Do you listen to podcasts, motivational YouTube videos, and famous speakers about what’s necessary to do your best in life? Well.... Is it working?.... Are you bad at taking good advice? Maybe you are equally as bad at acting on bad advice. This what we’ll provide to you... That’s right, bad advice....
This long anticipated episode is about how I nearly gave up one of the things that brought me happiness. This is the story of what happened and the valuable lessons I learned from it. You want to hear this.
Last week was what it was... and today is here now. What are you going to make of it ??
How many of us were taught a rule of thumb that we just don’t know. For me, one of those was buying vs leasing/renting. But, why is it a available if it’s such a bad thing?
Oddly enough, this episode wasn’t correctly scheduled... but it was batch created nonetheless. A method that frees up time to handle other needs.
We are all different in some way. Somethings are dealbreakers and relationships cannot form but not everything has to be.
If everything in life was a game, breaking the speed limit would be one of the most frequently broken rules. Yet, we don’t always accept the consequences.
We can actually avoid making another person’s mistakes. Reading and watching the response of another person could help steer us into the right direction.
There are obvious mistakes that we make that we actually do learn from... but what about the more subtle events that cause us stress us on a weekly and even daily basis?
In the previous email episode we placed emphasis on starting. Today’s episode is about starting a second and even third time until you’re done.
This one is huge. Today’s society is based on grabbing your attention. Some of us have become a mess because of it.
What about when someone becomes a living example of what not to do... how likely are we to pay attention and adjust ?
When we finally get what we think we need to achieve our dreams... when do we actually start on them??
When you lose your way, it’s always good to have a relative or someone there to help reel you in ....
This episode is about intentionally not making excuses because you want to maintain control of the situation.
There’s a lot I can tell you about being distracted. But there’s a few ways to counter it. I may need your input
This is the first of a three episode series entitled WORK, LIFE, RECOVERY. It outlines how to balance your life across the board.
There’s usually a simple mathematical solution to money issues. The hard part is deciding to change.
We complain about the bills but we don’t complain about what and who makes those. It’s time for a change in perspective... this episode contains bad advice...
Sometimes we let the thought of the thing that we lack get in the way of us pressing on to do without... along the way we unknowingly sacrifice something that we might need.
There’s something that you’re good at that right under your nose... it would be a tragedy for you to not find it ...
Some days you might actually find yourself asking “what am I actually good at? There’s so many things that I am bad at!” It happens to everyone... but sometimes you’ll find that you’re REALLY good at something that you’ve overlooked!
When your current lifestyle is unsatisfying, it’s sometimes better to sacrifice luxury and commodities and be just a tad uncomfortable.
How intent are we sometimes of just making some kind of change in our lives.... we know we are unhappy, we know what we DON’T want... and we focus on the biggest thing that we are unhappy with and equate it to the source of our problems... what if it wasn’t the source.. what if the problem is in our mindset ...
College has for so long been associated with higher education, and is a form of it... yet, in 2019, it’s not the only form and it’s not necessarily the most effective...
You think you have something that you like to do... in my neck of the woods its commons sense to go to college for that thing. Does that make it the right choice for you though 🤔
“Time is money” we hear that all the time. Truthfully it can very much like money... Can budgeting time like you budget your money move you towards having more of it to do what you truly care about ? We may be on to something...
We say we “need” things out of convenience. What have others done without? Are we spoiled ?
It’s a fact that like with finances many people do not have an immediate clue as to what we spend our time on and how much of it is available each day after our obligations are met. So how can we confidently say how much time we can afford ? Is time even the issue ?
You unknowingly create a dilemma for your self when you grossly underprice your product or service. Listen to find out more
When you think underpricing your product or service will build your clientele...it may... but what’s going to happen when you can’t afford those low price and have to increase the rates... here’s what happens... #motivation #entrepreneurship
All things in life are a continuous education... Don’t cheat yourself bing the “know it all”...
Warning !! This episode is sort of a rant. We have to remember to appreciate some of the more under appreciated things in our lives...
Cutting corners makes more corners... trying to complete a task by taking shortcuts eventually ends up low quality. Don’t end up low quality.... Enjoy
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Are you overwhelmed by the things you need to do ? I mean just thinking about the headache of doing the things actually gives you a headache. What if you accepted that it’s gonna suck and move on with getting it over with 🤷🏾♂️ FB: Ryant Gerard
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This episode contains bad advice regarding keeping your commitment. Sometimes we tend to gravitate towards what is “shiny” in our lives and that includes our priority list. Enjoy ! FB: Ryant Gerard
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Sometimes we get caught up spending too much time focusing on increasing the percentage of our success. This is normal and practical. But what are some other ways to increase our total success in general? FB: Ryant Gerard
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When we struggle and meet the moments where we are just about to give in... Remember this decision affects more than just you. FB: Ryant Gerard
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Insights to “New Money”. Where we explore things such as spending money and justifying it after the fact. FB: Ryant Gerard
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What inspires you to feel good about the world. It should be everything! Take a listen ! FB: Ryant Gerard
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This Motivational Moment is intended to inspire you to bring creativity to your social interactions and hopefully brighten someone’s day, even in the smallest manner. FB: Ryant Gerard
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When we earn additional income, it seems like we add spending habits that push our net income back down to where it was before we began making this “new money”. Here’s some bad advice. FB: Ryant Gerard
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Sometimes, well maybe most times we don’t really feel that the weekend was long enough. Especially when we were just done visiting family. Here’s a couple of tips to getting back into the swing of things.. FB: Ryant Gerard
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Insights to Ep. 66 New product? How are you going to sell it? FB: Ryant Gerard
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Understanding the difference between your own expectations and other people’s expectations disguised as your own is easier said than done. Have a listen . FB: Ryant Gerard
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Everyone is an expert on everyone else’s job. We sometimes take for granted a persons position and we shouldn’t. Have a listen...
All of us have or will experience tough moments in our lives. During these times we may be tempted to compare our way of coping with someone else. The results aren’t good.
Many of us concern ourselves with the people who we think threaten our lively hood. Some of us understand the abundance mindset that another’s success, in the grand scheme of things doesn’t threaten ours, but even fewer know that there exists other enemies of our success. Take a listen !
Maybe you have a new product that sells itself. Your only hurdle is raising awareness of its existence. This episode will express a detrimental attitude that you SHOULD NOT HAVE regarding your gift to the world.
Sometimes we hear or see the phrase “company paid” and then we become excited... why is that ? Are we planning to treat their money differently than we treat our own?
You have a business... it wants to make a profit... but, can it give 51% and only take 49%?
Too often, our “eyes get too big for our stomachs” and we set forth towards endeavors by buying and planning with glorious achievements in mind, yet, we don’t make any actual steps towards our goals. Take a listen.
Does it sometime require a special event to bring into focus what is important in your life? Just listen.
Do you take advantage of how much you love yourself? It sounds weird , but take a listen to understand if you may be doing this...
When others tell you about your ability and they say it with confidence.... do they really know ?
When you feel like you have been wronged... Playing games and attempting to control and manipulate that person’s feelings are NOT the answer, although you might feel like it is....
Have you ever engaged in a bash session when discussing a scenario between friends? How about a friend that needs to vent, but you disagree with their point of view ? Listen to this ...
Just some people the conservative approach is always the best approach for them consistency consistently it’s a choice. But are they being conservative or are they taking someone else’s approach out of fear ?
We sometimes find ourselves in a situation where we have the correct idea, yet we have the wrong attitude. Take a listen !
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Who has the power over your success and prosperity. The default answer is “yourself”, yet do our thoughts and actions reflect this ?? Take a listen.
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It’s okay to think differently than your loved one. It’s okay for their opinion to be the polar opposite of yours. What would you rather? Them or a puppet? .... Don’t answer that....
Are your standards higher for others than they are for yourself? Are you sure? Take a listen !
Fights and disagreements are inevitable. How do you come back from that? Does your approach save what’s left of that relationship or does it do the opposite?
If you’re reading this you have a chance to give today. If you’re reading this you most likely have a lot to give. But what’s your gift going to be? 🤔
Your responsibilities and commitments shouldn’t take a back seat to your mistakes. It takes an extra push to stay true to those commitments but it also develops character and self accountability.
Poor priorities permeate multiple aspects of our lives, including the pocket book. The budget is a lifestyle that requires maintenance, it shouldn’t be thought of as a restrictive spending “diet” .
Many of us have heard the phrase “honesty is the best policy” but did this mean socially, or personally??? Because I’ve lied to myself on more than one occasion 🤔 how about you?
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Do you prioritize other things ahead your personal development. We all have before. You can beat this if you’re mindful of what’s really important.
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Some of us cringe at the thought of paying rent when it’s due. Paying someone for doing us a favor. Some times we treat the ones closest to us like friends and family this way. But.... let’s not do that okay? Pay what you owe...
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There is ALWAYS something that you can do to maximize your time. Organization is part of a lifestyle that makes your life efficient and enjoyable. But.... it takes work and doesn’t come natural to some of us....
This episode is about carefully considering any advice that you are given. I would love to hear your comments! https://anchor.fm/ryant-nelson/episodes/Ep--36-Whos-your-advisor-e3ce4p
It really feels good to be noticed doing something great for someone else. Sometimes, our enthusiasm about the task is proportional to the amount of praise or reward that we get from it. This happens in the smallest of ways. Take a listen!
This episode describes the role reversal of the situation in Ep. 35. If you’re the person who gets contacted out of the blue.... how shouldn’t you react
Wise people say keep close the ones that can help you when you need it. Not that it’s the only reason, but it’s a good way to be human... check this out....
Some of us have found our calling in life. And every day is long, in the good way because we just get to do what we want to do. However, life is about doing some of the things that we don’t want to do. It’s just a matter of how much of our time does that consist of...
Sometimes we get caught in a weird situation where attempt to convert and monetize the basis of a friendship/partnership. Sometimes the key is to decide to finish how you start... then let the rest be icing on the cake which is the opposite of the advice given in this episode. Enjoy!
This episode is a continuum of episode 30. Things are getting back to normal. Should you revert back to who you were before the breakup? Should you try something new? And Is it sustainable? - these are all rhetorical.
Sometimes we get in desperate moments in our relationships...mainly when we feel the person slipping away. Suddenly, it becomes easy to do the things you should’ve done all along. But does it come from the right place ?
Looking for good job experience and proper mentor ship takes time and a little bit of hustle. Here’s one of those moments where you want create your own road to travel ;)
Personal commitments and promises are easy to miss just by making and excuse that gets us through the self conviction (for the moment) and dealing with it later? Are you falling into that trap ?
Sometimes..... Well most times we can be naturally inclined to not own up to a particular issue or problem. At that point we are at a crossroads......
Talent... in the wrong (lazy) hands, helps to level the playing field for your competition that works harder. Keep the unfair advantage. Cultivate.....
We all have stuff. A certain theory suggests we use 20% of it 80% of the time. Mine may be closer to 10 and 90. How about you ?
Each day we find ourselves in a more powerful position than another... other times we find ourselves in the weaker positions. Humility & Mercy are characteristics that one contain in either position. Hate & Malice are the counterparts. Take a listen....
Perfectionism in my opinion is closely associated with anxiety and self loathing. It can keep us inside the confines of someone else’s ideals and prevent us from venturing and appreciating our uniqueness. Take a listen...
We are so focused on our day, our goals, our lives... We can easily lose perspective of the importance of our social interaction and our affect on others. Be careful... treat everyone right
Sometimes we are unfairly hard on ourselves and miss out on the true pleasures in life because of our perception of societies expectations. But.... let’s not. Okay?
It’s Monday and it feels like it. Yet, there is productivity to be had. Here’s some encouragement that you shouldn’t accept. Enjoy your day!
College is where you polish the self righteous attitude that you “tried” your best. Coupling circumstance and poor planning students (and their) parents may easily fall into the trap self limitation. Here’s bad advice that many can relate to...
If you want to keep up with your peers, living your life in constant comparison with your perspective of their world. You can seriously waste time and inconvenience yourself. Today’s advice will show you how.
So much of today’s society is still focused on the aesthetic (byproduct) of a healthy body. This makes us humans work hard to achieve the look. But not lifestyle change. And it’s dangerous. Please enjoy this bad advice. https://anchor.fm/ryant-nelson
Do you ever have those days when it seems like every one is trying you.... It can happen. Today’s bad advice shows an example of how you shouldn’t react.
Have you ever equated a new and higher paying job with relaxation and less work? This episode will explain to you how to create a detrimental cycle within your professional career. Enjoy!
It’s 2019. Citizens and Law Enforcement have an interesting relationship these days. Negativity and poor body language can dangerously escalate even the most simple transactions even a traffic stop. Following this bad advice will increase the odds.
You want to impress a lady you really like.... you might want to keep in mind impressions go both ways. A shallow approach and low value behavior is a sure fire way to not land a second date. For mire bad advice listen to this episode!
Have you ever failed to forecast a perfect storm of circumstance, bad timing, and decision making? Take a listen.....
Christmas is past but that doesn’t mean your expenses have... January of the new year is and equally busy and exciting time of year. It’s where you can lose a lot of money without proper money management. Do you need a budget ?
Are you feeling overwhelmed and agitated? Got too much todo? Just wanna chill and play video games ? This advice is for you .... please don’t follow it...
The Average American human is ready for a new ride after about 5 years or so.... feeding into emotion we make a new car purchase and when it’s all said and done.... we have dumped a load of cash on a fast depreciating liability. Listen to this episode for bad advice on why you should get that new car.
Many of us have (or use to have ) people in our lives that we could call on for virtually anything and they’ll be there. This episode contains bad advice for keeping those friends around. Enjoy.
How many of you deserve it all. Put in a little work and now you’re feeling (and smelling yourself). If you need help getting back to earth, DONOT follow this advice.