For Parents: Recent Episodes
Ivy Lassiter
Raising kids isn’t easy, but the most helpful advice can come from right next door. Join host Ivy Lassiter as she draws on her experience working with families and practical tips from some of the best experts – parents who’ve been there, too.
Listen to this sister and brother duo talk about their home growing up and the way they were parented. This conversation includes what their parents did to cultivate connection with one another, ways that their parents shepherded their hearts towards being people of character and how they had parents that led them towards Jesus. It's a delightfully inspiring conversation!
In this episode Allie and Miles talk about their experience of parenting their four kids. Two of their kids are currently in college and the other two are still at home in high school. They are two of the most intentional parents! This episode is full of practical ideas for discipling your kids and their personal experiences of pointing their kids towards Jesus.
Amy and her husband have 3 kids. Their oldest child was born premature and much of our conversation is around how they navigated that season of their life and the sweet ways God worked through it. She also shares some of the journey with her business RoRo's Baking Company, and how fun it has been to watch it grow and develop.
Hannah and her husband, Lance, have 3 kids and live in Franklin, TN. They moved from Brooklyn to Tennessee shortly after having their first child. It was a huge transition, and Hannah talks about how she navigated those days. Hannah is always full of perspective and great wisdom. You will love this conversation!
In this episode Matt and Tammy vulnerably share about their parenting experiences and how they have seen God work through it. They have 3 kids - two are adulting and the 3rd is in high school. God compelled them to create a gap year program in Colorado with the purpose of launching new adults into the world who can thrive with the purpose and responsibilities. It’s an amazing story of how God brings all things together for the good of those who love Him! Find out more from their website here.
Stephanie, Fran and Ivy have a candid conversation about our kids school projects. We talk through the things we have experienced, what we have learned and what we are continuing to learn.
In this episode Ivy shares a personal story about when her son started Kindergarten and the gift of God being with us wherever we go.
On this episode I talk with Meredith who is a mom, wife of a pastor and the creator of Concrete Conversations. Concrete Conversations is a tool designed to equip us with intentional questions to better know and be known by those around us. Meredith is someone who is naturally a great question asker, genuinely enjoys asking questions and is using that gifting to help others become more intentional at asking questions. In this conversation she talks about why conversation with our kids matters and gives practical ideas of when and how to talk to your kids. https://concrete-conversations.com (Here) is the website to purchase the product!
Chris is a children's pastor and founder of Kaleidoscope. Kaleidoscope creates books to help get kids excited about reading the Bible. They are writing every book of the Bible, in beautifully designed single volumes, at an elementary level. Check out their storehttps://readkaleidoscope.com/store ( here.) In addition to sharing how Kaleidoscope came to be, Chris shares some great wisdom on discipling your kids and how to choose a church that's best for your family.
Nanette is a mom of grown girls as well as a preschool minister. Through those experiences she has gained a wealth of wisdom. In this episode she shares lots of great ideas for helping your preschoolers experience Jesus early on.
Taralyn and Darrel are parents of 5 children. Their oldest three are biological and the younger two are adopted. By God’s grace in their lives they are very good parents. We talk about a lot of different things in this conversation from fostering and adoption, schooling, general parenting decisions and it’s just full of spiritual wisdom.
On this episode, Victoria shares her story of how loosing her husband to the war in Afghanistan spurred her on to helping military families who have lost loved ones. Hearing her story might help give you perspective and new ideas of ways your family can honor those who have sacrificed their lives for our country. Find out more about https://www.patientiaperfectus.org (Patientia Perfectus), her organization which connects military families with organizations. https://www.instagram.com/patientiaperfectus/ (Here) is her instagram account.
Sena talks about her incredible Korean parents, growing up in Hawaii and how God turned her heart back to Him. Her story is very similar to the Prodigal Son. All of these details of her life spurred her and her business partner to create the https://millubox.com (Millu Box.) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/millubox/ (@millubox)
Laurie and Chan share their parenting experience of raising two boys while managing a career being a football coach. Chan has coached both at the collegiate and NFL. They include some wisdom and perspective on transitioning your children to new places, not bringing the stress of your work home and becoming a close knit family. The biggest theme from their experience is God being at the center of our lives is the very best way to live.
In this episode Kat shares a little bit about the losses that she experienced in her childhood, and a lot about the ways that God showed up through other people. She isn't a parent, but she's been impacted by some really incredible parents and talks about the things she has learned by watching their example.
Kari and her husband are parents of six children. Three of her children are biological and 3 of her children are adopted from Costa Rica. She very honestly talks about the journey of adoption, the challenges they are facing, the places of redemption and how she has seen God work through all of it. Her faith and perseverance are remarkable and there’s a lot we can learn from her experience. God used her adoption experience and medical background to create https://www.instagram.com/healing.casa/ (Healing Casa) where her heart is to create a safe space that brings hope and healing through neurobehavioral support coaching.
Courtney is a mom of 3 and has a small business called All the Best Days. She loves going places and in this episode she talks about making a trip happen, how to think about planning your trip and why it matters. Here is her https://www.instagram.com/bestdaycourt/?hl=en (instagram) and https://www.allthebestdays.com (website).
Brooke became a widow right before her son's first birthday. In this episode she shares her story and how she has experienced Jesus' redeeming power through her grief. Through her own experience she began http://songsinthenight.crownedforashes.org (Songs in the Night), a ministry for widows. Warning: you might cry a little, but you will definitely leave this episode feeling spiritually full!
Erin found out she had breast cancer when her daughter was little. She shares what it was like finding out, the treatment she endured and how she moves forward today as a survivor. She is also an elementary school counselor and she gives some thoughts on how, as parent,s we can partner with our child's teacher.
Christy and Chris are both in high school education and have incredible perspective on what is happening in the lives of high schoolers these days. In addition, they are parents of 3 - a son in junior high and a set of twins in elementary school. Their son was diagnosed with Fragile X Syndrome as a 2 year old, and they share the highs and lows of that experience. They talk honestly about what it was like having 3 kids under the age of 3. While it was a lot there is a very helpful viewpoint they share - it goes by fast and don't spend so much time worrying!
Jenny and Wade are grandparents and do an extraordinary job of creating memorable moments with their grandkids. In this episode they talk about practical ways to plan out time with kids that makes it fun, life-giving and super special. Wade has experience in recreational ministry and currently works for Upwards. Jenny is a natural creative type and has a gift for finding the fun activity! https://drive.google.com/file/d/1FQq-IjUzQAKNAo_Q-2TsZmlwqvNodZF5/view?usp=sharing (Here )is a guide to help create your own meaningful time with the kids in your life!!
Amy and Andrew have a teenager and a set of twins in elementary school. They talk about what it was like managing twins and helping their oldest child navigate the newness of having new siblings. They talk about how knowing their kids personalities helps them navigate how to best parent their kids. They shared their most helpful resource has been the people that are a few seasons ahead who provided perspective and insight.
Valerie is a prayer warrior, an entrepreneur, a mom of two girls and a make it happen kind of person. She shares her journey of starting her business, writing her books and how in the middle of all of that her and her family prioritize rest. Her books are all https://www.amazon.com/Valerie-Woerner/e/B0196V2KAG?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1&qid=1646852731&sr=8-1 (here.) Purchase her Val Marie prayer journal https://shop.valmariepaper.com/collections/journal-collection (here). She mentioned a great organizing and goal setting resource called Power Sheets from https://cultivatewhatmatters.com/?g_network=g&g_adid=558791373529&g_keyword=cultivate%20what%20matters&g_adtype=search&g_adgroupid=132990231007&g_keywordid=kwd-368371849675&g_acctid=685-738-6576&g_campaign=SD+-+Search+-+Brand&g_campaignid=15160727502&gclid=CjwKCAiAvaGRBhBlEiwAiY-yMKysU2ABS43P0tzHvFr9xWM2BIHUlkl57HqNa5l5vixOqccvZgw9VRoCL3EQAvD_BwE (Cultivate.) Valerie mentioned the book she was reading called https://www.amazon.com/12-Week-Year-Others-Months-ebook/dp/B00CU9P31K/ref=sr_1_1?gclid=CjwKCAiAvaGRBhBlEiwAiY-yMJEPrbjDbbq9cENk_KgXxXwSPfpA6s2Qm9_hdU16LHO3QDeNvSwfShoCHHYQAvD_BwE&hvadid=241630586280&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9026839&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=1062587798295889361&hvtargid=kwd-261342805673&hydadcr=21871_10169513&keywords=12-week+year&qid=1646853356&sr=8-1 (The 12 Week Year) and https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/14212248.Valerie_Woerner (here) is her Good Reads account.
In this episode Ivy tells a story that helps you think about the times that cause you to slow down. Maybe those slow times are preparing you to actually run your best race.
Georgia and her husband, Scott, are raising 3 boys in the Atlanta area. In this episode, she shares about a traumatic experience that ultimately led her and her family to trust God even more. While this will be a painful story to hear, it is one that is full of redemption and beauty. The passage Georgia mentions is Daniel 3:17-18. If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to deliver us from it, and he will deliver us from Your Majesty’s hand. But even if he does not, we want you to know, Your Majesty, that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up.”
Shelby and Drew are six weeks into raising their baby! The further away we get from having a new baby there are some things we just forget. In this conversation Shelby and Drew talk about their birth experience and the joys and challenges of being in the newborn phase. At the end of the day this episode is meant to remind you that you aren't alone in the journey.
Carlos is a dad to three, a preacher, a former NFL players and full of a wisdom. He talks about growing up as a foster child and then being adopted. He talks about his dad and what he learned from him. This episode gives an incredible perspective.
Jenny and Kevin have 3 girls - 2 are in college and their youngest is in kindergarten. They talk about their journey to adopt their third and how they experienced God through it. They also are the owners of Haystack!
Kim and her husband, Randy have raised 3 girls. She talks about all sorts of girl things - clothes, friends, school and most importantly, how prayer was the most valuable thing she did with her girls. It's a great conversation! Kim talked about how important https://momsinprayer.org (Moms in Prayer) was to her. A couple of other great prayer resources for you: https://www.amazon.com/Every-Moment-Holy-Pocket-Size/dp/1951872029/ref=sr_1_1?gclid=Cj0KCQiAubmPBhCyARIsAJWNpiOaBShnc-PU-LVklY5jj9xhDW39Eltxx0hciSCwn64EPB64FonyOMQaAnSREALw_wcB&hvadid=243108494575&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9026839&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=7122905347231668593&hvtargid=kwd-411383976895&hydadcr=19679_9441507&keywords=every+moment+holy&qid=1643039409&sr=8-1 (Every Moment Holy) https://shop.valmariepaper.com/?variant=40400397172927 (Val Marie Paper Journal) https://www.amazon.com/Book-Common-Prayer-Penguin-Classics/dp/0143106562/ref=sr_1_9?keywords=Book+of+Common+Prayer&qid=1643039653&sr=8-9 (Book of Common Prayer) https://www.amazon.com/Praying-Gods-Word-Beth-Moore/dp/9810439075 (Praying God's Word)
Ivy recently reflected on the incredibly impactful life of Jeanette Hilley, and shares some lessons she learned from her example. While this story has nothing to do with organization https://forparentspodcast.com/episode20/ (here's) the episode on organization she mentions.
Ivy shares a story about something her 5 year old did that reminded her of a bigger truth.
Carrie and Jason talk about how their family of four came to be, and obedience to God played a HUGE part in that. They have two girls - one is biological and the other is adopted. However, their adoption story is not conventional. It's an incredible story told by two wonderful people! I mention https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2pVyFCoKGB (this YouTube video)!
In this episode Ivy shares three stories about Christmas, and some things to think about in order to make this season special for your family. Purchase an ADVENT calendar https://churchteams.com/m/Register.asp?a=U1g0R20rdnpQNEE9 (here. )
This episode is all about how Buddy & Gail made their way from Richardson, Texas to NYC. How they raised their two children in the big city - their daughter is Abigail and their son is Coleman. They are pretty remarkable people and their kids are too. Buddy and Gail both have extensive experience on Broadway. They currently own a wonderful tap and musical theatre school called Shuffles. They talk about how they kids navigated the pressures of growing up in a big city, and the grit it produced.
Debbie describes what her oldest son was like when he was little, and what caused her to eventually look into ADHD. She shares in a honest way how she struggled, how she persevered and how parenting her son has helped her become the person she is supposed to be.
Mary & Rod have 4 boys - 3 are adults and their 4th came as somewhat of a total surprise! They talk about having their youngest son later in life, and how parenting him is a gift. They are incredible parents to boys, and their story will inspire you to treasure the moments with your kids.
In this episode Spencer shares about his mental illness, and the journey he has taken to persevere through this challenge. He talks about things his parents did to support him through the journey. He has found healing through sharing his journey, and bringing it out of the darkness into the light. For parents his story is a great reminder that as parents we do no get to write our children's stories.
Abbie and Rick are parents to three boys, and Noah, their oldest son, has down syndrome. They talk about what it was like when they first found out about his diagnosis, and how talking to another family a few years ahead of them gave them hope for Noah's future. That journey inspired them to help connect more parents raising children with down syndrome through an organization called https://hopestory.org (HopeStory). Follow more of Noah's story https://www.facebook.com/NoahsDadcom (here) or https://www.instagram.com/noahsdaddotcom/?hl=en (here)!
In this episode Lindsay and Steve talk about parenting this six kids. Their oldest is a girl, and she's in her 20s and married, the next is a girl in high school, the next is a girl in middle school the next two are boys also in middle school in the same grade (they aren't twins - one is adopted and they other is biological), and their youngest is a girl they adopted from China. Their youngest daughter has down syndrome. You will hear about their journey to adopt Mabel from China, and it's amazing.
This episode is a conversation with Emily and Yancey, parents of two boys. Emily and Yancey met while serving in the military, and they share their experiences of raising their two boys while pursuing this calling. Military life has caused their family to move all over the world, and we talk about how their kids have learned to adjust to each new place. We talk about the challenging things about it, and the rewarding and wonderful things about this life.
In this episode Matt and Mary Kathryn share their story. Matt is the Food Services Coordinator at a beautiful camp called New Life Ranch in Oklahoma so we talk a lot about camp life, why camp is special and a little bit about food. However, we actually talk a lot more about the uncomfortable steps it took to move their family of five from the big city of Dallas to a small town in Oklahoma, and how they have seen God provide along the way. Awesome and honest story! Check out New Life Ranch's website https://newliferanch.com (here!)
While siblings do share parents, they typically have totally different personalities, interest and motivations. In this episode Collin, Spencer and Travis talk about ways their parents celebrated and supported their differences and fully invested in their lives. Hearing these grown boys talk about how much they appreciated their parents support provides a great perspective!
In this episode I talk with Laura about her experience growing up, and things that her parents did to help her know Jesus. She talks about what it is like now being a mom of a boy and girl, and how she felt compelled to start a podcast for kids. She will share how the podcast has helped her point her own children towards Jesus. There's also a great story of being obedient when God prompts you towards something. Even when you are thinking "surely not me!" Check out Laura's podcasts for kids called Backseat Bible Nuggets https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/backseat-bible-nuggets/id1573752728 (here. ) Her dad and sister were also on the podcast in https://player.captivate.fm/episode/e6b96c37-50bb-429b-8686-df8322f64ccf (episode 26!)
John is the founder of an organization called Middleman Ministries that supports the skateboard community by helping teenagers realize their IDENTITY, PURPOSE, and COMMUNITY in Christ. John lives in Waco with his wife and 3 kids. He loves skateboarding, fixing up cars and doing those things alongside other people. In this episode he will share so many great concepts that will make you think a little differently about parenting. For more info about Middleman Ministries check out https://www.middleman-ministries.org (this website) and follow his https://www.instagram.com/middlemanskateboards/?hl=en (instagram account) (@middlemanskateboards).
This episode is a short story about what the kindness and generosity we experience when we share our painful journey with others. Warning: It includes a story about our sweet chocolate lab, Deuce. You might cry.
If you are wondering what CODAS is, it stands for Children Of Deaf Adults In this episode Adelina, Sabrina and Monica share what it is like having parents who can not hear. As you will discover in the episode these sisters are resourceful, hard-working, delightful and engaging. Much of who they are is because their parents are Jack and Grace, two incredible people who have lived their entire lives deaf. It’s an incredible episode!!
Kathleen is a mom of two adult children. Kathleen and her husband found out when their daughter was a few months old that she had a rare genetic disorder. While the disorder causes her daughter to have some delays, it doesn’t mean she can’t do it. From day one she has been her daughter’s advocate and cheerleader - learning when to step in and when to not intervene. Kathie talks very honestly about being a mom to a child that struggles to accomplish the things that other kids might soar through, and she really doesn’t sugar coat her experience. On top of the genetic disorder her daughter was diagnosed with diabetes and a little later with Celiacs, a autoimmune disorder. Kathleen brings a unique perspective that will help us all see a perspective that we have not seen before.
Zach talks about the hurt he experienced in his growing up years and what happened as he became an adult to heal those wounds. Spurred by his own experiences he started a mentoring program in Dallas which allows children without father figures to have a relationship with men that follow Jesus. All the links referenced: https://youcanmentor.com (You Can Mentor) https://www.forerunnermentoring.com/home (Forerunner Mentoring) https://youcanmentor.com/podcast (Podcast) https://youcanmentor.com/book (Zach's book) https://medium.com/@zachgarza/tell-me-about-your-father-ef6d5652d8f4 (The Blog Post that made me cry)
Kenny and his wife, Sweet married, left Alabama to move to Texas and started their family. They raised two girls, Kendall and Ivy (yes, me!). This episode Kenny talks about the challenges of starting out, how they built community and some words of wisdom on how to raise your children to be adults.
This is a story about two little parenting moments including a time where a child didn't do what their parent wanted them to do and another where a child does exactly what they've asked been to do.... and how there might be a bigger lesson for us in those moments. Let's be people that GET OUT OF THE MINIVAN!!
Sarah is a mom 3, a set of elementary aged twins and a toddler. Her twins were born prematurely which resulted in a 5 month stay at the NICU. Sarah talks about how she experienced God during those days and how it has impacted her parenting today. If you would like to reach out to Sarah for parenting support, send her a message on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/sarahstone08/ (@sarahstone08)
Ashley and her husband have 4 children, and when her youngest was 3 months old their family moved to China to spread the truth about Jesus to unreached people. They spent 10 years there, and were unfortunately forced to leave and at this time are not welcomed to come back. In this episode Ashley talks about their journey in China, what it was like transitioning back to the states and then some parenting truths that all of us can relate to.
In this episode Leigh and Rece talk about raising their son and daughter (who are now adults). We cover how they navigated Rece's unconventional work schedule, created intentional time as a family and encouraged their kids to pursue their passions. Leigh and Rece have the sweetest respect for one another. Their parenting style is conventional and strict in some ways yet super flexible and unconventional in other ways - it's refreshing to find both qualities in their parenting choices. They laugh, have a lot of fun and love their family. This episode will also give young parents perspective that eventually your kids will turn into thriving adults who still come home and give their moms hugs.
Jennifer and Joey, parents to two children, talk about their journey through enduring multiple miscarriages. Jennifer describes it as the "club that no one wants to be in, but it’s big.” It is something that doesn't always get talked about. Here they talk through what it was like to navigate that season, and how they were compelled to continue enduring the pain in order to become the parents they felt called to be. They also talk through what it was like having premature babies in the NICU. Parenting is not always fun, and it's definitely not easy. This episode sheds light on how Jesus is a firm and secure anchor no matter what challenges come our way.
In this episode you will hear from Cathy and Mary Brantley, a mother and daughter. Cathy has raised 3 girls and is now a grandmother to 11 grandchildren. She is a retired PE teacher and has deeply invested in Huntsville, Alabama. Mary Brantley is a mom of 3 living in Atlanta, Georgia. Mary Brantley felt compelled to help a woman living on the streets. While at first Cathy was concerned for Mary's safety, eventually she too felt compelled to help. This is an amazing story of how God brings healing and hope to hurting people. They were inspired by the Bible and these two books: https://www.amazon.com/Same-Kind-Different-Modern-Day-International-ebook/dp/B007FZXJGA/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1F7MSYTVD9NVY&dchild=1&keywords=same+kind+of+different+as+me&qid=1616073949&s=digital-text&sprefix=same+kind+of%2Cdigital-text%2C174&sr=1-1 (Same Kind of Different as Me by Ron Hall) https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Taking-Faith-American-Dream-ebook/dp/B0036S4C9I (Radical by David Platt)
On this episode Casey is sharing about her journey in pregnancy and parenting. She and her husband, TJ, live in College Station and Casey works for Texas A&M. They have two adorable little girls Piper and Parker. Casey is the most delightful, joy-filled person you might ever meet. If you met her somewhere you’d quickly pick up on her contagious joy and the fact that Jesus is the story and song of her entire life, but what you might not quickly know is that she found out at 34 weeks pregnant that Wyatt her seemingly healthy baby boy didn’t have a heartbeat and that Parker has special needs. In this episode Casey shares how she’s navigated these valleys and experienced hope through them. Casey references this book which helped her navigate the difficult days: https://www.nancyguthrie.com/the-1-yr-book-of-hope (The One Year Book of Hope by Nancy Guthrie)
In this episode I’m talking with Scharlee and her daughter, Emily. Emily's dad and Scharlee's husband, Byron was a pastor, and he and Scharlee planted churches. Emily talks about ways her parents supported each other, valued family and committed their lives to Jesus. Scharlee shares how she contributed to the kingdom of God by being Byron's wife. Emily and Sharlee have a podcast called https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-things-podcast/id1509376638 (Good Things Podcast), and there they talk about the good things they see God doing in the world. It's a great listen!!
This episode Lauren talks about how God has spoken to her through art and how she has had opportunities to teach children about God through art. She also talks about her and her husband's journey of infertility, fostering and adoption. Be sure to follow her Instagram, check out her website and purchase her book for more inspiration on how to expose your children to art. Links below! Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/laurenjohnstonduncan/?hl=en (@laurenjohnstonduncan) https://lauren-duncan-art.myshopify.com (Website) https://lauren-duncan-art.myshopify.com/pages/made-to-create-book (Made to Create Book!)
In this episode Sarah and Darrell talk about their journey through infertility. They talk about ways they each processed the struggle, helpful things they did during it, and how they grew closer to God through it. If you live in the Dallas area, and are interested in Shiloh https://www.watermark.org/ministries/shiloh (click here.) If you know someone struggling with infertility and would like ideas on how to support them on their journey, https://assets.ctfassets.net/hw5pse7y1ojx/42I8iV1XLjSG2rvKORzPjl/9ef4d505e4a021f207caa5a81ff54a52/A_GUIDE_FOR_THOSE_EXPERIENCING_INFERTILITY_OR_MISCARRIAGE_AND_THOSE_WHO_LOVE_THEM.pdf (click here.)
Lisa and Craig, parents of 4 children, will share their story of how they adopted their third child from Siberia when she was a year and a half old. Their children are now grown adults. Their story is one of redemption, and the unique and incredible ways ways that God puts families together.
This episode is a short story of why it's worth it to have children that was spurred by her son making a pretty accurate statement about being a parent.
This is a conversation with John and Suzanne, the parents of Rachel and Emily. Both of their daughters were heavily involved in lots of activities, but ultimately narrowing to Softball and Gymnastics. In the midst of the pressures of those sports they continued to stay connected as a family and to their church family. They talk about how the difficult choices they had to make in order to make sure the things that they wanted to be important remained important. Suzanne said her goal in parenting is to work herself our of job because ultimately they wanted their girls to turn into confident women that can make wise decisions. They talk about the steps they took along way for this to happen.
This is a conversation with Rachel and Emily, two sisters. Both of these girls have quite a long list of accolades and accomplishments. Things like earning legit degrees from university of Texas and Texas A&M while excelling at collegiate sports. Rachel played softball at UT and Emily was a part of the gymnastics team at Texas A&M. Rachel now lives in California and works for a very, well known tech company. Emily is on a journey to med school. However, this conversation has little to do with those accomplishments, and more to do with who they are as people and how they accomplished all these things and remained humble, kind, people of integrity. You'll get some insight on what their parents did to support their passions AND build character.
This is a conversation with Cayce and John who have followed God's direction in saying "yes" to foster care. They share their journey to get there, the challenges, the gifts and how it has impacted their family. They specifically share what it has meant for their two elementary aged children. If you feel compelled to explore more about helping children in the foster care system reach out to John and Cayce by emailing them here: johnandcaycefoster@gmail.com. OR if you live in the Dallas area and are interested in attending a class that will provide you with more resources on how to be a part of caring for children in some way in the foster care system https://www.citybridgechurch.org/events/mbs-zl29l-hc6rf-x8bja-hl38d?rq=foste (click here.)
This episode is a short reflection on Luke 2, and Mary and Joseph taking baby Jesus to the temple.
Stephanie and Mark talk about how to have vision for your family, create goals, plan your families time and reflect back on what’s working and what’s not. There are lots of practical Ideas in here. They began intentionally planning their family's time when their third child was a baby, and they've seen the ways it has made a big impact on each of their lives. Mark mentions a tool that can you you get started. http://www.truenorthbusinessnavigation.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/personal-VTO-template.pdf (Here it is!) They both talk about how they teach their kids about financial responsibility, and they use a tool called https://faithandfinancesforkids.com (Faith & Finances.) Their high schooler started lettering courses for kids, and we talk about how setting goals throughout her life allowed her to make this happen. Her instagram account is here: https://www.instagram.com/lalalettering__/?hl=en (@lalalettering_)
This is episode is a conversation with a Granddad and his daughter. They talk about how to create meaningful connections with kids which includes FUN, an element of danger and some problem solving. They talk about the power of leaving legacy and how the idea of pouring into the next generation was something they experienced as children. This episode will leave you inspired... and maybe you'll want to build a ninja course! For more FUN ideas follow Susan on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susancarothers/ (@susancaruthers)
This is a conversation with two retired librarians - Minetta and Grace. Minetta has grown children, grandkids, she loves books and she is also is an incredible storyteller - like she gets invited to go places and tell stories. She has an incredible knowledge of all kinds of books for all different kinds of occasions. Grace has grown children, loves books and is the ultimate book gift giver. You can ask the Lassiter brothers about this! A few sites and books they mention: https://txla.org (Texas Library Association) http://www.ala.org (American Library Association) https://www.goodreads.com (Good Reads) The Public Library! Minetta’s Favorite List - Anne of Green Gables All books written by Patricia Polacco Chicka Chicka Boom Boom
Grace’s Favorite List - Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus & Knuffle Bunny by Mo Willems The Chronicles of Narnia by CS Lewis The Trees of the Dancing Goats by Patricia Polacco
This episode is a conversation with Mary Flo, the founder of a resource called The Birds and the Bees. It’s a strategy for talking to your kids about their body and sex in a helpful and healthy way. You will love hearing Mary Flo's wisdom on equipping your kids on technology, dating, modesty and preparing yourself to talk to your kids about sex. For more from The Birds & The Bees https://birds-bees.com/ (click here.) Follow their instagram https://www.instagram.com/birds__bees/ (here!) Listen to the episode for a 20% off coupon on their digital resources!!
This episode is a short story about a time my mom showed me how to process through big decisions.
In this episode you will hear from Ron. He has 3 grown daughters and a son in elementary school. He talks about how he started building relationships with people that lived on the streets and how he has included his children in those experiences. We talk about how as a family you can serve the homeless population, and how you can talk to your kids about it. To see more about Church Under the Tree https://www.facebook.com/pages/category/Religious-Organization/Church-Under-the-Tree-129167290435820/ (click here.)
On this episode Marcy and her daughter, Jessica talk all about hospitality. If you have ever been in Marcy or Jessica’s homes, you’ve experienced that sense of comfort, belonging and very good food! Marcy is a mom of 3, grandmother of 9 and hosting large groups is her area of expertise. Her daughter, Jessica, has learned a lot from her mom, and is carrying on the legacy of welcoming people into her home. In this episode you’ll hear some tips on making your home a place that people want to be at, but you’ll also get a clear view of what actually makes a person extend hospitality.
On this episode Leigh talks about the systems and processes she has in place to create order and organization in the home while also allowing her 4 kids to be kids. She shares how she keeps a handle on laundry, schedules, virtual school (!) and toys. As her family has grown she has been on a journey to figure out what areas she needs hold a little more loosely. She's learned how to let her kids be a part of contributing to the order in their home by using a chore chart and daily house responsibilities. It's a great listen... especially for any parents that are enneagram 1's!
Correll and Robby share their experience of parenting through the loss of their 16 daughter, Kaitlin. They share how they navigate life without her and the remarkable things that God has done through this pain. A few weeks before Kaitlin's death her life was changed at a Young Life camp. The following year Correl and Robbie attended that same exact camp to see all of the things she experienced. While at camp they experienced God like never before. Since then they have been a part of Young Life and find it a joy to show teenagers who Jesus is. Kaitlin was a JJ Pearce High School softball player, and Correl and Robbie continue to be involved in that program helping out with whatever is needed. While this is a story that includes a tragic death, this is more a story of how God has given life to so many through Correl and Robbie's faithful willingness to be used by God.
Kendall and Kathy have known each other for a long time, but their lives became a little more intertwined when Kendall had her first child. Since then Kathy has become a great source of support and encouragement for Kendall and her family. They talk about how openness and vulnerability has led to a meaningful friendship. Also, Kendall is my sister, and our mom passed away before we had children. Our mom LOVED reading to us, and there is a really special part of the conversation where Kathy and Kendall talk about how and why reading has a sweet impact on our children’s lives. It’s my favorite part. For a list of Kathy's favorite children's books https://www.goodreads.com/review/list/122570733-for-parents?ref=nav_mybooks&shelf=ep-18-kathy-s-recs (click here).
On today's episode young adults Audrey, Austen, Aly Jo and Andrew talk about their parents. They talk about boundaries or rules their parents had when they were little that were frustrating or annoying at the time, but now they are thankful for them. Boundaries like TV shows they could watch, video games in the home, being outside and piano lessons. Their perspective on those things now is so helpful! They talk about ways their parents showed support in all areas of their life from cheering them on at soccer games, planning birthday parties, funding their dreams of having a duct tape wallet business... the list goes on! They talk about how their parents priority of hospitality has trickled down to now be something they really care about. They share how thankful they are their parents have been intentional about praying for them, surrounding them with people who care and showing them what it looks like to pursue Jesus. To see more from the Spiars siblings... Audrey's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/littleaudrey12/?hl=en (@littleaudrey12) Austen's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ausiebaby/?hl=en (@ausiebaby) Aly Jo's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alyjospiars/?hl=en (@alyjospiars) https://www.audreyspiarsphoto.com/ (Audrey's photography business website!) https://www.alyjoartco.com/ (Aly Jo's Art!)
Vicki shares ways that she pursued Jesus when she her three children were little, and how her relationship with Jesus has grown over time. She was inspired by the movie War Room, when her oldest went to college she changed his closet into her prayer room. It helped her see the ways God was answering her prayers. Her mom prayed scripture for her, and she has done that with her kids. Her favorite verses for this are: Colossians 1:9-12 Deuteronomy 6:5 Romans 8:28 Romans 12:2 Jeremiah 29:13 Romans 12:2 Ephesians 4:29 John 10:27 Philippians 4:6-8 Matthew 5:16 Colossians 3:17
It's an amazing conversation full of so much wisdom! If you have questions about anything that Vicki said, email her at vschmidt@fbrichardson.org.
This episode is a short story about a time that God used nature to speak to my weary soul.
Blake and Amanda, a dad and his daughter talk about their experiences of working together. Blake founded a PR firm awhile ago and few years ago Amanda became the CEO. While family business is something that is not unique, the ways that Blake and Amanda have intentionally collaborated is unique and amazing. Blake and Amanda's Public Relations Firm: https://www.threeboxstrategic.com/ (Three Box Strategic)
Joanna and Tim talk about how they raised their 4 kids - Audrey, Austen, Aly Jo and Andrew. Two of their children are in the working world and two are in college. Anyone that knows the kids knows how much they sharpen and love each other. We discuss the things parents can do to help cultivate sibling relationships so that when they are adults they support and encourage each other.
Michelle and Susan, a mom and her daughter, share their unique experiences of being stay at home moms. Michelle and her husband, Tom, raised three children. Tom’s rigorous and demanding work schedule led Michelle to stay home once she became a mom. Just recently after Susan had her second child she left her outside of the home job to become a stay at home mom. We will talk about the great things about being home with your kids, and we will also talk about the difficult things. https://www.instagram.com/slarkin_/?hl=en (Susan's Instagram) - @slarkin_ https://www.instagram.com/mmharris_/?hl=en (Michelle's Instagram) - @Mmharris_ I refer to this in the episode, but if I can help you in your parenting journey, please email! ilassiter@fbrichardson.org
This episode is actually the audio of a video recording from a sermon series at FBCR called Reset. Brandi and Flor talk about what God has done in the lives of their families during this interesting year. If you would like to see the video of this here it is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=514zy3gxBU0 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=514zy3gxBU0)
Turner talks about her experience of being a mom of 4 kids, the South Tampa YoungLife Area Director and lessons learned from watching her mom fight through rheumatoid arthritis. She brings the truth of Romans 5:3-5 to life by sharing personal stories of how the suffering and pain she experienced actually produced character in her life. It's a great perspective for a mom or dad helping their child navigate through something difficult.
Does the role of parenting ever feel overwhelming or too big of a job? Join the club. What if we were never meant to do it alone? Ivy shares about a time that parenting was challenging. For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7
In this conversation Brenda shares experiences she had with her two daughters, Tori and Abby, to help cultivate their independence and confidence. Tori and Abby talk about ways their mom encouraged and equipped them, while also having strong boundaries and holding them accountable to hard things. Not an easy balance, but Brenda did that beautifully! Here are Tori and Abby's social media accounts: https://www.instagram.com/torrence_lee/?igshid=1rzu4ix6jxqrv (Tori's Instagram) - @torrence_lee https://www.instagram.com/athomps26/?igshid=vtok85xhg69z (Abby's Instagram) - @athomps26 Have any questions for Brenda? Reach out to her on https://www.facebook.com/brenda.thompson.393 (Facebook!)
Listen to the conversation with Fred, Anne and Julie. Fred and his wife, Mary raised 3 girls, and we discuss specific ways that Fred connected to his girls from babies through adulthood. There are so many practical ideas in this episode from dinner time, bed time, dating and creating memorable experiences. It's so good! If you leave this episode wanting more, please reach out to Fred or his daughters... Fred's Email - fred.hennighausen@gmail.com https://instagram.com/katy.rose.collection?igshid=1x6wys4lcio4p (Katy's Instagram) - @katy.rose.collection https://instagram.com/anne_alley?igshid=1k3jze087gwpf (Anne's Instagram) - @anne_alley https://www.instagram.com/juliehennigsingleton/?igshid=1xbac2sf6xs50 (Julie's Instagram) - @juliehennigsingleton
As I look back at my childhood I see how through the people around me God was planting truths deep inside. This episode includes a couple of childhood memories and one more recent experience that show how truths can be planted inside of us and bubble up later.
Kimberly and Kyle have raised 3 unique and awesome boys! On this episode we talk about what it was like when they were all little, and the things they wish they hadn't stressed about.
Brett and Shawn talk honestly about the joys and challenges of adopting two children. Their adoption story includes open adoption and being white parents raising bi-racial children. Their daughter, Bri also shares about what it means to have Brett and Shawn as parents, and the experiences that led her to be the bold, beautiful person she is today. To hear more thoughts from Brett, Shawn & Bri, see their social media accounts below: https://instagram.com/brianna_linle?igshid=rifqzthoalgx (Bri's Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/shawn.dunnblagowsky (Shawn's Facebook) https://www.facebook.com/brett.blagowsky (Brett's Facebook)
Fran and Jim talk about how they cultivate creativity in their home. While their girls are wired differently - one likes messes and the other likes lots of organization - they both enjoy finding things around the house and creating new things from it. You will hear about a lot of different family projects they dreamed up, and how they worked together to make those dreams happen. Below are the links so you can see some of their creativity! https://www.instagram.com/franceta/?hl=en (Fran's Instagram - @franceta) https://www.instagram.com/jimwalker01/?hl=en (Jim's Instagram - @jimwalker01) https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLttdc1_-p99mBdvbM_taQOG4IzEE0T6dI (Stop Motion Videos)
Jett and Connor are the incredible sons of Randy and Michelle who were featured in the last episode. They are well spoken and honest about their experiences growing up. Their parents were generous with their time, and made every effort to show up for their boys. While maybe as boys they didn't realize this gift, now that they are adults they can see it and be thankful for it. Music is Metropolis Daybreak by Cody Martin.
Michelle and Randy have raised two boys while both have high pressure, demanding jobs. They talk about how they made the decision to both work outside of the home, and the choices they made when their oldest son Jett, was diagnosed with leukemia. I loved hearing about they ways they supported each other and made sacrifices to show up for their boys. So many nuggets of wisdom in here... enjoy! Music is Metropolis Daybreak by Cody Martin.