The Oasis 13: Recent Episodes
E-money Honey
Dissecting relationships in all aspects of life. With yourself, family, friends, lovers, and the world around you.
What's your relationship like with you siblings? Love them? Hate them? Both?
Podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/bl9YfgGrS7M
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The Oasis 13 is all about gaining understanding through podcast discussions, topics, and self healing. I hope you find value through the content.
I am joined by Ina and Daron of Rich Earth Family to discuss the beauty and complications of relationships
Real ones aren't perfect and have problems
Both of them are dope.
Follow them!
Ina:https://www.instagram.com/medimommi/?hl=en
Daron: https://www.instagram.com/richearthdaddy/?hl=en
Family: https://www.instagram.com/richearthfamily/?hl=en
Podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/l-86e4AAa4s
Intro 0:00- 4:00
Learning how to be in relationship/how they met 4:00- 10:13
Similar lifestyles 10:13- 19:23
studying each other for understanding 19:23- 25:15
couples you look up to show what you value 25:15- 29:52
who is more dominant? 29:52- 33:15
doing business together 33:15 - 37:59
understanding compatibility 37:59 - 45: 25
putting in the effort 45:25 - 54:30
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The Oasis 13 is all about gaining understanding through podcast discussions, topics, and self healing. I hope you find value through the content.
Do you think competing within relationships is healthy?
Do you compete with your friends/ family?
Podcast on Youtube: https://youtu.be/UAMfC2wgwXc
This is a reupload from June 2020. New episode Tuesday after next.
So in this episode I bring up the topic of why there is so much more emphasis put on romantic relationships than friendships?
Are friendships just as important, not as important, or less important than romantic relationships?
Why is it so difficult to have genuine friendships as adults?
The different dynamics between male and female friendships.
Also, I touch on understanding the differences in others and what's tolerable to what's not.
Let me know what y'all think in the comments.
Like, comment, subscribe!! All dat All dat.
Intro song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V71cl130ARg
Kier & Them:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtTR6JXjpxKUh8oljwDvQNA
Tab and Chance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SbmkLDCL_C0&t=1332s
Talking financial literacy with the hosts of Everybody Eats Show Bensky and Edem
Why the name Everybody Eats? 0:00- 6:48
Purpose of Money? 6:48- 13:35
Practical Financial Knowledge 13:35- 16:65
Does money have spiritual significance? 17:24- 27:25
What does the future look like as a financially healthy community? 27:25- 35:05
Importance of all around well being 35:05- 45:00
Fave episode 45:00-49:25
Follow them! 49:25- 50:39
Podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Q1uOyhNmv2k
Everybody Eats socials
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOd-el0UYxyftuuNrFVzgWQ
https://www.facebook.com/EverybodyEatsShow/
https://www.instagram.com/everybodyeatsshow/
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/everybody-eats-show/id1480963171
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The Oasis 13 is all about gaining understanding through podcast discussions, topics, and self healing. I hope you find value through the content.
How to figure out when to move on from something and when to go back
It's very difficult to figure this out, so I break down my reasoning and how I decide
What have you come to learn when it comes to this?
Another point that I forgot to make is it also relates to self. Knowing when to move on to who we are becoming and not holding on to who we were
Podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/AtZC4LLYbVU
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The Oasis 13 is all about gaining understanding through podcast discussions, topics, and self healing. I hope you find value through the content.
Season Finale!! I am a former black love only advocate. Black love has been portrayed to us in the media in some ways as the best to get. With that King and Queen image. That's a fantasy. While I still think black love is great, so is interracial love. Neither better than the other, just as long as you are with someone on your level, willing to build, who loves and respects you. Black women have to stop trying to save black men and do what is best for us. This episode has a lot of visual aspects so check out on YouTube for better experience. https://youtu.be/H3K6rSKePoA IG:https://www.instagram.com/theoasis13_/ Website: https://theoasis13.com/ The Oasis 13 is all about gaining understanding through podcast discussions, topics, and self healing. I hope you find value through the content.
Dr. Karaam has worked very hard to create a curriculum for our children.
As many people who worked in the school system he saw the way things were taught is not catered to our ways of learning or culture. So he has built an ENTIRE curriculum, which he has just began to implement.
Check out this video for more detailed information on the curriculum. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GoUwtIG_2ww
Connect with Dr. Karaam Email: tohscontact@gmail.com; thekalucenter@gmail.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/thekalucenter/
* YouTube sound only in one ear on headphones, listen on podcast platforms if using headphones.***
Podcast on Youtube: https://youtu.be/sMcOAQQj8fc
IG:https://www.instagram.com/theoasis13_/Website: https://theoasis13.com/
The Oasis 13 is all about gaining understanding through podcast discussions, topics, and self healing. I hope you find value through the content.
Let's get back to our natural ways of healing. Everything has meaning and is connected. Link to YouTube: https://youtu.be/ziOXsD1_kz8
We have the chance now to rebuild our communities.
I am joined by Katt and Stephen from Tribe Kollective to talk about how we go about doing that.
For building community we have to address what we allow and do not allow and what consequences we would have for when you go against the code
Also we talk about what we do to keep ourselves motivated so that we can offer our best selves to our community.
Should there be different communities for what level you're at in you're life?
Podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iuh8WEc-ITQ
Tribe Kollective is a group in the Hampton Roads, VA area that set up events for the black community. They host trips to the farms, highlight black businesses, have educational classes, meditation classes. That's only a fraction of what they offer. Check them out, if you're in the area!
Website: http://tribekollective.org/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/tribekollective/
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The Oasis 13 is all about gaining understanding through podcast discussions, topics ,and self healing. I hope you find value through the content.
This episode focuses on Ifa tradition specifically. I am joined by an Iya in Ifa tradition. I get to the root of why so many of our people are afraid of our traditional practices, how to ensure you know what you get into and so many of the similarities between African spiritual systems and mainstream religions. It's not as different as you think. Podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5PnX5Qflxak Article referenced: https://awesomelyluvvie.com/2020/08/christians-hypocrisy-demons-faith.html?fbclid=IwAR2dBPPvCgz7yHDeBlAz9xZ3Zje96uok3WkzXKLBUdhlQ7ieiKcBc3n55Kk Video referenced: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZJx7Eg5xm0&t=627s Contact Iya:osunbunmi.fayemi@gmail.com IG:https://www.instagram.com/theoasis13_/ Website: https://theoasis13.com/ The Oasis 13 is all about gaining understanding through podcast discussions, topics,and self healing. I hope you find value through the content.
Black woman excellence : self confidence, self love, self acceptance
Black women this is a love message to ourselves. Once we love ourselves the healing will trickle to everyone else because that's how powerful we are.
It is a journey to fully accept yourself as you are and love every bit of you.
Then have the confidence to walk out in that.
So let's talk through that. I share my journey as well.
Tune in. Share your thoughts.
Please don't forget you are beautiful as you are. As long as you are healthy, God didn't make any mistakes.
Podcast on Youtube: https://youtu.be/mU8lWzjU0lo
IG:https://www.instagram.com/theoasis13_/ Website: https://theoasis13.com/ The Oasis 13 is all about gaining understanding through podcast discussions, topics,and self healing. I hope you find value through the content.
Bridging the gap between Africans and African Americans
Do Africans and African Americans look down on one another?
Can African American claim Africa as their home? Will Africans accept us? Will African Americans accept Africans?
Tune in as I touch on these topics with the beautiful ladies of wtfigo podcast.
Check them out! IG:https://www.instagram.com/wtfigopod/Podcast:https://anchor.fm/what-the-fuck-is-going-on
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Website: https://theoasis13.com/
The Oasis 13 is all about gaining understanding through podcast discussions, topics, and self healing. I hope you find value through the content.
Podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/BgFZO3PHbW4
Is Astrology even real?
What can it be used for?
How can you decipher between this fake and real astrology?
Tune in as Star and I go into these topics!
Follow star! IG: https://www.instagram.com/mastarsoul/
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The Oasis 13 is all about gaining understanding through podcast discussions, topics ,and self healing. I hope you find value through the content.
Season 3 ep.1 Impact of HBCUs
The podcast is backkk! I am joined by Sonny Forbes and we talk about our experience going to a HBCU. It's an experience that forever changed both of our lives.
We talk about some of the misconceptions, crazy stories, and just the feeling it gave us. You can't help but be proud to be black after attending.
Pod notes
intro 0:00changing the narrative 4:38purpose of college 8:30getting exposure 12:10my experience of choosing a HBCU 14:38Black stories ( Drumline, A Different World) 18:11common misconceptions 21:24differences between HBCUs and PWIs 26:14 What we gained 29:30 Mentorship 39:10 Say you went to a HBCU without saying it 49:47 Closing remarks 54:50
Check out Sonny Forbes Podcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/th/podcast/sonny-school-the-podcast/id1536803881IG:https://www.instagram.com/sonnyschoolthepodcast/
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Website: https://theoasis13.com/
The Oasis 13 is all about gaining understanding through podcast discussions, topics, and self healing. I hope you find value through the content.
Hot Topics! Quavo & Saweetie, Derrick Jaxn & wife, and Lil Nas X are all reviewed this episode. I also give a breakdown of all the episodes from season 2.
Podcast notes Gratitude:1:18 Pay homage to tragedies that occured in VA 3/26: 4:18ep 1 recap: 7:56ep 2 recap: 10:26ep 3 recap: 10:52ep 4 recap: 15:07ep 5 recap: 15:55ep 6 recap: 20:00ep 7 recap: 21:22ep 8 recap: 23:05HOT TOPICS!! 26:00Quavo & Saweetie: 26:43Corny dude traits: 36:25Derrick Jaxn & Wife: 40:06Lil Nas X : 47:06
IG:https://www.instagram.com/theoasis13_/Website: https://theoasis13.com/ The Oasis 13 is all about gaining understanding through podcast discussions, topics,and self healing. I hope you find value through the content.
I used to think of my parents as superheroes. Then I grew up.
In this episode, I go through humanizing our parents and loving them for who they are. Not who we wish them to be.
Our relationships with our parents are our first relationships and set the tone for our relationships with others.
Podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/rrvOuuTCfy8
Welcome Welcome!
Season 2 Episode 7 Seated in Faith: How do mental, physical,spiritual, and emotional all relate?
Podcast on Youtube: https://youtu.be/mty8lZW6wYg
Jerome Sage Butler gave some amazing insight on being rooted in faith. He tells his journey of returning to faith, and also healing himself from himself.
We also go into how important it is to be healed on the mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional level. They all affect the other and are important.
The healing is not easy, but it is necessary. When we put our faith in God to guide us on our journey, it will become a bit clearer.
Tune in for the amazing jewels from Jerome.
Follow Jerome and Seala Media:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SealaMedia/
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Welcome Welcome! Season 2 Episode 6 Black Woman Excellence: accountability in relationships.
Podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/JHN_neXiayc
Do we as black women take enough responsibility when it comes to the state of our relationships?
In the podcast episode I go over the state of relationships I am solely focused on how we as women contribute and how we can be better
What do you agree with?
What do you disagree with?
Shoutout to Jazmine Sullivan, Shahrazad Ali, and Sobunfu Some.
All clips referenced:
Cicely Tyson:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rop4MUFCmRc&list=WL&index=9&t=4s
Willie Lynch Letter: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PcXWr-6SQqE&list=WL&index=1
Jazmine Sullivan:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kw-Fymd9ylA
Shahrazad Ali:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S883ZY9Bvoc&list=WL&index=8
Sobunfu Some: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eIB6izeLTAc&list=WL&index=4
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Welcome Welcome!
Season 2 Ep.5 Using tantra for deeper connection and better relationships.
Podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/0zrHik-t7I4
What is tantra???
How does tantra deepen your connection with yourself and within relationships??
Renee and I dive deep into tantra, intimacy, and the stigma around sex.
Disclaimer: conversations regarding sexual activity are intended for mature audiences who understand the consequences and responsibilities.
Tell us in the comments what’s the most interesting thing you heard this episode?
Follow Renee: https://prandharaprem.com/about/ https://youtube.com/c/Ren%C3%A9eAdolphe
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Welcome Welcome! Season 2 Episode 4: Is there such a thing as being too nice in relationships??? Podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/k2-eGPRjQsI Oh my goodness! Is there miscommunication between black men and women or what???!! We got men bashing women and women bashing men. Like damnnn where is the love? Gambo from MENtality radio and I discuss some very hot topics within relationships. Men do you prefer nice women? Women do you prefer nice guys? Are you staying in your lane, as Gambo says? Aye let us know your responses in the comments. Tune in for our take from our experiences. Do you agree with us or no? Follow MENtality: https://www.instagram.com/mentalityradio/ Follow me: IG: https://www.instagram.com/theoasis13_/ https://theoasis13.com/
Welcome Welcome! Season 2 Episode 3: Stay in America or Move Abroad? Podcast on Youtube: https://youtu.be/YuzLdD3tjbM As black Americans, it can seem difficult living in America. It's a hostile environment many times for us. For that reason, many people are choosing to live abroad. Dara and I have both had the experience of living abroad and share our take. We discuss racism, loneliness, and our final decision as whether we choose the state side or abroad life. Tune in for a detailed discussion of our many exciting and crazy experiences. Follow Dara: https://www.instagram.com/daradarlingxx/ Follow me: IG: https://www.instagram.com/theoasis13_/ https://theoasis13.com/
Welcome welcome!
Season 2 Episode 2: The year of growth:2020 recap \
Podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/nXltJR_ki5A
We are nearing the end of 2020! How wild is that?
In this episode Kris and I go over the biggest lessons and things we've learned from this crazy year.
We both agree we've been able to grow so much this year and it's made us level up! Tune in as we do a recap of the year.
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Welcome welcome to season 2.0 of the podcast!
For the first episode I am joined by Malcolm. We discuss the great art of storytelling. Specifically from the black community about us! Tune in as we dive into these questions and more!
What affect do stories about us have on us?
Why is it so important for us to tell our own stories?
What stories, movies, TV shows completely changed your perspective?
Follow Malcolm: https://www.instagram.com/1strangroff... https://www.1strangr.com/
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There is such a power in telling our own stories
I've written and recited one of my own short stories this episode.
You can check more out on www.theoasis13.com
The story recited will be live soon.
Check y'all next Tuesday.
Intro song: https://youtu.be/pdNpW65_Tcc
Hey y'all
Sooo in this episode I address the relation between misogyny and feminism and where women sexulity fits into between those.
I address the documentary On The Record.I also address my opinion of Russell running away to Indonesia where I lived previously and his role in the black community there.
I talk about the WAP video and women sexuality and we just discuss the ins and outs of these topics.
Intro song:https: https://youtu.be/olBOFLqEREI
Please check out the full documentary for yourself: https://youtu.be/DsbFW_d6J6M
For Harriet YouTube:https: https://youtu.be/ILApR36KgQw
Don't forget like,share,and comment!!!
Catch ya next Tuesday.
What's up y'all
So in this episode I bring up the topic of why there is so much more emphasis put on romantic relationships than friendships?
Are friendships just as important, not as important, or less important than romantic relationships?
Why is it so difficult to have genuine friendships as adults?
The different dynamics between male and female friendships.
Also, I touch on understanding the differences in others and what's tolerable to what's not.
Let me know what y'all think in the comments.
Like, comment, subscribe!! All dat All dat.
Intro song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V71cl130ARg
Kier & Them:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtTR6JXjpxKUh8oljwDvQNA
Tab and Chance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SbmkLDCL_C0&t=1332s
Catch ya'll next Tuesday.
Hey y'all
Thank you for tuning into this episode.
It's September 2020 and the world is still going crazy.
Instead of talking about the events going on from face value I wanted to offer the spiritual perspective.
It's the only way we can make sense of all that's going on and find the higher meaning.
Intro song:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TgItkJCm09c
Les Brown: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QzeTzOpKd5U
Bobby Hemmitt: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X67E4jYx5-E
Gil Scott: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kZvWt29OG0s
Hey guys!
Got a fun episode this week.
Paul and I ,also known as musical wordsmith, discuss our love for music.
Paul shares his recommendations of new artists and we discuss the verzuz battles. I also test his knowledge with some quizzes at the end.
Check out more from Paul. He writes articles on music. He also makes awesome playlists on Spotify.
IG: @musical_wordsmith
www.paulbarnes.wordpress.com
Featured song:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Azn_f0R0SG8
Catch y'all next week!
Hey y'all
transparent moment
As I was re-listening to this, there are a couple glitches in the audio. They don't last for long and didn't want to delete the episode. It's still worth checking out. Still a solid episode. Thanks for understanding!
To be completely candid for the last couple of weeks I've been feeling very unmotivated and lazy.
I had to check in with myself and ground myself. I share 6 practices that help keep me grounded in this world.
What keeps you grounded?
Let me know!
Like, share, comment, and subscribe!
Featured intro song:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5KBV_Y16yC4
Black yogi for relaxation: Arianna Elizabeth:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6HhF-dMOqwA8m_ZspeA9kQ
Black yogi that will make you sweat: Abiola Akanni https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9W80oIe7cLOF_UYgDk7q6w
Hey y'all
In this episode I have a conversation with Mecca.
We both have worked/work with the youth and we discuss patterns we see in the children, relating to them, and learning as much from them as they learn from us.
Our youth needs strong leaders, supporters, and more representation.
How do you think we can effectively work in our communities to support the youth?
Also towards the end, I ask Mecca to share valuable principles from the 5% nation. Open your mind and check it out!
You can find Mecca here:IG@beenblack.meccamade
Featured intro song:
Damian Marley - So A Child May Follow -
Stony Hill Album 2017 Buy On iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/ca/album/sto...
Label: Universal Records/Tuff Gong Records Copyright: ℗© 2017 Republic Records, a division of UMG Recordings, Inc
I do not own the copyrights to this music
Hey guys!
In this episode I have a very special guest my godbrother Omavi.
We discuss what we consider living outside of the box means.
Omavi and I's life took two different paths and we each share our own perspective on living our truths and the lessons we've learned from our own particular journeys. I tell my perspective of breaking the norm and traveling the world and he tells his perspective of buckling down to handle his responsibilities and setting himself/family up for the future.
We also discuss why living the "normal" life may not be all that bad sometimes.
What do you think?
What's your definition of living outside of the box?
Featured episode intro:https://youtu.be/7d3UnlNuLeQ
Hey y'all
So in this episode I have Mahogany of Mahsol Stationary join me.
We discuss work life balance, finding the right support when starting a business, the perspective you gain when becoming a business owner and much more!
What do you think? How do you maintain life/work balance?
Find more from MahSol Stationary here:https://www.etsy.com/shop/mahsolstationery/
Tune in. Share your thoughts.
Leave a review, like, and subscribe!
In this episode I just wanted to highlight Black women and highlight just a bit of Black Woman Excellence. I want to showcase Black women supporting other Black women.
Featured bomb black woman businesses
1.Sorella Magazine: https://www.sorellamag.org/
2.Black Girls Travel Too: https://www.blackgirlstraveltoo.com/
3.Black Girls Trekkin: https://blackgirlstrekkin.com/
- Black Girls Do STEM: https://bgdstem.com/
5.Black woman podcasts: https://www.blackenterprise.com/black-women-podcasts-for-2019/
6.Black Woman Defense League https://www.facebook.com/blackwomensdefenseleague/
Motivational speeches/poems:
1.Janelle Monae: https://youtu.be/lg8jGCab-0I
2.Danai Gurira: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dapygThJHrM
3.Maya Angelou: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IEz6BsYP5vc
4.Ernestine Morrison: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tN4Zulagb8
5.Nina Simone: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c3ClwX7oyXk
6.Angela Bassett: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZ4im5xES5o
Hey y'all.
In this episode I discuss the topic of mental health in the black community with my aunt Rebekah Charles who has extensive experience working in this community.
We touch on the not labeling the specific problem, the stigma in the black community, and just continuing the conversation so we can normalize getting help and finding resources to deal with challenges we face in this life.
You can find more from my aunt here:
https://www.rebekahcharles.com/
and
IG:rebekah.charles1113
Some resources that were discussed in the blog as well as others where you can seek support and help:
https://therapyforblackgirls.com/
https://www.beam.community/bvtnnj
https://www.melaninandmentalhealth.com/
https://www.inclusivetherapists.com/
https://www.nqttcn.com/
https://therapyforblackmen.org/
https://borislhensonfoundation.org/
https://www.synergyetherapy.com/
Hey guys!
Thank you for tuning into another episode of The Oasis 13.
In this episode, I discuss the culture of black families keeping secrets.
I can only speak as a black women and from that perspective I have seen many families, including mine, hide skeletons.
In this episode I reference the most recent interview with August Alsina and an interview Iyanla Vanzant.
What's your take?
Is keeping secrets beneficial for us or not?
Find more from The Oasis 13 at www.theoasis13.com
Full August Alsina interview:https://youtu.be/Q91Z1gW_iHw
Full Iyanla Vanzant interview:https://youtu.be/DPgxk6YdcIM
This episode talks about some recent events that showcase the disrespect between black men and women, where this disrespect may come from, and what we can do moving forward.
This podcast features two friends of mine. Danesha and Larry.
You can find them on Instagram
Danesha @wonderfully_weirdbeing
Larry @misterwhitaker
Thanks for listening.
What are your thoughts?
3 useful steps to holding yourself accountable.
Remember your refuge is in your self -healing, so work on healing your self to find your refuge.
Find more on www.theoasis13.com.
Let's get back to meditating y'all!
There are so many benefits for self and if it benefits individual it benefits community.
Welcome to another podcast episode of The Oasis 13.
This episode has my first featured guest who is Diamond Gilyard of shopdyme.
Diamond runs an online clothing boutique and we discuss running a business as an introvert, connecting with the right people, and not changing yourself to get traffic.
Any introverted business owners relate?
How have you navigated running a business while remaining true to yourself?
Check out her business at www.shopdyme.com or @shopdyme on Instagram.
The time is now. The time is now to hone in on your specific mission. This is a powerful way we can fight back is with our finances and creating our own businesses and brands. Be consistent, remain dedicated, and work hard. Very powerful motivation during the coronavirus.
Hey guys! Thank you for joining The Oasis 13.
Hosted by Emanie, a young, black woman from Virginia.
If you like what you hear, go ahead and check out some episodes!!