The Parenting Program Show: Recent Episodes
Jeremy Roadruck
I am Jeremy The Kung Fu Guy: a force of nature married to another force of nature named Autumn. We have 2 amazing balls of energy called kids. I am here to help you empower your kids to speak up and own their voice. We're going to unlock and remove the chains of childhood that seem to hold us from our destiny with the tools to have inner strength, confidence to speak up, be heard and be understood.
Today, talking about some great ideas for mom on Mother's Day - low cost or no cost. This one is short and sweet - get out there and ROCK her world, no pressure! :)
Raising kids is TOUGH! NOT for the faint of heart... teaching another human being just about, oh... I dunno... EVERYTHING! And THEN... they don't want to listen? What is UP with THAT? So, today we're getting clear on 3 things you can do the help your kids listen, plus 2 tips to make your communication easier!
There's been some interest and, with permission, today we're sharing a 1:1 client session, about an hour conversation unpacking some unhealthy patterns of behavior, re-framing the meaning, injecting some frames of reference, and dialing on on the power of words to shape our experience. This is a life and unfiltered conversation.
Today I'm talking with Mr. Chris Barry - leader, teacher, father of 4 daughters on breaking through barriers, how we show up in the lives of others, the power of communication, and what has helped to make the difference in his life, marriage, and parenting.
And, if you haven't already, check out the Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind at https://gooddadproject.com/dad-edge-alliance/
Today, it's Jeremy and Autumn together talking about 5 ways that WE focus on growing the self-confidence of our kids - including kids in the neighborhood, too.
This one is for the fellas. Everyone talks about daily routines, and they tend to focus on getting the day started right. However, there's one area of your daily routine that MOST people get wrong. And if you don't fix this, you're threatening the very health of your marriage or relationship, your kids happiness and even your own stress levels! Visit http:bit.ly/homelikeaking for more details!
Today we're talking with my client, Mr. Russell Beckler, on the shifts he's made since he started working with me. We also talk briefly about being supported and NOT working in a silo/lone wolf. If YOU are a dad running solo wanting to improve your life, definitely check out the Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind here: https://gooddadproject.com/dad-edge-alliance/
This week I'm sharing some things near and dear to my heart. Today, what can we do to get things grooving better with our wives, girl-friends, or significant others? It today's world, it can feel like it's just take, take, take... it can be lonely, lots of rejection... then, to get home and not be on the same page as our SO... truly heartbreaking!
In a great relationship, joy is amplified and pain is minimized.
In a bad relationship the joy is minimized, but the PAIN is AMPLIFIED!
I’ve lived with both.
Honestly, I lived far TOO LONG in that bad relationship but it helped me to understand how to show up more powerfully and present for my wife, Autumn, and our kids Jamie and Evie.
To save you some headache and heartache I recorded this short clip to share with you the #1 secret I’ve found to having an amazing relationship after working with families and kids for over 25 years.
Initially it can be a bit challenging but when you experience the impact it makes on your partner, it’s literally life-changing.
And, so incredibly powerful for your children to witness, too.
And now, what are YOU going to do about it?
Today we're talking with Dr. Nick Sotelo about how Dads can have a better relationship and influence with their teens, brain development, stages of masculine development and more.
Dr. Nick is a well experienced in child development, marriage therapy, and has a PhD in psychology.
Be sure to visit https://nicksotelo.com/ for more on him and his work with The Upgraded Life, which is HIS podcast (and Jeremy was a featured guest in 2020).
To continue to conversation, join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/winwinparenting
And the free guide Jeremy mentioned about coming home like a king is at http://bit.ly/homelikeaking
Four Ways to Love Yourself
Truth is, you can’t give what you don’t have.
And, if you’re not able to love yourself, you might not know it, but you’re planting some seeds into the unconscious of your kids that might NOT be the greatest BS for the future. (BS meaning belief systems.)
To give you a basic framework for healthy change,
there’s a four step process to grow and shift your inner world and the inner world of your children or teens. So, we’re going to break that down today.
Are you subscribed to The Parenting Program podcast? If you’re not, do that today. #justsaying I don’t want you to miss an episode.
You are also always welcome to join the other dads in The Win / Win Parenting Group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/winwinparenting
Today I'm joined by Mr. Dave Elliott - relationship coach, author, and wonderful human being who loves to make positive impacts and help individuals and couples to have a legendary love for life.
We talk about tips, tactics, tools, and strategies to grow your love and relationships as a parent and as a partner to the object of your affection.
Visit https://legendaryloveforlife.com/ for more from Dave!
Today, I'm talking about the 3 Costs involved in making change - the cost of NOT taking action, the cost of lukewarm action, and the cost of decisive action to get your results. These three costs show up for you when YOU want to make changes, and they show up when your spouse or partner wants to make changes... even when your kids want (or need!) to make changes. I'm also covering ways to help yourself and others to make real, lasting shifts in your life.
GREAT conversation with Mark Savant, host of Actidad Podcast and all around awesome guy. We talk about goal setting, the power of communication, living your truth (gah! "deserve" just ruins thing, ya?), how to get better dads in the world, and how to get better engagement with your family. And to think it all started with wanting an extra bowl of rice.
We've all heard about S.M.A.R.T. goals for the Nth degree, from everywhere. We ALL know the importance of setting goals - but is there something MORE we could be doing, something beyond just being SMART? Yes, of course.
Today I'm joined by Dan Zehner - beyond being an engineer, working with NASA, and ruck sacking, Dan is also deeply involved in the work of Seal Team Leaders, the brainchild of Larry Yatch. Dan is committed to helping men to feel empowered, take control of their lives, and accomplish more than they ever thought possible.
Today we're talking about how to shift your approach to goal setting, we touch on fatherhood and parenting, we even talk about playing games and scented candles.
EVERYONE needs a time out - I need a time out, YOU need a time out, our kids need a time out... grinding is great, but when you're burning the candle on both ends and the middle, what's left? So many of us are getting consumed by our dreams, our drives, our side-hustles, etc. And... have you noticed you're getting diminishing returns? Yeah, me too. I think you'll find, with a little time out in your day, you'll show up more powerfully for yourself and others. Today we're talking about some strategies on HOW to make a time out happen for you and for others. Give it a listen, you'll be glad you did!
It's a new year, and for many that means new goals. Yay! Only, most people don't actually achieve their goals. Boo! Today, I'm talking about why that actually happens - hello secondary gain - and what YOU can do about it... for yourself, and for your kids.
It's New Year's Eve on 12/31/2019 and today I'm joined by Dr. Russell Kennedy, the Anxiety Doctor, and we're talking about multiple ways to help resolve anxiety in kids and families.
We talked about the power of eye contact, why giving power to your kids at times can actually be helpful, how to help kids vs helping teens, the power of movement and touch, and even the power of family dinners. We covered a TON of practical tips to help YOU empower your kids in ways you might never have thought of!
Neuroscientist, Medical Doctor, Comedian, Yoga Teacher, Dr. Russell Kennedy aka THE ANXIETY MD lived with anxiety most of his life has devoted his career to helping others get out of the hole he was in for a very long time. His anxiety started when he was quite young, growing up with a severely mentally ill father who would lapse into psychotic depression and anxiety that would frighten Dr. Russ to the point that he developed an anxiety disorder.
And definitely, check out The Four Agreements - Dr's orders!
It's Dec 24th, Christmas Eve and I'm joined today by the amazing Mrs. Autumn and we're sharing how we keep the relationship magic running during the holiday season AND all year long. Our anniversary is December 27th, and Autumn's birthday is December 29th... which is why I take off the last 2 weeks of the year! Please, join us as we cover 5 tips to make the loving, magic moments last all year long.
Our kids are constantly watching, copying who we are and how we act - at home, at school, everywhere! Today I'm joined by LaVonna Roth as we talk about the power of your presence as a parent and leader at home. She's a professional speaker, multi-time author and founder of Ignite Your S.H.I.N.E. Please join us for some tips, tactics and strategies to help YOU be your best parent, ever - AND empower your kids to be their best, too!
We want to make sure we maximize our time with our family to the highest quality and quantity. Let's get ahead of the curve instead of looking back with regret on what you would have, could have, and should have done.
I'm very excited for today's conversation with two champions of engagement and education.
Dr. Michael Lubelfeld and Dr. Nick Polyack are Superintendents and authors of a cool book, The Unlearning Leader. It's all about how what got us here, won't get us there.
I'm thrilled to bring them on to the show today to share what parents can do to get more engaged and involved in their school systems, how they can become an asset and ally for their children, and do it in a healthy way.
Please join us for some great conversation!
Today, a tale of two brothers - love, betrayal, hatred, self-loathing... all in a 12 year old and a 6 year old. And you just might recognize yourself, or maybe your kids experiencing some of these patterns, what we can do about it, and how to redirect it without becoming aggressive yourself! Let's do this!
Get clear on your Values as a family. What matters? What do you enjoy? That’s the compass for the decisions you make. And then you actually need to act on those, not just talk about them. We're talking about kid's empowerment, helping your kids find their voice, tactics and strategies for building connections with your kids with Jim & Jamie Sheils of 18 Summers.
Get clear on your Values as a family. What matters? What do you enjoy? That’s the compass for the decisions you make. And then you actually need to act on those, not just talk about them. We're talking about kid's empowerment, helping your kids find their voice, tactics and strategies for building connections with your kids with Jim & Jamie Sheils of 18 Summers.
With the holiday season coming up, Jeremy and Autumn have some tips for how to survive the family drama. Everyone loves seeing family at the holidays, but as we all know sometimes with holiday fun can also come family tensions! Jeremy and Autumn talk you through dealing with the embarrassing stories, getting out of heated political debates, and handling the in-laws all while making the experience as fun and easy as possible for you and the kids!
I'm bringing Brian Scrone on the podcast today. Brian’s 5Fs allows the reader to master that fine line between being truly successful while not compromising any area of life! The 5Fs are about getting your priorities clear, which will directly impact how you invest your time.
Brian addresses the deeper issue – how to invest that time in What Matters Most…to you. Brian’s ability to connect, inspire and most importantly call ‘bullshit’ on perceived road blocks and excuses makes any experience with him effective.
www.brianscrone.com
What we do and how we do it communicates to our kids so much. Todays topic is super important you're going to want to make sure you listen to the whole episode! Of course, we're always empowering your kids to own their voice. Specifically, we're going to discuss how to feed the behavior you want to grow in your kids and maybe even in yourself. I share some stories, we look into how we're conditioning and rewarding each other, how to switch out of fight or flight more, and more!
Klaas has great enthusiasm and a no holds barred gusto that he uses to impact fathers' lives. He commits himself to becoming a fearless father and be an example for his clients. Klaas helps dadpreneurs take not only their marriage or their business or their relationship with their children, but all of the above to the next level. We discuss creating emotional safety for yourself and your children and how Klaas has found new ways to achieve this while switching gears in his career and life. https://www.facebook.com/kvoosterhout
How many times have you seen this: a group of kids get together, somebody gets left out and they have a meltdown. Snot, tears, yelling, the works. When you're worked up your brain is in a biochemical storm. These tips in this episode are going to help you change this situation like magic.
The resilient Kathy De La Torre of The Inspire Café Podcast is on a mission to create a wave of positive ripple effects. We all suffer from obstacles and setbacks, but it’s a particular mindset to not only face those challenges but to actually be in a better place afterward where they can now share their stories and help others, too. Pain is a part of life and in this episode we discuss how you can take pieces of that to help you grow -- remember, suffering is optional!
Let's get right into it. This episode if going to help you empower yourself, your relationship, and raise some amazing kids. Let's be honest, if we don't have a solid foundation as parents and as leaders or if we are unsure of ourselves, what are the kids going to pick up on? It's hard for kids to feel solid if you don't feel solid because they are always paying attention and they will notice things.
Forbes is a force of nature. She is one of those individuals who is always on fire. She doesn't waste time and she doesn't hold punches. Today, Forbes gets candid about her experience having children at 42, creating a harmonious household, what I like to call the dog training method, and so much more!
forbesfactorlive.com
Remember the feeling of being on top of the world winning a game as a child? Do you remember how it would feel to loose? Like you were small inside and not enough? We've all been there. Today we're going to talk about games and why they're important in a child's life, but also how they affect you.
As parents, no one gave us the owners manual and it's a lot of trial and error. We've all had that moment where we start channeling our parents and start saying the things we swore we would never say. Let's change the conversation. You don't have to be perfect and have all the answers, but what you're going to get today is support. This podcast will give you the tools to not only empower yourself, but empower your kids so they can speak up and own their own voice.