Mess It Up Podcast: Recent Episodes
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Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy to discuss the Know Grow Show approach to bible study and our Christian walk
In the final show of our Fruit of the Spirit Series we wrap up by showing some self control. Pastor Kevin is back again to share his thoughts and chop it up with the Bow Tie Guy.
Pastor Kevin Winniford joins the Bow Tie Guy for part 9 of the Fruit of the Spirit series.
It's part 8 of the Fruit of the Spirit series and Kayla Moreira joins the show once again to talk about faithfulness. Faithful listeners will remember her from earlier in the series and she was faithful to her promise to come back.
In Part 7 of the Fruit of the Spirit series, the Bow Tie Guy and Bev breakdown the meaning of Biblical goodness.
Jon and Kayla Moreira join Bev and the Bow Tie Guy to talk about benevolence in Part 6 of the Fruit of the Spirit series.
Bev Joins The Bow Tie Guy for part 5 of the Fruit of the Spirit series to talk about forebearnce.
Luke Kelley rejoins the show, this time with is name spelled correctly! This is the third show in the Fruit of the Spirit series and the guys are discussing Peace.
Luke Kelly joins the show to discuss joy in the first of our Fruit of the Spirit Series
The Bow Tie Guy and Bev discuss love in the first part of the Fruit of the Spirit series.
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy to discuss the problems with blunting the consequences of our actions.
Long Time Listener, First Time Caller Devin From Arizona makes an appearance on the show to share is Mess into a Message story.
The Bow Tie Guy looks at the importance of training people to step into our own roles in order to grow our ministry and further our recovery journey.
The Bow Tie Guy and Bev finish the 4 part series on the 4 Pillars of Recovery by discussing the importance of community.
In Part 3 of the Pillars of Recovery series, the Bow Tie Guy and Bev discuss the importance of Purpose.
This is the first of a four part series on the 4 Pillars of Recovery. Pillar 1 is Health.
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy for a discussion about Jesus' hometown not accepting his preaching.
On this episode the Bow Tie Guy looks at Surviving our Recovery. Sounds weird, but its true. That's what happens when you watch reality shows.
The Bow Tie Guy and Bev talk about how the TV show the Traitors matches up with our recovery.
This week the Bow Tie Guy is joined by the Zombie Dynasty, errrr, Lloyd Shwartz to talk about prison sentencing reform and a wide variety of things. Welcome to any of you sLnCers who are joining us!
The biggest outreach for Prison Fellowship each year is Angel Tree. The Bow Tie Guy talks to a group of ladies who hosted an Angel Tree party this year.
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy for a discussion about pop up ads...actually, they talk about how Jesus is sort of a pop up add in our lives...just listen and it will make more sense!
The Bow Tie Guy welcomes the Christmas Season with a discussion about unexpected gifts.
It's our 400th show! Wowzers!!! Listen as The Bow Tie Guy and Bev reflect on 400 shows.
The Bow Tie Guy breaks down a thought from Pastor Daniel Fusco who proposed that insecurities can become invitations for Christ.
The Bow Tie Guy and Bev discuss the ups and downs and ins and outs of listening to your Bible vs. reading your Bible.
It's the week of Halloween so The Bow Tie Guy and Giselle have a discussion about how Christians might approach Halloween.
The Bow Tie Guy and Bev discuss the idea of saving a seat for someone in church, even if you have to keep saving the same seat for years.
The Bow Tie Guy breaks down the idea of a H.A.L.T. check in order to minimize the risk of relapse.
The Bow Tie guy takes a bit of a deep dive into the amends process on this episode of the show.
Liz Joins the show all the way from Down Under. Liz and her husband are the National Directors for Celebrate Recovery in Australia. Have a g'day and listen in!
The Bow Tie Guy takes a look at the concept of consistency. What does it look like? Why do we need it? What happens if it goes away in our lives?
The Bow Tie Guy and Giselle talk about whether or not we are doing what we say we believe in. How closely does your walk match your talk?
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy to reflect on their time at Celebrate Recovery Summit as well as their experience serving on the Tent ministry at His Place
JD Paden from Kingdom Fit tells his story of mayhem. His journey with alcoholism and drug abuse found him sitting in a truck with live power lines before he finally made a U Turn in life.
Pastor Chris Jones from His Place joins the Bow Tie Guy to share how his gigantic mess became a massive message. Hear how this punk rocker went from the gutter with a guitar to the pulpit with a purpose.
Pastor Chris Jones from His Place joins the Bow Tie Guy to share how his gigantic mess became a massive message. Hear how this punk rocker went from the gutter with a guitar to the pulpit with a purpose.
This week the Bow Tie Guy and Giselle talk about how they listen to a sermon and how they react after hearing it. What is your method of listening? Do you take notes. Do you write in your Bible? Do you put the message into action? Check out what they have to say.
Sometimes in recovery we cling to the things in life that seem important yet they drag us down. This week's show deals with how to drop that rock.
This week the Bow Tie Guy is joined by Giselle who shares the ups and downs of going through a forced move. What is it like to have to uproot your family when it isn't your first choice? Listen in and see how the Mess becomes a Message!
This week the Bow Tie Guy looks at the importance of doing what we say. It's important for building trust and integrity and it helps strengthen our relationships. All that and so much more on the Mess it Up podcast!
The Bow Tie Guy looks at the idea that rock bottom is the best place to build the foundation of your new life in recovery.
In our final show in the 8 part Principles series the Bow Tie Guy looks at what it means to yield to God in order to give back in recovery.
In Part 6 of our series looking at the 8 Principles from Celebrate Recovery the Bow Tie Guy and Bev breakdown Principle 6.
This is Part 5 of our 8 part look at the Celebrate Recovery Prinicples. Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy to discuss how to voluntarily submit to God and to accept the removal of our character defects.
This week's show has issues. We all have issues, but this is issues on steroids. We had to stop and start multiple times due to technical errors. Hopefully the mess became a message by the end. Be sure to let us know!
In Part 2 of the CR Principles series the Bow Tie Guy looks at what it looks like to earnestly believe that God exists and how important is is that we accept that He does love us. The Song of the Week by Andrew Ripp fits perfectly with these themes.
In Part One of the Principles Series the Bow Tie Guy looks at Principle 1 from Celebrate Recovery.
It's our 7th Anniversary show! More reflective than retrospective, the Bow Tie Guy chats with Bev about doing the hard things in recovery.
This episode of the Mess it Up podcast deals with the theoretical situation of our mind demanding that we "Get on the Ground!" Based off of an incident that happened in the prison this weekend, the Bow Tie Guy takes a look at how we handle crisis in life and in recovery.
Bev shares a technique for overcoming hurts and pain. It might look like denial, but if you pay close attention you might be able to see the difference
The Bow Tie and Bev sit down in a coffee shop in Hilo to talk about what to pack in your "Recovery Suitcase".
The Bow Tie Guy looks at what to do when you need to change your plans. Think "Steps 1-3". hint hint!
Listen as the Bow Tie Guy discusses ways to make changes in your recovery and in your life.
The Bow Tie Guy is joined in studio by Bev. This week's topic is a look at the things we may or may not hope for as we enter recovery. There is a specific prison based focus to this question.
On this episode the Bow Tie Guy is interviewed by Giselle and Bev about the new book "40 Cups of Coffee". It's a 40 Day Devotional Guide. Check it out on your Kindle or get a paperback version on Amazon.
This show contains at least one goof: we re-used a Song of the Week and didn't realize it until it was in post production. Of course, we left the mess in place! This show looks at the idea of forgiveness, so please forgive us, then share the show with your friends and family!
On this episode the Bow Tie Guy welcomes in Christian recording artist Lissy Lategan. Listen as this Australian born artist from Texas shares her heart for Christ and music.Check out Lissy in these places!www.instagram.com/lissylateganmusicwww.facebook.com/lissylateganwww.Tiktok.com/lissylategan https://open.spotify.com/artist/3m3EkrgETQUcAQ1pvCuH59https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/lissy-lategan/1115374478Make sure to support the show by sharing with your peeps. You can also text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA to financial support the ministry.
On this week's show the Bow Tie Guy talks about the difference between dreams and nightmares. Sometimes it might feel like you are living the dream even though it's a nightmare. But the nightmares never last.
On this episode of the Mess it Up podcast the Bow Tie Guy looks at the idea of discernment in our Christian walk.
On this week's show the Bow Tie Guy and Bev talk about accepting things as they are, not as we would have them.Share with your peeps!Also, look for us over on Blue Sky. We are @MessItUpPodcast.bsky.social
As the New Year hits us the Bow Tie Guy takes a quick look at some of the traditional sayings and clichés from recovery. Hey, it works if you work it, right? Anyhow, keep coming back!
On this week's show the Bow Tie Guy welcomes Elliot Smith "Yankee Gunner". Elliot is the host of the Arsenal Vision podcast and each year uses that platform to raise money for the Arsenal Foundation. Last year they gave almost $500,000 which helped to support causes such as the Zataree Refugee Camp. Check it out, then block YankeeGunner on all your social media platforms if you so desire. Happy New Year!
Pastor Dan and Faith (Paxton Pantry) join Paul and Bev for their annual Christmas Show chat.
We are calling this one Kristmas with Kyle. Christian hip=hop artist Lowery joins us for a special show before Christmas. What are you doing for posterity? Listen to the show and you'll find out what we are talking about.
The Bow Tie Guy and Bev discuss the ways that the "Holiday Blues" can affect our walk and our recovery.
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy for the first show of the Christmas Season this year. The discussion revolves around the 12th Step and giving back in our recovery.It's Giving Tuesday so if you feel so inclined you can text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722) and donate to the ministry.
Faith Paxton from Paxton Pantry joins us for our annual Thanksgiving Show. This year we have stories of Thanksgivings gone wrong, tips for meals on a budget, and general merriment! Please rate and review us on your favorite podcatcher.
Bev Joins the Bow Tie Guy for a discussion about Joshua, Jericho, cheating, costing others because of our own mistakes, and the first three steps of the 12 steps. If the description doesn't make sense, go ahead and listen the the show!
As we try to deal with so much discord in our world the Bow Tie Guy looks at a new way of assessing things: the Acceptance Quotient. How are you doing with your acceptance of other people, thoughts, belief systems, etc? Perhaps we could all do a little better at loving the people around us.
On Election Day 2024 we have decided to take a look at fear. Bev and the Bow Tie Guy discuss the things we fear, why we fear them, and most importantly, how to deal with those fears.Send us your pictures showing that you voted at BowTieGuy@messituppodcast or 760.608.1942. Follow us at @MessItUpPodcast on social media
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy in Hawaii for a discussion about birthdays and "Re-Birthdays". Find out why it's important to celebrate both milestones.
Aloha from the Big Island! This episode includes birds and coqui frogs chattering in the jungle. There is also a wild pig rooting around a couple of times. The Bow Tie Guy takes a moment away from his trip to Hawaii to record a show dealing with grief. We hope that the sounds of Island nature don't detract or distract too much from the message.
Christian Hip-Hop artist Solid joins the show to talk about his ministry working in an Arabic Christian church in Sacramento California. Check out his fascinating story, then check him out on Apple Music.
This week Todd Hopkins joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about the Hope City Golf Tournament. The annual tournament benefits Royal Family Kids and Fellowship of Christian Athletes. Find out about both of these worthy causes. You can learn more or donate to the fund raiser by going to hopecityrc.com
On this episode of the MiU podcast, the Bow Tie Guy sits in the guest seat as Giselle and Bev interview him about his brand new book "Hookers in Heaven". Listen to the show, then go get a copy of the new book on Amazon and Apple Books.
On this episode the Bow Tie Guy welcomes the "Heart Shiort Guy", Heath Hartin to the show. Heath's daughter had a major heart problem as a child and required surgery. His mission has been to help raise money for Vanderbilt Children's Hospital in Nashville, Tennessee. Check him out @HeartShirtGuy on Instagram.
On this episode of the Mess it Up Podcast we blow the doors off with Christian hip hop artist Caine Rod! Josh Rodriguez talks about the mess of his life and walks us through gangs in Mexico, walking through spiritual battle in the church of Satan, finding Christ at a crazy church in Las Vegas...and that's only the beginning! You will be amazed at this mess to a message story. We are also blessed to have a podcast first with a World Premiere song on our Song of the Week. You can't find "The Church" anywhere else but right here, so tune in and listen up!
Christian hip-hop artist Kyle Lowery joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about his upcoming podcast and his newest track Heathens Blessed. Check out the show and share it with your circle.Check out the Lowery's new video here:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XPIVXmZHXMM
Sometimes we need help from someone and sometimes we need to help someone one. This week the Bow Tie Guy looks at two instances from this past week where family helped family.Check out a special video clip of Jon Foreman singing with his daughter at a recent Switchfoot concert here:https://www.instagram.com/reel/C_ZCHOPybw_/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
This week the Bow Tie Guy looks at spirtual storms in life and how we can weather them with the help of Christ and our accountability team.
On this episode the Bow Tie Guy and Bev take a look at the fruit of the spirit, as laid out in Galatians 5. What does it mean to bear fruit in recovery? What's the difference between manufacturing fruit and producing it? How do we have God's fingerprints on us? Find out all of this and more!
This week the Bow Tie Guy is going it alone and talks about a variety of subjects including asking for help and actual dumpster fires!
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy again this week to discuss the topic of forgiveness, especially forgiveness of ourselves. We also have a Song of the Week from Cody Carnes.
This week the Bow Tie Guy looks at prayer: why we pray, how we pray, to whom do we pray. For answers to these questions and more, listen in.
On this week's show the Bow Tie Guy takes a look at how the story of Jesus and Lazarus mirrors our recovery, and not just because of the reincarnation and new life. Listen in and see how the dots connect.
On this episode of the Mess it Up podcast the Bow Tie Guy does a quick recap of a few highlights from Celebrate Recovery Summit 2024. Our Song of the Week is from Jonathan Traylor.
The Bow Tie Guy and Bev are at CR Summit this week . Listen as they preview this year's event.
This week the Bow Tie Guy and Bev talk about being drain and rejuvenated in the spirit as they lead in ministry. We also have a Song of the Week from Elevation Worship.
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy again to talk about the concept of fernweh, or "far sickness". Sound confusing? Good! Listen to the show and see what in the world is going on.
Christian author and leadership guru Lee Coate joins the show this week to talk to the Bow Tie Guy about his new book "Being Peter". Listen in and hear more about this amazing new book. Details are in the show for a chance to win a copy for yourself, so listen to the whole show!
This week we have a mind bender of a show. We are joined by not one, not two, not even three, but four guests representing Celebrate Recovery and Mental Health. The National Director from CR Mental Health, Sarah Stanton, joins the show and brings three CR Mental Health Ambassadors to help out with a discussion on mental health and recovery. This also represents our farthest distance phone in, coming all the way from outside Sydney, Australia! Make sure to listen, share, and rate the show!
This week the Bow Tie Guy is joined by Bev to talk about how termites relate to sponsors and accountability partners in our recovery. That might sound strange, but listen in and see how it actually works.
Pastor Kevin joins the show to shine a light on mental health, Christianity, and recovery. Yes, they all fit together well. Our Song of the Week comes from Tauren Wells.
On this episode of the Mess it Up podcast the Bow Tie Guy takes a gander at AI. This isn't a deep tech dive into AI, but more of a cursory glance at it and how we might apply concepts of AI to our Christian walk and recovery.
This week finds the Bow Tie Guy chatting with the Recovering Sasquatch about his recent ordination into the church. Listen to their conversation about the call, the preparation, the ceremony, and the future for Pastor Kevin.
In this episode the Bow Tie Guy talks about having a Spiritual Spring or rebirth. Just like the changing of the seasons brings a new life each year, sometimes we might experience a revival in our faith. Listen as he shares indicators and actions for a rebirth in your faith.
This week the mess is the audio. Forgive some goofy sound issues and listen to the Bow Tie Guy chat with his guests Brenda and Kimberly from Roaming Dog Kitchen. These ladies are fresh off the plane from Indiana where they took part in the Brant and Sherri Followership Conference.
Kimberly from the Roaming Dog Kitchen stops by to chat with the Bow Tie Guy about going to the Followership Conference with Brant Hanson.
Forget the eclipse, this is where worlds collide today! We have not just one, but TWO men in bow ties on the show. That's right, Bowtie Brian is joining the Bow Tie Guy for a very special show.Beyond the hilarity, Bowtie goes into his story of going from an over achieving son of immigrants to failing out of med school. List ion and get all of the detail on how this mess became his message!
For the day after April Fool's Day The Bow Tie Guy and Bev take a look at how we play pranks on our own recovery through denial.
On this week's show the Bow Tie Guy and Bev chat about Easter traditions like egg hunts and bunnies. They also take a deeper than usual dive into the Song of the Week. Make sure to share the show with your family and friends!
This episode features the Bow Tie Guy talking about an array of topics ranging from losing his power plug to reading a book by Russell Brand. Sound confusing? Try living inside his head for a bit!
The Bow Tie Guy is on a solo flight this week. Listen in as he discusses asking for help and watching his grandson play soccer.
This week the Bow Tie Guy and Bev discuss Daylight Saving Time and other "good" ideas that don't really add anything to our lives.
On this week's show the Bow Tie Guy discusses a quote from William Carey. How do we attempt great things for God in our lives? We also have a Song of the Week from Casting Crowns and a surprise appearance from Ryan Schupe. Enjoy!
On this episode of the Mess it Up podcast the Bow Tie Guy discusses what to do when the Devil comes knocking on your door. Do you answer? Do you hide? What DO you do? Listen and find out his thoughts.
Bev joins The Bow Tie Guy to look at the difference between Biblical promises and Biblical principles. We also have a Song of the Week from Matthew West
On this episode of the Mess it Up Podcast the Bow Tie Guy and Bev tackle the thought "the shepherd knows the path and the sheep just need to follow."
This week the Bow Tie Guy welcomes in Roger Stanton from the Celebrate Recovery National TEAM. Roger shares his mess as well as the message that grew from it. Make sure to pass the show along to your friends.Text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722) to support the ministry.
A quote from Charles Spurgeon is the inspiration for this week's episode. Listen in and see if you agree with Big Charlie and the Bow Tie Guy.
On this week's episode of the show the Bow Tie Guy discusses the idea of image. Is it everything? Listen to the show and let us know your thoughts.
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about hopes for a new year on this first episode of 2024.
In this Boxing Day episode of the Mess it Up Podcast the Bow Tie Guy takes a look at Boxing Day and how it relates to our recovery. Our Song of the Week is from Benjamin William Hastings and BTG takes a deep dive into it as well.
It's a Mess it Up Podcast Christmas Special! We hope you enjoy or discussion about Christmas traditions.
This week finds the Bow Tie Guy in Vegas. Listen to his thoughts about being there and how Las Vegas mimics denial.
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about her Angel Tree party with her local Celebrate Recovery group. Listen to learn more about this wonderful ministry.
In this week's episode the Bow Tie Guy takes a look at the Holiday Blues: what they are, how to recognize them, what to do about them. Our Song of the Week is from Forrest Frank.As part of #GivingTuesday please consider supporting our ministry by texting the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722)
Faith, from Paxton Pantry, joins the show for our annual look at Thanksgiving. Listen in to this show and see if you find some new reasons to be thankful this year.
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about dealing with difficult people. We know that we have done this topic in the past, but it's a good one for the week before Thanksgiving.
On this week's show the Bow Tie Guy and Bev talk about freedom. Borrowing from a Kris Kristopherson line that "Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose" they examine what it means to have freedom. Our song of the week is "Sobriety" by Blue October. Paul and Bev have a good discussion about the interpretation of art and its application. It's deep stuff folks!Check out the Daily Dose Podcast from North Coast Church here https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/daily-dose-north-coast-church/id1410849980
It's a Halloween day episode of the show and we have one that goes by spooky fast. Check out the Bow Tie Guy's thoughts on masks and denial. It's also our final show for Oldies in October and we close out the month with a hymn from Shane & Shane.
James D'Amato from Cross Works Resources joins the show to share his recovery story. James was instrumental in opening doors for the Bow Tie Guy as he looked at getting back inside, so this is a very special show here at Mess it Up!Check out RecoveryAlive.comCrossWorksResources.comText the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722) and donate to the show.
The Recovering Sasquatch (therecoveringsasquatch.com) joins the Bow Tie Guy to dig into the question "Is it better to die for a cause or to live through your recovery without that thing that called to you?"Listen then share with people!
On this episode of the show the Bow Tie Guy and Bev talk about money. Yes, we dive into the good and bad of money. Our Oldies in October Song of the Week is "Money" from Manic Drive.Help financially support the show by joining the Nehemiah Project. Text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722)
Pastor Dan from the Ben Richey Boys Ranch joins the show today to talk about his work at the ranch. It's Oldies in October so for our Song of the Week we have a chestnut from This Beautiful Republic called "Beautifully Broken".
James Ackerman, President and CEO of Prison Fellowship Ministries joins the Bow Tie Guy for a special episode of the show. James talks about the things that lead him into a life of devotion to Christ and how he has lead Prison Fellowship from a Founder Lead ministry into a Mission Lead ministry. Our Song of the Week is "Salvation Mountain" from Lauren Daigle.To give to the ministry, text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722)
On this week's show Jason from Men of Nehemiah joins the Bow Tie Guy to tell his story of addiction and recovery. He also talks about the program that he is involved with to continue his success in recovery, the Men of Nehemiah.Our Song of the Week is "Every Hour" from David Leonard (featuring Josh Baldwin)To donate to the show text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722)
On this episode of the Mess it Up podcast the Bow Tie Guy chats with Bev about how to move through and beyond difficult situations and tragedy such as the 9.11 Attacks. Our Song of the Week is an oldie from Matthew West.
This week the Bow Tie Guy is joined in studio by Beverly and Kimberly (He's thinking of changing his name to the Bow Tie Guyverly!). The discussion centers on an episode of the BEMA Podcast (Episode 34). Here's a link so you can check it out:https://share.fireside.fm/episode/7HMQ5AvZ+GjNa2QwsDuring our Song of the Week discussion Paul remembers the old Christian Rockabilly SKA band the W's. Check them out here:https://youtu.be/LsAHxgmCe6E?si=FIfpP080veFkgnUBBeverly also references Lysa TerKeurst. Since her name is difficult to spell we've included a link to her website.https://lysaterkeurst.com/If you want to support the show, please subscribe or become a financial supporter by texting the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722)Bev also references
Phil and Kimberly Parent join the Bow Tie Guy on this week's show to reflect on their recent trip to Prison. Listen to their thoughts about what turned out to be a first time behind bars for them both.
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about Hurricane Hilary and the deluge that it brought to California. There are times where we get more than we ask for because God knows more than we do!
Paxton Pantry and Pastor Dan join the show to talk about their cross country move to Texas to become House Parents at the Ben Richey Boys Ranch in Texas.
This week the Bow Tie Guy welcomes Brad to the show. The big message Brad wants people to get is that it is never too late. Listen in and see why. We also have a Song of the Week from the Boss - Bruce Springsteen.
On this episode of the Mess it Up podcast the Bow Tie Guy and Bev talk about their experience at the recent Celebrate Recovery Summit in Lake Forrest, Ca.
On this week's episode of the Mess it Up Podcast the Bow Tie Guy and Bev talk about CR Summit 2023. Listen to recollections from past Summits and a look forward to what might be in store for this year. Our Song of the Week is "Jesus Does" from We the Kingdom.
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On this week's show the Bow Tie Guy looks at where we get our inspiration to change. The Song of the Week is "Desert Road" from Casting Crowns and CAIN.
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On this special Independence Day show Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about freedom in Christ from addiction and in life.
They say that if you fail to plan you should plan to fail. It's also been said that hope is not a plan. On this week's show the Bow Tie Guy takes a look at these ideas and breaks them down in terms of Christian recovery. Our Song of the Week is "Running Home" by Cochren and Co.
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Pastor Dan and the Bow Tie Guy talk about whether we should fight forward or fight back when we are wronged by someone. "What is the difference?" you ask? Well, listen in and see what they think. Our Song of the Week is a great toe tapper from Christian Paul called "Yes I Am".
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Kat Merati joins the show today to talk about her experience as a surrogate mother. Nineteen years ago she delivered TRIPLETS to a family who had difficulty with pregnancy. Listen in and be blessed as she turns that mess into a message.
To learn more about surrogacy check out creatingfamilies.com
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Brian visits the show to talk to the Bow Tie Guy about his addictions and his recovery. The audio is a bit muddy because it was a phone in, but still, it's a great story of a mess turning into a message. We also have a Song of the Week from Tauren Wells and Blanca.
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On this week's show the Bow Tie Guy and Bev ask the question "Are you a floor raiser or a ceiling raiser?" Both are good and both are necessary fir a thriving ministry. Listen in and see where you land. Our Song of the Week is from Benjamin William Hastings and Blessing Offor.If you would like to support the show financially text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722)
How do you find water for your soul when your water supply is removed? This is what the Bow Tie Guy is looking at this week on the show. We also have a SUPER peppy song from Matthew West for our Song of the Week.Text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722) to give to the show.
This week on the show the Bow Tie Guy looks at the idea that Satan gives us a label but God calls us by name.Be sure to text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722) to help financially support the show.
This week the Bow Tie Guy talks about four styles of communication. Are you Aggressive, Passive, Passive Aggressive, or Assertive? Listen in and see where your style falls. We also have a Song of the Week from Andy Grammer called "Love is the New Money" that is an absolute banger!Text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722) to help support the show financially!
This week the Bow Tie Guy is flying solo as he discusses a quote from Corrie Ten boom. "Is prayer your steering wheel or your spare tire?" Deep thought with a lot of ramifications. We also have a Song of the Week from Benjamin William Hastings.
Faith Paxton joins the show to talk about her victory against cancer. Listen to her miraculous tale of healing through pray and the grace of God.
Christian Hip-Hop artist Lowery joins the Bow Tie Guy in Nashville...No, literally, we recorded on a 4th floor balcony overlooking downtown Nashville's famous "Gulch"! We also recorded a segment inside with a bit better noise control, but the whole thing slaps!Make sure to text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (825-5722) to help financially support the show.
It's been 5 years people! Holy mattress, that's quite a long time. We haven't missed a week yet, and we don't plan to, so here's our 5th Anniversary Show. Long time guest Paxton Pantry joins the Bow Tie Guy for this year's audio feast. We hope you enjoy it. Email the show at bowtieguy@messituppodcast.com for your chance to get a $5 Starbucks card. Just use the subject "5th Anniversary" and you are entered to win.Help support the show financially by texting the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722)
Bev and the Bow Tie Guy take a look at how to find the good in difficult situations. For instance, what's so good about Good Friday? Listen in and see what you think. Our Song of the Week comes from Brandon Heath.You can support the show by texting the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722).
Just a short show today to share a tiny bit about our Prison Fellowship Hope Event. We will be back next week with a regular show.
The Bow Tie Guy invites Bev into the studio to take a look at the weights that we all carry around with us. Why do we volunteer to take on emotional baggage and how do we release it to Christ? Listen in and see what they have to say. You can join our Nehemiah Project and help rebuild the walls of the MuM Building by texting the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722)
Sometimes our recovery can be like going to the thrift shop. If you don't know what we mean, listen as Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy to discuss it. Our Song of the Week is from Josh Baldwin.
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy to discuss the difference between Lord and Savior. Can you accept Jesus as one but not the other? Listen in and see what they think.
The Bow Tie Guy is flying solo this week coming at you from beautiful Hilo! Listen in as he discusses his latest book that was just completed and should be on shelves in a matter of weeks. Our song of the week is from Crystal Lewis.To financially support the show you can text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722).
Kimberly from Roaming Dog Kitchen shows up on this week's episode to talk about how to pay attention when we do something right. Our Song of the Week is a classic from Lifehouse and we have a MiU first: a bonus Song of the Week!Don't forget that we are 100% listener supported so become a financial supporter of the show by texting the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (760.925.5722
This week, for a special Valentine's Day show, the Bow Tie Guy is joined by...nobody! Yes, this show on love is recorded all alone. We hope you get something from this brief discussion about love. Our Song of the Week is from I AM They.
This week the Bow Tie Guy welcomes in his old pal Listener Bev from California to talk about why it is sometimes easier to go around the world to share the gospel than it is to go across the street and tell your neighbor. Our Song of the Week is an oldie but a goodie from Jeremy Camp.
On today's episode of the Mess it Up podcast the Bow Tie Guy welcomes Kevin "Big Squatch" back to the show. The idea they bat around deals with knowing the message. Make sure to share with your people. In order to financially support the show text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA (925-5722)
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy once again. Today's topic is whether something that is simple is also something that is easy. Think about a marathon before you jump to a conclusion on that!Don't be a scobberlatcher, share the show with your friends. You can also support the ministry financially by texting the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA
Jeanette from Wisconsin joins the show this week to share her Mess into a Message story. Listen to this amazing journey from darkness into hope and light. Our Song of the Week is from For King and Country. Don't forget to text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA to give financial support for the show.
Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy for our 250th show. The question is posed "If God showed you an idol in your life would you be willing to get rid of it?". Our Song of the Week is from Cody Carnes. The is also a Starbucks Card challenge this week so listen to the show to find out how you can score some free coffee!Text the word "MuM to 760-WALLS-CA (760-925-5722) to become a rebuilder in the Nehemiah Project.
Giselle Gatdula interviews the Bow Tie Guy about the new Messed Up Ministries Building. Hopes, dreams, and visions for the future are all topics of her interview.
The Bow Tie Guy and Bev discuss how to keep the spirit of Christmas Eve even when it's Boxing Day. If none of that makes sense, listen to the show and see if that helps. If not, call the Bow Tie Guy and let him know!For you year end giving you can text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA
Spend a Christmas with the Paxtons and Pippens as they reflect on Christmas and family. Merry Christmas from Messed up Ministries!
Paxton Pantry is back for another traditions show. Listen to her chat with the Bow Tie Guy. This show is a bit longer than normal. It is also a bit more silly than normal, but that's what happens when you combine one part Bow Tie Guy with one part Paxton Pantry! Merry Christmas, y'all!You can make tax deductible donations to support the show and Messed Up Ministries by texting the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA
This week Bev chats with the Bow Tie Giuy about her recent Angel Tree party for kids with incarcerated family members. Try not to get tarantism when you listen. Text the word "MuM" to become a Rebuilder in the Nehemiah Project.If you want to see pictures from the event, follow this link: https://www.ridgecrestca.com/news/photo-gallery-rca-church-provides-holiday-support-through-prison-fellowship/article_eff304ae-7596-11ed-a3bd-2770944cac2b.html
The Bow Tie Guy takes a look at how to handle it when things don't go according to plan. Our Song of the Week is an oldie but a goodie as well.
The Bow Tie Guy welcomes Bev in again this week. It's Giving Tuesday in America so we have dedicated this show to a discussion of generosity and what it looks like to give. We also have a discussion about church and representing Jesus based on the Song of the Week "The Jesus I Know". You can help financially support the ministry by texting the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA or visit messedupministries.com
Paxton Pantry joins the Bow Tie Guy this week for a special Thanksgiving week show. The discussion bounces around covering food, fun, and faith so enjoy this little treat before your Thanksgiving Feast! Text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA to become a Rebuilder in the Nehemiah Project.
After hearing the idea that proximity doesn't necessarily equal intimacy over the weekend The Bow Tie Guy and Bev take a closer look at that concept. Regardless of your stance, we think you might enjoy this discussion. Don't forget to share with your friends! To support Messed Up Ministries text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA
On Election Day we have a show that looks at choices...seems like a no brainer. Bev joins the Bow Tie Guy to look at how the choices we make and the choices we avoid can shine light on our hearts and our walk. They also show how not making a choice is also a choice! The Song of the Week is "Bring the Rain" by Mercy Me. Don't forget that you can financially support the show by texting the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA
This week the Bow Tie Guy and Bev are coming at you from Hawaii. As both of them have been trying to learn a new language through the app Duolingo it occurred that as Christians we have a language as well. Are you speaking fluent Christian or do you have to translate your thoughts as you go through life?Don't forget to join our Nehemiah Project by texting the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA.
Christian Hip-Hop artist Lowery joins the show to discuss his song writing method. Lowery and the Bow Tie Guy dive in to how the process of writing books and writing lyrics can cross over much of the same territory. Our Song of the Week is "Sleepy Hollow" from Lowery.
This week the Bow Tie Guy takes a look at how to change our nouns. In recovery it is important to change the people, places, and things that we do and spent time with in order to stay sober. That means we need to change our nouns! The Song of the Week is from Katie Nichole and Big Daddy Weave. You can support the ministry financially by texting the word "MuM" to 760- WALLS-CA.
The Bow Tie Guy looks at a quote he heard from Ethan Hawke who said "You can't stick yourself in formaldehyde and stay the way you were, you have to change." How do we crawl out of the jar and into a changed life? Listen and find out. If you want to help us reach our goal of $1000/mo in new pledges text the word "MuM" to 760- WALLS-CA!
What do we do when self doubt creeps into our lives? This week the Bow Tie Guy looks at how he has dealt with self doubt this past week and how he is working to overcome its grip on his life. Give a listen and share with your friends and family. Text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA to support the ministry.
It's Show 234, a counting show! We just love stuff like that. On this episode the Bow Tie Guy shares a bit about a new ministry opportunity for all of the listeners to join in. He also looks at how to deal with relapse and how working our steps can help to avoid relapse. Don't forget to join our community of givers on Patreon by going to MessItUpPodcast.com or by texting the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA.
On this week's show Big Squatch returns to talk to the Bow Tie Guy about being "1%ers". Similar to the idea of the 1%er in motorcycle clubs, the guys look at how being a Christian who is willing to not hide their secrets puts them in the vast minority. If we are only as sick as our secrets, then we probably need to be willing to open up to people. Check iot out and let us know if you agree.
The Bow Tie Guy talks about visiting a local prison to sign men up for Angel Tree. There are many blessings in the world and some of them can be found behind prison walls. Listen to a few stories of the blessings he found while visiting California Correctional Institution at Tehachapi. Our Song of the Week is "Holy Spirit Come" by Patrick Mayberry.
Moriah Muncy joins the Bow Tie Guy once again to discuss the craft of song writing. The concept that "Sometimes the miracle isn't the provision, sometimes it's the community that is provided." is posited by Moriah when discussing our Song of the Week, which is "Honey in the Rock" from Brooke Ligertwood.
This week the Bow Tie Guy takes a look at extending grace to others by writing a better story for the people who have wronged us. He also looks at how grace can work in prison and the difficulties that many inmates have trying to show grace without reprisal from the rest of the prison population. Our Song of the Week comes from We the Kingdom. Text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA to give financial support to the show.
Moriah Muncy from Hope United joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about music and the new single from the group called Many Voices One Song. Yes, we know there should be a comma in there, but she chose not to :-)
The Bow Tie Guy tackles the issue of unexpected events that change our plans. How do you deal with them? How does he deal with them? Give a listen and find out!
It's tough enough to love people when they are ok? How are we supposed to love them when they are at their worst? That's the question that the Bow Tie Guy and Bev tackle on this episode. We also have a Song of the Week from Rachael Lampa.
Bev and the Bow Tie Guy finally got back inside their local prison to begin the Prison Fellowship Academy for the first time since pre-Lockdown. It was a great night and a great experience. This show is completely dedicated to talking about that experience. Our Song of the Week is "Roses" by Andrew Ripp.
On this week's show the Bow Tie Guy and Bev discuss the recent CR Summit in Dallas Texas. Our Song of the Week is from Dante Bowe
This is actually the second show we recorded for this week. In editing the BTG inadvertently unplugged the hard drive and lost all of the show files. Now what you have is a shorter solo version of the longer show he recorded with Bev. Listen folks, we don't call it "Mess It Up" for nothing! Enjoy...
This week we have two guests joining the Bow Tie Guy. Intern Dave and his cousin Nicole are all here. Nicole is a manager for a number of facilities that help mentally challenged individuals. Listen to her story of a child living ina chaotic situation and see how her mess turns into a message of hope for others.
Independence Day brings a new show about freedom - freedom from our hurts, hang-ups, and habits. Listen as the Bow Tie Guy and his guest host Bev talk about recovery as well as reminisce about CR Sunday at their church last week.
Sometimes life happens. This week The Bow Tie Guy takes a look at approaching difficulties as either an obstacle or a stepping stone to reach higher. He also invites in Listener Bev from California to discuss a recent Hope Event with Prison Fellowship Ministries.
Kevin "Big Squatch" joins the Bow Tie Guy to discuss mental health. Having recently had a change in his diagnosis he is trying to take the mess of mental health issues into a message for us all.
Right off the bat, we apologize for the wonky sound from the Bow Tie Guy, his mic was a little hot and the sound completely over modulated. That aside, it was a great interview with Dennis from Prison Fellowship Ministries. Listen in to the story of a boy who was raised in a Jewish home came to be a pastor of a Christian church and now works with Prison Fellowship Ministries. Our Song of the Week is "Pour Your Spirit Out" from Thrive Worship.
CS Lewis suggested that we are all God's idea in his book "Mere Christianity". The Bow Tie Guy talks about why that matters. We also have a Song of the Week from Brandon Heath.
The Bow Tie Guy discusses the difference between being valued instead of evaluated. Borrowing from a Chuck Colson study on the book of Luke we see how we need to see the value in people instead of passing judgement on them. Our song of the Week is "Fill My Cup" from Andrew Ripp.
Fresh off a bout with COVID-19, the Bow Tie Guy discusses how to deal with life when our spirit withers. Using John 15 as a text, he looks at his recent health struggles and other issues to show how to overcome obstacles in life. The Song of the Week comes from Dante Bowe.
Tammy from Northern California drops in to discuss her homeless ministry with the Bow Tie Guy. Tammy looks beyond the dirt and the sadness to find the person inside as she minsters to homeless people in her area. Listen in and share the blessing. Our Song of the Week is "Big House" by Audio Adrenaline.
Bev and the Bow Tie Guy discuss their recent visit back to a prison for the first time in 25 months. Listen as they share the joy they found and the hopes that they have for Messed Up Ministries as the opportunity to visit local prisons is being renewed. Our Song of the Week is "Too Good to Not Believe" by Cody Carnes and Brandon Lake.
Today the Bow Tie Guy is visited by Katherine Hobbs, host of the Confessions of a Pineapple blog. Katherine is creating a community to provide support and help for families dealing with infertility. Grab some tissue and tune in to this special episode.
Joshua Wilson joins the show today. He is what we call a "satisfied customer" from the Bow Tie Guy's work in prison with Celebrate Recovery Inside and Prison Fellowship Ministries. If you want to see why Messed Up Ministries goes into the prisons, Joshua is a great example.
Christian Hip-Hop artist Lowery joins the Bow Tie Guy on this episode. What happens when an over zealous youth in Bakersfield, CA becomes a man who sees the more worldly side of life in Las Vegas, NV? Listen to this story of redemption through Christ and find out the message in the mess of Lowery.
It's our 4th Anniversary show! On this episode the Bow Tie Guy reflects back on four years of podcasts with Listener Bev from California. They also talk about how to fight the feeling of losing at life. Could it be that we lose things and people because we hold on too tightly and we crush what we've got? Listen in and find out their thoughts. We also have a Song of the Week from Ben Rector. Thanks for 4 years!
Listener John Mac from California joins the Bow Tie Guy to share his mess and reveal it's message. You can read more of this story in the book "Peace by Piece".
This week we are joined by Benjamin who shares his story of finding a mess on Reddit (yes, someone is using Reddit!!!) and turning it into a message through Christ's love. We also have a Song of the Week from Sanctus Real.
Big Squatch joins the Bow Tie Guy for a discussion about depression and negative self-talk. Please share with someone you love...
In our final installment of the 8 Principles Series Listener Bev from California joins the Bow Tie Guy to look at how we give back in our recovery journey.
Big Squatch is back to talk about Principle 7 with the Bow Tie Guy. This is the one where we learn that blessed are those who Celebrate Recovery! Find our how the guys try to make more time for God and to search for ways to celebrate their own recovery. Our Song of the Week comes from Jon Reddick.
This week we are back to the normal stuff, well, mostly. We did get a surprise visit from Eddie and Tommy, better known as the Skit Guys. We also have a conversation between the Bow Tie Guy and Listener Bev from California dealing with Prinicple 6 from Celebrate Recovery.
For the Bow Tie Guy's birthday, the show got hijacked this week. Pastor Dan, Paxton Pantry, Listener Bev from California, and Big Squatch take over and do whatever they want.
This week the Bow Tie Guy invites Listener Bev from California on the show to discuss Principle 5 from Celebrate Recovery. They take a deep dive into the idea of doing this by choice. Our Song of the Week is "Heaven Help Me" from Zach Williams. During the show the Bow Tie Guy refers to a sketch called "God's Chisel" by the Skit Guys, so we have included a link so you can watch it on YouTube. If you want to support the show financially you can text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA. #MuMsTheWord
God's Chisel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QCkBL2DfVg
This week the Bow Tie Guy looks at Principle 4 which says "Openly examine and confess my faults to myself, to God, and to someone I trust." Listener Bev from California joins him to share her thoughts as well. Our Song of the Week is from We Are Messengers. To give to the show text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA
It's our 200th Show! Thanks for being here with us so that we could make that happen. Today Big Squatch joins us to talk about Principle 3. Of course with Kevin on we used a song from Crowder as our Song of the Week. To help support the show you can text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA.
In our 199th show the Bow Tie Guy has Bev as a guest to discuss Principle 2 from Celebrate Recovery. Our Song of the Week is "Jesus Happened" by Baylor Wilson. To support the show financially text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA.
This week the Bow Tie Guy begins a series of shows that take a closer look at the Eight Principles of Celebrate Recovery. Our Song of the Week comes from Zach Williams. To support the show financially, text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA. #MuMsTheWord
Oops, we did it again! When we put in the Song of the Week we didn't check our past shows so we accidentally reused one from before.If you can figure out which show had the song the first time, you might win coffee. Text your answers to 760.608.1942. This week Big Squatch is on talking to the Bow Tie Guy about the concept that if you want to improve, you've got to get better. To give to the ministry and support the show financially text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA.
Welcome, welcome, welcome to a new year on the Mess it Up podcast! The Bow Tie Guy is rolling solo again today due to wifi issues preventing a solid connection for his scheduled guest. Listen and take a look at taking a look at the new year. We also honor Jay Weaver's passing with a Song of the Week from Big Daddy Weave. To join the Word of the week contest use the number 760.608.1942. To support the show and Messed Up Ministries text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA.
The Bow Tie Guy takes a look at looking back at the year that is closing right after Christmas. We have a song from Zach Williams as our Song of the Week and another Big Word of the Week contest. Text the word "MuM" to 760-WALLS-CA to make a tax deductible donation to the ministry.
It's our first ever Christmas Special! Pastor Aaron Barham of RCA Church in Ridgecrest joins the show to talk about the birth of Christ and Christmas. We hope you enjoy this and can share this message with your loved ones today.
Today we've got something very special that we are ESPECIALLY PSYCHED about! Paxton Pantry joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about themes from the movie "Elf". This movie has so many good messages about how to cope at Christmas. Check it out and share with your people!
To help get ready for Christmas we have two guests on the show to talk about diabetes during the festive parts of the year. Faith from Paxton Pantry and Briana from Messed Up Ministries join the conversation with ideas and experiences.
Kevin joins the Bow Tie Guy today to talk about the difference between head knowledge and heart knowledge. How does information make the very short, but very long trip between the two holding places in our bodies? We also get a Song of the Week from Crowder and the first instillation of the Word of the Week as a multiple choice game! Text the word "MUM" to 760-WALLS-CA to support the ministry or go to messituppodcast.com and click on the "Become a Patron" button.
Did you have a surfeit of food last week? We did. We also had a surfeit of guests on the show for our post-Thanksgiving offering! Both Dan and Faith Paxton join the Bow Tie Guy and Listener Bev from California to talk about a whole array of things. Listen and enjoy!
Happy Thanksgiving! Faith Paxton joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about walking through her husband's liver transplant. She shares how Jesus held her through the highs and lows of life. Our song of the week comes from Baylor Wilson.
Chris Brown, from North Coast Church and the Daily Dose podcast joins the Bow Tie Guy to discuss how Christians are actually supposed to handle anger. How are we supposed act when we are confronted by the differing view points of the world and even within the church. Subscribe to Daily Dose by texting the word "DAILY" to the number 51400 or follow this link https://www.northcoastchurch.com/dose/
This week Paul is rolling solo for the show. Our topic is one that has been percolating in the idea list for over a year and he finally found a guest who didn't reject it as a topic: HIMSELF!!! Anyhow, listen and see how he explains his feeling that expectations are premeditated resentments. See if you agree or not, and let him know.
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Paul is joined once more by Bev in a final show from the Big Island of Hawaii. They reflect on how to make a meaningful impact in someone's life. The Song of the Week is "All Things New" by Big Daddy Weave.
First of all, let us apologize for the sound quality, we were recording remotely from The Big Island and found out we had a big echo and that Bev's mic was particularly hot. Our topic for the show was how our story can affect people, even ourselves. Our Song of the Week is "Brand New" from Cody James.
Is it possible to walk with Christ without being in step with Him? The Bow Tie Guy and his guest Listener Bev from California take a look at this concept in this week's show.
Have you ever heard it said that if you're explaining you're already losing? The Bow Tie Guy explores this concept with Listener Bev from California on the show this week.
The Bow Tie Guy discusses gratitude and resentment with Listener Bev from California. In addition to looking at both states of being individually, they examine whether or not they can exist in the company of the other.
Listener Bev from California is back to talk about what to do when your "normal" gets hijacked.
Listener Bev From California joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about how God heals a broken heart. The show investigates broken hearts beyond just romantic issues. "Carry Me" from NEEDTOBREATHE is our Song of the Week.
Big 'Squatch joins the Bow Tie Guy again to talk about addiction. This time they look at the idea that the opposite of addiction is connection.
Listener Bev from California joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about our next steps in life and recovery. Does that step need to be a perfect step, or is God just looking for us to just take a step of any kind?
Once again Faith Paxton from Paxton Pantry joins the show to talk with the Bow Tie Guy. This week they discuss the concept of what people might be saying about us. Ideas like living out our faith and gossip are on the show. The Song of the Week is Sunday Morning Feeling.
Paxton Pantry and Listener Bev from California take over the show this week to talk about Pastor issuing a ministerial license to the Bow Tie Guy as a prison minister. They discuss the meaning of licensing and how it differs from ordination. Our Song of the Week is "House of the Lord" by Phil Wickham.
Faith Paxton joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about taking her daughter to Hawaii for college. They discuss empty nests and how to deal with the feelings of sadness and loss.
The Bow Tie Guy talks about how to make a difference in life and why it is so important for us to do just that. Our Song of the Week is "When We Fall Apart".
On the week after CR Summit the Bow Tie Guy is joined by Kevin to talk about his experience at his first CR Summit. Listen to find out what the Mac Owen Challenge is.
The Bow Tie Guy and Listener Bev from California discuss the upcoming Celebrate Recovery Summit.
Listener Kevin joins the show again to discuss anger with the Bow Tie Guy. No, he isn't angry with the Bow Tie Guy, rather, they are talking about how to handle anger. He uses the story of Jesus making a whip before turning out the money changers in the Temple. Our Song of the Week is from Crowder.
Listener Bev from California joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about the recent CR Sunday at their church. The discussion of the song of the week "Even at my Worst" leads in to a conversation about how to handle family and loved ones when they aren't at their best.
Today Listener Bev from California joins the Bow Tie Guy to discuss the concept of a spiritual and emotional gut punch and how to recovery from them.
Faith Paxton joins us to talk about quitting her job to become care giver for her husband.
Giselle comes back to the show as a guest. Her and the Bow Tie Guy talk about the idea of fixing your car before you take it to the shop. To find what on earth that means, check out the show.
Matt Bockhahn joins the show to talk about how his son overcame night terrors by reciting memory verses before bed. We are sure that you will be blessed by this 6 year old's story.
Pastor Heather Urich joins the show to talk about her mission trip to Turkey with Project Exodus. Listen as she shares about her work to help Syrian refugees.
Kevin W. joins the show to share his experiences working through his Fearless Moral Inventory. Our Song of the Week comes from Crowder.
Listener Bev from California joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about secrets. Specifically they discuss the concept that we are as sick as our secrets. They also give their thoughts on how to share those secrets through the 5th Step in Celebrate Recovery.
This week Pastor Dan from Portland joins the show to share his mess. From liver disease to thoracentesis, he shares his recent struggles and victories with the Bow Tie Guy. You'll see why he chose "Raise a Hallelujah" as the Song of the Week when you listen in.
It's our 3rd Anniversary Show and how's this for a mess, we missed it by a week! Anyhow, Listener Bev from California stops in to chat about how the show has changed and stayed the same over three years. We also look at how our lives can do the same. Our Song of the Week is from Third Day in honor of what we originally thought was our Anniversary Show.
Today the Bow Tie Guy is joined again by Giselle to talk about the idea that our light shines brightest in the darkness. They look at how we react to trouble and how to survive through dark hours. Our Song of the Week is "Amen" from For King & Country.
Giselle is back again to talk to the Bow Tie Guy about a sign he saw in a store window in Hilo. We posted it to our social media. Listen to a discussion about the "4 Immutable Laws of the Spirit".
Listener Kevin from California joins the Bow Tie Guy to look at how we can be seen as the average of our 5 best friends. We also dig into the time machine for a song from the OC Supertones for our Song of the Week.
The Bow Tie Guy is joined by Listener Bev from California while in Hawaii. They discuss the story of the Eagle and the Crow from Solara. They also chat about the latest single from Lauren Daigle. All of this happens with the sound of coqui frogs in the background. Aloha and Mahalo!
On this week's show the Bow Tie Guy is once again joined by Giselle. The discussion stems from a Dave Chapelle quote. They also talk about an "oldie" from Relient K and Giselle makes fun of how old Paul is :-).
This week Giselle joins the Bow Tie Guy to discuss what is our purpose in life. We also talk about the song "The Words I Would Say" by Sidewalk Prophets.
Giselle joins the show to discuss the thought from Carlos Santana that "special is something on sale." She and the Bow Tie Guy look at what it means to be "special" and what we would rather be. Our Song of the Week is "Less Like Me" from Zach Williams.
Pastor Heather Urich joins the show again to talk about her battles and victories over cancer...numerous times! When you listen to this show you will understand why she is one of Bow Tie Guy's heroes! Our Song of the Week is "Famous For" by Tauren Wells.
Faith Paxton from Paxton Pantry joins the show again to talk about the importance of Christian support and standing in the gap for others. Our Song of the Week is "Say I Won't" from Mercy Me.
This week we finish up our Walk Through the Steps with Step 12. Andrew, Giselle, and Bev join the Bow Tie Guy in discussing how we carry these principles to others. Our Song of the Week is "The More I Seek You" from Kari Jobe.
ListenerBev fro California joins the show to discuss Step 11 with the Bow Tie Guy. We also listen to Sparrows by Cory Asbury.
Giselle returns to the show to share her thoughts on Step 10 from Celebrate Recovery's 12 Steps. We take a look at how to maintain sobriety. The Bow Tie Guy explains his "!0 at 10" concept.
Giselle joins the Bow Tie Guy again as we take a close look at Step and making amends. This is not always a favorite step, but it is crucial in our recovery.
This week we are back to our walk through the 12 Steps with Step 8. CR Music Director Andrew Gatdula joins us to talk about his experience and thought on Step 8.
Faith Paxton from Paxton Pantry joins the Bow Tie Guy to take a look forward at what 2021 might be. We also talk about the way that God speaks to us.
Paul and Bev talk about Christmas traditions and how Christmas might look without loved ones. We also hear another song of the week from Stryper!
Today Andrew joins the Bow Tie Guy to discuss Step 7. We also play a little bit of Zach Williams for your enjoyment.
Today we continue our Walk Through the Steps with Step 5. Andrew Gatdula joins the show to share his thoughts and experiences with Step 5.
It's Thanksgiving so we wanted to tell why we are grateful even in the craziness of 2020. Make sure to listen for your giblets at the end and also enter to win a Starbucks gift card by using the special hashtag mentioned in the show.
This week we have a full table, but only one microphone. Listen in as four folks discuss Step 4. Our song of the week comes from Pat Barrett.
This week we take a look at step three. We also have a song of the week from Matthew West.
Guests Kim and Marie join the show this week to talk about the Prayer Shawl Ministry at the Lighthouse in Ridgecrest, CA. We also listen to "The Goodness of God" from Bethel Music.
Listener Bev from California joins the show to talk about Step 2. We listen to "Jericho" from Andrew Ripp and our word of the week is Cognizant.
This is the first in our series on the 12 Steps. Today Giselle stops in to talk with the Bow Tie Guy about Step 1.
This week Listener Neil from Utah joins to share his story. Our song of the week is from Zach Williams. Here's a link to a sermon that our guest referenced from Pastor Dave Mast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NYCi9szX_9s
The Bow Tie Guy invites Giselle as a guest once again. This week we look at the things we might do if we knew we were going to die. "Graves into Gardens" from Elevation Worship is the Song of the Week.
This week the Bow Tie Guy is in the studio alone and he shares his thoughts on fear. Our song of the week is "Fear" by Blue October.
Faith from Paxton Pantry joins the show to talk about "spiritual blackouts" and how we light "spiritual candles" to bring light back into our lives.
Pastor Dan joins the Bow Tie Guy to talk about feeding our faith and starving our fear.
Giselle from Messed Up Ministries joins us to talk about recognizing when the problem might be us.
Bill Maxwell from Prison Fellowship Ministries joins the show to talk about how he helps to bring light into the dark corners in our prison system.
Pastor Heather Urich comes on to talk about Spiritual Arson and the power of the tongue. James 3:6 and Ephesians 4:29 play heavily into this idea.
Rodney and Jennifer join the show this week to talk about their son Jude and how he is making a message out of the mess of being born without a fibula in both of his legs. Listen to this heart warming story and see how God always brings glory through love.
Bow Tie Guy and Bev talk about how to react when people try to use the past as a weapon. Ultimately forgiveness is for God and we must deal with the consequences of our actions, but we can still use our past as a tool for good.
Andrew Gatdula joins us today to discuss the mess and message of diabetes in his life. We also listen to "Faithful Now" from Vertical Worship.
Kimberly Parent, the Hot Dog Queen of Ridgecrest, stops in this week to talk about how she took the mess of COVID19 and kept her food truck business alive and well. We also hear an oldie from Switchfoot as the Song of the Week
Pastor Heather Urich returns to the show to discuss being an interim pastor during the Pandemic. We talk about tough parts of the job as well as the joys. We also re-use a song of the week by choosing "The Blessing" again...oops!
This week Giselle interviews the Bow Tie Guy to learn more about how the podcast began and where he would like to see it go in the coming year.
Today we welcome two board members from Messed Up Ministries to talk about the new ministry.
The Bow Tie Guy welcomes Listener Bev from California back onto the show and they talk about the Bow Tie Road Trip
Kennedy Kemp joins the show this week to talk about how she moved through the mess of a major knee injury and how the reshaping of her career and attitude changed her walk. This goes way beyond a slight limp!
This week, as implausible as it sounds, I have Andrew Mangan from the Arseblog Arsecast on the show. Even if you don't cast a lick about soccer or Premiere League Football, you will dig the should, because he's just that engaging a chap.
This week musician, poet, and spoken work artist Mark J the Poet joins the show. Paul and Mark J the Poet discuss how pornography took hold in their lives and how they eventually found freedom in Christ through Celebrate Recovery.
State Rep from Texas Johnny Young joins the show this week to talk about running his own home CR during the pandemic, as well as providing support for all of the CR groups under his umbrella as a State Rep. We chat about the song "Holy Water" as well. Of course, being from Texas means we had to use Gigantic as our Word of the Week!
Jason and Roger, the guys from the Soberholic Podcast, join the show this week. If you like to hear people talk with southern accents, this is your show! Among the topics of conversation this week are how Roger lost his hand. Yes, you read that right! Listen in and learn...
This week the Bow Tie Guy invites back some old friends of the show...well, long time friends, neither of them are really that old! Anyhow, Pastor Heather Urich and Pastor Dan Paxton join Paul for a conversation about church, and especially Easter, in the COVID 19 era.
Ashley and Tim Jones join the show to talk about how they took the mess of single parenting and turned it into a message of hope for their blended family 18 years ago. We wanted to use Michael W. Smith for our song of the week, but ran into troubles with our music server so we went with the Leeland version of it.
Brianna Trowbridge has been trying to help out with the COVID pandemic by using her skills as a seamstress. She has decided to make masks for health workers on a donation basis. Listen in to see how she took the mess of COVID and turned it into a message for Christ.
This week Mark and Beverly share the story of their journey through #adoption. Their two #adopted children also join us to discuss life as a family. We know their story will bless you.
Today we take a look at a life well lived. Our message this week is from the life of Betty Keegan. Please listen and share with your friends.
This week we have two guests on the show to share the story of Betty Keegan. Betty had a real mess when she suffered a stroke after a routine surgery in 2001. Her life for the past 18 and a half years has become a real message of hope. Betty's daughters Bev and Kay share this wonderful story.
This week Kallie Bockhahn joins the show to share her story of miraculous healing. After suffering debilitating migraines as a child, then going through multiple brain surgeries, she is now an over comer who leads youth and celebrates Christ on a daily basis.
This is SHOW 100!!! We are joined in reminiscing by Listener Kim from California. In this episode we take a look back at the first 100 shows and talk about a few of the highlights from the perspective of a long time listener.
Two different Daves are on the show this week. We interview Brother David "Kea" Smith from CR in Volcano, Hawaii and we get a visit from "Intern" Dave. Enjoy the final double digit show from Mess it Up!
Guest host Pat B is back again this week to talk about emotions and choice. Join us a s we get our emotions in motion...
Moriah Pepper joins the show to talk about Lyme disease and how it affects her ministry and life.
This week Paul is joined by Pat Bitto to talk about growing up then running amok in Northern Nevada . Lauren Daigle provides our song of the week.
This week my Guest Host is Giselle. We talk about how we keep our recovery fresh as we start out on a new cycle of Celebrate Recovery in a new year. We also give a listen to "Run to the Father" by Cody Carnes.
This week Paul is joined by Andrew, Giselle, and Bev to discuss how ministry as couples looks. We focus on how we all share responsibilities at Celebrate Recovery.
Brendan Allen joins Paul this week to talk about how he brings his witness to the Greek fraternity system at Chico State.
Guest host Giselle joins us to talk about the birth of her baby, his time in the NICU, and the post-partum depression that she dealt with after he got home.
It's the last show of 2019. Paul takes a look back at the past year and then shares a clear vision for 2020.
It's Christmas time. Paul talks about Christmas traditions with guests Dan and Faith from Redemtion OC Church in Portland Oregon.
Paul is joined in a discussion about the promises of God by Listener Bev from California.
Intern Dave makes his first appearance on the show. He talks to Paul about how he became a Christian through a skateboarding ministry at a local church in San Diego.
This week Paul is joined by Kayla and Jon Moreira from Campus Crusade for Christ to talk about the way that CRU imp[acted their walk and their time at Cal Poly.
For Thanksgiving we are often put in a position where we must spend time with people that we don't particular;y want to be around. Paul and Christina take a look at how to handle this.
This week we look at how we can be like David by getting into a cycle of mistake to repentance to mistake to repentance. Christina also shares a special holiday ice cream treat idea with us.
This week Paul comes clean on a recent mistake he made and shows how Step 10 can look in our lives.
Today Paul shares a story of change from the prison and we look at how that plays out in our own lives.
This week Biker Chick takes a deep look into EMDR therapy and shares from her recent experience with it.
This we we look at various aspects of forgiveness including why it can be so difficulty to forgive ourselves.
There's a goof in the show this week. Neither of us realized until well after that we repeated the Song of the Week. Oh well, it's a good one. Enjoy!
This week we look at the difference between a rule or law and a principle. Also, Christina doesn't really like the song of the week.
Biker Chick celebrated her 7th Sober Birthday. This week we look at how she got there and what comes next.
Something poured into a mold will reflect the shape of the mold. When we use Christ as our mold, we should begin to reflect Jesus in our actions and our thoughts.
What do you do when cracks show up in your life? Paul and Christina take a look at this and other ideas in this week's show.
This week we talk about the difference between our actions being "unworthy" and ourselves being unworthy
This week we take a look at getting "homesick" for where we used to be spiritually and emotionally before we got sober. Sometimes we want to return to what we once knew even if it isn't the best thing for us.
This week Christina talks about sharing her testimony at a nearby Celebrate Recovery meeting. We also talk about healthy boundaries.
Today the show takes a look at control and doubt. Sometimes we make choices that we later regret. How do we move through that? Also, Christina isn't wild about our song of the week and that creates a bit of a conundrum for Paul!
Sometimes it can be tough to make the decision to stay in a good place. This week we look at maintaining our joy as we maintain our sobriety.
This week we welcome Doug from Castimonia to the show. Check out the Purity Podcast at castimonia.org
Listener Bev from California drops in and we talk about responsibility as a recovering Christian.
This week we look at the idea of "our authentic self" and what that mumbo-jumbo might actually mean.
This week Christina and Paul look at what we feed ourselves spiritually and how that "food" is actually what we are feeding God.
Christina and Paul tackle passive aggressive people and how to deflect their behavior with edification of others.
This week we started in one direction, then God took us somewhere completely different, but beautiful. In the second segment Christina talks about sexual abuse in her past. The language is not graphic, but it is a topic that can be uncomfortable. We do not recommend listening to this with young children.
This week we have a hashtag for coffee game. Use #MyCrowd on social media for a chance to win. The Big Idea this week is losing sight of Jesus in the crowd.
This week we welcome Listener Bev from California to the show again to talk about enabling our family. We also reflect on a recent Hope Event at the local prison hosted by Prison Fellowship Ministries.
Sometimes as Christians we find ourselves at odds with one another's beliefs. This week we look at good ways to handle that.
In the first show of our second year we look at the Saturday before the Sunday that is Easter. How do you cope with the dark times? We also look at the difference between feeling helpless and feeling hopeless.
This is the last show of Year 1 for the podcast! Paul and Christina talk about praying the "second prayer" which is "If you won't change the world or circumstances around me, please change me." They also make a big mistake and repeat a Song of the Week for the first time!
Have you ever wondered "what's the point of fasting and giving things up for Lent?" We talk about it this week on the show.
It's spring time so we took the show on the road and recorded outside. The gang talks about the difference between short-term cope and long-term hope. Enjoy this one, it's our "50th Shownaversary"!
This is our 49th show so we added a fun bit of music for the bumpers. We also decided not to fix a big mess at the beginning of the show. Our topics this week range from defeat to various Ted Talks. We hope you enjoy it!
This week the gang looks at frustration and being prepared to receive negative news or feedback.
Paul and Christina chat about a ton of stuff including Paul's birthday week, his new grandbaby, having conversations instead of arguments, and we learn that Christina is an anti vaxxer
Paul and Christina look at how pain affects our lives and how God guides us through the pain without actually punishing us.
Paul and Christina look at the things that we chase in order to find joy. Happiness doesn't last forever, the only thing that truly lasts is Christ.
Christina and Paul look at how we look, to ourselves and to others. Our face can say a lot more than our words sometimes.
Paul and Christina welcome a special guest, Dee, to the show. The main topic this week is turning the mess of being multi-racial into a beautiful message. Song of the Week is "Everything Changed" by Zach Williams.
Paul and Christina take a look at the year that was and the year to come in this episode. The Song of the Week is "Need You Now" by Plumb
It's a new show on a New Year's Day. Christina and Paul look back at 2018 and peer into what 2019 might hold. Look for God in your world.
Talk about a mess and needing someone to be gracious! The Bow Tie Guy messed up and uploaded the wrong show on Christmas morning. Here's what you should have had.
This is our last show before Christmas. Listen as Paul and Christina discuss letting Jesus be the guiding force in the show and in their lives.
Paul and Christina took the show on the road this week. We recorded at the local Starbucks for a change of scenery. You will have to deal with a bit of background noise, but still, you get the sparkling repartee that you =have gotten used to. Grab a cup and enjoy!
This is the Thanksgiving special show. Paul and Christina do a little reflecting and get a little silly. So you know, it's just another Mess it Up show! Happy Thanksgiving!
It's our 31st shop. Baskin Robbins has 31 flavors. Go get some ice cream and enjoy the show!
Paul and Christina take a brief look at mental health and how it can impact our recovery.
Paul and Christina talk about a quote from Pastor Rick Warren that says that our ears are the most healing part of our bodies. The song of the week is "Just Give Me Jesus" by Unspoken.
Have you ever gotten caught up in the Try Harder Doctrine? Find out why it doesn't work. Also, Biker Chick and the Bow Tie Guy talk about the new Toby Mac song "Scars"
When trying to navigate through a tough time it can seem tempting to lean on robotic, formulaic ways. Sometimes we need to dig a bit deeper and do something different.
Biker Chick and the Bow Tie Guy look at how to get beyond the denominational divisions that seem to trip us up as Christians.
Christina and Paul look at conversations with people where we need to get or be humbled. It's not easy, but that's the way we turn the mess into a message!
Paul and Christina talk about the concept of what ministry is and who does it. The big question is am I doing my ministry or am I doing God's ministry?
Guest podcaster from the Unashamed Unafraid podacst joins the gang to talk about dealing with sexual addictions and pornography.
Can your ugly past make you a role model? We think that it can when you turn the mess into a message!
Confronting issues is a good thing. Hear Biker Chick talk about how she uses her recovery to confront her problems.
How does comparison steal your joy? What cloud are you having faith in and will you dance when the rain comes?
The team asks the question "Would your past 'you' be jealous of your now 'you'?" Also, do you put on a fake face to please others?
Paul & Christina welcome Pastor Heather Urich to the show. They talk about having double sets of twins after a hard childhood and two tours in the military before becoming a Christian and a pastor.
Paul and Christina talk about using the shame of their past to create a message for the future.
Paul and Christina talk about the idea of forgiveness and recovery. The song of the week is "Forgiveness" by Crowder.
Being in God's eye. Pushing through all of the storm to get to the eye is a difficult journey, but the rewards are great. How do you stay in that eye?
Agape love, cockroaches, and Bob Goff enter the conversation this week. Listen and hear how people are like oceans or rivers.
Integrity and love are the focus of Show 2. "Never Going Back" is the Song of the Week.
Bow Tie Guy and Biker Chick take a look at this crazy life and how blending two things that seem different can make a beautiful combination. Learn about forgiveness and overcoming the past through the love of Christ.