Unveiled: Recent Episodes
Harvest Women's Ministry
A weekly podcast hosted by the women's ministry of Harvest Bible Church in Windsor, Ontario, Canada. Thoughtful and relational, Unveiled with Susie Rock and Harvest Women, will break down current trends and challenges that affect the women's life. Our prayer is that this podcast will be fruitful in transforming women's hearts and minds into the image of Christ (2 Corinthians 3:18).
In this episode we talk about how to be a witness to those in your sphere of influence. We invited our good friend and co-Bible Study teacher to join us. She has an amazing story to share.
After thirty years of marriage, the goal is to continue thinking of your husband as greater than anyone else. Listen in, to see how to maintain love and joy throughout 30 years of marriage.
Listen to this episode to discover a few facts on what a mature (not perfect) but mature marriage looks like after 20 years of marriage. Whether you just got married or have been married for 40 years, this episode has the potential to be a blessing.
Some questions to ask, if you want to continue to grow closer to God and your husband, ten years into marriage.
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How can a wife make a change in the area of negative or bitter thoughts towards her husband?
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How can you best mature spiritually with your spouse? What do you see other couples doing well who are at this point in their marriage?
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How can wives encourage or spur our husbands to want to become stronger spiritual leaders at this stage in marriage?
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If a wife is not feeling listened to or loved in her marriage, what steps should she take to address this?
And a few more on parenting boys and girls!
Listen in on how to keep your love alive, as your marriage matures. Below are some questions that we will be discussing:
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Define what a godly family should be?
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What are some ways to grow spiritually during this time when your time and energy is being pulled in other directions, often, outside of your control.
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Sleep training? Co-sleeping? What are your thoughts?
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How do you keep sexual intimacy a regular part of marriage when you might not feel like it?
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We spoke about birth control in an earlier episode, but you might have to revisit this during this season of life and family.
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How can women come to terms or deal with some unexpected disappointments?
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How can good, healthy relationships be encouraged while still respecting the authority and roles of the family.
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I hear ladies talking about “me” time when they get married or start having children. It’s almost an annoyance at having to be a mom or wife and needing to be away. I don’t think this is the same as having quiet time with the Lord or having a hobby. Can you share your thoughts on this?
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How can a husband and wife invest in their marriage during this season?
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Is there anything you would do differently now Susie?
Most women have dreamed of being married from the time they were young. They have aspirations of beauty and bliss and aren't always prepared for reality. As much as God has designed marriage to be a good thing, it can also bring some challenges. Being prepared for reality, with a heavenly perspective, sets you up for a God - glorifying marriage. Listen as we talk about the various stages of the first year of marriage.
- Honeymoon Stage
- Merging Stage
- Sexual Discovery Stage
- Reality Stage
- Learning Stage
- Celebration
Engagement is a time of planning and preparing, and hopefully, enjoying the process! Listen in as Susie and Sandi talk about how to prepare for the wedding, for marriage and even some specifics about preparing for intimacy.
As we continue talking about relationships that are moving towards engagement, be reminded of the importance to keep on talking, keep on pursuing and getting to know each other more and more. The key to godly and pure relationships is to grow in emotional and spiritual intimacy so that you are ready for sexual intimacy in marriage. in this episode, we discuss important questions to ask about faith and personal views.
We are continuing our series on relationships and moving towards engagement. We discuss various questions to ask, before you say yes!
Moving Towards Engagement- Learn to ask good questions by listening to Susie and Sandi review a document "75 Questions to Ask Before Engagement". Today we review the first 10 questions.
Do you dare to date? Certainly there are risks to dating, and that can cause some women to delay the prospect. If you are a mom, preparing your daughter to date, you likely have more questions, than you ever thought possible. In this episode we seek to answer your questions, whether you are the girl figuring it all out, or the mom, that's trying to help you!
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When is the right time to start dating?
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Do you have any other non-negotiables for young people to consider?
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Should parents set a specific age or keep it open as kids get older to see their maturity level?
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When young adults are technically allowed to date, how can parents help navigate if they feel it’s not a good choice for their son or daughter?
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If a young person doesn’t see anyone of interest at their current church, what is your advice for them? Should they check out other churches?
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How can women subtly let a man know they are interested in him?
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How should a young woman respond if a man pursues them - if they are interested and also if they aren’t interested?
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How much emphasis should be placed on physical attractiveness?
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What boundaries should the new couple set while dating and what role do the parents play in this? Are the expectations different if the parents are not believers?
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When should someone end a dating relationship?
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When should someone take our pre-marriage class? Is it appropriate to take before engagement?
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What about marrying young?
We are starting a new series on relationships and because relationships are so vital to our every day life, we are going to take a whole year to cover as many topics as possible. We are starting with the foundation- God, marriage and family. Don't miss this one, as it lays the foundation for the rest of the year.
Hosting can be both intimidating and enjoyable, depending on who you are and even your season of life. Let's look into God's Word to see what He has to say about Holiday Hosting and then we will also talk about practical ways to live it out. Come learn from our personal challenges and blessings, when it comes to hospitality.
The topic of shame is a heavy one, and one that we probably don't talk about extensively, often enough. Those who are followers of Christ, need not walk in shame, but we know that many still do. We trust that God will use this episode to bring healing and freedom to anyone who is still stuck in shame. Follow along as we discuss these questions:
- What does the bible say about shame?
- Is shame the same as feeling convicted about something or is it an inappropriate feeling? Is conviction different than condemnation ?
- What can unresolved shame result in?
- How should we resolve shame from the past?
- I think there are a lot of Christian women who feel shame about their current life. Maybe they are a stay at home wife or mother and feel like they should be doing more to contribute financially, or maybe they feel that they should stay home more. Maybe they feel like they are not living up to their calling as a Christian wife or as mature in their faith as they “should” be. What would you say to those women who currently feel ashamed?
- How can we truly resolve the shame that we experience?
It's a longer episode because Sandi had a lot of questions!
- We mention every episode that you are a biblical counsellor. Can you describe what that is.
- What are the main differences between secular psychology and biblical counselling?
- Why is worldview important in a counselling room?
- What about seeing a psychologist who is a Christian? Is that the same thing?
- Does biblical counselling use behaviour sciences or modern psychology?
- Where does medication play a role or even a medical professional?
- What is needed for successful biblical counselling?
- What are the main limitations of this type of counselling?
- What are the main goals of biblical counselling? How long does it counselling take?
- When do you know that someone has completed their counselling time with you?
- Is anyone ever too far gone for biblical counselling?
- Do you think there are safeguards or practices we can put into place now that will help us deal with matters of the soul as they come up?
In this Episode we talk a bit about how to support the men in our lives, after they have attended an event like a men's conference. Listen in to understand how to support without becoming a nag.
We also address the Halloween topic. We don't tell you what to do, but give you some things to think about, so you can make a wise decision.
We all spend a lot of time talking to others and about others. Not all talk of others is gossip, but often it is.
Gossip is secretly or carelessly talking evil about others, which potentially results in unjustly damaging their
character. We invite you to listen in to this conversation, with an open heart.
In this episode we discuss the mindset of raising teenagers, preparing to release them into adulthood. We discuss many joys, challenges and responsibilities of mothering and hope that our conversation will help prepare you for this amazing season of life.
And God blessed them. And God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth" (Gen 1:28).
My kids have quoted me as saying, "life get's better with every decade" and I still stand by that. Every decade has deep trials and abundant blessing, but as we grow in the wisdom and knowledge of the Lord, all of that is easier and all of that is better. Listen in as I talk about turning 50.
Are you feeling overwhelmed yet? So many women are already feeling busy and overwhelmed as they begin scheduling another Fall season. We trust that this podcast will help you to manage the feelings of overwhelm, and use your schedule for God's glory!
Psalm 127:1-2Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches over the city, the watchman stays awake in vain. It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil; for he gives to his beloved sleep.
We are celebrating and praising God for the opportunity to release 100 episodes. Listen in as we share memories, talk about best podcasts and share a few stories!
We can easily fall into the trap of either being pursuers of pleasure, where all of life is about having fun and looking forward to the next "experience." Our goal in life is not to pursue pleasure but to pursue God, but we can enjoy the blessings of life, without guilt. Life in Christ is meant to be full of joy, but that is the end result of pursing God. Listen in to hear more!
We are in the midst of summer, which means many of us have or will be going on a vacation. Is there a way to think Christianly about vacationing? Listen in to learn more and hear about some of our favourite vacations!
This topic has been largely discussed and debated within the Christian context and so we are not hear to bring new truth but to continue speaking the same truth to women who are asking the question, "Is yoga really an issue for Christians?" Sisters, you are loved, and we simply want to continue speaking truth into your lives.
Replay from Ep 68| Woman and Motherhood Series| Part 2|Accepting Infertility and Receiving a New Title and a New Calling
Join us for another powerful episode as Justina Mclean shares her story of discovering that she will never be able to bear children. It is an episode that teaches us a lot about suffering and embracing the call that God has on our lives, even when it's different than the initial desires of our heart. Listen and be blessed by the goodness of God, as we embrace and follow His plan for our lives.
This episode was our most listened to episode of all time. Maybe it's because not many people are willing or able to talk about the pain of losing a baby. If you have had a miscarriage or know someone who has, we encourage you to listen in, as our dear sister in Christ, Rachel, shares her story of God's faithfulness to her.
We are reposting one of our favourite episodes! If you missed it in 2023 or just want to listen again, here is a brief description:
Do you consider your work as an act of worship? Your work often displays who you worship. Do you work to draw attention to yourself, or do you work for the glory of God? Proverbs 31:13 says, She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands.
Listen in for some hard truths about your work, as a woman.
Caring for our bodies is biblical, obsessing is sinful. We hope this podcast gives you a bit of encouragement to move towards a biblical mindset of how to think of your body, as a Christian. We will be discussing these questions:
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What does stewarding your body actually mean?
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We all know what we SHOULD do to keep ourselves healthy. Why don’t we actually just do it?
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What do you incorporate into your daily routine to steward your body? Q. What are you doing now to prevent disease and extend health?
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How many of us think through why we do what we do? For example, do we just eat what we grew up eating? Do we grab what is quick?
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When does healthy living become extreme or obsessive? How can we use discernment in this area?
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Where do you lean on this topic as far as parenting?
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Who should we trust?
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What do we need to know to have a righteous mindset of our bodies?
Listen in as we talk about what to know after you are married!
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What are some root issues that cause trouble in marriage?
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What are some red flags that women often overlook in dating?
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When kids and babies are really little, moms are exhausted, how can wives and husbands make their marriage a priority?
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What is a biblical way to approach your husband when you feel there is an issue or offense on his end without being disrespectful?
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Do newer couples have similar problems as couples that have been together for a long time?
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We discussed yoking last week and why we should marry someone who is equally yoked in their faith and moving in the same direction. What if you are the wife of an unbeliever?
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What is the role of older married couples in the church?
As women we have been designed to be helpmates and life givers, but we also have a sin nature that seeks to dominate and control. We often have an inner battle that rages, because we want our husbands (or future husbands) to lead and protect us, but so often we get in the way of them. To encourage our men to lead, we must step out of the way, pray for them, and ask them questions before decide for them. Listen in to this and more, as we discuss the following questions:
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How should Christian women view dating?
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How can we encourage Christian brothers to lead and initiate?
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What do we need to know about the differences - God given- between men and women?
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How do we think through Eph 5:23 as we begin dating?
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What character traits should be non negotiable?
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What about equal vs unequal yoking in dating?
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How can we respect without expecting them to meet all our emotional needs and end up smothering him?
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Should we make a list?
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And we introduce the Hospitality of the Half-Circle!
We couldn't possibly say it all in one episode, but here's a start, to get you thinking about the importance of being on mission with Christ, before you start dating. Listen in as we discuss the following questions:
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How do I know God’s will for my life?
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For some women, having children is a terrifying thought - depending on your upbringing, if you have siblings or not, your outlook on life in general - what if she doesn’t want to have children?
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For those who desire marriage and family, how do you live well as a single woman?
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I used to wonder when I would meet “THE ONE”. How do you know who to marry?
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Is our only purpose as women to get married and have children? What if there is no desire to get married or have children?
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How long should a single woman live in her parent’s home?
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How do you stay sexually pure for the long haul?
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How do we navigate as parents of teens, how to help our daughters have a healthy view of dating and commitment and marriage? Some young girls can get so obsessed with the idea of marriage, or waiting for that part of their life to happen, that they can’t fully serve the Lord where they are at. Or it could even be the opposite, where there is too much pressure on our young people to meet and marry at a young age, that they don’t even want to try.
When it comes to anger, we tend to want to justify it, suppress it or believe it doesn't affect us. However, anger is not just an outward act of rage, it can be an inward seething of hatred. But not all anger is sinful, sometimes anger is the just response to evil. So how do we know the difference? We hope that this episode will answer some of your questions, as we discuss the questions below"
- What is a biblical definition of anger?
- We read that Jesus was angry at times, and the bible tells us that God gets angry. When is it ok to become angry?
- How would you differentiate between righteous anger and sinful anger?
- What is the wrath of God? Is it something we only see in the Old Testament?
- Is it ok to be angry with God?
- Proverbs 19:11 “Good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook an offense” How do you know when to overlook an offense and when you should address it?
- The bible tells us not to let the sun go down on our anger. How do we practically live this out?
- If someone listening is having real trouble with anger and can’t seem to get it under control on their own - what would you recommend they do?
Join us on the episode as we collaborated with the A to Z Podcast with Abby and Zoey. The two of them had joined us at a recent event we held "Rise Up for the Next Generation" Tween Event. The theme had been "Seek First" with specialized topics of "Friendship" and "Emotions". After the event, we asked for questions on these topics and asked Abby and Zoey to join us. You are sure to have some laughs, but also be impacted by the depth of the answers that these young women give as we ask the following questions:
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Abby and Zoey, what advice would you give a young girl who desires to have a best friend or group of friends, but is struggling to find someone. And Susie, what would you tell this girls mother to help her?
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Abby and Zoey, what helps you manage your emotions during highly hormonal times and Susie, what advice do you have as a mom who has parented 2 girls through adolescence?
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How do you handle being in the middle of two friends who don’t get along with each other? There is a lot of drama between them, but I want to hang out with them both, but they don’t want to be around each other.
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How do you talk to your friends about modesty at this age? Especially about crop tops and what to wear at church and kids club and middle school youth.
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How do you have a good friendship with your siblings when they are in the “annoying” stage?
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How do you handle a friend who is super negative?
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When you become friends with a brand new believer, how do you help them to grow without feeling like you’re pointing out all the areas that need to change?
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I have a friend who always talks about herself. When I try to change the subject, she just brings it back to stories about herself that I’ve heard before. How should I handle this?
Have you or a loved one, ever lost all hope and fell into despair? If you want to know more about responding to a heart in despair, listen to this heartfelt episode as we answer the following questions:
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How would you define and describe depression?
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Where does sadness end and depression begin or are they the same thing?
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What are some warning signs that women can look out for that they might be falling into depression and what can combat this?
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From the perspective of a biblical counsellor, what are your thoughts on medication for depression?
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Is depression a brain disorder - something about the physical body or chemistry in the brain, is it a heart issue, could it be a spiritual issue? What is the root cause?
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Biblically, how can we help heal or deal with depression?
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How can we find hope in the midst of deep depression?
We've all had an anxious heart to one degree or another. For some, anxiety seems to be at the background of their life, for others, it controls them daily. If you want to respond to an anxious heart, with hope and righteousness, listen in as Susie and Sandi discuss anxiety and share some personal stories.
Have you ever had the inner doubt, that says, "You are loved. But am I?" In our darkest moments, we can at times wonder if God truly loves us. It's easier to believe that God loves others, but it's not always easy to believe that He loves me. If others abuse us, abandon us, say cruel words against us, there must be something terribly wrong with us, we think. Or what about our ongoing struggle with sin. Doesn't that disqualify us? If you have ever had these thoughts, we pray that you will be encouraged by this episode.
In this episode we are joined by two wise, Canadian women in ministry, to discuss biblical womanhood in the "Tradwife Era". You are sure to be blessed by both Erin Coates from Alberta and Jenn Martin from Ontario.
We had some fun with this podcast after recognizing that each of us say "clique" a little bit differently. Google didn't give us a clear answer, so we stuck with what we knew best! If you've ever felt excluded because of a clique, or if you've ever wondered if you are crossing the boundary of being cliquey rather than considerate, listen in as we discuss the following questions:
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Can you give us a clear distinction between close friendships and cliques?
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When you explain it, it brings me back to high school, but you said you see some of it in the church too. How do cliques manifest themselves within the Christian community?
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What is the danger of cliques within the church? How do they hurt people?
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How can we break the habit of gravitating toward the people in our close friend group on a Sunday morning and being more welcoming to others?
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As a mom of kids in youth groups, and seeing how your children have been intentional in this area, what can you tell moms who are seeing that their kids could be more welcoming?
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I think we can all identify with feeling left out. It’s not a nice feeling, what counsel can you give to the women who are feeling isolated by the women around them?
This episode was inspired by a few women reaching out to ask us to consider talking about aging, in women. Since, we are all getting a bit older, every day, we thought it'd be a great time to talk about it. Some of the questions we discuss on this episode, were questions submitted by our listeners.
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How do we embrace the process of growing older in the best way possible?
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addressing our fears, is very important and something we want to do regularly, first, for the glory of God now, but it will also prepare us for the changes as we age. What are some other biblical principles that we need to embrace?
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How can we display the fruit of the Spirit when it feels like our hormones are taking over?
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My question is about being in the sandwich generation. I am married. I have adult children and young grandchildren. I also have an aging mom who is requiring more and more care. What kind of boundaries would be good to have in place to keep these relationships in their proper priority?
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What should the Christian approach be to aging when it comes to Botox and filler?
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What do you wish someone had told you about menopause?
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What helped you through this time?
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Final tips....
Being servant-hearted is one of the most beautiful attributes a woman can possess and yet, it will be the most opposed qualities by our Marxist, anti-Christian culture. In this episode you will learn how to ride above the cultural norms and live like Christ. Listen in to learn more about being servant-hearted.
In this episode we discuss the difference between intentional isolation, unintentional isolation and loneliness. We are all vulnerable to this, but as Christians we have truth from God's word to help us resist the temptation to isolate, and to live within community. We will discuss the following questions.
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Can you explain what happens socially and mentally to someone when they remove themselves from community?
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Can you explain how solitude and isolation are different? Can a Christian have too much solitude?
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What advice would you give a woman who is struggling with depression or apathy or who doesn't see the point, to still make the effort anyway?
We have been designed for community, but it's not always natural or easy. Community is about cultivating relationships that models the gospel- it will be hard, there will be challenges, it will require humility, repentance and forgiveness. Listen as we discuss the following questions:
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What does it mean to be in community? Can you give some biblical examples of this?
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Many people find a great deal of fulfillment by belonging to a community. How is a church community different than, say, a sports community, or arts community?
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Why is a Christian church community important to the life of the believer?
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What does belonging to a meaningful Christian community look like?
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Can you share some practical things we can actively do to ensure we are plugging ourselves into a community that will be a blessing to us as well as to others.
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What is Church Discipline and how does it help build and protect Christian community?
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What would you say is unique about our community at Harvest and how has it been cultivated, either intentionally or unintentionally?
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What are some cautions that we should have about gatherings that mimic the church but perhaps don’t follow the biblical model of eldership and authority?
And a fun bonus question!!!
In this episode we discuss why people give up too quickly, the fear of commitment and the challenge to think carefully before you choose to commit.
Join us as we chat with Jackie Pinard. You will be challenged and encouraged in your faith as you listen to Jackie's testimony. By the end of this episode you will be sure to be equipped to share the gospel with your unsaved friends and family.
Jealousy and comparison often lead to gossip and/or slander. These could be called the four deadly sins amongst women because they are so destructive. We want to offer you grace and hope in this podcast if you have fallen into this trap. Listen in as we discuss the following questions:
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Susie, you have been ministering to women for long enough to see patterns and trends among women. Do you see these issues to be problems within the church?
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Can you explain if there is a difference between gossip and slander?
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What are some warning signs we should watch for so we don’t fall into the sin of gossip or slander?
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How should conflict be handled between two people within the church?
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How do we avoid comparing what we “could” have with others who seem to have it all?
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How can we root out jealousy and what should we replace it with?
Our understanding of our roles is largely impacted by our identity. Listen in as we discuss the following topics.
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Sphere of Sovereignty.
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Understanding Genesis 3:16
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Boundaries of women in the church.
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Can women teaching scripture?
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Can women be elders?
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Are these rules good?
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Can women ever be leaders
and more….
In this episode we discuss the identity crisis that is all too common in our lives and the lives of those we love. Listen in as we discuss the following questions and more!
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How do we define the word identity?
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Is it wrong to put our identity in the roles we play?
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What does it mean when people say that they need to "find themselves"?
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How do you help someone who identifies with their negative circumstances?
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How would you help someone who has a distorted self image?
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How does God see unbelievers?
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How does God see us in Christ?
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Why does a person get a new name in the Bible? (Abram/Abraham, Simon/Peter etc.)
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How should we live our lives in consideration of our identity in Christ?
This is our last episode with Q & A. We received some tough questions, that we know are filled with pain. Our hope and prayer is that you are encouraged and equipped through this series. Listen and learn as we answer the following questions:
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How do I encourage a friend to attend church, who longs to go, but chooses not to?
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How can I pray for a godly relationship?
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How can I help a Christian couple who is struggling financially without being able to give them money?
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How do you deal with someone prominent in your life who is selfish?
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How can you stay connected to people and stop keeping them at arm's length?
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How do I respectfully confront someone who is older than me?
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How do you address sinful behaviour in an unbeliever?
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How do I control negative emotions of anger, hurt an disappointment in a toxic work environment?
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How should a woman respond, when a friends says, "I need to confide in you, but I don't even want you to tell your husband."
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Is it ok to walk away from family living in sin? How do we respond to accusations of being self-righteous?
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I have family members who are deconstructing and hate the church. What do I do?
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My brother and sister are not believers and live in another country. They don't reach out to me and I feel alone. My kids also feel bad. How much time to I spend cultivating relationships with my family?
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How do I balance or explain to your husband why your house is messy or tasks aren't done when you are taking care of small children?
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How do I control emotions in marriage where I feel alone. He is quick to anger and stonewalling. I have started mirroring his emotions. How do I control my emotions?
We had lots of Q & A questions left over from our Rise Up Conference 2024. Last episode we covered questions of theology, today we are getting into questions about self. Listen in as we answer the following questions:
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How can you find your spiritual gift?
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How do you overcome depression?
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What are some practical ways to combat selfishness within ourselves?
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How do you tell the difference between gossip and sharing with a friend?
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What does God say about being insecure and feeling worthless?
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Why do I continue to deny the Spirit and feel guilty afterwards?
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What can I do if I find myself falling into the same sin over and over?
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How do I get back up from pain, after trials keep coming?
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As a Christian, how do I deal with being single but also waiting for God's plan to unfold?
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What do you believe is an appropriate age to stop having children naturally?
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What is an appropriate form of birth control?
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When you are managing young children who are sick and clingy, how do you deal with sinful emotions and stay rooted in Christ?
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What is your advice to women who are surrounded with negativity?
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What do we say to a friend who is afraid and insecure in her salvation?
We had a lot of good Q & A left over from our Rise Up Conference 2024. Listen in as we answer these questions over the next three sessions. This episode covers the theological questions.
We had the joy of bringing on our daughters to hear from them. Listen in as they answer the following questions: 1. What do you need most from your mom, at this stage in life? 2. What is the most significant thing you have learned from your mom? 3. What do you think will be (is) the hardest part about being a mom? 4. Any other words of wisdom?
Be prepared to have your heart impacted by this heart felt episode where Judy Hiebert shares how the sufficiency of Christ has sustained her through heartache and loneliness.
In this episode we are joined by Kathryn DeBartolo, as she tells her story of discovering that her son had autism. She talks about the mourning process when she first received the diagnosis, as well as the challenges of every day life. She shares all of this in light of the goodness and sovereignty of God.
Join us for another powerful episode as Justina Mclean shares her story of discovering that she will never be able to bear children. It is an episode that teaches us a lot about suffering and embracing the call that God has on our lives, even when it's different than the initial desires of our heart. Listen and be blessed by the goodness of God, as we embrace and follow His plan for our lives.
Listen in as Rachel Hill shares her heart-breaking stories of miscarriage. She is authentic in her pain, but faithfully processes her losses until she is able to once again see the goodness of God. Her story is meant to help the grieving woman know that she is not alone in her suffering, and that their is hope in God's goodness, even if she can't see it right now. Her story is also meant to equip all of us, to know how to love and care for our sisters, even if we have not personally experienced miscarriage. Be encouraged, God's goodness always wins!
As women we have been designed to be life giving and there are a variety of ways to be a life giver. Adoption is a beautiful and intentional decision to bless the life of a child who would otherwise be left abandoned. In today's episode we are joined by Jen, who shares her story of adopting two children. She shares the process, the challenges and the blessings that God has taught her through adoption.
We all face seasons of weariness. It's not always in our control, but our response to the weariness can either strengthen us or deplete us further. Listen in as Susie and Sandi discuss the following questions:
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When we are faced with insurmountable opposition, how do we not grow weary while doing good?
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How can we be filled during these full seasons, so that we can pour out again.
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When we are going through big trials, how can we remain satisfied and spiritually filled?
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How can we encourage those who are disconnected from others and not seeing God's goodness?
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What about a final word of encouragement?
Ep 65| Spiritually Strong Series| Part 2| Alert to Spiritual Attack
The Bible is full of warnings to be alert to the attacks of the evil one. How do we know what spiritual attack is, and how to respond to it. Listen in to Sandi and Susie discus the following questions:
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What is spiritual attack and is it happening to people around us?
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Can we attribute all of our problems to Satan?
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How can we recognized spiritual attack?
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What can we do when we realize we are under spiritual attack?
Finally be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. Eph 6:10-11
Ep 64| Spiritually Strong Series| Part 1| Understand Deception and Genuine Faith
Have you ever wondered if you have genuine faith or if you are one of the deceived? We pray that you will find hope as you listen to Sandi and Susie discuss the following questions:
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Why does God allow deception?
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Is there a difference between refusing to believe plain truth and wholeheartedly believing something that isn't true?
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Can true believers be deceived?
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What warning signs are there in the church before someone falls away?
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Can we make sure our loved ones are truly saved?
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What are some ways we can examine ourselves and our faith to make sure our faith is genuine?
By this it is evident who are the children of God, and who are the children of the devil: whoever does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor is the one who does not love his brother. 1 John 3:10
Ep 63| Rise Up in Suffering
There are a variety of reasons why we suffer, but because of the gospel, we are called to rise up in suffering for Jesus, no matter the cause. Listen in on our final recap of our women's conference 2023, as Susie teaches on suffering. She discusses the following points.
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Sometimes we suffering because of personal sin.
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Sometimes we suffer because others sin against us.
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Sometimes we suffer because of spiritual attack.
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Sometimes we suffer because we live in a world damaged by sin.
Ep 62| Rise Up in Witness
Our 2023 Conference recap continues as we listen to Dawn McKenna teach about witness. As women, our witness begins in the home, and if we have children, it begins with them. Our discipleship of our children begins by first sharing the gospel with them. We pray that this teaching will equip and encourage each of you to continue rising up in witness as every new year begins.
Ep 61| Rise Up in Work
Listen in to our 2023 conference recap, as Michelle Reed speaks on a creational view of work. Be encouraged to do all your work, for the glory of God, whether you work in the home, the church or in the community. All work should highlight the glory of God.
Ep 60| Rise Up in Humility
As a New Years Special we are releasing sessions from the Rise Up for Jesus Conference as a recap of 2023. Listen in to Rise Up in Humility. The Big Idea, "There is only one God and you're not Him". Plus answers to:
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What is pride?
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How can I detect pride in my own life?
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What is the result of pride?
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What is humility?
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How can I model humility for Jesus?
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What is the result of humility?
Ep 59| Is Christ King of Your Life?
"Christ is King" is a common characteristic in the church. What does this mean and do we really mean it? Listen in as Susie and Sandi discuss the following questions:
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What does it mean to be a Christian?
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What does it mean when we say, "Christ is King"?
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Are we living it out?
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What does it look like as far as authority in the family, workplace, citizens of Canada, within our church?
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Why do some people leave the church when they are challenged in their spiritual lives, rather than working it out?
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What are some things that are acting as temporary replicas to the real satisfaction of walking with Jesus and the promise of eternity?
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How has Jesus already defeated Satan, the ruler of this world?
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Bonus Question!
Ep 58 Imago Dei- Being Authentic and Social Media
We live in a day and age, where most people connect to one another through some form of social media. Listen in to Susie and Sandi discuss how this may be affecting our relationships, particularly as the Imago Dei.
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What does it mean to be human?
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How has social media impacted humanity?
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How does social media affect our authenticity?
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What do you see happening in current culture that is evidence of dehumanization?
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How reliant should we be on "Big Tech"?
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How can we help our kid's navigate screen time?
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Do you have any encouraging words to leave us with today?
Ep 57: Imago Dei - Bearing God's Image in Marriage
Women are created equal in value and unique in their reflection of God's Image. We have received questions on the practical application of submission and respect. We have sought to answer those in accordance with the the full counsel of God's Word. Listen in as we answer:
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PLEASE NOTE: These questions are for women who are looking to better understand submission and respect within a safe marriage. If you are married and sense that you might be in an abusive relationship, please seek out personal counsel.
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How is submission?
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How should a woman be submissive?
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When should a woman not submit to her husband?
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Should the wife obey her husband? Is there a difference between obeying and submitting?
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How can I be a happy, submissive wife?
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What is an example of submission in marriage?
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Does a husband have authority over his wife?
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Explain, Ephesians 5:26-27, that he might sanctify her and cleans her with the washing of water by the word.
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What does a submissive woman need in a relationship?
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Should a wife tell her husband everything?
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How does a wife show submission when her husband makes some potentially dangerous financial decisions?
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When your husband is passive, how can you show him respect in every day situations?
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What advice would you give to someone who desperately desires to reverse headship in the home, but has a husband who won't get out of the passivity seat?
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At some point, can what a husband asks of you become more like inappropriate control, rather than leading properly? When is there freedom to be a manager of my home?
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How does a woman who marries a Christian man navigate her relationship if it is always dry, apathetic and joyless?
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How does a wife submit to a narcissistic husband, someone who is always right?
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How do I show respect to my husband if he is heavily involved in pornography?
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How would submission look, if the wife is a believer but the husband is not?
Ep 56 The Imago Dei
Have you ever questioned your worth and purpose in life? I dare say, we all have. Listen in as Susie and Sandi discuss the following questions:
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How do you define and explain the "Imago Dei"?
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What are some common insecurities that women are facing?
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What trends do you see in the church that we should be aware of?
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How do the words of moms, affect a child's outlook on food and diet?
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What warning signs should moms watch out for in young girls and teenagers?
Episode 55: Flourishing and Praiseworthy
Do you ever question, wither your work is appreciated, or bringing any meaningful results. Listen in as Susie and Sandi finish their series in Proverbs 31 with verse 31, Give her the fruit of her hands, and let her works praise her in the gates. They discuss the following questions:
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How can we be women whose work results in fruit and praise, when so often we feel overwhelmed and even guilty for not doing all the things?
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What counsel would you give women who are looking for areas to serve in the church?
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Is there a danger of pride in serving in a more visible ministry that in the behind the scenes ministry?
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What would you say to the women who are experiencing the day to day reality of being married to a ministry leader?
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How have your roles been personally affirmed?
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As we finish this series, what has God revealed to you in a new way through this time in Proverbs 31?
Listen in as we discuss more about beauty and womanhood. We will be answering the following questions.
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Can you describe what type of beauty a godly woman should strive for?
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How can we overcome inner jealousy over the beauty of another woman?
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When should we be cautious about becoming proud? We want to look good for our husbands, we want to be presentable for things like church or gatherings, professional at work, but when do we know when we have crossed the line into vanity?
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How can we avoid BEING a dangerous type of charming woman? How can we speak to our sisters in Christ if we see them being inappropriately flirtatious with men?
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How do we help our girls have a godly attitude towards work (outside the home) and staying home to raise a family if and when they get married?
Plus a bonus question- be sure to listen to the end!
Episode 53| Leaving a Legacy
Proverbs 312:28-29 states, Her children rise up and call her blessed, her husband also, and he praises her; many women have done excellently, but you surpass them all."
Susie and Sandi discuss the qualities that are important to leave a legacy, the difference between your desire to do it for God's glory or selfish ambition and how to honour your own mothers. Be encouraged. You don't have to be perfect to leave a legacy.
Episode 52| Feminism or Femininity
Proverbs 1:27 speaks well of the women who "looks well to the way of her household" and yet, feminism would speak well of the women who rises up in her own pursuits. Where does your sense of identity as a woman come from? Is it in Christ, or in what you do?
Episode 51| Exposed by our Words
We try to appear wise and all put together, and yet, we've probably all had our hearts exposed by what comes out of our mouth. Listen in as we discuss Proverbs 31:26 She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
Episode 50| Forgiveness Part 2
If forgiveness is required, offence has been inflicted.
Listen in as we discuss:
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Consequences of bitterness.
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How to proceed after forgiveness.
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Boundaries and stewardship of healthy relationships.
and more....
Episode 49| Lots about Forgiveness - Part One
We have all experienced a variety of hurts in our life and those hurts need to be processed. What is forgiveness and should you even forgive someone if they never apologize? Listen in as Susie and Sandi process some of these tough questions.
Episode 48| Making and Maintaining Friendship| Part Two
Joy us for some stories and tips about making and maintaining friendship. One of the key points, you will hear is,
"Friends are designed to enhance our relationship with God, not replace our relationship with God". Listen in to learn more.
Episode 47| Friendship Part One
Friendship is a valuable part of life, it is part of Christian community and yet, why does it seem like women, in particular are struggling with building and maintaining true friendship? In part one of this series, we look at a biblical overview of friendship. In Part two, we will discuss some practical outcomes of having a biblical understanding of friendship. Be sure to listen to both episodes to get the full discussion.
Episode 46| Women and a Theology of Beauty
Proverbs 31: 25 says strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come.
Beauty is not a sin. Beauty when properly stewarded, is a reflection of our Savior and Creator. The heart that is ruled by God, reflects the beauty of God.
Episode 45| Are You Prepared for the Unexpected Situations in Life?
Proverbs 31 :21 says, "She is not afraid of snow for her household, for all her household are clothed in scarlet". This woman was prepared for the storms of life, before they came. Are you? Listen to find out how you can be more prepared.
Episode 44| Developing the Character of Generosity
If we can resist the consumerism and individualism of the world and embrace community, the body of Christ, then we are ready to be stewards who live with generosity. Listen in and be challenged to grow in generosity.
Episode 43| Overcoming Complacency by Being Profitable
Be encouraged to rise up and overcome complacency by being profitable. We have a cultural paradox when we believe that it's ok to have expectations for men, but get defensive about having expectations for women. Let's get out of our comfort zones, try new things and live selflessly for the glory of God!
Episode 42| Strong Women
Strong women refuse to be offended. To be strong, you must be physically, mentally and spiritually strong. Proverbs 31:17 says, "She dresses herself with strength and makes her arms strong." Listen in for more.
Episode 41 | Industrious Women and Being Others Minded
Are you aware of your spending habits? We should take heed of how we steward our resources - are we too easily satisfied in material things? Listen as Susie and Sandi discuss how to have a godly work ethic and the importance of honouring God with our finances.
Episode 40: Being a Steward of Time We've all been in a place where we just didn't seem to have enough hours in the day to make it happen. Should we set our alarms at 4 AM, to get our day started earlier? Maybe we need to get up earlier, but maybe we need to start with our minds. To be a a steward of our lives we start by being a steward of our minds.
Episode 39|| A Right Relationship with Food
Food is both a necessity for our physical nourishment but as we gather together with friends and family around the dinner table, it is also a great opportunity for discipleship. Sandi and Susie discuss the value of food and the importance of having a right relationship with food.
Episode 38| Women's Day Podcast with Dr. Ann Gillies
Join us for a special episode with Dr. Ann, who is one of the few Christian women in Canada who are willing and qualified to speak on issues of trauma, gender and sexuality.
Happy Women's Day!
Episode 37| Momfluencing, Homefluencing, Farmfluencing and Reality
Do you consider your work as an act of worship? Your work often displays who you worship. Do you work to draw attention to yourself, or do you work for the glory of God?
Listen in for some hard truths about your work, as a woman.
Episode 37| You are loved.
A Valentine's Special to discuss what love is, how to give and receive love and let you know, that you are loved!
Episode 36| Can you find love in yourself?
Listen in as we discuss Proverbs 31:12 She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.
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All the days of her life - how can a woman/young lady guard her heart in order to benefit her future husband?
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She DOES him good - this is an active, not passive phrase. What are some examples of being active at doing good to your husband?
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In contrast to what we read in the bible, we are constantly being fed messages about self-love, self-acceptance and self-empowerment. Can we dispel the myth that we must find our love can be found in ourselves?
Episode 35| Are you trustworthy?
Let's be honest, none of us is fully trustworthy. We fail. But how can it be said of us, that the heart of her husband trusts in her,and he will have no lack of gain.(Prov 31:11).
Well, it starts with who you are, and results in how you live. Listen in to hear more.
Episode 34~Excellent Women
An excellent woman is not born, she is transformed. What is an excellent woman and how can you become her? Listen in as Susie and Sandi discuss this important topic from Proverbs 31:10.
Episode 33| Fortified for the New Year
Listen in as Susie and Sandi talk about about to be fortified for the New Year. They will discuss:
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Is it worthwhile to make a resolution for the whole year?
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How to fulfill your resolution in the power of the Spirit rather than in the power of self.
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How can we have lasting change?
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Where do you start?
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Tips on changing in front of family.
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Should children make goals?
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Should we choose a word?
Happy New Year. May God be with you and fortify you in 2023!
Episode 32| How to NOT be "Superwoman" this Christmas
As woman we can wrestle with the balance between worship and work during the Christmas season. Both are good, but when we focus too much on impressing others, it can hinder our worship. Listen in as Susie and Sandi discuss the following questions:
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How can we keep Christ at the centre, while getting everything done?
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How can we prioritize without becoming a prideful, competitive Superwoman?
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How do we navigate difficult family situations?
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What family traditions do you hold dear?
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Santa or no Santa?
Episode 31| Transformed Femininity
A culture in chaos is ready for gospel reformation and a destroyed femininity is ready to be transformed. Susie and Sandi take you back to creation with a gospel perspective to begin rebuilding femininity as God designed it. We have:
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The Same Mission
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The Same Identity and Worth
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Complementary Roles
Episode 30| How Women Harm Culture and Getting Back on Mission with a Biblical Worldview (Including information on abortion, birth control and infertility treatment).
Listen in as Susie and Sandi discuss more important issues that women face today. If we don't take these things seriously, the gospel gets twisted by:
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A DENIAL of personal sin.
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A DEVALUED meaning of love.
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A DISTORTED Understanding of what it means to be male and female.
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A DESTROYED view of the sanctity of human life.
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A DEPRECIATED value of family.
Episode 29| Mothering: Beginning and Finishing Strong, and Rebuilding a Biblical Worldview of Mothering in an Anti-God, Totalitarian Culture (And why Abortion is never an option)
We decided to do a few special edition podcasts for the March Break to speak into the women in our culture. These podcasts are designed to speak into the lives of moms and those who may be overwelmed by a pregnancy that wasn't planned. God has designed you for this.
Listen in as Susie and Sandi talk about how to begin and finish strong as mothers.
Along with, the need to rebuild a Biblical Worldview of Mothering in an anti-God, Totalitarian Culture.
If you enjoyed this podcast, feel free to share it with other women, and stay tuned for next weeks edition.
Episode 46|God's Redemptive Plan| Suffering and Glory
This week we dive into Isaiah 52:3-53:12, the fourth Servant Song. We see the extent of the Saviour's suffering and hear the call that, as we wait for heaven, we are called to suffer, as Christ himself suffered. Are you ready?
Episode 45|God's Redemptive Plan| The Servant
God's plan of redemption has been in place since the beginning. God creates, People sin, God judges, God redeems and then God restores/recreates.
After the exile, Isaiah prophesies about the Servant, who will come and restore Israel, the failed servant, to be a light to the nations. We see how the Messiah is part of God's redemptive plan. Listen in as we discuss the first three of four servant songs, found in Isaiah 42, 49 and 50.
Episode 44| Chosen
Digging into portions of Isaiah 41-43, 48 and 56-58, we see that Israel is God's servant, chosen to be a light to the nations. But they failed. But God has a plan to redeem Israel and send them a Servant who will perfectly fulfill the mission. The church now has a mission to continue to bring the gospel to the ends of the earth. To be chosen, is to know the beauty of God's grace. Listen in as Lindsey dives in deep, to help the listeners understand the beauty of being chosen by God!
Episode 43| One Sovereign God and Creator
Isaiah 40-48, starts up 160 years after the events of Isaiah 39. Israel has been through judgment, being in exile for 70 years. They are now called out, to be God's servants to declare to the world, that there is only one God, only one Savior and only one Creator who is Sovereign over all. As His chosen ones, they do not need to live in fear, but to be a light to the nations.
Episode 42| The One Who Trusts in the Lord
As we study Isaiah 36-39 we see the judgement towards the one who trusts in himself and blessing for the one who trusts in God.
Episode 41|Why So Many Woes?
Listen to Lindsey teach on the woes found in Isaiah 28-31. How do these woes apply to you today?
Episode 40| The Kingdom of God
Isaiah 24-26 and 32-35 foretells of both God's plan to judge the world, and also to redeem His people. It tells of the future fullfillment of the Kingdom of God, when the redeemed will live fully in the presence of the Lord. God's rule is soveriegn over all the earth, now and forevermore. In these chapters we see:
- The active presence of God revealed through judgement.
2. The active presence of God revealed through redemption.
3. The Kingdom of God: Evil is defeated and justice restored!
(revised title and more as of November 30, 2021)
Episode 39| What Kind of People Ought We to Be?
As we get into Isaiah 24-27 and 33-34, we once again are reminded that God is King of the entire world. As His children, we have a responsiblity to live in obedience to His Kingship. Listen to discover, how we ought to live!
Episode 38| God is King of All Nations
This week is an overview of the judgments that Isaiah pronounced to the nations in Isaiah 13-23. Babylon is the symbol of all the other nations that are opposed to God, and so we focus our attention on Babylon's sin of "pompous pride" and trying to be like God.
Application for today:
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Pray for humility in your life.
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When you are making decisions, and preparing and planning for the future be sure to do it in prayer and a surrendered heart.
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Pray for humility in your leaders, both political and spiritual.
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Reflect on Prov 9:10 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom. (Fear = Worship and Surrender)
Episode 36| Refreshing Wells of Salvation
In the midst of judgement, Isaiah 11-12, reminds us of the refreshing joy that comes from putting aside all other sources of trust, and putting full trust in the Lord.
Listen to Lindsey, teach this valuable lesson.
Episode 35| Hope in the Midst of Darkness
As we continue our study in the book of Isaiah, and focus on chapter 9-10, we see God's grace and justice revealed as He brings hope in the midst of darkness. Israel will be judged for their pride and arrogance, but He is sending a Saviour, who who will rule the world with peace. God will also make sure that a faithful remnant will be reserved. The remnant reminds us that God is always faithful to His covenant.
Questions for Personal Application:
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What signs of pride can be found in your life? Root them out with repentance, before they grow deeper.
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How does the faithfulness and rule of God, give you hope during a time of unjust leaders in our country?
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How are you filling your mind with exalted thoughts of God? Take moments during your week, to grieve the pain, and losses, but then surrender them to the Lord and then turn to inquire of the Lord, with a heart of trust.
Episode 34| Fear God, not People
God's children are set apart and called to walk with Him, rather than walk in the ways of the world. We are to seek wisdom from Him, not worldy sources. Learn from Isaiah's response to an ungodly people in Isaiah 7-8, on how to respond to an evil world.
Episode 33| From Woe to Mission
Chapter 5-6 of Isaiah, take us from a love song over an unfruitful vineyard to Isaiah's call from the Lord to talk to a disobedient people, who would not listen to Him. We learn about our faithful God who has given the Israelites everything they need to be fruitful, but because of their disobedience, God is sending them judgement instead. He cleary descibes His complaints against them, in the form of 6 woes. Finally, in chapter 6, Isaiah himself declares "Woe is me" and finds purification from sins, so that he is ready to be on mission for God.
Episode 32| Pride and False Supports
Listen to Lindsey teach on Isaiah 2-4. In these chapters we find hope, disaster and a breaking down of pride and false supports. What are your false supports, and how do you lay down these idols to worship the One True God?
Episode 31| Isaiah Chapter 1
In this chapter, we discover God as the Holy One of Israel, as the Mighty One, as LORD, Lord and the Lord of Hosts. This same God, has made a covenant with Israel, and Israel has broken it. Discover the ways that Israel has broken the covenant and what God plans to do. How does this apply to you today?
Episode 30| Overview of Isaiah
Isaiah was prophet over the reign of four kings. He had a message for each of them, according to the circumstances that were happening during each kingdoms' reign. Listen to the overview and observe how much of what was happening then, is happening now. How does God's message then, apply to us now?
Episode 29/ Intro to the book of Isaiah
This podcast is taking on a new purpose, for the time being. It is for the women to gather together to study the Bible. It is specifically designed to be a teaching tool for women at Harvest Bible Church in Windsor, for their Unveiled Weekly Bible Study, or their Unveiled At Home Groups. However, anyone is welcome to listen.
This episode is an introduction to the study guide we are using. We are using the Life Change Series, which is a Nav Press Bible Study series.
Episode 28| Hope \Overthrows Despair
Be encouraged knowing:
Hope is Eternal
Hope is From God
Hope is a gift of faith
Hope Overcomes Circumstances
Episode 27| A Discussion on Educating Children at Home
Many parents have been overwhelmed with changes in the education system, trying to navigate the lockdowns, online learning and various health mandates. Some are considering educating at home, others don't have a choice, due to once again, being told that schools are moving to on-line learning after the Spring Break. How do you protect your kids from the damage and how do you, as the parent stay mentally strong? Listen in as Susie talks to three moms who are educating their kids at home.
Episode 26| From Victim to Transformed
To know Jesus is to be transformed by Jesus. Listen in to Sharon Stephenson share about her childhood of being a victim to meeting Jesus and living a transformed life. Sharon now lives knowing she is blessed, forgiven and loved by her heavenly Father and will live the rest of her life, finishing strong, for Him!
Episode 25| I offer my weakness, Christ does the rest.
Erin Coates shares about their current situation with the church and courts. Her husband James has just been released from being in prison for 5 weeks, resulting from his conviction to keep his church open, despite public health mandating he keep his church at a 15% capacity. Listen in to Erin's grace and humilty, during very challenging times. Erin's steadfastness in the Lord is evident through it all.
Episode 24 | Gender Wars
We are in a gender war and battling against a worldview that believes that "white men" are the problem of the world. In this episode we will discuss the war and seek to understand the true war that rages around us and be encouraged to embrace true womanhood.
Episode 23| Collateral Damage: A discussion on the effects of lockdowns on youth
This week's podcast is a change from other weeks, as Susie represents SaveOurYouth and joins Katie from FreeTheKids along with two nurses, an educator and a trauma specialist, to discuss the collateral damage that is occuring and specifically affecting our youth, due to a year of lockdowns and restrictions.
Episode 22| Pro-Life Activism: The Goal and the Motivation
Hannah Salamon-Vegh, an activist in the Pro-Life movement shares her knowlege and passion for saving the unborn and coming alongside the hurting woman of an unplanned pregnancy. Let this session equip you to share in this life-saving mission.
Episode 21| Education with a Christian Worldview
Today we have Julianne Eelman, an educator of her four children, joining us to discuss "Education with a Christian Worldview". We will discuss what this means, as well as some questions parents should be asking themselves as they determine the best form of education for their children.
Episode 20| Wedding Planning: Planning the Wedding.
Everything in the wedding should point to God's glory. In this podcast Caryn Hazzard joins Susie in discussing:
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How to steward your money.
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How much time it takes to plan a wedding.
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Where to start.
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How to make God central.
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We want photos to be taken for two hours plus drive time, then photos have to start at 230, so then the ceremony will be 45 mins so it can’t start earlier than 1:30. We should then be at the church by 1.... hair, make up and getting dressed take 4 hours (depending on the number of people) so then we have to have them come for X... you get it.
Vendors will always ask for a timeline, so starting with one helps everyone out.
-how to plan on a tight budget- venues are a huge expense. Think outside the box. Stay away from the most popular places and look for the less well known ones.
-find friends that have skills. Ask around in your church for anyone who is a DJ, florist, photographer, caterer. People you know aren’t always going to do things for free, but they are more likely to be looking to get you the best deal possible.
-have people help! Set up, putting on table cloths, tear down. These things are all extra fees often hidden. Mention you have help and if you can do those things yourself.
-DIY isn’t always cheaper. Do you research. Get lots of quotes and then price the DIY option out. Remember that no one wants to be stressed trying to figure out how to make boutonnière the night before the wedding.
-pick a simple meal. When you have someone for dinner you don’t serve them both chicken and beef. Pick one or let people choose ahead of time which one they would like.
- how to plan with a large budget. A lot of things still apply. Remember that you still want people to walk away knowing that you love God and are serving Him. Be humble and be aware of your friends in the same season but different financial situation.
-making God central to all the details
-ask yourself “how does this direct people to God?” My dress. Does this low cut, no back, super tight dress show people that I love God and my future husband or is it really just because I look hot in it even if it may cause people to look at me sexually?
Do our wedding vows sound like I put Christ first and look to him for how to love my husband no matter the season?
Asking yourself this question throughout the planning process will help you make choices that will showcase the love you have for your spouse because of the love you receive from Christ.
Episode 19|Wedding Planning: During Engagement
Join us in this episode as Caryn Hazzard and I discuss how planning for a wedding is really planning for a marriage.
We will discuss:
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How to spend your time well.
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How to set yourself up for a God-honouring marriage after the wedding is done.
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How to talk about money with one another and with your parents.
Episode 18| Wedding Planning: Pre-Engagement
Caryn Hazzard is a trained floral designer, she loves planning big events and has a passion for marriage, done God's way. She is joining me today, as we discuss the theology of dating and marriage and even take time to answer the question, "How much should a young woman be involved in ring shopping?"
Episode 17 | Wedding Planning: For MOMS
When a couple gets engaged, the excitement of the planning soon begins. The mothers are usually very excited, but sometimes overstep their role, but what is their role? There is a lot of advice for brides, but moms sometimes feel lost and unsure and sometimes relationships become tense. Join in as Susie interviews two experienced moms, Ronda Hill and Michelle Reed, on the most important roles of moms, in wedding planning!
Episode 16 | Reconciling Resolute and Rest: in Crisis
We have special guest Ellie Kendrick, sister to Susie, joining the podcast today, to share her journey to reconciling resolute and rest in crises. She has had several critical points in her life, including a miscarriage, giving birth to a son with down syndrome and a diagnosis with cancer. Be encouraged and equipped as you hear her God story, shining through in some of the most difficult moments of her life.
Episode 15| Reconciling Resolute and Rest: in Chronic Stress
God has given us a gift to be able to flee from danger, as a built in self protective measure. However, when this natural response becomes chronic, and rarely ever turns off, it becomes dangerous rather than helpful. Listen in to Susie's conversation with Sarah Shuttleworth, owner Whatever You Do Workouts, as they discuss the role of keeping our eyes on Christ, while also using excercise as a form of worship and stress relief.
To find out more about Sarah, check out her Facebook Profile: https://www.facebook.com/sarah.m.parsons.75
Episode 14 | Reconciling Resolute and Rest: In our Mission
Sandi Giroux is joining us today, as we discuss "reconciling resolute and rest". We tend to lean in one direction or the other or even see the two as being in opposition. They need not be. Rather, they work better together. Jesus was the perfect example of being resolute in His mission, but also withdrawing to desolate places and pray. Mark 15:16. Are you a person who has reconciled resolute and rest?
Episode 13 | Resolute
Our first start up podcast after finishing our "Summer Soul Talk". Unveiled Podcast is all about glorifying God and loving women. We are starting up fresh, with Susie, sharing her God story of how He loved her, chose her and saved her. The Lord worked in her life, transforming her fear into confidence. A confidence that is rooted in Christ alone, not perfect, but definately transformed. Listen to how God has brought her to the point, where she is resolute to remain faithful to the Lord with steadfast purpose, even in light of current circumstances; the possibility of her husband being fined and sent to jail, for opening the church for a worship service.
Episode 12 | Summer Soul Talks
How can we manage our emotions, when we are feeling out of control. Really, that is what makes us want to scream right? We want control! This episode will lead you in some good questions to help you process your difficult relationships.
Episode 11 \ Summer Soul Talk
If you have ever been caught in the crazy cycle of busyness, this episode is for you. Discover how to manage your soul and steward your time, for God's glory.
Episode 10 | Summer Soul Talks
Join Susie in her converstation with Kat, who works full time, has two sons and a husband, and yet manages to love and serve the Lord. Kat has some wisdom and grace to share with you, to help you navigate the business of home life, even in the midst of the changes in our society, due to Covid 19.
Episode 9 of Summer Soul Talk
There can be a lot of pressure for a single woman to be married. Sometimes this presssure comes from a personal desire for marriage and sometimes it comes from well-meaning people who ask to many questions or make too many opininonated comments. The Bible has a lot to say about both marriage and singleness, with the ultmate challenge of living with contentment and mission to life that God has assigned to each of us.
Episode 8 in Summer Soul Talk
Over the last several months of trying to understand Covid 19, people have turned to social media to find answers, share ideas, opinions and concerns. We may like to blame it on Covid, but the reality is, conflict was there before and will continue to be there after Covid. How will we respond to conflict on social media? Michelle will offer you some Biblical counsel that has not time limits.
Episode 7 in Summer Soul Talk
Conflict is inevitable. We will all experience it in our relationships at one time or another. It's because we are still living in a sinful world and our own hearts are still in a battle. Listen to Michelle give some biblical counsel on how to manage conflict.
To find yourself, you must first find your Creator. He is God, and He will teach you four truths, that you need to know so that you can live as an image bearer, within the boundaries and freedoms, that represent His glory.
Episode 5
Summer Soul Talks
Many woman are asking the question about destiny. What they really wonder is, "How much control do I have over my life?" In a world that idolizes control and individualism, most people believe that control brings freedom and power. In this episode you will uncover the biblical balance between God's Soveriengty and your responsiblity as a steward.
Episode 4 in Summer Soul Talks
Self-love is the answer given by many to many for the problems we face today. But is self-love enough to satisfy? Can you be content in your own love or will you always be searching for more? In this episode you discover the best love ever!
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