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Elyse-Anne
Welcome to The Woman of Influence Podcast.
I'm Elyse-Anne, founder of The Woman of Influence and your host.
The Woman of Influence allows God to use her for a purpose higher than herself, lives the fullest version of her life, is independent of the good opinion of others and walks her talk while changing the lives of everyone she touches.
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Do you ever feel like you're on a roll, and then something happens and you're suddenly feeling down? If so, you're not alone. Triggers are things that happen in our lives that cause us to feel negative emotions, such as anger, sadness, or fear. When we are triggered, our vibrations drop. This can make it difficult to manifest our desires and live a fulfilling life.
In this episode, we will discuss what triggers are, why we have them, and how to work with them to raise our vibrations. We will also share tips on how to identify and avoid your triggers, and how to process them in a healthy way.
We will also talk about the importance of self-love and self-compassion when working with triggers. When we love and accept ourselves, we are less likely to be triggered by external events.
Whether you are new to the concept of triggers or you have been working with them for a while, this episode is for you. We hope to help you understand triggers better and learn how to work with them to raise your vibrations and live a more fulfilling life.
Have you ever wondered if there are other realities out there? Maybe realities where your life is different in some way, or realities where history took a different course.
Parallel universes, or multiverse theory, is the idea that there are many different universes existing alongside our own. These universes may be similar to ours, or they may be completely different.
In this episode, we will explore the concept of parallel universes and splitting realities. We will discuss the scientific evidence for parallel universes, as well as the philosophical and spiritual implications of their existence.
We will also share stories of people who believe they have experienced parallel universes or split realities.
Whether you are a skeptic or a believer, this episode is for you. We hope to help you learn more about the fascinating world of parallel universes and splitting realities.
Do you ever start a new project, only to get distracted by something new and shiny? If so, you're not alone. Bright and shiny object syndrome (BASO) is a common phenomenon where people are easily distracted by new and exciting things, and they have difficulty staying focused on their current goals.
BASO can be a major obstacle to success, but it is possible to overcome it. In this episode, we will discuss what BASO is, why it happens, and how to overcome it. We will also share tips on how to stay focused on your goals and achieve your dreams.
Whether you're a student, entrepreneur, or just someone who wants to achieve more in life, this episode is for you. We hope to help you identify and overcome the BASO that may be holding you back from achieving your goals.
In this episode, we explore the topic of past life healing. What is it? How does it work? And how can it benefit you? We also interview a past life healer who shares her insights and experiences.
Have you ever wondered if your past lives are influencing your present life? If so, you're not alone. Many people believe that past life healing can be a powerful tool for self-discovery and personal growth.
In this episode, we explore the topic of past life healing. What is it? How does it work? And how can it benefit you? We also interview a past life healer who shares her insights and experiences.
Whether you're curious about past life healing or you're ready to start your own healing journey, this episode is for you.
Have you been trying to manifest something for a while, but nothing seems to be happening? You're not alone. Many people experience this at some point in their manifestation journey.
In this episode, we'll explore the reasons why manifestation may not be happening for you, and we'll share some tips on what you can do to get things moving in the right direction.
We'll also talk about the importance of patience and perseverance, even when it took longer than they expected.
Whether you're new to manifestation or you've been practicing for a while, this episode is for you. We hope to help you identify and overcome any blocks that may be preventing you from manifesting your desires.
Dive deep into the connection between your unconscious mind, emotions, and vibrational frequency. Discover how shifting your emotions can transform your vibration and manifest your desires.
Explore the transformative power of healing abandonment wounds with Elyse on "Create with Elyse." Join us on a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and abundance.
Discover how healing can reshape your life and spiritual entrepreneurship.
Book a Soul Clarity Session with Elyse to dive deeper into your unique journey. www.elyseanne.com/soulclaritysession.
Explore the transformative power of the Akashic Masters' guidance in our latest episode.
Discover how their wisdom can illuminate your life choices, whether in career, relationships, health, or transitions.
Join us on a journey of self-discovery and alignment with your soul's purpose.
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Embark on a profound spiritual odyssey in 'Journey Through the Akashic Records.' Join your guide, Elyse, as she unveils the cosmic wisdom of the Akashic Records, a repository of timeless knowledge.
Discover the Masters who offer guidance and the Lords of Karma who oversee the balance of cosmic energies.
This episode invites you to explore the depths of your soul's journey and offers a transformative call to action.
Rewrite your soul's contract (elyseanne.com/rewriteyoursoulcontract) and step into your true purpose.
Dive into this enlightening exploration of ancient wisdom and spiritual insight.
Discover how anger can be a messenger and catalyst for transformation. Embrace authenticity, navigate your emotions, and find resolution in the divine dance of spirituality.
Explore the healing nature of anger and the power of rediscovering faith and trust.
Discover the science behind affirmations and how they can rewire your mindset. Elyse shares practical tips for crafting powerful affirmations that align with your authentic self.
Learn how to seamlessly integrate them into your daily life and explore their profound impact on self-love and healing.
As the episode concludes, Elyse invites you to explore your own transformative journey by booking a 'Soul Clarity' session with her. These sessions offer a safe and sacred space for profound self-discovery and alignment with your deepest desires.
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You may not have the mother you want, but you'll always have the mother you need to become the woman you're today. And as an adult, you're responsible for yourself and therefore you can mother your inner child the way you want.
I heard this from a Chinese lecturer.
He said that if you want to ruin someone, tell them they need to be perfect.
🤷♀️Doesn't this sound familiar?
50: Everyone else is already taken up, you can take up as much space as you want in the Universe. The Universe will make space for you therefore there's no need to compete or be a clone of someone else to become successful.
49: This is a continuation from yesterday's episode where I asked if you're a people pleasure then are you also a manipulator? If we want to put our God Given Gifts out there, we need to be strong to take criticism as well, otherwise it'll just be giving airtime to the ego!
48: If you're in the process of getting to know yourself and embarked on the personal development journey then not every feedback you get is about you. If you know what it feels like to walk on egg shells with certain people then, if you take everything personally, you too are making people feel they need to watch what they say when they're with you.
47: In today's episode, I shared the technique and tools I used to get myself out of confusion and raise my frequency to match the things I want to experience righ now. Connect with me here: FB : FB.com/TheWomanofInfluence IG: Instagram.com/TheWomanofInfluence
46: One of the many reasons why we stop ourselves from pursing our dreams and become wildly success is because it requires us to get outside our comfort zone and face the "wolves of the world".
By that I mean to face the reality that people may say NO to us.
When we hear a NO, most of the time, we take it personally and immediately translate to "Oh I'm unlovable!" or "there's something wrong with me".
As a child, we've been conditioned to behave properly and only when we do according to what our parents or caregivers want from us, do we get rewarded.
So the rest of our lives, we live for these "reward" moments because it makes us feel loved.
But the truth is, people don't have to like what we say or what we do. And it really has nothing to do with us because we're all given FREEWILL and we don't have similar taste right?
Just like music, some people may like Lady Gaga and some don't. But it doesn't stop her from doing what she loves.
Similarly, I don't listen to the same kind of music all the time. I've preferences based on the time of the day and my mood.
But just because I like to Enya in the evening, JLO isn't going to get offended.
45: You cannot attract abundance from a place of lack.
And it's not that affirmations don't work. They do. It's just that we don't believe them.
So our job is to bridge the gap. The Universe isn't out to get us or punish us.
Like Einstein said, you must first decide if you live in a hostile or friendly Universe.
When you believe in a friendly Universe and that life is FOR you and not against you, half the "battle" is already won.
You've done most of the heavy lifting because you're no longer in your way.
Yes learning the lessons may be painful but so is giving birth. But we do it anyway right?
Watch the video to find out how I healed my relationship with money and allow money to serve my mission so that I don't have worry about keeping up with the bills every month.
44: 🙋♀️I agree it's hard to stay focused especially when EVERYONE is at home and if you're staying at home alone, it's hard to focus when your mind is chattering non stop.
So, the key is not make distraction a problem. There's a reason why you get distracted so easily.
I seriously crave out time for me to be distracted and doing mindless activities like playing games or watching a rom com.
The idea is to keep my mind off thinking.
Of course, I meditate every morning so that keeps me grounded.
There must be a reward for doing what you want to do stay on course right?
You won't want to lose weight for no reason.
So the reason and reward must be more alluring than your excuses.
Start with doing the activities that makes you happy and don't feel guilty about enjoying whatever makes you happy.
If you don't feel like like mopping the floor today, screw it! Sit down, chill and have a cup of coffee.
No one is keeping tabs on you.
If you don't feel like making the bed today, screw it! Just lie on your bed like a star fish and watch the time go by.
Train your body to say yes to what feels good and then you'll find yourself more focused and motivated.
Watch the video for more tips and let me know what's your personal tips to stay focused and motivated.⠀
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@iamelyseanne
43: If you don't decide how the day is going to be, the day will decide for you.
Then you become the victim of your circumstances.
The truth is, we don't know and cannot predict how the day will go but we can definitely pre decide who we're going to be no matter what happens.
Life will do what life wants to do right?
Being in charge of your emotions is definitely part of growing up and self responsibility.
In this video, I share my personal practical tips on how I end the day right so that I set myself for success even before I wake up.
Let me know what your personal tips and tricks to maintain your sanity.
42: The # 1 reason why most of fear failure isn't because we believe that we're not good enough or we're not ready. The reason is because we're ultimately afraid of rejection.
If we're rejected that means we're being judged and as a result, people won't like us.
So we rather stay small, fit in and dim our lights. Don't take any risks and be safe in our comfort zones.
Yes although we'll be safe and we may go through life without any major upheavals, but will you be happy though?
Will you be satisfied not knowing what your fullest potential and capabilities are?
Aren't you slightly curious how far God can take you in life?
Looking from the sidelines feeling jealous of what others have accomplished is an indication that you too are craving for that experience.
You're in your own way.
Instead of being scared, be curious instead.
In the space of curiosity, you cannot feel the fear.
Like a child. A child is fearless because s/he is curious and everything is interesting.
Perhaps you think there's too much to lose if you lose. Ok! So what do you really have to lose if you just take ONE tiny weeny step?
If you don't try, the answer is always NO.
Even if you tried and the answer is NO, at leas you know.
Is it time to change the narrative in your head and take a leap of faith and see how far God can take you?
41: It's an insane world because there're so many expectations for women.
We've to look a certain way, dress a certain way, talk a certain way, behave a certain way and even think a certain way.
Trying to achieve all these unrealistic goals is obviously driving us up the wall.
We can choose to ditch the crazy expectations and come up with a more humane way of doing things.
We don't have to drive ourselves crazy. Stress is the # 1 killer in our modern times.⠀
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So, ask yourself if the situation is really worth stressing over. Is it worth another white hair or wrinkle?
No one is responsible for our happiness and mental health.
No one is watching you and keeping tabs of what you've done and what you haven't done.
As a mother in lockdown mode, my main focus isn't the laundry. My focus is mainly making sure my children are fed.
As a result, my laundry room is still in a mess and may not do my laundry everyday. It's raining most of the time in Singapore anyway.
It's ok if I don't mop the floor everyday, I no longer have toddlers crawling all over the house.
I may wash the toilets at 8pm before I take my shower.⠀
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🤷♀️Who's to say that I'm washing and cleaning at the wrong time?⠀
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I'm doing what's most convenient for me so that I don't go crazy.
We cannot control what's going on in the outer world. But if and when we lose control over our inner worlds, of course, everything is going to be topsy turvy.⠀
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I truly believe happy mom = happy children = happy life.
I don't enjoy myself when I have those crazy burst of emotions and I start yelling at my children because I'm feeling frustrated.
So, I need to learn to pace myself.
Do what the video for more tips and tricks on how to stay sane in the insane world.
Your happiness is your responsibility.
💗 Elyse-Anne
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40: I believe it's more important now than ever that we take time out to connect with our Soul and Creator to find out why we're here at this specific time.
I also believe that if you're part of @thewomanofinfluence community and is reading this right now, you're called for a life bigger than what your ego has planned out for you.
You're here to hold the light and help raise the frequency of Mother Earth.⠀
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Your Soul has volunteered to be part of the change and witness the shift that has never happened before in recorded human history.
You and I and all of us are the chosen ones and have been chosen to clean and cleanse the dense energies.⠀
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💁♀️Are you ready for the Divine Call?
What I've learned is that God isn't a stingy God. S/he has many more gifts for us. There's more than ONE gift for us to receive.
But we need to "proof" that we're worthy to receive the Gift and use it responsibly.
What God can give, God can take back.
If you're clueless, the first thing to do is to be OK with the fact that you don't know. And then be patient.
The Universe always leaves us clue. I wish It can be more direct but I suppose It likes giving us riddles to solve.
It's more exciting that way right?! I also realised that once you overcome a challenge, you'll be given a gift as a reward.
Gifts from the Universe are always precious and amazing.
Watch the video as I share more ways to discover your God Given Gifts.
And then leave me a comment to let me know where you are at right now.
39: When I started my Spiritual Healing practice 10 years ago, I blamed God for trying to make my life so difficult when all I wanted was to help people.
And I couldn't understand why He was making my life so difficult!
He wasn't. I was in such a victim state.
Eventually I realised that no one was coming to save me and I can't help anyone but myself at that point in time.
Now I know that God is waiting for me. It was me that was in my own way.
Many times, we want others to change and the world to change so that we don't have to change.
Change is hard. It's not easy but yet it's the only thing we can do to improve our lives.
If we keep waiting, then we'll always have to depend on the external circumstances to be right before we can be happy.
I hate rules and some laws are just simply ridiculous.
If you're like me, have you ever wondered why do we need laws to govern us?
Well we don't when we each take personal responsibility for ourselves and our surrounding.
You don't need a rocket scientist to tell you why you shouldn't drink and drive. You also need a degree to tell you why you shouldn't drive like a mad person on the over speed limit on the road.
We don't need the government to tell us why we need to pay income tax to help the lower income when we all do our part to lift each other up.
Doing charity and being charitable is another topic that I'll cover another day but we need to teach people how to fish and not just give people the fish.
Otherwise we create a community of needy people who just wait for people to donate.
It definitely makes us feel good but we're actually robbing people of the chance to discover their own potential.
I truly feel that we can only change the world by our actions and not just talk.
We need more conscious role models to rise up, take charge and lead.
Stop waiting for permission or people to appoint you.
You're already the chosen one so it's time to step up.
Love,
Elyse-Anne
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38: The only reason why we suffer mentally and emotionally is because we resist the current situation.⠀
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🗣We're comparing our current reality to the past of future because we hope it had turned out another way.
Well, if you can't accept it, then you'll suffer.
Your mind will always be spinning and you end up with a whole bunch of negative thoughts.⠀
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💁♀️Negative thoughts are from the ego. Past believe systems and old paradigms.
Clearly it's not serving. You know that because you can feel it in your gut.
When you're in alignment with the Truth, you feel good.⠀
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💪So learn to take "negative" emotions as feedback. It is what it is until we give it a story.
What I've learned is that basically the negative comments in your head comes from an unhealed and wounded self.⠀
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🙏If you can accept it and give it the attention it wants, it'll subside and eventually go away.
When you're calm and collected, this is the time to go into enquiry mode.⠀
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👉Find out what's the root case of this anger or feeling. Once you know, you set yourself free from the effect.
This is all part of the journey to getting to know who you truly are and live life on your own terms.
No one said life is easy. But it's rewarding when you do the work.⠀
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❤ Elyse-Anne
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37: 🌈God put the vision and desire in you and only can see it.
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🛑Stop asking irrelevant people for advice and permission.⠀
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🛑Stop giving your personal power away to people who don't deserve your love and attention.
If you think God can only help you pay your rent and make it through the day, then you've underestimated God.
In the Bible it said that you have not because you ask not.⠀
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🤷♀️Are you asking for the small stuff because you ultimately think you don't deserve them?
Then it's your problem. It has nothing to with God forsaken you.⠀
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🙅♀️What is it that you truly desire to have and to experience?
Be honest and fearless demand that it shows up in your life.
You deserve to take up space in the world and just be you.⠀
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❤ Elyse-Anne
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36: I believe many people are praying part time.⠀
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😅Meaning the only talk to God when shit hits the fan and when that happens, they beg God for help.
The truth is - God already knows what you need. The problem is, we don't.⠀
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😫Very often we wait till the very last minute and beg for help in a needy and desperate way.
If you do that, that means you're saying God doesn't know what He's doing and you need to tell Him what you need him to do.⠀
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💪Whenever shit hits the fan and I find it unbearable I would remind myself that God will not give me something I can't handle.
There's a lesson for me to learn and a wounded self wanting to be healed.⠀
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🙅♀️There's really no point worrying and begging because the desperate vibe will cause the Law of Attraction to me more of the situations I don't want.
Since God already knows what I need, then all I can do is wait patiently for the sign to take the next step.⠀
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🌈And be grateful for all the blessings coming my way.
It's a mindset shift and a change of habits. From worrying to trusting.
If worrying didn't make your life any better than why not try going the other way and see what happens.⠀
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🤷♀️What's the worst that can happen?
You can always go back to where you were.⠀
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🧘♀️God is in the silence. You can't hear Him when your mind is clouded and noisy.
Have a great weekend.⠀
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❤ Elyse-Anne
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35 : 👩👧👧Now that all my girls are out of diapers and are fully functional mini adults, I find myself spending more time in the bathroom.
I don't need to rush out of the bathroom because a child is screaming for me at the top of her lungs.⠀
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🧖♀️I'm back to my beauty routine and I absolutely love it.
It's so important for us women to take time out to take care of ourselves.
At the end of the day, we really don't want to become cracky bitches. It's not fun being one and it's definitely not fun being around one.⠀
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🤳If you think you don't have time then schedule it in your phone.
Once it's scheduled then there're no more excuses.
If you don't enjoy spending time with you then why would others?⠀
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🙏Self care isn't just and all about beautifying yourself. it's also about clearing your mind and reconnect with your soul.
Finding time to rejuvenate your body, mind and soul.
Going with the flow means be one with the flow.⠀
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🧘♀️So if you're out of alignment and out of sync, then of course life becomes topsy turvy.
It's paramount that you carve out time for you and you alone.⠀ ⠀
You deserve it.
❤ Elyse-Anne
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34: 🌈Over the next few months and perhaps for the rest of the year, I'm going to constantly remind all of you (including me!) to be aligned with the soul.⠀
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This message never gets old and goes out of fashion.
I'm so done with all the business strategies here and there! This era of strategies is OVERRRrrrRRr!⠀
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🙅♀️The era of hustling is also outdated.
As we approach the Age of Aquarius, it sounds fancy but to be it basically means the era of TRUTH!
Everything is coming up to the surface to be healed and released.⠀
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🤷♀️There wasn't such a thing as a Mental Health Awareness month when I was growing up.
As we mature as a species, we're now able to open up to taboo subjects and accept them.
It's not like there wasn't any one NOT going through depression during our grandmother's era but it was frowned upon in the past so no one talked about it.⠀
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💆♀️Going for therapy now is widely accepted. We've come a long way and there's more we can cover.
Instead of pointing fingers at addicts, we're now more compassionate towards them as we now know they're struggling with themselves.
So therefore, it's time to see and accept ourselves for who we are and we don't need to adhere to any success blueprints or strategies to become successful.⠀
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💟I speak from my heart every single day and that requires no strategy. I follow my heart desires every single day and that requires only obedience to my soul's calling.
I no longer look or check in with what other people are doing. I keep my eyes on my own prize and take one step at a time.⠀
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👍Other people have their own way of doing things and I'm aware that their soul's mission and purpose isn't the same as mine.
So how can I follow their way of doing things?⠀
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It's easy to just copy what everyone is doing and saying but as a result you'll lose yourself. 🤷♀️Is it worth it?⠀
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To constantly live in someone's shadow?
Have a think about it.⠀
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33: 🙏**They say praying is talking to God and meditation is listening to God.⠀
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And the truth is God is talking to us all the time through many channels and one of them is our Divine GPS called the intuition.⠀
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🤷♀️So often, we ignore that voice and then get ourselves into trouble and then wonder why did God forsake us?
There's a still voice within all of us that's consistent, gentle and firm at the same time.
I've learned to listen to my intuition even though it doesn't make any logical sense because I'm so done with doing things my way and get bruised real bad!⠀
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🤦♀️There were many times I didn't listen and i had to pay a heavy price for it.
I suppose that was the only way my intuition could get my attention and OH BOY! It did.
So, now I'm 100% obedient to my intuition.
It never leads me astray.⠀
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31: 🌌**Everything you desire is on another frequency so technically, all you need to do is to tune and shift your frequency to match up with your desires.⠀
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I know! It's easier said than done. 💃If it were that easy, I'm already a skinny billionairess.⠀
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This is where most people think they need to clear their blocks. You're your own block.
You're the one sabotaging yourself by holding on to an old identity and dysfunctional belief system.
There's no way anyone can manifest abundance from a place of lack.⠀
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🙅♀️As you can see, the frequencies simply don't match up.
I know it's really hard to believe that we truly deserve abundance when our personal life experiences tells us otherwise.
So this is where you need to ask yourself what belief systems got you here.⠀
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🌈Once you uncover them, you can then bridge the gap.
Watch the video to find out how I bridge the frequency gap.⠀
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❤ Elyse-Anne
32: 🙏**As long as you're still breathing and alive, God isn't done with you yet and your mission isn't done.⠀
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The best has yet to come.
The world needs you to be you. Oprah is already taken.⠀
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💃The best way for the world to know you is for you to share and tell your story.
You'll be amazed and surprised how your story can connect with another human on a deeper level
I don't know about you but I'm so done with superficial small talks.
You don't have to ask me about the weather. I'm not blind. I can see for myself.
Otherwise I can google it for myself if I really wanted to know about the weather.⠀
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🗳Most of us are so boxed up because we're so afraid of being hurt and as a result we stay away from people.
Even if you're on social media, you can still open up and just be you.⠀
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🌈The world is getting smaller and smaller day by day yet the distance between humans are getting farther and farther day by day.
We can bridge the gap by speaking our truth.⠀
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❤ Elyse-Anne
31: Since time isn't linear which means all past, present and future are happening right now.⠀
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🌌All possibilities are existing right now and you choose your experience based on the frequency you're offering to the Universe.
In a nutshell, the Universe doesn't hear your words.⠀ ⠀
If it did, I would be a skinny billionairess by now.
The Universe responds to the dominate emotion that you're offering.⠀
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💁♀️The future is already in the now so it's up to you what you really want to experience.
That's why in order to change your future, you need to be aware of what you unconsciously believe you deserve.
You need to check in with your energy vortex everyday, clean it up so that you're sending out only loving vibes.
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🌈Remember, no one gets to cheat the Law of Attraction.
The secret to manifest isn't in what you do but what you believe you ultimately deserve.⠀⠀
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🤷♀️What do you believe?⠀
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❤ Elyse-Anne
30: "Your opinions don't pay my bills" is my latest fav mantra.⠀
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I used to care a lot of about other think of me because I want to be liked. And therefore have become a people pleaser.⠀
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🙄These days, I really don't give a shit anymore about what people think unless they're living the life I want.
Everyone has an opinion and everyone is so ready to offer one!
I wished these people would just pay more attention to minding their own business rather than mine but these people do exist and there's no way you can get rid of them.⠀
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💪But I can ignore what they say and not allow them to get to me.
Because these days, I'm really watching my stress level. I want to live on for a long time and why should I compromise and sacrifice my health for people who I don't know.
Like I told you, I used to have a need to be right and liked! 2 most deadly "sins" if you ask me.⠀
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💁♀️And btw sin isn't something bad, it just means you missed the mark.
I missed the mark by not putting myself and sanity first.
Self betrayal is the worst form of betrayal. And this ain't happening no more.⠀
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🌈At the end of day, only I can love myself unconditionally. Not even my children or partner.
It's my job and responsibility to be happy.
So... your opinions don't pay my bills and mine don't pay for yours either.⠀
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❤ Elyse-Anne
29: We're living in exciting times - where for the first time in history the age old paradigms and structures are FINALLY breaking and crumbling.
This will seem and look scary from the outside because the world seems to be falling apart.
💁♀️What is falling apart is the old structures and you know demo day is a messy day.
It's ok to be scared because we haven't lived through a time such as this and everyone is just as new to this new energy.
So don't bother looking left or right because it's going to be back to bind leading the blind.
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👸Instead, stand up and take on the leadership role.
No one said you've got to have everything figured out.
You just need to hold the space for yourself and your community while we figure this out together.
Therefore, this isn't the time to be politically correct. We need to address and speak up on topics that are difficult.⠀
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💘You will meet with resistance and push back because for such a long time we've been operating under a certain believe system.
And even though collective we may have demanded for a change but egos don't like change.
Leave these people alone. There's no point trying to convenience people who don't wish to seek enlightenment at this point of time.⠀
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🙏Trust that everyone will get there eventually.
You job to pay attention to those who are lost but would like to be found.
I've been talking about very uncomfortable topics lately and I've personally experienced the pushbacks and triggers from people.
I'm not here to be politically correct so that you will like me. That's my job to like me - not you.⠀
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📝My job is to invite you to open yourself to other ways of thinking - not just yours and mine.
If we think we know it all, then we stop ourselves from growing.⠀
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👩🏫Even teachers have teachers.
It's impossible to know it all even though we live in an information overload era.
On another note, there's also no excuse why you don't know certain thing because there's a ton of information out there.
Being ignorant should almost be a crime.⠀
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🎁Stop waiting for people to spoon feed you. Do yourself a favour and educate yourself with the knowledge you need to add value to the world.⠀
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❤ Elyse-Anne
28: 💁♀️I've been talking about forgiveness lately because I've recently reaped the rewards of forgiveness.
I've been unable to forgive myself and this particular individual for at least 2 years!
It's crazy and it was more of a punishment for me for making the wrong decision than it is punishing the other person.
As I'm turning 40 in less than a year, (WHAT!!!???) I'm starting to rethink my priorities and how I would like to live for the rest of my life.
I've heard many many many spiritual teaches talk about forgiveness but it was still so hard for me to let go.
Well, thanks to getting older and really feeling the clock ticking, I've finally decided to live and let live.
And now that I've created the space, I'm welcoming more good things to show up in my life and things are already shifting right before my eyes.
As Wayne Dyer said that we cannot manifest out desires and judge another child of God.
I know it's really hard to do but everyone is a child of God.
Everyone is given the gift of FREEWILL but none of us are free from the consequences.
So just be you let the past go doesn't mean karma isn't watching. It's not your job to play to pay back game.
Otherwise this cycle will never break.
Do you want to happy or do you want to be right.
It's completely up to you.
PEACE.
❤ Elyse-Anne
27: Keyboard warriors!⠀
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The so called vigilantes are actually bullies is disguise.⠀
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🦸♀️Speak up and stand up for yourself.
They have no facts. To shut them up, question their statements or bring out the facts.
I used to be mildly afraid to call them out but no longer.
It's so easy to judge other people's lives and then give your opinion what they should or shouldn't do.
I've had one person who told me that I will be punished for deciding on my abortion one day before God.
Well, I told her straight up that I hope she hasn't sinned once in her life because according to what she had said, she'll get the same treatment too!⠀
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💁♀️There's the Law of Karma - basically the law of cause and effect. That means although we've freewill to choose but we're not free from the consequences.
So, we should just mind our own business and stop trying to play God.⠀
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🥿Unless you've walked in the person's shoes for ONE day. None of us has a right to judge,
We don't know what's the soul contract between he/r and God!
Sometimes a divorce is needed to save a live or a few lives.
Sometimes an abortion is needed for whatever reason we cannot fathom.
So, let's be more compassion because one day we'll need it ourselves.⠀
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❤ Elyse-Anne
26: I heard this saying from Bob Proctor - The moment you graduate from college, you're obsolete.
Essentially it means if you're not growing, you're dying.
I don't have a college degree and I got kicked out from high school.⠀ ⠀
🙏Quite honestly, thank God my soul had the foresight and didn't make me go through the agony only to not use my degree.
That being said, even though I didn't get the traditional education, I'm constantly upgrading and learning.
I'm always curious. And I think I'm not bounded by the traditional education system, my mind works in a different way.
I'm always thinking of other ways of doing something and what's the most efficient way of doing things because I don't have a rule book.⠀
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💁♀️It has also made me very open to new ideas because you don't know what you don't know and if you think you know it all, it's a dangerous place to be in.
The world is huge and there's no way we can learn everything in one life time.
The scientists and NASA are constantly finding new things so why should we stop learning.⠀
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👌Just because it doesn't fit into your believe system, doesn't mean it's not true.
When we're open to learning, we stop judging and become more accepting of others.
We attack what we don't understand because that's a threat to our believe system.
🌈So if we drop our guards and just be genuinely interested in one another, the world will be in a much better place for all of us!⠀
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❤Elyse-Anne
25: 💁♀️**People often tell me that their prayers aren't being answered so they feel betrayed by God and therefore go through Life in resentment.⠀
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I used to feel that God has abandoned and forsaken me until I realised that I've abandoned and forsaken God.
I wasn't listening. I was spending a lot of my time complaining and comparing my life to others and lamenting why others seem to have it better than me.⠀
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🙏But when I finally understood that God was with me the whole time and Life wasn't against me, everything shifted.
The truth is I can't see the Big Picture but God can.⠀
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😱And when I worry, I'm saying I don't trust you, God. You're wrong. So it's best for me to in charge - by worrying and trying to make things happen MY way.
In A Course in Miracles, it said that if you're in control, you're in competition with God.
And God doesn't let you see the entire plan. He gives you bite size information. And ushers you to take that one step in front of you.
🙅♀️Impatience gets you no where too.⠀ ⠀
It only takes you further away from your desired destination.
But this is a lesson on it's own.⠀
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Everything in Nature happens on time. And we're part of Nature.⠀
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💞I no longer pray and ask if God knows what I need and then instruct Him what to do.
God can see the whole picture and therefore already knows what I need.⠀
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💓All I need to do is to THANK God for all the blessings coming my way and pray I'm able to see the opportunity when it shows up.
Life is an on going process. Everyday is an opportunity to get to know YOU.
Life isn't easy but it's rewarding when we enjoy the journey instead of resisting it.⠀
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❤ Elyse-Anne
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24: We're not only living in times of extremes, we're going through massive transitions.
Look around you'll see old systems breaking down and even Mother Nature is changing.
If you resist change, you'll feel uncomfortable and it almost feels like death every single day.
There're no books in history YET that talks about how to deal with this transition because we're literally writing history and we're part of making history.
Isn't this exciting?
We need to not only shift our thinking and awareness, we must also change our lifestyle habits.
In fact, those of us who are awakening aren't attracted by all the luxury material living as before.
We've learned to enjoy them but not be consumed by them.
So, that means if you're focusing your business on drawing people in by all the first class travels and all, it's not going to work with the more conscious entrepreneurs.
Because we now know we don't need manipulative fancy marketing to live that lifestyle.
In fact, we're really called to simplify our lifestyles. I'm not saying minimalists here. There's really no one lifestyle that fits all.
When I say simply your lifestyle means to literally remove things that are taking up your time to work on yourself.
The # 1 reason for not having time to mediate or journal or even just talk to yourself is... "I am busy." What are you so busy with?
Really!
Busy doesn't mean productive.
Therefore, eliminate distractors and commit to spending as much time as possible with yourself.
Talk to yourself. Be your own cheerleader. Raise your vibrations.
No one is going to do that for you.
We don't spend time with ourselves yet expect our loved ones to make us happy.
That doesn't sound right at all!
I don't know about you. I love spending time with myself. Doing what I want to do each moment.
You ask me how I get all my inspirations for writing all these posts? I spend time talking to myself and researching each topic and then form my own opinions.
Self awareness is key if you want to thrive in this new season.
All the best!
❤Elyse-Anne
23: (Replay) 📅So. July is here and July brings in more no nonsense energy.⠀ ⠀
🙋♀️Can you feel it?⠀
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I can certainly feel it and on top of that Mercury Retrograde started today 8th July Monday.
Many people are afraid of the Mercury Retrograde season but I suspect they're just using it as an excuse not to take action and just want to blame something.⠀
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🙅♀️This isn't taking personal responsibility. I've learned to love it because it'll definitely bring up a lot of "stuff" for me to work on.
It's uncomfortable for sure but I'd rather be uncomfortable for a short period of time than my entire lifetime.⠀
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⏰Time has accelerated and it's accelerating because in the higher dimensions, everything is happening in the NOW.
No time for procrastination. Either it'll work or not.⠀ ⠀
🌈At the end of the day, the Soul is only after the lessons, growth and expansion.
We're on the brink of extinction so if that happens, what's the point of accumulating all your material stuff?
And I'm not saying you should live like the monks now. NO! That's not what I mean.⠀
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🏞We're here also to enjoy the material world but not be consumed by it.
After all, we're here to manifest and create things into reality.
It's time to stop waiting for the environment and circumstances to be right before you take action.
There's really no time to waste because each day is passing by sooooooOoo quickly.⠀
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💃And the truth is, our time here in this physical body has an expiration date.
Although we don't know when but it's a sure thing for everyone.
As Mother Earth raises her frequency, so must we and that means we really must let go of what's holding us back.
That's presented to us as challenges and lessons we must learn.
Those who wish to take their own sweet time, will transit and move on to another realm where time is much slower.⠀
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🦸♀️Those of us who are still here have chosen to be part of this accelerated evolution.
We're part of the change and we're the chosen ones.
So stop waiting for someone to appoint you to lead.
It's YOU!⠀
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🤝Let's answer the call and raise to the occasion.⠀
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We can do this together and evolve to the next level of evolution without going extinct!⠀
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❤ Elyse-Anne
21: Trying to be positive all the time is a lie.⠀ ⠀
No one on this planet can be positive ALL the time. You can TRY and then think you're positive.⠀
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🤷♀️But are you really?⠀
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You know in your heart of hearts that you're trying to avoid and run away from your own emotions.
I woke up feeling crap about myself as if everything was falling apart and I felt useless and not good enough.
It was crazy.
This is a sure sign that EGO is taking over and trying to keep me safe.
This is also an indication that you're ready for the next level of evolution.⠀
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🙅♀️No one said this human journey is easy. If it were that easy, everyone would be doing it.
Going back to emotions. Understand that YOU'RE are human being and YOU'VE emotions.⠀ ⠀
🤷♀️If you don't then what's the difference between you and the robot?
Society have continuously try to rob us from our feelings and trying to get us addicted to various things to run away from our own emotions.
So that "THEY" can manipulate and control us.
Imagine a life FREE from addictions!⠀
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🧘♀️Being in touch and aware of your emotions is the secret key to creating a beautiful life.
Your emotions lets you know where you are in your life right now.
It requires a lot of love and courage to face yourself.⠀ ⠀
😨When we feel sadness or anger, the ego will make you believe that it's a bad emotion because it doesn't make us feel good about ourselves.
Basically it triggers our survival instinct.
Once again, you're a human being.⠀
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💃You'll experience anger, sadness, love, happiness and everything in between.
The only difference between a "good" and "bad" emotion is the story you tell yourself.⠀
Remember to leave me a comment and get this conversation going.
Enjoy the unfolding.⠀
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❤Elyse-Anne
22: 🙋♀️It's normal to have desires to have a better life.⠀
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Your desires aren't placed in your heart by accident. Life truly wants you to have more.
🤷♀️The question is do you want to have more? The answer is YES right?⠀
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But are you ready to do whatever it takes (legally and morally) to have more?⠀
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To be honest, some of us are doing our best to our ability to create more but it seems futile.
And then we blame LIFE for forsaking us.⠀
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💁♀️Here's the thing, there're rules to every game and life is like a game.
If you want to win in a game, you must know and obey the rules. Otherwise it's like a dog chasing it's own tail.
And you may be feeling the same way.
I'm also not saying you sit and be a couch potato and not do anything.
🙅♀️NO!⠀
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If you want to manifest the things you want, you need to get your vibrations aligned first before you take action.
Taking action with the believe that you don't deserve it, it's just a waste of time and energy.⠀
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📖So, if you're willing and ready to look at your struggles, it'll tell you your stories and give you the keys to change the story.
You believe in your struggles more that you believe you can thrive.
What you focus on expands.⠀
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🤷♀️What struggle stories are you telling yourself? How did you end up with this story?⠀
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Changing the story takes time but it doesn't mean it's impossible.
All of us have a story. And it may not be the truth. Most of us come up with the story to justify how we feel.
The brain always has to give meaning to what is happening.
Your struggles are also an indication of what you've been tolerating.⠀
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💃If another child of God is living her dreams, that means it's available to you too.
You need to learn to tap into your God given gifts and claim your space.
Those who you see are living their dreams have figured out who they truly are and refused to settle for anything less that what they know they deserve.
The Law of Attraction is responding to YOU.
🤷♀️Why are you tolerating?⠀
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Take your time to dive deeper to seek the answers.
Enjoy the unfolding.⠀
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❤Elyse-Anne
20: Everyone wants to love and be loved. Everyone wants to be wealthy, healthy and happy yet why does all these good things avoid us like a plague?
Are all the good things we want only available to a handful or it is available to all of us?
The answer is : it's available to all of us. Because we're all Children of God.
God doesn't have a favourite child and He doesn't show favouritism.
Well then why do we suffer?
Suffering is a choice. We've bought into a believe system that we need to suffer to somehow be worthy to receive the love we deserve.
We were taught to suffer!
The people who holds the power wants the mass to suffer so that they can control us.
We now know that we're the creators of our lives and we don't have to give up our power to anyone.
And you can see this happening in organisations, politics and corporate companies.
We've reached enough critical mass to overthrow the old way of doing things.
Because we're sick and tired of being sick and tired of being told what to do.
This means, we've to look at our personal lives and take personal responsibility.
If you don't learn from your personal history and history will repeat itself again.
It's time to make a decision to THRIVE.
With Gratitude,
Elyse-Anne
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19: We already have a lot on our plates and many a times we put ourselves last on the list.
Sometimes it's so crazy we don't even get 10 mins for ourselves.
As Tony Robbins said, if we don't even give ourselves 10 mins, then we don't really have a life!
I was a flight attendant for 10 years and looking good is part of my job. And when I became a full time housewife/stay at home mom, I always had to find reasons to dress up.
I mean... I didn't want to look like I was crazy.
But that was when I was younger and I wanted to fit in.
Something amazing happens as you get older.
You just don't give a shit about what other people think about you anymore.
I've learned to live by my rules. I decided to make up everyday for myself for no reason.
I'm looking good for myself. I want to feel like a million bucks when I'm cleaning the house, cooking and doing grocery shopping.
Why do I need to look good for the world?
I've tried to lose weight and followed so many diets and finally I gave up and decided to follow my rules.
And you know what? My rules rocks.
I eat whatever I want. Drink whatever I want that makes me feel good.
It's my body. My life. My say.
So it's time to live life your way. The experts don't know you. You're the expert of you.
With Gratitude,
Elyse-Anne
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18: It's really easy to get sucked into the day to day routine and then abandon ourselves.
When I say abandon I mean that we're not giving enough ME time to ourselves. If that's the case, then how will we ever have a great relationship ourselves?
🤷♀️How can love ourselves more and get to know what we truly want?
So, a great place to start is to ask yourself this one very simple question.
👉ARE YOU TRULY HAPPY WITH YOUR LIFE?
If you're not aware, it's easy to get sucked in to other people's business and you end up with a mediocre life that you detest.
And then if you start to give yourself excuses and then you tolerate everything and everyone around you.
However, once you ask yourself this question and you're really serious about taking matters into your own hands, the Universe will step right in to support you.
🙋♀️It starts with having the courage to look at your life from a very honest point of view.
If you've created this 'mess', then only you can change it - no one else!
There're basically 4 areas of life that we desire to thrive in.
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MONEY
Go down the list and do a self check to see how you're doing in each department.
💃We can definitely have it all but it requires work and brutal honesty with thyself.
And when one area is thriving it'll overflow into other areas of your life.
Most women cannot compartmentalise their emotions (I think I can but I can't) so it's vital that we've emotional clarity on what's going on with our life.
I'm aware that my marriage is taking a toll on my energy and I'm spending most of my energy resenting my marriage.
💁♀️So since this is the energy sucker, I've to suck it up and handle this first.
That was what I did.
You can't be happy and angry at the same time. So I want to get this out of the way so that I can have space for other areas of my life.
True enough. Once I decided to make the appointment with the lawyer, everything else started to fall into place.
Don't rush the process. Change and transformation takes time.
Key is that you're aware of what's really going on in your life.
The Universe gives you more of what you tolerate. Stop tolerating now!
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With Gratitude,
Elyse-Anne
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17: We can always love ourselves more can't we? But do we?
A lot times people think self love is about going for massages, spa treatments and even a shopping spree.
It's a great way to destress for sure but what's the point of the activities if you're still the same person at the end of the day?
Self love is doing things for your highest good.
I know it sounds selfish but you can't give what you don't have. You want to come from a space where you've overflowing with everything and you've so much to give and you don't have think about your next meal or rent.
Self love also means let your yes be yes and no is a complete sentence.
As women we've all these unspoken crazy rules to make us fit into the patriarchy system.
If you don't stand up and speak up for yourself, no one will.
Just because you're a nice person, doesn't mean you're a doormat.
What's the point of being nice to others but you end up betraying yourself?
What you tolerate you'll end up getting more of. Because that's the vibration you're sending out to the Universe.
At the end of the day, you teach people how to treat you the right way.
And it begins with you.
Self love is really all about getting to know YOU and having a fabulous relationship with you.
When you've an amazing relationship with you, you're having an amazing relationship with God.
And you become the entire UNIVERSE!
I wish you well.
Love and blessings,
Elyse-Anne
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16: I've been toying with this idea for at least 10 years. And the reason why I didn't take action was because of FEAR. Even up till 6 months ago, there was still fear.
I've 3 children and there's a lot of consider. However that being said, I did use my children as an excuse not to move forward. Deciding that you want a divorce is just the beginning of the journey. If you've children, then there's so much more to consider.
That's why it had to take 10 years for me to grow up. Going through a divorce will bring out the ugly side of you and your soon to be ex-husband and to be honest, I did become childish and egoist. Understand that both parties are hurt and both want to be heard.
I've learned that when we quarrel, it's all about making our points across. We weren't ready to listen. We just want to vent.
As a result, a lot of hurtful words were exchanged and some words can't be taken back when said. For me, I made a conscious decision to walk away and not run away from my marriage.
As a spiritual student, I recognise that there's an opportunity for me to grow and become a better woman. A Course in Miracles said that all relationships are gifts.
The people who hurt you the most are your best SPIRITUAL teachers because they show you what you truly believe about yourself. At the end of day, we're all children of God and this is something I had to get over.
No matter what I thought of him, he's also a Child of God.
Yes! He's the wrong person now but 15 years ago, he was the right person.
The last thing you really want to do is be angry with yourself and be guilty. You've already made the decision and you can't change the fact. So don't make the same decision twice!
Like I said, there'll be a lot of ego play coming out and this is the best opportunity to heal your inner child and traumas so that you don't project it to the world and most of all your children.
They're watching and learning.
What kind of role model would you like to be for them?
I've 3 girls so what I do will impact and influence their love life in the future.
Children learn from watching not through our nagging (that would be so much easier though!). Reach out to friends but be selective of who you speak to.
This is also a good time to shop around for lawyers. Talk to friends who've gone through this process and ask for recommendations.
It's going to be emotion journey but when you're done with the drama,
I promise you, you'll be at peace with yourself. On top of that, you'll feel a sense of freedom that you've been longing for in a long time. From this space, you'll find the clarity and strength to move on.
Yes this may be rock bottom for you and the only place to go is up!
Have faith that GOD is right there with you. Everything you need is already here. All you need to do is to take the next step. I'm here with you.
With Gratitude,
Elyse-Anne.
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15: It's said that it take 21 days to change a habit and 90 days to change a core belief.
You'll be surprised to find out how long it actually and really takes to change your mindset.
14: Listen to find out my simple manifestation trick that works miraculously all the time.
I've manifested not just money but from winning awards to TV and Radio shows, appearing on magazines and travel opportunities.
If I can do it, so can you.
You can manifest anything you want.
13: Are you struggling with weight issues?
And I'm not talking about losing weight because you want to fit into a wedding gown.
I'm talking about literally losing the weight for health reasons.⠀ ⠀ For the past 3 years I've been piling on so much weight that I went into hiding.
This was the heaviest I've been and it's not because of child birth!⠀ ⠀ I lost all the baby weight after my 3rd child. My 3rd child is turning 6 next month and I can no longer use the excuse that I just gave birth.⠀ ⠀ I don't eat a lot and I've tried all sorts of diets and exercise and my weight still won't budge.
What I found is that my weight gained is due to emotional stress!
I can gain weight by drinking water.
So it's an emotional cause!
The body thinks I'm dying so it's storing up fats!
For the past 3 years I went into a mild depression and I lost my self confidence and security.
And denied my desires.⠀ ⠀ Until recently, I finally came out of hiding and my weight started to drop.
From 68kg - 65k without any diets or exercises.⠀ ⠀ How?
I finally gave myself the permission to live a big life and have everything I desired.⠀ ⠀ I tapped into my MILLION DOLLAR IDEA and gave myself the permission to influence millions and make millions.
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12: It's official! My Instagram account had the highest month ever! 20k followers or members I would like to address them in 1 month.
20k people clicked the follow button in 30 days to follow my Instagram account.
I'm still trying to catch my breath and take that all in. Someone please pinch me!
After 10 years in the industry, I finally had the breakthrough I desired!
I tried and tried and tried and almost gave up but somehow managed to convince myself to just hang on a little longer and wah la!
This is truly living life beyond my wildest dreams. If you had told me 10 years ago that this would have happened, I wouldn't have believed you.
Because I was the most un-tech sayy person ever! I didn't even want to buy a smart phone to begin with!
So, let alone thinking that I would one day learn to love social media and actually excel on it!
Anyway, during all the years of trying, I've always had the vision in my mind that ONE DAY, I'll be rich and famous.
To tell you the truth, I've played play pretend all these years. Putting out content and speaking my truth while having this vision that lots and lots of people were listening to what I had to say.
(Actually - at that time - no one really cared!)
And the irony is this. Whatever that I'm saying now to my 50k members on Instagram, is pretty much what I've said a few years ago.
It took me a few years to get it and shift after watching this interview of Marianne Williamson with Oprah.
The reason why so many people are wanting to be stars is because they're not yet starring in their own lives and Marianne also said that we're more afraid of our own light than darkness.
After listening to that, I had chills down my spine. I knew that I wanted to feel important but I didn't know how to get it.
I gave my power away.
I needed my posts to be liked a million times to feel smart.
I needed people to sing my praises to feel like I was good enough.
I needed to be in the spotlight because I wanted to be seen.
At the end of the day, I realised that I had to light up my own world with my own light. I just stopped waiting for the world to validate me.
It was the most interesting experience ever because I realised I wasn't really living in my body. It felt like I was floating outside my body and thus I couldn't hold on to whatever that I've created.
My external success fell apart because internally I wasn't able to hold and keep up with it!
After 3 years of going on a soul searching journey, I finally got it!
I didn't need a fancy website or a Paris photoshoot to stand out from the crowd.
Which by the way, I did all of that!
All I needed was to be me. I know you might be rolling your eyes and I know it sounds super cliche.
But if I didn't see how quickly my Instagram account grew right before my eyes, I would had done and felt the same!
We're not here to be a clone of anyone. We're here to be ourselves and truly live life on our own terms.
I know! Again, another cliche!
But do you know 4 out of 5 people don't know what they really want?
I invite you to conduct an experiment.
Every person that you meet over the next 7 days, ask them this one simple question:
"What do you want?"
3/5 people will tell you that they want happiness.
But happiness is a state of mind - meaning it's an emotion. It's already there.
Same thing with visibility. I see so many people are teaching entrepreneurs how to become visible!
I'm not really sure how's that working out and how to even teach visibility!
Visibility isn't something that you DO!
I believe visibility is equivalent to the amount of light you can channel and hold for the world. It's interesting to watch those who say they want to be visible yet at the same time so afraid of even attending networking events.
Or hosting a live webinar or simply speaking their truth.
The safer you feel in the world, the more visible you'll become because you're independent of the good opinion of others.
The law of attraction never fails.
11: Over the years, I've always built my business from an ego space.
Because I had something to prove and I wanted to prove that I was worth it.
When you're in the healing and transformation business, it's really not easy to draw the line between helping and making money.
As a business owner, I want to maximize my profits.
But as a lightworker, I want to be of service to as many people as possible.
I'm not going to lie and say that I don't want to have a huge following or I don't want my work to reach the masses.
I do.⠀ ⠀ But I've learnt that my intention sets the tone of the result.
So the best way to grow your community is to be genuinely interested in humanity and treat each interaction as how you like to be treated.
I dropped the focus on growing the following and stopped playing all the strategic games.
I stopped trying to sell something.⠀ ⠀ I asked myself what would I love to do all day even if I'm not paid?
Once I learned that it was ok to stop focusing on the balance sheet, then the pressure was off.
I want to build a business that I love, impacts the world and make meaningful money.⠀ ⠀ The only time I'm greedy and I want it all!
It takes time to figure it all out to land on a sweet spot.
I'm still figuring things out and while doing so, I'm so honoured and humbled that you came along for the ride.
So fasten your seats belts and enjoy the unfolding.⠀ ⠀
10: Venus is in retrograde from 5th - 31st October 2018.
Retrograde means that the planet is spinning backwards. And since all of us are connected in the cosmos, you don't need to be a rocket scientist to know that when something is against the flow, disruption happens.
Maybe people get into panic attacks and they're so afraid during retrograde season. I used to be afraid but not anymore.
I've come to love it because it's really detox season.
If you're ready to see the truth and clear the cobwebs in your closet, then you'll definitely fall in love with peeling off the layers and get to your true self.
This is a good time to practice what I've learnt.
First, I stopped judging myself for being triggered.
Then, I asked myself. Do I want to be right or happy? (From the teachings in A Course in Miracles)
Last but not the least, I allowed myself to feel the energy and then let the energy leave my body.
Once I was clear in my head, I took deep breathes and meditated to ground myself.
As a more conscious being now, I realised that is just my old identity which I no longer have to operate out of.
The need to be right comes from a place of not feeling good enough. The need to prove and to be seen.
And only the ego needs to be seen and heard and only the ego can be hurt.
The soul cannot be hurt so ground yourself and know that nothing can hurt and harm you.
Detach from the story and expand your energy. I find that when I expand my energy consciously, I'm reconnect myself to the "Bigness" of the Universe.
Your triggers are here to show you what you need to release. Don't run away or be afraid. simply be the observer.
Love your triggers for it's here to unlock the next level and present you with more gifts.
This is a great time to remember who you truly are.
9: What I'll be sharing with you is how I personally manifest money to pay my bills on time and fund my dreams.
The way I'm doing it makes no logical sense to the mind and I cannot explain to you the technical terms the way money is showing up for me.
All I can say is that the WOO-WOO stuff works!
Before I go on to tell you about my personal methods, I would also like to share with you what I know for sure that doesn't work.
I've gone through many ups and downs with money. I was broke like hell - like having 50 cents in my bank account and banks howling at my door everyday to making 6 figures in a year.
When I had money, I would worry that the money would be depleted and I was so scared of spending even 1 cent because I was worried that it won't show up again.
In order for me to experience this and know this in every cell and fibre of my body, I need to do life another way.
I needed to test the Universe if this hypothesis was true!
8 : Do you suffer from anxiety attacks from your relationships?
I know I’m not the only who is going through this. I’m sure there are many women out there who are suffering silently, going through this almost alone and praying for a way out.
So, today, I’m going to open up and be completely transparent with you. I want you to know that you’re not alone.
And you don’t have to go through it alone.
Yes change is scary! But I promise you that another level of freedom will be bestowed unto you when you take just one tiny step in the of self love.
One tiny action action changes the vibration in the Universe and as a result changes your destiny.
You may not be able to see the entire plan. This is the time to strengthen your faith in God that He has got your back.
Most importantly, ask for help. We’re given freewill and your angels and guides and even God can’t interfere and intervene if you don’t give them them permission.
ASK FOR HELP TODAY!
7 : So, if you’re looking for your life purpose, you can stop looking for it now. Because you didn’t lose it.
When you’re ready, it’ll come find you. It’ll show up literally at your doorstep.
You just need to be ready to dance and play with it. You won’t be able to see the whole picture and you’re not supposed to.
How do you know for sure what you really want when you haven’t tried and know for sure?
And how do you for sure what you can or cannot do if you don’t even give yourself the opportunity to try.
You may like it. You may not. You may excel at it. You may not!
And it’s all ok! All paths really do lead you to one path! GROWTH!
It’s up to you to take 10 years or 10 months or 10 mins!
You don’t really know until you actually do it?
Some gifts come to you as you become fully engaged in life. It’s as if as life wants to make sure you can be trusted with it. You must be ready to receive this precious gift.
You won’t want to give matches to a 5 year old do you?
6: I received this question ironically through a message. And I answered the question.
So my answer to this question is YES but just to clarify that I’m not saying that you need to become Aunt Agony and answer every question that comes in.
Use your own good judgement.
But it wasn’t always a YES for me when I was in the self absorbed/self fulfilling hustling mode.
I explain why. Many years ago, when I was doing a coaching certification, my high end coach suggested that it’s not advisable to have lunch or coffee meetings with your clients and to maintain some distance.
This was to keep the coach and client professional so that you don’t end up giving advice without charging for it.
Also to prevent client from taking advantage.
As a new coach then, it got to my head and I was walking around feeling special like a celebrity.
While I get the intention of my coach then but it no longer resonates with me.
No one can take my advantage unless I allow them too!
5: This is where the majority of the corporate companies such have COKE and McDonald’s have gone wrong.
It’s focused on pleasing their share holders and a profit driven company. While there’s nothing wrong with profits but if the company is profit driven then it’s a completely different story.
What’s the intention of starting a business?
It’s to make money and be profitable right? Otherwise it’s a charity organization. Even if it’s one, it’s needs to be funded by money.
As solepreneurs, a one woman show, sometimes we can be so one sided that we block ourseleves from other sources of income.
There was a time where I believed that money can only come through my business but there was a problem.
I had nothing to sell because I was at a phrase where I couldn’t create another product just to make money. I’ve seen so many women bruised and burned by all these online courses that promises the heaven and beyond.
I couldn’t do it even thought times were bad. My soul was not for sale!
4: You may think I’ve gone crazy… Hang on!
Well, think about this. What is the definition of the Law of Attraction?
Like attracts like.
So what’s the definition and energy behind the word WANT?
It means that you want to have something that don’t have. And that means you don’t have it.
What the Universe is hearing is. Oh! YES! She wants more of what she doesn’t have.
Ok! Wish granted.
So the more you want, the more you don’t have.
You cannot fool the Universe with all your I HAVE and I AM affirmations if you don’t truly believe in it.
If you’re not sincerely FEELING it, it’s not going to happen.
Therefore the secret to working with the Law of Attraction is FEELING. You can’t lie and pretend that you’re happy when you’re really sad, right?
Even if you’re a golden globe award winning actress, you know that you’re simply acting it out. It’s not the truth!
You cannot LIE to the Universe because it responds to the truest believe about yourself–which lies in your subconscious mind
3: Unfortunately for us women, it does take practice to honor and eventually follow our highest excitement because we’ve been conditioned to believe that it’s honorable to sacrifise our own happiness!
We're taught to deny our truths and it seemed like the more unhappy we are, the more “successful” we seem to be!
I don’t believe that we don’t know what we want. For we’re very certain that we know what we don’t want as our emotions speak to us loud and clear every single day.
It’s just that we don’t have the guts and courage to actually upset the norm!
Self sacrificing = Self Denial and that means Self betrayal.
Of course no one wins!
When you start putting yourself first, expect people to get mad at you and even try to guilt you back to your old self so that THEY don’t have to change.
Don’t do that! Stick it out. Because eventually, people get it and they will adapt!
2: Today, I want to talk to you about the concept of "Foundation-less" money. You see this with instant lottery winners and the celebrities e.g. Jonny Depp who have make tons of millions but still in debt.
For me, my lesson was that even though I had the earning capability of earning 6 figures but my vibration wasn't able to hold on to the money. Therefore, I was still feeling broke and broken financially.
I set out on a journey to prove a point - that I wan't unless. Then, my lesson was that I'm worthy of abundance.
1: Failures are part of success. And Success isn't a destination - it's a process and a journey.
It's really about discovering who you really and living your fullest potential.