New Life Live! on Oneplace.com: Recent Episodes
Jason Collins
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Americas #1 Christian Counseling Call-In Radio Program. Since 1985 New Life Live! has been broadcast as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical perspective.
Topics: Forgiveness, Getting Unstuck, Grief, Divorce, Dating, Teens, Marijuana Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. Becky shares about getting stuck in unforgiveness. 2. How can I deal with family members who dismiss my grief after losing my husband four years ago to COVID? 3. I’m twice divorced and would like to start dating again; should I go on a Christian dating site? 4. My 15yo rebellious son vapes and does marijuana; what should I do? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Healing Is a Choice Understanding and Loving Your Child Who Smokes Pot To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Negative Patterns, Autism, Triggers, Weight Issues, Grief, Insomnia, Estrangement, Adult Children, Salvation, Finances Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Chris Williams Caller Questions what do I do? The police were called when I wasn't there. I've recently lost The post New Life Live: February 10, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Stress, Negative Thoughts, Getting Unstuck, Adult Children, Divorce, Work Issues Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Becky Brown Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Jacqui discusses vicarious stress from negative news and social media, and what to do instead of doomscrolling. 2. How do I get over my soulmate abusing me and moving on? I don’t know how to stop missing and loving my ex. 3. My son is in an open marriage, and I don’t understand. 4. I divorced my husband 3yrs ago after I discovered he had been hooking up with men, but I still don’t know how to move on. 5. I have been working at a job for one year that recently was bought out and the atmosphere changed; should I look for another job? Suggested Resources: Every Believer’s Thought Life Doing Life with Your Adult Children Healing Is a Choice Changes that Heal To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Gaslighting, Suicide, Depression, Parent Issues, Retirement, Intimacy, Emotional Affairs Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri shares a story from her first marriage that demonstrates gaslighting and blame shifting. 2. My 17yoson is struggling with suicidal ideation and wrote a note saying he doesn’t like hearing my husband and me arguing; what can we do? 3. My wife’s work is damaging her physically, but it has been hard for her to let go and retire; how can I help? 4. Although my husband is sober from porn, weed, and drinking, I don’t want to be intimate; can I get those feelings back? 5. How do I start my healing journey after I discovered my husband was exchanging sexually explicit texts with my friend? Suggested Resources: How We Love Intimate Deception Worthy of His Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Life Recovery, Emotional Abuse, Medical Issues, Abortion, Politics, Guilt, Engagement Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Becky discusses 6 steps to work your recovery. 2. How do I stay with my abusive husband of 40yrs? I was on the verge of leaving, but then he received a diagnosis of Parkinson’s and a type of dementia. 3. I had an abortion a month ago even though I didn’t want it, and then the abusive man I was with left. How do I move forward? 4. How do I deal with the problems in our world these days? The politics are really brutal. 5. My fianc with Parkinson’s wants me to sell my house and furniture before we get married. Because I will end up with nothing, I broke up with him and now I feel guilty. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Changes That Heal Heart Handbook Healing Is a Choice To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Communication, In-laws, Drug Addiction, Sexual Abuse, Siblings, Forgiveness, Schizophrenia, Adult Children Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc discusses our first language: body language. 2. How do I deal with my son-in-law? He has either borderline or bipolar disorder and lives in my house. 3. I overcame opioid addiction after 20yrs, but I wake up in torment that I’ll be homeless. 4. I am the youngest of seven and was sexually abused by my brother; how do I let go of my desire to be loved by my siblings? 5. My adult son might have schizophrenia and is in and out of jobs; what can I do to get him help? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Anxiety, Adult Children, Suicide, Christian Walk, PTSD, Engagement, Physical Abuse Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice shares how to transform anxiety into a superpower. 2. My 21yo son doesn’t have a job; what’s the best way to open a dialogue with him? 3. I have bipolar disorder, and now I’m terrified my 28yo son with kids is suicidal; what should I do? 4. My so-called Christian friends say they’re for everything the left promotes; are they really Christians if they go against Scripture? 5. My fianc is an army vet who has PTSD and is addicted to medication; what can I do to protect myself? 6. How can I help a couple forgive each other if they have four children under six and two restraining orders? Suggested Resources: Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World Changes That Heal Worthy of Her Trust How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Evil, PTSD, Depression, Divorce, Guilt, Worry, Anxiety, Alcohol, Self Worth, Pleaser, Dating, Dementia Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses suicidal empathy, when we refuse to acknowledge that evil exists in the world. 2. Do I have PTSD or depression? I’ve been struggling for 14yrs after my wife cheated and we divorced. 3. I give rides to students for appointments and feel prompted to pray for the people in the waiting room but never do. I feel guilty; is my guilt misdirected? 4. What can I do about constantly worrying? I give it to God but pick it right up. 5. I have been sober for 10yrs from alcohol, but I still struggle with insecurities and trying to please. 6. The woman I am dating has forgotten her keys, and I am afraid this is a sign of dementia. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Every Believer’s Thought Life Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Living Strong, Finishing Well To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Prayer, Work Issues, Retirement, Adult Children, Medication, Addictions, Anxiety, Christian Walk, Self Worth Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice offers insight to consider when it feels like God is being slow to answer prayers. 2. I am under a lot of stress with my remote job and don’t feel I have a voice with my boss; how can I do a good job? 3. My 32yo son is addicted to medication his doctor gave him for ADHD and is struggling with anxiety at a new job; what can he do? 4. What do I do if I doubt God’s love and forgiveness? I don’t feel like I belong. Suggested Resources: Boundaries Doing Life with Your Adult Children How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Triggers, Adult Children, Affairs, Narcissists, Separation, Stroke, Medication, Dating, Christian Walk Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui discusses why we should be curious and not furious when triggered. 2. What are my next steps after my daughter admitted she committed adultery in her 1yr marriage? 3. I left my narcissistic husband of 27yrs before Christmas; am I doing the right thing? 4. What can I do to help my sister whose husband had a stroke but refuses to take his medication? 5. My 18yo daughter went on her first date ever, but her dad doesn’t want her to date him because he doesn’t go to church; what should I do? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception How We Love Take Your Life Back Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Anxiety, Depression, Alcohol, Marijuana, Sexual Integrity, Pornography, Adult Children, Finances Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: 1. Chris discusses low-grade depression called dysthymia and how lifestyle affects it. 2. I drink too much, so my Christian friend told me to try marijuana; what else can I do? 3. I’ve been married almost 30yrs and enjoy looking at nude women in magazines like I am looking at art; what is your opinion? 4. My daughter-in-law says she’s not in love with my son anymore; what should I say to my son? 5. My son is paying $25 per week to pay back $2,500; what is my biblical plan to restore the relationship? Suggested Resources: Every Believer’s Thought Life Every Man’s Marriage How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Stress, Fear, Anxiety, Panic Attacks, Sexual Abuse, Childhood Trauma, Estrangement, Father Issues Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. Marc discusses stress and how Jesus dealt with it. 2. I panic when I drive, and it’s negatively impacting my life; what should I do? 3. How do I get over my sister sexually abusing me when I was young? I’ve never told anyone. 4. I wanted to follow up on our phone call last week and say thank you! 5. What is the best way for my 4yo daughter’s father to reintegrate into her life? She has no idea who he is. Suggested Resources: 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety 100 Days of Healing How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Busyness, Separation, Adult Children, Boundaries, Pornography, Intimacy, Schizophrenia, Divorce Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim shares the dangers of living a phrenetic life and what the Bible says about it. 2. My 37yo son is separated from his wife who has Cushing’s Syndrome, and he told me to back off in reaching out to her; do I back off? 3. I asked my husband to go to a counselor for his anger and porn issues, but he won’t; how do I go about this if I don’t want to be intimate with him? 4. My son just got out of a treatment center and now he is in jail; how do I get power of attorney? He was diagnosed schizophrenic and won’t take his meds. 5. What can I do if the more boundaries I put up with my ex-husband, the more difficult it can become? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Understanding and Loving a Person with Sexual Addiction Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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Topics: Social Media, Teens, Adult Children, Finances, Drug Addiction, Reconciliation, Boundaries Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice discusses the connection between social media and teens being lonely or suicidal. 2. How can I approach my 18yo son about responsible credit card use? 3. I struggled with a meth addiction for 18yrs; a friend gave me the Life Recovery Bible, and it was so impactful in my recovery! 4. My ex-husband is using crack cocaine and wants us to reconcile; am I on the right path to request he seek treatment and not to reconcile? 5. I put my adult son out after he brought weapons into my home, and now he is homeless and asking to come back; what should I do? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Journey Life Recovery Bible Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Counseling, Full Disclosure, Aging Parents, Dementia, End of Life, Affairs, Group Dynamics Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions what should I do? Should The post New Life Live: January 21, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Connection, Adult Children, Grandparenting, Estrangement, ADD, Medication, Psychedelics, Affairs Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui shares from Romans why we should lean into the relational aspects of who God is, rather than the rules. 2. My daughter asked me not to help her children’s dad, and now she is upset because I helped him by taking my grandson to the doctor. What can I do to see my grandkids? 3. My adult daughter who is nursing won’t take medication for her ADHD and wants to microdose with mushrooms. What do you think? 4. How do I move forward after my husband’s third affair? He is doing great and I am suffering. Suggested Resources: Boundaries Understanding and Loving Your Child with ADHD Understanding and Loving a Person with ADD Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Disaster, Adult Children, Parenting, Verbal Abuse, Dating Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill shares her thoughts on what to do when disaster strikes. 2. My 19yo son is in college studying psychology and has become hateful in his speech toward his mother; how do I deal with him? 3. My wife said some unbelievably terrible things to me in front of the kids 13yrs ago, and it’s still hard for me today. 4. I’ve been dating a man for 3yrs and it’s not even serious; what should I do? Suggested Resources: How We Love Boundaries Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Sexual Integrity, Respect, Asperger’s, Dementia, Transgender, Adult Children, Pleasers, Vacillators, Social Media Addiction Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ shares insight about isolation from the Every Man’s Battle intensive in Atlanta. 2. My husband of 35yrs can’t hold a job, might be on the Asperger’s spectrum, and punishes me by withholding sex. 3. What can we do about my brother-in-law with dementia who has been breaking out of my sister’s home? 4. I’m the parent of a transgender 26yo daughter and am having a hard time with her marrying a woman and having kids with her; how can I process this? 5. What should I do to continue to heal from being a pleaser? My husband is a vacillator and has alcohol, porn, and social media addictions. Suggested Resources: Boundaries 100 Days of Prayer Doing Life with Your Adult Children How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Trauma, Borderline, Jealousy, Anxiety, Boundaries, Divorce, Grief, Ministry Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri discusses how vicarious trauma impacts us emotionally and relationally. 2. I have borderline personality disorder and am extremely jealous and anxious so that I don’t even want another woman talking to my husband. 3. What does it mean to detach with love? I have to detach from my ex-husband who is an addict. 4. My friend started ministries and did a lot for the Lord to help the blind community, but he just passed away; how do I take it all in? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Trauma, Borderline, Jealousy, Anxiety, Boundaries, Divorce, Grief, Ministry Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri discusses how vicarious trauma impacts us emotionally and relationally. 2. I have borderline personality disorder and am extremely jealous and anxious so that I don’t even want another woman talking to my husband. 3. What does it mean to detach with love? I have to detach from my ex-husband who is an addict. 4. My friend started ministries and did a lot for the Lord to help the blind community, but he just passed away; how do I take it all in? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Career, Christian Walk, Adult Children, In-laws, Forgiveness, Sexual Abuse, Childhood Trauma Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: 1. Chris discusses a life lesson from Ecclesiastes: Is your life built around your career or vice versa? 2. Is it too late to do anything about our 28yo adult son who lives in our home and doesn’t engage with us? 3. What’s the best way to handle our 31yo son who recently married, and his wife and father-in-law are rude to us? 4. How do you navigate your emotions when your adult child tells you what their issues are with you and say they forgive you, but they don’t? 5. How do I forgive myself if my two adult children were molested as children? I find myself crying in the night because I feel like I should have protected them. 6. My wife and I both have physical health issues. How do we regain our intimacy after 32yrs of marriage? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget Finding Joy in the Empty Nest To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Career, Christian Walk, Adult Children, In-laws, Forgiveness, Sexual Abuse, Childhood Trauma Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: 1. Chris discusses a life lesson from Ecclesiastes: Is your life built around your career or vice versa? 2. Is it too late to do anything about our 28yo adult son who lives in our home and doesn’t engage with us? 3. What’s the best way to handle our 31yo son who recently married, and his wife and father-in-law are rude to us? 4. How do you navigate your emotions when your adult child tells you what their issues are with you and say they forgive you, but they don’t? 5. How do I forgive myself if my two adult children were molested as children? I find myself crying in the night because I feel like I should have protected them. 6. My wife and I both have physical health issues. How do we regain our intimacy after 32yrs of marriage? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget Finding Joy in the Empty Nest To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Communication, Parenting, Ministry, Counseling, Teens, Transgender, Anxiety, Depression, OCD, Medications Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Marc shares his thoughts on the art of listening. 2. My 10yo grandson is very bright and kind, but he just sits in class and doesn’t do any work. 3. How can I help a young couple at my church who are leading a ministry and struggling in their marriage? The wife thinks she only needs help from God, and the husband feels like a hypocrite. 4. My 15yo grandson is on hormone blockers and is transitioning to a girl; how do I love him well? 5. I have severe anxiety, depression, and OCD; what do I do if the Zoloft that I’ve been taking doesn’t work? Suggested Resources: How We Love Our Kids How We Love Doing Life with Your Adult Children 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Communication, Parenting, Ministry, Counseling, Teens, Transgender, Anxiety, Depression, OCD, Medications Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Marc shares his thoughts on the art of listening. 2. My 10yo grandson is very bright and kind, but he just sits in class and doesn’t do any work. 3. How can I help a young couple at my church who are leading a ministry and struggling in their marriage? The wife thinks she only needs help from God, and the husband feels like a hypocrite. 4. My 15yo grandson is on hormone blockers and is transitioning to a girl; how do I love him well? 5. I have severe anxiety, depression, and OCD; what do I do if the Zoloft that I’ve been taking doesn’t work? Suggested Resources: How We Love Our Kids How We Love Doing Life with Your Adult Children 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Worry, Forgiveness, Adult Children, Anger, Bipolar Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses how worry is different from anxiety and what percentage of worry never happens. 2. Would your book Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers help me to get over my mother not letting me marry my fianc? I still struggle with it. 3. How can I continue to have a relationship with my adult son? He yells at me, and I’ve asked him to apologize, but he won’t. 4. As a punishment to my son, I missed his last graduation; was that the right thing to do? 5. What do I tell my bipolar brother who blames me for being unhappy after I invited him to live near me? Suggested Resources: Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Worry, Forgiveness, Adult Children, Anger, Bipolar Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses how worry is different from anxiety and what percentage of worry never happens. 2. Would your book Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers help me to get over my mother not letting me marry my fianc? I still struggle with it. 3. How can I continue to have a relationship with my adult son? He yells at me, and I’ve asked him to apologize, but he won’t. 4. As a punishment to my son, I missed his last graduation; was that the right thing to do? 5. What do I tell my bipolar brother who blames me for being unhappy after I invited him to live near me? Suggested Resources: Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Fear, Anxiety, Friendship, Loneliness, Retirement, Communication, Counseling, Childhood Trauma, Marijuana, Chronic Medical Issues, Christian Walk Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice shares her cold plunge experience and how intentionally pursuing discomfort can lead to change, character growth, and true happiness. 2. How can I manage my fear and anxiety to build social connections? I am a stay-at-home mom and it gets lonely. 3. My husband of 40yrs retired and now our roles are reversed; should I just be happy about his help around the house or feel bitter when he doesn’t want to be told what to do? 4. It never seems to work out with therapists; what do I do? 5. Is it okay for a Christian to use medical marijuana for chronic pain? I am on the Board at my church and feel guilty because of my past drug use. 6. I feel like God is not listening when I pray for forgiveness. Suggested Resources: Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget Sacred Marriage Take Your Life Back Workbook Emotional Freedom Workbook Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Fear, Anxiety, Friendship, Loneliness, Retirement, Communication, Counseling, Childhood Trauma, Marijuana, Chronic Medical Issues, Christian Walk Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice shares her cold plunge experience and how intentionally pursuing discomfort can lead to change, character growth, and true happiness. 2. How can I manage my fear and anxiety to build social connections? I am a stay-at-home mom and it gets lonely. 3. My husband of 40yrs retired and now our roles are reversed; should I just be happy about his help around the house or feel bitter when he doesn’t want to be told what to do? 4. It never seems to work out with therapists; what do I do? 5. Is it okay for a Christian to use medical marijuana for chronic pain? I am on the Board at my church and feel guilty because of my past drug use. 6. I feel like God is not listening when I pray for forgiveness. Suggested Resources: Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget Sacred Marriage Take Your Life Back Workbook Emotional Freedom Workbook Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Hope, Suicide, Anxiety, Adult Children, Depression, Affairs, Separation, Trust, Discernment, Guilt Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Becky shares how hope is not just an anchor; it is a propellor that can carry us during tough times. 2. My 62yo brother attempted suicide after dealing with racing jumbled thoughts and anxiety for 9mos; what do I do when he is released from the psychiatric hospital? 3. How do I help my 38yo daughter who lives with depression, feels like giving up, and even medication and counselors haven’t helped? 4. How do I respond to my husband who has moved to another state and lives with a childhood female friend? 5. I was advised to watch true crime shows so I wouldn’t be so trusting of people; why do I feel guilty watching the misfortune of others? Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice How People Grow How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Hope, Suicide, Anxiety, Adult Children, Depression, Affairs, Separation, Trust, Discernment, Guilt Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Becky shares how hope is not just an anchor; it is a propellor that can carry us during tough times. 2. My 62yo brother attempted suicide after dealing with racing jumbled thoughts and anxiety for 9mos; what do I do when he is released from the psychiatric hospital? 3. How do I help my 38yo daughter who lives with depression, feels like giving up, and even medication and counselors haven’t helped? 4. How do I respond to my husband who has moved to another state and lives with a childhood female friend? 5. I was advised to watch true crime shows so I wouldn’t be so trusting of people; why do I feel guilty watching the misfortune of others? Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice How People Grow How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Overloaded, Adult Children, Enabling, Sexual Integrity, Grief, Sexual Abuse, Terminal Illness Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim shares practical questions to ask yourself to help determine if your life is too busy. 2. My 38yo daughter works, but she owes money to the IRS and has credit card debt; is it wise for me to pay them? 3. My kids used to stress me out and I lusted after women, but now I walk in freedom after humbling myself and giving it over to the Lord! 4. How do I grieve the loss of my wife to breast cancer? My mom is staying with me for a few months, and it’s hard to grieve in front of her. 5. I have a background of sexual abuse, and my husband does inappropriate sexual things in front of me and yells at me. 6. How do I find my way during this new season of my husband being diagnosed with a rare, uncurable cancer? I feel guilty for feeling invisible. Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Healing Is a Choice Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Understanding and Loving a Person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Overloaded, Adult Children, Enabling, Sexual Integrity, Grief, Sexual Abuse, Terminal Illness Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim shares practical questions to ask yourself to help determine if your life is too busy. 2. My 38yo daughter works, but she owes money to the IRS and has credit card debt; is it wise for me to pay them? 3. My kids used to stress me out and I lusted after women, but now I walk in freedom after humbling myself and giving it over to the Lord! 4. How do I grieve the loss of my wife to breast cancer? My mom is staying with me for a few months, and it’s hard to grieve in front of her. 5. I have a background of sexual abuse, and my husband does inappropriate sexual things in front of me and yells at me. 6. How do I find my way during this new season of my husband being diagnosed with a rare, uncurable cancer? I feel guilty for feeling invisible. Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Healing Is a Choice Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Understanding and Loving a Person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Codependency, Separation, Reconciliation, Loneliness, Dating, Anger, Anxiety, Alcohol, Adult Children Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc shares about codependency with an illustration from Homer Simpson, and Dr. Alice shares about parental guilt. 2. How do I make my marriage relationship better? I’m staying with my brother because I’ve had enough after 40yrs of marriage. 3. I am divorced, and I don’t have any children or close friends. How do you deal with loneliness as a believer? 4. My dating relationship ended out of the blue after a couple of years. I’m angry and anxious and don’t want to be alone. 5. How do I tell my 36yo alcoholic daughter about Jesus? I used to struggle with alcohol myself. Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal Trust Intimate Deception Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Codependency, Separation, Reconciliation, Loneliness, Dating, Anger, Anxiety, Alcohol, Adult Children Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc shares about codependency with an illustration from Homer Simpson, and Dr. Alice shares about parental guilt. 2. How do I make my marriage relationship better? I’m staying with my brother because I’ve had enough after 40yrs of marriage. 3. I am divorced, and I don’t have any children or close friends. How do you deal with loneliness as a believer? 4. My dating relationship ended out of the blue after a couple of years. I’m angry and anxious and don’t want to be alone. 5. How do I tell my 36yo alcoholic daughter about Jesus? I used to struggle with alcohol myself. Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal Trust Intimate Deception Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Hope, Mother Issues, Divorce, Dating, Punctuality, Hoarding, Anger, Parenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about lament, longsuffering, and the greatest pain in life. 2. My toxic mom is almost 76yo and now lives near me, and my dad is no longer around to be a buffer. 3. After going through a hurtful divorce, how does a person re-enter the world of dating in an unsafe world? 4. I struggle with being late and am surrounded by clutter; how do I reset my panic button so I can be on time? 5. How can my daughter get her husband to be more empathetic and less critical to their 11yo daughter? Suggested Resources: Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget Life Recovery Workbook for Divorce Boundaries How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Goals, Accountability, Trust, Affairs, Estrangement, Adult Children, Grief, Christian Walk, Intervention Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill explains her process of making yearly intentions and how to be accountable. 2. How do I trust my wife after she cheated five or six times? I cheated the first year. 3. My 21yo daughter left home and cut off communication; how can I reconnect with her? 4. How can I be a better friend to a missionary friend who won’t grieve the death of her unbeliever daughter? 5. Is God calling me to do spiritual warfare with a student acting out on my school bus? Suggested Resources: Worthy of Her Trust Doing Life with Your Adult Children Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Goals, Alcohol, Peacemakers, Divorce, Remarriage, Trauma, Aging Parents, Blended Families, Teens, Parenting Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions what do I do? I am the peacemaker in my family; what can I do to help family members The post New Life Live: January 1, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Estrangement, Grief, Addiction, Sexual Integrity, Adult Children, Separation, Forgiveness, Trust, Affairs Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions should I be more upset? The post New Life Live: December 31, 2024 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Habits, Estrangement, End of Life, Aging Parents, Siblings, Sexual Integrity, Dating, Adult Children Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice shares the concept of habit exchange and steps to make it successful. 2. My brother sold my father’s house and took all the money, and now my family doesn’t talk to me after we couldn’t take care of my 91yo father and disabled sister. 3. How can we continue to show thankfulness and gratitude to our families even if there is brokenness? 4. A friend is dating a man who is married; any advice on how my wife and I can discuss this with her as she is not a believer? 5. Can you give me advice about my daughter who has cut me off? She is holding onto the past when her dad walked out on us and I was addicted to pain pills. Suggested Resources: How We Love Take Your Life Back Worthy of Her Trust Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Anxiety, Physical Abuse, Betrayal, Adult Children, Finances, Enabling, Dating, Depression, Insomnia Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about the Anxiety character from the movie Inside Out 2. 2. I was strangled by my husband, then he put a restraining order against me, and now I am homeless; where do I go when I have no one? 3. My son is married with kids and just lost his job; should I bail them out financially again? 4. I met a woman through Facebook dating who is not a US citizen and wants to marry me; should I? 5. How do I get my joy back after getting out of a legalistic church? 6. My adult son has struggled with insomnia, is paranoid, and can’t live on his own. I sometimes pray for God to take him home; what is God’s purpose for him? Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal Doing Life with Your Adult Children Every Man’s Battle To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Holiday, Pleaser, Guilt, Grandparenting, Discipline, In-laws, Estrangement, Father Issues Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions why do I feel guilty for taking my car back if The post New Life Live: December 26, 2024 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Anger, Bitterness, Disappointment, Teens, Parenting, Sexual Addiction, Paranoia, Medications Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui suggests the biggest gift we can give ourselves is to release ourselves from the confines of anger, bitterness, and disappointment. 2. Should I help my teen daughter regulate her anger? She has been getting angry about not being able to drive our car everywhere. 3. My husband disclosed some sexual behaviors and went to a facility where they extended his stay. 4. Are there any long-term effects from taking Zoloft? My brother told my mom he was not coming back and then he was diagnosed with paranoia. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Suicide, Friendship, Grief, Divorce, In-Laws, Adult Children, Estrangement, Affairs Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill reads the inspiring "A Christmas letter from Jesus." 2. How should our friend group support another friend whose son committed suicide? Should we just love her or say something? 3. What do I say to my daughter-in-law after my son asked her for a divorce? She calls me several times a day. 4. My son ruined his marriage due to infidelity and barely answers texts or calls after his divorce. 5. After 30yrs of marriage my husband abandoned me and moved in with his affair; how can I do a symbolic funeral to grieve? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Holidays, Betrayal, Aging Parents, Dementia, Adult Children, Controllers, Boundaries Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc shares about being an adult child around your family this holiday. 2. I was betrayed when my brother slept with my girlfriend 31yrs ago; is there a book that can help me with my feelings? 3. My 88yo mother is in the early stages of dementia and has given people access to her money. Since I have power of attorney, how do I honor my mother and stop the access? 4. I’m estranged from my adult children, and my daughter is now letting me back into her life; how do I handle false accusations? 5. There’s a Let Them theory out there; where do I find the balance in using this theory? I tend to want to manipulate outcomes. 6. If it wasn’t for you and my therapist, Dr. Alice Benton, I wouldn’t be here today! Suggested Resources: Emotional Freedom Workbook Take Your Life Back Doing Life with Your Adult Children Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Emotional Health, Holidays, Church Life, Connection, Adult Children, Confrontation, Sexual Integrity, Narcissists, Lying, Dating Hosts: Chris Williams, Marc Cameron, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions where do we go from here? Is it biblical to confront my The post New Life Live: December 20, 2024 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Holidays, Exercise, Stress, Fear, Dating, Historical Trauma Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui contemplates what having a gentle Christmas looks like. What is your opinion on doing somatic exercises to release trauma? Is this valid? Is my spasmodic dysphoria and agoraphobia related to stress and anxiety in my 43yr marriage to a The post New Life Live: December 19, 2024 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Hope, Father Issues, Lying, Sexual Integrity, Enabling, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri shares the history of the song It is Well with My Soul and how it gives her hope. 2. Is it okay to be done with the relationship with my father? He was physically abusive to my mom for 40yrs and never accepted responsibility. 3. I have a pattern of being dishonest to my wife of 36yrs when I know she’s going to be angry, and I have acted out sexually. 4. How do I navigate my mother enabling my sister? My sister has been homeless. Suggested Resources: Making Peace with Your Father Intimate Deception Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Holidays, Christian Walk, Adult Children, Schizophrenia, Sexual Addiction, Triggers, Sexual Integrity, Dating Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ reminds us to call upon the Lord and He will give us rest during the busyness of the holidays. 2. My adult son struggles with schizophrenia and bipolar disorder but lives on his own and isolates; how much do I help? 3. I’ve been clean for 6yrs from sex addiction, but my wife knows which type of women I’m attracted to and gets triggered. 4. How do I address the man that I am dating who is following bikini-clad women on their social media pages? My ex-husband did too. Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Worthy of Her Trust Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Communication, Separation, Getting Unstuck, Divorce, Forgiveness, Incarceration, Hosts: Chris Williams, Marc Cameron, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Marc discusses the art of listening and three things that hold us back from being better listeners. 2. How do I move forward after my wife left without even giving me a reason? 3. I am disabled and getting a divorce next year, but my husband won’t leave until the process is over; how do I forgive him fully? 4. I was in prison for 20yrs, and now I am out with a job, a wife and eight kids! Thank you for what you do! Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Take Your Life Back Soul of a Hero To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Forgiveness, Self-Care, Sexual Integrity, Self Worth, Adult Children, Anxiety, Medical Issues Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Guest Host Brian Perez Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses the difficulty that people have forgiving themselves. 2. I am tormented with same-sex attraction, masturbation, suicidal thoughts, and my sons do not talk to me; I know God loves me, but I think I’m not valuable. 3. The enemy attacks me, but I keep using the Bible to fight him. 4. How do I help my 19yo son who has a lesion on his pituitary? I have a hard time getting him to do anything. 5. I have anxiety about my doctor’s appointment next week to discuss my congestive heart failure and fluid around my heart. Suggested Resources: Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget Every Believer’s Thought Life Healing Is a Choice 100 Days to Freedom from Fear and Anxiety To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Feelings, Same-Sex Attraction, Affairs, Betrayal, Adult Children, Enabling, Physical Abuse, Verbal Abuse, Aging Parents Hosts: Chris Williams, Marc Cameron, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Marc discusses the amount of credibility to give to your feelings. 2. How do we love our 22yo daughter who came out as a lesbian and now has a girlfriend? 3. My husband was unfaithful 10yrs ago, is in recovery, and I attended Restore; what else can I do? 4. When do I give tough love to my daughter who lost two of her kids after a fight with her current husband, and I stepped in to care for their baby? 5. Should we leave our 31yo daughter alone? She has PTSD and recently screamed at us and called us horrible names. 6. My 96yo mother has Alzheimer’s; do we let her know that her loving aunt passed away? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Worthy of Her Trust Emotionally Destructive Relationship Boundaries Living Strong, Finishing Well To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Conflict Resolution, Emotional Affairs, Grief, Forgiveness, Work Issues Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice discusses how to repair broken relationships. 2. After my husband passed away, I keep finding things like a card from his secret emotional affair saying she loved him; how do I handle this? 3. I had a child with a woman I was involved with. What are your thoughts on reaching out to an ex to apologize? 4. I’m an interior designer and have taken a sabbatical from work; should I go back to the miserable work environment or retire? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception How We Love Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Counseling, Ministry, Trauma, Incarceration, Organization, Grief Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Guest Host Brian Perez Caller Questions More: 1. Becky discusses the mental barriers people have that keep them from seeing a counselor. 2. How do I know when it’s the right time for God to use me in a ministry setting even though I’ve had past traumas? 3. Counseling is important even if you’re afraid of what you might find out. 4. What can I do after suffering trauma from being in prison and losing my vision? 5. I’ve become very creative lately with art and have become messier than usual; how can I be better organized for my husband? 6. My 51yo son passed away last month after falling out of his wheelchair, and I’m having a hard time dealing with it. We were so close. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back How We Love 100 Days of Prayer To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Sexual Addiction, Confrontation, Boundaries, Verbal Abuse, Anger, Teens, Parenting, Sexual Integrity Hosts: Chris Williams, Marc Cameron, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ shares similar questions he gets asked whether he is presenting at the Every Man’s Battle Intensive or speaking to a men’s group. 2. A woman at church keeps calling me a gimp even after I asked her not to; is there something I am doing wrong? 3. My husband of 7yrs accused me of stealing cash and told me to leave. He also calls me names and throws things; how do I get him to change? 4. My in-laws are listening to our 15yo daughter who is painting us in a very bad light; what can I do? 5. My husband has been seeing sex workers for 15yrs and putting me at risk. Suggested Resources: People Fuel Emotionally Destructive Relationship How We Love Our Kids Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Community, Feelings, Intimacy, Adult Children, Finances, Controllers Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses the grieving process for tragedies which impact society. 2. How do I deal with all of my emotions? There’s no physical intimacy with my wife of over 30yrs. 3. We don’t like that our 24yo daughter lives with her boyfriend and is like a mom to him; will he be able to step up and provide? 4. My 44yo daughter tells me how to live my life; how do I respond to her? Suggested Resources: How We Love Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Transgender, Anger, OCD, Teens, Sexual Integrity, Depression, Grief Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice asks if we need to teach our kids at an earlier age about transgender issues. 2. The health of my marriage is declining, and my husband’s anger keeps resurfacing; how do I save it? 3. My friend’s 17yo son cleans excessively and a psychiatrist ordered Zoloft, but he won’t take it; any tools that I can give my friend? 4. I found out my 18yo daughter’s boyfriend spent the night last night in her room; am I navigating it correctly? 5. It’s been a few years since my mom passed away, and my depression is really bad. Suggested Resources: How We Love Take Your Life Back Boundaries with Teens Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Parenting, Adult Children, Mother Issues, Grief, Father Issues, Alcohol, Counseling, Engagement, Christian Walk, Borderline, Verbal Abuse Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim provides encouragement that you are not defined by the poor choices of your kids. 2. Where do I get help to overcome my daughter not speaking with me and kicking out my abusive mother after she threw things and called me a pig? 3. My sister died, and I’ve been struggling with my father who drinks and fell yesterday. 4. My son is in the hospital for kidney failure because he is an alcoholic; how can I find someone in our area that we trust to counsel him? 5. I’ve devoted myself to God for the last 6mos, but my fianc has no faith and got upset at me for tithing. Do I stay with him or break up? 6. How do I confront my 22yo daughter who came for Thanksgiving, but I wonder if she is living in a car and is borderline? 7. How do I have a better relationship with my adult daughter who is verbally abusive to me? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Life Recovery Workbook for Grief How We Love Understanding and Loving a Person with Borderline Personality Disorder To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Boundaries, End of Life, Siblings, Adult Children, Bipolar, In-laws, Estrangement, Depression, Anxiety, Grief Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice discusses taking more of a grace approach vs. implementing boundaries in certain situations to bring about change. 2. My two brothers don’t have a relationship with my parents and aren’t in their will anymore; should I discuss this with them? 3. I’ve asked my son and his family if we could do family counseling together, but they refuse. My daughter-in-law may have bipolar disorder. 4. How can I have peace if my family stopped keeping in touch after my parents died? 5. I’ve been dealing with depression and anxiety since my dad died 7yrs ago; how can I deal with this? Suggested Resources: Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget Take Your Life Back People Fuel Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Enabling, In-laws, Grandparenting, Adult Children, Anger, Boundaries, Pornography, Shame, Regret, Suicide Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc discusses the cycle of enabling and explains the difference between supporting a person and rescuing them. 2. When I’ve asked to see my grandkids, my daughter-in-law says they are busy and don’t have time for me; how do I navigate this with her? 3. My 21yo son is married and has a 2yo daughter; what kind of help does he need to be a healthy father and husband if he loses his temper? 4. My 28yo son is on the autism spectrum and lives with my ex-husband; how do we set a boundary if he gets angry and leaves? 5. I’ve been sober from porn for a year, but now I have feelings of shame and regret and suicidal thoughts. Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children How We Love Boundaries Every Man’s Battle To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. My niece grew up thinking her stepdad is her bio dad; what do I say if she ever asks me why I never told her the truth? 2. Dr. Alice discusses the empowerment of revealing our secrets in order to grow and heal. 3. My son took his life and left a 3yo daughter; how do I protect my heart with my daughter-in-law who threatens to cut us off from our granddaughter? 4. During our 10yr marriage, my husband has been passive aggressive, narcissistic, and has made threats against my life. 5. Two years after I found out my husband was cheating and had a porn addiction, our emotional and intimate connection is still a problem. What should we do? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Becky Brown Dr. Sheri Keffer, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Laura suggests the best Christmas gift you can give is to invest in yourself so you can give all of yourself to your loved ones. 2. I used to be close to my sister, but she has been talking a lot about me behind my back; how do I handle inviting her to a holiday brunch at my house? 3. How can I find support so I can feel loved instead of tolerated? My husband and I haven’t had sex in over two years, and I feel frozen; how do I defrost? 4. Last month I had my husband arrested for domestic battery and don’t have contact with him. How do I walk through a divorce? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Verbal Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Midlife Crisis, Emotional Affairs, Gaslighting, Retirement, Self Worth, Controllers, Pleasers Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc shares how to recognize the cycle of verbal and emotional abuse, the four stages that repeat. 2. Should my husband continue to enjoy the friendship of younger women? He is making it seem like I’m trying to control him. 3. My husband expects more from me since he retired; how can he fill the void? 4. There is a deep-rooted anger inside of my husband, and he fears I will have an affair. What can a wife do to please him? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Biblia Renacer (Life Recovery Bible in Spanish) How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Connection, Marijuana, Affairs, Lying, Finances, Peacemakers, Father Issues Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill suggests we set aside our differences to break bread together this Thanksgiving. 2. Why can’t I give up marijuana and my affair after they ruined my marriage and devastated my kids? 3. What is the best way forward for my daughter and son-in-law after he lied about his finances? 4. How do I keep the peace during the holidays when I host my family at my house? I’m very anxious about family getting together and having arguments. 5. My dad and his wife invited me at the last minute for the holidays, and I feel like I’m an option, not a priority; how do I let myself off of the hook? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Take Your Life Back Making Peace with Your Father To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Getting Unstuck, Coping, Feelings, Communication, Divorce, Teens Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Becky shares coping strategies for when you feel overwhelmed. 2. What do I do if my wife gets upset at everything? She brings up everything negative that I’ve ever done. 3. I’ve been divorced for a few years, but I still cry and have panic attacks. How do I move forward from a 41yr marriage? 4. How do I inform my nieces and nephews that we are getting a divorce? I don’t want to tell them about my husband’s sex addiction and emotional infidelity. Suggested Resources: How We Love Take Your Life Back Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Verbal Abuse, Confrontation, Grace, Gaslighting, Victim, Counseling, Church Life, Transgender, Estrangement, Narcissists Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice asks if we should overlook subtle verbal and non-verbal mistreatment. It depends. 2. My 2nd marriage is heading toward divorce. Why can’t I give grace to the men in my life? 3. I am trying to rebuild my marriage after my wife’s two affairs, and the therapist put the blame on me. My wife cuts me off when I try to tell her how I feel. 4. My adult son has been doing well after rehab; was I right to tell him he can’t stay with me every weekend? 5. How can I direct my mom who receives spiritual abuse from her pastor? 6. My 35yo daughter married a woman and now is trans; what do I do since he cut me off after the election? 7. Should I stop talking to my narcissist husband who is verbally abusive? Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice Intimate Deception Doing Life with Your Adult Children Trust Emotionally Destructive Relationship To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Intimacy, Communication, Divorce, Adult Children, Finances, Enabling, Grief, PTSD, Drug Addiction Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ explains how the comfort circle helps couples communicate and calm down. 2. I went to Restore and found my voice; how do I not let my ex trigger me when he doesn’t communicate with me regarding the kids? 3. My husband’s 48yo stepdaughter moved in with us again because of finances, and nothing has changed since the last time. 4. I lost my husband to illness, my son and daughter-in-law died in a murder-suicide situation the same day my mother died; do I have PTSD? Is God punishing me? 5. My son has been using drugs for years and now he is paranoid; what do I do? He walked out of detox today. Suggested Resources: Emotionally Destructive Relationship Take Your Life Back Healing Is a Choice Understanding and Loving a Person with ADD To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Boundaries, Intimacy, Affairs, Newlyweds, Friendship, Secrets, Trust, Betrayal Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri shares insight on setting boundaries. 2. I have been married 7mos to a doctor, but we have only been intimate three times. What do I do? 3. Why do I keep on having failing friendships and meeting the wrong people? 4. I’ve been married 47yrs and saw a note on my husband’s desk that makes it look like he is talking to a therapist; I am also locked out of his email account. Do I say something to him? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Addictions, Dating, Sexual Integrity, Childhood Trauma, Forgiveness, Negative Thoughts Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ shares a tip about getting off course in recovery; you don’t have to start over, just get back on track where you lost your way. 2. Why does my fianc say we are married when he hasn’t even asked me to marry him? Meanwhile, he is sleeping with other women. 3. What could play out in my 30yo adult daughter’s marriage after she experienced severe verbal abuse and rejection from her mom when she was young? 4. How do I forgive my husband’s infidelity? I recently found out he had an affair during COVID with my best friend. 5. I am 57yo and have a lot of negative thoughts from childhood trauma; how do I stop them? Suggested Resources: Trust How We Love Changes That Heal Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Codependency, Intimacy, Friendship, Betrayal Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc shares about pruning and asks us to look at our circumstances. Is the Lord allowing pruning to cut off the dead branches for you to be stronger? Or to make the fruit in your life even more productive? 2. My husband died from Agent Orange and would tell me that I was addicted to him; did he mean that I was codependent? 3. I have been married 58yrs, and my husband and I are constantly in conflict. 4. Why do I always invest everything in my friendships, but my friends are never there for me? I feel like I am taken advantage of. 5. I’ve been dealing with betrayal trauma in my marriage that came out during COVID. Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal How We Love People Fuel Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Self Worth, Gaslighting, Dating, Communication, Grandparenting, Abandonment, Suicide, Sexual Addiction Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri talks about DARVO, the manipulative tactic used by people accused of wrongdoing, and how we need to trust our gut instinct. 2. As a widower dating a widow, how do we find a therapist to deal with our communication issues? I’m a vacillator and she’s an avoider. 3. I am struggling to raise three grandkids all by myself, and I am afraid my 7yo grandson wants to kill himself. 4. What should I do after I caught my husband looking at intense porn and recently discovered locked images on his phone? Suggested Resources: How We Love How We Love Our Kids Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Dating, In-Laws, Adult Children, Alcohol, Drug Addiction, Gambling, Church Life, Apology Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ shares insight on what love looks like in Scripture. 2. How do I navigate my boyfriend’s stepmother telling me it’s okay for me to spend time with her stepson as long as it doesn’t infringe upon the time she spends with him? 3. Our 27yo son lives with us and struggles with alcohol, drugs, and gambling to name a few; what can we do? 4. I called you recently and wanted to apologize for saying the name of my church because I think I offended some people. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Bible Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Conflict Resolution, Parenting, Medication, Suicide, Childhood Trauma, Trust, Bipolar Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice shares the true sign of relational health is how quickly repair occurs after a rupture. 2. How do I work with my husband if we disagree on giving our kids medication? My daughter struggles with suicidal ideation. 3. Around Christmas when I was 11yo, my mom went into my bedroom and shot me in the head and then blew her brains out! How do I trust anyone? 4. My wife has bipolar disorder and many of her relatives have died from aneurysms; could there be a physical or medical reason for her bipolar? Suggested Resources: How We Love How We Love Our Kids Trust Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Father Issues, Parenting, Gender Identity, Adult Children, Medical Issues, Fear, Counseling, Mother Issues Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill shares how to navigate post-election wins and woes with those around you. 2. How do I address my concerns with my father that his sex change will confuse my young son? 3. My 24yo daughter dropped half of her graduate classes and moved back home; how do I get her to reboot? 4. I have congestive heart failure; how do I face my fears with a therapist? 5. My mother has become argumentative; how do I connect? Suggested Resources: How We Love Our Kids How People Grow Living Strong, Finishing Well Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Anxiety, Fear, Pornography, Shame, Self Worth, Medication, Control, Grief, Claustrophobia, Childhood Trauma Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Becky Brown, Steve Arterburn, Milan Yerkovich, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. John Townsend, JJ West Today’s special show is all about Anxiety, featuring advice from current and past hosts. Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice touches on the many causes of anxiety, especially unfinished business. 2. How can I move past fear and anxiety in life? I don’t know how to associate with people because of my struggle with porn from a young age. 3. I am taking medication for my anxiety; are their other methods to deal with it? 4. I have anxiety over my schizophrenic son’s chronic illness, and I am overwhelmed with sadness. 5. Becky and Chris discuss anxiety resulting from unresolved anger or unprocessed grief, and mislabeling anxiety as anger or fear. 6. How do I deal with claustrophobia as I plan for tomorrow’s MRI? Is the fear genetic? Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal Take Your Life Back 100 Days To Freedom from Fear Anxiety Worry-Free Parent To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Estrangement, Same-Sex Attraction, Parenting, Sexual Integrity, Gender Identity, Adult Children Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares that 26% of adult children report being estranged from their fathers. 2. I am not connecting with my 20yo gay daughter. I tried meeting her friends, but she felt uncomfortable. 3. How do my husband and I navigate the digital world with our kids? We don’t have television or internet at home, but our kids will need to know how to use technology. 4. Is it okay for my husband to be alone with a female coworker in his office with the door closed? 5. How do I navigate my 15yo grandson transitioning? His parents allow and support it. 6. I’ve been estranged from my adult daughter for 3yrs after her boyfriend and my husband had a fist fight; how do I handle it? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World How We Love How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Estrangement, Divorce, Pornography, Dating, Anxiety, Aging Parents, Hallucinations, Betrayal, Church Life Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses the estrangement trend in families. 2. After my divorce a year ago from a porn addict, I don’t trust myself to date. 3. How do I help my sister deal with the anxiety and panic attacks caused by the sale of her dream home? 4. My elderly mom is in a nursing home and has begun hallucinating by seeing things like snakes in her room; is there anything I can do? I live far away. 5. How do I heal after being betrayed and rejected by dear friends in ministry? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Life Recovery Bible Heart Handbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Coping Behavior, Christian Walk, Sexual Abuse, Anger, Affairs, Cremation, End of Life, Adult Children Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice discusses why revealing ALL behavior lapses is key in recovery. 2. I am enraged after seeing all the evil in my life since preschool; what is God thinking and why does He care about everyone else but me? 3. I want to encourage your first caller who survived all that stuff; she may not feel like God is with her, but He is! 4. When my husband died, I found out he had been cheating for 17yrs and I had him cremated; I feel guilty the kids didn’t have a funeral to say goodbye. Should I be cremated? 5. Your last caller should invite the kids to have a little memorial service with her. We did this when my mom was cremated. Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice How We Love Our Kids One Year Bible for Women Living Strong, Finishing Well To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Siblings, Alzheimer’s, Caregiving, Work Issues, Fear, Boundaries, Same-Sex Attraction, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim discusses making each day count by building deep roots in the character of God. 2. How can I get some help for my brother who has been diagnosed with dementia and Alzheimer’s? I take care of him and I am burned out. 3. Can you give me encouragement to face my fears and not give up on becoming a licensed counselor? I was in a position where my clinical supervisor bullied me. 4. We were foster parents to a teen who is now a 28yo parent and has schizoid-affective disorder. How do we set boundaries? 5. How can I help my 26yo son who may be questioning his sexuality and wants to attend a different church based on our church’s stance on homosexuality? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Trust How We Love Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Acceptance, Adult Children, Bipolar, Enabling, Single Parenting, Affairs, Sexual Integrity, Estrangement Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc shares the steps it takes to accept a bad situation. 2. Do you have any suggestions for my bipolar son and his schizophrenic wife who are living with a friend and will soon be left homeless? 3. My 76yo friend has let a single mom and her kids live in her home, but now the home is chaos, and they don’t even speak to her. 4. After my husband had an affair 11yrs ago, we stayed together for the wrong reasons. Then I found out he has been looking at inappropriate things online; how am I supposed to handle this? 5. What is my role as a mother whose adult child has gone no contact without any explanation? I’m still sending gifts for birthdays and Christmas with zero response. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Trust Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Critical Thinking, Bullying, Teens, Intimacy, Avoiders, Anxiety, Incarceration, Islam Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui shares the value of being able to hear another person’s perspective, the ability to have humility and curiosity. 2. My 14yo son is clinging to a relationship with a potential bully; what can I do? 3. I’m a senior citizen and got married 6yrs ago, but there is no affection or physical intimacy in our marriage. 4. After 36yrs of marriage, I finally realized that my husband is an avoider and I am anxious. How can I deal with this? 5. My 26yo grandson is incarcerated and considering converting to Islam; how can I approach him, given his set of circumstances? Suggested Resources: How People Grow Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Bible To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Finances, Boundaries, Adult Children, Estrangement, Suicide, Work Issues, Getting Unstuck, Christian Walk, Separation, Counseling Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. John Townsend Caller Questions More: 1. How do I be a submissive wife but get my husband motivated to pay his debts? 2. I have two sons in their twenties who are estranged since the divorce. Their father just committed suicide; how do I connect with them? 3. How do I know if I am following God’s will for my life? I don’t feel I am where I want to be personally or professionally. 4. My wife of 2yrs wants to separate or divorce; how can I get her to get counseling for her past trauma? Suggested Resources: Boundaries Doing Life with Your Adult Children Healing Is a Choice How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Judgment, Codependency, Intimacy, Connection, Grief, Adult Children, Drug Addiction Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice asks whether we should point out the mistakes, sins and behavior patterns of others. 2. I am codependent and my daughter asked me to stop speaking for her and her sister; can you tell me how to do that? 3. I’ve been with my husband for 13yrs and married for 3yrs, and I don’t like sex at all now. 4. What can I do to ensure I have healthy relationships? I want to work on myself. 5. Between COVID and car accidents, I’ve lost 35 people close to me, and my daughter just moved to Alaska. Now I struggle to connect with people. 6. My 36yo son is addicted to opiates, wanted by the law, and asks everyone for money. How do I have a relationship with him? Suggested Resources: Emotional Freedom Workbook Secrets of Sex Marriage How We Love Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Physical Abuse, Adult Children, Schizophrenia, Abandonment, Affairs, Trust Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui shares how Jesus had to remind His disciples that God was here with them, and God is here with us in our own tough times. 2. My son-in-law is abusing my paranoid schizophrenic daughter and went to jail when he hit her in the past. Should he be reported again if she can’t support herself and her 12yo? 3. How can I get my niece to get help? Her husband doesn’t have anything to do with her or her children. 4. What can I do if my fianc keeps running back to his ex-wife? He has married and divorced her twice. 5. My boyfriend wants me to sell my house, but I don’t want to because he has betrayed me, and I don’t trust him. Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal Intimate Deception Emotionally Destructive Relationship To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Alcohol, Boundaries, Screens, Teens, Shyness, Anxiety, Parenting, Avoiders Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim discusses the anatomy of a lost faith. 2. My husband is a high-functioning alcoholic and it affected our 23yo transgender daughter; what boundaries can I put in place? 3. Whenever my 8th grade grandson has an assignment due at school, he is not motivated to do the assignment because he’s addicted to screens and has ADHD. 4. My 5yo granddaughter is extremely shy and won’t use the bathroom at school; how do we help her? 5. In the last 5yrs, why does my husband not speak to me for up to 6mos at a time? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Bible Understanding and Loving Your Child In a Screen-Saturated World How We Love Our Kids How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Change, In-laws, Resentment, Grief, Sexual Abuse, Suicide, Same-Sex Attraction, Regret, Finances, Aging Parents Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill explains the concept of crystallization of discontent when the pain of staying the same exceeds the pain of change. 2. My 74yo mother-in-law is healthy, lives with us, and all she does is stay in her room all day; it’s not fair. 3. My friend’s brother molested me when I was 8yo, and I still have problems with showering and getting undressed. 4. I went to my daughter’s lesbian wedding, but I later said some really hurtful things to her. Now I feel so stuck I want to commit suicide. 5. When is it okay to speak into my parents’ financial situation? They’re in their seventies, and my sister has always lived with them. Suggested Resources: Boundaries Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: OCD, Church Life, Self Worth, Sexual Integrity, Teens, Disclosure, Christian Walk, Demons, Adult Children, Enabling, Addictions, ADD Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses pathological guilt and anxiety about religious or moral issues called scrupulosity. 2. I was escorted out of my church and kicked off of the greeting team; where is God leading me? 3. Is there a benefit to disclosing my teenage sexual years and regret to my 16yo daughter? 4. I went to a revival and a prideful spirit was cast out of me; how do I keep it from returning? 5. Is it better to get our 22yo son immediately into a men’s home for his addictions, depression and severe ADHD, or allow him to wait 2mos to finish his lease? Suggested Resources: People Fuel A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity Every Believers Thought Life To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Accountability, Affairs, Separation, Dating, Grief, Self-Harm, Suicide, Church Life Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri discusses how hard it is to own what we have done that harms others. 2. My husband had an affair for over 10yrs, we’ve spent thousands of dollars on counseling, and now he only checks the boxes instead of going deeper. 3. My girlfriend broke up with me 2mos ago because her mom threatened to kill herself if she didn’t; what do I do if I’m still in love with her? 4. How can my daughter and I help her college friend who is self-harming? He also has suicidal ideations after someone he knew committed suicide. 5. My roommate has been asking me if I’m plugged into one church and serving and tithing there instead of many churches; what do you think? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception How We Love Changes That Heal Why I Believe To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Dementia, Making Decisions, Alcohol, Adult Children, Suicide Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ shares about putting off your old self and putting on your new self as a way of living. 2. My friend’s husband has dementia, and she wants to renovate her home to help her husband. What are some resources that I can give her so she doesn’t make rash decisions? 3. My son’s wife kicked him out for drinking alcohol for his anxiety and lying to her about it; do you think my daughter-in-law’s refusal to go to a counselor is unusual? 4. My friend confided in me that he had thoughts of driving his vehicle off of the road and killing his family, including six kids; do I say something to someone? Suggested Resources: Soul of of a Hero Life Recovery Bible To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Sexual Addiction, Emotional Abuse, Church Life, Divorce, Fear, Adult Children, Enabling, Controllers Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc shares a lesson from nature in nurture. 2. My husband has a sex addiction and is emotionally abusive; how can we overcome the epidemic of churches believing divorce is only permissible on grounds of adultery and physical abuse? 3. How do I move forward if I’m in the process of getting a divorce, and I’ve been calling the suicide hotline because I am afraid of falling asleep? 4. Am I enabling my daughter? She was married to a woman who was a witch, has schizoaffective disorder, and all she does is lay in bed and listen to spirits talking to her. 5. My daughter’s husband is addicted to sex, has brainwashed her, and she has left several times only to return. Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Alcohol, Enabling, Adult Children, Finances, Boundaries Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: 1. JJ shares how we are called to rejoice always and give thanks, even after a hurricane, whether your house was spared or not. God’s goodness doesn’t depend on our circumstances. 2. What do you think of a Christian working at a brewery? Would I be facilitating harm to others? 3. My daughter, husband and kids have moved in; they want money from me, but they don’t manage money well. 4. What do I do if my sister sold everything and moved in with us, but my husband wants her out today? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Doing Life with Your Adult Children Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Betrayal, Sexual Addiction, Affairs, Pornography, Self Worth Hosts: Becky Brown and presenters at Restore Workshop Intensive, Stacey Sadler Smith and Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. I attended Restore Workshop, and Stacey and Laura have been such an encouragement to me! My issues were not the same as everyone else, but the pain of betrayal is the same. 2. I found out I was betrayed most of my married life. He went to Every Man’s Battle, but I didn’t think anyone could understand what I was going through until I went to a New Life workshop. 3. My husband had an affair, went to strip clubs, and was into porn. Restore was the most valuable thing I ever did because I knew nothing about sexual addiction. My wounded heart has begun to heal. 4. After attending Restore, I have a renewed vision of who I am. I am enough! Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Rescued Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Fear, Holidays, Affairs, Incarceration, Adult Children, Sexual Abuse, Dating, Alcohol Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri discusses how the upcoming holidays can produce fear of intimacy, fear of vulnerability, and fear of being re-injured. 2. What do I do to help my 32yo son who is having a baby with a married woman, and my 30yo son who is a 4-time felon? 3. I was physically and sexually abused as a child, raped when I was a teen, then I became a perpetrator myself; if people have had trauma, can they have a good dating relationship? 4. Can you help me understand Scriptures that say two different things about alcohol? Suggested Resources: How People Grow Healing Is a Choice Life Recovery Journey To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Parenting, Unemployment, Self Worth Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill shares the concept of bookending and how God provided direction and confirmation. 2. My 12yo son needs reminders about everything; how can I help him do stuff on his own? 3. What are your thoughts on why I feel like my prayers don’t go anywhere? After being unemployed for over a year, I started questioning myself. Suggested Resources: Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Relationships, Intimacy, Divorce, Social Media, Pornography, Transgender, Grandparenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc discusses how it’s hard for people to know what a secure healthy attachment looks like in healthy relationships if they’ve never been exposed to one. 2. My husband had prostate cancer and we are affectionate but not intimate; will your Intimacy in Marriage Weekend help with that? 3. What should I do after my ex-wife went to a guardian angel website, and they sent her a picture of her soulmate that looks like me? 4. Whenever I use social media, there are ads that pop up to draw you into porn; are there any practical ways to get rid of them? 5. My son is transitioning into a woman, and we validate our 7yo grandson who says boys should be boys. My son is threatening to withdraw our grandson from us. Suggested Resources: How We Love Intimate Deception Every Man’s Battle Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Dating, Affairs, Childhood Trauma, Hoarding, Self Worth, Christian Walk, Counseling, Addictions, Anger Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Stacey Sadler Smith Caller Questions More: 1. Becky and Dr. Alice discuss natural disasters and anxiety. 2. I’m afraid if I tell the wonderful woman I just started dating about my cheating in the past, she’ll run away. 3. I was burned over 75 percent of my body as a child; I now hoard and am unhappy in my marriage. Which way do I turn? 4. How can you help me if I base my worth on how well I do in my business and feel worthless now? 5. Do you believe the Holy Spirit can break someone completely free from emotional bondage, or do some people need counseling? 6. After stopping his addictions, my husband won’t go to therapy to deal with his angry outbursts. The stress of it is hurting me physically. Suggested Resources: Worthy of Her Trust How People Grow Changes That Heal Healing Is a Choice How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Stress, Counseling, Pornography, Adult Children, Addictions, Incarceration, Fear, Finances, Divorce Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses mounting stress. 2. Thank you! My husband and I provide counseling at our church from the resources you provide. 3. I just discovered soft porn on my husband’s phone; what is my next step after I confronted him? 4. How do I handle my son being in jail? After he meet his bio dad when he was 17yo, he got into drugs and alcohol. 5. I am in financial fear of my soon-to-be ex-husband getting out of prison and suing me. I put him in prison 15yrs ago for molesting a family member. Suggested Resources: How We Love Every Man’s Battle Life Recovery Bible People Fuel To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Reframe, Affairs, Intimacy, Father Issues, Estrangement, Caregiving, Eating Disorders, Anxiety Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares tools for how to re-regulate yourself when you are having a hard day. 2. I’ve been married 27yrs, was unfaithful, and am not attracted physically to my wife. 3. This Saturday, I’m meeting my biological father for the first time; how can I protect myself from feeling hurt but make the most of it? 4. What can my wife and I do to remain connected as a couple if she struggles with an eating disorder, PTSD, anxiety, insomnia, chronic fatigue, and I take care of her? Suggested Resources: How We Love Making Peace with Your Father Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Alcohol, Addictions, Adult Children, Estrangement, Motivation, Boundaries, Disclosure, Affairs Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Becky Brown Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice shares addiction insights from an AA recovery leader. 2. What are your thoughts on a counselor encouraging my 19yo daughter to distance herself from me? She told me she won’t come home until I stop yelling. 3. My 19yo grandson works a part-time job but then sleeps and plays video games for the rest of the day; do you have any advice? 4. I disclosed to my wife that I had multiple affairs 25yrs ago, but I don’t remember details. Now she wants me to take a polygraph. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World Life Recovery Bible Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: OCD, Adult Children, Affairs, Custody, Finances, Caregiving, Grief, Sexual Integrity, Social Media Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Becky shares about infobesity and infoxication, current terms to describe information overload, and how the trail of needing to know more can lead to OCD. 2. How do I navigate the relationship with my son, late 40s, who divorced because of his adultery and continues to see the other woman who is still married? 3. Do I try to force my child’s father to take responsibility and pay child support through the courts, or do I try to work with him outside of court? 4. I took care of my elderly mother-in-law until I had to put her in a nursing home, haven’t grieved the death of my husband, and now my daughter won’t talk to me. 5. What do I do if my husband has hundreds of friends on Facebook, mostly female? I am almost 88yo and feel concerned. Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Workbook for Grief How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Victims, Dating, Narcissists, Disabilities, Gender Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses what it looks like to fall into victimhood mentality that keeps us stuck. 2. On a previous show you talked about why a 43yo man should not date a 19yo; if a man can have a brand-new car off the lot, why would he choose an old car? 3. I’m blind, just moved to a new apartment, but I don’t have transportation and am very frustrated. 4. Is my good friend transitioning to a woman because he’s depressed? Any studies? His counselor is affirming him. 5. Over 30yrs ago I became a Club New Life member and never looked back! Suggested Resources: How We Love Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Bible How People Grow To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Divorce, Grief, Siblings, Anger, Grandparenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim shares the pain of discipline vs. the pain of regret during our tougher times. 2. Is there redemption and hope if I’ve committed the unpardonable sin? I lashed out in anger and called the Holy Spirit by the name of Satan. 3. Since calling you a few weeks ago, my wife has unfortunately filed for a divorce. 4. Do you have any insight for me? After my 41yo son died, my brother wrote a horrible letter to us that said we let our son die. 5. My grandson always makes his wife or in-laws a priority; what can I do? Suggested Resources: Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers Life Recovery Bible Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Sexual Addiction, Divorce, Mother Issues, Affairs, Betrayal, Grief Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Laura Mangin-McDonald shares about the big gap between what we desire and where we are. 2. My husband has a sex addiction and wants a divorce; is it a good thing for me to try to stay with him? 3. How do I deal with my mom resenting me and never being able to please her? She just had a stroke, and she’s very ugly to me. 4. For two-thirds of my life my husband sexually betrayed me; what is the best way to navigate my grief in this season? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Making Peace with Your Father Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Sexual Integrity, Parenting, Intimacy, Adult Children, Dating, Estrangement Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares about his new book, A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity. 2. My wife thinks I’ve rejected her because we haven’t consummated our 4yr marriage due to me having prostate cancer; what do I do? 3. Our 19yo daughter is dating a 43yo and we’re concerned; are there any red flags to look for? 4. How do we go about reconciling with estranged family members over our decision to sell our vacation home? Our grandkids won’t speak to us. Suggested Resources: How We Love Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Attitude, Fear, Medication, Narcissists, Sexual Integrity, Emotional Affairs, Nightmares, Trauma Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron discusses the importance of attitude and Holocaust survivors. 2. I’m 62yo and in fear all the time. I’m scared of the side effects of Prozac; can I get off it eventually? 3. In your Intimacy in Marriage Weekend, have you ever had success with narcissistic spouses? 4. Do I stay with my husband after finding messages from other women on his phone? He won’t end it with them. 5. How do I stop having nightmares about traumatic events in my past? I wake up crying. Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal How We Love Worthy of Her Trust Healing Is a Choice To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Boundaries, Teens, Alcohol, Finances, Elder Abuse Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui discusses the burdens we carry and taking them to the Lord. 2. When my ex-husband wanted me to bail him out of jail, I turned him down. How should I treat him now? 3. My soon-to-be 18yo daughter has always been challenging to me, and she has narcissistic tendencies. 4. My 30yo nephew is struggling with alcohol; he was sober for 3mos but has recently relapsed. 5. I found out that a couple I know charged thousands on my credit card after I gave them the card for their doctor copays. In the Bible it says Christians are not to go to court, so what do I do? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook for Grief How We Love Our Kids Life Recovery Bible Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Bipolar, Parenting, Identity, Adult Children, Sexual Integrity, Difficult Conversations, Healing Journey, Parenting, Aging Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses how to recognize symptoms of bipolar disorder. 2. What do you think about my 11yo granddaughter wanting to identify as an animal? She wants to belong to a group at school who identify as therians. 3. My 48yo single son spends 25hrs over a weekend playing pool at a strip club; should I talk to him about it or just pray? 4. My life was a hot mess. New Life gave me so many tools and decision-making advice that I can now pass on to my kids to give them what I never got from my parents. Thank you! 5. A 90yo attendee at the Emotional Freedom Intensive taught us that it is never too late and don’t think you have ever arrived! Suggested Resources: How We Love Our Kids Take Your Life Back Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Reactions, Comparisons, Childhood Trauma, Passive-Aggressive, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Siblings, Verbal Abuse, Grief Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer shares her parable on how a pot of boiling water can describe what’s happening in a relationship. 2. There are so many comparisons for couples out there on social media; how can we have healthy conversations with our spouse and not hurtful? 3. My husband can’t follow through on things he agreed to do; should he be digging deeper into a childhood trauma? 4. Thank you for the advice you gave my husband and I to practice tough love with my heroin-addicted daughter who is now sober! 5. My siblings have been distant until one brother died. Any advice after I blew up at my sister and brother for pressing me about our brother’s estate? Suggested Resources: How We Love Doing Life with Your Adult Children Life Recovery Journey Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Sexual Integrity, Parenting, Affairs, Sexual Addiction, Depression, Polyamorous, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns is interviewed about his new book, A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity. 2. My husband has had affairs, and I recently walked in on him doing something inappropriate; is he a sex addict? 3. What are your thoughts on anhedonia and nihilism? I think I have these because I have been struggling with depression and was at a very low point. 4. My stepdaughter is in a polyamorous marriage and has kids; how do my husband and I navigate this? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Worthy of Her Trust Emotional Freedom Workbook Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Anxiety, Depression, Gambling, Sexual Addiction, Friendship, Reconnection Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares what can help decrease anxiety and depression is to experience awe, especially in nature. 2. What direction can I go if my husband has a gambling problem and goes to massage parlors? 3. Do I leave my husband of 40yrs who has a sex addiction and thinks he can handle it on his own? 4. My friend says he’s afraid of developing feelings for me and doesn’t have to repair the relationship since we’re not married. Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Trust Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Loneliness, Separation, Intimacy, Blended Families, Adult Children, Resentment, Estrangement, Controllers Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares the surprising results of new loneliness research. 2. My wife separated because I created fake accounts online and introduced sexual fantasies into the marriage; she wants me to meet with her and her dad today. 3. My 32yo daughter had a stroke, was diagnosed with schizophrenia, and moved in with us for 2yrs. How do I deal with the anger and resentment that I feel toward my husband? I felt like he was making me choose between her and him. 4. Why can’t I do something about my daughter-in-law not letting us see the grandkids for years? 5. Should I be concerned that my 34yo gay son is no longer working after moving in with a controlling man? Suggested Resources: Worthy of Her Trust How We Love Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Trust, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Bipolar, Father Issues, Intimacy, Grief, Blended Families Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Laura Mangin-McDonald shares how love is free, but trust is earned. 2. How do I navigate my 31yo son’s drug abuse and mental health struggles? Is it right for him to go on an amphetamine like Adderall? 3. How can my daughter honor her bipolar father when he continues to be hurtful? 4. My husband is my best friend, but I am not in love with him. 5. Would there be a benefit for my husband of 3yrs to grieve the loss of the childhood he thinks his kids should’ve had? They lost their mother to brain cancer. Suggested Resources: Trust Life Recovery Journey Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Hope, Parenting, Sexual Integrity, Sexting, False Accusations, Narcissists, Intimacy Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer shares from Nahum that God is in the whirlwind and the storm, so hold on. 2. How do we talk to our homeschooled teens and 5yo child about sex from a Christian point of view? 3. My wife of 24yrs has been accusing me of being with other women, but I haven’t been unfaithful. 4. After 30yrs of marriage, how do I know if I’m married to a narcissist? 5. My wife is a teacher and when the school year starts, we only have sex about once a month. Suggested Resources: How We Love Our Kids Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World How We Love Emotional Destruction Relationship To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Endurance, OCD, Divorce, Parenting, Narcissists, Getting Unstuck Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ West talks about fighting the good fight and finishing the race. 2. I have been compulsively recording conversations with other people on my phone for 20yrs. 3. How can I remain close to my children after getting out of a 36yr abusive marriage? 4. My wife is narcissistic and I’m miserable. If I leave I’ll lose everything; what do I do? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Emotionally Destructive Relationship Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Bipolar, Siblings, Childhood Trauma, Estrangement, Dating, Grief, Parenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron explains core conflict patterns. 2. My 54yo daughter is bipolar and has a personality disorder; how do I help her after she was in the psychiatric hospital for 2wks? 3. Is there any way for me to reach out to my brother who was emotionally abused as a child and has a hard time keeping a job? 4. How do I handle a breakup with the girl I thought I was going to marry? Her bio mom told her to break up with me. 5. What’s in the best interest of my children? I am divorced and my 11yo and 13yo want to spend more time with their mom. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Healing Is a Choice Life Recovery Workbook for Grief How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Sexual Addiction, Sexual Integrity, Sexual Abuse, Communication, Estrangement, Affairs, Adult Children, Grief, Suicide Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ West shares that the DSM-5 does not have a diagnosis for sexual addiction and it is not mentioned in the Bible; how do we recognize it? 2. I’m battling with lustful thoughts around attractive men. 3. How do I make sure what I say doesn’t hurt my husband’s feelings? He says he wants me to be honest, but I’m afraid it might hurt him. 4. I’ve been estranged from my son for 33yrs and am writing a letter to him; is it my place to tell them about his deceased mother’s affair that destroyed our marriage? 5. I’ve lost my dad, mom, godmother, and stepsister; is something wrong with me if I really want to be in heaven today? Suggested Resources: Emotional Freedom Workbook How We Love Doing Life with Your Adult Children Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Self Worth, Enabling, Adult Children, Boundaries, Controllers Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Becky Brown asks, Who do you think you are? 2. My friends accuse me of enabling my son in the music industry because I gave him rent money for his birthday; how do I help him without enabling? 3. Would it be horrible for me to put in writing that it’s time for my 47yo son to leave my home? He doesn’t pay rent and has lived here for 10yrs. 4. My husband of 20yrs refuses to maintain or fix anything in our home, and he won’t let me hire someone. Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Grief, False Accusations, Anxiety, ADD, Making Decisions, Teens, Parenting Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Becky Brown and Laura Mangin-McDonald discuss unresolved grief on Patriot Day, and the power of naming our pain with another person. 2. Thank you for what you do! Listening to the show helped me after we lost our fourth child at birth. 3. I called you before and wanted to give you a follow up; I praise God for vindicating my son! 4. My friend’s child died from a drunk driver a few years ago, and her other child passed away last weekend from an illness; how can I walk alongside her and her family? 5. What should I do for my anxiety, ADD, and feeling overwhelmed with decision-making? I have been on suboxone for 8yrs and I think it’s adding to my struggles. 6. We took in a 14yo foster child 2mos ago, and I’m not handling it well. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Emotional Freedom Workbook How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Suicide, Grief, Schizophrenia, Childhood Trauma, Father Issues, Estrangement, Abandonment, Dating Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about political prowess and posture; how should a Christian respond? 2. Becky Brown interviews Tracy Hoover, author and pastor’s wife, about a low point in Tracy’s life when she wanted to give up. 3. It’s been 9mos since separating from my wife with schizophrenia; is it okay for me to be away if she wants me to hit myself to suffer pain along with her? 4. I just reconnected with my dad for the first time in 30yrs, and when I asked him why he wasn’t in my life, he responded by asking me the same question. 5. I’ve been dating a man for 6mos who came to know the Lord when he was in prison, and he hasn’t introduced me to his adult children. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers Take Your Life Back Devotional To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Dating, Triggers, Church Life, Parenting, Anxiety, Medications Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. Marc Cameron shares about authenticity and how stress brings out our true self. 2. How can I help my pastor’s daughter change her behavior? 3. My 13yo daughter is introverted and has one friend who usually leaches onto her and then drops hershould I be concerned for her? 4. I quit drinking 2yrs ago but now I battle anxiety; is there a way to deal with anxiety without medication? Suggested Resources: Emotional Freedom Workbook Boundaries with Teens Every Believer’s Thought Life To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Screens, Bipolar, Incarceration, Marijuana, Boundaries, Verbal Abuse, Affairs, Forgiveness, Adult Children, Estrangement Hosts: Chris Williams and Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares how to create a media-safe home. 2. Where do I go with my relationship with my 23yo son after he set a fire in our house? 3. My ex-husband was verbally abusive, and I cheated on him to get out of it; how do I work on forgiving myself? 4. What should I do while my married 31yo daughter, who lives out of state, decides she wants to reconnect? How can I fix an issue when I don’t know what it is? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Emotionally Destructive Relationship Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Siblings, Triggers, Childhood Trauma, Negative Thoughts, Adult Children, Depression, Emotional Abuse, People Pleasers, Anxiety Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about sibling significance and snares. 2. I grew up on the streets and violent intrusive thoughts are increasing. 3. My adult daughter has been in a deep depression for years and came out of it for a while when she was in a manic state; what do I do if she won’t leave her room? 4. My husband loves God but abandons me emotionally; what do I do if I don’t want a divorce but can’t continue? 5. I am in a good place with my mental health; how do I keep that going and not overcommit to helping others? 6. How can I calm myself when I get anxious? I think of all the bad things that could happen. Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal Understanding and Loving a Person with ADD Life Recovery Bible How We Love Take Your Life Back Every Believer’s Thought Life To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Parenting, In-laws, Controllers, Teens, Screens, Grandparenting, Marijuana, Boundaries, Narcissists Hosts: Chris Williams and Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares how presence mattered to Jesus when He blessed the children that were brought to Him after the disciples had rebuked the parents. 2. My sister-in-law is bossy; she demanded that when we go back East, we have to call her. 3. My friend’s 14yo daughter has screen time without any filters; what are the detrimental effects of screen time for teens and kids? 4. My 19yo grandson started his own business but now is depressed and addicted to marijuana; his parents have told him he has a week to finish his business or he’ll have to move out. What is my role? 5. I believe my 18yo son is a narcissist and have been told it is a phase; how do I get him to respect others? Suggested Resources: Boundaries Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World Understanding Your Child Who Smokes Pot How People Grow To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Enabling, Mother Issues, Divorce, Reconciliation, Bipolar Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares that wives with good intentions can unintentionally enable angry mistreating husbands to continue in their abusive patterns. 2. I feel like I’m not man enough to be the husband my wife needs me to be. 3. I’m in my late 30’s and married with my own family, but the clingy and anxious behaviors from my mom continue; what should I do? 4. I regret getting a divorce 10yrs ago, and we still love each other; is there a program you have to help divorced couples get back together? 5. What are the characteristics of someone who is bipolar? Suggested Resources: How We Love Take Your Life Back Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about the small, annoying changes of life and how they affect us. 2. My husband is a people pleaser, and his toxic mom blocked me on Facebook. Now he wants to cut ties with her; is it the right thing to do? 3. I’ve been separated from my emotionally abusive husband since May; do I try to save the relationship because he set up a counseling appointment for us? 4. Should I approach the young woman my 51yo divorced son is dating about her being into witchcraft? 5. Is it okay to quit sending birthday gifts in the mail to my adult nieces? I never get an acknowledgment. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Self Worth, Sexual Integrity, Physical Abuse, Adult Children, Grief, Anxiety, Alcohol, Marijuana, Boundaries Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Restore presenter Stacey Sadler-Smith Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares about the dangers of comparing your appearance to others. 2. My husband had a mental breakdown, and I found out he is soliciting other women for sex; do I confront him by myself? 3. My daughter is at college and is in a domestic violence situation. Her boyfriend was arrested but she is still together with him. 4. Do you have any tips on how to be anxious for nothing after many losses and traumatic events in my family? 5. After the death of his father, my youngest adult son lives at home, smokes pot, and is a functioning alcoholic. Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Understanding and Loving Your Child As a Single Parent Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Life Recovery Journey To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Parenting, Drug Addiction, Lying, Laziness, Separation, Finances, Alcohol, Christian Walk, Evangelizing Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares how to help toddlers and teens develop independence. 2. My wife had a hidden opioid addiction for 10yrs and quit, but the bad habit of lying still lingers. 3. What do I do if my husband is lazy? He’s been working for 2mos, but I do all the work at home. 4. I’ve been separated from my husband because of his verbal and emotional abuse, but now I don’t have money to pay my bills; should I move back in with him? He may have dementia. 5. Now that I am sober from alcohol, how do I fit myself to be of maximum service to God in the End Times? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible How We Love Boundaries What Happens Next? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Communication, Mother Issues, Adult Children, Parenting, Estrangement, Divorce Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, and Restore presenter Stacey Sadler-Smith Caller Questions More: 1. Stacey Sadler-Smith shares about attachment and explicit and implicit communication. 2. My mom had me when she was young and has become an overly involved grandparent; do I salvage the relationship or separate from her? 3. How do I not walk on eggshells around my 24yo son and get him to sit down and talk? He holds a lot of grudges. 4. I don’t want to become a helicopter parent to my 4yo; how do I prevent it? I was abused when I was younger and might be overextending the love and care. 5. My 41yo daughter really connects with Drew Barrymore because of my divorce, has lived with her dad for 15yrs, and has decided not to talk to me. Suggested Resources: Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers Doing Life with Your Adult Children How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Adult Children, Parenting, Teens, Self Worth, Sexual Abuse, Incarceration Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns asks, Do you want a good relationship with your adult children or do you want to be right? 2. I’m divorced and frustrated with my 16yo son who talks back to me; how do I stop being resentful and work on myself? 3. Most of my life I’ve felt like I am a giant failure; how do I shake this feeling? 4. My son is in jail, and I just found out that he was sexually abused by my brother; do I share this with the family even though it will rip them apart? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back Emotional Freedom Workbook Changes That Heal To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Legal Issues, Siblings, Adult Children, End of Life, Grief, Boundaries, Marijuana, Mother Issues, False Accusations Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Becky Brown shares about asking ourselves, What’s it like to be on the other side of me? Is that who I want to be? 2. How do I defend myself after filing a civil suit against my sister and her daughter who vandalized my property? 3. We found out last week that our 45yo son has 2mos to live; how do I deal with this emotionally if I can’t even get out of bed because of my fibromyalgia? 4. My 31yo son moved to L.A. to work in music but lost his job and is coming home; how do I set boundaries with him and smoking marijuana? 5. My mom had us as a teen, is emotionally there for my brothers but not me, and accuses me of flirting with her boyfriend; is distancing myself from her the right thing? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Understanding and Loving Your Child Who Smokes Pot Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Communication, Trauma, Grandparenting, Teens, Retirement, Finances, Christian Walk Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares how we retraumatize people with the feedback we give them. 2. How can I help my 17yo grandson feel like I’m not his enemy? He gets high, skips school, and is in the juvenile system. 3. I’m going to be 70yo in a few months and thinking of retiring from being a nurse, but my husband doesn’t want me to until our credit cards are paid off; what do I do? 4. Interview with the Kendrick brothers about their newest movie The Forge, in theaters today. Suggested Resources: Emotional Freedom Workbook Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Communication, Drug Addiction, Parenting, Teens, Narcissists Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares the importance of productive talking with another person. 2. My adult daughter has been in and out of rehab four times; is there another program to help her when she’s out of rehab instead of coming home? 3. There were years I didn’t have contact with my 17yo daughter because of her mother; what can I do now? 4. For 39ys I have been married to a narcissistic wife; how do I deal with it and stay married? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Shame, Grandparenting, Discipline, Divorce, Dating, Engagement, Adult Children, Sexual Abuse Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer shares about external shame and what betrayed partners are saying. 2. My 13yo entitled granddaughter acted like a 2yo on a recent flight and demanded to sit in my aisle seat; where do we go from here? 3. What should I do when my wife says she’ll file for a divorce if I go on a trip to the Philippines where I’m from? I’m a Christian, but she isn’t. 4. Our son has been dating a woman for 2wks he met online; she is 8yrs older and they’re talking about marriage. What advice would you give them if they called you? 5. My adult daughter said she was sexually abused by my husband’s uncle; what can I do to continue to be strong for her? Suggested Resources: How We Love Our Kids How We Love How People Grow Changes That Heal To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Parenting, Drug Addiction, College, Childhood Trauma, Christian Walk, Estrangement, Necessary Endings Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares the importance of talking with your kids in healthy ways about sex. 2. I tried to go back to school a few years ago but relapsed and had to quit; how do I approach my wife about going back to school this year? 3. Yesterday you took a call from a woman who suffered from childhood abuse, and I just wanted to encourage her to put all of her heart and soul into the Lord. 4. I am estranged from my 37yo daughter despite trying to connect with her; how do I move forward? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Healing Is a Choice Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Mold Issues, Physical Abuse, College, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: 1. Becky Brown shares the Seven Keys of Spiritual Renewal. 2. My wife believes our house has mold, but we’ve had experts out to our house that haven’t found mold. Now my wife thinks I don’t care about my family. 3. I was physically abused by my parents and have always been suicidal; was the abuse real if I was knocked around by my parents, and they banged my head? 4. I have an opportunity to get my master’s degree, but my husband doesn’t want me to because I would have to relocate; what do I do now? 5. I recorded my adult children and came clean to them, but they’re not speaking to me now; where do I go from here? Suggested Resources: How We Love 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety Trust Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Parenting, Adult Children, Boundaries, Narcissists, Divorce, Difficult Conversations, Blended Families Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares why women are mama bears and have the strongest love on the planet for their children. 2. My husband has Parkinson’s; our 21yo son always asks us for money and now wants to move back home; should we put boundaries in writing? 3. My husband passed away 3yrs ago, then I got married last year to a narcissist; do I need to proceed with getting a divorce? 4. Should I ask my friend about a conversation she had with my 15yo stepson? She comes to help in our home, and my stepson complained about me to her. Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Siblings, Homeless, Intimacy, Highly Sensitive Person Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares whatever you feed yourself, you will increase your appetite for. 2. My 73yo brother is homeless, has delusional disorders, and is diabetic; how do we encourage him to get the treatment he needs if he thinks he’s fine? 3. Two guys at work are struggling in their marriage; what choice do they have if their wives won’t have sex with them? 4. I had very little social interaction as a child, and now I feel deeply for others; is it possible to be an introvert and extrovert at the same time? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back How We Love Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Same-Sex Attraction, Gender Identity, Grandparenting, Dating, Finances, Engagement Hosts: Becky Brown and Special Guest author, speaker, and pastor Max Lucado Caller Questions More: 1. Max Lucado talks about End Times in his latest book What Happens Next: A Traveler’s Guide through the End of This Age. 2. What can a grandmother do when the public schools have introduced homosexual education and gender transitioning for 2nd and 3rd graders and even younger? 3. My ex-boyfriend is still in control of my finances; is that okay with the Lord, or does God want me to have financial breakthrough in my life? 4. I have been with my girlfriend for 3yrs, and friends and family are telling me to propose. At 21yo, how can I know if God is telling me yes or no? 5. Thank you, Mr. Lucado, for your years of ministry and wisdom! You helped me understand the humanity of Jesus. Suggested Resources: What Happens Next Healing Is a Choice How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Counseling, Controller, Separation, Caregiving, Resentment, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ West shares about the need to guard your heart by checking little cracks and crevices so they don’t bust wide open. 2. How do I approach my wife of 28yrs about counseling instead of separation or divorce? I control through giving advice, and our intimacy is non-existent. 3. Being a caregiver for our 86yo grandmother is causing a lot of resentment in our family because other family members don’t help. 4. I lost my youngest son to a fentanyl overdose, and I picture my four remaining children brawling at my funeral. How do I make everyone get along? 5. My 29yo daughter quit her job and moved home during Covid and now she is depressed and not working. She is a college graduate and says she had a nervous breakdown. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Doing Life with Your Adult Children Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Feelings, Separation, Intimacy, Divorce, Finances, Tithing, Adult Children, Siblings Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares why talking about our feelings works. 2. Should I divorce or separate? My controlling husband and I don’t communicate and are only living as roommates. 3. I divorced my husband of 25yrs who was a pastor and committed adultery, but he is at all of the family functions. How do I stop having these awful feelings about him? 4. Where is my stinginess coming from? I had a workaholic father, am a pleaser, and my husband had a work injury. 5. My two adult sons don’t get along with each other and haven’t talked in more than 5yrs; how can they reconcile and get together again? Suggested Resources: How We Love Healing Is a Choice Take Your Life Back Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Disassociation, Incarceration, Forgiveness, False Accusations, Alcohol, Marijuana, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about checking out through disassociation to escape from hard things, and the downside. 2. How do I help and support my bitter husband who spent over 3yrs in prison after being falsely accused of aggravated sexual assault? 3. My husband comes home from work each day and drinks shots of whiskey and smokes marijuana. 4. What’s the appropriate response after my 21yo daughter felt violated when I checked her car for a spare tire? Suggested Resources: Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget How We Love Life Recovery Bible Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Humility, Estrangement, Adult Children, Fear, Anxiety, Affairs, Secrets, Sexual Integrity Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ West shares about having the right clothes for the job; are you clothing yourself in humility or pride? 2. My wonderful son met a beautiful girl, but her family brainwashed my son. Now they are estranged from me and I’ve never met my grandson. 3. I have an MRI scheduled for tomorrow, and it gave me anxiety just thinking about it; is claustrophobia a result of trauma? 4. A coworker came up to me and told me another coworker has a crush on me; how do I handle this? I’m in recovery for being unfaithful 4yrs ago. 5. My husband gets mad when I bring up his unfaithfulness in the past and refuses to let me see his phone. Everyone is telling me to leave. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Take Your Life Back Devotional How We Love Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Parenting, Mother Issues, Childhood Trauma, Divorce, Physical Abuse, Adult Children, False Accusations Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui-Mack Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares that when children are allowed to take risks and stay with their frustration, their frustration tolerance will lead to courage. Parents are too quick to rescue their kids. 2. My mom never hugged me, but I feel calm when I see women with big breasts like my mom. Why is that? 3. How do I help my hurting kids who live with my ex-husband after I left? I had to take out a protective order against him for threatening my life. 4. My ex-wife told my current wife I had affairs which is not true; how do I handle this when it comes to my estranged adult children? Suggested Resources: Emotional Freedom Workbook Intimate Deception Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Coaching, Finances, Incarceration, Separation, Father Issues, Betrayal, Adoption, Adult Children, Weddings Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Gwen Burno, a New Life network coach, shares how mindset and money coaching can help clients move forward. 2. My husband of 5yrs is a non-believer and is incarcerated for life. His family has priority over me during visitation; how much abuse does one take? 3. How do I move forward with the information I received from my parents that my dad who raised me is not my bio dad? DNA testing showed my mom had an affair. 4. My 23yo son is getting married this weekend and he uncovered in pre-marital therapy that he wasn’t raised in a loving family; can you give me quick therapy for a positive weekend? Suggested Resources: How We Love Trust Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Grandparenting, Christian Walk, Adult Children, Divorce, Narcissists, Anger Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares how we are tempted in our heart, body and mind, as Jesus was. 2. I have a follow up question to my son and daughter-in-law not wanting me to talk to their kids about God. How do I respond if my grandkids come to me and ask a question about my faith? 3. My son’s ex-wife called CPS and his kids have been taken away, but she wants me to still see the grandkids. Do I spend time with my grandkids or respect my son who doesn’t want me to? 4. What’s the difference between someone who is narcissistic and someone who is sensitive? I feel arguments with my adult son are driven by a lack of empathy. 5. Would you talk more about what you mentioned last week about underneath aggression is fear, defense mode, and abandonment? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible How We Love Our Kids How We Love Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Affairs, Forgiveness, Difficult Conversations, Adult Children, Physical Abuse, Self Worth Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ West shares about uncharitable thoughts and not giving others the benefit of the doubt. 2. My husband confessed to multiple affairs and keeps putting himself down; how can I convince him that I forgive him and that sin is sin? 3. It’s been 3yrs since a heated conversation with a family member, and now she tells me if I don’t apologize, she doesn’t have any use for me. 4. How do I reconcile with my 49yo daughter who canceled me after a counselor told her to? 5. My ex-husband tried to murder me twice and his behavior is trickling down to my kids! 6. How do I move forward in a one-sided relationship so I don’t get hurt? 7. I called in a few years ago when I was in a crisis and wanted to thank you for the advice you gave me! Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice How We Love Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Childhood Trauma, Father Issues, Bipolar, In-laws, Mother Issues, Anger, Forgiveness Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard asks us to look back at our answered prayers. 2. I have felt unheard and invalidated my whole life because of my abusive dad. 3. How can I handle and help my girlfriend who has bipolar disorder? It has been a struggle for us both. 4. Am I doing the right thing in ignoring my sister-in-law when she preaches at me? She backs me into a corner and tells me what a heathen I am. 5. How do I get over the pain of my mom getting angry because I chose not to get vaccinated and remained a conservative voter? Suggested Resources: Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers Understanding and Loving a Person with Bipolar Disorder Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Purpose, Christian Walk, Adult Children, Dating, Divorce, Grief, Connection Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris discusses whatever we do, do in the name of the Lord, and we will be living in our purpose. 2. My son and his wife don’t want me to say anything about Christianity to my young grandchildren; how do I respond? 3. I’ve been single for 17yrs and recently broke off a relationship because I am concerned about being someone’s emotional pillow. 4. Is there any way for me to get connected to the callers? I have listened for years and have some of the same issues as they do. 5. What advice can you give me for my daughter? Her older children are against her, her ex-husband is abusive, and he has custody of her younger ones. 6. Six years ago I lost my wife of 50yrs and can’t replace her; now that I am a hermit, I am losing connection with people. What can I do? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children How We Love Take Your Life Back Soul of a Hero To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Sexual Addiction, Living Together, Lying, Pornography, Affairs, Insomnia, Negative Thoughts Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about crazy-making conversations and wound of judgment triggers. 2. Can you give me tips and tricks on how to stay in sobriety for sexual addiction? I go to therapy and a men’s group but I still struggle. 3. I’ve been in a toxic relationship for 8yrs with a man who lies and hides from me; how can I get out of it? 4. I think my husband of 35yrs cheated on me; is seeking an attorney the right route for me to take? 5. Did working a double shift for several months cause my chronic insomnia and anxiety? Suggested Resources: Worthy of Her Trust Boundaries Changes That Heal To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Depression, Sexual Addiction, Scams, Betrayal, Intimacy, Adoption, Alcohol, Affairs Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Alice Benton explains why the foods we eat affect our mood. 2. How should I deal with my husband of 43yrs contacting women online? He has given lots of money to a woman from Ghana. 3. I’ve been married for 17yrs and have no feelings for my husband; how do I love him after I found women’s underwear on him years ago? 4. My friend’s biological 16yo daughter is being abused by her adopted family and says she’s going to kill herself if she’s forced to go back. 5. I’ve been in the hospital four times for drinking and my husband is with a younger woman now; how can I get him back? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Intimate Deception How We Love Our Kids Every Believer’s Thought Life To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Feelings, Divorce, Finances, Single Parenting, Adult Children, Video Games, Affairs Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares the importance of emotional regulation. 2. My heart went out to a previous caller, and I wanted to share creative ways that kept our family going after I divorced my abusive husband to protect my kids from him. 3. Our son is graduating college but will still live with us; how do we set boundaries with him when he spends a lot of time gaming? 4. I’ve been married 18yrs, my wife has developed a relationship with a neighbor, and she told me she is done with me. Suggested Resources: Why I Believe Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Estrangement, Drug Addiction, Boundaries, Infertility, Grief, Adult Children, Affairs, Secrets Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about the silent epidemic of parent and family estrangement. 2. Is my response to my drug-addicted sister wrong? I told her not to call me unless she calls me from a treatment center. 3. I’ve been trying to get pregnant for 16yrs. How can I cope after my doctor told me 2wks ago that I will never get pregnant? 4. I’ve been estranged from my adult daughters for over 20yrs after my nasty divorce. 5. Should we let our son know that his wife was having an affair? We have been estranged from our son for 6yrs because of her. Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Life Recovery Workbook Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Depression, Adult Children, Addiction, Boundaries, In-laws, Sexual Abuse, Parenting, Grief Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares different types of depression. 2. I’m in addiction recovery and battle with depression; now that I’m pregnant with twins, do any foods enhance your mood? 3. I just want my adult daughter who is struggling with addiction and health issues out of my house; what do I do? 4. Your show helped me to resolve a conflict with my father-in-law! 5. My 11yo son told me last December he had been sexually abused by his father and grandfather; how can I function in life when I have a breakdown every day? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Take Your Life Back Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Thankful, Feelings, Getting Unstuck, Affairs, Trust, PTSD, Living Together Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares how to do thank therapy by giving thanks in everything. 2. I was molested as a child, my marriage ended in divorce, and I feel shut down; how do I kickstart my emotional life? 3. I’m 62yo, have PTSD from abuse, and can’t trust anyone; how do I reverse that? 4. Should I stay or go from the woman I’m living with? I pay half of her mortgage and raise her kids. Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal Trust Life Recovery Bible Life Recovery Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Brain Issues, Drug Addiction, Siblings, Childhood Trauma, Adult Children, Same-Sex Attraction, Forgiveness Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. Becky Brown shares the four happiness chemicals: dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin and endorphins. 2. What is the best way to support my brother who is recovering from a brain injury and heroin addiction? 3. What is causing my relative to have seizures? He was molested as a child and is using alcohol and vaping to cope. 4. I was abusive to my five kids in the past and my daughter is gay; how do I love them through Jesus Christ and what does that look like? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Journey Take Your Life Back Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Self-Awareness, Getting Unstuck, Connection, Feelings, Betrayal, Finances, Anger, Grief, Weight Issues, Depression Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Laura Mangin-McDonald shares the life-changing importance of naming our negative core patterns. 2. I feel stuck in my sixties after my divorce 12yrs ago; how do I get motivated? 3. How can I better understand the importance of my wife’s emotions when I have a lack of emotions? 4. I recently lost my abusive husband and found out he had canceled his life insurance and built up massive credit card debt. 5. My son’s wife died 2yrs ago and his stepsons were taken from him. He is distraught; how can we help? Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice Trust How We Love Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Teens, Adoption, Divorce, Remarriage, Anxiety, Adult Children, Intervention Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares how to practice a posture of praise before prayers have been answered. 2. My adopted daughter, who is a high school senior, is vomiting since I told her I’m moving across the country. What should I do? 3. I used to be a pastor, got divorced, and have stopped serving God; did I betray God when I remarried? 4. I grew up in an abusive home, and my anxiety has become debilitating; where does anxiety come from? 5. My 42yo daughter has lived with me for 2yrs; I gave her a deadline to move out but she won’t. Suggested Resources: How We Love Our Kids How We Love Changes That Heal Conquer Worry and Anxiety Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Anxiety, Getting Unstuck, Triggers, Betrayal, Alcohol, Mother Issues, Addictions, Adult Children Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares the many causes of anxiety. 2. What would you suggest to get unstuck after 17yrs of marriage? We’re both believers and don’t want to get divorced, but I don’t want to be miserable anymore. 3. I had a great experience at Restore this past weekend! It truly restored my faith and gave me strength to move forward. 4. How do we show my alcoholic mom she’s living in sin, and how do I help my dad deal with her without enabling? 5. I’m working through betrayal trauma and you guys helped me begin the journey to recovery at the Restore intensive. How can I help my adult children with their addictions? 6. I learn best by re-listening to my conversations, but my adult children don’t feel comfortable with me recording them. What else can I do? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Life Recovery Workbook Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Parenting, Drug Addiction, Enabling, Affairs, Same-Sex Attraction, Bipolar, Church Life, Adult Children, Estrangement Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares how our job as a parent is to disciple our kids. 2. Our 40yo son has had a drug addiction and pulled knives on me; what should we do if he wants to move back after he gets out of jail? 3. I just learned that my husband was unfaithful with a man; am I unreasonable to not want him to take a new job which may be tempting for him? 4. Should I meet with the church elders about problems with my pastor’s wife who has bipolar disorder and my pastor who enables her? 5. My 50yo son stopped talking to me for a year with no explanation; how do I go about finding out why? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Intimate Deception Boundaries Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Relationships, Borderline, Boundaries, Adult Children, Difficult Conversations, Narcissists, Drug Addiction Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares the difference between the price of something vs. the cost. 2. How can my husband and I set clear boundaries with my 25yo daughter who lives with us and has BPD? 3. A Christian friend blindsided me when he said he was crossing me off the list of people to invite to his home. His wife said he was just kidding; what do you think? 4. What do I do with my narcissistic 51yo daughter who is on kidney dialysis and is a drug addict? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Understanding and Loving a Person with Borderline Personality Disorder How We Love Understanding and Loving a Person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Perfectionism, Aging Parents, Adult Children, Trauma, Physical Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Dating, Affairs, Sexual Abuse, Suicide Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about perfectionism, attitude, and judging others. 2. What should I say to my elderly dad who is verbally abusive and falsely accusing me, my mom, and my sister? 3. My 49yo son has a demanding wife who has convinced him that he has dementia and tries to keep us out of his life; how do we approach her? 4. I lost my dad and sister, and my youngest daughter was kidnapped; why do I keep going back to my physically and emotionally abusive husband? 5. I just ended a month-long relationship, and it seems like every time he hugged or talked to a woman, I felt a crippling pain in my heart; what is causing it, and how do I get rid of it? 6. My 19yo granddaughter is afraid of her father and suicidal, and I my older granddaughter told me she was sexually and physically abused by him. Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Doing Life with Your Adult Children How We Love Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Screens, In-laws, Boundaries, Suicide, End of Life, Siblings Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares how to increase self-control with screen use. 2. How do I get my wife to understand that she and I are the primary relationship and not her and her mom? How can I set appropriate boundaries with my in-laws? 3. When I talk to my dear Christian friend about my mom who has dementia, my friend talks about physician’s assisted suicide; how do I address this? 4. Should I disengage from my brother who’s a strong believer and very opinionated? I put him on speaker while I do the dishes, and I don’t even get a chance to talk. Suggested Resources: Boundaries Living Strong, Finishing Well Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Shame, Guilt, Adult Children, Sexual Integrity, Medication, Spiritual Warfare, Autism, Brain Issues Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares some shame and guilt ideas. 2. My 42yo daughter is living on the property she’s renting from us, and a man is staying with her most of the time. Do we have a right to say he can’t live with her? 3. I was on painkillers for sciatica and stopped taking them but have gone through an overwhelmingly dark withdrawal; what can I do, or who do I need to see? 4. What can I do to help my 29yo autistic son who works hard and owns his own home, but he gives money to his girlfriend with two kids? 5. Why am I going through so much physically? I had a brain injury in the fall last year, and it seems like God keeps letting me go through things. Suggested Resources: Boundaries Healing Is a Choice Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Adult Children, Finances, Estrangement, Childhood Trauma, Physical Abuse, Parenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares why one of the key traits of a healthy family is play. 2. How do you emotionally disconnect from an adult son who makes egregious financial decisions and asks us for help? He just had his 7th child. 3. I’m a single mom and asked my 22yo daughter for financial help; she stopped talking to me. 4. I was beat as a child; how do I let go of the past now that I am a parent? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your life Back Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Boundaries, Finances, Fraud, Affairs, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares how boundaries are not about standing up to others, rather standing up for ourselves. 2. I was sex trafficked 18yrs ago and was coerced into receiving fraudulent unemployment checks. I am unemployed now; should I file for unemployment? 3. I’ve been married 16yrs and there’s been infidelity on both sides. I’ve been faithful for 12yrs now but recently looked at my wife’s phone and discovered she was unfaithful. 4. My son has his PhD and no longer calls me because he wants to set boundaries; how do I continue my relationship with him? Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice Intimate Deception Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Forgiveness, Verbal Abuse, Caregiving, Autism, Video Games, Teens, Sexual Integrity, Isolation, Gender Identity Hosts: Becky Brown, and presenters at Intimacy in Marriage Intensive, Laura Mangin-McDonald and JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Laura Mangin-McDonald shares how forgiving is not forgetting. 2. At what point do I step in to help my mom? She cares for my dad with Parkinson's and he is verbally abusive. 3. My son is almost 16yo and has high-functioning autism; he is aggressive and rude when I ask him to stop playing video games. 4. Where do I find help for my 12yo grandson who has been looking at inappropriate pictures of girls online since he was 8yo? 5. What is wrong with me and how do I fit in? I relocated 15yrs ago and believe God has called me to teach His Word, but I don’t feel a part of any women’s group. 6. A friend of mine I’ve known for years just told me he’s transexual and is starting hormone replacement therapy. How can I best relate to them? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Change, Finances, Secrets, Anger, Adult Children, Teens Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares how troubles can be a precursor to change. 2. I just lost my husband 2mos ago to liver failure because of his alcohol, and he had secretly taken out thousands of dollars of credit card debt in my name. I feel guilty and ashamed for being angry at him. 3. What should my husband and I do if my son got angry at us after we let his wife serve him legal papers at our house? 4. Are personality disorders and sociopaths hereditary? I wonder if that's why my 15yo grandson gets into trouble. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Feelings, Counseling, Alcohol, Adult Children, Grief Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares about taking ownership for your emotions (others aren’t responsible.) 2. How important is it to look back when you’re trying to get some traction for today? My therapist focuses on tools for the present instead of looking back at my historical trauma. 3. My son’s wife asked him to leave after he started drinking and lied to her; how do I help him? 4. While going through chemo for my cancer, a friend told me no one cares about my husband dying last year. Suggested Resources: How We Love Life Recovery Journey Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Sexual Addiction, Borderline, Adult Children, Feelings, Alcohol, Boundaries Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: 1. JJ West requests that every listener help get men to the Every Man’s Battle Intensive by telling their pastor about it. 2. I want to try to have a relationship with my borderline adult daughter; would it help for me to write her and tell her I’m sorry for the things I did wrong as a parent? 3. I just went to Every Man’s Battle and it was wonderful! My wife wants me to show her love by having empathy, compassion, and thoughtfulness; how do I do that? 4. Should I let my alcoholic cousin come over to my place to sober up? My mom was an alcoholic, and it brings up bad memories. 5. Our daughter-in-law only wants to communicate with my husband and not me; am I being unreasonable to feel reluctant to jump back into a relationship without my husband setting boundaries? Suggested Resources: Understanding and Loving a Person with Borderline Personality Disorder Life Recovery Journey Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Self Worth, Sexual Addiction, Pornography, Depression, Autism Hosts: Becky Brown, and presenters at Intimacy in Marriage Intensive, Laura Mangin-McDonald and JJ West Caller Questions: 1. JJ West shares about feeling inferior and that comparison is the thief of joy. 2. My husband struggles with porn, strip clubs, and flirting with his ex-girlfriend in front of me. 3. I’ve been married to an avoider and addict, and my depression has gotten so bad that I can’t even get out of bed. When is an appropriate time for us to separate? 4. Do you have any help for people who are high-functioning autistic adults? I think I am autistic because I am unable to connect with others and adhere to routines. Suggested Resources: Worthy of Her Trust Changes That Heal How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Communication, Finances, Boundaries, Pornography, Blended Families, Engagement, Adult Children, Anxiety Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about communication differences; be more interested in understanding rather than correcting. 2. Is my husband a wolf in sheep’s clothing? Is he taking advantage of me financially? 3. I discovered my husband has been viewing internet pornography. 4. I am apprehensive to meet my future stepson today; do you have any suggestions? He is a disabled vet. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Worthy of Her Trust How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Screens, Remarriage, Christian Walk, Alcohol, Finances, Connection Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares the three parenting styles used to regulate their child’s screen time. 2. My wife and I can’t come to a consensus about anything because she blames me for everything; how do I deal with it? 3. My first husband says God is requiring us to remarry or I will go to hell; is this true? 4. What do I do if my husband didn’t work for 3yrs and might be laid off from the job he just got? He is an alcoholic, and it ruins everything. 5. As an introvert, what might be biblically important? I seek time alone but want to know about the importance of connection. Suggested Resources: Understanding and Loving Your Child In a Screen-Saturated World How We Love How We Love Our Kids Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Shame, Guilt, Parenting, Communication, Teens, Brain Issues, Adult Children, Separation Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer shares about unhealthy shame and unhealthy guilt. 2. We have been fostering a 15yo for a month and are not able to communicate with her; how do we break through to her? 3. I believe I incurred brain trauma and potentially CTE from my time playing football. Can you give me some guidance for what I need to do? 4. My son-in-law suffered from trauma in his past and no longer wants to be married to my daughter. What questions should I ask when we meet next week? Suggested Resources: Presence Matters How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Leadership, Adult Children, Weddings, Miscarriage, Grief, Church Life, Teens, Bipolar Disorder Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions More: 1. Chris Williams shares how we are all leaders, and it starts with leading our own internal world. 2. My 27yo son is getting married and told me what not to wear to his wedding after I told him I wouldn’t pay for the wedding because he lives with his fiance. 3. My stepson and his wife miscarried twins and it hurt me that my elderly mom didn’t reach out to them. 4. The Lord took my wife home 19mos ago, and my pastor called and asked me if I’ve met someone yet. How do I tell him he doesn’t know how I feel? 5. What resources are available for our 15yo adopted granddaughter who threatened to kill her mother? She has bipolar disorder. Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice 7 Ways to Choose Healing Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Self Worth, Anxiety, Adult Children, Grandparenting, Drug Addiction, Adoption, Weddings Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. Marc Cameron shares the ways we cover up our insecurities with emotional masks. 2. I went to see my daughter and her kids in Europe at Christmas, but she suddenly made me leave and won’t talk to me; what do my grandkids think of her making me leave? 3. I’m a strong Christian, but I’m losing my faith because I’m addicted to Oxycontin. How do I get off of it? 4. Should I try to pursue a relationship with my adult son whom I placed for adoption? His birthday is coming up, and his adoptive parents got upset that I put my email address in his last card. 5. My son doesn’t want me to invite my cousin to his daughter’s wedding, and it really hurt me; should I ask my son again? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Trauma, Addictions, Halloween, Adult Children, Anger, Marijuana, Teens, Sexual Abuse Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about trauma and how addictions and acting out come into play. 2. I like to hand out Gospel tracts to kids on Halloween; what draws people to this holiday? 3. How can I help my husband and 22yo daughter grow closer? My daughter gets quiet when she perceives someone is angry with her, and her father can sometimes come across as angry. 4. My 14yo son is smoking pot and hanging out with kids who are a bad influence at school. His mom and I are divorced; what do we do? 5. My teen stepson is a peeping tom and has walked in on me changing. My husband won’t do anything. Suggested Resources: Living Strong, Finishing Well How We Love Understanding and Loving Your Child Who Smokes Pot Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Compassion, Adult Children, Connection, Depression, Anxiety, Blended Families, Boundaries, Estrangement Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: 1. Chris Williams describes what a benevolent witness is and compares it to hosting. 2. My 28yo son wants to lie about his address to get a job; how can I connect with him so he won’t pull back when I give him advice? 3. I have depression and my 52yo daughter with MS lives with us; she has memory loss and isn’t taking care of herself. I don’t know what to do. 4. What kind of boundaries should my husband put in place if he works with his son, but his son refuses to let us see the grandchildren? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Changes That Heal Healing Is a Choice To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Perseverance, Counseling, Adult Children, Blended Families, Childhood Trauma, Abandonment Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. Marc Cameron shares a story about a marathon runner, Cliff Young, and his example of perseverance. 2. How do I know if I have the right counselor for what I need? My husband is verbally abusive, and my counselor told me he won’t change. 3. My adult son moved home, and it triggers my husband who compares himself to my son; how do I help them? 4. My dad walked out before I was 1yo and my stepdad did a lot of bad things to me; how do love others if I don’t know how to love myself? 5. We are grieving the loss of five family members, and we all hurt each other; do you have any suggestions? Suggested Resources: How We Love Healing Is a Choice Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Habits, Anxiety, Christian Walk, Teens, Pornography, Aging Parents, Blended Families, Adult Children Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares how unfished tasks cause the Zeigarnik effect, and how that affects our brain. 2. I’m almost 50yo, don’t know why I serve God, and wonder if God even loves me. 3. What are some resources for my 16yo son who’s addicted to porn? 4. My 88yo mom is being scammed in a romance scam; how do I get to her? 5. My new wife said she’d take our whole family on a cruise except for my 31yo son and his girlfriend because she thinks he has ulterior motives. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen Saturated World Every Young Man’s Battle Living Strong, Finishing Well How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Screens, Parenting, Sexual Integrity, Singles, Pleasers, Physical Abuse, Dating, Intimacy, Anger Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares a few tips on screen use by modeling parental behavior. 2. Should I think I might as well have sex even though I’m not married? 3. I’m a pleaser and I’ve been verbally and physically abused by my husband; how can I trust and lean into my husband when he says I am the reason for his name-calling? 4. What do I do if I’m 55yo, never married, and I don’t want to go to bars? 5. My wife and I are like roommates, and I got angry at her after I had surgery; where do I go from here? Suggested Resources: How We Love Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Teens, Sexual Integrity, Adult Children, Alcohol, Intervention, Marijuana, ADD Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ West asks, What does the soil of my life look like? Would I survive a dry season? 2. My niece is asking what to do about her 14yo son who masturbates loudly. 3. My 53yo married son thinks because he doesn’t drink, he’s not affected by his father’s alcoholism. What can I do? 4. Am I out of bounds suggesting a family intervention to confront my brother-in-law and nephew about their drinking and marijuana? 5. How do I get my married adult son to get help for his undiagnosed ADD? Suggested Resources: Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World Every Young Man’s Battle Doing Life with Your Adult Children Understanding and Loving a Person with ADD To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Suicide, Emotional Abuse, Isolation, Communication, Intimacy, Counseling Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. You partnered with God to pull Glen from death last week; I’ll find a way to support you! 2. Is there a connection between the trauma from my abusive marriage of 20yrs and me shunning people? 3. All my husband does is play sports and I feel like I’m his mom because all I do is clean his clothes. 4. What’s the difference between emotionally focused therapy vs. the Gottman method for married couples? Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice How We Love Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Caregiving, Betrayal, Fear, Failure, Drug Addiction, Grief, Life Change Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about the struggles of being a caregiver for a spouse or family member. 2. I went to Restore and am still struggling; how do I process this without looking at every guy as a pervert? 3. Why does trying to overcome the fear of people and failure bring about physical pain in my body? 4. How can I help my 20yo daughter and my husband who are still using drugs? 5. My husband had a brain injury and I was his caregiver until he passed 4yrs ago. Then I experienced a huge void from his loss. Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety Take Your Life Back 100 Days of Prayer To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Alcohol, Sex Addiction, Adult Children, Trust, Schizophrenia, Bipolar, Making Decisions, Aging Parents, Suicide Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares insights from Dr. Dave Stoop. 2. I’m a functioning alcoholic and a sexual addict, and I’m starting a Celebrate Recovery 12-step group. What other resources can help? 3. My adult son has been accused by his ex-wife of abusing their kids, and he could end up in jail for 10yrs. How do we help him trust people again? 4. I was diagnosed with schizoaffective and bipolar disorders. Is it realistic for me to get a commercial driver’s license so I can drive a truck? Where do I go from here? 5. My elderly mom has terminal cancer, lives alone, and has requested End of Life euthanasia; is it biblical for her to take her own life? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook Healing Is a Choice Take Your Life Back Living Strong, Finishing Well To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Social Media, Parenting, Church Life, Betrayal, Father Issues, Grief, Same-Sex Attraction Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Alice Benton asks, Do we allow our children enough physical freedom and too much digital freedom? 2. Is it wrong to leave my church and go to another church that feels more comfortable? 3. Why did I marry two men who betrayed me even though I loved them deeply and thought they would be loving? My father was abusive and neglectful. 4. My friend’s 21yo son died from blood cancer and now my friend is going onto social media and saying mean things about his son’s ex-girlfriend. 5. Are gay pride events supporting people who are exercising their right to be rebellious? I have good friends in the lifestyle. Suggested Resources: Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World Intimate Deception Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Every Believer’s Thought Life To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Suicide, Hope, Emotional Affairs, Adult Children, Boundaries, Estrangement, Blended Families Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer reflected on the powerful suicidal call on June 5. 2. My husband had an emotional affair but doesn’t seem to be getting any better; what caused my husband to sneak around with a woman for 10yrs? 3. My daughter lives with me and has brought a 45yo man to squat in my house; what should I do? My granddaughter also lives here. 4. I’ve been married 40yrs, and my husband hasn’t talked to my son for years; should I reach out to my son and ask him to make amends? 5. I wanted to thank New Life for the Emotional Freedom Intensive last weekend. Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Take Your Life Back How We Love Healing Is a Choice To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Neighbors, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Affairs, Verbal Abuse, Newlyweds, Anxiety Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about Loving Your Neighbor as Yourself. 2. I stopped using drugs 28yrs ago but still struggle with feeling unworthy. 3. My son is a recovering addict and has left his wife and children to be with a woman who is an addict; how do I deal with this woman? 4. I struggle with loving and respecting my husband who is verbally abusive. 5. I’ve been married 2mos to a man in recovery 5mos, but I have a lot of anxiety over his tobacco and caffeine habits; how do I navigate my marriage? Suggested Resources: Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget Boundaries Worthy of Her Trust How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Habits, Caregiving, Making Decisions, Self Worth, Dating, Friendship, Depression, Suicide Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares What To Do To Change a Habit. 2. After caregiving for my mom until she passed, how do I determine where I want to live? 3. Why do I keep attracting unsafe people if I’m a safe person? Why do opposites attract? 4. I’ve set up an appointment to be euthanized because I can’t handle life and don’t know how to tell my 29yo daughter or fiance. Suggested Resources: Emotional Freedom Workbook Changes That Heal Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Narcissists, Sexual Integrity Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ West shares about One-Anothering vs. Othering. 2. How do I get my husband out of bed? When I try to get him to do something, he argues and then goes back to sleep. 3. How do I heal my relationship with my adult adopted daughter? She cut off communication when I tried to reconcile. 4. I’ve been married 27yrs to a narcissist and found texts from another woman. 5. I wanted to let your first caller know that I’ve been 20yrs clean from drugs and once I was off of methadone, I still had the urge to use. You have to keep working the program. Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook Doing Life with Your Adult Children Intimate Deception Life Recovery Bible To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Drug Addiction, Childhood Trauma, Abandonment, Christian Walk, Childhood Abuse, Finances, Guilt Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares with parents How Drugs Are Different Today. 2. I had to be a caregiver to my mom when I was a child, and now I care for my sister who has schizophrenia; does someone’s childhood affect them their whole life? 3. I’m struggling with my community letting drag queens read to little children. 4. My 5yr relationship with a woman who has been abused since childhood ended; how can you help someone when their family says they deserved the abuse? 5. After inheriting money from my dad and not telling my husband who owes money for his taxes, what do I do about my guilt? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers Every Woman’s Bible How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Brain Issues, Counseling, Childhood Trauma, Depression, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams and Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer explains her Triune Council of the Brain Analogy (how triggers affect the brain). 2. My wife went to biblical counselors, but they never even asked about her past; what do you say to my wife or the counselors who have convinced her she’s okay? 3. How can I be more compassionate and supportive with my adult daughter who is depressed? I can’t grasp how or why she has gotten to this point. 4. What are your thoughts on the Internal Family Systems therapy model? It’s extremely popular. Suggested Resources: How We Love Take Your Life Back Understanding and Loving a Person with Depression 100 Days To Freedom from Depression To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Adult Children, Parenting, Christian Walk, Affairs, Difficult Conversations, Same-Sex Attraction Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares What To Do When a Loved One Won’t Seek Help. 2. How can my husband and I present a united front if my daughter’s boyfriend will be moving in with her and we don’t agree? 3. Should I always submit and defer to my husband? Should I stop attending church because my husband has stopped? 4. My husband has been unfaithful several times in the 11yrs we’ve been married. 5. How can I lovingly talk to my granddaughter in college and help her realize that dating a woman is not right? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children How We Love Sacred Marriage Intimate Deception Embodied To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Surrender, Codependency, Adult Children, Drug Addiction, Physical Abuse Hosts: Chris Williams and Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Chris Williams and Dr. Sheri Keffer share about Resistance That Blocks Surrender. 2. How can I fix myself to be able to communicate with my daughter who is a single mom and only reaches out when she needs me? 3. I have a 22yo granddaughter who lives with us and has been in-and-out of rehab for fentanyl addiction; what do I do to help her? 4. I left a violent marriage of 3yrs, my third marriage; how can I not make the same mistake again? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Bible How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Social Media, Addictions, Alcohol, Anger, Isolation, ADD, Adult Children, Self Worth, Acceptance Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares about Social Media as a Digital Drug (does technology distract you?). 2. My 49yo daughter is a recovering alcoholic, has taken up smoking, and is angry at everything; what do I do? 3. I stopped working a year ago and have become reclusive; how do I overcome it? 4. How do I help my 20yo nephew who struggles with ADHD, is kickboxing, has had car accidents, and I’m concerned he’s going to get injured? 5. At 71yo, how do I unpack the many hurts I’ve gone through in life? I am an Asian physician who is a Christian, struggles for acceptance, and feels out of place. Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children How We Love Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
From the New Life Live! archives, this Flashback show originally aired on Memorial Day, May 30, 2016. Topics: Intimacy, Fear, Negative Thoughts, Anxiety, Marijuana, Alcohol, Boundaries, Grief, Adult Children, Divorce Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: 1. I am 65yo and have had no sex for 3yrs; what can I do to spark my wife’s interest? 2. How do I stop my fearful, irrational thoughts that consume me? 3. My 19yo son’s best friend died in a crash and he has turned to alcohol; should I kick him out? 4. How do I help my 39yo daughter have a life after she sacrificed to help me during my divorce? Suggested Resources: How We Love You Are What You Think Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Bible 12 Laws of Life Recovery To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Divorce, Remarriage, Grief, Friendship, Connection, Isolation Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares a real life example of how to apply 2 Thessalonians 3:10. 2. I am a Muslim and believe that if someone’s spouse is still alive, they are still married to them; what does the Bible say about divorce and remarriage? 3. I lost my husband 6mos ago and find myself being very needy; is this a sign of needing more healing, or am I too vulnerable to be friends with men? 4. How can I be connected to the world but not be overwhelmed by it? I have felt disconnected since COVID. Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Healing Is a Choice How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Fear, Abandonment, Gender Identity, Enabling, Alcohol, Adult Children, Betrayal Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams, recorded on the New Life Danube River Cruise Caller Questions More: 1. Chris Williams shares one practical way to work around fear. 2. My wife’s abandonment issues trigger my past failures; how can we communicate better? 3. Our 7yo grandson wears a dress; how do we deal with gender identity issues? 4. How do we balance support vs. financially enabling our adult daughter who is a recovering alcoholic? 5. I have felt betrayed by family members in the past and now I’m having nightmares; what can I do? Suggested Resources: 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety How We Love Doing Life with Your Adult Children How You ThinkDetermines the Course of Your Life To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Perseverance, Christian Walk, Separation, Isolation, Dating, Siblings Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares What To Do on a Tough Day. 2. The men’s Bible study I started was divided because the men argued over whether or not we stop sinning after we become Christians. 3. My wife just told me this morning that she’s leaving after 20yrs of conflict; what are some pitfalls of separation I need to be aware of? 4. How do I find purpose and meaning in life? I am divorced, no kids or grandkids, and I feel alone. 5. My 21yo daughter is dating her ex-boyfriend’s father and my older daughter is very upset; how can I help them reconnect? Suggested Resources: Every Man’s Bible How We Love Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Parenting, Dating, Grief, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Adult Children, Enabling, Siblings, Confrontation Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares why Your Presence Matters to Children (the power of being there). 2. What do I do to move on and find peace after a woman I dated for 4yrs years broke things off? She had children with special needs. 3. Can my friend with dissociative identity disorder achieve freedom? 4. My son was married for a year, cheated on his wife, and moved out. Should I buy a TV for his new place? 5. Should I tell my dramatic sister who is in her 70s that I think she might have histrionic personality disorder? Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice 100 Days of Peace Doing Life with Your Adult Children How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Career, Christian Walk, Father Issues, Boundaries, Blended Families, Home Disorder, Dating Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. Should I stop taking secular classes for my Master’s in Psychology and pursue biblical counseling instead? 2. My husband thinks I respect my father more than him; how do I set boundaries with my father and not hurt his feelings? 3. Do I have to go to my husband’s grandson’s birthday party? I don’t want to see his two ex-wives. 4. Our dear pastor’s parsonage is always unkempt and now they have chickens; why is his family so messy? 5. How do I move forward if the man I’ve been seeing has backed off? I’m an 80yo widow and don’t want to seem desperate. Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal How We Love 100 Days of Peace Is This The One To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Self Care, Highly Sensitive People, Intimacy, Empty Nest, Procrastination, Depression, Counseling, Suicide, Adult Children Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about Self Care (how to love and accept yourself and lower comparison). 2. I am an extreme empath and get overstimulated around people; do you have any tips for upcoming events? 3. After three kids, my wife and I have not been intimate for 16yrs. 4. What can I do for my struggling son who started procrastinating? His adult kids are transitioning out of the house. 5. Why did my church stop my counseling and not tell me why? They told me to find an outside therapist. 6. I have held so tightly to God’s promises for my children; how do I grieve my son’s suicide? Suggested Resources: How We Love Understanding and Loving a Person with Depression Healing Is a Choice To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Boundaries, Drug Addiction, Divorce, Forgiveness, Affairs, Same-Sex Attraction, Parenting Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about Travel and Adventure (a perspective change that a time away can provide). 2. When is it time to take care of me instead of my brother with a severe crack addiction? 3. I’m going through a divorce but want to have a friendship with my ex to help my children and grandchildren get through it; how do I forgive him? 4. I just found out my cousin was unfaithful to her husband and that they are now separated; is it okay if I talk to her since she cut off contact with her siblings? 5. How do we navigate our 17yo daughter being attracted to a female? Suggested Resources: Boundaries Understanding and Loving a Person with Alcohol or Drug Addiction Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Screens, Perseverance, Intimacy, Counseling, Perspective, Avoiders, Siblings, Parenting Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares about Family Screen Agreements for the summer. 2. Do we need marriage counseling or individual counselors? My husband has left the marriage emotionally and we live like roommates. 3. Train yourself to search for the silver lining, no matter the circumstance. I found God when I began looking for the good in life. 4. I married a liar and we’ve been working through the issues. How do I stop shutting down and turning to TV when issues arise? 5. Should I continue to intervene with my sister who may be jumping into another marriage too soon? 6. How do I help my daughters cope with a big move due to my husband’s job? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Changes That Heal Healing Is a Choice How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Fear, Christian Walk, Aging Parents, Guilt, Abandonment, Anxiety, ADD Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: 1. Fear and faith cannot occupy the same space in your brain at the same time. 2. How can I deal with the guilt of not taking care of my mother in her old age? I am already caring for my elderly father-in-law. 3. My dad claimed I wasn’t his child, and my life has spiraled out of control because of fear; can you help? 4. After 4yrs of marriage, my husband thinks my anxiety, ADHD, and rage are behavioral problems not mental illness. Suggested Resources: Living Strong, Finishing Well Changes That Heal How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Judgment, Compromise, In-laws, Boundaries, Christian Walk, Sex Offenders Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares about Attribution Bias (when we judge others by their actions and judge ourselves by our intentions). 2. My spouse wants to spend more time in the south for the winter, but I don’t; do you have any suggestions? 3. What are some ways for me to have a cordial relationship with my in-laws while setting clear boundaries? My in-laws ask me intrusive questions. 4. I want to tithe but my husband disagrees; should I tithe or honor my husband? 5. I have a family member in jail for pedophilia; is there any hope for someone with pedophilia? Suggested Resources: How We Love (how to do the comfort circle exercise) Boundaries Every Woman’s Bible 100 Days of Peace To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Grandparenting, Eating Disorders, Teens, Christian Walk, Engagement, Enmeshment, Difficult Conversations, Self-Worth Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares how We Can Do All Things Through Christ. 2. My 12yo grandson has a serious eating disorder and my son won’t talk to me anymore. 3. When it comes to tithing, are we under the New Covenant or Old Covenant? 4. How can I approach the conversation with my fiance that I am scared she is enmeshed with her parents and I won’t be a priority? 5. Do you have any suggestions if I start to shake and feel numb when people ask personal things about me? Suggested Resources: How We Love Our Kids Healing Is a Choice Changes That Heal To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Avoiders, Finances, Christian Walk, Gambling, Sexual Abuse, Same-Sex Attraction, Secrets Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about Pathological Demand Avoidance. 2. What’s going on with my life at 57yo? It seems like the harder I work, the more things go wrong. 3. Should I go out of town if I feel shame for my gambling addiction and don’t want to run into people I know? 4. My niece told us her 2yo daughter was molested by a family member; how will it affect her for the rest of her life? 5. My family is fighting because my granddaughter married a woman, and a cousin’s fianc refused to go. Should they go to his wedding? 6. My husband has been financially abusive and secretive about it; what is my responsibility? Suggested Resources: You Are What You Think Life Recovery Bible How We Love Our Kids 100 Days of Peace Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Character, Intimacy, Betrayal, Counseling, Adult Children, ADD, Pregnancy, Sexual Integrity Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about Knowing Our Values. 2. If my 12yr marriage has never been consummated, do I have grounds for a divorce? 3. What type of therapy works best for betrayal trauma? 4. How can I deal with my adult daughter who blames me for encouraging her to stay in a college degree she didn’t like? 5. My 40yo daughter found out she has ADD and is pregnant; are there meds she can take? 6. My partner of 7yrs sends nude pictures to women online and then runs home to his mom when he gets caught. Suggested Resources: How We Love Every Woman’s Bible Doing Life with Your Adult Children Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Addictions, Surrender, Aging Parents, Affairs, Remarriage, Christian Walk, Suicide, Chronic Illness Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron, JJ West Caller Questions: 1. JJ West shares about The Serenity Prayer and Unexpected Disappointment. 2. How do I deal with my elderly father who says he will no longer want to live after his significant other dies? 3. I struggle with flashbacks from discovering my husband had an affair for several decades; how do I move on? How do I get him to understand my emotions? 4. My previous pastor taught that getting divorced and remarried is adultery; is my marriage to my 2nd wife going to keep us out of heaven? 5. How do I handle my 69yo husband thinking of stopping his kidney dialysis? It seems like it’s a suicide wish. Suggested Resources: Living Strong, Finishing Well Worthy of Her Trust 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Anxiety, Intimacy, Sex Addiction, Boundaries, Vacillators, Scams Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares about Separation Anxiety Disorder. 2. How do I understand my emotions so I can love my wife how she needs to be loved? We had an argument last night. 3. My nephew struggles with sex addiction; what are my boundaries with letting him come into my home? 4. Have you ever heard of a pattern where someone starts a fight to make up? My friend’s wife does this. 5. What are some steps I can take to help my 75yo friend who is being catfished? Suggested Resources: How We Love 100 Days To Freedom from Anger Worthy of Her Trust Every Woman’s Bible To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Guilt, Adult Children, Aging Parents, End of Life, Caregiving, Christian Walk, Grief, Childhood Trauma Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions: 1. Am I experiencing true guilt or false guilt after my son with mental illness ran away from his group home? 2. We moved my 92yo mother to a care facility with a shared room. What can I say when she says she wants to die in her sleep? 3. I am a caregiver for an 81yo man on dialysis who believes God is going to heal him. How do I get him to see that his wife is making herself sick trying to care for him? 4. How can my husband and I help my brother-in-law whose wife just died a few weeks ago? When we talk to him, he is hysterical. 5. Can a wound be so deep that you can’t ever recover from it? I grew up visiting my mom only in the summer, and my dad was emotionally unavailable. Suggested Resources: Understanding and Loving a Person with Depression 100 Days of Peace Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Changes That Heal To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Affairs, Trust, Friendship, People Pleasers, Adult Children, Boundaries, Anxiety Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. How do I start looking forward instead of looking back? My husband had an affair several years ago, and he still lies. 2. Why do I find myself in friendships with people who do all the talking and don’t ask anything about my life? I’m a good listener, but I leave feeling drained. 3. I live with my sister; did I make the right decision in letting her son and his family move in? I’m resentful my sister never helped me when I was homeless. 4. Why do Christians suffer from anxiety? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception 7 Ways to Choose Healing People Fuel Boundaries Conquer Worry and Anxiety 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Separation, Emotional Affairs, Same-Sex Attraction, Abandonment, Childhood Trauma, Getting Unstuck, Sexual Addiction Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. My wife started making false accusations about me having an emotional affair with a woman from church and left me; should I keep pursuing or move on? 2. My friend is in the LGBTQ community and wants to go to church with me; is that right in the eyes of God? 3. Growing up, my mom was never there and never said she loved me, and my dad was an alcoholic; how do I get unstuck if I don’t believe I’m loved? 4. How do I get my married nephew to Every Man’s Battle? He has a sex addiction and goes to sex workers, but he is narcissistic. Suggested Resources: How We Love Every Woman’s Bible Healing Is a Choice Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Affairs, Divorce, Adult Children, Estrangement, Bipolar, Teens, Grandparenting, Boundaries, Self-Harm, Intimacy Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. My wife had affairs and then turned my sons against me when she divorced me. Since she passed away and my sons think she’s a saint, how do I reconnect with them? 2. I’m almost 70yo and bipolar and have done ECT, but the doctor I saw wants to do light therapy and neurotherapy; are these legitimate therapies? 3. After my 13yo granddaughter’s parents told her to limit time with her friends who are not a good influence, she took a bunch of pills; what do you recommend? 4. My husband and I haven’t had sex in 2yrs, and I struggle with the temptation to masturbate. What hope is there for a woman in a sexless marriage? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Every Woman’s Bible How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Affairs, Adult Children, Finances, Physical Abuse, Forgiveness, Blended Families Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. Is it worth it to reconcile with my unfaithful husband? We’ve been married three times and divorced twice, but he continues to be unfaithful. 2. My family has uninvited my husband to a $5,000 vacation we paid for because they want me to divorce him; what do I do? 3. My ex-husband told me there was a shotgun in the corner and he wanted to get divorced, so I went and packed all my stuff up. The first caller needs to keep herself safe. 4. I struggle with forgiving others; is this because I question whether God has truly forgiven me? 5. Can you clarify what you said when you mentioned kids come first before the new spouse when there is divorce and remarriage? Suggested Resources: Worthy of Her Trust Doing Life with Your Adult Children Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Trust, Grief, Childhood Trauma, Christian Walk, Alcohol, Attachment Style Hosts: Becky, Brown Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. How do I trust people again and keep going after my husband asked me to leave, my mom passed, I was homeless, and I drank a bottle of vodka a day? 2. My mom tried to drown me and my dad played Russian roulette with me when I was a child; how can God bring good from it like He did with Joseph in Genesis? 3. Is my relationship repairable with my alcoholic partner? 4. I want to know more about having discernment and secure attachment; where do I begin? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Changes That Heal Understanding and Loving a Person with Alcohol or Drug Addiction How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Miscarriages, Grief, Anxiety, Teens, Sexual Integrity, Making Decisions Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams Caller Questions: 1. My daughter has had four miscarriages and two stillbirths; how do I find some words to say to her? 2. How do I support my 17yo daughter with her social anxiety before she goes to college? 3. I lost my wife of 20yrs at Thanksgiving; how can I honor God with my sexuality as a widower? 4. I always wonder if I made the right decision. How can I be at peace knowing I made the best decision with the information I had? Suggested Resources: The Heart Handbook Conquer Worry and Anxiety How You ThinkDetermines the Course of Your Life To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Anger, Verbal Abuse, Adult Children, Boundaries, Finances, Drug Addiction, Pornography Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. How do I handle my adult son who gets angry and yells at me for hours? 2. My sister took guardianship of our niece but is using the money for herself; how do I oppose her if she is blaming us in court? 3. How do you help someone who doesn’t think they have a problem? My son is addicted to gas station heroin. 4. What can I do to overcome porn, masturbation, and create a safety plan for my wife? Suggested Resources: 100 Days of Peace Boundaries Understanding and Loving a Person with Alcohol or Drug Addiction Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Estrangement, Adult Children, Betrayal, Borderline, Physical Abuse, Anger Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: 1. My four adult children no longer talk to me after I bashed their mom, but I’ve forgiven her for divorcing me 30yrs ago. 2. How can I get beyond my family who turned my daughter against me as she was dying from cancer? 3. I filed for a divorce from my husband who may have borderline and Alzheimer’s and was physically abusive to me; is asking him to go through anger management the best first step? Suggested Resources: Living Strong, Finishing Well Heart Handbook Understanding and Loving a Person with Borderline Personality Disorder To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Brain Issues, Bipolar, Grandparenting, Anxiety, Trust, End of Life, Adult Children Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. What kind of help do I need for brain trauma from football and bipolar disorder? 2. How do we help our 11yo granddaughter who is struggling after her mom’s surgeries and extended hospital stay? 3. What boundaries can I put in place for my husband who is in contact with his ex-girlfriend? 4. Was it a mistake to share my end of life intentions with my friend? Her demeanor changed. 5. How do I manage my adult daughters not getting along during a family outing? Suggested Resources: Conquer Worry and Stress How We Love Our Kids Worthy of Her Trust Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Adult Children, Boundaries, Grief, Affairs, Counseling, Estrangement, Enabling, Self-Worth, People Pleasers Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. My adult kids set boundaries with me and aren’t willing to sit down and talk about it; any suggestions? 2. How do I encourage my unfaithful husband to go to counseling? 3. My son and his wife cut themselves off from us 4yrs ago but recently asked us to give them money to help them move back. Should we pay for it? 4. I’m tired of helping my 40yo addict son who is in and out of prison; is it OK to let go? 5. I’m 63yo; how do I begin the journey to stand up for myself and stop being a people pleaser? Suggested Resources: Worthy of Her Trust Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back Healing Is a Choice To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Christian Walk, Finances, Trust, Counseling, Weight Loss, Distractions Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. Is Malachi the right Scripture for tithing? I have trust issues. 2. Does the whole world have problems like I hear on New Life Live, or is it just the USA? 3. I feel hopeless to lose weight; how do I stop my eating cycle? 4. How do I concentrate on my life in Christ when there are so many distractions in the world? Suggested Resources: One Year Life Recovery Prayer Devotional Life Recovery Bible Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Lose It for Life You Are What You Think Living Strong Finishing Well To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Anger, Blended Families, Marijuana, Teens, Estrangement, Siblings, Grief, Avoiders Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions: 1. How do I resolve my issues with anger? I hold things in and have verbally lashed out, broken things, and screamed. 2. What do I do if my 19yo bonus daughter has had a battle with drug-laced marijuana, and my husband and his mom think the problem is going to magically disappear? 3. My estranged brother wrote a horrible letter to me after we lost our only son; where do I go from here? 4. My avoider husband says he wants to work on our marriage, but he gets defensive; do I have a wall up or is it him? Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice Understanding and Loving Your Child Who Smokes Pot Understanding and Loving a Person with Alcohol or Drug Addiction How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Grief, Depression, Estrangement, Mother Issues, Adult Children, Weight Issues, Self Worth, Enabling Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. I’ll miss Steve Arterburn being on radio and I wrote a poem in his honor. 2. What should I do to get past my baby’s father getting shot and killed last year and then losing our baby when I was 5mos pregnant? 3. I wanted to share about meeting Steve when I was homeless and had to take four buses to see him. 4. My wife won’t engage with her mom and my kids keep asking to see grandma; what’s the best way to approach this? 5. My 23yo son lives with me and won’t work because he gained over a hundred pounds during COVID. He also has paranoia; how do I help without enabling? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers Understanding and Loving a Person with Depression 100 Days To Freedom from Overeating To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Confrontation; Difficult Conversations, Aging Parents, Physical Abuse, Boundaries, Addictions, Marijuana, Estrangement, Adult Children Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron, and a special message from Steve Arterburn Caller Questions: 1. I shy away from confrontation and my bossy Bible study leader’s wife sent me a text that bothered me; should I confront her? 2. My elderly parents are drug addicts, and my dad left my mom on the floor after she fell. Do we let my mom move in with us? 3. How do I get off of marijuana? I went to rehab but relapsed after going home. 4. What would God have me do after my adult son cut off any kind of relationship with me? I think he has narcissistic personality disorder. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Understanding and Loving a Person with Alcohol or Drug Addiction Life Recovery Bible Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Self-Worth, Adult Children, Enabling, Blended Families Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions: 1. Why do I keep having negative thoughts of myself, and how can I change that? 2. My adult children want me to bail them out after they get into trouble; how do I find a balance and say no? 3. Where can I find the four core values Chris Williams mentioned so I can apply them? 4. I’m newly married at 72yo and very happy, but my adult kids think my new husband is after my money. Suggested Resources: You Are What You Think Doing Life with Your Adult Children How You Think To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Autism, Anxiety, Adult Children, Chronic Pain, Controllers, Alcohol Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: 1. Is my 30yo son autistic or agoraphobic if he won’t leave the house or even brush his teeth? My wife is bedridden, and I’m disabled. 2. What’s the difference between going to a chiropractor vs. pain management? 3. My niece’s husband always gives an excuse to leave when he’s with us; is it a sign he’s controlling? 4. My wonderful husband of 21yrs goes out drinking every night and sometimes doesn’t come home at night. Suggested Resources: Conquer Worry and Anxiety Living Strong, Finishing Well How You Think Sacred Marriage Understanding and Loving a Person with Alcohol or Drug Addiction To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Depression, Adult Children, Suicide, Sexual Abuse, Estrangement, Anxiety Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams Caller Questions: 1. Any advice about what we can do to help our 32yo son with anxiety and depression? 2. I wanted to end it last month because nothing is easy for me; what can I do? 3. Where do I go from here if my 35yo daughter cut me out of her life after my son-in-law sexually assaulted me? 4. My 11yo granddaughter has severe panic attacks; how can I help? Suggested Resources: Conquer Worry and Anxiety Take Your Life Back Emotional Freedom Workbook How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Bipolar Disorder, ADD, Parenting, Difficult Conversations, Sexual Abuse, PTSD, Siblings Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. My husband has a pattern of leaving me when he has a bipolar episode; is there a place in his mind he can go that gives him peace? 2. My sister’s 11yo son with ADHD talks badly to her and all of us, but she doesn’t discipline him; how do I talk to her about it? 3. I want no contact with my father-in-law who sexually abused his stepdaughter years ago and was never charged and has never gone to counseling; what can I do? 4. How do I help my sister who is a domestic violence victim and has mental health issues? I’m now her guardian. Suggested Resources: Understanding and Loving a Person with Bipolar Disorder Boundaries How We Love Changes That Heal To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: - Interview with Michelle Spadafora, a speaker for the Lose It for Life workshop. - My pregnant adult daughter is allowing her boyfriend to move in; what is my role? - My 21yo daughter doesn’t think marijuana is bad; what can I show her about its dangers? - I was sexually abused as a child and now I am being triggered; what can I do? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Becky Brown, Special Guest Host Stacey Sadler Caller Questions: - I’m a single dad who loves my boys, but I get angry and have to apologize to them. - Could my 41yo daughter be happily married to her boyfriend who says he can’t have normal sex because of porn? - My husband and I are studying the four temperaments; can this lead to something positive? - I had an affair, went through an ugly divorce, and now my 16yo son won’t come see me. Should I force him? - My wife wants out of our marriage because of my porn addiction. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: - What can I do to help my anxious work supervisor? She is creating a lot of rifts and anger. - I love to read but can’t understand the Bible unless it is told in complete stories; is there a Bible like that? - How do I stop struggling with guilt for moving away from my grandkids? - What should I tell my family and friends? I’m thinking of divorcing my narcissistic husband who has been unfaithful many times. - I followed your advice to give my unfaithful husband an ultimatum to go to Every Man’s Battle; he went, and I went to Restore, and it saved our marriage! To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions: - Can Chris clarify the statement he made about money having power over you? I don’t have enough money, and it’s hard. - The man who kidnapped and raped me, then shot my mother, said he was a Christian. Will we remember it in heaven? - How can I help my wife of 32yrs be happy after my drinking and flirting with other women hurt her? - What should I do to move forward if my faith has been shattered by the hypocrisy of my church leaders? - How can I help God impact my brother who is in prison for being a sex offender? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Becky Brown Caller Questions: - Interview with Stacey Sadler, one of the presenters at the Restore workshop. - My adult daughter is marrying a woman this weekend, and my husband wants no part in their relationship. How do I help him? - What are your thoughts on marrying a woman 35yrs younger than me? - I went to your Restore Workshop, found my voice, and discovered I’m not alone! - Our adult son struggles with gender identity and wants to have a sex change. - What should I do after discovering my husband has messages on his phone to another woman? He told her that he loved her. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: - Should I attempt to save my 21yr marriage if my moral failings have left my narcissistic wife unwilling to do anything? - After I followed your advice and said no to my drug addict son, he is now in rehab! - My husband tried to choke me, but he denies it. A pastor told me it is my fault bad things are happening to me. - I’m separated from my porn-addicted husband who is physically abusive and dating other women. What does God require of me? - My dad used to tie me down as a child; now I’m angry, depressed, and have gone through many counselors. Where do I go from here? - Would Intimacy in Marriage be good for us if we are separated due to my husband being violent? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams Caller Questions: - Am I being too controlling? My wife wants to travel to go see her family, and I feel like my opinion doesn’t count. - How can I encourage my 40yo son who is a disabled veteran with PTSD? He is in jail awaiting criminal charges for meth possession while armed. - I had my grandson for 18mos and now he is with foster parents. Why is he afraid of me? - My wife left 3mos ago after I accused her of cheating. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions: - My wife says I am verbally abusive; do you think I am? We have been separated for over a year. - What’s my responsibility now that my brother-in-law has rejected me and my wife after I sent him an email about vaccines? He wants an apology. - My wife silently prays in front of the church during the whole service, and it’s causing division between us. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: - Where do I go to get help for my childhood trauma of sexual abuse, abandonment, and my attraction to cross dressing? - What do you recommend to help my brain after many injuries? - How do I tell my photographer best friend that I’m not going to use her to take our pictures? - I became a first-time parent 2wks ago and have ADHD; how do I navigate times when I am overwhelmed? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: - What else can I do to heal the horrible relationship between my ex-wife and our 20yo son? She came from an abusive family and had six affairs. - How do I answer my 10yo granddaughter as to why I divorced my first husband? - My 15yo grandson has Asperger’s and is angry and difficult; how can I help him? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions: - There are a lot of guys hurting from being betrayed by their wives. - How do I identify what kind of therapy I need if I have a painful memory of my dad leaving me as a child? - My 35yo daughter texted me that she didn’t get the childhood she deserved; how do I look at my part? - I’ve been married 34yrs and have learned that you can’t give all of yourself to your spouse or you won’t have anything left over for yourself. - My nephew inappropriately touched my daughter when he was 12yo and she was 5yo, but he denied it in front of his wife. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: - Kevin Downes, a producer on Jesus Revolution, talks about the new movie in theaters on February 24. - What’s the best way for me to break free from porn, masturbation, and overeating? I am 32yo and live out of my car. - I struggle with porn and just told my wife. Where should I start reading my Bible so I can get closer to the Lord? - I went to Every Man’s Battle and finally overcame my lifelong addiction to porn and masturbation! - How do I navigate having bipolar disorder and taking medication, but I feel emotionally muted? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Becky Brown Caller Questions: - What should I do to help my 25yo son who gambled away all his money and might be suicidal? - Am I enabling my children and grandchildren because I can’t accept their limitations? - How do my mom and I confront my uncle for molesting my aunt and cousins a long time ago? - How can we get our daughter and her husband to stop neglecting their children’s health issues? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: - Is there ever a time when it is OK to give your adult child advice? - How do I learn to love when I’m on my third marriage, struggling with porn, and keep falling off the wagon? - After keeping my childhood sexual abuse a secret, God has done amazing healing by removing the guilt and shame. But how do I get past my anger that is affecting my health? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29 Hosts:Chris Williams,Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: - After my 8yo granddaughter's hospitalization, she is afraid to leave the house and has panic attacks. - How can I learn to handle confrontational situations without panic attacks and anxiety? - Dr. Sheri, since you were married to a pastor who betrayed you, how did that affect your relationship with God? - My 19yo daughter is tampering with homosexuality; what kind of counselor do you recommend?
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Hosts:Becky Brown,Dr. Jill Hubbard,Milan Yerkovich
Caller Questions:
- Do we include our adult son in our end of life planning if he doesn’t want to have anything to do with our family?
- I’m an extrovert, and my introverted wife went out alone and struck up a conversation with a man; how do I know what’s appropriate?
- Why am I still angry at a man from church I befriended when I was 19yo even though he has since died?
- I lost my wife, remarried, and retired from being a pastor. Was it OK to move away from my community now that I am grieving the loss?
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Hosts:Steve Arterburn,Dr. Jill Hubbard,Chris Williams
Caller Questions:
- My daughter recently left her abusive husband; what do we tell my 6yo granddaughter who misses her stepsiblings?
- Comment for caller experiencing pain: I have arthritis and instead of going away from God, I go to Him every morning.
- What do I do now that my husband is out of prison and has porn on his phone?
- Now that my 48yo stepson with mental illness is out of jail, can he live on his own?
- What can my son do to help his 15yo daughter who is disrespectful and lies?
- Is there anything I can do to get my ex-wife to reconcile after I was unfaithful throughout our marriage?
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Hosts:Steve Arterburn,Chris Williams, Special Guest TherapistDr. Jacqui Mack-Harris
Caller Questions:
- Five months into our marriage, my wife said we’re not compatible and wants a divorce.
- My 21yo son smokes pot, is depressed, has PTSD, and disassociates; have you seen EMDR improve this?
- Do I give my husband an ultimatum to stop seeing a female counselor who texts and shares too much?
- How do I keep my family going without a man to direct me?
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Hosts:Steve Arterburn,Dr. Alice Benton,Chris Williams
Caller Questions:
- Is it just a phase that my 5yo son wants to dress up in princess dresses?
- How do I honor our marriage covenant when my wife says she is codependent and wants out?
- I lead divorce care; how many months should someone wait to start dating again?
- My mom is dependent on me; is 29yo a good time to leave home?
- Is it appropriate for both the abuser and the victim to see the same counselor?
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Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard
Caller Questions:
- My husband puts his grown stepson from his first marriage above our own son.
- Is there a way to know if a counselor is trained in EMDR?
- How do I deal with my emotions that caused my bipolar husband to walk out? Also, I’m pregnant.
- What guidance can I give my 24yo son who will spend one night in jail for a DUI?
- My husband signed up for EMB for his porn addiction; what behaviors should I expect until then?
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Hosts: Dr. Jill Hubbard, Milan Yerkovich, Becky Brown
Caller Questions:
- My husband came back 2yrs ago after a long separation; how do I fix my marriage when he won’t get help?
- How do I help unsaved teen and pre-teen Sunday School students from dysfunctional homes?
- Is it normal to second guess a divorce? Is it compassion or cold feet?
- How can I be there for people when I have lost my job and currently have COVID?
- Can you have a trauma bond with someone when they are not the source of the trauma?