It's All About Family: Recent Episodes

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Apologising is never easy but the book of Genesis 32&33 teaches us how--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

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The Comrades Marathon is one of the biggest ultra marathon races in the world. What marital lessons can we learn from it.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

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Ungenza njani uku divorce proof umtshado wakho?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

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If he struggles to read the Bible , he will struggle to love his wife, why is it important for husbands to read the Bible?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

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Marriage has proved that you cannot be good in every subject, here's why.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

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Will conditions ever align for your marriage to grow or thrive? Hmmm chances are naaaa!! Then what should you do? List to your favorite podcast to find out what you can do.


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Men and Women have spent generations trying to outdo each other, pointing out the flaws of each gender. Is there a better gender? If both genders were created by God, would God create one gender to be sub-standard?


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Forgiving your spouse, especially after they have offended you, is not easy, rather it is easier said than done even when you want to forgive them.  So how do you forgive them? Listen to the podcast to find out how to forgive them.


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If you are thinking of getting married, here are some tips of what you should prepare yourself for. Next week we will publish part 2


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Before you get married ponder upon the following!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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The devil has never wanted women to glorify God therefore he set a narrative that numbs and pushes them down using resources and patriarchal gate keepers--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

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The story of the rich young ruler in Mark 10 has some interesting marital lessons we can learn. Tune in to findout--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/golidefm/support

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Some spouses dominate their marriage, stifling their spouse. Oh yes remember excess oil brings about multitude illnesses, does dominating your marriage, are you that spouse?--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

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One question that has been on my mind is l, why do husbands abuse their wives or man their girlfriends. There are five reasons why! RememberWhatever you mismanage you will loose--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

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There are 3 things you can do to improve yourself for your marriage, listen to find out what --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

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It's simple,free, effective and will go a long way in improving your marriage. Try it out and see--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

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Once you know why something exists! You will know How to use it--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/golidefm/support

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For Worse Moments will come in your marriage without fail, thus thinking you will walk away is a poor mindset. For in this world of sin all of us have a for the worse cyclic moments


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As a man thinketh in his heart so is he. Many marriages died in the mind before they even died physically. Your thinking will with make or kill your marriage


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Selfishness, Self Abuse


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Lust is keeping many Christians Prisoner


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Lies


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Emishado eminengi seyacithwa ngamzwi nje.  Singafundani kulenkulumo ka Seka Brian lo NaBrian


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The internet is filled with monetary reports detailing the cost of gender based violence.  But what is the cost?  what release are we paying or losing when a woman is abused?


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Trash is material no longer fit for purpose!! Did man lose their purpose somewhere?  What are they doing to regain their value and purpose? 


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As many celebrate fathers day, there are equally many unhappy about their fathers being absent.  Absent fathers cause more damage than they will ever know.  Crime, Corruption and many vices would reduce if fathers were present in their children's lives 


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Not educating your children about sex has massive consequences, and many parents have lived to see their worst nightmare because of this missed step.  Educating is equipping, equipping is giving your child a tool to work a situation. Alas many children are ill-equipped in the area of sex because parents find it awkward, embarrassing.  Educate your child now before they fulfil the following 21 reasons  


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Sex education, including its spiritual aspects, should be part of a broad health and moral education from kindergarten through grade twelve, ideally carried out by parents


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Sex is a beautiful gift given to us by God, however we have over the generations abused it, misused it and many up to now do not enjoy it because of past experiences.  This pauses a challenge upon us a parents to educate and equip our children with sex education that we subscribe to, the best being the one that aligns to God's principles. Educate them before, social media, Hollywood and misaligned people do it for you.  In this series we are going to explore how we educate our children about sex


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Many people suffer low libido, in the bedroom, but no safe space has been created to talk about this low libido. 

Some people have high libido and their spouses cannot cope.  What then should happen? 


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Many wives are quietly suffering in marriage is there are married to mean who have not left Mommy, but have gone into Marriage with Mommy.  

Mommy is so important she is a daily part of the marriage.   What then should wives do if they find themselves in such a situation?


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Your spouse will at one point in your marriage fail give you what you want. Be warned don't bring in Peninnah as she may bring tears, depression to your Hannah.


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Change is Constant, Change is Inevitable in marriage.  Change is normally not bad, but many end up in divorce court because they have not capacitated themselves to cope with Change


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Buying a car can be the trickiest purchases of one's life, year in year people buy cars they can't drive, maintain, fuel, service and insure.  So it is with many marriages.  Many have gone into so many marriages without an understanding themselves and the person they are marrying.  what then should people do to maximise the marriage there are in?


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Being different in marriage is a blessing because your spouse was sent to sharpen you and you were also to sent to sharpen them too.  Imagine if a stone was smooth, how would the knife be sharpened?  A rough stone makes a sharp knife, so it is in marriage


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Why are modern families busy? If we are to busy what is that we missing out on? And what is it doing to us mentally, physically and many other ways? Have we become too busy to family, to build and grow families that are loving, strong, God fearing and positively impactful in society?


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It is important to initiate sex and to know how to do it correctly. This is because, without the act of initiating sex, your spouse may feel unwanted or may even reject you. But In marriage who's responsibility to Initiate Sex, well this week we explore the delicate field of initiating sex, without fear and prejudice 


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Why is your marriage got to a boring point? What Went wrong? Who is to blame?  How can we fix this boredom?


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Dating in the Christian church is akin to a walking in a landmine field, why?  Instead of the church being a safe place, a place of love and care, it has become a hunting ground, hiding place for uncouth individuals.  This calls for wise view on how one chooses who they date 


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We ate a lot more during the pandemic, and some of us are steal eating a lot because of working from.  The question is, how do we lose this weight and begin to eat in a controlled and healthy way?


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Experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event can of course affect your mental health. It can turn your whole world upside down and it may be difficult to go about your life like you used to. If you have gone through a deeply traumatizing event and are struggling, you are not alone and there is nothing to be ashamed of.


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Every year governments reflect on their performance, opening up for debate in parliament.  This gives government the opportunity to fine tune and fix their plans to better service their citizens.  It would better suit families if we reflect on our performances as a unit, in order to improve or even change the direction of our families.  Make it a habit to reflect on the direction on your family 


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Let's stop gender based violence


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Most of us want a marriage that has happy, fulfilling, but few of us have put in the work that is needed to get such a marriage.  In fact us most us simply hope for a good marriage and are shocked when our marriages end up boring, drear, unfulfilling or in divorce.  The question is are we sowing and working towards the kind of marriage we want?


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Each child comes with a different gift.  Just like fruits each gift is needed for a particular season.  If nurtured as defined by God each child will touch humanity at the right time and right season by their God gift 


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Football coaches have been since football became professionalized been fired for one reason and one reason alone. The failure to bring the best out of the players they have in their squad.  Each parent is given a gifted child and God requires that we bring the best out of them.  The only saving grace we have is that God does not fire parents like football clubs fire coaches.  How are you doing with your children?


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The power of influence a wife has over her husband can never be underestimated. She was given the ability to make him mellow and strive to be the best that he can be. Only when a wife understands her power will she use it for the best. Join us this week as we talk to Angela Mpofu, married for 21 years on how a wife can positively influence her husband


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Many of us go into marriage expecting a perfect spouse, yet we are very far from being perfect ourselves.  This expectation has led to so many broken hearts, disappointment and a quick dash to the divorce door.  Even if you find a new spouse they will still not be perfect. How do you then live together as an imperfect couple?


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Whilst COVID-19 may be killing, Sliding into Dms is killing many marriages. The vaccine is there tried and tested and proved. Jesus is the vaccine


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Prayer unifies and energizes the family unit, it is the life-breath and heartbeat of a Christian home

Does your family pray?  Prayer is like fuel for a car?  Is your family refueling?


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Marriage is the probably the only school where the students do not put half the effort required to pass. With the divorce rate sitting at 50% it is no wonder many marriages are failing because many of us approach it like a love club rather than a school to approached with verve and zeal 


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Research shows that the intensity of marriage tends to decline after the birth of a baby.  It is important to be deliberate on how a couple will protect their marriage and keep the fire burning


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When your wife gets pregnant, the biggest question is how do you as a husband support her and help through the pregnancy. Listen to our podcast for many tips


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You marriage goes through several phases, for your own good.  Some of the phases may not be nice, but necessary


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Where is your marriage headed? How healthy is your marriage? What are the signs in your marriage signs saying? If red flags are the predominate color, then you need to address the issues now 


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No one gets into a relationship with the desire to have a bad experience, however some experiences can be avoided.  Only if we take note of the red flags and address them accordingly.  Red flags are a means to help us make decisions if this relationship is good for us or not.  Join us this week as we discuss red flags for singles 


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Death is inevitable, but the best death comes when you have lived your life to the fullest, loved those that matter to you with your.  It comes when you have empowered those you love to continue living to their best. The best deaths come when you have put your house in order. 


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The world is looking for real leaders, man of steel, man of principle, man filled with love, compassion. 

Man who will protect women with Zeal and gusto.  Are you that man?


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The general narrative is that women are problematic, selfish, gold diggers.  But the narrative God set is, it is not good for man to be alone, I will create a suitable help meet.  Women were created for a purpose and not a small minute one, but one big reason 


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There are some words in relationships that are a no go area


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Words Shape our thoughts, just like a software update, shapes how a device operates. Be careful as words may live you naked


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If only we we knew how powerful our tongue is, we would be careful how we unload it


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Every parent will one day account for how they parented their children.  Parenting is not an easy task but one to be taken seriously 

How well are you parenting your children?


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A stich in time saves nine, good health practices towards one's sexual reproductive provides a platform for a health sexual lifestyle and great chances of having a healthy pregnancy


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Never was there an insecure generation like the 21st generation. We have it all, post it all and yet we remain insecure. We have based our security on tangibles, education, likes and comments and yet all this has left us with insecurity so deep we are the loneliest and saddest generation ever.


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Many a marriages have ended because of poor communication. More so many couples are caught up in unfulfiling sex because of poor or no skills of communication. For many sexual intimacy would be a lot better if there is an improvement of communication


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Human beings seem to know when something is of benefit to them.  This applies to sex.  However, generation after generation has rarely questions why we have sex and why it is important to improve why, when and how we have sex.  Why is there a myth women do not like sex and why men looooove sex? 


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It is not uncommon (at some point in the marriage) for a husband or wife to make excuses not to sleep with their spouse. It can be painful to a any of the parties in the marriage, so it’s important to understand why this happens. There are many reasons. Sex is more than a biological or physical release; it is emotional. Spiritual. It is ultimately about connecting on a deep level. This is the reason sex is so powerful.  When this connection is disrupted, it affects physical intimacy. Couples have divorced over sex and this has affected families and following generations.  Because your sex life is important, let’s explore this delicate topic.


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The penis has often been thought of only as a tool to have sex, but science has shown that it is also a window to a man's health. 

How well do you know your penis?  How well do you understanding its link to your mental, physical and emotional health?

Tune as a professional practitioner gives a more information on Men's Sexual Health 


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Let's dig a little deeper into what intimacy is in marriage, you don't want to miss this one


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The marital race is one where you need to run with a supporting cast, a cast that shares your visions, hopes and desires. No rat can run with a cat, nor frog with a snake. Run with those that will pick you up, motivate you, and inspire you in your marriage.  The question is who are you surrounded with?  


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Your marriage becomes poor if you do not add the necessary value. Without value you open it up to people without values to step in and steal from your marriage.


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Bring back the 30 second kiss, 3 minute hug, the back rub. When couples quit touching, hugging, and kissing except as a prelude to sex, the passion in the relationship usually dies. Do non touch each other just for sex but for the enhancement of intimacy' and affection


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Every marriage is a reflection of the mindset of the couple involved 


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Old wounds have many ways of stealing into relationships. They can disrupt a connection, prevent a connection from reaching take-off, or slowly pull at a relationship until it’s gasping for air. Everyone is capable of having a connection that is loving and life-giving – a relationship that allows each person to be completely seen, stripped back to bare, presences gone, flaws and vulnerabilities on full show. It’s beautiful, but it’s not easy, because this type connection requires openness and vulnerability. The walls need to fall and the armour needs to soften.


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Ignorance is the lack of knowledge, Ignorance is the catalyst for separation.  If you don't take the time to get to know you spouse, then you are only setting your relationship for problems and possibly failure. 


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How does pride destroy relationships?  Pride in marriage refuses to bend, refuses to give grace, refuses to see value in what the other person knows and can teach.


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Where there is no vision people perish. 


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To pursue growth in your marriage without tools is one of the most frustrating things in a marriage.  To Strip yourself naked to one who is not equipped is a dangerous route to take.  Couples could do themselves a great service by equipping themselves for what their other half will reveal to them. 


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Every love scene in a movie eventually falls into place with the perfect timing, perfect words, expressions.  It is just flawless and easy. 

But in reality achieving, true intimacy and love is not that easy, it is just about hard work.  The real truth is we need to develop a thick skin, and patience to achieve true intimacy, in spite of the realities in out life 


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It is not the physical act that makes great sex but the mental, spiritual, intellectual and social connection the couple shares that makes sex great


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Most of us don't want to own up to our part in the problems our marriages face because we are busy blaming others for them.


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Many a marriages are dying a slow silent death. Indifference kills many marriages and most of us see but too in a trance to react


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Many marriages exist in a sour atmosphere, not because one of them has failed but both have failed.  The question is who sets the agenda and mood in your home?


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Marriage is like a tree in a storm. Only trees that are deeply rooted are better suited to survive storms. Is your marriage rooted to overcome storms.


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What is your ultimate achievement in your marriage?


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Intimacy is not sex, intimacy goes deeper than the physical

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99% of the time most of us assume intimacy is sex. However intimacy is not sex. So then what is intimacy. Can a married couple be happy without intimacy?


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Being unemployed can take self esteem, sense of value, self worth. But being unemployed does not mean you have lost but it's an opportunity to discover skills you may have dormant and discover ways to bring in income


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COVID-19 and the consequent economic effects have meant significant job losses for masses worldwide. Many families have been affected, and our future generation (the youth) are affected both immediately and in the long run. The impacts of unemployment on families include poverty and hardship, strained relationships, poorer health (although the causal relationships are not always clear), and housing stress. Unemployment could also harm children's development and employment futures. Join us this Friday 8 Jan 2021 for our first podcast of the year @ 18:00 as we talk to Dumi Mbona the author of a book called Chronicles of the unemployed as we discuss dealing with unemployment


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Family support is important to individuals for a variety of reasons, most of which are related to your personal well-being. Family is important to individuals because it provides benefits to your physical, emotional, and mental health that can't be found anywhere else. Hence no person can be without the support of family 


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Africa: a dangerous place to be poor, black and a woman.


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It's time men worked as a unit to overcome depression, Dr Mpofu took us through a case study on one man with the help of another man recovered from depression


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More women suffer from Depression and anxiety, however more men are likely to die, react more negatively than women. The question is why? Are men less equipped to handle depression?


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Challenges of single parenting, especially being a single mother, are overwhelming, and it requires a single parent to combine the roles of two people with raising the children and running the house.

Before you ask her hand in marriage understand her journey


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Sometimes loving your spouse is easy and sometimes it’s not! Many wives are complaining that the quality of love received is poor.  

This may be true or not true but what remains is that the number of clamoring voices is reflection of how husbands have lost their way from one generation to the other.   Our only hope is to go back to Christ and learn from him 


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The tears and sorrows of others have ceased to matter to most of us. But when we work together we are able to help each other go through grief. The skill of empathy seems to be deserting us day by day. Let us remind ourselves of what empathy is.


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It is not everyday that people talk about the pain and experience of being childless in Marriage.  Join us this week as we talk to a husband, pastor who stepped out and is talking to us about this journey.  Ohh what a challenging discussion. 


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Our well-being is largely determined by the way we live at home. Keeping your house clean contributes to peace of mind and a feeling of ease. On the other hand, having an untidy home contributes to a variety of problems. These problems vary from mental health problems to physical issues such as polluted indoor air and allergens.  


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Why are many marriages unfulfiling and not meeting the expected desires? Why don't many feel loved. Is there something wrong that we are doing wrong?


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It seems that emotional affairs  are  on the upswing. We spend a lot of time with others outside our home, at  work, the gym, or engaging in hobbies. We also easily connect with  others on social media. Some platonic relationships can slowly morph  into deep emotional friendships. When this person is attractive to you  or sexual chemistry exists, you face a slippery slope pulling you away  from your marriage.


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How do we establish a constant and healthy flow of finances for our families and be able to leave behind a legacy for our children or even their children's children


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What makes a man, how has society distorted manhood and how can we restore manhood?


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Many  of us were born from parents who had almost next to nothing in terms of  wealth. And many of us may go to the grave without leaving out children  any form of generational  wealth.  Will your current approach towards building and accumulation  of assets, shape a better future for your children?  Are you working on a  sustainable model to build wealth? Will your salary enable you to build  wealth?   Well join us this Friday on the  Godlidefm as Brett Chulu a financial expert on building generational  wealth.


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Relationships don't just happen. Imagine two people of backgrounds how long can they remain sane without help. It is through prayer that we receive help


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Young, Single, Black African & Female are a combination society has used to judge, oppress, abuse and dictate the lives of women.  Society does not pause to hear out and understand women, rarely do we understand their fears, worries, aspirations, visions 


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One of the most dangerous, worrisome occupations in the world is to raise a girl child in this century.  How do you equip her for a world that always wants to take advantage of her, damage her self esteem, leave her torn, tattered and broken. 


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Is society paying for over compensating? Did we forget to raise boys to men along the way?

Why are prisons filled with men?  Why are universities filled more with women than men?

Why are men leading in all the wrong things?


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The story of recovering from COVID - 19


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Many a times we have asked what is government doing about drug and alcohol abuse?

What are the courts doing or the police to help us fight this scourge?

The greatest questions is what are families doing to fight this painful evil.


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Drug & Alcohol abuse and struggle is real.  Getting out of it is not easy.  Join me as I talk to a recovering drug addict. 

What a testimony!!!!!


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Some Autopsy reports should read cause of death WORDS.


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One in 8 man WILL get prostate cancer. However there are things man can do to reduce the risk of getting prostate cancer.


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Your wife is how you lead her, she is how you nourish her.


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What is wrong with me being friends with my EX?  What would my spouse say?


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Children Suffer Deep emotional scars when parents fight


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For how long shall we stand by and watch our sisters, mothers, daughters get killed by man who promised them love but give them death.  No woman should die at the hands of a man simply because she does not have the same muscle as him.  As man its time we rose up and defend our sisters, mothers, daughters and nieces, lets hold each other accountable


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Sometimes music best expresses what you feel in your heart. join us as we listen to prayerful songs


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Theft, robbery and burglary has killed many marriages. Which one of these are you?


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Africa had certain values, cultures that had set it on a path of success. When the African families lost their cultures, values, the success of the African continent was lost. However, if Africa returns to its values, the success of African can be gained


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Africa the richest and yet poorest Continent in the world.  Why is Africa lagging behind when the continent has the most minerals?

Is the problem government or families. 


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Every couple has these, unmet expectations, how do you deal with such issues


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The word divorce is thrown around cheaply, but the cost is massive. Emotionally mentally, spiritually, physically and financially


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About four out of ten marriages end in divorce, and here is the reason why.

Is your marriage headed for Divorce?


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To forgive is mighty hard, but God makes it possible. How and why do I forgive


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Everything in life has a sense of quality. Even your marriage has some for of quality. Be it good or bad. The biggest question is how did your marriage get to the state of quality it is now. If it is good quality how do you add on it, if is bad how do you improve on it. Join us as we discuss what factors influence quality.


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A topic most man do not want to discuss as it affects their ego. However it is a condition that can be overcome. Join us as we discuss Erectile Dysfunction


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Writing a will ensures that what you have spent your life working for is distributed as you wish. It also ensures that your love one's are protected after your death


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Domestic Abuse has almost become a norm, yet it is such an evil thing. Join us as we talk to a legal practitioner on how victims can combat abuse


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Where does your identity as a men lie?


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What does a woman do to respect her husband love his? Submission versus Love


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You cannot separate submission from love neither can you separate love from submission.


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Wives Submit to your husbands!!! But How do we submit to my husband when he has not earned it?

The question is how do wive submit to their husbands 


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Why do man leave their wives or girl friends whom they have promised love and cheat on them? To cause so much pain and confusion? There are 10 biblical reasons as to why


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Does your man keep on looking at other women?  Are you busy looking at other women and neglecting your own?


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Like Arrows in the hands of warrior are children born in one's youth


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Parenting will humble even the most educated person.  The question is how do we become successful parents?


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Why are men called trash? Can we do something about it?


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All of us come into a marriage with an unwanted inheritance.  An inheritance that proves to be a burden in the long run


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The Silent cry of wives and husbands is so loud but we have chosen to block our ears to its piercing sound. Is your wife or husband crying? Stop and listen.


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Money! Has caused many divorces, but talking about it could save your marriage. 

Talk now before you head for divorce court


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Why is money causing havoc in our marriages?

I mean month end the money we earn is not enough then we have to fight over it.

Why?  


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It is amazing that we plan for our career, education, children and yet we don't plan for the success or our marriages. 

Is it not time we came up with a practical workable plan?


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Do you have a plan for your marriage for next year or you are just moving like leaves being blown in the wind? A wise husband and wife will have a plan on how to grow and improve their marriage.   Are you that wise couple?


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Why Should I as an unmarried person abstain from sex prior to marriage?


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Ukujola or Adultery is a sign of lack of understanding.  When you commit adultery you lack the understanding of what damage and destruction you are causing.  The destruction is generational and nationally. 


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Are you cheating on your spouse?  Do you know what adultery is and what it says about your spouse and God


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How can I forgive my spouse?  It is so difficult?


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The lack of apprecation is one of the leading causes of divorce.  Have you divorce proofed your marriage by learning the art of APPRECIATION?


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Tired of existing in a brother and sister like marriage, where you exist like roommates?

listen to this podcast as we discuss ways and means on how to overcome this phase.


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Is your relationship on fire or you have become roommates?  What are the signs that you are now roommates?


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Does the Bible give us the right reasons for getting married?  Do you know why you are married?  Do you have the right reasons for married?

if you have the right reasons you will have the right purpose for your marriage, the right plans and you will be able to resolve conflict much better. 


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So Many people got married for all the wrong reasons, and some will get married for the wrong reasons.  What are these wrong reasons for marriage?  It is important to know why you are married and your reason should be the right reason.


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What does it take to be the kind of wife your husband is looking for?


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Thoughts are more than mere imaginations; they are mental pictures of the mind with constructive or destructive capabilities.  They have the power to keep you in bondage or liberate you to be the best of you. That’s why until a person’s way of thinking changes, his life and the circumstances of his existence will not change.  Thoughts and habits can make or destroy your marriage.  have you been making or destroying your marriage because of your thoughts?  


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If you are not yet married what attributes should you look for in a man


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Satan loves to destroy relationships. Marriage is meant to be a union that symbolizes Christ’s relationship to the church. What better way to score a victory than to turn that union into a battlefield? It is harder to raise children in the admonition of the Lord when the home is full of strife. Satan doesn’t want you to pass on your faith to your children. Marriage was meant to be a school of love.  Yet most marriages have become heavy on most people, simply because an attack by the devil is always on us.


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There is no reason why our marriages should be boring or stale when God gave us the resources to be dynamic and improve our marriages. We are equipped.


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Most marriages go through stale or boring phases and most have end in divorce. Why? What can I do to overcome this?


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Don't let conflict with your spouse destroy your marriage. Let's garner tips on how to handle conflict and save our marriages


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Every year South Africa records an average of 26 000 divorces because of conflict. Moreso Christian. What causes this conflict and how can we overcome it.


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An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who causes shame is like rottenness in his bones” (Prov. 12:4).


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A woman is called a help meet in the Bible. The question is who is she helping and how does she help


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Can a man love a woman? Can we find examples of Godly man in the Bible


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How do you add value to your family life? What is it that you can do to give your family the greatest gift you can ever give, yourself.


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What does loving your wives mean?


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