Your Marriage is for you if you want to fix your marriage and connect deeply with your spouse. Register here! https://greaterimpactcouples.org/free-2-0-marriage-webinar

Have you had any experience with delusion in your relationship? How did you deal with it? Join Nina and Shy as they talk about what to say when a delusion happens in your relationships. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Join our free webinar! 2.0 Your Marriage is for you if you want to fix your marriage and connect deeply with your spouse. Register here! https://greaterimpactcouples.org/free-2-0-marriage-webinar

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Are you willing to fight for your marriage but don't know where to start and how to do it? Listen to Nina and Kyle as they navigate this topic. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Mira's husband wants to buy a new car to replace his old car. Mira disagrees with his plan because they're about to purchase a new house and can't afford a new car when he still has a capable but old vehicle. Her husband started to view Mira as the villain because she went against his desires. She doesn't know what to do anymore to make her husband understand her point. Listen to Nina and Shy as they discuss what to say and do when you are the villain in someone else's story. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Christine asked her husband to join her in praying for their family and eventually lead it. Her husband asked in shock, "You want me to do what?". Are you like this? Are you afraid to lead prayer? Are you spending time praying with your spouse?

Listen to Nina and Kyle as they discuss why you need to pray out loud with your family. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Mila feels like her marriage is unraveling because she and her husband stopped believing in the best of each other and started assuming the worst behind every action. They continued to choose hate over understanding and it destroyed their intimacy.

Are you in a similar situation? Want to rediscover and reset your marriage? Join Nina and Kyle as they navigate this topic. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Ellen's manager is making their team do a new strategy to help boost sales. Ellen wanted to talk to her manager about strategy because it is against company's policies but she doesn't know how to speak the truth to power. Join Nina and Shy as they navigate on what to say and do if you're in this situation. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Does your spouse's default answer always "I don't know"? Join Nina and Kyle as they navigate this issue. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Beth is fed up with her husband always being hard on her and their kids. She doesn't know what to do anymore because he always apologizes but doesn't do anything to change his attitude. She did everything she could to help her husband. Do you struggle the same way? Is having a repentant heart missing in your relationship?

Maybe it's time to back down and let God act in your relationship. Join Nina and Shy as they talk about what to do when godly sorrow is a miss in your relationship. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Penny felt an increased agitation or disgust every time she see her husband. Her husband always hears passive-aggressive words and sarcastic remarks from her every time they talked but he doesn't know the reason why Penny acts that way.

Are you having a hard time identifying or dealing with resentment? Want to know how to prevent resentment in your marriage? Check out this helpful episode where Kyle Hargrove and Nina Roesner talked about this fungus that eats and destroys relationships. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Your partner wants you to notify him ahead of time every time you go out with your friends, but he's spontaneous in making plans with his friends. He gets upset when you don't notify him and blame you for being selfish and immature when you try to reason with him. What to do in this situation? Join Nina and Shy as they navigate this challenging situation. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Your listening to your husband talked about the fun they had at their work Christmas celebration and while listening a thought occurred in your mind: "Why he's not this enthusiastic when he's with me?". You're there listening but there are tons of negative thoughts on your mind that are now hindering you from building deeper connections with your spouse. What to do? Listen to Nina as she navigates this topic. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Andrea was talking to her friend when she ranted about getting sick all the time. Her friend casually said she should go to the gym because she was getting a bit fat. How would you react if you received unsolicited advice? Join Nina and Shy as they navigate this challenging situation. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Kate told her husband that she wanted to be a pianist so she signed up for an online course but her husband shrugged it off and said she don't have what it takes to be a pianist. How would you react if this happened to you? Join Nina & Shy as they talk about what to say when hateful words or actions come your way. Grab our free pdf on the website, https://greaterimpact.org, and learn how to STOP walking on eggshells today!

Sarah notices that she does things for her husband, but she can't say he does the same for her. Can you relate to this? Are you the only one who puts work into the relationship? Don't know what to do or say? Join Nina & Kyle as they talk about what to do when you're in a one-sided relationship. Grab our free pdf on the website, https://greaterimpact.org, and learn how to STOP walking on eggshells today!

When you commit or say you'll do something for your spouse or family and then don't keep your word, you're letting them down and hurting your relationships.

What to do if you break your commitments? How often do you do this? Are you stuck in this cycle? Join Nina & Shy as they talk about what to say when promises are broken in your relationship. Grab our free pdf on the website, https://greaterimpact.org, and learn how to STOP walking on eggshells today!

Kate doesn’t allow her husband to go out with his friends unless she’s with him. Her husband feels like she doesn’t trust him and that she takes issues with the friendships he has with others. These cause tension in their marriage. Join Nina & Kyle as they talk about what to do in this kind of situation. Grab our free pdf on the website, https://greaterimpact.org, and learn how to STOP walking on eggshells today!

Jenna's husband walked out of her brother's wedding reception last night after getting upset about not getting the food he liked. Jenna made an excuse for him and covered up his actions as a way to protect him. Is this the right thing to do? Join Nina and Shy as they navigate this challenging situation. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Mike and her wife, Denise, fought last week and he wants to address the conflict head-on, but her wife isn’t very comfortable talking about things, so every time he approaches her, she starts to feel put on the spot and pulls away a little bit when conflict starts to bubble up.

When conflict is mismanaged, it can cause great harm to the marriage, but when handled in a respectful way, conflict provides an opportunity to strengthen the relationship. Join Nina and Kyle as they unpack some details you may not have heard about running into conflict. If you've been through these before but are stuck, you might find this episode wildly helpful. Grab our free eBook, "5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells" from our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and change your relationships today!

THROWBACK EPISODE!

You know that moment when your throat gets caught, your heart starts to race, and you sense conflict coming on? Fight, Flight, or Freeze, are your choices, thanks to our brain design. AND... because of woundings from our past, lies we believe, and vows we have made. Join Nina and Shy as they unpack some details you may not have heard about Inner Healing Prayer and Deliverance. If you've been through these before but are stuck, you might find this episode wildly helpful. Grab our free eBook, "5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells" from our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and change your relationships today!

Jane told her husband about how exhausted she is after taking care of the household for the whole week and needed one day to rest. Her husband nodded and then proceeded with what he was doing. What do you think is wrong here?

It’s hard to speak, to try and communicate with your partner only to see your words fall on deaf ears. Join Nina & Kyle on today's episode on what to say that increases the chances of you getting heard. Grab our free pdf on the website, https://greaterimpact.org, and learn how to STOP walking on eggshells today!

Jane told her husband about how exhausted she is after taking care of the household for the whole week and needed one day to rest. Her husband nodded and then proceeded with what he was doing. What do you think is wrong here?

It’s hard to speak, to try and communicate with your partner only to see your words fall on deaf ears. Join Nina & Kyle on today's episode on what to say that increases the chances of you getting heard. Grab our free pdf on the website, https://greaterimpact.org, and learn how to STOP walking on eggshells today!

Jane told her husband about how exhausted she is after taking care of the household for the whole week and needed one day to rest. Her husband nodded and then proceeded with what he was doing. What do you think is wrong here?

It’s hard to speak, to try and communicate with your partner only to see your words fall on deaf ears. Join Nina & Kyle on today's episode on what to say that increases the chances of you getting heard. Grab our free pdf on the website, https://greaterimpact.org, and learn how to STOP walking on eggshells today!

Sheena feels like she can’t share her thoughts and feelings with his husband because she is afraid that it might upset him like what happened in the past. Jed, her husband, found out about this and assured her wife that he won't react poorly if she expresses herself, and voice her needs, boundaries, and feelings to him because he wanted to understand her.

But what about those who have spouses that communicate poorly? What do you need to do? Do you feel unsafe in your marriage? Join Nina & Shy on today's episode on what to do when you need safety in your marriage. Grab our free pdf on the website, https://greaterimpact.org, and learn how to STOP walking on eggshells today!

Jim wants to join a marathon with his wife but she declined because she's not into physical activities. He expressed his disappointment to her and told her that they should always do things together. This causes tension in their marriage.

We all have different interests and expectations, but they don’t have to derail your relationship. Join Nina & Kyle on today's episode on what to do when unreasonable expectations are in your marriage. Grab our free pdf on the website, https://greaterimpact.org, and learn how to STOP walking on eggshells today!

You have a long to-do list but spend the day watching your favorite shows and you didn't want your partner to know, so you try to make it look like you've worked hard all day. Is cognitive dissonance keeping you stuck? Join Nina & Shy as they discuss dealing with cognitive dissonance in relationships. Grab our free pdf on the website, https://greaterimpact.org, and learn how to STOP walking on eggshells today!

Lily and her husband had an argument last night about financial disagreements and she brought up that she resented him over the years for not making more than enough for their financial needs ever since they had a kid. Her husband was shocked because she didn't know Lily feels this way. Join Nina and Kyle as they navigate this challenging situation. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Jane was wondering why her husband was cold and uninterested in her intimately. Then she found her husband watching disturbing videos and felt betrayed. Pornography is a big deal and can have a significant impact on your marriage. Join Shy and our special guest, former Judge Kent Levis as they talk through what to do in this space. Kent is also the author of Come Clean, you can grab a copy from Amazon or any other major retailer at https://www.amazon.com/COMING-CLEAN-W-Kent-Levis/dp/1637460791

Joe is confused about why every time there's a conflict with his wife, she brings up things from his past mistake. Do you bring past issues caused by your spouse when in an argument to not feel guilty?

What's the right thing to do? Join Nina and Shy as they navigate this challenging situation. Be sure to grab our free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Do you feel disregarded or alone? But no one is empathizing with you? Join Nina and Shy as they navigate this challenging situation. Be sure to grab our free pdf off our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

Maybe your partner or you struggle with psychological issues. Do they impact your relationship? Join Nina & Shy as they talk with author Stacey McDonald about her book, The Gospel of Mental Health.

You can grab a copy from Amazon or any other major retailer at https://www.amazon.com/Gospel-Mental-Health-Hell-Wellness/dp/1631958569/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2MOFNR8UNNFLW&keywords=the+gospel+of+mental+health&qid=1666672080&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjMyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4wMCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMDAifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=the+gospel+of+mental+health%2Caps%2C166&sr=8-1

Jo couldn't understand why his wife wouldn't hang in there and finish the discussion. She had a hard time working through difficult conversations without becoming emotional. Estrella was surprised Jo couldn't understand how his direct and confrontational tone just made everything worse. What should they do? Join Nina and Shy as they navigate this challenging situation. Be sure to grab our free pdf off our website, https://greaterimpact.org and Stop Walking on Eggshells today!

You've been to the workshops, paid the therapists, read the books and are still stuck in conflict, miserable in your marriage. Join Nina & Kyle Hargrove as they dig into how self-awareness either positively or negatively impacts our relationships. Grab our free pdf off https://greaterimpact.org and STOP walking on eggshells today!

You've been to the workshops, paid the therapists, read the books and are still stuck in conflict, miserable in your marriage. Join Nina & Kyle Hargrove as they dig into how self-awareness either positively or negatively impacts our relationships. Grab our free pdf off https://greaterimpact.org and STOP walking on eggshells today!

Your spouse just dropped a bomb on you and now they are upset that YOU are upset!! WHAT?? How's that work? How do we deal with people who do something TERRIBLE and then focus on how we react when we find out? Join Nina & Shy as they talk about this tough subject today. Grab our free pdf, Stop Walking on Eggshells off the website, https://greaterimpact.org and change your relationships today!

Your spouse just dropped a bomb on you and now they are upset that YOU are upset!! WHAT?? How's that work? How do we deal with people who do something TERRIBLE and then focus on how we react when we find out? Join Nina & Shy as they talk about this tough subject today. Grab our free pdf, Stop Walking on Eggshells off the website, https://greaterimpact.org and change your relationships today!

You have time after work, on the weekend, and what are you doing and who are you spending it with? Nina & Kyle talk about how necessary a support system is and how it impacts your marriage.

You have time after work, on the weekend, and what are you doing and who are you spending it with? Nina & Kyle talk about how necessary a support system is and how it impacts your marriage.

Your spouse and you have a disagreement, and both of you strongly believe your solution to a problem is the right one. What to do? How do you navigate this? Join Nina & Shy as they talk through how to deal with different mindsets in relationships. Grab our free pdf in the website, https://greaterimpact.org, and learn how to STOP walking on eggshells today!

Your spouse and you have a disagreement, and both of you strongly believe your solution to a problem is the right one. What to do? How do you navigate this? Join Nina & Shy as they talk through how to deal with different mindsets in relationships. Grab our free pdf in the website, https://greaterimpact.org, and learn how to STOP walking on eggshells today!

Your spouse has just said NO, they WON'T go to the festival with you, and you are confused. What happened? Things were going along fine, and yeah, so you had a brief argument, but seems like things have cooled down... what gives? Relatable? Join Nina & Kyle as they talk about dealing with others' boundaries. Grab our free pdf Stop Walking On Eggshells from our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and improve your relationships today!

Your spouse has just said NO, they WON'T go to the festival with you, and you are confused. What happened? Things were going along fine, and yeah, so you had a brief argument, but seems like things have cooled down... what gives? Relatable? Join Nina & Kyle as they talk about dealing with others' boundaries. Grab our free pdf Stop Walking On Eggshells from our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and improve your relationships today!

How do you react when someone insulted you or dismissed you? Join Nina and Shy in uncovering how to avoid many conflicts when you're insulted.Grab our short pdf, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and learn more - https://greaterimpact.org

Carl felt invalidated and accused when his wife came to him to confront him about the missing $2000 in their joint account. He knows he didn't touch it, but her wife keeps accusing him and not letting him defend himself. Join Nina to know what to do and say when you're in this situation when you feel invalidated.

Grab our short pdf, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and learn more - https://greaterimpact.org

Feeling down? Wishing for things to change? Join Nina and Kyle Hargrove as they talk about what to say!

Grab our pdf off our website, https://greaterimpact.org

Feeling down? Wishing for things to change? Join Nina and Kyle Hargrove as they talk about what to say!

Grab our pdf off our website, https://greaterimpact.org

You have spent years trying to connect, trying to have a good marriage, and your spouse just can't seem to understand your concerns, hear your issues, put your needs ahead of theirs, and you are so frustrated, maybe even ready to give up. What do you say? What can you DO? Join Nina & Shy for HOPE and strategy today. Grab our pdf for more help in changing your relationships today at https://greaterimpact.org

You have spent years trying to connect, trying to have a good marriage, and your spouse just can't seem to understand your concerns, hear your issues, put your needs ahead of theirs, and you are so frustrated, maybe even ready to give up. What do you say? What can you DO? Join Nina & Shy for HOPE and strategy today. Grab our pdf for more help in changing your relationships today at https://greaterimpact.org

Your spouse is losing their everlovin' mind all over you, emoting up a storm you'd love to escape from. What to do? How to respond? What options do you have other than acting the same way THEY are, thinking maybe that will get you heard? Not a chance. Join Nina, Shy, and Kyle as they talk through options in this space. Grab the free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and STOP Walking on Eggshells today!

Your spouse is losing their everlovin' mind all over you, emoting up a storm you'd love to escape from. What to do? How to respond? What options do you have other than acting the same way THEY are, thinking maybe that will get you heard? Not a chance. Join Nina, Shy, and Kyle as they talk through options in this space. Grab the free pdf of our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and STOP Walking on Eggshells today!

Everyone knows that internal pressure of being STUCK thinking they HAVE TO do a thing someone wants... what do you do? How do you justify saying NO - especially when you don't want to disappoint the other person? Join Nina & Shy as they take a look at how saying NO could be the best thing for your relationship - and how your own identity issues show up in the struggle. Are YOU dealing with this common relationship mistake? Overcome it! Grab our short pdf, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and learn more - https://greaterimpact.org

Everyone knows that internal pressure of being STUCK thinking they HAVE TO do a thing someone wants... what do you do? How do you justify saying NO - especially when you don't want to disappoint the other person? Join Nina & Shy as they take a look at how saying NO could be the best thing for your relationship - and how your own identity issues show up in the struggle. Are YOU dealing with this common relationship mistake? Overcome it! Grab our short pdf, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and learn more - https://greaterimpact.org

Does your spouse spend a ton of time on their device? Do you? Learn what that could be doing to your relationship as Nina & Kyle Hargrove talk through the impact our phones are having on our marriages. Are YOU dealing with this common relationship mistake? Grab our short pdf, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and learn more - https://greaterimpact.org

Does your spouse spend a ton of time on their device? Do you? Learn what that could be doing to your relationship as Nina & Kyle Hargrove talk through the impact our phones are having on our marriages. Are YOU dealing with this common relationship mistake? Grab our short pdf, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and learn more - https://greaterimpact.org

Sarah was 100% sure she knew what her husband was thinking. She "just knew" he was trying to embarrass her in front of her friends when he joked with her last night. What she didn't know was that the odds of her being correct were VERY low. The data is in! Are YOU dealing with this common relationship mistake? Grab our short pdf, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and learn more - https://greaterimpact.org

Sarah was 100% sure she knew what her husband was thinking. She "just knew" he was trying to embarrass her in front of her friends when he joked with her last night. What she didn't know was that the odds of her being correct were VERY low. The data is in! Are YOU dealing with this common relationship mistake? Grab our short pdf, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and learn more - https://greaterimpact.org

We know people who just can't see their issues, even when they are right in front of them. Join Nina and Kyle as they talk about dealing with blindness in ourselves and others. Grab the PDF and stop walking on eggshells today - greaterimpact.org

We know people who just can't see their issues, even when they are right in front of them. Join Nina and Kyle as they talk about dealing with blindness in ourselves and others. Grab the PDF and stop walking on eggshells today - greaterimpact.org

How do you navigate the challenge of someone lying to you? Join Nina and Shy as they navigate this hard topic on today's podcast. Grab our PDF and stop walking on eggshells in your relationships today - greaterimpact.org

How do you navigate the challenge of someone lying to you? Join Nina and Shy as they navigate this hard topic on today's podcast. Grab our PDF and stop walking on eggshells in your relationships today - greaterimpact.org

Sometimes we apologize for things that are not ours to own in our relationships. Are you doing that? Sometimes we don't apologize when we need to, thinking the situation will just get better if we don't mention it again. That erodes trust, and can be the beginning of the end. Join Nina as she shares briefly about this topic to change your relationships today - be sure to grab our PDF, Stop Walking on Eggshells, off the website at greaterimpact.org

Did you know masterful conflict skills aren't enough to build a beautiful relationship? We spend a lot of time talking about conflict, but there is one conversation skill that will make a huge difference if you will learn it. Join Nina & Kyle Hargrove as they explore this simple, easy to learn tool. Be sure to grab our pdf off the website, https://greaterimpact.org and stop walking on eggshells in your marriage today!

You know the drill, they are blaming, maybe even blaming YOU, and they just can't see what's real around them. How do you interact with that? What can you say to deal with the dreaded victim mentality? Join Nina and Shy as they explore this topic today! Grab our free pdf, STOP Walking on Eggshells, off our website at https://greaterimpact.org and solve some of your relationship issues today!

Dena felt frustrated. Seems like all she ever heard was complaining from her husband. She had fallen into that habit herself, and wondered how to change. Sound familiar? Join Nina as she gives you a tangible thing you can SAY to change your marriage. Stop by our website and grab our free pdf Stop Walking on Eggshells and change your relationships today at greaterimpact.org

You may have seen a video "It's not about the nail," where a woman is complaining to her husband about head pain and has a nail sticking out of her forehead. He is frustrated, tries to fix her problem, but she resists until he shows compassion. Why are we trying to deal with things in ways that don't work? Join Nina & Kyle as they talk through how the problem really isn't the problem. Grab our free pdf, Stop Walking on Eggshells from our website, greaterimpact.org and change your marriage today!

Carol didn't get it... she moved back in with Stefan after they finished the conflict skills week-long training from an international ministry. Thousands of dollars spent. And YES, they had fewer conflicts. Why was she still so unhappy? What was missing? Join Nina as she shares the SAD SURPRISE few know - maybe this secret can help YOU change your marriage today! Check out our FREE pdf, Stop Walking on Eggshells, on our website, http://greaterimpact.org and start changing YOUR relationships today!

Maybe you feel like you need to protect your spouse from your feelings, maybe you think the people at church wouldn't accept you if they knew what you really think. Maybe you are scared to tell your kids you don't really know what you are doing in a tough situation at home... sound familiar?

Join Nina and Kyle Hargrove as they take a look at the challenges of authenticity, and faking it in our relationships. Be sure to grab our free pdf off our website, https://greaterimpact.org , and learn how to stop walking on eggshells today!

Loraine knew that she was NOT to blame for her husband's gambling debt. She knew the depletion of their savings was entirely his choice. Angered, feeling alone, she worried about how they would make ends meet. It wasn't fair that he'd done this to them. Join Nina and Kyle as they explore what savvy spouses do to deal with outcomes they didn't have a choice in. Grab our pdf, STOP Walking on Eggshells from our website, greaterimpact.org

Jeffrey felt frustrated with trying to get his wife to understand how her behavior affected him. He'd brought up the rude comments she made to her dad about him felt, and she dismissed him. How could he get her to see her behavior was damaging their marriage? Can you relate? Join Nina and Shy as they talk about how taking responsibility is an issue for many relationships, and what you can do about it. Grab our pdf, Stop Walking on Eggshells from https//:greaterimpact.org

You know the feeling, words come out sideways at you, and BAM! damage is done. How do you deal with unjust criticism before it happens and after? What's often the cause? Join Nina & Shy as they dig into this marriage-destroying behavior. Be sure to grab our pdf on how to STOP Walking on Eggshells from https://greaterimpact.org

You've been praying and begging God to move... and finally He does! NOW WHAT? Be careful or you'll get in the way of the coming awesome! Tune in to Nina and Kyle as they chat about this phenomenon that makes or breaks marriages - dealing with change. Be sure to grab our pdf on how to STOP Walking on Eggshells from https://greaterimpact.org

You've been praying and begging God to move... and finally He does! NOW WHAT? Be careful or you'll get in the way of the coming awesome! Tune in to Nina and Kyle as they chat about this phenomenon that makes or breaks marriages - dealing with change. Be sure to grab our pdf on how to STOP Walking on Eggshells from https://greaterimpact.org

Are you tired of being tired? Fed up with the stress of trying to fix your relationship? Are you wondering what you could be doing differently to salvage your marriage and family? Join Nina and Kyle as they discuss three things you have to stop doing to save your marriage. It starts with you. Dig into our free pdf on "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" at https://greaterimpact.org and build connections in your relationships today!

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Tonya stared with disbelief at her coworker, Elise. The words spoken over her were hateful, mean, not to mention unprofessional. Elise had a reputation for being a powder keg, and most of the staff avoided her as they never knew what would set her off. We all have a relationship with someone who has a short fuse. That anger often triggers an anger response in us, and so the cycle begins. Listen to today's episode as Nina and Shy explore ways to deal with anger. Stop by Https://greaterimpact.org and grab our ebook, 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells!

Wondering why you keep having challenging situations, frustrating outcomes, or disagreements? Wishing you could STOP feeling like garbage and being taken advantage of? Join Nina and Licensed Professional Counselor, Kyle Hargrove, as they discuss two things you have to stop doing to save your marriage. Be sure to skim our free pdf on "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" at https://greaterimpact.org and build connections in your relationships today!

In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, listen to Nina & Shy as they explore what are the 3 keys to becoming a respected person in our relationships. Join them and learn more! Get more help from our free pdf, 5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells on our website, https://greaterimpact.org

Your spouse comes home late again, doesn't call, doesn't text, and you notice the chore they said they'd do is still undone. Moreover, no real communication other than kid logistics for months, and sex is hardly happening.... What to do? Check out today's episode where Nina and Shy discuss what to do to not give up, and get more help from our free pdf, 5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells on our website, https://greaterimpact.org

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You KNOW that feeling... the dread, the gut twist, the thing that happens when we agree to do something we don't want to do because we're afraid someone else will have a fit. I've had it, too.

It's lousy. And controlling.

We waste time walking on eggshells, and over time, the relationship degenerates into something super unhealthy. Want to STOP that? Listen to today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It and learn how to speak up, navigate conflict, and deal with your own negative emotions. Grab your copy of "5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells" from https://greaterimpact.org !

Even Christians have differing opinions on this decision - here's what to do to avoid ESTRANGEMENT as an outcome - trust me, that's a real thing to be concerned about. Dig into our free pdf on "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" at https://greaterimpact.org and build connection in your relationships today!

Clara felt trapped in the hallway as she listened to Stefan drone on and on... and on... complaint after complaint about his work situation. Then he criticized the neighbor's poor choice of dog breed, noting the short legs of the Basset Hound and its howling. "I wish he would just shut up," she thought to herself. "He never asks me about me, the kids, my job... just more about him and his opinions." She wondered why she'd ever been attracted to so much selfishness. A HUGE mistake in asking him how his day was! What she didn't know was WHY she felt like this! Have you ever been Stefan? Wonder what you're doing to disrespect yourself and others AND create distance in relationships? Listen in today as Nina & Shy talk about 3 keys to creating mutual respect in sticky situations, even if you think you'll fail!

Grab our free download at https://greaterimpact.org and STOP Walking on Eggshells today!

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You discover one of your closest friends overshares about a touchy situation in your life and a few of your other church friends find out about it. You're angry, concerned about the gossip, and feel betrayed. What do you do? How do you solve this common problem, when someone injures you, even when it is unintentional? Aren't we supposed just to overlook the insults and turn the other cheek?

Check out today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It and learn what you can do to level up your relationships! You can also grab our free ebook at https://greaterimpact.org called, "5 Tools to STOP walking on Eggshells!"

Darla droned on and on about the doctor's appointment for their preschooler. She seemed concerned, but Nick couldn't remember about what, she took so many tangents when she talked. What was she doing that made it so hard to listen to her? Check out today's podcast with Nina & Kyle Hargrove as they talk through Emotional Physics, and the ONE skill everyone needs in their marriage. Grab our free download at https://greaterimpact.org and STOP Walking on Eggshells today!

Kevin realized early in his marriage that his wife had more patience, was kinder, and more gentle than he was. WHY? Finally, he asked her, and the answer surprised him, "No, baby, that's our Jesus you're seeing." Stumped, he asked God about this. How could that be a thing? What could HE do to allow Christ to rule his heart, mind, and words more easily? Check out this episode of What to Say & How to Say It where Nina & author Doris Homan talk through how our salvation and Christian faith walk is also an opportunity for deeper connection in marriage. Check out our free download, Stop Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpact.org

We get married with these notions of happiness and holiness and find ourselves struggling with what healthy actually looks like. Christian myths might be part of the problem. Join Nina and Kyle as they discuss myths some of their clients have believed, and how that impacts the marriage negatively. Be sure to grab our PDF on how to STOP Walking on Eggshells from our website, Https://greaterimpact.org

There's a fine line between hope and stupidity, where we leave reality and keep having wishful thinking - that ironically often lands us in hopeLESSness. Listen in today as Nina and Shy talk about how the verse, Love always Hopes, comes into play when your relationship is a mess. Be sure to grab our free PDF called "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" from our website, https://greaterimpact.org

Jered listened to his wife's apology about the affair in the counselor's office. She seemed sincere, said she had changed her ways, but she's done that before, too. As a Christian, was he supposed to just trust her now? Love always trusts, right? Explore this Biblical command and what we believe it means with Nina & Shy in today's episode. Check out our free eBook, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells," on our website, https://greaterimpact.org

You want things to be different. Your spouse says everything is fine. What to do? What needs to be in place to change a relationship? Join Nina & Kyle as they dig into what the process is for change to occur in your relationships. Grab our free resource, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells," from our website, https://greaterimpact.org, and change your relationships today!

Javin saw his son struggle with the other boys at school, picked on, probably because of his accent. "I'm not going to slay your dragon, son, I'm giving you a sword." Join Nina and Shy as they discuss what it means for love to protect and how to notice if you're being controlling, as we talk about the best gifts we can give those we care about most. Check out our free eBook, Stop Walking on Eggshells and change your relationships today at https://greaterimpact.org

Sheila recognized her daughter's silence as deserved. While right about the boundaries with a curfew, she knew her tone had been too harsh, and now her daughter wouldn't even look at her. What to do? Can you relate? Even when right, we can cause damage.

Join Nina and Kyle as they explore what to do when we create relational damage. For more, check out our website and grab our free eBook, Stop Walking on Eggshells! https://greaterimpact.org

Louisa thought to herself, "Well, now THERE's some decent reaping and sowing! Serves him right! I told him so! Keep making fun of their daughter in front of her friends, and a day of reckoning was coming!" and there it played out, Seth receiving a tongue -lashing like nobody's business from his fifteen-year-old daughter. Can you relate? Ever feel just a little bit good when someone "gets what's coming to them?" Check out today's episode and hear what Nina and Shy have to reveal about this topic. Grab our free eBook off our website, https://greaterimpact.org "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and feel better about your relationships today!

In this episode, we deviate from our normal relationship focus to deal with a "what to say" as a concerned citizen - if you live in a country where voting is a thing, NOW is the time to make your voices heard. If you live in the United States, please listen to this short episode. Below is the information on what some are saying is the groundwork for uncontrollable power...

There is a discussion regarding the “strengthening of the International Health Regulations” scheduled to happen on Tuesday, May 24, 2022. Even if you are hearing this AFTER that has occurred, there is still much you can do.

https://www.who.int/about/governance/world-health-assembly/seventy-fifth-world-health-assembly

I've attached three good articles below you could use to get to your US Senators and House Member, Governor, or State Attorney General. Please CALL the House Switchboard at 202-456-1111 and let them know your name and where you are calling from and ask to speak to your Representative and Senator.

No, the info hasn't gone to everyone, there hasn't been time. If everyone can get info to their representatives and demand they vote on these amendments, that would help.

https://leohohmann.com/2022/04/25/global-govt-alert-threat-to-national-sovereignty-set-to-go-down-may-22-28-at-who-world-health-assembly/

https://www.americaoutloud.com/biden-handing-over-u-s-sovereignty-to-who/

https://www.gatestoneinstitute.org/18534/who-death-trap

Some Senators are pushing back against this story of the proposed Biden amendments to be voted on May 22-8, 2022, in Geneva, Switzerland, at the World Health Assembly (the UN governing body of the WHO), because it’s hard to believe, but I’ve examined the amendments. One objection is that the International Health Rules of the World Health Assembly (which the US signed onto in 2005), contains an “out” clause that allows a member nation to withdraw from the rules. Formerly, nations could choose to comply with International Health Rules or they could opt-out.

The original opt-out clause still remains in the current rules document even if the Biden amendments are adopted, but the new amendments proposed by Biden completely undermine that opt-out clause. Article 12 section 2 line 6 strikes the 194 nations' healthcare officers as decision-makers over healthcare decisions within their nations and instead transfers that decision-making authority to the Director-General of The UN’s healthcare agency, the World Health Organization—(the WHO).

The Biden amendments strengthen the WHO and undermine US sovereignty.

We've just lived through 2 1/2 years of medical authoritarianism in the US, including forcing us to stay locked up for 15 days, shutting down businesses, throwing people out of work, forcing vaccines on people involuntarily, and mask-wearing.

We witnessed mandating school and public and private closures, denying people standard healthcare procedures, all in the name of Covid.

The US CDC issued a recommendation and Biden told people they no longer had to pay rent, leaving apartment landlords with bills to pay, but no money from rent to pay them. Congress did not vote for any of these actions. Biden just issued orders, (and Trump did, too), on the basis of emergency powers.

We are still living under emergency powers declared by Biden, with no ending date.

All these actions were not voted on by congress. These were just recommendations made by Fauci and the CDC, but these recommendations were portrayed to the public as though they were law when they were not. This includes forced vaccines under the pain of losing employment. We continue to experience complete violations of our first amendment rights. Authoritarian actions could easily happen on a global scale by empowering the Director-General of WHO as the Biden amendments seek to do.

The proposed Biden amendments to the International Health Rules weaken the US and other nations’ authority over healthcare decisions and strengthens global authority through the World Health Organization, Director General at the UN.

Could a nation technically say they won't follow the WHO Director General's orders?

Yes, but ask yourself, why is the Biden administration seeking to pass amendments at the governing body of the WHA to singularly empower the Director-General of the WHO and undermine the authority of US healthcare officials? The amendments are intended to show the policy orientation of the Biden administration toward global decision-making and undermine US sovereignty over healthcare.

Thoughts from Michele Bachmann:

In the US we have lived under emergency orders from Presidents, Governors, and Mayors for 2 1/2 years.

These emergency orders have destroyed lives, businesses, our healthcare delivery system, and the ability to speak one’s opinion which differs from our government, together with the American economy.

We have suffered devastating losses.

We operate under emergency orders in the US today, as declared by President Biden, with no ending date in sight.

The proposed Biden amendments strengthen the WHO by allowing the Director-General to unilaterally declare a public health emergency of international concern, intermediate, or regional without the consent of the state.

Recall, that FB wouldn’t allow any posting that disagreed with pronouncements by the WHO. In fact, people were banned from FB for disagreeing with the WHO—because FB only wanted to disseminate WHO opinions so they silenced dissent.

Twitter practiced the same policy as FB as did Google.

Woke corporations enforced mandates on employees and customers, often citing the CDC which followed WHO recommendations.

The CDC said they would follow WHO recommendations as though it was law!

Celebrities bragged about following WHO guidelines and shamed those who didn’t.

When Trump pulled US money from the WHO, globalist Bill Gates, the largest private funder of the WHO made up the difference.

Clearly, the globalists want the WHO to have even more emergency powers over our healthcare. They want the WHO to make declarations and statements that will be treated as having the effect of law, even if WHI pronouncements don’t have the force of law!

If WHO declarations are held up as law by the Biden administration, (as this administration has done for 2 1/2 years),

then we know from experience the Biden administration will do as they are told by WHO.

America still has our constitution, but for 2 1/2 years, it was ignored by Congress, the president, and many justices.

That’s what happened in the US.

Congress didn’t pass mask mandates, vax mandates, or lockdowns.

Congress didn’t pass laws to close private businesses, or churches, or impose a moratorium on the payment of rent, leaving landlords with no rental income to pay their obligations.

Many of these extraordinary unconstitutional actions were imposed on the American people simply because Dr. Fauci or Birx or the CDC made a recommendation.

That is a law by press statements!

Presidents Trump and Biden exercised broad powers based on emergency declarations.

The same will be true in practice by UN member states because the states willingly are choosing to relinquish individual nation-state decision-making over healthcare to the WHO as a global body of states.

Law isn’t required if emergency declarations are treated as law by formerly sovereign states. Call. 202-456-1111. Let them know you want out of WHO, and an END to Emergency Powers. Respectfully, of course!

Check out our website: https://greaterimpact.org

David fell into bed exhausted after a long day at work, running kids to sports, picking the dog up from the groomer, and grabbing dinner for the family. Fast food. Again. Karla noticed him walk in the house and called out a cheerful, "hello!" Over the din of the kids, he barely heard her, grumped a "yup," in response, and slowly found his way to the den. An hour later, his wife found him there, basketball game on the tv, David asleep again in his big chair. Can you relate? No matter which side of this equation you are on, you'll find encouragement from Nina & Kyle today as they talk about what to say TO YOURSELF to be your best and find your rest.

Check out our eBook, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells," by stopping by our website, https://greaterimpact.org and change your relationships today!

"Stressed" was Billie's middle name. Seemed like everyone BUT she knew that, however. What could she do? With two kids in soccer, a demanding job, and a husband that traveled, things were BUSY. She was the hostess for the neighborhood book club, so of course, her home had to look beautiful. On the outside, she seemed like she had it all together, smiled a ton, made everyone's day a little easier, and she didn't sense the tension undergirding all of her communications. Sound like someone you know? Worried it might be YOU? Join Nina & Kyle as they talk about anxiety and its impact on people with whom we're not even aware we are stressed. Check our website for a copy of "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and change your relationships today! https://greaterimpact.org

Eyes welling with tears, Louisa read the verse another time. Mikal confessed the affair only because she caught him - again. This made three women he shared himself with, violating their vows. Was God saying Mikal was off the hook with this? If she loved him, did that mean there were no consequences? Join us in today's episode as Nina and Shy pick apart this verse and apply it to our relationships. What does it really mean to keep no list of wrongs?

Be sure to stop by our website and grab your copy of "5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells" at https://greaterimpact.org and change your relationships today!

June waited impatiently, exhausted, for her 9-year-old's baseball game to finish. She knew she should be more aware of what was happening on the field, but she found herself distracted by the thoughts and emotions swirling in her head and heart. Her husband's death left her with three kids, a mortgage, no job, and the reality of loneliness daily licking like flames ready to destroy what little sense of self she had left. How was she going to get through this? Why had God allowed Keith to be taken from her so young? Where was the purpose of this? Tune into today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It while Nina & Kyle take you back to your past and find the gold that’s in there.

Be sure to stop by our website and grab your copy of "5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells" at https://greaterimpact.org and change your relationships today!

You know it when you see it - a look, an eye roll, a snide remark. Love is the LAST thing you feel when those are tossed your way - especially by someone who claims to love you. What to do? How do WE keep from being easily angered ourselves? You won't want to miss this episode with Nina & Shy if you ever find yourself dealing with anger in your love relationships. Check out our free eBook gift for you on our website, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells," and change your relationships today. https://greaterimpact.org

Deanna wondered if she should confront her brother about his behavior towards their mom. The older woman spent a ton of time alone, needed his help, and he lived so much closer to her than Deanna did. She couldn't tell if she was meddling or helping her mom out. She decided to call their sister, Claire, and ask her what she thought about it all. Can you relate? Got family drama? Wondering what to do? Tune into today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It while Nina & Kyle talk through some foolish relationship behaviors, how to tell if you're dealing with evil, and how to handle both. Be sure to grab our free eBook, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells," and start changing YOUR relationships today! https://GreaterImpact.org

Few of us know that LOVE does NOT dishonor others - yet we year for being respected in our relationships. Join Nina & Shy as they explore what it means to dishonor, how to respect others AND ourselves, and why that matters in relationships. Be sure to check out our free eBook, "5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells" at https://greaterimpact.org and change your relationships today!

Heart in his throat, feeling exasperated, angry, and finally hopeless for change, Jerome threw his hands into the air. "I don't know why I even try. You are the most disrespectful person I know!" he shouted, storming out of the room. Samantha stood dumbfounded, confused, and began to tear up. She'd done everything she knew to do, asked if he was open to a different perspective AFTER making sure she understood his opinion, and kept it simple. Why did he always blow up when she had a thought that was different than his, no matter how gentle and kind she was in presenting it? Got people like this in your life?

Join Nina & Kyle as they explore the difference between disagreement and arguing and how that difference can impact your relationships today.

Check out our website for the free eBook, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" and change your relationships today! https://greaterimpact.org

Christianity is full of myths, one being, "God won't give you any more than you can handle..." maybe that's true IN HIS STRENGTH, but everyone in the Bible and you and I today are being called outside our comfort zones daily. Join Nina and author and Bible teacher, Doris Homan, as they dig into a few Christian misquotes and misapplications that may be messing with your relationship with yourself or others, or even God! Check out our free eBook, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells," at https://greaterimpact.org

!" data-userid="1452634810791600128" data-orgid= "1452634810791600129">Louisa listened to Stewart go on and on and on and on... While her husband was intelligent and sometimes she did learn a new thing from him, she grew weary of time spent conversing. She often found herself feeling like she was in a lecture hall listening to a teacher drone on about the topic at hand. Stewart didn't have conversations, he gave sermons. If she tried to get a thought in, his condescending tone immediately shut down her desire to contribute or share her point of view, which was often very different from his. Maybe you have someone in your life that communicates they are smarter, wiser, etc., than you are, and you feel most of your conversations revolve around them. Join Nina & Shy as they walk through what is happening and how to avoid being that person yourself! Be sure to check out our website for our free eBook, "STOP Walking on Eggshells!" at https://greaterimpact.org !

" data-userid="1452634810791600128" data-orgid= "1452634810791600129">Every change, whether good or bad creates its own chaos - what we DO with that is important. Sometimes, we even need to START conflict so that the relationship can improve. Join in today while Nina & Kyle talk about the steps to change, the mindset that helps navigate change, and learn how to STOP being afraid of conflict!

" data-userid="1452634810791600128" data-orgid= "1452634810791600129">Be sure to grab our free ebook, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" from our website, https://greaterimpact.org

!" data-userid="1452634810791600128" data-orgid= "1452634810791600129">Research shows us that resentment stems from envy. Little places where we resent either the other person, their circumstances or blessings... we can resent our boss's vacation to the Bahamas, our spouse's freedom in going to work (or getting to stay home with the kids), or our friend getting picked to lead a study at church, or being elected to an office. Sometimes we don't even know we are experiencing these things because we're too busy judging or blaming the other person.

!" data-userid="1452634810791600128" data-orgid= "1452634810791600129">Let's dive into a new look at love and envy, join Nina & Shy as they poke around this topic. Be sure to grab our free ebook, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells," from our website, https://greaterimpact.org

Jeffrey sat stunned. He couldn't believe his wife didn't even ask him before making the big decision to get a dog. He stared at the kids playing with the puppy in disbelief. The heat of anger and disrespect bubbled up within him. "You okay?" Suzanna asked. "No. But I'm not going to talk about it now." He left the room. How we choose to interact with our mate determines the course of the relationship. We focus a lot on how submission applies to women, but we forget the husband is supposed to be submitting to God, Who tells him to lay down his life for his wife.

Want to find out more? Check out Nina & Kyle's discussion about how this topic impacts marriage. Be sure to download our free eBook, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" at https://greaterimpact.org

Jenelle opened her email and stared blankly at the notice from the bank... overdrawn... again. How could Stephan keep doing this to them? Both worked hard and wanted to build a nestegg for their little family, but Jenelle felt scared they'd even make the house payment now. When would the gambling stop? How could she help? She was angry, afraid, and didn't know what to do. Maybe it isn't gambling, but some other addiction or unhealthy treatment, sin even, that is running rampant in a loved one's life. You aren't helpless. Listen in today to Nina and Kyle Hargrove, LPC, as they talk about Boundaries in tougher places. Be sure to grab the free eBook, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells," off our website at https://greaterimpact.org.

How to be KIND in Conflict - Or maybe we should call this episode, "Why men can easily be interested in sex right after an argument..." Listen in as Nina and Shy talk about what kindness is, what it's not, and how to actually BE kind in the midst of a conflict. Pop over to our website and grab your FREE eBook, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells," at https://greaterimpact.org

"You're going with me tonight, right?" Lisa asked her husband, Daryl, when he walked into the family room. His heart beat a bit faster. He hated it when she did this. He'd already told her he was meeting his friends for dinner. Twice. He couldn't help it if she had a social she decided to go to after she learned his plans. "No, I am still going with the guys. We can do something tomorrow night." Lisat felt the emotions begin to rise. Why was he like this? They never spent any time together, he was always going out with his friends... The push-pull of negotiation is normal in relationships - to a certain extent. The moment someone makes it about them, boundaries start getting crossed, or a need for them arises. Can you relate? Join Nina and Kyle as they talk this sticky issue dealing with fear, control, and what to do and not do with boundaries in today's podcast. Check out our website https://greaterimpact.org to grab our eBook, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells," and change your relationships today!

"Lord, help me be patient, help me grow in this area." Every time I would pray that I'd get pregnant. Apparently, I'm a slow learner, as it took three pregnancies to discover patience isn't something God injects in us through the power of the Holy Spirit, but rather a MATURITY developed over time. I hate that. But it's His way, and it's wildly useful. Join Nina and Shy as they talk about how to deal with the opportunities for patience in our lives. Grab our free ebook, "Stop Walking on Eggshells" from our website, https://greaterimpact.org !

We ALL encounter it - selfishness. It's getting in the way of healthy mature relationships with God, yourself, and others. What's this about? What are some of the myths and lies around selfishness? How do we overcome it when it shows up in ourselves OR other people? You may be surprised with the answer. Tune in today as Nina & Kyle Hargrove take a look at this interesting topic. Check out our free eBook, Stop Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpact.org and change your relationships today!

You know the feeling, listening to someone judge another for doing a thing they themselves are doing... it's cringeworthy, and you want to respond. What do you do? What do you say & how do you say it? Join Nina & Shy as they explore dealing with the hypocritical people in your life. Check out our free eBook called "5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells," you can grab it on our website at https://greaterimpact.org

Mikel knew he needed sleep. As he tossed and turned, eyes glancing at the clock, he wondered why his brain just wouldn't shut down. Months of stress left him short with his kids, angry at his wife, and less than his best at work. What he didn't know was he was not alone, nor did he know the secret to conquering stress and worry. Join Nina and Kyle as they explore how to stop worrying and start living! Grab our free ebook, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" to begin to master people-pleasing in your life - it's on our website, https://greaterimpact.org

Amanda felt her chest get heavy and the weight sinks into her stomach. Why did she agree to the project deadline? She knew she had two other deliverables too close to that date! Frustrated with herself, feeling stuck and helpless, she recognized her people-pleasing tendencies at least... What she didn't know was how these small acts of "service" were never checked with the Lord. They had become a form of self-betrayal, one acting outside of God's will, damaging her identity in Christ. She couldn't trust herself to protect herself and was frequently taken advantage of. We don't even know when we're doing it. Anxiety comes from these moments, and we also don't realize we're stealing a blessing from someone else when we say yes because we can, rather than checking in with God to see if we actually should. Sound familiar? Check in with Nina and Shy today as they talk about How to STOP People Pleasing! And run over to our website, https://greaterimpact.org and grab a copy of "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells," something we recommend to all recovering people pleasers!

You know that moment when your throat gets caught, your heart starts to race, and you sense conflict coming on? Fight, Flight, or Freeze are your choices, thanks to our brain design. AND... because of woundings from our past, lies we believe and vows we have made. Join Nina and Shy as they unpack some details you may not have heard about Inner Healing Prayer and Deliverance. If you've been through these before but are STILL stuck, you might find this episode wildly helpful. Grab our free eBook called, "5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells" from our website, https://greaterimpact.org and change your relationships today!

We know men and women are different, but when we consider emotions, there's a lot of myths we hear which may or may not be true. Join us in today's epiosde where Nina & Kyle talk about how what we don't know about emotions may be in the way of healthier relationships. Want more info? Grab our free eBook Stop Walking on Eggshells from https://GreaterImpact.org

My heart raced in my chest, my shoulders lifted, tight. Jaws clenched, I felt myself getting caught up in fear. The cause this time? A hard conversation with an upset customer, but it could just as well have been a spouse, adult child, or close friend. Thankfully, those moments are few and far between for me now, and I give the credit to God. Today's episode covers some of the "how's" of healing prayer and how we can show up differently as a result. Check our website for a free eBook, Stop Walking on Eggshells to get some help NOW with your challenging relationships. https://greaterimpact.org Listen in now as Nina & Shy cover the challenges with the prayer process, and some of how it works to connect with the Lord and be set free!

Carol's husband didn't know how to respond to his wife. Trenton loved her a lot, but didn't know what to do with her emotions when they were aimed at him. Carol had similar feelings and felt as lost as her husband. She didn't know how to handle his anger and was sometimes afraid of him. BOTH people were avoiding bringing up issues more and more, finding it too stressful to think about what could happen. What could either of the do? Listen in and learn! Download our free eBook, Stop Walking on Eggshells from our website at Https://greaterimpact.org!

Joanne couldn't believe what she was seeing on social media. her blood boiled at the insults and attacks towards Christians. She wished she knew how to interact in that space, she'd give them a piece of her mind if she didn't calm down. What could she say that would stop them in their tracks? Can you relate? The lawsuits, suspensions, firings and cancelling of people is getting out of hand. It's a reflection of what's going on (and NOT happening) in our families. Listen to today's podcast as Nina and Shy explore what's under cancel culture. Check out our free ebook to help you Stop Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpact.org and have more impact in your relationships today!

Terrance sat in his car in the garage, considering walking through the door to see his wife and kids. Unfortunately, dread filled his heart, and his pulse quickened. If there were a way for them to have a conversation about important things without one of them coming unhitched and being mean... sometimes that was him, sometimes it was her, and then it didn't matter, it became both of them. Sound familiar? Want help? Listen to today's episode to learn how you can begin to respond instead of reacting and change your relationships! Be sure to grab our free eBook, Stop Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpact.org!

Ryan stared in disbelief at his wife, Yolanda. Her words literally made it clear she heard NOTHING he had just said. Yolanda feels her throat tighten and the lumpy pressure begins. How many ways could she say the SAME THING and yet Ryan just doesn't get it, then blames her for not listening!! What's crazy is both people truly felt in the right, and unheard. Can you relate? Check out today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It while Nina and Shy explore how to be heard and understood, even if you've tried and failed before. Be sure to grab our free ebook, Stop Walking on Eggshells, from our website, https://greaterimpact.org !

Joseph dreaded talking to his coworker, Steve. EVERY. Single. Time. Steve was difficult to deal with. Arguing, pushback, complaining, ugh. Joseph hated having to ask him for anything. Hopefully this time, things would go better; he really needed Steve's data for the quarterly report, and it was late again.... Susan wondered why her husband wouldn't change. She'd let him know so many times about how it hurt her when he didn't take her side with his mom. Why couldn't he support his wife for once? Sound familiar? Dig into this week's episode to learn what to do when you need a better outcome from people. Grab our "Stop Walking on Eggshells" free eBook at https://greaterimpact.org !

Kyle's had his own life experiences with becoming more equipped at conflict and helps others do likewise. You know that feeling where you are heated, emotional, your partner doesn't understand what you're talking about, can't hear you, and so conflict ensues? Listen in to today's episode as Nina interviews Kyle Hargrove, LPC, about this challenging topic. Be sure to drop by our website at Https://greaterimpact.org and grab our free eBook, "Stop Walking on Eggshells!" and start changing your relationships today!

Tonya stared with disbelief at her coworker, Elise. The words spoken over her were hateful, mean, not to mention unprofessional. Elise had a reputation for being a powder keg, and most of the staff avoided her as they never knew what would set her off. We all have a relationship with someone who has a short fuse. That anger often triggers an anger response in us, and so the cycle begins. Listen to today's episode as Nina and Shy explore ways to deal with anger. Stop by Https://greaterimpact.org and grab our ebook, 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells!

You discover one of your closest friends overshares about a touchy situation in your life... and a few of your other church friends find out about it. You're angry, concerned about the gossip, and feel betrayed. What do you do? How do you solve this common problem, when someone injures you, even when it is unintentional? Aren't we supposed to just overlook the insults and turn the other cheek? Check out today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It and learn what you can do to level up your relationships today! You can also grab our free ebook at https://greaterimpact.org called, "5 Tools to STOP walking on Eggshells!"

Jesse spoke clearly and directly but couldn't understand why his employees didn't seem to respect him. Bob had a hothead admin everyone hated to deal with - including him. What to do?. Mary's sister-in-law reminded her (and the rest of the family) of a venomous snake in the way she treated people. Sound familiar? What if there were TWO communication tools that are MUST-HAVES for creating mutual respect in any relationship? Be sure to listen in to today's episode, and grab our free eBook, STOP Walking on Eggshells, at https://greaterimpact.org

Karen's kids walked all over her. David had to ask his sons several times before they would do what they were asked. Mika got talked over constantly in meetings. Sound familiar? Maybe this isn't you, but even if it's not, there are a few tips in this episode to help! Listen in and be sure to grab our free eBook, STOP Walking on Eggshells at https://greaterimpact.org

Dina walked on eggshells in her relationship with her brother, her dad, and her husband. Oh, yes, also her boss. What kept her from being honest when they asked for her input? She deferred so much she felt invisible in all of those relationships. Why couldn't she show up like she did with her friends or her work team? In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina & Shy explore what's really going on that keeps us from speaking up. Join them and learn more!

Clara felt trapped in the hallway as she listened to Stefan drone on and on... and on... complaint after complaint about his work situation. Then he criticized the neighbor's poor choice of dog breed, noting the short legs of the Basset Hound and its howling. "I wish he would just shut up," she thought to herself. "He never asks me about me, the kids, my job... just more about him and his opinions." She wondered why she'd ever been attracted to so much selfishness. HUGE mistake in asking him how his day was! What she didn't know was WHY she felt like this! Have you ever been Stefan? Wonder what you're doing to disrespect yourself and others AND create distance in relationships? Listen in today as Nina & Shy talk about 3 keys to creating mutual respect in sticky situations, even if you think you'll fail!

Dina walked on eggshells in her relationship with her brother, her dad, and her husband. Oh, yes, also her boss. What kept her from being honest when they asked for her input? She deferred so much she felt invisible in all of those relationships. Why couldn't she show up like she did with her friends or her work team? In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina & Shy explore what's really going on that keeps us from speaking up. Join them and learn more!

Stop by our website and grab our free booklet called, "5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells" at https://greaterimpact.org

You KNOW that feeling... the dread, the gut twist, the thing that happens when we agree to do something we don't want to do because we're afraid someone else will have a fit. I've had it, too.

It's lousy. And controlling.

We waste time walking on eggshells, and over time, the relationship degenerates into something super unhealthy. Want to STOP that? Listen in to today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It and learn how to speak up, navigate conflict, and deal with your own negative emotions. Grab your copy of "5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells" from htttps://greaterimpact.org !

We don't even know how control seriously damages relationships. We often think we are being helpful, but really, we are creating the exact OPPOSITE of what we really want!

Listen in today, as Nina talks about how to STOP being controlling, and let God do His thing! Check us out at https://GreaterImpactCoaching.org to learn more!

Matt kept hearing his boss in his head... "Kinda long presentation, don't you think?" Ruminations followed... doubt crept in... by the time he got home, he was in no mood to interact with his wife and kids. "What do you mean, I'm not pulling my weight? You think it's easy holding down a job in this competitive market? You have what you have because I slave away all day! You could be more grateful. I don't see you working at anything other than doing your nails and babying these kids! They need to grow up!"

Marsha didn't know what to do. Deer-in-the-headlights style, she just looked at Matt. She didn't know how to respond, or what to say, so she said nothing. She busied herself putting kids to bed.

Sound familiar? In any way? Maybe you grew up with a dad like this, or you are Matt or Marsha in the story. Don't worry - help is on the way. Check in with this week's episode of What to Say & How to Say It with Nina Roesner. You can learn more at https://greaterimpact.org

Stefan felt that familiar anxiousness welling from his gut to his throat as he listened to his coworker explain why the project was behind... and he wasn't right! ... Belinda's heart pounded and fear rose within her. How would her son get into a good college if he couldn't get the essays written on time? Maybe YOU have the urge to control or have to DEAL WITH someone else who does. Listen in as we look at what's causing conflict and what to do about it on today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It!

Sitting across the table from her husband, Natasha realized his emotional words were about him, and NOT her. She spoke gently to him, "Sounds like you feel strongly about this and are hurting. What are you feeling right now, physically?" They then continued in a connecting conversation, putting an end to the argument. In today's episode, listen in as Nina takes a look at 5 things that get in the way of creating connections in the middle of conflict and what to do!

Hearing his father's judgmental words caused Paul's chest to tighten, his pulse to race, and all he could do was stare at his Dad. He was frozen, couldn't move, couldn't speak. So much for the communication class he'd taken at work! Those conflict sessions seem to be ineffective at best. Sound familiar? Knowing how to navigate conflict without making it worse is a skill. And a process. If you don't know how to figure this out, you'll spend your time at work, home, and church, arguing with people, creating disagreement, and fostering a lack of unity and connection. Join Nina as she helps us dissect three proven steps to create a better outcome when dealing with conflict!

Leesha looked at Stefan... Stunned. She couldn't believe he had just said what he did. Her heart pounded, her throat felt tight, and anger surged. She couldn't think straight, couldn't even focus on what he was now saying... Ever happen to you? All the communication skills in the world won't save you if you don't know this ONE thing that keeps you from falling into Leesha's shoes. We all struggle with times like this, but knowing what to do with them can be a game changer for you and all your relationships. Listen in as we dive into this episode of What to say & How to Say It!

My 17 year-old son looked at me and said, "Everything you are doing right now makes me NOT want to do this... and I know I need to, but can you stop making this harder?" Stellar parenting moment, right? In business, we create this same experience through "micro management" where we communicate to our employees or coworkers that they can't be trusted and need to be treated as children. What to do instead? Check out today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It with author of The Respect Dare, Nina Roesner.

“I’m sorry, honey. I can understand how you could be upset, especially thinking your mom is being neglected. I’ve had a lot on my mind lately. I want to be here for you. But please don’t accuse me of an affair. That feels like an assault on my character, and it hurts. Please talk to me about what’s going on with you instead.” Do you wish you could respond kindly to accusations? Join Nina as she takes a look at how God can change how we show up in challenging situations - without become a doormat or steamroller.

I saw this speaker at a conference and thought, "WOW. He seriously actually KNOWS Jesus in a way I can relate to and want even more of!" So you know I had to interview him to share his insights with you. Want to know how to overcome shame and fear in your relationships? In this episode, Nina interviews author John Lynch. His books include The Cure, and On My Worst Day. Listen in to learn the secret to being filled with Christ such that He spills over into all of your relationships!

Sandi stood in the line next to her 5th grade peers. Name after name was called by the two team captains. It was recess, and sighs of relief and angst, barely audible, pricked the playground air. Sandi knew she'd be called close to last, but at least Don was here today.

He ran slower than she did and couldn't hit the broadside of a barn with a ball, even when he tried. She blushed at her judgmental thought, pushed it away, and prayed instead, "Lord, don't let me be last," and as an afterthought, "Please help Don get better at kickball, but not so much better I get called last." Many adults have memories like this from their childhood - and to this day, still deal with feeling unwanted or unloved. Can you relate? Tune into today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It!

"He keeps throwing the 'D-Word' around, every time we have a disagreement!" Carola complained. "What do I do? What if he actually files?" Knowing how to handle this isn't easy, but it's definitely worth doing. Join Communication Coach Nina Roesner for some tips on how to handle this damaging behavior on today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It!

"What do you think of these dishtowels?" she asked?
"I married a woman that could make a decision, where did she go?" he replied. OOF. Have you tried to serve the one you love like crazy? Do you know people who have lost who God made them to be while trying to make others happy? Today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It deals with losing your identity and how that can actually backfire in your attempt to have a good relationship.

"Who do you think you are?" asked the semi-hostile voice on the other end of the phone. "Excuse me?" Nina responded, confused, shocked, heart in her throat. "Who do you think you are to start something, using a trademark and everything?" came the reply. Nina had given a presentation at a marriage retreat for the church she attended at the time, seven minutes, powerpoint, music, professional, introducing the first-ever Greater Impact Ministry course. Coming from corporate America, Nina did her best and felt good about it. Her husband even said it had "rocked!" So did the class she was presenting. She didn't know it at the time, but criticism, one of the calling cards of the enemy (also known as condemnation) follows ministry workers literally everywhere. What to do? Do you also struggle with unjust criticism? Join us in today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It and learn how to not let it get you down!

Joanne stared, frozen in disbelief as her boss completely lost all composure, throwing papers and swearing. No one in the room seemed to know what to do, either. She hated this feeling of confusion. It happened when her husband yelled at their kids, or when her mother starting telling her what a disappointment she was to her. What could she do? Playground and bar room strategies for handling conflict still occur. They have never become effective, however. But what do you do with someone who is aggressive towards you? How do you handle other people's upset emotions, regardless of their age? Join Communication coach, Nina Roesner, as we dive into today's episode of What today & How to Say It!

Joe wondered if his boss was embezzling money from the company. Carol suspected her husband was having an affair. Mike wondered if his teenage daughter was taking drugs. Should they say something? Here are some things you should consider before you confront someone's sin on today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It!

Various presenters shared their screens and problems were discussed in their quarterly company video conference. Carol noticed feeling uncomfortable when their VP of Marketing, Jason, chimed in. Carol’s feelings of discomfort grew as he continued speaking. His approach was way out of line and she wasn’t the only one uncomfortable with his language. She knew she had to say something, but what? How?

Dale Carnegie, the entrepreneur of the human development business in the 1930’s, once said, “Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain – and most fools do. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.” It takes a leader to call attention to mistakes in a grace-filled way. In doing so, we can call others to level-up to a higher state of behaving – learn how in today’s episode of What to Say & How to Say It!

Susan stood in the doorway looking at her husband sort the mail and pay bills. He finally looked up, noticing her, asking, "What's up?" "We ARE supposed to be having a date tonight, right?" she replied, annoyed that once again, she had to remind him. "Of course! Where do you want to go for dinner?" Annoyed, she rolled her eyes and walked away. It would be nice if he would carry the weight of the relationship once in a while. Why was she always responsible for them going out and choosing what they did? What if she actually wasn't? Listen in to learn what to say to improve your relationships!

Have you experienced a situation where it looked like trust has been broken? You thought the issue had been resolved years ago, but the evidence seems to point to the problem resurfacing? You wanted to believe the best of them, but now there is disappointment hurt, or even betrayal. What do you do?

Tune in to this week’s podcast as Nina walks us through some steps on how we can inspire peaceful resolve by walking in the spirit according to Galatians 5:16.

Have you experienced a situation where you were caught off guard by someone’s actions? You wanted to believe the best of them, but were feeling disappointed, hurt, or even betrayed?

“Hey honey. Everything okay at the gym? I expected you an hour ago and was getting worried,” Rachel said as she placed a plate of eggs and toast in front of John. They had only been married a few months and it still felt surreal.

“Sorry, Rach. I gave Tina a ride home. She had car trouble.”

Rachel felt an unexpected sting. Tina was an old friend of his. As she began to pour him a cup of coffee, John held up his hand.

“I had a cup at Tina’s. No more or I’ll be bursting at work.” John took another bite of his eggs not noticing the shades of red crossing Rachel’s face.

“Wait. You went upstairs to her apartment?” she said her voice rising.

“It was just a quick cup and a catch up. No big deal.” John put his plate in the sink and gave her a kiss. “I need to shower and get to work, honey. Love you.”

Rachel was not convinced but she did not want to accuse her new husband either. What should she do?

Tune in to this week’s podcast as Nina walks us through some steps on how we can inspire peaceful resolve by walking in the spirit according to Galatians 5:16.

Are YOU making this common communication mistake? If you want to have real influence in someone’s life, STOP doing this one thing that is sabotaging your relationships. Would you like to learn how to encourage others in a way that honors them and creates deeper connection? Then tune into today’s podcast “What To Say and How To Say It” with Nina Roesner of Greater Impact.

What to Say & How to Say It with Nina Roesner: STOP REACTING in conflict situations, and discover how to RESPOND instead! Conquer people-pleasing, establish boundaries - create authentic relationships!