This May Be Why You Suck at Dating with Kimmy Seltzer: Recent Episodes
Kimmy Seltzer
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In this episode, Kimmy dives into The Narcissist Magnet archetype.
You’ll meet Annie, who grew up relatively sheltered in a small country town in Australia. When she moved to the big city and came out of her shell, she met her now ex-husband, a classic narcissist. Now, Annie’s on a mission to embrace her sexy confidence and find a man that truly deserves her!
If you feel:
- You tend to put men and their needs before your own,
- Like pleasing others is the way you can show love and affection, OR
- That the effort you put into a relationship isn’t reciprocated...
Like Anita, you may be experiencing the symptoms of being The Narcissist Magnet.
Listen in to hear about your secret weapons and how you can look for reciprocity in your relationships with men so that your emotional needs get met with enthusiasm!
To find out exactly what your archetype is, take the quiz here Kimmy’s Dating Archetype Quiz
In this episode, Kimmy dives into The List Lady archetype.
You’ll meet Jen, an intelligent career woman who prides herself on being able to get things done right. She calls herself a serial dater — having had a string of 3-6 month relationships, but hasn’t been able to find the right man for a long term relationship yet.
If you feel:
- Like you experience dates more like a job interview,
- That there are no good men out there who can meet your high standards, OR
- You expect a man to come to you, not the other way around...
Like Jen, you may be experiencing the symptoms of being The List Lady.
Listen in to hear about your secret weapons and how to start sharing more personal stories and letting your emotions lead to make genuine connections!
In this episode, Kimmy dives into The Chief archetype.
You’ll meet Sara Marie who embodies a self-assured confidence in her professional life and has always felt comfortable in a leadership role. She tends to attract relationships that don’t require a lot of attention, instead of focusing on what she really wants — an equal, supportive partnership that focuses on personal growth together.
If you feel:
- The need to be in control of nearly every aspect of your life,
- Unbothered by wearing a business suit on a date, OR
- Competitive to a fault…
Like Sara Marie, you may be experiencing the symptoms of being The Chief.
Listen in to hear about your secret weapons and how you can incorporate more femininity into your flirting style without losing who you really are!
To find out exactly what your archetype is, take the quiz here Kimmy’s Dating Archetype Quiz
In this episode, Kimmy dives into the Dame archetype.
You’ll meet Katherine, a vibrant actress and comedian who loves to perform. When she’s on stage, she loves being the center of attention, but when it comes to dating, her introvert instincts take over.
If you feel:
- Like you’d rather talk to your girlfriends at the bar than approach a man,
- That men rarely express interest in you, OR
- You have trouble relaxing and being in your body...
Like Katherine, you may be experiencing the symptoms of being The Dame.
Listen in to hear about your secret weapons and how you can start signaling to men that you’re interested in and start noticing who’s noticing you!
To find out exactly what your archetype is, take the quiz here Kimmy’s Dating Archetype Quiz
In this episode, Kimmy dives into the Friendzone Gal archetype.
You’ll meet Courtney, a high-spirited, independent social butterfly. Living in New York City, she hasn’t had any trouble meeting men — the problem is — she can’t seem to get past the first date. Over and over again, guys will tell her that they’d rather have her as a friend than a romantic partner.
If you feel:
- Embarrassed by flirting that feels “cheesy”,
- You’d rather wear be comfortable than be sexy, or
- That men don’t take you seriously as a girlfriend…
Like Courtney, you may be experiencing the classic symptoms of being the Friendzone Gal.
Listen in to hear about your secret weapons and how you can learn to entice men, build excitement on a date, and make him want to ask you out again!
To find out exactly what your archetype is, take the quiz here Kimmy’s Dating Archetype Quiz
There are common mistakes that everyone makes when trying to find love. In this episode, Kimmy breaks down the repetitive behavioral patterns and challenges she's studied and seen her clients make for years. Pay special attention here to characteristics you identify with that may have derailed a previous relationship. Once you understand these common behavioral patterns, you can begin to feel empowered to make a change and get a different result.
To find out exactly what your archetype is, take the quiz here Kimmy’s Dating Archetype Quiz
In this episode, you’ll hear the process Kimmy uses to help you uncover your dating archetype, build your confidence and attract the right partner for you.
You’ll hear her refer to the three pillars of Social, Emotional, and Style Intelligence, and how they relate to each archetype.
Welcome to This May Be Why You Suck at Dating, an exclusive audio series from Kimmy Seltzer: Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist created for people to finally get why their dates aren’t going as planned
In this series, you’ll uncover Kimmy’s five dating archetypes to understand the assumptions you make about attraction that prevent you from finding the love you deserve. Plus, you’ll learn how the right combination of social, emotional, and style intelligence can be combined to highlight your archetype’s secret weapons. Listen in to hear Kimmy coach five real women who demonstrate both the strengths and challenges of each archetype.
Before you listen, make sure you take Kimmy’s Dating Archetype Quiz and find out which archetype you identify with.
This series will help you immediately implement targeted tips into your dating life. In the end, you’ll gain a greater awareness of the blind spots in your love life so you can rise above and meet the man you’ve always wanted.