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s role in our lives. A mindful approach can help reinforce the value of human relationships, underpinning interactions with technological advancements.This episode is a valuable resource for Christian parents navigating the complexities of raising children in an AI-driven world. Parents can foster a strong Christian environment that embraces innovation and spiritual growth by incorporating faith into technology discussions. * * * * Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend!You can find a list of all our episodes here.
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s Existence: Your child comes home questioning, “Is God real?” Lori and Lee Ann offer invaluable advice in addressing this with both younger and older children. They discuss how to explain the nature of God—His spiritual essence, the historical reality of Jesus, and using examples like the wind and gravity to convey the evidence of God’s presence.Teaching the Importance of Sexual Purity: What do you say when your teenager asserts, “Sex between two people who love each other is okay”? Lori and Lee Ann address this hot-button issue by discussing God’s design for relationships, the spiritual significance of sex within marriage, and the importance of grace and redemption. They reflect on lessons from the purity movement and how to convey God’s high view of marriage without alienating your kids.Combating Perceptions of the Bible as a Fairy Tale: How do you react if your child labels the Bible a fairy tale? Both ladies tackle this question by emphasizing the importance of apologetics, historical validity, and the unique nature of the Bible. They point to resources such as Answers in Genesis and the work of historians. They explore ways to engage your child in meaningful dialogue, reinforcing the Bible’s authenticity and relevance.Key Takeaways: Engage in open, honest conversations with your children. Ask questions to understand their doubts and guide them thoughtfully. Equip yourself and your kids with resources to defend and deepen your faith. Books like Raising Kids to Follow Christ by Lee Ann Mancini offer practical applications for everyday parenting. Recognize and address the pressures from society while providing a foundation of grace and truth in your family discussions.Lori’s Website, Facebook, Moms Together Facebook, Moms Together Facebook Group, and Instagram.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
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How do you think having a mentor can impact your journey as a parent?Candace is a dedicated follower of Jesus Christ, wife, and mother of three adult children. She is also a visionary women’s ministry leader, disciple maker, and experienced Bible study teacher with a strong understanding of women’s needs. In 2021, she founded MomQ, a Christian Mom Community based in Austin, TX. Their mission is to equip moms with biblical wisdom to build strong families and raise children of character.
During this episode, Candace discusses her amazing organization, MomQ, and how it can support moms all over the world.
Highlights of the episode:
- Uncover the essence of this community-driven group that focuses on authentic conversations, biblical wisdom, and holistic support for moms. Learn about their unique approach encapsulated by the “Q” – which stands for quotient, enhancing moms’ spiritual and practical knowledge.
- Support for the whole mom: Understand how MomQ differentiates itself by focusing on not just parenting but also supporting marriages, personal well-being, and self-care. Listen to Candice discuss why grounding a mom’s identity in Christ is crucial for enriching every aspect of her life.
- Real talk on relevant issues: From dealing with mom guilt and easing anxieties to understanding the purpose of parenting through Deuteronomy 6:4-7, Candice and Lee Ann delve into pressing challenges with a biblical lens. Get insights on mental health, resolving conflicts, and why God allows suffering.
- Encouraging overwhelmed moms: Candice shares heartfelt advice for those swamped by life’s demands. She points to powerful scriptures like Isaiah 43:1- 3 for comfort and emphasizes the importance of community, urging moms to join supportive groups and seek trusted mentors.
- Exciting developments: Discover MomQ’s fresh venture into video-based curriculum launching this fall, designed to support churches and broader Christian communities.
Lee Ann and Candice weave together personal experiences, biblical principles, and practical advice to fortify your parenting journey and deepen your faith. Tune in now to hear the full conversation, and don’t miss Candice’s encouraging words on prioritizing what matters in your family life!
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If you’re a parent or mentor who’s guiding young hearts towards Christ, you do not want to miss this episode!J. Warner Wallace is a Dateline featured Cold-Case Detective, Author, Speaker, Senior Fellow at the Colson Center for Christian Worldview, and Adjunct Professor of Apologetics at Talbot School of Theology (Biola University), Gateway Seminary and Southern Evangelical Seminary.
During this episode, J. Warner discusses his groundbreaking new book, The Truth in True Crime. J. Warner’s unparalleled experience in true crime offers a unique perspective on human nature and the universal quest for the truth.
Key Takeaways:1. Discovering the Hidden Truths: J. delves into how our children are often exposed to a culture that dismisses Christianity as outdated or even harmful. Learn how to equip your kids with the knowledge and resilience they need to stand firm in their faith amid an increasingly critical society. 2. Unearthing Life Lessons from True Crime: He explores the compelling connection between his experiences as a detective and the fundamental principles of Christianity. His book Person of Interest talks about why Jesus still matters when the world rejects the Bible and includes 15 crime stories that show why Christianity describes us as humans the way we really are. 3. Understanding the Importance of Marriage: Addressing a pivotal yet controversial topic, J. reveals the data-backed benefits of traditional marriage and its crucial role in human flourishing. This segment is particularly valuable for parents guiding teens and young adults toward making wise, intentional choices about their future spouses. 4. Balancing Truth and Grace: One of the most challenging aspects of Christian parenting is teaching children to balance the fullness of truth and grace. He provides a powerful framework for fostering an environment where both justice and mercy thrive, echoing the perfect love of God. 5. Engaging the Youth: J.’s book isn’t just for parents; it’s a must-read for teens and young adults too. With true crime emerging as a highly engaging genre, it’s the perfect gateway to deeper conversations about theology, morality, and Christian living.
🎧 Tune in to get a unique blend of true crime intrigue, practical life lessons, and Christian apologetics that will surely resonate with you and your teens.
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Looking for a fresh, grounded approach to Christian parenting amidst the chaos of modern life?Brenda L. Yoder is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, school counselor, speaker, and author of Uncomplicated: Simple Secrets for a Compelling Life. She’s also authored Fledge: Launching Your Kids Without Losing Your Mind, Balance, Busyness & Not Doing It All, and has been featured in The Washington Post, Guideposts, and Chicken Soup for the Soul books. She hosts the Life Beyond the Picket Fence podcast and co-hosts the Midlife Mom Podcast and Midlife Mom Facebook Community. Brenda specializes in faith, life, and family beyond the storybook image.
During this episode, Brenda discusses her latest book, Uncomplicated: Simple Secrets for a Compelling Life. Brenda, who has experience from life on a simple Amish farm to in-depth mental health counseling, sheds light on how to lead a purpose-driven, family-centered life in today’s fast-paced world. Together, Brenda and Lee Ann discuss how the simplicity and resilience found in traditional, hands-on experiences can benefit family life in our overcomplicated, tech-heavy society.
Key Takeaways:
- Life skills rediscovered: Brenda identifies essential life skills, such as problem-solving, prudence, and self-control, which are crucial for raising resilient and faith-grounded children.
- Common-sense approach: Through relatable anecdotes and practical wisdom, she explores how common sense, backed by both neuroscience and biblical principles, can guide parents in nurturing their kids effectively.
- Building values: With compelling arguments, Brenda underlines the importance of teaching values like interdependence and responsibility, showing how even simple family chores can have a lasting impact.
- Mental health insights: For parents struggling with anxiety and overburden, she draws from her counseling expertise, providing doable strategies to regain peace and focus on what truly matters.
- Practical and scriptural ties: Each chapter in Brenda’s book ties practical advice to scriptural foundations, offering a holistic and faith-affirming perspective that’s bound to inspire Christian parents.
Ready to turn your chaotic routine into a meaningful, peaceful, and faith-filled family experience? Learn how to uncomplicate your parenting journey and instill confidence, resilience, and faith in both you and your children!
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“When we detach value from certain behavior and attach it to what Christ says is the most valuable, then we’re not sending our kids back into that comparison trap.” – Lee NienhuisLee Nienhuis is an author, speaker, and Bible teacher. She co-hosts the Martha & Mary Show and the You Can Tell the Children podcast with Bible2School. Lee’s books Brave Moms, Brave Kids and Countercultural Parenting are a clarion call for parents looking to raise wholehearted Christ followers. Lee and her husband, Mike, have four kids and live in West Michigan.
During this episode, Lee Nienhuis discusses her newest book, which she co-authored with Shannon Hopkin, Comparison Girl for Teens, and how it can help teens navigate the complex world of teenage comparison and peer pressure. Lee shares practical tips and steps parents can take to foster an environment of support, affirmation, and biblical values, steering their daughters away from the pitfalls of comparison.
Key Takeaways:
- Focus on having regular and meaningful conversations with your teenagers. This can help build a trusting relationship where they feel comfortable discussing their struggles and triumphs.
- Model positive behavior and be mindful of your own comparisons and criticisms, especially in front of your children. Avoid self-deprecating comments about your appearance or abilities.
- Instead of comparing your teenagers to others, highlight and encourage their unique strengths and talents. Praise their efforts and the qualities that make them special.
- Emphasize biblical values by helping your children understand their worth through the lens of their faith. Use biblical statements of value and worth that emphasize God’s love and purpose for them, independent of societal metrics.
- If you realize you’ve made unfair comparisons or set unrealistic expectations, sit down with your child and apologize. This models humility and the importance of seeking forgiveness.
- Be proactive in managing your teenager’s time on social media. Encourage offline activities that build self-worth and community.
- Teach your teens that success isn’t solely about academic achievements or career milestones but about being in the center of God’s will and being faithful, kind, and loving individuals.
- Invest in helpful resources like the Comparison Girl for Teens. These tools can provide structured guidance and topics for family discussions that foster spiritual growth.
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“So, the argument I make is let’s try to be ambassadors of the kingdom of God around issues of sexuality and gender. And so, ambassadorship should be characterized by these 3 c’s: it’s conviction, it’s civility, and it’s compassion.” – Dr. Mark Yarhouse.Mark Yarhouse, Psy.D., is the Dr. Arthur P. and Mrs. Jean May Rech Chair in Psychology at Wheaton College. Dr. Yarhouse has spent several years promoting dialogue between people who view the topic of sexual identity differently.
During this episode, Dr. Yarhouse dives into the complex and often misunderstood topic of gender dysphoria and how parents can navigate these conversations with their children. He emphasizes the importance of the “3 C’s”—conviction, civility, and compassion—when addressing issues of gender and sexuality from a Christian perspective. Additionally, he discusses the valuable resources available through the Gender Identity Institute at Wheaton College, aimed at supporting families dealing with these challenges.
Key Takeaways:
- Importance of addressing misinformation about gender identity.
- The 3 C’s: conviction, civility, and compassion.
- Culture warrior and cultural capitulation models.
- Ambassadorship as an alternative model.
- The importance of respectful dialogue with those holding different views.
- Equating approach towards gender dysphoria with approaches to other beliefs (e.g., atheism, alcoholism).
- Difference between chapter-and-verse Christians and those who follow broad themes from scripture.
- Parental support strategies for kids suffering from gender dysphoria:
- Reducing fear and anxiety.
- Developing a Christian understanding of sexuality and gender.
- Seeking professional help if needed.
- Resources and services provided by the Gender Identity Institute of Wheaton College.
- The importance of having open conversations about gender from a young age.
- Potential causes of gender dysphoria and the most popular theory: intersex condition of the brain.
- Validation of the experiences of individuals with gender dysphoria.
- Differentiating between genuine gender dysphoria and cultural trends.
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What do you think of the idea of starting a prayer with “amen”? How do you think it might change the way you approach prayer?Beth Guckenberger and her husband, Todd, live with their family in Cincinnati, Ohio, where they serve as Co-Executive Directors of Back2Back Ministries. After graduating from Indiana University, the Guckenbergers moved to Monterrey, Mexico, where they lived for 15 years. Between biological, foster, and adopted children, they have raised eleven children. Beth is the author of eleven books, including adult and children’s titles. She travels and speaks regularly at conferences, youth gatherings, and church services about reckless faith. Her style is based on storytelling, and she draws from her vast field experience as a missionary, Bible teacher, and parent for illustrations of biblical concepts.
During this episode, Beth explores the transformative power of starting prayers with “Amen” and delves into heartfelt stories and biblical insights from her latest books, Start with Amen and The Heart Who Wanted to Be Whole. She shares personal anecdotes and valuable lessons on parenting, spirituality, and equipping children with tools to face life’s challenges.
🎙️ Key Points:* The importance of addressing the root causes of a child’s behavior rather than merely focusing on their actions. * Negative behaviors are often rooted in deeper self-image issues and lies believed by the child. An exercise of focusing on truths from the Bible to positively influence a child’s belief system. * The concept of the “Christian F-word” – The word”Fine” challenges parents to foster deeper conversations and connections with their children. * The inspiration behind her beautifully illustrated children’s book, designed to teach kids about spiritual warfare and the power of God’s truth – the book is a resource for parents seeking to introduce their children to complex spiritual concepts in a relatable way. * Encouragement to parents, reminding them that the journey of raising Christian kids is long but filled with opportunities to reinforce core values and spiritual truths.
✨ What You’ll Takeaway:* The transformative power of beginning your prayers with “Amen.” * Strategies to connect with your children on a deeper level and address behavioral issues at their core. * How to introduce your children to the concept of spiritual warfare in a loving and non-scary way. * The importance of instilling biblical truths in everyday conversations.
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Why should you homeschool?Monica Swanson is a popular blogger (monicaswanson.com), host of the Monica Swanson Podcast (formerly the Boy Mom podcast), and author of Boy Mom, Raising Amazing, and her newest book, Becoming Homeschoolers.
During this episode, Monica shares her experiences raising her four sons in Hawaii and delves into the joys and challenges of homeschooling. She discusses the reasons why families should consider homeschooling, dispels common misconceptions, and provides valuable insights into creating a strong family dynamic through homeschooling.
Key Takeaways:
- Reasons for homeschooling:
- Relationships with kids.
- Academic performance.
- Customized education.
- Enhanced sleep quality for children.
- Avoidance of school-related negative aspects like violence and bullying.
- Protection from cultural influences and worldviews.
- Addressing common reasons for not homeschooling:
- Resources available for working parents.
- Obtaining help and support for homeschooling and creative ways to balance work and homeschooling.
- Considering alternative options during times of personal or family crisis.
- Downfalls of transitioning to homeschooling at the secondary level and not at the beginning:
- Changes in the current educational landscape
- Introduction of anti-biblical concepts in elementary schools
- Challenges of transitioning children to homeschooling after they are influenced by public school dynamics.
- The importance of establishing the homeschooling rhythm from a young age.
- Takeaways from her book Becoming Homeschoolers:
- Providing a comprehensive guidebook for families.
- Offering encouragement and inspiration.
- Emphasizing the life-changing experience of homeschooling.
- Mentioning the value of education beyond academics.
- Encouraging parents to give their children an education and a family life they will appreciate in the future.
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“We can’t just stop at transforming the mind. We can’t just have our kids act like Christians. They might say the right thing. They may know what to say to make mom and dad happy, but we want that heart transformation.” – Lauren Gaines.Lauren Gaines is a wife, mother, author, and teacher. She is the creator of Inspired Motherhood, a thriving online community equipping parents to raise up the next generation with boldness. Lauren has a unique parenting approach, as she’s a busy mom of three children and holds a master’s degree in school psychology. Her newest book, Unshakable Kids: Three Keys to Raising Spiritually Strong and Emotionally Healthy Children, equips parents to raise strong kids even in a broken world. When Lauren isn’t writing, you can find her enjoying the outdoors with her family, experimenting with her camera, or putting on a variety show with her kids.
During this episode, Lauren shares her insights on parenting and discusses the importance of an authoritative approach to raising resilient and unwavering children. She dives into the key areas of mind, heart, and identity, offering practical tips for nurturing strong Christian kids in today’s challenging world.
Key Takeaways:
- Rising anxiety in adults and children, including those in the church, and Lauren’s personal experience with anxiety and its impact on her children.
- Recognizing overwhelming feelings in parents and children and seeking to address anxious behaviors.
- The importance of addressing the mind, heart, and identity in raising strong Christian kids.
- Using the cognitive triangle to identify feelings, thoughts, and actions.
- Ensuring a transformation of the heart, not just actions or behaviors.
- Teaching children their identity in Christ and building self-esteem from a biblical perspective.
- Bringing God into everyday life to develop a personal relationship with Him.
- “I’ll be happy when” mindset and its impact on happiness.
- The importance of savoring moments to experience gratitude and living in the present.
- Reflecting on the importance of slowing down and appreciating the little things in life.
- The definition of authoritative parenting as warm, sensitive, and balanced.
- Balancing love, discipline, and autonomy for children as they grow.
- The drawbacks of wanting to be too much of a friend to kids than a parent.
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“The last thing is scripture and prayer. It’s a practice, more than a technique. It’s a demonstration of being obedient to stay connected to God.” – Rhonda Stoppe.Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”!
During this episode of Digging Deeper, all three ladies share insightful advice and practical tips on managing stress, maintaining composure, and navigating the aftermath of lashing out in anger. From understanding the impact of emotions on both parents and kids to embracing grace and seeking forgiveness, they offer valuable guidance for parents seeking to create a peaceful and loving environment for their families.
Key Takeaways:
- Impact of parental stress on children’s behavior.
- Understanding the fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses in stress.
- Effects of parental lack of regulation on children and practical ways for parents to regulate themselves and their children.
- Importance of deep breathing and bilateral stimulation tapping.
- Incorporating prayer and scripture to cope with stress.
- Lessons from the behavior of Christ in stressful situations.
- Importance of mindful awareness to understand anxiety triggers and being able to identify and address personal triggers and fears.
- The danger of allowing stress to manifest as anger.
- Understanding and addressing personal idols affecting stress responses.
- Modeling healthy stress responses to teach children productive coping skills.
- Intentional alignment with Christ’s perspective.
- Making amends without making excuses for outbursts.
- Seeking forgiveness from children and setting an example of humility.
“Make amends, don’t make excuses. So, the best question you can ask is, ‘Tell me how I hurt you when I responded that way.'” – Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield.
Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield’s books.
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“Investigation is critical for our kids to understand and not to be afraid of it.” – Lori Wildenberg.Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.
During this episode of MOMents, both ladies dive into the complex theme of deconstruction and how it relates to teenagers and their faith. They explore the signs parents can look out for, the stages of questioning, and how to support and guide teenagers through these challenging times.
Both ladies also emphasize the necessity of fostering open dialogue with teenagers and encouraging critical thinking while remaining rooted in biblical truths. Offering solace and reassurance, Lori and Lee Ann emphasize the power of prayer and the role of the community in providing steadfast support during times of spiritual turmoil.
Key Takeaways:
- Understanding deconstruction versus investigation.
- Investigating and questioning the faith and the importance of not being afraid of investigation.
- Transition from investigation to dissecting biblical truths.
- Emphasizing the importance of prayer.
- Addressing signs and symptoms of deconstruction.
- Recognizing the importance of understanding autonomy in teenagers.
- Establishing a family mission statement and rules for disobedience.
- Identifying social and personal factors contributing to doubt.
- Addressing the impact of personal wounding on faith, understanding grief, and responding to deep emotional loss.
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Hannah Pierrou is a long-time photographer, designer, and artist. She started the shop and publishing company Treehouse Storytellers as a way to bring wholesome and biblical resources to parents and their children. She is passionate about spreading the Gospel and helping fellow parents train up their kids with a biblical worldview. Hannah and her husband and three kids live in the Colorado foothills on a small hobby farm. She is also the host of the new and growing Treehouse Storyteller podcast.
During this episode, Hannah delves into the inspiration behind her new book, Miss understood, as listeners will be drawn into her heartfelt account of receiving a divine calling to write the story and its uplifting message about God’s promises. Through her beautifully illustrated book, Hannah aims to bring hope and restoration to the next generation by rediscovering the true significance of the rainbow in a biblical context. Hannah also touches on topics such as parenting in a “sideways” culture, equipping parents with solutions, and instilling biblical foundations in children’s lives.
Here are some key takeaways and tips from this episode:
- Focus on biblical principles: Encourage kids to understand and live by the foundational truths of the Bible, instilling them with a sense of purpose and faith.
- Embrace Hope and Restoration: Through stories and illustrations, convey the hope and restoration found in God’s love, emphasizing redemption and forgiveness. This can be done through engaging books, art, and everyday conversations.
- Compassionate Communication: Teach kids to embrace compassionate and empathetic communication, reaching out with the love of Jesus to people from all walks of life.
- Cultivate a God-Centered Home Environment: Create a nurturing home environment where biblical values are not only taught but practiced, encouraging kids to seek God’s promises in their daily lives.
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Teenagers have a huge influence on each other. Let’s equip them to be disciples for Christ!During this episode, Lee Ann reflects on her own teenage years and the influence that friends had on her decision-making. She shares insights on how to raise teenagers to be the best disciples for Christ and equip them to share His message with others.
She also elaborates on five key points to help parents and guardians guide their teens in becoming counter-culture warriors and strong Christian ambassadors:
- Cultivating a home environment rooted in faith: Lee Ann stresses the importance of fostering a heavenly atmosphere within the home through prayer, worship, and engagement with Christian materials.
- Emphasizing honor and serving others: Encouraging teens to honor their parents and others, thus learning the value of serving God and honoring those in authority.
- Choosing friends wisely and extending unconditional love: Assisting teens in making wise choices in friendships and demonstrating unconditional love, even towards those who may be challenging to love.
- Initiating conversations about God: Helping teens engage in meaningful conversations about faith and providing them with resources to navigate discussions with their peers.
- Role-playing and preparation: Supporting teens by role-playing scenarios they may encounter and preparing them to address challenging situations with love and wisdom.
In a world where the secular culture often challenges Christian values, it’s crucial for us to equip and support our teens in becoming counter-culture warriors, sharing God’s love and truth with their peers.
The article mentioned: “10 Social Issues and Problems That Trouble Today’s Teens” by Charissa Chamorro with CSW.
“How often do you pray at home, study the word of God, listen to worship music, prepare to serve others, read Christian materials, or watch Christian movies? Do you have a family mission statement or a disciplinary contract? Do you, as a family, discuss how you will serve others and the community? Is your family active in church? All of that is so, so important!” – Lee Ann Mancini.
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“We wanted to encourage girls that they’re designed to have good friendships. And the source of that is God.” – Blythe Daniel.Blythe Daniel is the co-author of Mended, and I Love You, Mom!, which she wrote with her mother, Dr. Helen McIntosh. She worked for Harper Collins Christian Publishing in marketing and publicity and now enjoys her work as a literary agent.
Calyn Daniel, one of Blythe’s daughters, is a middle schooler who loves spending time with her friends and family, including her older sister, Maris, and twin brother, William, who is also an author. Calyn believes girls need to know who they are in Christ, how to navigate friend groups—especially when they change—and how to not lose sight of who God has made them to be.
Together, they wrote the book Let’s Be Friends: A Tween Devotional on Finding and Keeping Strong Friendships, which offers tween girls helpful advice on how to find and maintain beneficial friendships with faith at the forefront.
During this episode, Blythe and Calyn share their insights on why they decided to write this book and how this book can serve as a guide for girls who may feel lost in their friendships with friends, family, and even God. Developing meaningful friendships is a vital skill for tween girls, shaping their emotional and spiritual growth and empowering them to positively impact others with their unique talents. This book guides girls in distinguishing between healthy and harmful friendships, navigating conflicts, staying authentic, and exploring other essential aspects of friendship. Each section features heartfelt wisdom on friendship and includes carefully chosen Scripture verses, words of encouragement, and reflective questions with ample space for personal responses.
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“Listening to God speak to us through his holy spirit will help us to have a robust prayer life, where we learn how to be in conversation with the Lord.” – Lee Ann ManciniDo you ever find yourself repeating the same prayers, feeling like your prayer life has become more of a routine than a sacred privilege? How can we, along with our children, engage in genuine and meaningful conversations with God that fill us with joy, keeping us connected to the Almighty, the great I Am?
During this episode, Lee Ann discusses the significance of prayer in our lives and the lives of our children. She shares her personal reflections on the depth and meaning of prayer, acknowledging the challenges and the desire for a more profound connection with God. Lee Ann also explores the ways in which parents can engage in genuine and meaningful conversations with God and how they can guide their children to experience a rich and impactful prayer life.
Key Takeaways:
- Realizing the significance of genuine and meaningful conversations with God.
- Recognizing the routine nature of prayer and the desire for a deeper connection with God.
- Exploring different ways and times to pray and highlighting the need for consistent and frequent prayer.
- Introducing the concept of praying in different personalities for a deeper connection with God.
- Referencing biblical instruction on how to pray.
- Emphasizing the importance of acknowledging God’s holiness and aligning with heavenly principles in prayer.
- PRAY – Praise, repent, ask, and yield.
- Encouraging the use of simple and varied prayers, including praise and gratitude.
- Utilizing the Psalms as guidance for prayers, showcasing a wide range of human emotions in communication with God.
- Encouraging support and intercessory prayers for others to foster a robust prayer life.
Resources mentioned: Praying through Every Emotion, by Linda Evans Shepherd & Praying Personalities, by Janet McHenry.
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“Most people’s biggest problem with homeschooling is they don’t really believe that they’re good parents. And that’s why the subtitle became How Amazing Parents Become Excellent Home Educators because you are an amazing parent because you are the parent that God created specifically for that child whether by birth or by choice. God put that child in your family. ” – Leslie Nunnery.Leslie Nunnery is a prominent figure in the Christian homeschooling community. As the co-founder of Teach Them Diligently, she has dedicated herself to providing resources and experiences to strengthen Christian homeschooling families.
Leslie is also an accomplished author, with several books on parenting and homeschooling to her name, including Teach Them Diligently: Raising Children of Promise and Heart School: How Amazing Parents Become Excellent Home Educators. In addition to her writing, she is a sought-after speaker and the host of the Teach Them Diligently podcast, where she shares her expertise and passion for educating and equipping parents to realize their call and execute it well.
During this episode, Leslie shares her unique perspective on homeschooling and parenting. She discusses how her new book differs from other homeschooling books and how it can benefit all parents, regardless of their approach to education.
Key Takeaways:
- Common misconceptions about homeschooling:
- Fear of not being “enough” as a parent and educator.
- Shifting the focus to understanding the primary mission of homeschooling.
- The mission is to disciple and shepherd the hearts of children.
- Homeschooling is a tool to complement the mission of discipleship.
- How Heart School can be used as a tool to help see the alignment between the educational outlet used and the family’s call.
- Emphasis on being amazing parents to become excellent home educators.
- Addressing parental doubts and instilling confidence in the parenting role.
“Teach Them Diligently is here to really help reorient families to see their main mission is to disciple and shepherd the hearts of their children, bring them to Jesus, and then homeschooling actually becomes a fabulous compliment for that.” – Leslie Nunnery.
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Why should you be taking a parenting class?During this episode, host Lee Ann Mancini dives into the importance of parenting classes and the profound impact of raising children in the Christian faith. She discusses the essential role parents play as spiritual leaders in their children’s lives and emphasizes the significance of equipping ourselves to be the very best for our children, instilling in them a deep love for God and his word.
Addressing the importance of continuous learning and growth, Lee Ann encourages listeners to view parenting as a calling, blessing, and honor. She emphasizes the impact that proper parenting can have on shaping children’s future faith and, ultimately, the preservation of Christianity. Lee Ann also acknowledges the challenges of raising children in today’s world and offers a compelling argument for the necessity of equipping oneself through parenting classes.
Key Takeaways:
- How parenting classes can help you increase your knowledge in becoming better at the craft of parenting.
- The importance of educating ourselves to become the best spiritual leaders for our children.
- Being chosen by God to raise children in His image.
- Imparting values through actions and words and showing commitment to living out and sharing faith.
- Preparing children for their divine purpose.
- Instilling unwavering love for God and His Word and equipping them to stand firm in their faith.
- The need for planning and training to raise spiritual champions.
- Being proactive in training children against spiritual warfare.
- Necessity for good planning and diligent implementation.
- Making disciples as instructed in Matthew 28:19-20.
“To prepare them for the Lord’s divine purpose for their lives, we must instill in our children a deep, unwavering love for God and His word.” – Lee Ann Mancini.
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“The peace that prayer brings is that it’s really less about answers and it’s more about access. The fact that we have this privilege of being able to go to God. And so, as we pray, we become more like Him.” – Janet McHenry.Janet McHenry is a national speaker and the author of 26 books–seven on prayer, including the best-selling PrayerWalk and her newest, Praying Personalities: Finding Your Natural Prayer Style. She coordinates the prayer ministries at her church in Reno and serves on the California leadership team for the National Day of Prayer. A former high school English teacher, she and her high school sweetheart husband Craig raised their four kids in the Sierra Valley, where he is a rancher. They love nothing better than watching their adult kids and grandkids play whiffle ball in the backyard or kayak on nearby mountain lakes.
During this episode, Janet discusses the importance of prayer in children’s lives and shares insights from her book Raising Personalities: Finding Your Natural Prayer Style. She elaborates on how different biblical praying styles can help parents understand their children’s unique approaches to prayer. From problem solvers to peace seekers, Janet provides valuable advice on fostering a natural and enjoyable prayer practice for kids.
Key Takeaways:
- The four main categories of biblical praying personalities: problem solver, friend of God, organized lamenter, and peace seeker.
- How biblical figures exhibited the different praying styles (Moses, Gideon, Abraham, Daniel, and Josiah).
- Observing children’s personalities to identify their natural prayer style.
- Navigating children towards their natural prayer style to make prayer more natural for them.
- Addressing specific scenarios for different prayer personalities (dinner time prayer, introverted children).
- Overcoming time constraints and lack of knowledge on how to pray with children.
- Incorporating personal quiet time with open-handed prayer.
- Following the example of Paul as an “on the run intercessor” to navigate daily challenges.
- Take the Praying Personality Quiz here to help you discover how God designed you to connect with prayer.
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“We do not need to be ‘punishing’ our children because Christ already took the punishment.” – Sarah R. MooreRaising Christian Kids has decided to re-release our disciplining series, which was originally released in March of 2023. We feature experts who share their knowledge and are passionate about helping parents and caregivers navigate the rough waters of disciplining. We cover many topics, such as disciplining strong-willed children and children with varying cognitive abilities, the different types of consequences, and the most problematic issues parents face in today’s chaotic society. The wisdom that’s shared will hopefully help you raise children who are teachable and obedient to you and, most importantly, obedient to God.
Sarah R. Moore is the author of Peaceful Discipline: Story Teaching, Brain Science, and Better Behavior and the founder of Dandelion Seeds Positive Parenting. She’s a public speaker, an armchair, a neuroscientist, and, most importantly, a mother and a daughter of Christ. Sarah is a lifelong learner with training in child development, trauma recovery, interpersonal neurobiology, and improv comedy. As a certified master trainer in conscious parenting, she helps bring joy, ease, and connection back to families around the globe.
During this episode, Sarah discusses how emotional safety and connection can be used in our parenting to discipline more effectively and more like Jesus! She elaborates on the following key points from her book, Peaceful Discipline:
- Some of the many ways Jesus taught people throughout the Bible can be used in parenting when disciplining children.
- We can teach our children the story of Zacchaeus from the Bible. He was a tax collector known as a bad guy who sinned often; instead of punishing and perishing him, God taught him through emotional safety and connection that there was another way.
- Jesus also taught through parables – it was always connection-based, and these stories illustrate what God’s love is like and how to live for God.
- We all have a part of the brain called the hippocampus, which allows everyone to be a natural storyteller and create narrative memories.
- When we directly access the hippocampus part of a child’s brain, it is emotionally safe for them, and we are using a tool that Jesus used himself.
- Jesus took all the punishment for all his believers; therefore, we do not have to punish our children, although there are consequences for their behavior.
- When we look at our children, we can see our father’s face in Heaven.
“Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” – Romans 8:1.
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Discipline, instruction, and guidance… what do you think when you hear those words?Are you ready to dive back into the world of Christian disciplining?
Raising Christian Kids has decided to re-release our disciplining series, which was originally released in March of 2023. We feature experts who share their knowledge and are passionate about helping parents and caregivers navigate the rough waters of disciplining. We cover many topics, such as disciplining strong-willed children and children with varying cognitive abilities, the different types of consequences, and the most problematic issues parents face in today’s chaotic society. The wisdom that’s shared will hopefully help you raise children who are teachable and obedient to you and, most importantly, obedient to God.
During this episode, Lee Ann will dive into what she believes can be the first step in disciplining: creating a discipline plan for your children.
Some tips to help you begin your disciplining journey:
- Pray for guidance – ask God to help you develop a discipline plan that best serves the children in your care.
- Get input from your children – ask them what they think would be helpful to learn and consider their suggestions as you develop your plan.
- Be consistent with your rules and expectations.
- Avoid physical punishment.
- Use logical consequences.
- Be patient, and remember that your children are still learning.
- Explain to them your reasons for disciplining them.
- Apologize to your child if you lose your temper.
- Always show love and grace towards your child.
Once you develop your plan, you can consider what areas of your life you need to work on and create a list of specific goals you would like to accomplish. Once you have your goals in mind, start working on a daily or weekly schedule to help you stay on track. Include regular Bible reading and prayer time, and ensure your other outside activities support those goals. And don’t be afraid to ask for help from a friend or mentor who can help to hold you accountable.
Hopefully, we can all learn to discipline with a positive attitude, a humble spirit, and a servant’s heart!
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“I was seeing the books that were at the library, and it just became very obvious to me that the world is not shy about putting out their agenda to our children. So, we should also, as Christians, not be shy about giving our worldview to children. I wanted to come up with something that would help kids and parents have conversations about Jesus.” – Brenna Milleville.Brenna Milleville is a wife of 10 years and mother to her 4-year-old, Grace. After attending a Christian conference in 2016, she was called to start a Christian apparel company and ellyandgrace was started. Seven years later, Brenna and her team have printed and shipped over 500,000 pieces of apparel around the world from their Missouri-based office and over 30,000 Christian embroidery kits that help women relax. They recently launched the So Loved Book and Doll Collection, created to help teach children important biblical concepts in a relatable way.
During this episode, Brenna shares the heartwarming story behind her creation, from her inspiration at a Christian conference to the launch of her beautifully crafted books and dolls. The collection focuses on teaching important biblical concepts in a relatable way and offers parents and children a unique avenue to explore faith together. Through this engaging conversation, struggling parents are assured that they are not alone in their endeavor to guide their little ones toward a deeper understanding of Christ’s teachings.
Brenna details the collection’s three books and dolls, each thoughtfully crafted to explore essential biblical concepts like the Fruit of the Spirit, forgiveness, and more. The inclusivity of characters and themes ensures that children from various backgrounds can find relatable representations, fostering a sense of belonging and understanding.
She also imparts valuable advice for aspiring business owners, emphasizing the significance of passion and originality in any venture. Her testimony inspires individuals contemplating their own entrepreneurial journey and instills a sense of purpose and resilience in facing the challenges that accompany business ownership.
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“Conflict is normal, and there is nothing wrong necessarily with your relationship if you have conflict. So, there’s nothing wrong with your family if you have conflict. There’s nothing necessarily wrong with your marriage if you have conflict. There’s nothing necessarily wrong with a child and a friend if they have conflict. Conflict is part of life. Conflict in itself is not good or bad. What makes conflict good or bad is not its presence, but our practices in the midst of its presence.” – Donna Jones.Donna Jones is a national speaker, author, and pastor’s wife with over three decades of ministry experience. A graduate of UCLA, she’s spoken in twenty-six states and on four continents.
During this episode, Donna talks about handling conflict in a healthy and peaceful way within our families. She shares insights from her book Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life, emphasizing the importance of humility and the common mistakes that make conflicts worse. Donna discusses how parents can teach their children to handle conflict and communicate effectively.
Key Takeaways:
- The impact of conflict in a divisive world and the desire for healthy conflict resolution and peaceful family life.
- The importance of humility in conflict resolution and how humility shifts the dynamic of conflict from a power struggle to a joint problem-solving approach.
- Being dismissive of others’ concerns or opinions and the importance of active listening in conflict resolution.
- Normalizing conflict and teaching children it’s a natural part of relationships.
- Modeling conflict resolution at home while encouraging open communication and critical thinking in children.
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“If you have already disqualified yourself from spiritual leadership because of mistakes you’ve made and you’ve committed that there’s so much shame that you can’t lift your eyes off the floor, don’t push that away because you want to be able to move forward through that because healing is possible.” – Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield.Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional who helped countless women build “no regrets lives”!
During this episode, all three ladies discuss the challenges and strategies of raising children in a home where one parent may not be actively engaged in the spiritual growth of the family. They provide valuable insights and practical advice for fathers who may not know how to be the biblical educator in the home, as well as mothers who may bear the weight of being the sole spiritual leader. They also share their personal experiences and stories of hope, encouraging listeners to never give up and to continue expressing love and faith in their families.
Key Takeaways:
- Importance of father’s spiritual leadership and overcoming disqualification and mistakes.
- Initiating and building spiritual muscles and practical steps for fathers to start leading spiritually.
- Encouraging mothers to seek support within the church community.
- Avoiding emotional incest and venting to children.
- Seeking out godly mentors and spiritual father figures.
- How the division in spiritual leadership can affect children.
- The significant influence of parental faith and behavior on children.
- Testimonies and examples of perseverance in faith with emphasis on continuous prayer and demonstration of love.
- Trusting in the power of faith and the possibility of change in the spouse.
“You can’t pray for the Holy Spirit to convict your husband’s heart to be a spiritual leader if you’re resenting him that he’s not a spiritual leader.” – Rhonda Stoppe.
Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield’s books.
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Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.
During this episode of MOMents, both ladies explore the crucial topic of supporting family members through mental illness. Lori offers valuable insights and practical advice for parents, guardians, and grandparents dealing with children and loved ones facing mental health challenges. From fostering open communication to recognizing the different levels of mental illness, you will hopefully gain valuable wisdom to help support your family members.
Key Takeaways:
- Normalizing the struggle of mental illness to validate a child’s experience.
- Avoid toxic positivity and provide a safe space for the child to express their feelings.
- Offer different perspectives on struggles during moments of peace and calm.
- Encourage open communication and understanding rather than lecturing.
- Recognize and address different levels of mental illness, seeking professional help when necessary.
- Educate siblings on the struggles of their brother or sister without breaching confidentiality.
- Foster a supportive and cooperative sibling relationship.
- Encourage understanding, cooperation, and the celebration of each other’s uniqueness to prevent competition.
- Avoid comparing or pitting siblings against each other, which can heighten mental illness.
- Avoid shaming or guilt-tripping when addressing mental illness.
- Grandparents should be supportive and encourage open communication, especially when grandchildren share serious concerns.
- Establish trust by respecting confidentiality and offering empathy if unable to sympathize directly with the situation.
- The importance of embracing the messy nature of life and parenting.
Lori’s resources: Messy Hope: Help Your Child Overcome Anxiety, Depression, or Suicidal Ideation, Messy Journey: How Grace and Truth Offer the Prodigal a Way Home, & The Messy Life of Parenting: Powerful and Practical Ways to Strengthen Family Connections.
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“We don’t live in a simple age. We live in a very complicated age. And I think we really need to learn how to embrace simplicity in part of our lives and learning to rest. And that that means learning to say no to some other things.” – Rhett Wilson.Rhett Wilson, Sr., a professional communicator, loves telling stories, connecting great ideas with people. He has served as Senior Writer for the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association, Senior Communications Director for Leighton Ford Ministries, and runs his own business, Hendrix Communications. He also serves as a bivocational pastor of Spring Hill Baptist Church in Lancaster, SC.
During this episode, Rhett shares insight from his book, The 7 P’s of Prayer. He discusses a simple prayer strategy using 7 words that begin with the letter “p” to pray for his children. Rhett also dives into the concept of prayer for purity and the significance of guarding our homes from negative influences. He shares impactful stories and explains the unique approach of his book, offering practical advice for enriching prayer lives. Rhett also addressed the modern challenges that families face, emphasizing the importance of guarding our homes and lives against negative influences.
Key Takeaways:
- Description of the 7 words that begin with the letter “P”.
- The benefits of praying thematically or topically for children.
- The speed of society as the greatest threat to the health of families and the impact of digital world and breakneck speed on modern discipleship.
- The mnemonic for the word “REST” and its importance in prayer for purity.
- Tying the concept of rest and holiness to the Old Testament concept of Sabbath.
- Importance of establishing healthy boundaries and simplicity in life.
- The need for parents to filter messages and set standards for what comes into their homes.
- The significance of monitoring children’s use of technology.
“Kids go into an educational system, entertainment, and their phones where they often hear a message diametrically opposed to the Christian message and the gospel of Jesus Christ. If parents are not vigilant about filtering those messages and having some standards of what comes into their home, all of those other things are going to influence them or disciple them more than what they are taught at Sunday school.” – Rhett Wilson.
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“And my hope and prayer is that through Special Grace, we might be able to feel a little bit less alone. In the prayers, I deliberately wrote them all saying our child, not my child. – Elrena Evans.Elrena Evans is the author of When I Go to Church, I Belong and Special Grace: Prayers and Reflections for Families with Special Needs. She is a mother of five and lives in Pennsylvania. When she’s not writing, she enjoys spending time with her family, dancing, reading, trying to learn how to garden, and making spreadsheets.
During this episode, Elrena Evans shares her journey of raising a child with special needs and her inspiration behind writing her book, Special Grace: Prayers and Reflections for Families with Special Needs. Elena’s candid account of navigating the challenges of parenting a neuroatypical child during the pandemic offers hope and reassurance to parents in similar situations.
She also discusses her heartwarming children’s book, When I Go to Church, I Belong, which emphasizes the importance of inclusivity and meeting the diverse needs of children within the church community.
Key Takeaways:
- Seeking prayers for specific situations not found in existing prayer books.
- Addressing the increase in families dealing with special needs children.
- Encouragement for stressed-out moms and where to find strength and the importance of feeling supported and not alone in the journey.
- Emotional involvement in the prayers due to personal experiences.
- Reading certain prayers for when parents feel like they’re failing in different aspects.
- The hope that all children feel welcome, loved, and that they belong in church.
“ That’s my hope and prayer for all children everywhere, that when they show up at church, they will see the hands and feet of Jesus, and they will feel loved, and they will know that they belong.” – Elrena Evans.
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“I want to be vibrant in every season of life. I want to continue to serve you. I want to show them a way, a framework of saying this is how you continue to allow your life to be used by God in every season, even the second half.” – Dawn Damon.Dawn Damon is a best-selling, award-winning author, national speaker, podcast host, life coach, and CEO of BraveHearted Woman. There, she offers coaching, online training, and other resources to help awaken and cultivate the vision of women dreamers. Her latest book, The Making of a BraveHearted Woman, hit number one on the best-seller list.
During this episode, Dawn, mother of five, grandmother of 12, and great-grandmother of two, shares valuable insights on how women can pursue their dreams and grow in faith while navigating the journey of motherhood. From finding purpose in midlife to empowering young moms to prepare for the future, Dawn’s wisdom is a beacon of encouragement and empowerment for all women.
Key Takeaways: Dawn’s observations of women transitioning into midlife and the common desire to remain vibrant and purposeful in the second half of life. * Becoming a role model for the younger generation and to continue serving God in every season of life. * Embracing the significance of every season of life and not allowing it to be wasted. * Leveraging wisdom and experience to influence and impact the world. * Encouragement for young mothers to recognize and cultivate their individual passions and talents. * Emphasizing the importance of self-care, rest, and time for personal development while raising children. * Tips for maintaining health, socialization, and engagement in activities to keep moving forward. * The BRAVE* acronym: Bold vision, Real identity, Able mindset, Virtuous speech, and Execute action habits are the five fortitudes, or inner strengths, required for success in the second half of life.
“Keep being faithful with the little things and the little people, and eventually you will be ushered into the next season of your life that’s just filled with so many other great opportunities.” – Dawn Damon
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“If you look at how our behaviors are built, it starts with our relationships, experiences, and genetics. From those three, you get these beliefs that influence your thoughts and your emotions that are automatic throughout the day, which influence your behaviors. So, if you want to truly change your behaviors, you begin with gratitude because it changes your perception, changes your belief about something, and changes your thoughts and emotions.” – Dr. Danny Huerta.Dr. Danny Huerta oversees Focus on the Family’s initiatives that equip mothers and fathers with biblical principles and counsel for raising healthy, resilient children rooted in a thriving faith. He is a bilingual psychologist, licensed clinical social worker, and author of 7 Traits of Effective Parenting. Dr. Huerta has maintained a private practice in Colorado Springs since 2003 and has served families through Focus on the Family since 2004.
During this episode, Danny shares his insight and practical advice for raising healthy, resilient children rooted in a thriving faith. Dr. Huerta discusses the reasons for writing 7 Traits of Effective Parenting, including the need for practical steps for parents and the lack of a roadmap incorporating important principles for effective parenting. Danny also outlines the assessment, What Are Your Parenting Strengths? and how it provides a means for parents to determine their top strengths, possible strengths, and areas of growth as parents.
The 7 traits of effective parenting:
- Adaptability: Be open to adjusting to your child’s changing needs and behaviors. Show them flexibility while establishing consistency in routines and rules.
- 2. Respect: See your child clearly with love and care. Recognize their unique personalities and affirm their value and worth consistently.
- Intentionality: Be purposeful in your interactions with your child. Take deliberate steps to spend quality time together, engage in meaningful conversations, and foster a strong bond.
- Steadfast Love: Demonstrate unconditional love, support, and presence for your child, especially during challenging moments. Your consistent love provides a secure foundation for their growth.
- Boundaries and Limits: Establish and communicate clear boundaries guided by love and respect. Provide the necessary guidance and correction to shape your child’s behavior and character.
- Grace and Forgiveness: Embrace a culture of forgiveness and grace within your family. Teach your child the importance of acknowledging mistakes, seeking forgiveness, and extending grace to others.
- Gratitude: Cultivate an attitude of gratitude in your family. Encourage expressions of thankfulness, foster a spirit of appreciation, and model gratitude in daily interactions.
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“We’ve been so exposed the last few years to cancel culture. It’s, “If I don’t agree with you, I’m going to get louder and more dominant, and I’m going to tear you apart.” And how do we model to our kids that we are called to love through that process?” – Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield.Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”!
During this episode, all three ladies tackle the question of how parents can help kids stand up and stand strong in their convictions in a world filled with peer pressure and differing ideologies. They discuss practical strategies for navigating disagreements within the family, facing pushback in public schools, and dealing with friends and family members who may challenge their faith.
Key Takeaways:
- Encouraging kids to live out their convictions in the face of disagreement from family members.
- Acknowledging the challenges of having family members who reject faith and teaching kids not to be judgmental but to instead live out their faith in front of them.
- Emphasizing the importance of modeling peaceful and accepting behavior within the family.
- Praying over kids and encouraging them to walk in a manner worthy of their calling while at school.
- Teaching critical thinking and the ability to engage in intelligent conversation about faith.
- Encouraging kids not to worry about negative opinions from peers, as it’s only for a short period of time.
- Encouraging an unoffendable attitude and gracious response to differing beliefs.
- Modeling curiosity and showing genuine interest in understanding others’ viewpoints.
“What we always taught our kids is don’t be angry with a blind person for being blind. If they don’t have the mind of Christ, then they don’t see life with a biblical worldview. So rather than being self-righteous, pharisee, and judgmental, live your faith in front of them.” – Rhonda Stoppe.
Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield’s books.
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“Honestly, if there’s one thing that I pray for daily, I pray for the Lord to give America solid Christian families where husbands love their wives and children are raised in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” – Alex McFarland.Alex McFarland is the leader of Alex McFarland Ministries and a religion, youth, and culture expert. He is also the creator of Viral Truth Clubs, and has authored or co-authored more than 20 books, including The Assault on America: How to Defend our Nation Before It’s Too Late!, 10 Issues that Divide Christians, The God You Thought You Knew, and more. He is the Director of Worldview and teaches in the School of Practical Government for Charis Bible College. Alex currently co-hosts Exploring the Word on the American Family Radio Network and the Truth and Liberty TV broadcast and is the host of The Alex McFarland Show.
During this episode, Alex shares his expert knowledge about the vital role of Christian families, the impact of his latest book 100 Bible Questions and Answers for Families, and the importance of equipping and empowering young people.
Key Takeaways:
- Content from his newest book, focusing on parenting and addressing difficult topics with children.
- The book’s influence on families, particularly children’s interest in biblical discussions.
- Emphasis on the importance of godly men in families and a call for men to be committed to their role as the priest of the home.
- Acknowledgment of the need for both Christian husbands and fathers to raise counterculture Christians.
- The vital need for more strong Christian churches.
- Anticipation of revival and a call to action to protect children from negative influences.
- Background and growth of the Equip Retreat Camps:
- The approach concerning discipleship and apologetics at the camps.
- Children’s capacity to understand deep truths and their appreciation for substantial teachings.
- Aim to provide a meaningful and impactful learning experience for youth.
- Encouragement for multi-church events to rally Christians and spread the message of Christ.
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“But to make our home a reflection of heaven on earth, we also need to be thinking about God’s characteristics, who he is, and how we can demonstrate that in our homes. How can we ultimately have a sense of security, a sense of peace and protection, a sense of order?” – Lori Wildenberg.Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.
During this episode of MOMents with Lori and LeeAnn, both ladies discuss how you can make your home a reflection of heaven on earth. They explore spiritual, emotional, and physical aspects, emphasizing the importance of prayer, meditation, and modeling virtuous behavior for our children.
Key Takeaways:
- Demonstrating God’s characteristics and encouraging the Fruits of the Spirit.
- Modeling a close relationship with God and including children in spiritual practices like singing praise and praying.
- Being able to manage fear, anger, and sadness.
- Reflecting God’s holiness in emotional responses.
- Building trust in God during challenging situations.
- Physically, room by room, anointing oil and praying over each room.
- Incorporating scripture and crosses in the home.
- Placing plaques and Bible verses throughout the home to create visual reminders of Jesus.
- Emphasizing the importance of forgiveness in the home environment.
“I do believe the reason that God has given us the emotion of anger is so that we can understand what perhaps injustice looks like for someone else, see that we can stand up to that bully. Things like that, those are good things. That’s a good way to express anger. That’s a holy way.” – Lori Wildenberg.
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Mary DeMuth is an international speaker, podcaster, and author of nearly 50 books, fiction and nonfiction. As an avid Bible reader, she has guided many people into the Scriptures to supercharge their faith. Through God’s healing, Mary has overcome a difficult past to become an authentic example of what it means to live a brand-new story. She loves to help others “re-story” their lives through the books she writes. Mary lives in Texas with her husband of 33 years and is mom to three adult children.
During this episode, Mary talks about the vital role of impactful communication and how to empower adult children while maintaining a strong, supportive relationship. Mary shares insights from her book, Love, Pray, Listen: Parenting Your Wayward Adult Kids with Joy, offering practical advice, biblical perspectives, and even a free resource of personalized prayers. She addresses the complexities of modern parenting, covering topics such as differing political views, approaching concerns about adult children, and leveraging scriptures like 1 Corinthians 13 to guide parenting at any age.
Key Takeaways:
- Discussion about the challenges of establishing healthy boundaries and managing expectations with adult children.
- The shift in the parental role from control to support and advisory.
- Misconceptions about perfect parenting and the need for adapting to changing dynamics.
- Importance of impactful communication at different stages of parenting.
- Advice for setting up healthy communication patterns with young children to carry into adulthood.
- Emphasizing the shift from control to relationship-based parenting as children grow older.
- Navigating differing political views within the family.
- Dealing with adult children heading down the wrong path and how to approach the situation. How Scripture can help navigate parenting adult children.
- The application of love as the most important virtue in parenting.
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“Can we just be challenged enough to say, “It’s going be dirty and messy and hard, but at the same time, would we want to go to heaven any other way?” And if we want to raise kids, I pray for my kids every day that they chase after the God-sized dreams. But if we want that, then we have to do that ourselves – we have to model it. And so, my challenge for myself and my family and for all of us is to envision that.” – Cynthia Yanof.Cynthia is a wife, mother, podcaster, blogger, and everyday girl who is committed to not taking herself too seriously. She hosts the popular MESSmerized podcast and spends her days laughing, parenting, and praying for her family to chase after their God-sized dreams. Her first book, Life is Messy, God is Good, is available now on Amazon.
During this episode, Cynthia discusses the impact of adoption on family dynamics, the importance of living with the end in mind, and the transformative power of faith. Cynthia shares personal stories of parenting struggles and triumphs, highlighting the need to challenge oneself and live life unafraid of getting messy.
Key Takeaways:
- The lies parents believe, such as being defined by their kids’ successes and failures, feeling inadequate, or seeking universal acceptance.
- Navigating the messy moments of parenting with faith and humor.
- Empowering parents to align their beliefs with God’s truth.
- Encouragement for parents to help their children envision their future through exposure and support.
- An anecdote about Cynthia’s son’s struggles with reading in first grade and how it led to unexpected positive qualities in him as a teenager.
- Emphasizing the importance of believing in God’s plan for children, even in difficult times.
- Cynthia’s experience with foster care and the transformation it brought to her and her family.
- The impact of adoption on the family’s dynamics and the spiritual growth resulting from stepping out in faith.
- The inspirational story of a secret service agent during the 9/11 attacks, emphasizing the idea of not going to heaven in a clean suit.
- Encouragement for parents to live each day with the end in mind, embracing the call to do the hard things and model godly perseverance for our children.
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“Inconvenient parenting is a willingness to lay down our comforts and our conveniences for the sake of our children to help them become who God created them to be.” – Melissa Hannigan.Melissa Hannigan holds a Master of Arts degree in counseling from Midwestern Theological Seminary. She is married to John Hannigan, and they have three daughters and a son who recently went to be with the Lord. Before becoming a full-time homeschool mom, Melissa worked with teen girls to overcome abuse, addictions, and trauma. She is passionate about helping people discover God’s best for their lives and families. Together, John and Melissa co-founded Ignite the Family, and she released her first book, Inconvenient Parenting, in August of 2023.
During this episode, Melissa discusses the profound impact of parenting and how to approach it with faith and grace. She shares her personal journey of grief and resilience, diving into the concept of “inconvenient parenting” and the 12 God-given traits that can shape a positive parenting journey. She explores the challenges of modern parenting, the significance of nurturing children’s unique gifts, and the delicate balance between meeting a child’s needs and instilling a sense of wonder and humility.
Melissa discusses her book, Inconvenient Parenting, and elaborates on the following 12 God-given parenting traits: wisdom, wonder, vitality, sensitivity, flexibility, curiosity, creativity, imagination, inventiveness, playfulness, humor, and joy. She mentions that these aren’t used as a checklist to see if your family has all these qualities; instead, they serve as traits to incorporate organically into everyday life and relationships. She is passionate about helping families unlock the potential that lies within every child and offers practical strategies to nurture and activate God-given traits.
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“We teach our children biblical character, not so that they’re better than others, not so that they perform better than others, but because it glorifies God when we put him on display in that way.” – Dr. Kathy Koch.Kathy Koch, PhD, is the founder and president of Celebrate Kids, Inc., and a child development specialist. She is also the author of seven bestselling parent-child enrichment books. In her latest book, Parent Differently, Raise Kids with Biblical Character That Changes Culture (Moody Publishers), Dr. Kathy reminds parents that if they want to see their children adopt positive attitudes, act righteously, and develop healthy habits, then they must lead by example in understanding and demonstrating biblical character. Dr. Kathy offers practical, relatable, and spiritual-centered insights and strategies for parents and educators, instructing them on how to guide children to develop biblical character so they flourish in life. She further encourages readers that there is “no shame or blame for yesterday and great hope for tomorrow.”
During this episode, Dr. Kathy shares insights on her latest book, emphasizes the importance of instilling biblical character in children, and how parents can guide their kids to develop these values early on. She discusses the importance of gratitude and the connection between a child’s beliefs and their character choices.
“I wrote this book because if children don’t have character, they will not develop into the people that God intended for them to be.” – Dr. Kathy Koch.
Key Takeaways:
- Emphasis on leading by example, understanding biblical character, and the significance of character in children’s development.
- The impact of negative character traits on children’s ability to influence and contribute positively to society.
- It’s never too early or too late to teach biblical character traits.
- Utilization of biblical stories and figures to teach children about character and the importance of redemption and second chances in character development.
- The three indicators of maturity in character: completeness, consistency, and automaticity.
- The importance of teaching gratitude as a foundational character virtue.
- The disconnection between chronological age and maturity in character.
- Jesus’ belief in the importance of children and their influence, highlighting how Jesus valued and prioritized spending time with children.
- Emphasizing the critical role of children as the future and the importance of investing in them.
- Encouraging parents to prioritize character development over rule-following and obedience.
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“We love because he first loved us. And it’s the same with kids. Kids need to feel love in order to be able to love others. Love can change the world; that starts with us and our kids.” – Jill Roman Lord.Jill Roman Lord is an award-winning author of over 30 Christian children’s books. She and her husband have raised three Jesus-loving kids who have flown the coop, leaving them to navigate the empty nest on their own.
During this episode, Jill discusses the impact of children’s literature on developing a personal relationship with God. She delves into her latest books that focus on teaching children how to love well and incorporate God’s teachings into their lives. She also explores the significance of board books in shaping young minds and shares parental advice on navigating the challenges of raising children in today’s world.
Jill talks about a few of her children’s books and what children can learn from them:
- Love Well My Precious One – addressing the theme of love and sharing with others; this book teaches children that little acts of love can make a big impact in the world.
- Noah’s Joyful Ark – a board book for kids exploring the joyful aspect of being on Noah’s ark; this book encourages readers to roar, bark, and hee-haw along with all of God’s creatures, reminding children that even on gloomy days, they can look for God’s love in a rainbow.
- If Jesus Lived Inside my Heart – a board book for babies that explores the presence of Jesus in our lives; this story helps toddlers learn how to be kind and generous in different situations, while being introduced to Jesus.
- The Noisy Night – a new twist to the Christmas story of Jesus’s birth, exploring what the night might have been like if all the creatures and people celebrated the birth of Jesus in their own God-given ways.
“There have actually been multiple studies done to show that generosity improves the emotion of the person receiving and the emotion of the person giving. It’s actually a 3-fold that helps the receiver, the giver, and then the receiver also wants to pay it forward and love also and be generous.” – Jill Roman Lord.
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“Long story short, if someone’s name and phone number are not in that contact list, they literally cannot talk to your child. A text can’t come through; a phone call can’t come through.” – Bill Brady.Bill Brady is the co-founder and CEO of Troomi Wireless, a mobile phone solution that provides kids with all the good they need from technology without pornography, predators, bullies, and social media.
During this episode, Bill shares his personal journey as a parent of five and how it led him to develop a mobile phone solution that provides children with safe access to technology without exposure to harmful influences like social media, bullies, or inappropriate content. They discuss the importance of introducing technology to kids in stages and the positive impact of Troomi Wireless on children’s mental and emotional well-being. He delves into the unique features of Troomi phones and how they can empower parents to protect their kids in the digital age. Bill also offers an exclusive discount code for Raising Christian Kids listeners!
“It’s got to be safe, but it’s got to be flexible. So that’s what we’ve done with Troomi. Parents can custom-fit it to the age and maturity of each of their children individually and give them all the stuff they need without the garbage.” – Bill Brady.
Key Takeaways:
- Troomi Wireless: A mobile phone solution that provides kids with safe technology.
- Troomi’s goal is to create a super safe and flexible phone for kids, allowing access to vetted apps for school and promoting spirituality.
- Ability to customize the phone experience to match the child’s needs.
- Safe listing feature for setting up contacts based on the child’s age and maturity.
- Preventing access to harmful content and protecting kids from negative influences.
- Acknowledgment of the negative impact of social media on children’s mental health and the alarming statistics of kids encountering mental health issues and isolation due to excessive social media use.
- A promotional code RCK listeners for $50 off the purchase of a Troomi device – use RCK at checkout!
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“In chaos, God sees perfection. In these moments of utter despair and brokenness, the most historic tragedy of my life, losing my dad and my family being crushed and broken, yet there was perfection, yet there was he saw us whole.” – Jake Freels.Jake Freels is a real estate developer, businessman, state champion football coach, avid outdoorsman, missionary, rodeo competitor, movie producer, overseer of men’s ministry, mentor to men & young men, and most importantly, an amazing dad and husband to his wife and four children. The most incredible thing about Jake, though, is not everything he does but the story of how he overcame the tragic loss of his dad when he was a child. This loss sent him spiraling out of control from ages 9 to 19. He then found hope, life, purpose, and healing when he met Jesus in college.
During this episode, Jake shares his passion for mentoring men through outdoor adventures to connect them with God and bring about transformation in their lives. He emphasizes the importance of authentic encounters with Jesus, initiations into manhood, and the impact of the family table. He also introduces his new movie, “Multiplied,” which aims to inspire a movement of worldwide revival.
Key Takeaways:
- Jake’s tragic loss of his father at a young age and transformation and hope through meeting Jesus in college.
- Platforms for reaching men – Irons in the Fire
- Producing men’s events and gatherings, including a stadium event focused on uniting men as a force for positive change.
- Emphasizing the importance of men taking ownership for families and in society.
- Detailed account of the car accident that claimed his father’s life as well as his miraculous survival and intervention by divine presence.
- Understanding God’s vision during moments of despair and brokenness.
- The significance of seeking leadership and mentorship from other strong men, understanding God’s role in shaping men, and empowering them to lead and mentor others.
- Significance of the family table in building deep and authentic relationships.
- The release of the movie “Multiplied” about the legacies of influential Christian leaders and the call to support and attend the movie to spread the message of revival.
- Encouragement for men to step up and participate in the revival movement.
Jake’s Resources: Multiplied Movie, Heart of Many Colors, Irons in the Fire Ministry, and Freels Designs.
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“They need routine, they need protection, they need biblical truth, they need things labeled as what’s God-honoring and not God-honoring behavior.” -Darby Strickland.Darby A. Strickland, MDiv, is a faculty member and counselor at the Christian Counseling & Education Foundation (CCEF). She is a contributor to Becoming a Church That Cares Well for the Abused and author of Is It Abuse? A Biblical Guide to Identifying Domestic Abuse and Helping Victims, the children’s book Something Scary Happened, and the mini book When Children Experience Trauma. She writes regularly for the Journal of Biblical Counseling. Darby and her husband, John, have three children.
During this episode, Darby discusses the effects of trauma and abuse on children and offers valuable insight into how parents can support their children through difficult times. She shares tips on addressing trauma with children, the importance of open communication, and the role of faith in comforting and guiding children through tough situations. Additionally, she provides information about online counseling resources for families in need.
Key Takeaways: Encouragement for parents to face hard truths with their children and the importance of addressing behavior as a clue to the child’s struggles. * Advice on how parents can communicate with their children about traumatic events. * The influence of parental reactions on a child’s experience of trauma. * The importance of routine, protection, and biblical truth for traumatized children. * Something Scary Happened can help children overcome fear by learning how to express and understand their fears. * The free resources, blogs, and journal articles are available on ccef.org. * When Children Experience Trauma* is a mini book that can help parents help their children navigate their fears, guide them through their distress, and assist their recovery after a traumatic event.
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“Being thankful means seeing that God is the source of all the things that we experience in life.” – Champ Thornton.Champ Thornton is an acquisitions editor at Crossway and the author of several books for kids and families, including The Really Radical Book for Kids, The Radical Book for Kids, Wonders of His Love, The Serpent Slayer and the Scroll of Riddles, A Five-Senses Countdown to Calm: You Count!, Why Do We Say Good Night, and Why Do We Say Thank You?
During this episode, Champ discusses the importance of teaching children gratitude and thankfulness. He delves into the essential role of parents in connecting children to God in their everyday experiences. From fostering politeness to guiding emotional calmness, Champ has a treasure trove of resources for parents looking to cultivate strong Christian values in their children.
Key Takeaways:
- Importance of teaching children gratitude and politeness.
- The storyline of the book Why Do We Say Thank You? – features a grumpy young boy who learns to be thankful and the transformation of the boy’s perspective on gratitude through a dream sequence.
- The connection between boredom and gratitude.
- The role of parents in helping children recognize that everything comes from God.
- Ideas and suggestions for parents to help children recognize the role of God in their lives and the importance of integrating faith into everyday experiences.
- Organic ways to connect children to God in their daily lives.
- A Five-Senses Countdown to Calm: You Count! can help guide children to manage their emotions through sensory experiences.
- Addressing the importance of addressing spiritual topics, such as salvation and the existence of Satan, in children’s literature.
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Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.
During this episode, Lori and Lee Ann delve into the aspects of parenting prodigal children, offering guidance to parents navigating these challenges with faith and grace. Lori shares her insights on the different types of prodigals, drawing parallels from biblical examples to provide a multi-dimensional understanding of wayward children and give hope to parents grappling with despair and hopelessness while raising prodigal children.
Key Takeaways:
- Reference to Luke 15:11-32, the parable of the lost son in the Bible.
- The importance of not overreacting to their behavior and choosing when to step in to pursue them or wait for them to return on their own.
- Encouragement to rediscover the “jewel” in your child’s heart.
- The five different types of prodigals:
- The heart, soul, mind, body, and the reluctant.
- Biblical examples of each type of prodigal discussed: David, Aaron, Paul, the woman condemned, and Samson.
- Prodigal of the heart – David (Psalm 51:10)
- Prodigal of the soul – Aaron (John 8:12)
- Prodigal of the mind – Paul (Philippians 4:8)
- Prodigal of the body – the woman who was an adulteress (Romans 12:1)
- The reluctant prodigal – Samson (Proverbs 8:13)
- The importance of praying for them and trusting in God’s transformative power.
- Emphasizing hope for parents with prodigal children, regardless of the duration of their absence.
Resources:
- Help! I Have a Prodigal, by Judy Slay.
- Praying for Your Child from Head to Toe, by Sharon James.
- Messy Journey: How Grace and Truth Offer the Prodigal a Way Home, by Lori Wildenberg.
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“I want them to know just how much God loves them, how that is demonstrated again and again in the stories in the Bible, and how he loves when we come to him with our emotions, with our needs, tell him what’s going on, come to him to ask for forgiveness. That he loves to connect with us through prayer anytime and anywhere.” – Laura Sassi.Laura Sassi has been a teacher, homeschool mama, children’s ministry director, and more. She is the author of multiple children’s books, including Christian Book Award finalist Goodnight Ark, Love is Kind,Bunny Finds Easter, My Tender Heart books, and more. She’s also written poems and stories for various children’s publications, including Spider, Highlights for Children, and Clubhouse Jr. She lives in New Jersey with her husband, two children, and an adorable cockapoo named Sophie.
During this episode, Laura discusses her heartwarming books and the valuable resources that accompany them. She shares her passion for connecting children with God’s love through her books and offers insightful tips on helping families incorporate biblical concepts into their children’s lives.
Laura also shares what families can learn from her interactive board book series, which includes My Tender Bible, My Tender Heart Prayer Book, and a devotional book coming out soon. By weaving heart moments into her work, Laura emphasizes the significance of connecting daily experiences with God’s love and teachings, empowering families to cultivate a genuine and enduring faith in their children.
Four tips for teaching biblical concepts to young children:
- Tip 1: Prioritize your own spiritual growth first. It’s hard to guide your children if you’re not feeding yourself spiritually.
- Tip 2: Pray for teachable moments and be on the lookout for ways to connect everyday experiences to biblical concepts.
- Tip 3: Use great resources like Bible storybooks and picture books to share biblical stories with your kids, especially during bedtime.
- Tip 4: After reading a Bible story, take a moment to connect its message to everyday life, reinforcing the concept of God’s love and forgiveness.
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“If we really start undergirding kids with a biblical worldview and showing them how these other worldviews really don’t align with reality, then a lot of those questions will go away because they don’t have the bad assumptions to begin with.” –Hillary Morgan Ferrer.Founder and Mama-Bear-in-Chief of Mama Bear Apologetics, Hillary Morgan Ferrer, is passionate about providing accessible apologetics resources for busy moms. She is the co-author and general editor of the bestselling book Mama Bear Apologetics: Empowering Your Kids to Challenge Cultural Lies and the recently released Mama Bear Apologetics Guide to Sexuality. She holds a master’s degree in biology, and she and her husband, John, have been married for 15 years and minister together as an apologetics team.
During this episode, Hillary delves into the important topic of helping children discern truth from lies, specifically in the context of sexuality and cultural influences. She shares insights on empowering kids to challenge cultural norms while upholding biblical truth, as well as practical tips for parents to guide their children through these complex issues.
“Interest, personality, and style are on a spectrum. Gender is not.” – Hillary Morgan Ferrer.
Key Takeaways:
- Social attitudes and beliefs surrounding sexuality.
- Confusion, mental well-being, and helping children discern truth from lies.
- Categorizing questions based on ideologies.
- Undergirding kids with a biblical worldview.
- Addressing naturalism, postmodernism, and Marxism.
- Mama Bear Apologetics: Empowering Your Kids to Challenge Cultural Lies serves to equip parents to teach kids how to form their own biblical beliefs about what is true and what is false.
- Mama Bear Apologetics Guide to Sexuality is a comprehensive tool for discussing false teachings regarding gender, same-sex marriage, and pornography.
- Reasons for children’s confusion and refusal of biblical truth and the impacts of societal messages on children’s perception and identification.
- Awareness of parental influence on children’s perspectives.
- Deconstructing agendas without diminishing individuals while educating children to think critically and biblically.
- Repeating maxims to counteract lies and the importance of familiarizing children with truth.
- Encouragement for nervous parents to engage in the topic of sexuality.
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“I think parents today, more than ever, tend to really want their kids not to experience pain or anything negative. And I think that’s understandable in the short run, but in the long run, it really hurts them because all of a sudden, they’re out in the real world and have a job and, and something bad happens, they don’t know how to handle it.” – Steve Hines.Steve Hines is the author of the recently released book Salt, Light, and Kids: Parenting Well in Today’s Culture, as well as a lifelong entrepreneur and musician. Church of the Highlands founding pastor Chris Hodges wrote the book’s foreword. In the book, Steve talks about how to raise up good kids who are salt and light to our ever-darkening world. Steve lives with his wife, Leigh Ann, in Nashville, where their children, spouses, and grandchildren live.
During this episode, Steve discusses the many parenting challenges in raising children in today’s culture. He sheds light on the impact of technology, social media, and social influences on kids and shares valuable insights from his book Salt, Light, and Kids: Parenting Well in Today’s Culture. He emphasizes the importance of awareness, wise parenting, and the need for parents to guide their children in a rapidly changing world.
Key Takeaways:* Confusion and desensitization caused by the media and social media. * Increased hate, school shootings, and availability of negative influences due to technology. * Importance of awareness and the need for parents to be aware of the content their children are exposed to. * Balancing the role of parents as protectors and allowing children to experience hardships and learn from mistakes. * Importance of parents being parents and teachers being teachers and the dangers of teachers crossing into parenting roles by influencing children with non-academic subjects. * The potential impact of early exposure to certain ideologies and beliefs on children.
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Let’s help our children become influencers for Christ!Tessa Emily Hall is an award-winning author who wrote her debut novel when she was sixteen. She is now a multi-published author of Christian books for teenage girls, including her latest release, INFLUENCER. Her unwavering passion lies in inspiring young women to embrace their unique potential within God’s kingdom. Driven by her dedication to providing clean teen fiction, she launched Illuminate YA Fiction in 2017—a teen fiction imprint formerly associated with LPC Books. Learn more about Tessa here!
During this episode, Tessa talks about her book, INFLUENCER, and how it inspires teens to embrace their unique potential within God’s kingdom. Tessa shares her journey as a writer and an actress in the faith-based film industry and discusses the importance of helping teenagers discover their purpose in life.
Key Takeaways:
- The importance of teenagers embracing their unique potential within God’s kingdom.
- Tessa’s desire to show teenagers how they can make a significant impact within their sphere of influence.
- The influence of peer pressure on teenagers and the importance of being influencers for Christ.
- Importance of parents demonstrating the fulfilling nature of a relationship with Christ and showing Christianity as more than just a religion.
- Suggestions for parents to help teens envision their future with and without Christ.
- The significance of pursuing a relationship with God before entering a romantic relationship.
- Connecting the concept of romance to the type of relationship God wants to have with his children.
- Encouraging teens to create habits that foster a relationship with Jesus through daily prayer, worship, and reading the word.
- Emphasizing the importance of intentional time with God and being part of a supportive community.
- Highlighting the influence of the people one surrounds themselves with and the importance of a solid foundation in their faith.
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“Some of these hidden behaviors that we talk about are gossip and forgiveness, criticizing others, judging others. And these are all things that God talks about in His word and how to handle these things. And His word is the greatest authority.” – Dr. Magdalena Battles.Dr. Magdalena Battles has a Ph.D. in psychology, a master’s degree in professional counseling from Liberty University, and a Bachelor of Science degree in psychology. After the completion of her doctorate in 2005, she went on to post-graduate studies at Harvard. She is a licensed professional counselor and specializes in the treatment of grief, parenting issues, mental health issues such as depression and anxiety, OCD, and relationship issues. Dr. Battles is also a writer and conference speaker. She has three books published- Let Them Play: The Importance of Play and 100 Child Development Activities, 6 Hidden Behaviors that Destroy Families: Strategies for Healthier and More Loving Relationships, and 10 Time-Saving Tips for Busy Parents.
During this episode, Dr. Battles shares wisdom and practical tips on equipping parents with the necessary tools they need to nurture faith, foster healthy family dynamics, and address sensitive issues with love and understanding. She emphasizes the importance of relying on the word of God for guidance in addressing behaviors that can harm family dynamics. She discusses six hidden behaviors that can detrimentally impact families, such as failure to forgive, criticism, and gossip, and offers strategies backed by biblical principles for addressing these issues.
Dr. Battles provides time-saving tips for busy parents, emphasizing the significance of establishing a family mission statement, letting go of perfection, and utilizing organizational tools like calendars and to-do lists, which can help manage the demands of a busy family life.
She also addresses a common critical issue of a child’s fear of not entering heaven. She sheds light on the concept of intrusive thoughts and scrupulosity. She offers guidance on how parents can support children dealing with such fears and intrusive thoughts, stressing the importance of acknowledging but not engaging with unwanted thoughts and seeking professional help if necessary.
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“We have to make sure we don’t make a feature of who we are the foundation of who we are. Race is a feature, but Christ is the foundation. Gender is a feature, but Christ is the foundation. But when we take political sides, and we make features foundations, that’s when we see the arguing and the bickering, and we begin to go against the oneness in unity.” -Jerome Gay Jr.Jerome Gay Jr. is the founding and teaching pastor of Vision Church in Raleigh, NC. He has a vision to see gospel-centered churches planted, disciples multiplied, missionaries unleashed, and theologically sound and culturally engaging leaders raised up and sent out to impact the world with The Gospel. He is the author of African Heroes, The Whitewashing of Christianity, Church Hurt, and the mini-book Talking to Your Children about Race.
During this episode, Jerome discusses the importance of addressing race issues with children and how to teach them about the African American heroes in Christian history. He touches on the impact of historic whitewashing and the biblical approach to engaging in discussions about race.
Key Takeaways: Emphasis on celebrating the rich history of Christianity in Africa before colonization. * His children’s book African Heroes celebrates Christian history and teaches children about the early church’s African roots. + This book focuses on African heroes’ courage, tenacity, and strength, highlighting the stories of Perpetua, Felicity, and Athanasius. * Encouragement for children to see beyond skin color and focus on God’s creation of mankind. * The importance of equipping parents to teach children about race with gentleness and respect. * Navigating differences without being disrespectful. * Exploring a section of his mini book Talking to Your Children about Race* that addresses social issues and acknowledging imperfections while still showing appreciation for specific groups.
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Sharon Jaynes has been encouraging women through ministry for over twenty-five years. She is the author of 24 books with Harvest House, Moody Publishers, Baker Books, Multnomah Publishers, and Thomas Nelson. Sharon is a frequent guest on radio and television programs and currently writes for Proverbs 31 Ministries’ Encouragement for Today devotions. Sharon co-founded Girlfriends in God, Inc., a non-denominational ministry that crosses generational, denominational, and racial boundaries to bring the Body of Christ together as believers.
During this episode, Sharon discusses the sixteen areas of prayer from her book, Praying for Your Child From Head to Toe. She also talks about using landmarks when we pray and how Jesus taught his disciples using landmarks, and we can do the same for our children. Sharon shares her passion for encouraging and empowering women to walk in courage and confidence as they grasp their true identity as children of God and co-heirs with Christ.
Key Takeaways:
- The importance of covering children in prayer from head to toe using Scripture.
- 16 areas of prayer:
- Mind: Praying for thought life and renewing of the mind.
- Eyes: Praying for what they look at and the influence of visual stimuli.
- Ears: Praying for discernment in what they listen to.
- Mouth: Praying for the power of their words and being good examples.
- Neck: Praying for wise decision-making.
- Shoulders: Praying against fear and casting worries on the Lord.
- Heart: Praying for what they love and are passionate about.
- Back: Praying for spiritual and physical protection.
- Arms: Praying for strength.
- Hands: Praying for the development of their gifts and talents.
- Ring finger: Praying for their future spouse.
- Sides: Praying for influential friendships and relationships.
- Sexuality: Praying for sexual purity and identity.
- Legs: Praying for standing on the truth of God.
- Knees: Praying for a humble relationship with God.
- Feet: Praying for the path they take in life and following God’s plan.
- The fear and worry present in children due to current challenges and societal dangers.
- The need for consistent, daily prayer for children in a changing world.
- Using the 16 areas of prayer as landmarks for targeted and comprehensive prayers.
- Jesus’ teaching on prayer as a pattern for creating our own prayers.
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“And this was a pretty in-depth survey. So, the fact that over 1,000 women took it was amazing, and I wanted to know how much mom guilt was affecting them, and 96% of women said it was.” -Alli Worthington.Alli Worthington, known for her straight-talking encouragement and practical tools that help women reach their dreams in business and life, is the author of five books, including The Year of Living Happy, Fierce Faith, Breaking Busy and her latest Remaining You While Raising Them. She is a speaker, podcaster, and life and business coach who launched Called Creatives, a cohort of women speakers and writers.
Alli Worthington shines a light on the prevalent issue of mom guilt and the immense pressure parents face in the modern world of social media. She shares her wisdom on how mothers can navigate this overwhelming landscape, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and embracing their individual mothering styles. She unpacks the concept of the five mom superpowers and the significance of understanding and leveraging one’s strengths in raising children. Alli’s reassurance that each parent possesses their unique superpower in nurturing their kids and Lee Ann’s encouraging perspective offers a beacon of hope for those struggling with guilt and self-doubt as they navigate the challenges of Christian parenting.
Key Takeaways:* How the impact of social media and comparing it to other mothers leads to mom guilt. * The impact of social media on children, especially teenage girls. * Description of the five mom superpowers: caring mom, ride-or-die mom, protector mom, idealist mom, and cheerleader mom. * The importance of identifying one’s strengths in motherhood and acknowledging the potential for mothers to have a mix of superpowers. * Mothers’ self-assessment, setting realistic expectations, reminding ourselves of the true qualities of a great mom. * Encouragement for mothers to feel empowered and not let mom guilt destroy them.
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“When we teach girls that they are at least partially responsible for boys' sin, they're far more likely to marry an abuser because we're teaching them it is normal for boys to lust after you and treat you badly.” -Sheila Gregoire.Sheila Wray Gregoire is a sought-after speaker and the face behind ToLoveHonorandVacuum.com, the largest single-blogger marriage blog. She's also an award-winning author of nine books, including The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and She Deserves Better. With her humorous, no-nonsense approach, Sheila is passionate about changing the evangelical conversation about sex and marriage to line up with kingdom principles.During this episode, Sheila Gregoire shares shocking statistics and research associated with toxic teachings on sex, self-esteem, and speaking up for oneself. She emphasizes the impact of purity culture on young girls and the unintended consequences of certain teachings in the evangelical world. Whether it's the correlation between modesty messaging, the likelihood of marrying an abuser, or the alarming statistics on sexual assault within church communities, Sheila sheds light on crucial issues that parents and church leaders must address.Key Takeaways: The need to raise children with discernment to resist toxic teachings. The importance of self-esteem and its connection with self-love. Addressing the misconception that placing importance on self-esteem can be detrimental to teaching children to be self-sacrificial like Christ. Sheila explains the significance of self-esteem in fostering healthy relationships, mental health, and overall well-being. Identifying indicators that suggest a likelihood of marrying an abuser based on the research data. The correlation between teachings related to modesty and the likelihood of marrying an abuser. The impact of low self-esteem and its association with abuse and negative sexual education. The emphasis on sex, modesty, purity, and virginity within Christian teachings. The detrimental effect of placing worth in virginity and the importance of reassessing the teaching approach. Advocating for children to speak up against toxic teachings in church environments is necessary. The importance of teaching children at home and fostering an open dialogue to address any concerning teachings encountered in church.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
"We want our kids to feel safe. We want our kids to feel secure. We want our kids to feel loved." -Lori Wildenberg.Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.During this episode, Lori and Lee Ann discuss the crucial topic of emotional safety for children. They emphasize the importance of understanding a child's emotional age, being trustworthy with confidential information, and handling small irritations with patience. They also emphasize the significance of exhibiting sympathy and empathy and being on the same team as their children when dealing with challenging situations. These insights and practical tips aim to help parents foster emotional security, build connections, and cultivate a safe and loving environment for their children.Key Takeaways: Understand a child's emotional or intellectual age, not just their chronological age, and its impact on emotional safety and well-being. Importance of keeping children's confidential information private and the potential effects of breaching trust with personal information. Support children through difficult times and understand their personal struggles. Handle irritations and strategies for maintaining calmness and patience during these inconveniences. Normalize mistakes and offer assistance. Avoid comparison among children and embrace each child's unique strengths and weaknesses. Nurture respectful disagreements and encourage open and respectful communication about differing opinions. Validate children's right to express their thoughts and embrace their individuality. Protect their emotional safety from external factors such as a bully. Provide and demonstrate sympathy and empathy for them when they share their conflicts with you.Lori’s book, The Messy Life of Parenting: Powerful and Practical Ways to Strengthen Family Connections.Lori’s Website, Facebook, Moms Together Facebook, Moms Together Facebook Group, and Instagram.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“So, making digging comments about, ‘I wish your dad would take you to church. I wish your mom would let me take you to church,’ all those things are going to divide you from that that adult child that you're trying to draw to Christ." -Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield.Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”!During this episode, all three ladies discuss the role of grandparents in influencing their grandkids for Christ, especially when the parents may not be believers. The insightful conversation touches on the challenges parents and grandparents face and the strategies that can be used to connect grandchildren to their faith. Rhonda shares powerful insights on approaching this delicate situation with love and respect, emphasizing the importance of building genuine connections, avoiding judgment, and living out a Christ-like example, even when faced with challenging circumstances. Dr. Michelle shares her personal journey as a step-grandparent, offering a poignant portrayal of the impact of authentic faith and love in her relationship with her step-grandchildrens.Rhonda, Michelle & Lee Ann also touch upon the following takeaways: Supporting and respecting the non-believing spouse. Finding ways to be involved in your grandkids' lives without repelling the unsaved spouse. Emulating Christ’s love through actions, behavior, and prayers. Living an authentic and genuine faith in front of stepkids. Asking step-grandchildren about their needs and keeping a prayer book. Hosting cousin camp focused on fun and faith and building close-knit relationships among cousins. Upholding and promoting an uplifting and drama-free family environment. Finding time and prioritizing family over busy schedules and commitments. Being involved in grandchildren’s activities, co-op, and classes. Sharing personal experiences and real-life stories with grandkids.Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield’s books.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“Our vision is that the next generations may know, honor and treasure God, setting their hope in Christ alone so they may live as faithful disciples for the glory of God.” -Sally Michael.Sally Michael is a co-founder of Truth78 and has authored curricula and books marked by a passion for developing God-centered resources for children's spiritual development. For 16 years, she served as a minister for children at Bethlehem Baptist Church in Minneapolis, Minnesota, under the leadership of John Piper and her husband, David. Sally and David live in Indianapolis, Indiana. They enjoy spending time with their two adult daughters and three grandchildren.During this episode, Sally talks about her organization, Truth78, and the critical role of creating biblically faithful material to raise the next generation to know and love God.Key Takeaways: Truth 78 is a ministry dedicated to serving the next generation by inspiring and equipping families through comprehensive discipleship practices. Its vision is to instill in children a profound knowledge, honor, and reverence for God and to guide them in living as faithful disciples for the glory of God. Mothers: Disciplers of the Next Generation is a booklet that empowers mothers to take on the vital responsibility of leading their children toward salvation and nurturing their growth in faith. Helping Children to Understand the Gospel is a booklet designed to assist parents in preparing children to comprehend and respond to the gospel within the context of their spiritual development. Her book The Very Bad News & The Very Good News, tailored for children aged 4 to 7, serves as a tool to help teach children that even though the bad news is that people have sin in their hearts, there is sickness and death, problems and pain, there is good news that God sent his only son to take all of this away from us. It offers a simple gospel presentation using the overarching themes of creation, fall, redemption, and restoration. Her new book series, Bible Verses to Remember, is geared toward teaching preschoolers the art of scripture memorization. The three parent pages at the end of each book challenge parents to prioritize the spiritual nurture of their children, teach parents how to use the book to instruct children’s minds to engage with their hearts, and show how to help children apply these Bible verses in everyday life. The five-step process for helping children memorize scripture is to reference the verse, repeat the verse, repeat the reference, review the verse, and discuss the verse.Truth78’s social media: Facebook, Twitter, & Instagram.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“All over the world, people have heard of Noah's Ark because there are flood legends and cultures all over the world, and we've got all these different Noah's Arks that are from all these different cultures around the world.” -Ken Ham.Ken Ham is the founder and CEO of Answers in Genesis and its two popular attractions: the acclaimed Creation Museum and the internationally known Ark Encounter, which features a life-size 510-foot-long Noah’s Ark—sometimes described as the “8th Wonder of the Modern World.” Each year, the two attractions host over 1.5 million guests. A much-in-demand Christian speaker and interview guest, Ken Ham became well known throughout America for his 2014 evolution/creation debate with Bill Nye, TV’s “The Science Guy.” Ken and his wife Mally have five children and 18 grandchildren and reside in Northern Kentucky.During this episode, Ken shares exciting updates at the Creation Museum and the Ark Encounter and new resources geared towards Christian parenting from Answers in Genesis. Ken unveils the addition of a Torah scroll and a collection of Noah's arks at the Ark Encounter. These tangible, immersive experiences offer families an engaging way to delve into the depths of biblical history.Ken further discusses Answers In Genesis's educational resources, highlighting the newly introduced curriculum, Mrs. C, designed to educate young children about the 7 Cs of history from Genesis to Revelation. This innovative approach serves as a valuable tool for parents, teachers, and church leaders to lay a strong biblical foundation in children's formative years. Ken also touches on a new resource, Lily's Lab, which unveils a captivating way to address children's questions about faith. The fun and relatable approach to addressing children's queries adds a new dimension to Christian educational content, aiming to engage young minds in a meaningful dialogue about faith.Both Lee Ann and Ken discuss the significance of molding a child's worldview from a young age, particularly in the face of an increasingly anti-Christian culture.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
"When we teach them the basic narratives of what the Bible says, we are forming their worldview at the very youngest age and giving them a set of glasses through which they can look at the world for the rest of their life.” – Jared Kennedy.Jared Kennedy serves as an editor for The Gospel Coalition and is the co-founder of Gospel-Centered Family, a ministry that helps churches and families share Jesus with the next generation. He’s the author of Keeping Your Children’s Ministry on Mission, God Made Me for Worship, The Beginner’s Gospel Story Bible, and the Beginner’s Gospel Story Book series. He is also the co-author of Faith Builder Catechism. He’s helped to develop two VBS programs, Proof Pirates and Clap Your Hands, Stomp Your Feet. He and his wife, Megan, and their three girls attend Sojourn Church Midtown.During this episode, Jared shares a fresh and effective approach to drawing preteens and teens into the word of God by incorporating gaming language and engaging their interests while staying true to Christian teachings. He discusses foundational principles of nurturing faith in children and shielding them from the secular world to help them build a biblical worldview as early as possible. Jared emphasizes the influence of establishing habits, patterns, celebrations, and community involvement in shaping a child's faith. He underscores the significance of engaging children in the church community, guiding them to navigate secular influences critically, and acknowledging the presence of sin in their hearts—an important aspect often overlooked in parenting.Jared also highlights The Gospel Coalition and Gospel Centered Family's mission and purpose: to promote gospel-centered resources for church leaders and parents to pass the faith to the next generation. Amongst some of his amazing books, he talks about Faith Builder Catechism, which he co-authored, and how it is a valuable tool aimed at parents, offering a unique and engaging way to teach core Christian doctrines to children aged 8 to 12, using simple language and a gaming-themed approach. Another one of his books, TheBeginner's Gospel Story Bible for toddlers and young children, serves as a resourceful Bible book presenting 52 stories that vividly portray the biblical narrative.Resources: The Gospel Centered Family website, Jared’s Instagram, & Twitter.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“MOPS has done a really good job in making women and mothers the best leaders and the best volunteers for their community. So, I will say community with peer-to-peer connection, spiritual growth, and leadership growth are the three main benefits of being part of a MOPS group.” -Karla Merrell.Karla Merrell is a mother, former attorney, TEDx speaker, entrepreneur, and the Southeast Church Engagement Manager for MOPS International. She listened to God’s call when she was called to serve women first as a member, then as a volunteer, and ultimately came into working with MOPS full-time. She cultivates relationships with churches in the Southeast region of the United States to spread the MOPS mission and start more communities for mothers.During this episode, Karla discusses the transformative mission of MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) and the exciting new changes in the program, now known as The MOMco. She shares the inspiring journey of MOPS, which began in a living room with seven mothers in Denver, Colorado, over 50 years ago. It has since impacted over a million women annually, leading to 49,000 mothers embracing Christ in the past seven years. Karla also discusses the benefits of MOPS, now called The MOMco, including fostering a community for moms in various stages of motherhood, providing a safe space for spiritual growth, and empowering women to become impactful leaders in their communities.Key Takeaways: Overview of MOPS nonprofit organization and its mission to encourage and equip moms of all ages. MOPS's impact on mothers in various stages of parenthood and their collaboration with local churches. Benefits of being a member of MOPS (The MOMco): Community and peer-to-peer interaction. Spiritual growth and support for faith. Empowerment and leadership development for mothers. Process for churches to bring MOPS program to their communities. Emphasis on creating a welcoming space for mothers and their children. Transition to The MOMco: The evolution of MOPS to encompass mothers beyond the preschool years and encourage mothers to age with the group and not leave the group because their children have aged. Standpoint is a Christ-centered organization focusing on bringing mothers closer to Jesus.MOPS Instagram & Facebook.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“I really want, when my children are failing, to know that it’s not about me and my anger, but it is about them and their need for growth. And I do believe in consequences, but I believe in consequences delivered from a calm mind and a calm heart.” – Michelle Nietert.Licensed Professional Counselor of 25 years, Michelle Nietert is the best-selling coauthor of the books Managing Your Emojis, God, I Feel Sad, God, I Feel Scared, Loved and Cherished, and the award-winning book for adults Make Up Your Mind. She leads a team of counselors as the clinical director of Community Counseling Associates in the Dallas, TX, area.In this second part of the two-part episode series, Michelle addresses children's emotional struggles and the importance of parents understanding and empathizing with these challenges. She offers valuable insights on how parents can listen to their children without resorting to lecturing and the significance of allowing kids to express themselves while guiding them toward making their own decisions. Michelle emphasizes the significance of staying calm during emotional moments and techniques to help parents and children regulate their emotions and discipline in a calmer way that won’t leave the parents with regret or the children with anger.Michelle elaborates on these key takeaways: Children's emotional struggles don't mean they don't love God. Sometimes, kids are more afraid to tell parents their emotions because they fear they will disappoint them. Parental understanding of the impact of hormones and brain development on emotions. Teaching children about self-control as a fruit of the spirit. Recognizing that children's brains are not fully developed, especially in response to trauma. How to differentiate between a child's need for a break and wanting to escape a consequence. Addressing the impact of nonverbal communication on a child's perception. Encouraging repeat of instructions and follow-up to ensure children understand and are accountable. The importance of breathing exercises and breath regulation. Becoming a coregulator with children for emotional peace and cooperation. Physical calming techniques such as changing body temperature and physical touch. The importance of parents being the emotional compass for their children.Michelle’s Website, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest, Twitter, and Blog.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“It only takes about 90 seconds to acknowledge a feeling, where you feel it in your body, and then do a technique to release it.” – Michelle Nietert.Licensed Professional Counselor of 25 years, Michelle Nietert is the best-selling coauthor of the books Managing Your Emojis, God, I Feel Sad, God, I Feel Scared, Loved and Cherished, and the award-winning book for adults Make Up Your Mind. She leads a team of counselors as the clinical director of Community Counseling Associates in Dallas, TX.During this first part of this two-part episode series, Michelle talks about her practice and how it can help children and parents emotionally, physically, and mentally manage emotions and hopefully live healthier, happier lives. She also discusses two of her new books, Managing Your Emojis and God, I Feel Sad. Managing Your Emojis is aimed at teaching children practical ways to manage their emotions using scripture, stories, and prayers. The God I Feel Sad book series is designed to help children cope with big emotions and acknowledge their feelings.Michelle elaborates on these key takeaways: Practical ways for children to learn to manage their emotions. The impact of emotions on the body and the importance of addressing this in counseling. The importance of involving parents in the counseling process, including training parents in play therapy approaches. The risks associated with self-diagnosis and the need for professional guidance. The interconnectedness of physical, emotional, and psychological aspects of mental health. Recommendations for parents to research and vet counselors, including asking for references and utilizing resources such as Psychology Today. The importance of finding a counselor who aligns with the family's beliefs and preferred counseling approach. Discussion of various coping techniques such as deep breathing and visualization. The importance of acknowledging and managing emotions rather than ignoring them and the potential consequences of ignoring or dismissing a child's emotions.Michelle’s Website, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest, Twitter, and Blog.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“The Bible says a lot about angels, and I wanted to communicate that to kids in such a way that they would be drawn to God's protecting power and not be afraid.” – Marty Machowski.Marty Machowski is a Family Life Pastor at Covenant Fellowship Church in Glen Mills, Pennsylvania, where he has served on the pastoral staff for over thirty years. He is the author of several family devotionals, curricula including the Gospel Story for Kids, children’s books, and parenting titles. His latest releases include Darkest Night Brightest Day, The Light Before Christmas, The Treasure, and Angels on Your Side. During this episode, Marty discusses two of his new books, Angels on Your Side and The Treasure, in hopes of serving as effective Christian resources for children of all ages. Marty’s ability to tell a story in an adventurous and fun way keeps children engaged while learning about Jesus.Key Takeaways: Angels on Your Side: When You Are Feeling Scared: A biblical exploration of God’s army of angels. Teaches children that angels are real, God uses angels to protect us on earth, and God is in control. It addresses children's fear and worry and presents God as the ultimate superhero; when a powerful angel is on your side, there’s no reason to be scared or worried. Helping children ages four to seven understand that God is always with them. The Treasure: The Ancient Story Ever Knew of Jesus and His Church: Solving a riddle of the ultimate treasure by studying two ancient scrolls, the Gospel of Luke and the Book of Acts. Description of the treasure hunt aspect of the book tied to understanding the hidden treasure ultimately revealed as Christ. It is written for elementary age and includes a study guide that can also be used with older children. Encourages families to study the Bible together and develop regular family devotions.Marty’s Website, Facebook, Twitter, & Instagram.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
"Even in our imperfection, God uses us to teach and guide our children." -Lori Wildenberg.Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.During this episode, Lee Ann and Lori dive into the timeless wisdom and lessons that can be gleaned from the parents of the Bible. They discuss the stories of Abraham and Sarah, Mary, the mother of Jesus, and Hannah, the mother of the prophet Samuel. They explore the themes of trust, surrender, praise, and perseverance, drawing meaningful parallels to parenting in today's world.“I think dedicating our kids to the lord and being a person of our word is really important for our kids. And that integrity, I believe, spilled down into Samuel because he became Israel's greatest judge. So, he probably learned that from his mama.” -Lori Wildenberg.Key Takeaways: Abraham and Sarah: The importance of trust in the Lord's promises. Learning to trust and respond to God's will. Lessons in patience, perseverance, and trust through struggles. Mary, the mother of Jesus: Praising God and surrendering to His will amidst trials. Finding comfort and peace in God during adversity. Knowing God's word and standing firm in one's faith. Being present and supportive of your children during difficult times. Singing praise to the Lord during troubling times. Hannah, the mother of the prophet Samuel: Seeking God honestly and humbly in prayer. Letting go and trusting God to provide. Praising God in all circumstances. The significance of integrity and being a person of one's word.Lori’s Website, Facebook, Moms Together Facebook, Moms Together Facebook Group, and Instagram.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Are you looking for an organization that can help teach your child about God? Or, perhaps, learn more about God yourself?Andrew York grew up in a Bible-believing home and, at a young age, felt God's calling on my life to serve Him in evangelizing children. Andrew has served with Child Evangelism Fellowship (CEF) for 15 years in various technical positions. He currently serves as the Director of Communications & Marketing and the Director of Digital Ministries. Andrew met his lovely wife through CEF and was privileged to serve along with her in the organization. God has blessed them with three lovely young children. Andrew believes it is a joy to serve God in CEF as it strives to reach Every Child, Every Nation, Every Day.During this episode, Andrew discusses the organization Child Evangelism Fellowship and the programs it offers to bring children, teens, and adults closer to Christ. Andrew shares how the organization is evangelizing children and fostering their spiritual growth. He offers a glimpse into CEF's initiatives, including the Good News Club and 5-day Club programs designed to bring the gospel to young hearts and integrate them into local church communities.Key Takeaways: Evangelizing boys and girls with the gospel of Jesus Christ. Ambitious vision to reach every child, every nation, every day. Good News Club: A weekly program in public schools, reaching over 3,500 clubs in the US and 80,000 worldwide. 5 Day Club: Week-long summer program in parks and community centers, providing evangelistic outreach to children who may not attend a church. CMI Institute: Training individuals on effectively evangelizing children is essential for anyone wishing to share their faith with children. Resources for Parents: Devotional books and digital resources for family devotions. Unite TV: A free video streaming platform with Bible-based content. Kid's podcast and devotional book app for children to engage with God's word daily.Child Evangelism Fellowship Website, Facebook, & Twitter.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
"If you get caught sitting around tormenting yourself about how I could've done it better. I could be better. I'm doing it wrong. I feel guilty. Then you are not in the moment. So what you do is you gather up all of that guilt that you have, and you go, 'I give this to you too, God, because you bore my guilt. You bore my shame. You don't want me to wear it every day because it's a barrier to what I need to do with my children and how I need to love them.' So just brush it aside, just be in the moment and be present, knowing that God is your strength. He will help you. He will show you, and he can even take the mistakes that you made and turn them into blessings." -Linda Evans Shepherd.Linda Evans Shepherd, the mother of a gifted child as well as a special needs child who was in a year-long coma, is a prayer author who mentors 1000 Christian authors.During this episode, Linda shares her story, which can resonate with parents who may be navigating the complexities of raising children, particularly those with special needs or facing multiple demands. Linda opens up about her personal journey as a mother to a gifted child and a special needs child who experienced a year-long coma, shedding light on the power of prayer and finding joy in the midst of adversity. Linda discusses how faith and prayer can play a crucial role in overcoming and dealing with challenging experiences. She offers valuable insights and encouragement for those who may be struggling in their own parenting journey. She emphasizes the importance of maintaining a strong connection with the Lord through prayer, especially during tough times.Key Takeaways: Lean on the power of prayer: Embrace the practice of prayer as a source of strength and comfort during challenging times. Remind ourselves that prayer can help us find joy and peace amidst the pain, suffering, and daily challenges of caring for our children. Release feelings of guilt: When we dwell on guilt, it can be a distraction from our vital role as caregivers. We can release guilt through prayer and focus on being present and attentive to our children's needs and well-being. Turn challenges into blessings: Seek opportunities for growth in difficult situations, knowing that God can bring positive outcomes from adversity. Seek support and community: Connect with supportive communities such as the Association of Christian Women Authors and Right to the Heart Ministries. Being part of a supportive network can provide us with encouragement, mentorship, and a sense of belonging during our parenting journey. Foster a relationship with God: Practice being aware of God's presence in our lives and have open, heartfelt conversations with God. The practice of talking to God about our concerns, needs, and joys can provide a strong foundation.Check out Linda’s prayer books here!RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“I believe anxiety is, obviously, a physical response that all of our bodies are capable of whether we have an anxiety disorder or not; it is a God-given gift in the sense because it's supposed to help take over when there's a threat in front of us; and so, I wanted the reader to feel seen in her anxiety and not feel ashamed of it.” – Courtney Devich.Courtney Devich is a mama relying on Jesus and reheated coffee every day. Using humor, honesty, and relatability, she writes with a heart for the mom struggling with anxiety or depression. Her writing has appeared in Her View from Home, TODAY Parents, and For Every Mom, among others. Courtney is a former human resource professional, using her leadership skills to manage kids as a stay-at-home mom.During this episode, Courtney talks about her personal journey as a mother navigating anxiety and depression while raising three children. She shares her struggles with anxiety, panic attacks, and the overwhelming weight of motherhood, offering a raw and relatable perspective. Courtney delves into the pervasive effects of anxiety on parenting, emphasizing the potential for it to erode one's joy and fulfillment in the parenting journey. However, Courtney's story is one of resilience and hope as she articulates her journey back to joy through the steadfast foundation of her Christian faith.Courtney discusses her book, Mama’s Got Anxiety: But It’s Not Going to Steal Her Joy, and how she weaved humor and faith to hopefully help mothers deal with their forms of anxiety in parenthood. She emphasizes how anxiety and fear are not signs of weakness or sin, and it’s not something to be ashamed of.Mama’s Got Anxiety will hopefully help you learn: Strategies for overcoming anxiety and panic attacks. How to find joy in motherhood despite the challenges. Practical "baby steps" to take control of your thoughts and fears. Faith-based perspectives on dealing with these struggles.“And so, the readers, hopefully, when they finish it, will not let their anxiety cripple them in fear anymore and be able to take their joy back in motherhood.” – Courtney Devich.Courtney’s website, Facebook, and Instagram.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
When is it appropriate to teach children about reproduction and prenatal development?Tara Sander Lee, PhD, is Vice President and Director of Life Sciences at the Charlotte Lozier Institute. She is a Harvard-trained scientist with a PhD in Biochemistry and fellowship training in Cell and Molecular Biology. Before joining the Lozier Institute, she was an appointed faculty member at the Medical College of Wisconsin, a Scientific Director of Molecular Diagnostics at the Children’s Hospital of Wisconsin, and a scientific consultant.During this episode, Dr. Lee covers significant topics such as the appropriate age for discussing reproduction with children, the accuracy of prenatal genetic screening, and the importance of age-appropriate curriculum on prenatal development.Key Takeaways: Dr. Lee's work at the Charlotte Lozier Institute: Promotion of public understanding of the dignity of human life from conception to natural death. Scientific advice, education of legislators and the public, and policy advocacy to protect the unborn at an early stage. Collaboration with organizations emphasizing life-affirming biblical worldview. Prenatal genetic screening and its initial purpose to screen high-risk pregnancies for genetic disorders. Current widespread offering to all pregnant women regardless of risk, especially for rare disorders. High false positive rates even in low-risk pregnant women. Importance of using accurate scientific terminology from a biblical worldview to help children grasp reproduction. Introducing age-appropriate curriculum on reproduction and human prenatal development. Emphasizing the celebration and marveling at God's creation process is crucial in helping children understand human life and reproduction. Teaching children abstinence and helping them understand their identity in Christ. A proactive approach to discussing sensitive topics before children hear inaccurate information. Using graphic material to educate children about the associated risks of premarital sex.Two resources for teaching children about pregnancy, prenatal development, and the humanity of unborn children: The Voyage of Life & Contend Projects.Two resources Dr. Lee developed for teaching women about the limitations of genetic screening and prenatal diagnosis with life-affirming options if they do receive a prenatal diagnosis: False Positives in Prenatal Testing & PrenatalDiagnosis.org.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
God states in Jeremiah 29:11, “For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord…”Whether in our personal or professional lives, having a well-thought-out plan allows us to focus on what needs to be done and when it needs to be done. And we can teach our children early why it’s important to plan and how to become good planners.During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on these six reasons why planning is important:It clarifies where one is going and how to get there and helps identify the purpose and goal instead of feeling like we are wasting time.Planning helps optimize the use of our time, talent, and money and ensures that efforts are focused on activities that matter most, thus improving productivity.It helps us identify potential risks and challenges and minimizes uncertainties, thereby improving the chances of successful outcomes.Effective planning helps us prioritize tasks, set deadlines, delegate responsibilities, and track progress.It helps us to be ready to adapt to changing circumstances and allows flexibility in adjusting strategies, goals, and objectives.Lastly, it encourages teamwork and collaboration by promoting effective communication and coordination to achieve collective goals.Lee Ann also elaborates on these key takeaways on why children need to be good planners now so that they can become successful adults later:Good planning helps children establish productive daily routines and makes it easier for them to obey because they know what is expected.Learning to plan helps them prioritize tasks crucial for meeting deadlines, completing assignments, and managing their busy schedules as they grow older.Planning helps children take responsibility for their actions or inactions.It helps children learn problem-solving skills as they anticipate challenges and come up with solutions ahead of time.It helps children set goals and work towards achieving them; breaking down tasks into manageable steps and accomplishing goals fosters a sense of achievement. This helps to develop analytical thinking and problem-solving.Resources: “Goal Setting for Kids Resources” by Vibrant Christian Living, “The Scientific Method for Preschool Kids: It’s Easier Than You Think” by Early Learning Ideas, & “What Does the Bible Say About Planning?” by Church Fuel.RCK social media:FacebookJoin our Facebook community group!InstagramPinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“Having a godly marriage, which is loving with Christ's agape love, that selfless love, is the light of the gospel in your home.” -Rhonda Stoppe.Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”!During this episode, all three women discuss the crucial roles of mothers and fathers in shaping their children's faith and character. They stress the importance of authenticity and selfless love in the marital relationship, viewing it as a reflection of the gospel that profoundly impacts children's understanding of faith and love. They discuss the importance of exemplifying a loving, Christ-centered marriage when shaping a child's perception of faith.Rhonda passionately shares insights on raising sons to become godly men, emphasizing the need for understanding, nurturing talents, and guarding their hearts. She draws from personal experiences, offering practical advice for mothers navigating the journey of raising sons. Dr. Michelle shifts the focus to the father-daughter relationship, highlighting the vital role of fathers in positively influencing their daughters. She encourages fathers to actively listen, maintain eye contact, show kindness through their actions, and speak life into their daughters. She also explains how spouses can show humility to each other even when it is not warranted. Involvement, consistency, awareness, and nurturance are very important to a healthy, happy marriage and family life.“That's a great rule of thumb with women because we figure things out by talking on our planet. And the more you can draw her out, not only is she going to figure things out, but she'll bond with you in the process because you're taking the time to listen.” – Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield.Both ladies discuss the impact of authentic, selfless love in the home and how it can serve as a light for the gospel and positively influence the faith of the children. Additionally, the ladies stress the importance of prayer and Bible reading to connect with God as a family and always have joy in the household.Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield’s books.RCK social media:FacebookJoin our Facebook community group!InstagramPinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
1 Peter 1:15-16 states, “But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; for it is written: ‘Be holy, because I am holy.’”For us to be holy and to be able to teach our kids to be holy, we need to explain to them and help them understand what it means to be holy. We, as Christians, are set apart from sin because sin separates us from God and moral purity. However, we do sin, so how can we be set apart or holy like God? Only through faith in Christ. When we believe that Christ took the penalty for our sins, and His Holy Spirit dwells within us and guides us, we are now set apart and united with God. However, we will continue to sin while we are in the flesh. It’s the dual nature that dwells in us. Holiness is not just about following rules and regulations; it’s about being used by God for His purpose.During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on how we can exemplify holiness for our children by showing humility, love, tolerance, discipline, peace, faithfulness, and mercy.To understand God’s holiness is always different from ours, God is: Infinite – he is self-existing. Immutable – he never changes. Self-sufficient- he has no needs. Omnipotent – he is all-powerful. Omniscient – he is all-knowing. Omnipresent – He is always everywhere.Deuteronomy 14:2 states, “You have been set apart as holy to the Lord your God, and he has chosen you from all the nations of the earth to be his own special treasure.”Lee Ann also elaborates on these five suggestions to help children understand what it means to be holy: Be a role model. Help children understand the importance of upholding virtuous morality in everyday life. Practice regular prayer time and reading the Bible to be connected to the source of holiness. Encourage a desire to serve others. Help your child recognize their actions, motivations, and emotions, and guide them towards self-improvement.Resource mentioned: “Be Holy,” by Calvary Chapel.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“Forget the lecturing. Let's move to listening. Forget the accusations and the assumptions. Let's move to asking questions. Rather than taking things personally, let's talk about what is the process underneath there.” – Lori Wildenberg.Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.During this episode, Lee Ann and Lori explore the critical issue of teens feeling heard and loved. They discuss how anxiety, depression, and bullying are affecting teens and the importance of parents being attuned to their children's struggles rather than taking their behavior personally. They share practical tips for fostering open and respectful communication with teenagers, emphasizing the significance of genuine connection over daily tasks. They also highlight the impact of social media and peer pressure on teens, suggesting family strategies and the power of prayer and faith to navigate these challenges.Key Takeaways: How to recognize the underlying causes of disrespectful or rude behavior in teens. The importance of fostering open communication and understanding the emotions underlying their behavior. The impact of parental behavior on a teen's conduct. The significance of initiating genuine conversations and being respectful towards teens so that they will mimic that same respect. The benefits on teens' behavior when parents create a loving and respectful atmosphere at home. How small gestures like physical touch and active listening can make teens feel heard. The importance of spending quality time and being present for teens. Nurturing a deeper understanding of a teen's interests and preferences. Implementing limits on social media usage and organizing family-based activities to reduce social media impact. Assisting teens in coping with peer pressure and promoting self-assurance and familial support. Encouraging teenagers to seek solace in prayer to address stress, worry, and anxiety. Instilling the concept of God's sovereignty to help teens handle external influences. Encouraging long-term perspective and empowering teens to release themselves from negative influences.Resources: Raising Big Kids with Supernatural Love, by Lori Wildenberg & Becky Danielson, and Messy Hope: Help Your Child Overcome Anxiety, Depression, or Suicidal Ideation, by Lori Wildenberg.Lori’s Website, Facebook, Moms Together Facebook, Moms Together Facebook Group, and Instagram.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
1 Corinthians 10:13 states, “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.” God provides a way out, and we want to make sure our children understand there is an escape route when they face temptation.”No matter who you are, sinful temptation lurks in the shadows, waiting for the perfect opportunity to strike. It's a constant battle, a test of willpower, and a struggle we and our kids face. There are ways to help our children understand temptation and know how to fight it appropriately.During this episode, Lee Ann touches upon some of the many temptations children face today that can be detrimental to our children’s physical, mental, and spiritual health, and what we can do to help them:The desire to be on social media constantly for likes, followers, and virtual validation – sharing inappropriate photos or videos, cyberbullying, or seeking acceptance.The temptation to cheat on a test or copy someone’s homework – plagiarism can be due to the pressure to excel or the competitive culture our kids live in today.Food commercials, easy access to fast food, decreased physical activity, and the desire for instant gratification from sugary snacks can lead to obesity and long-term health problems.The desire for the latest gadgets, fashion trends, or material possessions – kids want the newest and greatest stuff, which may create a sense of entitlement and can hinder their ability to appreciate the value of experiences over materialistic things.The temptation to experiment with drugs, alcohol, or tobacco is usually because of peer pressure – kids want to fit in and be “cool” or escape stress and problems.As parents and educators, it is essential to provide guidance, support, and education to help kids fight these temptations. Creating open lines of communication, promoting healthy coping mechanisms, and fostering a sense of self-worth and personal value can empower our children to make positive choices and resist harmful temptations.Children may not understand that temptation to sin can be triggered by a sinful desire. Make sure your child knows that everyone experiences temptation, and it's a normal part of life. Emphasize that even Jesus faced temptation but showed us how to resist it. Discuss each of the three temptations Jesus encountered: turning stones into bread, jumping off the temple, and worshiping Satan for worldly power. Help your child recognize common temptations before they arise and role-play the conversation. If we can help them develop self-awareness by recognizing emotions, thoughts, and triggers that entice them to sin, they can learn to keep themselves out of those tempting situations.Resource mentioned: “Understanding the Temptation of Jesus” by Pray.com.RCK social media:FacebookJoin our Facebook community group!InstagramPinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Did you know that 1 in 4 boys do not have a father in their household?Mark Hancock is an author, award-winning writer, and conference speaker who serves as the Chief Executive Officer of Trail Life USA.During this episode, Lee Ann and Mark discuss Trail Life USA and its mission to provide a Christ-centered, boy-focused alternative to the Boy Scouts. Trail Life USA can help cultivate godly character and leadership in boys while addressing the needs of single mothers and fatherless boys. Mark addresses the pivotal shift in organizations like Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts, once rooted in Christian values, and how Trail Life USA emerged as a response to this cultural change. He shares insights into the powerful impact on both boys and men within the program, emphasizing the need for positive male role models in the lives of young boys, particularly those raised in single-parent households. Mark shares stories of boys finding brotherhood, Christian values, and mentorship within the program. Both Lee Ann and Mark discuss the importance of Christ-centered foundations that help boys navigate their unique challenges in today’s radical world.Mark elaborates on the following key points: Trail Life USA focuses on Christ-centered mentorship and leadership by older boys and Christian men in all activities. The many changes seen in boys including the development of Christian friendships and lifelong relationships. The nominal annual dues are $30, and participation is affordable. Church-based support to assist single moms and families in need. Flexible uniform options to accommodate families with financial constraints. A free resource offered on the Trail Life USA website titled "Raising Godly Boys." The proven 4-step process for turning boys into Godly men: identifying that boys struggle with being unguided, ungrounded, unappreciated, and uninspired.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Psalm 34:18 states, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”During this episode, Lee Ann Mancini delves into the important topic of helping children cope with grief and loss from a Christian perspective. With a compassionate and insightful approach, she shares eight essential ways to support children through the difficult emotions and challenges of grief, whether it's due to the loss of a loved one or other significant changes in their lives. She offers valuable guidance for parents navigating the complexities of helping their children find hope and healing during challenging times, such as watching a child mourn the loss of a loved one. Children express and cope with grief in various ways, often determined by their age and connection to the situation or person. The support they receive from family and friends is critical in navigating through this emotional journey.Lee Ann elaborates on the following eight ways to help children cope with the grief and the loss of a family member or friend: Use age-appropriate and clear language to explain the situation. Encourage them to share their feelings and share fond memories. Listen to their emotions without always offering advice unless they ask for it. Let your child take the lead in conversations and respect their emotional boundaries. Reassure them that time brings healing and their routine will remain stable. Encourage them to engage in healing activities like art, writing, or scrapbooking. Prepare them for condolences and affirm that they don't have to respond if they're not ready. During funeral services, ensure they're not pressured into anything that makes them uncomfortable. Rely on the word of God and read Bible verses or post them throughout the house. Let your children see your trust in God during this time.Matthew 5:4 states, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.” And Revelation 21:4 states, “He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed.”We can remind our children about the comforting promises in the Bible and guide them toward the belief that their loved ones are in heaven, free from suffering. This is not only their belief but also the promise of God. As adults, we need to find healthy ways to deal with our grief and loss to help our children navigate through theirs.For more resources, Focus on the Family offers many resources on helping kids cope with grief and loss.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“But what we need to do is look at our children and realize from an eternal lens that God's got it. And his perspective is, ‘This is just a chapter in their story.’ And so, we must have that eternal lens and know that God is not finished with their story.” -Laine Lawson Craft.Best-selling and award-winning author Laine Lawson Craft, a Fort Walton Beach, Florida resident, wife, and devoted mom, has partnered with God as she turns the impossible into reality, not just in her life but also in the lives of thousands. Her unique perspective stems from overcoming a dead marriage and financial ruin and witnessing miraculous healings and deliverance in her family. Laine's newest book, The Parent’s Battle Plan: Warfare Strategies to Win Back Your Prodigal, ignites her passion for sharing her triumph over spiritual warfare with her prodigal children.During this episode, Laine and Lee Ann discuss her newest book, The Parent's Battle Plan, and provide practical insights and strategies for parents and grandparents navigating the challenges of Christian parenting with prodigal children. The Parents Battle Plan will help parents handle the emotional rollercoaster of trust, deal with a child’s bad choices, empower parents never to give up hope and trust in God, and encourage them to fight for their child’s future.Laine gives valuable perspectives on dealing with defeating thoughts, finding patience and perseverance, and gaining a divine perspective when facing the "meantime" phase. She also dives into the importance of acknowledging and addressing denial and the significance of seeking professional help when necessary. As Laine emphasizes the transformative power of faith and prayer, her message serves as a reminder that no prodigal child is ever too far gone. Her powerful testimony is a testament to God's redeeming love and grace. Her 3 Ps – patience, perseverance, and perspective – serve as guiding principles for anyone seeking to navigate the hardships of prodigal children.Laine’s resources: Website, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, & Twitter.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
How can we teach our children to become responsible kids so they can grow up to be responsible adults?Discipline is vital in helping children learn to be accountable and responsible. And, as always, we rely on the word of God to help us when teaching our children about responsibility. Ultimately, we, as parents, want our children to follow instructions, be organized, manage time, manage emotions, control speech and actions, handle conflict wisely, choose friends wisely, and admit when they are at fault.During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on the following eight ways we can help our children learn the importance of being responsible: Understand God's Commandments: The Bible provides a set of commandments and guidelines that teach children the importance of responsibility (Ref. John 14:15 & 1 Peter 1:14- 1 John 5:3). Utilize gifts from God: Children can learn to use whatever gift they have received to serve others as faithful stewards of God's grace in its various forms. The Bible teaches children about stewardship, emphasizing that everything we have is a gift from God and we are to be responsible for taking care of the many blessings we must share with others (Ref. 1 Peter 4:10). Show accountability to God: Children need to grasp that they are accountable to their parents and God for their actions and words. Learning that God sees and knows everything can encourage children to behave responsibly, even when they think no one else is watching (Ref. Philippians 2:10-11 & Matthew 25:14-30). Honesty and integrity: Children are always taught to speak the truth, even when it is difficult or inconvenient. Responsibility and truthfulness help children develop a strong moral compass (Ref. 1 Timothy 3:9). Manage emotions and control speech and actions: The sooner we help our children learn that a responsible, respectful child can, in fact, manage their emotions with guidance and practice, the more we will see benefits now and later (Ref. James 1:19). Diligence and perseverance: We want our children to be resilient, work hard, be persistent, and not give up easily as success comes through effort, dedication, and being responsible. Follow instructions: We want them to accept tasks without grumbling or complaining (Ref. Ephesians 6:1 & 1 Corinthians 14:40). Manage their time: Responsible kids do their homework, go to bed, and get up in the morning without wasting time (Ref. Proverbs 21:5).The best way to teach our children how to be responsible is for us as parents to model what it looks like. And when we fail, be honest with our children and help them learn from our mistakes. Use this “Responsibility Checklist” to help your child to learn how to be responsible.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Aubrey Sampson, mother of three boys, serves as a teaching pastor at Renewal Church, a multiethnic congregation in Chicago, and Timberlake, a multisite church across the Seattle area. She is an author, coach, and cohost of the radio show The Common Good and the podcast Nothing Is Wasted.During this episode, Lee Ann and Aubrey discuss the importance of helping kids embrace their true identity in Christ and help them understand that God knows them and loves them no matter what.They discuss how Aubrey’s book, Big Feeling Days, can help little kids with big emotions know that God loves them and is right next to them, no matter what they feel. They also discuss her book, Known: How Believing Who God Says You Are Changes Everything, which helps kids understand and embrace what it means to be created and named in the image of God. Both ladies delve into the significance of feeling known by God and the impact it has on individuals, particularly in the context of parenting.Key Takeaways: Even Christians may struggle with feeling known by God. The concept of being known by God is foundational to the Christian faith. Exploring the idea of being made in the image of God and being deeply known by Him. The importance of experiencing the intimate love of God. Connecting the concept of being known by God to the idea of being the bride of Christ. Relating the concept of false naming to the story of the Garden of Eden Reasons why people may adopt false identities, such as trauma, lack of belief in God's love, and societal pressures. Common false names or identities people carry, such as "too needy" or "too emotional.” The notion that God wants to remove false names and reveal true identities. The significance of repetition and reminders for children about their identity in Christ The four rhythms of renewal are gospel, good neighbor, generosity, and growth.Aubrey’s resources: Website, Instagram, Facebook, & Twitter.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Are you prepared to explain the meaning of being one with God to your children?Sometimes, children can have a hard time understanding concepts that are not concrete, like the Holy Spirit or the Holy Trinity. But these complex topics are some of the most important ones to teach our children so they can understand them early. Oneness is a word that means “a state of being unified or whole, unity of thought, feeling, and belief, a strong feeling of closeness.” As Christians, we feel one with the one true God as His Holy Spirit dwells within us and draws us closer to Him.“But he who is joined to the Lord becomes one spirit with him.” -1 Corinthians 6:17.Here are some tips to help you explain the meaning of oneness with God: Ask your child what they think oneness with God means – you may be surprised by their answer. This will allow you the opportunity to build upon their answer or correct any misconception. Emphasize connectedness – Jesus emphasized the importance of staying connected with the Father and his disciples (Ref. John 15:1-8). Teach empathy and compassion – oneness with God means treating others with kindness, respect, and love. Encourage your children to practice empathy and compassion towards their family, friends, neighbors, and even strangers without putting themselves in danger (Ref. Matthew 14:14). Cultivate gratitude – Jesus begins and ends his prayers with words of thanks and praise to his father, and in the Lord's Prayer, he taught his followers to do the same (Ref. Matthew 6:9-13). He even thanked God for the opportunity to sacrifice his life for the world (Ref. Matthew 26:26-27). Nurture spiritual practices – Jesus was baptized to fulfill all righteousness (Ref. Acts 1:1) and prayed often to the Father. Help your children create their own rituals or routines that foster a sense of oneness with God. Share stories and examples – use stories, parables, or examples of individuals who have exemplified oneness with God, such as saints, religious figures, or inspirational figures from various backgrounds. Lead by example – it’s the most powerful way to teach children the meaning of oneness with God as you embody these values in your own life. Model being one with God in your actions and attitudes, which will impact your child’s spiritual development. Create an atmosphere of love, acceptance, and spiritual exploration that allows them to cultivate their own relationship with the divine.Reference this article to help them understand how oneness with God can manifest in different ways: “Five Bible Characters Who Walked With God And What We Can Learn From Them,” by Glorify.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”!During this episode, all three ladies delve into the complexities of helping children manage their emotions, specifically anger. They discuss the misconceptions and underlying triggers behind a child's anger, shedding light on how parents can effectively guide their children through this common yet misunderstood emotion. Drawing from biblical teachings, personal experiences, and professional expertise, they share insights and advice on addressing children's anger in a manner that aligns with Christian values.Key Takeaways: The Importance of not labeling kids as "angry" or "drama queen.” Acknowledging and affirming children's feelings and proper techniques for calming down and processing anger. Utilizing bilateral stimulation and tactile activities for calming rhythms Addressing hormonal factors and mood swings in children. Role-playing and communication to manage family relationships. Modeling godly ways of processing anger for children. Understanding the difference between righteous and selfish anger. The importance of confessing sin and demonstrating repentance. Identifying and addressing personal triggers for anger. Understanding physiological responses and their impact on decision-making. The importance of separating behavior from identity in parenting. Encouraging children to communicate their emotions without fear of judgment.Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield's books.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Genesis 1:27 states, “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. And God blessed them. And God said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth.’”Have you ever heard of the word “theybies?” It’s a term that some parents assign to their babies so they are not identified with a specific gender. These parents are using gender-neutral names or pronouns such as they and them. Some children are born and raised in a Christian home and are identified as a boy or a girl but decide, later in life, that they don’t want to live according to their birth gender.How can we, as the body of Christ, support these children and their parents? And if it’s our children, what should we expect from our sisters and brothers in Christ?During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on these suggestions regarding parenting children surrounded by dysphoria and transgenderism: Learn these terms for yourself first, and then explain these terms to your child. If you don’t know the answer, be honest and be willing to do the research. Ensure your child fully understands that they can come and discuss anything with you and that you will listen to them and guide them, not judge them or their friends. Explain to your child that we are to be respectful to all people – we are to emulate the love of Christ towards all people, even with those we don’t agree with. If your child is having a hard time understanding why someone would choose a transgender life, seek a Christian counselor who has experience specifically dealing with this issue. If you are a Christian parent of a transgender child, seek a biblically based church that will love and support you. Always express the love of Jesus. We are to love all our brothers and sisters and even our enemies. Christian hypocrisy confuses our children and can cause them to mistrust our words and actions if we misrepresent the true image of God.Luke 6:37 states, “Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven."Resources mentioned: God Made Boys and Girls, by Marty Machowski, and “Biblical View on Transgender Identity: A Primer for Parents and Strugglers,” by Focus on the Family.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“Rather than making the child fit your mold, be flexible enough to be able to work with the child as to his age and stage and personality. And with the older kids, how great to have them perhaps read a verse. Get them involved in training in the teaching. So, you could have a situation where the older one has got the job of reading a verse, and the younger one maybe acts it out.” – Lori Wildenberg.Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.During this episode, Lee Ann and Lori dive into practical and insightful strategies for making devotional family time meaningful and less stressful, especially when dealing with young, energetic children. Both ladies will also discuss the benefits of individual and group devotional settings and share personal experiences of what they did with their children.Key Takeaways: Keep devotionals short and active to engage young children. Use action-oriented materials and activities to teach biblical concepts. Allow children to move and be active when doing devotions. Taking them to the playground or incorporating activities can help them learn and stay engaged. Tailor your approach to each child's unique personality and learning style. Be flexible and creative in how you involve each child. Take devotional family time outside the home to places like the zoo, museum, or nature spots - use these experiences to connect biblical teachings with the world around them. Incorporate biblical elements into daily routines, such as morning blessings, dinner conversations, and individual time with teenagers to discuss God's word. The goal is to make this time with God enjoyable, interactive, and meaningful, nurturing children's spiritual growth in a way that fits their age and personality.Lori’s social media: Website, Facebook Page, Moms Together Facebook Page & Group, Instagram.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
It's the most wonderful time of the year... Christmas is approaching, and there are so ways you can help your children create meaningful memories that will last a lifetime!From treasuring family time and building a nativity scene to engaging in acts of generosity and faith, Lee Ann offers practical and heartfelt advice for Christian parents seeking to instill the true spirit of Christmas in their children. With a focus on community service, spiritual enrichment, and the joy of giving, this episode resonates with anyone seeking to nurture a Christ-centered approach to the holiday season. Lee Ann also shares her childhood memories and explores ways to create meaningful and lasting Christmas traditions for children.Key Takeaways: Create meaningful Christmas memories: Take a lot of pictures throughout the Christmas season, create a nativity scene, engage in hands-on activities related to the birth of Jesus, and attend Christmas services or performances. Give back during Christmas: Encourage children to give important items they love to charity, create care packages for homeless families, send homemade cards to soldiers or elderly individuals, and bake cookies for nursing homes. Celebrate the birth of Jesus: Do fun December activities focused on biblical stories, and make placemats, cards, and advent calendars with biblical stories/themes. Resources and gifts for families this Christmas season: “Christmas Activities That Focus on Jesus,” by Focus on the Family. Purchase a child nativity advent calendar here. Purchase Scripture Bear here. Sea Kids Book & Animation Series.All of us at Raising Christian Kids wish you and your family a blessed Christmas season as you celebrate the birth of our savior. May this new year find you and your family well and safe. We hope and pray that we will continue to do our very best to serve you and your families.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“This provides parents with a very simple and fun and engaging guide to teach our kids that the bible has a solution for every problem we face. And so we cover 36 of the most common struggles that all kids face; we give you simple lessons, we give you biblical tools, and we give you fun family activities and discussion guides.” -Katie J. Trent.Katie J. Trent is a licensed clinical social worker, a respected leader in the Christian homeschool community, and the founder of Family Faith-Building Academy. She spent over a decade counseling children, teens, and families before transitioning to homeschooling and writing.During this episode, Katie discusses her latest book, Recipes for a Sweet Child. She offers valuable insights and practical tools for parents who are seeking to effectively disciple their kids and instill a strong faith from an early age. Katie emphasizes the importance of nurturing a healthy parent-child relationship as a foundation for effective discipleship. Her book offers strategies to integrate faith into everyday activities, such as baking and other fun family activities. By actively incorporating the teachings of the Bible into a child's life, parents can help them develop a solid faith that is resilient against the challenges of the world.Many parents feel overwhelmed or ill-equipped to navigate the complexities of raising kids with a strong faith. Katie's book and insights offer reassurance that nobody has to have all the answers immediately, and that a nurturing relationship with their children is the key to fostering open conversations and wrestling with tough questions. It can also help parents gain the confidence to navigate common struggles like disobedience and peer pressure, while instilling biblical principles in their children's hearts.Whether you are a seasoned homeschooling parent or part of a non-homeschooling family, this book can be incorporated into any family's life as it provides a flexible framework that allows parents to tailor the activities to their unique circumstances and needs. The devotionals and activities can be adapted for various ages, making them applicable to families with both young and older children.Katie’s website, Facebook & Instagram.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Do your children know how to respect biblical and social authority?During this episode, Lee Ann delves into the crucial topic of authority and its role in Christian parenting. Recognizing the prevalent lack of respect for authority in today's society, Lee Ann emphasizes the importance of teaching children to respect authority for their own well-being and their eternal journey.Lee Ann discusses social authority and biblical authority and how we can teach our children that both are important.She acknowledges that teenagers often question and challenge authority but reminds parents of their calling to rely on God's intervention and guidance during these challenging times. She shares practical strategies to help children comprehend the consequences of disrespecting authority, ranging from discussing real-life news stories to exploring personal experiences. By helping children personally relate to the effects of disobedience, they can learn to develop a genuine appreciation for authority and its role in maintaining order and safeguarding society. We can teach our children how authority enables the establishment of protective measures such as law enforcement agencies, emergency services, and regulatory bodies that safeguard society from various threats, such as crime, violence, accidents, and natural disasters. Social authority, when exercised justly, ensures fairness and equality. It prevents favoritism, discrimination, and abuse of power by providing checks and balances in our government.However, biblical authority establishes the foundation and significance of Christianity. The Bible, as the inspired word of God, holds the utmost authority in the life of a believer and serves as the ultimate guide for moral and ethical decision-making. It is the source of spiritual guidance, setting moral and ethical standards of righteousness and justice. It is important to help children understand that God’s word is true and that without respect for authority, they could bring harm to themselves and others. Here are a few of the many verses about biblical authority to go over with your children: Exodus 20:12, Romans 13:1, Hebrews 13:17, 1 Peter 2:13-14, and Titus 3:1.As parents, we can make sure our children respect family, societal, and, most importantly, biblical authority!Resources mentioned: “Preteen Ministry Lesson on Respecting Authority,” by Ministry to Preteens, and “Jesus Has Authority – Mark 1:21-28 Sunday School Lesson,” by Kristin Schmidt.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“A guy that used to be a neighbor of ours is now head of pediatrics at the medical school, and he said, “Until you verify to me that your child is properly hydrated, they are well nourished with the right kind of nutrients, they're getting deep sleep, and they're moving every day. I will not pull out that prescription pad.” – Ginny Brant.Ginny Brant grew up in Washington, DC, where she served as a teacher, counselor, and adjunct professor for 28 years. She has written two award-winning books, Finding True Freedom and Unleash Your God-given Healing. During this episode, Ginny Brant addresses the common challenges parents face in the health industry and gives practical advice on healthy living for families.Key Takeaways:-Breaking free from unhealthy habits: Ginny highlights the need for parents and their children to prioritize healthy living by incorporating exercise, proper hydration, and nutritious eating into their daily routines.-Deep sleep and its benefits: She emphasizes the importance of deep sleep in rejuvenating the body and brain and how creating a sleep schedule that aligns with the natural circadian rhythm can greatly enhance overall health.-The inverted food pyramid: Ginny explores the concept of the inverted food pyramid, discussing the consumption of whole, plant-based foods as the foundation for a healthy diet. She also mentions the importance of limiting children’s exposure to added sugars and processed foods because they can have a profound impact on their long-term well-being.-Finding natural remedies for illness: She shares insights into finding healthy alternatives and natural remedies for common childhood illnesses and the many benefits of essential oils and other holistic approaches that can be used alongside synthetic medicines.-Integrative medicine: Various hospital systems are beginning to recognize the value of integrative medicine, combining conventional treatments with complementary approaches to enhance patient outcomes. Ginny shares her own experiences with an integrated approach to cancer treatment, highlighting the importance of a holistic approach to healing and recovery.Ginny’s resources: Website, Facebook, Instagram & YouTube.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Struggling to find age-appropriate Christian content for your kids? The Towers of Light series is an engaging and educational book series that brings biblical truths to life.Allen Brokken is a teacher at heart, a husband, and a father most of all. He began writing the Towers of Light series for his own children to help illustrate the deep truths of the Bible in an engaging and age-appropriate way. He’s dedicated 18 years to volunteer roles in children’s ministry and youth development. Now that his children are off to college, he’s sharing stories and clean humor on social media and his blog.During this episode, Allen shares his personal journey as a father and why he decided to write the Towers of Light series. With his own experiences of struggling to find meaningful ways to connect with his children amidst a demanding job, Allen found solace in storytelling and used it as a powerful tool to bridge the gap. Allen has created a unique avenue through his stories for parents to introduce complex theological concepts to their children effortlessly. Unlike other Christian children's series, Allen's books integrate realistic conversations about faith and an unwavering commitment to the truth found in the Bible. This approach eliminates the common pitfall of appearing preachy and allows children to actively participate in unraveling the mystery of their faith.Allen also offers additional resources to support Christian families. Recognizing the struggles faced by children with reading difficulties or dyslexia, he developed the Pathway audio player. This device, which contains locked-down content, offers a screen-free and distraction-free platform for children to listen to audiobooks and even explore the depths of God's word through audio Bibles. Allen's mission is to make discipleship accessible and engaging for all children, regardless of their reading abilities.Allen's Towers of Light series and innovative resources can help you draw your children closer to Christ!Allen’s Website & Social Media: Towers of Light, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, Pinterest, & YouTube.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Did you know children in high-achieving school districts had higher rates of substance misuse, depression, and anxiety?During this episode, Lee Ann opens a thought-provoking discussion by addressing the competitive culture and the pressure to succeed that often infiltrates children's lives. Drawing wisdom from the word of God, Lee Ann highlights key scriptures that shed light on this issue and provide guidance for parents and their children. She also shares shocking statistics and reveals how even high-achieving school districts can inadvertently contribute to increased substance misuse and mental health issues among children.Lee Ann acknowledges the pressures parents face in wanting their children to excel in all areas of life. From academic achievement to fitting in on social media, the demands placed on our children are overwhelming. However, it is important for parents to let go of what they cannot control and instead focus on being a living example of grace in the face of adversity. She encourages listeners to trust God's sovereignty and find peace in understanding that He is in control. By embracing this mindset, parents can release the unnecessary pressures that society places on them and their children, leading to better physical and emotional well being for the whole family.By listening to this episode, you will hopefully gain a biblical perspective on the pressures children face today and discover how to support your child's spiritual growth amidst the demands of society, learn practical strategies to reduce stress, and find encouragement and guidance in becoming a living example of God's grace!Resources mentioned: “The Pressures of the 21st Century Parenting,” by Sarah Walton & “The Difference Between Preparing and Pressuring Your Children to Follow Jesus,” by Patrick Schwenk.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
How can parents courageously stand up against the antichristian influence when they see their teens are being lead down the wrong path?Three women of Christ on a mission have joined together, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”!During this episode, all three ladies discuss how Christian parents can navigate the challenges of raising kids in a chaotic and sinful world. They dive into the fears and concerns that Christian parents often face about the negative influence of culture on children. All three ladies offer valuable insights and strategies for parents to courageously stand up against the anti-Christian influences that their teens may encounter.Rhonda Stoppe emphasizes the need to focus on the main thing – preaching Christ. She reminds parents that while the world may seem chaotic, our main responsibility is to equip our children to love God and share the gospel. She also encourages parents to have compassion for those who are blinded by Satan's influence. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield emphasizes the importance of teaching kids what to say "yes" to rather than just focusing on what to say "no" to. She encourages parents to help their children find their purpose and make a positive impact in the world.Lee Ann adds that throughout history, there has always been an evil influence on society, but there is also good. By teaching children to understand the battles between good and evil through the lens of Scripture, parents can equip them to make wise choices. All three ladies also touch upon the topics of suicide, bullying, and the importance of having open communication with teenagers. They provide practical advice on how parents can approach these topics with children and offer resources for further guidance.Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfields books.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Thanksgiving is a time to celebrate all God has done for us and to get together to give thanks to one another. The Bible is filled with stories that can serve as valuable tools to help children understand the concept of thankfulness and appreciate the blessings in their lives. Each story highlights different aspects of gratitude, reminding children to express thanks to others, recognize their own faults, appreciate God's provision, and be content with what they have.During this episode, Lee Ann discusses six bible stories to help children understand the meaning of thankfulness: The Story of the Ten Lepers (Luke 17:11-19): In this story, Jesus encounters ten lepers who beg him for mercy and healing. After Jesus heals them, only one of them comes back to express thankfulness. This story teaches children the importance of showing gratitude and appreciating the kindness of others. The Story of Jonah and the Big Fish (Jonah 1-3): When Jonah disobeys God and tries to escape his mission, he is swallowed by a giant fish. After three days, Jonah repents and thanks God for saving him. This story emphasizes the importance of being grateful for second chances and recognizing our own faults, as well as realizing the many blessings we may take for granted. The Story of the Feeding of the Five Thousand (Matthew 14:13-21): Jesus feeds a large multitude of people with just a few loaves of bread and fish, showcasing God's abundant provision. After everyone had eaten and was satisfied, there were still twelve baskets of leftovers. This story teaches children to appreciate and give thanks for the blessings and miracles in their lives. We can explain that there are many people in the world who have nothing to eat, and we should always show thankfulness for the food God gives us. Remind them that wherever they are, they can always say a silent prayer of thanks for their food. The Story of the Widow's Offering (Mark 12:41-44): Jesus observes a widow putting all she had, two small coins, into the temple treasury. Although she gave so little, Jesus commends her for her sacrificial giving, highlighting the importance of gratefulness and contentment with whatever we have, no matter how small. This story will help your child understand that we are to give thanks to the Lord because he always provides for our needs. When we go to God with open hands to give to others, God will bless our open hands by giving back to us. The Story of Joseph and His Brothers (Genesis 37-50): This story follows Joseph's journey from being sold into slavery by his jealous brothers to becoming Egypt's second most powerful man. Despite the hardships he endured, Joseph remained thankful and trusted in God's plan. The story showcases the importance of gratitude, even in difficult circumstances. The Story of Hannah and Samuel (1 Samuel 1-3): Hannah, a barren woman, prayed passionately for a child. When God answered her prayer and blessed her with Samuel, she responded with a heartfelt prayer of thankfulness. Hannah thanked God by giving back her only son to serve the Lord. This story teaches children the value of appreciating answered prayers and expressing gratitude to God in words and deeds.Have a blessed Thanksgiving, and be thankful every day that God chose you to be a parent!RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“I think the Bible is very clear that God is a warrior god. There are so many times throughout the Old Testament that we see God leading his people into battle against their enemies.… I think God has wired our boys to identify with this unique aspect of God's character, and I think our boys reflect God's character in a unique way and that they are drawn to battle and adventure and things like that.” – Laurie Christine.Laurie Christine is an author, podcast host, Biblical Parenting Coach, wife, and mom of four wild, loud, adventurous boys. Her podcast, Redeeming the Chaos, invites moms of boys to join her on the wild, wonderful adventure of raising courageous boys and connecting them with Christ.During the episode, Laurie shares insights into her new devotional book, Rise of the Enemy - Book One in the Dragon Slayer Bible Series, and how it can help raise boys who develop deep connections with Christ. Drawing inspiration from Revelation 12:7-9, Laurie shares how this pivotal passage serves as the foundation for the Dragon Slayer Bible series. She introduces Michael, the archangel, as the storyteller, and the dragon is used as a metaphor for Satan, focusing on the theme of spiritual warfare and using the imagery of a dragon to engage children in the adventure of biblical truth. Laurie explains how the book guides children to identify the lies of the enemy and equip themselves with God's word to stand strong against the devil's attacks.“Our battle is not against flesh and blood. Right? But against the spiritual forces of evil.” - Laurie Christine.Laurie also offers additional resources on her website, including a free eBook titled Bored with the Bible, which offers practical tips and ideas on making family devotional time more exciting. She has various prayer resources and an amazing podcast, Redeeming the Chaos, for anyone who wishes to raise courageous boys into godly men! Access all of her resources discussed in this episode here!RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Let's create an environment for our children where faith is nurtured, and trust in God is built through consistency, integrity, and authenticity!During this episode, Lee Ann Mancini delves into the importance of embodying godly characteristics as parents and the potential negative impact of hypocrisy on our children.Key Takeaways: Children look to their parents as role models and rely on their words and actions to guide them. When parents claim to be Christian but fail to act accordingly, trust can be shattered, leading to confusion and potential harm. Parents must strive to align their words and actions, avoiding double standards that send mixed messages to their children. Rectifying unintentional hypocrisy is crucial for building trust and fostering a positive parent-child relationship. Children often view religious leaders as trustworthy figures, but when they witness hypocrisy within the church community, their faith may be shaken. Building relationships with church leaders who practice what they preach is essential to nurturing children's trust in the church and God. Witnessing inconsistency between preached values and actual behaviors can cause emotional distress in children. Feelings of disappointment, anger, and betrayal can lead to anxiety, depression, and a negative attitude towards religion. Parents must prioritize consistency to support their child's emotional well-being and spiritual growth. Hypocritical actions contradict the moral principles parents aim to instill in their children; this inconsistency can confuse children about right and wrong, hindering their moral development and ability to empathize, make ethical decisions, and form healthy relationships. Maintaining strong character and integrity is key to fostering trust between parents and children. By aligning beliefs and actions to the best of their ability, parents can create a positive environment for their children to grow in faith and build trust in the God they represent. Make a list of the rules you have set for you kids; then each day, try as best as you can to see if you violate the rules you have set for your kids. When we tell our kids to always be kind and don’t talk about others negatively, yet they hear us on the phone breaking this very important ethical rule.Luke 6:46 states, “Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say?” And Mark 7:6, Jesus said, “Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you hypocrites; as it is written: “ ‘These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.’”RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“If every rule you have with a child is nonnegotiable, you're going to set up a rebellion because you're raising your child in a prison, not in a home. But if everything in your home is negotiable, every rule is negotiable, well, you're going to set up a rebellion as well.” -Jill Garner.Jill Rigby Garner is the founder and chief visionary officer of the nonprofit organization Manners of the Heart, working to reawaken respect in our society for the sake of the next generation. Jill's parenting books have sold more than 100,000 copies, including the Gold Mom’s Choice Award-winner, Raising Respectful Children in a Disrespectful World. She is currently working on a groundbreaking new book for the parents of tomorrow's leaders called StrongHeart: Cultivating humility, respect, and resiliency in your child.During this episode, Jill Garner discusses the complexities and struggles parents face while raising children in today's world. She shares the reasons why children are more disrespectful than ever before, highlighting the impact of culture, social media, and the decline in expectations for children over the past few generations. She emphasizes that the main culprit lies in the misguided notion of self-esteem, which has been wrongly instilled in parenting approaches. Jill challenges the popular belief that children need self-esteem, pointing to scripture that teaches us to esteem others and God, but not ourselves. She argues that by prioritizing our children's happiness over holiness and failing to discipline them effectively, we inadvertently contribute to a lack of respect and self-centeredness in their behavior.They talk about the difference between self-worth and self-esteem, with Jill offering a fresh perspective that defies societal norms. She introduces the concept of the "mirror of self-esteem" and highlights the dangers of children becoming either self-conceited or self-conscious when overly focused on themselves. Jill reminds us that true answers and fulfillment lie not within ourselves but in our faith and relationship with God.She also outlines the four stages of child development—tots, tykes, tweens, and teens—and reveals the soul questions that children at each stage need answered. By understanding and addressing these fundamental questions, parents can foster respect and build strong foundations for their children's character development.Jill’s Website, Manners of the Heart, Instagram, & Facebook.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
How can faith lessons and moral lessons positively shape the lives of our children?During this episode, Lee Ann Mancini explores the difference between moral and faith lessons and how they are interconnected and play a crucial role in shaping our children's beliefs, values, and actions.Moral lessons refer to the principles or guidelines that govern individuals' behavior and actions. These lessons are often based on ethical considerations, values, and principles that are universally accepted or agreed upon by a particular community or society. They can either be contrary to our faith, or they can support our faith journey. This is why teaching our children that we adhere to a biblical worldview is extremely important to their moral development.Faith lessons, on the other hand, are derived from religious beliefs based upon the living word of God. These lessons involve understanding the tenets and doctrines aimed at fostering a deeper spiritual connection to God. They include rituals, prayers, meditations, and, most importantly, the word of God. Faith lessons are aimed at helping individuals deepen their faith, attain spiritual growth, and live by the will of God.It is also important to teach children the Ten Commandments, explain their meaning, and discuss how to adhere to these moral standards in daily life. We can also explain to our children that inner convictions are beliefs and opinions we have that help us to decide between right and wrong, and these convictions are the guiding principles that allow us to make choices or help to determine how we act in the world.Ultimately, the combination of faith and morality empowers our children to treat others with kindness, compassion, and empathy. These virtues promote fairness, justice, and the well-being of others, allowing our children to have a positive impact on society while upholding the dignity of all those created in the image of God.Living in a world that often challenges these values, relying on our faith and Christian morality grants us peace. It helps us navigate through an increasingly hostile environment. By understanding the difference between a faith lesson and a moral lesson, we can raise strong Christian kids who exemplify the character and behavior of Jesus, reflecting His love and teachings.Resources: Fruit Full: 100 Family Experiences for Growing in the Fruit of the Spirit, by Christie Thomas. “How Do We Plant Godly Convictions in Our Children?” by Joel R. Beeke. “20 Victorious Virtues,” by Raising Christian Kids.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“I think the most obvious thing is just invite them into your home. We do so much healing in our homes… The more kids can invite other kids into your home where conversations are happening about life, questions can be asked and answered. I think it gives those kids such a gift.” -Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield.Three women of Christ on a mission have joined together, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”!During this episode, all three ladies engage in an insightful conversation where they discuss practical tips, biblical examples, and words of encouragement for all parents, addressing the common challenges faced by single moms, single fathers, or motherless/fatherless children being raised by others. Rhonda, Michelle, and Lee Ann provide heartfelt encouragement to single parents, reminding them they are not alone.Dr. Michelle emphasizes the importance of acknowledging the impact of growing up without a mom or dad and not dismissing its significance. She also highlights the role of the Christian community in filling those gaps. There is an organization called "God is My Dad," founded by someone who grew up fatherless. This organization encourages intact two-parent households to invite fatherless or motherless children into their homes to provide positive experiences and mentorship.Rhonda shares biblical examples showcasing the impact of godly influences and the support of the church community in raising children of faith. Rhonda also shares her experience with her son, Tony, who joined their family at the age of 15. Her husband became his father in the faith, helping him heal from past wounds and find his identity in Christ rather than resenting his absent biological father. She mentions the podcast, Plus One Parenting, where the host is a single mom who does a really good job at connecting single moms and helping them find some support.All three ladies stress the importance of honoring and affirming those who serve as spiritual moms and dads to children from single-parent homes. Their presence and love can make a significant difference in the lives of children who may have a parental void. Recognizing and appreciating these spiritual mentors can bring affirmation and support to those in need.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
How can humility contribute to a child's peace of mind and heart?During this episode, Lee Ann explores the importance of instilling humility in our children's hearts. In a world where self-centeredness and personal desires are constantly promoted, it is crucial to teach our children the value of humility and selflessness. Humility allows us to face adversity with peace in our minds and hearts. She also discusses how humility helps children handle bullies, both online and in the real world, by recognizing their worth in Christ and not allowing the opinions of others to define them.Referencing the words of Jesus in Matthew 18, Lee Ann unravels the true meaning of becoming like children. Jesus calls us to abandon our desire for status and turn towards Him with childlike hearts. We must also be cautious not to cause others, especially our little ones, to stumble in their faith. She reminds us of the weighty consequences Jesus mentions for those who lead others astray. Humility prevents us from taking on a know-it-all attitude and instead encourages us to approach others with kindness, love, and teachability.Lee Ann offers practical tips on how to teach our children humility, such as teaching them to share, encouraging them to show kindness, and role-playing different scenarios to help them navigate the challenges of humility with grace.Key Takeaways: Humility is essential for our children's spiritual growth. It allows them to rely on Christ and find their security in Him, even in the face of adversity. Jesus's call to be like children does not imply innocence but rather an abandonment of status-seeking and a selfless attitude. By encouraging our children to take a humble position, we empower them to be great in the kingdom of heaven. Cultivating humility in our children involves teaching them to be selfless, kind, and loving. Role-playing scenarios and discussing acts of kindness experienced during the day can further reinforce this important virtue.Let’s strive to be like Christ, exemplifying humility just like Jesus, who forgave those who crucified Him. Let’s teach our children the power of forgiveness and the strength that comes from living a humble life!RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“We're also hearing back from those moms who now put their daughters in American heritage Girls and are thrilled that we have stayed the course, that we have maintained our Christ-centered focus despite what the culture is doing.” -Patti Garibay.For more than two decades, Patti Garibay has been at the forefront of countering the culture by leading girls and women to create lives of integrity. She is the founder and executive director of American Heritage Girls, a national Christ-centered leadership and character development program. She helps thousands of girls discover their identity and purpose in Christ through AHG’s transformative programs. Today, AHG stands strong, with over 52,000 members globally with AHG Troops in all 50 states and 15 countries.During this episode, Patti touches upon many factors that made her want to create a Christ-centered organization for girls. She mentions the modifications made to the Girl Scouts organization, including the manifestation of moral relativism, strange treatment of sexuality, and pro-abortion lean. This prompted Patti to create her organization, American Heritage Girls, a character development program based on solid truth and values.Patti details the many awards and programs AHG offers, such as badges that focus on skills-based learning, allowing girls to explore various interests and potentially discover future vocations. They also offer service projects called Service Stars that encourage girls to put their faith into action by serving others. Additionally, AHG offers level awards, which require girls to earn badges, service stars, and faith awards, promoting goal-oriented growth as they progress through the program.She also shares heartwarming stories of girls who have gone through the program and its positive impact on their lives. Many alumni have even returned to AHG, with their own daughters now becoming members, highlighting the long-lasting and intergenerational influence of the organization. For those interested in joining American Heritage Girls, Patti explains that it's as simple as visiting their website and using the zip code finder to locate a troop nearby. Churches are also encouraged to consider starting a troop, as AHG can provide assistance. Starting a troop can be a meaningful way of growing a family ministry and creating strong bonds within the church community.American Heritage Girls Website, Facebook, Twitter, & Instagram.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Did you know that according to statistics, only 26% of Americans trust public schools?During this episode, Lee Ann shares seven prayers to pray daily and often to keep your children safe and happy as they return to school for another year. Pray for your children’s protection. Ask God to cover them with a legion of angels to keep evil intentions away and to protect their minds from false doctrine. Ask God to give them wisdom and discernment to know the truth and to reject lies. Pray for campus safety, for the buildings to be secure, and for the area around the school to be a fortress of safety. (Reference John 17:15 & 2 Thessalonians 3:3.) Pray for the teachers and staff. Ask the Lord to remove anyone with evil intent and provide teachers who will be godly role models. Pray that all who work at the school are kind and loving to your children in all circumstances and interactions. (Reference 1 Peter 4:10 & 2 Timothy 2:15.) Pray for purity amongst the students, teachers, and staff. Ask the Lord to keep their intentions and thoughts pure and to guard them against temptation. Pray that the materials in the school don’t violate the biblical directives we want to instill in our children. Let any impure or evil curriculum be brought to the parents’ attention, and may the school deal with removal effectively and expeditiously. Reference Philippians 4:8 & Colossians 3:2.) Pray that everyone at school exemplifies patience. Ask the Lord to instill patience in your child’s heart and mind and help them to let others go first. Pray they will have the patience to wait on the Lord for guidance and direction before they choose to speak or take any action and to have patience as they sit in class and not become a distraction to others or lose self-control. (Reference 1 Corinthians 13:4 & Ephesians 4:2.) Pray for wisdom and discernment. Pray that your children can recall all they learn and apply their wisdom to serve God and others. Pray that the teachers are sharing wisdom in line with God's word. Pray for wisdom to choose friends who exhibit godly characteristics. (Reference James 1:5 & James 3:13-18.) Pray for your children to have kindness and generosity. Pray they will desire to be kind even when a bully is in their path. Ask the Lord to connect their heart and mind to Christ so they can emulate Christ-like qualities. Ask God to instill a deep desire to be a good friend to all and always to accept forgiveness. (Reference Ephesians 4:32 & 2 Corinthians 9:11-12.) Pray your children will be a witness for Christ and that they will look for opportunities to honor and glorify God in all they do and speak. Ask the Lord to bless them with gifts and talents that allow them to be a shining light for Christ. Pray your child will be disciples of Christ and will be blessed for their faith. (Reference 1 Timothy 4:12 & Matthew 5:16.)Resources Mentioned: The Power of a Praying Parent & The Power of Praying for Your Adult Children by Stormie Omartian.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“We want them to do things better than we did. We want to share things so that they don't fall into it, but they need to actually sometimes experience things themselves because that could be part of their spiritual journey.” -Lori Wildenberg.Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.During this episode of MOMents with Lori and LeeAnn, both ladies offer practical tips and advice on how to help teens stay rooted in their faith and make wise decisions when faced with secular influences and peer pressure.Lori emphasizes the importance of fostering open and honest conversations with teens about their faith and the challenges they face. She encourages parents to focus on nurturing their teens' identity in Christ, reminding them of their inherent worth and purpose. By teaching biblical truths and equipping teens with the knowledge of who they are in Christ, parents can help them become resilient against negative influences. She reminds parents not to panic if their teens make mistakes or succumb to negative influences but rather to use those moments as learning opportunities. Maintaining compassion and understanding is crucial during these times and can help guide teens back onto the right path.Lee Ann suggests developing a plan of escape for teens and role-playing potential scenarios to empower them with the tools to navigate challenging situations. She also talks about the importance of preparing children ahead of time by discussing secular influences and researching the current landscape together. Engaging teens in discussions where their opinions are valued allows for a more receptive and collaborative approach to teaching and guiding them.Both ladies stress the importance of keeping children active and involved in activities such as sports to keep them focused and busy. They also encourage parents to pray for guidance and to ask God to keep their eyes open to any hidden challenges or issues their teens may face.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“For churches to be putting most of their ministry resources into reaching an adult is bad stewardship. It's not going to have much impact. If you want to transform lives and you want to take part in that, you should put most of your resources, most of your thoughts, your energy, your teaching, your time, your people, and all the resources you've got into ministering children because they're the ones whose world is being radically shaped today.” – Dr. George Barna.George Barna is a professor and Director of Research at the Cultural Research Center at Arizona Christian University. He is also the Senior Research Fellow at the Family Research Council’s Center for Biblical Worldview. He founded The Barna Group, the Barna Institute, the American Culture and Faith Institute, and Metaformation. His new book, Raising Spiritual Champions, is the 60th book that Barna has authored or co-authored. His books have addressed social and religious trends, worldview, leadership, spiritual development, church dynamics, and cultural transformation.During this second part of the two-part episode series with Dr. George Barna, the discussion continues about the alarming statistics revolving around church ministry leaders and the impact they have on raising children with a strong biblical foundation.Some of the shocking statistics about ministry leaders: 56% believe that sexual relations between consenting adults who are not married to each other are morally acceptable. 61% of children's pastors say it doesn't matter what faith you believe in as long as you have some kind of faith. 12% of churches have Bible-oriented ministers. 37% of pastors have a biblical worldview.Many children's ministry leaders hold beliefs that contradict fundamental Christian teachings, such as denying the existence of absolute moral truth or endorsing morally questionable behaviors. These beliefs have significant consequences on the teachings and influences our children receive within the church. Dr. Barna stresses the critical role parents play as the primary spiritual leaders for their children. With the decline of Christian influence in society, parents must actively discipline their children. Dr. Barna emphasizes the importance of understanding the true meaning of discipleship, as defined by Jesus himself. The core principles of discipleship involve obeying God's teachings, loving others, producing spiritual fruit, and surrendering everything to follow Christ.He highlights the top influencers in a child's life, including parents, schools, peers, government, and arts/entertainment, collectively holding 70% of influence. It raises the question: why does the church fail to make this list? Dr. Barna suggests that churches often undervalue children, seeing them merely as bait to attract adults. He challenges parents to actively engage in their children's spiritual upbringing and invest in ministry that truly impacts their lives.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“The fact that less than 1% of adolescents and 1% of teenagers have a biblical worldview. I mean, you can't get much lower than that. So, we've abjectly failed in terms of raising our children. We can look at the fact that only 2% of the parents of kids under the age of 13 have a biblical worldview. That's appalling. You can't give what you don't have.” -Dr. George Barna.George Barna is a professor and Director of Research at the Cultural Research Center at Arizona Christian University. He is also the Senior Research Fellow at the Family Research Council’s Center for Biblical Worldview. He founded The Barna Group, the Barna Institute, the American Culture and Faith Institute, and Metaformation. His new book, Raising Spiritual Champions, is the 60th book that Barna has authored or co-authored. His books have addressed social and religious trends, worldview, leadership, spiritual development, church dynamics, and cultural transformation.During this episode, Dr. George Barna sheds light on the troubling statistics of today’s world and details four essential disciple-making practices that have proven effective in children. Some of the shocking statistics about children ages 13-14: 43% don’t know or care if there is a God. 56% believe there is no absolute truth. 61% believe Jesus sinned or may have sinned while he was on earth. 70% believe Satan does not exist.One of the key takeaways is that children start forming their worldview as early as a few months old and solidify it by the age of 13. Their worldview helps answer fundamental questions about identity, purpose, and morality. Dr. Barna reveals that media has emerged as the dominant influence on children's worldviews, surpassing parental and church guidance.Four essential disciple-making practices that have proven effective in his book, Raising Spiritual Champions: Make a commitment: Parents must view themselves as disciple-makers rather than merely caregivers. This shift in mindset enables them to guide their children on the path of faith. Know your beliefs: Parents need to deeply understand their Christian beliefs, origins, and significance first; then, they can initiate an ongoing journey of faith exploration together by sharing and modeling these beliefs with their children. Convert beliefs into action: Simply believing in Christian values is not enough; action is required. Children learn by example and need to see their parents living out their faith through consistent actions aligned with their beliefs. Measure progress: Regularly evaluating the effectiveness of their parenting efforts is crucial. Parents should assess both their personal faith journey and their children's spiritual growth, making adjustments and seeking support as needed.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
By embedding biblical principles organically into everyday life, kids can remain steadfast in their faith for a lifetime!During this episode, Lee Ann Mancini shares valuable insights on how to demonstrate love and care for your children, all while connecting their hearts and minds to Christ. From writing love notes to engaging in open-ended conversations about their day, Lee Ann provides practical ways to bring Jesus into everyday interactions with your little ones. She also emphasizes the importance of honesty, active listening, and establishing a mutually responsive relationship.Key Takeaways: Prepare your child's heart to be receptive to Christ's love and teachings. Include love notes in your child's lunchbox, reminding them of God's love and presence in their lives. Learn how to engage your children in meaningful conversations about their day, creating opportunities to share about Jesus and his impact on their lives. Make your child's birthday a special occasion by emphasizing the significance of their birth, incorporating Christian themes, and fostering an exciting atmosphere from the moment they wake up. Understand the importance of honesty in building trust with your children to create a foundation for open communication and lifelong faith. It is important to give your children your full attention, listen to their feelings, and model respect in order to build a strong parent-child relationship. Embrace small gestures such as crosses on foreheads, gentle touches, and blessings that organically reinforce the significance of Jesus in your children's lives. Give correction and compliments by following Jesus' example of praising efforts and expressing disappointment constructively. Display and cherish your children's artwork, creating lasting memories of their artistic expression and their journey with Christ. Guide your children in expressing their viewpoints respectfully, drawing inspiration from Jesus' loving disagreements with those he cared for. Instead of saying no, use the yes sandwich. Cultivate a culture of love and faith by consistently reminding your children that you love them, encouraging nightly prayers, and fostering strong connections even as they grow older.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“Our feelings may come and go, and sometimes the world says that somehow can affect you, but your DNA imprint is so strong there is no way that you cannot be what ordained you to be.” -Rhonda Stoppe.Three women of Christ on a mission have joined together, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”!During this episode, all three ladies delve into how parents can discuss sensitive issues like same-sex attraction and gender identity with children while staying true to the principles laid out in the Word of God. By fostering open, age-appropriate conversations grounded in biblical truth, parents can learn to guide their children toward a solid understanding of God's design for gender while teaching them to love and respect others.Key Takeaways: It is important for parents to be proactive in discussing these topics rather than leaving it to outside voices to shape their children's understanding. Know the research: statistics reveal many teens believe gender is based on feelings rather than biological sex. Encouragement for parents to familiarize themselves with research findings to facilitate informed discussions with their children. Ground your children in Biblical truth and the significance of parents being rooted in their own understanding of God's design for gender. If we firmly establish the biblical perspective that we are created male and female in God's image, parents can counter societal ideas of gender fluidity with unchanging truth. Have age-appropriate conversations because it is crucial to start addressing these topics with children from a young age. Children are naturally curious, and parents should aim to provide gentle, age-appropriate responses that align with their family's worldview and biblical principles. Address the media influence rather than shying away from difficult topics; watch shows or movies together and use them as opportunities to discuss confusing or misleading messages portrayed on screen. Foster love and compassion by teaching children to love and respect others while also holding steadfast to biblical truths; loving others does not mean compromising personal values, but rather pointing people towards Christ and trusting God as the ultimate judge. Truth is not subjective but rather rooted in God's unchanging Word.“Barna Group did a Gen Z study and found that 1/3 of teens say gender is how a person feels inside, not their birth sex… I don't believe there's anything biblically that backs that up. We're created male and female and in god's image, and it's not a feeling. It's a fact.” -Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
What are some practical ways parents can incorporate the name of Jesus into everyday moments with their infants and toddlers?Our most important job as parents is to help our children grow closer to Christ. We can start this Christian parenting journey by preparing the soil for our children's faith from a young age. By planting biblical wisdom deep in their hearts and minds, we can lay a strong foundation for them to build upon as they grow older.During this episode, Lee Ann Mancini dives into the importance of preparing the soil, starting from infancy, to build a strong foundation in Christ. She shares practical tips and insights on connecting your child's needs with the name of Jesus, from feeding time to playtime. Lee Ann also emphasizes the significance of including Jesus in daily routines, such as prayer, reading the Bible, and worshiping, so it becomes second nature for your child. She highlights the importance of inviting Jesus into every situation and the significance of building a solid foundation before age five when most of the brain develops.So, how can we do this?Start Early: From infancy, make a conscious effort to connect your child's needs being met with the name of Jesus. Whether it's feeding time, playtime, or bedtime, intertwine the name of Jesus with their experiences, fostering a deep love and relationship with Him.Lead by Example: Children are natural imitators. Model prayer, Bible reading, and worship in front of your child. Make it a daily routine, and soon enough, they will want to do it on their own. You are setting the foundation for a strong Christian life by encouraging them to develop self-control and discipline.Have Fun with Jesus: Incorporate Jesus into all aspects of your child's life, including playtime. Act out biblical stories or situations with their teddy bears or toys. Make it interactive, engaging, and enjoyable.By implementing these strategies, you can nurture your child's spiritual growth and raise them to become strong Christian individuals who will continue to walk closely with Jesus even as they grow older!RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“There are some parenting trends out there where it’s like, ‘We want our kids just to figure out their own faith.’ And a lot of parents are keying into this… God has put eternity in our heart, but I also believe, and I know this through scripture, that parents are called to talk about faith – we are to lead the way.” -Lori Wildenberg.Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.During this episode of MOMents with Lori and LeeAnn, both ladies share wisdom on how we can help draw our children, from the womb to young adults, closer to Christ.Key Takeaways: For unborn babies in the womb, newborns, toddlers, and young children: Play and sing Christian songs and read scripture to them – children can still receive communication even though they can’t express it yet. Repeat short comments such as “Jesus loves you” or “Jesus is love.” Pay attention to what toys they play with and what shows they watch – have Christian toys and watch Christian shows that you can biblically reference repeatedly as you start to teach them biblical concepts and stories. Envision where you want your children to be when they are young adults – then go backward and create a plan to get them there. Say, “Thank you, Jesus, for this food at every meal and snack.” Nursing infants should hear Jesus’ name, connecting their needs that are being met with his name. For preteens and teenagers: Have casual, organic conversations every day to help them want to open up to you and be able to talk about their faith with you. Talk about when God does things in your life so they feel more comfortable realizing when he is doing something in their lives. Don’t let your kids figure out their faith– the parent’s job is to lead the way and build that strong foundation. Teenagers will challenge parents, which is a good thing, especially when they are asking hard questions about faith and life because this means they’re taking faith seriously. For young adults: Teach them to be resilient to overcome struggles and issues in life so that they can keep their faith strong and prevalent. One of the biggest problems for young adults is understanding people's suffering, which can cause a big faith crisis. Make sure you stay the spiritual leader for your children even when they don’t live with you anymore – text them good night prayers or reminders to say their prayers every day.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
Did you know that there are approximately 180 miracles throughout the Bible?Essentially, a miracle is known to be an event that cannot be explained by natural or scientific laws and is considered to be the work of God. But a miracle is not necessarily a violation of the laws of nature or science because God could easily use the laws of nature or science in an unusual way. So, if miracles are real, how can we as parents explain to our child why one person who prays for a miracle may receive the miracle while another person who prays for one may not?During this episode, Lee Ann gives real-life and biblical examples of miracles that you can use when teaching your children about miracles.Ensuring our children understand that God is a just God is important. He is always fair in whatever he decides to do or not to do. Sometimes, he doesn’t answer our prayers because what we ask for may not be the best for us or our loved ones. We can help our children understand that since God created us, he knows infinitely more than we do. He knows all things. God gives life and takes life. He answers our prayers according to his perfect will. And it is also important that we help our children pray for the right things.Explain to your child that these are real-life miracles when they look out their window and see the sun rising and setting, the birds chirping, the flowers blooming, the waves rippling, and the fish swimming. The day they were born was a miracle of life. Miracles are all around us if we choose to open our eyes.Let’s not forget about the many miracles of Jesus. For example, he healed the blind, helped the crippled walk, healed illnesses, and raised the dead, but most importantly, he died for our sins and gave us righteousness. It’s the triple imputation – Adams sin to us, we sin to Christ, and Christ’s righteousness to us. Scientific evidence does not explain this; no human mind can understand or conceive how this can happen. It is a miraculous God who created all things and saved us all for his glory!Resources mentioned: Best-Loved Miracles of Jesus, by Arch Books. Case for Miracles for Kids, by Lee Strobel & Jesse Florea. Children and the Supernatural, by Jennifer Toledo. Miracles: Do they Happen? Why We Believe in Them, by Henry Morris. “Miracle Woman Ruby Graupera-Cassimiro Survives After 45 Minutes Without Pulse,” by ABC News. “Officers who saved baby in icy river heard mysterious voice,” by CBS News. “Toddler pulled from icy creek revived after 101 minutes of CPR,” by CBC News.RCK social media: Facebook Facebook community group Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
“Stop being so hard on yourself; that is not helpful for any parent ever. Replace those harder thoughts with gentler, kinder thoughts, and remember God loves us and believes in us in these moments.” -Sissy Goff.
Sissy Goff, LPC-MHSP, has worked as the director of child and adolescent counseling at Daystar Counseling Ministries since 1993. She speaks to parents and children's ministers across the country and is a frequent guest on media outlets such as Southern Living, NBC Nightly News, CNN, Good Morning America, Focus on the Family, That Sounds Fun, Family Life Today, Fox News, and many more. Sissy Goff is the author of 13 books, including Modern Parents Vintage Values and The Worry-Free Parent. She co-hosts the chart-topping Raising Boys and Girls podcast with fellow Daystar Counselor David Thomas.
Key Takeaways:
Media and technology have become anxiety-provoking in kids and adults. Four characteristics of parents that could negatively influence kids to grow up with anxiety:
Overly cautious of the world. Critical and set unreasonably high expectations. Emotionally insecure or dependent. Suppress expression and don’t express feelings by being self-assertive.
Two of the most inefficient coping strategies parents use for anxiety are escape and avoidance. Anxiety is an overestimation of the problem and an underestimation of ourselves. If we are reinforcing our kids’ behaviors and pulling them out of situations or keeping them from challenging situations, we are feeding into that anxiety and anxiousness and not helping them learn and overcome obstacles. The benefits of teaching our children to be mindful and to be present where they are. The three-door technique is great for kids who are having trouble sleeping, and it’s basically a coping tool where kids pick three places that they love and feel safe in, and then they close their eyes and pick the first place and go through a door, and they describe everything that they see, feel, and smell, and then they move on to the next door. Five things you can teach your children to do when anxiety takes over: notice the negative thought, give that thought a name (for example, the worry monster), ask, “Is that thought true? Does this really happen every single day?” Then replace that negative thought with the truth.
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Did you know that Princess Kate Middleton, Tom Cruise, Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson, and Jesus were all bullied?Back in Jesus’ day, the Jews were fearful of the Roman soldiers. Romans were confiscating the land, food was scarce, and taxes were up to 80 to 90%. When the Jews protested the heavy tax burden, the Romans killed 6000 Jews! They were feeding the Jews to the lions for entertainment. The Jews faced many bullies, such as the Egyptians, the Assyrians, the Babylonians, and, of course, the Romans. They wanted freedom from oppression and freedom from governmental bullies. In the Bible, the Old Testament was all about war and conquering the enemy, but then Jesus brought the Kingdom of Heaven to earth with his radical agenda contrary to anything described in the Old Testament, teaching his people to love their enemies!
Matthew 5:43-45 states, “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven.”
During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on these seven pointers to assist you in helping your child win over a bully:
- Be kind and don’t engage negatively or try to get even with them; instead, try to diffuse the situation by talking nicely to them.
- Teach your children that the bully is looking for them to engage and want to feel superior in front of their friends – it may not be personal against them, and maybe they are just an easy target.
- Help your child see the bully as a person who is hurting and needs grace and mercy.
- If your child has the gift of humor, tell them to reply with humor to try to defuse the situation or even agree with the bully’s statement to take the sting out of the words the bully uses as a weapon.
- Invite them to your house with your friends for a playdate or try to include them at school – maybe they are lonely and sad.
- Help your child understand that sometimes nothing you do will transform a bully – after all, Jesus was crucified by a mob of bullies whom he tried desperately to show love and compassion to.
- Prayer is vital and essential – pray for the bully with your child.
Resources: “Helping Kids Deal with Bullies” by Focus on the Family & “Know A Child Being Bullied? 5 Steps To Take Right Now” by The Ministry Dad.
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“You are raising the next generation of kingdom changers – give yourself some grace; we’re not perfect. Step out with forgiveness and love and leave that fear and doubt behind.” – Billie Jauss.Billie Jauss is the author of Making Room and Distraction Detox. She is a speaker and the podcast host of The Family Room. She inspires women with practical biblical guidance and challenging motivation to accomplish God’s best in their faith, family, and friends. Billie encourages women to live life to the fullest right where they are.
Key Takeaways:* She shares encouragement for mothers to learn how to put life’s distractions into perspective and allow God to do more in them, letting them embrace all the meaningful moments God has for them. * Learning to control the “right-hand syndrome,” which is constantly offering and volunteering to do everything, even if you are already busy. * Understanding that although external distractions such as spending time scrolling on Instagram or being on the computer aren’t necessarily bad, they can take the place of where God wants you to be. * The importance of parents understanding and processing emotional barriers that produce feelings such as fear, doubt, discouragement, or defeat that we cover up with external distractions. * The benefits of taking a 7-day journey of writing down everything you think about, feel, and process because you used Instagram or your computer to mask those internal issues. * We, as parents, are our biggest critics, and we sometimes can speak negatively about ourselves when we either fail at work, yell at our kids, or argue with our significant others, and that’s how doubt creeps in. * The steps to distraction detox: determine your internal distractions, evaluate your emotional barriers, terminate the toxins, outline a plan to identify, and execute the plan. * Ways to understand and overcome doubt as a parent and move forward. * We must learn to ask our children or husbands for forgiveness when we react with fear. * The three main categories moms fall into when dealing with negative thoughts about being a good mom or wife are fear, unbelief/doubt, and shame/guilt.
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Ephesians 4:31-32 states, “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ, God forgave you.”In embracing the lessons of the Beatitudes, we can gradually transform our hearts and minds as we let go of bitterness, rage, and anger and create space for love, joy, and peace to flourish within us. We can cultivate a spirit of forgiveness and learn to respond to adversity with grace and humility.
During this second part of this two-episode series about the Beatitudes, Lee Ann discusses the rest of the Beatitudes and the benefits of teaching these amazing blessings to children:
- Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy:
- Our world today doesn’t show mercy, but it shows condemnation; in pursuing success, we see ruthless competition.
- The world doesn’t show mercy because it doesn’t understand compassion – it can’t empathize with others.
- The great reversal tells us that we can choose to show compassion, even when it is not reciprocated.
- Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God:
- God’s word tells us that the heart is wicked – we see this wickedness that dwells in those who are not saved.
- The great reversal is that we are to love our enemies because we are pure in heart as Christ dwells within us.
- Help your child understand what a pure heart is and how those who want pure hearts must fight against the desire to sin daily.
- Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God:
- The great reversal we witness is Jesus not engaging in verbal or physical combat when most people would automatically fight back verbally or physically when attacked.
- Jesus told Judas, “Do what you came for, friend,” and told Peter to put his sword away; this is a great example when teaching our children what to do when or if a bully attacks.
- Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven:
- The world will teach our children that it is not a blessing to be persecuted and that there is nothing good about it.
- Worldly righteousness refers to moral or ethical conduct that is widely accepted or valued by society, unlike spiritual or divine righteousness, which is based on principles and values by the word of God and the actions of Christ.
Lee Ann elaborates on the following benefits of teaching your children the Beatitudes:
- They teach children to have humility, mercy, peacemaking, and righteousness.
- They help guide them in making the right choices and treating others with respect and compassion.
- They learn to identify with those suffering or in need, promoting a sense of empathy, compassion, and a desire to help and support others.
- They help develop strong character traits such as meekness and kindness, which promote inner strength, resilience, and virtue.
- They teach children the importance of striving for peace and seeking reconciliation.
- They gain a deeper understanding of God’s love and God’s desire for a relationship with them. They help children to develop a personal connection with God, fostering spiritual growth and providing a foundation for their faith journey.
References: “Teaching the Beatitudes,” by Sunday School Zone & “20 Beatitudes Activities for Middle School,” by Brittany Ray.
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The Beatitudes are like a roadmap on how we are to live on Earth as if we are living in Heaven.
The Beatitudes are eight blessings from the Gospel of Matthew declared by Jesus to his disciples. These blessings can be used to help us on Earth treat people the way we are to treat them in Heaven. The Beatitudes encourage compassion, humility, love for enemies, and a strong desire for justice. They are some of the best teachings from Jesus in the Bible. We live in the “already not yet” time period. This is a theological concept where we live in the present age, the now, and because of our salvation, we also live as if we are living in the kingdom of Heaven. The beatitudes remind us that we are to live daily as if we are currently in Heaven even though we are physically here on Earth – that’s the “already not yet” concept. During this first part of the two-part series covering the Beatitudes, Lee Ann shares how we can explain the Beatitudes to our children and discusses the first four Beatitudes:
Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of Heaven:
The word poor that Jesus uses here refers to those who are living in abject poverty. Our children need to understand that the world's riches mean nothing and that we are blessed even if we are poor – the great reversal because we will have everything in Heaven. Tell your children the story of Mother Theresa; she had nothing but was so happy and blessed because she knew she would gain everything in Heaven.
Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted:
Everyone will suffer loss at one point in life, and Jesus tells us we are blessed because he will wrap his loving arms around us one day. Help your children understand that when they lose a loved one who believes in Jesus, they can rejoice after their initial sadness (the loss), for they are in the arms of Jesus.
Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the Earth:
In Jesus’ day, many were oppressed, and justice belonged to wealthy and influential people. Teach your children to be generous and not greedy in actions, words, and deeds and be content with what they have.
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness:
Righteousness means right relationships with God, others, yourself, and all of God’s creation. Those who hunger and thirst don’t have the right relationships with God and others. God ate and drank with those who were great sinners who didn’t have it together.
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“What I try to encourage parents and grandparents to do, is to teach their kids and their grandkids how to connect with Jesus when they’re scared and how to invite him into the room in a real first-person way.” – Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield.
Three women of Christ on a mission have joined together, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build no-regrets lives! During this episode, all three ladies touch upon how we can help our children feel safe when going to school, considering all of these school shootings happening today. Parents may fear sending their children to school, and kids may fear going to school after hearing about these tragedies; but there are things we can do for and with our children to ease that anxiety, fear, and stress of going to school.
Key Takeaways:
Nurture your child’s trust in you, tell them the truth age-appropriately, fact-check with them based on all the information in the media, adjust what you say based on their personality, look at their emotions, and show them the bigger story. As you process the events together, remind your kids that the bigger story is not just violence in this world, it’s that God loves everyone, and he sent his son to rescue us from all this sin and violence. The benefits of teaching your kids to connect with Jesus when they don't feel safe and are scared. Use the UFO hold to help children feel safer – the unwinding frontal occipital hold is when you put one hand on your child’s forehead and one on the back side of their head, and you press together and hold, slowing down their heart rate when they feel scared. When doing the UFO hold, you can ask your child who, what, when, and where questions about Jesus to help them connect to him at that moment. Have a plan for them so that if they get to school and are fearful, they know who to call and where to run; that way, they feel safer knowing they have an escape plan. Be present at campus if you can – go to your child’s school on lunch hour, work in the lunchroom, or visit them during recess or gym. Our children feed off our emotions, so we first have to trust in the Lord and pray safety prayers over our children so that they don’t see us being fearful. Write scripture on cards and let your child bring those cards with them to school.
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Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining to help families have peace in the home and build lifetime connections! Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group. During this episode of MOMents with Lori and Lee Ann, both ladies share advice for parents on helping kids adjust to a new home, neighborhood, or school. Key Takeaways:
Pray before you move for a good house and good neighbors. If you are building a new house, to bless and bond with it, you can plant a Bible or cross in the dirt before they lay concrete or write Bible verses in each room before the flooring goes in. Once you are in the new house, get outside and go out to the neighbors because nowadays, people don’t go out of their way to meet new neighbors as often as they used to. Reach out first and be the host - introduce yourself and your kids to your neighbors or invite people over to see your new home and meet them that way. Take your kids to the new home and the new neighborhood and drive around and point out where there is a church or a park, or a movie theater and get them excited to relocate and more familiar with that area. Make an appointment at your child’s new school and go there with them and let them meet their teachers and see where their classes will be to ease the anxiety of their first day. Find out where their locker will be because lockers for the first time for kids can be overwhelming, and buy them the same type of lock at the store so they can practice their combination. Try and figure out which friends have lunch at the same time as your kid and tell your kid which friends of theirs are in their lunch period so that they don’t feel nervous if it’s their first time in a large cafeteria. Make a game out of their first day of school – give them a certain amount of things that they have to remember that day, such as meeting a new friend, their favorite subject, or their teacher's name, and for each thing that they remember they will get a reward when they get home.
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There is so much nutritional value in many foods mentioned throughout the Bible...
During this episode, Lee Ann discusses the many foods on earth that are referenced through out the Bible that we should be feeding our children. In John 6:35, Jesus said, “I am the bread of life that came down out of heaven: if anyone eats of this bread, he will live forever; and the bread also which I will give for the life of the world is My flesh.” The bread genome is three completely different genomes in one – a good example of the trinity. Isaiah 55:2, Matthew 6:11, and Acts 2:42 are some of the many other verses in the Bible that reference bread. Bread’s nutrients prevent and control diabetes, prevents digestive disorder, prevents breast cancer, prevents muscle cramps, improves heart function, enhances better memory, and prevents or reduces anxiety and depression. Barley is discussed in Isaiah, Jeremiah, and John and is mentioned more than 35 times in the word of God. God provided to feed thousands with just five barley loaves. Barley prevents heart disease, reduces cancer, prevents blood clots, and improves immunity. Grapes are mentioned more than 50 times in scripture. Psalm 104:15 states, “And wine which makes a human heart cheerful, so that he makes his face gleam with oil, and food, which sustain a human heart.” In Isaiah 65:8, we are told that grapes are a blessing, and Jesus said He is the true vine, and his Father is the vinedresser in John 15:1-5. Grapes protect our DNA from damage and strengthen and protect the heart and circulatory system. It minimizes inflammation and is a cancer-prevention food. Figs, pomegranates, dates, and olives are mentioned in the Bible too. Even the branch the bird brought back to Noah was an olive branch! There are even foods that mirror our body parts:
Brain-boosting walnuts look like the brain. Carrots, which are good for our eyes, when sliced, resemble an eye. Celery is good for our bones; both celery and our bones are made of 23 percent sodium. Tomatoes are good for our hearts and, when sliced, resemble the structure of a heart. Wine resembles blood and is good for us in controlled quantities.
Resources mentioned & referenced:
“10 Foods That Look Like the Body Parts They’re Good For,” by Amanda Greene. Eat God’s Food: A Kid’s Guide to Healthy Eating, by Susan Neal. Unleash Your God-Given Healing: Eight Steps to Prevent and Survive Cancer, by Ginny Dent Brant. “Six Inexpensive Disease Prevention Tips for Families,” by Ginny Dent Brant. Lost Book of Herbal Remedies, by Claude Davis & Nicole Apelian. The Seven Foods of the Promised Land, by Annette Reeder.
“I love it because, unlike today’s superhero entertainment for kids, it is so clean, safe, and fun.” -Amanda Trumpower.
Amanda Trumpower is a writer for Jesus lovers who dig dragons, detectives, and droids. As a follower of Christ, her worldview is based on the Bible. All her books conform to a Christian worldview, though certainly not all the characters. While the journey may be difficult, the main characters come to a place of hope brought by the peace of knowing God. During this episode, Amanda discusses her engaging Collar Case mystery book series and her Power Pup superhero book series in-depth and what she hopes kids will take away from reading them. Both series are for readers ages 7-12 and for those who love mysteries, animals, and superheroes. The Collar Case mystery series shares the same body of characters and humor style as Power Pup, but they aren’t superheroes. It’s mysteries and nonviolent crimes such as theft, sabotage, or conspiracy. In each book, there is some sort of major or minor character lesson from the Bible that the kids can learn along the way. The Power Pup superhero series was born out of Superman’s background, and he, alongside investigative reporters, gets to be heroes in a fun and safe way. Each book in the series explores courage, heroism, teamwork, and adventure while including the Bible. As the series unfolds, you discover that there is a large collection of biblical artifacts. These artifacts grant various superpowers and are tied to stories from the Bible. On the back of each book is a devotional for the kids to look at and read, giving them a little extra activity.
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The Bible says that in Him all things were created in Heaven and on Earth. All things... including music!
Music is a tool that allows us and our children to worship the Lord and grow in our faith. It heightens the emotional experience of something and can alter how we feel in the same manner as sugar or medicine. At times, we even take it for granted. Musical notation began in the monasteries of Western Europe. The Benedictines sang psalms, and they played songs for eight hours of worship at Mass daily, called the Gregorian chant. Music and faith have always been deeply connected. And the Bible says how in Him all things were created in heaven and on earth; all things, including music! Psalm 95:1 states, “Come, let us sing for joy to the Lord; let us shout aloud to the Rock of our salvation.” We can help our children understand how important music is to God and how we can worship him through music. God created music; therefore, he is the author of it. He gifted us with it, and as with all his gifts, we should understand the history and the purpose of why God has given them to us.
When singing Christian songs of praise and worship, explain the meanings of these words to your children:
Gloria – is a word of praise that the angles used as they sang “Glory to God in the highest.” (Ref. Luke 2:14) Hallelujah – is another way to say, “Praise the Lord” or “Praise God.” (Ref. Revelation 19:1) Hosanna – This word means “Lord, save us!” (Ref. Mark 11:9)
Resources mentioned:
Kids Works Music offers musicals, songs, and scripts for children. And they have a camp they can bring to you. Kids learn a 45-minute musical in one week; they offer arts, crafts, drama games, daily Bible lessons, and more for kids ages 7-14. 40 mins of kids music and videos is a video of cute characters singing Bible verses and explaining the meaning behind each one. “8 Inspiring Christian Songs for Teenage Girls,” by The Wonderful Grace of God. Trueway Kids offers free Christian children’s songs with videos as well. “12 Best Free Online Music Lessons for Kids,” by Dynamic Music Teaching.
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“Very few people realize that there is a legal way already at our fingertips that we can utilize to teach the Bible to public school students during the school day.” – Joel Penton.
A former defensive tackle and national champion for the Ohio State Buckeyes, Joel Penton is the author of three books and the founder and CEO of LifeWise Academy—a groundbreaking program providing Bible education to students in over 100 public schools, during school hours, across the country. A widely sought-after speaker, over 1,000 live audiences and a million people have taken in his message. During this episode, Joel shares his passion for bringing biblical education to youths nationwide, specifically public school students, during school hours.
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LifeWise Academy provides Bible education to public school students during school hours. Laws don’t need to be changed - the supreme court ruled in 1952 that public school students can be released during school hours to receive Bible education if the program meets three criteria: it has to be off school property, privately funded, and with parental permission. Logistics are simple - they walk or bus the kids to a nearby facility, teach them the Bible, and then bring them back. Local communities can go to their website and look at their ten-step launch process to get this program at their public school. Today, Lifewise serves over a hundred schools and will serve over three hundred by the end of 2024.
“It’s a strategy that any community coast to coast can implement, and that’s why we started LifeWise – to provide the tools so that communities can do it in a plug and play, hit the ground running type of way.” – Joel Penton. To learn more or to start the ten-step launch process of bringing the Bible to your public school, go to LifeWise.Org.
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Do your children honor God?
The dictionary meaning of honor is high respect and great esteem. And to adhere to what is right or a conventional standard of conduct. And adhere means attachment or commitment to a person, cause, or belief. So, honor is to hold someone or something, or even some idea, in high regard by being attached or committed to a person, cause, or belief. 2 Samuel 2:30 NIV states, “Those who honor me I will honor.” Wow, God will honor us? The creator of all things will honor what he has made from the dirt of what he has created! Revelation 5:12 says He is “Worthy…to receive…honor, glory, and praise.” Children can honor God by first believing he is worthy to be honored. Once our children realize who God is and what he has done and intends to do, they will want to honor him. According to an article titled “The Scientific Benefits of Worship” by Lauren Hansen, when we worship and praise God, our hearts and minds are transformed. Praise is a restorative tool that lifts your spirit, helps us connect to God’s presence, and enlarges your perception and connection to God. Research has shown that you increase in wisdom as you worship, and your relationship with God deepens as you worship him. Just seven minutes of worship every day will change your brain. Gamma waves are created in our brains when we worship to help us feel God's presence. Gamma waves do more than just make us feel better; they increase our intelligence, too. One way to teach our children how to exhibit respect and honor is to have good manners. We want to cultivate gratitude and appreciation in our children by teaching them the basics of saying please and thank you. We also can teach them by building a culture of honor in the classroom. If your child attends a public or private school or is homeschooled, instilling honorable actions and intentions is essential. Statistics state that a child spends 32.5 hours a week in school. This is where they learn to interact with their peers and adults in authority. As we see from the statistics, it’s not just about respect and honor but also about our children’s mental health. According to Erwin Lutzer’s new book No Reason to Hide, he references Dr. Luis Rojos Marcos, who discusses these alarming statistics:
1 in 5 children have mental health issues. A 43% increase was seen in ADHD. 37% increase in adolescent depression has been observed. A 200% increase in the suicide rate among children aged 10 to 14.
Practice honor daily. Honor your child, parents, and spouse, and reward honor by acknowledging the good thing your child has done or said. And who knows, maybe your child will become the next adult to bring lasting change to a hurting world.
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“If I can help parents in the earlier years learn to build a connection with their kids, to speak the gospel, and to live redemptively in their homes, what difference would it make as their children grow older; my hope is maybe less kids would struggle with some of these mental health issues.” -Kristen Hatton.
Kristen Hatton, MA, is a counselor and author passionate about helping families. She is the author of Get Your Story Straight, Face Time, The Gospel-Centered Life in Exodus for Students, and Parenting Ahead.
Key Takeaways:
Ways to help teen girls deal with societal issues like body image, sex, dating, substance abuse, materialism, perfectionism, and many more. The crux of the book, Face Time, tells the reader who Jesus is for her and who she is in Him, helping them find their worth and identity in Jesus. Face Time helps girls look deeper at false idols they may be turning to, such as body image or social media, and helps them turn to Jesus instead of those idols. The case studies included in Face Time help girls practice applying the gospel to different scenarios, making gospel theology in an everyday practical way. Parenting Ahead is a great tool for parents to help them prepare early on to connect with their children and bring them closer to Jesus before these societal issues get to them. What you do in the early years matter, and there are gospel foundations that we can put in place so we don’t have to be paralyzed by fear. Under-parenting is helicopter parenting and micromanaging everything; over-parenting is the permissive parent. Evaluating the “why” of our parenting styles and the tools we can use to change our behaviors – our own idols as parents drive our parenting styles. For example - for an over-parenting style, the idols driving this could be control and fear of the child’s future, and for an under-parenting style, the idols causing this could be the peace and happiness of the child. Both parenting styles are rooted in good intentions, and sometimes parents can teeter back and forth between the two. The importance of having Gospel centrality and spiritual conversations with your children.
“I really want to be an encouragement to families, and to help them feel equipped towards proactive intentional Jesus-reliant long-haul parenting.” -Kristen Hatton.
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As important as it is for us as parents and caretakers to teach our children empathy, it is equally as important to teach them love and acceptance for one another.
Love is the most powerful emotion on earth, and the definition of love is God, which means God is love. We all have a deep desire to feel liked, accepted, and loved by our family, friends, and associates. Acceptance involves understanding, respecting, and valuing others for commonalities and differences. It is an important part of developing positive relationships. Acceptance is good, but love is better. Luke 6:31 states, “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.” During this episode, Lee Ann dives into the many ways we can help our children learn to accept and love one another:
The first step in loving someone may be that we first accept them for who they are – both the good and the bad. It's never too early to start talking about love. Explain that love takes work but should make them feel good, not bad. Tell your kids that loving someone is about caring for them, wanting what's best for them, being kind/patient/forgiving, being supportive, being there for them, respecting their feelings, and working together. Model what it means to love others – your kids watch and learn from you daily. Children express love differently: boys tend to express love through physical actions, and girls tend to express love through words and emotions. Read stories that feature characters showing different emotions – this can help children understand how people might feel in different situations. Help them understand that everyone is different because that’s how God made them. Encourage them to be respectful and kind to others. Model what it looks like to disagree without being disagreeable. Avoid name-calling or any other type of personal attack when disagreeing with someone. Try to understand the other person’s point of view.
Once your children learn the importance of accepting others, teach them to model what it looks like. This can especially help in situations when another child is being bullied. We should encourage our children to invite others to join in a game or share toys, teach them to be good listeners, and – most importantly – show them how to treat others with acceptance, compassion, and love. 1 Peter 4:8, “Above all, love one another deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins.”
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“Our failures where we do not image God perfectly are opportunities to talk to our children and ask for forgiveness for messing up.” -Catherine Larson.
After graduating with a master’s in biblical studies from Reformed Theological Seminary, Catherine Larson spent seven years writing with Chuck Colson for BreakPoint radio, Christianity Today, and Newsweek online. Today, she writes amidst the clatter and curiosity of six young children. Catherine is the author of two beautiful devotional journals, Waiting in Wonder: Growing in Faith While You’re Expecting and Watching in Wonder: Growing in Faith During Your Baby’s First Year. These books seek to lead moms closer to God while journaling prompts offer a unique way to treasure milestones and jot down prayers and love notes for one’s growing baby.
During this episode, Catherine elaborates on the following key points:
Encouragement for moms who may find themselves stressed out about the delivery of their baby. How a new mom can engage with their children and enjoy the first year of parenting without feeling the pressure to be perfect. Good habits moms can develop in the early days of parenting. Advice for moms with energetic children or boy moms that want to change the narrative from raising “obnoxious loud boys” to raising Christlike men.
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How would you feel if your child only spoke to you twice in the day - in the morning when they woke up and at night before they went to bed? How do you think our heavenly father feels when we only talk to him in the morning and at night?
There are many ways to help you and your child’s prayers be a more meaningful conversation and be a special time with the Lord. Conversations allow you to express your emotions and needs, and they are how most of us communicate with each other. Prayer is a form of communication between us, God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit, and it is the most important type of communication! Our children need to understand how crucial it is to have a robust prayer life and learn to pray without ceasing. If we pray continuously without ceasing, it will become second nature to us and our children. During this episode, Lee Ann shares a few pointers on teaching children to have a robust prayer life and to pray without ceasing. “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.” -1 Thessalonians 5:16-18. Lee Ann elaborates on the following tips to help your child have a robust prayer life:
Help your child list all their blessings and the beautiful things God created, such as the flowers, the sun, the ocean, the stars, the green grass, etc. Have them take one or two items a day and mention them in their prayers, giving thanks to God for those blessings. Set an alarm for them to pray often during the day. Practice connecting to the Holy Spirit during prayer time and listening to God. Help your child understand that it’s okay if God doesn’t reply and that we should always wait on the Lord’s perfect timing. At the end of prayer time, have your child thank the Lord again and tell him they love and trust him to answer them and guide them according to his perfect will. Look for opportunities to pray. Help them to become aware of the presence of God. He is everywhere. He is omnipresent. Look back on your day with them in gratitude, and thank him for the big things, the little things, and everything in between. Ask the Holy Spirit to help your child focus and to have the ability to recall and remember things that happened during the day or week; have them thank him for the many emotions they experienced during the day and thank him that they are alive and breathing and had one more day to enjoy all he has created. Pray for tomorrow with them by asking God to prepare their heart for whatever he has planned for them. Pray for peace to approach the day confidently in the Lord to provide and protect. Ask for wisdom, discernment, and a grateful heart. Have a real conversation as if God is sitting beside you when praying.
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Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining to help families have peace in the home and work together to build lifetime connections! Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group. During this episode of Moments with Lori and Lee Ann, both ladies dive into the difficult ideologies and viewpoints that kids face today in this crazy confusing culture. They share advice on how parents can help their children understand the difference between true and false regarding gender dysphoria. Key Takeaways:
Parents need to define what truth is – it is an objective fact; it is not a feeling – feelings are subjective. We need to teach our children to embrace the differences in each gender - male and female, rather than becoming intolerant of those differences. What to do if your child comes home and says they want to change their gender or they don’t feel comfortable in their own skin anymore – the more questions you ask them about it, the more you can minimize the myth of what goes along with gender confusion. It is important for the parent not to freak out when a child is questioning their gender or interests – spark the conversation about their interests and preferences instead of wanting to change their gender. Celebrate their identity and gender – take the opportunity to affirm them often and early on. It is essential to teach children about the two worldviews before they go off to school so that they are prepared to protect their biblical worldview against the secular worldview. Everybody has a sin propensity, and we can teach our children to have grace and humility early on so that they understand everyone has something to work on and nobody is perfect. Our job is to point our children to the Lord and teach them to point others to the Lord as well; we are not to teach our children to condemn people or celebrate them when they are sinful – help them to have a balance of grace and truth.
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“God took Abram outside. That is fundamental. We can do the same thing. We can take our children outside and prepare them to receive God’s truth.” -Eryn Lynum.
Eryn Lynum is a mother and wife, a certified Master Naturalist, a Bible teacher, and the author of the books 936 Pennies: Discovering the Joy of the Intentional Parenting and Rooted in Wonder: Nurturing Your Family's Faith Through God's Creation. She also hosts the podcast Nat Theo: Nature Lessons Rooted in the Bible, a podcast for kids. During this last part of her three-part episode series, Erin elaborates on the following key takeaways:
How to explain to children the chasm between God’s designs and society’s brokenness. Showing children the way the world works, such as the sun or a river, can help teach them how God’s ecosystems thrive the best when they operate on his plan. Biblical stories of how God spoke of nature and used nature to connect people to him – stories in the Bible that God anchored in a nature narrative. It is important that we give our children resilient faith in today’s society because they are getting fed lies and funneled into false agendas. We should stop filling our children with milk because even though it is necessary when they are babies, it is time-stamped – we need to give them solid food (the knowledge to have a strong faith) before we release them into the world. We can show our children the reliability of the Bible and the evidence that supports the Bible.
“Giving our kids this resilient and robust faith that is rooted in scripture and supported by the evidences we see in nature, science, and history; giving them more to work with in today’s world when these arguments come against them that first, they won’t succumb to doubt, and that second, they will be able to give an answer for the hope that is within them and defend their faith with gentleness and respect… it is so important.” -Eryn Lynum. Erin’s website, Instagram, & Facebook.
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“God is not wishy-washy, and in his creation and everything he’s made, we see order and method, and natural laws that we need to live in harmony with and respect.” -Eryn Lynum.
Eryn Lynum is a mother and wife, a certified Master Naturalist, a Bible teacher, and the author of the books 936 Pennies: Discovering the Joy of the Intentional Parenting and Rooted in Wonder: Nurturing Your Family's Faith Through God's Creation. She also hosts the podcast Nat Theo: Nature Lessons Rooted in the Bible, a podcast for kids.
During this second part of her three-part episode series, Erin elaborates on the following key takeaways:
How nature analogies can help children understand the relationship and parallels between nature and God - for example, monarch butterflies with milkweed plants and when deer shed their antlers. Absolute truth can be proved by God’s creation of nature. It is so important to teach children objective truth – take them into nature and have them see and state things clearly as they are – this teaches them to understand God’s truth and that his creation is real instead of assuming things that are not definitive. Invasive pastimes choke the ecosystem of our souls – invasive species taking over native plant landscapes can be directly related to technology and the media taking over our children’s minds and childhood completely. Three similarities between invasive species and technology: both are recent introductions, both came with good intentions and when both are left unchecked, they completely take over and control the arena. There is an extreme imbalance between children spending their childhood indoors on media devices and outdoors in nature – the average child spends 22% of their childhood with a media device and 0.48% of their childhood outside.
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“Kids are so sensory. They remember things when it’s anchored in a hands-on experience. So, if we can take them outside and explore nature while also anchoring theological and biblical truth, that’s a win-win.” Eryn Lynum.
Eryn Lynum is a mother and wife, a certified Master Naturalist, a Bible teacher, and the author of the books 936 Pennies: Discovering the Joy of the Intentional Parenting and Rooted in Wonder: Nurturing Your Family's Faith Through God's Creation. She also hosts the podcast Nat Theo: Nature Lessons Rooted in the Bible, a podcast for kids. During this first part of her three-part episode series, Erin elaborates on the following key takeaways:
At some point in life, parents realize how fast their kids are growing up – 936 Pennies can help parents slow down and discover how not to make every moment matter but make sure that every day has meaningful moments that honor God (Psalm 90:12). There is such a powerful connection between God’s created world - what he has made, and his written word - the scriptures. There are two ways God reveals himself to us - special revelation and natural revelation. The importance of connecting nature and scripture and using both to nurture your family's faith. Explore what God says about nature with your children in the Bible, and then explore God in nature by going outside and exploring with your children. Becoming “wonder conservationists” – protecting what God has made and conserving the sense of wonder that God has given us and our children. When we lose curiosity and wonder, we forfeit a critical element of faith because we stop asking questions about the world around us; we stop using all the evidence of God that can build this robust and resilient faith.
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Without a solid foundation, it can be hard to instill biblical wisdom and grow godly faith!
Often, we speak about raising children to have a strong, unfailing foundation in Christ, to stand up against this ever-increasing evil world. As parents and caretakers, we try our best to raise our children with a biblical worldview that can overcome the secular worldview influence that dominates today’s society. In Lee Ann’s book coming out in 2024, she writes about a home called the sand palace. Here is an excerpt from her book that she elaborates on during this episode: “Have you heard about the sand palace? It’s the name of a beautiful home built right on the shore in Mexico Beach, Florida. On October 10, 2018, Hurricane Michael, a Category 5 hurricane with winds reaching 160 mph, tore through and destroyed the Florida Panhandle. Mexico Beach was one of the hardest-hit areas where homes and businesses were decimated, leaving nothing but bare foundations. However, the "sand palace” home remained standing tall, largely untouched on its stilts above the carnage and destruction all around. Everyone wanted to know why this home survived in such pristine condition. The homeowners of the sand palace were wise enough to build their home to withstand 240-250 mph winds, despite Florida’s state code that requires houses to be built to withstand 120 mph winds. Instead of 30-foot pilings, the sand palace was built with 40-foot pilings made out of poured concrete walls with rebar and steel cables. The owners stated, 'At every point, from pilings to the roof and everything in between, when it came time to make a decision about what level of material or what to use, we didn’t pay attention to code… We went above and beyond code…We asked the question: What would survive the big one? And we consistently tried to build it for that.'" The sand palace is a perfect analogy of Matthew 7:24-27. During this episode, Lee Ann shares three ideas from her book to guide you in helping your children begin to build that strong foundation in Christ:
When babies look into the mirror, say, “Jesus loves you!” You are connecting those happy emotions with the name of Jesus. When feeding infants, toddlers, or children, say, “Thank you, Jesus, for our food.” Nursing infants should hear his name and connect their needs with the name of Jesus. Make up your own family game. Play “Bible Verses” or "Bible Words.” On one side of an index card, write the first few words of the verse; on the other, write the whole verse. Show them the first few words of the verse, and then have your child finish the rest.
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“All of the metabolic issues, the weight gain, the posture issues, we’re seeing a lot of visual issues, and of course, the mental health crisis that’s going on, all of these things are related to screen time.” – Dr. Victoria Dunckley. Dr. Victoria Dunckley is an award-winning integrative child psychiatrist at the Centre for Life […]
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In a world full of deadlines, appointments, and obligations, do you sometimes set unrealistic expectations for your children with the hope of success? In today’s fast-paced and hectic world, hurrying has become an integral part of our lives. You’ve probably heard the saying, “Being a mom is a full-time job.” But being a mom is […]
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Looking for a tool to help make praying more fun and fit naturally into your children’s daily routines? Stephanie Thurling and Sarah Holmstrom are two friends who met during their undergrad years and launched a ministry together called Raising Prayerful Kids. Though they live in different parts of the country, they both are passionate about […]
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Did you know that experts say around age 5 or 6 is when feelings of romantic love begin to form? It can be challenging to navigate the topic of romance and relationships with our children, especially at a young age. Scientists say falling in love is a complex process and that our brains are hard-wired […]
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“When we are partnering with God and trusting in him for our child’s future, we can parent out of that sense of peace… and it helps us build a relationship with them while were helping them build a relationship with God.” Christie Thomas. Christie Thomas is a Canadian homeschooling mom of 3 who spends her […]
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Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining to help families have peace in the home and work together to build lifetime connections! Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also […]
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“How can we bring about life transformation in the hearts of our children so that they won’t only just live for Christ, but they’ll go out into the world equipped to share the gospel of Jesus and his transforming power with others?” -Joleen Steel. Joleen Steel is the co-founder and Chief Operating Officer of Camping […]
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“When we make it about us, what we do is that we fail to enter into those small moments…Those small moments are what gives us relational capital later for our kids to come to us in big moments.” -Dr. Joshua Straub. Dr. Josh Straub is a speaker, author, marriage and leadership coach, and podcast and […]
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“Everything you need for your marriage, for raising your children, and for yourself, it’s all there in the Word of God.” -Mary Garcia.Mary Garcia is a family pastor and has a master’s degree in marriage and family counseling and has been a certified biblical and family counselor for thirty years. Her passion is to share deep and rich wisdom from her life experiences and biblical insights on how to raise godly children. Sarah Garcia, Mary’s daughter is a certified youth and family counselor and has a master’s degree in counseling ministry. She is passionate about counseling and discipling junior high and high school girls. Together with their other family members, they wrote the amazing book, Raising Families the Jesus Way.
During this episode, Mary and Sarah share their passion for helping Christian parents and families grow. They discuss their reason behind writing their book as a family: to reach as many families as possible to help them raise children today so that those children can transform tomorrow.
Mary touches on the importance of parents doing the work in themselves first to become the best godly role models to raise strong Christian children, and how everything is in God’s word. She also elaborates on something called “private life impactfulness” and how regardless of what you do privately, God will always reveal those things, and your children will eventually mirror the negative actions and words that you do and say, even if you do it privately.
Sarah discusses how our brains change and that our mind controls the brain, not the other way around. She shares tips for parents on becoming more aware of any strongholds or negative thought patterns and how they can rewire their brains to ensure they don’t unintentionally pass those negative patterns down to children.
“Being constantly in the word of God and meditating on his truth can help bring those negative thought patterns to light and can help to rewire your brain.” Sarah Garcia.
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There are ways to make the dreaded doctor’s visit less painful(emotionally and physically) for our children.You can help your child work through their fear of the doctor with some understanding and patience. If your little one seems to fear the doctor, talk with your physician beforehand and share your child’s concerns. Every child fears something at some point in their life. But what may be frightening to one child may only be a bump in the road for another.
During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on how you can help your child overcome the fear of going to the doctor and shares suggestions to help your child navigate the waters of fear.
Here are some ways to help your children overcome their fear of the doctor:* Purchase a toy doctor’s kit and let them practice being the doctor on you or a stuffed toy. * Talk to your child about the doctor’s visit in a positive way. * Explain what the doctor will do and why it is important. * Invite your child to bring a favorite toy or blanket to the appointment. * Help your child relax with deep breathing. Encourage them to think of Jesus holding them in his arms. * Finally, praise your child for being brave during the visit.
Lee Ann elaborates on the following suggestions to help your child navigate the waters of fear:* Pray and ask God to help you and your child. Pray for wisdom, discernment, and patience. * Reassure them that you love them, and God loves them, and no matter what happens, it will be okay. Share with them the story of Joseph and how his brothers treated him (Genesis 50:20). * Routine is important for children – maintain a scheduled routine. * Always be honest and tell the truth. * Look for triggers. Identify what upsets your child and try to avoid those situations if possible. * Diet, rest, and exercise help the body and the mind. Make sure to limit stimulants like sugar and caffeine. Help your child to learn to relax with deep breathing by listening to soft worship music. * Look for opportunities to have fun as a family. You may be able to replace fear-filled memories with fun memories (2 Corinthians 10:5). * Watch uplifting movies and read books that are fun and have a happy ending. * Some experts say to address the fear head-on and not avoid those situations that trigger fear but to work through them instead. * Ensure your child is around positive, kind, loving friends and family members as best as possible. * Make note cards or post Bible verses around the house for older children to read; for example, some about fear are 1 Peter 5:7, Isaiah 41:10, or Deuteronomy 31:6.
Resources for children: Fear & Anxiety: Learning to Overcome God’s Truth, For Kids, by Love God Greatly & Braver, Stronger, Smarter: A Girl’s Guide to Overcoming Worry & Anxiety, by Sissy Goff.
Resources for parents: Raising Emotionally Strong Boys: Tools Your Son Can Build On for Life, by David Thomas & “Quick Guide to Panic Disorder,” by Child Mind Institute.
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Welcome to MOMents with Lori and Lee Ann on the Raising Christian Kids podcast. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of 6 Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.
Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting, discipline, and family relationships to help families have peace in the home and work together to build lifetime connections!
During this episode of Moments with Lori and Lee Ann, both ladies share advice and encouragement for parents who have a child who has been labeled as a troublemaker by their teachers or schoolmates due to their high energy level or constant talking.
Key Takeaways:* Instead of squelching a child’s spirit when they are high energy or talking at school in class, try to get the complete picture first and then redirect their energy into something positive. * Getting to the “why” and find out why the child feels the need to talk constantly; possible reasons – the child has leadership qualities that need to be channeled into leadership roles at school, the child lacks self-control skills and needs to work on impulse control, or maybe it’s lack of attention from friends or family, so the child feels the need to try and gain attention elsewhere. * How to determine if a child’s behavior is becoming more serious and in need of expert help – look at whether their inappropriate behavior is more consistent versus situational. * Positive enforcements, redirection, and consistency from the parent are necessary when dealing with a high energy talker. * Not all children pick up on social cues, and they need to be taught the art of conversation and how to be a listener verse a talker during certain situations. * Ways to teach children not to interrupt and to have self-control and patience at home.
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Do you have a child who has had a tough time empathizing with others? Don’t feel alone – most parents have experienced this with their kids at one point or another.Empathy has been described as a person’s ability to recognize and share another person’s emotions; it connects us with our common humanity. It has been called a virtue of the intellect. Empathy comes from the heart; it is foundational to what it means to be human and to act in an ethically loving manner. Empathy is critical to healthy emotional functioning and human interaction. Yet, just as with adults, it can be difficult for a child to walk in another person’s shoes and to understand their perspective. We need to teach our children about empathy and help them develop this critical “intellectual virtue.”
Adam Stanley once said, “Your greatest contribution to the world may not be something you do, but someone you raise.”
During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on the following ways we can teach empathy to our children:* Empathize with your child and model what it looks like. When we empathize with or for our children, they develop trust, knowing we care for them and for what they are going through. We also need to let them see and hear how we care for others. When they watch you express empathy through words and actions, they learn firsthand what it means to empathize. * Ask your child questions. For example: What was the hardest part of your day? What was the best part of your day? Process (empathize) with your child the bad and good parts of their day. * Demonstrate empathy for people who are different from you or your family. Volunteer with your child in community service or at your church – model ways of contributing to others. * Look for opportunities for your children to practice empathy. Children are born with the capacity to empathize – as children grow, their ability to empathize needs to be explored and nurtured. Regularly considering other people’s perspectives and circumstances equips a person to be empathic so that empathy becomes a natural reflex. * Help your children connect and manage their feelings by helping them first identify their feelings, then learn how to have self-control in their actions and reactions, and eventually, to be able to resolve conflicts.
Lee Ann also highlights some of the many ways to help your children develop sympathy and empathy from the article “How Parents Can Cultivate Empathy in Children” by Richard Weissbourd and Stephanie Jones:1. Have family meetings. Hold family meetings when there are family challenges or conflicts; in those meetings, give children a voice and encourage them to take the perspective of other family members. Listen carefully to your children’s views and ask your children to listen carefully to the views of others. 2. Encouraging empathy for peers. Ask children about their classmates and other peers. Ask children when they’re in conflicts with peers to consider their peers’ perspectives. 3. Reflecting on empathy and caring. Notice with your child when you’re together, and someone exhibits strong empathy—or shows a lack of empathy—either in your daily life, in a book, or on television. Discuss why acts of empathy are important and why lacking empathy can be harmful. 4. Discussing ethical dilemmas. Discuss with your child ethical dilemmas that help them appreciate various perspectives, e.g., “Should I invite a new neighbor to my birthday party when my best friend doesn’t like her?” “Should I tell my friend if I know her boyfriend, who is also my friend, cheated on her?” 5. Zooming in and out. Help children learn to zoom in, tuning in carefully to others and zoom out, taking in multiple perspectives and people. Use news media or TV stories to start conversations with children about other people’s hardships and challenges or simply the different experiences of children in another country or community.
Romans 12:15 encourages us to: “Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.”
Children’s books mentioned: Empathy Makes Me Kind by Divya Mohan, Be Kind by Pat Zielow Miller, and Stand in My Shoes by Bob Samson.
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“There is a lot of toxic content now pushed on very small children, and the worst statistic of all is that while 62% of Americans who are over 40 believe in God, 32% of children believe in God in America.” -Brent Dusing.Brent Dusing is the CEO and founder of TruPlay, a gaming platform created to bring high-quality, fun, and biblically-sound entertainment to audiences worldwide. An entrepreneur at heart and a Harvard University graduate of economics, Dusing pioneered game creation with Christian content through Lightside Games and created the nation’s leading mobile coupon company. He began his career as a venture capitalist at Menlo Ventures and, over time, has been featured on CNN, Fox News, ABC News, The Wall Street Journal, New York Times, USA Today, Entertainment Weekly, and other mainstream news media.
During this episode, Brent discusses his unique organization, Truplay, and how they’ve built a fun, relatable, biblically-based gaming platform for children. He explains how we’re in a crisis where children have no concept or familiarity with Jesus Christ because they’re watching drama shows, playing toxic games, and living on their screens, learning nothing about God’s truth for more than 52 hours a week.
“I was bothered by what I saw; I was bothered that suicide, anxiety, and depression rates are at an all-time high for kids which mirrors exactly the rise of social media on smartphones.” -Brent Dusing.
Brent emphasizes the benefits of Truplay and how it brings world-class entertainment to kids that they will love, enjoy, and relate to, but that also teaches biblical principles and God’s truth. He discusses how the players go through extremely relatable situations to what kids face in today’s society and how this gaming platform can be an ideal medium for faith exploration in a much safer and uplifting way.
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“A new heart I will give you, and a new spirit I will put within you, and I will remove from your body the heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.” –Ezekiel 36:26.The beauty of the Christian faith is that it offers redemption and forgiveness for our sins. We can use the Bible to show our children how even though people committed the worst sins against God, he still forgave them and transformed their hearts. We can help our children understand that character transformation is a continuous process due to the dual nature that lives within us.
During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on stories of biblical characters that can be used to help teach children about faith and transformation:
- Saul (Acts 9): Saul was a zealous Pharisee who persecuted Christians. He was on his way to persecute Christians when a light from Heaven suddenly blinded him. Jesus appeared to him and transformed his heart. Saul became one of the most influential apostles, spreading the gospel throughout the world. Saul’s transformation story shows us that God’s grace can transform anyone.
- Nicodemus (John 3:1-21): Nicodemus was a Pharisee and member of the Jewish ruling council who did not believe in life after death and where they earnestly wanted to kill Jesus. God worked on Nicodemus’ heart because Nicodemus yearned for truth. He came to Jesus to learn more about him. Though he initially doubted Jesus could be the Messiah, Nicodemus eventually put his faith in Christ and became one of His followers.
- David (2 Samuel 12): David was a man after God’s own heart. David’s story is unique in that he slayed Goliath in honor of God yet, dishonored God later in life with his adultery with Bathsheba. He wrote many Psalms about repentance and forgiveness. David’s story teaches us that even the most faithful people are capable of sin but that God will always forgive us when we repent.
- Jonah (Jonah 1-2): Jonah was a prophet God called to preach to the city of Nineveh. Jonah disobeyed and ran away from God. God sends a giant whale to swallow up Jonah’s belly of the whale for three whole days. It seemed that all was lost for Jonah, but he repented to God, and he was spit back up on shore. This story teaches us that we should always obey God, even when it is hard. It also teaches us that God is merciful and will forgive us when we repent.
- Peter (Luke 22:54-62& Acts 2:14-42): Peter denied Jesus three times before the rooster crowed, but Peter repented and was forgiven. Learning to repent helps to transform a sinful heart to be more obedient. Peter was transformed, and he was one of the most influential apostles. He transformed from this self-motivated, impulsive, inconsistent follower of Jesus to one of the most charismatic leaders of the church.
- Moses (Exodus 2:11-15): Moses was a murderer and fugitive. He transformed into one of the most influential leaders in history. His story demonstrates that no matter how far we’ve fallen, it’s never too late to turn our lives around and follow God.
- Zacchaeus (Luke 19:1-10): Zacchaeus was a tax collector people hated. They were called publicans or tax collectors and were known for their corruption. Zacchaeus met Jesus and repented of his sin. Zacchaeus’s story teaches us that Jesus will save anyone, no matter how far they have strayed from Him.
Here are some other transformation stories of biblical characters that you can read and discuss with your children, showing how one’s heart can continually be transformed through Christ:
- The Thief on the Cross (Luke 23:39-43)
- The Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32)
- Samson (Judges 16)
- Ruth (Ruth 1)
- Barnabas (Acts 4:36)
- Abraham (Genesis 17)
- The woman at the well (John 4)
- Philemon & Onesimus (Philemon 1)
Resources Mentioned & Referenced:* “The Story of Paul Lesson,” by Leah Pittsinger. * “The Life of Paul in 16 Lessons,” by Mission Bible Class. * “Nicodemus Reborn – John 3,” by Sunday School Lessons for Kids. * “Lesson: God Forgave David’s Sin (2 Samuel 11-12, Psalm 51),” by Beth Steward. * “Jonah: Nineveh Repents – Jonah 3: Bible Story,” by Share Faith Kids. * “Peter is Transformed by Jesus,” by Leah Pittsinger. * “The Life of Moses,” by Kids Sunday School. * “Children’s Sermon Object Lesson on Zacchaeus Luke 19:1-10,” by Sunday School Works.
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“There’s a lot of practical things we can do to build character in our kids; it doesn’t have to be overwhelming!” -Monica Swanson.Monica Swanson is a popular blogger, the host of the Monica Swanson Podcast, and the author of Boy Mom and Raising Amazing. Monica graduated from Pepperdine University, has a teaching credential from Linfield College, and has a bachelor’s degree in sports medicine. Monica strives to encourage families to raise amazing kids and loves to help build strong family relationships. She defines the word “amazing” as a pleasant surprise or something that causes wonder, and she is passionate about helping parents and children build hearts of character and faith.
“It is so important for families to create their own culture, to have a place where their kids understand who we are and what we’re about and that they really belong.” -Monica Swanson.
Monica elaborates on the following key takeaways:* The importance of building family culture – everyone wants to have a sense of belonging and to fit in. * If our kids feel a sense of belonging at home, the chances of them wanting to get that feeling elsewhere become smaller. * The benefits of creating a family mission statement. * Character training methods to help transform a child’s character – create a list of inspiring character resources from other people and, as a requirement, have the child write down in a journal one nugget of information they got out of that resource each day. * Benefits and examples of reverse negotiation work well with pushy, argumentative kids who always want to negotiate when they are told no; whatever your child asked for that you have already said no to, you simply negotiate in the opposite direction.
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How can we help children learn to trust God, especially when they feel like their world is falling apart?As parents and caregivers, it is our responsibility to help our children learn to trust God; They must learn to trust God’s guidance as the days become increasingly chaotic and evil.
During this episode, Lee Ann expounds on the following tips for helping children to learn to trust God:
- Talk to them about God’s love for all people – use stories from the Bible to explain God’s character and how he is always with us. Share something in your life where you thought your prayer was not being heard but then something better happened than what you prayed for to happen.
- Model faith in all that you do – children learn by example, so when it comes to trusting God, it is important for parents to emulate a trusting, faithful relationship with God.
- Help them to realize the many blessings in their life, even in difficult times. Talk about people who have suffered profoundly but continued to trust the Lord—for example, Joni Eareckson Tada, Nick Vujicic, or Bethany Hamilton.
- Encourage them to ask you questions and be patient with how you answer them. As children grow, they will have many questions about God and faith.
- Talk about God and pray together often. Praying together allows children to see their parents trusting in God (Ref Ephesians 3:14-19).
- God always has a plan – plan with your family of what you will do, how you will behave, what happens when someone disobeys, etc.; knowing what, when, and how helps to establish security and trust.
- Show them how to be patient and understand that God is in control. When you know someone is in control, the chaos can be less scary and confusing.
- Discuss this acronym for TRUST and how each one is equally important when praying and building a trusting relationship with God:
- T = THANK
- R = RECEIVE
- U = UNDERSTAND
- S = SPIRIT
- T = TRANSFORM
Resources: Answers Bible Curriculum by Answers in Genesis and the article “Teach Your Kids How to Trust God,” by Jim Jackson.
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“My job is to teach my kids to discern right from wrong and to constantly help them practice in everyday situations. I’m instilling and equipping wisdom and discernment in my child by doing so.” – Julie Lowe.Julie Lowe, MA, is a faculty member at CCEF and a licensed professional counselor with over twenty years of counseling experience. Julie is also a registered play therapist and has developed a play therapy office at CCEF to better serve families, teens, and children. Julie is the author of Child Proof, Building Bridges, and Safeguards, as well as the mini-books Helping Your Anxious Child and Teens and Suicide. Julie and her husband, Greg, have five children and serve as foster and adoptive parents.
During this episode, Julie shares her wisdom from her book, Safeguards, which equips and empowers parents and caregivers to think wisely and biblically about the dangers children face instead of living in constant worry, fear, and denial.
“I really felt like there was a gap in equipping parents to know how to talk to their kids about hard topics to equip their kids.” – Julie Lowe.
Julie elaborates on the following key points:* Worry and denial are not safety skills; worrying and denial are equally dangerous – instilling a biblical worldview forms a foundation for any safety skill and understanding good from evil. * To teach wisdom and discernment, we have to teach our children right vs. wrong and good vs. evil. * We are crippling our children in the same ways we hope to protect them when we live in worry or denial because worry doesn’t teach wisdom or discernment. * A key mistake we all make is that we think we can evaluate whether a person is good; it’s important to teach our children to evaluate someone’s behavior rather than their character. * Stranger danger is a myth- strangers aren’t dangerous; dangerous people are dangerous. * It is important to teach kids the language of consent, which gives them the ability to say no in certain situations – if they feel like what they are being to do is wrong, and they choose to say no, this demonstrates discernment, and they should be supported by the parents or caretakers in this decision.
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“No two mothers are alike. No two experiences in motherhood mirror each other. But something powerful happens when our stories come together: they speak love, worth, value, and beauty.” -Leslie Means.Leslie Means, the founder and owner of the popular website “Her View from Home,” is passionate about connecting women through heartfelt stories on motherhood, marriage, faith, and grief. She is a former news anchor, a weekly columnist and has published several short stories.
During this episode, Leslie gives us insight into why she created her website, Her View from Home, and the impact she hopes it will bring on mothers or anyone who wants to share their stories. Her platform includes tons of women’s articles on motherhood, marriage, relationships, and faith. Leslie also discusses her book, So God Made a Mother, hoping it will encourage mothers amid the chaos and the many challenges we face in today’s society. She emphasizes how the most common challenge mothers face today is loneliness and connection, especially in the last few years after covid. She shares advice for moms who are in the trenches and feeling lonely about the reward of opening yourself up and being vulnerable to make those connections in life either online or in person.
Leslie gives encouragement to moms who are trying to navigate the chaos of today’s world while raising Christian children. She shares the importance of setting boundaries for families and the benefits of knowing who your kids spend their time with.
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“I think it’s very important not to play referee but be the coach and help them work through the issues.” -Lori WildenbergOnce a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining to help families have peace in the home and work together to build lifetime connections! Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group. During this episode of MOMents with Lori and Lee Ann, both share pointers on dealing with sibling conflict and bullying.
Key Takeaways:* When a child is bullying a sibling, parents must help BOTH kids – the victim and the one doing the bullying; all kids need to feel safe at home. * We, as parents, want to watch for repetitive behaviors that are intentional and are meant to harm or humiliate the other child. * Pay attention to the cause of the bullying – work on problem-solving resolution conflict as a family and identify the triggers to be able to work on respectful ways to work through them. * Parents need to be aware of their own behaviors as children mirror them for good or bad – blaming others, name-calling, silent treatment, comparing people, or labeling/favoring children. * Steps to help siblings become allies and not enemies; our messaging matters, and we should tell our children early, and often they are each other’s best friends. * We need to value each child’s uniqueness while valuing family unity. * Respect is one of the most critical character traits to help build in children; we must continue to weave respect in the family to avoid bullying problems amongst siblings. * Don’t push the victim into forgiveness mode – they are allowed to grieve that their sibling has hurt them. * Verbalize what you see on both sides, have them go to separate places to devise a plan to solve that problem, and then come together and merge their plans, putting them on the same side.
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Looking for a summer camp for your child to have fun adventures, make lifelong friends, and learn more about Christ?Amy Lowe is the Director of WinShape Camps for Girls – a summer camp for girls from 1st grade to 12th grade, and she also oversees WinShape Camps for Families – a family camp and family weekend experience. She has a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration from Samford University and a Master of Arts in Theology from Fuller Theological Seminary. Before WinShape, Amy worked for 12 years at LifeWay Christian Resources in the areas of camping and publishing.
During this episode, Amy discusses her organization, WinShape, and the different summer camps that they offer to children and families all over the nation. WinShape Camps’ mission is to honor God in all the activities and experiences that they offer. They are passionate about transforming the hearts of campers and families with God’s Word and wisdom. WinShape also offers scholarships, payment plans, and 50% off for first-time overnight campers.
Amy elaborates on the following summer camps:
- Day camp: for grades K5-5th; the day camp includes indoor and outdoor activities and creative play mixed with all-day adventures while teaching about Jesus in every experience.
- Overnight camp: for grades 1-12; choose between a one- or two-week experience for either just girls or just boys, helping children develop skillsets and build life-long friendships while growing a relationship with Jesus.
- Family camp: for families of all ages; gives families an opportunity to experience new things together and learn more about Jesus through Bible-based teaching together.
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Michelle Medlock Adams is a NY Times best-selling ghostwriter and an award-winning author of over 100 books. Raising Christian Kids and Michelle are doing a giveaway with four of her amazing books: I Love You to the Sun and Beyond, Our God I Bigger Than That, Fly High, and Love Connects Us All.
During this episode, Lee Ann and Michelle discuss the four books in the Spring giveaway: I Love You to the Sun and Beyond is an educational picture book for parents to read with their children. It teaches them interesting, fun facts about the world through twenty-nine wacky analogies while simultaneously making them feel extremely loved. * Our God is Bigger Than That is a children’s book for children six and under that helps them understand that no matter what problem they face, God is in control and has bigger plans for them. This book serves as a resource to help children to look to God, who is bigger than their fears when they are fearful. * Fly High is a children’s fiction book about loss, grief, and hope. As we know, everyone experiences loss, even children. And we know how to verbalize how we feel when we are grieving or sad, but sometimes children have trouble understanding these feelings, and this book can help children relate who may have experienced some type of loss. * Love Connects Us All* teaches children that families come in all different shapes and sizes and help them realize that a family can be people who love each other, not necessarily a mom, a dad, a sister, and a brother. This book can be an excellent tool for children in diverse families or who are adopted into a family. It is important to inform children that God loves their family just as much as any other “traditional” family.
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“Everything written about me in the Law of Moses and the Prophets and the Psalms must be fulfilled.” -Luke 24:44.In a world that seems to reject Christianity, many Christian holidays such as Easter or Christmas seem to be centered around traditions such as the Easter Bunny or Santa Clause. And although we can still incorporate those fun traditions, we should also emphasize the importance of the actual reason for these holidays. Easter is a time to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus, and it is our job as parents and caretakers to point our children to Christ in every way possible. Our goal should be to make memories with fun traditions while also connecting our children to Christ!
So… how can we incorporate Jesus and the Psalms into fun family Easter traditions?
During this episode, Lee Ann shares the importance of not only having traditions but also instilling truth and wisdom from the Bible regarding why we celebrate Easter in the first place. So perhaps instead of looking for Easter eggs, look for Jesus in the Psalms.
Here are just a few of the many passages where we can find Jesus in the Psalms:* Psalm 8:1-9 * Psalm 16:8-11 * Psalm 40:6-8 * Psalm 68:18 * Psalm 69:21 * Psalm 110:1 * Psalm 118:22-23 * Psalms 96-100 * Psalm 22
If your children believe in the Easter bunny, point out that bunnies represent new life in the springtime and correlate that with the new life Jesus brings us. With younger children, don’t use slang words and phrases; use actual words such as “resurrection” and “sacrifice” so they can grasp the correct terminology to understand what Christ has done for us and why we celebrate this holiday in the first place.
Resources:* Episode 39: “Teaching Children the Reason for the Easter Season,” by Lee Ann Mancini. * Episode 113: “Understanding the Cardinal Points and Teaching Children 8 Christlike Characteristics for Easter,” by Lee Ann Mancini. * “The Resurrection: “According to the Scriptures”?” by Herald Gandi.
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“When we look at our actual homes, really the question to ask is, ‘How is screen time affecting my home – does technology bring my family closer together?’” – Arlene Pellicane.Arlene Pellicane is a speaker and author of several books, including Parents Rising, 31 Days to a Happy Husband, Calm, Cool, and Connected, and Screen Kids. Arlene has been a featured guest on the Today Show, Fox & Friends, and Focus on the Family. She hosts the Happy Home Podcast and lives in San Diego with her husband and their three children.
Arlene is passionate about helping families on an array of topics. One of her missions is encouraging parents to remember that they control screen time and technology usage in their homes!
During this final episode of disciplining month, Arlene dives into some important topics from her book, Screen Kids. She elaborates on the following key points on how to confront technology issues when disciplining:
- The confusing culture today teaches us that electronic devices are educational and that they help our kids connect with other kids – which can be true, but our kids are then lacking emotional skill sets.
- Tips on imposing new rules – prepare for resistance, try to make screen time as specific as possible, and make sure to have an end goal in mind.
- The benefits of reducing screen time in small incremental sections vs. all at once.
- Apologize and take responsibility for being “soft” when they get upset by your new rules to reduce screen time; admit you were wrong for letting them take advantage of their screens.
- Advice in disciplining a child that continues to abuse the digital rules – review the different types of rules that have failed, get other perspectives from parents or friends on how they deal with this issue in their home, and be willing to open your mind to other solutions.
- If it isn’t working, it’s time to try something different.
- Don’t be afraid to give consequences, and don’t extend the deadline.
- Allow the experiences and consequences to discipline your children.
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LEE ANN MANCINI
Do you feel like technology has taken over your home?
Today our guest Arlene Pellicane is here to share her wisdom in confronting the issues regarding technology in the home, and to remind the parents listening that you are in control of screen time in your home.
ARLENE PELLICANE
We all know that parenting is hard work, and life can get busy. We’ve done the research to help you. So let’s dig deep and work together to help you raise strong Christian kids.
LEE ANN MANCINI
Hello, everyone. I’m glad you’re tuning in today. This is another wonderful expert we have for our “month of disciplining” our children. Today’s expert is Arlene Pellicane. She is a speaker and the author of several books, including Parents Rising, 31 Days to a Happy Husband, Calm Cool and Connected: Five Digital Habits for a More Balanced Life. And the book we’re going to discuss today, which is Screen Kids.
Arlene has been a featured guest on The Today Show, Fox and Friends, and Focus on the Family. She hosts The Happy Home Podcast and lives in San Diego with her husband and three children. Arlene is a dear friend of ours. We adore everything she does. She is just amazing.
Arlene, welcome back to the podcast.
ARLENE PELLICANE
It’s so wonderful to join you again, my friend. Thanks for having me, Lee Ann.
LEE ANN MANCINI
Well, you know, as we’re talking about disciplining, we know it’s such an important subject – our kids need to be disciplined in order to be able to teach them God’s word and to prepare them to be adults who are responsible, loving, caring, and respectful and learn to obey God’s laws in His Word. So we’re going to talk about your Screen Kids book today. Can you tell us about your mission and the book Screen Kids?
ARLENE PELLICANE
Yeah, so Screen Kids is really a resource. Because right now we find ourselves as parents in a cultural moment perhaps that we didn’t expect: What do we do with all these iPads and these phones? And we’re sold and told, “Oh, this is educational,” like it will help them or this can help them connect to other kids. It’s very confusing. But when we look at our actual homes, really the question to ask is, How is screen time affecting your home? Does technology bring your family closer together? Because it can, and if it is doing that then it’s serving a good, positive purpose for you. But for most families, when they are asked the question, “Is technology bringing your family closer together?” they’re thinking, “No, it’s, like, dividing us, and everyone’s kind of alone.”
So this book, the mission really is to show that, Hey, parent, you have control over this. You are not helpless, you can make the decision that this technology is supposed to serve you, it is supposed to make your life easier – that’s what it is sold to do. And if you can get some good information, I think we can help parents move in that direction. So Screen Kids has a lot of research in it. And then also the emotional skills that children need. Because, you know, look around — a lot of teenagers and young adults, they may really be great at social media, or they might be great at creating a graphic or a meme or making a short video, but are they good at relationships? Are they good at being patient? Are they good readers? Do they follow directions and learn very quickly, you know, on the job site? So these things are important skills that are being missed. And we, as parents, it’s time to do something about it.
LEE ANN MANCINI
I couldn’t agree with you more. And I also think that some of these social media apps are dumbing down our kids as well. I mean, if you think about it, even as adults who can read a map anymore – we rely on GPS, right?
ARLENE PELLICANE
So true, we become very lazy so that if something is a teeny bit hard, we’re like, oh, I’m out. And it’s funny, because social media is so advanced, let’s say it’s like, oh, with the technology, you can press a button and someone in another country could instantly see what you’re pressing. I mean, this is amazing. But think about it, you’re just looking at little characters. And it’s not even – as adults, we have full sentences right on our texts, but kids, teenagers, they just have abbreviations or little comments. And so the conversation is really not that deep compared to the face-to-face conversation of 50 years ago, where two people might spend 10 minutes together and know a ton of information about each other in 10 minutes. Where your teen might be texting a friend for years and hardly know a thing about them. And so it really is funny that the technology is so advanced, but what they’re learning about body language, what they’re learning about empathy, tone of voice, innuendo, you know, all those kinds of things, those are all untaught.
LEE ANN MANCINI
Yes, and what can be misunderstood also are the emojis – like is that a good emoji? Bad emoji? What did they mean by that emoji? I meant it in a positive way. And you talk about good, good and bad digital candy, and I love that – if anybody has a chance to listen to Arlene speak, I highly suggest you hear her speak. She’s wonderful. She has such great wisdom and advice to share on how to help you and your children navigate a lot of different things in the parenting realm.
So if a child is used to having free digital choices at times, how can a parent start to restrain or institute new rules so the child can accept them easily? Because we’re going to be talking about disciplining a child with these digital devices.
ARLENE PELLICANE
Yeah, just think like, like anything else. If someone is used to having, you know, dessert after every meal every single day of their life, and then they go to a doctor and the doctor tells them, “Sorry, this is really bad for you, you better start restricting,” you know, no one’s gonna like this. No one’s gonna say, “Oh, yay, I get to skip dessert for a month now,” you know. So just realize that your child is not going to embrace this; your child is not going to see that – your child can barely see past next Friday. They don’t understand, like, this is healthy for you. So you’re going to have resistance.
So first of all, prepare for resistance so that you’re not surprised by that. And then try to make it as specific as possible. It’s the kind of thing where if you just say like, oh, you know, I’m not supposed to eat dessert so I guess I’ll skip, I’ll eat less, I’ll eat less dessert. Then you kind of don’t know when are you eating less and when you aren’t, right? But if you say to yourself, “I will only have dessert on Fridays,” you know, then it becomes more doable. You understand it. You know when you did it, you know when you didn’t. So when you say to your child, we’re going to reduce our social media time, or we’re going to reduce our video game time, there needs to be some clarity there, because your kids will just think, yeah, I played one minute less, I’ve reduced it. Done, Mom!
So whether that’s “Hey, during the school week we’re not going to have video games, and you can play video games on the weekend.” Or maybe it’s the opposite, and you feel like, “Well, we are really enmeshed, we’re in trouble. I don’t think I could get my child to do Monday through Friday without – ” Then you say, okay, you start the opposite. Then Thursday’s our video-free day. And then after we nail that for about a month, then, hey, we’re going to Tuesday and Thursday now.” But I really want to encourage you, as a parent, have that end goal in mind.
Like, this is where we want to go. If you’ve got to maybe wave a magic wand and make your child healthy with their screen time, what would that look like? Right? So then you see that, okay, that’s what that looks like.
Now, how do we get there? I am a big fan of that small incremental progress versus the, Hey, we’re gonna go to the gym five days a week, you know, in January, then it’s like two weeks later and you’re like, Okay, who can sustain this! So do those small things like no screens at mealtimes, no phone in the bedroom overnight so you can go to sleep. No video games on Thursday. Get these incremental specific things down and be the parent, you know.
You’re not the friend, you’re not there to commiserate with them about how awful this is, or how unfair this is. You can say, “I know, I’m sorry, buddy. I know this feels unfair. I know you feel like you’re the only one who has to do this, your friends don’t have to do it. But I care too much about you to let you keep doing this. I think it’s very unhealthy. And, you know, someday you’ll be an adult, and you’ll be able to make these decisions yourself. But right now you are a child, I take care of you, this my job. And this is what we’re going to do.” And be unmoved.
And for older kids, you know, an apology may be in order. “You know, buddy, I’ve kind of given you everything you wanted. Because to be honest, I wanted you to be happy. So I’ve given you every video game you’ve asked for. And I gave you a phone and I let you bend the rules, you know, because I’ve been kind of soft that way. And I’m sorry my softness has led to you kind of going off the rails and not doing well with your schoolwork or quitting your soccer team” – or whatever it is. “I’m sorry, it’s on me. I’m your parent, I’m responsible.” So sometimes those conversations start with an apology. And the “I’m going to try to make this right now. And I know you’re not gonna be happy about that. But this is me being a parent.”
LEE ANN MANCINI
Yes. And, you know, today I saw on the news that some of the younger adults are going to flip back to flip phones. And they’re saying that they’re so glad that they’ve done this because they found that they feel better. They’re interacting more with other people. They’re finding more time to read a book. They don’t feel that they’re socially inept when they’re talking to other people. And their mind is leveling at that serotonin that you get from all of that; it’s balancing, it’s getting better. They’re enjoying simpler things. So I’m hoping that this is a trend.
ARLENE PELLICANE
It’s kind of fun, because as Christians, you know, well, let me say it this way, you know, usually teens rebel, right? It’s kind of like a thing. We’re a teen we’re gonna rebel. Well as Christians, this is an awesome moment because your teen can rebel by having that flip phone, but that can be the like, I’m not going to be like everybody else. Everybody else is just tuning out and letting other people put thoughts in their mind. I’m gonna have a flip phone, and I’m gonna choose what things I think about. And it’s kind of a really, it would be, I one hundred percent agree with you that it’d be so much fun if there was this faction of the population that was growing, that was like, No, don’t need that – kind of going back to the old fashioned ways. And that would be kind of like the cool thing again,
LEE ANN MANCINI
They’re even selling new flip phones again. That would be great. So it’d be fun.
Well, we’re gonna wrap it up with: How do you discipline a child that continues to abuse these rules that you’ve set up? Where do you go from there? You’ve tried everything, you’re parents, you set them in place, you’ve talked about them but – I mean, besides taking it away totally, is there anything else they can do?
ARLENE PELLICANE
Yeah, I think like, kind of think outside the box of what you’ve been doing. So you can review you know, just like – I’m not really great at sports, but just think like a coach is going to review the plays. This play is not working, this play is not working, this play is not working. What would that coach do? They might talk to a different coach and say, Hey, can you look at my game tapes and see what am I missing? So get that different perspective. Maybe your mom or dad, or maybe a grandparent generation really might have something to say. Maybe another family that has older kids, ask them “What would you do in this situation?”
You know, look at, obviously, podcasts, books – I think of John Roseman, an amazing psychologist that’s really good at discipline. Read up on some John Roseman stuff and just kind of open your mind to other solutions that you haven’t looked at. And, obviously, pray and ask the Lord, “Lord, give me your mind. Give me your perspective. I’m stuck, Lord, please help me to get unstuck.” I feel like when you pray that then all of a sudden, you’ll open the newspaper and you’ll read an article about, like, oh, I should read this person’s book. And then you read the book, and you’re, like, This is exactly what I needed. God will start putting things in motion. So don’t give up. But look for other solutions. If what you’re doing is not working, it’s time to try something different.
LEE ANN MANCINI
Yes. And I think also, don’t be afraid to instill other consequences. It doesn’t have to be just with screen time, because actually having a phone or being able to go on your computer, these are all privileges, these are not rights. And as you said earlier, we’re the parents, so we have to parent these children. And so if you take away their smart device but they’re still finding ways to go to a friend’s house and you find out they’re using their phone or on screen time, well, guess what? They don’t get to go to that friend’s house. Connect, like you said, with other parents also, and other experts, to find out what to do.
Well, thank you, again, Arlene. Are there any parting words you’d like to share, or any advice you’d like to give the parents before we go?
ARLENE PELLICANE
Thank you so much.
I would say like, don’t be afraid to actually do the consequence. I think a lot of times what we’re failing in that we just kind of extend the deadline, extend the deadline, extend the deadline. Because we really don’t want to do whatever it is that we say that we’re going to do with our kids. So a lot of discipline is kind of embracing it as something, it’s not a bad word. It’s a good word. It’s a word that will help train your child to be able to hear the voice of God and to do what He says even if it doesn’t make sense to them in that moment. Even though it didn’t make sense to them in the moment that mom or dad said, you know, hey, I’m going to take this device you’re going to take a fast from it for one week -even though it didn’t make sense to them, the child says, okay, I will put myself under that discipline.
That’s going to bless them. So it’s not a negative thing. That’s a really, really positive thing. And so when that consequence has to come, you know, as your kids get older, experience becomes – you know, my oldest is 18, that experience is a better teacher than mom or dad. Like I might talk till I’m blue in the face but when my son experiences something – like, oh, he has glasses, and he left them in his bag without putting him in a case and now they’re completely scratched up. Well, that was a consequence, right? And so that experience will teach him: Oh, when I put my glasses in my backpack, I guess I better put him in the case first, you know. So allow the experiences to discipline your children; don’t over protect them. Allow them to feel that.
LEE ANN MANCINI
That’s wonderful. And I’d like to let our listeners know too, that your children do not have cell phones, correct?
ARLENE PELLICANE
That’s correct. So I have a high school junior without a phone, an eighth grader without a phone, no social media, no video games. And our college student got one the summer before college, he got a phone.
LEE ANN MANCINI
And you’ve had harmony in your house and your children have supported this —
ARLENE PELLICANE
They’ve actually chosen it. So it’s funny when you’re exposed to it – kind of like with the flip phones -when you see all that you can do without the distraction of a phone and how socially satisfied you really can be. So that’s a fun thing.
LEE ANN MANCINI
Wow. That’s great. Well, thank you, Arlene. Again, Screen Kids. And check out all her other books. We’ll have her resources and a link to where you can connect with Arlene on our website.
Thank you for being on the show.
ARLENE PELLICANE
Thank you, Lee Ann.
LEE ANN MANCINI
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If we are not responsible for our children’s actions and behaviors, then who is?As parents, we tend to think that our children’s actions and behavior directly reflect our parenting skills or lack thereof. And in some instances, this may be true. We may find ourselves as adults making excuses when we behave badly in front of others. But we are not responsible for how they act; we are responsible to them – meaning, we have a responsibility as their parent or caretaker to teach them, guide them, and emulate good behavior, especially when disciplining. When they deliberately choose to do wrong when they know they shouldn’t, it is not always our fault, and sometimes, they must suffer natural and logical consequences. Natural and logical consequences are great tools in our disciplining arsenal.
Although we are not entirely responsible for our children’s actions, there is one area in life where we are held responsible. The laws of society say that parents are legally responsible for their minor children’s actions in civil and criminal court, regardless of whether it was intentional or accidental. This is another reason to ensure children we are disciplining our children early so they understand that their family is at stake in more serious matters.
“For he who does wrong will receive the consequences of the wrong which he has done, and that without partiality.” – Colossians 3:25.
During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on these helpful guidelines to remember when disciplining children:1. Be clear about our expectations and what is expected of them. 2. Provide guidance and support without being overbearing. 3. Let them make mistakes and learn from them – don’t rescue or bail them out every time. 4. Encourage them to be independent and responsible. 5. Instill values like honesty, integrity, and respect for others. 6. Encourage them to think for themselves and make their own decisions. 7. Be patient as they learn to make responsible choices, and don’t forget to praise them when they do.
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“It’s never too late. God changes people at any age; he changes little children, he changes, elementary-aged children, he changes teenagers, he even changes adults; so, we’re really grateful that God’s grace permeates the heart of any person.” -Scott Turansky.Dr. Scott Turansky is the co-founder of the National Center for Biblical Parenting and the author of over 15 books. He is a professor at Concordia University, where he teaches the master’s level parenting class to students who will be social workers, counselors, and ministry professionals. During this second part of the two-part episode series, Scott continues to share his wisdom and expertise regarding effective disciplining to help parents reach children’s hearts, specifically emphasizing the effectiveness of taking a break versus a time out and the benefits of parenting with firmness and consistency.
Scott elaborates on the difference between a break and a time-out and how a break is much more effective than a time-out. Taking a “time out” is not a good parenting model because it’s a punitive punishment like a timed sentence that a child has to serve for a “crime” they’ve committed. Taking a “break” is more effective because it is based on repentance in the Bible, and it transfers responsibility to the child by letting them come back on their own terms when they feel like they’ve had a change of heart.
“There comes this point when time and conscience and the Holy Spirit work in a child’s heart, and they come back and say, ‘Okay, I’m ready.’ That’s what we’re looking for – that’s the power of the break.” -Scott Turansky,
Scott shares tools parents can implement to help improve communication and effectively reach their obstinate teenagers when disciplining. First, there has to be a relationship between the child and the parent. Although parents should have empathy and sympathy for their child, they must also have firmness and consistency when disciplining to be most effective for long-term results. He shares real-life examples of children who have had a heart transformation through a balance of consistency and firmness.
“We need to trust the Lord and recognize that God can use these times in our child’s life for us to make an impact, and we don’t have to do it with a hammer.” -Scott Turansky.
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“Understanding the action point is a crucial idea that will help parents be more powerful and significant when working with their children.” -Dr. Scott Turansky.Dr. Scott Turansky co-founded the National Center for Biblical Parenting and is the author of over 15 books. He is also a professor at Concordia University, where he teaches the master’s level Parenting Class to students who will be social workers, counselors, and ministry professionals. During this first part of the two-part episode series, Dr. Turansky discusses what he offers for families at Biblical Parenting University and shares important teachings from his book, Parenting is Heart Work, to help children have heart-based obedience. Biblical Parenting University is an online university where parents can take different parenting or coaching classes. These classes help parents learn how to take biblical principles and apply them to the parent-child relationship to teach children how to get things done and to help children develop essential life skills.
“Every one of the steps in the first cycle of getting things done is important because the cycle is building responsibility, responsiveness to authority, diligence, hard work, and perseverance… We are doing so much work here by helping children learn to follow instructions.” -Dr. Turansky.
Scott shares three important teachings from his book to help children obtain heart-based knowledge and obedience:1. Parents need to go into the heart – the three components that parents need to reach are their children’s desires, emotions, and beliefs. 2. Parents need to recognize they are the best counselors for their kids IF they have a good plan – the best way to help your children overcome behavioral issues and temperament is to get some training as a parent first because the parent knows the child more than anyone else. 3. Consider your action point – every parent has an action point, and when you stop talking and start acting through practical application and exercises, children can learn what they need to do in their own hearts versus what they don’t want to do.
Scott also details the “coming when called” exercise as an effective disciplining tool for children who don’t have an internal sense of obligation or tend to constantly argue instead of saying yes when called.
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“We do not need to be ‘punishing’ our children because Christ already took the punishment.” – Sarah R. MooreSarah R. Moore is the author of Peaceful Discipline: Story Teaching, Brain Science, and Better Behavior and the founder of Dandelion Seeds Positive Parenting. She’s a public speaker, an armchair, a neuroscientist, and, most importantly, a mother and a daughter of Christ. Sarah is a lifelong learner with training in child development, trauma recovery, interpersonal neurobiology, and improv comedy. As a certified master trainer in conscious parenting, she helps bring joy, ease, and connection back to families around the globe.
During this episode, Sarah discusses how emotional safety and connection can be used in our parenting to discipline more effectively and more like Jesus! She elaborates on the following key points from her book, Peaceful Discipline: Some of the many ways Jesus taught people throughout the Bible can be used in parenting when disciplining children. * We can teach our children the story of Zacchaeus from the Bible – he was a tax collector known as a bad guy who sinned often; instead of punishing and perishing him, God taught him through emotional safety and connection* that there was another way. * Jesus also taught through parables – it was always connection-based, and these stories illustrate what God’s love is like and how to live for God. * We all have a part of the brain called the hippocampus, which allows everyone to be a natural storyteller and create narrative memories. * When we directly access the hippocampus part of a child’s brain, it is emotionally safe for them, and we are using a tool that Jesus used himself. * Jesus took all the punishment for all his believers; therefore, we do not have to punish our children, although there are consequences for their behavior. * When we look at our children, we can see our father’s face in Heaven.
“Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” – Romans 8:1.
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“Another issue with disciplining today is that way too many people think of it as punishment; discipline is training for righteousness; discipline is walking with!” -Kathy Koch. Dr. Kathy Koch is the founder and president of Celebrate Kids and the associate co-founder of Ignite the Family. She regularly speaks at conventions, schools, churches, and pregnancy […]
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“If we want to understand what biblical discipline truly looks like, we need to look at Jesus, and we need to see how Jesus disciplined his disciples.” -Angela Harders. In this second part of the two-part episode series, Angela continues to share her wisdom regarding the controversial passage, Proverbs 23:13-14, that states, “Do not withhold […]
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“We need to remember that when we see the word discipline in the Bible, it does not mean punishment; that word means to verbally teach or instruct; it does not mean physical punishment at all!” -Angela Harders. Angela Harders is a certified special education teacher, an international best-selling author, and the founder of Pax Ministries. […]
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“Discipline literally means to teach. And Jesus disciplined by how he lived his life, not by lecturing, punishing, and sending his disciples to their rooms.” -Kirk Martin. Celebrate Calm founder Kirk Martin has helped almost one million parents stop the yelling, defiance, and power struggles with the most strong-willed children. He is also the host […]
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Discipline, instruction, and guidance… what do you think when you hear those words? For the entire month of March, we will feature experts in discipline and parenting to share their knowledge and help parents and caregivers navigate the rough waters of disciplining. The wisdom that will be shared will hopefully help you raise children who […]
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“I think for us to be able to understand what the Bible is saying to us, we have to fully understand the broader context of what the author of the scripture intended for the original audience.” – Dr. Eric Bargerhuff. Dr. Eric Bargerhuff serves as the Vice President for Academic Affairs and Professor of Bible […]
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Mother Theresa wisely said, “Some people come in your life as blessings. Some come in your life as lessons.” “Life is not easy.” “It gets harder as you get older.” These are some phrases we sometimes hear throughout life. And maybe there is some truth to these sayings, but during tough times, the Lord can […]
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“Ask God to help you focus on that person, the eternal spirit, that is living inside that temporary body that may have limitations.” -Sonya Shafer. Sonya Shafer is a popular homeschool speaker and writer specializing in the Charlotte Mason Method. She has been on an adventure for more than 20 years studying, researching, practicing, and […]
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“Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.” -Matthew 25:40. Good friends are valuable for many reasons, one being that they help to prevent isolation and loneliness while increasing our sense of belonging and purpose. Jesus is the perfect example […]
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“Parenting is broken people raising more broken people. I’m not perfect; so, I must go to something that is perfect, and that’s God and God’s word.” -Dan Seaborn. Dan Seaborn is the founder and president of Winning At Home, a non-profit ministry that encourages families of all ages and stages to lead Christ-centered homes. His […]
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Does your child know what blasphemy of the Holy Spirit means?Blasphemy is a fundamental biblical directive we should understand well to be able to teach our children when the time comes. Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is a willful, wicked rejection of God and, throughout the Bible, was subject to punishment by death. Blasphemy was to call into question the integrity and holiness of God himself. Idolatry, which is said to be the most detestable sin, is considered a form of blasphemy.
During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on this complex subject using direct examples from the Bible to guide you when teaching your children. In the Bible, there are only two possible explanations for Jesus healing the demon-possessed blind and deaf man. The religious leaders who witnessed Jesus perform this miracle refused to acknowledge that it was done by God’s power and concluded that Jesus performed this by the power of Satan. But Satan is said to be a “strong man,” and his “goods” or property are the men and women he holds in spiritual bondage. Therefore, Satan would not have cast out that demon from a person because he wishes to keep them in bondage to himself. This is a direct example of blasphemy – they refused to believe it could have been the Holy Spirit.
Jesus said in Matthew 12:28 that it was “by the Spirit of God” that he “casts out demons.”
Jesus says that sins committed against him, the Son of Man, can be forgiven. It is only unforgivable if the person dies rejecting the Holy Spirit. Hebrews 6:4–6 points out that no argument or evidence will help such a person. The problem is willful rejection, and it’s called in 1 John 5:16, “a sin that ends in death. We can teach young children that blasphemy of the Holy Spirit means not believing that God and Jesus are real. For older children and adults, if you worry that you have somehow committed blasphemy against the Holy Spirit and have committed an unforgivable sin, rest assured you have not.
Resources mentioned: The safe search engine Kiddle.co & the article, “Blasphemy: What Is it and Why Is it So Deadly?” by Casey B. Hough
Bible verses and stories regarding Blasphemy: Leviticus 24:10-16 * Matthew 12:22-32 * Mark 3:22-30 * Luke 12:10 * Exodus 22:28 * John 10:30 * Hebrews 6:4–6*
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If your kids want to listen to rap music, why not encourage them to listen to rap music about God?Timothy Brindle and Jonathan Gibson, together, are passionate about teaching kids about God and the Bible through their fun and engaging book series, Acrostic Theology, which uses the alphabet and rhyme to do just that!
Timothy Brindle has a Master of Theology degree and a Master of Divinity degree and is a Pastor at Olive Street Presbyterian Church. He is the author of The Unfolding, co-author of the Acrostic Theology for Kids series, and has released several Christian hip-hop albums. Jonathan Gibson, Ph.D., is ordained in the International Presbyterian Church and serves as Associate Professor of Old Testament at Westminster Theological Seminary. He is the author of The Moon Is Always Round and co-author of the Acrostic Theology for Kids series.
During this episode, Timothy and Jonathan discuss their three engaging and interactive books in the series: The Acrostic of God, The Acrostic of Jesus, and The Acrostic of Salvation. Their books teach children the attributes of God, Jesus, or Salvation, using the alphabet and written to a rhyming beat, making each book fun and easy to memorize.
The biblical characteristics discussed, using the alphabet A to Z, weave together a beautiful picture of the Bible and its history. All three books can be used as a family devotional. Kids LOVE the engaging rhymes in each book.
Here are the rap albums that go with the book series as an additional resource, available on Spotify: The Acrostic of God, The Acrostic of Jesus, and The Acrostic of Salvation.
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“Sweat more in the training so you will bleed less on the battlefield.” -Greg KouklAs human beings, we are designed to be resilient. There are ways to teach children how to stand firm and have courage when faced with adversity or failure. Resilience is defined as the ability of a substance to return to its usual shape after being bent, stretched, or pressed; it is also defined as the ability to be happy and prosperous after something difficult or wrong has happened. As parents, it is our duty to emulate resilience as much as possible and show our children how to move forward from a situation with confidence, wisdom, and discernment.
During this episode, Lee Ann discusses how we can guide our children to have more resilience. She discusses nine points to encourage parents to prioritize raising children with resilience from the book, Resilient Kids: Raising Them to Embrace Life with Confidence by Kathy Koch.
- It leads to growth and prevents perfectionism.
- It leads to hope and prevents victim mentality.
- It leads to learning and prevents plateauing and mediocrity.
- It leads to creative problem-solving and prevents children from giving up.
- It leads to healthy character, including teachability, and prevents disobedience.
- It leads to confidence and prevents fear and whiny, complaining behavior.
- It leads to healthy relationships and prevents anger, blaming others, and pride.
- It causes openness and connection and prevents long-lasting depression and anxiety.
- It leads to healthy dependence and independence and prevents apathy and isolation.
“Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the lord has promised to those who love him.” -James 1:12We want our kids to be spiritually resilient so that when times get tough, and they feel like God has abandoned them, they will have the courage to dust off the devil’s lies and move forward into the arms of Jesus.
Resources: Resilient Kids: Raising Them to Embrace Life with Confidence, by Kathy Koch, and “13 Ways to Build Resilience in Your Children,” by Sophia Auld.
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“Children have to make their faith their own. They have to get to that point where they can defend the Bible and defend their own faith, not their parent’s faith.”-Jesse Florea.Jesse Florea has worked at Focus on the Family for nearly 30 years. For 25 of those years, he’s been the editor of Clubhouse Magazine and Clubhouse Jr. Magazine. He has over forty book credits, including the CBS Defend Your Faith Bible and the devotional Defend Your Faith: 100 Devotions For Kids with Questions. He is the co-host of the Official Adventures in Odyssey and the Official Average Boy podcast.
During this episode, Jesse discusses Clubhouse magazine and Clubhouse Jr. magazine, as well as his Defend Your Faith Bible and Devotional, to hopefully promote family fun and encourage parents to help children learn biblical principles in a fun and engaging way.
Clubhouse magazine is for kids ages 8-12 and is packed with stories of average kids doing extraordinary things for God, including adventures, delicious recipes, jokes, and puzzles. Clubhouse Jr. magazine is for kids ages 3-7, and it helps children improve their reading and thinking skills. It also includes Bible stories, nature features, puzzles, jokes, and activities to reinforce traditional values and help children build a solid spiritual foundation.
Jesse emphasizes the uniqueness of the Defend Your Faith children’s Bible and devotional and how they work together to translate the Bible accurately and efficiently to children. The Bible is a great tool to help introduce apologetics to young readers and equip them to understand why they believe what they believe and how they can defend their faith. His devotional works with the Bible as an extra tool to help children engage with God daily and learn about their faith. The Bible and devotional take evidence and scientific support to back up the Word of God to make it easier for them to understand when building a Christian worldview and learning apologetics!
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As I’m sure you know, we, as human beings, don’t always respond correctly when our patience is being tested.Even if we try and be gentle parents, we sometimes lose control and yell at our children when we are disciplining. Emotional reactivity and knee-jerk responses can sometimes turn us into the Incredible Hulk, the big angry superhero who only knows how to express his emotions with rage and anger.
During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on the following points about having the parental responsibility to our children to teach them to react to situations accordingly when disciplining:
- We as parents are responsible for our own emotions and reactions not for our kids’ responses; but we are responsible to guide them in making wise choices without using tactics such as screaming and bullying.
- We cannot always control what our kids say and do – our goal is to influence them, not to control them.
- When we resort to screaming at our kids, our kids are not hearing the actual message or lesson; they hear the anger behind the screaming, and disciplining means to teach and instruct, NOT scold.
- When we get reactive and become aggressive, we exhibit immature behavior that our children mimic.
- Try to avoid the pitfalls that can cause us to lose control.
- Kids operate off the “pleasure principle.”
Disciplining our children requires patience and understanding. We should try our best to be more flexible in our schedules, tolerate uncertainty, go with the flow, don’t make promises we can’t keep, and find joy in every situation and all outcomes!
Resources:
- “How to Keep Your Cool and Stop Yelling at Your Kids” by Julie Davis.
- “These Parents Never, Ever, Yell” (episode 38) by Lee Ann Mancini.
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“We have at this point way over 300 near-death experiences that describe an awareness or a detailed encounter with God.” -Jeffrey LongJeffrey Long, M.D., is a radiation oncology physician who, over 20 years ago, founded the Near-Death Experience Research Foundation and has investigated over 4000 near-death experiences. The results of his previous research were published in his New York Times bestselling book, Evidence of the Afterlife: The Science of Near-Death Experiences.
During this episode, Dr. Long describes his research, and more specifically, out of 4,000, nearly 300 of those experiences have proved the existence of God and an afterlife. He emphasizes how all the people who encountered God described him as overwhelmingly loving and comforting beyond anything they’ve ever felt here on earth. During these encounters with Heaven, people often felt that Heaven was their natural home, and they felt more at home there than on earth at that moment. He also discusses one of his research series, including children having near-death experiences. During the children’s experiences, they were aware of a diseased sibling they never knew that they had; it’s been confirmed that 100% of the time when this information is brought back to the shocked parents, it is true and accurate.
Dr. Long has a multitude of resources on his website nderf.org, and he discusses some amazing books to help assist you in talking to your loved ones and children about near-death experiences, God, and proof of an afterlife:
- Evidence of the Afterlife: The Science of Near-Death Experiences, by Jeffrey Long.
- Heaven is for Real: A Little Boy’s Astounding Story of His Trip to Heaven and Back, by Todd Burpo and Lynn Vincent.
- Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon’s Journey into the Afterlife, by Eben Alexander.
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If we approach prayer intentionally with excitement and reverence, our children can learn to do the same!Teaching our children to pray often can help to prepare them for what they will face in life, and it can empower and equip them to stand firm in their faith when faced with adversity in today’s changing society. But we must teach them to pray often and more intentionally!
During this second part of the two-part episode series, Lee Ann continues to share ideas on teaching children how to pray and encouraging children to be more intentional with their prayers. She elaborates on the following points:
- Help your child learn to speak to God from his heart, to be honest, and sincere.
- Help your children see you approaching prayer intentionally with excitement and reverence.
- We must keep our eyes open consciously and our ears attentive to look for opportunities to pray for and with our children and be consistent and spontaneous with our prayers.
- Research “answered prayers” or “miracle prayers” and help them to see the power of prayer in action.
- Place your hands on your children when you pray for them, and teach them to lay their hands on others when they are praying for them as well.
- Pull out a map and look for points of interest for people and places to pray for.
- Talk to your children about what is happening in the world, and don’t let them hear about the news from others first.
- Teach them to pray for the public schools to stop teaching things contradictory to the word of God.
Resources:
- “4 Real-life Miracle Stories That Prove the Power of Prayers and Restores Our Faith in God,” by Lessons Learned in Life.
- “10 Ways to Pray for Public Schools,” by The Navigators in Prayer.
- Teaching Your Child How to Pray, by Rick Osborne.
- Pursuing Prayer, by Penny Cook.
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US News stated that fewer than half of American adults pray daily. And research says that only 69% of Christians pray weekly…Our top priority should be that our children learn how to speak to God all the time, every day, and as often as possible. And sometimes, it’s hard to remember to pray before something as we all have busy lives, and seeking God can become an afterthought. However, children can learn and remember to worship and seek God by seeing us pray – asking Jesus for forgiveness, thanking Him for our family and friends, and reading the Bible. Even the disciples asked Jesus how to pray!
During this first part of the two-part episode series about teaching children how to pray, Lee Ann elaborates on the following tips:
- Pause, ponder, and pray – pause when something happens, ponder/think about it, then seek God.
- Share an example of how you went ahead and did something without seeking God’s guidance and how that turned out versus the times you did seek him for guidance or help beforehand.
- Help your child memorize the Lord’s prayer – perhaps after family devotional time, you can end with the Lord’s prayer.
- Ask your child what they think worship time should sound and look like. For example, do they like to talk to God out loud or quietly? Encourage them to speak to God in a way that pleases them, and don’t try to correct them.
- Let them see and hear that you have a robust prayer life.
- Write down how many times you spoke with God and what those prayers were about, so your children can learn to do the same.
- Teach them how to sit quietly and listen for God to speak to them through his Holy Spirit.
- Never compromise set prayer times to accommodate outside activities – they must see you making it the ultimate priority.
- Let your children hear you say intercessory, praise, and confession prayers, and listen to you pray for the family, our country, and our leaders.
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“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” -Matthew 11:28.Rest – precisely what we need, especially after the crazy busy Holiday season. Physical rest is the rest we need to help us maintain good health, but spiritual rest, which is harder to get, is equally important! Did you know that the Bible mentions “rest” over 500 times? Because Jesus was human, he also sought physical and spiritual rest. He calls on us to believe in him and come to him so that we will become better versions of ourselves. We find rest in him when we remember that he is always with us, and we can rely on his power and trust in his provisions.
To obtain spiritual rest, we must pray to the Lord and ask him to open our hearts to understand what may be troubling us or making us restless. We can’t worry and stress about what is to come in our lives; that is why God tells us to find faith in him.
Matthew 6:34 states, “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”Most of the time, we, as adults, can figure out when and why we need physical and spiritual rest. But children have more difficulty understanding when it is time to rest. Lee Ann elaborates on the following questions that could help you see the signs that your children may need physical or spiritual rest:
- Are they having trouble sleeping?
- Are they getting sick often?
- Does your child lash out at you for apparently no reason? Are they quiet and withdrawn more than usual?
- Do they no longer want to participate in family activities or hang out with friends?
- Are they adamant about not going to church when they used to love to go?
- Has their personality changed drastically, or enough for you to notice something is wrong?
Resources:
- “What the Bible Says About Physical and Spiritual Rest,” by The Daily Grace podcast
- Sacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity, by Saundra Dalton-Smith
- “Find Rest for Your Family,” by Whitney Hopler with Crosswalk
- Take the Rest Quiz here!
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“How we live today determines how we will live tomorrow. What has to last, has to come first.” -Hal Runkel.Happy New Year, RCK community! Going into this new year, we should strive to prioritize our health and well-being! If we don’t take care of ourselves, then we can’t expect to be able to care for others, specifically our children. So we must practice self-care and confide in God and his living word on this journey. And through God’s grace and mercy, we can have healing hearts, peace of mind, and a happy spirit!
Psalm 46:5 states, “God is within her; she will not fall; God will help her at break of day.”So, how can we teach our children always to be joyful when we are not joyful because of the demands and stress of our busy lives? Self-care is the first step to good childcare! During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on the following suggestions when practicing self-care to help you become the healthiest leader for your children:
- Read the word of God and pray often – stay connected to the power source.
- Eat healthily and stay hydrated – set a timer to eat a healthy snack and drink your water.
- Make sleep a priority, and don’t forget – intimacy with your spouse should never be neglected.
- Take deep breaths and relax often – deep breathing and relaxation activate the parasympathetic nervous system, which sends a signal to your brain to tell the anxious part that you’re safe and doesn’t need to use the fight, flight, or freeze response (which causes stress).
- Set goals and priorities – stay organized and be ready for the day; this will help keep you on track, and kids love and need consistency and structure.
- Try to incorporate each fruit of the Spirit in you and your children’s life daily – make a chart and check off every day how you all were loving, kind, generous, patient, etc.
- Reach out to family, friends, the church family, and, most importantly, God for help if you are stressed or overwhelmed.
“But Jesus would withdraw to desolate places and pray.” -Luke 5:16Resources:
- “Becoming a Better You – How Can You Become a Better You so You Can Be a Better Parent?” by Raising Christian Kids.
- “Printable Daily Self Care Checklist Plus 40 Easy Self Care Ideas,” by Faith Filled Food for Moms.
- “Spiritual Healing – 3 Biblical Steps to Heal Your Wounds,” by Renee Davis.
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A huge step in being successful in business is to envision. So, why not use this tool in parenting? When you envision what can and will be, it helps you create an action plan for success. Envision you and your children’s future 25 from now. Start by making a detailed list of questions you can […]
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“God is close to the broken-hearted; he is a suffering savior who has been through the worst of it, and he understands what you are going through and is with you!” -Tina Yeager. Award-winning author, speaker, licensed mental health counselor, and life coach Tina Yeager encourages audiences to fulfill their potential and guides them on […]
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“If you can get the support and if you can get the resources, homeschooling is actually the best choice for struggling learners because it can be uniquely catered to them.” -Peggy Ployhar. After working as a special needs consultant, Peggy Ployhar founded SPED Homeschool, an organization that empowers families across the globe to home-educate children […]
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Everyone gets a spiritual formation, but to ensure our children get a Christian spiritual formation, they must form a relationship with God the father, God the son, and the Holy Spirit. Lacy Finn Borgo holds a Doctor of Ministry Degree and is the spiritual director at Haven House. Her ministry for adults, Good Dirt Ministries, […]
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Teaching children the true meaning of Christmas and Hanukkah can be challenging. Children sometimes think the only reason for the season is to give and receive gifts. During this episode, Lee Ann shares two resources that can help you guide your children to understand the true meaning of Christmas. Her Christmas book, God’s Gift, can […]
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“Instead of teaching children to follow their hearts, parents should teach them to guard their hearts and follow the truth.” -Dr. Frank Turek Dr. Frank Turek is passionate about helping the world know that Jesus is the one true superhero, and He can be seen in a lot of superhero movies today! He is a dynamic […]
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“I really want to show people the beauty of the multicultural family that God crafted for Jesus.” -Dorena Williamson Dorena Williamson is the bestselling author of multiple children’s books, including ColorFull, Thoughtfull, Gracefull, The Celebration Place, Crowned with Glory, and Brown Baby Jesus. A veteran of cross-cultural ministry, Dorena is passionate about shaping perspectives with biblical truth and diverse […]
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“I want children to be trained from a very young age that their gender is a gift from God, and it can NEVER change.” -Marty Machowski. Marty Machowski is a Family Life Pastor at Covenant Fellowship Church and leads Promise Kingdom, a gospel-centered children’s ministry. He is passionate about helping children understand their gender and […]
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“82% of children whose parents talk about and practice their faith in the home go on to follow Jesus as adults.” -Sarah Cowan Johnson. Sarah Cowan Johnson is a ministry trainer, consultant, coach, and author of Teach Your Children Well: A Step-by-Step Guide for Family Discipleship. She leads seminars for parents on family discipleship to […]
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It is important that we teach our children about the historical, geographical, and cultural context of the Bible! Eric and Meredith Schrotenboer are both storytellers at heart, hoping that their books can teach children the true context of the stories and events throughout the Bible! Eric is an award-winning filmmaker and music composer, and Meredith […]
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“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” -John 1:1 Jesus is not mentioned by name in the Old Testament, but he is a central figure throughout. He is first seen in the Old Testament as the person who appeared as “the Angel of the Lord” […]
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Irene Sun was born in Malaysia to parents who gave their lives to the Lord. For the sake of the gospel, they moved across cultures and continents many times. She studied literature at Yale University, where she holds a master’s degree in religion, and she also studied the Old Testament at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, […]
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“I give thanks to you, O Lord my God, with my whole heart, and I will glorify your name forever.” -Psalm 86:12 There is a strong connection between the words thankful, grateful, grace, and mercy. However, even though the words thankful and grateful are used interchangeably, to be thankful is to feel an emotion, and […]
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“We started coming together as a family for a few minutes of prayer and a few minutes of spending time in God’s word, and that family worship time has transformed our family and generations of our family.” Rob Rienow Rob Rienow has partnered with his loving wife, Amy, to help their seven children follow Jesus. […]
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James 1:5 states, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him.” Sometimes kids can figure things out on their own. Other times, if they can’t, they become frustrated and overwhelmed, just like us. As parents, we can exhibit […]
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“We want kids to know that their home is a warm place, a fun place, a fair place, a safe place; we want to free families up to have fun with the Bible.” -Frank Trimble Frank Trimble serves as the Director of Training and Consulting for Family Time Training. Frank is honored to be Kristin’s husband […]
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Did you know that we are hardwired for spirituality? In a previous episode, we learned from Dr. Lisa Miller that 21% of our DNA is spiritual. This means we are hardwired for spirituality! We should know the best ways to connect spiritually with our children and how to help them engage in meaningful, spiritual conversations. […]
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“Marriage is a byproduct of our relationship with Jesus, and at the same time, the way we parent is foundational to understanding what it means to have a relationship with God.” Dr. Dewey Wilson Dewey Wilson, Ph.D., is the founder and CEO of Strong Marriages. Dr. Wilson Co-Authored The Relationally Intelligent Child and contributed to […]
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Did you know that the sin of idolatry is the most detestable sin in God’s eyes? God makes it known many times in the Bible, especially in Ezekiel chapters 8 and 9, that the sin of idolatry is the most detestable sin. It’s also God’s number one commandment to not have any other Gods besides Him, […]
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“We are giving our kids so much more than what we are taking away from them when we do this detox.” – Molly DeFrank Stay-at-home mom and foster mom of six, Molly DeFrank helps free families from their addictions to electronic devices. She holds a degree in international relations and worked as a press aide […]
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When teenagers don’t experience connection and consistency, they have a hard time developing self-control and responsibility. last episode detailed many ways to improve communication with teens. During this episode, Lee Ann continues to share her wisdom from her research to help you and your parenting partner, or if just you if you’re a single parent, […]
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The terrible twos… more like the terrible teens! In the next two episodes, Lee Ann offers suggestions and ideas to help make the teenage years more manageable and enjoyable for you and your teen. During this episode, she elaborates on the following topics to help you communicate, understand, and better your relationship with your teenager: […]
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Does your son sometimes have trouble expres,sing his emotions or he doesn’t like to share how he’s feeling? If so, this episode is for you! David Thomas is the director of counseling for boys and men at Daystar Counseling Ministries in Nashville, TN. He is the author of several ,influential books including his latest, Raising Emotionally Strong […]
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“The 6th day of creation wasn’t the end of creation; it was just the beginning. It’s simply when God passes the baton to his image bearers and says, ‘pick up where I left off and go fill this earth for my glory and the good of others.’” -Jordan Raynor Jordan Raynor helps Christians respond to […]
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The Psalms claim, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” It is in our human nature to be fearful of things, and those who don’t believe in Jesus need to fear the Lord, for they will receive his wrath on judgment day. But those who believe in Jesus can have the type […]
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That week, locked in the Monroe Juvenile Detention Center, Catherine gave her life to the Lord… Catherine Zoller is the author of The Rhyme and Reason series and a dynamic speaker who uses humor and truth to inspire audiences across the country. Her testimony is proof of God’s ability to redeem everything. Her goal for […]
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“Science shows us that in our darkest moments, we are particularly able to break through and deepen our relationship with God.” -Dr. Lisa Miller Lisa Miller, Ph.D., is the New York Times bestselling author of The Spiritual Child and The Awakened Brain. Dr. Miller graduated from Yale University and the University of Pennsylvania and is […]
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“Spiritual life is involved with a circuit in the brain that every single one of us has been given from day one… and we can watch through our MRI machines how the brain moves when we are knowing, feeling, and experiencing our personal relationship with God.” -Dr. Lisa Miller Lisa Miller, Ph.D., is the New […]
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How can we help our children find their identity through Christ? Today, children believe their self-worth is measured by what people say about them or by what they see and hear on social media. But we can help them understand that because we are created in God’s image, we can find our worth in him, […]
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“It’s easier to raise a boy than fix a man.” -Rick Johnson Bestselling author and speaker Rick Johnson founded Better Dads, an organization based on the urgent need to empower men to lead and serve in their families and communities. Rick’s books influence the whole family with life-changing insights for men and women on parenting, marriage, and […]
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How can we help our children to learn to relinquish when the world teaches them quitting is never an option? Relinquishment means to abandon, put aside, let go, release, or cease from holding. Relinquishment is not surrendering or giving up for no reason. To surrender means that we admit the enemy has won. When we […]
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Champ Thornton, Ph.D., and his wife, Robben, live in Newark, Delaware, and have three children. He is the author of many books that children and families can enjoy while staying engaged and learning biblical content. He also hosts a ten-minute podcast for families called “In the Word, On the Go.” Champ discusses lessons and biblical wisdom […]
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Do you have a child that, no matter what, always seems to complain, whine, or grumble? If you have a child who never sees the positive in things, is never satisfied, or likes to complain, we can help our children learn how to give thanks in all situations—according to 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, having an attitude […]
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“The average age of exposure to pornography is 8 -11, and I wondered… why aren’t we talking about this?” -Barb Winters. Barb Winters is a pastor’s wife and parent of four adult children, one of who is a recovering pornography addict. She’s a hopeful mom supporting, encouraging, and offering help to parents in this digital […]
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What are generational parenting patterns and why do they matter? Generational parenting patterns are patterns that are transferred from one generation to another. For example, if your parents screamed at you as a teenager, sometimes you may scream at your own teenagers because that is the way you were raised. Or even saying things the […]
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“One out of every twenty adults in America have a biblical worldview. Our worldview begins developing at 15 months of age and is almost fully formed by age 13.” -Dr. Barna Dr. George Barna founded the Barna Research Group in 1984 (now The Barna Group) and helped it become a leading marketing research firm focused […]
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Do you have a child that likes to take control or, may we dare say, is bossy? We, as Christian parents, must acknowledge the signs that our child is being bossy and not ignore them. Ginger Hubbard states, “To redirect a teachable moment is an opportunity to miss a teachable moment.” There are many ways […]
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God is compassionate and promises to save those who are crushed in spirit! Lisa Appelo is the author of Life Can Be Good Again: Putting Your World Back Together After It All Falls Apart and speaks to inspire women to cultivate faith in life’s storms. Lisa went to bed happily married one night, and the […]
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“There is a difference between excellence and perfection. Excellence allows for growth, and perfection doesn’t.” -Dr. Kathy Koch Dr. Kathy Koch, an author, speaker, and follower of Jesus, earned a Ph.D. in reading and educational psychology from Purdue University and influences thousands of parents, teachers, and children worldwide. She is the Founder and President of […]
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“Today’s kids believe happiness is their right and choice is their right, so they treat God like Amazon Prime. They want him to answer their prayers in the way they want him to answer it, right now.” -Dr. Kathy Koch Dr. Kathy Koch, an author, speaker, and follower of Jesus, earned a Ph.D. in reading […]
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“We have to understand that all kids are motivated. It’s not a question of how do I get them motivated; it’s how do I redirect their motivation to something healthy.” -Dr. Kathy Koch Dr. Kathy Koch, an author, speaker, and follower of Jesus, earned a Ph.D. in reading and educational psychology from Purdue University and influences […]
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In the typical order of things, parents give, and children receive. Sometimes, though, this gets reversed… So, what is parentification? Parentification is when the parent delegates their duties to a child, and the child ends up with too many parental responsibilities and sometimes even takes the role of caregiver to keep the family functioning. Parentification can help a […]
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“If we can just expose them in small, controlled dosages when we are still there to guide them through it, it can really help build immunity to false ideas.” -Elizabeth Urbanowicz Elizabeth Urbanowicz is a follower of Jesus, passionate about equipping kids to understand the truth of the Christian worldview. She holds a B.S. in […]
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Do you deal with mom guilt? Well, if so, this episode is for you. “When I brought my firstborn home from the hospital, I was snapping the buttons on his onesie to get him to sleep, and I snapped the last snap by his neck and pinched his skin. He let out a piercing scream […]
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Lisa Tawn Bergren is a best-selling, award-winning author who has written over seventy books! She writes in many different genres, from historical women’s fiction to illustrated Christian children’s books to time travel and spiritual suspense. Some of her books include the best-selling God Gave Us Series, Nana the Great Comes to Visit, and Upside-Down Prayers for […]
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Can sports actually help our children grow spiritually? Sports are one of the best ways to keep children busy and out of trouble. And most importantly, it can help prepare them to run the race that brings eternal life. During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on how sports can benefit your child’s spiritual growth and […]
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“One in five children will be sexually abused by their 18th birthday in the United States! 34% of perpetrators are family members, 58% are acquaintances, and 7% are strangers.” -Justin Holcomb Justin Holcomb, Ph.D., is a minister and professor of theology at Reformed and Theological Seminary and Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary. He has authored, co-authored, and […]
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“People really need to get plugged into their local pregnancy centers and really get plugged into their local pro-life community because we still have a big fight ahead of us.” -Abby Johnson Abby Johnson continues to share her conversion story from being an abortion clinic leader to the amazing pro-life activist she is today. She […]
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“We wanted people’s lives to be changed. We wanted people’s hearts to be converted. We wanted people to walk in pro-choice and walk out pro-life.” -Abby Johnson Abby Johnson, wife and mother of 8, worked for Planned Parenthood for eight years to become the clinic director. But, she walked away from her job after witnessing […]
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Don’t you think it’s a crazy name for a clinic that aborts children… Planned Parenthood? Abortion is the killing of humans. Our children should understand what the sanctity of human life means. When we help our children understand the value of human life, it also helps them understand why it is important to be respectful […]
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God has given us a tool of gratitude; when you choose to look at things differently and be grateful, you can work to overcome anxiety! Caris Snider is a Christian communicator delivering the hope of God through speaking, writing, worship, and life coaching. She is the author of, Anxiety Elephants: A 31-Day Devotional to Help […]
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Joe Carter is a senior writer for The Gospel Coalition, the author of The Life and Faith Field Guide for Parents, the editor of the NIV Lifehacks Bible, and the co-author of How to Argue Like Jesus: Learning Persuasion from History’s Greatest Communicator. He also serves as an associate pastor at McLean Bible Church in […]
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Tammy Daughtry is known as America’s Coparent Strategist. She is the author of the book Co-Parenting Works! and the founder of Co-Parenting International, which is an organization that helps thousands of single parents and stepparents raise amazing children in complex families. Her resource, One Heart, Two Homes, serves as a helpful guide for parents who […]
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Penny Cooke is the author of the award-winning book Pursuing Prayer – Being Effective in a Busy World and a certified biblical life coach. Her passion is to see everyone pray more often and more fervently. Whether she is writing, coaching, teaching, or speaking, Penny seeks to encourage and equip others with the Word of […]
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“If God calls you to it, he will equip you to do it!” -Kate Battistelli Kate Battistelli is the a best-selling author of the book, The God Dare: Will You Choose to Believe the Impossible and the novel, Growing Great Kids: Partner with God to Cultivate His Purpose in Your Child’s Life. She is one […]
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Are you looking for a devotional that helps your child apply biblical principles to everyday life? Linsey Driskill is a mother, author, and speaker who has helped lead educational awareness trips and directed the nonprofit organization, Villages of Hope. Linsey’s book, Beautiful Hearted Women of the Bible: A Creative Mother-Daughter Devotional, published by Focus on […]
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“Small actions on our part as parents can lead to huge spiritual differences in our family.” -Justin Earley Justin Whitmel Earley is a lawyer, author, husband, and father of 4 boys. He holds a law degree from Georgetown University Law Center and a degree in English Literature from the University of Virginia. He runs his […]
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Petherbridge is an international speaker, author, and life coach. She has been featured in: Focus on the Family, The Billy Graham Training Center, FamilyLife, iBelieve, Crosswalk, Lifeway, Today’s Christian Woman, and Momlife Today. Her books include The Smart Stepmom, 101 Tips for the Smart Stepmom, and Quiet Moments for the Stepmom Soul. Key Takeaways: Divorce […]
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“The most effective form of learning educates the whole person, but it doesn’t happen overnight. It happens by sowing one tiny seed at a time, then watering, feeding, nurturing, and covering it all in prayer.” -Durenda Wilson. Durenda Wilson has homeschooled and graduated 7 out of 8 children so far. She is a speaker, podcaster, […]
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“Your child’s maturity in Christ is your priority.” -Josh Mulvihill Dr. Josh Mulvihill is the Executive Director of Church and Family Ministry at Renewanation. He served as a pastor for nearly 20 years, has a Ph.D. in Family Ministry, serves on the board of Awana, and is the author/editor of ten books on parenting and […]
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“Lying expresses a lack of trust that God is in control.” -Ginger Hubbard Ginger talks about why children lie, what God’s Word says about lying, and encourages parents with practical ways to train children to speak the truth. Her book, Chloe and the Closet of Secrets, is a great resource to help children understand and […]
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Is your child struggling with habits of whining, but you aren’t sure how to address them? Ginger Hubbard discusses a biblical framework and practical ways to help children understand why they whine, how they can learn better ways to express themselves, and how to become better communicators ultimately. If you haven’t already, we recommend listening […]
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“We live in a nation that defies God at every point, including child training.” -Ginger Hubbard. Ginger Hubbard is a bestselling author of multiple books, the co-host of the Parenting with Ginger Hubbardpodcast, and a frequent speaker at women’s events, parenting conferences, and homeschool conventions across the country. Ginger gives her insight and knowledge to […]
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Did you know that you can cause damage to your children if you are hyper-critical during certain stages of development? As parents, it is crucial to help our children reflect and learn from their mistakes in a warm and encouraging way, not by harsh words and punishment. This approach is much more beneficial for them […]
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“Today’s school systems are not like the ones that we grew up on. And you have to notice that and take action accordingly for your children.” -Cheryl Chumley Cheryl Chumley is an online opinion editor, commentary writer/host of the “Bold and Blunt” podcast at The Washington Times, and the author of four books. She is […]
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Karen Whiting is an author of more than 30 books, a former television host, an AWSA certified coach, an international speaker, a mother of 5, and a grandmother. Her daughter, Rebecca White, is the director of children’s ministry at her church and has co-authored two books with her mother, Karen. Rebecca is a mother of […]
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The Bible warns us in Ephesians 6:4, “Do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the lord. There are many ways you may be provoking your children without knowing the harmful effects it could have on them in the future. Some examples of provoking our children: When our […]
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Let’s create a legacy of love with our mothers by giving encouragement, using words of affirmation, and taking the initiative! Blythe Daniel is a literary agent, marketer, and the President of the Blythe Daniel Agency. She has written for Proverbs 31 Ministries and Focus on the Family. Dr. Helen McIntosh, her mother, is a counselor, […]
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Does your child know the difference between sins of commission and sins of omission? Key takeaways: A sin of commission is when someone of higher authority tells you to do something, and you do not do it. Most children understand sins of commission because there are potential consequences for disobedience, meaning they get punished for […]
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Let’s cultivate a path to be intentional and mindful to help our children gain spiritual awareness! Dr. Katherine Pang (Ph.D.) is the founder and CEO of the Christian Life Institute and serves as the Managing Psychologist and Clinical Director at Lakewood Wellness. She has a ThM and MDiv from Talbot School of Theology, two law […]
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Sportscasting is a tactic that gives children an opportunity to become better problem solvers! Sportscasting happens when we take a back seat to a problem instead of participating in fixing it. When a sportscaster is reporting during a game, they are simply talking objectively about what is happening – they are not getting on the […]
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Jean Thomason is a musical performer, worship leader, author, and conference speaker. She is the living embodiment of the joyful children’s musical character, “Miss PattyCake.” Through this brightly costumed character, she plants biblical truths into little lives while helping to equip parents to lay a spiritual foundation. Jean gives insight and knowledge from her book, Sharing God’s BIG LOVE […]
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Do you have a child that is fearful of ghosts, demons, or angels? When children fully understand that the devil and his demons have no power over us because we have Jesus who dwells within us, they can learn not to be fearful but to be faithful. Key takeaways: Common fears children have about spirits […]
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Do you need help understanding and managing your strong-willed child better? Kirk Martin is the founder of Celebrate Calm and the host of the Calm Parenting Podcast. He is known for his very practical strategies that he delivers with humor to help you to get your kids to listen the first time while building a […]
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Who were the “Easter people” in the Bible? The cardinal points listed in the Bible (Acts 2:42) are four practices that made the early community of followers of Jesus who they were. These people were Jesus followers called “Easter people.” They were people who lived a completely new experience under the authority of God. As they […]
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“The meaning of an event isn’t fixed at the time it happens, but God can work to change that meaning.” -Bethany Sollereder Dr. Bethany Sollereder (PhD & MCS) and her friend, Amber Salladin, both have a heart for helping children understand why there is suffering. Bethany specializes in theology concerning evolution and the problem of […]
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“When evolutionists mock us for believing in an eternal God, then what do they believe in -eternal matter and energy?” -Ken Ham Ken Ham continues to spread his knowledge about God’s truth through new findings and research that prove our world was not created millions of years ago and that there is an eternal God […]
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Everything we need to know about creation starts with Genesis 1-11! Ken Ham is one of the top biblical apologetics speakers in North America. He is the president, CEO, and founder of Answers in Genesis-US, the highly acclaimed Creation Museum, and the world-renowned Ark Encounter. As an author, he has sold over 3 million copies […]
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Did you know that there was a discovery of the Egyptian chariot wheels in the Red Sea? Archeological findings, informative & fun resources, and unique places for you and the family to continue to explore the history of Jesus: “Discovered: Red Sea Chariot Wheels,” By Discovery World, includes pictures of the chariot wheels in the […]
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Did you know that only 6% of Americans have a functioning biblical worldview? Natasha Crain continues to share her knowledge as she dives deeper into these challenging topics of biblical worldview vs. secular worldview. It is vital to prepare families to take the necessary steps to properly raise the next generation to hold their worldview […]
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As parents, we must be proactive in understanding questions about Christianity and other worldviews to be prepared to answer these complex questions from our children. Natasha Crain is a national speaker, author of four books, blogger, and podcaster who is passionate about equipping Christians to think more clearly about holding to a biblical worldview amid […]
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If we evolved from apes, why has nothing evolved from us? Telling a child that we were created by an eternal God (Ref. Genesis 1:27) can be a difficult concept to grasp. Using the Word of God and diving into some detailed research, we can support that an eternal God, our God, created us, and […]
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“Parents need to be very judicious about what type of education they place their children under. We are absolutely in a battlefield of ideas and viewpoints.” Alex McFarland continues discussing his knowledge with apologetics in this two-part episode as he gives insight on the importance of Christian education and the revival of Christ and his […]
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“Be accessible and authentic in your faith and your children will do the same.” As a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, and advocate for biblical truth, Alex McFarland has preached in over 2,000 churches and Christian events worldwide. He is the founder and President of a great nationwide ministry called Truth for […]
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Did you know that the Bible is the only book that is a living word? Lee Ann gives explanations to the following questions children ask in a way that makes it understandable for kids: How can God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit be the same God? (Ref. John 10:30) How do we know Jesus was […]
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God did not create evil – he ALLOWED evil to come into the world to offer us free will! Lee Ann discusses each of these questions and gives explanations from the Bible to help you to be able to respond to your child with clarity and confidence! Why is there evil? How can a good, […]
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“We are making a case for the history and deity of Jesus and why Jesus matters!” J. Warner Wallace is a Dateline featured cold-case detective. He is also an author and speaker who became a Christ-follower at the age of thirty-five after investigating the claims of the New Testament gospels using his skill set as […]
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It is essential to help our children learn more about the truth contrary to the prevailing view of relativism! Little ones need to understand the difference between what is TRUE and what is false. As they grow up, we should explain to our children that some people believe that truth is subjected to how they […]
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“People have to protect their children from this culture!” Greg Koukl continues spreading his knowledge in this two-part episode as he discusses his concern for the very aggressive attempts society is making by indoctrinating about politics that are deeply hostile to the Christian worldview. He also explains the issues we are facing due to this […]
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“I have CONVICTIONS about God, and so I put my TRUST in Christ.” Greg Koukl, an apologist, international speaker, and radio host of 27 years, founded and currently serves as the President of the organization Stand to Reason. He is an award-winning writer and best-selling author who’s been quoted in Christianity Today, the U.S. News […]
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Our children need to be prepared to be challenged for their belief in Jesus! Although it may seem impossible to teach a toddler or a preschooler how to defend their faith actively, we can prepare the soil and plant seeds of faith in Jesus until they can cognitively perceive how to defend their faith. So, […]
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What does it mean to be near to God? Nearness to God impacts every area of our lives every day; it’s as if God is always standing right next to you! If he is standing next to us, we need to become good listeners to what he has to say and teach our children to […]
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Did you know that a four-year-old can be stressed or fearful enough to cause themselves to have anxiety? The Limbic System is the part of our brain that deals with memory, arousal, and emotions. When children become four and five years old, they can become very emotional, fearful, and angry with no explanation. They start […]
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How can you be the parent your child needs? Michele Benyo is a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist, an early childhood parent coach, and the founder of Good Grief Parenting. After her 6-year-old son passed away from cancer, her 3-year-old daughter said, “Mommy, half of me is gone.” This heartbreaking statement defined Michele’s life purpose. Her […]
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Children should know the difference between deism and deity -they are not the same! Moralistic Therapeutic Deism isn’t a religion like Islam or Buddhism but rather a combination of beliefs amongst American teenagers. The idea is that there is a distant therapeutic god out there that is watching that wants them to feel good about […]
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Susan Neal, an RN, health coach, and Christian, teaches both adults and children healthy nutritional guidelines. Not only that, but she also lives out what she teaches. Susan loves to share with others what she’s learned about health and nutrition, and loves to educate children about developing wholesome eating habits, preparing them for a lifetime […]
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Daniel Harmon’s company, Angel Studios, distributes The Chosen and now, for kids, the Tuttle Twins. The Tuttle Twins is a show that empowers parents to help their children have a foundation of freedom against a socialistic society. Daniel is also co-founder and chief creative officer of Harmon Brothers, a Provo, Utah-based ad agency behind the most […]
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Do you know what being a gentle parent means? Are you a parent or grandparent that struggles with the four specific Proverbs that state the rod of punishment is appropriate when disciplining your children, meaning that we should spank a disobedient child? The four rods of punishment in Proverbs: “He who withholds his rod hates […]
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Are you looking for a good children’s book that teaches godly morals and lessons? Nancy Sanders is a multi-award-winning children’s author of over 100 books. She is the co-winner of the ECPA’s Young People’s Literature Award for the best nonfiction in the Christian market. Her favorite topics to write about are God, Bible stories, educational […]
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This year, did you know that only 6% of Americans were said to have a true and pure biblical worldview? As we raise the next generation, we should ensure we feed them the truth and help them to understand the Lord’s Prayer. Then, after our children understand the Lord’s prayer, we can incorporate it in […]
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How can establishing gratitude prompts help to instill grateful hearts in our children? Kathy Howard is a treasure hunter! She hunts for the creamiest chocolate, richest coffee, and cherished stories of faith. She also digs deep into Scripture, mining God’s eternal truths. Kathy is the author of eleven books and has a Master’s in Christian […]
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Slammed doors. Hurting hearts. Tricia Goyer knows what it’s like to parent children with chronic anger! Tricia Goyer is a homeschooling mom of 10 kids! She is also a speaker, podcast host, and USA Today bestselling author of over 80 books. Tricia writes in numerous genres including fiction, parenting, marriage, and books for children and […]
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Sight, vision, and envision… all similar words with very different meanings! Sight is what we see through our physical eyes, and vision is the ability to process what you see and to think about or plan something. Envision is to imagine as a future possibility – to visualize the future. Therefore, it is important to help […]
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Julie Lavender is an author, a journalist, a veteran homeschooling mom, and a speaker. Julie loves encouraging families to make memories to treasure for a lifetime through speaking and writing. Her most recent book, 365 Ways to Love Your Child, just won another award for the Christian Market Nonfiction Book of the Year and was […]
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Happy New Year! As we start Season 3 of RCK, we pray that you all find peace in the storm, love where there seems to be none, prosperity to serve those in need, and health and happiness for you and your family! If you need new resources and practices that will help you and your […]
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“God is faithful, and He is holding you!” -Sheila Walsh Sheila is a powerful communicator, Bible teacher, international recording artist, television host, and bestselling author with almost six million books sold. She is the author of the award-winning books Gigi, God’s Little Princess, It’s Okay Not to Be Okay, Praying Women, and many more. She also […]
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The most wonderful yearly celebration is to honor our Savior’s birth! Christmas traditions are memorable for children, especially when they are done together as a family. We are always looking for ways to encourage our children to read. It helps to educate your children, and they look forward to this kind of reading if you […]
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Rhonda Stoppe is an author and speaker dedicated to helping women live life with no regrets. With over 30 years of experience as a mom, mentor, and pastor’s wife, Rhonda teaches women to connect with God on an intimate “love walk” of obedience and to live deliberately in their purpose. She is passionate about raising […]
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How can we expect our children to share God’s word with others if we don’t? Children are naturally curious because they are learning through every experience. According to the American Worldview Inventory 2021, nearly half of the millennials surveyed said they either don’t know, don’t care, or don’t believe that God exists. As adults, are we […]
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Kids must learn at a young age that God made them for a purpose! Children are naturally curious because they are learning through every experience. Jamie Ivey loves creating things that help people believe the truths about who God made them to be. She does this mainly through her popular podcast, The Happy Hour with Jamie […]
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The curiosity of children greatly influences their desire to learn and engage! Children are naturally curious because they are learning through every experience. Children with high levels of curiosity are motivated to learn or accomplish something new for the reward of having mastered it. Science calls this hunger to learn and mastery motivation. It can drive young […]
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A special Thanksgiving message… This past week we celebrated Thanksgiving! It is important to help our children understand that it is God’s will for us always to be thankful every day, not just on Thanksgiving. This allows our hearts to become humble and appreciative even when it is hard to be thankful every day in […]
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“The words in this letter were exactly what I needed at that time in my life, and 18 years later, his words and his voice are still leading me and guiding me.” -Blake Brewer. Blake Brewer, the founder of Legacy Letter, is on a mission to help 1 million dads write at least one well-written […]
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How many times have you asked your child to do the same thing over and over? Why do you have to tell them or remind them repeatedly? The disciples had to be reminded about the power of Jesus repeatedly as well. Jesus asked them, “Are you still so dull?” and, “How long shall I put […]
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Teaching the parables of Jesus can help you raise strong Christian kids! One of Jeanna Young’s top priorities as a Christian mom is homeschooling her children and keeping the Young household in order. After 20 years as an event planner, God called her to write Godly princess books full of character and purpose. She is […]
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The world says God is not real. Who is God? God says, “I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.” -Exodus 20:2 The world tells so many lies. For example, the world says to idolize famous people in Hollywood and that we should want to be like them; […]
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“Parents can do it right, and we can change the trajectory of a family and therefore a culture and therefore an entire country.”- Kathy Koch Kathy Koch, Ph.D., is the founder of Celebrate Kids, Inc., a speaker and frequent guest on Focus on the Family radio, and the author of five books. Her practical, relevant, […]
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Media and music can be a master over our children, and it is our job to protect them! Some websites/apps to watch out for: Omegle Kids – This “talk to strangers” website has zero parental controls, allows children to go on the adult site and adults to go on children’s site without filling out any […]
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“If you don’t see the problem, you won’t be seeking the solution.” – Lana Leigh Wilkens. Lana used to think yelling, hurrying, and repeating herself was just part of being a mom, but then God reminded her of a powerful process! Lana challenges fellow knee-jerk moms to respond instead of reacting impulsively to this culture […]
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We are to love others and bring them to Christ, not condemn them! During preschool and early elementary years, children explore what it means to be a boy or girl. Experts state that gender identity tends to be established by age 4. It is difficult to explain to a child, especially when the child is […]
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“If you believe in the nuclear family, traditional institutions, morality, and biblical values… you need to know the truth!” -Terri Podlenski Terri Podlenski joins Lee Ann in an informative interview to discuss the shocking truths about what our children might be learning in our schools. She is a Christ-follower, a wife and mother, and the […]
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Did you know Jesus was ridiculed? There is a huge difference between being teased and being ridiculed, and both acts can affect us, as well as our children. Teasing is making fun of a person or a situation, and teasing is common among children, especially between siblings. Mocking someone or humiliating them with taunting words […]
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Yvette Hampton is a follower of Jesus, a wife, a homeschool mom, the host of the Schoolhouse Rocked Podcast, and the producer of the Schoolhouse Rocked: The Homeschool Revolution. As a mom who is concerned for the future of this generation, Yvette has a deep desire to see a culture shift by encouraging people through […]
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God’s word says, “when you fast,” not IF you fast! Fasting is a spiritual practice in many religions that allow us to be sacrificial. We can partake in fasting in many other ways, not only with food deprivation. Many problems arise from children fasting from food due to their smaller size and increased metabolic needs. […]
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These teenagers don’t have cell phones! Arlene Pellicane is an author, speaker, and podcast host of the Happy Home podcast. She has written several books, including Parents Rising, 31 Days to a Happy Husband, and Screen Kids. Arlene has been featured on the Today Show, Fox & Friends, the Wall Street Journal, and Focus on […]
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Did you know we have more than five senses? Our senses become engaged through experience, and our children learn tremendously through manipulating objects and engaging their senses. When we engage in the world, this is a symbol-centered approach. Children love the divine and mysterious ways of God and to experience his creation through nature. Creation […]
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There are many ways to connect our children to God’s Word in a way that they can easily understand. Laurie Christine is an author, Bible teacher, podcast host, wife, and mother of four loud and adventurous boys. Her podcast, Redeeming the Chaos, invites moms of boys to join her in the wild, wonderful, chaotic adventure […]
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Children need heart knowledge, not just head knowledge! Scott is a father, speaker, author, and leader in Christ. He directed a preschool for eight years and is currently a counselor, a seminar speaker, and the pastor at Calvary Chapel Living Hope in New Jersey. Dr. Turansky is the co-founder of the National Center for Biblical […]
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Teaching our children biblical doctrines daily is essential for their spiritual development. Back in the 16th and 17th centuries, the Puritans, who were English Protestants, sought to purify the Church of England of Roman Catholic practices, maintaining that the Church of England had not been fully reformed and should become more Protestant. Just as the Puritans […]
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“God is working miracles in our kids’ lives, in our schools, and in us. His power is unleashed through our prayers!” -Sally Burke Sally Burke became the Director of Field Ministry at Moms in Prayer International headquarters in 1990, overseeing ministry expansion worldwide. Today, in her role as President, her vision remains unchanged – that […]
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“One ordinary woman connected to the extra-ordinary God can make a difference!” Pam Farrel is a bestselling author of over 50 books, including 10 Best Decisions Every Parent Can Make, 10 Questions Kids Ask About Sex, Raising a Modern-Day Princess, and Got Teens? She and her husband Bill have been married 41 years and have […]
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How can you teach your children to see spiritually and not just physically? It may be hard for some children to grasp concepts that are not tangible. However, when we as parents make decisions based on only what we see, we may miss many blessings in life. This directly can affect our children, as they […]
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“Whether a professional, a mom, or both, let’s not live mediocre, fear-filled, or less-than lives. My words for you are those of Christ.” -Amanda Florczykowski Amanda is an author, speaker, and leader in Christ! She is on a mission to end child trafficking through her ministries Able Moms International, Vigilant Families online anti-trafficking training, and […]
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“Live significantly!” That’s the inspiring message of Sharon Norris Elliott. Sharon is an author, speaker, Bible teacher, editor, consultant, agent, and founder/CEO of Life That Matters Ministries. She writes challenging yet encouraging books in several genres, including women’s non-fiction, parenting, devotional, and children’s literature. Her 12th and most recently published book, A Woman God Can […]
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You are helping your child become independent by teaching them how to solve problems on their own. Being proactive in your decision-making as a parent means thinking about what you will do before you do it; you shouldn’t always react impulsively. Reactions are self-centered; they reflect how you feel in the moment, and when we […]
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Parents need ideas that utilize biblical principles and prayer and are relevant to today’s society! Lisa Nau is a biblical parenting coach through the National Center for Biblical Parenting and is passionate about supporting Christian Parents as they navigate parenting in today’s upside-down world. Through scripture, problem-solving, planning, and prayer, Lisa helps parents navigate life […]
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“Truth will prevail. Our job is to respectfully yet unwaveringly articulate Truth in a world growing in hostility and skepticism.” -Sara Broyhill Anderson. Sara Broyhill Anderson is a wife, mother, lawyer, and Christian Apologist who helps families leave a legacy of faith by advocating for the truth of God’s word. Sara is also a speaker and the […]
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Experts say that we have between 60,000 and 80,000 thoughts per day and about 3000 thoughts per hour! The word captive means to take as a prisoner or to confine. Therefore, we can take our sinful thoughts and imprison them as we would in a war when we capture an enemy. Don’t forget, we are […]
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Why are our children walking away from their faith more than ever before? Author, speaker, and podcaster, Lori Wildenberg is passionate about helping parents build connections with their kids that last a lifetime. As a licensed family and parent educator, Lori is the author of five (soon to be six) books. The Messy Life of […]
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As parents, our God-given mission is to guide our children to grow in faith, wisdom, and discernment! One of the best ways to guide our children to grow in faith and wisdom is to be present. Children need us as parents to listen and not just show up because we have to. Some ways you […]
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When we learn to give, we can also help our children to be audacious givers! As an author, speaker, and leader, Kevin White is passionate about sharing his knowledge on how audacious generosity transforms the world. Kevin’s mission is to empower a culture of generosity throughout the world with his book, Audacious Generosity, and his […]
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One day you will look around your quiet, clean home and miss seeing little ones running around, hugging your leg, and giving you butterfly kisses! It’s hard being a parent. Some parents do the same thing day in and day out. Maybe you used to have a fulfilled career, enjoyed volunteering, or simply loved being […]
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Are you looking for resources for your child to defend their faith? Ken Ham is one of the top biblical apologetics speakers in North America. He is the president, CEO, and founder of Answers in Genesis-US, the highly acclaimed Creation Museum, and the world-renowned Ark Encounter. As an author, he has sold over 3 million […]
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Highlighting some of the most important episodes from season 1! EP1 – What is Preparing the Soil and Planting Seeds? Why Would You Care? What is the solution? Where do you start? The Bible gives us the answers and some examples. What do Jeremiah, Samuel, Timothy all have in common? They had an anchor, a solid foundation. […]
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A traumatic experience can hold children back from becoming who they are meant to be. This can cause problems for those that are raising Christian kids! At some point in life, everyone has to deal with a traumatic experience. Something that may be extremely traumatic to someone may only be a bump in the road for […]
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How can helping children combat fear and anxiety help you in raising Christian kids? Dr. Bengtson is a board-certified clinical neuropsychologist, speaker, podcaster, and author. Thousands of people call Dr. Bengtson their doctor, but many know her for her multi-award-winning books: Hope Prevails: Insights from a Doctor’s Personal Journey Through Depression, Hope Prevails Bible Study, and Breaking Anxiety’s […]
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Do your children love to read or do they have a hard time reading? God’s word instructs us to read His word. In fact, there is only one thing that will never disappear- His word! We worship our Lord Jesus Christ through His word. We don’t worship the Bible itself – that is called bibliolatry. Our […]
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The Psalms are wonderful tools for parents who are raising Christian kids! Sarah Keeling advocates for the Bible-less who loves encouraging others by sharing what God is doing in her life. She published Psalm Prayers for Kids: A 40-Day Prayer Journal in March 2019 to help families learn to pray the attributes of God in the Psalms. Sarah […]
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We desire and seek spiritual wisdom in different ways. Helping our children gain spiritual wisdom can assist us in raising Christian kids. Just as Solomon did, we must ask God for spiritual wisdom, as it is a gift from Him. Solomon could have asked for anything, but he knew that having godly wisdom would be all […]
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Equipping and leading fathers to dial into their daughter’s hearts is so important to help us raise Christian kids! Michelle Watson Canfield, Ph.D., is a licensed professional counselor, speaker, and author. She is the founder of The Abba Project, a group forum for dads whose daughters are in their teens and early 20’s, and the radio/podcast […]
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Easter is not only about coloring eggs and Easter egg hunts… Here is a story I wrote for my own children when they were little to help them understand what happened on Easter morning: On Easter morning, Mary Magdalene and her two friends were sad because Jesus had died on a cross. After Jesus died […]
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Inuits have an extraordinary ability to control their anger when disciplining and raising their children. For more than 30 years, the Inuit parents welcomed anthropologist Jean Briggs into their lives to study how they raise their children. Briggs realized something amazing about these families. The adults had an extraordinary ability to control their anger. “They […]
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“The struggle is real, but so is God!” -Misty Phillip Misty Phillip is a dreamer and a doer who believes that we are all here for a reason because we were created for a purpose. She encourages people to use their stories to give God glory. Misty is a podcaster, speaker, author, and entrepreneur passionate […]
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Matthew 6:24 states, “…You cannot serve God and money.” Some will say an allowance is a form of entitlement. When a child has that attitude, that is a form of entitlement. A good way to teach the value of money through allowance is for your family to sit down, write out a family plan, or […]
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Did you know that a lack of this virtue can also have a negative long-term effect on our DNA? Dr. Amit Sood spoke about why humans don’t like to get bored. He stated people are “designed to be impatient.” Impatience is not merely the opposite of patience. Impatience can bring us anxiety, illness, injury, loneliness, and […]
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How can picture books help you raise godly kids? They may seem simplistic, but they can and should be informative resources to draw your child closer to Jesus. Simple, bold illustrations are the best. Technique and style, in addition to color, should induce emotion and convey meaning. Children learn through their senses and environment. A picture […]
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It is important to remember that every child has a specific approach to spirituality. It is our job as parents to know which style works best for our children to guide them in the right direction in their relationship with God. The four styles are: Word-centered Emotion-centered Symbol-centered Action-centered The first style, a word-centered approach, […]
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Happy Valentines Day from the Raising Christian Kids! Listen to this week’s special episode for fun activities to enhance your child’s Valentine’s Day!
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Did you know that over 25 million images are reviewed by the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children annually? Unfortunately, they say it is around seven years of age to talk to your child about pornography. Here are some guidelines: Pictures of private parts – private parts are parts that are covered by a […]
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Do you have a Goliath pestering you? Is there a bully agitating your child? If so, you might find this biblical story helpful. Remembering King David is to be crowned the king, we understand: Faith, along with love, casts out fear, and that’s why David could fight Goliath. What is the basis of David’s faith? He […]
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How do you get your child’s attention or interest when you want to convey a Biblical message? Words are powerful- Jesus used words to convey his message, heal the sick, and cast out demons. Here are some phrases you can say to your children: This too shall pass Stand firm in the faith Be strong in […]
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Our children are being raised in Christian homes with a watered-down view of God’s word! Bethel Congregational United Church of Christ – sounds like a wonderful Christian church. They are, after all, united in Christ. They state, “in keeping up our ‘reformed and reforming’ identity, we have embraced a movement that began in 2006 called […]
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Since when is raising a child with Christian values a danger to the child and society? Elizabeth Bartholet, faculty director of the Child Advocacy Program at Harvard Law School, wants to take our rights away as parents to homeschool our children. She believes homeschooling lacks regulation and poses a threat to children and society. Since […]
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Children are Christianity’s greatest resource! Why aren’t there more sermons on raising Christian children? Are we like the disciples that felt children were a nuisance? Maybe we view children through our own childhood eyes. As a child, all you really want to do is play and have fun as long as your needs are met. […]
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Jesus said it is better to give than to receive! God gave the most precious gift of all, his one and only son. No greater gift has ever been given or received. Here are some ways your children can give to others and, by doing so, transform their hearts so they will desire to serve […]
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“Mom, are miracles real?” A miracle is known to be an event that cannot be explained by natural or scientific laws and is considered to be God’s work. But, a miracle is not necessarily a violation of the laws of nature or science because God could easily use the laws of nature or science unusually. […]
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Did you know that Hanukkah, the Festival of Lights, can actually help parents raise Christian kids? The eight-day, 2,000-year-old holiday, also called the Festival of Lights, celebrates God’s glory, an ancient victory of the Jews over their enemies, and the freedom Jews enjoy today. The story of Hanukkah begins in strife. Antiochus, a Greek king of […]
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What can you do when your child questions why bad things happen to good people? It’s easier to understand why the evil guy gets his just reward in a movie, but many wonder why when the good guy suffers. Children need to learn early that life is not fair. Teaching them this concept early will […]
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Do you pay attention to the amount of screen time your child uses daily? The average person spends 12 hours a day in front of their screen. Children under the age of two should not have any screen time or, at the very least, a limited amount of screen time. Studies indicate the more screen time […]
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A lot has changed since the Pilgrims sailed in on the May Flower in 1621… The Native Americans owned the land that the Pilgrims landed on, and they fed the Pilgrims during the cold winter because they had no food. The Native Americans taught the Pilgrims how to hunt animals and plant crops to survive […]
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Children should receive a platonic education, which would allow them to become critical thinkers! Our children will be the future leaders in our government. It goes without saying that our government needs more Christian leaders and lawmakers who will stand up against what is spiritually, socially, politically, and economically wrong with our country. Christian education […]
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Do you have devotional time with your children? Ensure a set time for family worship, reading of the Bible, and devotional time. I learned a great deal about Jesus from my children as they grew to love and trust him. Also, you get a greater understanding of the sense of humility while parenting, as our […]
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Most children begin to understand abstract concepts around the age of five! I believe babies should be dedicated to the Lord during infant baptism and baptized again when they fully understand their baptism’s meanings. Then, every year, celebrate the day they were baptized. After all, that is the day that symbolizes their birth into eternal […]
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Playtime and games can reinforce biblical concepts, which are vital to teaching little ones God’s word! Children not only need to strive to grow in faith, but it is also important for them to gain academic, financial, athletic, and social success. Some ideas to help you engage with your child and incorporate biblical concepts during […]
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Biblical faith formation is essential in raising Christian kids! This is acquired through various experiences that nurture a solid transformation by which faith in God is accomplished and cherished. Both faith lessons and moral lessons are important to help solidify a cohesive, effective foundation for faith formation and moral attitudes and behaviors. Raising your children to […]
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Raising Christian kids involves instilling Christian values through indoctrination. Some people consider indoctrination to be a form of brainwashing. However, brainwashing does not use a rational argument and instead uses forceful psychological manipulation. Brainwashing does not allow for free choice of thought. People against biblical indoctrination are also against the actual message being taught, not the form […]
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How can parents teach their children to love God with all their heart, all their soul, and all their mind? The strength to do what we need to do begins in our minds. But the desire starts in the heart. Remember, repetitively praying the Shema helps imprint these instructional directives into the mind to recall later. Pray this […]
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The Shema is a commandment prayer for all of us- especially those who are raising Christian kids! The Shema was an essential prayer to the Jews. Today, it applies to every Christian household as well. It is considered to be the most important prayer and is deeply rooted in the Bible. This prayer is a reminder […]
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If God is a planner, those who are raising Christian kids should be too! So, where do you start to formulate a plan? The most important plan is a well-prayed-over and thought-out plan on how you will raise your child to become a strong, Bible-based disciple for Jesus. Always start with the Word of God because it […]
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Those who are called to raise Christian kids should be instilling biblical principles in their children. The Holy Spirit will transform them! Ask yourself if you are doing all you can to raise your children to have a strong foundation with Jesus. Regarding teenagers, it is their choice to obey or disobey – understanding that their choices […]
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How can we teach our children not to be biased in a world that is clearly biased? Today’s subject is a touchy one, so I would like to share a few ways we can help our children to not judge by the color of our skin: The first and most important thing you can do […]
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Sibling conflict is unavoidable – but you can raise your kids to learn how to deal with it. Sibling conflict is just a part of life then you have more than one child. I believe that sibling conflict has also been exacerbated by what children see and hear on television or other media outlets. How can […]
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How can you raise your kids to focus their desires on an eternal “Destiny Land” when the world tends to focus on “Disney Land”? Ask your children, “Can you tell me about (whatever their favorite Disney character is)? Why is this character your favorite?” Then ask them to tell you about their favorite biblical characters, “What do […]
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How can you raise your kids to focus their desires on an eternal “Destiny Land” when the world tends to focus on “Disney Land”? Ask your children, “Can you tell me about (whatever their favorite Disney character is)? Why is this character your favorite?” Then ask them to tell you about their favorite biblical characters, “What do […]
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Children crave our love. To effectively raise Christian kids, our love needs to be expressed every day in many ways. Here are a few ways to demonstrate your love and care for your child: Write love notes and place them in their lunch box or mail them. Ask open-ended questions about their day at school or playdates. Make […]
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Teaching the concept of forgiveness is crucial for those raising Christian kids. Children are fearful of many things; things known can be seen and heard and things unknown, such as imaginary fears. F E A R = False Evidence Appearing Real. Fear can be good – protection from a hot stove – but most fear is irrational […]
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Children learn by observing their environment. Are our children’s behaviors mirrors of ours? Young children love repetition, and it is essential to repeat biblical words and phrases all day long. This will help your child to not only verbalize but also to one day understand the biblical application. Your behavior and speech will reflect your belief. […]
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How does a lesson about 4,000-year-old seeds help in the journey of raising Christian kids? From the beginning of life, infants are sensitive to the distress of others. This is especially true if they are hungry or tired. They also express joy when their needs are met. When you are breastfeeding or bottle-feeding, connect the moment […]
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Do you know the similarities in the stories of Hercules and Jesus? Both are claimed to be born of a virgin, as infants escaped death, were commissioned for divine duties, overcame temptation from supernatural forces, both called “son of God/god,” were servants, and both were betrayed by a loved one who hung themselves because of […]
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Do you know the similarities in the stories of Hercules and Jesus? Both are claimed to be born of a virgin, as infants escaped death, were commissioned for divine duties, overcame temptation from supernatural forces, both called “son of God/god,” were servants, and both were betrayed by a loved one who hung themselves because of […]
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Children have different learning styles in the way that they perceive and retain information. How can you use this to help you effectively raise Christian kids? Cynthia Tobias’s book, Every Child Can Succeed: Making the Most of Your Child’s Learning Style, can help you better understand your child’s most meaningful and productive learning style. It’s never too […]
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Children have different learning styles in the way that they perceive and retain information. How can you use this to help you effectively raise Christian kids? Cynthia Tobias’s book, Every Child Can Succeed: Making the Most of Your Child’s Learning Style, can help you better understand your child’s most meaningful and productive learning style. It’s never too […]
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The solution to children and young people walking away from their faith is to raise Christian kids as early as possible! Lifeway Research, Barna Group, and USA Today state that 85% of Christian kids walk away from their church by the time they are seniors, and 66% percent walk away from their faith in college. Barna […]
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The Raising Christian Kids podcast is for parents, grandparents, teachers, ministry leaders, and all who are raising the next generation to have a strong foundation in Jesus. This podcast will educate and empower you to be the best spiritual leader for your child and will answer many questions, such as: How do you teach babies, […]
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The Raising Christian Kids podcast is for parents, grandparents, teachers, ministry leaders, and all who are raising the next generation to have a strong foundation in Jesus. This podcast will educate and empower you to be the best spiritual leader for your child and will answer many questions, such as: How do you teach babies, […]
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