Relationship Chronicles: Recent Episodes
Think On It, by Cherry
Relationship Chronicles is for education, motivation, inspiration, encouragement, and enlightenment. People all over the world experience similar issues. People desire and want for the same things. Most people seek in others things they lack in self ending up in unhealthy relationships.
It's a shame, especially when you should choose yourself! People will choose to look good on the outside but they never choose to heal what's going on inside. Your body may look great, you may have money, you may have many things, or whatever, none of it will change what's inside of you. You'll still be a broken person with money, things, titles, status, power, etc. Rich or poor it matters not, because brokenness is inside! Things can make you feel good, make you smile, etc., but they will never take away what's unresolved inside of you!
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Whether the parents or some other caregiver if you're of an unhealed heart and mind, it will affect how you parent your children. Far too many children are suffering because of their parents. It's wrong! Parents should always be the protectors, but unfortunately it's not always the case. God bless the children!
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People (parents, grandparents, other relatives, friends, etc.), may have contributed to how you think, feel, and acted as a child but as an adult if you stay on a negative path that is by choice. If you were a victim in your childhood and you continue to be a victim in your adulthood, that falls on you. If you're a victim who've turned into a a person who victimize others, that's by choice! If you get in and stay in an unhealthy relationship, it's by choice! Brokenness leads to insecurities and false beliefs. It prevents people from healing, learning self-love, and obtaining mental maturity. Whatever you choose as an adult is a choice! You're the only one who's responsible for what or for who you've chosen to become!
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Whether self-labeled or labeled by a professional, people with MH issues need to understand how they developed. Staying on medications for your entire life will alter you mind, body, and soul, yet it will not cure your issues! People must get to the root cause of why they developed mental health issues and then work on getting past them. That should be the goal, but unfortunately people settle for a lifetime of numbing via medication, drugs, alcohol, etc. Too many people use their labels as crutches.
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If you don't feel the same way, you're the problem and you obviously have inner issues you need to work on. True love takes you loving yourself and you being a mature person. Unfortuantely, many people think they love themselves and think they're mature, but are far from it! Time is winding up for us all, so please don't let your inner issues and fear stop you from what could be the best thing that could happen for you. Just my one cents!
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Curiosity didn't kill the cat, that's a dumb cliche but because of curiosity many people have lost their lives. Many people are stressed out to the max because of their never ending curiosity and desire for extreme adventures! Why worry about something you have no clue about? If it isn't harming you or your life, what does it matter? If it's not enhancing your life, what does it matter? People are busy bodies who mind everything and everyone's elses business other than their own and because of it the world is full of broken unhealed people who hearts are cold as ice! It's all about the mindsets people have and instead of choosing to become better people have chosen to remain the same broken stressed out people.
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Sometimes people don't know, which is shame on the other person (the cheater). However, when you find out, if you don't exist the relationship, shame on you! You will get the drama that you've signed up! Love yourself enough to walk away!
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When people die suddenly, it appears suddenly to man but it's not suddenly to God. Every day God gives us a chance to change our lives, but many people think they will live forever. They believe they have all the time in the world, when none of us do! No one is exempt from death! Many people die suddenly and without another chance to repent, but it's their own fault because every day is a chance to repent, that people don't take! People are too busy letting the world know how mean and hateful they are, forgetting the fact they could drop dead at any second. Hating people based on skin color, jealousy, envy, or being wicked, vile, nefarious, and evil will get you no where but in Hell. Also, don't let greed and lust get you into Hell. Don't let it be you, repent while you can, and turn from your wicked ways!
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People get very angry at the truth, which in itself is telling! The entire existence as we know it, and as our parents, grandparents, great grandparents knew it/know it, etc., was built on a lie! Slavery was a coverup to hide the truth history of Black people! It was unbelief of what was in their faces, which turned to jealousy, envy, and then to hatred, lust, and greed! God said "for there is nothing hidden which will not be revealed!" Does it make sense to hate or to be afraid of someone you feel are inferior to you? No logically it doesn't but psychologically people have been so manipulated that they don't know fact from fiction. What's worse is they're not trying to learn, because they're afraid of what they will find out, so it's easier to simply go along. Isn't it strange that there's no actual real history showing Blacks as salvages as people have been taught? Yet they blatantly see who the salvages are and has always been, yet deny. Isn't it strange that people have been taught that the ones who did all the labor are lazy? Isn't it strange that the very people you say didn't contribute has invented mostly of what is used in the world today, (food, medicine, architecture, roads, science, internet, and many other important things)? Isn't it strange people are so against critical race theory being taught, if it was all good and there's nothing to hide? Come on people wake up, enough is enough! At this point people are willfullly ignorant! Read the Delectable Negro, which is just a tiny inkling of what happened. Black people never once claimed to be superior, only people who know the profoundness of Blackness claims superiority out of their own weakness! Yet, they dress it up as superiority. They use their pawns to keep racism going to keep you distracted from the truth!
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It's okay to run away, but that doesn't heal you. In order to become strong enough to avoid temptation, you must be of a healed heart and mind. You must know who you are and you must have faith in God and in yourself to know that when your flesh rises up that you're strong! You must deal with your inner self and grow into that person of spiritual and mental maturity! Your flesh is weak but your spirit is always willing to do the right thing, the choice is yours! Don't let your lack of self-control make you lose what you have worked hard for or most importantly, miss your seat in the Kingdom of God!
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People are taught to hate, they weren't born that way! Prior to releasing this episode I saw several racist influencers who feel so emboldened they have podcasts and Youtube videos saying how they feel about Blacks and dropping the N'word with no problem. It's clearly shows how uneducated and ignorant they are about their own history. They do it because they feel empowered and safe to do it in this time and era, but what they forget is once out there it will always be out there. It's comical because these are people who are only parrroting and regurgitating but have no real resaon for the hate other than what they've been taught, conditioned, indoctrinated, and brainwashed to do. They have no reason to hate or fear, but if they did it would be towards their own people, because over and over history has shown their behaviors! They're calling Black people savages and how they're afraid of them, which obviously shows they don't know their own history of who the true savages are and has always been! This is the major reason schools don't want critical race theory taught in schools. It's okay that Black children are abused based on race and called derogatory terms, but it's not okay that White children are taught that their behavior is wrong and that they're taught their own White history of what racist Whites truly done to Black people. It's bizzare that racist White peope are triggered and fearful of learning their own White history and true Black history. Bizzare or is it just by design?! Please research all the tags below.
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Too many people settle and are complacent and comfortable without understanding the mindsets they have is their greatest enemy. They're stuck and stagnant because of their own ways of thinking, feeling, and acting! Until people get out of their own way and allow healing of their hearts and minds, no change will occur! This can't be accomplished without doing the necessary inside work! People will continue to accept and allow things against their own best interest. They will think it's okay to get into or remain in unhealthy, toxic, and dead-end relationships! Love isn't blind, people are! Yet, those with unhealed hearts and minds don't realized how their own unresolved inner issues affect their lives!
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It doesn't matter who you are, who you think you are, your title, position, power, status, possessions, or money; karma comes back to the dirty doer!!
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Most people are too greedy to be grateful! Some people will never be satisfied with what they have and what they have will never be enough, because they're broken! Greedy people are running and ruining the world! Most people are full of greed and all they want is money, power, and control which tells me they're of unhealed hearts and minds! They project their pain onto others! When enough is never enough, you are the problem in your own life and you're controlled by your flesh! This mindset has left many people with no inner peace because they've lost their souls! Enough is never enough for many people and therefore, they can't be grateful because they're never thankful for what they have!
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You can't miss what you never had is a big bold lie that people have been conditioned to believe! I ran with the cliche years ago, but now I know it's a lie! Unfortunately millions of lives are stunted and stagnant due to missing things they never had but should have had early in their lives. Sadly, many of the adults you see are people who are suffering from pains of yesterday!
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Many will perish for their love of money! The love of money has destroyed the world! People have done anything and are doing anything for money. Enough is not enough for most people and because of it their love for money has lead many into the gates of darkness! "Gaining the world only to lose thier souls." If money is everything to you, it's not the problem; your unhealed heart and mind, and wounded soul is the problem! I always say lust is like a bottomless pit that can never be filled. Loving money drains you mentally, emotionally, and physically leaving you as a cold and heartless empty shell. The mindset is everything, not money!
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You can fill in the blanks on this one! Whatever you allow is what you're going to get! If you don't want better, keep doing what you're doing but it will never benefit you!
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It's crazy that people are still rallying around and supporting the very system that's causing them to struggle! People in the U.S. and around the world have been used and abused for hundreds of years. It's time to wake up! We, the people have the power! It's irrefutable, but until people wake up, things will not get any better! People are too busy fighting one another with no understanding that it's exactly what those in power want you to do! They fear the people coming together and changing the trajectory of their lives by making them less rich! Therefore, they keep discord and division among the people because it's easy to do amongst people who are broken like them. The difference is for the majority of them, you've made them rich, yet you're not. They make you think they care, but haven't done anything to show it! They understand what they're doing to keep their riches flowing. They also know you're easy targets to manipulate and brainwash, because you're broken too, but their hoping you never figure it out!
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There are wicked and evil people all around the world who are unhealed broken predators preying on others. It's terrible how grown people are preying on children and others. Children are a commodity all over the world and I pray that they're protected. Be very vigilant and aware of your surroundings and of who you allow around yourself and any children you have. Always be prepared to protect yourself and stop going places alone. There's nothing but more suffering when a person doesn't allow healing. The devil is your not friend and in fact cares nothing at all about you! Jesus is the way!
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No change, means you get the same results, which falls solely on you! Most people blame but who you become falls on you! Whatever reason you choose not change keeps you bind and bound up with the same unhealed mindset, thinking, feeling, and acting the same! Most peope have lived dysfunctionally for so long until they've deceived themselves. The abnormal is normal to them!
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People are mentally conditioned when it comes to most things, but this episode is about the bills people create and their mindsets to spend, which has lead to major debt for many people. A changed mindset changes your life! Please pray for and get financial wisdom! People are conditioned to spend without knowing it keeps the rich richer! You can change that mindset, but you can't if you allow yourself to continue to be gripped by the jaws of greed and consumption!
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People have excuses for their bad choices and decisions. They have excuses for why they're not choosing to heal and move on in life! They want to blame and complaint but fail to understand as an adult who you become falls on you! Many people use excuses to label themselves and then they live those labels. You're who you are because it's what you've chosen! Every time you use an excuse you inhibit your own growth and progression!
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Most people never take a moment to think rationally, instead they react without thinking through to the consequences. There will be consequences for your actions! When you can't control yourself, you're the biggest problem in your life! If you have no control everything and anything will bother you and set you off! You push your own buttons! Those who just go around reacting are people with unhealed hearts and minds, who are living dysfunctional lives, yet blaming others!
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Black people have been the target forever, yet some Blacks are still allowing themselves to be tokens who get used up and tossed aside! There are Blacks who have fallen for colorism and the racial social construct, and they refuse to open their eyes to the truth! Black people have never tried to be superior, but they are a superpower group of people, not of their own doing but designated and designed by God. Blacks were chosen to take the burden because God knew we could handle it! Blacks have always been there since the beginning of time at all four corners of the earth! All people came from Blackness and it's been hidden from the world, but there is enough evidence out there to see the truth if people got out of their own way to reveal the truth! Black people everything has been on your backs but if you just stand up, it changes everything! Lose the slave mentality that has left an imprint, we as Blacks were supposed to learn from it and become better and stronger, not stay there with the same mindsets! Time for a change! Black men and women must understand that they are the target for prison, jail, and the grave! Stop falling for the racial social construct that has been designed for you to fail! You are unique, own it, and walk it! I understand most Black people are not this way (tokens, jealous, envious, etc.), but those who are put a stain on the rest! Stand up, for divided we'll always fall!
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Anything for love will cost you unnecessary heartache, headache, and pain! If you're willing to do anything for love you have serious unresolved inner issues. It's time to look at yourself and be honest about who you are! Thinking that way means the individual is immature, don't know what love is or what it isn't, and they don't love himself or herself, and they will go through lot of self-inflicted drama!
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Most people lack emotional intelligence. Therefore, they don't understand how their feelings fuels emotions and when people are out of control, so are their emotions. People must begin to be aware of how they're thinking and feelings. Stop allowing everything and everyone to set you off, because you're the only one who's responsible how you feel, act, or react to any situation.
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People try so desperately to hold on to people or things that's bringing them down! Many people give up their own sense iof dentities to be with someone else, because they invest everything in the person and the relationship but they never invest in self! People are in relationships but they're unhappy and they're stressed out to the point of developing mental health issues, because they're taking so much unnecessary drama from the one they think they love. You can't love it away or out of them, but you definitely can lose yourself while trying.
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Many people are delusional because they claim things based on their own feelings, thoughts, opinions, perceptions, what they want, and what they desire. Yet, the person they're with doesn't feel the same about them. Too many people are in one-sided relationships claiming the other person is their soulmate when it's totally untrue! I believe God is the only one who can give you a life partner, but most people never experience it because they're too focused on what they want and with that mindset, they settle for people who aren't meant for them. What's worse is they stay with the people who weren't meant for them and go through nothing but hurt, drama, and chaos.
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Many people have made things and individuals their gods! They started embracing people and things that they idolize and worship. There should be no one or nothing before God the Father! Yet, many professed Christians put people and things before God on a daily basis. Therefore, they have made those people and/or things their gods. You can't serve God and mammoth! If you're not for God you're against Him! It's your choice, but once you leave this natural body, there's no other chances to get on the right side! It will be done and before you died and while you had blood in your veins, you would have chosen your eternal home. Who or what you choose is your choice but there are consequences!
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People of unhealed hearts and minds are broken and immature people but most don't understand it. Therefore, they believe others are the source of problem in their lives, when the biggest problem is self because of the mindset they have. People who have unresolved inner issues carry it wherever they go, they project it, and they pick up trash from others. It affects all facets of their lives. If you never choose to change you will remain the same!
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Many people have lost their lives because they looked over their own intuition, the signs and red flags, and oftentimes, what other people have told them. What you want, who you want, what you desire and feel may cost you! Love isn't blind, people are blind!
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It is of no benefit to you to make rich people richer! Most people are struggling but are willfully paying prices that are inflated. It's tme to wake up and make a change in your life! We all have taught the rich how to treat us, time out!! Wake up and get self control! You're struggling while they are spending their money and your money too!
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It's common for most people to struggle as they go through their experiences, because most people are very familiar with hurt and pain, it's their nornal. Truth is that mindset keep people struggling! You can't become better and stronger if you remain the same! Despite how terrible it may be, we all can learn and grow from every experience! Troubles come and they will go, therefore, it will be alright! Whether you believe it or not is up to you!
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Most people get into things when they're not equipped for the journey or for what's on the other side! The mindset you have before the journey/quest, once you've made it, you still won't be equipped to stay. It's one major reason so many people are being labeled with many mental health issues. They were never equipped for the journey! Many people are put on pedestals mainly by those below them on the pole, but just because a person is on a pedelstal doesn't mean they're ready for it or can handle it, and it's clear many can't! We see this truth every day! All money isn't good! Many statuses and positions are not worth losing integrity and respect! Most people aren't mentally ready for what they're seeking, chasing, or have received and it's why they struggle even more. The lives of millions of people are far worse off because of their own mindsets and what they've allowed and accepted! Many people let money make them instead of them just making money! Most people will never have peace because they're mentally and spiritually broken and when it's the case they're affected mind, body, and soul!
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Many people are too busy being focused on others trying to fix, save, change, etc., other people while their own lives are crumbling. You're focused on watering the garden or grass of others while yours is dried up or is drying up! You must grow and be of a positive mindset before can see what you need to see. Love yourself and learn your value and worth, when you do you're very aware of what's going on in your life!
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People are their own biggest problem but many don't recognize it! They can't see that they're the problem because all they do is complain and blame! It's always someone else and never self! When you have problems with others, take a moment and check yourself first, because I guarantee you most times you're the common denonimator! Look at the person staring back at you in the mirror! What's in a person is coming out, all the faking and pretending won't stop it! Sadly, most people project, complain, and blame, but they won't take the time to allow inner healing so they can become better people. Instead, most people stay on the same negative paths in life! They are problems in their own lives and therefore, problems in the lives of others! Most of these people lack self-control! It's a choice to be that person and it's a choice to allow that type of person to interrupt your life!
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Many people are now dealing with mental health issues that they didn't have before and they have normalized those issues. When people normalize their mental health issues the issues don't go away and in fact they magnify and intensify in people's lives because they get used to combating it with medications. This type of mental health problems comes from lifestyles, bad experiences, and stress!
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None of us have to live the hand we were dealt. As adults, it is up to each of us the life we choose to live! If you choose to stay on the same negative path, it's your choice! You're accountable and responsible for your life and who you've chosen to become. You play a role in how people treat you, what and who you open the door to enter your life, the choices and decisions you make, and what you allow and accept in your life!
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We're living in trying times. People seem to be running amok! Unfortunately there are millions of people with unhealed hearts and minds who are out in the world carrying loads of anger, hurt, and hate. They're spewing and projecting and are only one straw away from snapping! You can't control what others will do but you can control what you do and how you respond to others. Be kind and don't provoke people because of your own pain! If they're not messing with you, leave people alone, because you don't know the mindset they're in! Before you try to check someone else, check yourself first, because while you're pointing the finger to blame, you're the biggest problem in your own life!
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Plain and simple most people have deceived themselves into believing their own God's side. They have no wisdom, knowledge, or understanding of the truth. People have deceived themselves into believing they're Christian when they're not! Tradition will cause many to go to hell. People deceive themselves about many things in life but it is of no benefit!
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When a person believes everything and trust everyone, it's a problem! It's a clear sign of unresolved issues within self, which makes a person a target for others who are worse off than them. If you don't have eyes to be see you will be led blindly by the wrong person or the wrong people.
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If a person don't like you because of something someone else has said, so what!! If they're that elementary and immature, you don't need that person in your life! They don't think for themselves, which is a sure sign of unresolved inner issues. Love yourself enough not to care what others say about you! It's their problem, not yours! If you're bothered by it that says a lot about you! People are broken, which means they are also immature. It leads to insecurities causing people to be jealous and envious, they think it's the person they don't like, but really it's unresolved issues within self!
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That is abusive behavior, which has nothing at all to do with love. It's brokenness! When people are that way they're broken, immature, and lack things necessary for them to see clearly. They're of unhealed hearts and minds! When people get with abusive people they are individuals who are lacking something and seeking something. You're always treated how you've allowed. Don't ignore the signs, red flags, or your own intuition.
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Many people talk it but they don't walk it! They love to profess it but they don't live it! It's all for show. People want approval from others but they aren't concerned with God's approval. It's because they are still in the world! When people are in trouble (incarcerated, sick, hurt/injured, etc.), they want to call on Jesus but once on their feet, they quickly return to their old ways, like that "dog returning to its vomit." Truth is they never turned from it, they just put it on the backburner until they could return to it. God already knows people will do it!
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If someone coerce, influence, persuade, pump you up, entice you, etc., to do wrong and you do it, that falls on you! It also tells you something about yourself! The mindset you have led you to follow wrong or led you to do the wrong thing, which means there is something unresolved and lacking inside of you. Unhealed hearts and minds causes many insecurities, which leads to a lot of self-inflicted hurt, because of who and what people allow into their lives.
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Many people don't believe it is true, but it is true! However, most people are still dealing with lack of control of the their flesh. Therefore, they just don't believe it can happen. They are of immature minds and still being controlled by their flesh. When a person have no control over the flesh it affects them in many ways and many areas of their lives, because they're always doing the wrong things to gain something.
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People make up societies around the world! Most of what we hear comes from broken, negative, and immature people and it's wrong! What makes it worse is it's also received by broken people! Those who haven't yet learned to love-self and are full of insecurities, fall for many of the things societies says. It has led to many wrong stereotypes and wrong beliefs. It has led to people altering their bodies and messing themselves up. It has led to people making bad choices and decisions, and allowing and accepting the wrong things and the wrong people. The list is endless!
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You avoid the relationship by avoiding the person and never getting involved in the first place. You must have eyes to see and be willing to accept the truth for what it is. Brokenness leads to blindiness, which has caused millions of people to end up in relationships with people who are no good for them. There are always signs and red flags that people miss or choose to ignore, only to find themselves in abusive relationships that they're afraid to be in and are afraid to leave! Stop allowing your unhealed hearts and minds to lead you into relationships with people you shouldn't of ever allowed into your life! Watch for the signs and red flags and follow your intuition because when you feel something is wrong, it is! As I always say "love isn't blind, people are." People have gotten used to the cliche, "love is blind" not knowing it's just another one of societies wrong views from people who aren't of mindsets to know better. See beyond your eyes, feelings, wants, emotions, and desires. It just may save your life!
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If you never choose to change your situation, you're the man person to blame! Change starts with you. People don't change because of the mindsets that they have.
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It's very important that parents are engaging and monitoring their children! When you leave children to their own devices, they turn to other people and things! It's detrimental that parents are of healthy mindsets because if they are not they will project their own unresolved issues onto their children, which leads to dysfunction in their children's lives. Monitor your children and know what they're entertaining. Spend quality time with your children, nuture them, and show them love! Unfortunately, sometimes, despite the good parenting, some children will still go the wrong way because they are enticed, influenced, persuaded, coerced, etc., by people and things that are no good for them. Parent's aren't with their school age children 24 hours a day, but as long as children are getting the proper care and attention from their parents, those parents should know they done the best and the right thing for them. Regardless, many children will go astray because of the other people and things that are in their environments and social circles, etc.
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Many people have it all wrong by thinking if they hate someone or if they won't forgive someone that it hurts the other person or people, but it's not true! It doesn't matter if you cause them problems it is you who will suffer the most! You inhibit and stunt your growth causing dysfunction in your own life! Many people never truly enjoy life because of thier dark hearts and minds. Unhappy people are full of insecurities and because of their unresolved inner issues they will project their issues into the lives of others. That behavior doesn't allow for change in your life, and there's no benefit to holding on to negativity, and never letting go of past hurt! It is you who give power to memories to form into negative thoughts and feelings. Get rid of the crutch that's keeping you crippled! It's self-sabotage and self-inflicted pain you bring upon yourself!
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After moving a person in, some people found out the hard way that who they thought the person was is much different from who they are. I know in every situation things sometimes work, but it always depending on the mindsets of the individuals involved. The only way it works is positive change must occur, people must mature.
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If you mess with spirits, it invites them to mess with you! It's a fact! No matter what you say or do, you can't control a spirit and when you open the door to them, they will come in, and you can't stop them! You seeking them out to communicate with them is their invitation to come in.
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Stop blaming the devil for everything! Take accountability and responsibility for your own actions. The devil has the power you give him just like anyone or anything else.
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It's all in your mind! As I've always said, for many people, their own mindsets are their worst enemy. If a person don't love you, love yourself enough to not care and move on! The reason millions are mistreated is because they want someone who isn't meant for them and isn't good for them! Yet, they still want that person! You're the biggest problem in your own life!
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Millions of people are on autopilot coasting through life and not in any way, shape, form, or fashion trying to change! That is the sad truth! Every single day we all get an opportunity to change and become better, but people don't take it, they continue their cycles of the same things, only to get the same results or sometimes worse results! It's self-inflicted!!
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When you never look at yourself and take accountability and responsibility for the path you're on, it doesn't benefit you! What you choose or who you choose to become falls on you, blaming others won't help you to become better! Whatever or whoever you allow into your life is because of your unhealed heart and mind, that's formed the mindset you have! Denying or rejecting the truth won't ever change it!
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Some parents haven't cut the cord of their adult children, which has caused their adult children dysfunction in most areas of their lives! It's not a good thing and some of the adult children keep the cycle going with their own children! Many adult children become co-dependent on their parents and others because their parents never cut the cord! They dont have the mindset of a self-sufficient person and they rely on others to take care of them!
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Many people do this without realizing because they want to be with someone, they want to be a part of something, or they don't want to step into someone else's spotlight! Years ago I was guilty of it, but after understanding my own talent, I woke up! Many people behave this way in their relationships, on their jobs, in churches, etc! However, if you do it, people will let you! B
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Unfortunately some people will by choice, go to their graves unhealed and mentally immature! The entire world is full of unhealed people who are led by their own unresolved inner issues, only to debilitate, destroy, and cripple their own lives causing a lifetime of dysfunction. It's all due to the mindsets people have and never choose to change.
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If you give up your power, it will be taken! People do to you what you've allowed them to do! In this life, there's nothing or no one that's worth giving your power up! To give your power is a sign showing who you are. If someone takes your power they only take it because you gave it up and it shows who they are!
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It's your choice to choose God or not, but I'm suggesting since you've tried everything and nothing has helped, why not try God!! The only way to God is through His Son, Jesus! I pray each of you be blessed and grow in leaps and bounds!
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There is nothing wrong with parents dating as long as they're not neglecting their children to do it! Many parents are only thinking about self, which ends up causing dysfunction in their own lives and the lives of their children. Guard your heart! Protect and provide for your children!
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Power, money, status, titles, money, positions, looks, etc., gets many people placed on pedestals that they aren't able to handle and are struggling to maintain! When you choose your mind, body, and soul over self-love and peace, you'll always be plagued in some way by negativity. What's inside of you will always influence your choices and decisions, because of the mindset that you have!
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This year is almost gone! No more excuses! Throw away the cruthches!! It's time to truly become the best you that you can be!! Change is in your view and in your reach, it's up to you to make the change! You can do it and you're worthy!! Happy Holidays!!
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People are easily influenced by seen and unseen forces. Whatever or whoever you entertain and invite into your life will show up for the party! Most people are clueless to what they open themselves to! There are natural and supernatural forces always at work, if you're not intune with God or yourself, you can fall prey! That's why it's important people learn to never entertain negativity, especially negative thoughts, because as long as you keep thinking of them, they influence your feelings, and actions! No matter who or what contributed to how you think about yourself and life; you're responsible and accountable for who you become and for what you do! Don't let the demons in!!!!
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Most people are stuck in the still syndrome and have been there for years! If you don't change, neither will your situation. Still, still, still only keeps you in the same mindset doing the same old things, the same old way! It's called a repetitive cycle and it's how most people live their lives on auto pilot! You're the only one who can change it! It's a form of consistency but not a beneficial form!
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The only person who can do your inside work is you! If you never choose to change it falls on you! Therefore, it is you who is responsible and accountable for your own life! Stop giving your power to people and things to prevent you from healing, loving yourself, and gaining mental maturity!
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People put much more on themselves than they can handle and then they blame it on everyone else! They go through life carrying their own unresolved inner issues and top of their own they have to deal with the unresolved issues that others bring into your life. People try to bear the issues of others when they can't even handle their own, that's where breakdown comes in because most people go through life being led blindly by their unhealed hearts and minds; making their own lives worst. They never learn from their experiences. Therefore life is much harder for them because they continue to repeat the same cycles, and allowing those worse off than then to affect their lives. Your mindset is your biggest problem and your worst enemy!
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I certainly don't believe it or agreed to it. If you allow people to treat you badly they will and most won't care nothing about the Jesus you think you love. You'te the one who teach others that they can mistreat you! Waiting for someone to change you may be waiting forever! A proven way to know if you love yourself is look at how you allow yourself to be treated by your significant other and other people! God loves us unconditionally but despite the love if necessary He will chastise you and if necessary will turn you over to a repobate mind! In other words He's not playing with any of us! Don't let people abuse, misuse, or do you wrong in the name of what you perceive as love.
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People are so spoiled and have mindsets conditioned to spend, spend, spend. No matter what, people will spend money on things they don't need. They spend money they don't have. They will spend on what they don't need before getting what they need. Many people will spend money but they won't budget or save! It is the American people's fault the shambles the USA is in. We have allowed billionare and millionare companies to use and abuse us! We're taxed beyond reality on every single thing! Everything single thing is sky high and almost unaffordable these days. We have to work until we're dead! It's insane!! The crazy part is people won't stop spending! It's like people are too far gone to stop. People have become addicted to spending! Most people are easily bamboolzled into buying, dangle the carrot and people will fall for it! Wake up!!!
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It's great being a good and decent person but when you're not loved and appreciate it causes problems for yourself. It's a clear sign of immaturity but most people think because they're taking care of their business and doing the right thing that they're mature, when they're not. It's okay to mean well but good intentions don't mean anything to a person who doesn't care about you and only enjoying the benefits that you provide!
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Of course he's a man, but he supposed to be different! If he isn't ready to give up the world and worldly things, he shouldn't be in any pulpit! Like it or not, it's the truth! Too many people give their pastors too many passes and it's why they keep messing up and doing all kinds of worldly things. It's why we're seeing the world in the churches. The church leaders are ungodly! Members aren't holding their pastors accountable because they too are still in the world, therefore the behaviors of their worldly pastors is acceptable.
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If we are to stand and endure the times, we must accept that good and bad things will happen, unexpected and expected. Trials, tribulations, storms, bad experiences, etc. can make you a very strong individual if you're of the right mindset going into them. My recommendation for all is to stand on the Word of God, allow inner healing, believe in yourself, love yourself, and never get distracted by or give power to people or things. Stay focused on the Lord because He will give you that supernatural peace that surpasses all understanding. It's a guarantee!
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It's unfair to require such high standards from a man when you can't give to him what you require from him. It's not about having equal to him, but you should have some of what you're requiring because in a relationship the man needs fulfillment just as the woman does. It's not fair to look for what you can't give and it's delusional to do so. Women want to follow society saying a man should take care of a woman but fail to realize societies are filled with broken/unhealed people who are immature and don't think realistically. There's nothing wrong with wanting someone to have his own, but you should have yours too! Just as he should enhance your life, you should enhance his, it shouldn't be one-way!
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God is not dead but people are spiritually dead! They're the walking dead who's living on autopilot because they have made the world and worldly things their god/s. People are seeking everything and everyone else but God. Instead of choosing right people continue to choose wrong and without repentance and change, hell will be their home!
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Trying to save someone you think that you love only to lose yourself, which includes losing your mind, soul, finances, etc. Stop thinking you have enough love for them and for you because you don't, and you never will. Many people have found themselves down and out because of trying to save the person they love who don't want to be saved. A person must want to change for his or herself, not because you want them to, because it will never work. Most people end up chaning for the worst during their quests of trying to change the person that they think they love! It's foolishness, immaturity, and the effects of unhealed hearts and minds. When you don't love yourself first, you'll never know what love is really about and therefore, you'll do all the wrong things for what you think is love!
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Many women allow their children to stand in the gap and suffer to keep heat off of them as the mom, to keep the man, or just to get what they want! It is destroying, devastating, and causing destruction in the lives of their children. I truly pray for children growing up in today's world. Moms and dads should protect their children. Mom's should be nurturers, teachers, and protectors of their children. Adults in general should protect children, and not use and abuse them!
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It may hurt but it's true! There are millions of ignorant people in this world who are ignorant of free will. I mean willfully ignorant people are the ones who choose to stay ignorant when there's millions of resources to learn and educate yourself. Instead of being educated people live a life of parroting and regurgitating what they've heard even when it's untrue! That mindset keeps people mentally enslaved. If you choose to remain ignorant you can't grow, won't grow, and you'll be easily fooled into believing a lie! Not only that, willfully ignorant people are also immature and because of it will make choices and decisions against their best interest. Change starts with you, the mindset is everything!
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Bottom line is any person in your life will always treat you exactly how you've taught them to treat you and how you've allowed them to treat you! It doesn't matter who the individaul is, they will do to you what you allow them to get away with! You teach your significant other exactly how he or she can treat you because you show your vulnerabilities out of what you perceive is love, when it has nothing to do with love. A person who truly loves you should enhance your life, not use, abuse, or control you! Most people don't have a clue of what love is because they've never learned to love self first!
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It's all about the mindset that you have! When you're of unhealed hearts and minds you're very quick to act and/or react over things to include speculation and lies! Many people are very easily provoked over hearsay. It goes back to the ridiculous lie over the rapture. Many people fell for it because people want so badly to believe in something, yet if they really believed in Jesus, they should have known better. It goes to show that most people talk one thing but believe and do another! When you have your own unresolved issues that you neglect, and you continue to put them on the back burner to go along, to get along, to belong, you'll always be left behind and falling prey to the many predators who feed off of the vulnerabilities you've shown to them! You'll contine as broken people who are being mentally bamboolzled and controlled by other broken people! Change must start with you, it's an inner process that must take place! You must be willing to unlearn all the bad conditioning and behaviors to become the best version of yourself! You are better than who or what you come from, if you believe it! Nothing you've gone through or will go through dictates your life unless you choose for it to dictate your life!
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Most people around the world neglect self! People are more focused on minding the business of others rather than their own and it's one huge reason people remain the same. When you don't allow inner healing and self love, you don't mentally mature and because of it you're easily brainwashed, influenced, convinced, bamboolzled, and deceived by other broken people who are from all walks of life. People normally don't think in depth about things until they're directly affected, until then, they will go along to get along because they want to belong. That type of mentality is keeping many people in broken states of mind! Invest in yourself to become the best that you can be!
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This episode goes for both immature men and women, because they think, feel, and act in similiar and immature ways. Stop expecting people to conduct themselves as mature when they are broken and lack mental maturity. It's all about the mindset! The problem is so many people are broken and because of it they embrace negativity and foolishless but they too are immature people. There are immature men and women in every single group/race! Unhealed people love and relish in negativity/bad news/gossip, etc. One major and important thing that is indeed free, but most people don't want, is the truth!
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Many people are hiding behind the name Jesus and the name God, yet it's for their own glory and not for the Glory of God! It is the very reason souls aren't being changed. People are more focused on pleasing and appeasing man than God! They want man to believe they're God fearing Christians when it's clear they're aren't but many people can't see it because they too aren't connected to Jesus and therefore don't really know God for themselves!
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Immature women think that dressing inappropriately shows they're confident, beautiful, etc. Lies! Women who are walking around half dressed are very disrespectful to themselves and to others. These women think they're showing confidence and strength but in reality it shows just the opposite. It shows who these women are inside. They lack confidence and have lots of insecurities that they'll never admit to. It doesn't matter how cute she is when a woman is half dressed it makes her look bad. Women who are walking around wearing clothes that are too small have no clue how horrible they look. It's not cute at all! I feel sorry for women who feel a need to dress inappropriately and can't take a real look at themselves to see what they're really showing others! What's inside is always coming out in many ways, dressing inappropriately is just one! They lack self-love and are in denial. What they see in the mirror is a reflection of what's inside of them but it's not reality! Some men dress inappropriate too and everything applies to him. What people forget is children are also watching!
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You must be able to stand on your own and you can do it with Jesus! Your friends, family, and others will quickly stop checking on you, but don't let that discourage you in any way! It's not that they don't care, but people just don't have time because they're too caught up in their own lives. It's okay! Look to the hills whence cometh your help, not to man or woman!
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If your significant other is good, hang on to him or her because it's rare these days and times. Make no mistake about it, just being good isn't enough, they have to be someone who loves God, love themselves, love others, mature, healed, committed, faithful, dedicated, honest, loyal, etc. When you have the total package, don't mess it up! The dating pool is very tough these days! Don't let your unhealed hearts and minds get you bamboolzed and manipulated into thinking you have something when you have nothing! Hold on to that special someone!
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Most people believe others are their enemy but don't realize that their mindsets is their biggest enemy. How you think affects how you feel and act. Most people go through life causing self-inflicted pain in their own lives becasue of who and what they accept and allow into their lives.
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Yes, they are the future in terms of being younger than we are, but we may be in trouble if it's meant any other way, because children are being raised by everything and everyone other than the people who are supposed to raise them. Many children go through hell in their homes and they grow up to be angry people who never allow healing to take place in their lives. If you don't believe me, look around to see all of the mess going on by ALL the angry, hateful, wicked, mean, disconnected, and brainwashed young and old adults! There are some phenomenal children in this world too but most children haven't been given a good or fair start!
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When you refuse to see the truth, it is you who will suffer the most! People don't realize that most of what we go through is self-inflicted!
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If you fell for the rapture story, shame on you! I saw how people believed it with all thier heart, but the whole time it was a lie! No man or woman knows when Jesus will return, even Jesus doesn't know when God will send him back! The same way people wholeheartedly believed the rapture was coming, if they took that same energy and belief and put it on Jesus and God, their lives would change and their mindsets would be healthier. If people don't change, they'll always be easily tricked! Stop looking outward for a resolution to make you feel better and to make your life better. Instead, look inside of yourself and allow healing to take place! Man nor woman can do it for you because most people are broken too! With the mindsets that people have, millions upon millions will make it too easy for the anti-Christ to fool them! Instead of seeking man, seek Jesus, for He's the ONLY way to God and to Heaven! The rapture lie wasn't a test from God, those who think so are still deceiving themselves. God would never test you in that way. Those who fell for it aren't connected to God, if they were, believing such foolery wouldn't have happened! Allow yourself to decrease, so God can increase in you! You can never grow by continuing to make excuses!
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You should always stand in the gap for those who don't know and follow God, but doing so will NOT prevent them from going to Hell! People must love and serve Jesus and God for themselves! Whether a person go to hell or heaven does NOT fall on you, it falls on them! However, never stop standing in the gap!
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The USA and the world have been taught hate, violence, and division. Racism exist because the entire world of people have been taught to be racist and instead of changing, they choose to remain the same! The world has been taught Blacks are the worst of the worst, yet they are the very ones who helped Whites to survive and who bulit the nation. What's worse is some Black people are still so lost that they believe like the racist Whites. Those types of Black people don't realize they are used and abused by racist Whites, to push their agendas and to keep the narratives of racist Whites going. If you want to know why all of the White on White crimes are happening such as school shooting, etc., look in the mirror! Racists Whites has done nothing for 400 plus years other than teach their children, women, family, friends, and others; hate, violence, and division with no understanding of why. If anyone should hate it is Blacks, but because God chose us to go through this, He also made us in a way that we aren't created that way. If you can't love everyone down here, don't even think about Heaven, because unless you change, you'll never go! In 2025 people still choose to remain bamboolzed, brainwashed, blind, deceived, manipulated, conditioned, indoctrinated, and used; to keep sprewing hate, to be violent and divisive. Race and racism was created by the White man along with the terms Black and White. Blacks, Whites, and every other race has been brainwashed and conditioned by the same White Forefathers! It's truly time to wake up! When have you seen Blacks act like racist Whites, outside of protecting themselves from racist Whites? Think about it! TRULY pray people think about this episode and be willing to learn for themselves.
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It's wild, but unfortuante people are doing it. When people believe that a computer loves them, you know people are so lost! A computer will never have real emotions or feelings for a human. It's very sad that some people are so broken that they actually believe they're in love with computers or they believe that they have a close connection with a computer. People will only go further down the rabbit hole with the ever changing technology and will be led wrong becasue of their unhealed hearts and minds, that's caused the beliefs that they have. Many people are lonely and because of it will turn to computers, thinking that they have real connections with them.
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If you want change in your life, it is you who must initiate change. The only way it can happenn is by doing that inner work, because all of the mess inside is causing dysfunction in your outside world. Most people hold on to the negative aspects of their experiences, which forms their negative mindsets. If you don't progress you remain mentally stuck. Therefore, there's no mental maturity, which is why people continue to make bad choices and decisions.
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It's hard to save with bad habits, point blank! You don't have to be on the low end of the spectrum to lack financial wisdom. It has nothing to do with how much money you have or don't have but it has everything to do with your mindset and the ability to manage your finances. The worse thing people do to themselves is to live for others to see what they have or what they pretend to have. It's a ridiculous and very stressful way to go through life! Stop worrying about what others have and stop trying to keep up with what others have. Gain financial wisdom and watch how you crawl out of the pit you've dug for yourself! If you want a better life you can't sit around waiting for someone to pull you out, for the lottery to hit, for someone to die, etc., you have to choose better for yourself! Make better choices and decisions! Stop getting into debt and stop living beyond your means!
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Most workplaces have unhealed leaders and because of the mindsets of those leaders (CEO, Bosses, Leaders, Supervisors, etc.) things are allowed to take place and therefore, trickle down. Many leaders simply don't know how to lead. A good leader sets the example and lead from the front. Unfortunately, that isn't what is happening in most workplaces. That's why workplaces all over the world have nepotism, favoritism, discrimination, harassment, hostility, low morale, etc. You take you everywhere you go and whatever is in you is coming out in one way or another. It doesn't matter what title, position, or status you hold, it will never heal what's inside of you. Therefore, you will display and project your unresolved pains into the lives of other people. It's not just the leaders it is also the employees who falls under the leaders. Workplaces are full to the brim of people with unhealed hearts and minds! It will never change until people choose to be better people and that won't happen without inner healing and change! I think all agencies should have a Facilitation Team to help with internal issues.
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Most people don't have self control over anything! If you don't have self control it will lead to many more issues in your life. Self control is also one of the "Fruits of the Spirit!" The lack of self control can lead to different addictions (sex, food, drugs, alcohol), and other things such as negative thoughts, anger, etc., that ultimately causes many problems for people. What you don't have self control over, will control you! It goes back to the mindset that a person has, because we all have free will to exert self contol, but we all don't use it for the good in our own lives. Hence why, people have no self control in many areas of their lives!
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No one is exempt from getting old and don't let anyone fool you into believing otherwise. The only people who didn't age are in their graves! Accept aging because as sure as you live it will happen! Love yourself enough to embrace the inevitable aging process! Changes will take place but you don't have to be unhappy about it because it's a part of the process. Be thankful you're around to experience it! People who are distraught about aging have far deeper inner issues that's affecting their mindsets!
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This episode may offend some people but it's still the truth! Stop allowing yourself to be hurt by other people, it doesn't matter who they are! If they don't support you, it's okay. It's no guarantee that they will and it's not a rule that they have to support you! As long as you're showing up for yourself and you're the biggest and loudest cheerleader in your own life, you will be alright! Don't give your power to nothing or no one!
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I believe when parents allow their young children to date it's wrong parenting. Children should be focused on getting through and finishing school, not on love and relationships. Children absolutely do not know how to handle love and relationships because they don't know anything about it. Grown people don't know anything about love and relationships, why do you think children will know? Yet, parents allow their young children to date, which oftentimes mess up children mentally leading to suicidal and sometimes homicidal thoughts. It has also led to abortions, pregnancies, depression, anxiety, etc. Many children have a harder time in school mainly because of their home lives, but also because they're forming relationships that they can't handle. Re-think it and stop the cycles of dysfunction!
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Not all churches but most of them are doing what the world is doing, which isn't of God. They are churches of man not of God because they have brought the world into the sanctuaries. Most leaders are using the church as a platform to do the devil's work! If it weren't true, we wouldn't be seeing the things that we see taking place within churches. People go to church only out of tradition but have no church within! They go because they love their relationships with their leaders and church families, but they have no relationship with God and His Son Jesus!
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It's evident that brokenness doesn't discriminate! People of all races, ages, professions, titles, status, positions, from the highest to the lowest, etc., are broken, which shows in their choices, decisions, behaviors, etc. Most people are too fixated on other people and things than they are on working on self to become the best versions of themselves. Instead they continue living the same dsyfunctional cycles! It is why people are very easily fooled, brainswashed, and manipulated! Money, fame, fortune, etc., will never fix that invisible part of you that causes visible problems in your life, leading to dysfunction. People are the way that they are because they've allowed their unresolved inner issues to form the mindsets they have, which has caused brokenness in millions upon millions of people!
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More people fake and pretend than not but it doesn't benefit them or their lives. Many people act as if they're happy but it's a lie! When you spend your life faking and pretending you remain unhappy, stagnant, and in the same negative mindset because there's no growth and maturity. You will never know love until you learn to love yourself first! You will never know growth or peace, until you allow inner healing to take place!
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It doesn't matter what IT is, why do it if you know it's wrong? Why take the chance or risk to cause further issues in your own life by making the wrong choices and decisions, when you know it's wrong? Never fixate on thoughts that you know are wrong, because the more you give power to thoughts they can control and consume your life, until you succumb!
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We're all getting closer to death, and even more so since time is flying. People are still acting as if they will live forever, but I guarantee you none of us will. People are going about their lives spiritually dead because the tangible things of this world are more important to them. Who you serve now determines your eternal home. Salvation is free! Don't get caught on the wrong side!
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It doesn't matter who the abuser is or was! Most people will never get an apology, that's why you must forgive them in your heart, and then forgive yourself for allowing hurt and pain to cause you to lead a dysfunctional life. Forgiveness is for you and your peace so that you can let go and move on!
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You're the reason. The mindset you have dictates every nove you make and every step you take! People are led by emotions, feelings, wants, and desires, which all comes from unhealed hearts and minds! Unhealed hearts and minds causes people to make bad choices and decisions. It also causes people to allow and accept the wrong things, creating the monsters in their lives!
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There's an overwhelming abundance of things to see and hear in this world. There are a hundred versions of news stories, a billion different services, thousands of Content Creators talking about the same things, a hundred different types of the same prodcut, bad information, societal views, and the list goes on. Sadly, many people of unhealed hearts and minds fall for many things that they shouldn't. This world is polluted at the hands of people!
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Sexualizing children is wrong in every single way! Too many people have demented minds and cold hearts. They sexually abuse children and some of these people are the parents of these children. Children are a commodity across the world and it's a shame, wicked, and evil on evey level! Children should be protected by adults not hurt or harmed.
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Most people think what they're involved in is love, when love has nothing to do with it and it is why people struggle so much in their relationships and life in general.
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When no healing has taken place people remain the same. An unhealed heart and mind leads many into terrible situations. People make bad choices and decisions when they reamin the same because they contine to make bad choices and decisions.
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Being single truly isn't the problem, the problem is the mindset that you have as a single person. Many people are already struggling mentally and being single makes things worst because they focus on the fact that they're single, to the point of it being their main focus! It makes the lives of many people more miserable and out of it comes loneliness, depression, isolation, etc. Just because a person is alone doesn't mean they have to be lonely but they are because of the mindsets they have and how they view being lonely.
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Ninety-nine and a half won't do, we must be sold out! You can't serve God and the adversary the devil and get to Heaven. Many people have deceived themselves and if they don't change they will go to Hell. Stop making excuses! Get right before your time is up!
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When a person love the pastor more than God, they're on the wrong path! A pastor can't save you nor do they have a Heaven or Hell to put you in. Every pastor knees has to bow like yours and mines. People get too caught up in feelings and emotions and that is what draws them Sunday after Sunday. People are happy and feeling good in church when emotions are high, but there's no change in their lives because they're worshipping the pastor and not God! Whatever you choose to do wrong is your choice, but just know there is always consequences for what you choose! If it's against God's Word, it's against God, but it's your choice to do what you want to do!
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Due to their mindsets many people are falling into scam traps and are also catfished. If you're catfished you're also being scammed! You must be alert, mindful, and aware to know when something isn't right. Don't be led wrong by your feelings and emotions because you can be led into a terrible situation with terrible people. See past your heart, wants, and desires.
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People are so fixated on negativity, invested in other people, things, and technology that they're lost and don't even know it! The majority of people around the world are on autopilot and therefore, things, possessions, technology, and other people are more important than self. It is why there's no change in most people because their mindsets are their worst enemy. They're in their own way and inhibiting their own mental growth and maturity. People invest in everything but self!
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If a person doesn't want you life isn't over! Stop allowing negative thoughts to cause you to act out! If you give power to negative thoughts they can consume and control you! Love yourself enough to know when you need to move on! Love yourself enough to not want someone who doesn't want you! Love yourself enough to be the best you can be! Many people never get to the level of maturity they deserve, because they're in their own way and their worst enemy is their mindset! You can't grow or become the best you can be by remaining the same!
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People "profess Christ from their lips but their hearts are far from Him." Million upon millions claim to walk with Christ but clearly they've deceived themselves! You can't ever fool God, He knows the truth! People spend their lives living in vain, but all they're doing is risking losing their souls and going to Hell! No roots, means no real connection to the True Source, which is God, through His Son Jesus! You must be a hearer and doer of God's Word!
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People show you who they are by showing you who and what they want you to see. You miss the signs and red flags because of the level of emotional connection and feelings that you have for the person you're with, yet, some degree of truth is always shown!
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If you're trying to make something work or make it better. It doesn't matter the situation, shutting down is never the way to fix anything! You can't solve anything by not talking/communicating. Many people shutdown because it's what they've become comfortable with, but it only makes things worse. Some people shut down becasue they've lost their voice, which is wrong too! Don't let anyone take your power and control and don't be in your own way!
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Sadly, many people don't know the difference. When you're in a healthy relationship it means caring for that person which involves loving them and being in love with them! To care for a person, also means you will protect them and do them no kind of harm. If a person is controlling you it is not love! If you're controlling or if you're a person who allows a controlling person in your life, you're both of unhealed hearts and minds! People treat you how you've taught them to treat you!
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Faking and pretending only keeps you where you've always been, in the same negative states of mind. You can't become a better person by remaining the same!
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This means once many people start obtaining the worldly things that they desire they lose focus and become easily distracted and full of pride, selfish, pompous, lack love, and they lose their way. Their good intentions turn into greed and lust! Many people become wicked, evil, and are all about possessions, money, titles, power, authority, recognition, etc. As you increase your soul decreases because you change the course and begin to be full of yourself and you start to show less love for others. Everything is me, me, me! "For what profited a man to gain the world and lose his soul." If you lose your soul, you lose!! This is why so many people are struggling mentally, they've lost their way due to following their unhealed hearts and minds and have allowed themselves to be controlled by the worlds way! People are controlled by greed and lusts of this world! Sadly, many started on their spiritual journey serving God, but chose to turn to darkness, because they believed the world had more to offer. The only thing the world gives you is destruction and damnation if it's what you choose!
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Some people don't care what situation or condition you're in, they will cheat! They don't care who you are or what you have, they will cheat! They don't care what you do for them, they will cheat! They don't care how beautiful you are, they will cheat! They don't care how much you show them love, they will cheat. It is what cheaters do and you won't change it! You get what you accept! They are people of unhealed hearts and minds, who have a host of insecurities and other inner issues!
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You struggle between serving God and the devil because you're not ready to give up the world and its ways!! You say you believe, but you really don't! When you're ready, you'll give up this world, but until then, you will continue to struggle! Just know that you can't serve both the devil and God! Either you're for God or against Him. I'm not talking about the people and things you've made your god, I'm talking about the Creater, the True and Living God!
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The title says it all! When you only see what you want to see, you will miss everything else! People who are this way have no clue they are their own worst enemy, who is causing themselves, self-inflicted pain! People cause more pain and drama in their own lives but they only see the other people or the other person as the problem, when the biggest problem is self! How you think, feel, and act (your mindset) will either ruin your life or cause you to be the best you can be! I pray it's the latter!
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I've reposted this becasue the original post was in the wrong place. Many people are in relationships that they created in their own minds. They want things to be what they want them to be, but isn't necessarily the way things really are. People who do this causes a lot of unnecessary pain in their own lives. Just becasue you want it doesn't mean that's how it so.
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The picture is a depiction of nothing but that same hole you started with, only it's bigger!! Many people chase after love and will do anything to get it. Many of you have given up everything and turned your back on everyone, only to end up with nothing! That is the way of the world!
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Spiritual surgery is surgery of minds and hearts, to think right and love our fellowman and fellowwoman! This entire world is in crises because it's cloaked in darkness! If you want to be saved and live for God ask for it! Read Romans 10:9!
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Even if you were or is a actual prisoner in your relationship, it is you who allowed things to get that far! I know it's easier to blame the other person then it is to take responsibility for the role you chose to play! It's not my intention to hurt anyone, but fact is the truth do hurt!
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Most people don't love themselves because they've never allowed healing in their lives. Therefore, they don't know their worth or understand what they need for self. They will go through life choosing people and things that are no good for them. No growth means no self-love or mental maturity.
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Many people won't understand this episode, but it's what was revealed to me. If if weren't for the suffering of the my people the world wouldn't know love! Think about it, the world is full of hateful people, who have no reason for their behaviors other than it's what they were taught. Even then, a person can change, but as we know, most people have chosen not to change! Instead, they mimic, parrot, and regurgitate! People around the world believe the same lies and they carry the same old torch of hundreds of years ago! Despite the truth is easily found for research, most people wilffully choose to remain blind and clueless! With all the hate and wickedness going on in the world, I fell on my face crying out to God, asking why Black people have to suffer so much! He spoke to me through the Holy Spirit! I shared the most important thing God revealed to me. He said it is necessary!! God created us from His image, we should love one another but man taught hate! It made me break down crying, because it was so powerful! It made a lot of sense to me! Please listen and share!
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No one is exempt from getting back, the wrong they've done to others! Your money or nothing else will save you from it!
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Most people will blame others before they will take responsibility and accountable for the choices and decisions that they make in their own lives. You keep choosing similar people because you keep thinking, feeling, and acting the same. There has been no change in you! When a person doesn't change, they remain the same, doing the same things and acting the same way! You're in your own way and your mindset is your worst enemy! The person you chose to be with may be a problem, but it's totally your fault for choosing them! You're a problem in your own life! Until inner healing happens, mindsets won't change! Therefore, people repeat cycles in their lives with no understanding as to why.
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Some people run away from their responsibilities. If you lay down to do the business, never forget the possibility of conceiving a child. Think pass your feelings, desires, emotions, wants, etc., to the possibility. If you don't want a child, don't do what it takes to get one or at least protect yourself! Many people are having children who shouldn't. It's a shame the terrible things many children are subjected to by their parents or caregivers who are of unhealed hearts and minds. Many people aren't in relationships, they're simply lying down together. It doesn't matter if you're married or not, if you don't want children, be responsible.
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Run at the first sign of abuse! Handsfree abuse is still abuse and can be even worse than physical! Abuse has nothing to do with love! Take an honest look at yourself and figure out why you feel you deserve less than good! You are worthy of the best! Don't ever think any differently. Abuse isn't love! Abusers are weak individuals empowered by you! Learn to love yourself and know that you deserve better!
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False and fake pastors, preachers, overseers, teachers, evangelist, apostles, bishops, rabbi's, etc., will pay for leading the flock astray. However, you will pay for following them! You're supposed to follow God's Word, not the word of man! You're supposed to worship God, not man but unfortuantely, many of you have made man your god! They're preaching money and possessions prosperity but no spiritual prosperity. That's not of God!
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If you don't have boundaries against all people you'll allow unnecessary stress in your life. Too many people give their power to others to hurt them. Love yourself enough to never give power to others to cause you unnecessary and avoidable stress and pain.
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If you don't choose to become better it's of your own free will! People can help change your situation in life to be better, but it won't change what's inside of you! Therefore, no matter who's in your life or what you have, you'll never truly enjoy anyone or anything until the inner you is healed. A better you is up to you!
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Sometimes, you do wrong to the wrong person and they decide to do to you, what you've done to them, but you can't handle it. That's why it's important to do right by people! If you know you can't take it, don't do it!
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There are many fake Christians who are living in vain, because their talk and walk don't align. They are of man and not of God! Faking may get you over with man but it won't with God! Faking it will get you a one way ticket to hell! Their god is the devil, whom is always the author of confusion. You can see who their master is by the way they talk and behave! They're living in vain and have lost their souls.
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Most people mess up their relationships from the start because they get into them the wrong way, with the wrong person, and for the wrong reasons. Most people don't love themselves but they're trying to love others. Some people carry flames still burning for an ex into their new relationships. Most people are of unhealthy mindsets and because of it they choose wrong and make wrong decisions. Most people settle just to have someone.
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Many broken people have foolishly done things because they're listening to society to find ways to feel good about themselves. The problem is afterwards many people often feel worse about themselves. Many people have messed themselves up by listening to society. They've altered their appearances (faces and bodies) and unfortunately many end up with botched results. It's not in the body, it's in the brain! You have to fix what's wrong inside in order to become of a healthy mindset! It doesn't matter how pretty your face and body is if your mind is messed up! Be thankful and grateful for what God gave you. Stop resisting aging, because it's futile to resist, you'll never be exempt unless you die first!
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Many people give power to those who've hurt them only to continue to hurt themselves. You must learn to love yourself beyond past pains. You shouldn't give your power to anyone or anything, because it makes you weaker! You shouldn't allow any man or woman to make you feel bad about yourself, make you want to give up on yourself, blame you for their wrong, or make you want to hurt or harm yourself or anyone else. A healthy mindset is a healthy life! The choices and decisions you make, what you allow and accept, and who you allow in your life, depends on the mindset that you have!
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DEI doesn't mean certain people got jobs, just for general purposes, like ignorant people believe. No! If Black people got hired, regardless the position, they still had to be the most qualified in the pool of interviewees. No agency ever gave a person a job, because of being a veteran, Black, disabled, etc.! It's a lie, they still had to be the most qualified for the position for which they were hired. It's funny racists people want to relate DEI to Blacks, etc., and that they were just giving jobs to them, but never mention all the White men who got positions they weren't qualified for. When will they talk about that? It's all lies saying Blacks, veterans, disabled, etc., were just giving jobs, but it's 100% true that White men got and still get jobs on nepotism and favoritism, but were and are, the least qualified. Racist people use manipulation tactics all the time to push their agenda. Those who don't want diversity are racists!
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When you don't know what love is, it means you don't or won't recognize love when you see it. If you can't recognize it the things you accept and allow in the name of love will oftentimes leave you more broken than before.
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God doesn't force you to choose His Son Jesus. He gives you the power to choose who you love. You can't serve them both. Jesus loves you, the devil doesn't love anyone, to include himself. What you choose on earth is what you'll get when you step out of life's backdoor.
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Most people make everything and everyone more important than self. Most people think other individuals are better than them because those individuals are in positions of power and authority, are well-known, have money, etc. It's absolutely wrong, but it's how people think. Until you matter to yourself and choose to become the best you can be for yourself, you'll struggle your way through life. A positive mindset is everything!
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Most people spend their lives worshipping people they don't know and some will do anything for them. Many people worship their significant others only to end up losing self. Worshipping people won't make them want to get to know you, want to be with you, or want to love you. If people spent half the time getting to know and love self than they do worshipping others, their lives would be so much better. Investing into everyone and everything, while you neglect self is of no benefit to you! It leads to manipulation and falling for people and things that aren't good for you. Many people end up believing things that aren't true because they give their power to those they worship and those people feed off of the power given to them. The people they worship oftentimes use them and brainwash them to do what they want and to think, feel, and act like them. It's a terrible situaiton people get in. It doesn't matter who it is, if you worship someone they will manipulate you in some way.
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The people who are hooping and hollering about fraud, waste, and abuse are committing it, while they're talking against it. How can you be serious about cutting budgets when you're constantly spending? It's contradictory! They're spending millions while claiming fraud, waste, and abuse by government agencies and federal programs. Make it make sense! Someone needs to look into the fraud, waste, and abuse being committed by the them. Someone also needss to step up for government agencies about the harassment taking place against government employees. Something is very fishy about all of it! Very fishy!!!
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When a person shuts down in the relationship it only causes more problems. Shutting down isn't the mature or proper way to handle any problem or issue. If you love who you're with, communication is necessary. Sometimes people shut down because it's what they're used to doing because they don't like confrontation. Sometimes people shut down out of fear. Sometimes people are too insecure to talk about how they feel. Regardless the reason, shutting down will always open the door to new and sometimes worse issues. Don't do it!
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I'm very sorry, but they weren't exempt and neither are you. We all have to take the journey. You'll either suffer the loss of a loved one or they will suffer the loss of you. Someone is going first, because we all will die. It's something that we all must accept. We should understand it will happen. When a person is of that mindset, they learn how to handle loss much better. It doesn't mean they don't hurt, but they know in life for as long as we live, we will lose a loved one. No one should give up because of it.
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If they don't love you, there's nothing you can do to make them love you. Love yourself enough to move on. You should never want anyone who don't want you. To do so, tells you something you need to know about yourself. You need to deal with your unresolved inner issues, love yourself, and move on in life. Someone not wanting you isn't the end of the world.
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You're not exempt! You will be amidst the wreckage and rubble.
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Hearts are truly waxed cold. If people truly were the Christians they profess, we would see more love than the hate we're seeing in the world today.
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America has never been White. White people weren't even in America first. You've been led to believe the lie, but it does't make it true. America has never been a White Nation. People believe what they've been told although evidence shows otherwise, people will still believe what they've been told, without ever trying to find out the truth for themselves. This is the way of the entire world! People prefer a lie rather than the truth!
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Don't go into a relationship looking for completion, go in whole and giving 100%. A lot of things may change while relationships grow, mature people will adapt, and true love will remain. Too many people lose the love they felt for the person they're with. The reason is most people go into relationships the wrong way, with the wrong people, and with their eyes wide shut. However, when their eyes open, they see the truth for what it is and realize they're not in a healthy relationship, and then they no longer have the feelings they once thought they had.
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If you choose to go down the path of darkness, it can potentially swallow you up. If you let the devil in, his crew will set up camp and take over. Demons are real. It's easy to get into the darkness, but can be very hard to get out of it. Don't let the devil fool you! People seek out the devil for many reasons, but the devil doesn't love you, he wants you in hell with him, that's his only purpose to have you on his side. The devil is the author of confusion and the biggest liar. The devil will make you think everything glitters is gold - it may glitter but it doesn't mean it's gold, what looks good is good for you - when it can kill you or destroy your life, what looks good taste good - when it may taste good but it can kill you, and that superficial things brings you love and happiness - when it's a blatant lie.
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People who have mental maturing to do think they must have someone to feel alive and complete. Only to find themselves hurt, lost, confused, in chaos, and feeling worse about themselves. Mature people know that they can manuever through this thing called life alone and that the only person completes them is self. They understand self-love and love in general and they relish in the peace that comes with it.
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Most people want to point the finger and blame, yet never want to look at the real problem, which is self. Instead they project all of their insecurities, hurt, and pain on others. Until people take accountability, ownership, and responsibility for the choices and decisions they make, and for who or what they've chosen to become, they won't ever progress towards mental maturity. Therefore, they will continue to make bad choices and decisions based on superficial things, simply because they're mentally immature and blind. When people choose to blame, they inhibit their own growth and therefore, remain the same; prisoners to their own mindsets.
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Blacks must break free of the mental chains that has been planted by the White Forefathers and others Whites who continue to carry the torches of their White Forefathers. Blacks must fight for the rights mandated in a few areas of the constitution specifically for Blacks. Facts don't lie! If Black people don't stop bowing down and instead choose to bow out of being brainwashed, fanagled, bamboolzed, conditioned and indoctrinated mindsets, like the entire world has been agaisnt Black people, and learn the truth about their own identity, Black people will always be where they've always been. The construct was built by White Forefathers and carried on by White people, which has always been designed to leave Blacks out, although almost everything all races enjoy, is due to Black people. Black people without a doubt, have inheritance and must reclaim what's rightfully theirs! Black people are not immigrants, everyone else are immigrants. All Blacks are not descendants of slaves, because free Blacks always existed, but because of the White man's contruct and slavery, ALL Blacks have been treated the same, unless they were passing as White. Especially those in America, for which they are natives. I've always said that Blacks are the most mistreated group of people in the world and has been for hundreds of years. Because of what the entire world has been led to believe, Blacks have been hated, neglected, and done wrong by every other race, and some Blacks have bought into it and hated and neglected their own. It has always been designed by the White man for Blacks to hate within their own race. It has been by design that the entire world hate Blacks and for racism to exist and continue to be prevalent, keeping division, so that ALL people will never find out the truth about Black history. But it's time Blacks wake up! Much truth has been buried in the Vatican and many places around the world, but there's enough Black history uncovered, to prove what I and many others have said. We all, and I mean every race, can blame the White Forefathers for brainwashing, bamboozling, indoctrinating, and conditioning the entire world to be racist against Black people. However, for Blacks and all others, to continue to have that mindset, is no one's fault but each person individually. We all should be smart enough to know that something profound is up, when you have the entire world against one race! Blacks get your inheritance, you deserve far more than 40 acres and a mule. The inheritance given to most Whites and their offsprings come from what was stolen from Blacks. Please do your own research!
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In relationships, you get exactly what you've chosen! People suffer the consequences of their bad choices and decisions, because people choose who they are with, based on their own mental states. We all make choices and decisions based on our mindsets and unfortunately most people are mentally immature, because healing, self love, and mental growth hasn't occured. The problem is in relationships people get what they signed up for and more. Then, they turn around and act as if they should have something different! No, you get what you chose, you just didn't have any idea, what else came with your choice.
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Many people won't like this post, but if you choose to keep your head in the sand, it's because that's exactly where you want it. You'll never grow by remaining the same! You'll never learn the truth by continuing to feed into the lies and/or by continuing to believe the lies. For centuries people around the entire world have been lied to, and without ever trying to research for themselves. Research has always been available. They're master manipulators. Regardless of all other races, why is the fight always the Whites against the Blacks? It's time to wake up!
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Many people love casting the blame on others. If you chose someone it's just that, your choice. When it goes wrong, regardless of what a person did or didn't do, you can't put all the blame on him or her because it is you, who chose them. It's time to look at yourself and take ownership and responsibility for the choices you've made. People who are immature thinks and acts similar. Allow yourself to let healing take place inside of you, love and know yourself, and learn and grow from every situation.
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The power lies in the hands of the people but people are so full of lust for the things of the world, they are allowing themselves to be used and abused by the systems, businesses, corporations, agencies, and organizations. Many people suffer because they've allowed the ones on top to keep them on the bottom. Wake up and realize you have more power than you think, then act on it! Stop allowing these people who care nothing about you to swindle your money from you. If they cared for you, they wouldn't be robbing you. Their only concern is for their own well-beings. Fight back, it's your right!
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We're all connected! People all over the world have been bamboolzed by the White Forefathers and those who continue their false narratives. They've hidden it for hundreds of years. It's not about the Black skin, if it were Whites of all people, wouldn't tan for the same colors they say they hate. I say colors, because Black people comes in all shades. Wake up people, there's far more to this thing, than you are willing to admit and/or accept. You've been conditioned to believe it's one thing, when they know it's another. Therefore, they choose to doctrinate the world to racism, rather than to let the secret out. However, it's already out and coming to the light and that's why we see the uptake in racism, especially in the U.S. They feel if they keep the lie going they'll remain on top. All other races are so blind about Black people they can't even see they are on the chopping blocks too! They'll never be excepted as White, but they don't care. The ones on top are still perpetuating the lies and false narratives and are master manipulators. Those racist Whites knows they are the inferiors one, but have brainwashed people to believe they're superior to every race on earth. ONLY a weaked minded person behaves that way! White Forefathers and those here today, are very fearful of the truth being found out! The truth can't be stopped, "what's done in the dark, SHALL come to the light."
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Many men are bashing women, because they think all women are the same. It goes to show you they themselves are of immature mindsets. A mature man doesn't entertain a immature woman and vice versa. So, stop thinking all women are the same. Look at yourself and figure out why you're interested in such an immature woman in the first place. It says something about you! Instead, you want to blame her, but forgetting the fact that it was you, who chose her. You get what you choose and expect it to be something different. No, it will be exactly what you're chasing, seeking after, or chose!
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We were all born a blank slate. Everything we know was learned. As a child we learnt from family, friends, others, and via other ways (television, radio, internet, etc.). When it comes to racism, people all over the world have been taught racism, which was passed down through generations. That in itself should be profound enough for people to be curious to know the truth. For the whole world to hate one race to the degree Black people are hated is a phenomenon. Yet, instead of people trying to figure it out, they can't see past their conditioned mindsets. It's been passed down from generation to generation. Some people are in such denial, they don't believe racism even exists.Racism has breeded colorism. If you hate anyone, it means you don't love yourself! Crazy part is this; people think because they're white their exempt. No, you're not, because you'll never be a part of their actual group. You're suffering through crap like everyone else. You're not exempt because you're White. That's what many people don't understand.
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Stop believing your the reason they cheated. They cheated because it's exactly what a cheater will do. A cheater will cheat because of their own inner issues, which caused the mindsets they have and their lack and their many insecurities. It's the characteristics of unhealed people. They are master manipulators and therefore, will make you feel that you're the problem, because they don't understand that they (him or her), are the problem. Love yourself enough to not allow anyone who is unworthy of you, into your life. If you let someone cheat on you, you're a problem too, and you're creating the monster in your life. People who make these choices as the cheater or the one who allows the cheater in their lives, are individuals who have unresolved internal issues. When a person doesn't love self, it affects their lives, in many ways.
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I've heard about people being given opportunities because of their race, but that isn't DEI. To place a person other than White in a position amongst mostly White isn't because of their race, it's because they were qualified to be there. How it works in colleges may be different, but in the workforce it hasn't worked that way, at least in the almost 25 years, I've never seen it. Why is it bad that there are programs to give ALL people a chance, rather than only a certain group? It's strange they hate that there's DEI Training, but are okay with other types of Trainings. It's all a part of the assignment to conquer and divide. It's still very prevalent today. Just because in your mind you have a seat at the table by being White, doesn't mean you're not on the menu with everyone else. If you're not on their level, you're on the menu too! That's the part people have yet to learn.
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When you hold on to something you can't do over and allow it to torment you internally, it is affecting you mentally. You're causing yourself unecessary self-inflicted pain. Regret will keep you stuck mentally. It's time to heal and let it go.
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You think the one you're divorcing isn't the one you married, but they are; you just failed to see the signs and red flags. You went into the relationship blindly and with only your heart. They didn't change, they are exactly who they've always been. Fortunately, you changed and now you can see them for who they are and has always been. You must go into your relationships being able to see and accept the truth and be prepared to walk away from negativity.
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People are so mentally disconnected and focused on the wrong things, that they aren't concerned for their own lives. People are caught up in technology until they are blind as can be. All new technology isn't good and in fact, some is down right dangerous! In what could have been a deadly situation, the passenger's concern was with getting to the airport on time/not missing his flight, rather than being concerned for his life. Unbelievable!
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The powerful and rich are constantly changing things in the world, not to benefit you, but to benefit themselves, yet because of unhealed hearts and minds; people believe it's for their benefit.
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No couple will be 100% compatible but you still should be equally yoked. We're all different and therefore, although we may not be perfectly compatible, the person you're with, you should be equally yoked with. People who aren't, will always face issues those who are equally yoked, won't have.
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Millions are in darkness because of their dark hearts and minds. Whoever or whatever you choose to become is on you! Knowing that, people should do everything they can to be better. Unfortunately, it's not the case. People go through life the very same, never changing, living in that comfort of pain, yet are miserable all the way. This darkness is something many have become comfortable with and it often leads to destruction that comes in many forms.
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2025, Let's go! It's time to get off the wheel and do better. You can't become better by remaining the same! Stop, and get off the wheel so the cycles can stop! Be the best you can be! There's no way you can be, if you haven't allowed healing to take place! Forgiving, allowing healing to occur, and loving yourself is your starting point, to your new beginning! Let's go!!!!
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What he or she has at home will not keep them there. It will not keep them from cheating. You may think you're such fine wine that he or she won't drink anything else. Wrong! Nothing about you will keep a cheater from cheating. I'm sorry, but it's fact! Many people have beautiful families at home but will risk losing their families because of the unhealed and unresolved inside of self, that causes them to seek things outside of the home and their relationships. It has nothing to do with you. They'll say they love you but what's going on inside has a stronghold on them and until they choose to allow healing to occur they will continue to seek after self-gratification, risking all they have. People have to fall in love with self, grow and mature mentally to become better people.
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Unfortunately, I will say that most people don't love themselves. They think they do and will tell you quick that they do, but lack understanding that they really don't. However, like I always say, the truth shows by the choices and decisions people make and who and what they allow in their lives. You, me, and all of us, create the monsters in our lives. Millions suffer so much hurt through relationships choices because individuals are unhealed, hurt, and immature people who get with; unhealed, hurt, and immature people. People want what they want until they get it and realize it's not what they want at all. Most people don't allow themselves to mature mentally. A good positive mindset is everything. People search high and low for love, when they need to look inward. Loving yourself changes your life!
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People of the entire world have for centuries been brainwashed, bamboolzed, and blinded by the White Lie. It's time to take ownwership of your role in keeping the White Lie going. Unfortunately even people of the so-called Black race has fallen victim to the White Lie, the sad part this group has also been the one's enslaved and oppressed. Research the truth, it's there. Wake up people!
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Most people will do anything to get fame and fortune. However, the terrible part of it is most people aren't in the mindset to receive it. That's why many get it and struggle. They were already struggling and once they become famous the struggle intensifies, because people allow folks to put them on pedestals they shouldn't of ever been on, and then, they struggle to stay there. Most people will do anything to get there and stay there. Most people go into fame unhealed and it open doors to make their problems worst. Many famous people aren't happy, but it's because they weren't happy before coming famous or well known. Nothing is wrong with gaining the status of fame, but when you aren't mentally ready for it, it's tough to handle. The status can ultimately destroy a person's life.
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It is possible if you choose to do so. I know in this day and time it's almost unheard of but that doesn't mean it's not possible. It is best for each person to sustain because you won't risk losing your soul or opening yourself up to all of the things people can bring into your life that can affect you for a lifetime. Things (evil spirits, diseases, attitudes, behaviors, values, beliefs, characteristics, etc), that you take in and transfer from one relationship to the other. God doesn't want us engaging in pre-martial sex. Many of us are guilty, but when you know better, you should want to do better. When you have a true relationship with God, and know and love yourself, you'll understand how important it is.
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Many people who call themselves Christians, are not. Instead they're liars, deceivers, blasphemers, manipulators, and hypocrites. God will give them double for their lies and deceit. God will separate the wheat from the tare. You can fake with man, but it won't work with God. He will re-pay those people. It's ashame that people are so about the world, they're willing to lose their souls and go to hell.
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It doesn't matter how much you love him or her or want him or her, etc., if they're not the right one for you, it doesn't matter if you're the right one for them. Too many people are trying to force their relationships to work, which is never a good thing. Allow yourself to grow and mature so that your eyes are open to see beyond looks, feelings, wants, desires, and many other superficial things. Stop setting high standards for significant others yet you have either low or no standards for yourself.
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It's bad enough society label's you, why are you labeling yourself? Labels keep you in an unhealed state because people become comfortable, instead of trying to become better and move on from their labels. Many people label themselves and then go through life using it as crutch. Many people use their labels as a way to influence their careers. Facts! You can't get past something you keep reminding yourself and the world that you have. Never embrace any form of negative, rise above it!
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Anyone with money can tell you that money doesn't fix what's internally wrong. It takes the indivdiual to do the inside work, for his or her life to change for the better. Happiness based on money is only temporary. Until a person decides to choose change, the unresolved issues and pain will always remain and continue to re-surface and interfere with thier life. We've seen it over and over again. Many people can't enjoy what they have because of the unhealed unresolve that resides within them. Millions continue to struggle mentally, and sooner or later learn that money doesn't buy happiness. You can buy things, you can change your location, you can change your looks, etc., but you still can't get away from yourself. Therefore, yourself is that one individual you must deal with and allow healing to occur. No one can do it for you and you can't do it for anyone.
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We all have the opportunity to change, yet many people don't take it. People are afraid of change, and therefore, will choose to remain the same. That's why millions of people never mature. They get older, but they don't mentally mature, because they've chosen to remain the same. No one can become the best they can be by remaining the same.
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If you chose a 10, you have some maturing to do. For most people a Ten (10) is superficial things such as looks (body, hair, eyes, etc), money, possessions, title, status, positions, etc. First of all that's the wrong way to choose someone, if you're looking for a healthy relationship. Second, you'll never find true love if your focus is on finding a 10. Substance is the only thing that will help you to form a healthy, strong, and lasting relatonship. It's way deeper than those superficial things, that could change in an instant.
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Many people are going through life only existing. It's like they're already dead, yet they fear death and don't want to die. Life isn't meant to be lived in this manner. People are too caught up in comfort when that comfort is holding many down and back. Make no mistake about it, just because people may acquire a lot, they can still be in a comfortable place internally. It is why people keep doing similiar things that aren't good for them and they make unhealthy choices and decisions; opening themselves up to stressful and unhealthy lives. Wake up and live a healthy life!
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When people are unhealed they are also immature and can't see beyond their feelings, wants, desires. They can't see beyond their own imprisoned mindsets. These types of people are easily manipulated. It's really sad anyone will put his or herself in these types of situations.
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Black people and ALL people, must wake up and shake off that brainwashed and oppressed mentality. You're keeping yourself down, with that old outdated mentality, Love yourself, love your people, and love all people. When will Black people make up and understand that although built on the backs of Blacks, you as a Black person at one point and even to some today, were NOT thought of as human. How inhumane is that??! Stop falling for the outdated lies and false beliefs that were designed to keep you right where you are; mentally imprisoned. Because of your unhealed hearts and minds your suspectible to the false beliefs and therefore still thinking like Blacks were conditioned to think hundreds of years ago. You're held captive by your own mindsets. Wake up and know that you're beautiful, powerful, strong, resilient, creative, loving, worthy, and many other positive things, that God created you to be. You are NOT what THEY say you are, unless YOU believe it! That's the only way!!! Wake up!!!! I challenge people of ALL races, to go today and forever in love and peace!
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You're nasty and immature! The end!
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The only person can change you is you! I don't care how much you love your friend or how much your friend loves you, you can't fix them no more than they can fix you! Listen to learn more.
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Any person who thinks one man's view is the view of all men on ANY subject, are wrong. When it comes to what a man thinks about a woman, it's his view, but he certainly can't speak for all men. It depends if he's mature or immature, as to how he thinks. Regardless, one man can't speak for all men.
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We're more similiar than different. Things separates us, (money, possessions, titles, positions, power, status, etc), but internally people struggle with similiar things. Bottom line, no one is exempt from the good, bad, and the ugly. We all have our crosses to bear, NO ONE is exempt!
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Unfortunately, millions don't understand or have ever experienced real love, because they are blind to love. They don't love self and therefore, really don't know what love looks or feels like. When you don't love yourself you will be led blindly by what you see, feel, want, and desire. If you don't love yourself, you won't recognize what love is or what it isn't, and you'll end up in happy relationships living unhappy lives. That goes for people from ALL walks of life!
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Not my words, I simply encourage you to read the Bible. Study for yourself. Many people don't read the Bible, they just repeat what they've heard someone else say. I learnt that a lot of what people say is scripture, can't be found in the Bible. It's true! If you get into the Word of God for yourself you will learn His ways. Many people choose to take the Word or their perception of it and use it how thy want for their own self gratification. Most things people call gifts of God are not gifts, they are talents and abilities. Yet, people truly believe those things are of God when clearly in His Word, He is against those things. Those types of people fool themselves. Many people will lose their souls by believing what isn't true. Many people are worldly and want to believe what they wabt to believe.
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Many people create relationships in their own heads that they believe to be real, when they aren't. Stop setting yourself up to be let down. The only way it's a real relationship is if both people are claiming it to be a relationship. Stop with the self-inflicted pain! It's unhealthy, mind, body, and soul.
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God created the woman to walk by the man's side, not in front of him, and not behind him but by his side. Too many women believe they are supposed to go from servants to slaves via submission. That's not God's content, but many people take the Bible out of context for the lack of knowledge and/or self gratification. A husband and wife can't cleave together, be on one accord, and become one, if the man think he's suppose to control and dominate her. A husband and wife is suppose to be a union, as one.
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Many people are angry with God because of the things their going through or has gone through. As a child it's limited what you can do, but as an adult what you continue to go through falls on you. As adults we have to be accountable and responsible for our own lives. As adults most times we create the monsters in our lives (people and things). It's true, some things happen that are out of our control, but yet and still, it's up to us how we choose to go through anything. The mindset we have dictates how we go through things. Another important thing to understand is if you lose control, you lose! God may have allowed you to go through what you thought you wanted, but he didn't do it. A lot of things are what we open ourselves up to. Other times, we just go through things, because it's a part of life, that unfortuante part. It's because we all live in a world of good and bad.
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People are seeking and chasing after many things. You may want whatever it is now (instant), but sooner or later, it will cost you one way or another. When a person is seeking instant gratification they're led by lust of their flesh. It may feel good and/or look good, but it could be detrimental for you and your life. Many people are blind to their wants, desires, feelings, what they see, etc., which leads them into bad situations and oftentimes, with the wrong individuals. Lust is more than sex. Lust of the flesh involves many things such as sex, greed for many things, money, fame, fortune, drugs and other substances, etc. Regardless the lust, it is a bottomless pit, because nothing is ever enough and people will do anything to get it. People seek to fill the voids in their lives, when the problem is they haven't healed from thier pains that causes the mindsets they have.
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Abusers know they're abusers, but they'll always blame others for their behaviors. Because of their unhealed hearts and minds, whatever power you give to an abuser they will take. You empower them to be who they are in your life.
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We've all have gone through something and we've all felt some pain to some degree. However, how we allow things to affect us falls on us. If we choose to hold on to pain, it stays with us and causes problems in our lives. Most people won't let go and only become comfortable with it. Don't be that person!
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I'm putting this episode out after missing putting out an episode on Monday. I've never missed putting out an episode since I started podcasting. I was in an area hit hard by the storm. This episode talks about people who you allow into your life. Bottom line is whatever or whomever you allow to cause you problems will do just that. Unfortunately, many people are in relationships with manipulative people, and those people will always do to you what you allow. People will always trick you into things they know they can trick you into. They react to how you act. People learn to manipulate early. They are people of all ages, genders, and races.
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When you go through life trying to please and appease others you normally end up losing a sense of who you are. Not having the will to say no will make you always be that person to say yes, which leads to a lot of unnecessary drama and self-inflicted pain. You have no peace because it is you who gave it up. People treat you exactly how you have taught them and how you've allowed.
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Although it may hurt, it isn't the end of the world. Some of you totally disregard the fact that they DON'T want you. You only see what you want (you wanting them), which is why you're suffering so much. You allow them not wanting you to alter your life in a negative way. If a person doesn't want you, it should give you enough strength to want better for yourself and move on. Unfortunately, many people get caught up in their thoughts, feelings, and emotions and because of it, people allow self inflicted pain in their lives. You become your biggest problem. A person who doesn't want you isn't worth your thoughts or your tears. Think about that!!!
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Everything we do begins with a thought! You're in your own way and your mindset is your greatest enemy. Staying in the same negative place (mindset) is a choice no one should make.
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What else is there to say? Unfortunately, due to the hearts and minds of many, there is a lot more to say, because people don't want to hear the truth. If it's wrong, it's wrong for you! You can't see it until you can see past your feelings, wants, desires, and what you see. You can't see past it until you allow healing in your life. Stop chasing love, when you don't love yourself or know what love looks like.
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Sadly, the one person most people need to give attention to is the one who doesn't get it, which is self. That inner you is who's neglected the most and because of it people are living their lives in despair. Prisoners to their own wrong ways of thinking. The focus of most people is in the wrong place. You can't become better if you remain the same! Allow yourself to heal from your past pains. If you do, your life will never be the same again. Most people who don't heal, live their lives projecting their pains on others, while sabotging thier own lives.
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Most people look outward for love, only to get everything but love in return! It is the reason most people never experience true love. Looking for some to love, validate, and complete you, will always having you chasing and seeking after love. If you want to know what love feels and look like, look inward. You must first learn to love yourself. Allow the inner you to heal so you can move on to become the best you possible.
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A parent can make or break their children. The sad part is because of unhealed hearts and minds, people can't see the damage they're doing to their children. They can't see the devastation they're causing in the children's lives. Many people are unhealed adults who are still carrying around past pain that has hindered and tainted their lives. Unfortunately many of these people are parents who project their hurt onto and into the lives of their children. Many children are reared in horrible conditions, enduring things no child should ever endure. Unfortunately many parents are hurting their children mentally, emotionally, and physically, to include sexually. This is absolutely wrong!. Many parents are treating their children similar or worse than they were treated. The cycle then, continues! It's a sad truth!
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You can't mature, grow, and progress by remaining mentally where you've always been. There's no way you can get past something you refuse to let go of. You can't let go until you allow yourself to heal and become better. Many people, although grown in age, have not mentally matured because of remaining stuck in the mental states they've always been in. When people don't heal from their issues they hold on to those things and allow those things to take a strong hold in their lives, which can lead to dysfunction. It causes insecurities, and other issues. Many people end up making bad choices and decisions. Many people allow and accept unnecessary things in their lives due to mindsets. Most people are prisoners to their own ways of thinking.Yet, they refuse to change. By faking and pretendibg, you'll always remain the same.
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Most people in the world are holding on to pains they should have let go, long ago. The past is gone forever, yet most people allow the memories of their bad experiences to ruin their lives. When you carry that baggage it taints you and causes you to lead a dysfunctional lives. People are carrying old pain and is allowing it to affect them in many ways. If you don't let go of the baggage, you can't move forward mentally. You may accomplish things, but mentally you'll remain the same. This is why many people live their lives on the wheel, go around in vicious cycles, getting nowhere!
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This is one of the biggest problems people face in life. They compromise their mental health for love, when it isn't love at all. People have gone to the extreme only to end up with mental health issues. If someone is bringing that much stress into your life, it's because you have given them permission to do so. When you allow it, it's considered as self-inflicted.
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The Bible is the most controversial book in the entire world. That alone, is a phenomonen? There are millions of book people haven't heard of, but everyone has heard of the Bible. Don't just know of the Bible; read it, and live it! It will change your life! People seek after everything in this world, but I'm here to tell you that the "Good Book" has everything you need!
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Too many people blame self when they're cheated on, but truth is although many cheaters will have 101 excuses, you're not to blame. A cheater will cheat, because that's who they are and what they've become comfortable with. It's a problem within the individual. If you're an insecure person you may be manipulated into thinking it's your fault. It's NOT!! Cheaters are individuals with their own issues that haven't been resolved. They go through life causing pain to those who allow it. Cheaters need to work on self in order to become better. No matter how much you love them, you can't change them, but you surely can lose yourself trying.
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This mindset affect many facets of a person's life. Most people go through life inflicting pain upon themselves because of their own mindsets. Unfortunately, because people haven't healed from their pains, they allow drama and chaos from others into their lives. Self inflicted pain is real! You must know and love yourself enough to let go of the pain that's keeping you stuck! Stop giving your power to people and things.
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It's NOT their fault, it's yours! You are responsible and accountable for who and/or what you allow into your life! If you find yourself not being able to walk away from something or someone that's not good for you, the person responsible is self. You can't walk away because of who YOU are. You got into that situation because of who YOU are. You're the one, with the power to change your life!
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Going through life with your own unhealed inner issues, allowing those of others, and along everything life throws at you, makes you worse when you aren't trying to become better. People go through life holding on to negativity and projecting it too! You can't become better by remaining the same with the same ole mindset. Everything and everyone along the way will affect you negatively because of the negative mindset you have; that has caused you to be the person you are. It affects you, your relationships, and everything along the way. Whatever you open yourself up to is what you will get!
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It's a very unfortuante thing, the many people who don't care what they have to do to get what they want or who they want. Anyone with this type of mindset is a person who is bringing drama and self inflicted pain into their own life. Any time a person don't care what they have to do, they will end up doing anything! These types of people are dangerous because they lack integrity and honest. In their minds they will do whatever they feel it may take to get what they want (what they want, who they want, get to the next level, money, status, positions, etc.). Most of these people, have no remorse.
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I do understand there are some people who live under the same roof, but aren't actually together as husband and wife. However, they are still husband and wife, if they're still married. Some people says it's such paperwork. Well, funny thing is it took paperwork to get you married and therefore, it will take paperwork to get you divorced. People want to make all types of excuses, but the bottom line is, if they're married, it's just that! Regardless of the situation, they are or at least they shiould be off limits. When you choose to involve yourself in such a relationship any way you look at it, that person is a cheater, you're setting yourself up for drama, and it's wrong!
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Many people are walking around with eyes to see, but they're blind of freewill. They're blind because they want what they want and who they want. Most people don't care about the drama they have to endure, they want what and who they want. Unfortunately this mindset leads many into bad situations and unhealthy relationships. This is a clear sign of a person with an unhealed heart and mind. You're responsible for what and who you allow into your life. People treat you how you let them. Most people are in denial about their relationships and their lives in general. People go through life subjecting themselves to unnecessary pain and drama and it's the very reason why most people are unhappy.
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Most people have unhealed hearts and minds, which comes from past bad experiences and trauma. How you allow your past pains to affect you, falls on you! You can choose to live a cycle in life, or you can choose to become the best you possible. You're responsible and accountable for your OWN life!! It's not your trauma or past bad experiences that's the problem, it's you! The mindset you have can make or break you! Unfortunately, most people hang onto the negativity, and because of it, people are miserble and living in misery.
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You never know who you're dealing with when you're out there cheating/messing around. Many people think they're slick until they are caught up in unnecessary drama. Be careful, becuase while you're playing around, the other person isn't!
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Most people lose self, while focused on their significant others even when they're being treated like crap. Whatever you allow from your significant other is exactly what you'll get. When you're angry and hurt about it, look at the person staring back at you in the mirror. It falls on you. If you take it, they will give it. When you heal from your pain, you become a better person, one who loves his or herself. When you love yourself, you will not take unnecessary crap from your significant other or anyone else.
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Hearts have truly wax cold. There is so much murdering going on. The devil is busy doing what he does, killing, stealing, and destroying. He's tricking people into doing the unthinkable, because they've given him entry through thier negative thoughts. If you let the devil in, he will try to take over, and will; if you let him. People are murdering out of anger, hurt, old pain, etc. Others are murdering, because they've lost their minds to the devil. Demons are literally taking the minds of people. People who don't want to listen, oftentimes end up going down dark roads leading to destruction. No person or nothing is worth it. You only have one life to live and no one should ever choose to live their life with cold hearts and minds. If someone doesn't want to be with you, life goes on. They aren't worth you doing the unthinkable. To hurt or kill people because it's over between you and them is completely the devil's work. There is no situation worth anyone doing things they can't undo. Stop being prisoners to negative mindsets. Too many people go through life allowing how they think, to ruin their lives.
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Most people are unhappy in their relationships, because their relationships are unhealthy. I don't care how much you love someone, you have to put in the work to make it work. However, it shouldn't be hardwork. Too many people settle for unhealthy relationships and think it's the best they'll ever have. Most people just want to be with someone, and unfortunately, many people settle for just that; someone. More than not, it ends up being a person who isn't good for them. You get what you open yourself up too, and what you allow and accept. Most people are miserable, lonely, and unhappy in their relationships, and spend most time fighting in one way or another. It's unhealthy, but most people can't see it.
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Who you love and how you love is determined by your mindset and their mindset. In relationships, most people put all of their everything into who they're with, while the other person isn't treating them the same way. People settle for one-sided love and it's normally that love, which comes along with a lot of unnecessary drama. As I always say, if a person isn't enhancing your life then, they're the wrong person for you. People can and will drain you in every way possible if you allow it. Too many people believe in it's better to have some love, rather than, no love at all. Loving someone who isn't loving his or herself is going to cause you a lot of drama, and it's a clear sign they have unresolved inner issues. It's important to first know and love yourself so that you don't open yourself up to people who aren't good for you. You can't see this when you're blind to love. If you're blind to love, you're blind to reality.
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Most people think if they look good it fixes them, not understanding the hurt and pain inside is what causing them to believe and think how they do about themselves. Change your mindset it will change your life. Most people go through life miserable, because of their unresolved inner issues. They project them and take on those of other people. Women think they have to expose their bodies to be accepted. It's really sad! People can't find happiness in their relationships, because of their own inner issues and the inner issues of those their involved with. Stop following societal views and opinions, that comes from other broken people. Afterwhile, we will have a world full of people who look the same and act the same. It's happening before our eyes!
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Unfortunately, this is the case for many. Most people would rather stay in their unhappy and unhealthy mindsets than to be alone. Most people have crippling mindsets that has caused major insecurities in their lives. The greatest enemy for most is their own mindsets. If you're afraid to be alone or if you have an issue with being alone, it means you have unresolved issues that you need to deal with in order to heal, let them go, and move on. Most people are far too busy trying to find love, than trying to heal and become better individuals. People are allowing so much foolishness in their lives to be with someone who's doing nothing but cause them drama, draining them, and taking from them. This is clear sign of not loving yourself. Any time you allow and accept anything for love, it is exactly what you will get. I've always said, if they don't enhance your life, you're with the wrong person. You create the monster/s in your life. You!!!
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To avoid an affair you must want to avoid it. The problem is immature people who are still sowing their wild oats or waddling in past pains, don't care when they want, what they want. These types of people have unhealthy mindsets, that causes them to make bad choices and decisions. It causes them the lack, void, etc., inside, which leads to dysfunctional lives. Many people don't try to avoid it, they go full throttle ahead, without thinking of the risks or anything else. Mature people do not think or act that way. It takes a lot to get to a mentally mature level. It changes your life! To become a better person you must choose to become a better person. You'll never get to that level by remaining the same and still being led by your flesh. Most of all, I recommend Jesus. He can and will tranform you and your life!
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They will go along and pretend to be whatever you tell them that you want. Be careful of what you say, because people are known to become what you tell them you're seeking. They will play the role until they get you, after that, they will begin to be who they really are. If you're able to see the signs and red flags, you'll be able to see through their manipulating ways. Unfortunately, due to unhealed hearts and minds, most people can't see the truth because they're too busy chasing and seeking after their wants and desires. They only accept what's in their faces when they realize that they're in unhealthy and unhappy relationships. People desperately seek love when they have no clue what love is about. Most people don't even love self. It's one of the main reasons people can't see the truth!
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Most people can't see the truth about the person they want to be with or is with, because they're blind by their own feelings, wants, and desires. They can't see the red flags and signs, because they're too wrapped up in self. They're in denial about what is actually happening in the relationship because they tend to make everything about self. People are caught up in their own wants, desires, and feelings. Many are being mistreated but they won't accept it because they hope the person will change. They do whatever they think is possible to try to make the person happy, thinking it will make him or her love them and want to be with them. It doesn't! Unhealed hearts and minds equals to brokenness, which causes insecurities of different levels and is why many seek love, etc., in others when they don't even love self. These types of people allow and accept things they shouldn't.
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Many of you make everything a battle, when it's not even a fight! Most people have unhealed hearts and minds, because they aren't allowing healing to take place and we're all seeing the affects. Even when people try to bring drama or when life throws curveballs, it is still up to you, as to how you allow it to affect your life. It is all depending on the mindset you have. If you continue to be prisoners to your own mindset, just know, you're the only one with the key!
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Most people never had true love in the first place, but they continued on with their relationships, knowing something is/was wrong. Then, they wonder why they've grown apart. It's because you never were together in the way it takes for any healthy relationship to last. You never had a solid foundation. Being together for years doesn't mean the relationship is growing. People get comfortable and complacent out of insecurities to include fear and because of it, they stay in relationships they no longer want with no love, intimacy, communication, affection, etc. Real love lasts. Relationships with true love grows and flourishes as they get older, they don't grow apart. Most people start out chasing to satisfy their lust in one way or another (desires for sex, money, possessions, love, etc), and because of it the majority of the relationships all around the world are unhealthy..
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Many people lead unhappy and unhealthy lives, because of the anger they choose to hold on to, as if there's a benefit to holding on to it. By choosing to hold on, it means you aren't allowing yourself to let it go. Many people are walking time bombs, when they don't have to be. They're comfortable with the old familiar, despite the trouble it brings into their lives. Uncontrolled anger is ugly and it has cost people their freedom and/or their lives. When you can't control your anger it means you're controlled by your anger, because it is what you've given power to in your life. Angry people destroy their own lives.
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I believe in a strong attraction. In a true connection, you should have a physical attraction, but it should mostly be a mental connection, that can lead to love. True love, takes real love, and getting to know one another, and a building a strong / solid foundation. If it's based solely on physical (looks, sex) or possessions (money, titles, positions, things, children, etc.), it more than likely, won't be a happy relationship. Most people are looking for happiness through love (someone) and through things, only to find it doesn't make them happy. Many people are in relationships thinking it's love, when it's not love at all.
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Negativity can lead to disaster and self destruction. When you give power to your thoughts, you can lose control. Many people open themselves up to the darkness and it eventually engulfs them. It's very sad, that people don't try to change. Instead, they keep fueling their negative thoughts, succumb, and then are taken by the negativity. It's NOT love at all, in no way! These people have no clue what love is, and when they lose focus, they lose control and get to that point of no return. It's all immaturity, negative, and senseless.
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Self-inflicted because most people set themselves up. People hold on to negativity and do not embrace positive change. Most people tend to waddle in their woes, instead of trying to heal and let go of them. It's all self-inflicted because people are prisoners to their own mindsets. You give power to people and things only to end up hurt. People are seeking, running, and chasing after things or people, only to end up hurt by their own doings. Meaning, you set yourself up for the let down, headaches, and heartaches. It's all in the mindset. Our mindsets are formed from trauma or bad experiences and instead of allowing self to heal, people go through life dragging all of their past pains, which continues to affect how they think, feel, and act. You can smile and fake your way through your pain, but is sure won't make it go away. Change is only accomplished by you! Forgive, love yourself, and move on.
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We get red flags and signs all of the time. In relationships, when you ignore or deny the red flags and signs that are presented, you'll undoubtedly suffer the consequences. People must learn to look beyond their hearts, wants, desires, and feelings, to what is in their faces. I don't care how you think you want someone, it doesn't mean they are any good for you! Red flags and signs don't ever lie!
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It's all about self-love and taking time for yourself! It's for every occasion or any time! Today, I'm doing it different. I have a special guest on, who will share with you about her business and the passion she has for what she does. I'm hoping you want to know more. Reach out to the one and only entreprenuer Mrs. Francisco, with further information, to become a member, or to buy some products. Don't just think about it, do it! Tell her Cherry sent you!!
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They allowed you to love them knowing they didn't love you. Their agenda is definitely different than yours. Unfortuantely, that's on you! These are relationships where you have created the monster in your life. If the person you love doesn't love you, that's only a small portion of the problems you will face. Most people love solely based on self. Meaning, how you feel about the other person, while totally disregarding or denying the truth. Most people know the relationship is one-sided but they think they can make the other person love them. Many people find themselves in unhealthy and unhappy relationships because they went into them for the wrong reasons, the wrong way, and with the wrong person. If they don't love you, why would you even want to force it? You'll get exactly what you signed up for, allowed, and accepted! Guaranteed!!!
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There are many people walking around as the living dead. They are on auto pilot and merely existing. They give power to their unresolved inner issues that has affected them mentally. Sadly, most people don't try to become better. Many people have gone through real trauma or bad situations, while some other people have created their own issues from their own lies, they now believe. When you hinder your own growth, it hinders you mind, body, and soul. You're driving yourself crazy unnecessarily, when you deserve better for yourself. As an adult, any time you believe something that isn't true to a point of self sabotage, it is self inflicted. As an adult, if you're holding on to past pain, it is now self inflicted, because you willfully choose to hold on to it, versus dealing with it and letting it go, You can literally and some people already have, driven themselves to a point of mental health issues and/or mental breakdown.
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You do NOT love yourself if who you've allowed someone in your life who isn't enhancing your life. Never forget that it is you, who teach your significant other and others in general, how to treat you, How you love yourself always shows. Most people actually think they love self, when in fact they don't. If you don't love yourself, you'll never recognize true love. Although it exists, most people have never experienced it.
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Unfortunately this is the case for many people. There are a lot of people who don't believe the saying "you don't miss the water until the well run dry." It's true!! Don't wait until it's too late, if you're in a relationship with someone, treat them right. Don't risk losing someone you claim to love.
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Many people won't or don't agree. That's your choice! However, people who understands, knows i'm speaking the truth. Our true mission is to love Jesus and God, but in the process we must also love ourselves. Most people are fixated and focused on loving the wrong people even though they think they're the right people. You can't blame anyone for how they treat you, because it is you who allow it and accept it. It is you who create the monsters in your life, whether people or things. If a person you want don't want you it is time to walk away, NOT go off the deep end. Life goes on. Learn from all things, become better, and move on. Waddling and pining over things gives power to negative ways of thinking and lead you down a dark path. No one or nothing is worth it!
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Too many people make unnecessary conflicts, battles, when everything isn't a battle or a conflict! Instead of acting out, open your mouth and communicate about things that bother you. Those conversations should be had before you do anything with him or her. By doing so, you'll already know upfront what's what!
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Many people have the misconception that their significant others can fulfill them. They may be able to fill some of your wants, desires, and needs, in a tangible way (money, possessions, etc., but they can't ever fulfill you because it requires dealing with those things they can't see. Only you can do that for yourself. It is you who must heal your inner man or woman.
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Please stop putting all Black women in the same category, it's wrong, for we are NOT all, of the same mindset!
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People want to blame and not be held accountable when they get themselves into unhealthy and toxic relationships. If you get into a relationship and do not adhere to the signs and red flags you will suffer the consequences of the choices you made. When people find themselves in toxic relationships they find comfort in hearing people say "it's not your fault." Well, they're lying to you, because it is. You chose it, you allowed it, and therefore it is you who is accountable and responsible for the choices you made. If you were forced into the relationship or you weren't in your right mind, that's a different story, but that's not the type of relationships I'm referencing. I'm talking about those people getting into relationships of free will. Lying to you will not help you at all! You may not have asked for it but if you allow it to happen you signed off on it.
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How you think, affects you, your relationships, and many facets of your life. Unhealed hearts and minds leads many on paths of unhappiness. What's really sad is that people choose to remain where they've always been and never choosing change. The one person people neglect the most is the very one who needs attention, SELF! People go through life looking for the very things they need to possess within self. This is because of unhealed hearts and minds. If you don't deal with your unresolved issues, you can't heal from them and move on. People hold on to all of the negative thoughts and feelings, which leads to dysfunctional ways of living. People go through life wondering why they always go through things, but truth is 99% of the time people open themselves up to things they shouldn't. It goes back to unhealed mindsets. People cast blame, but how we choose to live or who we choose to become, falls on self.
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It's unfair to put every man in the same category. Not all men are on the same level. There are mature men in this world just as there are plenty of immature. The world is mostly ran by the immature minded individuals, who are chasing people and things to fulfull self gratification. Most people are full of greed, chasing the flesh, and lack self-control. Not all men are the same and not all women are the same.
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Many parents think their child/ren owe them for bringing them into the world and caring for them. I'm here to say you're wrong and it was your duty to take care of them, because you had them. Sometimes children grow up and don't give their parent/s the attention and time they once did. The children have relationships and marriages that takes precedent over parents, especially marriages. Some parents can't accept it and cause problems for their child/ren. You owe your child, your child don't owe you. Hopefully your adult child/ren will show you love and kindness, but in case they don't spend as much time with you, love them anyways. Don't cause your children problems because your feelings are in the way. Don't be selfish!
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Trying to love someone who doesn't want you is a bad decision. You will suffer the consequences of your choices. Love yourself enough to respect yourself and know your worth. If you haven't figured you out or learnt to love yourself you will undoubtedly open yourself up to unnecessary and unwarranted drama, headache, and heartache. Stop trying to hold on to people who don't want to you. Love yourself enough to make better choices.
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Too many people live life in misery. They struggle their entire lives because they keep doing the same things. They choose to be comfortable where they have always been, but never see that they are their own worst enemy. If you know you're struggling with something but you keep indulging in it or going back to it, you're the problem! People fail themselves over and over. On top of that, they choose to do it again and again. You can't get better by remaining the same. That weight will never get off of your back until you take it off. The only person holding you down and back is you!
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It doesn't matter how much you love him or her, if they don't love you, it will be an unhealthy relationship and you'll be an unhappy person.
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Many people operate from unhealthy mindsets. It doesn't matter how much someone loves you or you love someone, they can't take away the pain inside of you. Unhealed hearts and minds ruins and sabotages lives and sometimes leads to self destruction.
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Sadly, many people are using their children as pawns and scapegoats because of the emotional ties, bonds, and feelings they still have for their exes. You're wrong!!!! All it does is cause more issues for everyone to include the children. There should be clear boundaries that exes and children must understand and not be allowed to cross. You can't give a child everything, there has to be boundaries. You can't do everything a child ask of you, because sometimes you need to say no, because what they ask isn't feasible of you being a person with another significant other. You can't make up for lost times and there shouldn't be a situation where your new significant other feels they're not wanted or accepted, because your child want it to be just their mom and dad. You have to be able explain this to your child/ren. You have to know how to have a healthy balance and do not cross the boundaries you've set or let anyone else cross them, to include your child. People, to include your child, treat you how you have taught them to treat you. Always be there for your child, but in a mature and healthy way, not through emotional ties and lingering feelings for their mom or dad. Be that parent who set good and solid boundaries for all involved. When children know your weak concerning them, children can sometimes be manipulative, especially if coerced by the other parent or if it's the child's own doing. You shouldn't have an obligation to the other parent but to the child. There should be clear boundaries set. Never give anyone empty promises, just be honest!
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Be sure to treat the one you supposedly love with love and care, because if you constantly chip away at their love for you by always doing the wrong things, they will check out on you mentally. Oftentimes there's no coming back from it. If you love who you're with, don't mess up your relationship. Too many people choose to put more time and energy in others than in the one they're with. People treat you how you've taught them to treat you.
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Whatever they do or don't do to you or whatever you have to go through is because you've empowered them. They treat you how you've taught them to treat you.
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It's a fact! You can blame all you want to, but as an adult, who or what you've chosen to become, falls solely on you! If you choose to remain in the same place in life, you'll never grow mentally. Many people are stuck mentally in their early years because they do not choose to change. Instead, they go through life complaining, blaming, and waddling, despite the fact it's causing dysfunction in their lives. You can blame anyone you choose, whatever you do or whoever you choose to become falls on you! Your choice, your decision!
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When you're caught up on looks and it's all you see or care about, you'll miss the substance it requires to have a healthy relationship. I don't care what anyone says, it's the mindset of immature individuals who are led by what they see, feel, want, and desire.
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How you think will directly affect how you feel and act. Many people may not act out, but they're still affected by how they think. There are others who will act out for the same reason, their mindsets. Unhealed hearts and minds alters lives. How you think will affect your relationships and other facets of your life. Change is up to you and only you! All things and every situation are only as bad as you think they are and make them.
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Either way is evidence of the lack of self-love and inner peace. If you're a person with low or no standards it will show in your choices, decisions, what you allow, and what you accept. Love isn't love when it's forced, abusive, disrespectful, shameful, etc. It's not love when it's based on superficial things. When standards are low or nonexistent it will show. All you want is the person's love, but love isn't what you're getting.
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Many people are in this situation. They want what they want and at the same time, they're ignoring the truth that's in their faces. You can believe whatever you want, it will not change the truth! It's not love just because you want it to be. Accept the truth!
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You can make all the excuses you want, it won't change how they feel about you. They don't really want the relationship, you just have to accept it and move on. They're showing you the truth, you just don't want to believe it or accept. Denying the truth leaves you feeling hurt. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.
Some people have no self respect or shame! They share all of their business on social media. They flaunt and boast about their relationships and then they end up breaking up. Ohce they break up they broadcast that too, during which they talk about the other person. Next thing you know they're boo'ed up again with the very person they talked about like a dog. No shame! It really makes a person look bad and it clearly shows there's some maturing that needs to take place. Stop focusing so hard on your significant other and take a good hard look at yourself. This type of person will always find his or herself in an unhealthy relationship because of their unhealthy mindset. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.
People do crazy things in the name of love, when it's not love at all. Love doesn't lead you into bad situations. Unhealed hearts and mind will. It will cause people a lot of unnecessary self inflicted pain and stress. Many people can't see the truth, because they are too stuck on what they want. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.
The time you've invested is low on the scale in comparison to your mental state and peace. Love yourself and know your worth. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.
Most people think they're mature but how they think and what they allow and accept shows the truth. People go through life being comfortable where they've always been, which leads to stagnation. If you are comfortable in the way you've always been you will hinder your life and your relationships. No matter how they struggle, most people are on the same paths doing things the very same for a lifetime, and in return, getting the same or similar results in their lives. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.
Something is terribly wrong with this situation. You should never sell yourself short for no man or woman. Your significant other will treat you how they know you will allow. If you are desperate they will treat you as desperate. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.
If people would only deal with their issues and stop allowing their issues to deal with them, many lives would be different. How you think affects how you live your life. It affects the choices and decisions you make and what you allow and accept in your life. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.
Anyone who does this will always find his or herself in drama. Instead of a lot of people growing and becoming better, they are remaining the same or becoming worse. It's very sad, because every day we get to live, change is an option that many deny.
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If your significant other isn't treating you respectful and loving you the right way, you're with the wrong person. Feeling bad about yourself because your significant others has mistreated you is a form of debilitating self destruction. You think it's your significant other who's making you feel the way you do, but in reality you feel bad about yourself because of your own unresolved issues and on top of it you're taking in the negativity your significant other is projecting in your life, which is making you think it's them, when it's really you!
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Many people are angry, mad, sad, hurt, etc., because of the treatment they're receiving from their significant others, when in fact significant others treat you exactly how you've allowed. That isn't a healthy way to love and truth is it isn't love at all.
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Many people are blind by their own ways of thinking. This has led many into bad relationships for which many have chosen to stay in. What you choose is what you will get!
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A pass will sooner or later become your problem. Don't do it! Stop thinking getting with other people is going to help your relationship. You don't need another person in your relationship to make your relationship better. All you need is to come together with your significant other and work on your relationship. Most people don't hold true to their agreements and go beyond the permission given to them. If you really love who you're with, they should be the only person you want to be with. If you desire to be with your significant other and someone else; you don't love your significant other or yourself.
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In the title the word relationships is referencing all types of relationships (friendships, significant others, work, family, etc). If your mindset isn't healthy, following your heart will lead you wrong. Many people choose to remain in the same unhealthy states of minds.They go through life causing self-destruction and self-sabotage in their own lives, yet many blame others. The mindset is everything, because everything you do is determined on how you think, which fuels feelings and actions. I've always said you can gain or obtain a lot, but you'll never be at peace, because you don't have peace within.
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Many people are in relationships but they're doing their significant others wrong. They're cheating, disrespecting, lying, manipulating, deceiving, abusing, taking them for granted, etc. It's never okay to do wrong to the one you're in a relationship with but it's also never okay for a significant other to take the crap. Many people are suffering in their relationships due to the states of mind they have. The mindset is everything, when people have unhealed hearts and minds they're blind to the
truth. You can't love anyone until you learn how to love yourself.
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This is exactly the way it should be. You should always fight for your man or woman, but never over them. If your significant other is cheating on you, please don't waste your time fighting over someone who obviously don't feel about you the way you feel about them. They may care about you but they care more about satisfying their flesh. You can't change him or her.
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Many people go to work to fill voids in their lives only to find out it doesn't work and oftentimes leads to more unnecessary drama. Looking for love, friendship, happiness, etc., at work is never the answer to fixing your unresolved issues. Workplaces around the work are full of mess, because many of the people working are messy. They have all types of unresolved issues they're taking to work.
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You may think you love it for a while, because that's the mindset of one who's still seeking self-gratification. However, when you get tired of the repercussions due to your choices and decisions, the good looks/body don't look as good anymore. It truly takes being able to see beyond what you take in with your eyes. Unfortunately it depends on your mindset. Although grown, most people can't see beyond their eyes, feelings, wants, and desire. People continue to allow it to lead them into unnecessary problems and unhealthy relationships.
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Many people are causing themselves unnecessary stress. People are developing anxiety and depression because of being in unhealthy relationships. There have been many people who cut their lives short because of the continued stress in their lives. Wake up before it's too late! If you fall apart you're no good for anyone to include yourself!
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Millions of people spend thier lives causing self-inflicted pain. They're wasting their time trying to hurt the person/people who hurt them (the get back), or they're projecting their pain on others, because they've been hurt. Pent up pain leads to dysfunctional lives. Trying to get back at someone or holding in the pain, ends up causing you to fall in the pit you dug for someone else. When you hold in old pain you develop inner issues that you allow to dictate your life, because of the mindset that comes from it. It's mental anguish, and sadly, many people are living life with pent up inner issues that's affecting how they think, feel, and act. We see it everyday! Most people choose to remain the same instead of changing to become better, how you live becomes self-inflicted.
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If you go through life with the same negative mindset you will eventually be the cause of your own demise. People are causing their own mental warfare outside of the spiritual warfare we're always fighting. Meaning, people are putting on themselves more than they can bear. Most people can't handle the issues they already have, but what they do is go through life compiling other drama on what they already have, it ends up leading to destruction (self-initiated).
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An addiction can be food, drugs, alcohol, sex, gambling, and you name it. It doesn't matter what it is if you give power to it that addiction will be what is most important to you. You can love a person all you can, but they will always love their addiction more than they love you. A person don't change until they choose change for his or herself.
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Many people are not getting what they want from their relationships. However, what you get is what you have allowed and accepted. You won't find love, peace, and happiness with anyone if you don't have it within yourself first. Too many people settle.
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Unfortunately for many the love they think is real is only perceptions. Many people would settle for an imitation versus the real thing. It's because most people don't really know what love is and if you don't know what it isn't, you don't know what it is.
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Don't touch anyone if they don't give you consent to touch them. If a person haven't chose to deal with their unresolved inner issues, they shouldn't project your mess into the lives of others. Too many people are sexually harassing or sexually assaulting others. These types of people know they're wrong, but many people will do it for as long as they can get away with it. Don't let them make you their victim. Don't feel you have to be silenced by a dirty rotten scoundrel. When you say or do nothing it empowers them to keep doing what they've been doing.
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Give your significant other the attention they need or they may end up getting it somewhere else. That shouldn't be your concern. Your concern should be at all times, doing the right thing for your significant. Don't open the door to unnecessary problems. Stop getting into relationships acting like you don't have to work to keep it growing. If you don't you will have to deal with the consequences.
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Please leave married people or those in relationships alone. Love yourself enough to not put yourself through unecessary headache and/or heartache. If they cheat on who they are with to be with you, I promise you, they'll cheat on you too. You're NOT that special! You'll find yourself in an unhappy place. You want to be treated like the spouse when you're not. You chose your role!
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Some of the people you think are the most happiest are the most unhappiest. Real love and real relationships are almost obsolete these days. When you find a person you love and who really loves you, don't mess it up for nothing or no one, because you may never find it again.
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Most people want to blame the temptation. They feel it was too much for them to withstand. I'm here to tell you that it's a lie and a trick of the enemy. Temptation is never the problem. The problem is you and your unwillingness to withstand it. Temptations will come and it will go. Succumbing to any temptation is a personal choice. You'll never be able to withstand if you are so willing to fall for it. The greatest and best relationship is with God. Once you develop and grow that relationship you'll realize it's not the temptation in front of you, it's you, period! You will go after and follow who you truly serve!
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When it comes to relationships, many people are blind to what's right in their faces. A broken person can't see the brokenness in their significant other, because they can't recognize their own brokenness. Most people think their meshing well with their significant, because they connect to the trauma/pain. This is an unhealthy relationship.
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I don't care who you allow in your life, there's no greater love than the love of Jesus the Son and God the Father. You can look high and low, but you'll never find a greater love. When all the people who claim to love you, leave you in your darkest hour, just know that you're not alone. Look to Jesus and never be distracted, God got you! It's the greatest relationship you will or can ever have.
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It is the reason we're not seeing any change or growth in the lives of people. No one wants to tell or hear the truth. People will see you heading downhill into a fire, and they will let you go full steam ahead without a word, because they don't want to offend. People don't want to interfere, step on toes, rock the boat, be honest, etc. Many think it's being politically correct, but in honestly it has nothing to do with what politically correct actually means. It's a scapegoat for many, because a lot of people don't want to deal with anything. I believe it boils down to telling the truth or accepting it.
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If you're with someone who doesn't give you the opportunity to voice your opinion, express yourself, or they're not willing to listen to you. You're in an unhealthy situation. Every person has a voice! Don't allow anyone to take yours from you. Many people have found themselves in terrible relationships and stayed after realizing how unhealthy their relationships are. Unfortunately, many have lost their lives due to unhealthy relationships. If they take your voice, they've taken their power.
The picture is of a woman, but there are many women who silence or try to silence their men.
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People want to act surprised, but in reality you know what you ended with is what you started with. Meaming, your significant other is the same person you entered into the relationship with, but for whatever reason you didn't accept the truth of what they showed you. You were blind by your thoughts, wants, heart, desires, and feelings. A unhealthy mindset will always lead you into a bad place.
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There are bonafied clubs out there and/or groups who support men hating women and women hating men. It is nothing but the devil's work. The devil comes to kill, steal, and destroy. He doesn't care about you or your relationship and will always try to keep relationships full of confusion. If you let the devil use you he will. When people don't allow themselves to heal from their pains it is of no help to self. In fact it inhibits you and your life. It affects your choices, decisions, and your relationships. Any man who hate women or woman who hates men are individuals who need to heal from whatever has them in that state of mind. If you hate anyone it's clear you don't love yourself and truly don't understand what love is. Hate is a horrible thing! It comes from a place of hurt that's turned into anger.
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Walk by Faith not by Sight or according to the word of man. Get connected with the true source and develop the best relationship ever, in Jesus! Man can't do for you what Jesus can. Stop being fooled by the fakes. Following man will lead you to hell right along with them. Hell wasn't meant for you, but there sure is room for you there, right alonside your master, the devil. If you say you love the Lord Jesus, then you will live for Him. You will seek understanding, and you will above all else, keep His Commandments. The devil is manipulating them and they're manipulating you!
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Until you love yourself, you'll keep going through what you're going through. You can't change him or her, no matter what you have or who you are. People treat you exactly how you've taught them to treat you. If you like it they love it, and they'll show you over and over again just how much they love it Many of you are distraught, but why?????????????????? You didn't have anything good from the start. Your unhealed hearts and mind caused you to believe a lie.
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When people understand the best relationship you can have outside of Jesus is self, things will change. Most people are very worried about their relationships with others and will put themselves in terrible predicaments and situations for love relationships, friendships, etc. That mindset keeps people focused on trying to please and appease others while their inner suffering continues. You can't be the best you can be for anyone (regardless of who it is), when you're not the best you can be for yourself!
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I'm posting this in Relationship Chronicles, because when you don't let those things that are plaguing you and your life go, it affects your entire life and any relationships you have, (love life, friendships, work relationships, family, etc.). The past can't hurt you, it's you who's hurting yourself. You must let it go, WHATEVER it is!!!! It's the ONLY way lives will become better.
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All I'm going to write is this; according to the Bible it's not possible. When we die we're no longer connected to loved ones, that part of our life is over. We don't return. The dead doesn't know what the living is doing. We hold those we've lost near and dear in our hearts and minds, but the actual connection has been severed. It's no coming back. It people could come back all of us would have seen someone we've lost. When you see spirits they aren't ghost, they're entities of some kind trying to trick you.
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Giving up your power is not the proper way to love. Many people think it's how you're supposed ot love. It is not! When people give up their power they also lose control. If you give it up it will always be taken. Any person who wants your power and control is an unhealthy individual. I've always told you that people treat you how you have taught them to treat you and/or how you have allowed and accepted. You can love without allowing yourself to be powerless and controlled.
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When I say skin, in this episode I'm referring to you as a whole/overall. When you can't love the skin you're in it means you don't love yourself. It will affect you and your relationships. A person who doesn't love his or herself will always have issues they drag everywhere they go,
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What you have or who you are may get them but it won't keep them. They may stay with you but at the same time is far from you in their hearts and minds. Many people have love and relationships all messed up. People lack the knowledge and/or understanding of what love is, because they don't love self.
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A horrible thing I listened to recently (not sure how old it is), a 911 call where a 12 year old called to said he killed a 9 year old and he did it because he felt like killing. The kid said he didn't want to be on this earth anymore. He told 911 to kill him or lock him up for life. This child has clearly gone through something unbearable. Another thing that could be happening is like many people, he have messed with the darkside. People have no clue the things they do, say, entertain, etc., open portals to the darkside. Most people are experiencing it, but because people aren't in tune with their bodies they're unaware. Demons don't discriminate. Kids are doing a lot of killing lately, especially killing their parents. So much is going on in the world, but no matter WHAT it is, the condition of a person's mindset determines what they think, how they feel, and what they do. If the mindset isn't healthy people are more easily influenced because of the power they give to their thoughts. If you entertain negative thoughts, you give power to them. Every suicidal person has a lot of unresolved inside, and unlike the average person, they choose to give up on their lives. When a person has suicidal thoughts they no doubt have battled the thoughts for a while. Some people have battled the thoughts all of their lives. It's because people aren't healing, but what they are doing is piling up a bunch of other stuff (from other people and life) onto their own unresolved, and it becomes too much pressure for them to handle. If people continue to allow those thoughts to come without taking action to get past that way of thinking, they'll continue to give power to those negative thoughts until they act on them. People with negative mindsets always get into relationships or situations that cause them more burdens, pain, and suffering. The torment is real! The way forward isn't choosing death it is choosing life by becoming the best you can be by making a choice to become better. You can't become better by holding on to bad people, memories, thoughts, feelings and other things. You can't become better by giving power to others, especially those who have hurt you!
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Who loves you or how much they love you, doesn't matter at all if you don't love yourself. Most times the very person you think loves you is the one who's hurting you the most. Why? It's because they don't love self. They too don't understand what love is or isn't. I've said it before, it's like the blind leading the blind! You can't love him or her in the right way, if you don't love yourself. He or she can't love you in the right way if they don't love his or herself. Sadly, most times it's dysfunctional people who are in relationships together. That's why most people are in relationships settling for less than they deserve, because they don't understand their worth.
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A significant other can definitely bring drama into your life, but even then, if you allow and accept it, you end up playing yourself! People do to you what you give them power to do! Stop blaming others for playing you, when truth is you played yourself.
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Many people fail to think of the ramifications/consequences of who they've chosen. Most times individiuals know upfront who they're getting with, yet they choose to continue. People are quick to get into relationships blindly, only to suffer because of their choices. You're not getting younger. It's time people do better! Too many people are going through life the same way and getting the same results. Nothing changes until you decide to change your mindset. Learn to love yourself. When you do it's quaranteed you will no longer allow and accept any ole thing or just any person in your life just to be in a relationship. Most people are quick to want someone to love them or to love someone, only to never find the love their seeking. You'll never find love until you first love yourself!
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You can never be the best you can be by remaining the same! When you know that you have issues but refuse to work on them, your life will consist of traveling the same road. You will continue to live a cycle. You will continue to blame and complain because of your place of comfort. Most people don't understand until they choose to deal with what's inside, and is causing dysfunction in their lives (regardless of what it is), they'll continue to have that void inside. Mindsets are formed from experiences but most people allow the negativity to dictate their lives. All the trauma and other bad experiences is what people hold on to, which is leading them to go through life unfulfilled and unhappy. No matter the accomplishments or the lack thereof, they're never satisfied. No matter the relationships, the possessions, money, success, people, etc., none of it will satisfied a person who is unhappy inside. Until people learn to love self, the void will remain!
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Really think about it before you decide to allow someone to come into your home. Many people have found out the hard way that it was a bad idea. People will smile in your face while wanting to take your place. They'll smile in your face the whole time knowing they want your man or woman, and not only that sometimes they're already with them. It's not always about someone trying to be with your significant other. Sometimes they want what you have, despite what it may be. Bottom line is many people you bring into your home have foul agendas. Be smart. Think wisely!
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Stop it!!! Love yourself enough to not care! If a person doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, #1 it's their right, and #2 life goes on. Let them walk on! It's better to be alone then to be with someone who makes you feel alone, and treats you bad. You deserve better than that! People do to you what you have taught and allowed them to do. If you show you don't care, neither will they! Have self love, pride, and dignity about yourself!
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Sometimes a person's love for their significant other is not reciprocated. No matter what you do it's never enough. Unfortunately, sometimes they just don't love you as much as you would like! They don't feel about you how you feel about them. Oftentimes they're more concerned about self; which is why many relationships are one-sided. Many people go through pure hell trying to love someone who don't love them how they deserve to be loved. They mean the world to you, but to them, you don't mean that much! Although they are in a relationship with you, they still want what they want. They don't care how you feel because to them, it's not about you!
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Many people live unhappy, misery, pain-filled, and dsyfunctional lives, because of the pain they hold on to based on someone else. People allow other individuals cause them to live a life full of pain, because they choose to hold on to what someone has done to them. They allow it to cause them a life full of self-inflicted pain. People are walking around as the walking dead, on auto-pilot, and broken because of other people, which means they've given power to others or to someone to make them continue to feel old pain over and over. Believe it or not, it's a choice that no one has to make or should make. This is why the mindset is everything. If a person doesn't change how they think, nothing else will change. Stop giving power to old pains and people who caused it.
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Why do your significant other wrong, when you know it will hurt? People who are always taking drama into their relationships don't love self or the other person. They don't really know what love is about. People who constantly take the shenanigans of their significant others obviously don't love self, nor do they truly know what love is. Many people throw around the word love like it's nothing. It's because many people don't really know what love is about. They just want to be with someone. Many people are willing to go through the most unnecessary crap to be with soneone, even when that person is causing them pain.
Many people put a lot of emphasis on everything else but not enough towards their relationshps. Some people don't even know if their significant others really love them or not. When you think your work, other people, and things are more important than the one you're with and the relationship, it will eventually be your downfall. Relationshps must be nurtured, and your significant other, must know they're loved by you. Antyhing short of it will expose an unhealthy relationship.
Whoever is doing this is in a relationship with the wrong person. If you have to beg him or her to be with you, you're your own problem! People are having so many issues in their relationships, because they're in relationships with the wrong people. People are getting into relationships for the wrong reasons and in the wrong ways. The first person to look at is yourself, to figure out why you're allowing yourself to be treated the way you are. You have to address why you feel that yiou have to beg for love. People treat you how you've taught them to treat you, which is based on what you think of yourself (the truth, not the fakeness most people present). The mindset is everything!
Most people don't believe the saying "what made you laugh will make you cry." You went in the relationship smiling, but you end up crying. How people start their relationships more than likely is how they will end. What they accepted before, they're no longer willing to accept. People get to a point what they once loved they no longer love or they now hate.
Some people begin to hate the very one they said they were so in love with. Sometimes people are hurt or murdered by the ones who were supposed to love them. The so called loved turns to hate, because of what's really inside of him or her. Be careful who you choose to be with!!!
There are many people who push their friends and loved ones to the side when they get a new boo. In my opinion it's the mind of an inmature person who really don't understand love or relationships.
Be very careful of the person who is willing to do anything for you (to get you, keep you, or to get something else), because one day they just may. Anything could literally mean anything, and in many cases it is. Sometimes it can mean taking a life, to include your life. Be careful, mindful, and aware of who you allow into your life. Please stop thinking it's love, when love has nothing to do with it (most times).
Don't be fooled! Stop thinking it won't happen to you, because it very well could. Pay attention to the signs and red flags. If a person is willing to kill someone to be with you, they have the potential to kill you for any reason, whether it's to be keep you or to be with someone else. Being blind and focused on self gratification has led many into bad situations because people are blind due to their hearts, feelings, wants, and desires. Unfortunately some people have either lost thier lives or their freedom dealing with individuals they shouldn't of been with. When you get the first sign of danger or potential danger it doesn't matter if you exit right or left, just exist!
It is a sad shame that some moms and dads turn a deaf ear to the cries of their children. Some parents want so desperately to be with who they're involved with, they fail to protect their children. They choose their men/women over their child/ren. It's not love! It's very disgusting, unfortunate, and wrong. A good parent should always protect their child/ren. If your child tells you the person you're with is doing inappropriate things to them, you should take it seriously! When it comes to your sons and/or daughters, always plant good seeds and memories.
People need to face reality! If you can't meet or beat the expectations or requirements you have of your significant other or the person you want to be with; you know you're not right! Stop with the foolishness! The nerve of you thinking that way and the nerve of anyone who goes along with the foolishness. You're guaranteed to find yourself in an unhappy relationship.
Some people try to do it all. They give and give until they wake up and realize only one person is doing it all. There's no relationship that can work this way. Sooner or later reality sets in. That's why it's important to go into a relationship with your eyes wide open and able to see and accept the truth. An unhealthy relationship is one that's not good for you!
People go through what they are going through because of what they've gone through. Until individuals understand this truth, lives will remain the same. Nothing changes in a person life until they choose change and then make it happen.
It's true, a cheater will cheat and there's nothing you can do about it. You're not the exception!! It will eventually happen. Don't put yourself in a situation you could have avoided.
I'm not saying a person shouldn't feel how they feel, but I am saying we have to mourn and eventually move on. People who refuse to move on is causing unnecessary drama in their lives that's self-inflicted. We all have the journey of death to someday take, none of us is exempt from it. We all have that appointed time. My heart goes out to those who won't let go and instead allow the death of those they loved to sabatoge the rest of their days. It leads to more mental anguish. People have to understand when you go through storms in your lives, the mindset you have going in that storm will help you or hurt you. Meaning it will help you to get through or hinder your process. Some people become and remain stuck on the once was. It doesn't matter whether a relationship is lost through death or some other means, our mindsets determine how we will fare after that loss. If a person chooses to not heal from that loss they'll fall into a negative and habitual cycle of pain. When we open ourselves up to darkness it can potentially engulf us. Many people choose to get lost in their pain and therefore succumbs to their darkness, which leads to self-destruction in some way. We'll always have our loved ones close to us in our hearts and minds. Their journey on earth ended, while ours continue until our appointed timr. Some people shorten their own lives, because they can't, couldn't, won't move on. We should remember the good times and thank God for the time we had.
This episode is for those who are claiming to be celibate and those who are considering it. It's a personal journey and something that shouldn't be taken lightly. If you're sincere about it, you won't allow anyone to shake you or your faith. If someone does, it's because you weren't who you pretended to be.
Too many people put all of their busines out for the world to see, only to evenually regret it. Some people don't learn a thing and when you don't learn anything from your experiences, you're bound to repeat the same cycle/s. Many people mess up when they broadcast their relationships all over social media.
If you do not address the issue, the issue will remain. If you can't address the issue that's a problem! People treat you exactly how you let them treat you! If it's fine with you, it's certainly fine with them!
It's that simple! You get what you allow. It doesn't matter who, they will treat you how you've allowed. Only you can change your situation.
First of all, understand that when a person lusts after something it isn't always about sex. It can be money, things, fame, fortune, drugs, acohol, etc. However, this episode is about individuals who won't do right in their relationships, because of the power they give to lust of their flesh, and how it affects the other individual and the relationship. If you're in a relationship with someone like this, all I can say is you'll never win! They will always choose what their chasing over you. They may stay in the relationship with you, but you're not priority. If you were, they wouldn't cause you the pain they cause. They do it because of their mindsets, and you won't change it. Those types of people must want change for self, just as you must want change for yourself.
The title is self-expanatory. As long as a person know that they have free reign to take advantage they'll do just that! How you allow yourself to be treated is solely up to you. If you're blind to reality your view will be skewed, leading to a life ull of self inflicted hurt. Whatever you let someone do to you is a part of your self-inflicted hurt.
There is no price for peace, it's priceless. Yet, millions give theirs up to be in relationships with individuals who have no inner peace and have no problem taking yours, because you freely give it.
If you truly love who you're with, disrepecting them is the last thing you would do. People who disrespect their significant others need to grow up and they do not respect themselves. Respect is an intricate part of a healthy relationship. Whatever you allow to be done to you by your significant other will be done.
Many people fall too quickly and deeply for the one they choose to be with, which only leads to problems. When you don't know yourself, you'll find many obstacles in your way while trying to figure out your significant other. Many people spend most of their time investing into the people they want to be with. They fall quickly and deeply, only to realize the unhealthy situations they're in.
Many people are in unhealthy relationships and staying, because of distorted beliefs and views. Most of which they've adopted from those around them and from societies full of people with unhealed hearts and minds (brokenness). Many people stay where they shouldn't be with people they shouldn't be with out of comfortable, familiarity, and complacency.
When the well runs dry, game over! People settle for all types of unecessary drama in their lives. They go through life filled with unresolved issues that they choose to hold on to, because of their mindsets. They get into relationships based on their own mindsets, which oftentimes leads them into terrible situations with terrible people. Sometimes people go through so much drama their eyes finally opens to reality. This is when the well oftentimes has run dry!
Too many people go through life wanting the significant others in their lives to possess certain attributes, when you as a person don't possess those things. You want your significant other to be a certain way, when you are not that way. Stop trying to choose flawless people when you are flawless. There are no flawless people. Deal with your own insecurities and other unresolved issues, before you get into a relationships and therefore, who you choose will be through the right eyes, and from the right heart and mind.
Most people ignore all warnings because they want who they want. Anyone who thinks this way isn't thinking at all. They are blind! When a person refuse to see the truth they will always suffer the consequences.
If you don't get together because of true love or stay together because of it, you'll never be happy. Too many people make excuses to remain in their unhappy relationships. That should tell you something about yourself.
People aren't able to have healthy relationships, be good parents, enjoy ALL family members, work peacefully on jobs, be happy, forgive, be loyal-faithful, have compassion, see the truth, and the list goes on, because of harden hearts. It all comes from mindsets formed out of bad experiences. People have allowed their bad experiences to dictate the rest of their lives, because of harden hearts. Harden hearts keep people blind! Those experiences have prevented people from maturing and growing into healthy minded people. Instead of changing, people remain the same, and are their own worst enemy. Regardless of what type of relationship, the hearts and minds of people have led many into bad situations. Many people make the worst choices and decisions, due to harden hearts.
Men don't like those types of wormen just as women don't like those types of men. Controlling and dominating people need to work out their issues of why they're that way, before getting into relationships. These types of women don't realize the strain they put on their relationships and the issues they cause their significant others.
Face the truth is important. Any time you have anything or anyone in your life and the pros are less than the cons, you have a problem! Knowing your pros are less and you still do nothing to make your life better, it's what you chose! Only you can change your life for the better. People are living in pure hell waiting for their significant others to change. You need to change!
Many people go through hell, and then they realize they have to find self, if people do it before they get into a relationship, it would save them a lot of grief. Find yourself first! Stop creating monsters in your life, because they only do to you what you allow. You must matter enough to yourself that you won't allow and accept any and everything in the name of love. Don't lose yourself or sell yourself short for no one.
If you're in that mindset, you've definitely stayed too long! People must love themselves enough to be able to see through the bull crap and walk away. Your very life may depend on it.
When you have to ask this question, there is definitely something wrong! Too many people are in relationships feeling they're not good enough. People are in relationships believing they're the reason for their significant other's behvavior.
Many people are in dead end relationships. An individual know when they're in the wrong relationship with the wrong person, but they'll stay out of insecurities and other reasons that are only excuses, to keep them where they are. No one can change your situation and life, to become the best possible, but you. We only have one life to live, but too many people live it unhappily. What you go along with is exactly what you'll find yourself involved in.
There are many people who are blind to the truth. They can't see, because they're blind by their own wants, desires, feelings, etc. It stems from their mindsets! Most people seek love in others when they don't love self. They end up in terrible relationshps with the wrong person, loving the wrong person.
If you do not choose yourself, you'll go through life making all the wrong choices. You'll go through life allowing and accepting the wrong things and the wrong people in your life. Most people are focused on loving others, while neglecting self. People don't get to know or love self, because they're too busy trying to get to know and love others. It leads to a dysfunctional life. It stems from unresolved and unhealed pain.
If your life isn't better with him or her, you should have remained alone, you didn't need anyone to pull you down further. Too many people are choosing people who make their lives worse. If your significant other isn't enhancing your life, you're doing yourself an injustice. That's the bottom line and the end!
Many couples are together physically, meaning they mesh physically, but at the same time they have nothing to talk about, because they're not connected mentally. If a couple isn't connected mentally, the heart soon follows, and the relationship fails. Although some people may remain together their relationships are unhealthy.
Many people blame others for the things they do (cheat, lie, abuse, etc.). The truth is people do what they do, because of the unresolve inside of them. That unhealed place forms a void that most people are constantly trying to fill.
Dating today is no easy task! The world is the way it is, because of the people in it. There is so much going on. People are far down the rabbit hole seeking and chasing love, but doing all of the wrong things to get it, only to find just how unhappy they are once they get what they think they want. Be careful, because most people aren't who they pretend to be (in more ways than one).
Too many people get into relationships and stop putting efforts to keep it growing. If it isn't nourished it eventually dies. If you truly love who you're with, you must put in the time and energy to keep the relationship growing. If you don't think it's important, I guarantee you someone else will be glad to step in and do what you should be doing. Your significant other need that quality time.
Unfortunately, many people live this every day of their lives. They go through life unable to find peace, love, or happiness, because they sabotage self, every step of the way. When you can't see past your pain, you give power to that pain, which affects many for a lifetime.
It's true and no matter the cost, many will continue to play until they find themselves, mature, and grow up. Some will die and go to their graves the same way. Although societies think so, when it comes to relationships, it's not about a person being a man or woman that ruins it, it's about what's inside of the person. Unfortunately today most (both men and women), still haven't matured past their inner issues. So many sabotage their own lives and wreak havoc in the lives of those they become involved with. Unhealed hurt people are either the prey or predator.
This is meant for those who are doing the wrong things in their relationships. Would you want to be in a relationship with someone like you? Would you want someone treating you the way you're treating your significant other? You know you wouldn't! Some of you know you're wrong and doing the wrong things in your relationships, but you expect for your significant other to want to remain with you. Would you stay with someone who's treating you wrong? Would you want someone to do to you what you're doing to your significant other? Would you want to be with someone like you? What's in you is coming out!
It happens, because of what's inside. If you don't deal with the pain inside, it will come up and out of you. You will live a painful life, because of the pain inside that you choose to ignore. No matter how you try to hide it, fake, or pretend, the truth is always revealed in some way or another. If you know it's wrong, why do it? If you can't see past your heart to the truth and reality, you'll always find yourself in wrong relationships and bad situations. People know right from wrong, but they still choose to do wrong. Most people want to follow their hearts, instead of thinking things through and doing the right thing.
No one made you abuse, you chose to be that person, (for whatever reason) just as the abuser chose to allow abuse into his or her life, (for whatever reason). Both types ofs mindset are created out of past experiences. I say people create the abusers in their lives, because significant others can't abuse the individuals they're with, unless they've been given the power to abuse. People are given power when they get to talk to their significant others wrong, physically abuse them, verbally abuse them, emotionally abuse them, mentally abuse them, etc., without consequences. When you let someone treat you this way, you give power to them to continue. They will feed off of your fear and insecurities.
Most relationships have shared trauma to some degree. Couples in these types of relationships either always feed off of or on the other person. If you're someone who can't handle your own issues, how well do you think you'll be able to handle the issues of someone else. There are many people who take on the task of trying to handle the lives of the individuals they think they love, only to find themselves in even worst situations. People who haven't dealt with their own pains/unresolved issues, will oftentimes go through life meeting people of similar mindsets. They believe they're deeply in love, when they actually don't know what love is, because they don't love self.
I'm not speaking physically, even though family members have murdered one another. I'm talking about killing yourself mentally, emotionally, physically, and financially. Sometimes you have to cut them off in order to maintain your peace! Relationships with family members can be just as unhealthy as any other relationship.
There's so much darkess, evil, and wickedness in this world. People are truly allowing the devil to use them. They are giving power to their negative thoughts and are willfully walking into points of no return. People are very confused as to what love is, because they don't love self. No man or woman is worth you losing your life or worth your children losing their life. Some people don't want to listen until they find themselves in too deep, and oftentimes it's too late!
There are many people who have lost self in their unhealthy relationships. They feel it's an necessity to fix the mess of their significant others, when they haven't dealt with their own mess. Many people open themselves up to the foolishness of their significant others, because they think it's a proper way to love, when it has nothing to do with real love. Too many people settle for what they think is love versus having no love at all. Reality is no love is what they end up with.
Many significant others are playing games. They're doing what they do to keep you where you are. They aren't in it like you. Instead they have an agenda and will do anything to hold on to it. They will continue to slide you those niblets and nuggest. However, people will treat you exactly how you've taught them to treat you.
Most times the women most men are hurt by is their moms. The hate starts at home. Men either hate what she did or didn't do and that hate grows over time. Most are upset at the fact she didn't nourish, protect, love them, or give them what they needed as young children. To blame other women for a bad or obsolete relationship you had with your mom or some other woman in your life is immature and wrong. Men need to fix their unresolved inner pain so they can move on to become better men and not continue being men who are bitter, full of strife, hate, who are out to blame other women for their past hurts and pains. A lot of Black men run to women of other races, failing to understand that the skin color has absolutely nothing to do with who a woman is. There are other men who just hate women, period, because of the hurt they still hold on to every day. They live every day angry at women, because of their own unresolved pain. All women didn't do it!!!! Look at yourself!
Trying to love a broken person will break you! Many people can attest to how they've lost a sense of who they are, trying to love, fix, or change the person they want to be with. You can't love away; the pain and hurt of no one. People won't and don't change until they are ready! Trying to love their hell away, you will find yourself in hell.
If anyone doesn't believe communication is key. If your relationship is lacking it, how is that working for you? No relationship will last without it. People may stay together, but the relationship will lack those things necessary for it to flourish and grow, guaranteed. The lack of communication leads to an unhealthy and unhappy relationship that is full of drama and confusion.
Most people are blind by their wants, feelings, and desires. Therefore, they'll choose to ignore the signs and red flags presented to them. People are chasing tangible things, and because of it, they want what they want, only to end up in unhealthy relationships. People overlook the red flags and signs to get what they think they want.
Some people think they really are doing something by messing around with someone's signficant other until they end up with him or her. You think they're telling you everything going on with their significant other, but truth is they're telling you what they want you to know. Some people are really fooled by thinking they know what's going on in the person's home they're cheating with, but it's furtherest from the truth.
You as an employee or you as a boss/supervisor know when a relationship is inappropriate. Any boss or supervisor who's crosing the line and using their position or title as a form of abuse of power needs to lose their job. Any employee who's going along to gain something, although the boss or supervisor is wrong, so is this type of employee, because adults know better. No one should allow his or herself to be taken advantage of by thier boss or supervisor for any reason. Never allow anyone to hold something over your head in order to take advantage of you. People only treat you how you allow. Never give anyone power over you and never feel someone is so high up you're afraid to say something. People have the power you give to them. Sometimes, because individuals have done underhanded things for so long and have goten by, they think they can act the same with anyone they choose , but you have the power to say no.
Be careful who you label as your friend, because not everyone you call your friend is your friend! Some of them don't even like you, but they smile in your face, the whole while secretly wanting to take your place or at least what/who you have.
People are controlled, because it's what they allow. I know some people don't want to believe it or receive it, but it's still true! You have to be very careful as to what and who you allow in your life. It's never debatable.
If you can't see past your eyes, feelings, wants, or desires you'll aways find yourself in unhappy relationships, thinking it's love. When people keep looking outward, they'll continue to have the same mindsets and wreaking havoc in their own lives. It's takes the inside working well in order for the outside to work well.
When a person is caught up in fleshy gratification, they are normally individuals who will do almost anything to get what they want. Many immature people, who make everything about physical gratification, go through life experiencing a lot of unnecessary drama. They cause problems in their own lives and the lives of their significant others. If you can't control yourself because of how someone looks, it's because you lack control.
It's normal to have attractions toward's people, but when you base relationships and other things on how someone looks, you have some inner issues you need to deal with, and becuse of it, will undoubtedly always face unnecessary drama.
Many people are total lovers of themselves. It's all about self and self gratification. People are full of themselves, puffed up, pompus, vain, boastful, and selfish. They do whatever they choose, without taking others into consideration. Many people are single, because the pickings are non-existent or very slim, due to people being lovers of themselves. These types of individuals don't really know or understand real love.
It's a terribe feeling and state of mind for anyone to have. What you accept in your life is exactly what you'll get. If you believe it takes a significant other to be happy and fulfilled, you'll never experience it.
Some people think fighting over their cheating significant is worth it. It definitely is not! Stop fighting over people who aren't fighting over you. You and the relationship should be worth him or her doing the right thing and not causing problems in the relationship. Stop putting yourself in jeopardy and fighting over someone who isn't worth it. If they're cheating, they're showing you what you mean to them and how they actually feel about his or herself. The other woman or man isn't the problem, your issue is your significant other. Violence is never the answer!!! Think before you react!
Just because a person refuses to see the truth doesn't mean it is non-existent. The truth never lies! Many people are in unhappy relationships, because they see the signs and at the same time refuse the signs and the truth. When you're desperate for love, later you'll be just as desperate for peace.
Too many people lose themselves in their relationships, without recognizing or accepting that their relationships are very toxic. We all have signs and redflags. A person can deny them, but fact is they're present, on some level. Many people choose to ignore them due to self wants, desires, and feelings, and because of it, end up in their graves. If you won't walk away from a toxic relationship, it's clear you don't love yourself or even understand what love is. Your mindset has you thinking what you're allowing in your life is alright, when it's not!
Individuals who won't let go don't love themselves either, and their mindsets are their biggest problems. If a person wants out, go on with life. If you can't go on, go and talk it out with someone. To hurt someone or yourself over what you THINK is love is immature and ridiculous. You don't cause hurt, harm, or danger to someone you love. That's not at ALL, the way real love works! If your mind has you thinking otherwise, that's your indication there's something inside of you, that you need to address. People are so concerned about loving someone and being loved, but they don't think that way when it comes to loving self! Some people will kill you and anyone else in their way or tied to you.
Some of you may think, who am I to give a relationship a thumbs down. I am someone who knows an unhealthy person and relationship when I see one.If you don't want the truth click off now, because I'm always giving you the truth.
Many people are in relationships they think are healthy, because it's what they're accustomed to, and to them it is good. It's a sad truth, but people get so familiar and comfortable with drama and chaos, they accept it as normal and healthy.
It's a big lie! Love has nothing to do with it! Many of you think love makes you do crazy things. Truth is people do crazy things according to what's inside of them that has caused the mindset they have. It's NOT love, it's YOU/ the individual doing what you choose, based on a distorted perception of love! Many people are blind and can't understand this reality.
Many people will never experience the love or significant others they deserve, because their too busy seeking to fill the voids within self. What they need is right in their faces, but they can't see it due to being blind by what they want. It goes back to not knowing or loving self and it also is indicative of people who haven't dealt with their past painful issues. A person who doesn't deal with their unresolved issues, will always experience the affect of their old pains, that they continue to give power to.
Most people will never experience true love either because of self or because of who they're with, which in truth who you choose points back to self (you). Why you choose who you choose says a lot about who you are and where you are mentally.
Lust is a bottomless pit. Due to mindsets, many people don't understand, because they have no understanding. Those who don't understand will continue their lives the same way, receiving the same results. Lust is an ever ending scavenger hunt!
The whole truth! If you're not minding what you're opening yourself up to, you will find yourself in a relationship you'll regret, with someone you'll resent. If you're led blindly into relationships by your feelings, emotions, wants, desires; you're led wrong. People will always suffer the consequences of their bad choices and decisions.
Reality is, that way of thinking is what should terrify you, because it's telling you something about yourself. It's telling you that your mindset has you imprisoned to negativity. The only person you can't get away from is yourself, which is the person you need to deal with most of all. Too many people in this world choose to ignore and neglect self, when all it does is keep them where they have always been (with negative mindsets). It causes people to live dysfunctional lives and shouldn't ever be an option for anyone.
Being led wrong by the one you think you love is a choice! If it's a choice you'll one day regret it. We all suffer the consequences of our bad choices and decisions. We all suffer the consequence of what we allow and accept into our lives. DON'T be that person!
Many people don't know what love is. If you don't know what love is you'll find yourself in bad situations with bad people. Many people seek high and low for love, but love starts with loving self. If a person can't do that, they'll eventually end up in unhealthy relationships. If people would take time to know one's self and learn to love one's self, they would be very careful of what they allow or accept in their lives. They would be careful how they teach others to treat them. If you haven't figured out who you are, how can you figure out someone else? Love starts with you, loving yourself!
Anyone in a relationship should know is it legitmate. Do the person you're with geniunely love you or do they love who you are (position/title) or what you have? Many people don't have a clue, BECAUSE they don't think about it. Instead they're chasing their hearts, feelings, wants, and desires and therefore, are blind to anything else. Whatever you accept and allow is exactly what you'll get.
When you fall in love with yourself, you will understand what love is about; until then, individuals will continue to find themselves in unhappy relationships, unhappy, and with unhappy people. Until change occurs, people will remain the same.
The title says it all! If you don't make the right choice you'll eventually realize you've made a bad one. Signing up for the wrong person comes with consequences.
What does a man loving his wife as Christ loves the church mean to you? Is how you love and treat your wife lining up with how Christ loves the church? If not, it's NOT of God, therefore it's wrong and of the flesh. If you think it's of God, maybe you're serving someone else you've made your God. In the Bible, the True and Living God, tells a man how he should love his wife, which is how His Son Jesus, loves the Church. Anything less is NOT of God! So stop with the slave master mentality concerning your wives, because it's not how Jesus treats you or the Church!
The unwillingness to love yourself puts you in a position of never truly knowing how to give or receive love. Sadly, too many people are in relationships with individuals who don't love self and because of it, they'll give and give or take and take. You CAN be different, but also equally yoked!
The lies some pastors and some men are telling when it comes to scripture. If a woman is supposed to worship her husband as Christ, why do she need Jesus in her life? What if her husband died or they divorced? She would be lost, because while she was busy worshipping her husband as Christ, (because it's what the pastor told her), she would have lost her connection to the real Christ (Jesus). What the pastor told her was wrong, misleading, and foolish! He is NOT of God if he's thinking that way!
If you're not sure, then you need to make sure you are sure, before making a decision to be with anyone. If you don't, I guarantee you problems will unfold in your relationship.
Suffocating, controlling, dominating, draining etc., etc., your significant may cause you to end up losing him or her.
Most people think about the love they have or think they have for their significant other, but ignores what they're actually receiving from them. Instead they only see what they want to see, because they are blind by what they want, feel, and desire. People gauge their relationships by who they want the individual to be, instead of by who they've shown them they are.
Many people dive blindly into relationships only to find they're struggling to make their relationships work. It's hard to make a relationship work when you're doing it all by yourself. Wake up! Know where you stand in your relationship, before you go falling in what you think is love!
In societies there is an apparent doube standard between men and women in all areas (parenting, pay, positions, things said and done, and the list goes on. Men get away with things and then society says it's because he's a man. Ridiculous! I really believe it pertains to immature men and people who are immature just like them. Liked mines think alike. Just a thought I'm expressing.
This doesn't apply to every listener, but we all know someone who have gone to meet a person they met online, but don't really know, only to end up hurt or dead. This world is full of people who have dark hearts and mindsets. They have full intention to cause mayhem. You must not allow your yearning for love and attention to get you got! Be careful, because most people aren't who they pretend to be. Do your research, be careful, and vigilant. Never go to meet someone you never met, on your own. Be smart and use caution! If you don't learn to love yourself first, you'll continue to chase love, but most times never experiencing it, because you have no clue what is is or what it isn't!
All I'm going to write is what I've always said "people treat you how you allow and accept."
Some people don't realize when they make work more important than their significant other/therelationship in general, how it causes major relationship issues.
If it seems you can't ever find someone to want to be with you, stop being angry, mad, sad, etc. Look at yourself! You can't expect anyone to want to be with you if you are choosing to live life complaining and blaming others, when you need to be looking at yourself and becoming the best you can be. Change your mindset for the better and it will change your life!
It's not love nor is it healthy, If you willfully give up the ability to think and speak for yourself. You're treated how you allow yourself to be treated.
No matter how you try, you can't and won't change your significant other. The person who needs to change the most is you! Peace!
Many people are facing this situation. They thought who they loved were in love with them until they could no longer do what they had been doing for them. It was never love!
Many people are in unhealthy relationships of freewill. If you would see past your feelings, wants, and desires, lives would change. If you bypass loving yourself, you'll never know what love is and you won't be able to love anyone else. Drama will follow you, because you'll do whatever for love and you'll allow yourself to go through unnecessary headache and heartache!
Nothing changes in your life until you choose to implement change. Change doesn't come from your significant other, it has to come from you and vice versa,
There are a lot of individuals in relationships, but they're in love by his or herself. They would rather be with someone who doesn't love them, back than to be alone.
Many people are in relationships with individuals who mistreat them and really don't want them, but they don't want anyone else to have them either. They know their significant others are great, but what's inside of his or herself, prevents them from appreciating and loving back the person who loves and treats them well.
An inappropriate relationship with your child is wrong. Using excuses to do your wrong will never make your wrong right.
Too many people are quick to stray outside of their relationships looking for someone else, when they should be working on the relationships they are currently in.
Many people choose to remain in unhealthy relationships, because of thier own inner issues. They don't realize they are their own problem. Yet, they choose to do nothing about it.
Many people can't see what's right in their faces because they are blind and can't see. Regardless of how much you love them, they have their eyes, hearts, and minds on someone else and not on you. Sometimes individuals are so lost in their own wants, desires, and feelings they can't see who they want don't want them and are no good for them. It all leads to unhealthy relationships.
The truth! If you sell yourself short your choices, decisions, and what you allow and accept will cause you to find yourself on the short end of the stick. An unhappy relationship shouldn't be an option in your life.
Do you? Do you really want to say I do? If you don't, then don't do it! If you do, be prepared to suffer the consequences of your choice. Too many people get into relationships and marriages when they know in their hearts it's not what they really want. It causes drama for the one who doesn't want it, as well as for the one who does want it.
Fact is life happens to us all. I know some people don't want to accept it, but it's still the truth. None of us are exempt! If you put in your head you can't live without someone one, then you won't or you will have a heck of a time trying. What about you? What do you feel about yourself? Your life should mean something to you. If you believe you can't live without him or her, you'll eventually act out what you believe! It will bring you unnecessary drama. Think on it!
Many relationships are one-sided. People settle for one-sided relationships, because of their mindsets. Mindsets are formed out of experiences, tragedy, trauma, life, etc. When people don't deal with the unresolved pain, the pain plagues their lives, because mindsets are formed from that pain. Our mindsets rule and governs our lives and if it's not healthy it will show in our choices and decisions and the monsters we create in our lives. This fact is played out and seen every day around the entire world in the lives of many people.
Many people settle with relationships lacking those things every relationship needs to grow. If you're in a relationsip, but your lonely and yearning for love, you're in a unhealthy relationship. You can never find peace in an unhappy place.
The Bible is NOT speaking of worldly men, it is referencing Holy men of God. We are not to be a part of the world, therefore God is speaking of Godly men, not ungodly men. How can men who don't know Christ or who understands how Christ loves the church, know it is how a HOLY man is supposed to love his wife? That's why the scripture is talking about Godly men NOT just any man.
Many people think it's more important to settle in their relationships and with who they're with, than to understand they deserve better than what they're getting.
It's a fact! Ignoring the issues within your relationship is setting you up for a fall. Talk it out, before you want to walk away. Relationship issues must be addressed.
When you settle for these types of relationships you'll always get exactly what you allow and accept.
For those who seek happiness in significant others, you'll always see it is short lived. Happiness is never permanent or real, until it starts with you! Many look outward for happiness, when they should be looking inward. Looking outward leads to unhappy, unhealthy, and drama filled relationships.
Do you know? Most people don't and that's why many end up either the prey or predator. Most times people seek, look for, or chase after what they don't possess. It leads to toxic and unhealthy relationships.
You have to be mindful of what you get yourself involved with. There's always writing on the wall to see, IF you're mentally equipped to see it. Rebound relationships brings about drama, chaos, and unnecessary pain.
Too many people settle for unhealthy relationships, it's all based on what's inside of self. Ultimately you'll face the consequences of your choices and decisions.
Temptation is about who you are as a person. I'm talking about the real you, not the fake you. If you want to avoid temptation you can and you will. If not, you will go after whatever or whomever, because nothing is ever enough.
Don't be a statistic! See beyond your eyes, wants, desires, emotions, and feelings, to the truth that's right in your face! Love shouldn't involve abuse.
Many people are in relationships that are literally killing them, mind, body, and soul. They think it's the proper way to love when it's not. What you allow and accept is exactly what you'll get. If you don't love yourself enough to realize the damage you're doing to yourself, it can sometimes lead to death (mind, body, soul). Sometimes it's physical death due to stress and strain.
How you think will always affect what you give or take in your relationship. It affects what you allow and accept. If you have dysfunctional ways of thinking you're either the prey or predator in your relationship. Your mindset is everything and dictates all things.
I think the title says it all. Bottom line, it's up to you and who you're with to make your relationship.
It's not love. I know some people think it's love, but it's not. It's love according to the mindset. If you're mistreated it's NOT love!
Don't ever believe anyone who tells you love doesn't matter in a relationship! That's straight foolishness and it's coming from the mouth of a person who really don't understand the concept and dynamic of real love. If you follow that nonsense you will eventually find yourself in a very unhappy situation. Most people are blind to the truth, but it's because of their mindsets.
The Bible is referencing a Godly man, not any ole man. Many people take the Bible out of context and use it how they want to use it. They try to benefit from it, yet they go about it is wrong. If you're a Godly man, you have to love Him and live for Him. A Godly man is no longer chasing the flesh or after lust. Every man has the potential and opportunity to be a Godly man, but many don't. It's a choice. If you're a Godly man, make sure you're not bamboozled into getting a worldly woman and vice versa.
Let her be! It doesn't call for anyone to become angry. Just because you feel you do, it doesn't mean the next person does. Maybe she doesn't currently want to be in a relationship. It's okay. It's true, some women are making it fine, alone. Let her be, it's her business!
When you make bad choices and decisions it's hard to see and accept the truth when you're blind to it. Being in relationships that are no good for you causes unnecessary drama and chaos. If the person is no good for you, neither is the relationship.
If you don't start out how you can hold out, you will always face drama because of it. See past your eyes, heart, desires, wants, feelings, etc.
I think considering all of the things going on in this world prenups are a smart move. Just my opinion. If you're blind by what you think is love, you will definitely be led wrong. You will endure things you didn't have to go through.
People go through so much unnecessary crap, because they think it's love. A person who loves you will not take advantage of you for any reason. If you allow yourself to be treated badly, you will be treated that way.
Sometimes people open doors they don't realize they've opened or is readly for. If you find yourself in this type of situation talk about it without causing more problems.
If you're not mindful of your actions, you can open doors to a lot of unnecessary chaos and drama in your relationship.
Many people end up in relationships they really aren't ready for or built for. Only to find out how bad it is for them.
Many people choose relationships with people who don't feel as they do. They find themselves struggling hard to stay with the person when the person cares less. It takes two mature minded people, who are in love with one another, to make a relationship to work.
If you ever have to subject yourself to hurt, harm, or danger in the name of love, it's not love. If you have to break the law, it's not love. If you allow and accept any and everything in the name of love, it's not love. If you do things you don't want to do to stay with someone, it's not love. Do you get my point?! Some people have gone overboard, fell in, and drowned when they didn't have to. If you can't see beyond your wants, desires, feelings, lust, etc, you'll always find yourself in an unhealthy relationship. You will live your life repeating bad choices and decisions, because you're seeking what you lack within.
Look at the picture. The clock is point on, because all it takes is time for a person to realize this type of relationship isn't for them. We all have to suffer the conseqences of our choices and decisions.
Crazy as it may seem, many people live this way every day. If you give your power and control away it will be taken. If you seek happiness, etc through your significant other, most times you'll receive everything other than that. Happiness, love, peace, etc has to first come from within.
Real loves grows it doesn't fade away. People all over the world make bad choices and decisions when it comes to relationships, because they want what they want. It leads to unhealthy relationships with unhealthy people,
In my opinion it's not fair! A relationship has two sides not one. Many people want what they can't give while others or taking what they don't give. It all comes from mindsets due to unhealed hearts and minds.
Many people get into situations they could have and should have avoided. If you can't help who you love or want, it means you lack control. If you think you have no control over who you love, you'll always find yourself in unnecessary drama. Change how you think, it changes your life.
What are you holding on for? If a person don't want you, but you want them, you have big issues that you're denying. You're not facing the truth, because you want what you want. If the other person don't want you, let them go! Trying to hold on to someone who don't want you is like trying to pet a rattlesnake, (make no sense and the outcome won't be good).
You choose your own poison. If you choosing pain over peace, pain is what you'll receive. Too many people give in to the wrong things, because they're seeking self-gratification, even though what they're getting is causing pain over peace.
Wishful thinking won't ever keep a relationship together and it certainly won't change who you're with. People will never find peace if they're leaving it up to the significant other who's causing the unrest.
The way many couples talk these days, is by not talking, which makes things worse. If individuals don't know how to communicate it's like building a house on quicksand. People would rather fight it out in an unhealthy way, rather than talk it out.
It's not you or about you. When you know what you're getting into and you still get into it, you're setting yourself up for failure. You can't stop the one you love from chasing others if the chase is in them. Never accept something you can't deal with. People only treat you how you allow.
You have a voice to communicate, don't allow anyone to take your voice. If your significant other is trying to control you, you're in an unhealthy relationship. There's no excusable excuse to allow anyone to take your voice. As an adult if you can't communicate with who you're with, you're with the wrong person.
Do you even know? A lot of people don't or maybe I should say they don't care, because what is most is important is fulling that self gratification. Too many people settle only to end up with unnecessary drama (a situation-ship).
Most people go through a lot of unnecessary stuff for what they think is love. Most individuals have bad relationships, because they haven't dealt with self. When you don't deal with self, I promise you that you will allow and accept all types of foolishness in the name of love. How you perceive love has everything to do with the state of mind you're in. This is why many people are having a lot of unnecessary drama in their lives and finding themselves in unhappy relationships/situations.
People do things, but then make excuses for why they did what they chose to do. Many people become comfortable in their lies and excuses until it actually ends up a way of life. They take the drama into the lives of those who allow and accept it. They become numb to their wrong choices and decisions, not caring about the consequences they know they'll face.
It doesn't make sense to chase someone who's running in the other direction. Many people cause a lot of unnecessary problems in threir own lives by getting into situations they don't have to be in. Never want anyone who don't want you! People get caught up in their feelings, because they give power to the thoughts. Why waste your time and energy over someone who don't want you?
If a relationship isn't nourished it dies. If the love isn't nourished it dies. The problem with many people is a lot of relationships are based on no love at all. Many people are trying to build relationships with no foundations or love.
When you open the door to someone else other than your significant other, you're setting the stage. Too many people open doors they should have kept shut. Setting boundaries can prevent headaches and heartaches.
Anyone who's okay with foul treatment from the one who supposed to love them, will always get what they allow and accept.
People get away with what you let them get away with. Meaning, a person will do to you what you allow. The more you allow and accept from someone the more power they have over you. It falls on you, because IF you give your power, it will be taken.
Many people think this is the proper way to love. They find themselves in unhealthy relationships trying to make a dead end relationship work. If you're not thinking about you, don't expect anyone else to think about you. People will use you until they use you up. Forgetting about yourself (mind, body, soul), your dreams, etc, doesn't benefit you.
Comfortable, because you're blind, blind, because you're comfortable, and manipulated because of the two. You're in an unhealthy relationship, but due to being comfortable and blind, you think it's healthy.
People will lie for as long as you buy into it. I know some people won't believe it, but you create the monsters in your life! People normally treat you how you treat yourself. If you don't act worthy of better, you will never have it.
Love is an action word. You can say it all day, every day, but if you never show it, your words fall on death ears. You must show love. Your talk and walk must align.
Many people miss who is meant for them, because of choices and decisions made. Things happen and opportunities are missed. Unfortunately, some people never experience true love. Instead, they settle for who they have.
Happy only because of someone else does nothing to help you to become better. If you're happy based on someone else it's not real nor will it be lasting. In order to have mental peace you have to find love and happiness within yourself first.
Believe it or not, many people are in relationships such as the one I'm talking about. If this is you, wake up! You may be down, but you can always get back up again. It's a choice! Never love someone so much you lose your way. That's not love!
If it has to be forced, you're setting yourself up for a let down. Sometimes a person may love you, but they're not ready to marry you. If you force it, you'll regret. Sometimes a person doesn't want to marry, because they don't want you or the marriage. If you force it, you'll regret it!
Too many people are in abusive relationships thinking it will get better. Well, maybe it won't! You can hope all day it doesn't mean the person will change. Who needs to change the most is you, the person being abused. Abuse shouldn't ever be tolerated by anyone for no reason! If you say or do nothing the first time; the second, third, etc. time, is right around the corner. Don't settle for, tolerate, or accept any form of abuse.
Your thoughts don't control, you unless you've given power to them and are consumed by them. Sadly, most people do give power to them and because of it, are lead into bad relationships, situations, and predicaments.
Some people are offended by the title, but that's because it's the truth. If you take crap you get crap, it's just that simple! If you allow a person to treat you badly, they will. If you allow and accept constant hurt and pain in your life, that's what your life will be filled with; hurt and pain. You teach your signficant other exactly how to treat you!
I can't live without you or don't want to live without you, I love you to death, etc., etc., is nonsense. Be mindful of your thoughts, feelings, and actions. You may find yourself in a bad situation. Also be mindful of what you allow and accept from others. You may find yourself in a bad situation.
You know it's true! Your ex's keep coming back, because you keep opening the door. You still have feelings you're hanging on to that's causing you to feel it's necessary to continue being available to your ex. Some people cause problems in their new relationships, because they can't let go of the old relationships.
What's left? Many people find out there's nothing left! They find they are in relationships they don't want to be in and shouldn't have ever been in.
Too many people fall for the okie doke! They go along blindly only to find themselves on stormy seas without a sail. Meaning they find themselves in bad situations they're struggling to get through, because they didn't ask questions or do anything along the way. They only went along to get along.
The title says it in a nutshell! Whether you do or don't is your choice, but when it's wrong, it's unhealthy. Whatever you allow is what you'll get.
When a person is comfortable and familiar they will sometimes open themselves up to things that aren't good for them. Being blind to reality and the truth keeps people in unhealthy relationships. A familiar love most times end up as no love at all. Mature and good adults do have a familiar love, but I'm not talking about those couples, I'm talking about people who get into and stay in relationships with people based solely on what they want, overlooking what they're actually getting. They become comfortable and familiar to a point of being stuck in loveless and unhealthy relationships.
You should know it's a lie, when all they do is hurt you. People treat you exactly how you've allowed.
Many people get into unhealthy relationships, because they choose what they think is love over reality. These relationships often become a matter of life or death. When you don't know what love is it means you'll more than likely fall for any and everything to get love, when as I say "it's not love at all." Be very careful of who you allow into your life. Everyone who looks good or makes you feel good, doesn't mean they are good for you. Ignoring red flags and signs can end up a matter of life or death.
What sense does it make? None! You shouldn't have to beg anyone to love you or to stay with you. This is an unhealthy relationship no one should be a part of, ever!
If it hurts re-assess, because it's not love. All relationships are subject to trials, but if it's hurting like this, you're putting yourself through self-inflicted pain, by what you're allowing and accepting. It's not love!
Although you don't want who you're with, you stay because your parents stayed until death or your parents are still together. Guess What? Some of your parents aren't happy either! Some of your parents weren't happy when they were together. Think about that! Just because people stay together doesn't mean they love each other, want to be together, or is committed to one another.
Many individuals are in this type of relationship. They are sad, mad, hurt, unhappy, and you name it. Yet, they settle for what they have when it's not what they want. You're your own problem if you settle for this type of relationship and you'll eventually feel the consequences of your choices.
The title speaks for itself! This is the unhealthy situation many find themselves in. Sadly, people make excuses to stay.
Sadly, many people are in these types of relationships. I talk more about negative relationships, because most people are in these types of unhealthy relationships. You can give your significant other the world and it still won't be enough for a person who's about self g ratification. All of it comes from what truly lies unresolved inside.
Some people find themselves always asking questions such as; "do you love me, why did you cheat, why do beat me, why do you hurt me, why do you treat me this way, why, why, why." Truth is if YOU loved yourself you wouldn't have to contend with being mistreated by the one who is supposed to love you. Why? Because you wouldn't allow or accept it in the first place!
It takes both individuals for any relationship to work! There are many people who claim to want their relationships to work, but they know it's a lie. If you want your relationship to work one thing for certain is you will work on it. Working on your relationship also requires individual's working on self in the process. Relationships can't get better if individuals remain the same!
Due to immature mindsets, many people get into or stay in unhealthy relationships. If you haven't matured, it means you don't know yourself. It also means you can't reach the next level remaining the way you are!
If you have to be controlling, possessive, and obsessive it's REALLY not the way to love AND it's a turn off. Stop pointing the finger of blame and see you have more fingers pointing back at yourself. You have more pointing back at you for a reason, which is because you are your biggest problem.
If your significant other try to manipulate you after they've been found cheating, don't fall for it! Love yourself and know your worth! You don't have to fall for the foolishness they try to bring.
I'm ONLY talking about being with lazy people with no ambition or goals, those who have nothing! I'm talking about people who ONLY care about what you have to offer. If they loved you so much they would care enough to bring something to the relationship other than their hands out to take from you! Those with nothing and are not trying to do anything to get something will ultimately become your burden. What made you laugh surely will make you cry! Stop giving everything to someone who's giving nothing to you other than headache and heartache!
It doesn't matter the race, the person, the skin color, etc if you don't have yourself together all of your drama you will take into your relationship/s. You will also allow and accept the drama from those you are in relationships with. Until a person deals with their inner issues, which are those things affecting their mindsets; those issues they won't face, don't face, or they try to hide; they'll never truly be able to love self and will always have problems when it comes to loving someone else.
Who are you kidding? Even if they told you those words you still wouldn't want to go and many still won't go. If you have to hear those words before you understand the situation you're in, it's of freewill. People show you the truth; if you don't or won't accept it, you're in your own way, you're holding yourself back, and you're keeping yourself in an unhappy place. People treat you exactly how you allow!
If someone leaves you for another person they weren't stolen, they walked away of freewill. They aren't the housewrecker/homewrecker. If you want to classify someone as either or it should be your significant other, because they're the one who brought the drama to the relationship. Stop self destructing over someone who walked away. Love yourself and let them walk!
Many people are in these types of relationships by choice. It's what people willfully allow in their lives. They allow self to be driven to the edge. They think what they allow themselves to go through is the proper way to love, but the truth is they obviously don't know what love is. You deserve better than what you're allowing in your life.
Many people settle for this way of life. They think by giving passes to their significant others it will make them remain in the relationship. Letting a person do whatever they choose to do to you will NOT cause them to love you more or want to be with you. Too many people become angry, sad, unhappy, revengeful, etc in their unhappy relationships. They get to points of wanting to commit or commintting senseless acts. They get to points of breakdown, depression, sadness, etc. No man or woman is worth it. If you're with someone who's making your life miserable, you're in your own way! You deserve better!
People who are stuck on needing closure are individuals who are still stuck on the other individual. I truly believe closure is an excuse. People break up, die, walk away without an explanation, etc, but regardless the situation or the person; life goes on.
A person may try to convince you by words they want to be with you, but their actions tells you something else. If they really want you there will be no doubt in your mind. If you have to guess and play their games, they don't want you! Wake up! If they want you they won't only talk the talk they will walk the walk! People treat you how you let them treat you!
Walking away isn't the big problem, staying is the problem. People open themselves up to too many unnecessary issues. People are in their own way! Wanting to be with someone who is no good for you, is no good for you!
People will make excuses as to why they stay in toxic and tainted relationships or bad situations in general. If you can't be honest about your unhealthy situation or state of mind, you'll more than likely stay where you are.
This episode has been put on all of my platforms. I want you, you, and you to listen. Know that no matter what you're going through it doesn't have no more power in your life than the power you give it. Anything and anyone will affect your life to whatever degree you allow. You can overcome drug and alcohol addictions.
Obviously some people believe there is a such thing as a respectful cheater, because they tell you they're cheating. That's ridiculous! Cheating is cheating and it's very disrespectful!
Look at the picture for this episode, it speaks loudly! Many people are in relationships where there is no trust. When you can't trust your significant other it causes many other issues within the relationship. Remember, people treat you how you let them treat you!
You keep falling into the trap of being catfished. You're being led into the wrong relationships, because you're always led by your heart, feelings, wants, and desires. When your mindset isn't in the right place you'll always be led into making bad choices and decisions. You'll believe a lie over the truth!
Being controlled by your significant other shouldn't ever be an option for you. A controlling person is often jealous, obsessive, and possessive. Not all are physically abusive, but they are abusive verbally, mentally, and emotionally. It is NOT love nor is it healthy!
Many people are in one-sided and unhealthy relationships. They are always putting their significant others first, but are not getting the same in return. When your significant other shows you what you mean to them, believe them! Stop choosing someone who's choosing his or herself and care less how you feel about it! People treat you how you allow!
A lot of people get into bad relationships from the start while relationships of other people turn bad once individuals start being who they really are. It doesn't matter which. If you allow and accept any ole thing, it's exactly what you'll get. Don't lose your mind, Instead focus on becoming the best you possible. You created the monster, that 's hurting you, (your significant other and yourself). You're the biggest problem in your life. Deal with you! Never allow your raw feelings and emotions to get you into trouble. It's not worth it and your significant other certainly isn't worth it.
Please ignore the air in the background. I couldn't hear it when I recorded it and didn't have time to re-record.
A lot of times you're interested , but they're not, sometimes they're interested and you're not. For a relationship to work, both individuals must be on the same accord. If you don't really know if they're interested, it is telling you something. Open your eyes!
Sometimes people do it to self and other times it's done through persuasion from the significant other. Either way it's of free will. People think it's a good thing, because their minds are on being with who they want to be with, but it's not!
I know some people don't want to believe it or will agree, but it's the truth, many stay in their unhealthy relationships, because they don't love self. As I've said many times if you want to know how you feel about yourself, look at what you allow and accept. Too many people lay down and are trampled on and over, because they think it's the way to love, when it has nothing to do with love.
Sooner or later it won't feel so good, but remember it's all about what you allow and accept.
Why allow anyone to treat you this way? If you act as if it's okay it will be okay by him/her. If they treat you as if you don't matter, it's probably because you don't! That is telling you a lot!!! Wake up!
If you take your problems into your new relationship look for more problems to come. Point blank and the end!
They are the things you accept and the things that will eventually make you cry. Overlooking things means you're okay with them. Remember, you teach people how to treat you (especially significant others).
Relationships take work, they will not and can not grow without work! If everything and everyone else is more important your relationship will suffer.
You're not in it by yourself, you can't do it yourself. It takes two to make relationships work.
If you stay because you're working on your relationship, fine. However, don't say you're staying for the children when they're going through hell enduring the stress of your relationship.
Unfortunately many individuals have died at the hands of people who supposedly loved them. Many individuals are in toxic, volatile, explosive, and unhealthy relationships. Sadly, many won't get out, because they will stay too long.
See the picture? It's a picture of someone who's willfully put their finger in a mice trap (willfully). Many people do this everyday. They willfully get into relationships with individuals who constantly hurt them. They hurt you, because you willfully hurt yourself by allowing and accepting what's done to you. Basically it's inflicting self hurt upon yourself!
Many people are dealing with insecure significant others and have realized it's too much to bear. Insecure people will always bring unnecessary drama into their relationships. These are unhealthy relationships to be in.
You knew they didn't show you affection from the start, but you accepted it. You overlooked this reality, now it's too much for you to bear. You find yourself feeling sad and mad that they won't show affection like you. Bottom line is if you really love one another you have to talk about it and work it out.
If it feels good, but is wrong, then it's definitely no good for you! Repeating, It's NO GOOD for you! Don't let it ponder in your brain, it's no good, period! Let it go and move on! Stop giving power to negative people and negative relationships.
When a person is sick and tired of your crap they may walk away. If walking away isn't what you want them to do, then you need to get your act together. Don't let your well run dry!
Some people are afraid of being alone, because they don't love self. They have internal issues concerning self, because of bad situations or bad things they've learnt along the way. They put time and energy into loving significant others, but none into loving self. They end up constantly and consistenly jumping into relationships to avoid being alone. It's the mindset!
Many people make excuses for bad treatment, disrespect, abuse, being taken for granted, being used, being walked over and on, etc. Stop enabling and empowering people to treat you like crap!
Why would they? If you are with a cheater you should know they lie. They will tell you what it takes to get what they want from you. Stop putting yourself in these terrible and unhealthy relationships. You could have and should have walked away!
Too many women are losing a sense of self in their relationships. Not only are they losing a sense of self, many have lost their lives. Wake up and wise up before it's too late. It's not love!
As I've always said they may be a part of the problem, but you're the one in your own way. Therefore, you're your biggest problem! Only you can change your situation by changing yourself.
Why? It's because you're your biggest problem. You cause yourself complete and total drama when this is the life you choose to live.
Some people go through pure hell for relationships they shouldn't ever be in. If you're allowing any and everything from your significant other you're definitely in your own way.
There's nothing wrong with dating, the problem is when people are chasing individuals for the wrong reasons and in the wrong ways, while totally disregarding the truth. Just because you want someone doesn't mean they feel the same about you There are always consequences for bad choices and decisions. Learning to see beyond your feelings takes growth and maturity. Some people never reach the level they can because they're too desperate and eager for love and companionship. Many people don't love self therefore they make everyone else (especially significant others) more important. This leads to all types of mistreatment.
Many people have missed the signs/red flags, which I consider as warnings. People want what they want. They'll dismiss the truth right in their faces until it can no longer be ignored.
Most people seek love, validation, completion, happiness, etc from their significant others without first possessing it within self. This leads to many unnecessary problems, drama, pain, headache, heartache, chaos, etc.
Yes you read the title correcty. It happens without fail! If you don't love yourself enough to see the patterns in your life you will constantly go through the unnecessary! People treat you exactly how you allow and accept. Sadly many allow and accept things in the name of love when love has nothing to do with it. You will never understand love until you love yourself!
If you have something good at home that's exactly where you should be! Don't be influenced into doing the wrong thing by anyone. Love who's at home loving you and doing the right thing by you. Do the right thing, because it's the right thing to do.
You hear about it all of the time. People are getting into relationships and right away are allowing significant others to move in. When it doesn't work out you find it's hard to get them out of your house. Stop being so quick to move significant others into your homes. Get to know who you're with first!
Despite the reason why, you can't fix whatever the problem is with your significant other. Many people have lost a sense of self trying desperately to love someone who doesn't want to be loved. A person can't love you if they can't love self.
This isn't meant as being egotistical. It means being aware of how you're being treated. It means being aware of what you allow and accept in your relationship. You created the monster you now have to deal with. You create the monster when you let your significant other treat you any way they want. If you take it they will dish it out!
Too many people settle for this type of relationship thinking their significant others will change. Why would they when they're allowed to do whatever they want to you? You teach people exactly how they can treat you by enabling them and making them think what they do to you is okay when it's not okay!
Your love for your significant changed when you finally realized they weren't willing to stop the shenanighans. Too many people accept and allow the shenanighans, but then they get to a point where they can't deal with them anymore. What they thought they felt for their significant other changed and they no longer feel the same. The things you see now is what you should have saw before. It is time to decide what to do next.
Plenty of people are in very toxic and volatile relationships. The relationship is stressful and full of constant drama. It causes family, friends, and others to not want you around because of who you're with. Everyone, but you sees your life as a train wreck waiting to happen. This is an extremely unhealthy and dangerous relationship.
Sadly most people are not. People get into relationships for all of the wrong reasons with the wrong people. However, because people want what they want they will get into relationships they shouldn't be in. There are many people who are married to people they're not evenly yoked with and people who aren't really meant for them. This is what happens when individuals chase after the flesh (desires, wants, feelings, emotions, self gratification, the superficial, etc). They ultimately end up in unhappy unfulfilled realtionships.
The title says it all! Some people still won't get it, because their focus is self gratification while their significant other's focus is the same (self gratification). Love isn't blind, people are!
This is a very unhealthy way to think, yet it's what some people do. Blaming yourself for the actions of your significant others keeps you in unhealthy relationships. All this does is empower and enable others to do whatever they want to you.
You'll become drained and beaten down trying to make an unhappy person happy. Happiness has to start within each of us. No one can give you what you must possess within self. Many people find out the hard way people only change, because they choose to change. You can't fix, save, or change anyone other than yourself!
When you think abuse is love it's clear you don't know what love is at all! People abuse because it's what they've grown accustom to doing. They are given permission when the person abused says and does nothing.
People do to you what you give them permission to do. If you don't know your worth, don't expect your significant other to know it. If you don't care neither will they!
Wrong choice! If you're not staying because you love who you're with and it's where you want to be; there's no other reason to stay. Many people are stuck in these types of relationships having the life zapped from them.
Most people think it's the other person when it's really self. If you choose a bad relationship it's by choice. An unhealthy relationship won't grow. If people loved self the way they want to be loved lives would greatly change. People are either preying or their the prey. Whichever it is it's by choice! A person prey on others because of what's inside. People allow themselves to be the prey because of what's inside. Your way is obviously not working, it's time to get off of the wheel.
Spending your life stuck in the same mindset doesn't help you become the best you possible. In fact it doesn't benefit you at all. Most people spend their life chasing love in others when they haven't found it in self. It's a recipe for disaster and dysfunction. Until you find yourself you'll forever be chasing what you lack in others.
Many people settle for all types of unnecessary crap in their relationships. A liar will do just that; lie! They're also manipulators and deceivers. What you choose is exactly what you'll get. Stop expecting more when you never required it.
If you feel smothered or suffocated in your relationship it means there's a conversation you need to have with your significant other. Don't conjoin yourself to someone because you think it's how you're supposed to love. Don't allow it to happen to you because you think it's how to love. It can become overwhelming.
Plenty of people are having emotional affairs thinking they aren't affairs. Wrong! It's an affair and it's wrong! If it's an affair it's cheating! Would you want your significant other to get into this type of relationship with someone? I think not! Therefore you shouldn't do it either! Don't try to downplay it because it is what it is, an affair!
People go through life wishing, hoping, and praying for relationships that are no good for them. Until a person has dealt with self and learn to love self, they won't be able to see the truth concerning the one they're in love with. Eyes are closed until people decide they want to see the truth. As I always say, people only treat you how you've allowed.
Anyone doing this will eventually learn happiness is short lived if it doesn't dwell within first. Happiness, love, peace, etc must lie within you first. Too many people seek those things in others only to find out the hard way it doesn't work. Basing your happiness on someone else will end up causing you to feel worse.
What you hoped for you now regret! Many find themselves in this type of relationship. Remember you create your situations by the choices and decisions you make. It comes from a place of unresolved issues most people refuse to deal with. Yet, lives are affected by it. People have to get to and deal with the core of their issues.
Some people find it difficult to move on. I believe a person should leave a relationship with no regrets. If you're not over a person it causes issues for new relationships. It's hard to move on when your life is interrupted by thoughts and feelings of your ex.
You must have a conversation about it. To keep holding in how you feel about it will only make you feel worse. You can't make someone love you if they don't love you. Remember, you're always treated how you've allowed.
Bottom line and the moral of this episode is you must look at yoursef! No matter what or who, if you're on the receiving end (taking it) you have to look at yourself. If you're the person causing the drama you have to look at yourself. When you have issues in your relationships learn to talk it out without yelling it out, fighting it out, or acting out! Blowing up doesn't help at all! It takes two mature and willing people to make a relationship work.
This type of a relationship is unhealthy and shouldn't be an option for anyone. Too many people are treated terribly in their relationships, yet they hang on to them. You're treated how you allow yourself to be treated. When they don't care, you must care!
There are actually many reasons couples grow apart, but the main reasons often contributes to how the relationship started and who each person really is versus who they pretend to be. Many people get into relationships carrying loads of baggage into relationships with others who have their own baggage. It causes more chaos!
Embrace being single! Stop making it a bad thing! Stop being fooled into thinking it's a bad thing. Being single is better than being in the unhealthy relationships many people choose to be in. It's better to stay single than to get into relationships with people who aren't good for you. You have to be happy alone, before you're happy with anyone else.
People are desperately seeking love. Most people are seeking love without understanding it must start with loving self. Loving yourself sets you up to be able be the best you can be and in a better mindset to know what true love is about!
Many people choose to settle in their relationships without understanding it comes from a dark place within. If people don't deal with their unresolved issues life will always be more difficult. People make bad choices and decisions, because they haven't dealt with their issues. Sadly it leads many people to settle in their relationships. They accept and allow things they shouldn't.
Most people are doing this in their relationships. You get exactly what you allow and accept. A truly sorry person makes a change. Individuals who are just talking to hush you up will always repeat their cycles. Remember, people treat you exactly how you've taught them and how you allow.
There are a lot of people who are in this category. It's a bad choice many people choose to make. If you feel who you're with have to lie and pretend with others, you're with the wrong person.
Many people are living this reality. People choose their addiction their addictions don't choose them. Sometime the love for the addiction outweighs the love for self and the significant other. The love you have for people who are addicted won't change, fix, or save them. You can only save, fix, or change yourself. It is hard dealing with people who are addicted especially when they don't want to change.
Don't do it! It isn't a good idea. Many people find out the hard way it's not a good thing to do and it causes problems within relationships. You're free to do what you please, but know when you really love who you're with if you want to keep it that way leave others out! Don't be influenced by anyone to go along with this mess.
Many people are stripped of power in their relationships. It's of freewill! Most people render themselves powerless when they allow themselves to be stripped in many ways. It all stems from what's inside of you! What's inside affects how you think, feel, and act.
There are many people who are very stressed out in their relationships. Every day they're going through something with their significant others leading to stress overload, anxiety, etc. Some people find it difficult to cope with the constant chaos. It leads to a mental break. No one should ever allow his or herself to be in a relationship with anyone and feel completely stressed out, afraid, exhausted, etc. It's important people not give their power to others to treat them any kind of way.
You must do it ALL of the time! It will eliminate a lot of drama from your life. You teach other people exactly how they can treat you! In your relationships the most appropriate way to handle things is by nipping things in the bud. This means putting a stop to things immediately! Another chance is another opportunity you give someone to do you any way they want to. That's unacceptable! You shouldn't be afraid, have to walk on eggshells or have to tiptoe around in your relationship.
Many people mess up their relationships when they carry old habits from their last relationships into their previous ones. Sometimes people have to change into individuals they don't like in order to survive their relationships. Then when those relationships end and they get with new people they tend to carry the same bad attitudes and behaviors into their new relationships. It's damaging!
It's wrong on all levels! This may step on toes, but it's alright! Figure out why you think so less of yourself. Know a cheater will cheat with you and anyone who goes along with it. You deserve better! It's fornication and adultery.
Sometimes relationships struggle with infidelities hitting close to home rather than outside of the home. It hurts a little different when you find out your significant other is messing around with or trying to mess around with one of your relatives. Remember a cheater will cheat with anyone.
The title means being involved with someone who's already in a relationship with someone else. Why do this to yourself? It's a terrible thing to do and it's totally trashy!
It's true, many people are in relationships with individuals who only want what they have to offer. They'll say or do whatever it takes to get what they want. Many people out of desperation fall for the manipulation. You will be sucked dry if you are too blind to see. They'll take your money and all you have to offer.
If he or she don't want to serve God, but you do; do it! Don't let no one separate you from Jesus! Sometimes through their playing church they lead you to Jesus, but the difference is you chose to serve Him for real. It may cause problems, but you stand on the Word of God. Don't let no one cause you to land in hell. Be about the Father's business, if you love Him you'll serve Him with honesty and truth. Any other way is living in vain!
When it comes to relationships you'll never get what you need or deserve by always settling. You'll always get from your significant other exactly what you allow. You teach them how they can treat you.
Many people do this! They're in abusive relationships, but for whatever reasons they don't tell anyone. If you hide your abuse it prevents you from seeking and getting help. It keeps you stuck exactly where the abuser wants you. Abuse of any form has nothing to do with love.
Nothing you do will never be enough. It won't do anything, other than make you even more miserable than before. Breathe life into yourself. Choose you!
If you think it will you have some growing to do. Too many people make it their everything, but that alone tells you the mindsets of people. When you grow and mature you can see the truth. Sex doesn't and never will keep your relationship afloat, it will take things much more important.
Many people are in these types of relationships and only the individual who's enduring it can make a change. Life is too short to be in unhealthy, volatile, and unhappy relationships. Many have lost their lives due to fatal attractions.
There's no comparison between real love and imitation love. What sets it apart is consistency and true positivity. Imitation love comes and goes in waves it is NOT consistent. Imitation love hurts a lot and it shows up to get what it wants; it's intermittent. Real love is shown all of time, it's consistent, positive, and true. Real love is displayed in and out of your presence.
Really think about it before you do! Don't make the same mistake over again. It sometimes work other times it doesn't.
I decided to revisit red flags and signs. It's been over a year since I first talked about it. Don't let your imitation of love get you in the wrong relationships with the wrong people for the wrong reasons. The red flags and signs don't lie!
It's tough being involved with controlling and jealous people. It is not a good thing and it causes riffs in relationships. In order to avoid the drama you must be able to see beyond your feelings, wants, and desires to keep you out of them.
You had the signs you seen the red flags, but because of how you feel, what you desire and want, and the nuggets you have been getting you missed those signs. You didn't want to believe what you know in your gut is true. People show the truth in the things they say and do, demeanor's, etc. you just have to be willing to see the truth. When they slip up they'll always pretend they're playing. That's your sign!
Many people are this way. They have shut off a particular group of people because of what some people have done to them. Deal with bitterness by getting to the root case. Stop inhibiting your growth, maturity, and opportunities, because of bad experiences..
Most people move solely on their feelings. The right choices has to made prior to pursuing relationships. People aren't able to make the right choices when they can't think beyond their feelings. The inability to do so often leads to disaster. As a woman I don't believe in chasing a man, but if you're interested, there's nothing wrong with an adult conversation. You can learn a lot through conversation.
If you don't talk it out how do you think you will work it out? People allow all types of things to get in the way of their relationships such as video gaming, friends, drugs, alcohol, sports, running the streets, etc In your relationship if anything becomes a problem you must be able to talk about it!
Many people love the wrong way and it ends up causing them a lot of unnecessary pain. People go through agony sometimes in the name of love when most times it's not love at all.
Never let the "honeymoon phase" end! Too many people don't give their significant others and their relationships the time and energy deserved. Any relationship takes work. When people stop working at their relationships they begin to die. Once fires are out sometimes they never restart.
If you allow skin color to be a factor in a decision to be with somone of another race, you're your own problem. If you have doubt, concern, etc. don't do it, because you will cause your own issues within the relationship. For individuals who are in interracial relationships love who you're with and don't allow anyone to cause issues within your relationships. Those who can't accept your relationships don't have to. However, don't allow it to affect the love you have for your significant other.
Many people think the grass is greener on the other side until they get on the other side. They'll cause unnecessary fights with you as scapegoats to get to the other side. Once they realize the other side isn't as green as they thought they realize their bad choices and decisions. Grow up!
You can't make someone love you. What you will do is cause yourself even more heartache and pain. Stop trying to force someone to love you when they don't love you!
The stress that comes along with loving a mentally unstable person oftentimes comes at a high price. It often leads to your own mentally.
There are many people staying in their relationships, because they feel it's the right thing to do, yet they have no connection with who they're with. They are left feeling lonely, sad, heartbroken, and unhappy. Many times people aren't in love with who they are with, yet they stay out of loyalty. Communicate how you feel!
Sometimes if individuals aren't willing to change the only other option is going separate ways. Sadly, many people would rather stay in the negativity than to be alone. It's all about the mindset.
I hope you know it's a lie! A cheater cheats, because it's what they choose to do. Don't be suckered into believing you're the reason they cheated.
Sometimes individuals get tired ot the shenanigansin in their relationships. They get tired of being taken for granted, cheated on, used, disrespected, and of the constant neglect, so they want out! They've given it their all and are finally tired of trying.
Many people fail their significant others when they don't give them the attention they need. This opens doors to unnecessary problems.
It is disrespectful, unacceptable, and hurtful. A person who can't keep their ex out of their mouth is a person who isn't over him or her. It's a problem!
Some people completely lose their minds when they meet someone and the chemistry is high. People often fail to take time to see if it's real, instead they fall head over heels into unhealthy relationships.
Too many people settle for these types of relationships. They get into relationships and end up very disconnected and feeling lonely. You get what you accept. Think about why you settle for this type of relationship. Know your worth!
Only you can answer this for yourself. Many people truly know they're being played and used, but they would rather go through it then to be alone. That's super sad!
In your relationship whatever you ok, is exactly what will happen. How you've taught your significant other to treat you is how you will be treated!
There are many people who lose a sense of self in order to be who their significant other's wants them to be. These people totally change to please significant others, but most time it's negative. You can't change who you are to please someone, especially when they have negative mindsets. It's not a healthy way to love.
It's very important to be mindful at all times and in all situations. I believe it's exceptionally important in relationships. If people look beyond their feelings to what is really going on they could avoid getting into terrible relationships. Abuse should never be an option for anyone.
Many people don't know what submission is and because of it they're controlled. Man's interpretation of submissive is controlling in nature, but it's not what God intended! Why do some people think a woman is supposed to be controlled by their man, but God doesn't control us? Don't be bamboozled!
Before some of you get mad, I know it doesn't happen with all people, but it does with many. It isn't a bad thing either way unless sex controls you. As we mature we understand life better and what we thought mattered most doesn't drive us like it once did. If it happens to you it is a major discussion couples must have in order to keep their relationships strong.
Many people settle for these types of unhealthy relationships. Believe it or not many people are living every day miserable, full of stress, and unhappy in these chaotic relationships. Sometimes all of the fussing can lead to more serious problems. Life is too short for the drama and constant chaos. Learn to love yourself!
Unfortunately many people find themselves in these types of unhappy relationships. People often bite off more than they can chew when they think they can change their significant others. It's difficult dealing with immature grown people,
Too many people settle for this in their relationships. People get complacent and comfortable forgetting to give one another the attention that's needed and deserved.
When you're in a relationship with someone who doesn't love you back, sadly you're in the wrong relationship with the wrong person, period and the bottom line!
Many people willfully choose to get into relationships giving their all to their significant others. The thing is most times they are givimg their all to individuals who are treating them like crap. You have to really and truly love yourself in order to know what real love is, when you do you won't settle for less.
You already know that's not the actions of a true friend, it's a so-called friend. Know the difference between a friend and a so-called friend. Many more so-called friends than real ones and they are sneaky. Don't be fooled, don't play the fool, and don't be afraid to nip this inappropriate behavior in the bud. Not tomorrow, but do it when it happens.
When people are chasing love and do not really understand what love is they often end up in unhealthy relationships. Many people will spend more time and energy trying to love others and work relationships out with others, than learning to really love self. It's all because of mindset and what's really inside!
You read it correctly! Trying to love two when you can't be faithful to one. Makes no sense! Many people get into relationships, but aren't committed.
You read it right! People choose abuse! How? They willfully get into bad relationships. They willfully are blind to the truth, because they want what they want until they find it's not good as they thought it was. There is always another option other than abuse!
Sadly people don't understand the detrimental affect being stuck in the past has on their lives. When people focus on the pain they've endured they continue to hurt. Getting past the pain requires doing things differently! Change won't happen unless it's implemented.
This is a terrible choice many have made. When you want someone who don't want you it can be disastrous! People find themselves in these types of situations when they are chasing love.
There are some people who willfully get into bad relationships with bad people and it leads to bad things. If you go into relationships blind you will cause yourself unnecessary grief. It won't happen sometimes it will happen every time!
In an earlier episode I talked about doing everything in a relationship such as being the initiator. This episode is different. It's about taking total care of someone who's sitting back putting all of the burden on you, because it's how you taught them to be. When people allow themselves to be taken for granted and used it will happen. Be mindful of what you call love and what you accept and allow in your relationships.
Although verbal it is still a form of abuse. Verbal abuse can affect a person emotionally (affecting your mental state) and physically (can lead to physical ailments). It should not be accepted under no circumstance.
If individuals feel a need to fight one another they really don't need to be together until they work on self. You should never allow anyone to get you to a point where you lay hands on them. You're responsible for your actions not the other person. You should never allow anyone to lay hands on you! This is a very volatile and unhealthy relationship.
If you're in a relationship and you're doing this, it is inappropriate! Too many people are in relationships doing all of the wrong things.
This is a terrible relationship to be in. If you find yourself if this type of relationship you know you're in an unhealthy relationship. Sometimes people lie an make excuses for their abusers, this only keeps you in the abusive relationship. Seek help!
This episode is the realization of many relationships, but people don't get it, because they are too focused on what they want. A person can't know love or love right until they first love self. You have to love that person in the mirror first! That's the truth! People dive into love accepting their versions of love as many awful things love is not!
If your significant other leaves you for someone else, life goes on. Never allow the choices and decisions of your significant other to make you feel bad about yourself or to doubt yourself. Grass isn't always greener on the other side!
Some people are in relationships "with strangers they once knew." Let that sink in for a moment! There is so much disconnect in relationships of today and it's because people are making everything and everyone more important. Relationships require attention, communication, and work, when they lack these things, people grow apart.
Couples who have to live their lives this way are unhappy and lonely people. There are a lot of couples who are acting as if their relationships are on solid ground when they are not. This behavior keeps relationships stuck in unhealthy places.
This mentality ruins lives, families, and relationships. If you haven't found happiness within yourself, you won't find it anywhere else. If you're not happy within yourself, nothing will ever be enough! Unhappy people are always seeking something, it's like trying to fill a bottomless pit!
Straight nonsense! This would definitely cause a lot of drama in relationships. People are wilfully getting into unhealthy relationships for all of the wrong reasons. If you aren't in love with who you're with then you shouldn't be with them, period!
Most people don't understand true love. Most people settle for any and everything in their relationships. Most people won't experience true love, because they are blind to the truth.
Many children are missing and some are found dead because they met someone on social media, other sites on the computer, and on their phones they knew nothing about. They were coerced and lured into dangerous and deadly situations, for which many were found dead. Parents know what your children are into.
I wrote want in the title, because most people don't know what they need. Oftentimes in relationships you find you're doing all the work and your significant other don't, can't or won't give you what you feel you want . It's why you should always look at what you allow and accept. The signs don't lie, take heed, before you find yourself in an unhealthy relationship. Sometimes you're chasing love when love is nowhere to be found!
Most people think their unhealthy relationships are healthy. It's because of wrong ways of thinking. Many people haven't dealt with what affects their ability to think clearly. People want what they want regardless of what they have to deal with until it becomes too much to handle. Most people compile the problems of others on top of their own. It is an explosion waiting to happen. It's the mindsets of many people keeping them in dark places unable to see clearly or see at all.
Sometimes people want you out of their life. They've taken all they can. They sometimes love you, but are too afraid to stay, therefore they feel the only option is to get out. If you want to remain where you're not wanted, you need to look at yourself. If you stay in a toxic and unhealthy relationship, you need to look at yourself. No matter the reason, if a person no longer wants to be with you, please move on peacefully!
Many individuals don't have life insurance or a will. While living is the time to take care of this business. No one should have the financial burden of burying someone, because they don't have life insurance. Getting wills is another important thing people should do.
Finances is a big issue in many relationships. There are some people who have broken up due to finance. If you discuss it in the beginning it will help eliminate problems down the road.
Some people who are in relationships have the mindsets of single people and it's wrong! A healthy relationship requires respect, commitment, dedication, faithfulness, integrity in and out of signifcant other's present. Unfortunately many are in relationships, but don't act the part when they are not with their significant others. People should do the right thing, because it's the right thing to do, period!
Addictions comes in many forms such as substances, food, sex, social media, video games, gambling, etc. They are habitual behaviors. Sometimes it is extremely hard to deal with. Many people lose self in trying to save, fix, or change their significant others. Supporting does not mean you should subject yourself to a lifetime of negativity. People have to want change for self and until they do the cyles will continue.
Many people are in unhealthy relationships because of the unhappiness and dysfunction within self. People take all of the drama wherever they go and into their relationships with significant others and other people. No peace inside means no peace outside!
The agendas of most people are different from yours. When you don't understand who you are and love self it will always affect your decisions and choices in life. Most people are preying on others or they are the prey. That's just the truth! There are people who aren't in either category, because they have gotten to another level of maturity in life. Unfortunately many haven't and they often find themselves in unhealthy relationships and bad situations.
Most people don't understand how detrimental it is to control the negativity they think, and control their feelings, emotions, and actions. The bottom line is it all comes from how you think. Everything else follows your ways of thinking. Unfortunately many are stuck in the same places, because they don't choose to change their ways of thinking. It is why we constantly see people put themselves in bad relationships and/or situations. It all stems from your ways of thinking which fuels feelings and actions.
If there's abuse of any form towards anyone you should always seek help for it. Understand abuse can come in different forms other than physical (mental, verbal, physical, emotional, etc). Keeping abuse secret is never a good thing. Otherwise, learn to keep your business between you and your significant other. Too many people mess up their relationships by running their mouths! If you're not happy, work on it. However, if you're staying in the relationship, keep your business out of the streets. Telling your friends, family, etc is putting it in the streets. Many people's agendas and motives are different than yours.
Family is family! It's important to deal with all issues prior to blending families together. Many individuals fail to and they find themselves in very difficult relationships. It's tough for all involved! Remember your blended famiy is more than the couple when children are involved.
If you never get to a point in life of being tired of being sick and tired you will more than likely keep going through what you've been going through. Change starts with you. I believe as far as human beings go, love should start with loving you first. This is a task many fail and because of it people find themselves in terribly unhealtly relationships. Only you can change your situation. If you're waiting on someone else to make life better for you, you're looking at the wrong person. You have to start with you!
There are many people who settle for relationships where significant others are away from home more than they are at home. Sadly it's not due to work. It's everything else. A lot of times everyone and everything is more important. If you accept it, you're part of your own problem. If you don't want to go home due to the toxic environment you can't deal with your problems if you don't talk about them. Too many people add problems on top of problems. If you want relationships to work, you have to work on them.
What you believe about yourself is shown in all you do. Many individuals think more of other people than they do self. You are worthy of greatness, but you have to believe it!
There are many people who never attempt to build healthy foundations for their relationships. All they want is a relationship. Many are in relationships, but are not committed to them. They aren't working to make them better. They are simply in them.
There are a lot of people who walk out and or away when their significant other need them the most. When a person is sick it's not the time to leave them. Unfortunately people do just that! They leave during their significant other's darkest days. It's wrong and defintely not how to love someone.
Most people are doing this every day. People think they know, but they have no clue what love involves. This is why millions are in unhealthy relationships and can't find any peace. Until people are ready to accept the truth they will not embrace the need to change.
Sadly most peope don't do it and won't do it! If you figure yourself out you may be better at understanding someone else. Love doesn't start with anyone other than yourself. Get that right before moving on!
Many people are in dead end relationships and instead of doing something about it they stay. Many relationships are pure unhealthy, yet people stay. If you're unhappy don't look to your significant other to make you happy; they won't! Happiness starts with you Sooner or later people realize things aren't going the way they want or like. Most times signficant others showed you who they were, you didn't believe it. If you want a change you have to make it happen.
People don't realize how they cause most of their own problems. They are prisoners to their own ways of thinking, yet most people blame others or at least someone for how they have chosen to become. Although people have no chains they are walking around in mental bondage due to their own negative ways of thinking. Until mindsets change lives will continue to be affected, relationships will be affected, children will be affected, ability to grow and mature will be affected, choices and decisions will be affected, and so will many other aspects of a people's lives. Change starts with you!
All of the dysfunction in the lives of many comes from what's inside. If not dealt with it will always cause problems in the lives of many. It's all about the negativity within, which affects mindsets causing many people to make bad choices and decisions. The reason people keep going through the same things is because they haven't dealt with their issues. Instead they try to hide, pretend they don't exist, or ignore them. Those things causing you pain and sorrow will always affect your life if you don't deal with them, work them out, and move on in life. Most people take their dysfunction into their relationships.
You loving him or her doesn't matteri if you're not getting it in return. A good healthy relationship takes the love of two individuals. The problem with many people is they try very hard loving their significant others, but they are only getting chaos in return. No matter what they give they get nothing in return, but chaos. Someones love isn't enough and people have to walk away.
You have to develop a better mindset to want to move on and start over. Don't be forced into it, if you do it will be more difficult. Do it because it's what's best for you! Don't stay with someone who don't want you, who don't appreciate you, or don't deserve you! Never allow the fear of starting over keep you where you shouldn't be or where you aren't wanted! If you do, you have to take the responsibility for your actions.
I'm not condoning sex before marriage. I know most people don't think this way, therefore I am expressing my thoughts and views on the journey of celibacy. Sex isn't everything, yet most people act as if it is. Celibacy is a beautiful and personal journey of growth. People have no idea the self development and awareness that occurs during this journey.
Many people have created situations they now resent and regret. They are mad, sad, resentful, and downright upset with how they've lost themselves in their relationships. Remember, change starts with you! If you don't like it, you can change it!
It's unacceptable and pathetic the way some people parent. Every negative thing you do has the potential to affect your child for a lifetime. Parent's/Caregivers don't understand the devastation they are causing their children. It's sad!
Many people have absolutely ruined their lives because of what they think is love. This is what happens when individuals don't really understand what love is and are led by their feelings. They find themselves in unhealthy relationships with toxic people.
Most people don't understand their unhealthy ways of thinking, feeling, and acting affects the choices and decisions they make. It affect relationships all over the world, yet many continue to get into unhealthy relationships with unhealthy people. You must deal with who you are first!
Sadly many people around the world are this way. People only open their eyes to the truth when their situations are too overwhelming to handle. If people begin to see beyond their feelings which are fueled by their negative thoughts they could avoid many negative situations and relationships.
Many people walk around every day as if all is well when it's furthest from the truth. There is absolutely no benefit to it, because it inhibits the ability to go. You can't ever heal from what you pretend do not exist. People are in relationships around the world plagued by dysfunction, because they haven't dealt with self. If all isn't well it's okay to say all isn't well. There's no shame in it. The shame is people live with dysfunction when they don't have to. Change your mindset it changes your life.
This episode can relate to all facets of life. The way people think seriously affect their relationships. However, in this episode I am talking specificially about anxiety and sleep issues. If you truly work on it, you can win the battle!
Many have experienced losing a loved one. I can't tell anyone how to deal with their losses or how long to grieve, however, I will say life goes on. No one should stay in negative mindsets. Many people find it difficult to move on. Some people lose themselves because they can't cope with their losses. You fail yourselves and your loved ones when you don't move on. I pray hearts and minds heal all over the world!
I know society says a gold digger is someone who is after someone with a lot of money and it's normally a woman. I never agreed with that. My version of a gold digger is a person who specifically uses a person for what they can get from the person such as (money, positions, and material things). Gold diggers are after more than money, they are taking anything they can get. This is my view and opinion of gold digger's who are lying and deceiving many in their relationships. They are both male and female
Children are in bad situations all over the world. Many are failed by parents, other caregivers, other adults (pastors, club leaders, teachers, and many other professions), different agencies, family members, friends of the family, etc. It is very heartbreaking the things children are dealing with. People don't understand the devastation they are causing their children. What children are going through affects them for a lifetime if there's no intervention. They become dysfunctional adults. I pray for children, because they need it.
Temptation will come, but you don't have to succumb to it. You can resist it if you choose! If you don't want to love and do right with who you're with, then it's not about them, it's about you and the issues you have not resolved!
A man who doesn't work doesn't eat and that's how it should be. It's biblical! If you're not trying to contribute you shouldn't be allowed to reap the benefits of her labor. Unfortunately many men do, because it's what their women allow. You get exactly what you accept and allow. Too many women accept this type of foolishness in their lives in the name of their perceptions of love!. It's not love!
People all over the world have this opportunity to work on their relationships. If you're in a good relationship you can make it even better. If you're in an unhealthy relationship you can make it better. The problem in unhealthy relationships comes from the mindsets of the individuals involved. It the same that goes for good positive and healthy relationships, It goes back to the what you can't see (what's inside the core). Take this opportunity and make the best of it! Change your mindset it changes everything else!
I put this in Relationship Chronicles, because it applies to all types of relationships with (significant others, family, friends, and others). This is a beautiful opportunity for change in the lives of millions. People all over the world have the opportunity to become better by dealing with self. If you get you together, you will be better in all aspects of your lives. Change the way you think, you will change how you feel, and act.
Sadly people don't do this and because of it they make many bad choices and decisions in their lives. If people learn who they are they can then stop pretending to be who they are not!. Start by dealing with the true you, forgiving, and loving self. If you do it will change lives. Too many get into toxic and unhealthy relationships, because of their own dysfunction.
Is when you should run! That should be the end of it! Unfortunately we know it's not the case. When people move forward in these types of relationships they are causing their own problems.
It's a question many already know the answer to. What you decide is up to you, but please make no more excuses for remaining in unhealthy relationships. If you do, you are your own problem!
As I've always said, love isn't blind, people are blind. They are blind to their feelings and emotions. They want what they desire. People seek self gratification no matter the troubles it brings. They either fail to see the signs/red flags or they see them, but ignore them. It leads to chaos.
People can't do you any kind of way they choose if you do not allow it. Many have found themselves in relationships where they no longer want to tolerate the monsters they created. People indeed create many of the monsters in their lives then they can't deal with them. Only you can change it!
Many people take care of everyone other than self. This oftentimes leads to mental, emotional, and physical breakdown. Sometimes people exhaust their finances as well. It's not a healthy way to love!
Sadly many people are trying, but it never works. Unfortunately, many people find themselves in hell trying to love it out of who they're in love with. Love starts with loving you, if you don't you will always be chasing love, but all you'll find is dysfunction.
Sadly many people get into relationships built on sex and later find they don't have anything solid. Being friends first gives relationships the opportunity to develop strong bonds. It's important to be friends first and it's a sign of maturity.
Many people settle for these types of relationships. It's a very unhealthy relationship. Regardless of how you feel it's not love!
A person will take from you until you're completely exhausted, and even then they will try to get more. However, it's only because it's how you've taught them to treat you.
It happens often. When relationships start wrong they end wrong. Ending doesn't mean separation. Many couples are together, but are not in love. Sadly, some individuals who in relationships together don't even like each other. It's completely unhealthy.
The real deal is irrefutable. It is priceless and breathtaking. Real love is absolutely beautiful. Many people are settling in their relationships. They are accepting imitations of love and not the real deal! Many are chasing love when they don't know what it is!
Some people will hold on to their unhealthy relationships just to say they are in one. When it's not right, it's wrong for you, period! I don't care how much you love him or her, it won't make it right when it's wrong.
Many people lack the ability to communicate and it causes strain in their relationships. I believe people should definitely be able to communicate effectively prior to going deeper into relationships or getting into marriages.
Many people are broken hearted because they love who they are with so much, but it's not enough to keep them home. It's not about you! Many people are very unhappy and sad because they feel they're doing their best by their significant others, but they still won't stay home. Again, it's not about you, it's about what they want and desire. It has everything to do with their unresolved issues and the need to mature.
This is a very unhealthy way to start a relationship, yet many people are doing this every day. You don't know love if it doesn't first start with you loving yourself. People treat you only how you allow.
People accept so much foolishness in the name of what they think is love, when it's not love at all.
If you think it does it's proof you don't know what it is! People are putting high stakes and prices on love when it's not love at all.
If you muster the strength to leave never go back to be abused some more. If you go back it could be your end! Abusers are manipulative and they will do any and everything to change your mind. Stand firm, don't go back! They will blame you for everything, even for the abuse you endure!
There are many people who are messing up their good relationshps with their foolishness. They expect significant others to be everything they are not (faithful, dedicated, committed, true, loving, loyal, etc). It's sad how many tear up their relationships because of their own unresolved issues.
Most people don't know the difference because they are blind by their feelings, wants, and desires. Lust is like a bottomless pit it's never satisfied. Sadly many think it's love when it's nothing, but lust! Love starts with you! When you love you, you'll never chase love or lust!
People are blind due to their feelings, their hearts, and their ways of thinking. People see what they want and nothing else until it's too late.
Many people have no idea what's going on right under their noses. They don't know anything going on as far as finances and personal things like insurance, wills, bills, etc If you are out in the cold you will find it's a terrible pace to be. Know what's going on in your households. It's just the smart thing to do!
Many people are rushing into sexual relationships. It's bad enough to do it period, but some people are doing it with strangers. You have to be smart about what your doing. Keep playing with fire, you're bound to get burned. Do the smart thing and do the right thing!
When people allow their inability to trust to remain unresloved it follows them into every relationship they have. What's inside is always coming out!
If people don't deal with their dysfunction they will continue the same cycles in life. It is within the individual until they decide to change. When you learn to love self you no longer tolerate or allow dysfunction. Try it!
Can you hear the music accomodating this episode, it's on repeat, which is the way these types of relationships are going; absolutely nowhere! One-sided love can't grow!
It's okay when you use your brain and your mental state is positive. Otherwise it is not! Many people are following their hearts into terrible relationships. They aren't seeing or thinking clearly.
No matter what you do or how much you do it will never make who you love love you. It will not make a person feel for you the way you feel for them.
The old saying is true "everything glitters isn't gold." Many couples put on acts when they go out in public, because they try to hide the truth from others. In unhealthy relationships this does not help you.
Most people truly don't have a clue, they are led by how they feel, what they want, and desire. Many people are blind to the truth. Love isn't blind, people are blind by their feelings and emotions. They can't see the truth, because of the inability to see beyond their feelings. When people are this way they always miss the signs (the truth).
People think it's love when love has nothing to do with it. People allow themselves to be in terrible situations and unhealthy relationships in the name of what they think is love. People who believe it's love are individuals being led by their feelings.
When you stay on the same course doing the same negative things, negative is what you will always get. Change starts with you, if you never choose it, your only option is to remain the same.
If cheating is what you're about, stay single and keep the shenanighans to yourself. Stop hurting people who love you and who you claim to love. You're the problem!
We should love people, but in healthy ways. You can't please everyone, ever! You literally may die trying. If you allow people to use you up, they will do just that! Learn the importance of loving and taking care of self.
I said walk, but really you shoud RUN! No matter how subtle never ever allow abuse. If you allow abuse it grows like a wild fire.
Some people need to grow up! Staying faithful to the thought of marriage, but not to marriage is crazy. Not okay with divorcing, but okay with cheating. Wrong answer!
Being in relationships with these types of individual is tough. There's a lot of maturing needing to take place between adult children and their parents.
People think things will change once they marry. It's such a delusion. If you let it slide while dating, expect it after marriage. If you allowed it during dating expect it after marriage. Problems don't go away, they intensify.
Many people are in relstionships they don't want to be in with people they don't want to be with. These are very unhappy and unhealthy relationships.
Some people never set boundaries. Therefore lines are always crossed between significant others and your friends. These types are normally so-called friends (fake). Be vigilent
People will do to you exactly what you allow and accept. If you act as if it's okay with you, best believe it will be okay with them. Know your worth!
There are many people who have lost self in dead end relationships. Sometimes people love who they are with mucn more than they love self. They lose self trying to hold on to someone who care less. Open your eyes to the truth!
Some people will allow nonsense in order to say they are in a relationship. They do anything to say they have a girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, or wife. It's sad! Dead end relationships can go nowhere!
Lies!!! You can most certainly control who you fall in love with if you are intentional. If your eyes are open to the truth you can control your feelings. If not your feelings will control you every single time.
Stop trying to force your way into the lives of people. It will never work. Many people themselves unnecessary problems by falling in love when the only relationship is what they've formed in their heads. It's a sad situation to be in.
To feel this way means you need a reality check! Your life is what you make it. Despite the obstacles, situations, or circumstances, what you choose is your decision. There are always consequences and repercussions! People willfully add fuel to their fire,
Actually it's a shallow way to think. Because a person goes to church doesn't mean they have the church in them. It doesn't mean they are about the Father's business. It doesn't mean they have any connection at all with Christ. Be specific in your prayers and most of all if your relationship with Christ isn't real, time is winding up!
The very people you think wouldn't allow themselves to be abused are in abusive relationships. Abuse isn't love at all! Abusers are manipulative they take power and control when it is given. People only do to you what you allow!
Many people start relationships off the wrong way, therefore many end the wrong way. When there is no foundation many will relationships fail.
Feelings and emotions leads people into bad situations if unchecked. Thoughts that you give power to controls how you feel and act.
Cheaters will do juist that! Nothing or no one will change their behaviors Only a cheater can change who they are, until then they will cause problems in their relationships.
Ridiculous right? Getting into dead end relationships says a lot about individuals. If a person doesn't love his or herself enough not to do this they will receive exactly what they allow.
There are many red flags people miss due to feelings of their hearts. People want what they want when they want it. Many are led into terrible relationships due to being led by their feelings and not using their brains.
This show starts with an episode about loving self. If a person can't love self it will cause a lot of drama in their life. People will treat you exactly how you allow!