Pastors of Payne (County): Recent Episodes
St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church and St. John Catholic Student Center
Just two Oklahoma priests sitting down for a weekly conversation on the joys of priesthood, Payne County, and the evangelization of the world.
It's been 80 days since Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien recorded a podcast. Where have they been? Doing ministry! Enjoy this episode of "Pastors of Payne"
School starts soon and our priests are fired up! Welcome Week at OSU and teacher orientation at Holy Family Classical School are coming up fast. Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien talk about preparations for school and ask for your prayers.
Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry love Pope Leo XIV! With Pope Leo on the job for two full months, our priests talk about his accomplishments so far and what inspires them most.
On this week's Pastors of Payne, Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien talk about creativity in ministry in their mission to make new Catholics!
Father Robert Williams is a priest! Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien have known him since he was in high school and it was awesome to see him ordained a priest of the Diocese of Tulsa. In this week's podcast, our priests share with us their experiences of last week's ordination at Holy Family Cathedral.
On this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry share their love for Pope Leo XIV and discuss a possible reunion of east and west as the Church celebrates the 1700th anniversary of the Council of Nicea. Enjoy!
Holy Family Cathedral is growing and some recent moves have been made to try to meet the demand and grow the evangelization efforts of the church and school. Fr. Kerry and Fr. O’Brien talk it all on this week’s episode of Pastors of Payne!
Ordinary Time has returned and weddings are plentiful at both St. John Catholic Student Center and Holy Family Cathedral. Both Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry love to not only do weddings but also to help prepare couples for marriage. This week's episode gives our priests an opportunity to share their experiences of weddings and marriage prep in the Diocese of Tulsa.
It's summer in both Payne and Tulsa counties and Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry have some travel plans but mostly they are hunkering down at their parishes for a summer of evangelization and construction projects. They also are coming off their annual priest convocation led by Sister Miriam James Heidland, SOLT and Fr. John Burns.
Pope Leo XIV is off and running and Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien share interesting stories about our new Holy Father. That's this week's episode of "Pastors of Payne"
Each year, priests around the diocese get moved to new parishes and apostolates. Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien break down the moves for the Diocese of Tulsa.
On the day Pope Leo XIV was elected, Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry jump in on initial thoughts and reasons for excitement of the new pontificate.
The papal conclave starts today and Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien offer some practical tips on praying for the cardinals and the new pope and share a few predictions of how it might turn out.
Pope Francis has gone to his eternal rest and our priests are sad. in this week's episode, they share their favorite stories and the ways that Pope Francis challenged them to be better pastors.
It seems that we are more motivated to live Lent rather than live Easter. What's that all about? On this week's "Pastors of Payne", Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry talk through how we can truly live this Easter Season. Enjoy!
It seems that we are more motivated to live Lent rather than live Easter. What's that all about? On this week's "Pastors of Payne", Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry talk through how we can truly live this Easter Season. Enjoy!
As we celebrate Holy Week, Judas the Betrayer plays a central role. Why did Jesus choose him as one of the twelve? Was it a mistake? And what's the controversy over anointing Jesus' feet with oil? All that and more on this week's "Pastors of Payne" podcast.
Do priests only work on Sundays? Of course not. But what does a typical Sunday or weekday look like for Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien. That's this week's "Pastors of Payne" podcast. Enjoy!
Between Stillwater and downtown Tulsa, about 150 people are becoming Catholic this year. That includes men, women, and children, some already baptized, others not. But why? Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien walk us through the reasons why so many are choosing the One, Holy, Catholic, and Apostolic faith.
Priests can read. Priest SHOULD read. Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry are readers. Not as much as they would like but nonetheless, this week's "Pastors of Payne" has our priests sharing what books they are reading and what books they are listening to during their lives of ministry in Tulsa and Stillwater. Enjoy!
How do priests get it all done? They usually don't but these life hacks will help everyone get more done and even have a better spiritual life. Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry share their favorite and most commonly used hacks to get through life and be better priests!
It's Lent and during this holy season, it's common for folks to give things up. On this week's "Pastors of Payne" podcast, Father Kerry offers 3 things NOT to give up for Lent.
Lent is underway and Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry dive in on how they are being more open to God in this season of Lent including some good ideas on fasting and almsgiving. This is Pastors of Payne!
Abel, Abraham, and Melchizedek all offer sacrifice. So do the priests of today. How are they related? That's the topic of this week's "Pastors of Payne". Listen as Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry do a little Bible study to help us better understand sacrifice and priesthood.
The Eucharist is the Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity of Jesus Christ. But are there references to the Eucharist in the Old Testament? In this week's "Pastors of Payne", Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien preview Lent 2025 and walk through the many references to the Eucharist in the books of the Old Testament.
We are blessed to live in a wonderful diocese. What's so good about it? Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien list out all the beautiful things going on in the Diocese of Tulsa and Eastern Oklahoma.
Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry participate in a monthly priest support group. What's it all about? What happens there? In this week's "Pastors of Payne", our priests share their own experiences of how the Diocese of Tulsa and their brother priests help support each other.
In this week's episode, Fr. Kerry makes a deep dive on prayer drawing into the Carmelite and Benedictine traditions. If you're not praying well (or even if you are), give it a listen.
Last week marked 6 months for Fr. O'Brien as Rector of Holy Family Cathedral. Along with Fr. Kerry, he reflects on the blessings, challenges, and what 2025 looks like for the cathedral community. Big plans!
At both St. John Catholic Student Center and Holy Family Cathedral, our priests offer the Sacrament of Reconciliation during some Sunday Masses. Is that okay? What does the Church advise on this issue? Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry talk through the good and bad of an increasingly popular practice.
Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien talk through a specific pastoral issue and dive into the theology and practice of infant baptism.
Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien get us ready for 2025 with encouragement to start fresh with a life of prayer, forgiveness, and renewed hope in the Lord Jesus!
In this week's "Pastors of Payne", our priests share the theology and history behind the upcoming 2025 Jubilee of Hope called for by Pope Francis. It all begins this Sunday!
As Christmas approaches, Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien talk about favorite Christmas presents and the importance of attending Christmas Mass with a special emphasis on Christmas at Holy Family Cathedral in downtown Tulsa."
Even churchgoing Catholics often struggle to pray. Sometimes it's starting to pray and for others it's being consistent in prayer. On this week's "Pastors of Payne", Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about how to pray and how to pray consistently.
Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry are fired up for Christmas! But we need to celebrate Advent first. Advent helps us prepare for Christmas and Christ's return at the end of time. This week's "Pastors of Payne" will help you get ready.
Advent is coming soon and Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry get you ready to celebrate it well as we prepare for Christ's coming at Christmas and at the end of time.
Both Holy Family and St. John Catholic Student Center offer a ton of Confessions. Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien offer a few dos and don'ts of going to the Sacrament of Reconciliation.
With 55 people in OCIA at St. John's and 86 at Holy Family Cathedral, our priests talk about why those numbers are so high. Is it something specific to these parishes or are there lessons to be learned that can apply to every parish? Fr. O'Brien (Holy Family) and Fr. Kerry (St. John's in Stillwater) share their love for the faith and their passion for making converts.
November is the month where we pray for the dead. Why do we do that? Where is that in Scripture? Fr. Kerry (OSU) and Fr. O'Brien (Holy Family) talk it through on this week's episode of "Pastors of Payne."
In 2023, Fr. Kerry took a sabbatical. In 2024, Fr. O'Brien did the same. What lessons were learned? Why are sabbaticals so important? This week's "Pastors of Payne" explores the fruits of these two important experiences in the life of our priests.
Show notes: Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien talk about the purpose of politics, praying before voting, and bring in some good books to put it all in perspective. Here's a link to Fr. O'Brien's election talk from a few weeks ago- https://youtu.be/GTHM0g1WHRg
Father Kerry welcomes back founding host Father O'Brien who shares how his life has changed as he settles into his new role as the rector of Holy Family Cathedral in Tulsa.
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and St. Francis Xavier Youth Director Kira Ziola talk about the recent release of the Restored Order from the Diocese of Tulsa and Eastern Oklahoma, what it means for parents and the Sacraments of the Church for kids and teens.
Resource:
CCC 1285, 1312-1313
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and St. Francis Xavier Youth Director Kira Ziola talk about the importance of a life of faith from a woman’s perspective and how a relationship with Jesus can change your life.
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and returning guest Brett Akins talk about what is more important between attending Mass and worship of the Lord or kids’ weekend sports.
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and special guest Brett Akins talk about college football, tailgating, supporting the Catholic mission, and summertime in Stillwater.
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and interim host Clay Furleigh talk about modern philosophers who have taken Christianity under scientific scrutiny in an attempt to debunk the foundational teaching of Original Sin.
Resources:
CCC 385, 397, 410
Romans 5
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and interim host Clay Furleigh talk about an important and unknown figure who lived in the 1900s martyred for his Catholic faith at the hands of the Nazis during World War II.
Resource:
Fox Searchlight Pictures “A Hidden Life” (movie, 2019)
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and interim host Clay Furleigh talk about the spiritual life of prayer, knowing and loving God with all your heart, and attaining all that you desire through love and obedience to God.
Resource:
“Abandonment To Divine Providence” Jean-Pierre de Caussade
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and interim host Clay Furleigh talk about hearing and listening to God’s voice versus our personal thoughts and feelings.
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and interim host Clay Furleigh conclude the conversation about the do’s and don’ts from receiving Holy Communion to the end of the Mass.
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and interim host Clay Furleigh continue the conversation about the do’s and don’ts from the Liturgy of the Eucharist to the Sign of Peace.
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and interim host Clay Furleigh continue the conversation about some of the do’s and don’ts of the laity from the entrance hymn to the gospel reading.
Fr. Kerry and interim host Clay Furleigh begin a series about some of the do’s and don’ts of the laity before and during the Holy Mass. This week is all about preparing for Mass.
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and interim host Clay Furleigh talk about proper leisure, how we are made to contemplate and meditate, and the lost art of seeing true beauty.
Resource:
“Leisure The Basis of Culture” by Josef Pieper
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry interviews Clay Furleigh, Director of Campus Ministry, and talk about the role and responsibility of being a father and teaching the Catholic faith to children.
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry interviews special guest Hannah about family and friends, the nervousness and joyfulness of becoming a mom, and realizing life isn’t all about you.
In Fr. O’Brien’s final episode, he and Fr. Kerry talk about the awesomeness of Stillwater, the great people, and all the things that Fr. O’Brien will miss about living in “Stilly.”
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the reality of time and its impact on daily life, and Fr. O’Brien shares his regrets.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about when priests move to a new assignment, the anticipation of the newly arriving priest, and how to help him adjust.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the different walks of life of people who find a spiritual home in the Catholic Church and then take a leap of faith to become Catholic.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about being aware that Lent is half over, why it’s important to be self-aware of how Lent is going, and a reminder to take this time to better your spiritual life.
Resource:
https://thejosias.com/2023/08/28/on-the-crisis-of-fat-souled-men/
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about cathedrals and what they are, what the title of “Rector” means, and the recent news of Fr. O’Brien’s move as Rector of the Holy Family Cathedral in Tulsa, OK.
WE DID IT! EPISODE 300! In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry reminisce and share some of their favorite episodes.
Leave a comment below and tell us which episode was your favorite!
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the recent St. John’s Student Center Lenten Parish Mission with Catholic Answers speaker Karlo Broussard. Each night was themed and heavily rooted in Scripture.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the season of Lent, the time to grow in faith and virtue and shed what keeps you from prayer, fasting, almsgiving, and… being like lobsters?
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about what a diocese of the Catholic Church is, how it was created, its structure, and why it matters to you and priests.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about how we know the start date of Lent every year based on a specific season and moon cycle, relics and why Catholics venerate them, the upcoming Lenten Parish Missions, and the importance of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien interviews Rob and Margie Ponce and talks about how God’s providence brought them together through mutual friends, marriage and kids, our walk of faith, and discerning the diaconate for the Diocese of Tulsa.
Do you know what a priest promises to the bishop at his ordination? In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the seven priestly promises (not vows) when ordained to the priesthood.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about priestly obedience, sabbaticals, and Fr. O’Brien’s departure from Payne County with a new assignment after his upcoming sabbatical.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien interviews Rob and Gina Agnew and talks about how they met, their college days at OSU, climbing the corporate ladder, kids, the calling to serve the parish, and now the Church as a deacon.
Break out your Bibles for this episode! In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the characters and cities of the season of Advent and Christmas, the parallels between the Old and New Testaments, and the fulfillment of prophecy.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about going to Holy Mass for the 4th Sunday of Advent and Christmas and discuss the plausibility of Mary receiving the Eucharist at the First Mass.
In this week's episode, Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the shortness of this year's Advent season, the liturgical readings, being a disciple more like Mary, growing in holiness, and making the connection between Advent and Adoration.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the power of teachers over children’s singing ability, why the Virgin Mary was conceived without Original Sin, and the importance of celebrating The Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the recent musical changes during Holy Mass, the beauty of Marian hymns, and their liturgical significance.
Resources:
https://adoremus.org/2007/09/singing-the-four-seasonal-marian-anthems/
http://shamelesspopery.com/praying-with-the-four-seasonal-marian-antiphons/
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and returning special guest and dad, Mr. Marty O’Brien, continue the conversation about his early life, marriage, traveling the world, raising five kids, and enjoying the retired life.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and special guest and dad, Mr. Marty O’Brien, talk about growing up Catholic in Boston, college, military life, and meeting the woman who changed his life.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about a particular and beautiful part of Eucharistic Adoration – hymns, not just any hymns, but the best Eucharistic hymns and what they mean.
Resource:
https://www.wordonfire.org/articles/how-to-sing-about-the-blessed-sacrament/
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the awesomeness of being a priest, the importance of praying for priests and those in religious life, and the increase of vocations in the Diocese of Tulsa and Eastern Oklahoma.
Resource:
https://tulsaworld.com/news/local/tulsas-father-wakulich-recounts-his-path-to-becoming-a-priest/article_df55e2d4-01d4-5e77-9bea-2987101720d9.html
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the root meaning of the word ‘angel,’ dispelling some misconceptions about angels, how many Choirs of Angels we know about, and their true purpose.
Resource: CCC 328-354
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about what music is supposed to be during Mass, what the Church asks of us when it comes to singing, and the recent musical changes to the Mass at St. Francis Xavier.
Resource:
General Instruction of the Roman Missal, para 39
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about one of the biggest frustrations among priests - people who want formation but don’t take advantage of what’s offered or wait until the last minute to sign up.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about where the Apostle Peter is buried, Vatican Hill, the growth of the Catholic Church, and why we are called “Latin Rite Roman Catholics.”
Resources:
“The Bones of St. Peter” – John Evangelist Walsh
“St. Peter’s Bones” – Thomas J. Craughwell
“Letters to a Young Catholic” – George Weigel
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about how the recent Gospel readings ask each of us to forgive, how prayer helps us, and how forgiveness prepares us for heaven.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about bad habits we want to get rid of or a virtue we want to increase but then wait for Lent instead of the mindset of making now the day of salvation, and it requires us to “fight the good fight.”
Resource:
https://www.praymorenovenas.com
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the need to re-evangelize people in the teaching of the Source and Summit of our faith – the Eucharist – as taught by the early Church Fathers.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about books they’ve read and the importance of reading (or listening to audiobooks), primarily spiritual books, because the alternative could make us “fat-souled men.”
Resource:
https://thejosias.com/2023/08/28/on-the-crisis-of-fat-souled-men/
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about all the excellent faith formation going on at St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church, St. John’s Student Center, and Our Lady of Grace Catholic Retreat Center, then talk about the absolute Truth: the Eucharist is the Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity of Jesus Christ!
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry continue the conversation about traveling through Europe on sabbatical, then talk about the joys and struggles of maintaining a brand-new church.
KERRY IS BACK!!! In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about Oklahoma State University’s Welcome Week, RCIA, and all the people and places he saw and visited while on sabbatical.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and first-time guest Lori Wieder talk about her Oklahoma roots, her faith life and conversion to Catholicism, and what it’s like going to Mass with children with special needs.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and returning guest Dcn. Tom Cabeen talk about the authority of the Church, early Christian writers, the how, why, what, and advice to becoming Catholic.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Associate Pastor Fr. Healey talk about what leisure is, three types of people who don’t have it, what’s it for, and why you need it in your life.
Resources: “Witness to Hope: The Biography of Pope John Paul II” – George Weigel “Gettings Things Done: The Art of Stress Free Productivity” – David Allen
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Associate Pastor Fr. Healey talk about the importance of Sundays, how we treat it in today’s culture, and how to reclaim it for the family.
Resource: “Dies Domini” – St. John Paul II
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and first-time special guest Our Lady of Grace Catholic Retreat Center Spiritual Director Betsy McNeil talk about her Stillwater roots, discernment of God’s calling, and her new mission.
Resource: www.ourladyofgracecatholicretreatcenter.com
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the Eucharistic Revival, preaching on the Eucharist, and how to explain the Eucharist to other people.
Resource: John 6
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about boundary issues within a parish, a brief history lesson on parish boundaries, and why those geographical parish boundaries matter.
Resource: Canon 515, 519
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and first-time guest Seminarian David Neumaier talk about his pastoral year, his early life, his joy of writing and the book he wrote, and his walk of faith and path to priesthood.
David's book: "Guardians of Aranor: Rebirth" http://ow.ly/iJ0w50OCoRX
In this week’s episode, Associate Pastors Fr. James Porter (St. John) and Fr. Healey (St. Francis Xavier) talk about what exactly are an “associate pastor” of a parish, the beauty of their mission, and their love of the priesthood.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and first-time guest Seminarian Adrian Meneses talk about his early life in Mexico, his journey of faith and travels worldwide, and planting roots in the Diocese of Tulsa to become a priest.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and first-time guest and Stillwater native Fr. Michael “Mikey” Pratt talk about his early life in Stillwater, his path to priesthood, his time as the Vocation Director for the Diocese of Tulsa, and his new role as the Vice-Rector for the Pontifical North American College in Rome, Italy.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the not-so-friendly culture of priestly sabbaticals, the misconceptions that come with it, automatic reactions, and the reasons why Fr. Kerry chose to take one.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the college pilgrimage to Poland, the many issues facing the Church today, and the real and serious issue of priestly burnout.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the dedication Mass for the newly constructed St. John Catholic Student Center. Many thanks to all the people and hard work that went into the dedication process.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O'Brien and Youth Director Kira Ziola talk about all the summer events for teenagers, then switch gears to talk about what teenage girls are up against in the world today and her role in forming them to meet the challenge.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Seminarian Kyle Doud talk about the highlights of the past year serving the parish and local community during his pastoral year as a seminarian.
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and Fr. Porter talk about the dedication of St. John’s Student Center, campus ministry, and Fr. Porter’s new priestly assignment to the Neuman Center at Tulsa University.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry continue the conversation about the Holy Mass and answer questions from parishioners and fans.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the example of faith of candidates and catechumens who inspire the clergy and laity alike, the planning and readings of the Easter Vigil, and the coming dedication of St. John’s Student Center during the Easter season.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about Palm Sunday of the Lord’s Passion with unpacking the meaning of the Scripture readings, and the connection to consolation and desolation in our own lives.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien interviews the youngest guests on Pastors of Payne to date. Tommy Cabeen, Ben Wells, and Ryan Hanson talk about the trials and errors of starting a business through writing and finding success in Good News Magazine. Check out their website at goodnewsmagazine.xyz!
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry welcomes first-time guest and FOCUS missionary Jonathan O’Brien (no relation to Fr. O’Brien) and talk about how parents can initiate, form, and prepare their kids faith before college.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien welcomes first-time guest and Associate Pastor Fr. Healey. He shares his story about moving to Stillwater, his family and early life, his journey to the priesthood, and his dad’s “Grillblazer®.”
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien welcomes first-time guest and incoming Youth Minister Kira Ziola. She shares her story of college and church life, faith, and her “reconversion” to the Catholic faith.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry are talking about the liturgical names of all the different items used during Holy Mass.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry are talking about the liturgical names of all the different people that celebrate the Holy Mass.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry continue the Mass walkthrough, talking about why you shouldn’t leave Mass early, the closing prayer, and the final blessing.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry continue the Mass walkthrough, talking about what we should and should not be doing after receiving Holy Communion.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien, Fr. Kerry, and returning guest Seminarian Kyle Doud, continue the Mass walkthrough, talking about the best practices of how to receive Holy Communion.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien, Fr. Kerry, and returning guest Seminarian Kyle Doud, continue the Mass walkthrough, talking about “Fraction Rite,” “Lamb of God,” and the proper reception of Communion.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien, Fr. Kerry, and guest Seminarian Kyle Doud, continue the Mass walkthrough, talking about the ‘Our Father’ and the ‘Sign of Peace.’”
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry, with returning guest Seminarian Daniel Albrecht, continue the Mass walkthrough, talking about the doxology and the Great Amen!
Happy New Year from the Pastors of Payne! In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry with returning guest Seminarian Daniel Albrecht continue the walkthrough of the Mass talking about the posture, prayers, and Mass intentions of the people.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry with first time special guest Seminarian Daniel Albrecht continue the walkthrough of the Mass talking about the mystery of faith.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry continue their walk through the Holy Mass and talk about the different parts of the Eucharistic prayers.Resources:Go to Mass 👀masstimes.orgsfxstillwater.orgbuildingsaints.com
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about what and why there are differences between the four Eucharistic Prayers.
Resources:“Pray the Mass” w/ Fr. Mike SchmitzThe Liturgy Guys Podcast
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien, Fr. Kerry, and returning guest Mary Frost Avila talk about the next part of the Holy Mass – The Preface – “It is truly right and just.”
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien, Fr. Kerry, and returning guest Mary Frost Avila talk about the next part of the Holy Mass – the offertory and the preparation of the altar.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien, Fr. Kerry, and first-time guest Mary Frost Avila talk about her time at OSU, meeting Fr. Kerry, her return to faith, the joy of marriage and accountability, and the Nicene Creed we say during Mass.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien, Fr. Kerry, and Seminarian Kyle continue the walkthrough of the Holy Mass with the Liturgy of the Word.
Resource: General Instruction of the Roman Missal (GIRM)
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien, Fr. Kerry, and Seminarian Kyle continue the walkthrough of the Holy Mass from the beginning with the Introductory Rites.
Resource: General Instruction of the Roman Missal (GIRM)
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the importance of the Holy Eucharist and a “how-to” for preparing for Mass.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien, Fr. Kerry, and Seminarian Kyle talk about “God’s Country America”, sharing their wide spectrum of many cultures living in other cities and dioceses, and the impact of building a Catholic culture in Payne County.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien interviews parishioner and Oklahoma State University Associate Head Wrestling Coach Zack Esposito about college wrestling, positive influences, the life of a wrestling coach, the importance of prayer, and suffering that led to finding faith.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about baptism, the importance of godparents, and answer the question of what a godparent is and what it really takes to be one.
Resources: Canon Law 874
Alcuin Institute: What is the Purpose of Godparents? https://alcuininstitute.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/What-is-a-Godparent_.pdf
Alcuin Institute: How to be a good Godparent. https://alcuininstitute.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/What-should-we-consider-in-being-a-godparent_.pdf
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about “thou shall not covet thy neighbor’s goodies”, lust, concupiscence, its meaning, and how the 9th and 10th commandments are “hitched together like sled dogs” - you can’t talk about one without the other.
Resources: Matt 5:28; 15:19 CCC 2514-2527, 9th commandment CCC 2534-2550, 10th commandment
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about “thou shall not covet thy neighbor’s goodies”, lust, concupiscence, its meaning, and how the 9th and 10th commandments are “hitched together like sled dogs” - you can’t talk about one without the other.
Resources: Matt 5:28; 15:19 CCC 2514-2527, 9th commandment CCC 2534-2550, 10th commandment
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the sin of lying, that God is the source of all truth, keeping “professional secrets”, and a deep dive of the meaning and understanding of “Thou Shall Not Bear False Witness”.
Resource: CCC 2464-2503
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the sin of lying, that God is the source of all truth, keeping “professional secrets”, and a deep dive of the meaning and understanding of “Thou Shall Not Bear False Witness”.
Resource: CCC 2464-2503
Have you ever taken something that doesn’t belong to you? Do you love your pet more than people? In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the “Seminarian Shuffle” and the deeper meaning and understanding of the 7th Commandment beyond the “Thou Shall Not Steal”.
Resource: CCC 2401-2463
Have you ever taken something that doesn’t belong to you? Do you love your pet more than people? In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the “Seminarian Shuffle” and the deeper meaning and understanding of the 7th Commandment beyond the “Thou Shall Not Steal”.
Resource: CCC 2401-2463
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about all the upcoming events happening at St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church and St. John’s Catholic Student Center, name dropping many world-famous Catholics, the recent news of a famous actor converting to Catholicism, and how we should respond.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about all the upcoming events happening at St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church and St. John’s Catholic Student Center, name dropping many world-famous Catholics, the recent news of a famous actor converting to Catholicism, and how we should respond.
In this week’s episode on the best podcast in Stillwater, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about meeting fans of the podcast around town and a subject near and dear to Fr. O’Brien’s heart – starting a Catholic school in Payne County!
Resource: https://www.catholiceducation.org/en/education/philosophy-of-education/five-essential-marks-of-catholic-schools.html
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about their crazy busy schedules and invite returning guest Seminarian Kyle Doud to share what a day is like for him, and a common trend of mediocrity of faith and being too comfortable with Jesus.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the “new recording studio”, being voted the #1 Podcast in Stillwater, the new school year, and all the offerings to deepen your faith at St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church and St. John Catholic Student Center.
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and new associate pastor Fr. Porter talk about Fr. Porter’s priestly discernment, his seminary life and ordination, his move from St. Benedict’s in Broken Arrow to St. John’s in Stillwater and offers some advice to young men.
Follow St. John's @catholicpokes on all social media and visit their website: buildingsaints.com
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and special guest Brett Akins talk about Brett’s upbringing, baseball career, college life, a rediscovery of the Catholic faith, and his newfound love of the Eucharist.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the Sacraments of the Church and deep dive into the Sacraments of Healing: Anointing of the Sick and Reconciliation.
Resources: CCC 1499 James 5:13
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the hotly contested and often controversial subject of whether Jesus had biological brothers and sisters.
Resource: CCC 499-507
Back together after a month of interviews with staff and friends of the show, Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien kick off the Eucharistic Revival with a show about why we NEED the Eucharist.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and special guest Angela Vivar Romero talk about her Stillwater roots, her work with the Hispanic community of Payne County, and how she became a staff member of St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church.
“What is Hospitality? An Interview with Amanda Fiorazo”
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and special guest Amanda Fiorazo talk about her early life, choosing a college and a degree in hospitality management, faith and prayer, a day in the life of a Hospitality Coordinator, and what is hospitality and its biblical roots.
Resource:
“Radical Hospitality – Benedict’s Way of Love” by Lonni Collins Pratt
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and special guest Trevor Allee talk about all the awesome summer events happening at St. John’s Student Center and Trevor’s conversion to the Catholic faith.
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and special guest Chris Petrin talk about the first century apologist St. Irenaeus of Lyon, great books about the Incarnation, the dogma of the Incarnation, and the effects and importance of the Incarnation to the Christian faith.
Resource(s): “The Teaching of the Church Fathers” - Fr. John R Willis, SJ
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and returning special guests Seminarians Kyle Doud and Marcus Lyons talk about why they’re in Stillwater, their life as a seminarian, what they’ve learned so far, their summer plans, and what it means to be baptized a priest.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the latest update on the St. John’s building project, choosing great names for church bells, summer events happening at St. Francis Xavier, and the philosophy and scriptural basis of the sin of adultery known as the 6th Commandment.
Resources:
CCC 2331: https://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG0015/__P83.HTM
CCC 2339, 2344, 2347: https://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG0015/__P85.HTM
“Theology of the Body for Beginners” – Matthew West
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about building delays of St. John Student Center, family time this summer at the beach, all the summer programs for adults, kids, and families, the importance of the Real Presence of Jesus Christ in the Eucharist, and the need for a Eucharistic Revival.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the busy calendar filled with upcoming weddings, dealing with scheduling conflicts, marriage preparation, the blessed and privileged life of a priest in offering the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony, and wedding “dos” and “don’ts”.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the recent news concerning human life, the leaked document of the Supreme Court to overturn Roe v Wade, the association of ending abortion with the Catholic Church, and the time for neutrality on abortion is at an end.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the epic and giant “Blue Bow”, the wonderfulness of the many sacraments celebrated by the two parishes of Stillwater, reminiscing about their First Holy Communion and Confirmation, and the significant importance of each to our faith life.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the deliciousness of gummy bears, what it was like to move as a priest, their growing parishes, and the great addition of two new priests coming to Stillwater!
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien, Fr. Kerry, and special guest Seminarian Kyle Doud talk about the great season of Easter, Divine Mercy Sunday, the beauty and richness of God’s Mercy, and the Apostolic Pardon at the point of death.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and FOCUS Missionary Reagan Caldwell talk all about moms, good and bad advice, things men shouldn’t say to pregnant women, the challenges of taking kids to Mass, what it’s like being a mom in 2022, and advice on the toxicity of social media on a life of personal prayer.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about Easter eggs, a retrospective look at this year’s season of Lent, determining whether or not “Holy Week” is an official liturgical title, the many opportunities for confession, and preparing for Easter.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry take a stroll down memory lane as they look back on 200 episodes, wondering who has listened to all of them, giving thanks to all donors and fans, and Fr. Kerry’s recent annual mission trip to Costa Rica.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and special guest Rob Ponce, Communications Director talk about Rob’s early life, his journey to Catholicism, and a long-held desire fulfilled in working for the Church.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about Fr. O’Brien’s recent parish mission trip to Hugo, Antlers, and Boswell, Fr. Kerry’s upcoming mission trip to Costa Rica, the importance of hospitality, and the “Rule of St. Benedict”.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the goodness of “Fuzzy’s” nachos, awesome podcasts, and offering a pep talk from your “hype men” about not giving up and staying the course during this Lenten season.
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about prayer, fasting, and what it means to give alms during the season of Lent… and making your bed!
Resource(s): Psalm 17 - https://bible.usccb.org/bible/psalms/17
Favorite charities: Fr. O’Brien: St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church in Stillwater Catholic Charities of Stillwater Diocese of Tulsa and Eastern Oklahoma Center of Family Love
Fr. Kerry: Feeding college students Catholic Charities of Stillwater Building project of St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church To the poor
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about Fr. O’Brien’s recent retreat to his seminarian roots – St. Meinrad’s Archabbey in southern Indiana, why we receive ashes on our foreheads on “Ash Wednesday”, or as Fr. Kerry calls it - “Free Carbon Wednesday”, and the meaning and biblical significance of the ashes.
In this week’s episode, Fr. Kerry and FOCUS missionary guest Clayton Caldwell talk about the importance of the evangelization of college students, calling all to be missionary disciples, living the beatitudes, and a few practical tips for Lent.
Resource(s): Fr. Mike Schmitz, “The Freedom of Worship” – SEEK 2021: https://youtu.be/n0oSeTVgMzY
Dr. Jonathan Reyes, “Impact The World As A Disciple” – SEEK 2019: https://youtu.be/HfAIsf6tOf8
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about why they love house blessings, what happens, what it means, and why a house should be blessed.
Resource(s):
Col 3:12-17: https://bible.usccb.org/bible/colossians/3
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry are answering some questions, dropping some truth, dispelling the nonsense, and talking about one of the three Sacraments of Initiation: The Sacrament of Confirmation, its effects, how to seek and obtain it, and the Holy Spirit.
Resource(s):
Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC), paragraphs 1302 – 1306 - https://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG0015/__P3S.HTM
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about Catholic Apologetics and the importance of why Catholics baptize infants, why everyone should, and the Catholic understanding of Original Sin.
Resource(s): Acts 16:15 - https://bible.usccb.org/bible/acts/16 Acts 18:8 - https://bible.usccb.org/bible/acts/18 1 Corinthians 1 - https://bible.usccb.org/bible/1corinthians/1
Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 1213 (CCC 1213) - https://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG0015/__P3I.HTM CCC 1251 – 1252 - https://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG0015/__P3K.HTM Code of Canon Law (834 – 848) - https://www.vatican.va/archive/cod-iuris-canonici/eng/documents/cic_lib4-cann834-878_en.html
Catholic Answers - https://catholic.com “Catholicism and Fundamentalism” - https://shop.catholic.com/catholicism-and-fundamentalism/
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about what people say is “unattractive about Catholicism”:
- The “rules”
- Holy Days of Obligation
- The preaching and the music
- Lack of reverence, and many more
Resource: https://www.catholicculture.org/culture/library/view.cfm?recnum=1408
In this week’s episode, Fr. O’Brien and Fr. Kerry answer some important questions about co-habitation before marriage, the covenant bond of marriage, Divine Love, and being children of God.
“What is marriage?” “What business do priests have talking about marriage?” “Should couples live together before marriage?” “Are the odds in your favor?”
Resource: https://www.catholicculture.org/culture/library/view.cfm?recnum=1408 “Marriage Preparation with Co-habiting Couples” by Bishop David Konderla
With 2022 underway, Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry talk us through their visions for the parishes of Stillwater in the new year. Both places have exciting initiatives underway all for the glory of God and the evangelization of Payne County and the OSU campus.
Seminarian Kyle Doud stops by for a visit as Father O'Brien and Father Kerry talk about a proper celebration of Epiphany (celebrated January 2, 2022)
Want a preview of our Christmas homilies? Or a review (if you're listening after Christmas)? Father Kerry and Father O'Brien give some insight into how their Christmas homilies came together and what they will preach about this year. Enjoy!
Christmas music is well known to all. But does it help you pray? It certainly can. On this week's episode, Fr. O'Brien interviews Brennan Lacy who begins in January as the new music director at St. John Catholic Student Center.
With Christmas on a Saturday this year, we get to go to Mass twice! Once for Christmas and then again on Sunday the 26th. Why? Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry explain it all. And they share a few of their favorite Christmas hymns as we look ahead to the big day.
During Advent, St. Francis Xavier is hosting a program called "Meet Your Mother". On December 1st, Fr. O'Brien gave a talk called "What Do We Believe About Mary?" Your Pastors of Payne dive into the four Marian dogmas: Mary, the Mother of God, her perpetual virginity, the Immaculate Conception, and the Assumption. Mary, Queen of Peace, pray for us!
Father Kerry hosts the St. John Catholic Student Center Development Staff, Matt Bond, Taylor Akins, and Lauren Lacy. They discuss how money plays an important role in the mission of the Church.
https://buildingsaints.com
https://www.sfxstillwater.org
Frequently at Holy Mass, we hear "A Reading from The Book of the Prophet..." Amos, Isaiah, Jeremiah, and many others. Who are they? Why are they important? What do they have to say to us today?
It's November but it's not too early to start talking about Christmas, because people are already celebrating it! Listen as Father Kerry and Father O'Brien answer the important question of when Christmas really begins (it's not November!). Thanks for listening.
The Diocese of Tulsa recently lost one of our priests, Father Hung Le. He was Pastor of St. Stephen Catholic Church in Holdenville and a friend of both Father O'Brien and Father Kerry. What happens when a priest dies? What's the funeral like? Thanks for listening!
With the State of Oklahoma bringing back executions, Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the death penalty and the Catholic Church's teaching on this controversial topic. The episode was recorded Wednesday before the Thursday execution of Daniel M. Grant.
Father O'Brien interviews the new St. Francis Xavier Director of Evangelization and Formation Jessica Petter. Jessica shares her story and conversion and lays out some of her plans for ministry in and around Payne County to share the Gospel.
OSU FOCUS Missionary Clayton Caldwell joins Fr. Kerry again for a discussion on what to do post conversion to Jesus Christ. Thanks for listening!
Father Kerry Wakulich interviews FOCUS Missionary Clayton Caldwell on how we allow the good and bad into our lives through the senses.
To learn more about Clayton, see his FOCUS profile- https://www.focus.org/missionaries/clayton-and-reagan-caldwell
Deacon Tom Cabeen is a convert to Catholicism from Jehovah's Witness. He is now a Deacon of the Diocese of Tulsa after being ordained for the Diocese of Hartford.
Link to Deacon Tom's last appearance on Pastors of Payne- https://pastorsofpayne.podbean.com/e/from-jehovahs-witness-to-catholic-to-catholic-deacon-father-obrien-interviews-deacon-tom-cabeen/
Link to Deacon Tom's appearance on "The Catholic Truth" Podcast-
https://thecatholictruth.org/former-jehovahs-witness-becomes-catholic-with-tom-cabeen/
Link to Deacon Tom's appearance on EWTN's "The Journey Home"-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LvjYq6drTl0
There's a phenomenon in Catholic campus ministry: After Labor Day, some students disappear. What's going on? Father O'Brien and Father Kerry talk it through. Also, some Stillwater trivia!
What does the Old Testament have to do with Jesus? We call it Salvation History! Beginning with Adam and Eve and with an amazing history to follow, Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry discuss what Salvation History is and how it relates to you personally. Tune in!
Why do Catholics give so much attention to the Blessed Virgin Mary? Because we always have! From the early days of the Church, Mary has been a big deal because she's the Mother of God (Theotokos). Listen as Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry talk through why Mary is such an important part of the life of the Church.
It's football season and in honor of the OSU home opener, the Pastors of Payne are talking about parallels between OSU football and the Catholic Church. You'll be amazed!
Inspired by a talk at last week's Diocese of Tulsa Faith Formation Conference, Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry are talking about how to best read the Bible. What do we do when different churches conflict on a particular passage? Is the Bible a history book?
Tune in and send it to your friends!
Father Kerry is joined by St. John Catholic Student Center RCIA Director Kimberly Williams to talk about the process of becoming Catholic and how EVERYONE can benefit from learning more about the Catholic Church.
Welcome back Pokes! In this week's episode, Father Kerry and Father O'Brien talk about the start to the school year with a special focus on St. John Catholic Student Center and their three (YES 3!) locations for the school year ahead. Check out CatholicPokes.com for all the latest and follow them on social media too.
Continuing a series on the 10 Commandments, Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien explore the 5th Commandment. In The Catechism of the Catholic it's paragraphs 2258-2330 and covers a wide variety of topics including war and peace, abortion, euthanasia, the death penalty, suicide, and more. Thanks for listening!
In the episode, Fr. O'Brien mentions paragraph #99 from The Gospel of Life by St. John Paul II. It is addressed to woman who have had an abortion. Here's the statement in full:
I would now like to say a special word to women who have had an abortion. The Church is aware of the many factors which may have influenced your decision, and she does not doubt that in many cases it was a painful and even shattering decision. The wound in your heart may not yet have healed. Certainly what happened was and remains terribly wrong. But do not give in to discouragement and do not lose hope. Try rather to understand what happened and face it honestly. If you have not already done so, give yourselves over with humility and trust to repentance. The Father of mercies is ready to give you his forgiveness and his peace in the Sacrament of Reconciliation. To the same Father and his mercy you can with sure hope entrust your child. With the friendly and expert help and advice of other people, and as a result of your own painful experience, you can be among the most eloquent defenders of everyone's right to life. Through your commitment to life, whether by accepting the birth of other children or by welcoming and caring for those most in need of someone to be close to them, you will become promoters of a new way of looking at human life.
Here are the other shows on the commandments:
1st Commandment- https://pastorsofpayne.podbean.com/e/the-first-commandment-i-am-the-lord-your-god-you-shall-not-have-strange-gods-before-me/
2nd Commandment- https://pastorsofpayne.podbean.com/e/using-and-misusing-the-lords-name/
3rd Commandment- https://pastorsofpayne.podbean.com/e/keeping-holy-the-sabbath-the-3rd-commandment/
4th Commandment- https://pastorsofpayne.podbean.com/e/honoring-your-family-the-4th-commandment/
The practice of daily Mass is wonderful! Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien talk about how it changed their life and give some resources to help you grow in your faith.
The Lamb's Supper by Scott Hahn
https://www.amazon.com/Lambs-Supper-Mass-Heaven-Earth/dp/0385496591
Pray the Mass Like Never Before
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YpUp6zSGCb4
Father O'Brien is joined by Diocese of Tulsa seminarian Joey Griggs. Joey is assigned to St. Francis Xavier for the summer. He shares about his vocation, his family, and the process by which he's given his life to the Lord as a disciple and a seminarian.
For more information on the Surrender Novena:
https://catholicexchange.com/the-surrender-novena-let-jesus-take-care-of-everything
Reception of the Eucharist is in the news and The Pastors of Payne are walking us through the relevant issues. You can listen on Spotify, SoundCloud, Apple, and Google AND Pete 94.3 on Sunday mornings at 9:30 AND statewide on the Oklahoma Catholic Broadcasting Network on Wednesdays at 3:30pm.
Diocese of Tulsa Seminarian Marcus Lyons joins Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry to talk about the Old Testament and whether it deserves our time (short answer: YES!).
Father Kerry talks with Stillwater summer seminarian Robert Williams. Before becoming a seminarian, Robert was a missionary with St. Paul's Outreach (SPO), a missionary organization that works on college campuses. He specifically worked in men's formation specializing in building trust, accountability, and community.
Father Kerry is joined by seminarian Robert Williams, and OSU students Alycia Crabb, and Gretchen Skaja to talk about whether good friendships can help lead us to God.
After a brief dive into podcasts they like (The Pillar, Bible in a Year, The Catholic Man Show, The Liturgy Guys, etc), Father O'Brien and Father Kerry answer the question, "What is marriage?" With traditional marriage being redefined in our modern culture, this question is more important than ever.
Are you looking back or are you looking forward? With all that's going on with the Church in Payne County, there are, of course, reasons to look back and know our history but can looking back also be an obstacle? We think it can be and our pastors are challenging us to look ahead to the great work that lies ahead at OSU, Stillwater, and beyond.
After Father Kerry's pilgrimage with students to churches in the midwest, iconoclasm is on the minds of the Pastors of Payne. Listen as they discuss a brief history of iconoclasm and how it relates to our lives in Payne County.
Deacon Tom Cabeen has served at St. Francis Xavier for the last two years. His conversion story from Jehovah's Witness to Baptist to Episcopalian to Catholic is a fascinating one. After conversion to the Catholic faith he soon began studies for the diaconate and was ordained for the Diocese of Hartford, CT. He's know a deacon of the Diocese of Tulsa.
Deacon Tom was a guest on EWTN's "The Journey Home" in 2015- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LvjYq6drTl0
How far does the 4th Commandment go? Is it just about mom and dad? Father O'Brien and Father Kerry dive in on the Church's understanding of the 4th Commandment.
Summer is upon us! Covid is waning (at least in Oklahoma) and the Pastors of Payne want you to get out and about this summer and LIVE YOUR FAITH. Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien talk about summer programs at their parishes and give some advice on where to go to grow in your faith.
A lay person is any member of the faithful who is not a priest or professed religious brother or sister. What role do lay people play in the Church? A BIG ONE! On this week's "Pastors of Payne", Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry talk through various Church documents on the role of the laity in the Catholic Church.
Lumen Gentium (referenced in the podcast)
http://www.vatican.va/archive/hist_councils/ii_vatican_council/documents/vat-ii_const_19641121_lumen-gentium_en.html
Sadness is a part of everyone's life. How should we mourn the losses that come our way? Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien talk us through what to do when we're sad about some change in our life.
Beginning in December 2020, Jacob Farni began as Children's Minister at St. Francis Xavier. Originally from Elk City, OK, Jacob works with families to help them encounter Jesus Christ at home and at church.
This conversation revolves around ministry to children and how best to preach the Gospel to families.
Father Kerry interviews Kayla Cuba and Clay Furley about their time of engagement and how they fell in love. They also give young people advice on dating. They will be married this summer at St. Francis Xavier.
Coming from a listeners question, Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry tackle the question, "Is the devil real?" Short answer: Yes. But listen for more information.
Who becomes Catholic? Lots of people right here in Payne County. Between our two parishes, 50 people this year. Father O'Brien and Father Kerry talk about some of the folks who are becoming Catholic this year in Stillwater.
Holy Week is special time of year for the whole Church. What's it like for priests? Let Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien walk you through the week from Palm Sunday all the way to Easter Sunday with multiple stops in between.
Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry continue their ongoing series of podcasts on the 10 Commandments. This episode they focus on the 3rd Commandment and give practical tips for living the commandment with joy.
Fr. Kerry gives an update on the St. John Catholic Student Center Building Project and talks about the upcoming Lenten Parish Mission at St. John's.
More on the building project
https://buildingsaints.com
The Fathers of Mercy
https://fathersofmercy.com
St. Francis Xavier Director of Evangelization and Mission Stacy Humbert joined Fr. O'Brien as a special guest. They talked about evangelization, conversion, testimony, and witness. We need it all!
You can read Stacy's evangelization blog at https://evangelizationconversationsfx.com
This week, Father Kerry and Father O'Brien talk about the great things happening in the Catholic Church both locally and nationally.
A few links:
FOCUS (Fellowship of Catholic University Students)- https://www.focus.org
Bible in a Year Podcast- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-bible-in-a-year-with-fr-mike-schmitz/id1539568321
The Identity of Jesus (Bishop Barron)- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d8B9un_NyOU
Many people feel distant from God because they don't understand the depth of God's mercy. Is anyone beyond God's mercy? That's the subject on this week's Pastors of Payne.
Ash Wednesday is February 17, 2021. In the time of Covid, the distribution of ashes will look a little different this year. Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry give us the scoop on how it will go.
With Lent 2021 on the horizon, our priests help us get ready for this holy season of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving in preparation for Easter and the Resurrection of Jesus Christ.
A few links:
CatholicPokes.com
SFXStillwater.org
The Bible in a Year Podcast- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-bible-in-a-year-with-fr-mike-schmitz/id1539568321
The Fathers of Mercy- https://fathersofmercy.com
How does a woman go from raised Catholic to agnostic to college missionary? Meet Olivia Gonzalez, OSU FOCUS Missionary (Fellowship of Catholic University Students)! Her story can help us all minister better to friends and family. The key in inviting! Olivia was invited to Mass by a friend and it made all the difference.
https://www.focus.org/missionaries/olivia-gonzalez
Father O'Brien and Father Kerry get you ready for this weekend's Gospel (Mark 1) where Jesus calls disciples saying, "Come, follow me and I will make you fishers of men." Our priests speak on their vocation to the priesthood and why young men and women ought to consider a call to the priesthood and religious life.
Welcome back students! This week, Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry encourage us to ENCOUNTER the Lord Jesus on a regular basis. There's a difference between knowing about someone and actually knowing them.
Joined by Diocese of Tulsa seminarian (and OSU grad) Matthew Tracy, Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien talk about baptism, its importance for salvation, and the correct matter and form so it can be done correctly. If you're not yet baptized, give us a call!
Seminarian Kyle Doud joins Fr. O'Brien as they talk about what the different liturgical colors. Rose, Violet, White, Red, Green, and even Black! Thanks for joining us. We hope you learn something.
Diocese of Tulsa Seminarian Kyle Doud joins Fr. O'Brien for a walk through his conversion and eventual entrance into seminary. Thanks for joining the Pastors of Payne!
Understanding the 10 Commandments is an essential part of living a good moral life. Father O'Brien and Father Kerry take a look at the 2nd Commandment of the Decalogue on The Lord's Name. This follows an episode from a few weeks back on the 1st Commandment.
Back on December 2nd, Fr. Kerry gave a talk at Father O'Brien parish for the Saint Francis Xavier Advent Night of Renewal. In this week's podcast, Fr. Kerry gives a summary of the talk and our priests give us some advice on preparing for Christmas 2020 in a difficult time.
Here's the link to Fr. Kerry's talk:
https://youtu.be/d6CHvBoQm20
With December 8th and the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary on the horizon, what's it all about? What is Original Sin? How was Mary saved by Jesus before He was even conceived? Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien break it down.
Happy New Year! Advent 2020 is here and what a time for a fresh start. From violet vestments, to prophetic readings, to Christmas decorations starting to come out, the season of Advent is an opportunity to grow in holiness.
We grow in holiness by following the Commandments so this week, Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien begin a series (over the next several months) on the 10 Commandments beginning with #1- "I am the LORD your God: you shall not have strange Gods before me."
Viva Cristo Rey! Long Live Christ the King! As Ordinary Time comes to an end, the Church puts before us the Solemnity of Christ the King. You'll also love Fr. Kerry's explanation of the the various parallels between earthly kings and Jesus our King. And happy birthday Father O'Brien!
There are many Catholics who are away from their faith. This episode is an invitation to return! You may have been away for a variety of reasons but the Sacrament of Reconciliation and the Holy Mass are waiting for you. You need the Church and the Church needs you!
https://www.catholicscomehome.org
In the month of November, the Church invites the faithful to pray for the souls of the faithful departed. Why? Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien speak to the efficacy of praying for the dead and why we do it.
The Church is the "assembly of all the saints" says the Catechism of the Catholic Church. Father O'Brien and Father Kerry talk us through the Solemnity of All Saints and make many of our heroes come to life. We're all in this together!
Jesus Christ is the Prince of Peace! Do we really believe that? In this episode of "Pastors of Payne" Father O'Brien and Father Kerry discuss how to find peace in a world that often seems chaotic.
With Election 2020 coming up, our priests offer guidance for people of faith on the best way forward. This is ahead of an event this Wednesday at St. John's wherein Fr. O'Brien will speak on the intersection between faith and politics.
Revisiting a topic from an earlier episode but taking it deeper, Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry discuss the intellectual pride that often accompanies atheism. Tune in and pass it on to friends!
Psalm 116 asks "How can I repay the Lord for his goodness to me?" Father O'Brien's parish is in the middle of their annual stewardship renewal which asks parishioners to make commitments of time, talent, and treasure as a response to all that God has done for us. For more information- https://www.sfxstillwater.org/stewardship
Speaking to an often unspoken tragedy, Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about the pain felt in families by miscarriage and early infant loss. This comes ahead of the Friday October 2 Mass at St. Francis Xavier. This episodes will be good for those who have experienced this pain but also to all of us who very likely know a family in pain.
On Saturday September 12th, Fr. Kerry unveiled "Building Saints", a capital campaign to build a new St. John Catholic Student right in the spot where the current St. John's stands. This episode gives out listeners an inside look at the project. Learn more at www.BuildingSaints.com
Atheism is on the rise in the United States. What is it and how are we to respond in love? The podcast coincides with Father O'Brien's upcoming talk at the teenager LifeNight this Sunday. Check it out!
Gossip is everywhere, but it shouldn't be. Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry spend this week's episode drawing out the various kinds of gossip and make clear how dangerous it can be for you and for others.
Father O'Brien shares the dynamic plan for children and youth ministry in Payne County. Xavier Kids, EDGE, and LifeTeen will allow parents and their kids to grow in faith and become disciples of Jesus Christ.
Father Kerry is joined by FOCUS missionary Clayton Caldwell and they are talking about evangelizing the culture with specific references to St. Paul VI. Enjoy!
The four Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John) are widely known. But to whom were they written? On this week's episode Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry dive into the first four books of the New Testament and specifically discuss the audiences of each. It will help you better understand and read God's Word!
Jumping into a debate of the day, Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry speak to the Catholic Church's truly catholic/universal world view that includes images of Jesus and Mary as being from many countries around the world.
With the school year right around the crowd, Fr. Kerry Wakulich tells us (with Fr. O'Brien's help!) about what students and parents can expect for life at St. John Catholic Student Center. From FOCUS missionaries, to Bible studies, to Sunday Mass, daily Mass, Adoration, and Confessions, we've got you covered
The three theological virtues of faith, hope, and love are known to many. In this time of pandemic, hope is something we can use more of. Join Father O'Brien and Father Kerry on a walk through the Catechism and other documents of the Church on the virtue of hope.
As we prepare the celebrate the Memorial of Oklahoma priest and martyr Stanley Rother, our Payne County pastors tell the story of his life and ministry and bring it all back to Stillwater to show that we can do what Blessed Stanley Rother did. We can be missionary disciples here, there, and everywhere.
To learn more about Blessed Stanley Rother- https://archokc.org/stanleyrother
With Fr. Kerry out of town, Fr. O'Brien is joined by Dr. Matt Cabeen, a Catholic and an OSU microbiologist. We're talking about whether science and faith can go together and how the Catholic Church views and relates to the scientific world. Enjoy!
With Fr. O'Brien enjoying the mountains, Fr. Kerry takes the mic for a spirited interview with Benedictine Monk Father Paul Sheller, OSB. Fr. Paul is a Stillwater native and his parents are parishioners at St. Francis Xavier. A former seminarian of the Diocese of Tulsa, Fr. Paul joined Conception Abbey and holds numerous jobs in the monastery there. Enjoy!
When we come to Mass (or in these days, watch it), a sacrifice is taking place. What do we mean by that? Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry are getting theological this week walking you through the true meaning of sacrifice and how Catholicism rings true.
Bringing in the the theology of the Incarnation and of spiritual communion, Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry discuss the efficacy of watching the Mass vs. being present for it. A timely topic indeed!
Joined by Diocese of Tulsa seminarian Leo Morales and on the heels of racial unrest around the country, Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien discuss Corpus Christi and the beautiful graces the Lord gives us through the Eucharist. This includes the grace to really love and welcome all those around us.
Arguments come and go about who is the greatest basketball player of all time. Jordan? LeBron? Kareem? Magic? Kobe? But what can we learn about our spiritual lives from the basketball career of Michael Jordan? This week's podcast and radio show will make you laugh and challenge you to be a better follower of Jesus Christ!
As we celebrate the Solemnity of Pentecost, Father O'Brien and Father Kerry discuss the power of the Holy Spirit in our lives. Over the centuries, various heresies have sprung up that distort true teaching on the Holy Spirit. Listen and find out more!
On Friday May 29, 2020, Fr. Kerry Wakulich celebrates 10 years of priesthood! Our priests look back at the ups and downs of priesthood in the Diocese of Tulsa and Eastern Oklahoma and focus especially on Fr. Kerry's various assignments and his life as a Priest of Jesus Christ!
As the parish gradually opens up from the two month Covid-19 lockdown, Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien talk through what it will be like to publicly celebrate the Mass for the first time since March 19th. You can learn more about the specifics of Mass and Confession times on the parish websites:
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It's Mothers Day and your Pastors of Payne love their moms! Both moms played a huge role in their sons' walk with the Lord and their priestly vocations. Join in the fun as our priests pay tribute their awesome mothers!
During the time of Covid-19, there's a lot of disappointment. RCIA candidates and catechumens, First Communion kids, Confirmation students, no public Easter vigil, having to stay home, not being able to come to Mass, not being able to see our loved ones and so much more bring about disappointment. As people of faith, what do we do with our disappointment?
Listen in as Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry talk us through it all.
In the Easter season, it's common to see media accounts attempting to debunk the historicity of the Resurrection of Jesus. In this episode, Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien are joined by Diocese of Tulsa seminarian Alessandro Calderoni and they discuss the best arguments to prove the resurrection.
During this time of Covid-19, we've been praying the rosary each night at 7:00pm. Hundreds of people has joined us in this nightly ritual. The rosary is a beautiful way to meditate on the life of Jesus Christ and to ask for the prayers of the Blessed Virgin Mary.
In this episode of "Pastors of Payne", Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry talk about how to pray the rosary, the history of the rosary, and the role it's played in their lives.
Happy Easter! This week Fr. O'Brien and Fr. Kerry give insights into what ministry in Payne County looks like in a time of quarantine and social distancing. It would seem that there would not be a lot to do but our priests and working hard to keep people connected and to help everyone to pray.
Recorded before the outbreak of Covid-19, Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien introduce us to the holiest days of the year, Holy Thursday, Good Friday, Holy Saturday, and Easter Sunday leading into the Octave of Easter.
This year's Triduum will be celebrated privately and live streamed at both St. John Catholic Student Center and St. Francis Xavier.
With public celebrations of the Mass on hold across the United States, this is a time to embrace The Liturgy of the Hours. Called "The Prayer of the Church", the Liturgy of the Hours is easily accessible via smartphones and computers and also through the 1 or 4 volume breviary.
Here's the link to the iPhone app- https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ibreviary-ts-plus/id422601705
Android- https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.netguru.ibreviary&hl=en_US
4 volume set- https://www.amazon.com/Liturgy-Hours-Large-Print-Leather/dp/0899427103
Listen in as Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien explain the beauty of the Liturgy of the Hours.
The world is very different than it was just a few days ago. Speaking to the issues on many people's minds, Fr. Kerry and Fr. O'Brien talk about COVID-19, the suspension of the public celebrations of Mass, and how we can carry on.
The Stations of the Cross is a big part of the devotional life of Catholics in Payne County. Offered each Friday of Lent at St. John Catholic Student Center and St. Francis Xavier, the Stations helps us walk through the last hours of Jesus before His death.
Join us for Stations of the Cross here in Stillwater or at a parish near you! Bring the kids, bring friends curious about the Catholic faith.