The UncomMEN Podcast: Recent Episodes
Josh Pacheco and Chris Segura
If you desire to be inspired, then join us as we educate and inspire. Our goal is to create gentleman masculinity in the world by discussing topics that will provoke your spirit and create intriguing thoughts. We want to provide your life with value through the knowledge we have received and also learn from our community. Josh and Chris are businessmen, fathers and family men. They serve their communities in many avenues including athletics. Tune in to learn more! Be uncomMEN!
In this episode we continue our conversation on ways to develop skills with self-reflection. This time the topic is around communication. Asking who, what, when, where, why and how, questions to better understand our purposes and results intended in communicating with others and ourself.
Ask yourself:
Who am I?
What am I?
Why am I?
When am I… said goal.
Where am I?
How am I?
Thank you & God bless
Ask yourself:
Who am I?
What am I?
Why am I?
When am I… going to achieve _____ ?…set date, goal setting, actions needed to reach said goal.
Where am I?
How am I?
What areas of improvement are needed? Examples include:
Communication -
Faith/Spiritual -
Mental/emotional -
Fitness
Thank you & God bless
As we wrap up 2022 we discuss how people change.
We all change. Sometimes is for the better, sometimes it’s not. How do we handle the changes that occur within our relationships? Why is it important to be aware of the change that takes place?
Listen to learn more as we talk about it.
Thank you & God bless
In this episode Josh shares a story of mentoring his son in sports and how gaining permission to provide advice resulted in performance improvement on the field and in life. Chris had previously shared how asking for permission can make all difference in being more capable of helping others and discusses this further.
Being a man means being transparent with yourself and others. Allowing us to use our best strengths and developing our weaknesses through recognizing that we are or may be in a certain area. How allowing faith to pursue in our life creating a deeper relationship with God by permitting him to move in and through our life.
Thank you & God bless
Are Men only valued for what they can provide?
Are we always living in "Super Man Mode"?
This and more as we chat about the double life lived as Dad's and more.
Never take for granted how close or far your network is. Building relationships help provide opportunities to reach your ultimate goals.
In this episode we discuss the joys and challenges of serving, completing, and finding your mission of service.
And how it may be a season or a life journey. But that being obedient to the Holy Spirit is key.
- A leader needs the guts to stand alone and look ridiculous.
- But what the leader is doing is so simple it is almost instructional.
a. this is Key - you must be easy to follow. - The first follower has a crucial role. - He publicly shows everyone else how to follow. You stand out and brave ridicule yourself. This is an under appreciated form of leadership
- The 1st follower transforms the lone nut into a leader.
- If the leader is the flint. The 1st follower is the spark that makes the fire.
- The 2nd follower is a turning point. It must be public and everyone must see the followers because new followers emulate followers not the leader.
- Now more followers arrive and this is the tipping point. More followers join in and now it is no longer risky to be a follower. They won’t stand out, they won’t be ridiculed and they will be a part of the in crowd.
- Recap -
1. nurture your 1st few followers as equals.
2. Make it about the movement not you
3. be public
4. be easy to follow
5. know that leadership is over glorified
6. It is the 1st follower that transfers a lone nut into a leader.
7. Courageously follow when you see a lone nut doing something great
8. have the guts to be the first person to stand up and join in!
We end our first ever book review in a 5 part series, discussing physical touch and how you too can show love to your loved ones through physical touch, if that is their love language.
Here we talk about the challenges and benefits of showing love to your wife, partner, friend of loved one through their love language of acts of service.
Check out our take on receiving gifts as a love language. How to interpret the dialects and facing challenges of learning and understanding yours and others love languages.
Our take on understanding quality time and how to ensure your loved one feels the love.
We discuss our take on each love language. What are the benefits? How can these languages help you? And much more.
We discuss men’s health and how we have been impacted. We share what we are doing to advocate for men’s health awareness and why we do it. We share our stories regarding ALS aka Lou Gehrig's disease and Pulmonary Fibrosis.
We discuss how to apologize, what does that mean and why it needs to happen. How to be responsible for your own mistakes and how to also forgive others. It takes courage, vulnerability and an understanding of potential expectations that may occur after the fact of handling a tough conversation. Sometimes it is a simple situation and sometimes it it more complicated.
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