Harmonious Gentlemen: Recent Episodes
Harmonious Gentlemen
In this episode, the Harmonious Gentlemen explore the complex figure of Donald Trump—not just as a politician, but as a symbol. They discuss how his persona evokes strong reactions, why people still support him, and the psychology behind "Trumpism." With empathy at the heart of the conversation, the Gentlemen consider how to approach such a divisive topic, and reflect on the emotional and psychological forces driving today's political landscape.
In this episode, we delve into some of Alberta's hidden stories, focusing on the forgotten tragedies that shaped our province's infrastructure and industrial growth. We'll recount the harrowing tale of Charles Elick, a survivor of the devastating Frank Slide, and explore how he and others endured the aftermath of one of Canada’s deadliest natural disasters.But Elick's survival is only the beginning. We’ll discuss the broader dangers of coal mining in Alberta, the toll it took on communities, and the lasting legacy of industrialization. Join us as we reflect on the human cost of building our modern world, the risks that workers faced, and the scars that remain on the land and in memory.
Reflecting on the season that was. Looking ahead to the season that will be. Refocusing on the pursuit of harmony.
In this one, the Gents get curious about curiosity. Don't worry, no cats were harmed.Thanks to Cilantro and Chive for hosting us, and serving us delicious Blindman Brews alongside their own tasty treats.
In this episode, the gents discuss the idea of "change" over breakfast and coffee. Since the beginning of the podcast, all three gentlemen have moved on from working together in the same school. We all experience change, but some of us seek it out while others avoid it. Some of us get excited about it, and others feel trepidation. How do you respond to major life changes? How does an upcoming change make you feel? Do you choose change or let it happen to you? Is change in opposition to simplicity? Is change harmonious?
In this episode, the gents talk about rabbits, elk, and other organisms making a life in our cities. They are joined by Darcy Visscher, a professor of biology at The King's University in Edmonton, who brings his expertise to the table. How is urban ecology changing? What should we be concerned about? How does this relate with human problems such as homelessness? Why are there so many dang rabbits running around these days? Wanna find out? Give this episode a listen!
Graham's dream comes true and the Gents take a trip to Edmonton to experience Love Pro Wresting. Thanks to Spencer for having us and Effy for talking to us after the show.
Despite the controversy of recent golf comments, Chris decides to walk back into the fire of an old topic: sports. Whether you love 'em, hate 'em, or ignore 'em, they are a big part of our world. We spend immense amounts of time, energy, and money on sports; as participants, parents, and fans. Is this the way it should be? Whether you consider yourself a sports fan or not, give this episode a shot - and let us hear your cheers and boos afterwards!
What's inside Tyler's head these days? What do Chris and Graham think about it? Critiquing ideology, bumbling through Zizek's progressive philosophy, living simply but hypocritically, controversial leanings towards anarcho-socialism, hatred for golf, love for loud music, niche sci-fi, and wrestling.
In this episode, the gents talk about phones and social media. More specifically, should our kids be using them? Would schools be better with a phone ban? Would students be better off? Why don't we just do something about it?
Chris brings the heat with a surprise topic. Do we have free will? What does that even mean? Is God moving us around like pieces on a game board? Are we cogs in the machine of evolutionary nature? We hope you choose to listen to this episode, but if you don't, we hope fate leads you there anyway.
The gentlemen return for part two of a conversation about gambling and its effect on society, addiction, mental health, and where we're headed with sports betting. It's a topic they've discussed before, but this time, the gents are joined by long-time listener, friend, and ex-casino employee, Mike. He shares his thoughts on the issue and tells a few stories from his days as a dealer and pit boss. At the end of the episode, the crew takes an expensive field trip.
Brian Keating is a professional speaker, writer, broadcaster, international nature tour guide, and naturalist. He joins the gents to talk about travelling around the world exploring the greatest wonders of nature, elephant funerals, hippo attacks, zoos, office owls... and much more!...#nature #wildlife #canada #alberta #ecology #naturalist #travel #animals
In this episode, the gents are joined by long-time listener and contributor, Kenton. As a follow-up to Graham's recent episode about the science of Climate Change, they discuss Alberta's recent energy crisis, our reliance on fossil fuels, the push for cleaner energy sources, and the role of private industry in solving environmental problems. As a long-time employee within the Oil and Gas sector, Kenton provides a new, although not uncommon, perspective for the gents to approach harmoniously. He provides data, experience, and thought-provoking insight to a topic that's so important globally, and has significant relevance within Alberta specifically. It's a great conversation, and we can't wait for you to hear it..Thanks again to our harmonious friends at:Blindman Brewing: www.blindmanbrewing.comVeldhuisen Construction: www.veldhuisen.caCilantro and Chive: www.cilantroandchive.caThe King's University: www.kingsu.ca
Can you define anxiety? Can you identify anxiety in people around you? Do you, or someone close to you, struggle with anxiety? How should we deal with increasing rates of anxiety? Can we talk about it harmoniously?.Thanks again to our harmonious friends at:Blindman Brewing: www.blindmanbrewing.comVeldhuisen Construction: www.veldhuisen.caCilantro and Chive: www.cilantroandchive.caThe King's University: www.kingsu.ca
How much time do you spend each day thinking about the news and current affairs? Is this healthy? Are you in the know, or blissfully unaware? Where do you get your news? Facebook? Twitter? Tik-Tok, YouTube, Instagram, or Threads (like Graham)? Or do you surf the web, watch TV, or read the newspaper - like the actual, folded up bundle of paper and ink, newspaper? Or are you enlightened by podcasts?Do you trust the media you consume? Are you losing your appetite? Or is the news a consistent part of your daily diet? Is it making you healthier? Are you a better person for it?Linguist, author, human rights and political activist, Noam Chomsky says: “All over the place, from the popular culture to the propaganda system, there is constant pressure to make people feel that they are helpless, that the only role they can have is to ratify decisions and to consume.”But he also says: “The general population doesn't know what's happening, and it doesn't even know that it doesn't know.”So what do we do? Is the news essential to our survival? Or is it killing us?.Thanks again to our harmonious friends at:Blindman Brewing: www.blindmanbrewing.comVeldhuisen Construction: www.veldhuisen.caCilantro and Chive: www.cilantroandchive.caThe King's University: www.kingsu.ca
In this episode, Graham quizzes Chris and Tyler about the science of Climate Change. Without getting too political, they talk about responses to the Climate Change Crisis and share their feelings about the topic as it comes up in conversation with friends and family. What is Climate Change? How big of a deal is it? Do we talk about it enough? What actions are required in order to solve the problem? Give this episode a listen to rekindle the conversation about this topic, but stay tuned for part two with a surprise guest, coming soon!.Thanks again to our harmonious friends at:Blindman Brewing: www.blindmanbrewing.comVeldhuisen Construction: www.veldhuisen.caCilantro and Chive: www.cilantroandchive.caThe King's University: www.kingsu.ca
Consumerism, Christmas, and a Layered Sandwich Cake.Merry Christmas from the Gents! Join them at Phil's for a conversation about the value of tradition, the consumerization of popular holidays, and strange cakes..Thanks to our harmonious friends at:Blindman Brewing: www.blindmanbrewing.comVeldhuisen Construction: www.veldhuisen.caCilantro and Chive: www.cilantroandchive.caThe King's University: www.kingsu.ca
Today, gamblers have more options than ever. The AGLC’s paradoxical mandate is to ‘maintain the integrity of gaming activities while maximizing the financial return (to Albertans)” - akin to a person committing to a healthy diet but also to eating as much as possible. Our government is addicted. But as long as citizens keep electing leaders that are happy to fund society on the backs of gamblers, and as long as Albertans like us keep showing up to volunteer, the same might be said for all of us. That we are all addicts. ("Who Wants Albertans to Gamble More?" - Evan Osenton, AlbertaViews.ca)..Thanks to our harmonious friends at:Blindman Brewing: www.blindmanbrewing.comVeldhuisen Construction: www.veldhuisen.caCilantro and Chive: www.cilantroandchive.caThe King's University: www.kingsu.ca
Join the Gents as they chat with surprise guest, Jonathan Luscombe about growing up Queer in Central Alberta. In more recent years, Jonathan has played a big role in a local Pride Society, working towards creating a safe and inclusive community for all people. In this conversation they touch on a number of topics including the value of grassroots advocacy, nuanced communities, empathy, drag, and politics. Jonathan shares stories of challenge and success while working towards their goals, and a vision for how to continue the conversation harmoniously. .This episode is brought to you by our harmonious friends at:Blindman Brewing: www.blindmanbrewing.comVeldhuisen Construction: www.veldhuisen.caCilantro and Chive: www.cilantroandchive.caThe King's University: www.kingsu.ca
As the autumn winds whisper through the streets, it's not just the leaves that shiver. Some say the ghosts have a habit of making an appearance when you least expect it, and the line between the living and the dead gets blurry enough to make you question your sanity. Welcome to Red Deer, where the ghost stories are as real as the misnamed elk themselves, and the mysteries are as thick as the evening fog….This episode is brought to you by our harmonious friends at:Blindman Brewing: www.blindmanbrewing.comVeldhuisen Construction: www.veldhuisen.caCilantro and Chive: www.cilantroandchive.caThe King's University: www.kingsu.ca...#mystery #haunted #alberta #canada #society #culture #conspiracytheories #reddeer #history #ghosts #paranormal
Fifty years ago, Chris' grandparents worked as psych nurses in Michener Center, where, at the time, over 1000 patients lived and learned. Alberta in the sixties, seventies, and eighties had more patients institutionalized, per capita, than any other province in Canada. It’s not a secret that Michener Center’s legacy included archaic and dehumanizing practices that needed to end. Abuse, neglect, and even forced sterilization were a part of the culture there. The Proverbs say, “A good reputation and respect are worth much more than silver and gold.” How do we measure the reputation of a community? Can a city or town have values? Whose job is it to uphold them? When we pull down the walls of a mental institution or a residential school, do we convince ourselves that we have undone what went on behind them? It’s not hard to imagine that there is more than dust and rubble buried in the piles that are left behind..Thanks to our harmonious friends at:Blindman Brewing: www.blindmanbrewing.comVeldhuisen Construction: www.veldhuisen.caCilantro and Chive: www.cilantroandchive.caThe King's University: www.kingsu.ca
In 1954, the face of the Prince of Darkness was discovered lurking in the Queen of England's hair... Inspired by the similarly-named blog post by Kevin Anderson (see link below), this episode is a departure from the usual format, but a return to the familiar topic of conspiracy theories. Conspiracy theories are an important part of our history, and taking a closer look at how a specific controversy was handled by a prominent Albertan can tell us a lot about who we are. The question is, what can we do about it?.A special thanks to Kevin Anderson, author of Conspiracy Theories and the Canadians who Love Them, and instructor of Canadian history and Canadian Studies at the University of Calgary and Mount Royal University. His blog post on activehistory.ca was relied on heavily for this episode. Check it out at https://activehistory.ca/blog/2020/11/16/conspiracy-theories-and-the-canadians-who-love-them/ .Thanks to the anonymous voice actor who played John Blackmore..Thanks to our harmonious friends at:Blindman Brewing: www.blindmanbrewing.comVeldhuisen Construction: www.veldhuisen.caCilantro and Chive: www.cilantroandchive.caThe King's University: www.kingsu.ca
In this episode, the Gents were joined by author, pastor, and all-around great guy, John Van Sloten. In a back room, surrounded by oak barrels and beer, they discussed the challenges of discerning God's voice, alternative views of "Church", macro-zoom lenses, and John's beautiful new book, God Speaks Science..Thanks to our harmonious friends at:Blindman Brewing: www.blindmanbrewing.comVeldhuisen Construction: www.veldhuisen.caCilantro and Chive: www.cilantroandchive.caThe King's University: www.kingsu.ca
In this reflective journey, the gents take a deep dive into their first 98 episodes, candidly exploring moments of changing their minds, grappling with hypocrisy, and confronting regrets. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation as they set the stage for a brand-new century of harmonious discussions..Thanks to Blindman Brewing, 5024 General Store, and Cilantro and Chive for making this possible. And thanks to Red Hart Brewing for hosting us..Come celebrate with us on September 16th at Blindman Brewing in Lacombe. It's their anniversary party, and there will be live music, games, and great beer. Plus, we'll be recording our 100th episode and giving away some cool, new merch!
Who's into conspiracy theories now? . Have you heard the news? Apparently, some pretty powerful people have been keeping secrets from the general public. This doesn't really surprise us, but when the secret involves space-age technology and alien bodies, it definitely piques our interest. After discussing our own thoughts on whether or not this is legit, we connect this story to other conspiracy theories and our feelings about their harmful impact on society. . We'll be taking a few weeks off during August, but will be back in full force starting in September. Keep an eye out for special re-release episodes and details about our upcoming 100th Episode Celebration!
In this special adventure episode, the Gents take part in Pub Quiz Night at Red Hart Brewing before heading in separate directions to enjoy the beginnings of their summer holidays. They keep each other in the loop as they adventure in their own unique ways. Summertime is here! Build community, have some fun, and keep it harmonious!
In this episode, we get together with Dave Dale to debrief Alberta's recent election and talk about the state of democracy as a whole. Dave ran in the Lacombe-Ponoka riding as a member of the NDP. He reflects on the experience of running for election, knocking on hundreds of doors, losing the race to Jennifer Johnson (and her cookie dough comments), and remaining harmonious while campaigning as an underdog. Full disclosure: we reached out to candidates from multiple parties in various Central Alberta ridings, but Dave was the only one who got back to us! What a gent!
Join hosts Tyler, Chris, and Graham on The Harmonious Gentlemen Podcast as they dig into the intricacies of dissent, protest, and civil disobedience, all while savoring mouthwatering giant pancakes at Phil's restaurant. The gentlemen examine the distinctions between legal protest, civil disobedience, and revolutionary action, tackling profound questions about their personal thresholds for taking action against injustice.
With syrup flowing and plates piled high, Tyler, Chris, and Graham reflect on the historical significance of civil disobedience, drawing inspiration from influential figures such as Mahatma Gandhi, Rosa Parks, and Martin Luther King Jr. Then, they discuss their own willingness to engage in acts of civil disobedience, navigating the ethical complexities involved. They invite listeners to ponder their own moral compass and consider the role of dissent in shaping a more just and equitable society.
Prepare to be challenged and inspired as The Harmonious Gentlemen Podcast pushes the boundaries of civil discourse, inviting listeners to explore the power of collective action and personal convictions.
Buckle up! In this special episode, you can join the gents on their voyage to Cow-town for the East Town, Get Down music and food festival. Their adventure begins on a busy highway, and meanders through scenic cocktail establishments, too-small parkades, empty dive-bars, rockin' bowling alleys, and hoppin' Phillipino restaurants. The quest leads them to a Phillipino restaurant, where long-ago guest and favourite rapper, Homeboy Sandman performs. They deliver a t-shirt, and talk to a special guest before making the long, dark trek home.
With a particularly significant provincial election looming, the gents felt like attempting a harmonious conversation about politics. The conversation starts with general reflections on the state of our world and political discourse. Why does it seem to be getting harder and harder to have harmonious conversations about basically everything, but politics in particular? What's changed? Then, they share opinions about how democracy currently operates and whether or not this is the way it should be. How does privilege relate? Additionally, they talk about the horrible comments made recently by local UCP candidate, Jennifer Johnson. How much are voters willing to overlook when it comes to the integrity of their representative? When politicians say the quiet part out loud, does it actually help their campaign? Give the conversation a listen and let the gents know what you think. Whether you live in Alberta or not, this episode should start some good conversations about the state of our democracy. Keep it harmonious, or at least try!
In this episode of The Harmonious Gentlemen, the gents discuss "The Wisdom of Your Body" by Hillary L. McBride. The book explores how we can find healing, wholeness, and connection through embodied living, but let's face it - sometimes our bodies can be a pain in the butt (or neck, or knee). The gents share their reflections on the book, what they've learned, and what they continue to wonder about. They discuss ways to overcome societal pressures and expectations to develop a more positive self-image and a healthier relationship with ourselves and others. For some, embodiment can even lead to a fuller experience of the divine! Tune into this, the first book club episode, for some laughs, insights, and a reminder to appreciate the amazing machine that is our body. .A huge, special, thanks to Hillary L. McBride for writing this book, which was well-received by the gents. And thanks to Codi who recommended this book in a previous episode, and listeners who encouraged us along the way or read along with us!
In this episode, the Gents share something interesting and scientific. Through linguistic politics, plastic-eating worms, and the economics of happiness, they seek a harmonious approach to the complex world they live in. This episode was recorded in the company of friends, at the Craft Beer Commonwealth in Red Deer, Alberta.
Youths in the wild, password management, people who don't help when help is clearly needed... The gents got together at Phil's restaurant to rant and complain about pet peeves over eggs and corn beef hash. What exactly are pet peeves and where do they come from? If developing pet peeves is unavoidable, and annoying others with our behaviour is inevitable, how do we navigate this topic harmoniously? For starters, don't talk about it with your mouth full - and make sure you listen to this episode.
How can we do the most good for the world? What's the "elephant in the room" when it comes to opiate addiction? What does working for two years in the Alberta Oil Sands look like?.In Episode 89, the Gentlemen prove that they know how to read by taking turns sharing about something they've read recently. They present their key learnings, reflections, challenges, and questions to each other and have a brief conversation. The topics vary greatly, but they find harmony in the end. .Discussed in this episode:Doing Good Better by William MacAskillOpioids and the Elephant in the Room by Vincent LamDucks: Two Years in the Oil Sands by Kate Beaton.The Harmonious Gentlemen Book Club:The Gents are going to read The Wisdom of Your Body by Hillary L. McBride. Join them by reading it yourself! They will discuss the book in a future episode and would love to hear your thoughts along the way.
When you think about the "youth of today", are you hopeful or hopeless? In Episode 88, The Gents are joined by educator (he won the flippin' Governor General History Award for Excellence in Teaching), skateboarder, punk rocker, and "Rad Dad", Kristian Basaraba. They discuss whether or not we should be worried about the future of our species and how we can do a better job coming alongside the young people in our society more harmoniously. They talk a bit about parenting, teaching, Tik-Tok, and the good that results from a do-it-yourself punk-rock attitude. Thanks to Kristian for joining the Harmonious Gentlemen. Check out one of his more recent projects with the Rad Dads, at www.raddadsyeg.com
Father Cristino Bouvette, who is of Métis and Cree-Ojibwe heritage, joins the gents and discusses his view on faith and reconciliation as an Indigenous person and Catholic priest. He explains his rational, measured, and nuanced positions and shares an inside perspective on the recent Papal visit. From a unique point of view, Father Cristino addresses ideas such as ideological colonization, racial immunity, marxification, the media's illogical conclusions, and the importance of friendship in moving forward harmoniously. The gentlemen hope this episode serves as a catalyst for important conversations we need to keep having.
Did you know that our friends at Blindman Brewing enjoy a well-crafted story almost as much as they enjoy a well-crafted IPA? Over the past number of years they have worked with Alberta writers and CKUA to bring these two art forms together by publishing micro-fictions on the sides of their super-tall cans. The Gents have loved reading these stories while sipping a Super Session, Coffee Stout, or Super Mild, but had the pleasure of hearing some of these stories told live at a special event in the taproom at Blindman. In this episode, the Harmonious Gentlemen touch on the importance of a good story and how they are an important part of a more harmonious society. But, this one isn't about the Gents. It features the stories, told in the writer's own voice, as performed at the "Session Stories" event at Blindman earlier this year. We hope you are able to sit back and enjoy these terrific tales as much as we did!
Join the Harmonious Gentlemen as they delve into the world of Artificial Intelligence. The rapid advancement in AI technology has led to both excitement and fear. In this episode, they explore the potential benefits and dangers of AI, and separate fact from fiction. They'll be discussing the latest developments in AI and what they mean for our future. From ChatGPT to self-driving cars to intelligent robots, they'll be examining the impact of AI on society and the economy. They'll also be discussing the ethical implications of AI and the responsibilities of scientists, engineers, and policymakers. So whether you're an AI enthusiast or a skeptic, this episode is for you. Tune in to "The Rise of Artificial Intelligence: Brave New World or Dystopian Nightmare" and be part of the conversation.
In this episode, the Gents are enlightened on the traditions of a mysterious Christian denomination you've probably never heard of. Jess joins the pod and graciously shares her experiences with the religion known discretely as the "2x2's" by outsiders. She goes on to share an honest look into her deconstruction process and provides insight to the joys of reconstruction as well. It's a conversation well worth listening to. It's vulnerable. It's beautiful. And, of course, it's harmonious..Follow Jessica's deconstruction story on Instagram: @mysoftself.Read "Preserving the Truth: The Church with No Name and its Founder, William Irvine" to learn more: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/61885980-preserving-the-truth
In this episode, the Gents discuss the all-too-common experiences of burnout, stress, anxiety, and depression. These are issues that many of us face at some point in our lives, and it's important to have open and honest conversations about them. They explore the causes of these challenges and the difficulty in managing and coping with them. Whether you're dealing with these issues yourself or just looking to better understand and support those who are, this is an episode you won't want to miss.
In episode 82, the gents met up with special guest Will Fraser at their favourite skate cafe in Lacombe to chat about snowboarding, extreme sport athletes, psychology, and self-awareness. It was a very rad conversation that we think you'll love, no matter how extreme you are!
Join the gents for an early morning chat at Phil's restaurant. They get sincerely braggadocious and explore the intricacies of pride, and humility. Why is it so hard to brag on command? Why is it so easy to do it unintentionally? Is bragging healthy? And most importantly, which gent brags the most? Honestly, let them know what you think about that last one!
In Episode 80, the Gents try something different. Acting on the suggestions of loyal listener Andy, they attempt to take opposing sides on a series of topics. Starting with a surprise debate on a fairly serious topic, one needs to argue against his true feelings. Facing a moral dilemma, two are put on the spot and forced to analyze their choices. Finally, they discuss an ethical issue that is quickly becoming a reality in the world of science and medicine.
Episode 79 is all about bullying, getting bullied, and how to stand up to a bully harmoniously. The gents start their conversation by defining the term, "bullying", then dive deep into the past, revealing stories of being victims and perpetrators. The chat changes directions quickly and they move on to a discussion of what bullying looks like in the adult worlds of work, politics, and economics. Give this one a listen, tell your friends, and let them know what you think... or else!
In episode 78, Peter joins the gents for an enlightening conversation about conversion therapy, empathy, forgiveness, and religious freedom.
In this episode, the gents explore their impending demise. It's not as gloomy as you'd think, and they discover that death is actually pretty easy to talk about. Is there a "right way" to grieve? What's the best way to die? Does it matter what happens to your body after you die? Chris, Graham, and Tyler kill it on this one, but as always, they'd love to hear your thoughts. Get in touch on social media or send them an email at harmoniousgentlemen@gmail.com.
In Episode 76, the Gents take their show on the road to Angry Bear Growlers in Airdrie. There, they meet with a friend of a friend of the podcast, Dason, and hear his story of joining, participating in, and eventually leaving, the Mormon Church. Dason knows his stuff and shares a bit about the history of the church, the modern church, and his story of deconstruction and leaving. Dason shares with honest humility, and throughout the episode it becomes increasingly apparent that harmony is important to him. Thanks to Angry Bear Growlers for hosting, Blindman Brewery for brewing tasty brews, 5024 General Store and Cilantro and Chive for keeping it real, and especially Dason for joining us for this harmonious conversation. Learn more at www.straightfromthetapirsmouth.com, Dason's blog about a faith crisis and faith transition away from believing that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the one true church on the earth.
In this episode, the Gents revisit a topic they happen to know a bit about. They start the conversation by addressing public perception of teachers and the comments they hear regularly about their chosen field of work. From there the chat meanders... from busting myths and defending the profession, to critical self-reflection and questioning career choices. Is public education broken? What's the solution? How do three educators find the time to create a podcast? Teachers must not work very hard...
It's the start of a new season (whatever that means), and the Gents are fired up and ready to go. In this episode they address the idea of awkwardness and why they avoid certain topics. They identify the inconsistencies in how they talk on and off the podcast, and wrestle with their fears of being cancelled. Considering who they are, should they tiptoe around hot issues? Or is it important to model civil discourse around topics that they may not feel qualified to talk about? They also talk about which topics may be ahead and touch on whether or not harmony is a realistic, or even worthy, goal for the podcast. It's a bit of an identity crisis, but don't worry, they aren't done yet!
Recorded way back in July, this episode is a response to what seems like the rise of nationalism. Don't know what that means? Well, the gents barely do either, but they aren't afraid to talk about it. They discuss the differences between patriotism, nationalism, and national pride, and attempt to tackle a number of tough questions: Is Nationalism bad? What are the different types of Nationalism? Is Anders a better neighbourhood than Bower? . Thanks to Cilantro and Chive for generously hosting us for the recording of this episode, and to Blindman Brewing for fuelling yet another Harmonious conversation.
In this episode, the gents explore the depths of their favourite cults. How and why would someone join a cult? Is the phrase, "healthy cult" an oxymoron? Who is likely to be recruited for cult life? How do we protect ourselves and our loved ones from cults? The conversation flows like a crisp Blindman Five of Diamonds pilsner, and you'll finish the episode feeling filled-up like after a delicious meal at Cilantro and Chive. Dive in. Drink the Kool-aid. Join the Harmonious Gentlemen... It's not a cult. We promise!
In this episode, the Gents are joined by the wonderful and brilliant Anita Veldhuisen Slomp. With humility, curiosity, and expertise, she shares stories of life as a mediator and conflict resolution professional. She provides tips for preventing future podcast disharmony and strategies for becoming better mediators of conflict in our everyday lives. Thanks to Blindman Brewery for hosting the episode and fueling a great conversation! . More about Anita Veldhuisen Slomp: As an independent practitioner, Anita has years of workplace conflict experience as a mediator in organizations including: the Department of national Defense, provincial and municipal governments and academic institutions. She also mediates in community mediation programs, as well as the Civil Claims department of Alberta Justice. In addition, Anita is a Restorative Practices facilitator. She coaches and instructs in a variety of settings including the ADR Learning Institute (ADRLi) and ADR International Group (ADRIG), the University of Alberta School of Business, ADR Institute of Alberta (ADRIA) and The King's University, primarily focused on the topics of conflict resolution and restorative practices.
We love jujubes, well-fitted underwear, and mowing the lawn. We love Seinfeld, full moons, and the smell of spring. We love our families, each other, and you! In this episode, we serve up a steamy plate of love stew. Crafted with care with only the finest ingredients: vulnerability, acceptance, and time. We love love, but why do we find it so hard to share it with certain people? Should we be better at telling those close to us how we feel? Are some people unlovable? Are some podcast episodes unlovable? Listen to this one and let us know what you think! We'll love you for it.
How can it be that the Harmonious Gents are so filled with hate? In Episode 69, they embrace the forbidden feelings we've been told not to have. They talk about what they hate, what they REALLY hate, and whether or not it's okay to hate other humans or be hated by other humans. Is hatred compatible with harmony? Check this one out. We hope you don't hate it. . The harmonious conversations on this episode were fuelled by our friends at Blindman Brewing and Cilantro and Chive - both of which we definitely don't hate. #spreadthelove
Peter joins the Gents on Episode 68 for a heartfelt conversation about doubt and how it plays a role in their lives. Are the concepts of doubt and faith in opposition to each other? Are they exclusively relevant to religion? Has your understanding of doubt changed over time? Is doubt a sign of weakness or strength? What's your biggest doubt when it comes to your faith? Who has the winning doubt according to the doubt expert? Peter presents some tough questions but the conversations that follow will get you thinking, and possibly doubting... which is a good thing.
In this episode, the Gents define conspiracy theories, discuss the ramifications of being conned, and come clean about misinformation they've fallen for in the past. In today's society, it feels like you need to take a position on each and every issue, but is this true? Is it possible to simply not have an opinion? How do you have a harmonious conversation with someone whose opinion seems ridiculous or irrational? The gentlemen tackle these questions and more in episode 67! . This episode is brought to you by our friends at Blindman Brewery and Cilantro and Chive.
In this one, the gents are joined by author, CEO, researcher, master storyteller, and empathy activist, Rob Volpe! Did you know that we are currently experiencing an "Empathy Crisis"? Considering the state of society, it's not surprising. Thankfully, Rob has some ideas about how to solve the empathy crisis, one conversation at a time! . Check out Rob's book: "Tell Me More About That: Solving the Empathy Crisis One Conversation at a Time" . Follow Rob on Social Media: LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rmvolpe/ Instagram: @Empathy_Activist TikTok: @EmpathyActivist Facebook: Rob Volpe, Empathy Activist Twitter: @rmvolpe Peloton: EmpathyActivist
War is devastatingly awful. War is inexplicably terrible. War is about the furthest thing from harmony we can think of. But is war justified? In this episode, the Gents chat a bit about Russia's invasion of Ukraine and try to look at the ideas of violence, conflict, war, and even pacifism from a few different perspectives. Thanks again to Blindman Brewing and Cilantro and Chive for fuelling the conversation!
In this episode, the gents are joined by special guest, Codi Kreil. With Codi leading the charge, they tackle the topics of sex, purity culture, shame, and post-church trauma. Sharing personal stories and reflections on harm done by well-meaning church traditions, the crew dives into what healing might look like and how church and religion might do better moving forward. These are, of course, difficult topics which require harmonious conversation. It's not perfect, but they do their best! Check this episode out, and let the gentlemen know what you think.
In this episode, the Gents are joined by bestselling author, speaker, and counsellor, Shannon Moroney. She shares her own story of resilience, helps redefine forgiveness, and pushes the Gents to their vulnerable limits by helping them practice good apologies. This is an episode you don't want to miss! . Learn more about Shannon and order her new book, "Heal for Real: A Guided Journal to Forgiving Others―and Yourself" at shannonmoroney.com . Thanks to Blindman Brewing and Cilantro and Chive for fuelling the harmony!
Rather than tackling one big question, the gents opt for an episode of vignettes: short conversations focused on various topics. With Peter along for the ride, they ask each other questions ranging from how you might change the face of history to which bear is best, and from how rich is too rich to seeing through the BS of critics. It's different, it's harmonious, and it's worth a listen!
In Episode 61, the Gents discuss a hypothetical shift in direction for the Podcast. Should we be canceling or un-cancelling others? What is forgiveness really? Does everyone deserve a second chance? All they really know is that it's complicated, and worth talking about! Plus: Graham gets punished, Chris shares a grace-filled experience, and Tyler likes revenge.
In the first episode of a new year, the Gents discuss the surprising complexities of personal fitness. Why is it so difficult? Where does the pressure come from? What is the true motivation? How vain are you, really? Go ahead and alter your New Year's Resolution to include listening to this episode!
Merry Christmas! In the spirit of the season, the Gents decided to gift a special episode. 2021 was a big year for the podcast, with lots of memorable episodes and the introduction of numerous special guests. Pour yourself an eggnog or a special brew from Blindman Brewing, and join the Gents as they reflect on the year that was.
Amazon delivery drivers are working overtime, fans for inflatable Snoopy displays are blaring, and Mariah Carey's classic Christmas song is playing on repeat. Candy is stuck in your molars, children are begging for Hot Wheels, families are attempting to overlook political differences, and, oh yeah, the coming of Christ. In this episode, the Gents consider the Grinch as a true hero and attempt to find the good in Christmas.
In this episode, the Gents are joined by Dr. Melanie Humphreys for a pint and a conversation at Blindman Brewery. As the President of The King's University she provides a unique perspective on inclusion, belonging, privilege, and Christian secondary education. Listen in as she discusses admitting former Guantanamo Bay detainee, Omar Khadr as a student, participating in the Truth & Reconciliation Commission in Edmonton, responding to King’s historical discrimination against the LGBTQ+ community, and rooting out systemic racism within the institution itself. It's an awesome conversation that you won't want to miss! Plus: Dr. Melanie Humphreys makes an unbelievable announcement regarding the future of The King's University.
Peter joins the Gents for a casual conversation about Epistemological Frameworks. Don't worry, they didn't know what that meant either. Over a couple refreshing Blindman Brewing Session Ales, they chatted (fairly) harmoniously about the differences between fact, belief, and opinion; recommended (thanks to Cilantro and Chive) some local spots, entertainment options, and life-enhancing habits; and eased their burdens through the ritual of confession. Check it out at harmoniousgentlemen.com or wherever you do your podcast things.
In this episode, the Gents are joined by the legendary Robin Pawlak. He shares stories and insight from his years of teaching and, more recently, his adventures (and misadventures) as an author. They dive into the creative process and discuss the importance of character arcs in not only writing, but real life as well. Check out "Space Cadets" and learn more at robinpawlak.com.
In this episode the Gents tackle the ever-present elephant in the room. How do we remain Harmonious during the fourth wave of Covid? It's an episode about the things we hate talking about, but can't seem to stop talking about. Vaccinations... Individual rights and freedoms... Public health crises... Echo chambers... Conspiracy theories... Is it even possible to speak on these topics without getting fired up? Chris, Tyler, and Graham get vulnerable, speak honestly, and give harmony their best shot on this one.
In this episode, the Gents are joined by Homeboy Sandman of Stones Throw Records and Mello Music Group. The NYC rapper shares stories of growing up hip-hop, rhyming with honesty, and creating art harmoniously. It's a banger.
Plus: A true story about a failed freestyle by one of the gents and a confession of turtle plagiarism.
Check out Homeboy Sandman's new EP Anjelitu on Bandcamp or wherever you get your music.
This episode is brought to you by Blindman Brewing. Recommendations supported by Cilantro and Chive. Great coffee from Birdy Coffee Co.
In Episode 52, the Gents discuss their hopes and apprehensions about the upcoming Federal Election over eggs and bacon from Phil's. They won't tell you exactly who to vote for, but they'll get you thinking about the possibilities for harmonious voting, democracy, and political conversations .
Thanks to Blindman Brewing and Cilantro and Chive for supporting this episode.
In this episode, the gents are joined by Olympian and silver medallist, Rebecca Smith. They chat about the challenges and opportunities that come with doing what you love at the highest possible level, and discuss the Olympic experience. This episode is supported by Blindman Brewing and Cilantro and Chive.
This episode is special. It was recorded live at Blindman Brewing in a beautiful summer afternoon, which turned into a beautiful summer evening. The gents reflected on their first 49 episodes, and looked ahead to the next. They were joined by some familiar voices, and made some new friends. Recommendations were shared, confessions were made, and Tim Alion made an appearance. Join the celebration!
Thanks to Blindman Brewing for supporting this episode and for hosting a great event!
In this episode, the Gentlemen brave torrential rain, lightning, thunder, and another one of Peter's surprise topics. Each of them came prepared with lyrics or poetry that means a lot to them, and they spent some time breaking it down together. Their choices and spontaneous explanations reveal more about their souls than you'd expect, and Graham even recorded a cover of an iconic Canadian song. This is an episode you won't want to miss.
In Episode 48, the Gents are joined by local celebrity, entrepreneur, and Social Media guru, Joe Whitbread. They chat about life in the public sphere, navigating the relatively young landscape of social media, and the impacts of these on mental health. Joe came looking for intelligent conversation. Check this episode out and see if he found it!
In this episode, the Gents have a harmonious conversation about what they'd like to do before it's too late to do it. Episode 47 is all about bucket lists! What's on ours? What's on yours? Are bucket lists healthy? Are they harmonious? Give this episode a listen for some thought-provoking conversation, recommendations, and, of course, confessions. Thanks again to Blindman Brewing for making the best craft beer around and supporting this episode.
In this episode, the Gents are joined by the wonderful Janis Irwin. As a member of the legislative assembly in Alberta, she brings a unique perspective to the conversation about harmony within politics. They discuss the challenges and opportunities that come with being an elected representative, the possibilities for unity within political discourse, and the different roles we play in seeking a harmonious future. This episode is, once again, brought to you by our friends at Blindman Brewing, makers of Central Alberta's most tasty craft beer.
In this episode, the Gentlemen are joined by the brilliant Dr. Emma Frances Bloomfield: author of Communication Strategies for Engaging Climate Skeptics. Emma talks about different attitudes towards science using three categories - Separators, Bargainers, and Harmonizers - then proposes strategies for engaging science skeptics in productive conversations. The Gents were extremely lucky for the opportunity to record this episode with the fun and intelligent author who, quite literally, wrote the book on being Harmonious.
In this episode, the gents discuss regret. What is it? Is it healthy? What's your biggest regret? How can regret lead to harmony? Give it a listen - you won't regret it!
In this episode, Peter opens up his backpack to share a good dose of existential crisis and whiskey. Learn some big words and contemplate the meaning of life along with these other big questions. What is your purpose in life? Do you deserve new socks? Have you seen Inception? Can you spell Kierkegaard?
This episode is proudly supported by Blindman Brewing, makers of delicious craft beer in Central Alberta.
In this episode, the Gentlemen are joined by award-winning musical artist. Ryan Langlois, to talk about creativity, inspiration, and resilience. Number 42 features crazy coincidences, solid recommendations, confessions, and Chris getting into trouble... again. Also, listen to the end to hear Ryan's new single, "Just a Word", and check him out on his website or anywhere you find your music!
www.ryandlangloismusic.com
In this episode, the gents travel through time to address questions they asked themselves from waaay back at the beginning of the pandemic.
Well, who woulda thunk it? The Gents have made it to episode 40, and they show no signs of slowing down. Join them on this special benchmark episode as they’re joined by a guest who’s been there since the beginning. Peter comes prepared with some hot topics and a targeted attack on Graham. Also, Bam Bam Bigelow’s Body and Tyler’s continued appreciation for Will Smith.
Recommendations: Cilantro and Chive (restaraunt) Whitehorse (the band, not the city… although that’s nice as well) For All Mankind (show) Foam Rollers (fitness accessory)
Episode 39 features the wonderful Cathy Tilstra, who joins the Gents for a conversation about Cancel Culture and talking to the "Other Side". Is it always worth it, or are there times when it's better to just not engage?
Hi listener, don't be afraid! The Gents discuss what makes the hair on the backs of their necks stand up and gives them goosebumps. Do we all have irrational fears? Are all fears rational? Should we fear death? Should we fear spiders? Give it a listen and let us know what you think!
Recommendations: The Outer Wilds (video game) The Tribes of Europa (Netflix series) Darryl's Barbering in Lacombe (local barber shops)
In this delightful episode, the Gentlemen surprise a loyal listener with a birthday surprise and chat with Peter about the world of social media conspiracy theories. And if you stick it out to the end, you'll learn some great tips and strategies for greenhouse pest control.
In this episode, the Gents reflect on the year that was 2020 and chat about their outlook for 2021.
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In this episode, the Gentlemen get supernatural and talk about the existence of ghosts. Note: This episode was recorded and scheduled to be released during Christmas 2020, but for fairly obvious reasons, they decided to hold onto this one for a little longer. Stay tuned for a brand new 2021 episode coming soon!
Recommendations: Nintendo "Game and Watch" "Bump in the Night" episode of Criminal (podcast) "Jesus Christ Superstar" and "the Messiah" vinyl Templar Games in Lacombe, AB (Support Local Businesses!)
It's a Festivus, for the rest of us! Check out a very special Christmas episode.
Recommendations! Beer: Landlock Ale - Craft Beer Commonwealth Book: The House in the Cerulean Sea - T.J. Klune Film: Dark Waters (2019) Book: The Crossing - Cormac McCarthy
In this episode, Tyler provides the snacks along with a surprise topic. Hear a song from Bent Roads Tavern and learn about what it means to respect the rights of all living things. This is a tasty and thought-provoking episode. Let us know what you think by sending us an email at harmoniousgentlemen@gmail.com or finding us on Instagram and Twitter!
This episode's recommendations: Aesop Rock - Spirit World Field Guide Watching kids struggle with Google Home Gasoline Alley Farmer's Market in Red Deer
Hot on the tail of Episode 31, the Gentlemen got together with their American friend, Peter to record an Election Special. They discuss how presidential elections work in 'murica, and make predictions about what might happen during and following the upcoming election. Things get a bit crazy at the end, as they play a special game in the spirit of trying something new and Tyler's birthday.
In this episode, Chris surprises Tyler and Graham with a topic choice and challenges them with some tough philosophical questions. Listen in as the gents try a something new, talk about their favourite ideologies, and of course, confess stuff.
Join the gents for a special conversation with some special guests in a special 30th episode! Responding to a loyal listeners request for advice, the guys reminisce and tackle the topics of post-secondary education, growing up, and big life choices.
Join the Gents as they discuss moral rightness and wrongness over breakfast at Phil's. Peter responds to some harmonious criticism, Tyler almost sounds smart, Graham suggests the appropriate use of spicy mayo, and Chris confesses to an embarrassing purchase.
It's been a few months since the gents addressed the global pandemic, so here is their Covid update episode. They discuss how their lives have been changed, ask questions for their future selves about the state of the world, and make predictions about how society will continue to evolve over time. And, of course, there are confessions.
This one's a bit weird, but worth a listen. The gents challenge their harmoniousness by sharing and discussing their most unpopular opinions on food, lifestyle, and significant life milestones.
In Episode 26, the Gentlemen are once again joined by Peter. They discuss the topics of racism and anti-racism and how these manifest themselves in their lives as Canadians (and an American). Most importantly, they drill down to how they think we could attempt to be more harmonious in divisive times.
In this one, the gents start by addressing the Last Dance, Michael Jordan and our society's obsession with celebrity in general. The conversation continues with more personal takes on friendship and accountability. Plus: Tim Alien calls out a major brand for the culturally insensitive naming of a shoe!
In this episode, the gentlemen take turns answering the question, "what is the worst thing that has ever happened to you?". They connect their stories of fear, loss, and near-death experiences to feelings about current events and hope for the future. The boys get vulnerable and created an episode that is less "pointless" and "stupid" than the previous episode (thanks for the feedback, Peter).
From the comforts of their own isolation, the Gentlemen give a new recording method a try. They reflect on the current Pandemic, but keep it light and move quickly into seemingly random stories from their past. Some might say this episode is unlistenable, others might say they're correct, but why not decide for yourself?
Woah. In the midst of an unprecedented epidemic, the gentlemen (plus Peter) tackle the topic of fear, despair, and hope. This is one of the best episodes they've ever recorded! You've got to listen... and tell all of your friends. Special thanks to Blindman Brewing, makers of Central Alberta's best craft beer!
In this episode, guest-gent Jeremy enlightens the boys on Mindset. It's a game-changer. And speaking of game-changers, just wait until you hear about Jer's half-court basketball shot! Bonus: opera singing.
In this extra-special twentieth episode, the Gentlemen are once again joined by Peter for a follow-up conversation about Political Correctness. They respond to some email, recommend some stuff, dive deeper into a controversial topic, and address one of Chris' more annoying habits.
Join the guys as they enjoy another breakfast at Phil's. Peter is along for the ride as they attempt to navigate the tumultuous current of political correctness. This one is so good it needs a Part 2 (coming soon).
The guys are back at Phil's for breakfast and a conversation about extraterrestrial intelligent life, good sci-fi, conspiracy theories, and Chris' UFO sighting.
The Harmonious Gentlemen get to know a new guest, Pastor Dayna, consider changing their name, contemplate God's pronouns, and discuss Church-related fulfillment.
This one starts with the gentlemen reminiscing over their favorite Christian music memories, and ends with them questioning the purpose of church. Chris has a healthy recommendation, Tyler wants more punk rock, Graham cleans the grout in his bathroom, and Peter just makes fun of everyone. Don't miss it.
Join the Gentlemen on the patio at Blindman Brewing as they discuss different attitudes related to the environment. Should we ban plastic straws in Central Alberta? How should we feel about Climate Change? Are animals people too? Find out on this episode of Harmonious Gentlemen.
Join the gentlemen for breakfast at Phil's. They talk about gender roles, recommend some things you might love to hate, and make some very real confessions.
The boys test their harmonious nature by talking about the state of politics. Interesting fact: the Gentlemen were split in their voting during the recent provincial election. (Thanks to Queens Diner in Red Deer for hosting us on this recording. Check them out for a great breakfast!)
In this one, the guys talk about their addictions to social media, their hope future generations, and the possibility of an AI apocalypse.
Listen to the guys rant about their foodie pet peeves, discuss ethical eating, and of course, confess stuff. They even try a new segment: DISharmonious GentleJERKS, and introduce a new competition.
A previously-scorned recommendation is redeemed, shocking food-related confessions are made, and the guys tackle LGBTQ issues (with a ton of help from Pastor Peter). Don't miss this one!
The gentlemen talk about movies, music, and discernment with special guest, Peter. They play a new game and someone speaks Canadian blasphemy!
The gentlemen discuss the role of sports in our society. This is a conversation for jocks and those who want to understand jocks.
In this one, the gentlemen try to find harmony in science, the Bible, evolution, and creation.
The Gentlemen are back with a second season and they're kicking it old school with this episode!