Precious Predicaments: Recent Episodes
Jeanette Abney
Our show is about life challenges that we find ourselves in as we endure life. These challenges are private, personal and overall precious to our hearts as many feel hopeless, helpless and very frustrated. As you continue to carry such weight, the effects may cause harm to many areas of your life including personal relationships with others and one’s overall mental and physical health. Due to the taboo of therapy and personal fears many carry this pain without any relief. Our show will be a format for individuals to release such pain as one share their story in a therapeutic manner.
Parenting today is not like it use to be. People places and things have changed some for the better and some perhaps for the worst. Many parents today are struggling with their children and their behavior as being a parent did not come with a manual. As summer is now here many children are bored and parents are being faced with many challenges as they don't know what to do. Today's show will discuss healthy ways to parent children. I will discuss the old parenting styles versus the new styles. I will address how to redirect inappropriate behaviors for children between the age of 0 to the age of a legal adult. The goal is to help individuals that believe their kids are out of control. I will provide appropriate parenting skills for parents through education, support and community resources.
Our past is like a ghost. It can hunt and taunt us for years until we decide to make peace with it and allow ourself to be set free. However as we make that decision we may have experience several emotions which could be anger, grief, resentment and regrets. During today's show will explore those emotions as we provide skills to assist in making decisions that you can live with. Be it a past relationship, financial decision, career change, relocation or perhaps you just made a bad decision. Let talk and bring closure to this matter so that you can live in peace with no regrets.
It is happening more than you think you gave birth to a child thinking that you can't wait until they turn 18 only to have them still looking in your face as you are now being told that they have no place to go. Now you are feeling guilty, trapped abused and a prisoner in your own home. Or perhaps you are questioning yourself What Did I Do Wrong? Or your adult child went to college, had a bad relationship and need to come back and you are thinking what am I suppose to do? Let's not forget the child with the criminal history or addiction. Today's episode will address the issue of parenting adult children. The show will provide examples of real life situation. It will address entitlement issues, helping versus hurting. It will also provide information for both the parents and the adult child. As we discuss parenting an adult child by developing and setting boundaries, regaining your power and control by reducing your parental guilt as you engage in a healthy adult relationship.
In our society many individuals lack knowledge and information when it comes to understanding mental health and mental illnesses. As our nation continues to grow this is becoming a problem and is something that millions are dealing with personally. The lack of awareness and understanding is becoming a hardship for families. It is draining our health care system and is frustrating the indivuals that are being identified with an illness. Today's topic is to educate, provide insight and resources to help individuals understand and normalize mental health symptoms such as childhood disorders, mood disorders, depression, anxiety, Bi-Polar, schizophrenia, PTSD just to name a few. We will explore the DSM 5. Share information regarding medications. I will discuss what is mental illness? I will discuss he signs and symptoms? I will attempt to end the taboo regarding therapy as I discuss why many are afraid to reach out and get help.
Today many women are going through a transformation as it relates to their identity as a woman. As a woman we are often misunderstood as it relates to our power, knowledge, courage and strength. Our roles are constantly in conflict with the norms of society, our role as a wife, mother and a child of God. Today's topic will address the overt expression and attitudes that indicate our gender. We will discuss the term gender as a role. We will talk about the choices, struggles and challenges that many woman face as we define and redefine our role. The goal is to address the role of a woman as we seek to understand our identity, encourage and empower today's woman.
Drug and alcohol addiction has become an epidemic and is destroying our society. There are many concepts as to the War on Drugs yet this battle is becoming more visible in our homes and schools. Many minimize the problem as they don't believe there will ever be an acceptable solution. Yet this epidemic continues to spread and is destroying families and the minds of individuals. Today's topic will provide insight into understanding addiction. We will also provide practical advise to help love ones better understand addiction as we explore ways to help my love one become and stay sober.
Dealing with relationships can come with many challenges however deciding when to end a marriage or union can cause emotional scars. Whether to divorce or not is a personal choice however understanding the process can become draining. Not to mention the effect that it may have if there are children involved, the division of assets and the extended families input. Today's show will explore the emotional and financial challenges as it relates to dealing with a divorce. We will discuss what leads to a divorce and how to heal the emotional scars.
Many individuals have experienced some type of abuse as it relates to domestic violence also known as domestic abuse, spousal abuse, intimate partner violence, battering or family violence. This includes women, men and teens of all ages. The violence can include a number of forms such as physical, verbal, emotional, economic, religious and sexual abuse. During today's episode we will discuss and educate individuals about the cycles of abuse. How to end the abuse. How to develop a Safety Plan. We will also provide practical resources and information for both victims and those that abuse. Join Jeanette Abney and Dr. Lisa Romain as we attempt to BREAK THE CYCLE ENDING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
The identity of a man comes with many stereotypes. As many seek to gain understanding one true identity remains questionable. Today being a man comes with many challenges as one transition throughout life. In some cases the transition can present issues in relationships, employment and mostly being a father. Today's topic will challenge as we discuss what it means to be a father and a man? We will explore the qualities or lack of as we discuss what is traditionally associated with being a man.
Joint custody or parenting with another can present many challenges after the breakup of a relationship. Today we will discuss the issues, fears, and concerns that many parents face as it relates to parenting with another. The goal is to provide information, resources and tips to remind others of the term What is in the best interest of the child. We will provide tips to help one better communicate with your ex, visitation schedules and how to maintain trust, stability and balance for your child. Give us a call and let's talk about it. Remember it took two to make that child. And your child will remind you of that.
Learn how your relationship can pass even the toughest test. Many individuals have experienced the pain of an affair or being betrayed. Today's episode we will answer the questions as to: Is there life after an affair?; Can I survive the shame, blame and embarrassment?; Why do people cheat?; Is it really possible to save my marriage or relationship after an affair? We will also discuss the stereotypes. We will be provide steps towards rebuilding your relationship. We will talk about adultery and offer tips as to forgive or not forgive your partner. Give me a call at Precious Predicaments With Jeanette Abney and Special Guest Stacey Varnado-Lewis at 888 346-9141 and share your experience so that you can heal and learn how to love again.
Forgiving someone that we believe have wronged us or caused us pain be it physical, emotional, financial, or sexual can be a challenge. Being violated and hurt by individuals can cause life scars and ones heart to harden. Betrayal; affairs within a relationship can become long lasting and be a challenge to overcome. In terms, it is often difficult to let someone off the hook when we want them to pay what we believe they owe. At some point in our life, we will have to break free from the past. This may also include learning how to first forgive one's self. If you feel angry or stuck be it consciously or not bring your pain to Precious Predicaments with Jeanette Abney and Special Guest Pastor Marcus Robinson. Where you can start the journey of forgiveness, first ourselves and then others. We will also discuss the importance of forgiveness, forgetting those things that are behind us and the process of moving forward with your life. The goal is that you find peace and be set free.
Are you in a marriage or relationship that is in conflict or experiencing tormoil? It seems to be lacking or missing what it once had. It is becoming difficult to coexist under the same dwelling. It has become difficult to communicate, spend time together not to mention agree on the simple things. I love you and hate you seems to be a common feeling. br Every marriage and relationship goes through its ups and downs. When children are involved the stakes are even higher and more complicated. Join us on 4/19/16 as we discuss the institution of marriage and healthy dating. We will discuss the challenges that many couples experience. We will discuss how to save your marriage or relationship as we explore and learn biblical teachings from Pastor Marcus Robinson. This will be an interesting experience which may open your heart and teach you how to love again. You will also learn how to fight fair, or empower you to walk away with yourself respect if the relationship is not worth saving.
Wheather it is our relationship with ourself, parents, children, neighbors, co-workers, or partners we all can all use a tune up. The show will examine our attitudes, beliefs, and perceptions regarding with is healthy and unhealthy for our personal growth. Many feel stuck in relationships for several reasons and experience difficulties coping. Let's discuss solutions as we explore what is working and what is not. We will strive towards improving our communication skills, learn conflict resolution skills as we discuss our Precious Predicaments With Jeanette Abney.
Show will provide insight by informing listeners about the epidemic that is effecting many individuals from all walks of life as it relates to addiction. It will clarify the different types of addictions and addictive behaviors. The show will inform listeners the difference between use and abuse. Information will be provided regarding new treatment mortality, resources and support for both the individual and family members.