A series of conversations dedicated to the process of creating wellness, within ourselves and in our communities, in this time of deep transformation. We explore processes, practices, and ideas that resource our personal healing and illuminate the interplay between personal and collective liberation. Ashley and Mallika dive deep into these topics, together and with powerful healers, thinkers and change-makers, giving you a variety of ways to deepen your own connection to yourself and those around you. Ashley is Somatic Movement Therapist and ceremonialist dedicated to tending children, body, land, and spirit. Mallika is a licensed marriage and family therapist committed to creating containers that weave together spiritual and relational healing. In this show, you will learn pathways to healing so that you can awaken the wild and wise parts of yourself and grow your capacity to live a connected, sovereign, and creative life, in right relationship with all beings. Hit subscribe and get ready to come alive in ways you’ve always wanted.
Ep 35 :
Eliza’s work helping babies sleep, move, and feel better revolves around her respect for babies and toddlers as whole people who enter the world aware, desiring to communicate and learn, and with the ability to process and self-heal within relationship.
Her Conscious Baby practice employs unique approaches to non-cry-it-out sleep, baby-led milestone development, healing birth trauma, and parental attunement to non-verbal cues and crying.
As a certified Aware Parenting Instructor, Infant Developmental Movement Educator, Body-Mind Centering® Practitioner, and trained Feldenkrais® practitioner, Eliza’s life-changing perspectives and respectful solutions toward common parenting challenges transcend “typical” parenting advice.
In this conversation you will hear us talk about:
Check out Eliza's website for free guides to helping Baby sleep and to stay in touch : https://www.consciousbaby.com/sleep/
FB group https://www.facebook.com/groups/consciousbaby
IG @consciousbabyeliza
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ep # 34
Mallika and Ashley have a conversation on raising children inspired by topics from the book Hunt, Gather, Parent by Michaeleen Doucleff.
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ep. #33
If you've dipped your toe in the waters of yogic practice or philosophy, and you have if you've ever even googled "mindfulness", this conversation will deepen and clarify some of the common mistranslations and misunderstandings of how to live our lives while also walking a spiritual path. We especially explore the ways being a parent can often feel "in the way" of our spiritual goals and practices. The difficult distance between our ideals and reality. Kaya speaks so beautifully to the gift we can give ourselves and our children when we practice and live our spiritual journey as family.
In this episode, I share about my own personal upbringing, raised in a yogic intentional community. Kaya also has a deep and meaningful relationship with this community, and we both hold so much love and respect for the teachings, the people and the beauty that is present there. While I do speak to some of my personal experiences and interpretations, I am sure they were unique to my own experience, my own family system and the projecting we as humans do onto others. So I ask you to hold what you hear with the awareness of both being true: reality and projection.
Things we touch on:
The misconceptions of practicing non-attachment
The absolute and the relative realities we exist in
Spiritual bypass
Splitting of life into spiritual life and the rest
The four stages of life
How not to sacrifice your spiritual life
Accepting or rejecting mental/emotional reactions
We can model our humanity for our kids
What family spiritual practice can look like
Clarifying karma yoga and selfless service
I do my work so you can do yours
Where to start
Kaya Mindlin is a Yoga therapist and educator who has been teaching the “softer side of yoga” for 19 years.
Learn more about Kaya's work at YogawithKaya.com
Kaya's Instagram
Use the code "wildandwise20"for 20% off this ONLINE program: The Nectar of Action
Explore the most essential teachings for householders seeking true spiritual growth amidst the responsibilities of life.
BEGINS JULY 15 2021
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Episode 2 - Baba Yaga and Our Wild Woman Intuition
Episode 3 - Exploring Our Inner Knowing with Kadhi Bo
Episode 4 - Earth Magick and Regenerative Ways of Living with Marysia Miernowska
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ep # 32
John Wolfstone is back for another conversation with Ashley! They dive deep into the exploration of adult initiation, its function and its presence as a missing link to a more integrated and meaningful life.
John is a storyteller, filmmaker, community organizer and a mentor for Rites of Passage work. John is a curious explorer and question asker.
You'll here us talk about:
To get to know John more and look into his offerings, connect with him on Facebook!
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ep. #31
This conversation and episode is truly one of Mallika's favorite of all time. Lara Veleda Vesta is an author and illistrator, exploring dís-ability, rites of passage, ancestral mythology, folklore and the sacred creative. She lives with Myalgic Encephalomeylitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, a disease caused by viruses and inflammation with an infectious trigger. Prior to her illness, Lara was a university professor teaching classes in English and writing and a PhD student in Philosophy and Religion.
Lara's deep work and knowledge of integrating difficult initiatory experiences, expanded by her use of ritual, research and linguistics, help her blend a beautiful weaving of return to old ways, old knowing and the deep peace that is available to us all.
Explored in this episode:
Quotes from Lara:
"We need each other's stories so we can know what's survivable."
"What I have found useful is ritualizing every aspect of the process."
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Ep. #30
In today's episode, Mallika invites her friend, Elanne Kresser, to share a deep exploration of cultural healing and the hope for education that teaches our children to live within and honor the beautiful space we occupy, birthing a new paradigm of partnership, of tending and of caring for all beings.
Mallika and Elanne have been friends since 2013 and have been in conversation with each other about many topics, from conscious parenting and healthy relating styles, to the current paradigm of "compulsory schooling" and examining or shifting cultural constructs.
Elanne Kresser is devoted to the labor of birthing a world in which all voices, both human and otherwise, are honored. She has practiced in the Ordinary Mind School of Zen for two decades and directed The Dharma School for children for eight years, and her adult life has been dedicated to community-based, culturally-generative, earth-honoring education. She is a practitioner of ancestral and cultural healing and loves supporting others to reclaim their self-worth, life purpose, and sense of belonging. Her people hail from Bavaria, Bohemia, Jämtland, Sweden and England.
Elanne Kresser's Website
Peter Grey
John Taylor Gatto
"Weapons of Mass Instruction" By John Taylor Gatto
Things we touch on in this episode:
Quotes from Elanne:
Wellness requires relationally (12 min)
The ancestors are who hands us our culture (24)
Education is ultimately the transmission of culture (25)
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ep. #29
Mallika explores and deepens into the framework of syncing our lives up with the phases of our menstrual cycles. She explains each of the 4 phases of the menstrual cycle and how they are mirrored by cycles in the natural world.
Topics touched on:
Spring/Follicular phase is a time for: Tending, watering, listening to your desires, brainstorming what's possible, loving and trusting with a young heart, feeling the energy of creation, acknowledging fruits of your labor that are starting to form.
Summer/Ovulatory phase for: Taking action, finding support, inviting and collaborating, selling your boss (or yourself) on the new business plan, being with old conflict in a new way, enjoying yourself and following your pleasure.
Autumn/Luteal phase: honoring what came to fruition, softening back into yourself, enjoying the bounty of your efforts, taking stalk of what didn't work, beginning to prepare for winter by recognizing where you need to conserve your energy or plan for more nourishment.
Winter/bleed phase is a time for: resting, nourishment, releasing what needs to go, going within, writing down your dreams, letting go of attachments, healing, being.
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ep. #28
Ashley talks with Abigail Heins, a fellow water woman and a deep feeler, weaver, and healer.
This conversation was inspired by the cocreation of Ashley and Abigail to start a water prayer circle for women who are wanting to become mothers, which starts in May!
Topics we touch on :
Abigail is a womb guardian, a weaver, and a voice of the whales. Fertility, and the natural cycles of life has always been at the core of her passion and work. From teaching on natural birth control and womb blood empowerment, to sharing Ayurvedic breast massage and whale womb healings. Her offerings support people to root into the wisdom of their body and the wisdom of this earth. Intended to support the reclamation of our juicy, pulsing, sensual soul connection to life. Her current focus is to support the wombed ones prepare for conscious conception. To be anchored in their own vessels of love and indigenous roots in this earth, to birth the future generations of star children. You can check out her IG @whalewombweaving and her website ~ wombweaving.com
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ep. #27
Mallika and Ashley dive into an area of Mallika's work that has sprung from her own healing journey - working with story, metaphor, myth and ancestral stories. Mallika and Ashley both share pieces of their own ancestral stories, how they honor the broader sense of self and working with the pain and discomfort they have been born to work with in their own stories.
Mallika is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California, currently living in North Carolina. While not practicing as a therapist, she is currently guiding women through re-membering ancestral wisdom, reclaiming their intuition and releasing patterns of self-inflicted pain. Mallika holds groups and individual sessions for moms to step into the unknown places with grounding resources, unconditional love and relational skills to lead them from fear and pain to whole, supported and strong ways of moving through the world.
Through Mallika's therapeutic skills, knowledge of yogic philosophy and practices, and experiences/trainings in conscious mothering, she discovered a responsive approach to working with her clients. In that work she brings humor, love and the ability to stay with the difficulties that arise. She eases clients through the painful and scary places to generate nourishing support, deeply connected awareness, and to embody the blessings of their lineages.
What we touch on:
Read more about Myth Animism and My Ancestral Stories
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ep. #26
Ashley talks with Dr. Mia Hetenyi, a writer, ceremonialist, and grief doula.
Their conversation weaves through many topics, with a continued thread of the power of the wild world to support our grief and lives.
Topics we touch on :
Dr. Mia Hetenyi is a grief doula for recovering humans. She serves as an inner guide, ceremonial facilitator and writer with a doctoral degree in Clinical Psychology. She has been an eternal student of all things related to the soul, psyche and the the devotional path of the Great Mother. Along with 25+ years of clinical experience, she has spent most of her life doing a deep dive into studying and practicing meditation, inner journey, ceremony and ritual, dream work and energy healing.
After recovering herself from addictions and experiencing an awakening to her soul, she fused her knowledge together to create an innovative approach to healing trauma, codependency, addiction and most ailments connected to difficulty grieving...the root of so much of our modern day suffering.
Dr. Hetenyi on Instagram
Dr. Hetenyi's website.
Resources referenced:
The Sophia Code by Kaia Ra
The Smell of Rain on Dust by Martin Prechtel
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ep. #25
Mallika welcomes her husband into a conversation about the trajectory of their 17 year relationship, particularly the elements that have supported authentic connection and getting through the dark times of disconnection. He speaks with humor and vulnerability about the reality of conscious parenting while working really hard to meet Mallika in a deep and loving marriage.
The flow of the conversation going something like this:
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ep. #24
In this season episode we talk about how we can align ourselves with the energy of spring and ideas for creating a spring altar at home!
References:
Bronwyn's Instagram
The Circle Round Book
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ep. #23
Mallika has a conversation with Rui Liu ("Rae"), CEO and Founder of Grass People Tree, a tea company bringing the story of living tea and the wild, indigenous and ancient tea from her homeland in Southwest China. This deep conversation touches on holistic wellness, personal integrity and the joy of laughing and being together in a simple life.
Topics we touch on:
Grass People Tree website
IG for Grass People Tree
IG for Rui
Wild and Wise Instagram Mallika's Website
Ashley’s Instagram Ashley's Website
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ep. #22
In this episode, Ashley speaks with Aaron Schiller!
Aaron is the founder of Launch Medicine and the host of the launch medicine podcast. He is focused on helping people find the sweet nectar in their life and business and get their vision out into the world in a healing way. Prior to starting Launch Medicine, Aaron coached founders and executives from small businesses to organizations such as Apple, Yale University, and Norcal Cannabis.
Topics we dive into:
Aaron’s information:
Launch Medicine Website
Launch Medicine Instagram
Launch Medicine Facebook
Launch Medicine Spotify
Launch Medicine Apple Podcast
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ep. #21
In todays episode, Ashley interviews Tania Laisuna, David Coral, and Lorena Rodriguez.
Tania and David call in from the Putumayo region of Columbia where they live, and work on a community project that fosters the continuation of ancestral knowledge and the transition to a more sustainable way of living.
They weave an exploration of "buen vivir", an indigenous concept from South America that expands colonized perspective of wellness.
This episode of full of beauty and life! We hope you enjoy :)
This episode includes full translation in Spanish and English!
¡Este episodio incluye traducción completa en español e inglés!
Topics we touch on:
Their home, life and project:
https://www.larealidad.org/
Instagram: @eslabon_la_realidad/
PayPal Donations to the land and Community Project!
Nuh Jay Music:
https://nuhjay.bandcamp.com/
Kun Music:
https://soundcloud.com/kun-hilando-el-sonido
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ep. #20
In today's episode, Mallika shares a conversation she had back in early December with Amber Magnolia Hill. Amber shares a lot about her personal experience loosing her mother in a car accident 5 years ago. She graces us with her vulnerability and authentic emotional experience as we dive into what It means to loose someone so vital, how she continues to tend her relationship with her mother and the entwined relationship with life/death-tending and motherhood.
Amber's Instagram
Amber's website Mythic Medicine
Amber's Podcast Medicine Stories
Things we dive into in this episode:
The Denial of Death by Earnest Becker
The Belonging Podcast
Atlantic Article The Nuclear Family Was a Mistake
Rachelle Garcia Seliga Innate Traditions
Inuit Morality Play book about parenting
Elizabeth Kubler Ross
Brené Brown podcast with David Kessler
Ashley's website
Ashley's Instagram
Ashley's Parent Prayer Circle
Mallika's website
Mallika's Instagram
Mallika's Embodied Therapeutic Art Process
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ep. #19
In this episode Ashley talks with Cass Phelps about the process and potential for creating internal containers for healing and growth.
Cass offers workshops throughout the world and conducts a private practice in Kauai, HI. His gift of insight allows him to assist his students in their Self Awakening and healing process; realizing their inspirations and full potential.
Cass is a Somatic Movement therapist, certified Reiki Master, Sound Healing therapist and lifelong musician. He also creates movement performance works and is known to call on different forms of Art Therapy, dance and the innovative intelligence of play. His unique approach to sound, breath, movement and resting-stillness unifies the creative and healing arts together as one. A strong sense of humor and laid-back style help Cass to deliver the awakening transmission: “All Is Within.”
In this episode you will here us talk about:
Resources Mentioned:
Cass's Website: https://awake-one.com/
The Gift Process: https://awake-one.com/gift-process
Video of Cass teaching Biological Breath: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=35Ppb-mnO30
Video of Cass teaching a spinal spiral: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vj1pdWmSwOc
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Ashley's Parent Prayer Circle
Mallika's website
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ep. #18
Ashely and Mallika explore various pillars of wellness and how to bring them in during the winter months. Winter is not just a time of year where energy disappears, but actually there is a different kind of energy present and available to us.
It's an energy of darkness - not like evil, but like the quiet, underbelly of life, the waters we were born from, the soft, warmth that we all need.
Topics we cover:
Ashely's Chinese Medicine teacher Bronwyn Ayla
Jessica Prentice's cookbook Full Moon Feast
Ashley's website
Ashley's Instagram
Ashley's Parent Prayer Circle
Mallika's website
Mallika's Instagram
Mallika's Embodied Therapeutic Art Process
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ep. #17
Stasha Ginsberg is a lover of depth and discovery. She is a published author and poet. She is also a storyteller, teacher, mother, dancer, musician, performer, tarot reader and facilitator of soulful writes of passage programs for youth and adults.
Stasha is a midwife of story journeys. She perceives each human to be a wild matryoshka, or nesting doll, full of stories. She loves the creative process and its capacity to crack open a story and lead one on a rite of passage, mythic journey through the landscape of body, soul, place, longing, memory & imagination.
Mallika and Stasha sat down to talk about the role the story can play in healing and creating wellness. Stasha shares about her personal initiation into healing work using story and we also dive deep into the layers of medicine that are available within the story of Vasilisa and Baba Yaga.
Topics we touch one:
- Story is the fabric of our humaness
- "Spiritual enlightenment" ca actually be a bypass for doing the dark and deep work
- The story that came knocking for Stasha
- Connecting the personal and the mythic
- Story activates parts of ourselves and a wholeness of self can emerge
- The stories in our heads
- Five Rhythms dance
- Disney versions of old fairytales
- Longterm work with one story
- Vasilisa the Brave (meeting Baba Yaga)
- Working for the elixir of life
- This is a time to journey into the dark with Vasilisa and others
- The time to do the work and the time to set that work down
- The Individual call Into the forest
- How grounding simple work is in times of great fear
"How do we go to sleep and trust?"
"Ultimately story just wants us to make sense out of what it means to be human."
"Those stories speak louder from the heart than from how we see them or pick them apart"
Fierce Feminine Divinities of Eurasia and Latin America
Stasha wanted to make sure to add a piece about how to embody the work you do with a story. After letting a story live in you, finding a way to be witnessed in the embodiment of that story is a culmination or crescendo of that process.
Listen to me reading Vasilisa's story (as written by Clarissa Pinkola Estes)
In Episode 2
And I dive into it again in Ep. 12
Here is a link to Stasha's performance/monologue, the end piece of her work with Kirsten Wilson in Boulder, Co. ( Letting the Body Speak )
Kirsten's website
Stasha's website: stockingstories.wordpress.com
Stasha on Facebook: The Wild Matryoshka
Stasha on Instagram: The Wild Matryoshka
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ep. #16
John and Ashley recorded an emergent conversation for today's podcast episode. The conversation is packed with so much wisdom while still retaining a flow and easeful aliveness. There are SO many amazing quotable nuggets in this one.
John Wolfstone is a storyteller, filmmaker, community organizer and a mentor for Rites of Passage work. John is a curious explorer and question asker.
Here are some of the questions I (Mallika) hear being held in this conversation and the work that John is doing In the world:
How do we do the work, the healing and rebuilding, that is here for us to do in this lifetime, and not get swept away into the anxiety of wanting to also see the results of the work right now?
How can we move to the next stage of development from the adolescent type of maturity associated with the hyper-Individualism and our current definition of freedom?
How can we actually find more freedom in "staying put" than in the flight of travel, or new relationships or careers?
Topics we cover:
The missing relationship with death
What is Eros and how to connect with it
What does it mean to rest
Reclamation of our aliveness
Rite of passage/ quest for Initiation
Hyper-Individualism
Relationship with place
Polyamory and staying with one partner
Loyalty and integrity
Tamera Peace Research Center In Portugal
When healed people start a community
Healing self In relation to birth family
Ancestor relationships bring down anxiety
Recommendations for building relationship with ancestors
Childhood trauma living in the lineage
Wounds are the sacred cut Into the gift
John's website: www.johnwolfstone.com
Ashley's website
Ashley's Instagram
Ashley's Parent Prayer Circle
Mallika's website
Mallika's Instagram
Mallika's Embodied Therapeutic Art Process
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ep. #15
Here is an introduction to how the show will be changing, and why.
Ashley and I have known each other for years, and have had so many deep, wonderful and expansive conversations about healing, relationships, growth, spirit, and being authentic.
Stay tuned for Ashley's first Interview!
And many more episodes to come.
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ep. #14
Steph Barron Hall is a speaker, certified Enneagram coach, author of the new book, The Enneagram in Love: A Roadmap for Building and Strengthening Romantic Relationships, and host of the Ask an Enneagram Coach podcast. Stephanie founded her Instagram page, @NineTypesCo, in 2017 as a way to explore her own interest in the Enneagram, and it has since grown into a community of people who are all learning about the Enneagram, themselves, and their relationships together. Stephanie specializes in bringing clarity to complex concepts and communicating the Enneagram in a way that is relatable and concise so that it can be transformative for all.
Topics we touch on:
Getting to know your motivation
Asking "why" and "what is it about this that had be react like this?"
Taking responsibility for your own feelings and reactions
Cyclical/spiralic growth of life and in process with the Enneagram
How the 45 different type pairings can help you know your type
How can you use the Enneagram as a parent?
Reparenting yourself with the "unconscious childhood message" and the "lost childhood message"
Common number pairings
Specific pairings that work well together
Energy level and type
The Wisdom of the Enneagram Types by Don Richards Riso
Understanding the Enneagram by Don Richards Riso and Russ Hudson
The Complete Enneagram by Beatrice Chestnut
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The Wild and Wise Instagram
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ep. #13
Coming back from hiatus, I take this episode to dive into motherhood, a topic I have worked with for many years, as a therapist, a RIE-trained facilitator and as a mother! Like many moms, I struggled with the "myth of perfection", especially the first couple years of being a mother. I thought, "If I can be perfect, maybe my baby wont experience pain, disappointment, fear, etc"
Shifting to a more relational style of parenting, when I found RIE, helped me see that the most important goal of motherhood is raising people who are prepared to be in healthy relationships.
I share more about which metaphors and resources I look to now for a model on how to be in balance and in respectful relationship with all beings.
I also announce a giveaway, very special and dear to my heart. Please head over to my Instagram to enter the give away, which closes on Thursday at 6pm Pacific/9pm Eastern
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Resources for Infant Educarers
Liz Memel was the teacher of our RIE classes
The Witch's Herbal Apothecary by Marysia Miernowska
Marysia's new offering School of the Sacred Wild
JLCreator on Instagram
Article about JL's work
Center for Babaylan Studies
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ep. #12
In this episode I share about where I have been for the past month, and why I am taking an extended break from producing the show. I'll be back Sept. 17th with new interviews and exciting content.
Until then, you can follow along with what I am up to over on Instagram
I mention episode #02 in this show. Click here to listen
Find out more about what I am working on at The Wild and Wise.com
Upcoming THERAPEUTIC ART PROCESS
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ep. #11
My intro to this episode dives in a bit more than usual, into my thoughts on the work I am doing with this podcast and with my family, particularly regarding the learning process of how to practice anti-racism with every step I take. Here is the episode with Kaya Mindlin that I mention in the intro. Clarifying Non-attachment and Spiritual Bypass with Kaya Mindlin
This episode with Maude Davis (episode 11) doesn't directly bring in race, trauma and how therapy can support activism and anti-racism, it could be deeply effective and healing for that work. Much of what we talk about is the landscape of inner material that is longing to be healed. The grief and trauma we hold in our bodies is crying out to be felt and moved through.
I have personally found drama and expressive arts therapy to be the MOST impactful approach to healing life-long - no, generational patterns.
Maude Davis is working with therapy clients at the Living Arts Counseling Center in Oakland, Ca. She uses her training in Expressive Arts Therapy and Jungian Analysis as a "Therapy Director" in the workshops she does with Armond Volkis, called Autobiographical Therapeutic Performance. Maude has training and background in theater in New York City, where she worked for years as an actor, director and teacher. She is a PH.D candidate and has studied at the CG Jung Institute in Zurich.
Topics covered in this episode:
Transform your life though Autobiographical Therapeutic Performance
NEW online workshop starts June 24th, 2020
What is Autobiographical Therapeutic Performance?Autobiographical Therapeutic Performance is an innovative short-term therapy approach that supports participants in identifying and transforming self-defeating “life scripts” through drama therapy processes. ATP incorporates acting, improvisation, drama therapy, psychodrama and Playback Theatre techniques. Find out more at the website: Living Arts Counseling Center
Video of Darrrl McDadiels telling his story of making music inspired by Sarah McLachlan
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ep. #10
I am stepping aside this week to make space for other voices. Please take the time to click on the resources below. There are MANY Anti-racism educators out there. These links are a small handful of the powerful work that is available to you. Make the time to listen to these voices and see these faces.
Please remember:
Pay/compensate POC for their work, physical and emotional.
Buying gifts or sending love notes to the black people you care about is not a substitute for doing this work.
Take responsibility for your own education on the topic of racism and anti-racism in the US.
Layla Saad - Podcaster, activist and author of "Me and White Supremacy"
Ibram X. Kendi - Author of "How to be an Antiracist" and the upcoming book "Anitracist Baby"
Check out Kendi's "An Antiracist Reading List"
Books
(I have linked books to purchase from Black owned bookstores)
Tiffany Jewell - Educator and author of "This Book in Anti-Racist"
Walking With the Wind by John Lewis
The Autobiography of Malcom X As Told to Alex Haley
Freedom Is a Constant Struggle by Angela Davis
White Fragility by Robin Diangelo
Raising White Kids by Jennifer Harvey (on iTunes Audiobook)
Podcasts (links to iTunes)
1619
Pod Save the People
Good Ancestor Podcast
Sisters In Loss
Raising Kings Podcast
Hear Ye!
We Talk Different
Filipina on the Rise
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ep. #9
If you've dipped your toe in the waters of yogic practice or philosophy, and you have if you've ever even googled "mindfulness", this conversation will deepen and clarify some of the common mistranslations and misunderstandings of how to live our lives while also walking a spiritual path. We especially explore the ways being a parent can often feel "in the way" of our spiritual goals and practices. The difficult distance between our ideals and reality. Kaya speaks so beautifully to the gift we can give ourselves and our children when we practice and live our spiritual journey as family.
In this episode, I share about my own personal upbringing, raised in a yogic intentional community. Kaya also has a deep and meaningful relationship with this community, and we both hold so much love and respect for the teachings, the people and the beauty that is present there. While I do speak to some of my personal experiences and interpretations, I am sure they were unique to my own experience, my own family system and the projecting we as humans do onto others. So I ask you to hold what you hear with the awareness of both being true: reality and projection.
Things we touch on:
The misconceptions of practicing non-attachment
The absolute and the relative realities we exist in
Spiritual bypass
Splitting of life into spiritual life and the rest
The four stages of life
How not to sacrifice your spiritual life
Accepting or rejecting mental/emotional reactions
We can model our humanity for our kids
What family spiritual practice can look like
Clarifying karma yoga and selfless service
I do my work so you can do yours
Where to start
Kaya Mindlin is a Yoga therapist and educator who has been teaching the “softer side of yoga” for 19 years.
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ep. #8
A special Mother's Day episode with my own mother, Beth Pettengill Riley! Beth has been a movement teacher for over 40 years, has studied yogic spiritual practice as well as physical practice, is steeped in the work of Emilie Conrad, founder of Continuum Movement and has been leading her life with a drive for connection and presence for a long time. She has studied the research on somatic movement and healing, as well as worked with clients for 30 years, holding space for emotional and physical wounds to move toward health and healing.
In the episode we explore the field of health and healing through what our body is experiencing in this very moment:
-Genuine experience through our bodies
-When and how did movement influence Beth's experience of motherhood
-The threshold of a new kind of holding
-Psychological personality structure and embodied experience of presence
-Intelligence - to gather in between
-The path emerges as you sniff it
-Anesthetic and Esthetic - the antidote to numbing out
-What does it mean to listen to our body's communications about safety, support and connection?
-How can we live full in our current circumstances?
Beth leads group classes and workshops, sees clients Individually, has a apprenticeship program, has written a book about having a home movement practice and
Beth's website:The Moving Well
Apprentice with Beth
Beth's Book: A Moving Inquiry
International Somatic Movement Education and Therapy Association (Beth is board president)
Watermark Arts - "an arts movement inspired by somatic awareness"
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ep. #7 Ashley is a deep well of wisdom, especially regarding how we, as adults, can show up with children in a good way. "In a good way" is meant that it is mutually supportive of healthy growth and development, feels in alignment with the kind of world we want to help create and holds in it the deep connection of and love between all beings.
We speak about entry points into transformation that show up so frequently when we are in relationship with children. We touch on the concept of relational commitment to this very moment. We also touch on:
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ep. #6
Michael is a Vedic Astrologer (Jyotish) living in the Pacific Northwest with his wife and children. He has studied Ayurvedic and Yogic lifestyle and theory in depth. He lives the wisdom in his own life and offers readings to client's seeking to view their own lives from a vast and ancient perspective.
I enjoyed speaking with Michael about these current times we are living through, and how many of the teachings from the Vedas can provide stability and containment during this uncertain transformation that is underway. I find it comforting to hear that this year's astrology has a lot of intensity in it. Many astrologers have been speaking of the "transformative" year coming in 2020.
The blending of many areas of study is something I deeply appreciate about Michael's approach to the process of looking at the impacts of the celestial bodies that surround us. He has trained for years and I have personally had readings with him. He is able to offer both general and very specific information.
Michael periodically writes articles/blog posts on his website regarding the current astrology, and I highly recommend reading his latest offering.
Michael's website: www.jyotishresolution.com
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ep. #5 In this episode, Adrienne shares with us some of the nourishing outcomes of connecting and developing a relationship with our wise and loving ancestors. So many of us have either never been introduced to the practice of ancestral healing or have doubt and deeply colonial beliefs about that kind of direct contact.
Topics we touch on:
What it means to decolonize your mind
How having ancestral connections protect us during crisis
What practices help support our intuition
What can get in the way of trusting the communication
Adrienne has been supporting others through healing for over 10 years and has studied ancestral healing with a number of teachers. She weaves together modalities of depth psychology, embodied ritual & personal mythology, and relational attunement with the earth and the more-than-human realm. Adrienne works online with client's individually and in group setting from her home in New Mexico.
Adrienne's website: https://www.adriennesloan.com/
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ep. #4
Marysia Miernowska teaches herbalism through the Gaia School of Healing and regenerative land practices in California. She is the master herbalist and owner of Wild Love Apothecary and was named one of the "top 15 witches on Instagram" (@marysia_miernowska). As an herbalist, witch, biodynamic gardener, and Plant Spirit Medicine Practitioner, she is rooted in the Wise Woman Tradition of Healing. Marysia teaches and speaks at conferences internationally on herbal medicine, plant shamanism, regenerative farming practices, and Earth Magick.
Marysia has been busy over the past year - she released her book, The Witch's Herbal Apothecary in January 2020. I have the book and find it is a rich resource for recipes, rituals, and guidance in reconnecting with the power and healing of Earth Magick.
Marysia has also recently launched an amazing face serum, made from completely organic ingredients. You can find more info on that at Rituel.com or Rituel on Instagram.
Spring is approaching and Marysia has a sweet write up about wildcrafting or harvesting from the wild. Click here to check that out on her blog. Marysia also has a post on her blog about the Wise Women Tradition of healing (click here) and recommends further reading with The Chalice and the Blade by Raine Eisler.
Highlights from this episode:
Impacts of disconnection from and extraction of the earth
What leads to burn out and where does "death" belong
How to honor your teachers
The Wise Woman Tradition of Healing
Where to find sources of unconditional love
Heart-opening, nervine relaxant herbs and teas
Finding how to birth your own medicine
Growing practices for mutual healing of humans and the earth
Why not to pull weeds
If you enjoy this episode, I can't recommend Marysia's book highly enough. It dives into all of this so much more deeply and weaves in so much more!
Marysia's links:
Wild Love Apothecary
Instagram
Her Book: The Witch's Herbal Apothecary
Organic, clean face serum www.Rituel.com
Gaia School of Healing and Earth Education with Sage Maurer
Online course (for the first time ever) - A Year of Gaia
Book mentioned by Marysia on the three models of healing, including the Wise Woman Tradition:
Healing Wise by Susan Weed
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ep. #3 - A conversation with Kadhi Bo.
Kadhi and I sit down to have a conversation about inner knowing/intuition: what is sounds like, what it feels like to be disconnected from that part of ourselves, and how to find our way back. Kadhi offers intuitive counseling sessions incorporating tarot and astrology, and the many other areas she has studied (women's spirituality, the enneagram, depth psychology and more). She is also a mama and a perpetual student. She has an unwavering sense of herself, is honest, direct, kind and deeply accepting of others.
Kadhi's website: www.kadhibo.com
Kadhi on Instagram: www.instagram.com/tarotbykadhibo
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ep. #2 Awakening our Wild Woman intuition is a vital and deep process for navigating our current and future world. For thousands of years, stories have reflected this awakening process through myth and fairy tale. Today I read for you one of my favorite tellings of the story of Vasilisa and Baba Yaga, from the book Women Who Run With The Wolves.
I also explore some of the metaphorical placements within the story, how they reflect psychological tasks of this process and give some examples from my own life.
You can find Women Who Run With The Wolves on Amazon
You can also check out some children's versions of this story:
Baba Yaga and The Wise Doll
Bony Legs
Baba Yaga and Vasilisa The Brave
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ep. #1
What is this show aiming to do? Who is it aimed to resonate with? Who is Mallika and why is she doing a podcast?
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