Slouching Towards Masculinity: Recent Episodes
philbedwell
A discussion based podcast about the Masculine.
What does it mean to be a man in today's society?
How are we defined and how do we define ourselves? What lessons have we learned and how do we affect others?
Join Philip Bedwell and guests as we discuss lifestyles and life lessons...
Hello and welcome to the debut episode of Cinema, Life & Everything. My masculinity is going to be temporarily slouched and for now please check out my new podcast...
Cinema, Life & Everything is a discussion-based podcast where guests from varied walks of life talk about the films which motivate and inspire them on their life journey.
SPOTIFY - https://open.spotify.com/show/0vAHSXjUkcmfu70lqVsndC?si=c329e83c06eb4b0e
ANCHOR - https://anchor.fm/cinemalifeandeverything
My first guest is Mat Ricardo.
Mat is an incredible entertainer, an Extraordinary Gentleman and an inspirational human being.
You can find Mat's awesome YouTube channel at - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7GozvAsW0KPlSEh6SCouQQ
You can follow Mat on Instagram @matricardo and Facebook @MatRicardoOfficial
You can find me on Instagram @philipbedwell
Happy New Year and welcome to the latest episode of Slouching Towards Masculinity.
My guest today is a returning Paul Brand, also known as the wrestler Paul Malen. We had such a good chat last time but there wasn't enough time to cover it all! So we chat about overcoming barriers, dealing with negativity and self judgement plus the important of having good psychology in wrestling.
Amazing chat and an amazing guy! You find out about Paul's services at https://www.facebook.com/pbfitnessandcoaching/
And please let me know what you thought of this chat on my Instagram @philipbedwell
I'll be back NEXT WEEK with some special news! Stay tuned.
Well, I can't believe it but here in my ONE-HUNDREDTH episode!!
And what a guest I have today. A long-term friend and pro wrestler Paul "Stixx" Grint joins me to discuss empathy, selflessness and dealing with obstacles and setbacks alongside some awesome perceptions about wrestling and what it takes to be a success.
A spellbinding conversation is here for you to enjoy! Thanks, Stixx!!
You can't find out more about the wrestling academy at -
https://www.facebook.com/HOPWrestling/
https://houseofpainwrestling.wordpress.com/?fbclid=IwAR1ApI3d_qFybo3yDO_9YWD6q7-8iSmLAEEpe3NmOcbuGTmJ19qsTcBTaCA
And as always you can find me on Instagram @philipbedwell
See you in a fortnight!!
Hello there! We are back! And on the cusp of 100 episodes!! Incredible!
My guest today is Scott Parker, I knew him from wrestling but quite quickly in this conversation I realised that there was so much more to know! Scott was honest and open about his struggles in life and how he has managed to come through stress and struggle to be an amazing and inspirational human.
What a conversation! You're going to love it!
You can follow Scott at
Instagram: @goldenarrow74 and @parkers_pupsters
FB @parkerspupsters YouTube @parkerspupsters362 And follow me on Instagram @philipbedwell Have a great one and see you in a fortnight!
Work has picked up and a couple of guests fell through so today I give you a quick insight into how I live with passion, stay motivated and follow my curiosities.
Back in a fortnight with a new guest!
Have a good one!
Philip
Part 2 of my former guest Q&A. Sorry for the delay in this upload! I'll be back to the normal fortnightly schedule from here on out!
So until then... I hope you enjoy listening to this episode.
Let me know what you thought on my Instagram @philipbedwell and please like, subscribe and spread the word!
Have a great one and see you in a fortnight!
Flipping the script a bit this week and giving my former guests a chance to ask me some questions!
Some great questions were sent through on a variety of subject and I had a lot of fun answering a few. With the 100th episode fast approaching and a day after my Birthday this seemed like a perfect time to do this podcast and I hope you have as much fun listening as I did answering.
Let me know what you thought on my Instagram @philipbedwell and please like, subscribe and spread the word!
Have a great one and see you in a fortnight!
My guest today is Fitness Professional and friend Paul Brand, also known as the wrestler Paul Malen. I've read about Paul's amazing personal journey and against both physical and mental adversity and wanted to get him on my podcast to share his story.
Paul also speaks about how he helps his clients and wrestling trainees achieve their victories and his selfless attitude towards giving help to others in need.
Amazing chat and an amazing guy! You find out about Paul's services at https://www.facebook.com/pbfitnessandcoaching/
And please let me know what you thought of this chat on my Instagram @philipbedwell
See you in a fortnight!
My guests today are Paul Ashe, Ross Jones and Rich Whitehouse, my friends and wrestling colleagues for three decades.
The match review from me and Paul a couple of episodes back got such a great response I invited the guys to watch Ricky Steamboat vs Rick Rude from Beach Blast 92 and we discuss performance, authenticity, masculinity and the changing nature of wrestling. You can either listen to the podcast or watch along. The links are here - ttps://dai.ly/k4GFc4O9tMeGOOyhoex PART 1 https://dai.ly/k2q03vsfJ428JzyhoK3 PART 2 Let me know what you thought in the comments below or drop me a message on Instagram @philipbedwell! If you enjoy it we'll do another.
Wow! What an episode for you to listen to today! My guest is Sophie Banyard, a former rock n' roll fire breather turned badass kettlebell swinging strength and fitness coach! Sophie recently posted on her Facebook account about her struggles with addiction and how she has turned her life around.
It was such an emotional and positive journey to listen to and I'm so grateful for the time she gave me to chat. Another talk due soon! But until then, enjoy every second of this one.
You can find more about Sophie at https://www.facebook.com/SophieBanyardPersonalTraining/
And you can drop me a message on my Instagram @philipbedwell
Would be great to hear from you! See you again in a fortnight!
My guest today is Paul Ashe, my best friend for three decades, wrestler and trainer.
A bit of a different podcast today as Paul and I watch one of our old professional wrestling matches and discuss performance, authencity, masculinity and the changing nature of wrestling. You can either listen to the podcast or watch along. The link is here - https://youtu.be/aYW7j9XqRQU Let me know what you thought in the comments below or drop me a message on Instagram @philipbedwell! If you enjoy it we'll do another.
My guest today is a returning Ben Adam Sohawon. It's been a while since Ben and I have spoke and in this conversation we have an illuminating conversation about the internet and Cyber Identity.
Always a pleasure to have Ben on and listen to his opinions and I'll have him back on again soon.
If you like to leave a comment about todays podcast or check else what I'm up to then please go to my Instagram @philipbedwell
See you next week!
Mark Gallagher has been a Lecturer and Associate Professor at The University of Nottingham. He has published extensive literature on Masculinity, Gender and Sexuality in Films in both Eastern and Western Cinema.
I was very happy when Mark agreed to come back to the podcast to further the discussion we had in Episode 80. We expand on the changing role of Masculinity in film and how Villains in films have changed in their motivation and intentions.
A fascinating and fantastic chat! Thanks Mark!
You can follow Mark at https://independent.academia.edu/MarkGallagher38
Or on Twitter at https://twitter.com/mgallax
You can buy Mark's books on US Amazon at -
https://www.amazon.com/Action-Figures-Contemporary-Narratives-2006-02-05/dp/B003Q5K2HM/
https://www.amazon.com/Tony-Leung-Chiu-Wai-Film-Stars/dp/1844577813/
And in the UK at
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Action-Figures-Contemporary-Narratives-2006-02-05/dp/B003Q5K2HM/
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Tony-Leung-Chiu-Wai-Film-Stars/dp/1844577813/
As always, you can follow me on Instagram @philipbedwell Leave a comment! Would be great to hear from you!
Today's guest is Richard Burkhill, a great friend and also a teacher who has taught in China and Thailand. We chat today about Worldwide Empathy and having a clarity or purpose in your life. Richard has such an expressive and positive view of the world and we manage to cover a range of subject which I guarantee will have you smiling by the end!
You can find out more about Richard's EnvisionBetter project at
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/envisionBetter/
Twitter @envisionBetter
You can follow me on Instagram @philipbedwell
My guest today is Paul Ashe, my best friend for three decades, wrestler and trainer.
Paul and I discuss his changing mindset and attitude towards life. And what you can do to make a difference in your behavior to become a better person. Funny and touching, I loved this chat and getting to see a new side to my friend.
If you would like more information about the wrestling company which Paul runs please go to https://www.facebook.com/UBWUK1/
You can follow me on Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
Today's guest is Priscilla, Queen of the Ring, also known as Ollie Burness. We have a chat about the changing attitudes of Pro Wrestling towards gender and identity. We also drop some knowledge about marketing yourself and following your passions. Highly recommended listening!
Get your tickets for the June 11th PCW Pride of the Ring, Blackpool event at https://www.tickettailor.com/events/pcw/686874/ You can find more out about Priscilla on Twitter at @Priscillaqotr , on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/PriscillaQOTR/ and on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC41YAZTr2XKuFuAb0ZmhsHA You can follow me on Instagram @philipbedwell
Today's guest is Kenny D'Cruz from MenSpeak Men's Groups. Kenny and I had one of my favourite conversations in our first chat with one another. His return to my podcast exceeded the first one! We discuss changes and progressions in his own life alongside how current world events are shaping the perception of masculinity and what it means to be a man.
I can't wait for you to listen to this!
I'd also love for you to check out Kenny's sites at www.themanwhisperer.co.uk & https://mensgroups.co.uk/
You can find me on Instagram @philipbedwell
My guest today is Jamie Clubb. Jamie has done it all, born into a travelling circus he is also a expert in multiple martial arts and has his own self defense system.
Today we discuss Male Rites of Passage, societal expectations of all genders and how they've changed.
You can find out more about Jamie at his website https://clubbchimera.com/
Or follow him on Instagram @clubbchimera
You can follow me or comment on the episode at @philipbedwell on Instagram
All the best and I'll see you next week!
And we are back! It's been a while but I'm glad to be back and having these amazing conversations with these incredible guests.
My guest today is Holly Prentice, a Professional Actress, Dancer, Model, Screen Combatant, Fitness Instructor and Personal trainer living in London.
You can find out more about Holly at https://www.hollyprentice.com/
Or you can find her on Instagram @hollyprenticee or her Fitness account @hol_lot_of_sweat
Come and have a chat with me on Instagram @philipbedwell
I'm having to put STM on hold for 2-3 weeks whilst I deal with some personal issues.
Please check back shortly!
All the best
Philip
My guest today is Holly Prentice, a Professional Actress, Dancer, Model, Screen Combatant, Fitness Instructor and Personal trainer living in London.
Holly and I met on a night shoot set recently and had great discussions and laughs in the early hours of the morning. Her passion and enthusiasm for creativity and physical fitness were infectious so I really wanted to get her on the podcast to discuss her insights further.
We discuss her journey through training in various disciplines, the differences in training genders and how a unison of a strong body and a strong mind helps you overcome anything that life can throw at you.
This was a incredibly uplifting conversation which I can't wait for you to hear!
You can find out more about Holly at https://www.hollyprentice.com/
Or you can find her on Instagram @hollyprenticee or her Fitness account @hol_lot_of_sweat
Come and have a chat with me on Instagram @philipbedwell
All the best and I'll see you next week.
My guest today is the returning Amy Redmond (Amy Zing), an Artistic Director of the Power Of Women Festival, Margate Pride and Co-Founder of the legendary Sink the Pink.
We had such a good time last time we thought it was time for a second round. Amy and I chatted about self identification and how society can force values upon you. We also had a great discussion about how identity can also be shaped by capitalism and how to guard against it! Amy is a fantastic guest to have on and it so joyous, passionate and knowledgeable. You're going to love this!
You can find more out about Amy on IG @missamyzing
The POW Festival at @powthanet
And Margate Pride at @margatepride
Also, please check out Sink the Pink @sink_the_pink
You can find me on IG @philipbedwell
Mark Gallagher has been a Lecturer and Associate Professor at The University of Nottingham. He has published extensive literature on Masculinity, Gender and Sexuality in Films in both Eastern and Western Cinema.
I came across some of Mark's work online and I was extremely honoured when he agreed to come onto the podcast for a chat. We cover gender in movies, the changing role of the hero in today's cinema, how masculine values have changed and how this has been covered in films and the role of the comic book hero of current cinema.
This was a fascinating chat which I gaining so much information on. I thank Mark for his time and would love to have him back on in the future.
You can follow Mark at https://independent.academia.edu/MarkGallagher38
Or on Twitter at https://twitter.com/mgallax
You can buy Mark's books on US Amazon at -
https://www.amazon.com/Action-Figures-Contemporary-Narratives-2006-02-05/dp/B003Q5K2HM/
https://www.amazon.com/Tony-Leung-Chiu-Wai-Film-Stars/dp/1844577813/
And in the UK at
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Action-Figures-Contemporary-Narratives-2006-02-05/dp/B003Q5K2HM/
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Tony-Leung-Chiu-Wai-Film-Stars/dp/1844577813/
As always, you can follow me on Instagram @philipbedwell Leave a comment! Would be great to hear from you!
See you next week!
It's STM's 3rd Q&A session. I've went back to the pot of listeners and former guests questions and picked out a few more. These were excellent questions covering regret, future plans, favourite wrestlers and what horror icons I would invite to dinner! Hope you enjoy and back to the guests next week.
You can follow me and drop me your question on Instagram @philipbedwell
Have a good one!
Pierce Starre is a live performance artist based in Liverpool. They run the performance night SPILL YER TEA and Performance N' Tha, an artist led platform facilitating the exploration and development of Live Art in Liverpool. Pierce and I talked about their upbringing, gender identification and insights to their motivations to create.
Wonderful words from a wonderful human. Enjoy!
You can follow Pierce on Instagram @piercestarrartist and his company at @performancentha
You can also check out his amazing website at www.piercestarre.com
As always, come and have a chat with me on Instagram @philipbedwell
A short one for you today as I talk about my Birthday, a life lesson I considered recently and a quote I live my life by.
A new guest coming next week so until then enjoy this short update and I'll see you then.
Please follow me on Instagram @philipbedwell
My guest today is Sean Galla is a serial entrepreneur, Lyme Disease advocate & adventure sports addict from Vancouver, Canada. Sean also founded the incredible https://mensgroup.com/ which enables and connects men to share their feelings, struggles and successes.
Sean and I discuss his own personal hardships and how he overcame them. Sean also discussed his feelings on other pathways to access the Masculine, how to avoid the ego and how to be vulnerable and honest with other men.
This conversation was fascinating and I can't wait for you to hear it! I'm getting Sean back on again shortly for another chat as I enjoyed this one so much.
Until then, check out Sean's site at https://mensgroup.com/
You can find me on Instagram at @philipbedwell
All the best! See you next week.
A short interruption from the usual podcast style to discuss a wonderful piece of news for me and my partner Abigail.
We are expecting a baby in 2022 so I've taken this week to discuss what having a baby means for us, my hopes for the future and why I wanted to become a Dad.
Enjoy and I'll have a new interview for you next week.
Please find me on Instagram @philipbedwell
My guest today is Amy Redmond (Amy Zing), an Artistic Director of the Power Of Women Festival, Margate Pride and Co-Founder of the legendary Sink the Pink.
Amy joined me today to discuss the male gaze, bringing a boy up in today's society, how relationships need to evolve and the importance of being wild and free! I've chatted to Amy during our PT sessions and I always knew I'd love a long form conversation with her and it did not disappoint. Time flew past and I'd love to cover more subjects with her on a future podcast.
Until then though... Enjoy!
You can find more out about Amy on IG @missamyzing
The POW Festival at @powthanet
And Margate Pride at @margatepride
Also, please check out Sink the Pink @sink_the_pink
You can find me on IG @philipbedwell
It's STM's 2nd Q&A session. I've went back to the pot of listeners and former guests questions and picked out a few more. This was another great bunch of questions covering wrestling, life journeys, relationships and time. Loved answering these and will do another one soon. Hope you enjoy.
You can follow me and drop me your question on Instagram @philipbedwell
Have a good one!
My guest today is Michael Murphy, a Performance Artist/Drama Graduate and Director of Original Case Theatre. I met Michael when we both worked on the short film S**t Just Got Real. It was great to get to know him and I was fascinated by his approach to performance and life.
We discuss those approaches alongside his perceptions to masculinity and how life has changed since lockdown. Cracking bloke and a cracking chat. Enjoy!
You can find Michael's Instagram at @eyebrowsguy or Tik Tok :Eyebrowsguy
You can find out about his theatre company on IG @original_case_theatre
You can find me on IG @philipbedwell
All the best. See you next week.
My guest today is Dr. Ewan Kirkland, Principal Lecturer, Course Leader Animation and Games Art & Design School of Media at the University of Brighton.
Having got back heavily into gaming I have become fascinated with the depth of storytelling now available. I found some of Ewan's work online and was really interested in his work on how gender is used in video games. We talk about this alongside how gaming has evolved and where it's future lies. We also discuss Ewan's forthcoming book "Videogames and the Gothic" where the traditional Masculine gendered Triple A gaming is paralleled against the Female gendering of Gothic Fiction.
This conversation was absolutely fascinating and one of my favorite ever! Enjoy.
Ewan's book will be available at https://www.routledge.com/Videogames-and-the-Gothic/Kirkland/p/book/9780367460228
You can find me at @philipbedwell on Instagram.
Wow! 70 Episodes! To celebrate I've asked listeners, friends and former guests to send in their questions to me. I had a great time answering these so if you enjoy this episode or if you have any questions yourself then let me know!
If I get good feedback I'll do another in the future. Enjoy and have a great week.
You can follow and contact me @philipbedwell on Instagram
My guest today is Kiernan Ash, also known as the Professional Wrestler Grayson Dawn. Kiernan is a good friend who very graciously came onto the podcast to discuss his insights into Masculinity and its positive and negative aspects. We get to chat about his childhood which was a story I'd never heard from him before. We also get to discuss his other career as a Personal Trainer and his views of the current fitness model of today's society.
A great chat I'm sure you'll enjoy! Get a-listening!
You can follow Kiernan at @fbifitness_kash (Fitness Account) @kash_graysondawn94 (Instagram) & https://www.facebook.com/traviskiernan.ash
Find me on Instagram @philipbedwell
That's it! Have a good one and I'll see you next week.
My guest today is my partner Abigail Tarttelin. We've both recently read the book "The Danish Way of Parenting" and were both so taken with it we've decided to discuss it. But if you aren't a parent or not wishing to be one then fear not! The book has a lot of life lessons about how to reframe hardship, the importance of struggle and the need for empathy.
Great chat and great topics covered. Enjoy!
The book is The Danish Way of Parenting by Jessica Joelle Alexander and Iben Dissing Sandahl. Find it here - https://www.littlebrown.co.uk/titles/jessica-joelle-alexander/the-danish-way-of-parenting/9780349414355/
You can follow Abby on Instagram @abigailtarttelin_
Her website is at https://www.abigailtarttelin.com/
And you can buy her zine at https://feministrants.bigcartel.com/
You can follow me on Instagram at @philipbedwell
My guests today are Rose Thorne and Benjamin Louche, co-founders of the Double RR Club and responsible for the amazing charity Cabaret vs Cancer.
We discuss the upcoming Bowie Charity shows, Ashes to Ashes, on the 28th and 29th July at Wilton Music Hall. We also going into detail about Bowie's life and his various shifts in identity and masculinity. David Lynch, Horror Movie nights and the difference between a home relationship and a performative collaboration also get spoken about.
Most importantly, Rose and Ben speak about the amazing charity work they have done and continue to do. It is incredible and an emotional listen and I can't wait for you to hear it.
Check out https://www.cabaretvscancer.co.uk/ for all of the great shows coming up and ways you can contribute to CvsC. You can also text CABARET to 70480 to make a donation NOW!!!
If you are living in London I recommend checking out Ashes to Ashes, it's going to be incredible.
All the best and see you next week. x
My guest today is a returning Rich Whitehouse, we couldn't fit all the subjects in one podcast so I'm grateful he found the time to come back on.
Rich and I discuss how Parenthood has affected his life and Professional Wrestling and Masculinity in the UAE. Rich also has a fascinating insight about how societal norms and expectations have changed through the decade and how this has been reflected in the TV Show The Simpsons.
It was great to have Rich on for round two and I can't wait to meet up with him in person.
Enjoy the podcast!
You can follow Rich's alter ego on Instagram and Twitter @findsunsetskip
Leave your feedback about this show or just get in touch with me at @philipbedwell on Instagram
My guest today is Rich Whitehouse, a teacher, father, world traveler and Pro Wrestler. I met Rich on the Pro Wrestling circuit many years ago. He's always been a positive soul and a progressive thinker so I'm glad he's finally on my podcast.
Rich and I discuss masculine role models, seeking risk, travelling the world, the joy of live performance, becoming a father and teaching positive masculine values and obscure Christian Slater movies. It was a great chat and I'll be getting him back shortly to finish off what we started here. Enjoy the chat!
You can follow Rich's alter ego on Instagram and Twitter @findsunsetskip
Leave your feedback and feelings about this show @philipbedwell on Instagram
My guest today is Mike Kelson, an Actor, Comedian, Musician and Vegan. I've worked with Mike on a film called Blue Bodies and wanted to get him on the podcast to talk about his thoughts and feelings on creativity, masculinity and curiosity.
We also have a chat about his lifestyle choices and how they assist him in his Health and Wellbeing.
It's a great chat and Mike had some unique life lessons to share. I hope you enjoy it.
You can follow Mike on Instagram @mike.kelson.31 and on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/mike.kelson.31
You can follow me on Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
My guest today is Paul Ashe, my best friend for three decades, wrestler, trainer and a lover of klaxons.
Paul joined me to chat about aging and how our lives have changed. We look back at the highs and lows of our lives so far and how we could've done things differently. This isn't a podcast of regret however! Paul has had a massive perspective shift in his life and he discuses that too. I'm so proud of what he has achieved and the work he continues to do on himself.
Enjoy the show.
You can listen to Paul's podcast at https://open.spotify.com/show/5O2QCP6EIq4YlMVMGkUHJD?si=xWdj76f0RVeZzeqsef9IXw&dl_branch=1
If you would like more information about the wrestling company which Paul runs please go to https://www.facebook.com/UBWUK1/
You can follow me on Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
My guest today is the awesome Tree Carr. Tree is a published author who works in the esoteric realms of dreams, death and divination.
Tree returned to the podcast to talk about her recent studies in Psychedelics and their use with depression and at the end of life. We discuss the positives and negatives of drug use and have an awesome chat about how technology is entering into the realm of spiritual awakening too! Tree also talks about her fantastic new book "Conscious Dreamer" and how by following the steps set out in the book you can gain a better understanding of self and your place in the universe.
The time flew past and Tree has the best outlook to life. I loved this chat.
You find out more about Tree and her book at -
Instagram @tree_carr
Website https://www.luciddreamtree.com/
Twitter @tree_carr
You can follow me at
Instagram @philipbedwell
Thanks and I'll be back next week! Have a good one.
My guest today is Elizabeth Short, an incredible artist and human. Elizabeth reached out and we discussed her transitional journey into her identity, her creativity and how to be true and authentic to yourself.
Elizabeth was honest and open in her opinions and I found this conversation enlightening, uplifting and beautiful. Thanks to Elizabeth for her time and I hope you enjoy listening!
Send your comments to me on Instagram @philipbedwell
Thanks a lot and I'll see you next week.
My guest today is Jamie Jay Curd, Lead Instructor at No Cape Required Fitness and a man who has undergone an amazing transformation both physically and mentally.
We discuss Jamie's journey and his reasons for change, his interests in various physical disciplines such as DDP Yoga and long distance running. Jamie also chats about how in achieving his own goals how he now inspires others and also gives back to charity.
He's an amazing bloke and I'm glad we had a chance to have a long form chat about all he has accomplished.
You can follow Jamie at https://www.facebook.com/JamieJayC or at https://www.facebook.com/ncrfitness
You can find me on Instagram @philipbedwell
That's your lot! See you next week!
Today's guest is Ben Bowles, a Photographer and Director from Margate
I caught up with Ben today to discuss routines and rituals to set you up for a day ahead. We also discussed how to be in the moment and balance completing tasks alongside enjoying life to its fullest. Ben is an amazing bloke who has great insight into his own life and constantly seeks to improve and progress in every area. I feel very excited to be able to share this conversation with you!
You can follow Ben at -
Instagram - @benjaminfilm1
Website - https://www.benjaminfilmphotography.co.uk/
You can follow me on Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week.
Have a good one!
My guest today is a returning Dan John, an All-American discus thrower, Dan has also competed at the highest levels of Olympic lifting, Highland Games. He also holds the American record in the Weight Pentathlon. Dan has provided amazing insight in his first two podcasts with me and he came back for a third time to discuss the importance of routines and goal setting.
Lat time Dan was on the podcast we also discussed the 5-2 assignment and we discuss some of your feedback about this task.
During the pandemic I have seen a lot of people falter in their progress both mentally and physically. Dan provides some easy steps to get back on track and he provided his current daily "Pirate Map" to keep him on target.
- Before I go to bed, make coffee for the morning. Do my META supplements (metformin, melatonin, and Metamucil). Make my To Do List for tomorrow.
- At least do the One Moment Meditation; strive for a full 15-minute meditation.
- Eat veggies at every meal; include two Gut Biome breaks (fermented food plus fruit) daily.
- Five days a week, lift weights as appropriate and walk/ruck/heavyhand.
- Make a difference.
Dan's workout generator and goal setting course is at https://www.danjohnuniversity.com/ it's an amazing tool which I can highly recommend. As a listener of this podcast if you put "March" in the discount code box you get three months for the price of one.
You can follow Dan at the university page or at @coachdanjohn on Instagram or https://www.facebook.com/CoachDanJohn1/ on Facebook. I would also recommend Dan's weekly newsletter which you can sign up for at http://danjohn.net/wandering-weights/
All the best and see you next week.
My guest today is Callum Oliver, a Life Coach and Fitness Professional. Callum's first time on my podcast was so inspirational and moving I really wanted to get him back on to see how he was doing now. We speak about where he finds himself as the UK continues to come out of lockdown and we also discuss the importance of balance in life, setting goals and making yourself task focused but allowing yourself to be able to be fluid and enjoy the moment too.
Callum is an incredible human and I felt so privileged to be able to hear his thoughts on these topics.
Enjoy the conversation!
The very worthy charity which Callum mentioned is here https://justgiving.com/crowdfunding/callumolivercm
You can find out more about Callum and read his incredible story at https://www.callumoliver.co.uk/
You can support the awesome OneLife Project at https://www.callumoliver.co.uk/copy-of-our-mission-1 and join the Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/theonelifeproject
You also follow Callum on Instagram @callumolivercm
Get in touch with me on Instagram @philipbedwell
All the best and see you next week.
My guest today is a returning Ben Adam Sohawon. We continue the chat from our other recent podcast by discussing the importance of art in today's society, equality, self identification and the importance of critical thinking.
Loved this chat with Ben and happy to have my views challenged by a great friend.
If you want to check out Ben's Agency then please go to https://www.fysco.agency/
If you like to leave a comment about todays podcast or check else what I'm up to then please go to my Instagram @philipbedwell
See you next week!
My guest today is Ross Jones, a Head Teacher, Pro Wrestler, Husband and Father. He truly is a man who wears man hats and we discuss how he keeps his life balanced and authentic. Ross is also a long term friend of mine and we discuss our shared history and just how Ross is such a positive influence on all those around him.
Cracking bloke and a cracking conversation for you to enjoy!
You can follow Ross on Twitter @RJSinghIsKing and Instagram @kingrjsingh
You can follow me on the old IG @philipbedwell
That's your lot! Have a wonderful week.
My guest today is the Best Selling Author, Actress, Director, Musician and my partner Abigail Tarttelin. With the reducing of lockdown measures in the UK we discuss what are feelings are now. How the lockdown has affected us and our community, what we have learned and what our hopes for the future are.
I love having Abby on as a guest and I always get to hear some opinions and thoughts from her that we don't get to share in our everyday lives. I'm sure you'll get some great insight from this conversation too.
You can follow Abby on Instagram @abigailtarttelin_
Her website is at https://www.abigailtarttelin.com/
And you can buy her zine at https://feministrants.bigcartel.com/
You can follow me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
My guest today is a returning Ben Adam Sohawon. It's been a while since Ben has been on and I wanted to catch up with him on a variety of topics. We spoke about the nature of language and conversation, how technology has altered the way we exchange information and whether this is a positive or negative.
Always a pleasure to have Ben on and listen to his opinions and I'll have him back on again soon.
If you like to leave a comment about todays podcast or check else what I'm up to then please go to my Instagram @philipbedwell
See you next week!
We have made one year of podcasts! Thank you so much whether you are a first time or long term listener. I couldn't do it without you.
And I can not think of a finer guest to celebrate a year than the Master of the Macabre, Benjamin Louche! I've known Ben since I attended The Double R Club in Bethnal Green. A wonderous night hosted by Ben and his wife Rose Thorne. We talk about how lockdown has affected the arts, his awesome musical Unsong project and his writing career under the strange pen name of Mason Ball...
Ben gives some incredible thoughts on creativity, the role of the audience and perhaps my favourite quote of all the podcasts so far. So much to unpack and enjoy! Be entertained, be terrified !
Get hold of the amazing books mentioned at https://www.masonball.co.uk/books anfd check out Unsong at https://unsong.bandcamp.com/ (I recommend The Frailty Of Angels, The Treason Of People)
You can follow Benjamin on Instagram at @sofuckinsuave and the Double R Club at @therrclub
Facebook Ben at https://www.facebook.com/benjamin.louche and Twitter @sofuckinsuave
You can follow me at @philipbedwell on Instagram. See you next week for 1 year and 1 week!
Have a good one.
My guest today is a returning Dan John, an All-American discus thrower, Dan has also competed at the highest levels of Olympic lifting, Highland Games. He also holds the American record in the Weight Pentathlon. We had such a good chat the first time around I really wanted to get more information from Dan regarding positive lifestyle habits.
Dan has set me and YOU, dear listener, a 5 2 assignment. Listen to the podcast then go to my page at @philipbedwell on Instagram and comment to me about your goals. I aim to chat to Dan shortly and it would be great if we could discuss some listeners dreams and how to get there. I look forward to hearing from you.
I'm still using Dan's workout generator at https://www.danjohnuniversity.com/ it's an amazing tool alongside an incredible array of resources to help you with exercise and living. As a listener of this podcast if you put "March" in the discount code box you get three months for the price of one.
You can follow Dan at the university page or at @coachdanjohn on Instagram or https://www.facebook.com/CoachDanJohn1/ on Facebook. I would also recommend Dan's weekly newsletter which you can sign up for at http://danjohn.net/wandering-weights/
All the best and see you next week.
My guest today is Max Shank, an athlete, a fitness professional, an educator and a free thinker. Max has studied the human condition from multiple philosophies and promotes physical freedom no matter what your age. I've been following Max's teachings since his awesome Ultimate Athleticism and Simple Shoulder Solutions eBooks. Recently, I've noticed that Max's appearance and teaching style have changed to a more holistic and full mind/body approach. I've been blown away by his latest guide "Primal Athleticism" which we discuss in this very podcast. We also talk about learning from injury, the importance of continued education and critical thinking and the need to unplug from social media.
Great conversation, incredible human and a podcast I'm sure you love.
If you would like to give "Primal Athleticism" a go then please type in "GOPRIMAL" on the checkout page for a great discount. A special one for you dear listener!
You can get the programme and follow Max at https://maxshank.com/ On Instagram @maxshank or Facebook https://www.facebook.com/MaxShank
You can follow me @philipbedwell on Instagram
That's it! Have a great week and I'll see you next time.
My guest today is Dan John, an All-American discus thrower, Dan has also competed at the highest levels of Olympic lifting, Highland Games. He also holds the American record in the Weight Pentathlon. Dan's books and lessons have shaped me physically and mentally both in the weight room and everyday life. Dan graciously gave me his time to talk not only about fitness but the importance of integrity, family and masculinity.
This was an awesome conversation which went from poignant and emotional to inspirational and hilarious. I can't wait for you to hear it! Enjoy!
I also have been using Dan's workout generator at https://www.danjohnuniversity.com/ it's an amazing tool alongside an incredible array of resources to help you with exercise and living. As a listener of this podcast if you put "March" in the discount code box you get three months for the price of one. Boom! I can tell you it's so worth it.
You can follow Dan at the university page or at @coachdanjohn on Instagram or https://www.facebook.com/CoachDanJohn1/ on Facebook. I would also recommend Dan's weekly newsletter which you can sign up for at http://danjohn.net/wandering-weights/
You can follow me @philipbedwell on Instagram. Come On! Let's have a chat!
All the best and see you next week.
My guest today is an incredible entertainer, an Extraordinary Gentleman and an inspirational human being. His name is Mat Ricardo and I very grateful to be able to call him a friend. We discuss his journey into all aspects of performance including his passion of juggling. I learned so much about Mat in this conversation and he shared views and life lessons which I truly treasure. You're going to LOVE this one!
You can find Mat's awesome YouTube channel at - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7GozvAsW0KPlSEh6SCouQQ
And you can follow Mat on Instagram @matricardo and Facebook @MatRicardoOfficial
You can follow me @philipbedwell on the old IG or check out my website at www.philipbedwell.com
Thanks! See you next week.
My guest is Hayden, or as he is known by his Pro Wrestling Persona, Lincoln Dutch.
We had a great chat about weight training, wrestling and life but also explored how injuries affect you mentally and physically. How you can adapt and when it's time to change up a lifestyle which isn't benefitting you anymore. Hayden not only has great insight on his own life but is a fantastic teacher of a new generation of wrestlers and to his own family.
This was a great conversation and I'm sure you'll enjoy it!
You can check out Hayden's wrestling company at @fightfactorywrestling on Instagram or https://www.facebook.com/FFWrestling on Facebook.
You can follow Hayden at @lincolndutch on Instagram or https://www.facebook.com/LincolnDutch on Facebook.
You can check in with me on Instagram @philipbedwell it would be great to hear from you!
That's it! Have a good one and I'll be back next week.
My guest today is Callum Oliver, a Life Coach and Fitness Professional. Callum has had such a interesting journey through life, he has undergone personal tramua and setbacks yet found a way to succeed against hardships. He has been able to enable others to find their paths to thriving and is also able to work on giving to charity to help those less fortunate. I was so grateful that he had time to share with journey as well as give his thoughts and insights on how to live life to its fullest.
You can find out more about Callum and read his incredible story at https://www.callumoliver.co.uk/
You can support the awesome OneLife Project at https://www.callumoliver.co.uk/copy-of-our-mission-1 and join the Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/theonelifeproject
You also follow Callum on Instagram @callumolivercm
Get in touch with me on Instagram @philipbedwell
All the best and see you next week.
My guest today is Jordan McKenzie, a multidisciplinary artist, teacher and fantastic human.
Jordan returns to discuss what he's been doing since our last conversation. We chat about the importance of being time rich, the passion to keep learning and Jordan talks about his amazing Grit project. A system designed to help artists emotionally and mentally. It's an incredible piece of work and I'm so glad Jordan gave me his time to talk about it.
You can see Jordan's beautiful art at www.http://jordanmckenzie.co.uk/ or follow him on Instagramat https://www.instagram.com/jordan.e.mckenzie/?hl=en
You can follow me on Instagram @philipbedwell
See you next week you lovely people!
My guest today is Billy Reynolds, a Wrestler, Actor and all round incredible Entertainer. Billy and I have wrestled each other and been friends for a long time! Having a big conversation has been years in the making and I'm glad we both found the time to do this.
I use the term "Honest and Open" a lot when I talk about these podcasts but Billy truly was. He showed strength in vulnerability and we had a conversation of how to deal with set backs, following your passion and staying true and authentic to yourself.
You can follow Billy on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/billy.reynolds.96 and Instagram @buffbiker1985
Get in touch with me on Instagram @philipbedwell
All the best and see you next week.
My guest today is DaeShawn Beasley from the B.E.A.S.T Podcast and the B.E.A.S.T Basketball Training App. DaeShawn is a Coach, Mentor and Writer and a all round good guy! I guested on his podcast and after that conversation with him I really wanted to return the favour. DaeShawn's story is one of personal growth and humility. He is positive and proactive and is looking to spread is message to as many as possible. It's such a joy to have these conversations and there is some incredible knowledge be shared today. Enjoy!
You can follow Daeshawn at his podcast at https://anchor.fm/beastpodcast/
His website is at https://beastbasketballtraining.com/
And his Instagram's are @beastpodcast and @coach_beas
You can follow or message me on Instagram at @philipbedwell
Today's guest is Lennie from the awesome Queer Feminist Punk Rock & Rage duo, pink suits.
Lennie returns to discuss the importance of connection and communication during lockdown and we discuss our reasons for moving to Margate. Lennie also chat's about his feelings towards his physicality and how he uses it in his arts practice and the importance of a healthy mind and body connection.
Lennie has a unique perspective of the world and I loved listening to his views and his life journey. I hope you do too.
The new pinks suits album "Political Child" will be released in Spring
The new project mentioned during the chat, 'Closet Bodies' is in development through 2021 And hopefully live gigs coming back soon! Keep an eye out on Instagram (@pinksuitsband) or Facebook (pink suits) or on their website www.pinksuits.band
You can follow me on Instagram at @philipbedwell
My guest this week is Luke Vandenberg, an artist and promoter from Margate. Since I moved to Margate I've been meeting up with Luke for bike rides and walks whilst discussing various topics. I thought it was high time to capture one of these conversations and Luke obliged even though we would both preferred it to be face to face.
We discuss the importance of communication, Luke's move to Margate, his promoting of the Awesome Margate Art Club, what makes for an incredible night and also discuss our joint love of the Brandon Cronenberg film "Possessor."
Top bloke and a great chat as always. Enjoy!
You can listen to Margate Radio at - https://margateradio.co.uk/
And you can follow the Margate Arts Club on Instagram at @margateartsclub
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
My guest today is Paul Ashe, my best friend for three decades, wrestler, trainer and all round good fella.
He was my first guest and, now with the 40th episode, he returns to discuss what has been going on his life and his opinions on the world at large today. Ashe was incredibly honest and open with his issues and feelings at present and I felt privileged to spend this time with him and hear his growth.
I hope you enjoy it.
If you would like more information about the wrestling company which Paul runs please go to https://www.facebook.com/UBWUK1/
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
My guest today is Johannes Heinrich, a Physiotherapist, Fitness Professional and Philosopher.
I met Johannes on Instagram when he offered me some help on how to make my page to reach more people. I was very moved by his posts on his page as he seems to have a great insight into body and mind and our place in the universe. We discuss these topics and also have a chat about the benefits of social media.
You can follow Johannes on Instagram @random_mentalist
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
Happy New Year!!
My guest today is Jamie Clubb. Jamie has done it all, born into a travelling circus he is also a expert in multiple martial arts and has his own self defense system.
He is also a dedicated follower of the others arts, philosophy and creativity. Our conversation covers this wide range of topics alongside the situation we are currently living in.
You can find out more about Jamie at his website https://clubbchimera.com/
Or follow him on Instagram @clubbchimera
You can follow me or comment on the episode at @philipbedwell on Instagram
All the best and I'll see you next week!
Today's guest is a returning Jack The Bodiless, a long time friend and fantastic writer of horror. We delve into the horror trail again as well as talking about how Jack stays creative, following your passions and he drops a theory about the film "The Usual Suspects" which blew my mind!
You can find Jack's work here
Twitter: @desincarne (Jack The Bodiless)
www.desincarne.com/the-unheimlich-schtick
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
My guest today is Abigail Tartelin, my partner and all round rock star. We discuss the changes that the pandemic has brought to our Yule this year. How we are celebrating now and how to be a better Viking!
Hope you enjoy it and please leave feedback, like and subscribe!
You can follow Abby on Instagram @abigailtarttelin_
Her website is at https://www.abigailtarttelin.com/
And you can buy her zine at https://feministrants.bigcartel.com/
You can follow me on Instagram at @philipbedwell
All the best and I'll see you next week! Blessed Yol!
Today's guest is Alex Manzi, a life coach, podcaster and author.
With the recent release of his book "The Search for Clarity" I wanted to get Alex on to discuss his journey through depression and anxiety and how he has found peace and clarity in his own life.
Not only that, Alex now helps many others with their own journeys and is endlessly curious about the human experience. We talk about challenges everyone is facing in 2020 and how to maintain positivity and focus despite these trying times.
Listen, take action and find your clarity!
You can get a copy of the book at https://mailchi.mp/1d6dc42954c3/the-search-for-clarity
You can follow Alex at
@iamalexmanzi on Instagram
Or you can click on https://linktr.ee/iamalexmanzi to link to all of his media platforms.
Follow me at @philipbedwell on Instagram
Thanks. I'll see you next week! Have a good one.
My guest today is Tree Carr. Tree is a published author who works in the esoteric realms of dreams, death and divination.
Tree and I have an incredible conversation about lucid dreaming, the importance of play and keeping the inner child alive. We also cover her work as a Death Doula, how Western Society is so fearful of death and how Tree helps people transition when they are close to the end of life.
Tree has a unique and positive spirit and conversation is incredibly insightful and enlightening.
You find out more about Tree and book sessions with her at -
Instagram @tree_carr
Website https://www.luciddreamtree.com/
Twitter @tree_carr
You can follow me at
Instagram @philipbedwell
Website www.philipbedwell.com
Twitter @STMASCULINITY
Thanks and I'll be back next week! Have a good one.
Today's guest is Tarnya Allen, also known as Skarlett, the Queen of Extreme and the Bombshell from Hell. We move away from wrestling today and focus on Tarnya's other passion, Health and Wellbeing. We head out on the Happiness Highway with a few detours into Vent City as we chat about positive and negative fitness trends and what you can do RIGHT NOW to improve your physical and mental health.
Tarnya gave incredible insight and advice and I thank her so much for her time!
You can follow Tarnya Fitness Pages at
Instagram - code_red_fitness
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coderedfit
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/tarnyaallen
Instagram - @skarlett_bombshellfromhell
Twitter - @ExtremeSkarlett
Get 25 years of EWW On Demand at - https://eww-wrestling.com/video/
You can follow me on Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
Today's guest is a returning Richard Burkhill, a great friend and also a teacher who has taught in China and Thailand. When I spoke to Richard he was in the middle of a Mindfulness and Meditation retreat and we spoke about the lessons he had learned so far. Richard has such an expressive and positive view of the world and we manage to cover a range of subject which I guarantee will have you smiling by the end!
You can find out more about Richard's EnvisionBetter project at
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/envisionBetter/
Twitter @envisionBetter
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
Today's guest is Ben Bowles, a Photographer and Director from Margate
I met Ben when I moved to Margate and happened upon his Instagram page. From there, we struck up a friendship and I've been lucky enough to star in one of his short films. Around this though we have had numerous conversations with insights too good not be recorded!! Ben was gracious enough to give me his time and we discuss masculinity, mental health, luck and gratitude. Ben also gives some great pointers on how he sets up his day to achieve a positive mindset.
It's a great chat which I can't wait for you to listen to. Enjoy!
PS. The book we couldn't remember the name of was "Mindfulness, Finding Peace in a Frantic World" by Mark Williams.
You can follow Ben at -
Instagram - @benjaminfilm1
Website - https://www.benjaminfilmphotography.co.uk/
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week.
Have a good one!
Stu Allen, "The Dominator" and "The British Beast" returns to Slouching Towards Masculinity!
With the release of Stu's "Simply The Beast" autobiography, we decided to chat about Stu's past alongside a discussion on living life to its fullest, staying positive in stressful times and following your dreams. Stu is honest and accountable as anyone I've ever met and is one of my greatest friends. You'll love this chat and the book too.
Stu's Autobiography is available at https://www.amazon.co.uk/SIMPLY-BEAST-STU-ALLEN/dp/B08L47S3FT/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=simply+the+beast&qid=1603122988&s=books&sr=1-1
You can listen to Stu's podcast "Stiff Right Hand" at all good podcasting sites. You can check out all things Extreme World Wrestling, including their amazing 25 year On Demand service at https://eww-wrestling.com/
You can follow Stu on Twitter at @EWW_Dominator or on Instagram at @dominator_britishbeast
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
Today's guest is Steven Michael-O'Hara, an incredible Actor and former MMA Fighter.
Steven and I take the time today to discuss his career change, his thoughts on acting, creativity, empathy and the laws of attraction. Tangents are taken and Steven speaks with honesty and openness about his beliefs and values.
It was a great chat and Steven was an awesome guest.
You can follow Steven at
Instagram @smohara
Mandy - https://www.mandy.com/uk/actor/steven-michael-ohara
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week.
Have a good one!
It's a US Election Special Slouching Towards Masculinity today and my guest is Abigail Tarttelin.
Abigail and I discuss the upcoming election, why it's important that the UK pay attention to the result, the similarities and differences between US and UK politics and the value of getting balanced information and having critical thinking about these sources.
You can listen to Abigail's podcast at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/election-schmelection/id1488117839 or search for ELECTION SCHMELECTION on Apple, Spotify or Google.
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
Today's guest is Laurence Johns from the ManKind Project UK & Ireland
I reached out to Laurence after finding out about his work online. How he helps and enables men to complete themselves through the ManKind Project and how his own upbringing has shaped his masculine values and identity.
It's a great chat packed full of valuable insight and knowledge and I'm sure you'll enjoy it.
You can find the ManKind Project at - https://mankindprojectuki.org/
And you can follow Laurence at - https://www.facebook.com/LaurenceHJohns & https://www.instagram.com/laurencehjohns/
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week.
Have a good one!
Today, Wajid and I pick up from where we left off last week. But today we delve more into the masculine and cover Wajid's upbringing, his punk ethos and how becoming a father has changed his perspective.
We also cover the incredible Scrap Club in more detail. Wajid is so much fun to talk to and the conversation is so easy I'm sure you'll love this one.
You can follow Wajid's work at http://www.wajidyaseen.com/
Follow his Modus Arts Project at http://www.modusarts.org/
You can find out about Scrap Club at https://www.scrapclub.co.uk/
Or Wajid's tape letter project he mentions in this podcast is on Instagram at @tapeletters or Wajid's own account at @wajid_london
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week.
Have a good one!
Today's guest is Wajid Yaseen, an incredible music producer, musician, father, artist and freethinker.
I met Wajid a few years ago now at the start of my Performance Art career, we've always had great a varied conversations and the one we had on the podcast today is no different. In fact we went into so much depth that Part 2 is coming next week!
You can follow Wajid's work at http://www.wajidyaseen.com/
Follow his Modus Arts Project at http://www.modusarts.org/
You can find out about Scrap Club at https://www.scrapclub.co.uk/
Or Wajid's tape letter project he mentions in this podcast is on Instagram at @tapeletters or Wajid's own account at @wajid_london
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week.
Have a good one!
Today's guest is Isaac Mullins, a Hatha Yoga teacher and Wim Hof instructor. I initially reached out to Issac to talk about the virtues of Wim Hof but what transpired was an amazing conversation about identity, critical thinking and the education of mind and body. This was the first time I'd ever spoken to Issac and I was incredibly privileged to have this time with such a honest and open spirit.
You can find out more about Issac's work at http://www.isaacmullinsyoga.com/
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
Today's guest is Kenny D'Cruz from MenSpeak Men's Groups. I reached out to Kenny after seeing his work with men online, enabling them to speak about their feelings and beliefs. I feel that the need to speak and share in needed more than ever in present conditions. Kenny shares his story on how he became "The Man Whisperer" as well as why we all need to do self work to become better for ourselves and each other. It's an emotional and valuable conversation that I'd love you to listen to.
I'd also love for you to check out Kenny's sites at www.themanwhisperer.co.uk & https://mensgroups.co.uk/
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
Today's guest is Jack The Bodiless, a long time friend and fantastic writer of horror. We go through a load of topics today including horror influences, high and low art and a scary story of a front door becoming someone's worst enemy!
You can find Jack's work here
Twitter: @desincarne (Jack The Bodiless)
www.desincarne.com/the-unheimlich-schtick
Here are stories mentioned in the podcast and a couple more to read!
https://www.desincarne.com/post/hinges
https://www.desincarne.com/post/jingle-jangle
https://www.desincarne.com/post/vicious-traditions
https://www.desincarne.com/post/the-statute-of-limitations
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
Today's guest is Richard Burkhill, a great friend and also a teacher who has taught in China and Thailand. We use that as a jumping off point for conversation before travelling into Masculinity and Mindfulness among other topics. Tangents and passions are what fascinate me in conversation and there are plenty here!
You can find out more about Richard's EnvisionBetter project at
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/envisionBetter/
Twitter @envisionBetter
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
Today's guest is Tarnya Allen, also know as Skarlett, the Queen of Extreme and the Bombshell from Hell. We discuss her journey in Professional Wrestling, and negative and postive Masculine behaviour she encountered. We also go through our series of matches which we feel did a lot to erase the term Intergender match and what a traditional male vs female match should consist of.
Tarnya was an amazing guest and I couldn't believe how quickly the time went! You can follow Tarnya on
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/tarnyaallen
Instagram - @skarlett_bombshellfromhell
Twitter - @ExtremeSkarlett
You can follow Tarnya Fitness Pages at
Instagram - code_red_fitness
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coderedfit
Get 25 years of EWW On Demand at - https://eww-wrestling.com/video/
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
Today guests are the incredible Queer Feminist Punk Rock & Rage duo, pink suits. pink suits are based in Margate like myself and I've known them for a while now through the performance art world. We discuss the band as well as thoughts on creativity, identity and education. Ray and Lennie were gracious with their time and I had a wonderful time listening to them share their stories and opinions. I am also pleased to say that they gave me a wicked song to play the show out on!
If you want to follow pink suits you can find their website at https://www.pinksuits.band/
You can also follow them on Instagram at @pinksuitsband or on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/pinksuitsband
Go and check out the rest of their fantastic music!!
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at @philipbedwell or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
My guest today is the Best Selling Author, Actress, Director and Musician Abigail Tarttelin. She just so happens to be my partner too! In my first ever face to face and being in the same room podcast we discuss relationships in times of COVID-19, the unpaid labour of women, Marxist Feminism and common reasons why couples fight in relation to Masculinity. It was a great conversation that took some surprising turns and even I learnt some new things about Abby!
You can follow Abby on Instagram @abigailtarttelin_
Her website is at https://www.abigailtarttelin.com/
And you can buy her zine at https://feministrants.bigcartel.com/
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
My guest today is Darren, a independent filmmaker based in Margate. I met Darren when he gave me the opportunity to act in his short film "**** Just Got Real." It was a pleasure to work with Darren and then through some chats we had I realized Darren had an amazing story to tell. We discuss Darren's change of career, his philosophy on creativity and societal roles.
You can watch "**** Just Got Real" at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_mlXrDxoao&t=1s
And you can follow Darren on Instagram at @oxylicious.productions
Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/OxyliciousProductions
Twitter at @Oxylicious_Productions
Or on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCY-JI2jMDyJpX8xyP8YUV6w
And his official website is at https://www.oxyliciousproductions.com
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
Incredibly happy to say that my guest today is Stu Allen, also known as the wrestler "The Dominator." Stu is one of my oldest friends and I've known him for almost as long as I've been wrestling. I'm always happy to hear his opinions on wrestling and the world at large. He is one of the most selfless, honest and accountable men I know and this conversation reflects that today.
You can listen to Stu's podcast "Stiff Right Hand" at all good podcasting sites. You can check out all things Extreme World Wrestling, including their amazing 25 year On Demand service at https://eww-wrestling.com/
You can follow Stu on Twitter at @EWW_Dominator or on Instagram at @dominator_britishbeast
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
Today my guest is the incredbile hairdresser and human Perry Patraszewski Perry and I met at a healing retreat a few years ago and stayed in touch. I've always been moved by Perry's opinions of the world and how we impact it as a race. We discuss his masculine values in adolescence and how they have changed with age. We take the time to discuss his hairdressing work, both in the Blue Tit salons he has opened and in his Hair Tribe online training platform. We also have a timely discussion about the enviroment, the human impact upon it, and what we can do to repair the damage we have done. You can find out about the Hair Tribe here - https://hairtribe.tv/ Or work out your visit to one of the excellent Blue Tit salons here - https://www.bluetitlondon.com/ Perry's Instagram can be found here - https://www.instagram.com/perrypatraszewski/?hl=en
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com Thanks very much and I'll see you next week. Have a good one!
I called Priscilla a week after our first conversation and we picked up where we left off. The conversation travels to views on wrestling, life and everything in-between. And it's all infused with Priscilla's wicked sense of humour and positive spirit.
I had a absolute blast here and I hope you get as much happiness out of this chat as I did.
You can find more out about Priscilla on Twitter at @Priscillaqotr , on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/PriscillaQOTR/ and on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC41YAZTr2XKuFuAb0ZmhsHA You can also buy her awesome tshirt at https://www.onthegear.co.uk/products?search=priscilla You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Priscilla and I have known each other through wrestling for many years now but it was great to catch up with her and discuss her journey both in and out of the ring. We discuss the time before they were Priscilla, decisions they made, lessons they've learned and battles they've fought. I think one of the greatest aspects of this conversation is Priscilla's relentless drive and positivity.
I left this conversation motivated and smiling from ear to ear and I'm sure you will too! Second part next week! You can find more out about Priscilla on Twitter at @Priscillaqotr , on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/PriscillaQOTR/ and on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC41YAZTr2XKuFuAb0ZmhsHA You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Today's guest is a longtime friend, Howard Wilmot. I met Howard when I was looking at other performance platforms to work with and happened upon Boylesque. Howard showed kindness and allowed me to progress as Boylesque performer in his show Boylexe!
We discuss Boylexe and the original show Burlexe as well as what makes a good performance and entertaining show. Howard talks about his personal growth too and gives a meaningful and passionate reflection on his life so far.
You can find out more about Boylexe and Burlexe here.
You can follow Howard on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/howardwilmot/?hl=en
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
My guest this week is Garry Vanderhorne, the founder of the Resistance Gallery and Lucha Britannia. He's back again to follow up on our first conversation.
Garry goes into detail about his thoughts on the Ego and how it can be used in both a positive and negative sense. We also talk about the future and what we believe our legacies to be.
You can follow Garry at www.luchabritannia.com www.resistancegallery.com and
https://www.instagram.com/london_school_of_lucha_libre/?hl=en
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY , Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Sam has published three amazing books, two about fighting, "The Fighter's Heart", and "The Fighter's Mind", and one about surviving the apocalypse, called "The Disaster Diaries." Sam is also the screenwriter for "SEAL Team" and the excellent TNT Drama "I Am the Night."
The conversation covers a broad range of subjects about masculine growth and development. Sam was extremely generous with his time and thoughtful and educated with his answers. I couldn't have asked for a better tenth episode! I hope you enjoy listening.
"I Am the Night" is available on Amazon Prime, Google Play, and You Tube now. Sam's books are available at all good bookstores and from a little known online store by someone called Jeff here
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Please LIKE, REVIEW, SUBSCRIBE and FOLLOW! I'll see you next week.
Join me and my very special guest, Cassandro, for the latest episode Slouching Towards Masculinity.
Cassandro is an Exotico Lucha legend and is now the subject of an incredible documentary, "Cassandro, the Exotico!" Cassandro has had an amazing journey both in and out of the ring and shares everything here.
Cassandro gave me their time in a heartfelt conversation in which nothing was off limits. They have taken the time to bravely recognize and work on all aspects of themselves. The conversation covers their career in Lucha Libre but also their path outside of the squared circle.
It was a emotional and beautiful chat, please take the time to give it a listen.
You can find "Cassandro, the Exotico!" film on MUBI and Amazon Prime link is here, it is coming out on other platforms shortly. Please seek it out because it's incredible. You can follow Cassandro on Instagram at @cassandro_el_exotico , on Twitter at @CassandroLucha or on Facebook here
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Welcome to Slouching Towards Masculinity and my second conversation with Ben Adam Sohawon.
Ben and I pick up our conversation once again about masculinity and race. A lot of timely information and insights are shared in this podcast today so I felt it important it was published as soon as possible after recording.
I hope you get as much from it as I did. And if you like what you've been hearing then please review, subscribe and share.
I'll see you all next week.
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Join me and my guest, Jordan McKenzie, for the latest episode Slouching Towards Masculinity.
Jordan asked me to collaborate with him on a performance art piece a few years ago and since then we have become friends. Jordan McKenzie is an incredible artist and educator who marries a strong social viewpoint alongside an incredible arresting visual ascetic.
It's been a while since we've last spoken so it was a pleasure to catch up with Jordan and chat about a variety of subjects including education, his relationship with masculinity, how his artistic process has changed and where he feels the future of masculinity and gender are going. We also find out we have a shared love of old school Channel 4!
You can see Jordan's beautiful art at www.http://jordanmckenzie.co.uk/ or follow him on Instagramat https://www.instagram.com/jordan.e.mckenzie/?hl=en
You can follow me on Twitter @STMASCULINITY Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Welcome to Slouching Towards Masculinity!
The conversation today is with my friend Anick Soni, a campaigner for Intersex rights and the subject of an incredibly moving BBC Documentary https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EVFAtNvSguE
Anick took the time to discuss his upbringing and attitudes towards Masculinity. We also discuss identity and how social media affects our sense of self. It was a moving conversation and I really appreciate the time Anick took to speak to me. I hope you enjoy it.
You can follow Anick at
Twitter @Anickians
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/anickians/?hl=en
You can follow me on Twitter at @STMASCULINITY On Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
If you are enjoying these podcasts then please LIKE and SUBSCRIBE!
Welcome to Slouching Towards Masculinity!
I catch up with my friend, Garry Vanderhorne, the founder of the Resistance Gallery and Lucha Britannia.
We've known each other for over 13 years and Garry gives his insights into the masculine, how he was raised and how his attitudes have changed.
The time flew past and I want to get Garry back on the podcast again soon to discuss his thoughts even further. But, for now, enjoy this wonderful conversation.
You can follow Garry at www.luchabritannia.com www.resistancegallery.com and
https://www.instagram.com/london_school_of_lucha_libre/?hl=en
You can follow me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Join me and my guest, Ro Hardaker, for the latest episode Slouching Towards Masculinity.
Ro and I met at a performance event about six years ago and I was introduced to Ro's stunning live art. Since then we have collaborated together on an art piece which showcased at Queer Arts North at Leeds Playhouse earlier this year. I was very happy that Ro gave me their time to come on to the podcast.
Ro gives their thoughts on gender, communication and the future of identification among other topics.
I hope you enjoy it and see you next week.
You can find out more about Ro at http://www.rohardaker.co.uk/ or follow them on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/rohardaker/
You can follow me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Join me and my guest, Ben Sohawon, for the second episode of Slouching Towards Masculinity!
Ben and I have been friends for 8 years and have recently come back into contact with each other. Our conversation which covers a variety of subjects, including the differences between Eastern and Western versions of Masculinity and the parallels in Masculine and Political models.
I hope you enjoy it and see you next week.
You can follow me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com
Join me and my guest, Paul Dew, for the first ever episode of Slouching Towards Masculinity!
Paul and I have been friends for 25 years and we dive into our shared history together as Professional Wrestlers. We also discuss growing up and what our values and beliefs were and how they have changed as we aged.
If you would like more information about the wrestling company which Paul runs please go to https://www.facebook.com/UBWUK1/
You can follow me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipbedwell/ or go to my performance art website at www.philipbedwell.com