“A” Perspective w/ Aaron & Ashley: Recent Episodes
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From personal success stories to life challenges. From romantic relationships, platonic friendships to “sex drugs and rock n roll” Aaron and Ashley are talking about EVERYTHING. Since reconnecting freshman year of undergrad Aaron and Ashley have been laughing (or at least trying to) their way through a lot together.
“Fun, energetic, real, ‘like you’re talking to your best friends,’ funny, relatable.” -Ashley Richardson
“Selfishly free therapy.” -Aaron Jones
When you’re going over a date’s house that you met on an app what’s more concerning, seeing no books around or if they don’t have filtered water? Are you going over their house or having them come to yours? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out why Pizza Hut was a topic during #UnderMySkin. From Harry Potter to Insecure we’re discussing a few shows during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron discusses if people really do better when they know better. Ashley talks friendship code and if working for your friend’s ex breaks it.
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While there’s only 10 episodes, there is still plenty to discuss as we continue with season 7 of The Game.
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One of these iconic portrayals has to go: Jamie Foxx as Ray Charles, Angela basset as Tina turner, Denzel as Malcolm x, or Jennifer Lopez as Selena. In your opinion what is difference between applying pressure and harassment? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out who had to hop a curb in their car and why during #UnderMySkin. Insecure the fifth and finale season shows up during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about the validity of reaching out to someone months or years later to apologize. Aaron talks about navigating critiques or harsh opinions of loved ones in professional spaces.
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Introducing Keira and Blue as we say goodbye to Melanie and Derwin in season 7 of The Game.
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Does cheating “Up” make it better? How much responsibility does the instigator bare for the outcome of a negative situation? Aaron & Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode? Find out what happened on a Tuesday night at 10:00 and why it made it to #UnderMySkin. There’s a bunch of great shows being discussed during #WhatAreYouWatching including Queen Sugar. Aaron discusses the thin line between great customer service and bad customer. Ashley discusses family and the thin line between protecting your peace and letting family into your personal space.
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We’re keeping it going with season 5 of The Game! Let’s welcome Chardonnay aka Brandy to the family!
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Denzel Washington- JohnQ or MalcolmX? Julia Roberts- Steal Magnolias or PrettyWoman? Angela Basset- Waiting To Exhale or What’s Love Got To Do With It? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Dogs hanging out in the gym shows up during #UnderMySkin while someone started watching Izombie on Netflix during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley discusses her friendship “turn-offs” and Aaron talks about his friendship “boundaries” when being honest. We’re talking friendship!
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Yup, we’re talking about season 4 of The Game! Two words: cotton swab.
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The Dream- Falsetto or Rockin’ That Shit? Chris Brown- Run It or Gimme That Remix? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out who locked themselves out of the gym during #UnderMySkin and who watched Suicide Squad during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about “dignity” in reaching out to someone who’s hurt you and wonders if it’s worth it. Aaron talks about “open” relationships and wonders if that’s even possible.
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“How bout a round of applause” (in Tasha Mack’s singing voice) for season 3 of The Game! ~~~~ 2:45 Derwin/Melanie 22:23 Jason/Kelly 31:56 Tasha 39:43 Malik
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Is there a statue of limitations on cheating? How do you feel about a women “retiring” her husband because she can financially support him? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out who was charged over $4k and why during #UnderMySkin. Have you seen Flight Attendant? Are you watching the new Gossip Girl? Well we are and talking about it during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron explains “family business” and discusses what the rules are when talking about it with non-family members. Ashley explains “erotic massages” and discusses if it’s an appropriate thing to get when you’re married. ~~~~ 1:13 5Questions 18:54 Under My Skin 30:40 What Are You Watching 39:40 Family Business 46:25 Erotic Massage 1:08:45 What Are You Looking Forward To 1:10:00 Reflections
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“Dancing and emphasizing, dancing and emphasizing” right into season 2 of The Game! ~~~~ 2:46 Melanie/Derwin 25:36 Malik/Tasha 32:57 Kelly/Jason
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In spades is saying “play to win” considered talking across the table? With all the reboots that have been happening in television and movies, if you could reboot foods which ones would you bring back? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. If you’ve never heard of Cicadas before ‘you gone learn today’ as they show up during #UnderMySkin. Find out who started watching Lucifer during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about making peace with situations that’s don’t turn out the way you expect. Aaron explores doing your ex a favor, especially when kids are involved.
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On this week’s Minisode we’re talking about Derwin and Melanie, Kelly and Jason, Tasha and Malik…. YES! We’re discussing The Game season 1.
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Should polyamarous relationships be normarlized? What areas of your life do you still struggle to put yourself out there in your friendships? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Chipotle charging extra on the kid’s meal?! Find out more during #UnderMySkin. Season 2 of A Black Lady Sketch Show is back and we’re excited about the ‘A Different World’ intro. Aaron explores “marriage is just a piece of paper” statement while Ashley discusses cheating and friendships. “That's what friends are for, for good times and bad times, I’ll be on your side forever more.” Dionne Warwick
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We’re talking boundaries w/ friends, family, relationships, and at work.
Friends 2:26 & 14:45 Family 8:35 Relationships 22:00 Work 29:10
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If a rapper had to freestyle on the spot to save your life, who are you choosing? Is it possible to be in a marriage and not cheat? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out why Siri and auto correct were the star of #UnderMySkin and see if you can relate. Law and Order: Organized Crime is reexamined during #WhatAreYouWatching. SPOILER, it’s a good show. Ashley asks if inconsistency hurts a relationship and Aaron wonders if it’s possible to be free in a relationship.
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Stabler’s back! We’re discussing the Law & Order SVU and Organized Crime crossover event. Were you excited to see Benson and Stabler on screen again?! Also, are friendship dates normal?! Listen as they answer this question and explore the different opinions given on social media.
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You decide to reach out to someone who you haven’t talk to in over a year, what’s the first text you send to them? Is the missionary position too intimate for someone you’re not in a relationship with? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out why Ashley’s macaroni and cheese experience showed up during #UndersMySkin and Aaron’s discussing Grey’s Anatomy and it’s shocking death in #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron wants to talk about all things relating to the “first phone conversation” after his recent experience. Ashley uses an episode of Superstore to discuss remembering a pivotal argument amongst friends and what it means when one does and one doesn’t..... “When’s the last time you did something for the time?” -Drake
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We’re playing 5 Questions: Panorama/Panasonic Edition (COVID-19)
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During the bachelorette or bachelor party your fiancé ends up getting more than a lap dance. Is it considered cheating? If you could recreate Oprah’s Legends Ball, name 5 legends and 5 youngins you would celebrate? Aaron and Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out who’s neighbor’s are in #UnderMySkin and what they did to get there. Grey’s Anatomy is back so we’re discussing it during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about dealing with a fallout between siblings. Aaron wants to know when it’s appropriate to introduce “sex talk” when getting to know someone.
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Do you have to lose yourself in order to find happiness?
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Would you apologize to someone if you believed you were not in the wrong? What is a genuinely innocent question yet usually offensive to the person it’s directed at? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this weeks’s episode. Find out why McDonald’s Sweet Tea made it to #UnderMySkin and someone finished watching Psych during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron talks about experiences that may or may not define who we are. Ashley talks about falling in love again and if it’s possible to have that “puppy love” “first love” “innocent love” a second time.
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“Watch out world I’m grown now, I’M GROWN!” We’re digging into our top three storylines since the return of Grown-ish. #WhatAreYouWatching
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What would you do if a close friend was trying to trick another close friend into thinking their baby was theirs? Have you ever dated someone to make others jealous? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more on a Bridgerton inspired #5Questions. Find out why Sprint, now part of T-Mobile ended up getting #UnderMySkin and what someone thought of The Little Things during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about how to celebrate Valentine’s Day in a relationship where every day is Valentine’s Day. Aaron is thinking about dating, in a pandemic.
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We’re discussing ‘Girl Like Me’ from Jazmine Sullivan’s latest project Heaux Tales.
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Antoinette’s Tale, Ari’s Tale, Donna’s Tale, Precious’ Tale, & Amanda’s Tale- we’re using Jazmine Sullivan’s project Heaux Tales on this week’s episode during #5Questions. The lack of respect for personal space during a pandemic shows up during #UnderMySkin while someone forgetting to watch Grown-ish almost caused the episode to end early during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron discuses the “American Dream” and wants to know how our idea of success has shifted over the years. Ashley explores the boundaries of discussing your past when you’re with both your partner and friends; is it possible to respect your partner and be true to yourself?
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Have you heard Jazmine Sullivan’s new project Heaux Tales? Well if you haven’t listened, we’re sure after you hear this you won’t hesitate to press play. On this week’s Minisode we’re discussing the song ‘Lost One’ and asking is it selfish to make those kinds of request to an ex? ALSO, did you hear about the upcoming season of Issa Rae’s Insecure?
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“Let’s talk about sex baby!” Name a time in your life where you were emotionally slutty (revealed too much too soon)? What’s something you find comfort in that could be holding you back from the next level? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week's episode. It’s a new year but the same things are still getting #UnderMySkin as parents and commercials show up during this part of the show. During #WhatAreYouWatching we’re discussing Netflix’s Bridgerton as well as SVU and who we’re looking forward to seeing come back this season. Ashley discusses being comfortable talking to friends about sex and how detailed you should get. Aaron talks about the impact a past experience can have your future self, even after you’ve “moved on.”
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HAPPY NEW YEAR! We’re kicking off 2021 recapping our favorite #5Questions of 2020.... So press play to hear the 10 we choose and we’ll see you soon with new episodes and fresh minisodes!
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Go back to your ex or repeat 2020? Should sexually fluid men notify men that they’ve been with other men? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Someone had 3 things to talk about during #UnderMySkin, including washing their face with dish detergent. During #WhatAreYouWatching find out who’s falling for Law & Order SVU all over again. Aaron talks about the imbalances in certain types of relationships and if it’s sustainable. Ashley discusses normalizing revenge and the imbalance between those who carry out revenge and the reason why they did it.... MERRY CHRISTMAS! ~~~~ 1:06 5Questions 19:17 Under My Skin 25:19 What Are You Watching 36:28 “A” Perspectives 1:19:01 Reflections
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It’s FIIIIVE QUESTIONS (Whoo-Whoop!)
Agree or no- Independent women will never ask for anything so you should just offer or do for them. Something you’ve learned in 2020 and something you missed in 2020 What would you do if you had to chose between saving the mother of your child or saving the child at Itself? Rate yourself 1-10 and you cannot use 7? What are you “must haves” when you’re moving?
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Is twerking acceptable brunch behavior? What’s one thing you want your exes to be able to say about you even after the breakup? Aaron & Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Some people don’t respect the rules of public bathroom etiquette. Find out how this and sloppy joes ended up in #UnderMyskin. Law & Order SVU and Grey’s Anatomy are back in #WhatAreYouWatching! Ashley talks about the importance of the Christmas holiday in relationships. Aaron wants to know when does saying what’s on your mind cross the line.
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We’re thankful for YOU.... and few other things!
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It’s bitter sweet but the end (if that’s what they wanna call an ending) is here and on this week’s #Minisode we’re discussing season 8 of Girlfriends.
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Can masturbation become boring? Explain. Chili and cornbread or chili and rice? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out whose neighbors and why Apple showed up during #UnderMySkin. During #WhatAreYouWatching we continue our dissection of “My Giirrllfriends (myyyy girlfriends)” with season 7 episodes 12-22. Aaron talks about the 18/30 18/90 rule and why some parents should reexamine their part in who their children have become. Ashley uses a hilarious play to have a serious conversation about the influence mothers have on their child’s relationships. —— 1:24 5Questions 16:16 Under My Skin 27:09 What Are You Watching 59:39 “A” Perspective
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Season 7 Episodes 1-11 of MY GIIRRLFRIEEENNNDSSSS (myyyyyyy girlfriends).... #Girlfriends #WhatAreYouWatching
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If you could no longer watch one of these Mara Brock Akil shows which one would you give up and why- The Game, Being Mary Jane, or Girlfriends? If your friend gets with someone who you’ve had a relationship with before do you tell them? Would you want to know if it were you? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find why a trip to the nail salon showed up during #UnderMySkin- it may shock you. We’re on to season 6 of MY GIIRRLLFRIENDS during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about double dating while Aaron discusses asking questions vs. being told information while dating.
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Season 5 of MY GIIRRLFRIEEENNNDSSSS #Girlfriends #WhatAreYouWatching
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Think about someone that loves you and they’re not family- how would you describe their love? Unpopular opinion: Kripsy Kreme is trash.... yes or no? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Traffic OH traffic! Why do you always show up during #UnderMySkin. A quick Big Brother recap starts #WhatAreYouWatching while season 4 of #Girlfriends dominates the conversation. Aaron talks about assumptions that create tension in friendships. Ashley discusses roommate etiquette when your boyfriend/girlfriend is over. ~~~~ 1:06 Business 1:32 #5Questions 12:03 #UnderMySkin 15:02 #WhatAreYouWatching 56:51 “A” Perspective 1:24:14 Looking Forward 1:26:34 #Reflections
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Season 3 of “My GIIRRRRLL FRIENDS....” #Girlfriends
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24 hours with Drake, 24 hours with Beyoncé, or 24 hours with Will Smith? Unpopular opinion: you don’t need to flush after you pee; agree or no? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out why “Yo-yo” and a dog showed up during #UnderMySkin. My Giiiiirrrlfriends has become a long term resident at #WhatAreYouWatching! Ashley uses an @instagram post to lead a conversation about appropriate behavior between two parents who are no longer together. Aaron explores the mindset of someone who ignores red flags just so they can be in a relationship. ~~~~ Business 01:09
5Questions 01:41
UnderMySkin 13:54
WhatAreYouWatching 19:47
“A” Perspective 42:00 Looking Forward 1:05:08
Reflections 1:07:07
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If this wasn’t a minisode the title would be “Annalise Keating Perspectives” as Mara Brock Akil’s GIRLFRIENDS is investigated, tried, and judged during this conversation..... and we barley scratched the surface!
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What’s a grudge/hard feeling that you still have and need to let go of? Unpopular Opinion: ranch is overrated, yes or no? Aaron & Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. So we’re just not wearing mask in public anymore?! Find out who what when where during #UnderMySkin. When Mara Brock Akil’s Girlfriends showed up on Netflix it showed up during #WhatAreYouWatching next to Big Brother. Aaron talks about the conversations friends aren’t but maybe should be having with each other. Ashley explores forgiveness of self when in conflict with someone else.
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FIIIIIIIIVE QUESTIONSSSS! #5Questions
- Which Marvel character villain did you find it hardest to root against- Thanos or Killmonger?
- What’s one of your weird/unique hobbies that others may side eye you for?
- In honor of the Pynk, if you were performing on Murda Night what would be your song?
- Unpopular Opinion: Taco Bell is the best Mexican fast food. Agree or no?
- What’s a sure way that someone can get under your skin when you’re out with a group of friends?
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WE HAVE BUSINESS TO TAKE CARE OF on this week’s episode.... Hook up with the last person you were with in high school or the first person you were with in college? Angel In Disguise or Love All Over Me? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions. Find out who didn’t go see a family member and why, and who doesn’t like people going #2 and leaving the door open during #UnderMySkin. Moesha’s trying to go work for Vibe and a lot happened in two weeks of Big Brother All Star during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about dealing with loss as a couple. Aaron discusses intentions behind confessing your love for someone years later. Both give personal perspectives.
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Welcome to the Pynk! #Pvalley on Starz
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Unpopular opinion: soul food is overrated? Name three artists or groups that you can recite 5 of their songs with at least 95% accuracy? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. During #UnderMySkin Ashley has some words for those with something to say about WAP and Aaron is excited to talk about Big Brother during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron discusses the protocol/rules for how you act when there’s a friendship breakup. Ashley uses Hulu’s movie The Weekend to discuss the reality of exes going on weekend trips together while in another relationship.
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WhatAreYouWatching because this week Ashley watched three seasons of Moesha and Aaron watched I May Destroy You season 1 episode 9.... Let’s talk about it!
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Would you rather be poor but help people or become incredibly rich by hurting people? Why do we judge ourselves by our intentions but judge others by their actions? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions. Find out who got under their own skin during #UnderMySkin and who’s watching I May Destroy You during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley explores a scenario where a guy introduces his new girlfriend to the mother of his children. Aaron explores how people engage in conversations where they cannot relate.
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How do you show up for your friends? When do just listen and when do you decide to react/offer advice?
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On this week’s episode Aaron & Ashley are debunking or confirming tv/movie narratives during #5Questions: Sides pieces never know their place and always want to be the main, cheaters always get caught or tell on themselves, and more! Find out who discovered Cheesecake Factory’s lunch menu and who saw cotton candy grapes outside Whole Foods during #UnderMySkin. The Old Guard on Netflix is a good movie discussed during #WhatAreYouWatching, and no spoilers were given! Aaron talks about having tough/difficult conversations in public spaces. Ashley wants to know how you should deal with your partner or friend in public when you see the alcohol starting to take over?
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Aaron and Ashley are discussing a question that came up during the last episode, 2am Perspectives. Also, Noah Alex Ricky Chance and Wade reprise their role for Noah’s Arc: The Rona Chronicles. Listen as they discuss their favorite moments. What were yours?
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Is 100 sexual partners at age 30 a lot to have? What is the point of goodbye sex? Aaron & Ashley answer these and more on this week’s episode during #5Questions. On #WhatAreYouWatching find out who’s taking it back by watching The Sopranos and who’s not a fan of Alyssa Drake from The Order on Netflix. During #UnderMySkin The Rona is still real and people aren’t wearing masks in public spaces anymore. Find out who’s calling corporate. Ashley talks about the Do’s and Don’ts between friends when discussing an ex (in a new relationship) and Aaron tells a story about two people, “friends w/ benefits,” who’s expectations of each other aren’t aligned.
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The season finale has come and gone but we’re not done! Listen as we discuss Insecure Season 4 Episode 10.... FIND OUT WHO, Aaron or Ashley, is taking a break from the show.
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BLACK LIVES MATTER. On this week’s episode Aaron & Ashley begin the conversation with an oldie as they have #BusinessToTakeCareOf, #BLACKLIVESMATTER. Does your activism steam from your education or your experience? What’s your favorite Kirk Franklin song? These questions and more are answered during #5Questions. As Don Lemon said people are experiencing two pandemics right now- The Rona & Racism and both show up and show out during #UnderMySkin. Aaron’s still rewatching How To Get Away With Murder while Ashley’s being “classy” with her #HBOmax watching Harry Potter and more. Catch up with Insecure season 4 as Aaron & Ashley discuss everything from episodes 8 & 9.
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We’re discussing INSECURE Season 4 Episode 6 & 7.
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What meal have you had the most during quarantine? Luda or Nelly? Aaron and Ashley answer these and others during #5Questions. A repeat offender shows up during #UnderMySkin and we say goodbye to How To Get Away With Murder during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron discusses the topic “How to Move on” and Ashley uses a moment in college to talk about the mindset surrounding money and it’s relationship between lovers vs friends.
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We’re discussing the mini-topics found in Insecure Season 4 Episode 4: Low Key Movin’ On!
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Aaliyah’s Miss You vs Rihanna’s Unfaithful, who are you taking? Aaron & Ashley answer this and other #VERZUZ matchups during #5Questions. Corona Virus, COVID 19, The Rona is making people forget about rules and regulations so it makes sense it shows up in #UnderMySkin. A family member’s pressure caused Westworld to enter #WhatAreYouWatching and The Last Dance is the gift that keeps on giving. Aaron & Ashley discuss Insecure season 4 episode 4 Low Key Losin’ It in a special joint perspective.
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“Dads are n***as too!” Can you guess what we’re talking about on this week’s Minisode?! INSECURE Season 4 episodes 2 & 3!
WE KNOW it’s over an hour! We were just talking and talking and talking and talking BUT if you’ve seen #Insecure you understand. So before you watch episode 4 get a rundown of what’s been going on and our take on all things Insecure season 4 episodes 2 & 3! “Pow Pow Pow!”
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When was the last time you made a new friend? On this week’s episode Aaron discusses making friends as an “adult.” During #5Questions Aaron and Ashley answer this question: Is being right better than sex? During #UnderMySkin find out who’s been looking for chicken thighs only to be disappointed! There’s so much being watched these days, but during #WhatAreYouWatching CLASSIC movie Player’s Club and School Daze are highlighted. PLUS we’re digging into all things Insecure season 4 episode 1! Ashley talks about missing a relationship when you’re single and missing your single days when you’re in a relationship.
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Yup! It’s a Quarantine Minisode! Aaron and Ashley are chatting about a few things: What shows are you binge watching? What have you learned about yourself so far while social distancing? Then we wrap with some “quarantine rambling” as Ashley called it.... Stay informed and safe everyone!
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Name one of the things that drunk you helped sober you do? Is there such a thing as being too trusting of someone? Anal or Orgy? Aaron & Ashley are answering a variety of questions during #5Questions on this weeks episode. Where are these glasses at?! Get the details during #UnderMySkin and see how The Rona is the star of this segment. During #WhatAreYouWatching Sally Langston aka. Dr. Ellis Grey was a guest star on Charmed and there’s a “hard to watch scene” on Grey’s involving one of our beloved characters. Ashley explores the question “once you break up with someone is it really over or is there a ‘cooling off period’ where you should wait before getting with someone else?” Aaron wants to know how we’re using this moment in time to expand explore or grow personally.
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In our Cardi B voice “Corona Virus! Sit is real, sht is getting real....” We’re kicking off Minisode 26 giving our initial perspectives on COVID-19 and it’s impact. Then, Aaron gets a word from Ashley as they explore what happens to the individual person when there’s a “shakeup” amongst a group of friends. Is it FOMO, is it jealousy, or is it just a lack of acceptance to a new way of being?
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If you’re having a baby by a cheating man and you don’t want him in the delivery room but he does is it ok to tell him no? Aaron and Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Someone had a case of mistaken identity during #UnderMySkin and someone is watching On My Block during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron wants to talk about “leveling up” while Ashley wants to discuss finances in relationships.
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5 QUESTIONNNNNNS!!!!
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Would you agree to be a side chick for $3k a month!
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Is it easier to forgive your sexual relationships vs your platonic ones?
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Talk about a perspective that you once had that is no longer true for you. What is it and what do you think has changed?
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Where does sex/intimacy fall when you’re focused and on the grind/hustle?
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What does it mean for you to listen to yourself; to trust your decisions?
5Questions
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IT’S OUR ANNIVERSARY SPECIAL!!!! One year and 50 episodes later and we’re still here. A BIG THANK YOU to our listeners! Now check out this special anniversary episode and be sure to listen to the end for a special gift from Aaron & Ashley.... ENJOY!
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Ashley wants to know is there anything that your elder family members talk about that makes you uncomfortable? Listen to find out just how far family will take the conversation when you’re an adult. Aaron needs your thoughts on ANOTHER “people asking for money” situation. The internal struggle is real.
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Friendships- How do you nurture them? Does the longevity of them mean anything you? Ashley asks these questions and more on this week’s episode. Fill in the blank: I cannot date somebody who ______. Find out how Aaron & Ashley answered that during #5Questions. Family, just because you love them does not mean they don’t get #UnderMySkin at times- find out who, what, when, where, and why. We’re talking Grey’s Anatomy (of course!) and Monk(?!) during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron explores the idea of love and hate being the same thing, an obsession.
Oh! Idk what happened to the sound. Enjoy!
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On this week’s episode Aaron & Ashley rank these hot sauces: Texas Pete, Tabasco, Red Hot, & Cholula. Listen to #UnderMySkin to find out who is a repeat offender and what happened this time. Grey’s Anatomy is back and discussed during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron talks (and talks) about complicated feelings while Ashley talks about broken bonds and who’s responsible for mending them.
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“Watch out world I’m grown now, I’M GROWN!” Season 3 of Grown-ish has begun and while we’re only two episodes into the season we have to talk about the latest episode that Ashley considers one of her favorites of the series! So go watch the episode for yourself and join in the conversation!
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What happens when you decide to record on your day off and with candy?! You get a bunch of laughs for no reason.... On this week’s episode Aaron and Ashley decide which of THESE two classic songs could they have written themself? Listen to find out which two songs they had to choose from and which one they picked during #5Questions. On #WhatAreYouWatching Charmed is back, Netflix’s The Circle finished its first season, and someone needs to watch Tyler Perry’s A Fall From Grace so we can discuss. You cannot choose your family, but you can choose how you deal with them. Find out how the family was dealt with during #UnderMySkin this week. Ashley talks about finances and Aaron talks about leading people on.
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First minisode of the year! First minisode of the decade! And we decided to bring you our famous #5Questions, but with a twist! Listen in so you find out what it is and be sure to join in the conversation by answering for yourself!
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HAPPY NEW YEAR! It’s 2020 and we’re back, still giving you our perspective on “life love and everything in between” and having fun while doing it. So check out our first episode of the year and get ready to think and laugh!
Which Drake album that came out in the last decade is better? Nothing Was The Same, Views, or If You’re Reading This.... Listen to #5questions to hear the answer and more. Find out who got under their own skin and who needs repeck put on their name during #UnderMySkin. On #WhatAreYouWatching we find out why Netflix’s #You is a must see and discover who named a song Watermelon Sugar. Aaron plans to get clarity asap on what he wants or doesn’t want out of a relationship and Ashley discusses her 2020 vision board.
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It’s our holiday special and last conversation of the year! Listen in to this week’s Minisode where we’re just running our mouth and chatting about whatever comes to mind.... This is our Christmas gift to you! See you in 2020!!!!
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Would you lie to your partner to save your relationship? Aaron & Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions. On this week’s episode Aaron asks 1906 questions to get some insight into the transition from being single to getting into “something” with someone else. If you have bad breath and you’re up close and personal with customers should you wear a mask? Find out their thoughts during #UnderMySkin. You’ll have to listen to #WhatAreYouWatching to find out what it sounds like while Grey’s Anatomy is on hiatus? Ashley discusses having a “work spouse” and if/when does it reach a point where it becomes inappropriate when you’re in a relationship.
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Code-switching. What is it? What are the different types? Is it even necessary?
Aaron & Ashley use the latest episode of Mixed-ish to answer these questions and more when discussing code-switching.
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“The caucasity of this man!” Find out what happened during #UnderMySkin on this week’s episode. Name a spinoff that was better than the show it came from? Aaron & Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions. Disney+ is as good as advertised and with the X-Men cartoon series up there #WhatAreYouWatching gets nostalgic while we also recap Grey’s Anatomy through the mid-season finale. Aaron wants to know what are the requirements for a good FWB relationship and is there a time limit for how long that kind of relationship can last? Ashley uses the latest episode of Mixed-ish to discuss the parent vs step-parent dynamics.... HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
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We’re discussing the “Puttin’ On The Ritz” episode of Mixed-ish.
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Mediocre sex but good looks or mediocre looks but good sex? Find out who picked what during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Traffic = #UnderMySkin. #GreysAntomy = #WhatAreYouWatching. What matters more: what someone says or how you interpret it? Listen as Ashley discusses intent vs. Impact with this question. Aaron wants to know: why is it easier to give credit to someone else but a struggle to give it to yourself? Find out which Maryland business was highlighted during #SmallBusinessShoutout.
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We’re talking about 2 dicks! We’re talking about Blackish! Something for everyone....
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We’re getting introspective on this week’s episode during #UnderMySkin. One gotta go: auntie Anne’s, Cold Stone, Cinnabon.... 123 GO! Aaron & Ashley respond to this and more during #5questions. Are you caught up on Grey’s Anatomy? Are you watching season 2 of Charmed? They are talking about them during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron talks about the idea of “stillness” and explores the concept. Ashley wants to know is it ok to use sex to determine if you should get with someone when there are obvious red flags?
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When deciding to get married how much influence can the other person’s family have on whether you say “I do” or “I’m good” on that relationship? On this week’s minisode Aaron & Ashley use a real life situation to discuss how they would handle it and what needs to be considered before walking down the aisle.
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When you know the marriage/relationship is over what steps do you take to end it? We’re digging into this complex question on this week’s episode. Is it okay to have keepsakes from previous relationships when you’re in a new relationship? Aaron & Ashley answer that and more during #5Questions. Find out who put their mom in #UnderMySkin again and who’s skin did Google get under. Aaron is excited that Grey’s Anatomy is back and that it already has him hooked for the season. Ashley wants to know if it’s ok to reach out to your ex to tell them about how they hurt you in the past?
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Have you seen the season 6 premiere of Black-ish? Just like every episode of every season Aaron & Ashley we’re left laughing and thinking. On this week’s Minisode we discuss what happened in episode 1 and how the lessons learned from it apply to more than just family.
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Do you know your body? How aligned are your mind and body when talking aboutm. what you like in the bedroom? Aaron and Ashley explore these questions on this week’s episode. We’re playing a special game during #5Questions inspired by the new late night host. Ashley reminds people how running your mouth is a no no during #UnderMySkin and Aaron wraps up the latest season on Big Brother during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron and Ashley discuss who’s to blame and how to handle friends who break your trust.
RUN OF SHOW: Small Business Shoutout: 1:40
5Questions: 4:00
PLUG!: 22:05
UnderMySkin: 22:24
WhatAreYouWatching: 29:28
APAaronAshley: 42:35
WhatAreYouLookingForwardTo: 59:44
Benediction: 1hr 42min
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If all your exes sat at a table to talk about you, what would they all agree on? #5Questions
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We’re tackling conflict and conflict resolution on this week’s episode. Can you name two of your favorite tv show theme songs? Aaron & Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions. Find out who had 101 things to talk about during #UnderMySkin and who’s been watching Normani’s Motivation video on repeat..... When you experience failure, what do you to motivate yourself to keep going?
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“When in public should you always have your partners back?....GO!”
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Is it possible to be friends with someone you have feelings for? Find out who thinks it’s possible on this week’s episode. What turns you on that’s not sexual? Ashley answers that and more during #5Questions. For some reason the season finale of Pose ended up in #UnderMySkin and an update for Big Brother is given during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron wants to know what does “moving on” mean?
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We’re having fun with #5Questions!
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What is dating?? On this week’s episode we discuss this and if/why those labels even matter. During #5Questions we’re naming our top four reality shows while we discuss THAT dinner scene in a recent episode of Pose during #WhatAreYouWatching.... Aaron and Ashley get personal.
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Have you ever seen something on social media and you had to find someone to talk about it with?! That’s exactly what happened on the latest minisode.... Here’s the link to the original post: https://www.instagram.com/p/B0O7bdKBntU/?igshid=11od3l7bxboah
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Episode 12 and we’re talking about family and how Drake listens to the show! How have your conversations changed with your parents as you’ve gotten older? Drake or Chris Brown? It’s a tough choice, but during #5Questions we pick a side. Ashley has something to say about reaching out to your ex the day before your wedding during #UnderMySkin while Aaron is excited to update everyone on Big Brother in #WhatAreYouWatching. Brace yourself because we’re just talking talking talking.... and talking!
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It’s #5Questions Music Edition!
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Would you rather have a sex tape of you leaked or a video of you losing a fight leaked? This and more are answered during #5Questions. On this week’s episode everyone can find something to relate to during #UnderMySkin. Aaron gets excited about Big Brother in #WhatAreYouWatching and Ashley uses the latest episode of Pose to talk about “getting your power back” from an ex.
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Sometimes you just want to get some advice.... And hopefully not get upset!
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What are friendship dealbreakers? On this week’s episode we’re exploring this question and seeing who had some challenges finding an answer. What is a “must play” song for summer functions? Aaron & Ashley answer this and more in #5Questions. Find out how a scheduled nail appointment landed in #UnderMySkin alongside a “know-it-all” type personality. We’re finally caught up on Pose! And of course we’re talking about Grown-ish again!
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We’re discussing the latest Grown-ish episode, ‘Tweakin.’ Aaron has an #UnderMySkin to get off his chest!
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You don’t mess up someone’s Chipotle order and think you can get away it. Find out what happens when you do in this week’s episode in #UnderMySkin. Can you name one of your favorite R&B duets? Listen to find out who they picked in #5Questions. Also, the category is POSE in #WhatAreYouWatching as they discuss what’s going on so far in season 2. Aaron uses the show Big Little Lies to guide his perspective this week while Ashley asks “is it harder to find happiness (within yourself) when you’re single or when you’re in a relationship?”
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We’re discussing the latest Grown-ish episode, ‘You Decide.’
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On this week’s episode we focus on the return of “Grown-ish” and talk about Bros, hoes, and “Grown-ish” woes. Find out which one said wrinkled clothes were a dealbreaker and who said cheating in #5Questions. Ashley finally experiences the wonder of taking the bus in #UnderMySkin and Aaron can talk about anything during #WhatAreYouWatching, except the NBA Finals after game 4.
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Girl! We’re just glad it’s out.... “How soon is too soon to have sex with someone you like?”
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Ask yourself this question.... If you had to choose between going up in your body count with someone new or keeping it where it is with someone from the past which would you choose? Listen as they each answer this question for themself in #5Questions this week. Ashley shares an #UnderMySkin that many people can relate to and Aaron is in NBA Playoff mode in #WhatAreYouWatching. Plus, both the perspectives center around the single persons point of view as they each ask interesting questions. Lastly, the upcoming holiday plays a factor in what they’re looking forward to.
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I guess that’s just the motion.... or not. Have you ever dated someone for the wrong reasons? Find out who did and why it’s considered “slutting themselves out.” Game Of Thrones pops up in #5Questions, #UnderMySkin, and #WhatAreYouWatching this week as we get ready for the final episode. Lastly, Ashley talks about how the podcast has made her self-reflect while Aaron wonders if it’s possible to fall out of being “in love” with someone.
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Can you go to dinner with your ex while you are both in relationships? Does having soul-ties with someone make them your soulmate? AND LETS TALK HOMECOMING!
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In this week’s episode Aaron asks the question, is there a difference between doing something out of obligation vs. doing it out of respect when it comes to relationships? Also, Ashley explains why Gabrielle Union deserved more than what she got in #UnderMySkin. In honor of the #GameOfThrones battle at Winterfell they play a special 123 in #5Questions. Lastly, how did they talk about Beyoncé but not TALK about Beyoncé?!
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Would you bring your new boo to an event you knew your ex would be at? Is not being sexually compatible with someone a good reason to end it? Is it childish to ask around about someone you’re interested in? What’s your Uber rating? When was the last time you hugged your dad?
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Has your approach to sex changed since college? Listen as someone is thrown for a loop trying to answer on this week’s episode. Aaron questions why people put more value on being with someone versus being single and Ashley asks if there’s a problem reaching out to your ex. Also, in the words of Solange "Don't touch my hair!"
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Would you prefer meeting someone online or meeting someone in person?
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Triggers! How many of us have them? On this episode Ashley touches on different elements to triggers and even wonders can you control them.... Find out how Game Of Thrones was at the center of #UnderMySkin. Plus, Aaron asks is it ok to call out from work after a breakup?!
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This week our minisode focuses on an AP conversation we had back in December where we discussed telling friends positive things about our relationship when theirs isn’t going well.... Plus, did we choose a Beyoncé or Ne-Yo song?
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Episode 2 and Aaron & Ashley are already over an hour! Find out how the movie Acrimony took #APerspective hostage. Do you have a childhood runaway story? Listen as they tell theirs and see who tried more than once. Plus! We discuss whether friends should mind their business when it comes to someone else’s relationship?!
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We’re finally here! Excitement, nerves, and laughter drive our debut episode as Aaron learns how to deal with a crush, we make a tough choice in the Percolator vs Shake That Money battle, share personal ‘emotional cheating’ stories, and much more. Plus, Ashley says classic Drake album?
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WELCOME to “A” Perspective w/ Aaron & Ashley! We’re excited to bring you into our “gem dropping kiki sessions” where we discuss life love and everything in between.... So check out this trailer and GET READY to kick your week off with two friends who make you feel like you’re a part of the conversation!
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