Old School Thoughts: Recent Episodes
Frank Goodman
Memories, of my past, have always driven me to explore history as it pertains to my “I remember when” experiences. I remember the closeness of community, safety, and house parties. Where did it all go?
Martha and I met, again, on the front porch to talk about a number of things, but we started with sharing tidbits about the presentation given by Charles and Dawn Casey on Saturday, 15 June 2024. They were the first speakers to support my latest initiative to have guests to step on the Zoom stage to talk their personal journey(s) through genealogy. They did a magnificent job!
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Martha and I went on to talk about how discipline, from our parents and other ancestors, shaped lives in positive and negative ways. This conversation stemmed from a discussion I had the opportunity to listen to amongst a group of "Old School" women.
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We also added the need to discuss politics throughout the year. This is very important!
Martha and I had the distinct pleasure of joining Dewayne to learn about his humanitarian mission to Nairobi, Kenya. We met at the Columbus Public Library in Columbus, Georgia. Dewayne provided responses to why he chooses to help people from abroad when he and his friends could give to people in his own country. He spoke on misconceptions and more.
Martha and I are continuously returning to the porch to express our thoughts about history, reality, community, self reinvention, and more. We shared our individual thoughts about what we have witnessed and experienced in these expressions of thoughts. When you go about your day(s), what do you think about?
Martha and I decided to swing on the front porch, again. Before we started, we took the time to honor the military personnel who made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy and for those freedoms we fight to keep. Children In The Kitchen is a reflection of how some of us were able to cook our favorite meals at such a young age. What was your experience(s)?
Martha and I had to halt our pre-episode conversation to go out on the front porch because the topic was getting too hot!! We elected to invite you all to the front porch because there is another generation of children who are about embark on adult life after graduating from high school. We need to keep them in prayer because we will have to depend on them to mature as adults, educators, politicians, business leaders, and more. They cannot afford to be late. What are your thoughts?
This episode is dedicated to the women of Gees Bend, Alabama. It is also a tribute to African American culture. Martha and I got to watch a YouTube documentary about the women quilt makers of Gees Bend and we were blown away by the history and culture of that community of women. This concerns me because our young people are growing up in a generation of high tech which keeps them from building their own toys as we did as old schoolers. What do we do to keep them safe and active during summer break from school. I always pray for our young people and encourage
others to keep them in prayers. I hope you enjoy this episode.
Martha and I decided to go out on the porch to discuss the planting of knowledge, wisdom, and understanding. This podcast is about sowing seeds of knowledge, wisdom, and understanding for future generations to discover. How do you forgive?
During this episode, Martha allowed me to share with all of you a conversation I had with a stranger that turned into a surprising revelation about my family. The second half was given to Martha to talk about the interview between Shannon Sharpe and Amanda Seales on the podcast titled, Club Shay Shay. It is an excellent interview. Please look it up on YouTube. Thanks to all of you for your support and definitely to our cohost: Martha Buford Green.
This episode is a compilation of topics that carries us from family and traditions, in Alabama, to a discussion about Nancy Green versus Aunt Jemima. Martha and I are always exploring the history of our families and the separation of Africans throughout the Diaspora. I was lucky to meet Ms. Latika, a native of Alabama and long time resident of Chicago on 20 April 2024 in Columbus, Georgia. On the following day, she and I were discussing her son's prom pictures when the topic of Old School in Alabama surfaced. Ms. Latika is living history for all of us - to be so young! She is an Old Spirit. Martha and continued on to discuss ploys some people will use to distort African/African in America history and how we, as African Americans, should accept the mess. I hope you enjoy this episode.
Martha and I have decided to return to our roots with the podcast. We had to "slow down" for evaluation and reflection. We are using "slow down" as a metaphor for using deep thoughts and experiences when analyzing our history. The African American community has been told so much and led to believe in things that are marred in fallacies. We can't continue to live and exist this way. We have to collectively rely on our African American experience(s) because African American history can be and has been altered to appease others. We hope you get something positive out of this episode. Thank you for continuing to support Martha and me. We love you and be good.
On Sunday, 31 March 2024, Martha and I decided to go out on the front to reflect on how we celebrated and recognized Easter as children. We remembered the colored eggs, Easter outfits, the gathering of family, and more. We also acknowledged how "Happy Resurrection Day" has become the new greeting. Where did that come from? By whom? When?
I chose this topic because Martha and I are always discussing whether we know how are prepare ourselves for an argument. I am not interested in debating every topic that comes up because someone feels that everything is worth an opposing view. Sometimes opposing views are not worth a continuous response. Sometimes you have to just say it and leave it. The truth is always subjective.
During this episode, I asked Martha to help me understand why some people are committed to making others rich? Who did you make rich, lately? We went out on the front porch to tackle the subject.
Martha and I have returned to the microphone to talk about distractions while sitting on our vicarious front porch. This is our first recording since February 18, 2024 - but now we are back!
This episode is a continuation of S5:E18. Martha and I welcomed Spence and Dewayne back to Old School Thoughts to expand our conversation on African American entrepreneurship. What are the challenges? Why do we give up buildings in certain locations when other ethnicities do not have to grapple with the same concern(s)?
Martha and I had the pleasure of having SFC Richard C. Spencer (aka Spence) to join us on Old School Thoughts to discuss our values. In January 2024, I was parked at the commissary on Fort Moore in Georgia and noticed a soldier gathering grocery carts to return to the entrance of the commissary. I was blown away with his action because I had done the same thing because I can't understand why there is no motorized cart puller available for the young workers. On that day, I approached SFC Spencer and introduced myself to share with him my thoughts about what he had done. I also asked him to join Martha and I on our podcast to share with all of us his reason for doing such an unselfish act. He agreed and here we are.
Martha and I opened the mic to Dewayne because he wanted to discuss the complexities of business planning in the African American community or amongst African Americans as a networking relationship. The conversation was so insightful and led us to expand on some areas that caused us to reach our stopping point. We ended the conversation with an agreement to return for an extended episode. Let us know what your thoughts are and pass this episode to others for answers.
Martha and I are questioning the truth about family genealogy. On 24 January 2024, I made a discovery about my family that I feel very strongly about, but it comes with perplexing feelings and thoughts. Martha joined me in this finding of my/our family's research because Martha is also related to me on my paternal side, as well. On many occasions, I have stated that our family does not belong to us, they are to be shared beings. I would like for each listener to think about our ancestors and what they endured to search for and or regather families. Some families decided to move on and some accepted the truth. I am interested in your thoughts.
This episode is a tribute to Ella Sheppard, born into slavery in 1851 and died in 1915. She was the daughter of Simon Shepphard and Sarah. She and her parents were property of Andrew Jackson residing on Jackson's Hermitage plantation. She is known as the matriarch of the Fisk Jubilee Singers. This is another example of African American history that we are left to present as trivia information.
I apologize for incorrectly stating her father's name in the episode. Please schedule time to research the timeline of Ella Sheppard.
Martha and I decided to return to the front porch, on the eve of celebrating the observance of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.'s Holiday, to discuss and evaluate 99 years of violence against the people of Jessup County, Mississippi, that led to the tragedy of Mississippi Burning. We are asking our listeners to watch the movie and evaluate what the timelines of history from 1865 - 1964.
Martha and I have decided to return to the front porch to talk about various conversations. Martha decided to pose the question about our (African Americans) ability to focus on one cause. She stated that when we were enslaved, we singularly focused on freedom. During the Civil Rights Movement, we singularly focused on equality of voting, education, transportation, and etc. Today, we seem to be too distracted and or conditioned to focus on one singular goal. Due to everything that is happening in our society, from 2023 - 2024, the African American agenda has faded from the upcoming election process.
Here is the question: What would you do, if you found out that what you were doing was wrong? I would usually ask this question to people who would approach me under the umbrella of religion, but I apply it to every point of learning. I have asked Martha and Dunbar to join me in discussing this topic. How did you feel the first time you decided to challenge a belief or tradition that you grew up with? Those beliefs and traditions that shaped you might be under personal attack (internally and externally) as you grow and or mature. So, I am asking each of you, what have you learned that caused you to think differently about previous beliefs and traditions?
This episode is an extension of S5:E11. Jarrett Dunbar rejoined Martha and me to expound on his assessment of how gaps are generated and sustained amongst African Americans. There
seems to be an influence that comes from the college/university classrooms that impact our younger generation as they are beginning to enter the world stage of learning. Then, there is the question, "Have African Americans lost touch with language(s), religion(s), culture, family rituals, and more?" Are we too diverse, within our race and ethnicity to discuss and or reach some kind of understanding/agreement? What are your thoughts?
Martha and I were blessed to have Jarrett Dunbar as a guest on Old School Thoughts because we wanted to hear his perspective on a segment of life based on his experiences. Dunbar questioned the gap that is developing and that can continue to broaden between people of "New School" and those of us who are "Old School." I clearly learned a lot and look forward to our next conversation.
The last thing I heard from Martha, as we were hanging up from our phone call, was "Frank, what are you going to give as a title?" At that time - I really didn't know because I usually listen to the finished recording alone to actively listen. This time I initially titled it, "Sometimes We Need Word of Mouth." That triggered me to recall what we would say, in our community, about those who say too much out of turn. We would taught to say that the person "Spilled the Beans." Though this is a public platform, Martha and I have to agreed to keep the information close hand for our listeners to pass on by word of mouth. That is how effective our ancestors and organizations operated. That used effective "Word of Mouth" while using public technology.
In this episode, Martha and I are discussing the kind of counseling we received that was homegrown. That kind of counseling that came from mothers, fathers, relatives, and neighbors that taught you how to survive harsh words and situations. One of those forms of counseling was presented in a parable which stated, "Sticks and stones might break my bones, but words will never hurt me." When we lived in overt segregation, I knew the likelihood of hearing hurtful words, but parables like - sticks and stones - would provide you with an appropriate combat to use against anybody of any age. I think that our soft approach has negatively impacted our children and their ability to survive emotionally. I really would like to hear your thoughts about this topic.
After chatting for over one hour, before recording this episode, Martha and decided to open up sharing our thoughts and experiences about the Old School phone booth(s). How many of you remember using the phone booths? What were some of your experiences? We followed up with another conversation about the amazing Grio Award ceremony, created by Byron Allen, that was televised on CBS on 25 November 2023. This was the second annual presentation to recognize Blacks/African Americans who give of themselves for a better good. When Byron closed the award ceremony, he challenged all people to speak the truth about history. If we fail to present the truth, we will allow others to control the narrative.
What are your thoughts about the Old School phone booth and the closing remarks of Byron Allen?
On this episode, Martha and I opened by answering the question about what makes us feel up and down about managing this podcast. Our passion, for the podcast, is so serious because we embrace the responsibility to leave a legacy behind to prevent a gap generation. If you can recall, we define the gap generation as that generation that doesn't seem to care about old traditions and mores that we practiced through the timelines of our African American and family experiences. By the time that generation become mature enough to want to know, the storytellers are not around which leaves a gap to reinvent themselves and their stories. I hope we conveyed the messages with some level of clarity. Thank you for always listening and providing feedback.
Martha and I decided to pause from continuing another full discussion on "A Cup Of Sugar" in order to speak on an another topic that questions what's it gonna take for the community to become educated on issues to properly defend nonsense. We thank you for listening to us and providing feedback because our hearts are in the right place to engender old school thoughts and to preserve the history of our ancestors into the timelines of history. We look forward to hearing from you. We love you and Be Good.
In my world, growing up, mothers sharing ingredients with their neighbors was a tradition - a custom of old school activities. I can recall neighbors either calling or sending one of the children to the house or apartment to retrieve that cup of sugar, egg(s), vanilla, flour, or some other ingredient(s). As I was reflecting about that period, I was wondering if this is still going on and posed it to Martha for her old school thoughts. Was it more prevalent amongst lower income communities? Did it fade as families moved closer
to middle class?
Today, Martha and I decided to move the scene of our conversation vicariously to the front porch like our ancestors would do. Though we never pick one topic and or rehearse a specific topic, we wanted to present this particular discussion as a means of exhaling or shooting the breeze. We have also discussed meeting on the front porch once a month.
Thank you for your comments. We enjoy reading what you send and listening to you when you call.
This episode kicks off our series to discuss the need for a 50-year plan when it comes to uplifting our communities, churches, organizations, businesses, and more. Martha and I agree on the fact that we fail to plan beyond the immediate to five years. Our affluent society plan for generations while most of us plan for our individual lifetime. We have to change the way we speak and communicate. A person is not honored in their own neighborhood because, in most occasions, the neighborhood wants to see them the way they found them. This is an important topic that I wish we were having in front of a live group. Let us know your thoughts.
In this episode, Martha and I are discussing the "Cloak of Silence" that is happening concerning the future of "Super Prisons" scheduled for Alabama, Georgia, and Nebraska. Are you aware of these super projects? You don't build larger facilities to maintain the same or less population. You do it to increase the number of prisoners. Let's explore this topic together and make others aware.
Martha and I spend a lot of time conversating and reflecting on what made us Old School. What I mean by that is that we spend a lot of time attempting to understand the history of our ancestors and how their struggles and triumphs are/were understood by those that followed up to today. I remember singing the titled song, as a little boy, without understanding the message and the amount of degradation our Africa in America ancestors were enduring. I really want to thank Martha for agreeing to join me on this topic. What are your thoughts?
Martha and I were blessed to have Rudy, as a first time guest, to talk about his journey through discovering family members during his research. As he stated, he talked about his ancestry journey, shame, surprise, and sovereignty.
How often do you catch yourself doing or saying something that reminds you of your parent, aunt, uncle, or other adult person? That is what this episode is about. I was happy to have Martha join me in this discussion. Again, thank you for your support. Be good!!
Influences/influencers come into our lives in so many forms. They can be negative or positive. They can build you up and they can delay your growth. Martha and I are leaving a conversation that talks about avoiding influences. I am blessed to have had God in my life to protect me from the influences of no return. Martha reflects on the influences that came from her mother. I hope you enjoy this Old School Thought conversation. What are your thoughts?
What are your expectations of how you will be cared for when you reach the cycle of losing your independence? This is what Martha and I have agreed to talk about as we become our parents. We tried to present the seriousness of the conversation along with some humor. We would love to read or hear your comments. Thank you for your encouraging words. How should we show our elders that they significant and amongst the living? Let’s make this a project.
Martha and I have spent the last six weeks talking about the purpose, scope, brick walls, and relationships associated with starting and refining your family tree. We really thank all of you for your incredible support. This episode focuses on the present and future challenges to prepare for. We hope you enjoy the episode and that you share it with others. What are your thoughts?
This episode is focused on how we, as family members, sometime dismiss cousins based on their degree of kinship. We place a number on cousins that eventually leads to extraction from the family. Martha and I are asking you to consider our thoughts and share your opinions. Thank you for your support.
During one of our conversations, Martha posed a question/statement about family that made a lot of sense. She wondered if Africans, throughout the diaspora, fully understand what a family is? The question also became a statement as we assessed the question and realized that the slave trade and other migratory events always put us in the side of division and loss. What are your thoughts?
This is our third episode of the Family Tree series. Martha and I used this time to share how starting our family tree impacted our views and personal lives. Though Martha and I approached our research from a different perspective, the research lead us to discover our own relationship as cousins. What are your thoughts?
Working on genealogy require that researchers constantly check for sources to validate what they know or what they think they know to be true. Blurred truths can lead to inaccurate information - that leads to assigning the wrong people as relatives. Martha and I are committed to this podcast and this series because they are worth our time and pursuit of leaving a valuable legacy. Let us know what you think about this episode.
Martha and I approached this episode attempting to get our audience to focus on the truth. One must become prepared to accept the truth about relatives and the effectiveness of the “Village.” When you decide to pursue your ancestral history, we all must realize that our family is not ours to own. We are branches to a larger tree that was planted many years and generations ago. Let us know what you think.
Martha and I have agreed to stay on task to talk about starting a family tree. This episode is also based on a request from Martha’s niece. This is our opening to the topic. We hope you find the information interesting enough to start or improve your research. Let us know what you think.
I have really enjoyed this two-part conversation with Martha about the PBS documentary: Talking Black In America - Riots. We made an effort to draw in previous episodes to keep our listeners reminded of previous thoughts/assessments. We have to pay attention to languages, cultures, and ethnicities. We are one, but we get distracted. I hope you enjoy this episode. Give us your thoughts. Until next time - Be Good.
This episode is basically an introduction into our next topic: Black While Talking. Martha and I would like to get us to think about how our African culture and languages faded and are fading with each generation. We have also given up and abandoned communication that once created solidarity. Today, some Africans in America are okay with friends of other ethnicities calling them by derogatory names as if they are terms of endearment. There is always a gap generation. Let us know your thoughts.
This episode concludes Martha’s three-part series on “We’re Not Merchants!” This episode has a lot to do with the importance of marketing and knowing your product well enough to accurately pitch it. These are two pitfalls to transforming an idea or dream into a sustainable business. We love you and be good. Please pass it on.
Last week, Martha led our conversation with her knowledge and description of a “Merchant Class or Society” as it pertains to African American communities. This is Part 2 of the same topic. We opened this episode with a short discussion about what should we take away from the observance/celebration of Juneteenth. Let us know your thoughts.
Martha and I had the distinct pleasure of meeting with Dr. LaTasha Jones Adams to learn about her initiative to start a charter school in Columbus, Georgia. The proposed name for the school is Dominion Purpose Academy. Though she is at the early stages of the process, Martha and I invited Dr. Adams to the podcast to share with all of us her purpose behind the initiative and other considerations. I look forward to this legacy and its impact. Please pass it on.
Welcome to another episode of Old School Thoughts! Thank you for all of your support. Like always, I really enjoyed recording this episode with Martha. We’re Not Merchants has to do with strengths and weaknesses to survive as a business class. I hope you enjoy this episode and pass it on to friends and family.
In this episode, Martha is leading us through a series of thought provoking situations that we should analyze beneath the surface. She used bugs and slugs, metaphorically, at one point, to get her message across. Please pass this episode on to others.
Growing up, I would hear adults saying, “Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.” I never understood why I would keep my enemies closer than my friends. Martha and I revisited that saying after listening to a speech delivered by Killer Mike titled: Free Speech Lets Me Know My Enemy. His spin on the topic was spot on. It showed his maturity.
Our parents have always told us, in many different ways, to “Keep your eyes open”, “Pay attention” and that “You better smell the coffee.” Which meant that you better keep your sense about yourself. We all have to learn how to slow down what we see to reflect and assess. If we don’t, we will let too many important things slide while turning the other cheek. I am all outta cheeks.
Martha has led us into an episode for the archives. Most of our discussions are surfaced for discussion amongst larger groups - then some episodes go beneath the surface that might cause some of our listeners to step back. Those are the episodes I see as a recording for the archives. The archives are left for others to discover.
Martha opens this episode by exploring a repetitive mantra often used in the African American community, We are caught or stuck between a rock and a hard place.” We have repeated this phrase without ever assessing its meaning in layman terms. Here we go with another significant discussion. We hope you like it and add it to your collection. If you like it, please share it.
This episode is a door blaster because Martha and I have reached a new horizon when it comes to analyzing why our parents sent us out of the room when “Grown Folks are talking.” Martha hit the spot when she stated that, as adults, we represent those adult conversations that took place in the background. What a profound discovery! Let us know your thoughts. Thank you for your support.
When it comes to the African American experience, Diaspora is used to address the dispersion of Africans throughout the world. During this episode, Martha and I are applying the Diaspora to our voluntary migrations and generational gaps.
I asked Martha to join me in discussing the challenges our young people are struggling with to survive and live. We talked about uniforms, games, early versus present television, managing anger/revenge, and more. At what point do you lose control of children with guns?
I chose this title because we continue to struggle with claiming and maintaining cultures, traditions, and more as we scramble to survive. Martha and I are asking you to join us in leaving this legacy of recordings by sharing them with your circle of friends and family.
This episode addresses the previous one regarding the experiments on black/African American people and the assumption that they did not display pain. But we go on this time to discuss that our pain is rooted in denial of the events that have affected us over our history and distorted how we see ourselves today.
Martha and I have decided to address the history of gynecology as t pertains to Black Women. We are inviting you to read the article that we referenced: https://www.salon.com/2023/03/18/history-of-gynecology/
I really enjoyed discussing this topic with Martha! Before we started, I expressed my thoughts that maybe this conversation should be had between two or more women, but Martha encouraged me to share my thoughts. So, here we are. I hope you find this worthy of our archive of Old School Thoughts.
This series of recordings about Phenomenal Women is a tribute to women and Women’s History Month. This particular episode focuses on sacrifices and strength. I want to thank Michaella for joining Martha and I in our pursuit to share Old School Thoughts.
As we get older, our views change on some things, but as a reflective thinker, I have grown to realize that the thoughts become deeper and or emotional. As we celebrate Women’s History Month, how do you reflect on the women you got to know in your family? I am asking you to join Martha and I in this conversation. Thank you for your support.
Martha decided to provide the introduction for this highly anticipated topic of discussion. We are continuing to examine Old School Thoughts as it pertains to understanding the history and timelines of African Americans. Let us know your thoughts about the topic.
Martha and I have struggled with publishing this episode about Knowing Something Basic when it comes to observing Black/African American History Month. I do not edit our recordings because we try to place our examination of topics over perfection. How do you think we, as African Americans, should observe Black/African American History?
This episode is another discussion or lesson that examines the history of America and the Constitution. Martha and I speak briefly about the three-fifth compromise and XXIII Amendment.
Title: God-Given PURPOSE (2.10.23)When you know, accept AND 🏃🏼♀️ toward your PURPOSE, popularity doesn’t matter. When you know, accept AND 🏃🏾 toward your PURPOSE, the naysayers are negligible. When you know, accept AND 🏃🏻♂️ toward your PURPOSE, 20/20 vision and overwhelming provision follow. Today’s Old School Thoughts conversation discusses PURPOSE over popularity, PURPOSE over naysayers and provision-rich 20/20-vision PURPOSE. Take a listen … (DeWayne Webb)
Thank you for your support. Martha, Pastor James, and I have returned to continue our conversation about how do we celebrate the life of Dr. King and the Civil Rights Movement. Please excuse the feedback in the recording. The message is too impactful to not publish. Remember that our conversations are not rehearsed. So, the viewpoints are raw. Thank you for your support.
Like every endeavor of good intentions, one begins to wonder if it is worthwhile. Yesterday, I had one of those moments and God spoke to me, in my spirit, and said, “Every time I wonder why - God sends me a reason why” and I felt renewed. This is a major topic that Martha, Pastor James, and I embarked on. We love people enough to leave a gap preventing legacy. What are your comments?
Martha, Pastor James, and I assembled to discuss a new topic concerning the ineffectiveness of speaking through a national microphone. What are your thoughts?
This is our fourth episode on the topic of Family Networking. Martha, Pastor James, and I are examining past and present transitions from one year to the next. What did we observe? How do we remember family interaction? How did we transition from 2022 to 2023? I did not edit the recording because I want each listener to pay attention and hear what was said the way I did. Not by interpretation, but by sound. We would love to have you as a guest.
Martha, Pastor James, and I continue to explore the relationships of family, community, and networking in our quest to understand the intricacies of family networking. Ship, as depicted in the subject, has to do with analyzing the gatekeepers of family information, relationships, fellowship, partnerships, and other variations of “ship”. Let us know what you think and please share it with others.
Our last episode created a lot of written comments and verbal conversations from our listeners. Pastor James Daniels joined Martha and I in a discussion to expand on the topic of Family Networking. I believe we presented thoughts that can actually take effect immediately. I just can’t understand why are we fighting change? Why do we make excuses? What are your thoughts?
Martha and I met through our discovery of DNA. We have never seen each other, personally, but we have accepted our kinship as we explore life and topics together. I have used my research to get back at the institution of slavery. Each time I find a new relative, I say, “Gotcha” and try not to let go. That sentiment is not always reciprocated. That becomes the frustrating part. I have met some amazing cousins during my journey and I love each one of them as if I have known them for a lifetime. During this episode, Martha and I are attempting to define a family tree and make it palatable for African Americans. We are defining a family tree as a networking system like the Underground Railroad, Green Book, and other sources that provided a safe haven for us along the way. What are your thoughts?
During this episode of Old School Thoughts, Martha and I demonstrated the complexities that go into discussing African American history and how we should approach accountability. No two observers are the same, but there is a need for each member to approach the conditions from different angles. Different angles provide different perspectives. Someone is always in the picture.
How many of you enjoyed the leftovers the morning after Thanksgiving? How many of you grew up eating leftovers? During this episode, Martha and I expanded leftovers to represent all areas of our lives, culture, race, family, and other factors as we transform as individuals. What are your thoughts?
Happy Thanksgiving!! This conversation, with Fred Harmon, has been a long time coming, but today we are here. While visiting Fred for Thanksgiving dinner, he finally granted me this valuable opportunity to record part of his legacy. I enjoyed the conversation.
With all of the negative things surrounding us, Martha and I felt strongly about discussing the nostalgia of celebrating Thanksgiving. We wanted to ignite a public discussion about celebrating family, unity, and Thanksgiving. My prayers go out to the young generation because they are dying too soon by gun violence and other destructive actions. My prayers go out to the lonely residents in convalescent homes and those living alone. We love you and until next time, Be Good.
Martha and I used our “25 minutes of anger” to discuss our disappointment about how people, family, and friends voted or not voted. There is so much to assess. Your thoughts are welcome for additional episodes. What are your thoughts?
What will it take for Africans in America and throughout the Diaspora to pay attention to patterns and assess what our ancestors were able to achieve that we seem to have a hard time maintaining? The history is too serious to ignore.
Martha and I returned to summarize what we have learned through this series of discussions about the Diaspora. We want to thank all of our listeners for the support and comments.
Martha and I are truly on a journey together. Without any rehearsals, we come together with a ridiculous level of like-mindedness. In this series, about the Diaspora, we are challenging our listeners to just consider what we are presenting. For one to speak with the acknowledgment/understanding of the Diaspora requires a willingness to scrape the barrel of what we have been misled to learn. I hope you are finding value in what we are attempting to share. Correction: A comment was made concerning Brazil receiving 1 billion Africans. Change to 1 million. Be good!
We have reached our fourth season!! During this episode, Martha and I continue to talk about the significance of referring to the Diaspora when addressing the slave trade. Too often the subject is discussed as a separate event based on geography instead of one event that affected the lives of millions through captivity and dispersion. What are your thoughts?
Martha and I are in agreement that descendants of Black Africa should consider the Diaspora when discussing the African Slave Trade. Are we missing the significance of the atrocity? Correction: Change “Priest” to “Pope” reference 1441 gift of Africans.
Martha shares history about her great-grandmother Patsy - who lived to be 108 years old. This episode is intended to give recognition to the impact Roots (the movie) had on many of us to research our lineage. This is a remarkable story about endurance and legacy.
Today, 9 September 2022, Martha and I were blessed to have Dewayne and LaShon as our guests to talk about an incredible fitness program that is taking place at Lakebottom Park in Columbus, Georgia. It goes beyond physical fitness. They are truly building a village that encompasses children to adults.
Martha and I entered this conversation, like always, making an assessment about our thoughts and what events shaped our weekly world. During the conversation, we began to talk about how lives are impacted by being seen Black, invisible, too modest, and sometimes alone in a struggle. The conversation led me to share my own experience in Columbus, Georgia (Not Ohio). What are your thoughts?
In this episode, Martha and I went back down memory lane to further assess generational movements. We also touched on the abandonment of parents by the children they raised. Do you know Claudette Colvin? If you don’t, search for her story and interview to learn about an amazingly brave young girl that survived a movement to become an amazingly brave woman. Martha and I hope you enjoy this episode enough to share with others. Until next time - Be Good!!
In this episode, Martha and I challenged each other to recall old school activities and events that we have lost and are never getting back from those that we have lost or on the brink of losing that we need to restore and or keep because they are relevant? We are asking each listener to do the same. If you would like to join us on an episode - just say the word. Thank you for your support.
When I lived in South Korea, I got the opportunity to tour several Cultural Historical sites and witnessed villagers passing on the traditions and cultures of South Korea to future generations. I chose the title (Too Damaged?) following the recording of this episode with Martha because I was left or challenged to accept something that I had never considered: Are we too damaged as a family, village, and or people to unite for the sake of future generations? What are we about? What are the legacies that we plan to pass on to future generations? I enjoyed my conversation with Martha as always. I hope you all enjoy it as well.
In this episode, Martha and I continued to explore the magnificence of Black/African American women through their power to manage and make changes. Black Women have led us in so many ways: domestically, academically, and politically. How would you describe the unspoken power of Black/African American women and how they displayed that power?
This is the second episode that Martha and I have recorded to pay honor to the sacrifices, leadership, tenacity, and endurance of Black/African American women. This is a serious topic for us and we doing our best convey our appreciation clearly. Though women are represented in several ways, there has always been similarities based on personal and ancestral ties. I hope we are presenting this series with clarity and understanding. We are inviting you to join us. Again, thank you for all you to make this podcast successful.
This episode is basically an introduction to paying honor to the history of Black/African American women throughout the diaspora. Black women have truly “held it down” to endure hardships beyond their control to political leadership. Martha and I want listeners to think about the sacrifices, movements, love, and more that we seem to overlook. Thank you for your support We will follow-up with more.
I am really enjoying this journey with Martha, as our co-host, and with you (our listeners). Regardless of what we do in life, we want to become better at it. This is true for Martha and me when it comes to our mission (Missionary - definition #3) to pay attention and remember the history that got us where we are as a people and nation. Pay Attention and Remember.
During this episode, Martha and I wanted to open a discussion about a documentary, we both watched, titled Who We Are by Jeffery Robinson. We are attempting to ascertain who we are as people, as a village, and as a country. Our conversations are led by, what we believe to be, God’s intervention because we start with our own intentions, but we are led to include other thoughts. We are serious about our passion to leave a legacy of information for others to use or add on to. We hope you enjoy this episode and pass the word about archive we are building. Be Good!!
There are so many things happening in our orbit: Good and Bad. As Martha and I continue to grow together, we are challenged by day-to-day events that impact all of our lives in some way. The word ‘mining’ was used intentionally because we are digging as deep as possible to assess what affects us and or the village. Let us know what your thoughts are.
We often hear people reciting “It takes a village to raise a child” and I saw that demonstrated, as a child, when my mother and other mothers had the permission to challenge bad behaviors for the sake of the child’s safety and future. It worked for me and many others. Martha and I are examining the effectiveness of the village as it pertained to the horrific case of Shaye Moss, Lady Ruby, and their matriarch (grandmother/mother). How do you see the village? Is it effective?
This episode picks up where Martha and I left off during the alarm interruption that closed out episode 48. Martha starts this episode by analyzing our legal system as a two-tier operation that systematically targets people of color differently than those who are not. We did agree that this conversation is necessary and that it should continue.
On the morning of 18 June 2022, I called Martha and asked her to join me in discussing the importance of knowing about Juneteenth and being cognizant of what we never forget as we grow accustomed to it becoming a federal holiday. This is a two part discussion due to an unexpected alarm. We picked up the conversation during Part 2.
What a conversation! Mr. Landers is the Director of the Civic Center of Columbus, Georgia and Chairman of the Juneteenth committee. We met yesterday (9 June 2022) for the first time to schedule today’s episode. It was a meeting worth having to see and listen to this young leader talk his stuff. I had to use “Old School” language to express my happiness. I hope to have him back to give us feedback on how he felt about the outcome of the Juneteenth activities. Please pay attention to his comments.
Something amazing is happening! Old School Thoughts has a co-host, Martha Buford-Green! We are both excited about collaborating to discuss this enormous topic of “the Village” as we refer to African American communities. I am going to add an additional title as a description: The Baseland. The village reminds us of our basic values and experiences that we cling to and have even abandoned. In our first episode, Martha and I are going to discuss the roles of the elders based on what we witnessed and experienced. We want you to join our team. We can do this! Great job, Martha!!!
On This Rock was stated by Jesus Christ to confirm the words of “Petra” Peter about what established the foundation of the church. This podcast is constantly being assessed to identify the foundation of Old School Thoughts and the events that shaped and continue to shape us. We are leaving an archive of testimonies for future generations to explore. I hope something is gained from this episode.
This is the second half of my conversation with Cousin Martha Buford Green. The first half focused on the meaning of Old School. This session focuses on how Martha defines the effectiveness of the Village. Martha has provided us with two keen perspectives and I enjoyed our time together and look forward to future interviews. I ask that you share your thoughts with Martha.
Last evening, on the 27th of May 2022, Martha Buford Green joined me to give her definition of Old School. Martha shared experiences of living in the North with a focus on the disparities affecting others in the South. It is becoming clearer that Old School deserves to be examined as a period of persistence, unity, and a continuous fight for the inalienable rights to be and know freedom. What are your thoughts?
As I assess my life and impending role as a patriarch, I am leaving a message for my granddaughter and others to think about as they experience life and love. I may or may not get the opportunity to have this type conversation, personally, but through this medium, I can have my voice heard as a means of sharing wisdom. After listening to the podcast, what would your message be?
My birthday represents freedom based on the day the House of Representatives passed the 13th Amendment to end slavery. I always picture myself responding to the day of being told that freedom has come after 246 years of traditional bondage. All that is important to me is to search for family members dispatched along the way. Every time I meet new family members and friends, I feel that I have given another blow to the history of American slavery.
The second part of my conversation with the father and sons trio was filled with advice, maturity, and leadership. I asked all three individuals if the historical event has sunk in with them and what advice would they share with those following their footsteps? I was profoundly impressed.
On 6 May 2022, families and friends gathered at the University of South Carolina Horseshoe to witness the commissioning and pinning of twin brothers: Juwan and Travon Biggers. I requested an interview with them and their father, 1SG (Ret) Hunter Biggers III, and they all accepted. Please listen to this story of US/African American history. Like all of our past and present historical figures, these three men deserve that same honor. May God continue to bless and protect them.
Throughout my adult life, I have heard of African Americans being referred to as “forgiving people.” We seem to embrace it to a fault because we fail to hold people accountable. That leaves us as being exposed as vulnerable and weak. This title has to do with me questioning how we respond to situations affecting us, our communities, and our legacies. People and events are erased each time we forget the past. I hope you enjoy this episode and pass it on.
I decided to record this episode because I got the opportunity to be a playground teacher for a day. On 14 April 2022, I was spending time with my granddaughter on a nearby playground and we got the opportunity to interact with other children like old school days. Not only did I get to see the children have fun, I enjoyed being a playground teacher for a day. Until next time - Be Good!!
On 4 April 2022, Gloria and I made an unplanned drive to Greenville, Georgia. We drove “through the back roads” to see the names of small cities along the way. When I reached Greenville, I stumbled across relatives filled with promising information. I revisited another Antwone Fisher moment. Though I don’t know what the future holds, I left feeling good!
This episode focuses on a time when we shared the propensity to build by sharing the spirit of giving and receiving in the community. There is a difference between legalize segregation and segregation and some of us don’t recognize it and didn’t see it coming. I hope you enjoy the episode and share with others. Until next time - Be Good!!
This is part three of my conversation with Alberta Winston Casey Foster that took place on 19 March 2022. This has been an enjoyable lesson and I have loved every bit of it! I truly love all of my matriarchs! Please listen and pass on to others. This was truly a Master Class.
If you enjoyed my first conversation with Alberta Winston Casey Foster, you are going to enjoy part two of her three part interview. In this conversation, Alberta talks about the importance of acquiring property and land along with leaving a legacy for the next generation. If you like this episode, please share it with others.
This is part one of a three part series. If any of you have been following Old School Thoughts, you know that I love maternal advice from our matriarchs. That is what Cousin Alberta shared during our first interview together. Cousin Alberta starts out by recognizing the influences her mother and two sisters had on her life. It is something how observing maids gathering at the bus stop played a role in Alberta reaching for higher goals and even the lack of desire to learn how to cook. Please take the time to listen and share this series of episodes by Alberta Winston Casey Foster.
Mr. Asaud Frazier continued his story about history of the family’s land and the leadership of his Grandmother Ella and Great-Aunt Beatrice. Please listen and share.
In this two part series, Mr. Asaud Frazier, an African American Farmer/entrepreneur shares his story about the two women who inspired him most; Grandmother Ella and Grand-Aunt Beatrice. This story is rich in history and exemplifies the importance of land ownership. Please listen and share.
I invited Pastor Daniels to return to Old School Thoughts to share with us his feelings and purpose for writing his new book: Take The Stairs - Not The Elevator. He provides weekly YouTube Bible lessons and sermons for individuals who are unable to attend church for many reasons. I enjoyed the interview - as usual.
Keeping History “100” is the best way, for me, to sum up my conversation with Kathy Perdue. I asked Kathy to give me her interpretation of what the theme “History is Personal” means and if she would “Give Life To History” as it pertains to her family’s history. Influenced by her mother and her ancestral spirit, Kathy kept it “100.” It was important for me to understand that she was going to keep it “100” and she did.
I want to thank Daphine for agreeing to return for a part two of her interview to share the history of her paternal Jamaican lineage.
Thank you, Daphine Johnson, for sharing your time and history with us. I am always amazed to hear about the triumphs of our ancestors. When Daphine spoke of her great-grandmothers decision to work, sacrifice, save, and purchase 40 acres of land, it caused me to question, like always, how did they achieve so much while we are losing so much? Daphine spoke of her great-grandmothers regimen of being organized in her thoughts and missions without having a higher level of “formal education” as perceived in the writing of her will, but she achieved! There is always something to learn from the examples set by our ancestors: survival, stubbornness to achieve better, a foundation to lean/stand on, and more.
At 6:00 PM (EST), 12 February 2022, I vicariously boarded the Casey Family Train of peace and freedom seekers inside of a Louisville and Nashville (L&N) Railroad passenger coach. The tour guide was Janice Casey Bond. She took me back to Martha Scarborough, Columbus Casey - those who endured the institution of slavery. I watched ancestors leave Alabama and discover newness in Louisville, Kentucky and Clarksville, Indiana. She showed me the life of a little girl who became a woman amid segregation, racial slurs, and a lack of historical awareness. Janice’s discoveries showed her, on several occasions, that her history would become more than what she knew.
This interview was conducted immediately following Jeanne’s story about father. She ended her last interview laying out responsibilities for adults 50 and over as it pertains to sharing and preserving family/African American history. This episode gives us a brief description of Jeane’s mother.
I have really been blessed over the years and through this podcast. After speaking with Ora Jeane Warner-Hall three times this week, I thanked God for the opportunity to receive wisdom from ladies/guests who were old enough to be an older sibling, my mother, and or grandmother. I want to thank all of them for the legacies they are building through Old School Thoughts. Ora gave me a new look of Mississippi from the view of a Gulfport and Mississippi City resident.
Listening to Damonta filled me with many thoughts and emotions because it was great having a mature conversation with a 28 year-young African American man. He opened my mind when he spoke about representing three generations of being a foster care family member; the need to be intentional; and his oral description of America. I am so grateful to have met Damonta and look forward to speaking him, again.
We can’t have a part one without a part two - so here we are. Charnita ended the part one assessing her mothers generation as it pertained to the village. Because I didn’t want the interview to end without a complete explanation, I requested that we continue with a part two. Charnita will share a poem with us that captures her deepest thoughts about how she feels about “The Village.”
Today, Charnita contacted me and requested an interview to talk about “The Village” as we know it. Charnita did what I want all of you to do: volunteer to tell your story. Charnita gives a clear description of the village and its value. This conversation definitely required a part two. Feel free to share your perspective.
Charles gave me a new perspective on the history of identifying someone as a Conductor. This title was given to Harriett Tubman as she began to lead more family members and enslaved friends to freedom. Charles is operating at a level of concern to connect family members who have been separated by institutional laws, family migration, and more. He stated that he wants to reunite 200 family members in five years and I followed with him reuniting 500 members. I equated him to being a Conductor and he assigned himself to being the Engineer. All of that means big goals and responsibility. This conversation requires a comeback.
You can’t have a part one without a part two and this really is a continuation of an incredible story filled with incredible wisdom and advice. Chloe describes her grandfather as an unapologetic leader. She shares his astute capability to navigate through inequality to achieve equality for his family, friends, and community. She goes on to say that we shouldn’t apologize for being who we are - innately. “We are the sum total of those who came before us.”
At a time when the teaching of African American history is under attack, it is a great feeling to hear Chloe speak of her grandfather with so much reverence. She acknowledged his struggles, his focus, his empowerment, his successes, and his will to learn and teach. Chloe’s interview is a testament to understanding that History Is Personal.
Mary, who is one of the best known cooks and bakers in Columbus, Georgia, is going to school us on the craft of cooking with Crisco. She is old school and qualified to speak on the history of cooking with Crisco in the black community. Her mother cooked with Crisco as well as my mother. This episode reminded me of some steps that I had forgotten. What are your thoughts and memories of cooking with Crisco?
This is the first episode of a new series titled, History Is Personal. Charnita and I spoke for the first time to schedule an interview which ended up happening following our brief introduction to each other. When she spoke, I could hear so many things: Her loving fondness of knowing her ancestry; a good feeling about being recognized as an Old Soul; and much more. I really enjoyed our conversation and this episode. I look forward to interviewing Charnita, again.
This was a requested episode from my family based on an evening out we shared at Cheddar’s restaurant in Columbus, Georgia. My nephews was surprised to hear about some of the stories I began to share with them and wanted them added to the Old School Thoughts podcast. My “Big Brother” was told about the stories and also requested to hear them via the podcast. So, here are a couple of stories. Here are two corrections: 5 boys/3 girls and Kinfolk Corner. My Mama Was A Green Beret!
First, I would like to publicly thank Pastor James Daniels for accepting my abrupt invitation to speak on the impact and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Pastor Daniels is the pastor of Friendship Missionary Baptist Church located in Villula, Alabama. Pastor Daniels talks about staying focused (keeping your eyes on the back door), remembering the basics, knowing that God’s words will always point towards truth (the ultimate azimuth), and more. Please pass this episode on to others.
I’m back! Old School Thoughts is back! Happy New Year to all of my podcast family! I have missed you and look forward to our conversations this year of 2022! Thank you for all of your support in 2021! Now, let’s reflect and project! I love all of you! Be good!
During this time of year, most of us begin to reflect on the importance of family and friends. We think about those we’ve lost and the blessings for those of us who are still alive. We become sentimental about so much! This episode is being published as a reminder for me and others. I hope you enjoy it. Happy Holidays to all you and your families. Be good!
I am concerned about the future of our children. Instead of fire drills at school, they are now learning drills on how to save themselves from active student shooters inside their respective schools. They have to keep their senses up for unexpected attacks while playing outdoors. As a lifetime community organizer, I am concerned about their safety. What are your thoughts?
On 24 November 2021, a jury comprised of 11 Whites and 1 African American convicted 3 White defendants in the murder trial of Ahmaud Arbery in Brunswick, Georgia.
Cousin Gladys and I ended part one of our conversation in the middle of a fantastic story. Part Two picks up where we left off. It is an extension of the wisdom Cousin Gladys wants us to hear. She and I will plan for more episodes.
I am so blessed to have this opportunity to record the stories of matriarchs, patriarchs, and additional special guests. This episode is the beginning of a future series of stories provided Gladys Marie Harmon-Wright. I hope all of our listeners appreciate the value of this collection of stories and wisdom.
This episode examines the actual meaning and relationship amongst friends. Is social media the wave for identifying friendship? It seems to be. Are you more comfortable sharing personal space with “friends” on Facebook than you are with sharing a greeting with someone you don’t know in real-time?
This episode is too valuable to hold on to! Ron and I recently discovered each other through AncestryDNA. After speaking with him and introducing him to the “Old School Thoughts” podcast, he requested an opportunity to participate in this legacy project. In this episode, Ron speaks passionately about the values of Old School and how those values were ingrained in him by his mother and father. Let’s continue to leave our legacy for future generations.
We have lost so much over centuries of survival and rebooting of our languages, traditions, cultures, recipes, religious practices, and more. This episode explores the question of how long does it take to submit and give up who you are and how long does it take to create an I don’t care generation (Gap generation)?
I am so thankful and grateful to have had this opportunity to interview Cousin Leora for the second time (her 100th and 101st year/Birthday). She shares so much with us. She creates a calming atmosphere, for me, every time we speak. Please consider the value of this recording. Endnote: When I had a lost for words, I was trying to say - intimidating. Cousin Leora’s life’s experiences makes her an intimidating presence - even though she doesn’t present herself that way. Thanks to Cousin Leora for her loving kindness.
It is amazing how strangers can share kindred spirits when given the opportunity to converse openly. I discovered that kind of relationship with Mary Branham, two weeks ago, during our first conversation that began with her inquiring information from me about the genealogy of a relative whom I share DNA with. That conversation expanded to Mary and I speaking openly about history, race, culture, politics, the values of Old School and more. I have invited Mary to return for more conversations. Who and or what influenced your Old School Thoughts?
I am happy to announce that Old School Thoughts has entered its third year. I want to thank all of my guests and listeners for the outstanding support and feedback. I look forward to the growth (personally) and growth of the archives. Please share the episodes with family and friends.
Leora 101 is primarily about getting the opportunity to literally see, meet, greet, and celebrate the 101st birthday of Mrs/Cousin Leora Garrett-Adams. Thanks to Cousin Leora, Cousin Beverly, and Cousin Chloe Naves. Here are two questions to consider: Is there a difference between How you want to be remembered and Do you want to be remembered? Send Cousin Leora a greeting. The interview with her is coming soon!
Simple question: Are Blacks apologetically Black? When we have the opportunity to step up to improve our publicly recognized conditions, do we apologize to uphold a positive image amongst other groups of people? What do you have to say?
I have been blessed to have two dads: My biological dad who raised me from an infant to adulthood and a dad-in-law who taught me how to prepare for my senior years. Mr. Moss is a father-figure - in my life. He gives me love and acceptance. He shares his philosophies on life through his relationship with his wife, children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. He gave me this letter on 5 September 2021. It is dated 16 October 1965. He was leaving a message and legacy for his two sons: Vincent and Irvin. Now, through this recording, his message will spread to others. Thank you Mr. Moss.
I really enjoyed recording this episode because Gloria Jean decided to take me back-in-time to when I used to go to the store for my parents.
I attempted to create a skating rink scene in this episode because I am sharing my journal/journey to become the King of Roller Skating!! Did you hear me?!!! I hope you all enjoy this episode. The songs are copyrighted by the original artists.
Adults say the darndest things! I am on my soapbox about the dumbest and the darndest things I hear coming from the mouths of some parents, grandparents and great-grandparents concerning COVID. That group has forgotten how to protect children and others based on politics, religion, and other misguided reasons. This episode is for the archives. Be Good!
I took a break from recording to assess if there is truly an old school family. During the break, I assessed families, conversations, and television to reach a conclusion. The conclusion I reached is that there is an Old School Family that I feel I can explain or describe.
I returned to Frank Chester Recreation Center to keep my promise to Lester Williams and the young men who wanted to participate in an interview. What I heard is not what I expected - not because of lack of intelligence, but transparency and wisdom. I was reminded of the stereotypes of being young that developed my defenses today. Thanks to Kejuan and Jahshua. They are in my prayers.
I really enjoyed this episode with Lester Williams at Frank Chester Recreation Center in Columbus, Georgia. Lester is a native of New York and “implant” in Columbus. Following this interview, Lester recruited some young patrons, in the center, to become future participants to be heard. I am all for it.
Wow! Lade Breez came in and dropped some valuable golden nuggets in this episode! I never thought about how the constant impact of African-American life and struggles to be treated with equality and dignity could cause post traumatic syndrome for an entire group of people. Most of us wake up, each day, putting on an exterior of armor to protect our inner being and relationship with God. Lade Breez dropped a powerful message. Please share this episode and all the previous episodes of Old School Thoughts.
I tried to create the scene of having an old school conversation while sitting on the porch - involved in a conversation with some of my neighbors. We were doing it like our ancestors would do. I hope you enjoy the conversation.
This episode is an extension of S2:E46. Ms. Cheryl Averett Johnson is the mother of Wayne Johnson and co-organizer of Fathers And Sons Under The Sun. I wanted to give her a full segment to share her thoughts - as a mother - and to explain her influence as an “Old School” mom.
On 26 June 2021, I attended a community event that was announced via the radio, and was introduced to Mr. Wayne Johnson. He was the co-organizer along with his mother. I was so impressed watching a young man taking on a big project of bringing fathers/men and sons/boys together. He agreed to give me a portion of his time for this interview.
This episode examines the making of Juneteenth: The Holiday 2021. It covers the Emancipation Proclamation, the Thirteenth Amendment, May Day, and generational attitudes.
With all that is going on: Family Generations dying, rediscovering African American History, the Republican attack on the education system, I am wondering who is paying attention? What history is being lost and or covered up by ignorance and or by apathy? We have difficult days ahead, but We Shall Overcome!!
This episode represents a compilation of conversations I had that I considered to be very interesting. What kind of conversation would you have with your mother, father, or other deceased family member? Do you remember the majorettes in the Marching bands? What mores and values do you recall from your parents and or other ancestors? Talk to me.
I was happy to have my niece, Renee, as a guest to share her experience as a fan and supporter of the annual WOKS Talent Show(s). Though she followed my generation, her experience was the same as mine. The participants/contestants were amazing! They were singing and dancing. Some of the singers were a complete surprise due to their social reputations. There were no fights - no gun violence.
I chose this title because of repeated behaviors I encounter while moving about from place-to-place in Columbus, Georgia. I have tried to understand those behaviors though some are downright frustrating to witness. The social climate is filled with apprehension. There are people, with good intentions to be nice, who seem to display apprehension because they don’t know what responses to expect from strangers during a greeting exchange. Others have just grown afraid and are cowardly apprehensive. So, I used two of James Brown’s songs to lay the foundation for my monologue: Soul Power and Say It Loud - I’m Black and I’m Proud!
This episode is a reminder that we cannot allow ourselves to give up on children/people based on their social environment and or acquaintances. We have to apply the three parables Jesus laid out for us: The Lost Sheep, The Prodigal Son, and The Lost Coin. It is unfortunate that those who are doing well seem to go overlooked, but we must encourage them to keep their eyes on the prize/God. The use of the word “subordinate” is being applied as a military rank structure.
This episode is a call out to my senior listeners to share stories that were experienced are passed down through their respective family’s history. We have so much to leave the next generation with. It is almost an obligation to pass on those or your own valuable stories.
This episode, by Frank Goodman, was prepared to pay tribute to mothers for the comfort only they can provide bode their children. I recognized Stephanie Coleman-Mack for her diligence to graduate with a doctorate degree. Then there is a tribute to the Matriarchs in The Family. I hope you enjoy this episode.
Today, Vijay and I were talking, like we occasionally do, and he began to share some information about his relation with his father and some Indian traditions and culture. The conversation was so revealing that I asked him to join me as a guest on Old School Thoughts and he accepted.
The lynching of George Floyd was so great that I wanted to get a perspective from a young voice, a future generation communicator and I found that voice in Demeka Daniels. Demeka delivered and I listened. It was so refreshing to hear her layout her thoughts in a way that combined future hopes and present conditions with the past.
I really enjoyed listening to our 70’s baby as he reflected on the influencers in his life. He focused on lessons from his parents and family gathering that included uncles and aunts. I liked hearing about the government cheese. Great memories!!
Darrell Sumbry called me, after listening to the episode featuring Linda Brown-Wardlow), requesting to record a follow-up to her story because he was able to identify with her experience. The conversation was worth having.
Nothing about this episode was designed for final posting. The introduction and the beginning stage of this discussion were recorded as a draft to help Linda move beyond her nervousness, but God had a better plan and here we are with a final product. Like always, there are no edits - just honest conversation. Linda listened to her recording and decided to have this episode posted for others to hear. What a blessing! In her words, “You Can’t Always Judge A Book By It’s Cover.”
When Leora Adams closed our interview, she offered to pass the microphone to her daughter, Bev, but I asked to end our conversation - first. (Lol) This is truly a blessing to have Bev (Beverly Adams-Hardin) as another special guest. Beverly demonstrated the impact her mother and aunt had on her life when I heard her sound like her mother and constantly giving credit to their advice and “Show Me” values. I really enjoyed this conversation and look forward to our next one.
I want to thank Chloe Naves and Beverly Adams-Hardin for arranging this interview with Ms. Leora Adams. Ms. Leora is 100 years old and “all right mentally and physically.” She chose her mother, Ms. Hattie Henry Garrett, as the woman who inspired her most. I really enjoyed meeting Ms. Leora and look forward to our next conversation.
Ms. Perrion Roberts accepted my invitation to interview her about the woman or women who had the greatest influence in her life. She explains that even during her darkest era, the words of her mother and grandmother were able to infiltrate her thoughts and become the stable foundation for her transitional lifestyle.
Flora Jones did a magnificent job at describing inspiration that she received from her grandmother, aunt, godmother by assessing where she stood and how she wanted to live. Flora is grounded in prayer and selfless service. Her desire to become a professional in the field of mental healthcare says a lot about her own stability. It cements her desire to help stabilize the lives of others - of families.
This podcast has had a tremendous impact on my life. When I reflect on “Old School Events” - I can see all of the characters involved. I am now able to realize the cultural, racial, and systemic intricacies of those experiences. The recordings that we are leaving behind will become part of our legacies and I thank you for your support. Share your stories.
Darrolyn Brown provided another amazing story to our collection of lessons by acknowledging her mother, as the woman who made the most impactful impression on her life. The journey - between this mother and daughter team - was about instilling confidence, pursuing education, demonstrating perseverance, Black Panther Party experience and more. It is easy to get someone to repeat slogans, but getting one to believe all things are possible is something different. During this episode, Darolyn made reference to Helen Reddy, but she meant Helen Keller. Darolyn received the 2004 Wayne R.E.S.A. Detroit Teacher Of The Year Award. A great legacy.
Chloe added her legacy of wisdom to this archive of extraordinary testimonies when she shared the wisdom of her mother and paternal grandmother. Her mother taught her and her siblings how to pray and turn it over to God and her paternal grandmother instilled the will of “self identity.” This is another powerful testimony. Thank you, Chloe.
During this episode, First Lady Marilyn Daniels’ shares the wisdom of her mother: Ms. Gertrude Price. First Lady Daniels credited women from the Bible to Vice President Kamala Harris, but her greatest influencer was her mother. She said, “Whenever I encourage my daughters, I hear my mother.”
Humility means a lot to me, personally. Tracy Gray epitomizes humility as she continued to express respect for her “Mothers Of My Mothers.” That is a profound statement. Tracy extends her narrative to include descendants of Vicksburg, Mississippi - Chicago - to New York.
During this tribute to Inspiring Women, Tracy Gray introduces us to a 14 year old girl whose unfortunate exit from Tuscaloosa, Alabama became a road to high standards and excellence for generations of women descendants to emulate. Up From Tuscaloosa is a historical narrative of trials, perseverance, and excellence.
LaTonya shares how her grandmother, mother, daughter, and mentors helped shape her values and perspectives about growing up “Woman.” We can learn things in many different ways. That is what I gathered from LaTonya’s testimony.
Ms. Latavia Price shares her thoughts about how her grandmother and mother influenced her values and perspective about life. She closes out this episode with a song that she learned from listening to her grandmother. This is the second episode of many that will focus on the woman and or women who were influential in our lives.
Overseer Willie Haynes returned, as a guest, to share his personal tribute to his mother, Sweetie Mae Haynes. Willie compared his mother to the engine that kept the family united. This tribute to Sweetie Mae Haynes is being presented as a representation of Black/African American and Women’s History.
How do we, as Black/African Americans, value our history? Do we reach back and tell the truth or have we moved forward to focus on what is now? There is no new thing under the sun and our stories are repeating themselves. How do you see Black/African American History and Month?
Ricky Porter is sharing his story about a gospel group he organized named Destiny. This followed my visit to his home, this afternoon, and listening to a VHS tape of Destiny performing. As I was watching, I was happy and sad because they were so good, but also represented another hidden story in African American history.
During this episode, I thought about how many generations passed down the untruth (unintentionally) that all documents that link us to our ancestors do not exist because they were all destroyed. It is sad that school administrators allowed that myth to continue even when “Roots” was shown on television in 1977. I never knew there was a “Genealogy” department in the public library. The educators heard us and allowed us to remain ignorant about our ancestors.
This is the first episode of 2021 that reflects on 2020, family, and the recent insurrection at the US Capitol Building in Washington DC. I am asking listeners to share their old school stories as part of their legacies. Happy New Year to all of you.
This episode is a blessing because God granted my son and me the opportunity to sit side-by-side, during this Corona pandemic, for a shared interview. He is one-half of the duo podcast titled Jay Raised Us. He and Mos are creating an excellent podcast that focuses on music Jay-Z. I have had the opportunity of listening to each episode and paid much attention to their level of comfort, maturity, and presentation. If you have an open-mind, search for Jay Raised Us and get involved.
This episode was sparked by a question posed to me by my wife. She asked how did my parents talk to me about the birds and the bees. After considerable thought, I realized that my experience (boys) had to be different from little girls. How were you taught about the Birds and the Bees?
Michaella expands on the conversation provided by Sakinah (Hall) Franklin during the previous episode. Michaella shares her similarities with Sakinah along with her genuine concern for mentoring girls, boys, men, and women.
I invited Sakinah Franklin to give us a woman’s perspective on old school values that shaped her life. Sakinah is a retired US Army Veteran who demonstrated leadership as a noncommissioned officer and commissioned officer. During the interview, Sakinah briefly spoke about the traditional roles of men and women and how those roles were changing. This is another great lesson.
Songs/lyrics played and still play a significant role in our lives. They reference love, war, social justice, and many other issues that affect us one way or another. When I hear old school music, I always think back to recall what I was doing; where I was living; what type stereo equipment I had; and other significant events in my life. They truly tell stories. What about you?
This episode explores the impact and or meaning of empathy. We all have used the concept of empathy in an effort to console or help others in need, but something has happened. Millions of people/children are losing jobs, homes, the ability to sustain in this wealthy country. I am always attempting to wear somebody else’s shoes. What about you?
First, I would like to thank Cousin Michaella Titus-Terrell for inviting us into her preparation for Thanksgiving Dinner. As we give thanks please consider those who are without. This episode examines the impact slavery had on the lives of Africans throughout the Diaspora. The colonization and propaganda have affected us by removing languages, traditions, customs, religions, songs, stories and more. That generation immediately deprived of those values and mores were born into the “Maze of No Return.” What a sad situation! What a serious impact!
This is the week of Thanksgiving. People are planning and reminiscing as they prepare to celebrate this annual period to give thanks. God led me to ask Cousin Michaella Titus to get us in the right frame of mind as we remember those before us and how we take on the responsibility to move traditions and customs forward. During this pandemic and just life itself, we have lost a lot of loved ones along with legacies. Don’t be afraid to open the doors of your families to allow new family members to enter. Happy Thanksgiving to all of you and your families. I love you!!!
Willie Haynes continues to share his experiences as the son of a sharecropper during the 70’s in Calhoun County Georgia. He shares his stories of the “rolling store” and decision to join the US Army. As I listen to my friend, Willie, tell his story, I imagine the estimated four million Africans-in-America who were released from slavery with nothing, but a statement of “you’re free.” They were released with zero advancements after 246 years of being in America. They were not immigrants; they were deemed property. This is an African American factual story.
I would usually publish new episodes on late Wednesday or early Thursday, but this message is too powerful for me to keep from you another day. We need to listen to what Willie Haynes has to say about growing up as a son of a sharecropper in Calhoun County, Georgia. Listening to Mr. Willie give honor to those who paved the way is an emotional thing to absorb. If you like the episode, send him a message and let him know that he was heard.
“This is a conversation that needs to be had,” says Stephanie Coleman-Mack as she shares her feelings about learning that her father was not her biological father. She and I discussed the positive and negative impact of the adage “It takes a village to raise a child.” This is one of those old school topics that causes one to say, “That’s deep.”
Pastor James Daniels and I explore the psychological impact of poverty and discussed what is considered poor. Many of our ancestors left the South to pursue a better standard of living in Pennsylvania, Oklahoma, Indiana, Chicago, and etc. Overt discrimination laws managed the South.
Darrell Sumbry and I are taking you on a vicarious trip down memory lane to the neighborhood corner store. It was amazing what we were able to buy with .25 cents. What would you buy with a quarter at your neighborhood corner store?
Gail Bellamy-Mitchell agreed to be my first guest on Old School Thoughts. This title is based on a suggestion she submitted to me to talk about when the county fair was divided into “White Day” and “Black Day.” Having a guest has been a goal of mine for this podcast and here we are. I really enjoyed the conversation with Cousin Gail Bellamy-Mitchell. I hope you enjoy it - as well.
This episode is examining what might have caused the breakdown of communication amongst African Americans. Deception, a sense of self-improvement, and a change in communicating have always attributed to separation. Now, it is difficult to give the greeting of the day.
So much of our history has been lost due to death and the reluctance to share family jewels of secrets. Genealogy is so important to knowing where you have come from as you manage where you are, today. There is a fear of talking to real people during this era of social media. Tell your stories because as each generation passes - so goes your history.
Ricky and Gregg decided to roll back the clock of history to join two middle school neighbors in street football. It was great to watch and funny at the same time. Go Old School!!!
This episode reexamines the history of family reunions. Everybody was invited to participate and enjoy. Traditions were handed down. Nicknames were aligned with actual names/people. We had the best characters represented from the matriarch to the championship liar. They were all there. As each generation passes - so goes your history.
This is a tribute to Cousin Dorothy Davis-Titus and all the incredible Mamas that sacrificed their lives for our benefit. I hope you see your mama in this episode.
When unknown relatives contact you, are you willing to listen, share, and include? Do you leave the person with the feeling that he or she is not good enough? This episode explores families leaving home to pursue a better way of life and how that distance would eventually erode family relationships as elders begin to die along with those connections.
This episode is a call for action. Actions to get serious about the upcoming election to remove hatred from the Oval Office. Old School can’t always be funny. We have to get serious from time-to-time for change. Well, this is our time to fight for change. Let our children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren find our names on the right side of history.
Today, we celebrate the life of U.S. Congressman John Lewis. He was a good and faithful servant who fought a good fight for change. He endured a fractured skull on ‘Bloody Sunday’ for the Civil Liberties we enjoy as a nation of American citizens. Well done our good and faithful servant.
This episode is dedicated to the wisdom and leadership of mothers. My mother spoke in parables everyday. She had parables for whipping your behind and parables for showing love. What do you recall?
At a time when we are accessing history and moving forward to change the past sins of America, are we overlooking the negative impact of how we celebrate the 4th of July? Read Frederick Douglass’ speech that was presented on 5 July 1852.
After adding a new branch to my family tree, I realized how damaging it has been to recover from the effects of colonialism and the slave trade. African American families are still separated by names.
Please be patient enough to listen to this episode because it addresses the history of Sarah Collins, the lone survival who was with the four little girls bombed/murdered in the basement of the 16th St. Baptist Church in Birmingham, Alabama.
We are celebrating the first National Observance of Juneteenth in the United States of America.
This episode analyzes freedom and equal justice. If you don’t have an interest in your history, then you are bound to repeat it
This episode reflects my personal reaction to the death of George Floyd, centuries of brutal treatment of Africans-in-America, the future of my children and granddaughter, and all others. I am tired and it’s time to be angry.
I decided to examine the impact of nicknames on people at the receiving end of those names. Were they positive or negative? How did you use nicknames? What nicknames were given to you? What was the impact?
Has God befriended me? That is my question as I analyze the evolution of Old School Thoughts and how ‘Old School’ history could be a testament for us to study. I hope to hear from you.
Talking about how assimilation and acculturation changed the lives of the Nation of Atomic Dogs.
Assessing the impact of family separation. It takes a village to raise a child, but sometimes the child needs to know who is in the village.
This episode gives a shout-out to all the father and mother figures who stepped-up to provide mentoring as an extension to what you received from your parents, uncles, aunts, cousins, and grandparents.
This recording was prompted by a conversation I had with a 30-year-old young man about two strangers meeting for the first time.
This episode covers a variety of events that lead to Old School being assessed by class and status. Did we play with the same toys? Did we eat the same foods? Did we all have to make do with what we had? What are your thoughts?
I wanted to leave the listeners with a thought of how we kept our teeth during the time that we were exposed to so much sugar from sugar canes and candy. I drifted into making due with what we had - as well.
This episode is a personal analysis of the evolution of maturity and understanding I have received from listening to the episodes and placing those events into timelines of American history.
In this episode, I decided to take the messages that were shared with me and present them as vicarious conversations and visits. I have enjoyed all conversations.
For years, I have watched African American families throw away history by trashing ancestral furniture, pictures, paintings and other items of value. This episode analyzes the value of the “Old School House” and the timelines of history the pictures, photo albums, stereos, clothes and furnishings brought to the family and neighborhood. The “Old School Houses” preceded the museums and other institutions. What a revelation!!
This episode examines why I speak of Old School. It is intended to cause one to remember how relationships were built and maintained.
This episode is all about children being children. How did interact with the little boys and girls in your neighborhood, school, and classrooms? Do you remember the love licks, the denials, your first kiss, your girlfriends and boyfriends? What was the best line you have ever used or heard (other than mine)?
This episode has to do with exercising your Individual freedom to design your style of fashion without the pressure of wearing name brands. We wore what we had and kept them clean, ironed, and or starched.
I grew up around older siblings and my parents interacting with friends. Whenever they got together, they would talk about “Old Times.” The conversations would range from the most hilarious to the most tragic. As I grew up, I was able to participate in some of those conversations. A lot of those stories shaped my awareness and commitment to community. Now, I realize that God has led me to capture many of those stories and transform them into historical movements. This is definitely a deeper look into African American culture.
House parties were the Facebook and Instagram of our time because they provided an environment for socializing to include dancing and dating. The black community was at its closest relationship during that generation. Roll back the rug and move all those tables and chairs.
This is another “I remember when” episode that is focused on how close families, neighborhoods, communities, and people (in general) were during Christmas holidays.
This episode provides some insight into how I viewed the church as a young child. I remember going to Sunday school before service and saving some of the money my parents gave me for offerings to spend at the church at the corner of the block. It was all good.
What role did Old School Music play in your life? You could tell a story, protest, or lay on some deep lines to your girlfriend or boyfriend from lyrics taken from Old School Songs. Let’s get married today - might as well. I don’t want nobody to give me nothing. Just open up the door - I’ll get it myself.
This episode gives a brief history and description of how we fought as little boys. We fought and lived to see another day.
This episode reflects on growing up old school and living to understand the era of my parents.
This episode of Old School Thoughts recounts the good times we had trick or treating when times were safe for children to roam from neighborhood to neighborhood. What costumes did you wear? Can you name some of the treats you would receive and trade with your family and friends?
This episode explores the impact of television, radio, and telephone during the 60’s. I believe those three forms of communication played a big role in extending our childhood and innocence in the absence of parents. I would love to hear from you and know your “Old School Thoughts.”
I am asking my listeners to reflect on their “Old School” era and talk about what comes to mind when you hear the words Old School. Do you think about your childhood? Do you think about the music that shaped your entertainment world? Do you think about the dances you performed? Let’s talk.
On 14 July 2019, I experienced a memorable moment that I will never want to forget. After years of wanting to have my own Antwone Fisher experience, it finally happened.