Growing In Marriage: Recent Episodes
Rich and DeAnna Millentree
Married Christian couples want to experience a close friendship and deep spiritual oneness with their spouse and the Lord Jesus. The Growing In Marriage podcast will help you build lasting intimacy your heart can feel.
Step away from the noise and spend a beautiful weekend with Rich and DeAnna reconnecting with your spouse at the Growing In Marriage Retreat. This is more than just time away, it's a guided experience designed to help you break out of the same old patterns, understand what's really creating distance between you, and learn how to show up for each other in a new way. You'll be equipped with simple, practical tools to communicate clearly, reconnect spiritually, and rebuild the kind of friendship that makes marriage feel life-giving again. If you've been feeling off, disconnected, or just not on the same page, this weekend is an opportunity to reset, refocus, and come back to each other with clarity, intention, and hope. Listen to Rich and DeAnna as they share all the details about Marriage Retreat 2026.
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Our today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast we have a fantastic conversation with author and marriage advocate Meika Harmon about her brand-new book, I’m Sorry. DeAnna had to sit this one out (she wasn’t feeling her best), but that didn’t stop the good times from rolling (or the belly laughs) from filling the room. Meika opened up about her own marriage to Paul, the power of forgiveness, and why a sincere “I’m sorry” can change the entire trajectory of a relationship. This one will leave you encouraged, challenged, and smiling all the way through.
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Meika Harmon
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This week, Rich and DeAnna share their favorite things for Fall, cozy candles, chai lattes, board games, pumpkin pie, sweater weather, and more. But this isn’t just about personal favorites; it’s about how couples can use simple, seasonal joys to connect, laugh, and grow closer. With funny stories (including Rich’s shower steamer fail), playful banter, and practical marriage challenges, this episode will inspire you to make fall a season of warmth, intimacy, and shared memories with your favorite person.
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Our Favorite Fall Things
- Mobaak (Candles)
- Starbucks Chai Latte
- Turtle Cheesecake Recipe
- Sweater (DeAnna's Pick)
- Sweater Number Two
- Monopoly
- Marriage Coaching (10% off if you are part of The Team)
- Popcorn
- Towel Warmer
- Evree Massage Cream
What if your marriage could feel like friendship again—safe, connected, and filled with laughter? In this episode, Rich and DeAnna pull back the curtain on The Team, their Christ-centered marriage community designed to help couples move beyond “just fine” into real intimacy and joy. You’ll hear stories from couples who’ve experienced transformation, discover the practical tools and support waiting inside, and catch a vision for how your marriage can grow when you’re not walking alone. If you’ve ever longed for more than you currently have in your relationship, this conversation will show you a clear and faith-filled path forward.
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What if the real reason your marriage feels distant isn’t a lack of love, but a lack of safety? In this episode, Rich and DeAnna unpack what emotional safety is—and what it isn’t—and show how it becomes the foundation not just for trust and vulnerability, but for laughter, playfulness, and joy. Through real coaching stories, their own marriage experiences, and a simple “safety audit” tool, you’ll learn how to create a marriage where both of you feel free to be fully yourselves—and where fun and intimacy can flourish again.
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In this episode of Growing in Marriage, Rich and DeAnna unpack why no couple can thrive in isolation and why building a support system is essential if you want your marriage to last. You’ll hear examples of couples who looked perfect on the outside but crumbled in secret—and others who found strength, healing, and accountability by inviting trusted friends into their journey. Together we’ll explore why the enemy loves to keep couples isolated, how shame and pride keep us silent, and the practical steps you can take to surround your marriage with mentors, peers, and encouragers who will point you back to Jesus. If you’ve ever wondered who’s in your corner when marriage gets hard, this conversation will show you how to build a circle that holds you up and helps you grow.
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Most affairs don’t start in bedrooms—they start in break rooms, chat rooms, gyms, social media spaces, etc. In this episode, we’re exposing the subtle workplace habits that can quietly erode trust, intimacy, and faithfulness in your marriage. You’ll learn the early warning signs you might already be crossing a line, how to set boundaries that reflect God’s Word and your own values, and why protecting your heart at work is just as important as protecting it at home. If you think it could never happen to you… you especially need to hear this one.
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In this episode, Rich and DeAnna are walking you through five small, daily habits that every thriving Christian marriage has—and why skipping them could quietly chip away at your connection. You’ll hear real, behind-the-scenes stories from our own marriage (sticky hot breath and all), along with practical ways to build emotional safety, deepen spiritual closeness, and keep the friendship alive in just minutes a day. Whether your marriage feels strong or a little stuck, these five habits are the difference between slowly drifting apart and waking up every day feeling known, loved, and truly on the same team.
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This week on the podcast, we are back in the studio with our guest from last week, Monika Farhadi! We’re tackling the barriers that keep couples from truly opening up, the difference between hearing and actually listening, and how to create a safe space for vulnerability. Monika shares powerful insights on navigating difficult conversations, recognizing emotional shutdowns, and breaking free from unhealthy communication cycles. Whether you’re looking to strengthen your connection, repair past wounds, or just have more meaningful conversations, this episode is packed with wisdom and practical takeaways you won’t want to miss!
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This week on the podcast, we’re diving deep into the heart of communication with Monika Farhadi! We’re tackling the barriers that keep couples from truly opening up, the difference between hearing and actually listening, and how to create a safe space for vulnerability. Monika shares powerful insights on navigating difficult conversations, recognizing emotional shutdowns, and breaking free from unhealthy communication cycles. Whether you’re looking to strengthen your connection, repair past wounds, or just have more meaningful conversations, this episode is packed with wisdom and practical takeaways you won’t want to miss!
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Feel closer and more connected to your spouse in just 14 days! This week, we’re diving into Embrace—our brand-new resource designed to help couples grow closer and communicate better. We’re answering the most common questions from couples who want to know what Embrace is all about and whether it’s the right fit for their marriage. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same conversations, struggled to connect, or just want a simple way to strengthen your relationship, this episode is for you! Tune in as we break it all down and share how Embrace can help you build a deeper, more meaningful connection with your spouse.
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In this episode, we’re tackling two game-changers for a strong marriage—respect and encouragement. If you’ve ever felt unappreciated or like your efforts go unnoticed, you’re not alone! Respect fuels a husband’s confidence and leadership, while encouragement reassures a wife that she’s valued and cherished. We’re breaking down what this looks like in everyday life, sharing what husbands and wives really wish the other knew, and giving practical ways to build each other up. This episode will help you create a marriage where both of you feel seen, supported, and deeply loved.
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In this episode, we’re talking about something every married couple craves—feeling emotionally pursued. It’s easy to assume love and connection will just happen, but over time, life gets busy, routines take over, and that intentional pursuit can start to fade. So, what does it really mean to feel emotionally pursued? How can you keep that deep connection alive beyond the honeymoon phase? We’re breaking it all down with real-life examples, practical tips, and simple ways to make your spouse feel truly seen, chosen, and loved—every single day. If you’ve ever felt like you and your spouse are just coexisting rather than deeply connected, this episode is for you!
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In this episode, we dive into conflict resolution and forgiveness with Tyler and Connie Boyd, exploring how young married couples can navigate disagreements without letting them spiral out of control. They share personal stories of arguments they handled well (and not so well), along with practical strategies for discussing sensitive topics and moving toward healing. We also talk about the power of forgiveness and how it can transform your marriage when done right. If you’re looking for ways to turn conflict into connection and grow stronger as a couple, this episode is a must-listen!
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In this episode, we get real with Tyler and Connie Boyd about sex, romance, and staying connected in the early years of marriage. From setting healthy expectations for intimacy to navigating tough topics like porn struggles and vulnerability, we cover it all. Tyler and Connie open up about their own journey—what helped them talk openly about their needs, where they stumbled, and the intentional choices they made to keep romance alive. Whether you’re looking to deepen emotional and physical intimacy or keep the spark alive, this episode is packed with relatable stories and practical advice for young married couples.
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We’re continuing our conversation with Tyler and Connie Boyd and this week we are talking about aligning your personal and spiritual goals early in marriage to create a shared vision for the future. They share how they’ve balanced their individual relationships with God while growing together in faith, plus the spiritual habits that have fueled their connection. We’ll also dive into the lessons they’ve learned—what worked, what didn’t, and how they’ve strengthened their sense of purpose along the way. If you’re a young married couple looking to grow spiritually and build a marriage with lasting impact, this episode is for you!
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In this episode, we’re chatting with Tyler and Connie Boyd about what it takes to build a strong emotional connection in those early years of marriage. From the small daily habits that deepen intimacy to tackling communication breakdowns, they’re sharing their real-life experiences and practical tips. We’ll dive into the kinds of conversations that helped them grow closer, the ones that tripped them up, and the lessons they’ve learned along the way. Hey Young Married, whether you’re newly married or a few years in, this episode is packed with relatable stories and insights to help you feel more connected and in sync with your spouse.
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This week on the Growing In Marriage podcast, Rich and DeAnna sit down with Cindy Renfrow, LCSW, to tackle some of the most pressing and challenging questions couples face. In this episode, Cindy shares her expert insights on topics like how to get help when your spouse is resistant, rebuilding trust, breaking the cycle of emotional shutdowns, and reigniting excitement in a boring relationship. We also dive into sensitive issues such as comfort levels in the bedroom, managing resentment, and the difficult journey of forgiveness. Join us for an engaging and enlightening conversation that promises to equip you with practical advice and fresh perspectives to strengthen your marriage.
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We did it! We finally have a shorty episode.
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On this week’s episode of our the Growing In Marriage podcast, DeAnna is flipping the script and interviewing Rich about our brand new product, Soulmates. It’s designed especially for Christian couples, featuring interactive stories and guided conversations to help you grow closer and deepen your spiritual intimacy. DeAnna asks all the juicy questions you’ll want answers to, making sure you get all the details that will have you rushing to grab your copy. Tune in to discover how Soulmates can help you and your spouse build lasting connections and enjoy a more fulfilling marriage by growing closer to Jesus and each other.
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Welcome to this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage Podcast with Rich and DeAnna! Today, we explore the profound impact of uplifting your spouse. Rich shares his journey from ignoring DeAnna’s pleas for help to taking responsibility for household chores and demonstrating true, lasting change. Discover the difference between temporary modifications and genuine transformation, and how consistent acts of love, inspired by God's Word, can strengthen your marriage.
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We're jumping into the love language of physical touch. From holding hands and sharing hugs to intimate gestures like kissing and back rubs, we’ll uncover the powerful impact of physical touch in marriage.
We’ll discuss the importance of learning how your spouse wants to be touched. Too often, we turn to books, other couples, or general advice, neglecting the one person who knows best: our spouse. Insisting on touching your spouse the way you want, instead of how they desire, can be more than just irritating—it's dishonoring!
We’ll also talk about the significance of physical touch during times of crisis or emotional turmoil. A simple touch can serve as a healing balm for a wounded heart, offering comfort and reassurance.
Join us as we navigate the nuances of physical touch, ensuring we honor our spouses by loving them the way they want to be loved.
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Today, we’re diving into the importance of creating a healthier version of yourself. A happy marriage thrives when both individuals are committed to their personal growth and well-being. DeAnna shares how one of her own growth journeys has brought us closer together and positively impacted our marriage.
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Join as we tackle the inevitable misunderstandings that arise in marriage. Discover how these moments can affect your feelings and learn strategies to navigate them without trying to convince your spouse that your perspective is the only perspective. We’ll share the importance of acknowledging and reflecting on each other’s viewpoints, even when you don’t agree. Rich and DeAnna will discuss how essential it is to believe that your spouse is on your side, which fosters openness and prevents defensiveness. Plus, they’ll delve into the power of repentance and the importance of seeking forgiveness when you’re wrong. Don’t miss this candid and heartfelt conversation that will help you turn misunderstandings into opportunities for growth and deeper connection in your marriage.
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Dive into the heart of what makes each of us unique and how to truly love and appreciate those differences in your spouse! Today, Rich and DeAnna are sharing insights on loving your spouse in a way that makes them feel cherished, quick and fun ways to connect and build intimacy through new experiences, travel, and even a bit of friendly competition. Plus, we'll talk about creating a daily routine that helps you slow down, share your life, and truly connect. We are also exploring how to understand and respect your spouse’s emotional bandwidth, making this episode a treasure trove of practical tips and heartfelt advice. Tune in for a fun, insightful, and inspiring conversation that will help you build a deeper, more intimate friendship with your spouse!
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Today, Rich and DeAnna are having fun and answering questions a marriage counselor would ask to determine if their marriage is savable.
The reality is we believe all marriages are savable if you do them God's way. As Jimmy Evans would say, you have a 100% chance of success if you do it God's way. And to that, we say, "Amen!"
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Ever wonder what it truly means to have your spouse's back, in the good times and especially the bad? In this heartwarming episode, Rich and DeAnna dive into the art of being there for your spouse. We'll explore how these actions not only deepen your bond but also honor God's design for marriage. Tune in as we unpack practical tips, share inspiring examples, and delve into Scripture to guide you in cultivating a relationship where you and your spouse are each other's greatest allies, no matter what life brings.
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Hello, Jill Zimmerman from Pennsylvania! 👋🏻👋🏾 We've got a cool story to share about you today! We've been diving into a skill that can really change the game in your marriage: empathy. It's not always easy, but mastering it can make a huge difference.
Research shows that couples who get good at empathy have over 30% better conflict resolution and repair skills. Plus, they tend to have happier, more successful marriages overall.
So, what exactly is empathy, and why is it such a big deal? Let's find out together!
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Today's episode is a real eye-opener as we delve into the often-taboo topic of overcoming unwanted sexual behaviors (e.g., porn) and understanding the complexities of sexual fantasies within marriage. We're joined by a remarkable guest, Drew Boa from Husband Material, who brings a fresh perspective to the table. Drew's journey from struggling with pornography to finding true freedom has been transformative, and he's here to share his insights on how addressing these challenges can have profoundly positive effects on marriage. Get ready for some honest and enlightening conversation!
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Happily Married Workshop (March 16, 2024)
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Introducing the Happily Married Workshop. Rich and DeAnna spill the beans on their new in-person event. If you are local to the Central Valley of California: Bay Area, Sacramento, Fresno, Foothills then you don't want to miss this fun one-day workshop that will help you achieve the kind of relationship others will be asking, "How do they do it."
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Today Rich and DeAnna are talking about a topic that affects every marriage, but often lurks in the shadows of the relationship. This darkness leaves a silent but very profound impact on both spouses—it’s criticism! So, grab a cup of coffee, find a comfortable space, and listen to us engage in a conversation that could breathe new life into your relationship.
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Rich and DeAnna finally deliver a "short" episode. In this podcast, DeAnna's back and she is sharing how she celebrated her 50th birthday and created a memory we will NEVER forget. 😂 Tune into this fun episode that's sure to make you smile and gasp all within 24 minutes.
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Today, Rich is teaming up with Shannon McKiernan as she fills in for DeAnna. DeAnna had an unexpected event take place that sidelined her for this episode.
We want you to step into intimacy in your marriage. One of the ways to do that is through caregiving. Listen as Rich and Shannon discuss why careging is necessary in your marriage and what it looks like.
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To some degree, we all love being taken care of at times, especially when the care is coming from our spouse. Today, Rich and DeAnna want you to stop taking care of your spouse in exchange for something better. Listen as they discuss why caretaking is detremental to your marriage and what you should do instead.
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Rich and DeAnna are replaying a popular episode from two years ago. Settle in and listen again to Rich and DeAnna share how you can handle rejection from your spouse and in your marriage.
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Rich and DeAnna are spilling the beans on what happens behind closed doors in their marriage. Enjoy this fun, light-hearted episode that sure to make you smile.
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Today, Rich and DeAnna aim to equip couples with practical strategies and guidance to navigate the holiday season more smoothly, reducing stress and overwhelm. It's the perfect opportunity to fostering emotional closeness, rediscover intimacy, and create meaningful moments together. Learn to embrace and relish the holiday moments as a team, fostering a sense of joy, togetherness, and shared celebration.
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Ever felt like you and your partner are speaking different languages, even when you're saying the same things? This podcast episode is the ultimate playbook for upgrading your relationship communication skills. Rich and DeAnna are addressing five powerful moves to help you ace those heart-to-heart talks. From genuinely tuning in and understanding your partner's vibes to nailing that tricky balance between words and body language, this episode is all about practical tips to make your conversations smoother than ever. Dive in for a fun, insightful session that'll make you the MVP of communication in your relationship. It's time to polish these relationship gems and level up your connection game!
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Join us as we chat about something vital for your marriage: ditching the whole punishment thing in your relationship. We're all about tossing out the idea of giving your spouse the cold shoulder or dealing out penalties. Instead, let's dive into how to turn to your partner with love, even in tough times. Rich and DeAnna are sharing down-to-earth advice and biblical wisdom on how choosing love over punishment can totally transform your marriage. Get ready to learn how to build stronger connections, genuine forgiveness, and that deep, lasting bond you've been aiming for!
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Rich and DeAnna have some exciting news for all you husbands (and wives) out there. Today marks the launch of something that's going to revolutionize your marriage – it's called the Confident Husband Mastermind, and trust us, you don't want to miss out on this. We're talking about a game-changing resource tailor-made for husbands, designed to supercharge your relationships. So, put your listening caps on and get ready to dive in as we spill the tea on this powerful new tool. It's time to level up those husband skills and make your marriage stronger than ever. Don't miss out!
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Today, Rich and DeAnna explore the significance of being a supportive friend who stands by your side through life's ups and downs. We share personal stories about the impact of such friendships, drawing inspiration from Jesus as the ultimate example. Plus, we delve into how these friendships can strengthen marriages. Join us for a heartwarming conversation that will leave you inspired to be that kind of friend and improve your relationships. You won't want to miss it!
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Today, Rich and DeAnna are diving into your emotions. Join us as we unpack why it's essential to recognize and share our feelings in a healthy way within our marriages. Get ready for some real talk on self-awareness, communication that rocks, and making your connection even stronger. We'll have a look at God's Word to show us how emotional intelligence and faith go hand in hand. Grab your coffee, and let's journey together towards heartfelt conversations and a more solid marriage.
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We've got a fun episode for you today. Kick back and relax as we spill the beans on why planning and going on those dreamy romantic vacations can seriously add excitement to your love life. From rekindling the spark to building unbreakable bonds, we're talking about ten benefits this will have in your marriage. So, let's dive into the world of romance and adventure!
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Join Rich and DeAnna in this eye-opening podcast episode as they dive headfirst into the world of white lies, trust issues, and the tangled web of emotions that come with them. 🕵️♂️🔍
Ever caught yourself telling a harmless white lie to your partner? Well, we're getting real about how those seemingly innocent fibs can snowball into something way bigger. From the fear of disappointing your significant other to the dangerous dance of people-pleasing, Rich and DeAnna spill the tea on how these white lies can wreak havoc on trust and connection.
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Hey guys, we're back with another episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast! This time, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of 'Training Your Marriage for Unmatched Connection.' Get ready for some real talk, personal stories, and a bunch of laughs as we spill the beans on how to amp up the love, deepen the talks, and keep that spark alive in your marriage. Tune in and let's get your relationship rockin'!"
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Some of the routines you have in your marriage are causing problems in your relationship and you don't even know it (or maybe you absolutely knonw it). It's time to do something different with those routines. Stop arguing over silly stuff, or holding on to low-key resentment all because of a routine that has gotten out of hand. It's time to kick frustration to the curb, and enjoy more connection with your spouse and peace in your relatioship.
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DeAnna has some new visitors she has been keeping an eye one and Rich is excited about an upcoming holiday. Some fun giggles to start the show for sure.
Have you ever made a mistake and as soon as you do your spouse is right there letting you know how bad you failed? Do you feel like you can't make a mistake without your partner rubbing it in your face? Today we are going to talk about what you and your spouse can do in these anxieity filled moments to let go of that unwanted tension and embrace the imperfect moments of your life togeher.
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Today, Rich and DeAnna talk about what to do when your spouse refuses to accept your apology.
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There are some lessons we have learned in our coaching office that make us tremble before the Lord and so grateful for His grace. We are so blessed to walk side-by-side with the couples who come into our practice. Listen this week as DeAnna and I share some of our favorite lessons we have learned in our office.
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Join Rich and DeAnna as they have a casual conversation about how they grow and change and what growth and change can look like in your life.
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Has the topic of opposite-sex friendships come up in your marriage? Today, Rich and DeAnna talk about this dynamic and how to navigate the subject. There is not a one-size-fits-all approach or answer, but there are some things you need to be aware. Join us for a fun discussion on opposite-sex friendships in marriage.
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Rich and DeAnna attended a marriage conference in Seattle, Washington, about five years ago. Rich and DeAnna were introduced to the Four Horsemen at that conference. What they learned was life-changing, and they think it will also be for you and your marriage. Listen along as they discuss the Four Horsemen and how you can limit their presence in your marriage.
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Every marriage gets stuck. But did you know the average couple waits six years before seeking help for their problems? Today, Rich and DeAnna discuss why couples shouldn't wait to get the help they need. They will also share the benefits of seeking help and where to start if you need help now.
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Every marriage needs time. The cool thing about time is every marriage gets the same amount of it. No marriage is at a disadvantage. So, why are our marriages time starved? We are busier than ever and our marriage and spouse suffer. Today we are going talk about how you can get back more of your time and create a deeper connection with your spouse in your relationship.
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Attitude is everything! The wrong attitude will keep you stuck, and the right attitude has the potential to shift everything. Today, Rich and DeAnna will share with you why your attitude can be so negative and what you can do to change it. When you change your attitude, you change your marriage.
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Today, DeAnna is in the studio with a great friend, Shannon McKiernan, recording her first podcast all alone and having an impromptu conversation for wives. Husbands and wives, this conversation is one you don't want to miss. Listen in as they talk about what submission looks like and why it's so important.
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We are celebrating 200 episodes of the Growing In Marriage podcast. Listen in and join the fun! Trust us; there will be plenty of laughs and some behind-the-scenes stuff we've never discussed.
Today, I (Rich) am in the studio with one of my close friends, Tommy McKiernan, recording another impromptu conversation for husbands. Husbands and wives, this conversation is one you don't want to miss. Join us as we talk about what intimacy looks like and why it's so important.
You ever get to that place in your marriage where you and your spouse are no longer going to do anything until your spouse changes first? Today, Rich and DeAnna talk about what it will take to break free from this kind of gridlock in your marriage.
A buddy of mine (Rich) came over to hang out and I pulled him in the studio to have an impromptu conversation about all things relating to husbands. Join me as I talk with my good friend Tino Urias about the role of husband and what it looks like day-to-day.
Today Rich and DeAnna are having humorous conversation around sex and why you might not be having as much as you would like. Get ready to giggle and belly laugh with us as we laugh at ourselves and the funny things that become roadblocks to us having more sex.
We surveyed couples who have gone through pre-marital counseling with us over the past two years about their first 24 months of marriage. We were surprised to hear their responses to a single question. Find out what we asked, and what they said, on today's episode of the Growing In Marriage Podcast.
We surveyed couples who have gone through pre-marital counseling with us over the past two years about their first 24 months of marriage. We were surprised to hear their responses to our only question. Find out what we asked, and what they said, on today's episode of the Growing In Marriage Podcast.
On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast we are sharing our thoughts about plastic surgery and how it could affect your marriage.
Are you or someone you know getting married in 2023. If so, you do not want to miss today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast. Did you know couples who have pre-marital counseling reduce their risk for divorce by 31%? That benefit alone is worth pursuing pre-marital counseling. Today, Rich and DeAnna discuss the benefits and dispel some of the myths and negative preconceptions associated with pre-marital counseling.
Let's start 2023 off right with realistic expectations and goals. Rich and DeAnna share some of theirs for the new year and how you can make achieving your goals in 2023 a reality.
We complain so much we don't even recognize when we are doing it. It's a problem all marriages suffer from. The cure is found in asking for what you want. Today, Rich and DeAnna discuss how complaining derails your forward progress to intimacy and help you get back on track.
We've all experienced disappointment in our lives. Some of those disappointments have been minor, like not receiving the birthday gift you hoped for, while others may be life changing, like not being able to get pregnant. Today, Rich and DeAnna will help you find your way through your disappointments.
Ever wonder where the romantic feelings and all of the passion has gone in your marriage? Today, we will give you three reasons why they're gone, and share practical ways to get them back.
To forgive is to demonstrate how a true Image Bearer displays the character and nature of our loving Heavenly Father. Today, Rich and DeAnna discuss why you may be unable to forgive your spouse and how to overcome your inability.
Rich and DeAnna pop on to give an update with Growing In Marriage and what they've been doing. They also pull back the curtain to let you know about a few new things coming in the months ahead.
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Hi everyone! We know we've been quiet lately, but we've really missed you. We have some really cool things to share with you in this quick little teaser of a podcast. We've been busy working on new things for you that we think you're going to love.
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Matthew 6:21 tells us where we put our treasure our hearts will follow. Today, Rich and DeAnna discuss some of the investments you can make in your marriage that will cause you to look at your relationship with deeper commitment and greater desire.
Today, on the Growing In Marriage podcast, Rich and DeAnna share part 2 of their personal testimonies of how they came to know and follow Jesus, and the impact that single decision has made on their marriage.
Today, on the Growing In Marriage podcast, Rich and DeAnna share their personal testimonies of how they came to know and follow Jesus, and the impact that single decision has made on their marriage.
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Learning how to please the Lord is probably the single most important thing you could do for your marriage. Today, Rich and DeAnna discuss what pleasing the Lord looks like, and how it will positively impact your relationship.
Today Rich and DeAnna are answering the question, "What do I do if my spouse doesn't want to go to counseling?" If this sounds like it describes the exact place you and your spouse are, or if you know someone stuck here, this episode is for you.
Today, Rich and DeAnna talk about "filling" out a comment card regarding you sexual intimacy and how that can help you build a more fulfilling sexual bond in your marriage.
Today, Rich and DeAnna discuss how you can create emotional safety in your marriage and why it's foundational to a healthy marriage.
Today, Rich and DeAnna continue the conversation of office romance. DeAnna shares about an office romance she had early in their marriage and how she navigated those waters.
Today, Rich and DeAnna continue chatting with their friends, Ryan and Jessica Hernandez about how their marriage was tested when they found themselves right in the middle of an affair. To view the show notes and grab the freebies mentioned in this episode, visit our website.
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Today, Rich and DeAnna are talking about how you can know if you are having an office romance or maybe on the verge of starting one. DeAnna shares about an office romance she had early in our marriage and how she navigated those waters. To view the show notes and grab the freebies mentioned in this episode, visit our website.
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich is in the hot seat and DeAnna is asking all the questions. Settle in and listen to Big Rich share about his life and talk about all things Big Rich.
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, DeAnna is in the hot seat and Big Rich is asking all the questions. Settle in and listen to DeAnna share about her life and talk about all things DeAnna.
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna are giving advice to newlyweds.
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss three of their favorite Scriptures and how they have formed them and allowed them to form their view of God.
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss the rules of disengagement. When to stop and disengage before you make things worse in your conflict.
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss what to do when you spouse acts in an ugly manner.
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna, are recapping the month of August with their four guests: Dr. Morgan Cutlip, Dr. Kim Kimberling, Laura Heck, and Dr. Corey Allan.
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This week on the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna are talking with Dr. Corey Allan about gridlock in marriage.
Corey Allan (if you want to be formal it’s Dr. Corey Allan, but he's usually pretty casual) is a husband, father, author, speaker, as well as a Marriage and Family Therapist and a Licensed Professional Counselor with a Ph.D. in Family Therapy. He and his wife Pam host a weekly podcast, Sexy Marriage Radio, where they help frame the conversation for couples to experience the best sex possible in their marriage.
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On today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna are talking with Laura Heck on the subject of sex and desire in marriage.
Laura Heck is a licensed marriage and family therapist and Certified Gottman Therapist. She is a relationship specialist, meaning she doesn't work with teenagers, doesn't treat eating disorders, and doesn't heal past life trauma. Nope...Laura is solely focused on helping couples. That's it. Learn more about Laura Heck
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On today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna are talking with Dr. Kim Kimberling on the subject of oneness and spiritual intimacy.
Dr. Kim Kimberling has been a professional counselor for over thirty years. He holds a PhD and a Doctor of Ministry in Christian Counseling. He also holds Masters Degrees in Christian Ministry and Theological Studies. Dr. Kim is President and co-founder of Awesome Marriage, which reaches thousands of people with God's plan for marriage and relationships. Dr. Kim's inspiration and passion for marriage began at a young age as he watched his parents live out the true meaning of having an Awesome Marriage centered around God's incredible plan. He is open and honest about the struggles he has experienced in his own marriage and uses these personal examples to help others. He lives with Nancy, his wife of 40 years, in Oklahoma City, OK. Learn more about Awesome Marriage
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On today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna are talking with Dr. Morgan Cutlip on the subject of infidelity in marriage. Dr. Morgan is a wife, mom to Effie and Roy, a Ph.D. in psychology, and the life-long lover of all things relationships. She develops online courses and resources at Love Thinks and manages the blog at mylovethinks.com. Feel free to hang out with Dr. Morgan on Instagram @mylovethinks and check out her new course The Mother Load: Helping Couples Unite to Tackle the Mental Load.
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna, are discussing how an introvert and extrovert married couple can experience deep intimacy without compromising on their core needs.
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna, discuss why having common goals are so good for your marriage, and how you can use common goals to create new intimacy in your relationship.
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On this week's episode of Growing In Marriage Big Rich and DeAnna have fun with the subject of vacation–specifically what not to do.
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On today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna return for part two of a two part series on the purpose of marriage. Big Rich and DeAnna talk about the point of marriage, its origins, what the point of it all is and what it's doing in your life.
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On today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna start a new series on the purpose of marriage. Big Rich and DeAnna talk about the point of marriage, its origins, what the point of it all is and what it's doing in your life.
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This week on the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about what to do when you start feeling the pressure to leave your marriage. Stress is part of every relationship and so are trials. If we are not looking at our stressors and trials through the right lens, we might miss what God has for us.
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss the woman caught in adultery as the story is told in John chapter 8. There are several ways you should see yourself in the account and because of that, it should lead you to the same conclusions as the people in the story. Forgiveness can be very difficult to work through in marriage, but when you see yourself as the one needing forgiveness, it helps us extend and offer forgiveness to the offenses done against us.
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast Big Rich and DeAnna discuss the importance of not sweating the small stuff. Mistakes are a part of life. When we react harshly or when we overreact to a mistake our spouse has made it can create a culture of fear and uncertainty in your marriage. Misplaced value will lead us to treasure the wrong things in our marriage. This week we will learn what really deserves priority in your relationship.
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This week on the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss the importance of the Black Lives Matter movement and the death of George Floyd at the hands of Minnesota police officers. Racism touches all of our lives, for some everyday. Learn how you can begin to affect positive change in your community and city.
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On this week's episode of Growing In Marriage Big Rich and DeAnna share the importance of not wasting your time in quarantine/sheltering in place. We all have things we have told ourself we would like to work on if we had the time. Well, now is the time.
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast Big Rich and DeAnna discuss spiritual intimacy and what God has been speaking to them individually lately.
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna are back from a small break and we are sharing the reason we took our break and what we have been up to. The reason we took our break might shock you.
We also discuss our new book, Face to Faceand how you can get a copy for yourself. It has always been a dream of ours to produce quality resources, tools every couple can put in their tool belt and implement quickly in their marriage and get real, tangible results. Face to Faceis that kind of resource.
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When do you most feel connected to God? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna are going to answer this question in their own personal lives and offer up some ways for you to connect with God in new and fresh ways in your relationship.
Do you express your appreciation toward your spouse as well as you could, or in a meaningful way to you spouse? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna will share how you can be more impactful in showing your spouse appreciation.
It's the only thing people are talking about. You can't get away from it, it's the coronavirus. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna will talk about ways you can support your spouse through the coronavirus.
Today, Big Rich and DeAnna are answering a question from a Listener who emailed saying, "My marriage is on the rocks... please help.")
After a disagreement or a big fight, you may feel disconnected from your spouse. It's normal. But how do you repair the broken connection and start moving forward again. Conflict in marriage is also normal–you're two different people you see the world differently–learning to minimize disconnection in your conflict and having less conflict is the goal. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna are going to talk about how you can achieve this in your marriage.
Big Rich and DeAnna talk about how you can apply the Five Love Languages to your marriage and give you practical examples for each love language.
The purpose of date night is to connect with your spouse. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna are going to give you a framework that you can use to help you plan a successful date night.
Is the grass really greener on the other side? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss the grass and what to do about it.
Today Big Rich and DeAnna are answering a question from a Listener and who writes in and says, "My husband has told me that he loves me but is not sure if he is in love with me." We are helping this Listener navigate these difficult waters.
On today's podcast we are answering a question from a listener about betrayal. This question comes to us from and Instagram DM. Big Rich and DeAnna tackle tough topics and provide tough answers.
Today we are celebrating the release of our new resource for married couples, Jumpstart. It's a 30 day adventure that builds lasting intimacy and a closer friendship with your spouse. Our great friends Tommy and Shannon McKiernan are interviewing us and of course we're all laughing our heads off.
If you want to know if this resource is for you, this is the episode to listen to. We will do a deep dive on Jumpstart and share some of the behind the scenes things that happened as we were creating this product.
If you want to know what's possible in your marriage by using Jumpstart and if Jumpstart is right for you, you don't want to miss this episode.
Ever read a passage of Scripture and get offended by what it says because it doesn't sound progressive enough? Or maybe it sounds degrading and outdated? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna, will talk about one of those passages and how we should see it as God intended us to view it.
Today, Big Rich, DeAnna, and Caroline Howard answer a listener's question from Instagram in response the podcast episode 105 on Feelings.
Today we answer a listener's question about trust. Big Rich and DeAnna also introduce Jumpstart and I wish DeAnna a Happy Birthday!
Today we are talking about what motivates someone to change. Big Rich and DeAnna share some of their motivations and how you can identify what may move you to change.
Today, Caroline Howard joins us to talk about feelings and how they can help you build intimacy in your marriage.
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On today's episode Big Rich and DeAnna discuss what you can do to stay connected during the busy time of year. Making sure you recognize your spouse's attempts to connect and turning toward your spouse are keys to holding on to your intimacy with one another.
Happy Thanksgiving, everyone! Today, we are having a conversation about how we talk to each other in marriage. Specifically, we will be discussing ineffective ways we speak to each other and how we can improve our conversation with our spouse.
On today's episode we are sharing a behind the scenes "look" at how we connect on a specific day of the week. This episode is not like our normal show but it's sure to have you laughing and thinking about how you will connect with your spouse.
Ladies, has your husband ever expressed to you that he thinks his contribution of going to work is enough? A lot of husbands feel like working is the biggest contribution to the relationship and their work absolves them of any responsibility to help with household chores. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna, share how you can get past this in your marriage and begin to move forward.
Today, Big Rich and DeAnna celebrate 100 episodes of the Growing In Marriage podcast. Listen as they celebrate this important milestone.
Are your differences keeping you apart, or are they pulling you closer together? When we celebrate our differences rather than seeing them as something that separates you, they become incredibly powerful to create new intimacy and new levels of engagement in your marriage. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna, talk about celebrating the things that make us different.
Everyone has a question or two they don't want to answer or would rather not be asked. Today, we are asking the hard questions. Listen as Big Rich and DeAnna explore these questions and share how you can grow and connect with your spouse through these difficult inquiries.
Marriage isn't all roses. Ask any couple. Marriage gets hard at times. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss why marriage gets hard and how you can weather the storm.
On today's podcast we are talking to Newlyweds. This podcast is for you. My brother Tom married his best friend, Toni, and she is amazing! We asked our followers on Instagram to give their best advice to Newlyweds and we are going to share what they wrote and some of our own wisdom as well. Happy listening, it's a great episode.
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who always needs to be right? You know the type, it's their way or no way, all the time. Today Big Rich and DeAnna discuss how you can move past being right and work together to find a solution that works best for the marriage.
It's not always easy to be compassionate and merciful to your spouse. But, as Jesus demonstrates, it's our compassion for one another that should lead us to acts of service. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss the significance of the parable of the Good Samaritan and how it relates to your marriage to transform your relationship.
Listen as Big Rich and DeAnna discuss some distinguishing marks of a Christian marriage and why yours should be different than most relationships.
How is your marriage doing? Can you openly and freely talk to your spouse regarding the state of your relationship? Today Big Rich and DeAnna discuss how you can have a profitable State of the Marriage meeting.
Growing in our relationship with God is a journey, not a series of tasks and goals. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about how couples can grow in their relationship with God together, as husband and wife, and how to overcome some of the common pitfalls that frustrate us and cause us to give up.
Listening is a skill everyone should have in their tool belt. It's also a tool we should constantly fine tune and sharpen because it pays huge dividends. On today's podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna, talk about the importance of becoming proficient in the art of listening and how you can make small changes to ensure your spouse feels heard, validated and understood.
Today, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about how important it is that we address the issue of our speech and how we talk to our spouse. Our speech can set us up for success, or it can sabotage our interactions before they even begin. Learn about the core reason our tongues give us so much trouble and what we can do about it.
Looking back on your marriage, do you recognize any misconceptions about marriage you may have had prior to saying, "I do?" Well, we are sharing a few of our misconceptions, and shedding a little light on why having misconceptions can be doing more damage to your relationship than you think.
Relax and enjoy this light hearted conversation that is sure to make you chuckle.
We had the amazing opportunity to travel to Seattle and attend The Art and Science of Love by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. Today we are sharing our experience and some of the highlights of the conference.
Book Reference:
- Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Scripture References:
- Matthew 7:12
- Mark 12:31
- Proverbs 15:1
What's the difference between a marriage on autopilot versus one that is fully engage and deeply connected? Purpose and intentionality. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about what it means to have a marriage on autopilot and how to remedy the relationship if it just coasting along.
Scripture references:
- Proverbs 1:32 (ESV, NCV)
- Luke 12:13-21
- James 4:17
On today's episode, we welcome our guests, Aaron and Jennifer Smith, and we are talking with them about their new book, Marriage After God.
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Making time for yourself can be pretty challenging. But when you take the time for yourself you come back to your spouse better. On today's episode we are talking about the importance of taking time in your marriage to recharge, relax and refresh.
How do I pray for my spouse? We are asked this question often. Prayer doesn't have to be difficult, but for some, it is. If you are one of those people who find prayer challenging, this podcast is for you. We are going to direct you down the right path and offer three tangible ways you can change your outlook and practice of prayer.
Scripture references:
- Matthew 7:7-11
- 3 John 2
- Psalms 46:1
- Proverbs 21:17
- Galatians 5:16, 22-23
- John 15:1-12
- Ecclesiastes 2:24-26; 5:18-20
What do you do when you and your spouse are unable to see eye-to-eye? How do you get on the same page? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna, answer a Listener's question regarding a situation he is currently facing in his marriage. It's a problem every marriage faces and one that has real potential to create deep intimacy and lasting connection or fuel anger and isolation.
Scripture references:
- Luke 9:23
- Phil. 2:3
- James 1:5
Today, Big Rich and DeAnna, discuss four things they wish they would have done sooner in their marriage. Every marriage suffers from bad choices and mistakes. Learning from those choices and mistakes is the goal. Today, we want you to learn from our examples.
Scriptures used:
- Proverbs 12:27
- Proverbs 24:30-34
- Proverbs 26:15-16
- Proverbs 11:14
There are specific markers in one's professional career that stand out above the others. Today is one of those days. We are having our first Ted Talk! Today, we welcome Ted Lowe as our guest. Ted is one of the co-hosts of the Married People Podcast. Ted has been responsible for shaping marriages and marriage ministries all across the county. To find out more about Ted and his ministry you can visit marriedpeople.org or visit @marriedpeople on Facebook or Instagram.
Today Big Rich and DeAnna talk with Ted about all things marriage: serving, conflict, divorce, surviving heartache, and more. Our interview with Ted was about an hour long; we couldn't stop. So, if you are joining us while on your walk, or drive home, plan for a little extra time to enjoy all of this episode.
Today Big Rich and DeAnna discuss "5 Things Your Husband Wants You To Know About His Sexuality." This fun, candid conversation about sex will make you laugh, challenge your perspectives and give you the boldness you may need to have a courageous conversation with your spouse.
On today's show Big Rich and DeAnna talk about living with a spouse who has low self esteem.
When trust is given, rarely do we expect it to be broken. However, when someone breaks their word, repairing the breach can be difficult waters to navigate. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna start a conversation around rebuilding trust and what that actually means. Maybe, more importantly, what it looks like.
Thanks for joining us for part two of our conversation with Jimmy and Rachel Barkley. If you have not listened to part one of this interview, you do not want to want to miss it. Go back and listen before diving into this episode (or go back and listen after you consume this one, haha).
Developing a strong sense of self is important. Not having a strong sense of self can be detrimental, not only for you, but your marriage. On today's podcast, we are talking to Jimmy and Rachel Barkley of Revival House Podcast (www.revivalhouse.org). They are sharing how identity and a strong sense of self can be developed. Jimmy and Rachel are Marriage Coaches and are certified in the Life Languages Profile. For a chance to win a free Life Languages Profile, visit www.growinginmarriage.com.
Developing a strong sense of self is important. Not having a strong sense of self can be detrimental, not only for you, but your marriage. On today's podcast, we are talking to Jimmy and Rachel Barkley of Revival House Podcast (www.revivalhouse.org). They are sharing how identity and a strong sense of self can be developed. Jimmy and Rachel are Marriage Coaches and are certified in the Life Languages Profile. For a chance to win a free Life Languages Profile, visit www.growinginmarriage.com.
Today, we are answering a question from Stacy, who asks, "What are some great ways to improve communication?" DeAnna and I will give five keys to better understand one another and to help you build lasting intimacy in your marriage.
Love is multifaceted and is expressed in a million different ways. Continuing from last week, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss five ways a wive should express love to their husband.
Love is multifaceted and is expressed in a million different ways. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss five ways husbands should express love to their wives.
Every good leader should know their strengths, but they should also know their weaknesses as well. It's not different for marriage. We should be aware of our marital weaknesses and learn how to plan for success in spite of them. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about identifying your marriage's weaknesses and how to make them work for you, not against you.
Ever wonder what happy couples talk about? Ever want to be a fly on the wall and listen to how those couples engage and converse with one another? Well today, we are going to share what happy couples talk about and why they are so darn happy.
Have you and your spouse stopped moving forward in your relationship? Has all forward progress to maturity, the marriage of your dreams, and personal growth ceased? If so, today's episode is for you. Learn how you can move the needle on growing in your marriage and how you can start moving forward again.
Have you ever received marriage advice you thought was good, but only to find out it didn't work? Or, better yet, the advice you received made things worse? Today, we are talking about and debunking bad marriage advice.
Your marriage needs great resources to thrive. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss three resources that have made a deep impact on their marriage. These books share practical godly wisdom on how to walk in marriage as God intended. You will not want to miss their discussion.
It's time to fight, but not with each other. Your spouse is not your enemy and it's time we put the focus and shine the light on the real adversary in your marriage and stop focusing on your spouse. Learn how you can take three simple steps to start fighting the real enemy in your relationship and grow in your marriage together.
Merry Christmas, Growing In Marriage Family! On today's podcast our kids, Micah and Olivia are joining us to talk about our favorite Christmas memories and traditions.
Social media use in marriage is silently killing intimacy and relational connectedness between husbands and wives. Today, we talk about what to look out for and how to guard your marriage against the overuse and inappropriate use of social media.
It's the holiday season and celebrating Jesus and the holiday season can take its toll on your relationship. Today, we will discuss how you can make memorable holiday memories with your spouse and family and stay connected during this wonderful season.
Are you tearing down your marriage and you don't realize it? Today Big Rich and DeAnna talk about how you might be sabotaging your marriage and working to tear it down, rather than building it up.
Marriage can be difficult to navigate and do well, but it's not impossible. Nowhere near it. In today's episode, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about the work it takes to have a successful marriage, one that you will be proud of and a marriage you have always dreamed about.
Are you micro-cheating on your spouse? On today's episode, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about this new phrase, "micro-cheating" and define what it is and how you can know if you are doing it.
Have you ever struggled with doing the right thing in your relationship with your spouse? Sometimes doing the right things means you will end up being last or coming out on the bottom. Today, we want to help and give you three principles that will help you do the right thing in your marriage.
Today Big Rich and DeAnna share five things you can do in your relationship to take it from good to great. Just like a standout professional athlete has things she does that take her game from good to great, we're going to show you how you can do that in your marriage.
On today's episode, Big Rich and DeAnna have fun with the topic of lingerie. Are there benefits to wearing lingerie? Is it worth the expense? Find out on today's podcast.
Husbands, are you lying to your spouse? On today's episode, I am in Denver, Co. with my buddy Zac Wilkinson. Today we are addressing the issue of not being truthful with your wife in your marriage. Wives, this podcast will serve to help your better understand what is going on inside of your husbands mind and why he is dishonest with you at times.
If you have ever experienced isolation and being cut off from the people and the things you love the most, you know what "the silent treatment" feels like. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about the devastating effects the silent treatment has on your marriage and you as an individual.
Today, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about expectations, encouragement and validating your spouse in your marriage. If you have not created an atmosphere where healthy encouragment and loving validation is happening in your marriage you will not want to miss this episode.
Today, Big Rich and DeAnna celebrate one year of podcasting. Listen to us share about the podcast and their personal lives on today's show.
Last week, we were joined by Tino and Miki Urias and they shared the first part of their story. Today, Tino and Miki finish the story of God's redeptive power in their marriage and how they overcame addiction in their home.
Today, Big Rich and DeAnna welcome Tino and Miki Urias. Living with a spouse who has an addiction is something you may be experiencing right now. We want you to know there is hope and freedom available for both of you. Addiction doesn't just affect one spouse. Listen as Tino and Miki share their story of hope, healing and freedom.
In marriage God has given us the wonderful gift of sex. Sex in marriage is a wonderful way to bond, experince pleasure and much more. Today we are going to discuss ways you are getting in your own way when it comes to frequency of sex in your marriage. We are going to provide you with 10 ways to guarantee you will not have sex.
Are you in an interracial marriage or know someone who is? What you could learn from an interracial marriage has the potential to strengthen your relationship. Listen as Big Rich and DeAnna talk a little bit about their marriage and what they have learned from one another over the years.
Are you a newlywed? If so, today's show is especially for you. If you have been married for more than two years, this show will hopefully make you evaluate where you are in your marriage and where you want to be next year. Listen as Big Rich and DeAnna answer a listener's email regaring his new, young marriage.
Today we wanted to encourage couples to reflect on the Love of God to sustain you right where you are in your marriage. Things may be very hard for you right now, if so, it's the love of God that will undergird you and see you through your current circumstances.
We all get stuck in our communication with our spouse from time-to-time. When we use statements like, "you always," or "you never," communication gets stuck quickly. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna, are going to show you how to work through your communication and help you get unstuck so you can continue to move forward in connection and intimacy with your spouse.
Today we are answering three question about sex in marriage. Three questions that some couples may wonder, "is it ok if we do 'that?'" It's about to get real!
Every marriage could benefit from a marriage checkup. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna start the conversation and ask you to evaluate your marriage with your spouse.
We have a great podcast today. Our wonderful friends, Tom and Christy Smith, from The House, Modesto, join us as we talk about selfishness in marriage. Selfishness is an intimacy killer and it will break your connection with your spouse. Listen as Big Rich, DeAnna, Tom and Christy discuss how you can root out selfishness in your marriage.
Today's episode is all about control. When you are out of control in your personal life, you will inevitably attempt to control your spouse and others. Self-control is a fruit of God's spirit that if worked in your life, will allow you to break free from controlling others and ruling over your passions.
Starring at the person in the mirror is always one of the toughest things to do. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss how you can become a better version of yourself in order to create a better version of your marriage.
Vacationing together is super important in your marriage. Do you vacation well. Listen to Big Rich and DeAnna this week as they talk about what they have learned over the years and share how you can have a refreshing holiday with your spouse.
Last week Chris and Caroline Howard joined us to discuss how a couple can begin to recover after one spouse leaves. This week, Chris and Caroline are back with part two. Today we discus how to create a support system in your marriage that will help you grow in your intimacy with one another, but also with other couples. You don't want to miss this episode. Learn how to do life with your spouse and with other trusted people.
On today's show we welcome special guests, Chris and Caroline Howard, to share their story of God's amazing grace and restoring virtue in their marriage. Chris and Caroline share how God redeemed their marriage when it was at its lowest and with no hope in sight. Chris was lost in a prescription drug and pornography addiction coupled with multiple emotional affairs and one physical affair. Caroline was forced to deal with the idol of her heart, co-dependency. Listen how God saved this marriage when Chris and Caroline decided to grow in their marriage by submitting to Jesus.
Dealing with in-laws can be a touchy subject in marriage. Learning to navigate those waters with wisdom and discernment can be tricky. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about how to address the subject of in-laws in a God-honoring way and not allow it to negatively impact your marriage.
Who's leading in your marriage? What does leadership look like? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss what leadership in marriage is and look at how Jesus is the chief example of what good leadership looks like.
Is money causing tension in your marriage? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna, welcome special guests Chris and Natalie Lewis, to talk about the challenges finances can present in your relationship. This dynamic couple will share their journey to a debt free life and how you can strengthen your marriage through financial freedom.
Are you allowing your insecurities to rob your marriage? Learn how you can tackle your personal insecurities head on and leverage the friendship of your marriage to kick insecurity to the curb!
Today we are answering three question about sex in marriage. We want to answer these three questions that some couples may wonder, "is it ok if we do 'that?'" We also have a really cool sex challenge for you and your spouse.
How do you guard against an emotional affair in your marriage? On today's podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna will discuss how to recognize an emotional affair and safeguard against one.
We all get busy and being busy can sometimes feel like guest who has totally overstayed their welcome. When we get busy, we can lose focus, develop tunnel vision and allow resentment to settle in. Being busy is not the problem that causes us to lose connection with our spouse, its being unprepared. Today we will start a conversation on how to stay connected during a busy season and what things you can do to tackle busyness in your marriage.
Sometimes encouraging your spouse in their relationship with Jesus can be a scary thing to do. Trust us, we know! This doesn't have to be a topic that produces anxiety or stress in your relationship at all. On today's podcast, we are going to give you six tangible things you can do to encourage your spouse to pursue Jesus.
Ever wonder just what exactly it means to be naked and not ashamed? On today's podcast Big Rich and DeAnna talk about Genesis 2:25 and what it means to live naked and not ashamed with your spouse.
Playing together as a couple is so important. In fact, if you currently don't play together, learning to play together has some real benefits. Listen today as DeAnna and I talk about playing together as a couple.
This week we DeAnna and I have a fun time reminiscing on past Valentine's Days and talk about what it takes to plan a fun, romantic evening.
How do you support your spouse when they are going through a difficult time? The thought of "being there" can be tough to imagine exactly what that looks like. Today, Big Rich will share of a very personal story of God dealing with his heart and how the grace of God made him a better man.
Do you know the daily threats that are trying to ruin and sabotage your marriage? Maybe a better question would be, what are you doing to neutralize those threats? Listen as we discuss a few of the threats that are threatening your marriage and what to do about them.
Having a marriage mentor can be a great fountain of wisdom for you and your spouse. Today we discuss some of the benefits of a marriage mentor and why you may want to find a couple to fill that role in your relationship.
Happy New Year! Do you and your spouse have new year resolutions? On today's episode we talk about why resolutions don't work and how goals are better disciplines to get you where you want to be in your marriage in 2018?
Josh and Maegan Letras join us again this week as we discuss a few of the attributes that characterize a good wife. After hearing today's episode you will walk away encouraged and ready to take action.
Today, Josh and Maegan Letras join us as we discuss a few of the attributes that characterize a good husband. After hearing today's episode you will walk away encouraged and ready to take action.
Every marriage goes through difficult times. Those times of difficulty are for our growth and sanctification. Today we will discuss three red flags that could signal the beginning of a troubled marriage.
There are some marriages that posses certain qualities and characteristics that are worth our attention. Today we will talk about three qualities of a solid marriage and how you can begin to implement these into your relationship.
Sexual frustration is something every marriage will have to deal with at some point in the relationship. Sexual frustration can happen for any number of reasons and in any season of marriage. So, how do you deal with sexual frustration and how do you grow through sexual dissatisfaction in marriage? This is the question we will answer on the podcast today.
How should you respond to a spouse who only remembers the negative things in your relationship? How do you move forward and work toward cultivating a relationship that is not single sided? Today we answer this listeners question.
It's our first variety show. Listen as we discuss Thanksgiving, friendship and compliments in marriage.
Part two: Pornography is one of the biggest problems affecting our culture today. Porn has not only infiltrated the culture, but the church as well. It is destroying marriages and robbing them of the intimacy and oneness God intended you to have. In today's episode we will discuss pornography in marriage.
Pornography is one of the biggest problems affecting our culture today. Porn has not only infiltrated the culture, but the church as well. It is destroying marriages and robbing them of the intimacy and oneness God intended you to have. In today's episode we will discuss pornography in marriage.
Ever wonder why some couples have joy in their marriage and some just can't seem to find it? Today, we will discuss joy. What is it? How do you get it? And what purpose does it serve in your marriage? All this and more on today's show.
How do you connect with your spouse day-to-day? On today's episode we discuss how we do it and give you some tips and pointers how you can create a culture of connecting in your own marriage.
(Part 2): Every marriage suffers conflict and effectively working through that conflict can seem so difficult at times. Today, Tommy and Shannon McKiernan join us and talk about conflict in marriage and the upcoming Soulmates Marriage Retreat.
Every marriage suffers conflict and effectively working through that conflict can seem so difficult at times. Today, Tommy and Shannon McKiernan join us and talk about conflict in marriage and the upcoming Soulmates Marriage Retreat.
Bitterness is a sharp arrow that destroys anyone and anything in its path. None of us are immune to bitterness but there are things we can do to prevent it from growing in our heart. On today's show a listener asks how to better deal with feelings of bitterness in her marriage.
Are you dating your spouse? If you answered, "No", this episode is for you. If you answered, "Yes", this episode will put more tools in your tool belt. Having a regular date night is important, find out why on today's show.
Are you praying for your spouse? Is prayer something you regularly practice in your marriage? Today we look at this question and address some of the challenges couples have with prayer and how to overcome those obstacles.
Today Big Rich and DeAnna ask the question, "Are you sexually confident?" Listen as they explore this topic and talk about their journey along this road.
Life has seasons, and so does your marriage. Today on the show we discuss the four seasons of marriage and help you identify what season you may be experiencing. In each season you can grow, connect, and experience deep intimacy with your spouse, today we begin by identifying the seasons.
There may be things in your life that are keeping you from moving forward in your marriage. These things have the potential to stifle intimacy between you and your spouse. In today’s episode we will discuss how to identify and surrender the things that keep you from progressing and growing in your relationship.
We're baaaack! We are back from a time of regrouping and intentional focus. This week we ask the question: What happens when your image becomes more important than your reality? Join us as we start the conversation on this topic.