The Glow Up Season

It's been a few months, and I'm finally back! 🥳

In this shorter episode, I'm sharing where I've been, the (plentyyyy of) grief I've been navigating, and what life has looked like behind the scenes. I talk about trying to balance work, purpose, and everyday life while moving through one of the hardest seasons I've experienced.

This is just an honest conversation about what this chapter has been teaching me and a little glimpse into what's been on my heart. I'm grateful you're here, and I'm excited to be back!

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Asia's Info:

Email list for updates & Free resources: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/xfeesxdy61

FREE release shame meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

FREE cord cutting meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/pltqap92n8

Website: https://www.asiahilario.com

Book a free self love coaching call: https://calendly.com/asiahilario/selfloveconsult

(I have a 6-month self-love coaching program, you can read about it here: https://www.asiahilario.com/self-love)

My Substack (first blog post in 7 years!). "Getting a tattoo with my ex": https://substack.com/@asiaandalchemy?

My new Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@AsiaAndAlchemy

Episode 1: Letting Go of Someone I thought was My Person

Episode 2: Doing a Breakup Ritual with My Ex

My instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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In this intimate two-part series, I sit down with former client and dear friend, Tati, for an honest conversation about friendship breakups- the kind that don't get talked about enough, but leave a deep imprint.

Together, we unpack the inner child wounds that get activated, the emotional weight of being painted as the villain, and the grief that comes with losing someone you once felt safe with. We also explore what it really means to move through your "villain era" with self-awareness, compassion, and accountability.

Inside this series, we dive into processing pain, navigating complex emotions, and understanding the deeper layers beneath conflict and disconnection. You'll also walk away with tangible tools to support your healing, regulate your nervous system, and rebuild a stronger relationship with yourself.

About Tati:

Tati is a true multi-hyphenate and trailblazer. She is a California-licensed attorney, rebirth visionary, founder of Renacida, writer, public speaker, wife, and mom- and she brings a powerful, lived perspective into every space she enters.

She is half Mexican and half African American, and as a first-generation attorney, her work is deeply rooted in lineage, liberation, and reclamation. With a background spanning both civil and criminal law, she understands systems from the inside-while simultaneously guiding women through profound personal rebirth outside of them.

She has coached a broad and diverse group of women and leads a growing community for mothers called Multi-Dimensional Mama, has spoken on multiple panels and conferences, and continues to blaze trails in every room she enters- professionally, creatively, and personally.

Tati's Info:

Her FREE worksheet for processing tough emotions [LINK]

Healing Event in April 2026 in LA [link]

Her Blog [Link]

Her Multi-Dimensional Mama Sign up form [LINK]

Her Instagram: [LINK]

Asia's Info:

Thank You Next Level Course (To Push Past Fear & Uplevel Your Life): link

Bay Area Couples Retreat July 17-19 2026 link

Email list for updates & Free resources: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/xfeesxdy61

FREE release shame meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

FREE cord cutting meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/pltqap92n8

Website: https://www.asiahilario.com

Book a free self love coaching call: https://calendly.com/asiahilario/selfloveconsult(I have a 6-month self-love coaching program, you can read about it here: https://www.asiahilario.com/self-love)

My Substack (first blog post in 7 years!). "Getting a tattoo with my ex": https://substack.com/@asiaandalchemy?

My new Youtube Channel: Episode 1: Letting Go of Someone I thought was My Person Episode 2: Doing a Breakup Ritual with My Ex https://www.youtube.com/@AsiaAndAlchemy

My instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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About Tati:

Tati's Info:

Her FREE worksheet for processing tough emotions [LINK]

Healing Event in April 2026 in LA [link]

Her Blog [Link]

Her Multi-Dimensional Mama Sign up form [LINK]

Her Instagram: [LINK]

Asia's Info:

Thank You Next Level Course (To Push Past Fear & Uplevel Your Life): link

Bay Area Couples Retreat July 17-19 2026 link

Email list for updates & Free resources: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/xfeesxdy61

FREE release shame meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

FREE cord cutting meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/pltqap92n8

Website: https://www.asiahilario.com

Book a free self love coaching call: https://calendly.com/asiahilario/selfloveconsult(I have a 6-month self-love coaching program, you can read about it here: https://www.asiahilario.com/self-love)

My Substack (first blog post in 7 years!). "Getting a tattoo with my ex": https://substack.com/@asiaandalchemy?

My new Youtube Channel: Episode 1: Letting Go of Someone I thought was My Person Episode 2: Doing a Breakup Ritual with My Ex https://www.youtube.com/@AsiaAndAlchemy

My instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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In this episode, I share:

What it's been like to return to dance as a beginner
How childhood trauma wired me to be hyper-vigilant about making mistakes
The fear response that gets activated when I feel "behind" or not good enough
The real-time reframe I practiced while dancing and failing
Replacing self-criticism with self-kindness
Why doing scary things on purpose builds grounded confidence
What I've gained from letting myself be seen while still learning

This conversation is about choosing growth over image, embodiment over perfection, and joy over control.

If you've been craving expansion but feel afraid to start from zero, this episode will meet you there.

Thank You Next Level Course: www.asiahilario.com/course

Bay Area Couples Retreat July 17-19 2026 https://www.asiahilario.com/retreat

My email list: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/xfeesxdy61

FREE release shame meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06 FREE cord cutting meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/pltqap92n8

My website: https://www.asiahilario.com

Book a free self love coaching call: https://calendly.com/asiahilario/selfloveconsult (I have a 6-month self-love coaching program, you can read about it here: https://www.asiahilario.com/self-love)

My Substack (first blog post in 7 years!). "Getting a tattoo with my ex": https://substack.com/@asiaandalchemy?

My new Youtube Channel: Episode 1: Letting Go of Someone I thought was My Person Episode 2: Doing a Breakup Ritual with My Ex

https://www.youtube.com/@AsiaAndAlchemy

My instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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Sabotaging My Goals Because I Was Afraid of Loss

(My Follow-Through Formula for Goals enrollment is open this week only!)

In this episode, I talk about how I was sabotaging my own goals—not because I didn't want them, but because I was afraid of the loss that came with growth.

I break down:

Why fear around goals is normal and valid
How fear of loss, grief, and change can show up as procrastination, inconsistency, or pulling back
My personal experience with avoiding follow-through because I didn't want to shed people, identities, or stability
The shift I made to move through fear instead of letting it stop me

If you've ever found yourself starting strong and then losing momentum, this episode will help you understand what's actually happening beneath the surface and how to respond differently.

My upcoming course:

The Follow-Through Formula is a four-part mini-course for anyone ready to finally see their most meaningful goals through from start to finish. Through nervous system work, inner child healing, and epigenetic rewiring, it helps you release the DEEP subconscious patterns that hold you back and build lasting grit. By the end, you'll move forward with clarity, confidence, and the ability to consistently follow through on what truly matters to you

Enrollment is open this week only (January 28th - Feb 1)!

Here's the waitlist: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/smoefqswjz

Full info on the course: https://www.asiahilario.com/followthroughcourse

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My email list: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/xfeesxdy61

FREE release shame meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

FREE cord cutting meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/pltqap92n8

My website: https://www.asiahilario.com

Book a free self love coaching call: https://calendly.com/asiahilario/selfloveconsult (I have a 6-month self-love coaching program, you can read about it here: https://www.asiahilario.com/self-love)

My Substack (first blog post in 7 years!).

"Getting a tattoo with my ex": https://substack.com/@asiaandalchemy?

My new Youtube Channel:

Episode 1: Letting Go of Someone I thought was My Person

Episode 2: Doing a Breakup Ritual with My Ex

https://www.youtube.com/@AsiaAndAlchemy

My instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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This year stretched me in ways I didn't expect.

There was loss, grief, and endings I didn't see coming.

This is the official first episode of the Asia & Alchemy (podcast) rebrand, and it's one of the most honest conversations I've shared to date!

In this episode, I talk about:

• The 8 pains I transmuted this year

• Clean pain vs dirty pain (and why suffering in life is optional)

• What transmutation actually looks like in real life

• Why letting go can be an act of self-trust, not failure

Tune in!

Also:

Enrollment opens January 28th

The Follow Through Formula (my deepest subconscious-rewiring course yet) for anyone who's tired of setting goals their nervous system can't hold. Yes- the lack of follow through is a nervous system problem- NOT a capability problem. This course will be a course to actually follow through with your New Years goals for the long-haul!

Details for the course will come out soon. Hop on the waitlist so that you don't miss the small enrollment window.

Here's the waitlist: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/smoefqswjz

Full details about the course: https://www.asiahilario.com/followthroughcourse

My email list: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/xfeesxdy61

FREE release shame meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

FREE cord cutting meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/pltqap92n8

My website: https://www.asiahilario.com

Book a free self love coaching call: https://calendly.com/asiahilario/selfloveconsult (I have a 6-month self-love coaching program, you can read about it here: https://www.asiahilario.com/self-love)

My Substack (first blog post in 7 years!).

"Getting a tattoo with my ex": https://substack.com/@asiaandalchemy?

My new Youtube Channel:

Episode 1: Letting Go of Someone I thought was My Person

Episode 2: Doing a Breakup Ritual with My Ex

https://www.youtube.com/@AsiaAndAlchemy

My instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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In this short but sweet episode I'm officially announcing saying goodbye to Business Coaching and what I'm pivoting to! I also talk about some changes on the podcast, as well as something I just recently launched!

Tune in for the deets!

Link to my first Youtube episode: https://youtu.be/rGD_LFgchaM?si=OLKNGTjD2qR4_9M0

Subscribe to my Youtube Channel: https://youtube.com/@asiaandalchemy?si=tNoEIyt59SHtwxa-

Join my email list for free resources & updates https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/xfeesxdy61

FREE:

Release Shame Meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

Period Productivity Webinar: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/nd1rrhnvv3

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🎙️ Episode: When No One Believes in Your Dream

Let’s talk about what it actually feels like when you’re building something sacred and soul-led… and no one around you gets it.

What do you do when the dream you’re being called to walk doesn’t have a cheering section?

This one’s for anyone quietly carrying a big vision while navigating silence, doubt, or straight-up skepticism from the people they love most.

One-on-one Coaching

Apply to work with me in my 6-month private, one-on-one coaching container for entrepreneurs wanting to elevate their business or if you wanna start a passion project (podcast, blog, academy, business, etc) (more details in the application): https://form.jotform.com/251211114809042

FREE RESOURCES:

Part 1 of my 4-part series: Thank You Next Level

My Thank You Next Level series is my most transformative 4-part course designed to help you release fear and self-doubt and take bold action towards your goals. Get access to part 1 for free (limited time)! https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/xrxvyytzbn

Cord-Cutting Meditation https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/pltqap92n8

Period Productivity Webinar https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/nd1rrhnvv3

Release Shame Meditation https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

Asia's Email list: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/xfeesxdy61

Asia's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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Healing My Relationship with My Mom Part 3: Healing through Reparenting

“Every time I choose to protect myself, speak my truth, and feel my feelings—I’m becoming the mother I always needed.”

In this powerful final episode of the Healing My Relationship with My Mom series, I dig deep into the transformative process of reparenting your inner child, the essential (and most freeing) step in healing generational wounds, even if your mom never apologizes or changes. I share the exact tools and practices that helped me create emotional safety, set unshakable boundaries, and build self-trust after a childhood filled with silence, abandonment, and survival mode.

Furthermore, this isn’t about fixing your mom, it’s about reclaiming your power, breaking cycles, and becoming the parent you always needed. Whether you're navigating complex family dynamics, struggling with people-pleasing, or yearning for healthy relationships, this conversation will help you understand reparenting as a daily act of self-love, not a one-time event.

If you're ready to stop searching for validation outside yourself and start healing from within- let's get into it!

Episode Highlights:

What reparenting really is (and what it’s not)
How reparenting helped me build self-trust and emotional stability
The four core aspects of reparenting
The four core wounds I had to reparent
How cultural and generational trauma shaped my mother’s parenting
What forgiveness really looks like (hint: it’s for you)
My personal reflection on living in Saipan and understanding my mom through a new lens

One-on-one Coaching

FREE DOWNLOADS:

BIZBaddies Broadcast: Free telegram channel for business owners - tips, mini-trainings, inspo, so much more! Download Telegram & Add the group here: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/svrnoe9m15

Cord-Cutting Meditation https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/pltqap92n8

Period Productivity Webinar https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/nd1rrhnvv3

Release Shame Meditation https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

Asia's Email list: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/xfeesxdy61

Asia's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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Healing My Relationship with My Mom Part 2: Unpacking Resentment

This is hands down one of the most raw episodes I’ve ever released. At one point while recording, I actually paused and asked myself, “Do I really wanna go there?” And the answer was: yes. Because this is my truth—and if you’ve ever felt resentment toward your mom or held onto unspoken anger, this episode is for you.

Inside this conversation I unpack:

What resentment really is and why it’s often misunderstood
The ways it showed up in my life and body
The unspoken truths I held growing up
What I learned about anger, forgiveness, and emotional safety
How I learned to process resentment in non-destructive ways (because ya girl used to fist fight people )
And finally, I offer you some reflective journal prompts to meet your own resentment with compassion instead of shame

This episode isn’t about blaming, it’s about validating the parts of you that never felt seen or heard.

Let this be an invitation to explore your truth, even if it’s messy. You’re not alone ❤️

FREE DOWNLOADS:

BIZ Baddies Broadcast: Free telegram channel for business owners - tips, mini-trainings, inspo, so much more! Download Telegram & Add the group here: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/svrnoe9m15

Cord-Cutting Meditation https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/pltqap92n8

Period Productivity Webinar https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/nd1rrhnvv3

Release Shame Meditation https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

Asia's Email list: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/xfeesxdy61

Asia's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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Healing My Relationship with My Mom (Part 1): Realizing I Had Abandonment Trauma

In this deeply personal episode, I’m kicking off a powerful new series: Healing My Relationship with My Mom. This first part dives into a huge realization I had recently—that I was carrying abandonment trauma from my mom, even though she was physically present for most of my life.

Someone in the community requested this topic, and I knew I had to speak on it—because so many of us walk around with unspoken wounds, not even realizing they stem from emotional abandonment.

I unpack what emotional abandonment looks like, the subtle ways it can show up (even if your mom was there), and some key indicators you might be carrying this trauma, too. This episode is for anyone who felt unseen, unheard, or unsupported—and is ready to start healing.

This series is about truth-telling, inner child healing, and reclaiming your power one layer at a time. Thank you for being here!

IMPORTANT LINKS:

Apply to work with me in my 6-month private, one-on-one coaching container (more details in the application): https://form.jotform.com/251211114809042

FREE DOWNLOADS: BIZBaddies Broadcast: Free telegram channel for business owners - tips, mini-trainings, inspo, so much more! Download Telegram & Add the group here: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/svrnoe9m15

Cord-Cutting Meditation https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/pltqap92n8

Period Productivity Webinar https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/nd1rrhnvv3

Release Shame Meditation https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

Asia's Email list: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/xfeesxdy61

Asia's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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EPISODE 39: Transmuting the No: Turning Rejection into Power On this episode of the Business Baddies Podcast we’re talking about something every person faces: rejection. Yep, the dreaded “no.” But what if I told you that “no” doesn’t have to stop you? That it can actually fuel you? I’m breaking down the difference between clean pain (the kind that helps us grow) vs dirty pain (the kind that keeps us stuck), and how you get to decide how much you suffer. Spoiler: suffering is optional, and power is a choice. I’m also spilling some tea of my own (you know the vibez)- real examples of how I’ve turned no’s into power and confidence. Plus some mindset shifts to help you stay productive (even when you’re in your feelings). This one’s for the baddie who’s learning to lead herself no matter what the world throws at her. FREE goodies: BIZBaddies Broadcast: Free telegram channel for business owners - tips, mini-trainings, inspo, so much more! Download Telegram & Add the group here: [BIZBADDIES BROADCAST] Cord-Cutting Meditation https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/pltqap92n8

Period Productivity Webinar https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/nd1rrhnvv3

Release Shame Meditation https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

Asia's Email list: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/xfeesxdy61

Asia's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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From Feeling Unworthy of Success & Procrastination to Launching her Dream Biz & Booking Clients with BBB Grad Lua Kiana

In this episode I interview recent graduate of my Brand Building Baddies group coaching cohort Lua who became a new entrepreneur at the start of the program and launched her dream business she had been sitting on for over a year!

In this episode we talk about the limiting beliefs BBB helped her push through and the deep inner child wounds (wounds from childhood) that were keeping her back from launching her dream business

Brand Building Baddies is my group coaching program for aspiring entrepreneurs (to officially launch their business and grow it) and the already established entrepreneur to elevate their online presence to grow in revenue and impact through mindset work and strategy (marketing). Open enrollment Feb 4th - 9th!

Baddies Group Coaching Cohort [INFO HERE]

Period Productivity Webinar [HERE]

Asia's Email list: [HERE]

Asia's Instagram: HERE

Lua's info:

[Coaching information]

[Her instagram]

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Facing Fears to Expand your Business: Booked out and Launched a New program as an aesthetic educator with BBB Grad Amelia of the Beauty Bar

In this episode we talk about:

Her fears behind launching a new program as an aesthetic educator
The inner child wounds that showed up in her business
Her growth in my Brand Building Baddies Program
Being a mompreneur

Baddies Group Coaching Cohort [INFO HERE]

[January 28th, 2025] Content That Converts: Nail your Messaging to Create Demand Workshop: SIGN UP HERE

[January 29th, 2025] Mindset Workshop: Transmuting Fear into Courage: Sign Up Here

Period Productivity Webinar [HERE]

Asia's Email list: [HERE]

Asia's Instagram: HERE

Amelia's info:

Instagram: [HERE]

Training, booking, more info: [HERE]

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In this episode I go over how to make fear an ally, the biology of fear, and other gems to help you shift your relationship with it!

Baddies Group Coaching Cohort [INFO HERE]

[January 28th, 2025] Content That Converts: Nail your Messaging to Create Demand Workshop: SIGN UP HERE

[January 29th, 2025] Mindset Workshop: Transmuting Fear into Courage: Sign Up Here

Period Productivity Webinar [HERE]

Asia's Email list: [HERE]

Asia's Instagram: HERE

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In this episode I go over the most common hurdles in creating content (that I've seen over the years in my own business and my clients')

Baddies Group Coaching Cohort [INFO HERE]

[January 28th, 2025] Content That Converts: Nail your Messaging to Create Demand Workshop: SIGN UP HERE

[January 29th, 2025] Mindset Workshop: Transmuting Fear into Courage: Sign Up Here

Asia's Email list: [HERE]

Asia's Instagram: HERE

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From not having a business at the start of the program to becoming a fully booked out coach 🤭 - I interview recent BBB Grad Amanda

Baddies Group Coaching Cohort [INFO HERE]

What we go over in the episode:

The myth of vanity metrics (high follower and like count) & detaching from them
Sleazy selling vs magnetic selling
Speaking to our inner children
Core beliefs that get us from not taking action

If you’re seriously considering my Brand Building Baddies cohort (that will only be open for enrollment for FIVE days) this is a great one to listen to :)

[January 28th, 2025] Content That Converts: Nail your Messaging to Create Demand Workshop: SIGN UP HERE

[January 29th, 2025] Mindset Workshop: Transmuting Fear into Courage: Sign Up Here

Asia's Email list: [HERE]

Asia's Instagram: HERE

Amanda's info:

INSTAGRAM

Her free resources/Podcast links: [HERE]

Book a consultation with her: [HERE]

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She’s back! New Podcast episode 🎙️: How to Step More Fully Into your Authenticity with Somatic Coach and Therapist Yuritzy Serrano

This one was sooo good omg!

We go over:

Why does it freak us out to be our authentic selves?
Big core beliefs that we have to tend to in our businesses
Our go-to nervous system regulation practices

About Yuritzy:

Yuritzy (she/ her/ ella) is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Somatic Coach for Entrepreneurs. Yuritzy is an eldest daughter first-gen immigrant from Michoacan, Mexico who after years of overworking and burning out in the non-profit world decided to open up her coaching business.

She supports entrepreneurs & change-makers connect to the wisdom of their nervous system and body to create capacity for the life and business they desire. She also helps clients identify their inherent gifts and energetic rhythms to build a business and life they love.

Yuritzy has been a therapist for more than 6 years and is trained in EMDR, Brainspotting, Polyvagal Theory, Inner Relationship Focusing, and other somatic tools. She incorporates intergenerational, collective, and systemic trauma analysis and healing. She also uses her intuitive gifts which were passed on to her from her family lineage of healers (body workers, curanderas, and herbalist) originating from Michoacan, Mexico.

[January 28th, 2025] Content That Converts: Nail your Messaging to Create Demand Workshop: SIGN UP HERE

[January 29th, 2025] Mindset Workshop: Transmuting Fear into Courage: Sign Up Here

[Open enrollment Feb 4th - 9th 2025] Business Baddies Group Coaching Cohort [INFO HERE]

Asia's Email list: [HERE]

Asia's Instagram: HERE

Connect with Yuritzy! Here's her info: [HERE]

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Integrating your Shadow to Transmute it Into Personal Power with Stephanie Zubiri

Join me and the amazing Stephanie Zubiri as we dive into the juicy topic of shadow work!

We’ll go over:

What is your shadow & how to recognize it
The most recent trigger that was triggered by other people and how we processed it
Tools to integrate your shadow
What we would say to a past version of ourselves about shadow work

Stephanie uses incredible storytelling in this episode and I cannot wait for you to dive in!

FREE DOWNLOADS

Download my free cycle syncing webinar here: here

My free shame release meditation: here

Let’s connect on Instagram! www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

To reach out to me via email: hello@asiahilario.com (website currently under a revamp!)

Stephanie’s info:

Her Instagram

Her Podcast

Her Website

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From Stuck, Confused, & Hidden To Clarity, Confidence & Consistency with BBB Student Eve Alston

In this episode I sit down with Brand Building Baddies Student Eve where we talk about her HUGE transformation & growth in the program.

From being frozen and confused in creating content and hiding her spiritual gifts, to coming out the spiritual closet online and showing up CONSISTENTLY every week- bold, courageous, and with clarity and confidence.

Tune in to hear about her glow up through the program. ✨

BBB is my 6-month long group coaching program for Soul-Led entrepreneurs (or aspiring entrepreneurs) to elevate their online presence to grow their business in revenue and impact through mindset coaching and strategy— LAUNCHING IN TEN DAYS! Hop on the waitlist so you don’t miss the juicy sign up bonuses, enrollment closes on the 12th.

About Eve:

Eve is a Spiritual Coach, Herbalist and DEIA specialist who supports their clients as they heal the parts of themselves that are wounded so that they can arise as the spiritual beings that they are and able to step into themselves as a divine source. As a Hoodoo diviner and having accumulated a vast knowledge of many spiritual practices, as well as herbalism and somatic healing, their clients ascend into mind, body and soul embodied individuals who use their gifts to liberate themselves, their lineage and those around them.

Eve spent their career as a film/tv producer and executive and has harnessed their innate ability to support the facilitation of creativity so that their clients can discover and embrace their own divine talents and then, translate that divine knowledge into every area of their lives. Having faced the challenges and recovery involving Lupus and anorexia, Eve uses their experience to guide others into the collective power of combining spiritual and herbal healing so that they can transmute energy and alchemize their lives.

Brand Building Baddies info: here

To get on the BBB waitlist: here

To sign up for my free: Content that Converts: Nail Your Messaging to Create Demand Webinar Mon, 4:30PM PST April 29th: here

Connect with me on Instagram: here

Download my free cycle syncing webinar here: here

Eve's Info:

Website: https://thisisrootwork.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evexalston/

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4 Reasons Your Content May Not Be Converting (into Sales, Engagement, Inquiries, Sign-Ups)

In this episode I go over the key changes I had to make in my content to see more engagement, inquiries, sign-ups, sales.

If you’ve plateaued in sales or engagement in the last 5 months or you’re showing up consistently and it’s crickets, or if you simply wanna learn more strategy- tune in and see if you’re missing any of these!

Brand Building Baddies info: here

To get on the BBB waitlist: here

To sign up for my free: Content that Converts: Nail Your Messaging to Create Demand Webinar Mon, 4:30PM PST April 29th: here

Connect with me on Instagram: here

Download my free cycle syncing webinar here: here

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5 Mistakes that Created Inconsistency in Content

In this episode I go over the 5 big things that created inconsistency in my content and what the root of those things were (because you know me- I believe in getting to the ROOT and not addressing the symptoms).

There are journal prompts throughout this episode so feel free to grab a pen and a piece of paper when listening!

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Combatting Imposter Syndrome as a Daughter of Immigrants with the amazing Mariela De La Mora

In this episode we’ll go over:

Our parents’ immigration story
The unique hurdles we go through as daughters of immigrants that might be a different experience than someone who isn’t one
The biggest mindset shift we had to make in order to move past imposter syndrome
What we say to our inner children when they feel like they don’t belong

Tune in for so many gems and tangible tools!

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To get on the BBB waitlist: here

To sign up for my free: Content that Converts: Nail Your Messaging to Create Demand Webinar Mon, 4:30PM PST April 29th: here

Connect with me on Instagram: here

Download my free cycle syncing webinar here: here

Mariela's Links:

Cycle Breakers & Money Makers Podcast: www.marieladelamora.com/podcast
Reclamation Mastermind: www.marieladelamora.com/reclamation
Instagram: www.instagram.com/mariela.delamora

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Imposter Syndrome, Doubt, Fear of Rejection/Abandonment to Confidence & Courageous Action w/ BBB Student Tatiana Owens

In this episode we'll go over:

The inner child wounds that surfaced through becoming an entrepreneur (not only with Tati but myself also)
How showing up online/inability to show up online is tied to our childhood wounds + childhood trauma / other trauma
How she transmuted her fears into courage
How she build her self-confidence
What she didn't think was possible before that she knows is possible now

This episode is so so good, we both cried on the call 😭

Hope you find it insightful, inspiring, and healing

Brand Building Baddies info: here

To get on the BBB waitlist: here

To sign up for my free: Content that Converts: Nail Your Messaging to Create Demand Webinar Mon, 4:30PM PST April 29th → Win a FREE 60-minute coaching call with me (mindset coaching or business coaching) via raffle if you attend the live call: here

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In this episode I share a quick marketing tip that I see early entrepreneur’s missing often in their copywriting (captions, posts, stories, sales pages)! Implenting this has doubled my revenue and participation. I also share the mindset block that tends to get in the way of implementing this tool- this includes fear of rejection and abandonment. Tune in to see if you resonate!

Content that Converts Workshop: Nail your Messaging to Create Demand (Monday April 29th, 4:30PM PST) Sign up here: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/q6prynq39i

Let’s connect on instagram! www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

Download my FREE Shame Meditation here: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

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Healing Social Anxiety, cPTSD, & Guilt to Become a Digital Nomad

Ask and you shall receive! I created this episode on request and I’m so happy I made it.

What I go over:

WHY I chose to become a digital nomad (& what it is for those who don’t know)
The HURDLES and hoops of fire I had to jump through to even get to this point
Healing my cPTSD
Healing my social Anxiety
Daughter of Immigrants Guilt

I hope this episode is healing for you.

LINKS:

Connect with my on instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

Download my free Shame Release Meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

Hop on my email list for free resources, workshops, and updates https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/kri2tiqy1b

My list of favorite books on Trauma: https://www.amazon.com/shop/asia.hilario

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Trust, Surrender, & Patience in Manifestation with Hannah Sophia

On Today’s episode we’ll go over:

Manifestation and trusting and surrendering our timelines
Why it was so hard for us to surrender
How do we know our manifestations are on the way? How do we have patience?
What blocks our manifestations

Enroll in my Break the Cycle: Overcome Self-Sabotage Course here https://asia-s-site-d585.thinkific.com/courses/selfsabotage (Note: for the split payment plan option, hit the downward arrow to the right of the price)

Read more about the course here: https://asiahilario.com/selfsabotagecourse/

Hop on my email list for free resources and updates on free goodies! https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/gxu0w10qk0

Get my free Shame Release meditation here https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

Connect with me on instagram! www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

Hannah's info:

Her instragram https://www.instagram.com/theroadtohannah/

Her links: https://bio.site/theroadtohannah

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How Do I Even Know I'm Self-Sabotaging? Sneaky Ways Self-Sabotage Shows Up In Our Lives In this episode I go over some of the sneaky ways sabotage shows up in our lives. Self-sabotage can be hidden very well-- tune in and see if you do ANY of these! To enroll in my Break the Cycle: Overcome Self-Sabotage course, follow this link below. Remember to use code "presale" at checkout by Feb 3rd to get 25% off! There's also a payment plan option, hit the down arrow on the right side of the price and it'll split the payment into two (with discount also!) Important note: My course will no longer be on sale after Feb 9th Enroll here: https://asia-s-site-d585.thinkific.com/courses/selfsabotage Read up on the course details here: https://asiahilario.com/selfsabotagecourse/ Connect with me on Instagram! www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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On todays episode we’re going DEEP deep into why it feels awful to raise your price and how you can work towards raising them

We’ll cover:

My true root of WHY it felt horrible even thinking about raising my prices (including the same problem my clients had)
Nervous system regulation
Tangible tools on how I raised my prices

I get extremely extremely vulnerable on this episode and speak about my childhood traumas connected to the act of raising our prices

My Break the Cycle: Overcome Self Sabotage course comes out THIS Sunday (January 28th)— here’s the link to get on the waitlist: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/frz0ak26m8

Here’s the link for more info on the course https://asiahilario.com/selfsabotagecourse/

Raise your price sis worksheet: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/cm2uqql3cl

Here’s the link for my free Shame Release meditation: https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/mdthexhd06

Connect with me on Instagram at: www.Instagram.com/asia.hilario

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“Courage in Vulnerability: Opening Our Hearts to Love Again After Heartbreak” with Guest Omnia PART 1

In this juicy two-part episode, we get realllll vulnerable.

We talk about:

Opening ourselves up to love again
Welcoming and stepping into vulnerability
Inner child wounds in dating
How to be authentic when it doesn’t feel safe
Staying open to love when there’s fear

To get on the Break the Cycle: Overcome Self-Sabotage course waitlist, follow this link https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/frz0ak26m8

Wanna learn more about the Sabotage Course? Follow this link www.asiahilario.com/selfsabotagecourse

Let’s connect on the gram! www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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PART 2 - “Courage in Vulnerability: Opening Our Hearts to Love Again After Heartbreak” with Guest Omnia

In this juicy two-part episode, we get realllll vulnerable.

We talk about:

Opening ourselves up to love again
Welcoming and stepping into vulnerability
Inner child wounds in dating
How to be authentic when it doesn’t feel safe
Staying open to love when there’s fear

To get on the Break the Cycle: Overcome Self-Sabotage course waitlist, follow this link https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/frz0ak26m8

Wanna learn more about the Sabotage Course? Follow this link www.asiahilario.com/selfsabotagecourse

Let’s connect on the gram! www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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In this episode, I bring on my best friend who’s a daughter of immigrants like me and who’s about to cross over a million dollars in revenue in her business (she’s a business activation coach).

We both have had a lotta mindset hurdles stemming from being a daughter of immigrants.

We’ll be covering:

Why it feels unsafe and scary to pursue entrepreneurship
how we navigated having zero support at the start of our entrepreneurial journey
Finding the courage to push past the fear that comes with entrepreneurship with tangible tools

And so much more!

For more info on my Self-Sabotage course:

https://www.asiahilario.com/selfsabotagecourse [LINK]

To get on the waitlist for my Self-Sabotage course (Pre-sale January 28th):

https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/frz0ak26m8 [WAITLIST]

Connect with me (Asia) on instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/asia.hilario [here]

Tiffany's website [here]

Tiffany's Podcast: The Social Reset Podcast

Connect with Tiffany [here]

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I'm back yall! After a two-year hiatus, I'm kicking off my first episode: Why We Self-Sabotage

In this episode I cover:

Signs we self sabotage
Self-fulfilling prophecies
Why we do it: biology of it
Why we do it: core beliefs

I get super super vulnerable with my stories of self-sabotage and my root of self-sabotage. Can't wait for you to listen!

To get on my Self-Sabotage Course waitlist (Pre:Sale - Launching January 28th):

https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/frz0ak26m8 [WAITLIST]

More info on the course: http://www.asiahilario.com/selfsabotagecourse [LINK]

Connect with me on the gram: http://www.instagram.com/asia.hilario [LINK]

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On this episode, after an almost two year hiatus, I announce the relaunch of my podcast.

This episode includes:

Where I’ve been
Why there was a hiatus
Plans for my relaunch

To get on my email list for podcast relaunch updates & free resources:

https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/kri2tiqy1b

To get on the waitlist for my Self-Sabotage course: Breaking the Cycle: Overcoming Self-Sabotage

https://welcoming-union-712.myflodesk.com/frz0ak26m8

Connect with me on Instagram at:

www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

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Did you know that social media has been described by many experts as being more addictive than cigarettes and alcohol? Yikes!

Listen in to this Glow Up Season episode as I explain what the social media comparison trap is, the detrimental impact it has on our self-esteem, how I’ve fallen into the trap, and how I pulled myself out of it. Then, I share 7 tangible tools, tips and strategies for avoiding the comparison trap, limiting screen time, and reducing the negative effects of social media. You’ll also hear shocking data from current research on social media usage and mental health.

Social media is a norm in our society because we use it so much, but in reality, it hasn’t been around for that long. That’s why I feel called to shed light on the dangers of social media, and the impacts of it, especially on our self-esteem, that we tend to ignore or not be aware of.

When we get to the root of why we compare ourselves to others, become aware of the key habits and harmful self-talk to look out for, and implement tools to stop the comparison, we can begin to use social media more intentionally and healthily.

Remember, it’s glow up season and if there’s something that could get in the way of that, we need to address it head on, sis!

In This Episode You Will Learn:

The benefits and harms of social media and comparison & Why people compares themselves to each other (8:03)

How social media affects the brain & The harmful effects of social media addiction (14:04)

7 ways to limiting your social media usage and reduce its negative effects (17:42)

An overview of all 7 tips and strategies (56:04)

Join our new Facebook group for fun challenges and a supportive, healthy online community! (57:42)

Questions Answered:

What is social comparison and the social media comparison trap? (07:09)

What is self-esteem? (09:07)

If social media is so bad for our mental health, why am I so addicted to it? (13:25)

Download and stream Glow Up Season on iTunes, Google, Stitcher, Pandora, YouTube, and Spotify!

Resources Mentioned:

10 Ways to Protect Your Energy: www.theglowupseasonpodcast.com/podcast-notes-004

Upworthy: www.instagram.com/upworthy

Global Positive News: www.instagram.com/globalpositivenews

Connect with me:

Join our new Facebook group: www.facebook.com/groups/theglowupseason

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

Visit my website: www.TheGlowUpSeasonPodcast.com

Learn more about Self-Love Coaching: www.AsiaHilario.com

Visit my blog: www.islahoney.com

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Are you stuck in survival mode as a child of an immigrant? Do you feel a strong desire to heal and to rest?

Listen in to Part 2 of this Glow Up Season discussion as I welcome my friend Mariela, a Life Coach and Certified EQ Leadership Coach who helps women of color become purpose-driven leaders. We continue this discussion by talking about ways you can heal as a child of an immigrant and how to increase your sense of self-trust, self-confidence, and your right to DO YOU, SIS!

Mariela and I provide tangible tools and insights that will help you heal and find peace on your journey in this world as an empowered child of an immigrant.

Rest is no longer a privilege for you. Rest is revolutionary and should be indulged in because you deserve it. Healing, rest, and accepting help will not only fill up your tank, but allow you to go out into the world, create more change, and do more good for others. It’s not always easy, but it’s SO worth it. When you heal, you heal everybody around you.

In This Episode You Will Learn:

How to shift out of survival mode as a child of an immigrant (05:04)

Tangible tool #1 for shifting your worth away from achievements: How to become intrinsically motivated (16:14)

Why self-trust is so important (18:24)

Tangible tool #2: Journaling your judgmental thoughts (23:52)

Tangible tool #3: Write a letter to your childhood self (27:51)

5 ways to give yourself what your parents weren’t able to give you (33:12)

Questions Answered:

Why do children of immigrants desire perfection, over-performance, and achievement? (02:49)

Why should we rest and invest in ourselves? (08:57)

What is reparenting? (30:34)

What advice do you have for women struggling with self-sacrifice? (38:23)

What do you do as a life coach and leadership coach? (40:56)

Stream Glow Up Season on iTunes, Google, Stitcher, Pandora, YouTube, and Spotify!

Resources Mentioned:

How to Do the Inner Work by The Holistic Psychologist, Dr. Nicole LePera: www.theholisticpsychologist.com/book

Connect with Mariela:

Follow her on Instagram: www.instagram.com/mariela.delamora

Join Mariela’s 8-week journaling challenge: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/60cb8c4a58d33f0b0624829a

Connect with me:

Join our new Facebook group:

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

Visit my website: www.TheGlowUpSeasonPodcast.com

Learn more about Self-Love Coaching: www.AsiaHilario.com

Visit my blog: www.islahoney.com

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Are you a child of an immigrant and experience immense pressure to be successful? Do you tie your worth to your productivity?

Well, let’s just say you’re in good company. Listen in to Part 1 of this Glow Up Season discussion as I welcome my friend Mariela, a Life Coach and Certified EQ Leadership Coach who helps women of color become purpose-driven leaders. Together, we talk about how to detach your worth from self-sacrifice and high achievement as a child of an immigrant while sharing a few personal stories that illustrate the unique characteristics and struggles of children of immigrants.

Knowing your family’s immigration story is empowering and inspires so much gratitude, but it can also become a weight that you carry to prove that it was all worth it. Having a great work ethic is important, but we also need to talk about how to rest without feeling guilty. Do you resonate?

In This Episode You Will Learn:

All about Mariela, her mission, and her life as a child of immigrants (08:19)

The differences between a child of an immigrant and a child of a non-immigrant (22:31)

The impacts of being raised by an immigrant on mental health and identity (26:08)

Why Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs is significant to children of immigrants (32:37)

Why we are perfectionists and over-achievers (41:04)

Questions Answered:

What is self-sacrifice? (17:46)

What are your personal examples of self-sacrifice? (36:47)

What is generational trauma and how does it get passed down? (46:41)

Stream Glow Up Season on iTunes, Google, Stitcher, Pandora, YouTube, and Spotify!

Resources Mentioned:

How to Do the Inner Work by The Holistic Psychologist, Dr. Nicole LePera: www.theholisticpsychologist.com/book

Connect with Mariela:

Follow her on Instagram: www.instagram.com/mariela.delamora

Connect with me:

Join our new Facebook group:

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

Visit my website: www.TheGlowUpSeasonPodcast.com

Learn more about Self-Love Coaching: www.AsiaHilario.com

Visit my blog: www.islahoney.com

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Is your dating life exhausting and unsatisfying? Let’s change that. In this episode of Glow Up Season, I talk about intentional dating and share a tool that has helped me change my dating habits for the better. This powerful dating tool is the concept of having non-negotiables.

Companionship is a basic human need… and dating is fun, but it can be exhausting. It can feel like a merry-go-round, am I right?! Until I started dating with intention, I was on and off that ride too many times to count.

So, let’s discuss what non-negotiables are and how to build your own list so that you can have a healthy and happy dating life that makes you feel confident and in control. Plus, I share with you my list of non-negotiables based on past relationships and dating experiences so that you can feel inspired to create your own.

Hot tip: “You can tell what someone prioritizes or what’s important to them by what they spend their time on.”

In This Episode You Will Learn:

The typical stages of dating (3:38)

What a non-negotiable is and is not (08:49)

My non-negotiables and why I’m passionate about them (11:09)

My negotiables in relationships (19:35)

Other ways to improve your dating life (29:14)

Questions Answered:

What is intentional dating? (08:08)

How do I define my non-negotiables in relationships? (23:06)

“A non-negotiable is not open for discussion or modification, sis. It is unchanging. It is an absolute. It is something that you have to commit to and not budge on.”

Repeat after me: I am not a Build-a-Bear Workshop!

Stream Glow Up Season NOW on iTunes, Google, Stitcher, Pandora, YouTube, and Spotify!

Resources mentioned:

Crisis Text Line: www.crisistextline.org

Charity: water: www.charitywater.org

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention: www.afsp.org

Los Angeles Dream Center: www.dreamcenter.org

You Are a Badass at Making Money by Jen Sincero: www.jensincero.com/shop

Connect with me:

Join our new Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theglowupseason

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

Visit my website: www.TheGlowUpSeasonPodcast.com

Learn more about Self-Love Coaching: www.AsiaHilario.com

Visit my blog: www.islahoney.com

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Do you have regrets in your life? Do you reflect upon your past and wish you could change it? In this episode of Glow Up Season, I talk about what it means to grieve your past self, why it’s so important for your health and wellbeing, and what happens when you ignore or suppress grief. Then, I share a few tips on how to grieve your past self so that you can move on and glow up!

“Grieving is simply the emotional response to a loss.”

It’s okay to want better for your past self… but at what point does it start to hold you back from being present and content with where you’re at now?

Grief can show up in many ways and be triggered by many different events, like a break-up, a haircut, a change in career paths, or even the pandemic. Grieving your past self means you’re allowing yourself to feel the emotions you didn’t allow yourself to feel when you were becoming a different version of yourself.

“We will always go through pain in our lives, sis, we cannot control that… but what we can control is how we choose to respond to that pain.”

Grief sets you free. Grief allows you to move forward in your life while feeling lighter, less resistant, and less guilty of the past. You owe it to yourself to stop being a prisoner of your past. Your past is a lesson, not a life sentence.

In This Episode You Will Learn:

A real, personal story showing the importance of grieving your past self (5:13)

Why it’s important to go through the grief process (14:32)

The 5 stages of grief (17:33)

Tips for grieving your past self (21:29)

Questions Answered:

What does it mean to grieve your past self? (10:34)

Stream Glow Up Season NOW on iTunes, Google, Stitcher, Pandora, YouTube, and Spotify!

Enroll in the 12-week Self Love Program: https://asiahilario.com/work-with/

Connect with me:

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

Visit my website: www.TheGlowUpSeasonPodcast.com

Learn more about Self-Love Coaching: www.AsiaHilario.com

Visit my blog: www.islahoney.com

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In this episode of Glow Up Season, I welcome my friend, Arielle, a holistic health coach who used to experience several chronic illnesses before embarking on a transformational health journey that saved her life. Ariel bravely shares her story of how she healed 99% of her chronic illness symptoms, reversed all her diseases, and got off all her medications simply by switching to a plant-based diet and approaching health from a holistic perspective.

“Every single food that we put in our body is either going to fight or fuel disease.” - Arielle

After struggling with countless invisible symptoms, being put on medication after medication, hitting rock bottom, and feeling like she no longer wanted to live… Ariel took her health into her own hands. Listen in to gain insight into what she does as a holistic health coach and how the plant-based lifestyle holistically impacts your health and well-being.

We discuss the power of the brain-gut connection, the dark side of Western medicine, and the impact of cutting out animal products and processed foods on your mental and physical health. Plus, you’ll learn the best tips and tricks for successfully making changes to your diet to improve your quality of life, even if you’re the most stubborn meat-eater. No judgement!

“People don’t realize how good they can actually feel and that is why I do what I do as a health coach… It’s just incredible how, by strengthening your overall health and specifically your gut health, you are also strengthening your mental health.” - Arielle

We aren’t taught this kind of profound knowledge in school and in the midst of a global pandemic, this information has never been more important! That’s why we’re sharing it with you in this podcast.

In This Episode You Will Learn:

Ariel’s rock bottom and how she took her health into her own hands (4:55)

The effects of going vegan for 30 days (10:22)

The connection between the brain and the gut (15:08)

Common foods that contain toxic heavy metals & How heavy metals can negatively affect your health (18:33)

Why cutting out dairy products improves mental clarity and productivity (28:06)

Shocking examples from clients changing their diet and transforming their health (38:34)

The dark side of Western medicine and food: Why the US is so sick (47:56)

Signs of an unhealthy gut, how to improve gut health, and tips for changing your diet (52:41)

Questions Answered:

What led you to become a health coach? (00:42)

What does it mean to reverse a disease? (11:12)

What do you do as an empathic holistic health coach? (12:08) & (1:09:39)

How has your mental health transformed since going vegan? (17:45)

Stream Glow Up Season NOW on iTunes, Google, Stitcher, Pandora, YouTube, and Spotify!

Connect with Arielle:

Visit her website: www.livewell-witharielle.com

Follow her on Instagram: www.instagram.com/livewellwitharielle

Email her: hello@livewell-witharielle.com

Connect with me:

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

Visit my website: www.TheGlowUpSeasonPodcast.com

Learn more about Self-Love Coaching: www.AsiaHilario.com

Visit my blog: www.islahoney.com

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Do you find yourself over-apologizing, sometimes for things that aren’t even your fault? Other than habit, there may be deeper reasons for why you do that… In this episode of Glow Up Season, I highlight the reasons why people over-apologize, how to stop over-apologizing, and how saying sorry too much affects us as women. I share some alternative ways to say, “I’m sorry,” along with a fun challenge you can participate in that will help you implement this into your life.

“By apologizing, we try to avoid conflict, we try to stop the conflict before it even starts. We apologize so no one gets offended or so that no one gets mad at us. Phew! The tea is scorching today, my sistas!”

The need to please people, low self-esteem, perfectionism, a trauma response, or feeling responsible for other people’s mistakes might all be reasons why you say sorry too much. Saying sorry might seem like it’s polite, but it’s actually hurting you and making you appear smaller and more timid that you really are.

Are you tired of apologizing for everything?

Do not apologize for your feelings. Do not apologize for taking time for yourself. Do not apologize for being your true, authentic self. Do not apologize for leveling up, growing, and GLOWING UP!

Share this episode and challenge your loved ones to stop this habit of over-apologizing! Start TOMORROW. Doing it together will have an even more powerful, healing effect on your life.

In This Episode You Will Learn:

How over-apologizing comes off and how it impacts us as women (6:18)

A tip for easing the anxiety that comes with apologizing too much (16:12)

What you should and shouldn’t apologize for (27:12)

Alternative ways to say “I’m sorry” (30:56)

Questions Answered:

Why do women say sorry too much? (9:50)

How do I stop over-apologizing? (26:29)

Resources:

Alternative to saying sorry: https://theglowupseasonpodcast.com/alternatives-to-saying-sorry/

Stream Glow Up Season NOW on iTunes, Google, Stitcher, Pandora, YouTube, and Spotify!

Connect with me:

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

Visit my website: www.TheGlowUpSeasonPodcast.com

Learn more about Self-Love Coaching: www.AsiaHilario.com

Visit my blog: www.islahoney.com

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Looking for love? Let’s start with the heart. In this episode of The Glow Up Season, I spill the tea about my NEW relationship and some of the lessons I’ve learned from past relationships, along with 10 ways I opened my heart to love again. This episode is a little different than past episodes, so cozy up and get ready for some juicy storytelling and fresh perspectives!

“Throw away the idea that you need to pause your life until you are fully healed. You can simultaneously heal your past while being open to the present.”

Trusting the process means accepting that hardships and challenges will happen along your journey to success, happiness, and true love. Every lesson brings us closer to fulfilling our purpose in life and I believe we must surrender to the process and have faith in the unknown. Not all men are the same and you’re not a woman that “only attracts toxic men.” You’re perfectly capable of attracting the perfect person for you, but are you open to it?

What identity have you given yourself that interferes with your openness to receive love?

I encourage you to meditate on this question and journal about your response because it just might be as powerful for you as it was for me!

Love is risky, but it’s out there for you and you deserve it. You are worthy of love. Take your time, put yourself and your needs first, and love will come at just the right time.

In This Episode You Will Learn:

A summary of my dating life (4:22)

Being successful doesn’t mean you don’t feel pain (6:03)

10 ways I opened my heart to love again (7:31)

Stream The Glow Up Season NOW on iTunes, Google, Stitcher, Pandora, YouTube, and Spotify!

Connect with me:

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/asia.hilario

Visit my Website: www.TheGlowUpSeasonPodcast.com

Learn more about Self-Love Coaching: www.AsiaHilario.com

Visit my Blog: www.islahoney.com

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In this episode of The Glow Up Season, I talk about the power of feeling through our emotions and realizing that there are no positive or negative emotions. I explain the role emotions play in our lives, especially anger and sadness, as well as how to feel through them.

These ideas I share with you have helped me better connect with myself and others, which has resulted in healthier relationships, enhanced inner peace, improved decision-making and problem-solving abilities, reduced stress and anxiety, decreased depression, and improved resilience.

Ultimately, I felt more powerful.

“The most beautiful thing about us humans is our capacity to overcome, to endure, to transform, and to be greater than our pain.”

Explosive emotions or suppressed emotions often begin early in life and are carried into adulthood because we weren’t “allowed” to express our emotions growing up. Expressing emotions is a skill that we must work on and practice. It can be difficult at first, but it’s so necessary for living a healthy, balanced life!

Emotions are there for a reason. They hold messages for us. Listening to those messages and feeling your emotions fully is not being weak, it’s being courageous.

What are your emotions telling you?

“When we take the labels off, we are able to experience emotions just as they are and we’re able to allow ourselves to feel them without shame.”

In This Episode You Will Learn:

Why we shouldn’t label our emotions as positive or negative (4:38)

The role of our emotions (7:36)

The difference between dirty pain and clean pain (16:44)

Questions Answered:

What happens when we label our emotions as good or bad? (6:05)

Why is it important to feel your emotions? (20:34)

How do I feel through my emotions? (28:52)

Blog Post - Dirty Pain & Clean Pain: https://islahoney.com/2020/01/09/the-best-tip-i-learned-about-dealing-with-emotional-pain/

The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg: www.charlesduhigg.com/the-power-of-habit

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In this episode of The Glow Up Season Podcast, I dive deep into abandonment issues.

Listen in as I enlist the help of an expert to break down what fear of abandonment is and some of the signs and behaviors associated with fear of abandonment. My lovely guest, Dr. Christine Coleman, shares her story with abandonment issues and how she overcame them, then shares tangible tools you can use to move past your struggles with abandonment and anxiety. To top it all off, she offers insight into how to find closure.

Dr. Coleman is a family and marriage therapist, a professional in the field of psychology, and to be honest, she’s kind of my idol! She’s a philanthropist, consultant, and speaker who specializes in gender and racial justice and has been serving women, adolescents, and BIPOC on issues of attachment trauma for many years.

Do you find yourself committed to or attached to people very quickly?

Do you sacrifice your own needs in order to fulfill your partner’s needs?

Have you stayed in neglectful or abusive relationships, doing anything to make it work?

Do you avoid emotional intimacy?

You’re not the only one.

Abandonment issues may be rooted in different kinds of trauma or difficult experiences prior in life. If you’re not shown what healthy and respectful love looks like while you’re growing up, it’s going to be more difficult to emulate that in your relationships as an adult.

When Dr. Coleman was fed up with the fear and generational trauma she was carrying with her, she made a declaration to do the work that was necessary to heal. No joke, three weeks after she made that shift, she met her husband!

Healing is powerful, ladies, and it’s so attainable!

“Our trauma, our hurt, is not our fault all the time but it is our responsibility to heal.” - Dr. Christine Coleman

In This Episode You Will Learn:

All about Dr. Christine Coleman (4:29)

Signs of fear of abandonment in relationships (7:52)

How Dr. Coleman experienced abandonment issues (14:06)

The 3 styles of attachment + Taking responsibility for your healing (34:04)

6 ways to work through abandonment issues (44:49)

Tips for finding closure (1:01:43)

Questions Answered:

What was your family dynamic like and how did that impact you? (17:06)

What caused you to heal your fear of abandonment? What changed once you started tackling your abandonment issues? (21:16)

What are abandonment issues and where do they come from? (30:00)

Should I confront the person that abandoned me? (59:19)

What would you say to someone who feels like they can never break free from their abandonment issues? (1:05:00)

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In this episode of The Glow Up Season Podcast, I talk about eleven (11) signs that you are in a toxic friendship. Before I embarked on my growth journey, my circle of friends was very different. Using examples from my personal experiences, I will describe how toxic ties can affect you and why it’s necessary to be mindful of the company you keep. One of the most crucial realizations in my growth journey is that toxic friends tend to hold you back and stunt your growth, you will be running in place until you decide to cut ties. I even found that the symptoms of my mental disorders became less frequent after cutting off from those unhealthy friendships.

What do you do about an unhealthy friendship?

Listen in as I enlighten you on the hidden clues to uncovering toxic friendships, their impact on your physical and psychological well being and the necessary steps to recover from harmful relationships. At the end of this conversation, you will be equipped to identify such relationships and address them.

We aren't aware of how influential friendships can truly be to us and our lives. To get to the next level, we must release friendships that do not serve us anymore, and surround ourselves with friends that positively affect our decisions and actions.

"Pay attention to how you feel after you hang out with a person. Ask yourself "Do I feel drained or do I feel energized?"

“You are not supposed to feel mentally exhausted or depleted after hanging out with someone who is good for your soul"

When you confirm that you have an unhealthy friendship, you could keep them around and let them know, but no one wants to hear that they're a toxic friend. In regards to that friendship, ask yourself, "what do I gain if I cut them off?" Also ask yourself "What do I gain if I keep them around?" Take the time and space you need to figure things out before you take a step.

In This Episode You Will Learn:Why people don't often cut off unhealthy friendships (04:12)

The science behind the impact of the company that we keep. (06:25)

The Science of Emotional Contagion (07:05)

The urge to conform (08:44)

The effect of your friendships on your health (11:10)

Signs of a toxic friendship (13:18)

What to do when you get confirmation that you have an unhealthy friendship (31:35)

How to cut off unhealthy friendships (33:52)

Questions I Answered:Why is it so uncommon to urge people to leave unhealthy friendships?

What do you do after you confirm an unhealthy friendship?

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In this episode of The Glow Up Season Podcast, I talk about the powerful impact of communicating with “I” statements. Listen inas I explain what an “I” statement is and how to use them in conversation, along with examples that’ll help you understand this concept fully. This communication tool can be used in romantic relationships, friendships, work relationships, and everywhere in between!

“You never wash the dishes!”

“You clearly just don’t care!”

“You’re late, you’re so inconsiderate!”

“You don’t even care about what I have to say!”

Do those sound familiar? No shame, no judgement, we’ve all been there.

Emotions like anger, disappointment, and frustration can get in the way of effectively listening and expressing ourselves, especially in conflict. When we’re experiencing strong feelings and emotions during a conflict, we often turn to “you” statements, like the statements listed above. For me, the arguments stopped and my relationships improved when I started using “I” statements and started taking accountability for my emotions. I was finally able to communicate and listen properly and I want to pass on this valuable lesson to you!

“Choosing the right words during an argument or an important conversation can be the difference between resolving our issues or making them worse.”

In This Episode You Will Learn:

How our emotions can get in the way of listening and communicating (3:42)

What happened when I started using “I” statements (6:06)

The formula for how to use an “I” statement (9:33)

Examples of “You” statements vs. “I” statements (10:53)

People cannot read our minds. (20:51)

Questions I Answered:

What is an “I” statement? (7:40)

How can I better improve my communication with “I” statements? (11:47)

How do I share this tool with my family, friends, or partner? (20:12)

“I” statement formula: I feel ___ when ___ because ___. I would really like it if you ___.

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In this episode of The Glow Up Season Podcast, I talk about ten ways to protect your energy. Your energy is sacred, sis, and it’s important to not let it be drained by other people or life’s wild events. This is a topic I wish I had learned about a long time ago because of the shifts it has made in every single aspect of my life. Protecting my energy has dramatically reduced my anxiety and improved my well-being on so many levels and I hope to share this wisdom so that you may experience the many benefits of protecting your beautiful energy!

Who would you be if your energy was being actively protected each day?

Listen in as I share the science behind how physical and emotional energy operates within the body and mind, a few personal stories about the effects energy protection has had on my life, and several tangible tools and practices you can use today and every day to help protect your energy.

You do not need to live your life the way others expect you to. You do not need to overextend yourself to please others. Putting yourself first isn’t vanity, it’s sanity. PERIOD.

“Ships don’t sink because of the water around them, ships sink because of the water that gets in them. We must not let what’s happening around us get inside us and weigh us down or influence our energy.”

This is a practice, so give yourself some grace and be patient while you take action in protecting your sacred energy. Remember to breathe, honor your needs, and recognize when you could use a bit of help in restoring your energy levels. You don’t have to do it alone.

In This Episode You Will Learn:The science behind energy (4:42)

How my life improved after consciously protecting my energy (7:05)

The importance of setting boundaries and saying no (9:15)

How to limit your exposure to negativity (14:24)

How to find your happy place (19:54)

The importance of creating a sanctuary in your home and online How clutter and social media affect our energy (30:04)

How to build and nurture a solid social circle (33:55)

Tips for becoming less reactive (40:55)

The benefits of grounding yourself in nature (50:34)

Questions I Answered:How do I avoid toxic gossip and complaining? (15:47)

How does visualization work? (21:55)

How do I become aware of and mentally prepare myself for my mental triggers? (23:57)

What are energy leeches and why do they suck the energy out of us? (37:23)
How do I release energy that isn’t mine? (39:02)

How do I restore my energy after it has been depleted? (51:25)

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In this episode of The Glow Up Season Podcast, I talk about one of the most important lessons I’ve ever learned: When people show you who they are, believe them the first time.

Listen in as I share a story from a few years ago with my ex that is the perfect analogy for this lesson. It involves me embodying my inner Sherlock Holmes to catch a thief! Then, I talk about some of the subtle ways people show who they are to others, so you can be more aware of how this applies to your everyday life.

“People do not change for other people.”

Do you agree? If not, definitely tune in to this episode! Speaking negatively about others behind their backs, not treating others with respect, not showing up for you in times of need, gas lighting… those are all instances of someone showing who they truly are and chances are they won’t change because you want them to! We’ve all experienced people who do those things I mentioned, but the real question is…

What is it costing you to keep those people in your life?

Be an observer. Tune in to the energy of your life and if there’s someone in your beautiful, sacred energy bubble that blatantly shows you who they are over and over again, perhaps it’s time to reevaluate your relationship with them. Decide what type of life you want and what type of person you want to be. Then, adjust your life to align with those visions.

Do the people around you serve you and your visions?

In This Episode You Will Learn:

The story of my ex’s thief (4:16)

The longer you wait to cut certain people out of your life, the longer they will be ‘stealing’ from you (13:51)

More examples of how my exes were showing me their true selves (14:30)

Questions I Answered:

What are some subtle ways people may show me who they are? (17:09)

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Do you sometimes feel like life is happening to you rather than for you? Do you feel stuck, stagnant, and down on yourself? In this episode of The Glow Up Season Podcast, I welcome Tiffany Cheung, a social media business coach, published author, and entrepreneur, to tell us about how she broke out of her victim mentality, took full responsibility for her actions, and took control of her life. While breaking down 11 signs of having a victim mentality, we gain further insight into what that means and what that looks like. It’s time to leave the pity party, sis!

“If everything went our way, we would never be able to learn.” - Tiffany Cheung

Listen in as Tiffany shares her story of becoming a mom at 19, getting laid off due to COVID-19, and then pivoting and starting her own coaching business, hitting six figures after being in business for just eight months! She’s been featured on Buzzfeed and Yahoo Finance under the top 10 social media coaches of 2020. She truly went from food stamps to hitting 30k months! How inspiring is that?

“Once I realized that I can take control of my thoughts and my thoughts create my reality, I started taking control of my emotions, what I was thinking, what I was consuming, and then what would lead to my actions… taking 100% responsibility for my actions 100% of the time.” - Tiffany Cheung

Tiffany shares a ton of powerful and tangible tools throughout this episode that will help you to not take no for an answer, reframe your misfortunes, and accept failure as feedback. This will lead you to rewrite your story into the story of your wildest dreams. Sounds empowering, right?

“A lot of what triggers us is a mirror to us and what we need to continue working on.” - Tiffany Cheung

Are you ready to take life by the horns? Don’t give up on yourself and your dreams because you never know how close you are to seeing them become your reality. Remember, the Universe has your back!

In This Episode You Will Learn:

The 11 signs of the victim mentality (6:02)

How Tiffany played the victim in her life and how she reframed that mindset into a mindset of empowerment (9:26)

How I played victim with my ex + The effects of that (13:17)

3 reasons why you’re being told no (21:51)

Questions We Answered:

When did you decide you were done playing victim? (17:19)

What does it mean when you say the Universe works in the 11th hour? (34:18)

What tangible tools do you have that people can use to stop playing victim and take responsibility for their lives? (36:51)

How did you let go of self-pity and how can others prevent throwing pity parties? (39:53)

What would you say to someone that doesn’t believe they’re mentally tough? (44:27)

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In this first episode of The Glow Up Season Podcast, we’re going to explore the concept of giving yourself permission, which is a tool that has allowed me to step into my power and progress into the woman I want to be.

There has been immense conditioning in us as women, even as kids, throughout the past few centuries that has made us rely on acquiring permission from someone else to do certain things. We have also developed an hypervigilance that makes us scared of doing the wrong thing and not trusting our own authority. Well, it’s time to reclaim your authority and your confidence in your decisions! Get out of your own way! It’s time to step into your power, get growin’, and get glowin’!

Listen in as I dive deep into the revolutionary practice of giving yourself permission and the psychology behind it, along with very a personal story that you may be able to relate to. I touch on how we can apply this simple tool to grow and succeed in the different areas of life, like relationships, spirituality, career, mental health, physical health, finances, etc.

How do we know what we need to give ourselves permission for? I then break down the signs to look for so you can recognize when and where you’re holding yourself back in life, such as denying your emotions, not letting yourself celebrate your accomplishments, or not letting yourself take time for rest and self-care.

“I realized that I had unconsciously told myself that I’m not allowed to be happy yet.”

Does that resonate at all? Feeling multiple different emotions at once, like feeling happiness during a time of grief or healing from a loss, is healthy and shouldn’t be suppressed.

Are you giving yourself permission to flourish?

What would you do if you knew you could not fail? Take some time to think and write about that… then go to town, honey! The only thing holding you back is yourself.

In This Episode You Will Learn:

The tool that has changed my life (1:51)

My story and how I gave myself permission to feel love after a break up (4:45)

Signs you’re not giving yourself permission (12:37)

An activity on how to figure out what you need to give yourself permission for (15:36)

How women have been conditioned over our lifetimes (22:43)

Questions I Answered:

Why is it important to give ourselves permission? (3:15)

How do we know what we need to give ourselves permission for? (12:06)

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Hello lovelies and welcome to The Glow Up Season Podcast! For those that don’t know me, I am a Self-love Coach, Philanthropist, Crisis Counselor, and Award-Winning Blogger. Last year, I started a women empowerment blog with topics that ranged from health, self-love, relationships, wellness, finance, and anything under the sizzling sun that would help elevate women to their highest potential. After my blog blew up (in the most fabulous way), I knew I needed to not only share my stories but share stories of other incredible women and spread that inspiration to all corners of the Earth. Think of it as the audio version of my blog!

This podcast is for women who are looking to grow, learn, be inspired and cultivate the courage to rewrite their life stories in powerful ways. We’ll dive into methods of glowing up your career, finances, physical and mental health, relationships with others, and most importantly, your relationship with yourself.

To glow up means to transform… and that’s exactly what we’re going to do sis! It’s time to step into your power, get growin’, and get glowin’!

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