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Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!
Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership.
It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Kelly. Kelly's cousin's choices in her relationship have had a ripple effect in their shared friend circle and Kelly has wound up more involved than she ever intended to be or would have liked. When is someone else's infidelity your information to share, and in Kelly's case, should she have done anything differently? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Kelly! 36:48 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale!
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Time Stamps: 1:04 - Finale Kick Off 2:10 - Aaron B’s Return 3:45 - Rose Ceremony 9:43 - Live: Aaron B 10:44 - Charity With Her Family 12:43 - Joey Meets Charity’s Family 13:49 - Live 14:29 - Dotun Meets Charity’s Family 19:18 - Charity Seeks Clarity 22:45 - Joey’s Final Date 24:58 - Live 26:00 - Dotun’s Final Date 28:47 - Neil Lane 31:34 - Proposal Day 33:17 - Joey 36:23 - Live: Joey 37:30 - Live: Charity Joins 39:19 - Dotun 41:32 - Live 42:27 - Live: Charity & Dotun 45:34 - Bachelor Reveal 48:42 - Overall Thoughts On Charity’s Season 49:45 - Shandy Word Watch 50:37 - Reviewing Night One Predictions
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Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to tackle the ever-relevant topic of NARCISSISM since Dear Shandy's inception, however, we insisted on waiting until we could get the best of the best to join us. Our patience paid off as today we're joined by the acclaimed, unparalleled expert on narcissism, the one and only Dr. Ramani. Trust us, she does NOT disappoint!
Today Dr. Ramani sets the record straight on the definition on narcissism, how social media has changed the narcissist landscape, and how many of us fall on the narcissism spectrum. She gives us insight on how aware of their own narcissism narcissists are, whether or not they have a moral compass or can improve, and whether or not you can "win" in your battle against a narcissist. We wrap with actionable tips for those healing from their relationship with narcissists, those who have no choice but to live or work with narcissists, and what "red flags" to look out for.
Our minds were blown multiple times during this conversation and this is easily one of our all-time favorite Hot Topics to date. We promise you will learn something new (and useful) to apply to your most challenging relationships.
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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Dr. Ramani! 2:59 - The Clinical Definition of Narcissism (So We’re All On The Same Page) 4:35 - Is There A Point On The Spectrum Where A Personality Style Becomes A Personality Disorder? 8:27 - Nature And Nurture 13:09 - How Wrong Is It To Throw The Term “Narcissist” Around? 15:41 - What Percentage Of People Fall On The Narcissism Spectrum? 17:40 - Social Media 22:56 - Can A Person Be Narcissistic In Some Ways But Not In Others? 23:58 - Can They Help It? 27:52 - When Narcissists Are Acting Out, Are They Drinking Their Own Kool-Aid? 30:25 - Do Narcissists Have A Moral Compass? 32:31 - Shame 33:54 - Can Narcissists Know They’re Narcissists? 35:06 - Has She Ever Seen Narcissists Improve? 38:59 - Is There A Correlation Between Narcissism And Enormous Wealth? 39:50 - Is There A Way To “Win” With Narcissists? 42:39 - When Dating Someone New, What Are Red Flags To Look Out For? 47:46 - Are People Raised By Narcissists More Likely To End Up In A Relationship With One? 48:47 - For People Who Have Fallen For Narcissists, What Questions Should They Ask Themselves? 51:45 - What Do Narcissists Truly Want In A Partner? 54:53 - Navigating Narcissism In The Workplace 58:04 - When Your Colleagues Are Drinking The Narcisisst’s Kool-Aid, Can You Make Them See The Light? 1:01:52 - The Basic Rules For Handling A Narcissist 1:04:51 - How Can One Tell If They Are A Narcissist? 1:06:21 - Are There Benevolent Narcisissts? 1:09:22 - First Steps Victims Of Narcissists Should Take Towards Healing 1:12:34 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down Men Tell All!
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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:35 - Men Tell All Kickoff 7:35 - A Guy Named Peter 10:43 - Brayden’s Hot Seat 17:02 - Xavier 20:28 - Charity Arrives 27:16 - Xavier’s Hot Seat 37:13 - Unseen Footage 40:04 - Captain Tom 40:45 - Former Bachelorettes 41:22 - Gerry, Our Golden Bachelor 45:18 - Credits 45:44 - Andy’s A-Game 46:37 - Shandy Word Watch 49:37 - Overall Thoughts
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a red flag if your date leads with compliments about your physical appearance? If your mother's wedding gift is a check that seems to be missing a "0", is it worth bringing up? And if your brother has created a web of lies so big you're forced to play a part in the charade, when is enough enough? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 2:48 - Q1: Don’t Tell Me I’m Pretty… Yet 13:57 - Q2: My Boyfriend Lacks Initiative—Should I Be Concerned? 26:04 - Q3: My Mother Gifted Us A Surprisingly Low Amount Of Money For Our Wedding—Can I Say Something? 44:34 - Q4: My LDR Is Rocky But We’re So In Love—When Is It Too Much To Overcome? 54:14 - Q5: My Boyfriend Didn't Do Anything For My Birthday :( 1:07:39 - Q6: My Brother Can’t Keep It In His Pants—Help!
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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7, aka Fantasy Suite Week!
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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:44 - Episode 7 Kick Off 3:34 - Xavier’s Overnight 35:31 - Joey’s Overnight 40:55 - Flashpoint 46:21 - Dotun’s Overnight 55:11 - Aaron B 58:40 - Credits 1:01:16 - Andy’s A-Game 1:02:12 - Shandy Word Watch 1:05:59 - Shandy’s Predictions
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor Nation's favorite "dolphin", Alexis Waters (Bachelor S21) and her fiancé, Tyler Fernandez! We knew going into this Love Fest that the "fun meter" would not be a concern, but we did not expect our cheeks to hurt as much as they did from laughing so hard! Today Alexis and Tyler join Shandy to share how they were introduced by former Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay, how they went from party acquaintances to lovebirds, what it feels like to receive pressure to get engaged, and of course, how they fight! Finally, an absolutely hilarious Newlyweds Game that we promise will have you in stitches. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Alexis & Tyler! 2:54 - True Or False: Rachel Lindsay Introduced Them 6:03 - Did Tyler Watch Alexis On The Bachelor? 9:08 - How Did They Go From Party Acquaintances To Serious Couple? 10:06 - First Impressions 14:57 - How They Complement Each Other 17:52 - Early Hurdle 20:47 - How They Fight 24:46 - The Pressure To Get Engaged 28:02 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed 32:00 - True Or False 32:55 - The Newlyweds Game 49:29 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6!
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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:24 - Aaron’s Hometown 9:55 - Joey’s Hometown 19:20 - Xavier’s Hometown 27:11 - Dotun’s Hometown 30:41 - Los Angeles 32:14 - Rose Ceremony 36:13 - Credits 36:36 - Andy’s A-Game 37:11 - Shandy Word Watch 39:14 - Shandy’s Predictions
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Cierrah. Cierrah lives in the basement suite of her parents' house but they haven't been displaying the most role model-esque behavior of late. Is she within her right to pick a side and get involved, or is her parents' dynamic their business and no one else's? Should what happens between our parents STAY between our parents?Listen on for the Shandy take!
Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Cierrah! 31:27 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5!
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Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:29 - Episode 5 Kick Off 3:51 - Joey’s 1-On-1 7:28 - Evening 15:48 - 2-On-1 Date 20:04 - Evening 27:12 - Dotun’s 1-On-1 29:54 - Evening 36:24 - Sean 38:51 - Group Date 47:06 - Evening 51:26 - Credits 53:07 - Andy’s A-Game 53:46 - Shandy Word Watch 56:10 - Shandy’s Predictions
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Have you ever found yourself wondering "where are they now?" when listening to our caller episodes and Q&As? Well... drumroll, please... UPDATES ARE BACK, BABY! This is our second ever installment of what we hope to make a biannual tradition.
We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, good or bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Introduction
0:55 - Episode 32: Q3, from Gabby - https://youtu.be/GvYfIlViSnk
5:40 - Episode 40: Q1, from Claire - https://youtu.be/GLK2kbK78j4
11:05 - Episode 80: Q5, from Aria - https://youtu.be/550ahd6ZtF4
24:42 - Episode 95: Q3, from Christina - https://youtu.be/JjSsIJaFGzI
28:28 - Episode 107: Caller 2, Danielle - https://youtu.be/pFIEaZXDV50
31:03 - Episode 125: Q2, from H - https://youtu.be/Y0GLNYRq2qo
33:27 - Episode 125: Q5, from S - https://youtu.be/Y0GLNYRq2qo
35:20 - Episode 129: Q5, from Lisa - https://youtu.be/0HD8P34ITQI
38:54 - Episode 140: Q1, from Danielle - https://youtu.be/Et2s0pt-7lI
42:25 - Episode 146: Q3, from C - https://youtu.be/ygmeFYPyYMk
47:04 - Episode 166: Caller 1, Ray - https://youtu.be/JWaxbrWEwMw
48:24 - Episode 182: Q1, from Roni - https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos
54:07 - Episode 182: Q4, from Anonymous - https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos
1:00:56 - Episode 184: Q3, from Bass - https://youtu.be/5G1JlNLmwLE
1:04:48 - Episode 197: Q4, from Snooty - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho
1:09:47 - Episode 197: Q5, from The Mistress - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho
1:14:37 - Episode 214: Q5, from Mrs Missus - https://youtu.be/LDTzewx3uQU
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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:32 - Episode 4 Kick Off
3:38 - Dotun’s 1-On-1
11:33 - Evening
25:11 - Group Date
34:30 - Evening
48:16 - Xavier’s 1-On-1
50:30 - Evening
1:00:32 - The Next Day/Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
1:02:36 - Brayden Returns
1:17:32 - Rose Ceremony
1:21:08 - Credits
1:21:24 - Andy’s A-Game
1:23:05 - Shandy Word Watch
1:25:15 - Shandy’s Predictions
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend still has "favorited" photos of his ex on his phone, is that cause for concern? Are you shallow if you'd like your partner to make a cosmetic change? If your mother-in-law's perfume stays in the house long after she's gone, is it worth saying something? And whatever happened to taking things slow? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping (Sort Of?)
1:39 - Q1: My Boyfriend Still Has Photos Of His Ex On His Phone—Is This A Red Flag?
6:09 - Q2: My Brother’s Girlfriend Is Sensitive That He Used To Date My Friend—Should I Distance Myself In The Friendship To Support My Future Sister-In-Law?
9:45 - Q3: Is “Taking Things Slowly” A Lost Art?
21:38 - Q4: I Love My Husband Except For One Cosmetic “Flaw”—Should I Bring It Up Or Am I Just Shallow?
36:47 - Q5: A Friend Called Me By The Wrong Name—Should I Correct Him Or Is This A Fluke?
41:03 - Q6: At What Point Do You Weigh Stability Against Happiness?
59:35 - Q7: My Mother-In-Law’s Perfume Is Stinking Up Our House—Help!
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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:29 - Episode 3 Kick Off
5:41 - Brayden’s 1-On-1
13:42 - Evening
22:54 - Group Date
35:09 - Evening
42:53 - Warwick’s 1-On-1
47:50 - The Next Day
48:12 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
1:11:28 - Rose Ceremony
1:12:13 - Credits
1:13:01 - Andy’s A-Game
1:13:25 - Shandy Word Watch
1:16:43 - Shandy’s Predictions
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Riley who is calling about her 6 year relationship. Riley made some poor financial decisions in the past which has caused her boyfriend to pull back and distrust her. Can he get over this, what does this mean for their partnership, and how long is too long to be punished for past mistakes? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Caller Riley!
50:33 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2!
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9:50 - Evening
19:02 - 1st Group Date
26:40 - Evening
41:03 - 2nd Group Date
43:56 - Evening
51:18 - Joey’s Hard Earned 1-On-1
52:57 - BBQ
1:03:12 - Rose Ceremony
1:07:07 - Credits
1:07:14 - Andy’s A-Game
1:09:23 - Shandy Word Watch
1:12:30 - Shandy’s Predictions
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today is our second ever in-person Love Fest and an absolutely epic one! You watched them meet and get engaged on Paradise S7, and now 2 years later, Bachelor Power Couple® Joe Amabile and Serena Pitt join us in the living room to dissect the ins and outs of their relationship.
Today Joe and Serena share their honest first impressions of each other—in Serena's eyes, was Joe in fact the "George Clooney" of Bachelor Nation we described him to be? They get specific with adjectives about each other (yay!), discuss how and when the 11 year age difference rears its head, unpack the early hurdle that took time to overcome, and of course, describe how they fight! This episode is loaded with goodies including Serena and Sharleen's biggest City Hall regret and the surprising ways in which the native Chicagoan and native New Yorker are similar. Finally, a Newlyweds Game that is heavy on "OR"s but not remotely lacking on fun! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Joe & Serena!
3:03 - Their City Hall Wedding
8:47 - Serena & Sharleen’s City Hall Regret
10:53 - How Familiar Were They With Each Other? (Was Joe “George Clooney” As Shandy Described In Their Recaps?)
17:09 - First Impressions
27:47 - Specificity!
38:22 - The 11 Year Gap
40:08 - How They Complement Each Other
43:07 - Early Hurdle
53:45 - How They Fight
59:56 - Why New York + How We All Feel About East Vs West Coasts
1:07:26 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed
1:12:15 - The Newlyweds Game
1:28:20 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big Premiere!
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0:00 - Housekeeping
2:01 - Overall Thoughts On The Premiere
2:17 - Episode 1 Kick Off
4:03 - Charity’s Dress
5:45 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails
12:43 - Charity’s Speech
13:06 - Notable 1-On-1 Time
20:45 - Nehemiah
22:02 - Notable 1-On-1 Time, Continued
32:46 - Nehemiah’s Reveal/Nehemiah Reports To Charity
42:40 - Brayden
46:13 - Rose Ceremony
47:38 - Credits
49:48 - Andy’s A-Game
50:34 - Shandy Word Watch
53:01 - Shandy’s Predictions
56:34 - Wild Cards
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Today's Hot Topic conversation is great for just about anybody, but especially those who have considered therapy but haven't pulled the trigger for whatever reason (accessibility, cost, finding the right match...)! Our guest, Owen O'Kane, is an acclaimed London-based psychotherapist and the best selling author of Ten Times Happier, Ten to Zen, and most recently, How To Be Your Own Therapist. But that's not all! Before pursuing psychotherapy, Owen spent a decade working with the dying as a Clinical Nurse Specialist in Palliative Care, which we think adds a unique dimension to his perspective. Needless to say, he is abundantly qualified to help us tackle the journey of self-therapy today!
Today, beyond sharing his own personal story of self acceptance, Owen discusses what drives us, victim mentality, gratitude, tips for handling our anxious episodes, what 10 minutes of self therapy a day looks like, and what "The Goal" of therapy even is (happiness? meaning??). Last but not least, Andy picks Owen's brain after his experience working in Palliative Care—what did caring for the dying on a daily basis teach him? This episode has a little something for everyone and even includes a peek into Andy's own thoughts and fears. Whether you consider "therapy" a dirty word or part of your regular vernacular, you won't want to miss this chat!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Owen O’Kane!
1:54 - Is The UK Behind The US In Terms Of Therapy “Taboo”?
4:32 - Owen’s Story, Part 1
7:10 - What’s “The Goal”? Happiness?
8:49 - What Drives Us?
11:09 - Owen's Story, Part 2
16:24 - Our Thought Process
25:35 - Where Does One Begin With Self Therapy?
28:35 - Do Some Personality Types Struggle More With Self Therapy Than Others?
31:23 - Victim Mentality
33:42 - What Does 10 Minutes A Day Of Self Therapy Look Like?
36:51 - Gratitude And Fear Of Loss
43:18 - Advice For Anyone Who’s Been in Therapy For A Long Time And Isn’t Seeing A Difference
49:05 - Tips For Those Who Experience Anxious Episodes
55:50 - Our Phones
1:00:07 - Andy Asks Owen For His Takeaways After A Decade Spent In Palliative Care
1:07:09 - Shandy Debrief
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your long distance relationship is at a standstill because he doesn't have a passport, how long is too long to wait? If you and a friend are each passionate about vastly different beliefs, has the friendship run its course? What to do when "Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind" isn't an option? And finally, Shandy gives a backup plan for a particularly amusing fetish. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Q1: How Can “Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind” Work When We WORK Together??
10:10 - Q2: He’s My First And The Sex Is Uncomfortable—Any Guidance?
27:31 - Q3: My Long Distance Relationship Is At A Standstill Because He Doesn’t Have A Passport—How Long Is Too Long To Wait?
37:03 - Q4: My Friend And I Have Differing Beliefs—Is It Against My Values To Stay Friends With Her?
46:27 - Q5: My Friend Keeps Sending Unwelcome Messages To My Wife—Should I Say Something?
1:01:00 - Q6: Do I Have A Right To Be Annoyed That My Friends Don’t Attend My Performances?
0:00 - Q1: How Can “Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind” Work When We WORK Together??
10:10 - Q2: He’s My First But The Sex Isn’t Good—Any Guidance?
27:31 - Q3: My Long Distance Relationship Is At A Standstill Because He Doesn’t Have A Passport To Visit Me—How Long Is Too Long To Wait?
37:03 - Q4: My Friend And I Have Differing Beliefs—Is It Against My Values To Stay Friends With Her?
46:27 - Q5: My Friend Keeps Sending Unwelcome Messages To My Wife—Should I Say Something?
1:01:00 - Q6: Do I Have A Right To Be Annoyed That My Friends Don’t Attend My Performances?
1:10:14 - Q7: My Husband Is Perfect But His Fetish Makes Me Squirm—Help!
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bennett Jordan (Bachelorette S16) and his lovely fiancée, renowned yoga instructor Emily Chen. This Love Fest came about rather unexpectedly; Bennett and Emily were kind enough to jump in last minute when our previously planned couple cancelled. We're so happy we spontaneously got to meet and hang out with these two!
Today Bennett and Emily join Shandy to share how persistence paid off, how they're the yin to the other's yang, and of course, how they fight! (Do yogis fight??) Finally, a Newlyweds Game with a twist ending that Shandy decides perfectly sums up this couple. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Bennett & Emily!
4:38 - How They Met
9:59 - Had Emily Seen Bennett’s Season?
11:44 - First Impressions
16:54 - Defining The Relationship
23:51 - How They Complement Each Other
26:56 - How They Fight
34:52 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed
40:30 - True Or False
41:19 - The Newlyweds Game
1:03:41 - Shandy Debrief
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It's Caller Day and today we're joined by not one but TWO lovely callers! First we're joined by Megan, who has been wrestling with her dating requirements and being labeled a "gold digger" by friends. Are professional and fiscal success too superficial to put in the "needs" column? Next we're joined by Sarah, who's been scratching her head over pre-first-date etiquette. Is it a bad chess move to send a check-in text before the first date, and if so, where's the line between being pursued and simply getting logistical information? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Caller Megan!
18:31 - Shandy Speaks
30:08 - Shandy Debrief
36:47 - Welcome To Caller Sarah!
44:19 - Shandy Speaks
54:13 - Shandy Debrief
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you know you have no future with a person, is it still worth a potentially great hookup? Is it wrong to feel envious when your friends are all getting engaged? And is secretly chatting with an ex on the regular emotional cheating? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Q1: Without A Future, Is It Still Worth The Hookup?
16:22 - Q2: I’m Green With Engagement Envy!
27:48 - Q3: Two Weddings, One Weekend—Help Us Decide!
36:45 - Q4: I’m Secretly Chatting With My Ex Every Day—Am I Emotionally Cheating?
52:30 - Q5: My Husband’s Friend’s Wife Is Coming Onto Him—What Should He Do?
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It's Caller Day and today we're joined by two lovely callers! We're joined by our first ever caller COUPLE (!), Barbie and Ken. They plan to secretly elope even though Ken's mother has explicitly asked them not to. Should they alter their plans to avoid future friction, or do what feels true to them and let the chips fall where they may? Caller Elana a very relatable Am-I-The-Asshole question involving her best friend. Where's the middle ground when you both think you're in the right? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Callers Barbie & Ken!
12:09 - Shandy Speaks
31:27 - Shandy Debrief
40:21 - Welcome To Caller Elana!
59:51 - Shandy Speaks
1:09:41- Shandy Debrief
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This Hot Topic episode has been one of THE! MOST! hotly requested conversations to date! Ask and you shall receive, Shandies, because today we are joined by professor and therapist Dr. Kirk Honda, aka @PsychologyInSeattle, famed for his reaction videos and analyses of reality TV relationship dynamics.
Today Dr. Honda has answers to our personal musings about the psychological aspects of falling in love on TV. We also cover the manipulation, the aftermath, the audience, and last but not least, the ethics. Sharleen shares several experiences from her Bachelor days and Dr. Honda helps break them down. Frankly, this conversation is overdue and probably one of the most quintessential "Shandy" conversations to date. Come and listen to why we call this the elusive and final collector's card of Dear Shandy Hot Topic episodes!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Dr. Kirk Honda!
1:19 - What’s His Favorite & Least Favorite Aspects Of Watching Reality Dating Shows?
4:41 - Does Feeling “Chosen” On These Shows Amplify Romantic Feelings?
8:45 - Can A Desire For Money And/Or Fame Result In Chemical Love?
20:56 - Sensory Deprivation And Behavioral Shaping
27:43 - Contestant Autonomy And Learned Helplessness
32:14 - Can Trauma Expedite A Relationship?
35:07 - If He Had Met His Wife On A Reality Show, Would Their Relationship Have Progressed In The Same Way?
36:46 - The Ethics Of Producing Reality TV
46:04 - What Has He Learned About The Reality TV Audience?
53:58 - Do Reality TV And Social Media Reward Narcissism?
58:48 - His Favorite Shows
1:04:13 - Shandy Debrief
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there an age where never having been married or engaged is a red flag? If your car is towed while your first date is making a move on you, who pays? And if you don't particularly like your coworker but she's a hugger, to hug or not to hug? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Q1: When is Never Having Been Married a Red Flag?
10:06 - Q2: My Car Was Towed At His Place—Should He Have Paid For It?
27:39 - Q3: My Fiancé’s Friends Are Taking Advantage Of His Generosity—Help!
41:32 - Q4: Can I Expect A Partner To Move With Me?
47:29- Q5: When Single And Dating, Is It Ok To Keep Photos Of My Late Spouse On Social Media?
56:54 - Q6: My Coworker Keeps Forcing Me To Hug Her—Help!
1:10:18 - Q7: I’m 4 Years In And The Thrill Is Gone—Is It Over?
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Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down the Finale and Reunion!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:02 - Finale
27:44 - Reunion
1:05:18 - Best Dressed
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Today's Hot Topic tackles a recurring theme among our Shandies' questions: MONEY, BABY!! 💵💵💵 We're joined by superstar Ramit Sethi, who not only wrote 2009's megahit and NYT bestseller "I Will Teach You To Be Rich", but whose very own Netflix show, "How To Get Rich" just premiered on April 18th!
Today Ramit begins by helping us define what our own individual "Rich Life" looks like. But he goes even further with the clearest, most concise, direct answers to your most burning relationship-meets-money questions: When one partner has a significantly higher income, should that be reflected in the bills? When and how should you bring up your debt with your partner? Is there a "gold standard" when it comes to shared and separate bank accounts? And what about PRENUPS?? What bank accounts and credit cards does Ramit himself use? (Oh yeah, we go there!) Listen on for your lesson in getting RICH.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Ramit Sethi!
2:22 - What Is A “Rich Life”?
3:38 - How Can One Change From Being A Spender To A Saver?
9:38 - Join Sharleen In An Exercise: Define Your “Rich Life”
18:42 - How Can You Design Your Rich Life When You Feel Like You’re Struggling To Get By?
22:30 - Investing And Saving 101
27:49 - Ramit’s Picks For Bank Accounts & Credits Cards (WITH ACTUAL ANSWERS)
31:02 - How Should You Divvy Up Finances When One Partner Makes More $$$?
37:31 - Is The A Certain Number You Should Have In The Bank Before Starting A Family?
39:24 - Prenups
44:59 - When Should One Broach The Topic Of Money And/Or Debt In A New Relationship?
49:50 - Have Debt Or Bad Credit? These Are Your First Steps
53:38 - Andy’s Selfish Question
56:55 - What Would Ramit Like Your Takeaway To Be?
1:01:22 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down episodes 9-11, aka Seattle Part 2.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:55 - Episode 9
29:04 - Episode 10
55:21 - Episode 11
1:08:02 - Predictions
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you have a history of staying in relationships longer than you should, what are Shandy's tips on knowing it's time to break up? (Don't miss Andy's tips on the post-breakup withdrawal!) Is it a red flag if your boyfriend of 6 months didn't get you a birthday gift? And when it comes to adult friendships, where's the line between blind loyalty and pursuing the relationships that might fulfill us? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Q1: How Do I Know It’s Really Over & We Shouldn’t Get Back Together?
17:12 - Q2: My Friend Group Imploded Over Pickleball—Help!
31:37 - Q3: My Long Distance Boyfriend Didn’t Get Me A Birthday Gift—Is This A Red Flag?
42:22 - Q4: I’d Like To Befriend My Friend’s Ex-Husband’s New Girlfriend—Would This Make Me Disloyal?
49:46 - Q5: I’ve Been In An Arranged Marriage For 13 Years & Missed Out On Romance—Help!
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Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down episodes 6-8, aka Seattle Part 1.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
3:50 - Episode 6
30:14 - Episode 7
43:48 - Episode 8
1:11:33 - Predictions
1:13:33 - Who We Would Go For
1:13:56 - A Request From Shandy
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by engineer Ivan Hall (Bachelorette S16 & Bachelor in Paradise S7) and his fiancée, anesthesiologist Tailour Robison. These two *just* got engaged and Tailour has never done a public interview to date, so we're thrilled to get the exclusive on this legit power couple.
Today Ivan and Tailour share how young love can be mature love as well, how they complement each other, how they fight, and they even prove Shandy wrong on the adage "you break up because it's broken"! Finally, a hilariously academic Newlyweds Game that has Andy on the edge of his seat even more than usual. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Ivan And Tailour!
3:50 - How They Met
8:49 - Did Tailour Watch Ivan On TV?
11:18 - Considering Their History, What Are Their Thoughts On “You Broke Up Because It was Broken”
13:25 - First Impressions
20:43 - How They Complement Each Other
25:10 - Did Going On The Show Bring Ivan Out Of His Shell?
27:15 - Early Hurdle
29:53 - How They Fight
36:18 - Was There A Moment When They “Knew”? Do They Believe In “The One”?
41:06 - Any Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed
44:42 - Is The Plane Ivan Is Working On The Plane From ‘Top Gun: Maverick’?
49:50 - The Newlyweds Game
1:07:20 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 4 and 5, aka MEXICO.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:46 - Episode 4
39:34 - Episode 5
1:14:53 - Predictions
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Today's Hot Topic will likely resonate with many a Shandy. If you struggle with perfectionism, your inner critic, feeling the need to prove yourself, and/or analysis paralysis, this conversation is a must. We're joined by Homaira Kabir, author of ‘Goodbye Perfect: How To Stop Pleasing, Proving and Pushing For Others… and Live For Yourself’, whose career is built on the research of how you (yes, you!) can flourish. Today we cover everything from the difference between being a perfectionist and just having high standards, how to not grow resentful when others can't live up to your "perfect" ideals, whether or not perfectionism equates to competitiveness, how not to raise perfectionist children, and how our purpose ties into all of the above. This one really tugged on Sharleen's heart strings and she thinks it will speak to you, too. Listen on for a lesson in letting go...
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Homaira Kabir!
3:48 - What Are Optimal Confidence and Fragile Confidence?
6:42 - Can We Have Fragile Confidence In Some Parts Of Our Lives And Optimal Confidence In Others?
9:30 - Since So Much Is Programmed Into Us As Infants, How Much Free Will Do We Even Have?
13:35 - What Are We Looking For When We Put So Much Out There And Are Disappointed By The Response?
16:05 - Is To Desire Perfection To Live In The Past?
19:30 - Is Perfectionism a Result Of Nature Or Nurture?
21:42 - How To Avoid Passing On This Trait To Children
22:58 - Are Perfectionists Trapped In The Wrong Gear?
26:53 - Is To Be A Perfectionist To Either Competitive Or Envious?
28:23 - Is It Possible To Keep The Benefits Of Perfectionism While Letting Go Of The Rest Or Is It All Or Nothing?
31:07 - What’s The Difference Between Perfectionism And High Standards?
33:22 - How Can One a) Not Put Their Perfect Ideals On Their Partner, and b) Not Resent Them For It
38:43 - What’s The Driving Force Behind Perfectionism? (Including Another Discussion About Shame!)
44:20 - Advice For Those Who Logically Know Perfectionism Isn’t Their Friend But Still Feel It’s Part Of Their Identity
48:33 - Tips For Those Who Suffer From Analysis Paralysis
55:07 - How Does One’s “Purpose” Play Into All This?
1:00:03 - What Would She Like Your Takeaway From This Conversation To Be?
1:02:27 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with something new! By very popular demand, Shandy is testing the waters with recapping the 4th season of the hit show Love Is Blind. Today, in addition to a recap, we're also sharing our first impressions of the show. Listen on for episodes 1-3 (+ a few minutes), aka THE PODS.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:44 - Episode 1
33:04 - Episode 2
1:00:15 - Episode 3
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Sarah, whose ex broke things off around 6 months ago. While things ended with a lot of question marks on Sarah's end, he did tell her he'd like to remain friends. Should Sarah take his recent text as a sign to embark on a platonic friendship? Listen on for the Shandy take!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sarah!
11:32 - Shandy Sleuthing
37:06 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand finale!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
2:09 - Finale Kick Off
2:59 - Live: Ariel
5:42 - Back In Thailand
7:26 - Gabi Meets Zach’s Family
11:31 - Kaity Meets Zach’s Family
13:57 - Kaity’s Last Chance Date
21:10 - Evening
24:08 - Gabi’s Last Chance Date
27:23 - Evening
29:53 - Live: It’s Sean Lowe Time
32:24 - Back In Thailand
33:06 - Proposal Day: Gabi
40:54 - Live: Gabi
44:29 - Zach Joins
49:58 - Proposal Day: Kaity
50:49 - Live: Zach & Kaity
56:29 - Reviewing Night One Predictions
57:56 - Charity’s Season Preview
59:23 - Shandy Word Watch
1:00:13 - Special Announcement
1:01:15 - Special Surprise
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you've had a missed connection with someone who no longer seems to check the dating app, is it creepy to reach out on an outside platform? Is it ever OK to ask a single friend to be their plus-one to a mutual friend's wedding? And is tickling your partner a form of endearment or a form of torture? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Q1: My Match Isn’t Checking The Dating App—What’s The Least Creepy Way to Reach Out?
5:38 - Q2: Is It OK To Ask A Single Friend To Be Their Plus-One To A Mutual Friend’s Wedding?
19:16 - Q3: His List Of Wants In The First 1.5 Months Of Dating Have Me Wondering: Is He A Risk?
26:39 - Q4: Did We Accidentally Schedule An Orgy?
34:30 - Q5: I Love My Boyfriend But Not His Male Pattern Baldness—How Can I Get Him To Shave His Head?
45:18 - Q6: My Ex-Husband Is My Best Friend—Is This Holding Me Back From Finding A New Romantic Connection?
53:18 - Q7: Shandy Weighs In On The Ethics Of Tickling
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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 9, aka Fantasy Suite Week!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:20 - Episode 9 Kick Off
4:36 - Ariel’s Overnight
7:37 - Evening
12:26 - The Next Day
12:42 - Gabi’s Overnight
20:37 - Evening
25:02 - The Next Day
26:53 - Zach Is Honest
36:52 - Kaity’s Overnight
52:06 - Evening
54:13 - Rose Ceremony
59:43 - Credits
1:00:37 - Andy’s A Game
1:01:46 - Shandy Word Watch
1:05:43 - Predictions
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor Franchise power couple Danielle Maltby (Bachelor S21) and Michael Allio (Bachelorette S17), whom you watched meet on Bachelor In Paradise S8! We're happy to report that not only is this a Love Fest of legend, but our producer Gabby even called it one of her ALL TIME favorites (and trust us, she's picky!)
Today Danielle and Michael join Shandy to share how and why their relationship has blossomed post-show, how they complement each other, and of course, how they fight! There are also countless tangent gems covering everything from imposter syndrome to thoughts on what *really* matters in life. Finally, a Newlyweds Game that is flagrantly disrespected by its players to the point where Shandy has no choice but to show them who's boss. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Danielle & Michael!
14:54 - Was There Anything They Think Viewers Missed Out On With Their Love Story
20:37 - Traits They’ve Learned About One Another Post-Show
25:26 - How Their First Impressions Have Changed
30:17 - How They Complement Each Other
40:03 - When Did Michael “Know”
46:15 - Early Hurdle
53:14 - How They Fight
1:06:53 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game
1:22:22 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down Women Tell All!
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0:00 - Housekeeping
0:42 - Women Tell All Kick Off
4:19 - Christina Mandrell
7:53 - Anastasia vs Everyone
10:57 - Katherine vs Brooklyn
14:33 - Jess’ Hot Seat
18:04 - Greer’s Hot Seat
22:24 - Katherine’s Hot Seat
24:37 - Charity’s Hot Seat
27:05 - Unseen Footage
29:34 - Zach
32:09 - Bloopers
34:36 - Bachelorette Announcement
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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Hometown Week!
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0:00 - Housekeeping
1:05 - Episode 8 Kick Off
2:14 - Gabi’s Hometown
5:11 - Evening
9:23 - Ariel’s Hometown
20:30 - Evening
25:07 - Charity’s Hometown
30:00 - Evening
30:57 - Katie’s Hometown
35:51 - Evening
44:26 - Sean Lowe
47:17 - Rose Ceremony
50:40 - Credits
52:29 - Andy’s A-Game
53:12 - Shandy Word Watch
56:24 - Predictions
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Nina who has found herself in the early stages of a situationship and wants to "suss out" her next move. Is there a potential future here or is she just wearing a pretty pair of rose-colored glasses? Listen on for the Shandy take!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Caller Nina!
15:12 - Shandy Sleuthing
38:45 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7.
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7:35 - Evening
11:26 - Group Date
22:00 - Evening
29:57 - Greer Time
39:13 - Brooklyn’s 1-On-1
46:58 - Evening
50:36 - Rose Ceremony
1:02:26 - Credits
1:02:33 - Andy’s A-Game
1:03:10 - Shandy Word Watch
1:05:13 - Predictions
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Today's Hot Topic dives deep into the world of open relationships! We're joined by author and ghostwriter Emily Gindlesparger, who not only opened her own relationship years ago but discovered her own bisexuality throughout the process. Her new memoir, "Please Make Me Love Me", describes her journey from traditional, straight monogamist to becoming polyamorous with multiple serious girlfriends. Today she shares how she shed her jealousy once and for all, the impact an open relationship had on her primary partnership, the challenges of logistics, and her advice to couples interested in non-monogamy. Emily manages to answer a TON of questions thoughtfully and succinctly, so if you've ever been curious about exploring polyamory—or are just curious how others manage it!—this conversation is for you.
More Emily:
- The Book, "Please Make Me Love Me": https://amzn.to/3Zwrhfz
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emilygindle
- Website: https://www.emilygindlesparger.com
Referenced Links And Books:
More Than Two - https://www.morethantwo.com
Esther Perel’s “The State Of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity” - https://amzn.to/3SDhO43
Jessica Fern’s “Polysecure” - https://amzn.to/3ZuwKU5
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Emily Gindlesparger!
1:47 - What Do People Most Commonly Ask When They Learn She’s Written A Memoir About Open Relationships And Discovering She’s Queer
3:27 - Was There A Moment Where She Went From Jealous To Non-Jealous
7:06 - Would She Say The More She Leaned Into What Was Making Her Jealous, The Less Jealous She Became
8:16 - Did Jealous Get Flipped On Its Head To Where She Found It Enjoyable
10:43 - What Made Her And Her Partner Decide To Disclose Everything To Each Other (Versus “I Don’t Want To Know”)
14:02 - Did They Ever Fight About This
15:06 - How Much Of Her Decision To Open The Relationship Stemmed From A Desire To Live Life To The Fullest Versus Wanting To Explore Her Sexuality
19:42 - What Does She Think Is The Most Common Misconception About Open Relationships
22:41 - Is It Worth Bringing Up That You Want An Open Relationship If You Know Your Partner Is Deeply Monogamous
24:33 - Does She Believe One-Way Open Relationships Can Work
26:59 - What Advice Would She Give To Someone Whose Partner Wants To Open The Relationship
28:27 - Would She Have Ever Opened Her Relationship Had She Been In A Different Community
30:47 - Is A “Logistical Toll” Part And Parcel With Maintaining Open Relationships
33:06 - What’s Easier: Monogamy Or Polyamory
34:54 - Let’s Say A Couple Wants To Open Things Up—Where To Start
39:43 - When Did She Realize She Wasn’t 100% Straight
43:31 - What Advice Would She Give Her Younger Self On The Topic Of Her Sexuality
45:31 - Does She Consider It A Shame To *Not* Explore One’s Bisexuality
48:32 - Would She And Her Partner Even Open Things Up Again
51:17 - Did She Tell Her Family And If So, Why
54:41 - What Self Work Does She Recommend For Those Contemplating Opening Their Relationship
58:05 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
2:23 - Episode 6 Kick Off
7:45 - Charity’s 1-On-1
19:10 - Evening
22:54 - Group Date Card
24:05 - The Next Day
24:17 - Group Date
27:19 - Evening
40:19 - Flashpoint
46:37 - Ariel’s 1-On-1
51:58 - Afternoon
54:56 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
1:00:34 - Rose Ceremony
1:01:36 - Credits
1:02:30 - Andy’s A-Game
1:02:49 - Shandy Word Watch
1:04:29 - Predictions
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your romantic proposal was underwhelming at best, is there any way to fix it? Is what feels like a Hallmark Love Story to good to be true? And, as The Mistress, just how long is too long to wait for him? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Q1: I Never Got My Romantic Proposal—How Can I Fix This?
9:11 - Q2: Am I The (Oblivious) Asshole?
19:36 - Q3: Am I Crazy To Consider Moving For This Hallmark Christmas Love Story?
32:40 - Q4: I’m Seeking Advice On How To End A Friendship
42:43 - Q5: I’m The Mistress—How Long Should I Wait For Him?
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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
2:44 - Episode 5 Kick Off
4:50 - Gabi’s 1-On-1
7:36 - Evening At The Hotel
11:38 - Evening On The Date
21:12 - Group Date
26:13 - Evening
27:11 - The Next Day
28:42 - Evening
30:03 - Virtual Cocktail Party
48:27 - Virtual Rose Ceremony
52:29 - Credits
55:05 - Andy’s A-Game
55:33 - Shandy Word Watch
57:57 - Predictions
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor icon Chris Bukowski (Bachelorette S8; Bachelor Pad S3; BIP S1, S2, S6) and Anna Redman (Bachelor S25; BIP S7), who join us from their shared home in Chicago. Shandy has known Chris for years and are delighted to catch up with him and meet lovely Anna in today's double date.
Today Chris and Anna join Shandy to share how fellow Bachelor alums set them up, how they complement one another, whether or not "villain-y" has helped them connect, what they play on game nights (and who wins), and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a particularly entertaining nail biter of a Newlyweds Game. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Anna And Chris!
2:14 - How They Met
4:21 - How Familiar With Each Other Were They?
9:35 - First Impressions
15:12 - How They Complement Each Other
18:36 - The Biggest Misconception About Their Relationship
21:00 - Does Being Former “Villains” Help Them Relate To Each Other?
24:20 - How They Fight
28:14 - What’s Different About This Partnership Versus Past Ones That Makes It Successful?
29:46 - Early Hurdle
34:43 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed
37:46 - Rapid Fire True/False
38:47 - The Newlyweds Game
1:00:37 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today, for the first time ever, we're joined by guests for a recap: Claire and Emma of the Love To See It podcast help us break down episode 3.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Claire & Emma
1:45 - Episode 4 Kick Off
7:00 - Kat’s 1-On-1
9:00 - Evening At The Mansion
16:40 - Evening On The Date
25:52 - Group Date
34:02 - Evening
51:40 - Brooklyn’s 1-On-1
52:50 - Evening
56:03 - The Next Day
56:32 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
1:06:05 - Rose Ceremony
1:08:27 - Credits
1:09:57 - Andy’s A-Game
1:11:50 - Shandy Word Watch
1:14:18 - Predictions
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by two lovely callers! Our first caller, Michelle, is frustrated with members of her core friend group routinely bringing their significant others to Girls Night. Is this something she can actually address without causing a rift, and if so, how? Caller Siobhan was with her ex for 6 months but is left scratching her head over what even happened. How can two people see the same relationship so differently, and what should she have done differently? Brutal Andy honesty ensues. Listen on for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Caller Michelle!
23:16 - Shandy Debrief
33:02 - Welcome To Caller Siobhan!
40:22 - Shandy Sleuthing
1:06:54 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:38 - Episode 3 Kick Off
4:50 - Kaity’s 1-On-1
6:04 - Evening
12:30 - The Next Day
13:11 - Group Date
19:54 - Evening
34:36 - Aly’s 1-On-1
36:34 - Evening
39:29 - The Next Day/Pool Party
53:03 - Rose Ceremony
59:47 - Credits
1:00:54 - Andy’s A-Game
1:01:28 - Shandy Word Watch
1:04:18 - Predictions
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Today's Hot Topic delves into the fascinating world of professional matchmaking! We're joined by 4th generation matchmaker Maria Avgitidis—aka the famed "Matchmaker Maria". Maria is the founder and CEO of award-winning Agape Match, the exclusive NYC-based matchmaking service with a whopping 93% success rate. Ever wonder what a matchmaker would give you as "homework", what demographic makes the hardest client to match, what it costs to hire a matchmaker, or what tops men's and women's lists of desires? Maria pulls back the curtain on this generations-old industry and we promise you'll leave, as Shandy puts it, "enlightened"!
More Maria:
- Agape Match: https://agapematch.com
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermaria
- Ask A Matchmaker Podcast: https://plinkhq.com/i/1521530338?to=page
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Maria Avgitidis Pyrgiotakis!
1:52 - Why Matchmaking?
4:42 - Are We Searching For Functionality & How To Branch Out
7:10 - Is There A Higher Likelihood Of Any Particular Religions/Cultures That Seek Matchmaking?
9:55 - Can People From Very Different Religions Or Cultures Be A Good Match?
14:28 - Does She Work With More Men Vs Women & How Do Clients Come Her Way?
16:48 - In General, Which Demographic Is The Hardest To Work With?
23:03 - Matchmaking Costs Money—How Is This Reflected In Her Clientele?
25:22 - Is She Ever Tempted To Take On Clients For Free?
35:18 - Top 3 Things Men Are Looking For
40:55 - Top 3 Things Women Are Looking For
46:28 - How Swipe Culture Has Affected Dating And Has It Affected Her Business
50:02 - Standy Debrief
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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:23 - Episode 2 Kick Off
3:34 - Group Date #1
7:32 - Evening
14:48 - The Next Day
15:40 - Christina Mandrell’s 1-On-1
30:56 - Group Date #2
40:38 - The Next Day
41:35 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
1:00:50 - Rose Ceremony
1:01:14 - Credits
1:01:53 - Andy’s A-Game
1:05:03 - Shandy Word Watch
1:06:42 - Predictions
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a guy won't commit until after sex, is that a red flag? When someone cancels a date, what's the statistical likelihood that their excuse is a lie? And if your brother and best friend showed up at Christmas, hand in hand and without warning, what would you do? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Q1: The Guy I’m Interested In Won’t Commit Until We Sleep Together—Is This Normal?
14:16 - Q2: When A Date Cancels, What’s The Statistical Likelihood That Their Excuse Is A Lie?
26:57 - Q3: My Brother Showed Up To Family Christmas With My Best Friend On His Arm—Help!
37:44 - Q4: I’m In Love With A Man 28 Years Older—Am I Wasting My Youth?
1:08:42 - Q5: My Ex And I Have Remained Friends But His New Relationship Is Affecting Me—Does This Mean I Still Have Feelings And Should Cut Ties?
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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:32 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 1
1:41 - Episode 1 Kick Off
6:46 - Intro Videos
11:30 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails
21:06 - Zach’s Toast
26:03 - Notable 1-On-1 Time
37:14 - Madison
38:18 - 1-On-1 Time, Cont’d
40:12 - First Impression Rose
45:51 - Madison, Cont’d
49:22 - Rose Ceremony
50:08 - Credits
50:18 - Andy’s A-Game
51:49 - Shandy Word Watch
52:47 - Predictions
57:29 - Wild Cards
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Emily, who has found herself in a platonic friendship with her ex for whom she still harbors romantic feelings. His ED also played a part in their relationship and breakup. Should she believe there's a future for them? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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Ask and you shall receive! For literal YEARS you've been asking "where are they now?" when it comes to our Shandies' quandaries, and today's the day we find out! This episode includes all updates that have not already been shared on Instagram Reels, and in typical Shandy fashion, updated commentary and analogies. Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Introduction
3:03 - Episode 6: Caller Gabby - https://youtu.be/j19BAzjMGZ8
7:21 - Episode 28: Q2, From Danielle - https://youtu.be/z75XlTPG9XI
10:44 - Episode 28: Q3, From Cassandra - https://youtu.be/z75XlTPG9XI
14:11 - Episode 45: Q3, From Urszula - https://youtu.be/JeX3\_ZPUQfM
22:56 - Episode 57: Caller Dayna - https://youtu.be/77fO41yQO6Q
30:15 - Episode 114: Caller Anna - https://youtu.be/EIuFdyyB2dc
35:01 - Episode 130: Caller Kelsey - https://youtu.be/eFFakWC0zgU
41:06 - Episode 133: Q2, From Anonymous - https://youtu.be/H8ul2qEWrOQ
56:18 - Episode 137: Q3, From Tina - https://youtu.be/ANzS4y7vTGI
1:00:54 - Episode 146: Q2, From P - https://youtu.be/ygmeFYPyYMk
1:09:04 - Episode 154: Q4, From An Embarrassed Shandy - https://youtu.be/qyYKy-XiJ1A
1:12:57 - Episode 158: Caller Hanna - https://youtu.be/f5zKwVHMvLw
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Due to an unexpected change in Sharleen's singing schedule, today's episode contains two Dear Shandy firsts: 1) we're recording remotely, and 2) we're breaking down our personal "greatest hits" Q&As of 2022! We recap and air our favorite Q&As of the year and explain why they stood out to us (and whether or not we'd answer differently). This will be our last episode of 2022 and we'll be taking a 2 week break, so we'll see you back here on Jan 12! THANK YOU, Shandies, for another great year of kindness, analogies, weirdness, specificity, and laughs. We adore you and hope you have the happiest of holidays! xoxo
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0:00 - Intro
2:55 - Ep 133, Q2 - Anonymous
18:57 - Ep 125, Q5 - from S
38:51 - Ep 137, Q3 - from Tina
53:04 - Ep 154, Q4 - from An Embarrassed Shandy
1:07:44 - Ep 170, Q3 - from H
1:41:26 - Ep 146, Q3 - from C
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How much should you consider an ex's feelings when dating within the same circles? Is the opposite of hate truly indifference, and if so, does my partner "hating" his ex mean he isn't over her? And one Shandy requests that Shandy "snaps her out of" her 1.5 situationship—will they oblige? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Q1: I Have A Crush On My Tour Guide—Should I Make A Move?
7:20 - Q2: My Guy Feels Hatred For His Ex—Will He Ever Get Over Her?
21:04 - Q3: How Much Should I Consider My Ex’s Feelings When Considering Dating In His Circle?
33:22 - Q4: My Normally Gentle Boyfriend Showed A Flare Of Anger Towards Me—Is This A Red Flag?
53:31 - Q5: The Guy I’ve Been Seeing For 1.5 Years Won’t Commit—Snap Me Out Of It?
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Rosemary who has been with her partner for 2.5 years. The two always thought they might be open to non-monogamy one day, but she's suddenly faced with the reality of that idea and isn't sure what to do. Should she lay down the law and wait for circumstances to be just right, or is there never a "just right" circumstance and should she take the plunge? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Caller Rosemary!
52:17 - Shandy Debrief
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When timing doesn't feel like your friend, should you send a "If you're single in the future" message? Is it wrong to be turned off that your boyfriend lives with his mom? If your partner's dying to dance with you but you're uncomfortable on the dance floor, who's got to give? And don't pretend it hasn't happened to you: when you send the wrong text to the wrong person... 😱 Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Q1: Is It Ever A Good Idea To Send A “If You’re Single In The Future” Message?
8:39 - Q2: This Guy Keeps Ghosting, Then Explaining—Am I Being Too Forgiving?
23:18 - Q3: I Dislike That My Boyfriend Still Lives With His Mother—Am I Being Judgy?
35:58 - Q4: I Accidentally Sent A Venting Text To The Person I Was Venting About—Help!
1:01:10 - Q5: My Boyfriend Loves To Dance But I Do NOT—Help!
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Today's Hot Topic is one that has been a loooong time coming. We're joined by bestselling author, professor, and psychologist Dr. Marisa G Franco. Having written "Platonic: How The Science Of Attachment Can Help You Make—And Keep—Friends", Marisa is particularly well equipped to help us tackle the complicated world of platonic friendships. If you struggle when it comes to friendships, or you'd like more friends but don't know how to get started, or feel like you're doing all the work in your friendships, OR perhaps you'd like to end a toxic friendship.... let's just say this conversation is for you.
More Marisa:
Book: Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and—Keep Friends
Instagram: DrMarisaGFranco
Website: www.DrMarisaGFranco.com (take a quiz to assess your strengths and weaknesses as a friend!)
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Dr. Marisa G Franco!
1:25 - What Inspired Her To Write A Book On Platonic Friendship
3:15 - Biggest Thing She Learned About Herself In Writing “Platonic”
7:25 - The Most Surprising Fact About Platonic Relationships
9:48 - Attachment Styles
12:35 - How To Make New Friends
24:55 - Is She An Introvert Or Extrovert?
26:01 - How To Maintain Long Distance Friendships
27:24 - Does Our Easy Access Culture Affect Our Friendships?
31:18 - What If It Feels Like You’re Doing All The Work?
35:02 - Vice Versa
36:49 - When You’re The Connector But End Up Feeling Left Out
40:45 - Can You Be Friends With Someone You’re Attracted To?
45:22 - The Proper Way To End A Toxic Friendship
49:29 - Is It Ever OK To Power Fade A Friendship?
52:23 - How To Maintain Friendships When Your Lives Are Heading In Different Directions
55:25 - Script For How To Turn An Acquaintance Into A Friend
56:06 - How To Deal With A Friend Who Constantly Copies You
58:38 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 16, aka the finale part 2!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:28 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 16
3:27 - Reunion
23:45 - Tyler & Brittany
29:32 - Michael & Danielle
34:57 - Johnny & Victoria
1:03:40 - Brandon & Serene
1:09:27 - Credits
1:10:02 - Andy’s A-Game
1:10:40 - Shandy Word Watch
1:11:56 - Who We Would Go For
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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 15, aka the finale part 1!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:32 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 15
2:22 - Episode 15 Kick Off
3:36 - Evening
6:03 - Rose Ceremony
15:40 - The Next Day
37:33 - The Final Couples
41:32 - Overnight Dates
46:19 - Credits
46:36 - Andy’s A-Game
48:24 - Shandy Word Watch
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Ben Zorn (The Bachelorette Season 11, Bachelor In Paradise Season 4) and his lovely wife Stacy Santilena. To say Shandy enjoyed getting to know these two is a massive understatement (in the words of Sharleen afterwards: "I want to be friends with them.")
Today Ben and Stacy join Shandy to share how they went from "just friends" to married with a baby, how they overcame a very relatable early hurdle, Stacy's journey from believing she didn't want kids to wholeheartedly loving their son Logan, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, an unprecedented Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game that will BLOW YOU AWAY. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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https://www.zornfitness.com
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https://www.instagram.com/ssantilena
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Ben & Stacey!
0:46 - How They Met
7:32 - First Impressions
19:24 - How They Began Dating (After Friendship)
30:18 - Stacey’s Thoughts On Ben On The Show
32:00 - How They Complement Each Other
33:31 - Early Hurdle
40:04 - How They Fight
44:21 - How Parenthood Has Changed Their Relationship
54:16 - Relationship Beliefs That Have Changed
1:02:15 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game
1:21:21 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 13 & 14!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
0:46 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 13 & 14
0:54 - Word Watch Disclaimer
1:30 - Episode 13 Kick Off
4:44 - Baltimore
9:33 - Back On The Beach
14:20 - Evening
15:07 - Mara’s Date With Justin
15:29 - Back On The Beach
28:10 - The Next Day
36:53 - Ency’s Date With Andrew
37:45 - Back On The Beach
38:58 - Credits
39:05 - Episode 14 Kick Off
43:50 - Evening
45:40 - The Mic Room
55:22 - Tyler’s Date With Brittany
57:14 - The Next Day
1:01:08 - Sadie Hawkins Dance
1:16:09 - Credits
1:16:38 - Andy’s A-Game
1:18:24 - Shandy Word Watch
1:20:29 - Who We Would Go For
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it wrong to vent to others about your partner? Is it worth revisiting things with an old flame? And a sticky "Am I The Asshole?" question! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Q1: Is It Wrong To Vent To Others About My Partner?
14:21 - Q2: I Ran Into An Old Flame And There Was Chemistry—Worth Revisiting?
24:58 - Q3: Am I The Asshole?
33:42 - Q4: I Know She’s Not The One But Logistics Are Complicated—Should I End It?
40:35 - Q5: My Partner And I Can’t Agree On TV—Who Should Give?
48:13 - Q6: I Want To Rename My 6-Year Old Cat—Yay Or Nay?
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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 12!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:52 - Episode 12 Kick Off/Evening
6:51 - The Next Day
13:33 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
26:07 - Rose Ceremony
34:52 - The Next Day
37:19 - Michael’s Date With Danielle
44:01 - Back At The Beach
52:04 - Eliza Heads To Baltimore
53:39 - Credits
53:50 - Andy’s A-Game
54:46 - Shandy Word Watch
56:05 - Who We Would Go For
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Elizabeth who has quite the complicated high school sweetheart story that ended in her breaking the guy's heart. Fast forward to 5+ years later and he's still on her mind—but is she on his? And if so, is it worth closing the distance and potentially becoming the "other woman" to pursue, or are some things better left in the past? Listen on for the Shandy take!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Caller Elizabeth!
48:00 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 10 and 11!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
0:59 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 10 & 11
1:56 - Episode 10 Kick Off
3:50 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
8:33 - Rose Ceremony
9:39 - The Next Day
10:43 - Victoria’s Date With Johnny
12:55 - Justin
24:06 - Shandy Roleplay
33:30 - Justin’s Date With Eliza
35:32 - Credits
36:46 - Episode 11 Kick Off
36:54 - Hayden
43:20 - The Next Day
43:56 - Hayden’s Date With Kate
46:36 - Back On The Beach
54:22 - Joey And Justin
55:35 - Double Date
59:44 - Aaron & Genevieve
1:13:12 - Credits
1:14:49 - Shandy Word Watch
1:16:53 - Who We Would Go For
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Today's Hot Topic theme addresses the relationship you have with yourself—your deepest desires, your beliefs, and what might be getting in the way of your own goals and happiness. Our guest, Roxie Nafousi, wrote THE book on manifesting and has been hailed “the manifesting queen” by Forbes and “the face of manifesting” by The Times. While the idea of manifesting might seem surprising for longtime Shandies, we were truly blown away by the ideas and perspectives Roxie shared in this delightful conversation. If you've ever felt your dreams were too lofty or have struggled with fear and imposter syndrome, trust us, this episode's for you.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Roxie Nafousi!
1:13 - What Motivated Her To Write A Book About Manifesting
4:52 - What Is Manifesting And How Is It Scientific?
8:31 - What Are The Top Misconceptions About Manifesting?
11:22 - Is The Term “Manifesting” Overused?
12:53 - How Should One Get Started?
19:38 - Sharleen’s Q: What If You Don’t Even Know What You Want?
25:33 - Andy’s Q: What About Misdirected Talent?
30:59 - Are There Certain Areas Of Life That Are “Easier” To Manifest?
33:40 - How Does She Reconcile Manifesting And The Adage “You’ll Find It When You Stop Looking”?
37:59 - Thoughts On Realism, Entitlement, And Toxic Positivity
44:28 - What About True Skeptics?
45:56 - Tips For Recovering When What You Manifested Didn’t Come To Be?
51:31 - How Do You Know What You Think You Want Will Actually Make You Happy?
54:00 - If There’s One Takeaway She Wishes The Shandies Would Have From This Conversation, What Would It Be?
56:09 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 8 and 9!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:12 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 8 & 9
1:42 - Episode 8 Kick Off
8:03 - The Next Day
11:48 - Andy’s Question For The Shandies
27:38 - Kate’s Date With Logan
34:13 - Victoria’s Date With Alex
40:40 - Brittany And Tyler
45:22 - Shanae
46:32 - Credits
46:54 - Episode 9 Kick Off
50:23 - Genevieve Returns To The Beach
51:49 - Shanae And Logan
1:00:47 - Kate Versus Shanae
1:02:49 - Jill And Jacob
1:06:50 - Brittany
1:07:35 - Serene And Brandon
1:08:14 - Victoria And Johnny
1:19:13 - Evening
1:22:10 - Credits
1:22:19 - Andy’s A-Game
1:22:46 - Shandy Word Watch
1:24:24 - Who We Would Go For
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What should you do if you've always dreamed of living elsewhere but your partner has no interest in moving? If your baby name is stolen by someone close to you, is it cause for confrontation? And is refusing to put down the toilet seat a simple act of laziness or a sign of something more? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
0:00 - Q1: I’m Secretly Dating My Brother’s Friend After He Explicitly Told Me Not To—How Should I Proceed?
7:52 - Q2: I've Long Dreamed Of Moving But My Partner Has No Interest—Help!
21:25 - Q3: My Brother-In-Law Used Our Baby Name For His Dog—Should I Just Get Over It?
51:59 - Q4: My Husband’s Vocal Fry Drives Me Up The Wall—Should I Mention It?
1:02:04 - Q5: My New Guy Actively Refuses To Put Down The Toilet Seat—Should I Be Concerned?
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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 6 and 7!
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0:00 - Housekeeping
0:47 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 6 & 7
1:48 - Episode 6 Kick Off
2:23 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
27:23 - Danielle
29:47 - Rose Ceremony
31:46 - The Next Day
32:03 - Danielle’s Date With Michael
41:49 - Jesse Addresses The Group
52:20 - Credits
53:17 - Episode 7 Kick Off
54:29 - Evening
1:02:48 - Jesse Addresses The OG Ladies
1:05:53 - The Next Day
1:07:20 - Shanae’s Date With Tyler
1:16:22 - Sarah’s Date With Logan
1:17:42 - Evening
1:19:49 - The Next Day
1:20:37 - Rodney’s Date With Eliza
1:25:34 - Credits
1:26:05 - Andy’s A-Game
1:26:39 - Shandy Word Watch
1:28:39 - Who We Would Go For
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TRIGGER WARNING: this post mentions pregnancy loss. Please listen with care.
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by our friends, longtime Bachelor franchise icon Ashley Spivey (Season 15, aka Brad Womack's second season) and her delightful husband Steve Hunsberger. These two have been married for over 6 years, have been dating for 10, and they're also our NYC neighbors! :) Today they join Shandy to share whether or not they would have met sans The Bachelor, what it's like to endure tremendous loss together, how they "pass the baton" between them, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game that Andy describes as "very married". 😂 Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Ashley and Steve!
2:50 - How They Met
8:44 - Do They Think They Would Have Ended Up Together Without The Bachelor?
14:59 - First Impressions
21:01 - How They Complement Each Other
24:23 - How Suffering Miscarriage Affected Their Relationship
34:07 - Early Hurdle
40:11 - How They Fight
45:55 - Any Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed
49:26 - The Newlyweds Game
1:05:58 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 4 and 5!
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0:00 - Housekeeping
0:47 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 4 & 5
1:28 - Episode 4 Kick Off/Evening
13:10 - The Next Day
24:02 - Ashley And Jared’s Date
27:05 - Back At The Beach
28:52 - Evening
29:37 - Brandon And Serene’s Date
30:39 - Back At The Beach
36:21 - Credits
36:37 - Episode 5 Kick Off
38:35 - Salley
51:40 - The Next Day
54:42 - Peter And Brittany’s Date
58:22 - Back On The Beach
1:11:00 - Jacob And Jill’s Date/Evening
1:13:18 - Back On The Beach
1:16:17 - Kira
1:25:44 - Credits
1:26:54 - Andy’s A-Game
1:27:47 - Shandy Word Watch
1:29:25 - Who We Would Go For
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by not one, but TWO delightful callers. Our first caller, Ray, has been texting with a guy daily for 6 whopping months. The catch? They live in different countries and have never even kissed. How can she take things to the next level? Our second caller, James, had his "number" used against him towards the end of his last relationship. When, if ever, should one share The Number, and is honesty really always best? Listen on for the Shandy take!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Caller Ray!
27:03 - Shandy Debrief
29:21 - Welcome To Caller James!
51:48 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 2 and 3!
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0:00 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 2 & 3
1:40 - Episode 2 Kick Off
17:52 - Evening
49:56 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
59:12 - Credits
59:50 - Episode 3 Kick Off
1:06:56 - Rose Ceremony
1:12:05 - The Next Day
1:22:57 - Evening
1:27:08 - Andy’s A-Game
1:27:32 - Shandy Word Watch
1:29:07 - Who We Would Go For
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Today's Hot Topic conversation finally tackles a common theme among our Shandies' relationship questions over the last 2 years: What to do when one partner wants to get frisky way more than the other? Shan Boodram, our esteemed expert joining us today, could not be more qualified to take on this subject: Shan is a certified sexologist and sex and intimacy educator, among her many other qualifications, and she helps us navigate how to broach the topic of wanting more sex, how to work towards raising one's own libido, how to communicate likes/dislikes in the bedroom (without killing the mood), and how to get back into sexy time postpartum. Shan is as fun as she is knowledgeable and we guarantee you'll both laugh and learn something new throughout this conversation!
More Shan:
Book "The Game Of Desire" - https://www.thegameofdesire.com/buy
Lovers And Friends Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1586679298
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shanboody/
Website - https://www.shanboodram.com
Shan's Turn-On Trigger Quiz - https://www.thegameofdesire.com/quiz
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Sexologist And Intimacy Educator Shan Boodram!
3:16 - What Is Sexology And Why Did She Get Into It?
8:36 - Tips For Couples Navigating Mismatched Libidos
13:55 - Does Bringing It Up More Scare It Away?
20:14 - For The Partner Who Wishes They Wanted Sex More
27:56 - Comfort and Familiarity
29:29 - Turn-On Triggers
31:12 - Where’s The Line Between Maintaining A Sex Life With A Low Libido Versus Agreeing To Have Sex When You Don’t Want To?
35:44 - Does More Beget More?
37:55 - Advice For Sex And Intimacy Postpartum
40:53 - Tips For Orgasming
43:44 - Tips On How To Get A Partner To Change What They’re Doing Without Killing The Mood?
46:12 - True Or False: Ejaculation Is Good For Men’s Health
50:32 - Thoughts On Today’s Swipe Culture And Dating Climate
57:42 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
2:38 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 1
3:56 - Episode 1 Kick Off
9:57 - Paradise Is Open
32:18 - Jesse Threatens The Group
36:17 - Evening
36:40 - Andrew And Teddi
42:29 - Genevieve And Justin
44:23 - Andrew And Teddi, Continued
45:47 - Johnny And Hunter
46:23 - Lace
51:29 - Lace And Logan
1:02:35 - Sierra And Michael
1:04:09 - Jill
1:04:29 - Jill And Romeo
1:05:53 - Kira
1:07:43 - Kira And Romeo
1:11:07 - Kira Versus Jill
1:13:46 - The Next Day
1:14:26- Victoria F
1:14:39 - Credits
1:15:08 - Andy’s A-Game
1:16:42 - Shandy Word Watch
1:19:09 - Who We Would Go For
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you like a guy but not his pet name for you, is it worth saying something? If reconnecting with a former flame via LinkedIn has reached a roadblock, when is it OK to up the ante? Plus a classic Andy-I-Need-Your-Male-Perspective-On-This-Guy's-Intentions question! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
0:00 - Q1: I Like The Guy But Hate His Pet Name For Me
6:29 - Q2: What Are His Intentions?
13:45 - Q3: I’m Finding Myself Attracted To Someone I Should NOT Be Attracted To—Am I Normal?
23:04 - Q4: My Partner Keeps Making Jokes About What’s Obviously An Insecurity—Thoughts?
37:03 - Q5: Our Libidos Don’t Line Up—Thoughts?
50:37 - Q6: Rekindling With A Former Flame Via LinkedIn—Should I Try Again?
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 12, aka the GRAND FINALE!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:35 - Finale Kick Off
3:43 - Last Week, Continued
7:14 - Rachel’s Last Date With Tino
10:32 - The Ladies Chat In Mexico
12:29 - Rachel’s Proposal
17:37 - The Breakup House: Gabby And Rachel
24:57 - The Breakup House: Tino And Rachel
48:11 - Live: Rachel
49:27 - Live: Rachel And Tino
53:20 - Aven
57:21 - Gabby’s Proposal
1:04:03 - Live: Rachel And Erich
1:12:09 - Wrapping The Season
1:12:27 - Next Bachelor
1:16:54 - BUT WAIT THERE’S MORE
1:21:14 - Shandy Word Watch
1:21:40 - Reviewing Premiere Predictions
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Kenny Braasch (The Bachelorette, Season 16) and Mari Pepin (The Bachelor, Season 25), who you watched meet and get engaged on Bachelor In Paradise Season 7! They're now over a year into their relationship (just ask Andy about his famous bet!) and they live together in Chicago. Today they join Shandy to share their first impressions, how their 15 year age gap works for—not against—them, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game that will have you on the edge of your seat! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Kenny And Mari!
2:24 - How Familiar Were They With Each Other Before Meeting On Paradise?
5:16 - First Impressions
8:41 - How They Complement Each Other
11:29 - The Most Common Misconception About Their Relationship
16:00 - What About This Partnership Makes It Successful Versus Past Ones?
22:27 - Early Hurdle
23:14 - How They Fight
21:05 - How Do They Actively Work On Their Relationship?
32:03 - Shandy’s Bet
33:08 - Getting To Know Mari And Kenny
38:48 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed
41:41 - The Newlyweds Game
1:04:45 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 11, aka the Finale, Part 1!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:37 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 11
4:17 - Episode 11 Kick Off
4:54 - Zach Speaks With Rachel
11:16 - Rose Ceremony
12:39 - Live: Zach And Rachel
18:46 - Aven Meets Rachel’s Family
32:21 - Rachel Chats With Her Friends
37:02 - Rachel Chats With Aven
47:34 - Erich Meets Gabby’s Family
51:15 - Tino Meets Rachel’s Family
56:46 - Aven’s “Last Shot”
1:06:04 - Rachel
1:11:54 - Live: Aven And Rachel
1:14:00 - Gabby’s Final Date With Erich
1:22:24 - Shandy Word Watch
1:24:13 - Shandy's Predictions
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It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Hanna, is happily married with 3 young children. Everything's as it should be in their very small town, but she feels drawn to nurture her personal and social lives with a move elsewhere. Sounds simple enough, but when she considers one option, she can't help but weigh the pros of the other. At what point does a fear of a choice not taken become a fear of making any choice at all? Listen on for the Shandy take!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Caller Hanna!
50:43 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 9 and 10, aka Fantasy Suites Part 1 and 2!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 9 & 10
2:45 - Episode 9 Kick Off
5:45 - Erich’s Overnight
10:13 - Evening
13:36 - The Next Morning
16:35 - Meanwhile, Tino
16:53 - Aven’s Overnight
18:06 - Meanwhile, Jesse Chats With Tino
22:44 - Evening
26:50 - The Next Morning
27:59 - Tino’s Overnight
29:30 - Evening
33:39 - Johnny’s Overnight
39:30 - Jesse Chats With Jason
40:43 - Erich
55:11 - Episode 10 Kick Off
59:44 - Gabby Chats With Jesse
1:02:09 - Jason’s Overnight
1:05:20 - Evening
1:17:49 - The Next Morning
1:19:00 - Gabby Chats With Jason
1:24:19 - Zach’s Overnight
1:25:47 - Evening
1:26:27 - The Next Morning
1:29:29 - Zach Chats With Jesse
1:32:35 - Rose Ceremony
1:33:49 - Gabby Visits Erich
1:35:16 - Cliffhanger
1:36:35 - Andy’s A-Game
1:37:30 - Shandy Word Watch
1:39:43 - Shandy’s Predictions
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It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 2 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and you sure delivered with quite the variety of Qs about this podcast, our relationship, and in general, our thoughts on a ALL THE THINGS. Thank you, Shandies, for another year of making us feel so seen, understood, and appreciated. Come join us in our living room to chat!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Introduction
2:24 - Who Is On Each Of Your Celebrity Hall Pass Lists?
5:59 - Do You Have An All-Time Favorite Podcast Episode?
8:19 - Would You Ever Do A Live Show?
9:28 - What’s Something Your Partner Does That Instantly Calms You?
11:09 - What Have Been Your Favorite Places To Travel To Together?
12:17 - Will You Always Live In New York?
14:38 - Does Traveling Together Test Your Relationship?
15:48 - What Were Your Top 3 Dating Dealbreakers?
20:44 - Didn’t You Guys Have A Cat At One Time?
24:05 - If You Could Have Any Animal As A Pet, What Would It Be?
25:00 - What’s The Most Annoying Thing About Having A Podcast?
33:30 - Do You Follow The News? How Do You Deal With All The Bad Things Happening In The World?
35:50 - What Has Been Your Weirdest Fan Encounter?
40:48 - I Can’t Imagine Andy Living In San Francisco. Why Did He Move There?
46:06 - How Did Sharleen Come To Be An Opera Singer And If She Could Do Anything Else, What Would It Be?
55:55 - What Are Your Favorite Quirks About Each Other?
1:02:20 - Could We Hear Your Thoughts On Your Age Difference?
1:05:35 - What Are Your Thoughts On Aliens, Ghosts, And The Supernatural?
1:18:06 - Thank You
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Aven's Hometown and Men Tell All.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
0:57 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 8/Men Tell All
1:57 - Episode 8 Kick Off
3:52 - Aven’s Hometown
10:53 - Evening
14:15 - “Rose Ceremony”
14:45 - Men Tell All Kick Off
22:28 - Chris
24:46 - Hayden
26:20 - Logan
34:14 - Nate
38:50 - Paradise
39:44 - Jesse
41:56 - Gabby And Rachel Arrive
42:07 - Mario
44:18 - Jordan V
44:45 - Jacob
45:19 - Tyler
46:19 - Shameless Movie Plug
49:11 - Shandy Word Watch
50:55 - Predictions
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend accidentally sees your fetish in your search history, should you address it or leave it be? Is it worth it to explore a crush on your tutor? And is a relationship with a man 25 years older doomed to fail? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Q1: How Should I Break Up With Him If I’d Have To Travel To Do It In Person?
11:18 - Q2: Does He Only Want What He Can’t Have?
24:37 - Q3: I Exchanged A Gift My Boyfriend’s Mother Gave Me And Now She Won’t Drop It—What Should I Do?
40:12 - Q4: My Boyfriend Saw My Fetish In My Search History And Now I Want To Hide Forever
51:21 - Q5: I’ve Had A Longtime Crush On My Tutor—Should I Make Move?
1:04:44 - Q6: I’m Dating A Man 25 Years Older—Are We Doomed To Fail?
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping (And Other Tangents)
3:25 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 7
4:13 - Episode 7 Kick Off
5:53 - Jason’s Hometown
10:24 - Evening
14:12 - Zach’s Hometown
15:21 - Evening
23:00 - Johnny’s Hometown
25:26 - Evening
29:06 - Tyler’s Hometown
42:53 - Erich’s Hometown
50:36 - Evening
53:09 - Tino’s Hometown
1:10:05 - Credits
1:10:36 - Andy’s A-Game
1:10:55 - Shandy Word Watch
1:13:06 - Predictions: Gabby
1:14:53 - Predictions: Rachel
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Blake Horstmann (The Bachelorette, Season 16) and Giannina Gibelli (Love Is Blind, Season 1), who met filming Paramount Plus' All-Star Shore! They share how familiar they were with each other prior, some early hurdles post-filming, how they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a questionable Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game but all's well that ends well! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome Blake And Giannina!
4:19 - Were They Familiar With Each Other Before Meeting On All-Star Shore?
6:13 - First Impressions
12:07 - Do They Think The Powers That Be Intended For Them To Meet?
14:13 - How They Complement Each Other
22:19 - What’s The Most Common Misconception About Their Relationship?
24:21 - How They Fight
27:01 - What Was An Early Hurdle In Their Relationship?
29:44 - What Has It Been Like Being Exposed To The Other’s Dating Show Culture?
33:25 - What Makes This Relationship Successful Versus Past Relationships?
42:32 - The Newlyweds Game
59:29 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 6
2:24 - Episode 6 Kick Off
4:00 - 1-On-1 Date Cards
7:20 - Jesse Chats With The Bachelorettes
10:03 - Nate’s 1-On-1 With Gabby
15:46 - Zach’s 1-On-1 With Rachel
25:57 - Evening
33:37 - Gabby Visits Her Guys
35:24 - Gabby’s Group Date
40:21 - Evening (aka Logan)
44:58 - Rachel’s Group Date
46:52 - Evening
58:47 - The Next Day
1:02:22 - Rose Ceremony
1:06:57 - Andy’s A-Game
1:07:45 - Shandy Word Watch
1:10:56 - Predictions: Gabby
1:13:09 - Predictions: Rachel
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It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Abby, has a family dynamic she has been navigating her entire adult life. While her parents divorced well over a decade ago, her father continues to badmouth Abby's mother and stepfather while deflecting his responsibility in the marriage's demise. Should Abby just "keep the peace" by continuing to bite her tongue, or is it time for a confrontation? Listen on for the Shandy take!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Caller Abby!
40:55 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.
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00:41 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 5
01:41 - Episode 5 Kick Off
2:30 - Logan Visits Rachel
7:47 - Rachel’s Group Date
9:15 - Jesse Visits Rachel
13:42 - Logan Visits Gabby
17:36 - Gabby Visits Rachel
28:00 - Evening
31:24 - Gabby’s Group Date
34:50 - Evening
44:15 - Aven’s 1-On-1 With Rachel
45:29- Evening
50:07 - Johnny’s 1-On-1 With Gabby
51:30 - Evening
55:16 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
56:51 - Rose Ceremony
58:29 - Andy’s A-Game
59:50 - Shandy Word Watch
1:02:13 - Predictions: Gabby
1:05:58 - Predictions: Rachel
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Today's conversation has been a loooong time coming! So many of your questions over the last 2 years have swirled around whether or not to become a parent, or seeking #parenthoodclarity. Since Shandy is far from qualified to give you advice on the matter, we're thrilled to be joined by clarity coach Keltie Maguire who also happens to be #ChildfreeByChoice. Obviously none of us can answer this deeply personal question for you, but what we can do is have a conversation. We chat about everything from how Keltie came to make her decision, the shades of grey of uncertainty, "but who will look after you when you're old", and our thoughts on regret. Just as this is personal for you, it's personal for Shandy, too, so please respect us and each other when discussing.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Clarity Coach Keltie Maguire!
3:07 - Getting To Know Keltie
5:03 - When And How Did She Decide To Be Childfree?
14:07 - Does She Get This Question As A Clarity Coach?
17:30 - How Much Does She Think Her Lifestyle Has Informed Her Decision?
20:30 - Her Thoughts On The Following: "Having a baby is like getting a tattoo on your face. You really need to be certain it’s what you want before you commit.”
24:44 - Does She Find People Get Defensive When They Hear Her Choice?
26:01 - Advice For Dealing With Friends And Family Who Judge Or Don't Accept Your Choice?
29:03 - How Did Her Parents/In-Laws Handle Her Choice?
31:24 - "But You Would Make Such Great Parents"
33:36 - "But Who Will Look After You When You're Old?"
36:23 - Freedom
39:28 - The Happiness Quotient
43:27 - Why Is It Such An Emotional Topic?
45:06 - Regret
51:45 - What Are Her Husband's Feelings?
55:06 - The State Of The World
1:01:54 - Are We Overthinking This?
1:04:52 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:27 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 4
2:36 - Episode 4 Kick-Off
8:13 - France!!!
11:37 - 1-On-1 Dates
27:12 - Gabby's Group Date
35:22 - Rachel Confronts Her Guys
38:57 - Rachel's Group Date
49:36 - Logan
50:00 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
1:00:24 - Rose Ceremony
1:02:19 - Andy's A-Game
1:03:42 - Shandy Word Watch
1:05:02 - Predictions: Gabby
1:07:08 - Predictions: Rachel
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a woman is open to dating older, what should that actual bracket be on the apps? If a guy won't let you see his place, is that a red flag? And how does Sharleen really feel about Andy's white V-neck uniform? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Q1: What Should Be My "Max" Age When Dating Online?
12:08 - Q2: My Boyfriend Won't Let Me Visit His Apartment—Is He Hiding Something?
26:35 - Q3: "Can Flatulence Portend The Waning Of Sexual Attraction?"
45:37 - Q4: Shandy's Thoughts On A Woman Accompanying Her Boyfriend Engagement Ring Shopping?
56:20 - Q5: How Does Sharleen Feel About Andy's White V-Neck Uniform? And Does Andy's Age Beliefs Apply To Women In Their 70s?
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.
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0:00 - Housekeeping
2:42 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 3
4:31 - Episode 3 Kick-Off
6:32 - Zach's 1-On-1 With Rachel
15:06 - Matt White (Platinum Package)
16:10 - Zach's Date, Resumed
22:29 - Erich's 1-On-1 With Gabby
34:35 - Group Date
51:08 - The Next Day
56:23 - Rose Ceremony
1:04:36 - Credits
1:05:02 - Andy's A-Game...?
1:05:54 - Shandy Word Watch
1:07:11 - Predictions: Gabby
1:08:31 - Predictions: Rachel
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Abigail Heringer (The Bachelor, Season 25) and Noah Erb (The Bachelorette, Season 16), who you saw meet and date on Bachelor In Paradise, Season 7! They share the behind-the-scenes we didn't see on Paradise, when and how Noah reached back out to Abigail post-filming, how they complement each other today, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Abigail And Noah!
1:57 - Did They Watch Each Other's Seasons and First Impressions
6:31 - How First Impressions Have Changed
9:41 - How They Complement Each Other
14:01 - The Biggest Misconceptions About Their Relationship
18:27 - Had They Not Broken Up On Camera, Would Their Edit Have Played Out Differently?
22:38 - Early Hurdle
25:15 - How Long After The Show Did They Get Back Together?
30:12 - How They Fight
39:36 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed
45:21 - The Newlyweds Game
1:04:50 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.
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0:00 - Housekeeping
4:00 - Episode 2 Kick-Off
5:39 - Group Date/"Pageant Of Sorts"
9:15 - Evening
14:12 - Jordan V's 1-On-1 With Rachel
20:27 - Evening
25:46 - Nate's 1-On-1 With Gabby
28:12 - Evening
32:12 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
34:29 - Chris
42:43 - Rose Ceremony
45:21 - Andy's A-Game
46:04 - Shandy Word Watch
48:56 - Predictions: Gabby
52:20 - Andy's A-Game Revisited
54:05 - Predictions: Rachel
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It's a 2-for-1 Caller Day! Today's first caller, Nicki, is in the thick of wedding planning, and while she and her fiancé agree on just about everything, they don't see eye to eye on wedding vows. He wants to opt out of writing them at all. Should she insist or prioritize his comfort zone?
Our second caller, Kate, finds herself involved in a confusing "friendship", years after extricating herself from the emotionally manipulative ex they have in common. How should she handle this relationship, and should she be concerned by the old emotions that still seem to linger? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Welcome To Caller Nicki!
23:35 - Shandy Debrief
32:00 - Welcome To Caller Kate!
1:04:06 - Shandy Debrief
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere.
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0:00 - Housekeeping
2:42 - Overall Thoughts
9:08 - Intro Videos (Or Lack Therof)
9:58 - Opening
13:46 - Night One
19:36 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails
26:13 - Notable 1-On-1 Time
41:10 - First Impression Roses
42:25 - Eliminations
50:39 - Rose Ceremony
52:33 - Credits
53:04 - Andy's A-Game (New Segment!)
55:23 - Shandy Word Watch
57:49 - Predictions: Gabby
1:06:02 - Wild Cards: Gabby
1:07:21 - Predictions: Rachel
1:12:50 - Wild Cards: Rachel
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a dealbreaker if a guy asks you to Venmo him for your first date together? Is it reasonable to expect your date to be as invested in safe sex as you are? Where's the line between sharing the laughs and respecting your partner? Finally, a beautiful letter written by a Shandy. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Q1: My Date Asked Me To Venmo Him Back For Our First Date—Is This Weird?
11:40 - Q2: How Can I Make Sure HIs Parents Like Me?
24:50 - Q3: I'm East Asian And My New Guy Has A History Of Mainly Dating East Asians—Am I Being Fetishized?
38:18 - Q4: Is It Reasonable In A New Relationship To Expect Both Partners To Make An Equal Effort In Protection?
56:37 - Q5: My Boyfriend's Upset I Shared His "Personal Medical Information" With Our Friends—Am I The Asshole?
1:09:49 - A Shandy's Letter
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It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Emily, is at her wit's end. Her boyfriend still lives with his ex, and while he has his reasons, she's wondering how patient she should be. At what point is having empathy detrimental to our own selves, and is this relationship automatically doomed by its rocky start? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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This is Sharleen's all-time favorite Hot Topic conversation. You will probably also learn more about Andy's mind and thought process here than in any other episode Shandy's ever done.
Are you deeply moved by sad music? Do you find comfort in a rainy day? Does the word "poignant" resonate with you? If you answered "yes" to these, you just may be the Bittersweet type. (Spoiler alert: so are both Sharleen and Andy!) According to our esteemed guest, author Susan Cain: "Bittersweetness is a tendency to states of longing, poignancy, and sorrow; an acute awareness of passing time; and a curiously piercing joy at the beauty of the world." She argues there's great power in the bittersweet outlook on life and why our society has been so blind to its value. We discuss everything from being inherently melancholic in a happiness-obsessed culture, to navigating being a Bittersweet type's partner, to several existential questions of Andy's.
To say this episode was a highlight of Shandy's near two years of podcasting is an understatement. And be sure to listen to the Shandy Debrief to understand why speaking with Susan meant so much to Sharleen!
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0:00 - Welcome To Our Esteemed Guest, Author Susan Cain!
3:21 - What Does “Bittersweet” Mean?
4:35 - What Strengths And Weaknesses Do Bittersweets Have And How Do Those Play Out In Relationships?
6:56 - Advice For Non-Bittersweets In Relationships With Bittersweets?
9:50 - Is There A Correlation Between Bittersweetness And Introversion?
11:24 - Sad Songs And Lullabies And Fragility And Mortality
21:35 - Are Some People More Predisposed To Melancholy And Is It Cultural?
26:41 - Is Sadness More Potent An Emotion Than Happiness Or Contentment?
29:27 - Is There A Correlation Between Bittersweetness And Intelligence?
31:37 - Is It Possible To Be Truly Happy And A Great Artist?
33:55 - Are We Sadder Than We Would Be If We Weren’t In A Happiness-Obsessed Society?
35:53 - What Might Bittersweetness Or Melancholy Actually Be Depression?
38:14 - How Can One Overcome The Fear Of Joy When Joy Is Fleeting And The Loss Of Joy Hurts More Than Joy Itself?
40:22 - Is It Possible To Let Go Of All Of Life’s What-Ifs?
42:00 - Is Ignorance Of The Bittersweet Bliss, Or Is Bliss Discovered Through The Bittersweet?
43:57 - Without Death, Would There Be Human Motivation To Do Anything Ambitious?
45:29 - Andy’s Dark “Would You Rather” Question
52:14 - Awareness Versus Acceptance Of Importance
54:13 - Is One Of The Reasons For Today’s Prevalence Of Mental Health Issues Because Parents Are Not Giving Children A Proper Version Of Reality?
57:46 - Her Advice For Finding Purpose And Motivation After A Long Period Of Sadness
1:00:05- From A Shandy: “I Feel The Most Sadness After I Make A Big Life Decision, Even When I know It’s The Right Choice. Why Is This?”
1:03:49 - Tips For How To Not Absorb Others’ Grief
1:05:14 - Another Existential Question Of Andy’s
1:08:50 - Shandy’s Final And Self-Indulgent Question
1:13:10 - Shandy Debrief
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you like the guy but not his style, is it superficial to want to change it? Andy has long said the "maturity threshold" for men is age 36—does he have an age equivalent for women? And is refusing to go down on your partner a potential dealbreaker in the world of dating? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Q1: What Is The Straight Woman's Equivalent To Andy's "You're Not A Mature Man Until Age 36"?
11:12 - Q2: When Can I Tell My Friend She Sucks At Dating?
26:44 - Q3: I Have Zero Interest In Giving A Blowjob—Shandy's Thoughts?
39:59 - Q4: I Was A Covid Bride And Can't Decide If We Should Have A Wedding Do-Over—Shandy's Thoughts?
54:51 - Q5: I Like My New Guy But I Hate His Style—Am I Superficial For Wanting To Change It?
1:01:16 - Q6: My Husband And I Squabble Over The Fact That I Don't Like Hanging With His Friend—Thoughts?
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by a true ambassador for body positivity, Sarah Nicole Landry, and her partner in crime, her husband Shane Landry.
You already know Sarah from her massive The Birds Papaya empire, spanning her Instagram, blog, app, and podcast, and we're thrilled Shane agreed to join so we could talk the dynamics of their partnership in true Shandy fashion! We learn about their "high school"-like courtship, how parenting four (yes, FOUR!) children affects their relationship, how their prior divorces influenced their mindset in dating, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Newlyweds Game outcome we were not expecting! Who knows who better? Listen on to find out!
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0:00 - Welcome To Sarah And Shane!
3:12 - How They Met
6:01 - First Impressions
20:30 - How They Complement Each Other
25:57 - Early Hurdle
31:42 - Jealousy
36:37 - Divorce
46:35 - How They Fight
59:40 - How Parenthood Plays Into Their Partnership & How Shane Grew Into Being A Father Figure To Sarah's First 3 Children
1:06:11 - The Newlyweds Game
1:16:36 - Shandy Debrief
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And just like that... it's Caller Day again! Today's lovely caller, Taylor, was in a passionate romance that felt like The One. But when she confronted her partner about something that made her uncomfortable, things unraveled pretty quickly. Who was in the right, and did she overreact or execute poorly? And looking bigger picture, was this relationship always doomed? Listen on for the Shandy take!
0:00 - Welcome to Caller Taylor!
45:50 - Shandy Debrief
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Today we have the pleasure of speaking with Blair, the “exvangelical” brains behind @TalkPurityToMe, a humorous account dedicated to unlearning the shame taught by purity culture, both on Instagram and TikTok. Purity culture, based on the belief that sex should be had only within heterosexual marriage and that all lustful thoughts before marriage are sinful, has been a theme among our Shandies' questions, so we're excited to finally have a conversation on the topic.
With Blair's help, we unpack everything from how to go from sex being bad to suddenly a beautiful part of marriage, navigating judgment from friends and family, and the ways in which purity culture resembles abuse. If you're currently struggling to shed the shame "purity" has cursed you with, or if you experience shame but aren't exactly sure where it comes from, today's conversation just might be for you.
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0:00 - Welcome to Talk Purity To Me's Blair!
2:52 - Defining Purity Culture
4:54 - Blair's History With Purity Culture
10:10 - How Far Into Her Own "Deconstruction Process" Is She And Does She Still Struggle?
13:12 - Her First Sexual Experience
14:04 - What Inspired Her To Start An Account Dedicated To Unlearning Purity Culture?
15:35 - How Have Her Family And Friends Reacted?
20:39 - What Are The Most Common Themes She's Seen In Terms Of The Damage Purity Culture Can Cause?
23:52 - Has She Found A Stronger Response From A Particular Age Range?
24:14 - Have Any Responses She's Gotten Taken Her By Surprise?
25:48 - Are There Any Less Obvious Ways She Thinks Purity Culture Manifests?
27:05 - Tips For Shedding The Deeply Ingrained Mindset That Sex = Shame
29:17 - Do People Who Leave Purity Culture Tend To Swing In The Opposite Direction?
32:21 - Tips For Being More Open-Minded Sexually
35:53 - What Advice Would She Give To Someone Staying With Their First Sexual Partner Solely Due To Their History With Purity Culture?
40:28 - Tips For Trusting Your Intuition/Hearing That Inner Voice
42:06 - Was There A Pivotal Moment That Changed Her Mindset?
49:03 - Her Advice To Anyone Wanting To Go On Their Own "Deconstruction" Journey While Maintaining Meaningful Relationships With Loved Ones
51:30 - What Is Her Relationship With Christianity Like Today?
56:24 - Does She Think There's A Correlation Between Being Raised In Purity Culture And Difficulty Orgasming?
57:24 - Does She Consider Purity Culture A Form Of Abuse?
59:02 - Does It Ever Get Better?
1:01:07 - Shandy Debrief
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does "The Ick" speak to good instincts or just being overly picky? Should we trust that if a man wants to make a move, he will? Is sending an ex a letter always a bad call or are there exceptions? Finally, a great "Am I An Asshole?" question. (Turns out we like those!) Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Q1: I Always Seem To Catch The "Ick" From My Dates—Am I Being Too Picky?
18:31 - Q2: Is "If He Wanted To, He Would?" Always True?
33:08 - Q3: My Engagement Ended Recently And I Want To Send My Ex A Letter—Yay or Nay?
57:32 - Q4: I'm Dating A Guy My Girlfriend Introduced Me To And She Doesn't Speak To Me Anymore—What's Shandy's Take?
1:18:25 - Q5: To Kill Or Not To Kill?
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by a Bachelor Nation icon, Courtney Robertson Preciado, and her husband, Humberto Preciado!
You certainly know Courtney as the winner of season 16 of The Bachelor (and the New York Times Bestselling Author of her subsequent tell-all, "I Didn't Come Here To Make Friends") and we're thrilled Humberto agreed to join for his first ever pod appearance! These lovely parents struggled finding a sitter for their 5 month old daughter, Paloma, so we get a very cute cameo partway through. :)
Today we learn how meeting in your 30s just may be reflected in a relationship, how Courtney and Humberto feel parenthood has affected their bond, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a tight race of a Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Listen on to find out!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome to Courtney and Humberto!
2:06 - How They Met
10:23 - First Impressions
15:56 - How They Complement Each Other
21:53 - Early Hurdles
26:13 - Andy Has Some Questions
27:28 - How They Fight
31:27 - How Parenthood Has Affected Their Partnership
36:57 - What's Different About This Relationship Versus Past Ones?
40:20 - Has Humberto Seen Courtney's Bachelor Season?
49:29 - Relationship Beliefs That Have Changed
54:05 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game
1:08:49 - Shandy Debrief
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Today's guest, Allison Raskin, is a New York Times best selling author and mental health advocate. Her 3rd and latest book, “Overthinking About You: Navigating Romantic Relationships When You Have Anxiety, OCD, and/or Depression” just came out on Tuesday (May 3). When we polled you, our Shandies, over on Instagram about this topic, the floodgates of messages and emails opened, so we do our best to cover the most common themes today, including when to reveal your mental health struggles in a new relationship, how to communicate your needs (and what to leave out), and how to tell the difference between your anxiety and your gut instincts. If you've ever found yourself obsessively agonizing over whether or not someone's right for you, today's conversation just might be for you.
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0:00 - Welcome To Allison Raskin!
5:19 - When Should One Share Their Mental Health Struggles With Someone They're Dating?
9:32 - The Difference Between Process And Content—How Much Should You Share?
15:43 - Where's The Line Between Unnecessary Anxiety And Listening To Your Gut?
17:28 - Attraction
21:24 - How To Combat A Lifetime Of Being Told What A "Right" Relationship Looks Like
25:21 - What If Your Partner Doesn't Know How To Help Or Understand?
28:35 - Thoughts On If One's Partner (Or Partner-To-Be) Expresses Hesitation Because Of Their OCD?
36:01 - How To Prevent Your Partner From Eventually Taking Things Personally?
39:58 - Must One Have Their Mental Health Struggles Under Control Before Dating?
41:40 - Tips For Navigating Dating When It's A Cause Of Anxiety
48:16 - What To Do If Your Partner Refuses To Help Themself?
51:43 - Advice For Couples Where Both Parties Are Struggling Individually
53:34 - Medication
57:31 - What's The Gold Star Response To Give When Your Partner Opens Up About Their Struggles To You?
58:49 - Shandy Debrief
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It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Kelsey, introduces us to a popular new term (Platonic Life Partner, or "PLP"), redefining what one's "soulmate" might look like. But Kelsey also has quite the conundrum: she has developed romantic feelings for her PLP. Are these feelings real and should she act on them, even at the risk of the special platonic bond and partnership they've developed? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Welcome to Caller Kelsey!
52:06 - Shandy Debrief
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it wrong to fantasize about other people if you're in a committed and happy partnership? If you find someone great but just can't come to find them attractive, is that worth ending things over? And just how important does Shandy find sleep compatibility? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Q1: I'm Happily Married But Fantasize About Someone From The Gym—Help!
6:45 - Q2: Should I Tell My Friend That I Slept With Our Mutual Friend?
23:08 - Q3: My Boyfriend Talks In His Sleep And It's Affecting My Ability To Function By Day—Help!
33:12 - Q4: My Crush Is In A Relationship With A Clear Expiration Date And He's Already Emotionally Cheated With Me—Thoughts On Possibly Being The Other Woman?
56:03 - Q5: I've Been Seeing An Amazing Guy But Just Can't Find Him Attractive—Should I End It?
1:08:28 - Q6: My Boyfriend Won't Sell The Ring From His Former Engagement—Thoughts?
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's couple has been hotly requested for so many months, it's about time we brought them into the Shandy fold for a double date!
Dave Neal, standup comedian and host of the wildly popular Bachelor Nation News Youtube channel, and his fiancée, blogger Tasha Courtney, join us to chat. We learn about the long journey that led to their courtship (complete with a grand gesture or two), how their first impressions have changed, how they navigate working together, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game with the most shocking score to date. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Blog: https://www.wearetadatravels.com
0:00 - Welcome to Dave and Tasha!
5:17 - How They Met
23:33 - First Impressions And If/How Those Have Changed
28:00 - What Is Different About This Relationship Versus Previous Ones?
30:13 - How Do They Fight?
34:38 - How Do They Navigate Working Together?
36:42 - How Involved Is Tasha In Dave's Bachelor Empire?
41:31 - Is Tasha Surprised By Dave's Youtube Success?
49:16 - Any Beliefs About Relationships That Have Been Changed By This One?
56:04 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game
1:09:13 - Shandy Debrief
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Today's lovely guest, Nicole Sodoma, is a seasoned divorce attorney of over two decades and the managing principal at Sodoma Law, based in Charlotte NC. Her debut book, "Please Don't Say You're Sorry: An Empowering Perspective on Marriage, Separation, and Divorce from a Marriage-Loving Divorce Attorney" will be released on May 24. She has also been through a divorce of her own, so needless to say, she's beyond qualified for today's "Confessions" episode! Nicole answers all of YOUR burning questions, and our conversation covers everything from her personal observations to (oftentimes surprising) divorce stats to invaluable life advice.
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Time Stamps
3:57 - Did She Always Want To Be A Divorce Attorney?
5:41 - If She Could Go Back In Time And Do Something Else, What Would It Be?
8:54 - Is Divorce One Of The Most Expensive Things In The World?
13:40 - What's The Average Time A Divorce Takes From Beginning To End?
16:32 - If You Get Married In One State But Reside In Another, Which State's Divorce Laws Apply?
17:22 - What Percentage Of The Divorces She's Dealt With Had Prenups? (Are Prenups In And Of Themselves An Indicator For Separation?)
23:50 - What Are The Top 3 Reasons She Sees For Divorce?
26:16 - What Percentage Of Divorces Are Amicable Versus Contentious?
29:53 - What's The Most Common Thing Couples Fight Over, And What's The Most Shocking Thing She's Seen A Couple Fight Over?
32:46 - Do Couples Ever Not Fight Over Custody?
36:35 - What Percentage Of Couples Who Make It To Her Office End Up Not Going Through With It?
38:10 - What's The Most Romantic Thing She's Ever Seen During A Divorce?
39:14 - How Is Debt Calculated?
42:32 - What Are Her General Thoughts On Prenups?
52:50 - How Many Years Into Marriage Are The Most Common For Divorce?
54:39 - What Are The Most Common Ages She Sees?
56:04 - What Are Some Things She Wishes Couples Would Consider Before Marriage?
59:08 - Did She Represent Herself In Her Own Divorce?
59:59 - What Are Some Red Flags She Wishes People Would Look Out For?
1:01:34 - Let's Say You Know It's Over—What Are The Best First Steps?
1:04:17 - What Advice Would You Give To Someone Going Through A Divorce Right Now?
1:06:02 - Is Marriage Worth The Risk?
1:07:42 - Shandy Debrief
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It's Caller Day! Today's call will likely be very relatable for those dating out there. Today we're joined by Lauren, a young single mom who knows what she wants and has been crystal clear in what she's looking for. However, the guy in question says one thing and does another. Is this a dealbreaker? And how much does "double dipping" affect things? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Welcome to Caller Lauren!
52:06 - Shandy Debrief
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How should you proceed if you love your partner but not his very frequent, very loud hobby? Why do guys stop trying when they get the girl? And what are Shandy's thoughts on the woman proposing to the man? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Q1: Why Do Men Stop Trying When They Get The Girl?
13:42 - Q2: I Want To Ask A Semi-Celebrity Out Via DM—Any Tips?
27:23 - Q3: I'm A Woman And Am Considering Being The One To Propose To My Boyfriend—Thoughts?
39:09 - Q4: I Have A Crush On My Manager—How Should I Make A Move Or Is It Too Risky?
50:27 - Q5: I Love My Fiancé But Can't Stand His Constant Singing—What Should I Do?
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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand finale.
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0:00 - Housekeeping
04:09 - Overall Thoughts On The Finale
04:26 - Finale Part 1 Kick Off
7:41 - The Rose Ceremony From Hell
33:37 - Clayton's Family
35:35 - Gabby Meets Clayton's Family
36:23 - Rachel Meets Clayton's Family
47:41 - Finale Part 2 Kick Off
52:06 - Susie
56:15 - The Breakup
1:05:21 - Live: Gabby
1:10:46 - The Breakup, Continued
1:13:45 - Live: Rachel
1:20:28 - The Show Resumes
1:21:41 - In The Countryside
1:25:29 - After The Final Rose
1:27:56 - Next Bachelorette
1:29:44 - Overall Thoughts
1:32:59 - Recapping Our Original Predictions
1:34:54 - Shandy Word Watch
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Parasocial relationships are defined as one-sided relationships, where one person extends emotional energy, interest and time, and the other party, the persona, is completely unaware of the other’s existence.
Have you ever wondered how the celebrity in this situation, or the "persona", feels about this dynamic? Today we're joined by accomplished actor, writer, and Youtuber Josh Peck, to chat how it feels to be on the other side. With 3.5 million Youtube subscribers, 7 million TikTok followers, 12.6 million Instagram followers, and having been on TV since age 10, it's safe to say Josh is on the receiving end of millions of parasocial relationships.
Can he even process that so many people caring about him or feeling like they know him? How does it feel to know he could be shaping the identities of so many? And does he ever feel a reverse dynamic, where he feels attached to his fans or even betrayed by them? Listen on for a fascinating discussion about human nature, our relationship with ourselves, and the strange dynamic that is parasocial relationships.
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It's Caller Day! Today's is Andy's all-time favorite call. We're joined by Fiona, who is in a one year old relationship. As things have become long distance she finds herself and her partner fighting more than usual. However, the more questions we asked, the more we learned there's more to her story and her reservations. Listen on for the Shandy take!
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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down Overnights.
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0:00 - Housekeeping
2:53 - Women Tell All
4:31 - Cassidy
6:54 - Shanae
14:27 - Sarah
17:30 - Teddi
20:40 - Serene
22:33 - Clayton
29:39 - Bloopers
30:00 - Jesse's Season Recap
34:34 - Episode 9 Kick Off
37:51 - Rachel's Overnight
48:12 - Gabby's Overnight
57:27 - Susie
1:34:26 - Credits
1:35:29 - Shandy Word Watch
1:36:47 - Shandy's Predictions
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After Our Wedding Story episode, we were overwhelmed by follow-up questions. We asked if you wanted a Part 2 and you said yes! So, combining your emails, comments, DMs, and Instagram poll questions, here are our answers!
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0:00 - Introduction
1:58 - Who Was At Our City Hall Wedding?
6:47 - What Was The City Hall Process Like?
8:38 - Did Anyone Give Us a Hard Time For Doing City Hall Initially?
9:16 - Thoughts On First Look Versus Waiting Until The Aisle?
10:54 - Did Either Of Us Have Last Minute Jitters/Cold Feet?
17:59 - Advice On Plus-Ones? And What About Kids?
23:25 - Did You Take It Personally If Someone Did Not Come?
27:05 - What Was Our First Dance Song?
29:14 - Did We Do A Choreographed Dance?
32:03 - Did We Drink?
35:19 - Thoughts On Guests Who Only Attend The Reception?
41:13 - How Did You Pick Your Photographer?
50:28 - How Did You Pick Your Wedding Party?
58:06 - How Can We Have Energy For The Bedroom That Night?
59:43 - Did Either Of Us Experience Guilt Trips From Our Families During Planning?
1:02:16 - What Did We Do For A Gift Registry?
1:03:37 - Did We Have A Honeymoon?
1:04:11 - What Did Guests Compliment The Most?
1:04:21 - What's Something You Wish You'd Had On Hand?
1:04:39 - If You Could Have A Do Over, Would You Do Anything Differently?
1:05:35 - Which Anniversary Do You Celebrate?
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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down Hometown week.
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0:00 - Housekeeping
0:34 - Overall Thoughts on Episode 8
2:13 - Susie's Hometown
11:34 - Gabby's Hometown
32:43 - Serene's Hometown
52:46 - Rachel's Hometown
1:07:56 - Back In Los Angeles
1:08:52 - Rose Ceremony
1:09:57 - Shandy Word Watch
1:12:30 - Shandy's Predictions
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there ever a case to be made for keeping the engagement ring after the relationship ends? Is a DWI an absolute dealbreaker, or should one focus instead on the honesty in revealing it? And is it cause for concern if your new boyfriend reveals he misses his ex's family? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
0:00 - Q1: After A Broken Engagement, Should The Woman Always Return The Ring, Regardless Of Circumstance?
6:40 - Q2: Is A Recent DWI A Dealbreaker?
18:01 - Q3: Should I Still Make The Guy Chase If The First "Date" Was Virtual?
39:10 - Q4: I've Been With My Partner For 11 Years But Still Wonder About Our Mutual Friend With Whom I've Had An Emotional Affair
56:42 - Q5: My New Boyfriend Is 6 Months Out Of A 6-Year Relationship And Has Expressed Missing Parts Of That Life—Should I Be Concerned?
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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode7.
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0:00 - Housekeeping
2:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 7
3:12 - Episode 7 Kick Off
6:08 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
12:54 - Rose Ceremony
15:45 - Vienna, Austria
20:52 - Susie's 1-On-1
27:02 - Group Date
56:58 - Serene's 1-On-1
1:01:44 - Rose Ceremony
1:04:43 - Shandy Word Watch
1:06:30 - Shandy's Predictions
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Bachelor Nation's most iconic women, Krystal Nielson and her partner, Miles Bowles!
You may remember Krystal from Arie's season of The Bachelor and season 5 of Bachelor In Paradise. We learn how Krystal and Miles balance each other out, how parenthood has changed their lifestyle, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game with questionable scoring but sufficient entertainment to make it A-OK. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.
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0:00 - Housekeeping
2:29 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 6
5:29 - Episode 6 Kick Off (2-On-1 Date Resumes)
25:02 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
30:19 - Rose Ceremony
32:39 - Hvar, Croatia
35:42 - Teddi's 1-On-1
42:40 - Group Date
55:43 - The Clocktower "Date Card"
57:51 - The Next Day
59:46 - Sarah's "1-On-1"
1:06:38 - Credits
1:07:23 - Shandy Word Watch
1:09:24 - Shandy's Predictions
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Anna, newly single and looking to mingle. Her casual fling was great while it lasted, but things have taken a turn. Does this guy think he played a role in her career-driven move? Watch on for the Shandy take!
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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.
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0:00 - Housekeeping
1:25 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 5
2:18 - Episode 5 Kick Off
5:10 - Serene's 1-On-1
15:37 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
34:44 - Rose Ceremony
36:04 - They're Going To Toronto!
36:51 - Toronto
39:46 - Gabby's 1-On-1
48:19 - Group Date
1:04:07 - 2-On-1 Date
1:05:15 - Shandy Word Watch
1:06:47 - Shandy's Predictions
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Are you waiting for The One to finally begin living your life? Or are you in a partnership so comfy you've lost sight of your own individuality? Today we're joined by John Kim, aka The Angry Therapist, to discuss how singledom is more opportunity than pitfall.
John Kim is a licensed marriage and family therapist, life coach, best-selling author, and host of The Angry Therapist podcast. His latest book, Single. On Purpose. helps you prioritize your relationship with yourself, with or without a partner, and is available now.
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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.
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0:00 - Housekeeping
0:53 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 4
2:28 - Episode 4 Kick-Off
3:18 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
21:43 - Rose Ceremony
34:09 - Rachel’s 1-On-1
47:39 - The Next Day
50:14 - Group Date
1:02:06 - Credits
1:04:33 - Shandy Word Watch
1:07:01 - Shandy’s Predictions
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If the guy you're into goes radio silent, is is possible to salvage things? Is it possible a few years of experience could turn an ex from a bad lover into a good one? And what are Shandy's thoughts on a sexless marriage of 8 years? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Q1: I'm 23 And Stuck In A Cycle Of Situationships—Should I Take Myself Off The Market For Now?
12:21 - Q2: My Crush Has Gone Radio Silent—What's My Next Move?
25:36 - Q3: I Have Anxiety Over Interacting With My Ex-Best Friend At An Upcoming Wedding—Am I Overreacting?
33:14 - Q4: I Have Been In A Sexless Marriage For 8 Years—Give Me Guidance!
55:01 - Q5: My Longtime Friend And Ex Was Bad In Bed Then But It's Been Years—Is It Worth Risking The Friendship To Pursue Romance Again?
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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.
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0:00 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 3
1:18 - Cassidy's FWB-Gate, Continued
15:59 - Rose Ceremony
26:06 - Group Date #1
35:52 - Sarah's 1-On-1
58:21 - Group Date #2
1:13:53 - Shandy Word Watch
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Sharleen's closest Bachelor Nation friends, Jacqueline Trumbull, and her fiancé Paul Seli!
You may remember Jacqueline from Arie's season, where she, like Sharleen, withdrew in Week 7. She and Paul are both in psychology (Jacqueline is a PhD student at Duke University, where Paul is a professor of Psychology and Neuroscience), so needless to say, there's fun analysis of relationship dynamics in today's conversation. We learn how Paul overcame jealousy in the early stages, how their psychology backgrounds play a role in their relationship, and their thoughts on The One. Finally, a real nail-biter of a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers. Our first caller, Lisa, is in the very early stages of dating a guy who seems accompanied by red flags. Should she end things before she gets invested, or is it too soon to throw away the first "butterflies" she's felt in awhile? Our second caller, Danielle, is an introvert in a relationship with a full-blown extrovert, and she feels their differences in this regard could be causing a red flag. Should she attempt change her ways or does this speak to a deeper problem? Watch on for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Welcome to caller Lisa!
34:42 - Shandy Takeaways
42:56 - Welcome to caller Danielle!
1:09:20 - Shandy Takeaways
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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.
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0:00 - Housekeeping
1:20 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 2
2:34 - Episode 2 Kick Off
5:50 - Group Date #1
31:15 - Susie's 1-On-1
37:08 - Group Date #2
54:24 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
1:07:53 - Shandy Word Watch
1:10:10 - Shandy's Predictions
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there such a thing as the "right" number of dates in the early stages? What does it mean when a coworker flirts but never makes a move? And how can we protect a new relationship from growing annoyances? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
Q1: In The Early Stages, How Many Dates A Week Is "Normal"?
Q2: I'm Interested In The Housemate Of A Guy Friend I Used To Date—How Should I Proceed?
Q3: My Coworker Is Very Flirty But Never Asks Me Out! How Do I Get Him To Make An Actual Move?
Q4: My Ex-Fiancée Broke My Heart But Is Still Keeping Tabs On Me Online—Can I Reopen The Lines Of Communication?
Q5: My Partner Has A Very Annoying Habit—Help!
Referenced book:
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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere.
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0:00 - Housekeeping
1:55 - Overall Thoughts On Clayton's Season Premiere
2:42 - Clayton Surprises His Mom
7:14 - Jesse Palmer
8:13 - Getting To Know Clayton
11:46 - Intro Videos
20:34 - Salley
26:39 - Andy's Burning Question
28:53 - Shandy's Limo Exit Wins And Fails
36:11 - Clayton's Toast
36:54 - Notable 1-On-1 Time
53:05 - First Impression Rose
53:57 - Rose Ceremony
56:37 - Shandy Word Watch
58:53 - Shandy's Predictions
1:04:42 - Wild Cards
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In keeping with tradition, we're doing something a little different to ring in the New Year. This topic has been requested for awhile now, so today, inspired by Episode 1 (How We Met) and Episode 21 (Our Proposal Story), we're doing another throwback! We're going back in time to January 2015 thru September 2017, to what happened after Andy proposed. Listen on to hear why we waited 2.5 years for a wedding, what expenses got out of hand, how "influencer"-dom played a role, "The Moment" that made it all worthwhile, and in retrospect, what we would have done differently!
0:00 - Introduction
2:35 - City Hall
5:33 - Considering A Wedding
10:23 - Choosing A Venue
14:15 - Postponing
14:54 - Deciding To Hire A Planner
15:38 - The "Influencer Wedding"
20:49 - Thoughts On Having A Planner
21:43 - The Dress
34:10 - Tasting
35:23 - The Cake
35:33 - Our Cake Topper
36:31 - The Dress, Continued
38:06 - Wedding Day
41:02 - The Big Reveal
42:37 - Our City Hall Officiant
43:57 - "The Most Important Day In Your Life"
46:03 - Wedding Day, Continued
46:47 - The Ceremony
50:11 - Cocktail Hour/Reception
50:38 - The Moment
53:50 - Wedding Favors
54:06 - Jewish Traditions
54:30 - In Retrospect: Regrets, Surprises, Things We're Happy About
1:08:48 - Overall Takeaways
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down the finale.
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're thrilled to be joined by the power couple behind The East Family Youtube and media empire, Shawn Johnson East and Andrew East! Shawn and Andrew share the behind-the-scenes of how they met, how they complement each other, their early relationship hurdles, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All.
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It's Caller Day! Today's caller, Anna, was broken up with exactly one week before this call. However, instead of being able to sever ties with her ex, she has a complicated hurdle to overcome: custody of their dog, Zeke. Should Anna honor her ex's wishes for shared custody, even if it means hindering her healing from this fresh breakup? Watch on for the Shandy take!
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All.
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Today we're diving deep into a topic you've been requesting since Dear Shandy's earliest days: Enmeshment. We're joined by psychotherapist Alyssa Mancao to define this dynamic, how to navigate it, and when and how to set boundaries. This conversation also spawns a lot of interesting tangents on subtopics ranging from culture norms to differentiating between irritation and impairment.
Alyssa Mancao is a psychotherapist and the founder of Alyssa Marie Wellness, a therapy practice in Los Angeles. She is a writer, speaker, and educator focused on Social Justice & Mental Health. Her writing has been featured in Huffington Post, Elle, Women’s Health, Oprah Magazine, and Re-Spin, among many others.
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7.
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your FWB relationship is firmly in the past, should you still tell your current partner about it? How important is it to have a social life outside of one's relationship? And how reasonable an excuse is "bad timing"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
Q1: My Partner Wants To Replace Our Planned Couple Getaway With Yet Another Annual Family Visit—Am I Being Difficult?
Q2: My Boyfriend And I Are In A Healthy Long-term Relationship But We Both Don't Have Any Close Friends—Is This Normal?
Q3: Should I Tell My New Partner About My Former Friend Group FWB?
Q4: My Boyfriend Insists That I Should Change My Name If We Get Married But I Love My Name—Thoughts?
Q5: My Ex And I Ended On Bad Terms And I Want To Tell My Story But It Involves Sharing A Secret Of His—Right Or Wrong?
Q6: The Guy I've Been Hooking Up With Blames "Timing" For Us Not Making It Official—Is This BS?
Referenced book (with the pie chart):
Breakup Bootcamp by Amy Chan - https://amzn.to/3xiCCDf
Sharleen's blog post about not changing her name:
http://www.alltheprettypandas.com/blog/2016/to-change-or-not-to-change
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season before becoming a recapper here on Dear Shandy. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Sarah Herron (who you may remember from Sean Lowe's season of The Bachelor, as well as the 1st and 3rds seasons of Bachelor In Paradise) and her fiancé, award-winning photographer and videographer Dylan Brown. These two join us from Colorado to share how first impressions may not be what they seem, how they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a neck-and-neck Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.
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It's Caller Day! Today's caller, Claire, is in a happy relationship. However, her boyfriend's sister is rude in small ways. Are these slights a matter of obliviousness, dominance, or maturity? And is confronting her the right path? Can we ever hope for genuine harmony with our partner's family? Watch on for the Shandy take!
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season before becoming a recapper here on Dear Shandy. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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Today's topic came hotly requested and we're thrilled to be joined by a familiar face: Whitney Bischoff Angel, winner of The Bachelor Season 19! As an experienced fertility nurse, as well as a woman who has gone through the egg freezing process herself, Whitney is more than qualified to answer the Shandies' burning fertility questions!
Whitney shares the leading contributing factors to infertility, whether or not the age 35 is overblown as being THE age when fertility begins to drop, the step-by-step process of egg freezing (as well as the cost!), and her thoughts on the media's messaging around fertility in general. Whitney really is a wealth of knowledge and this conversation was both so enjoyable AND informative for us. We hope you think so, too!
More Whitney Bischoff Angel
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Please note this episode contains spoilers about the next Bachelor—refer to time stamps below.
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0:00 - Episode 3 Kick-Off
1:44 - Group Date #1
27:35 - Bachelor Spoiler Warning - Skip To Next Section
28:12 - Resume Here
30:36 - Rodney's 1-on-1
45:01 - Group Date #2
49:55 - Bachelor Spoiler Warning - Skip To Next Section
50:00 - Resume Here
1:03:43 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
1:16:17 - Rose Ceremony
1:18:31 - Shandy Word Watch
1:20:43 - Shandy's Predictions
Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season before becoming a recapper here on Dear Shandy. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Why might a guy disappear after sex? If you want to rekindle with an ex, or "double dip", where's the line between following your heart and being cavalier with someone's feelings? And "number ratings": uncomfortable truth or unnecessarily cruel? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
Q1: Did He Hit It And Quit It?
Q2: The Guy I'm Seeing Rated Me A "7 Or 8"—Is He For Real?
Q3: Living Together Led To Our Breakup, But Now That He's Moved Out, I Want Him Back. Do I Have A Chance?
Q4: My Longtime Gym Crush Hasn't Made A Move—How Should I Proceed?
Q5: My Ex From Several Years Back Is Single And I Feel I've Made It Clear I'm Interested Again—Thoughts?
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season before becoming a recapper here on Dear Shandy. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
- Sharleen's Bachelor recap archives:
http://www.alltheprettypandas.com/bachelor
- Sharleen's Bachelor glossary:
http://www.alltheprettypandas.com/glossary
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 You may notice today's Love Fest is a little bit different! In honor of Andy's obsession with big waves, we're welcoming the stars of HBO's hit docuseries, 100-Foot Wave! This episode is where you'll catch Andy in a very rare state of being starstruck.
Garrett McNamara, 8-time Guinness World Record holder for largest wave ever surfed, is one of the biggest names in surfing. His wife, Nicole, is not only his manager but also a passionate environmentalist and teacher. They've been together for over 11 years and have two children with a third on the way.
Garrett and Nicole share the unique story of how they met (for context, we circle back to this topic towards the end), how they complement each other, how they "knew", and how parenthood changed their relationship. Finally, a record-shattering Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
More Garrett & Nicole
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mamaunearthed/
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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere.
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season before becoming a recapper here on Dear Shandy. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
- Sharleen's Bachelor recap archives:
http://www.alltheprettypandas.com/bachelor
- Sharleen's Bachelor glossary:
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Marcela. Marcela struggles between waiting for the light at the end of the long distance relationship tunnel, versus wanting to live life to the fullest as a single and unattached woman. Where's the line between holding out for something good and heeding FOMO's siren song? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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For anyone going through a breakup, or just anyone whose patterns around love and dating need rewiring, this episode is for you. Today's guest is the founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp, a retreat that takes a scientific and spiritual approach to healing the heart. She is also the author of the instant bestseller Breakup Bootcamp: The Science of Rewiring Your Heart. Needless to say, she knows a thing or two about breakups and how to recover from them!
Amy shares the top 3 mistakes people make when going through a breakup, the chemical reason why reaching out to an ex for "closure" will only impede your healing, her thoughts on "The One", and why we're attracted to the wrong people in the first place. She provides great tips for healing and discovery, and we promise you'll leave this episode feeling more in control of your emotions (and actions!) than when you started listening. PS—Don't miss her "breakup" with Andy!
Amy has been writing about relationships, dating and love for over a decade. She's the Editor-in-Chief of Heart Hackers Club – an online magazine that focuses on the psychology behind love, lust and desire. Her work has been featured on Good Morning America, in Vogue, Glamour, Nightline and the front page of The New York Times. Her instant bestseller, Breakup Bootcamp – The Science of Rewiring Your Heart, has been translated in five languages.
More Amy
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Her next Renew Breakup Bootcamp Retreat - https://renewbreakupbootcamp.com/retreat/
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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down the finale of season 7.
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How soon is too soon to doubt a relationship you just entered into? If your longtime friend has been neglected you for some time, should or shouldn't you attend her wedding? Are "white lies" just a matter of convenience or do they amount to red flags? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
Q1: Are Everyday Annoyances Simply A Part Of Marriage?
Q2: For Feminism Reasons, My Sister Refuses To Let Our Father Walk Her Down The Aisle On Her Wedding Day—Shandy's Thoughts?
Q3: I'm Newly Into My First Relationship But Am Already Having Doubts—Should I Stick It Out?
Q4: My Longtime Friend Has Been Distant And Unavailable And Has Now Invited Me To Her Wedding—Should I Still Go?
Q5: I've Caught My Fiancé In Multiple White Lies—How Concerned Should I Be About This?
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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 10 of season 7.
Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Sharleen's best friends from the franchise, Jasmine Lorimer, the one and only Bachelorette Canada! She and her boyfriend of nearly 2 years, Eric, join Shandy to talk first impressions, how they complement each other, how they navigate different love languages, and of course, how they FIGHT! This one's a real treat for our Canuck Shandies (especially those born in the 80s!) as the Canadian references never stop. 🇨🇦 Finally, one of the funniest Dear Shandy Newlyweds Games to date! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jasmine.lorimer
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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 9 of season 7.
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Vivian, who is in a happy relationship but with one caveat: she doesn't feel understood when it comes to their exchange of gifts. Does this speak to a greater issue? Just how important is the effort behind gift giving, and what if that effort is barely there at all? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Welcome to Caller Vivian!
14:25 - Shandy Sleuthing
53:18 - The Shandy Take
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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8 of season 7.
Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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Dear Shandy is officially 1 year old! We wanted to do something a little different to celebrate this milestone, so we asked you over on Instagram to submit your questions. Shandies, THANK YOU for a truly rewarding and enriching year of podcasting. Listen on to hear us reflect on this journey!
Sharleen's "Starting A Podcast" blog post: https://www.alltheprettypandas.com/blog/dear-shandy-podcast
Q1: A Toast To Our Shandies!
Q2: Why Did You Start A Podcast?
Q3: Who Are Your Dream Guests?
Q4: Which Are Our Favorite Episodes To Record?
Q5: What Does Andy Do? More Andy!
Q6: How Do You Two Navigate Apartment Decor?
Q7: What Have Been The Biggest Challenges In Podcasting?
Q8: Have You Ever Disagreed On An Answer And Had To Discuss Later?
Q9: Do You Prepare Your Answers To Relationship Questions?
Q10: Have You Learned Anything About Each Other Thanks To The Podcast?
Q11: How Did Sharleen Convince Andy To Do This?
Q12: Which Bachelor Couples, If Any, Have Refused To Do Love Fests?
Q13: Why Do Questions NOT Get Chosen For The Pod?
Q14: Which Caller Question Has Been The Hardest To Answer?
Q15: How Many Hujus Have You Done In Your Relationship? (Shout out to Game Of Roses!)
Q16: What Equipment Do You Use?
Q17: Have Any Questions/Calls Ever Gotten Cut And Not Aired? If So, Why?
Q18: How Much Work Is A Podcast? Doable With A Day Job?
Q19: Sharleen, Do You Miss Writing Your Recaps?
Q20: Do You Think The Pod Has Changed Your Marriage And/Or Brought You Closer?
Q21: How Do You Really Feel About Doing Ads?
Q22: Favorite And Least Favorite Episodes? Which Has Been The Most Challenging?
Q23: Do You Get Jealous Hearing About Each Other's Exes?
Q24: What Are Your Top 5 NYC Restaurants?
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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7 of season 7.
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of season 7.
Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How much should you hold out for your fairytale? How many friendships with exes is TOO many? And is it worth it to re-pursue a former high-paying career, even if it's at the cost of your partner's? This episode also features Andy's kissing tips (you do NOT want to miss these). Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of season 7.
Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of season 7.
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 We have YOU, dear Shandies, to thank for this Love Fest as you passionately requested this wonderful couple. Today we are joined by Jess Ambrose, stylist and co-host of the Chatty Broads podcast, and her husband Evan Ambrose, musician, producer, and co-host of Chatty Bros! This couple may not be directly from the Bachelor world, but they are more than qualified thanks to their famed podcast and commentary, so this marks our first foray into non-Bachelor coupledom!
Jess and Evan share the fascinating story of how they met, how a break from their relationship is what saved it, and how religion played a role in their partnership. They also talk parenthood, the ways in which they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3, season 7.
Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2, season 7.
Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by TWO callers, both of whom have meet-cute stories with guys at friends' weddings. With Nicole, we decipher a text thread, and with Leila, we discuss the importance of a meeting story. Where's the line between serendipity and forcing a square peg into a round hole? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere of season 7.
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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Have you been seeking marriage or a longterm relationship but find it eludes you? Have you ever wished someone would just give you the honest truth about what's up? Today's guest is the famed straight-shooting relationship author, Tracy McMillan. Tracy shares what she believes the single biggest mistake people make when it comes to dating, why she thinks FWB arrangements aren't a good idea, and her thoughts on masculine/feminine energy in a dating climate which, unlike a mere decade ago, forces women to pursue. Whether you're in a happy relationship (in which case I promise this will have you nodding in agreement) or you're single and looking (or not!), Tracy's perspectives on human behavior and relationships are as satisfying as they are insightful.
Tracy McMillan is a television writer, relationship author, and was a matchmaker on NBC's Ready For Love. Her viral Huffington Post article, "Why You're Not Married" is Huffington Post's most-viewed article ever (!!) and it inspired her subsequent best-selling self-help book, "Why You're Not Married... Yet". She has appeared on Oprah and Dr. Phil among many others, and her Ted Talk titled "The Person You Really Need To Marry" has over 16 million views.
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Shandy is back with your recap of the finale of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette!
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Should you tell your partner if you find yourself reminiscing about a past relationship? Does not wanting to date someone with kids mean you're just too picky? And when is it acceptable to tell a friend you think her boyfriend sucks? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 9 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette!
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's is a particularly momentous Love Fest and a Dear Shandy exclusive! Fittingly for our 1-year anniversary month and our 12th Love Fest, we are joined in person by our dear friend Nick Viall and his lovely girlfriend Natalie.
For the first time ever, Nick and Natalie share the detailed story of how they met, as well as how Natalie was a "Jedi Master" in their coming together. They also talk early stage hesitations, the ways in which they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 8 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette!
Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
It's Caller Day! Have you ever dated someone whose platonic friend(s) didn't exactly welcome you with open arms? Today's caller, Dayna, has a predicament which inadvertently touches on social dynamics when it comes to dating: jealousy, social hierarchy, a partner's say in who we spend our time with, and how friendships can change when someone in the friend group finds their Happily Ever After. Not all questions have clear answers, and while this one falls squarely into that category, we guarantee you'll relate to some part of today's conversation.
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Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 7 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette!
Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
You have asked for months for us to bring on an Astrologer and Tarot card reader, and the day has finally come! We're admittedly not big on Astrology, so to compensate for our lack of knowledge, we've brought the big guns: Expert Tarot Reader & Astrologer, Maisy Bristol!
Maisy dishes her tips for couples when Mercury is in retrograde, she reads our birth charts and corresponding compatibility, and does a tarot reading on our relationship. And though we may not be in our element with this episode, you'll definitely learn a thing or two about Shandy!
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Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 6 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Come join us to chat about Hunter, "Operation WOWO", and Connor B!
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions. In a straight yet platonic male-female friendship, how much stock should one put in flirtatiousness? How much flakiness is too much to put up with in a friend? How should one navigate dating a "fabulously wealthy" person when they are accustomed to holding their own financially? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 5 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Come join us to chat about newcomer Blake, Andrew S' long-awaited 1-on-1, Hunter versus everyone, and a whole lot of frankenbiting.
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Katie Morton (who you may remember from Colton's season of The Bachelor, as well as the 6th season of Bachelor In Paradise) and her handsome boyfriend (and pro footballer!) James Rowe. These two are the poster children for long distance and pandemic dating, and the story of how they met just might renew your faith in the elusive Meet Cute. Katie and James share how apps and Facetime have played a role in their relationship, how they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a surprising Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better?
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Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 4 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Come join us to dissect Tre vs Andrew S, new arrival Blake Moynes, and of course, THOMAS.
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Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com
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It's Caller Day! Just how many unchecked boxes are too many? Today's conversation is a doozy and covers just about everything: different religions and cultures, socioeconomic class, a parent's approval, the pandemic, self-esteem, and coming of age. Our lovely caller, Jamie, is in a happy relationship but it isn't what she'd envisioned for herself. If you've ever been in a relationship you valued but knew deep down things weren't quite right, we guarantee you will relate to the crossroads at which Jamie finds herself.
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Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 3 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Come join us to dissect Karl's behavior, the least fun Group Date of all time, Michael's 1-on-1, and of course, THOMAS.
Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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Today's Hot Topic episode is one of Sharleen's personal favorites. We're joined by the brilliant Dr. Uchenna Ossai, one of a handful of pelvic floor physical therapists in the world to also be certified in sexuality counseling. We polled you over on Instagram for your questions, and boy, you DELIVERED. Today's conversation covers everything from pain during sex, to post-natal issues, to incontinence, to orgasms (including Dr. UC's orgasm hacks!) There's something for everyone in this episode, even those with no pelvic concerns. Needless to say, the pelvic floor plays a serious role in all your down-there activity, and Dr. UC is a bottomless pit of wisdom, delivered in the most non-judgmental and positive way. Prepare to learn a lot, to have fun doing it, and to do lots and lots of kegels...
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Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 2 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Come join us to dissect Mike’s poem, Aaron versus Cody, the many kisses (good and bad), and of course, KARL.
Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 Does texting style affect our perception of a person, and how good an indicator is texting compatibility for real-life compatibility? If your current flame ended an engagement a mere 3 months before you met, and won't commit for that reason, is he just not into you or does he really just need more time? (And on that note, had Andy met Sharleen only 3 months after his ended engagement, does he think they still would have worked?) How dirty is TOO dirty for a date's home, and is an unkempt home a dealbreaker? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!"
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Ask and you shall receive! You've asked us for ages to recap The Bachelor and its spinoffs, and we're finally obliging. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down the premiere of Katie Thurston's season of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's happy couple is bonafide Bachelor royalty: Ben Higgins and his stunning fiancée, Jess Clarke! These two join us from their house in Denver, which they are currently renovating, to talk the ins and outs of their sweet relationship. We learn their first impressions of one another, the ways they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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It's Caller Day! Our caller, Maya, may be in a happy, healthy relationship, but she's at a crossroads. If you've ever been in a longterm relationship and felt marriage should be a given, you just may relate to Maya's (all too common) situation. Just how long is too long to wait for a partner's certainty? This just might be our most heated caller conversation to date.
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Have you ever wondered what dating and relationships are like when you're a celebrity? How do famous folks meet these days, and when they do, what's different? Do they behave differently in dating than the rest of us, and do "civilians" stand a real chance with them? Our resident celeb is comedian, famed roaster, and podcast host Nikki Glaser! She is brutally honest in her assessment of dating at her (self-assessed) "B-list" level of fame, her own celebrity crushes (including some of Bachelor Nation's finest), and the do's and don'ts of sliding into the DMs of the rich and famous. In addition to being simply hilarious and her trademark unfiltered self, Nikki has poignant takes on love and "The One"—do NOT miss this one!
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 If you have a crush on someone in their workplace, is it OK to ask them out? And if so, what are Andy's tried-and-true tips for making a move? Should you put off dating until you have your ducks in a row professionally? Just how much do straight men really care about a woman's occupation and professional success? And if you've been friend-zoned, is there any hope for rekindling that romantic spark? There are some STRONG opinions shared in this Q&A sesh—come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!"
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Sydney Lotuaco (who you may remember from Colton's season of The Bachelor) and her sweet boyfriend, Nick Wehby. These two have a particularly unique meeting story that just might renew your faith in pandemic dating. Sydney and Nick share how the pandemic played a role in getting to truly know one another, how they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Nick also graciously shares a powerful story that transformed his view on life. Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Does being one of our "younger" couples work for or against these two?
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It's Caller Day! Our caller, Kate, has a unique predicament that veers into discussions about mismatched Love Languages and our cultural expectations surrounding proposals. How much does a formal "Will you marry me" really matter, and does a man's reticence to deliver on this gender role tradition speak to a deeper problem?
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Have you ever watched a reality TV dating show and wondered what that poker-faced host is REALLY thinking? As Temptation Island fans and general admirers of its host Mark L Walberg's piercing commentary, we're thrilled he agreed to join us for a Confessions episode! Temptation Island brings on four straight real-life couples who are at crossroads in their relationships, separates them for a month, and has them live with (very forward) straight singles of the opposite sex. It originally debuted in 2001, at the start of the reality TV boom, and was rebooted in 2019.
As the host of a show with an obviously controversial concept, how does Mark navigate the usual trappings of reality TV "trash"? Does he make his own personal predictions about the couples and their outcomes? Does he pick favorites among them? How much does he really know when heading into a "bonfire"? How has Mark's own marriage informed his ability to spot and call out destructive relationship behavior? Mark is a very open and endearingly honest guest, and whether or not you're a fan of Temptation Island, his perspectives on relationships, love, and life are worth listening to.
In case you're interested in dipping your toe into Temptation Island, Sharleen's favorite season is Season 4 (or Season 1 of the reboot), and Andy's is Season 5 (or Season 2 of the reboot).
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 How normal are growing pains when you and your partner first live together, and is it too harsh to deem your partner's living habits unattractive? If you think you're falling for your soon-to-be-roommate—who also happens to be 6 years younger than you—should you explore this or let it go? If you're "cloaked" by someone on a dating app, even after making plans, should you call out their rude behavior?
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's happy couple is downright iconic in Bachelor Nation: Desiree and Chris Siegfried! We recorded this after they were able to put their boys to bed on the West Coast, which resulted in a very late night and thus very delirious/loopy/giggly chat. Truthfully, this couple exceeded every (already high) expectation: they're refreshingly real and down-to-earth, and simply fun to hang out with. They share how they complement each other, how kids have transformed their relationship, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a particularly amusing Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better?
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It's Caller Day! Our caller, Elise, has a predicament that might resonate if you've ever lusted after a close friend. If you found yourself in love with your close friend-turned-roommate, what would you do? What if said roommate had a longterm girlfriend, yet simultaneously seemed to reciprocate your affections? Today's call went in a different direction than originally expected, which really shows the difference between a written email and a true conversation.
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Today we're joined by licensed family and marriage therapist, Elizabeth Earnshaw! There's something for everyone in this episode: If you're either single or in a happy relationship, but you're simply curious what a LFMT encounters in her office, the first half (our "Confessions" segment) is for you! If you have concerns about your own partnership (or your in-laws!) and want to hear a professional's take on our listeners' most frequently asked questions, the second half is for you. There are many helpful lessons in this episode, some of which might catch you by surprise...
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 Is it really a MUST that you and your partner live together before getting married? Just how important is a shared sense of humor in a forever relationship? Which famed statement is more true: "Absence makes the heart grow fonder", or "Out of sight, out of mind"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's happy couple requires no introduction: Kaitlyn Bristowe and Jason Tartick! We had high expectations for this "double date" and Jaitlyn did not disappoint. They share their first impressions of each other (and how those have changed), how they complement each other, what early hurdles they overcame, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better?
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It's Caller Day! Our first caller, Mel, was dumped for not being vulnerable enough. Is there a "vulnerability" timeline? Our second caller, Kate, is in a happy relationship but is perturbed by how little she misses for her partner when they're apart. Could this be a clue to a deeper relationship concern?
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We brought the big guns to tackle your sex and intimacy questions: Sex Therapist Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy! There's something for everyone in this episode: If your sex life is great but you've always been curious about the things a sex therapist has heard and seen, the first half is for you. If your sex life is something of a work in progress, the second half is for you. This episode also includes one of Shandy's own most mind-blowing discoveries... can you guess what it is?
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 Is it wise to stay connected with your ex via Instagram? Is it a dealbreaker if a guy flakes on your first date at the last minute? Is opening up a 10-year relationship too risky to consider? And if you and your ex broke up due to his lack of relationship experience, is it acceptable to circle back one day, to see if he's changed/matured? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Bachelor Nation's happiest (and most iconic!) couples, Ashley Iaconetti and Jared Haibon! These two got married in 2019 and have been very generous with sharing their relationship with the world, but we promise you'll still learn ins and outs about their marriage you didn't know before. Today they share how they think they defied the odds in ending up together, how they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game!
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It's Caller Day! If you've been in a relationship throughout this pandemic, our first caller's predicament just might resonate: How do you reason with a partner who just doesn't see eye to eye with you on COVID safety? Is this potential dealbreaker material? Our second caller's issue is on the other end of the spectrum: If you were dating someone exclusively (to your knowledge), what would you do if you found their dating profile actively being updated? Is it what it looks like? Watch on for the Shandy take!
PS—Our first caller, Rebecca, attended an Ivy League school but wanted to keep the school name private, so that's what the bleeps are. (We know this from our previous interaction with her, not because she brought it up!)
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Jealousy is a beast of a topic, so we thought long and hard about who to help us tackle it. Shandy brought the big guns: who better to talk jealousy than the woman who quite literally WROTE THE BOOK on open relationships? We're thrilled to welcome Janet W. Hardy, the co-author of The Ethical Slut, the iconic guide to polyamory that was first published in 1997 and is now on its 3rd edition. As someone experienced in both monogamy and non-monogamy, Janet is no stranger to the jealousy trap. We ask Janet: Why do we feel jealous, what do those feelings often represent, and how can we navigate them? Can jealousy be a good thing for a relationship, and is there such a thing as not being jealous enough? Finally, we pick Janet's brain about open relationships and her personal experiences with polyamory. Can non-monogamy work if it's only one-sided, and do open relationships reflect an inability to commit? Janet is an incredibly frank and honest guest, so Shandy invites you to listen with an open mind and enjoy.
"The Ethical Slut" by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton - https://amzn.to/39pWx97
The referenced Rolling Stone article - https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/the-ethical-slut-inside-americas-growing-acceptance-of-polyamory-112319/
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It's Q&A time! We're back in the living room, ready to answer more of YOUR burning questions. 🔥 What are Shandy's tips to help to keep the spark alive in long term relationships? How soon should you know if the person you're with is "The One", and how much do age and experience play a role in "Knowing"? If you're unhappily married, and if divorce is Door #1 and a life of unhappiness is Door #2, is there such a thing as Door #3? Finally, if you have a massive secret that many would judge you for, should you bury it or tell your new partner? You asked for our honest opinions on your tough situations, so come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by newly engaged lovebirds Derek Peth and Saffron Vadher! These two are on the private side, so we're thrilled they agreed to come on and share their relationship with us in true double date fashion. Derek and Saff can usually be found in NYC, but today, they join us from their house in Iowa. They share the serendipitous story of how they met (spoiler alert: Shandy plays a key role!), how they complement each other, what early hurdles they overcame, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better?
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It's Caller Day! If you were at dinner and your date left abruptly, claiming illness, would you read into it? At what point is showing concern too generous? And, is there such a thing as being too young to consider marriage? Does wanting a big wedding—one you'd need to save up for—mean your marital priorities are all wrong?
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We wanted to do something a little different to celebrate New Year's Eve (and the end of 2020!). So today, inspired by Episode 1 (How We Met), we're doing another throwback: we're going back in time to 2014, to what happened after Shandy met, and how (and when) Andy eventually proposed. Watch on to hear his thought process, how he chose the ring (and whether or not Sharleen liked it!), and Andy's "stroke of genius" idea in ensuring the proposal would be a true surprise!
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It's Q&A time! We're back in the living room, ready to answer more of YOUR burning questions. 🔥 How necessary is compromise in relationships, and where's the line between loving yourself and being too set in your ways? Is it a dealbreaker if your partner doesn't seem to take your biological clock seriously? And is it possible to salvage a new relationship if you had sex "too soon", and at what point is this concern unto itself concerning? Your questions continue to deliver, so come join us in our living room for our unbiased (and brutally honest) answers.
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by married lovebirds Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo! These two met and got engaged on Rachel's season of The Bachelorette (Season 13) and married in 2019. They are currently bicoastal as Rachel has recently moved to LA for her job as an Extra correspondent, while Bryan remains in their home in Miami, where he maintains his chiropractic practice. They join us from their respective locations to take a walk down memory lane, sharing their first impressions of one another and how those have changed (if at all). We learn how they complement each other, how they "Knew", and of course, the all-important question, how they FIGHT! We also cover every topic in between, from navigating the public eye to useless skills to cat plates (you'll understand when you get there). Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better?
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Today's call is a bit of an anomaly in that the question asked is not the question answered. What starts out as an innocent relationship gripe turns out to be a red herring or sorts, and as Shandy overturns each stone, a greater concern is exposed. When do you know it's over? And how long is too long to hold out for what could be, versus what is? We thought this would be a quick and lighthearted call, but as we learn, not everything is as it seems.
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Ask and you shall receive! You've been requesting that we talk MONEY for awhile now, and we brought in the very best to help us do it: Bola Sokunbi of Clever Girl Finance! You guys asked great questions and we grilled Bola: Which is better, joint or separate bank accounts? What are the “must” financial conversations you should have before moving in together? Should expenses be split proportionately based on income? And of course... PRENUPS! 😱 Money and finances are treacherous and are one of the leading pitfalls for couples, so hopefully today's conversation sheds some light on this minefield!
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It's Q&A time! We're back in the living room, ready to answer a whole slew of YOUR burning questions. 🔥 Is it a bad sign if a guy isn't "obsessed" with you? How do you know your "league", and has online dating rigged the system against women? Is there such a thing as having sex too early, and if so, how soon is too soon? Your questions are wonderfully honest, so gear up for a healthy dose of honesty in return.
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by the hotly requested Lesley Ann Murphy and her fiancé Alex Kavanagh! Lesley is a travel blogger and yoga instructor (who you may remember from Sean Lowe's season of The Bachelor, as well as 2018's Bachelor Winter Games), while Alex is a drone pilot and creative director. This dynamic duo works and travels together constantly, but today they join us (on their original wedding date, postponed due to COVID) from Lesley's parents' house in Little Rock, AR, where they have just moved to from LA. They are also pregnant! We learn the serendipitous story of their meeting, whether or not there were cultural differences to overcome (Alex is Australian!), and what kind of impact working together has on their relationship. (Of course, Sharleen asks if they believe in The One, while Andy asks how they fight!) Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better?
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Today's call touches on an interesting moral dilemma that many have likely considered, but far fewer have acted on. As "the other woman", which is more ethical: To tell your ex-lover's girlfriend about his cheating ways, or to stay out of their relationship and let her learn those tough lessons on her own? How far does "Do Unto Others" extend, or is it better to trust in karma? And in playing a role in the indiscretion, does one surrender the right to moral high ground? Shandy definitely wants your take on this one!
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Today's episode is the first in our new "Confessions" series! If you could ask a recently divorced man ANYTHING, what would it be? We polled you over on Instagram and you delivered with fantastic questions. Our guest, Dov Davidoff, is a talented comedian, actor, and real estate developer. But most importantly, he's one of Andy's closest friends and was a groomsman in our wedding! He so graciously joins us today to talk the personal struggles of divorce, whether or not he saw it coming, and what he has learned. Open your mind and prepare yourself for brutally honest life lessons...
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It's Q&A time! We're back in the living room, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 Is it sketchy if your boyfriend follows his ex's erotic accounts, and how much does it matter whether or not he tells you about it? Do longterm friends-with-benefits relationships ever lead to actual relationships, and what should you do if you find yourself developing real feelings? And how important is sexual exploration before settling down? Your questions are getting REAL and we're here for it! 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♂️ Watch on for the Shandy take...
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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by engaged lovebirds Astrid Loch and Kevin Wendt! These two met on Bachelor in Paradise (Season 5) and got engaged a year later, in 2019. They join us from their new house (which is currently undergoing renovations!) to share their first impressions of each other and whether or not TV played a role. We discuss their thoughts on The One, what their (hilarious) peeves are about each other, as well as housework, handbags, and Dominos. (Unrelated: We also learn what happens to Andy's retired V-neck tees.) Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Just how honest should you be in your dating profile? If you never drink, would it hurt your dating chances to share that? And if you're in your mid-20s and have never been in a romantic relationship of any kind, how can you take control of your love life? Today's episode is all about hard truths and tough love. Watch on for the Shandy Take!
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How familiar are you with the Enneagram? Have you ever considered how your type plays into your relationships? Today we are joined by certified Enneagram coach Stephanie Barron Hall. The Enneagram of Personality, rooted in psychology, is a typology of nine interconnected personality types. With Stephanie's guidance, we learn more about our own types (Sharleen's a 4; Andy's a 5) and how they play a role in our compatibility, how we feel loved, how we communicate, and yes, how we fight. Reflections and confessions lie ahead!
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We're back to answering YOUR questions! You guys came at us with some tough topics this time around: Should you and your partner talk about your pasts? What should you do if you and your ex are in the same friend group? Do you only seem to want what you can't have? And after having been on The Bachelor, what was dating in the real world like for Sharleen? Our answers to your burning question lie ahead... Can you handle the truth?
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It's Love Fest time! Today we're joined by Vanessa Grimaldi and her then-boyfriend (but now-fiancé!) Josh Wolfe. (Josh proposed 3 days after we recorded this!!) We learn the unique way in which these two got to know each other, how they complement each other, and the hilarious hurdle Josh had to overcome. We also talk housework, Canadian snacks, and Squatty Pottys (#notsponsored.... we wish). Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better?? Watch on to find out...
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You've definitely been there: On a date, and the onus feels like it's on you to ask questions and keep the conversation moving. Is your date self-absorbed, or is there more to this? Could you be accidentally contributing to this dynamic? This caller conversation went in a very different direction than expected, but we loved how it brought us (sooner than intended!) to Nervous Energy. We then segue into a couple of our big first date Dos and Don'ts. Do YOU commit any of these early dating crimes??
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Can you REALLY be friends with an ex? We're joined by Margie, Andy's ex-fiancée, who conveniently happens to have a PhD in clinical psychology. We go for a stroll down memory lane to learn about their history together. Then we discuss how they came to be friends today and what the key components are to true friendship post-romance. Finally, we get Margie's professional input: What are the biggest mistakes people make when it comes to dating and relationships? Warning: You WILL see yourself in these!
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Today is all about YOUR questions... the broader ones, that is. What are our thoughts on prenups, and do we have one? How should a woman deal with a man who doesn't satisfy her? After our meeting, did Andy go on dates with anyone else, or did he immediately close down the shop? And did Sharleen play it cool? Find out the answers to your burning questions in our first ever Q&A sesh!
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For our inaugural Love Fest episode, it's only fitting to be joined by dear friends (and engaged couple!) Caila Quinn and Nick Burrello. We dive deep on first impressions (and how those might have changed!), specific traits they value in each other, and relationship hurdles. Andy and Nick also bond over Instagram-husbandry. 😉 PLUS, we have our first ever Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better??
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Can you have a genuine connection but still get played? Is age a factor in the likelihood of a guy being a player? And how old was Andy at his most "player-y"? Our caller's story has a magical start but a confusing end that left her wondering what she could have done differently. Listen on to hear the Shandy take!
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We recorded this on a whim, not sure if it'd ever see the light of day. We weren't sure how best to introduce ourselves and kick off a podcast, but since it's our most frequently asked question, we ultimately decided to recap (and reminisce!) about how we met. Watch on to hear how two diehard skeptics who don't believe in fate, serendipity, or The One, somehow found themselves believing in something (almost).
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