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A podcast about the loved ones we’re attached to and the good, the bad, and the ugly advice about those relationships that maybe we shouldn’t be attached to. We here at Attached want to share ways to enhance your relationships and debunk bad relationship advice using science.
In this episode, we talk about communicating with family outside of those who live with us. New research led by Joey Fung and colleagues at Fuller Theological Seminary, and his team recently published a new article titled, “ Personal and Family Perfectionism Among Asian and Latinx Youth” in the journal of Cultural Diversity and Ethnic Minority Psychology. With important take-aways for who we communicate with in a crisis!
Article: https://doi.org/10.1037/cdp0000555
Youtube: https://youtu.be/JSFqC7OQzmk
As always, this Episode has a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Want in? Head to Patreon and become a member today!
In this episode, we talk about communicating with family outside of those who live with us. New research led by Dr. Megan N. Reed, at Emory University, and her team recently published a new article titled, “Communication with Kin in the Wake of the COVID-19 Pandemic” in the journal Socius: Sociological Research for a Dynamic World. With important take-aways for who we communicate with in a crisis!
Article: HERE
Youtube: here
As always, this Episode has a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Want in? Head to Patreon and become a member today!
In this episode, we go ‘back to the beginning,’ with a focus on where we all begin and NEW science on pregnancy intention. New research led by Dr. Erica Hobby at NYU, recently published in the journal Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health, explores whether pregnancy intension – a pregnancy that is intended and wanted versus unintended or earlier than planned – has short- or long-term impacts on the health of moms and babies born in Oklahoma, Missouri, and Alaska. With important take-aways for how important it is to support women and families at this crucial stage of life, we hope you’ll take this science deep dive with us, and let us know what you think!
Article: Here
Youtube: here
As always, this Episode has a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Want in? Head to Patreon and become a member today!
In this episode, we explore new science on the intergenerational impact of racialized discrimination on maternal and child mental health by Dr. Yara Mekawi and colleagues published in Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry titled, “Intergenerational Transmission of Depression: Examining the Roles of Racism and Trauma Among Black Mothers and Youth.”
Article: Here
Also, we talk about the EMBRace project. Learn more about here
Youtube: here
As always, this Episode has a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Want in? Head to Patreon and become a member today!
In this episode, we focus on new science on couples’ quality and quantity time differences by income by Dr. Hannah Williamson and Megan Schouweiler out of University of Texas Austin. Their new Journal of Family Psychology paper titled, “Household Income Differentiates Quantity and Quality of Shared Spousal Time” helps us understand how the quality and quantity of couples’ time is different for lower- and higher-income couples.
Article: Here
As always, this Episode has a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Want in? Head to Patreon and become a member today!
In our newest Episode’s Poppin’ Culture segment, we discuss The Diplomat, and whether women really can have it all. Then, we do an Academic Deep Dive into new Journal of Happiness Stdies research titled, “Honey, There’s Something on My Mind… Adverse Consequences of Negative and Positive Work Rumination on Attention to the Partner, and the Advantage of Talking About It,” led by Dr. Julia Schoellbauer at University of Vienna. Last up, in Good or Bad Advice, we react to advice from BetterUp.com on advice from Empty Nesters.
Academic Deep Dive: here
Good or Bad Advice: here https://www.betterup.com/blog/empty-nest-syndrome
In our newest Episode’s Poppin’ Culture segment, we discuss The Real Housewives of New Jersey, and the sometimes complicated nature of sibling-in-law relationships. Then, we do an Academic Deep Dive into new Psychoneuroendocrinology research titled, “Your Suffering is My Stressor: Proinflammatory Gene Expression Rises with Spousal Distress in Middle-Aged and Older Couples,” led by Dr. Stephanie Wilson at Southern Methodist University. Last up, in Good or Bad Advice, we react to TikToks on the difficulties of motherhood, making it look easy, and balancing our needs as parents with our need to prioritize our kids.
Academic Deep Dive: here
Good or Bad Advice: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRwH2BYn/
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRKerN8J/
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRKJoEwa/
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRKekRRH/
Youtube: here
As always, this Episode has a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Want in? Head to Patreon and become a member today!
In our newest Episode’s Poppin’ Culture segment, we discuss what it might be like to work with a spouse and LIVE with Kelly and Mark. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive to ““How Do Own and Siblings’ Genders Shape Caregivers’ Risk of Perceiving Care-Related Criticism From Siblings.” Recently published in The Journals of Gerontology – led by Dr. Marissa Rurka at the University of Michigan – explores adult children caring for their aging parents, and the often GREATER caregiving burden experienced by daughters than sons. Last up, in Good or Bad Advice, we talk about tips for family vacation from the Washington Post.
Academic Deep Dive: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36469600/
Good or Bad Advice: https://www.washingtonpost.com/travel/2022/02/16/plan-family-travel-vacation/
Youtube: https://youtu.be/StdOCXGsgM4
As always, this Episode has a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Want in? Head to Patreon and become a member today!
In our newest Episode’s Poppin’ Culture segment, we discuss Love is Blind, and how people do or DO NOT work on their relationships. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive to “Associations between vocal arousal and dyadic coping during couple interactions after a stress induction” by Dr. Lisanne Bulling at the University of Zurich. Turns out we can responde to our partners stress just by picking up on changes in their voice. Last up, in Good or Bad Advice, we talk about quotes from Stephen Sondheim’s “Into The Woods”.
Academic Deep Dive: here
Youtube: here
As always, this Episode has a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Want in? Head to Patreon and become a member today!
In our newest Episode’s Poppin’ Culture segment, we step into a conversation about stepparenting after divorce with a discussion of Andrew Shue and Amy Robach. Next, have a conversation anpout allyship with an article title, “Help (Un)wanted: Why the most powerful allies are the most likely to stumble – and when they fulfill their potential” by Dr. Karren Knowlton at Dartmouth. Last up, in Good or Bad Advice, talk about how to be a first time grandparent..
Academic Deep Dive: here
Youtube: here
As always, this Episode has a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Want in? Head to Patreon and become a member today!
In our newest Episode’s Poppin’ Culture segment, we discuss Nappily Ever After, and the need for the White community to create a sense of belonging for Black women. To engage in behaviors that promote Black women's efforts to authentically express themselves in White spaces.. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive into new Archives of Sexual Behavior research, with an article titled “Does Sexual Desire Fluctuate More Among Women than Men?” Turns out the sexual desire of the different sexes may not be so different, after all. Last up, in Good or Bad Advice, we respond to a listener’s request to discuss advice on kids using cell phones. Academic Deep Dive: herehttps://link.springer.com/content/pdf/10.1007/s10508-022-02525-y.pdfGood or Bad Advice: https://consumer.ftc.gov/articles/kids-mobile-phonesYoutube: hereAs always, this Episode has a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Want in? Head to Patreon and become a member today!
In our newest Episode, we first discuss depression as seen on Season 2 of Harlem, how to support friends’ mental health, and carefully recommending therapy. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive into new Family Process research by Dr. Casey Totenhagen at University of Alabama and her colleagues exploring whether couples who play together, and engage in shared activities, experience fewer negative effects of financial stress on their relationship. Then, in Good or Bad Advice, we discuss Schitt’s Creek parenting recs, acceptance advice from Mr. Rogers, and Adele’s take on friendships. It’s a lot - and it’s only here, on Attached!
Academic Deep Dive: here
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1111/famp.12869
Good or Bad Advice:
Moira Rose
Mr. Rogers
Adele
Youtube: here
We also have a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Please, consider subscribing here!
In our newest Episode, we’re talking about racial justice and the work of antiracism in families and workplaces. First up we do an Academic Deep Dive into new Journal of Community & Applied Social Psychology research done by Dr. Nkemka Anyiwo at Columbia and her colleagues exploring how Black families help support the healthy development and survival of their children in a racially oppressive society using a parenting practice known as “racial socialization.” Then, in Good or Bad Advice, we discuss recommendations on how to build an anti-racist workplace by Time’s Up. Listen and let us know what you think!
Academic Deep Dive:
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/casp.2652
Good or Bad Advice:
https://timesupfoundation.org/work/equity/guide-equity-inclusion-during-crisis/building-an-anti-racist-workplace/
Youtube: https://youtu.be/vtEIF0jq18s
We also have a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Please, consider subscribing: https://www.patreon.com/attachedpodcast
In our newest Episode, we discuss looking for love in all the wrong - or right? - places. First up, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss workplace infidelity and the recent fallout at Good Morning America. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive into new Journal of Marriage and Family research out of the University of New Hampshire on dating when you’re older, and whether family caregiving responsibilities affect desire and desirability. Last up, we discuss ideas about what makes teens afraid to open up to their parents - is it Good or Bad Advice? Listen and let us know what you think!
Academic Deep Dive: here
Good or Bad Advice: here
Youtube: Here
We also have a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Please, consider subscribing: here
Happy New Year! First up, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss Firefly Lane was recently released starting Katherine Heigl and Sarah Chalke. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive into new PLOS One research out of Ruhr University Bochum on the benefits of hugging for protecting against our body’s usual response to stress. Last up, we do a Good or Bad Advice rapid fire, and discuss advice on seasonal affective disorder, separate interests for couples, trauma-focused therapy, and a recommendation from Mr. Rogers to love the loving part of yourself.
Academic Deep Dive: here
Youtube: Here
We also have a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Please, consider subscribing: here
Happy Holidays! First up, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss Love is Blind and body shaming. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive into new research in Sociological Research Online on family meals and parental sacrifice (remember to take home leftovers). Last up, we trends in who we spend time with as we age. We rate some of it Good, and some of it…not so Good. Based on science, of course.
Academic Deep Dive: here
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/13607804211065050
Good or Bad Advice:
Article: here https://www.instagram.com/p/Ck4aWUHsBtt/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY%3D
Youtube: https://youtu.be/b2B9sdMcdgc
We also have a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Please, consider subscribing: here
First up, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss Gisele and Tom’s divorce and the work and family balance. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive into the new Journal of Allergy and Clinical Immunology: In Practice research on changes in caregiver depression and child asthma symptoms. Last up, we discuss relationship advice on how to avoid conflict when decorating your house….. We rate some of it as Good, and some of it…not so Good. Based on science, of course.
Academic Deep Dive: Here
https://www.jaci-inpractice.org/article/S2213-2198(22)00952-7/fulltext
Good or Bad Advice:
Article: here https://www.worthingcourtblog.com/compromise-over-decorating/
Youtube: Here
We also have a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Please, consider subscribing: here
First up, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss Red Table Talk and the experience of toxic forgiveness. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive into new Journal of Personality and Social Psychology research on GROWTH mindset and confronting bias. Last up, we discuss relationship advice on repairing relationships, self-care, and being the oldest daughter.. We rate some of it Good, and some of it…not so Good. Based on science, of course.
Academic Deep Dive: Here
Good or Bad Advice:
Advice 1
Advice 2
Advice 3
Youtube: Here
We also have a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Please, consider subscribing: here
Academic Deep Dive:
https://srcd.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/cdev.13851
Good or Bad Advice:
Melissa Urban | Whole30 on Instagram: "When you’re in bed in all your clothes between book tour events, but you promised a bunch of people a video on why over-explaining your boundary can backfire. 💃🏻 Sometimes, standing in your power means letting the limit speak for itself. (And if pressed, you can stick to, “it’s not a good time,” or “we’re celebrating with just the kids this year,” or “not this year, Carol.”) Choose to share more as a means of deepening your connection, not in defense of your right to set the limit in the first place. ❤️" ( submitted by Becca)
stitch with @actressbecc can we just acknowledge that performative parenting for the benefit of the adults in the room is super problematic? Remember when you are parenting your kids you should ignore all of the other adults in the room. They don’t matter. Their opinions of you don’t matter. Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk #pa#parenting101e#gentleparentinga#parentingtipso#hottakesonlya#parentinghumor (tiktok.com)
Imagine a world where both partners got similar amounts of off time? Running household is work. #divisionoflabor #fairplay #momrage #marriage #marriedlife #momlife #lifewithkids #thehonestmom #motherhoodunplugged #motherhood #momtruth (tiktok.com)
healthyrelationships #marriedatfirstsightuk #mafsuk #marriedatfirstsight #mafs #marriedatfirstsighttok #marriedatfirstsight2022 #traumahealing (tiktok.com)
You’ve been planted, not buried, your blossoming growth is coming ❤️ Don’t stop, be patient x #FlexEveryAngle #motivation #mindset #mentalhealth #mindsetquotes #inspiration #inspirational #motivation #fyp #foryoupage #fitness #fitnessmotivation #trend #trending #quotes (tiktok.com)
Youtube: Here
We also have a (fantastic, super intense) bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Please, consider subscribing: here
First up, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss Cobra Kai and peer conflict. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive into a new Journal of Social and Personal Relationships article - “When We’re Asked to Change: The Role of Suppression and Reappraisal in Partner Change Outcomes.” Last up, we discuss relationship advice tiktok – what’s Good? What’s Bad? And is any of the relationship advice based on science??
Academic Deep Dive: Here
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/02654075221078881
Good or Bad Advice:
Replying to @tn_sparty I appreciate the small stuff #marriage #partner #mentalhealth #bareminimum (tiktok.com)
Eat the lemons#childloss #yourstorymatters #grief #thegrievingtherapist (tiktok.com)
Estranged relationships and hospice are more common than you think. We don’t judge you, I promise. We see it very frequently. #hospice #nocontact (tiktok.com)
While your spouse could work on a softer start up, you can do your part by focusing on the problem as opposed to becoming defensive #relationshipcoach (tiktok.com)
Systems have a shelf life and that’s ok! #gentlecaretasks #caretasks #systems #cleanenoughtok (tiktok.com)
YouTube: https://youtu.be/eE116JI9jtU
First up, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss House of the Dragon and the influence that revenge has on our wellness and relationships. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive into new Cerebral Cortext research exploring the changes in first-time fathers’ brains that occur during the transition to parenthood. Last up, we discuss relationship advice on what makes a family, ignoring toxic traits, whether self-love must come before loving others, and more – what’s Good? What’s Bad? And is any of the relationship advice based on science??
Academic Deep Dive:
https://doi.org/10.1093/cercor/bhac333
Good or Bad Advice:
Post 1: https://twitter.com/IamTabithaBrown/status/1570100771970224129?t=eCe3_J_wUwB-U36GwfzAyQ&s=31
Post 2: https://twitter.com/waDNR/status/1570099167758024705?t=mZKgCXKqhbiT8B04U-Llvg&s=31
Post 3: https://www.instagram.com/p/CiIT6EIIHaG/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY%3D
Post 4: https://twitter.com/dremilyanhalt/status/1550161745208954880?t=aAXuhUOU_D125pQZ3t6wMQ&s=09
We also have a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Please, consider subscribing: https://www.patreon.com/attachedpodcast
First up, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss the death of Queen Elizabeth II, and the impact of grief on family relationships. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive into new University of Pittsburgh research exploring reaching out to friends and acquaintances, and learn it’s more appreciated than we think! Last up, in Good or Bad Advice, we discuss what the science says about work/life balance advice.
Academic Deep Dive: Here
Good or Bad Advice:
Article: Here
Youtube: Here
We also have a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers! Please, consider subscribing: here
First up, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss intimate partner violence in the context of the recent Depp-Heard trial, and what it may mean to describe relationship aggression as “mutual.” Then, in our Academic Deep Dive segment, we discuss new Sex Roles article exploring whether dividing household work evenly - or, sharing chores - is more beneficial for couples. Last up, in Good or Bad Advice, we deep dive into Tiktok!
Academic Deep Dive: Here
Good or Bad Advice:
Taylor Tomlinson: here
Nate Bargatze: here
Pancakes and marriages: here
Healthy masculinity: here
Mother advice: here
Advice about good people: here
First up, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss Will Smith and Chris Rock, and the influence of public scrutiny on healing relationships. Then, in our Academic Deep Dive segment, we discuss new Journal of Family Psychology research exploring the benefits, or stresses, of sharing personal losses with our partners. Does it create vulnerability and closeness, or pain and dysregulation? We share all they found, and all it may mean for us in our grief-heavy post-COVID lives! Last up, in Good or Bad Advice, we discuss love advice from the characters of Bridgerton, and discuss whether the relationship advice is Good, or Bad!
Poppin’ Culture: Blended Families with Demi Moore & Bruce Willis
Academic Deep Dive: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2021-57507-001
Good or Bad Advice:
● Quote Daily: https://www.instagram.com/p/CbSXwNhsLO6/?utm_medium=share_sheet
● Rainy Daily Co: https://www.instagram.com/p/CObUEC1L9cq/?utm_medium=copy_link
● TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shanemccusker2/video/7076172331072228650?_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8UAIomXLVM%2FpIgzgdFVJ793e5vLBI0D3Yx3pwfQqTOjCwsHtpufQdquGDraTWlza9tgZcwuDRIWjZHk8KGgA%3D&_r=1&language=en&preview_pb=0&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAAxDcxs2p7hl_XhoG-hPWhbHekWoEYWqGhkYa61NfEjccVC24w1fQDjLPHYnhep-p5&share_app_id=1233&share_item_id=7076172331072228650&share_link_id=312ce3a9-8e26-4f3d-a4cb-3b2248789b0f&source=h5_m×tamp=1647648286&u_code=dcm25eb4d50feg&ugbiz_name=Main&user_id=6836503006302258182&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=android&utm_source=more
We also have a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers. Please, consider subscribing: https://www.patreon.com/attachedpodcast
Poppin’ Culture: Here
Academic Deep Dive: Here
Good or Bad Advice:
● Adam Grant: Here
● Wedding Planner: Here
● Catrine Tan: Here
Youtube: Here
We also have a bonus Good or Bad Advice segment for our Patreon subscribers. Please, consider subscribing: here
In this episode: first, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss the popular Netflix show, Love is Blind, and what it takes to develop a meaningful connection. Then, in our Academic Deep Dive segment, we discuss the new academic article, “Friend, Foe, or Forget ‘Em?: The Quality of LGBTQ Adult Sibling Relationships.” Last up, in Good or Bad Advice, we talk about advice on social media for building intimacy, setting boundaries, and how people define their bottom line. As always, we discuss whether the relationship advice is Good, or Bad!
In this episode, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss the potential cultural impacts of dating shows. Then we do an Academic Deep Dive into the new article, “Peer Network Processes in Adolescents’ Healthy Lifestyles,” recently published in the Journal of Health and Social Behavior. Written by Dr. Jimi Adams, Joshua Goode, and Dr. Stefanie Mollborn at the University of Colorado, Dr. Elizabeth Lawrence at UNLV, and Dr. David Schaefer at UC Irvine. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we talk about GOOD mental health advice that people have received.
In this episode, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss co-parenting with Kim Kardashian and Kanye West's divorce. Then we do an Academic Deep Dive into the new article, “The Effects of Parenting and Temperament Similarity Among Adolescent Siblings on Positive Family Relationships,” recently published in Frontiers in Psychology. Written by Dr. XinXin Shi at Zhengzhou University and Dr. Nicole Campione-Barr at University of Missouri. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we talk about bad mental health advice that people have recieved.
Poppin’ Culture: Co-parenting
Academic Deep Dive: Here https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8355491/
Good or Bad Advice:
● Dr. Marina Harris Tweet: here https://twitter.com/DrMarinaHarris/status/1491754665570095104?t=A0y_Rf5IvfNXnpV9VCiwxQ&s=09
● Jason Brown, Olympics: here https://twitter.com/usatodaysports/status/1492148921128275968?t=KIlqChZkuHXCRtegausexQ&s=19
Youtube: Here
In this episode, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss HBO’s Love Life. Then we do an Academic Deep Dive into the new article, “Affair Recovery: Exploring Similarities and Differences of Injured and Involved Partners,” recently published in the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. Written by Dr. Erica Mitchell and colleagues. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we talk about the card game “Red Flags”
In this episode, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss the 1619 series on Hulu. Then we do an Academic Deep Dive into the new article, “Black Marriages Matter: Wisdom and Advice from Happily Married Black Couples.” Recently published in the journal Family Relations, and written by Drs. Antonius, Loren Marks, T.J. Moore, and David Dollahite.Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we discuss a Washington Post article about reducing racial biases while dating by Lisa Bonos.
Poppin’ Culture: 1619 podcast https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/23/podcasts/1619-podcast.html
Academic Deep Dive: Here https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/fare.12565
Good or Bad Advice:
● @domesticBliss’s tiktok: Here https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdh1hNs5/
Poppin’ Culture: Ted Talk
Academic Deep Dive: Here
Good or Bad Advice:
● Cultural context when understanding family functioning
a. Psychology major: Here
b. BiBi (@desertruby98) cultural context: Here
● Definition of generational trauma define: Here
● Cultural context of Encanto people’s response to generational trauma (@nataliahernandezauthor):
a. Part 1: Here
b. Part 2: Here
● How to break generational trauma (@raqueltheoverlord): Here
● Does the house know that they successfully break generational trauma?: Here
● Felix’s masculinity: Here
Youtube: Here
This episode, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss Disney’s Encanto and the impact of family secrets. Then we do an Academic Deep Dive into the new article, “Is Perceived Similarity More than Assumed Similarity? An Interpersonal Path to Seeing Similarity Between Self and Others” by Bradley Hughes at the University of Oregon, John Flournoy at Harvard, and Dr. Sanjay Srivastava, also at Oregon, recently published in the Journal Personality and Social Psychology. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we discuss relationship advice from social media, especially advice for how to cope with the New Year. 2022 is a potential partner already putting up lots of red flags!
Poppin’ Culture: here
Academic Deep Dive: here
Good or Bad Advice:
@andr3wsky on tiktok about coping with 2022: here
@ivancoyote on Twitter about how to cope with 2022: here
@Therapyjeff on tiktok about advice for therapist dealing with 2022: here
@geekdetails on tiktok on marriage longevity: here
@Tacobellqween on tiktok about Tips of the Day: here
Andrew Garfield on societal expectations for love and families: here
Poppin’ Culture: Here
Academic Deep Dive: Here
Good or Bad Advice:
Activismandstuff on instagram: Here
Russell brand: Here
Daniel Sloss with Jigsaw on tiktok: here
CoachRachelleindra Part 1: Here
CoachRachelleindra Part 2: Here
Advice from Matt and Abby on Tiktok: Here
This week, in Poppin' Culture we talk Midnight Mass on Netflix and how economic context impacts relationships. Then, in the Academic Deep Dive we discuss the article, “Spatial Proximity as a Behavioral Marker of Relationship Dynamics in Older Adult Couples,” written by Drs. Ogolsky, Mejía, and their team. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice, we discuss relationship advice from social media including Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly’s description of theirs.
Poppin’ Culture Show: HERE
Academic Deep Dive Article: HERE
Good or Bad Advice-
Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly: HERE
Deb Moore about Brene Brown: HERE
Abraham Piper: HERE
Jemma Transformational Coach: HERE
Dr. Wendy Walsh : HERE
Youtube: HERE
Poppin Culture: Here
Academic Deep Dive: Here
Good or Bad Advice:
Article 1: How to Cope When You are Alone on Thanksgiving
Article 2: 12 Things To Do If You Are Celebrating Thanksgiving Solo
This week, in Poppin' Culture, we talk about Bachelor in Paradise and the importance of healthy conflict resolution for long-term relationship stability. Then, in our Academic Deep Dive, we discuss the article, “By Default: How Mothers in Different Sex Dual-Earner Couples Account for Inequalities in Pandemic Parenting,” written by Drs. Jessica Calarco, Emily Meanwell, Elizabeth Anderson, and Amelia Knopf at Indiana University. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice, we discuss advice from Dr. Jessica Gold about questions to ask your new therapist.
Popin’ Culture Show: HERE
Academic Deep Dive Article: HERE
Good or Bad Advice: HERE
Popin’ Culture Show: HERE
Academic Deep Dive Article: HERE https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/02654075211038612
Good or Bad Advice Here are the links to the Tiktoks and Instagrams:
Parenting up a tree https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRHMsMon/
Were not really strangers: https://www.instagram.com/p/CTF7VaOB4cL/?utm_medium=share_sheet
Couple Buble: https://www.instagram.com/p/CTmiri7rf3O/?utm_medium=share_sheet
Toxic relationship cycle: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRPCyftq/
And with the rebuttal: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRPCm1aC/
Different relationship timelines: https://www.instagram.com/p/CS7KwUfHQ2Q/?utm_medium=share_sheet
New Dad: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRHFg4jY/
Old and new relationship “looks” different https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMR547U7Y/
YouTube: HERE
Popin’ Culture Show: https://www.hulu.com/series/reservation-dogs-5a310c23-e2db-4c9f-a66c-27c2fee43d92?&cmp=12772&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=BM_Search_FXonHulu_Google&utm_term=reservation%20dogs%20series&gclid=Cj0KCQjw1dGJBhD4ARIsANb6OdkT6fVI27ywuzk8otGqX8TEXSyiLnPbU0aVIIzsAt0ireXuBc1q3wkaAuRxEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds
Academic Deep Dive Article: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34168521/
Good or Bad Advice Article: https://www.bipocsupportfoundation.org/post/5-ideas-for-celebrating-indigenous-day-in-2020
Get informed about Indigenous People: https://rnt.firstnations.org/
Indigenous People To Follow: https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/entry/indigenous-tiktok-accounts_ca_5fb6b901c5b6f00bd84e7b6c
Modern Warrior: https://www.tiktok.com/@modern_warrior__?lang=en&is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1
This Land Podcast By Rebecca Negal: https://crooked.com/podcast-series/this-land/
What land do you live on?: https://native-land.ca/
First up in Poppin’ Culture we talk about toxic relationships and triangles in Netflix’s Bling Empire - and that friends interfering in these relationships can inadvertently push them to continue. Next up, we do a very fun deep dive into a new Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences article about the gift of gab, and how we decide to end conversations once they’ve started. A research team out of Harvard (Dr. Adam Mastroianni and Dr. Daniel Gilbert at Harvard, Dr. Gus Gooney at UPenn, and Dr. Timothy Whilson at the University of Virginia) recently found that we actually exit conversations pretty poorly - and we almost never end a conversation when either of us want to! Last up, a Good or Bad Advice segment where we break down signs your partner may be cheating from Worried Lovers.
Popin’ Culture Show: HERE:
Academic Deep Dive Article: HERE
Good or Bad Advice Article: HERE
YouTube: HERE
Welcome back to Season 3!!! In this episode celebrating Labor Day we discuss different types of Labor. First up in Popping culture we talk about the labor of building relationships with the Reality show F boy Island hosted by Nikki Glaser. Then, in the Academic Deep Dive, we discuss a new article about Labor in the workforce titled, “Occupational Characteristics and Parents’ Childcare Time,” written by Dr. Jennifer Hook at USC, Dr. Leah Ruppaner at the University of Melbourne, and Dr. Lynne Casper (also at USC). Finally, in Good or Bad Advice, we discuss the Labor of delivering a new baby with an article titled, “5 TIps Moms Can Depend on for Introducing Their Child to the New Baby.”
First up in Poppin’ culture we talk about the show Ted Lasso and how he builds relationships via support and compassion. Then in our Academic Deep Dive, we talk about the article “Loving Others: The Impact of Compassionate Love on Later-Life Psychological Well-being,” written by Dr. Eva Kahana and colleagues. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we talk about the good and the bad about epic scenes in romantic dramas. We cover all of the big scenes that are sure to bring back some nostalgia: Pride and Prejudice, Anne of Green Gable, 10 Things I Hate About You, and MORE
First, in Poppin’ Culture, we talk about the power of triangulation in the Netflix Series "Behind Her Eyes”. Then, in the Academic Deep Dive we discuss “You Aren’t As Close to My Family As You Think: Discordant Perceptions About In-Laws and Risk of Divorce,” written by Dr. Katherine Fiori and colleagues. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we shine a positive light on the good things you are doing well as a parent.
In this episode we discuss Jacob’s favorite break-up songs in Poppin’ Culture. Then in the Academic Deep Dive we talk about the article, “Shifting Inequalities? Parents’ Sleep, Anxiety, and Calm During the COVID-19 Pandemic in Australia and the United States, ” written by Dr. Leah Ruppanner can colleagues. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we debate the quality of advice from instagram and tiktok.
First up, in Poppin’ Culture, we talk about how Superstore demonstrates the impact of a sociodemographic context on relationships. In the the Academic Deep Dive segment, we discuss the article “The Influence of Family and Friend Confidants on Marital Quality in Older Couples, ”written by Drs. Ruixue Zhaoyang and Lynn Martire at Penn State. Recently published in the Journals of Gerontology: Social Sciences. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we discuss advice from social media.
In this episode, we explore the father-son relationship (and how to connect across differences and disagreements) by talking about the show Zoey’s Extraordinary Playlist. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive into new research by Sara Seraj, Dr. Kate Blackburn, and Dr. James Pennebaker at UT Austin on whether the language we use may give away that we’re about to go through a breakup! Finally, we break down Tik Tok relationship advice on preparing to parent, family career advice, and celebrating others’ joy.
Academic article: here
This episode we start with Poppin’ Culture. We talk the show Flack on Amazon Prime with Anna Paquin and how it demonstrates establishing boundaries. Next, in our Academic Deep Dive, we discuss “The Gut Reaction to Couples’ Relationship Troubles: A Route to Gut Dysbiosis Through Changes in Depressive Symptoms, ” written by a large team of researchers at Ohio State and Southern Methodist University, led by Dr. Janice Kiecolt-Glaser. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice, we talk about advice from social media.
This week we talk about the Netflix reality show Indian Matchmaker in Poppin’ Culture. Then in the Academic Deep Dive segment we talk about the article, “Romantic alternative monitoring increases ahead of infidelity and break-up, ” written by Drs. Lane Ritchie, Scott Stanley, Galena Rhoades, and Howard Markman at the University of Denver. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we talk about an article from Very Well Family about advice about how to cope when people judge your parenting.
This episode was recorded on January 24th, 2021. After we record this episode, the host of the Bachelor, Chris Harrison, promoted and condoned racist ideas. We strongly condemn these ideas and call on Chris Harrison and the other producers of the Bachelor to root out the ideas and systems that are present in the show that promote white supremacy.
In this episode, we discuss the academic article, “Racial Discrimination, Racism-Specific Support, and Self-Reported Health Among African American Couples” lead by Dr. Shardé McNeil Smith. Then in Good or Bad Advice, we discuss advice from TikTok about racism in the therapy field.
In this episode, we are celebrating Black History Month. In Poppin’ Culture we talk about misapplying science as demonstrated by the Documentary “The Vow". Next, in the Academic Deep Dive segment we discuss the article, “Expect the Best; Not the Worst: The Impact of Parental Expectation on Black Males’ Math Scores” by Dr. Lawrence Jackson and colleagues. Finally, for Good or Bad Advice we go over an article by Dr. White about how to talk to our children about racism.
Academic Deep Dive: here
Good or Bad Advice: here
YouTube Video: here
This week we talk about Netflix’s SMASH hit Bridgerton and how it depicts destructive entitlement in Poppin’ Culture. In our Academic Deep Dive segment, we discuss a paper “Hiding Success” published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology by Annabelle Roberts and Dr. Emma Levine at the University of Chicago, and Dr. Ovul Sezer, at UNC Chapel Hill. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice, we discuss found on social media.
Article: HERE
Advice: here, here, here, here, and here
YouTube: Here
This episode we first talk about The Cabin, a Netflix reality show and debunk the idea that in order to “find yourself” you much remove yourself from the people you love. Then in the Academic Deep Dive segment, we discuss the article: “When Paid Work Invades the Family: Single Mothers in the COVID-19 Pandemic” written by Dr. Rosanna Hertz at Wellesley College, Jane Mattes at Single Mother by Choice Organization in New York City, and Alexandria Shook at Yale, and was recently published in the Journal of Family Issues. Finally, in good or bad advice, we discuss advice from social media including Tiktok and Twitter.
This episode we first discuss the Netflix Christmas RomCom “Operation Christmas Drop” in Poppin’ Culture. Then in the Academic Deep Dive Segment, we discuss the academic article, “Parental Use of ‘Cry it Out’ in Infants: No Adverse Effects on Attachment and Behavioural Development at 18 months,” written by Dr. Ayten Bilgin and Dr. Dieter Wolke at the University of Warwick in the UK. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we reviewed the article: “How to Prevent Holiday Stress and Anxiety in Children” by VeryWellFamily.com.
Academic Deep Dive Article: HERE
Good or Bad Advice Article: HERE
YouTube: HERE
This episode we first discuss the Bachelorette and how NOT to start a relationship in Poppin’ Culture. Then, in the Academic Deep Dive segment, we discuss the academic article, “Bed-sharing in Couples is
Associated with Increased and Stabilized REM Sleep and Sleep-Stage Synchronization” by Dr. Henning Johannes Drews and colleagues. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we discuss advice from social media.
This episode in Poppin’ Culture we talk about the epigenetic transmission of trauma in Netflix’s Haunting of Bly Manor. Then in the Academic Deep Dive segment, we discuss an article titled, “Adult Children’s Daily Experiences with Parental Advice: The Importance of Life Problems and Relationship Quality,” written by Dr. Haowei Wang and colleagues. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we discuss advice from social media.
This election day special mini-pod we discuss the stress of the election and how to keep relationships (and yourself) healthy in the context of political differences. First, in the Academic Deep Dive segment we discuss the academic article, "Explaining the impact of differences in voting patterns on resilience and relational load in romantic relationships during the transition to the Trump presidency." Then, in Good or Bad Advice we discuss the NY TImes article, "Talking with Relative across the political divide.:
In this episode, Jacob leads by discussing how to be a good ally for our LGBTQIA loved ones when they’re coming out. Next, Sarah takes us on an Academic Deep Dive into a new study on emotional labor: “ The Psychological Toll of Emotion Work in Same-Sex and Different-Sex Marital Dyads,” written by a team led by Dr. Debra Umberson at UT Austin. Finally, Patricia brings us some relationship advice from Instagram, Twitter, and TikTok - all the social medias! We’re ready to rate it all Good or Bad, based on science!
Description of National Coming Out Day video discussed in Poppin’ Culture: here
Academic Deep Dive: here
Episode on Youtube: here
This episode Patricia talks about the Hulu show Normal People in Poppin’ Culture, and the healing power of supportive relationships. Next, Sarah breaks down the academic article, “Feeling Stuck: Exploring the Development of Felt Constraint in Romantic Relationships,” written by Dr. Tyler Jamison at the University of New Hampshire and Dr. Jonathon Beckmeyer at West Virginia University. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice, we discuss the qualities (and questionable advice) of the couple therapist on the show, Hart of Dixie.
Academic Article: here
Episode on YouTube: here
In this episode, Jacob talks about the new Netflix show, Baewatch, in Poppin’ Culture, and what it may suggest for how to intentionally create closeness in relationships. Next, Sarah takes a deep dive into the academic article, “Negligible Evidence that People Desire Partners Who Uniquely Fit Their Ideals,” written by Dr. Jehan Sparks, at the University of Cologne, and colleagues. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice, we talk about several quotes and videos from social media - some are funny, some are serious, and we give our opinion on all of them!
Article referenced in Poppin’ Culture regarding building closeness: here
New York Times article referenced in Poppin’ Culture regarding questions to ask to build closeness: here
Academic Article: here
Episode on Youtube: here
In this episode, Jacob discusses the pros and cons (spoiler: there are many cons) of Enneagrams. Sarah does a deep dive on the academic article, “ Parent’s Anxiety Links Household Stress and Young Children’s Behavioral Dysregulation,” written by Andrea Fields, Chelsea Harmon, Zoe Lee, and Dr. Nim Tottenham at Columbia University, and Dr. Jennifer Louie at Child Mind Institute. Finally, in Good or Bad advice, Patricia walks though advice about becoming a step-family from WebMD.
In the Season 2 opener, Jacob brings us a discussion of the new show Labor of Love in Poppin’ Culture. Sarah brings us an Academic Deep Dive discussing the article, “Machine Learning Uncovers the Most Robust Self-Report Predictors of Relationship Quality Across 43 Longitudinal Couples Studies,” written by Dr. Samantha Joel at Western University and 85 of her romantic relationship researcher colleagues. Finally, Patricia discusses Good or Bad Advice found on TikTok.
Article: Here
YouTube:
TikTok: Being the one, Trust vs Knowing, How to get engaged, Put a finger down
This month we welcome Dr. Eli Finkel to talk about his book “The All-or-Nothing Marriage: How the Best Marriages Work”
This week we discuss the TV show Single Parents and the importance of constructing intentional narratives for our relationships. Then, we dive deep into the article, “The Scent of a Good Night’s Sleep: Olfactory Cues of a Romantic Partner Improve Sleep Efficiency,” written by Marlise Hofer and Dr. Frances Chen at the University of British Columbia. Recently published in the journal Psychological Science, these researchers explored how the smell of a loved one may affect sleep quality. Finally, we revisit the wonderful TV show Schitt’s Creek and discuss whether the advice the Rose family gives is Good or Bad.
Academic Deep Dive: bit.ly/3iEkTys
This special episode is the first in a three-part mini-series of our Summer Book Club: ”The Relationship Cure" by John Gottman and Joan DeClaire.
This week we're focusing on leaning on each other and putting the work into relationships. First up, Jacob discusses Too Hot to Handle on Netflix and the show's ability to show us how putting effort into your relationship can payout in improving it! Next, our Academic Deep Dive discusses research on getting support from family out of Rutgers Camden by Dr. Joan Mazelis and colleagues, published in NCFR’s Journal of Marriage and Family. The researchers study how low-income new parents activate, or avoid, assistance from family, and we talk about the need to help out new parents may extend well past the birth of a first child. Last up, we discuss Reader's Digest advice on how to become BFFs with your siblings! Should you focus on the positive? Fall back into childhood roles? We've rated it all.
Academic Article: bit.ly/2CgRQAk
Advice: bit.ly/2VWTs99
This episode we discuss “Feel Good” on Netflix in Poppin’ Culture. Then, in Academic Deep Dive we discuss the article titled “Apology and Restitution: The Psychophysiology of Forgiveness After Accountable Relational Repair Responses,” written by Dr. Charlotte Witvliet at Hope College and her colleagues Lindsey Luna, Everett Worthington Jr., and Jo-Ann Tsang. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice about making friends from The Guardian.
In this episode, we talk about a new reality show called, “Listen to Your Heart” and the importance of uniqueness within the couple during the Poppin’ Culture segment. In the Academic Deep Dive, we talk about, “Developmental changes in parental authority legitimacy and over-associations with adjustment” by Dr. Campione-Barr and colleagues. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice we talk about how to cope with kids in the summer and debunk advice from Messy Motherhood
Youtube: https://youtu.be/V6a0LQV3bpw
Academic Deep Dive: https://psycnet.apa.org/journals/dev/56/5/951.html
Good or Bad Avice: https://messymotherhood.com/survive-summer-break-five-amazing-tips/
In this episode, we first talk about the show Rami on Hulu about our larger family systems. Then in the Academic Deep Dive, we discuss an article about parenting, “Adult attachment and jealousy of the partner-infant relationship at the transition to parenthood” published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships. Finally, in Good or Bad Advice, we talk about ways to deal with a difficult Mother-in-Law.
Academic Deep Dive:https://bit.ly/35B26hh
Good or Bad Advice: https://bit.ly/2KZ9h9A
This episode we talk about toxic marriages in the new season of Osark on Netflix. Then we talk about physical arousal (not what you thinking) in the academic deep dive segment. Finally, we wrap up with Good or Bad advice from TV and listeners.
This episode Jacob talks about the difference between Love Island and The Bachelor using SCIENCE! Then, in academic deep dive, Sarah breaks down the article “Expressive writing and marital satisfaction: A writing sample analysis”. Finally, in good or bad advice we really take to task an article about supposed characteristics of a healthy relationship.
Academic Deep Dive: https://doi-org.proxy.lib.utk.edu/10.1111/fare.12416
Good or Bad Advice: https://markmanson.net/healthy-relationship-habits
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This episode we talk about many many ways to stay connected during social distancing and ways to care for our mental health. In Popping Culture we discuss how to maintain boundaries with consuming screen time, Next, we discuss an article about “walking contemplation” strategies and their effects on decreasing anxiety and improving well-being. In Good or Bad advice we provide strategies people sent in about how to cope with Covid-19 social distancing.
Academic Deep Dive: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10902-019-00100-2
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This week we’re back to discussing relationships in pop culture via Love is Blind - What can we learn from netflix’s new reality show? You know Jacob has some words of wisdom. Then, in this week’s Academic Deep Dive, we break down a new study in Family Relations by Dr. Anne-Elina Salo and colleagues investigating different types of loneliness in children and their parents. Lastly, we discuss some listener-submitted advice about how to maintain family relationships from a distance?
Link to article: bit.ly/2SEyvxg
Link to advice: bit.ly/39wenV3
This week we welcome a new expert Kate Seamons to talk about grief and bereavement and her company Rainy Day Boxes.
In Poppin’ Culture we discuss grief and father-son relationships with the show Modern Family.
Then, in this week’s Academic Deep Dive, we break down a new study in Psychosomatic Medicine by Dr. Richard Lopez and colleagues investigated how individuals’ specific emotion regulation strategies in the face of losing their partner were associated with problematic inflammation.
Lastly, we discuss advice from The Guardian about how to support someone when they are grieving.
Link to article: https://insights.ovid.com/crossref?an=00006842-202001000-00002
Link to advice: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/apr/15/15-ways-support-someone-grieving-recently-bereaved?CMP=share_btn_tw
This week we’re back to discussing relationships in pop culture via The Bachelor - how does Pilot Pete’s need to rescue others begin to shape relationships across the show? And, what does it tell us about how we may enter into drama triangles with people in our own lives? Then, in this week’s Academic Deep Dive, we break down a new study in the Journals of Gerontology: Social Sciences by Dr. Karen Fingerman and colleagues investigating whether social integration (involvement in a diverse collection of social relationships) is associated with several measures of wellbeing. Lastly, we discuss some listener-submitted advice about healing while single to promote future relationship well-being, and whether Selena Gomez has it right: do we need to lose others in order to find ourselves?
Link to article: bit.ly/2SEyvxg
Link to advice: bit.ly/39wenV3
This episode we have special guest Dr. Kristina Coop Gordon! Dr. Gordon shares her expertise on couple therapy, joins us for a discussion about Netflix's Sex Education, and leads our Academic Deep Dive with a recent article of hers describing a Relationship Checkup intervention. We also discuss advice people get when they learn about their partner's infidelity - good, or bad?
Link to article: bit.ly/2RZuNhg
Link to advice: bit.ly/2RUTtHY
Link to Atlantic article about Sex Education: bit.ly/2RXctWk
This episode, we’re talking about teamwork, and shared experiences! Our pop culture segment focuses on building trust and connection by getting out of your comfort zone and creating shared fun experiences, via the new reality show Flirty Dancing. Then we discuss new research published in the Journal of Marriage and Family that explores the role of leisure time for parents. Finally, we discuss advice listeners sent in from Netflix’s film Set It Up and about sibling relationships.
Link to academic article: bit.ly/38bJBQn
Link to advice: imdb.to/35SEbID
This episode we talk about the many languages of love. First, we discuss communicating by technology and its effects on family boundaries via the new Amazon show The Feed. Then, in the Academic Deep Dive, we discuss a new research study by Annelise Murphy and colleagues about the potential benefits of consensual non-monogamy (opening up romantic relationships), and the need for intentional decision-making. Finally, we evaluate the listener-submitted 5 Love Languages and whether the book reflects good or bad advice.
Link to article: osf.io/5fxsk/
Link to advice: 5lovelanguages.com
This episode we talk about the wonderful world of Christmas Movies and why we hate to love them. We talk about The Knight Before Christmas produced by Venessa Hudgens, Christmas with a View from Nextflix, and Noelle from Disney Plus. Happy Christmas Movies to ALL!!
This episode we focus on separation, and discuss the importance of intentional breakups with another dive into a Temptation Island couple. Next, we talk about new research in the journal Demography, “Repartnering Following Gray Divorce: The Roles of Resources and Constraints for Women and Men,” by Drs. Brown, Lin, Hammersmith, and Wright. Lastly, we debate relationship advice from Will Smith about who’s responsible for your happiness - you or your partner - as well as advice to create separate spaces for difficult conversations at family holiday get-togethers.
Link to academic article: bit.ly/381Fibq
Link to advice: bit.ly/2OLEn7p
In this episode we talk about the importance of expressing emotion in relationships, unlike a very specific couple on Temptation Island. Then, we do an Academic Deep Dive into the concept of “capitalization,” and the power of sharing good news with your friends and family, in a new study published by Dr. Ariela Pagani and colleagues in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin. Finally, we talk about two pieces of relationship advice: whether to turn lemons into lemonade (spoiler alert: prepare for a rant!), and a parenting suggestion by Tom Hanks, shared by the New York Times.
Link to article: bit.ly/3487ebi
Link to advice: bit.ly/2O4l0Gl
In our first ever MINI episode, we discuss brand new research done by…us! In an Academic Deep Dive, we talk about a study (out today in the Journal of Family Psychology) in which we tested whether the quality of family relationships and intimate partnerships is linked to physical health over 20 years of adulthood, with surprising findings! We also talk about advice for how to deal with difficult family members.
Link to article: bit.ly/36Gnth8
Link to advice: bit.ly/32jkZSA
This episode we talk about why NOT to test your relationship commitment like the couples on Temptation Island. Then, we dive deep into an article about gratitude, relationship satisfaction, and the risk of gratitude mismatch, published in APA’s Journal of Family Psychology. Finally, we talk about listener-submitted relationship advice regarding long-distance relationships.
Link to article: bit.ly/2r9uDKy
Link to advice: bit.ly/33wEyIk
This episode we talk about family roles in HBO’s Succession, and do an Academic Deep Dive into an article about the negative impact of politics on health and relationships, titled “Friends, relatives, sanity, and health: The costs of politics” in PLOS One. Finally, in the Good or Bad Advice segment, we discuss how to talk politics with family (if at all!), as well as some listener-submitted advice about creating relationships with “flowerers” and “gardeners,” and saying “no.”
Link to article: bit.ly/36qEKLc
Link to advice: bit.ly/33dHuK4
This episode we talk about an article from Schitt’s Creek from the Atlantic during the Pop Culture segment: https://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2019/09/schitts-creek-and-the-subtle-joy-of-the-marriage-sitcom/598540/. In the Academic Deep Dive segment we talk about how couples present to therapy with new research out of the Gottman Institute: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/jmft.12395. Finally, in the Good or Bad Advice we talk about Netflix Cheating Advice from Mashable: https://mashable.com/2015/12/30/netflix-and-cheat/
This episode we talk about the Bachelor in Paradise and Joe Biden in the Democratic Debates during the pop culture segment. Then in the academic deep dive, we discuss the article, "Intensive Mothers, Cautionary Tale Fathers: Adult Children’s Perceptions of Parental Influence on Health" by Dr. Kissing (https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0192513X19875772). Finally, we review some advice from the Chicago Tribune about parenting advice (https://www.chicagotribune.com/lifestyles/parenting/sc-new-parents-advice-family-0307-20170302-story.html)
In this episode, we talk about triangulation from Love Island - UK, an academic article from Dr. Labrecque et al. (https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1111/famp.12472?casa_token=jc4OuY4Rp1gAAAAA:HvP2lzsERBwZEnpFIx9zqNcUs5_RqYwhHF-CUiUukJ2L7W8MXvKuL044L6AJgeDbenNmmR2u33bMoA), and advice from mothers to their daughter brides (https://www.businessinsider.com/best-marriage-advice-from-parents-2018-11).
This episode’s article: The Cognitive Dimension of Household Labor - Allison Daminger, 2019https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0003122419859007?journalCode=asra
This episode’s advice article: https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/7-signs-your-partner-is-losing-interest-in-you-and-how-to-win-her-back/