The Couch Time Podcast: Recent Episodes

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The Couch Time Podcast is a weekly resource that gives parents tools to help them connect with their kids and point them to Jesus. Hosted by Ryan, Caleb, and Stephen. A ministry to parents of Grace Students. Website: graceky.org/students

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EP 153: Who is Joey Koo? (New Director of Student Ministry at the Fort Thomas Campus)

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen & Ryan interview the new Director of Student Ministry at the Fort Thomas Campus: Joey Koo! Listen to get to know a little bit about Joey and his heart for students.

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EP 152: 7 Ideas to help your student LOOK FORWARD TO CHURCH

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Caleb, Stephen, and Ryan give 7 ideas or ways you can help your student look forward to church.

  1. Serve (11:53)

  2. Reward the behavior you want to see (17:46)

  3. Model how to engage (19:43)

  4. Give the WHY (23:38)

  5. Loiter (24:30)

  6. Get involved outside of the church building (25:46)

  7. Leverage other students (26:40)

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EP 151: Dating.

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Caleb, Stephen, and Ryan talk about dating in middle school and high school.

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EP 150: Guest Ryan Petrie - Being An Angry Parent

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen and Ryan get to talk with Stephen's dad, Ryan Petrie! Ryan shares his experience in dealing with anger as a parent and some hope and help for those who are struggling in this area. Ryan Petrie is an elder at Grace Fellowship Church and has four adult children.

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EP 149: Introducing the New-ish Director of MSM

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Aaron and Ryan welcome Caleb Lewis, the new-ish Director of Middle School Ministry!.   

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EP 148: Good Grief with Julia Petrie

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen and Aaron get to sit down with Stephen's mom, Julie Petrie, to talk about grieving during the holidays.

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EP 147: Why Your Student Isn't Reading the Bible

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan talks about Bible reading and Gen Z. He also gives a lot of really great resources to help your student with their Bible reading.

  • Read Scripture App - Reading Plan with videos attached
  • Bible App
  • DWELL audible app
  • NET Bible
  • Topical Memory System App ($5)
  • The Bible Memory App ($10)

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EP 146: Pastor Brad & Parenting Pitfalls  

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, we have special guest: Pastor Brad Bigney! Pastor Brad gives some helpful and biblical advice on parenting, especially when it's hard.    

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EP 145: Planting Seeds of Faith During Advent

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Aaron and Ryan talk about Christmas traditions and having conversations with your kids about the reasons for why you do what you do during the Advent season - which will hopefully point them to Jesus.

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EP 144: The Thanksgiving Episode

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen and Ryan talk about thanksgiving and ideas for how to practice gratitude with your students.    

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FLORENCE

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FORT THOMAS

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INDEPENDENCE

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EP 143: Aaron is Back! (And a few things about rest)

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan, Stephen, and AARON are back together talking about Aaron's Sabbatical and things he learned about the value of rest and being present. There are some really good things to think about for individuals and families.

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EP 142: The 5 Metrics of Grace

Today on The Couch Time Podcast...It's the Ryan Conlon Show! Ryan talks about some really good book recommendations based on 5 markers of spiritual growth.

Click HERE for the book list:

https://www.graceky.org/tctp-ep142/

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EP 141: The RRRRs of Winter Retreat

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan and Stephen talk about why Winter Retreat is like 20 Youth Groups Nights in 1 weekend.

REGISTRATION INFO

Fort Thomas - Coming soon!

Independence ⬇️

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Florence ⬇️

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EP 140: Lies We Believe: Our Words Can Be Private

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan and Stephen talk about a different way to approach the conversation with your student about the words they say.

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Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan and Stephen talk about the importance of being a part of the church and that just because you go to church doesn't make you a Christian. 

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EP 138: So, You Didn't Want To Volunteer? | Special Guest: Jared Hurless

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan and Stephen interview another 5 year student ministry volunteer veteran: Jared Hurless. Learn more about the amazing men and women that week in and week out care for your students and point them to Jesus.

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EP 137: Volunteer Spotlight: Abbey Owens

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan and Stephen get to talk with Abbey Owens, who is a high school girls Small Group Leader at the Independence Campus. You'll get to hear from Abbey about what she loves, what's challenging, and maybe glean some insights from her 4+ years of experience in Student Ministry.

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EP 136: Do You Know How To Talk About The Gospel?

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Steven and Ryan talk about how to talk about the Gospel, why it's crucial that you know how to articulate it, and how to share it with your student.

SHOW NOTES

Steven referenced the episode with Dr. Chad Everhart (CLICK to watch)

3 Circles Diagram | Gospel explanation (CLICK to watch)

The Bridge | Gospel explanation (CLICK to watch)

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EP 135: Change, and how to navigate it

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan & Stephen talk about change, the good, the bad, and how God uses change in our lives.

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EP 134: You know what surprised me? Thoughts from almost 4 years in student ministry

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan and Josh talk about some things that surprised Josh over the past 3-4 years of being in student ministry.

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EP 133: Who's On Your Team?

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Aaron and Ryan talk about the value of getting to know your student's small group leaders and practical ways of teaming up. You as a parent have valuable insight into your student, and by teaming up with your student's small group leader, you both will be better equipped to strategically love your student.

SHOW NOTES

  • Meet them (come to youth group, parent meetings/equip nights)

  • Encourage them

  • Give them a strategy

  • Pray for them

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EP 132: Your Not-So-Small Impact On Small Groups

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan and Aaron talk about why we do Small Groups as a Student Ministry, and how you can use and impact your student's small group.

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EP 131: Kickoff, Vision For This Year, and Disc Golf

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan, Aaron, and Stephen talk about the Fall 2021 Kickoff, some things they are excited about in student ministry for the coming year, and the Disc Golf Scramble.

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EP 130: You Can Do It (Summer 2021 Book Club)

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Aaron & Ryan wrap up the book discussion and talk about their main takeaways from the Summer 2021 Book Club on: "Engaging Your Teen's World".

Check out the Fall schedule for your campus at: https://www.graceky.org/students

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EP 129: Depression & Anxiety (Summer 2021 Book Club)

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Aaron and Stephen talk about depression, anxiety, self-harm, suicide, and some key principles in talking with your kids about these things.

SHOW NOTES

Axis.org Parent Guide to Suicide & Self-Harm

https://axis.org/suicide-free-opt-in-page/

Axis.org Parent Guide to Depression & Anxiety

https://get.axis.org/fb/depression-anxiety/

Grab your copy at the Florence Campus Resource Center or on Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/Engaging-Your-Teens-World-Understanding/dp/0764235826

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EP 128: The New Sex Talk

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan and Josh talk about Chapter 9 from Engaging Your Teens World. This chapter is about sex, and hopefully you walk away from the episode with a sense of the urgency to talk with your kids and how to think of boundaries as a way to train these future adults.

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EP 127: Two Types of Conversations (Summer 2021 Book Club)

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen and Josh talk the two types of conversations of conversations parents need to be having with their kids.

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EP 126: Cultivating a Heart Connection

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan and Stephen talk about Chapter 7 of "Engaging Your Teen's World" - Cultivating a Heart Connection.

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EP 125: Missionaries Cleverly Disguised as Parents

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Aaron and Josh talk about how thinking of yourself as a missionary can help you better engage with your student.

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EP 124: Translating Culture

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Aaron and Josh talk about Chapter 5 of Engaging Your Teen's World and engaging with your kids in a way that makes sense to them by using things that they know.

SHOW NOTES

  • (page 60) Culture Translation: "The ability to understand, participate fluently in, engage, and transform a given culture."

  • The process of culture translation involves: 1) Pray, 2) Ask questions, 3) Research, 4) Analyze - What's good? What's wrong,? What's missing? What's confused? What does Scripture say?, 5) Discuss, 6) Pray

  • (page 68) "Remember, the goal is to train their consciences, not to be their conscience for them."

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

  • How well do you know the Bible/God’s character?

  • Are you humbly curious?

  • What is keeping you from being a culture translator for your teen?

  • Is there one thing you can do this week to take steps toward engaging your teen like this chapter talks about?

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EP 123: Conversation: The Hunger For With

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen and Ryan go deeper into some practical ways of the #1 way to build a relationship with your student: conversations.

"You can't be real if you're rushed." - Stephen Petrie

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EP 122: Your Wisdom, Their Wonder

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan and Josh talk about the things you can learn from the wonder your student brings, as well as how you can come alongside your student and share wisdom when the rules don't apply.

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EP 121: The Most Important Conversation

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Aaron and Stephen talk about the MOST IMPORTANT conversation that you can have with your student, as well as the one to have over and over again.

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EP 120: You Are A Third Way Parent (Summer 2021 Book Club)

Today on the podcast, Ryan and Aaron talk about chapter 1 from "Engaging Your Teens World" and what a "Third Way Parent" is and how it will lead to better connections with your student.

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EP 119: Looking Back at the 2020-2021 School Year

Today on The Couch Time Podcast Aaron, Stephen, Ryan, and Josh reflect on highlights from the past semester and give parents a few questions to ask the students as we approach summer.

Summer Book Club book: Engaging Your Teen's World

https://www.amazon.com/Engaging-Your-Teens-World-Understanding/dp/0764235826

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EP 118: Why Your Student NEEDS Camp This Year

Today on The Couch Time Podcast Stephen and Aaron talk about why your kid NEEDS Summer Camp this year.

Summer Book Study book link:

https://smile.amazon.com/dp/0764235826/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_7ZTB14N264081BS1D588

Featured Announcements:

  • Register for camp! graceky.org/summercamp

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EP 117: Dating & Being Single

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Aaron and Josh talk about dating, being single, and things that parents can do to help guide their students from looking for love in all the wrong places.

SHOW NOTES

  • Promote singleness as an opportunity (freedom & contentment in Christ, friendship)

  • Train your student on what it looks like to be a good friend.

  • Friendship is when 2 people are seeking and desiring the very best for each other, regardless of cost our outcome.

  • Show your love and affection for them (learn their love language)

  • Have ongoing conversations with them

ADDITIONAL RESOURCES ON DATING

  • EP 87: Is Your Student Ready To Date???
  • Parent Webcast | Students + Dating (w/Pastor Peter LaRuffa)
  • Scriptures on friendship

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EP 116: YouTube and Your Student

Today on The Couch Time Podcast Ryan and Josh talk about THE most popular internet site/app for students: YouTube!

SHOW NOTES

Things parents can do to allow students to have freedom and enjoy YouTube while also keeping them safe and not wasting too much time.

Here are 10 quick things you can do…

*Important point: It's hard to have absolute control/monitoring on YouTube.

--> Kids can switch accounts, switch browsers

  1. Talk and watch - obvious but important. Talk to your kids and watch with them. The thing about YouTube is that most people and kids like to share.

  2. Turn on restricted mode - hides comments, filters some bad content (though not all of it)

  3. Subscriptions are helpful - gives you a focused list instead of a never ending worm hole of watching.

  4. Turn off auto play.

  5. Delete app from phone.

  6. I recommend no devices in bedroom at night for students.

How do we redeem YouTube?

  1. There are some AWESOME channels out there!

  2. Watch things together on youtube - disc golf, civil war, documentaries...

  3. YouTube is FUN and thats good! YouTube can be funny and thats good - can be a great place to learn.

  4. Cool to see creativity on YouTube of content creators.

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EP 115: Connecting With Your Student's Music

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Aaron & Josh talk about music and how to connect with your students and the music they like.

SHOW NOTES

  1. Research

  2. commonsensemedia.org

  3. Famous Birthdays app

  4. Listen with them

  5. Let them be the DJ in the car

  6. Ask questions about the music and the artists

  7. What do you like? Why?

  8. Who do you not like? Why?

  9. What makes good music? (Beat? Lyrics?)

  10. What kind of music is helpful for you?

  11. What kind of music isn't helpful?

Ultimately, see if you can try to get into the world of your student and help them think about what they listen to. What they listen to will influence their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors.

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EP 114: How To Approach Anxiety

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen, Josh, and Ryan talk about anxiety -- what it is and some places to start to engage with your student when they are anxious.

Resources:

  • Romans 8
  • Philippians 4:8
  • The Psalms
  • Isaiah 43
  • "A Students Guide to Anxiety" - Edward T. Welch
  • Topical Memory System

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EP 113: Spreading Myths About Purity

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan, Stephen, and Josh talk about the Atlanta shootings, lust, purity culture, and encouragements for how to talk about sex in a way that won't unintentional send the wrong message.

SHOW NOTES

EP 88: How to Respond to Porn

https://anchor.fm/thecouchtimepodcast/episodes/EP-88-How-to-Respond-to-Porn--09-27-20-ek9qft

EP 87: Is Your Student Ready To Date???

https://anchor.fm/thecouchtimepodcast/episodes/EP-87-Is-Your-Student-Ready-To-Date-----09-21-20-ek469g

EP 80: Part 1 of 2 - What is Modesty? 

https://anchor.fm/thecouchtimepodcast/episodes/EP-80-Part-1-of-2---What-is-Modesty---07-27-20-ek469b

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EP 112: So, What Do We Do About Easter?

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan and Josh talk about the most underrated holiday: Easter.

SHOW NOTES

Celebrating the lead-up to Easter is not an obligation, but and opportunity.

IDEAS

1) Watch a movie like "Miracle" that has a good comeback story and talk about how it relates to resurrection story.

2) Watch online or attend a Good Friday service and talk about it afterwards with your students. Talk about the weight of sin. See if there are things that they can compare it to.

3) Read Scripture (see ideas below)

  • Easter Week in Real Time (Article)

https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/easter-week-in-real-time/

  • Holy Week Timeline

https://csbible.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/18-03-Holy-Week-Timeline.jpg

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EP 111: Fitness & Your Student

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan, Aaron, and Stephen talk about fitness, social media, body image, and ways that you can use exercise and fitness to connect with your student.

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St Patrick's Day and NFTs

03.17.21   

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan, Stephen, and Aaron talk about St. Patrick and NFTs.  

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Life After High School with Special Guest: Dr Chad Everhart

03.08.21

00:00 | Intro

02:38 | Life After High School: State of the Union

  • Between the years of 18 & 25, young men and women need MORE discipleship, not less.

  • This is an age range where they are really trying to figure out what they believe and are wrestling with all the different questions that are coming at them.

  • The worldview that they develop in these years will be primarily what they will believe for the rest of their lives.

  • This age range is almost like starting the pre-school years over again.

06:16 | The Drop Off

  • Parents can often drop off their kids and think that just because they were raised in a Christian environment that everything will just be fine.

  • Your kids at this age, by and large, love and value you more than you might realize. They care about your opinion.

09:28 | What are some of the factors in students that thrive spiritually in college?

  • The kids that have parents daily involved spiritually in their life. It's what their parents are investing in them, not just a "Sunday" thing.

  • Their faith has been tested before. They've wrestled with hard questions and know what they believe and how it applies to their life.

  • They are prepared and resolute. They know and are practicing spiritual disciplines. They know what church they will be a part of. They've been connected to the campus ministry. And they are committed to doing/being a part of all these things.

15:48 | The sobering truth

  • Most parents do not think about or ask about where their student should go to church.

  • When you do not communicate or asking about a church, then it is impressed on them that church is an optional thing.

  • With COVID, it's actually really easy to check out churches and their services online, so take advantage of that!

19:00 | What should parents and students be looking for in a church?

  • A big issue can be is that parents actually put pressure for their student to come home every weekend and not really be able to plug into the community that they are in.

  • It's important for them to be a part of a church that can minister well to their age group.

  • The 18-25 age demographic is the black hole of just about every church in America.

  • Look for a church that has 1) good theology, 2) meaningful worship, 3) good community.

25:46 | Is your student really a Christian?

  • You really need to figure out if they are REALLY Christians and not just a "church kid". That is going to play a lot into expectations and how you approach this whole thing.

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Is it ok to swear?

03.01.21

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Ryan, Aaron, and Josh talk about swearing, Christian swear-words, and how to help you kids know where the line is when it comes to what you can and cannot say.

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Camp. Campus Updates. Connecting With Your Kids.

02.22.21  

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about Camp, things going on at each campus, and a few questions and things to think about when connecting with your kids.  

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How To Go After The Heart Of Your Student

02.15.21

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Josh, Aaron, and Ryan talk about why going after your student's heart is so important and how to go about it.

SHOW NOTES

00:00 | Intro

03:13 | Why is it important to go after the heart?

  • "The encouragement of the heart really is the gateway to understanding the Gospel." @Ryan Conlon re:Colossians 2:2

08:26 | Going after the heart is more important that reprimanding the actions

10:38 | "It's just taking the time to have the conversation, rather than just coming in to fix...the situation." @Aaron Barnett

11:18 | To go after the heart, we need to train ourselves to see actions as symptoms and not solely the root of the problem, which is the heart.

12:04 | "It takes time to go after your student's heart." @Josh Lewis

12:27 | "Our hearts are discouraged by law and encouraged by grace." @Ryan Conlon

16:49 | What are some ways that parents can model/show their kids that they love them?

  • It's really important to have a clear understanding of what love really is if you are going to model it. "Love seeks and desires the very best for someone regardless of cost or outcome."
  • You can show love to your kids by encouraging them.

20:59 | Make them the expert: a way to show interest in what your kid is interested in.

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Just a Phase?

02.08.21

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Josh, Aaron, and Stephen talk about how to pursue understanding with your kid as they grow up through different phases.

SHOW NOTES

  • "Is Your Student Ready To Date?" episode
  • Understanding where you student is developmentally can give you context for how to engage with them and what you should expect from them. This can help keep you from treating them like they are older or younger than they are.
  • Axis.org - Discipling Your Teenager
  • Axis.org - Making Your Home a Safe Place
  • Axis.org - Difficult Conversations
  • "Parenting Your (6th, 7th, 8th, 9th, 10th, 11th, 12th) Grader" guides from Orange

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Is It Just A Game?

02.01.21

Today on The Couch Time Podcast Ryan, Stephen, Aaron, and Josh talk about different ways that you can use the playing or watching of sports to connect with your student and point them to Jesus.

Using Sports for God's Glory

  • It's a training ground for character/integrity, and doing hard things.
  • It can be a great model for community and what it looks like to love and serve others.
  • It's an amazing platform for evangelism.
  • Even watching sports gives you just a shared experience and an opportunity to just talk.

Pitfalls of Sports

  • False identity (I am _______________)
  • An excuse to sin (cheating, treating others poorly)
  • It can be a distraction and take away from true spiritual community and growing in Jesus

Starter Questions/Ways to Connect Over Sports

  • Learn the sports and teams and players that your student likes and why.
  • If you student doesn't really care for sports, it could just be an opportunity to hear what they don't like and why. (It's not wrong to not like a sport, but it could be a good connection point to learn more about them)
  • Do they love watching certain sports?
  • Do they like playing certain sports?
  • What are the things that make [INSERT FAVORITE SPORT HERE] so awesome?

(If your student plays a sport)

  • What do you love about that sport? What is hard about that sport?
  • (If a team sport) What is the best part about playing on a team? What's hard?
  • Do you feel like you are the same person on and off "the field"?
  • What tempts you the most? (is it cheating? being harsh with others? desiring to win above all else? etc)

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Who's Responsible?

01.25.21

Today on The Couch Time Podcast, Aaron, Stephen, Ryan, and Josh talk about a way that you can use responsibility to train your student on their identity, being in community, and how they can serve others.

SHOW NOTES

Definition: Adolescence - “The prolonged transitional period of time from childhood to adulthood.”

Especially during adolescence we believe there are three primary, and foundational, questions that teens need help answering.

  1. Who Am I?
  2. Where Do I Belong?
  3. What Difference Do I Make?

Each of these questions we can find answers to in Scripture. Here are just a few to chew on:

  • Ephesians 2:10
  • Genesis 1:27
  • 2 Corinthians 5:20
  • Ephesians 1:5

Based on someones answer to these three questions we find out how to be responsible. Responsibility is the defining characteristic and marker of the end of Adolescence.

Responsibility: “Acting, thinking, and speaking accordingly, based on where you are, who is around, and what you’re supposed to be doing.”

Pray about, Consider, and search scripture for ways you can teach your students how to be responsible. And use it as a tool and way to talk with them about Christ, both when they succeed and fail. Remind them of Who They are in Him, Where they belong, and What He wants them to do!

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A starting point to talk about racism

01.19.21   

Today on the podcast, Ryan, Stephen, and Josh talk with SPECIAL GUEST, Roger Patterson (one of our elders at Grace Fellowship), about racism, the biblical balance, and some of the best ways to have START having these conversations with your student.  

*This is not an exhaustive explanation, and we do not cover all of the nuances in this podcast. We simply want to provide a starting point for parents on some key things that are true, how to approach these conversations, and some baseline scriptures to look to. Many of the things we are talking about are geared towards white parents, however, this podcast is for everyone.   

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#HelenKellerIsFake & Cynicism

01.11.21

Today on the podcast, Ryan, Stephen, and Josh talk about #helenkellerisfake and the heart of a cynical student.

NOTES

  • There is a trend going around on TikTok (#helenkellerisfake). This trend is largely a way that GenZ is trying to be funny by poking holes at something as incredible as the story and accomplishments of Helen Keller.
  • This trend is just one example, intended or not, of a lot of information that is out on the internet that students have to sort through and wrestle with to decide what is true and what is just fake news.
  • This can lead to unhealthy cynicism in students, where they begin to doubt the motives and intentions of everyone. This does not lead to a 1 Corinthians 13 kind of love.
  • It's good to wrestle with things to see if they are true, but if we don't have a baseline of truth (aka - the Bible), then we're going to just be tossed around by whatever we think might be true.
  • A snowball effect of unhealthy cynicism is a hardened heart.
  • A hardened heart is like hard, dry ground. Nothing grows there. So, it's key to "sow righteousness" and to seek the Lord. (Hosea 10:12)

Tools:

  1. Whenever you have conversations about news or current events, keep pointing yourself and your student back to what is clearly true in the Bible.
  2. Go after your student's hard heart, like it says in Hebrews 3:12-13, but daily encouraging your student with the truth about God's character and promises. Forcing it on them, but encouraging them, or calling them to the truth and the hope of Jesus.

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How to Make The Most of Limited Time

01.04.21

In this episode, Aaron, Stephen, Ryan, and Josh talk about faith and how to make the most of your time with your kids. 

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The Secret to New Year's Resolutions

12.28.20

In this episode, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about how to use the New Year to set goals for yourself and your family.

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Talking With God and How To Follow Up

12.07.20

In this episode, Ryan, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about what we did at each campus on Sunday (12/6) and ways you can engage with your students with prayer and follow up questions that you can ask after each event.

RESOURCES

Questions:

  • What in 2020 have you put your hope in more than you should?

(Independence/Independence)

  • What stood out to you from (Stephen's testimony/your small group conversations)?

(Florence)

  • What stood out to you from prayer night?
  • What do you think that God is like?
  • What do you think God sees when He sees you?
  • Is there anything we should do as a family?

Prayer Hand

https://www.graceky.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/The-Prayer-Hand-Student-Version.001.jpeg

Praying the Psalms Calendar

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I Forgot Jesus! (The Why and How To Advent)

11.30.20

In this episode, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about Advent and how you can use this season to help your student remember how amazing Jesus is.

RESOURCES

What is Advent?

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/what-is-advent

Good News of Great Joy (Piper)

https://www.desiringgod.org/great-joy

Behold the Lamb of God - Andrew Peterson (Album)

https://open.spotify.com/album/5WEShovE73zJtCjl68YQeN?si=8s2-ifHwQrSjbJRG6o4rJA

"The Innkeeper" - reading by John Piper

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/hope-for-the-hurting-this-christmas

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Binge Watching

11.23.20

In this episode, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about binge watching Netflix/YouTube/Disney+/whatever you have and how to engage your students in that.

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COVID, Ryan Conlon, and Observations About the Influences of Parents

11.16.20

Today on the Podcast, we have a special NEW Co-host, Ryan Conlon! We also talk a little bit about some of the rising COVID cases, as well as some things that Ryan has observed about the influences of parents in the lives of their students.

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3 Things Your Student Needs to Hear (also Happy #WorldAdoptionDay)

11.09.20

In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about #WorldAdoptionDay, identity, and 3+ things your student needs to hear from you.  

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What Your Student Will Actually Remember This Thanksgiving

11.02.20

Today on the podcast, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about ways to live out Biblical values during the holidays and how to engage your students.

Ideas for being intentional with holidays:

  • Don't neglect spending time in prayer and Bible reading.

  • Eat meals together and talk about why you are celebrating certain holidays.

  • Create visual reminders of what you are thankful for.

  • Write cards to those who are older than you to show honor.

A book Josh mentioned with liturgies - Every Moment Holy:

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Using Politics to Connect With Your Student

10.26.20

Today on the podcast, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about politics and ideas about how to use this political climate as an opportunity to connect with and draw out your student.

Truth to hold onto:

  1. God is sovereign, even over governing authorities! 

  2. Rom 13:1

  3. 1 Peter 2:13-17

  4. This is all for my good!

  5. Rom 8:28-29

  6. We wont be here in this broken world forever! 

  7. John 3:16

  8. 2 Cor 4:16-18  

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Should Christians celebrate Halloween?

10.19.20

In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about Halloween, Romans 14, and things to receive, reject, or redeem.

Article Aaron references:

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/take-halloween-captive

Axis.org - A Parents Guide to Halloween:

https://axis.org/product/membership-product-for-halloween/

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Oh yes, we went there (Sarcasm & Humor)

10.12.20

In today's episode, Josh, Stephen, and Aaron talk about humor, sarcasm, and what does it look like to honor God with sarcasm and humor.

Articles for additional thoughts:

https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/when-does-humor-become-sinful

https://www.compellingtruth.org/joking-a-sin.html

https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/battling-sinful-sarcasm/

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How Do I Deal With Drama?

10.05.20

In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast Aaron and Josh talk about drama, what it is, and how to deal with it biblically.

REGISTER for the Parent Equip Conference (10.10.20)

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3 Circles Diagram

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How to Respond to Porn

09.27.20

Today, Stephen, Josh, and Aaron talk about ways to prepare your heart to respond to catching your student looking at pornography.

Parent Equip Conference (w/Scott O'Malley)

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Is Your Student Ready To Date???

09.21.20

Today, Stephen, Josh, and Aaron talk about 3 ways to help your student evaluate if they are ready to date. 

Resources:

  1. Parent Equip Conference (w/Scott O'Malley)REGISTER TODAY: graceky.org/parentequip   

  2. Matt & Lauren Chandler - "How do you know when you are "ready" to start dating?"   

  3. Parenting Webcast: Students + Dating (w/ Pastor Peter LaRuffa)     

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Connecting with Your Kids (Back to School Episode)

09.14.20

Today, Stephen, Josh, and Aaron talk about ways to connect with your kids during this semester. 

Resources:

  1. Why Fun Matters (Podcast episode)
  2. Regulating the Irregular (Article)

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The Couch Time Podcast To Mask Or Not To Mask 08.31.20   In today’s episode, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about what the word “Toxic” means, competing values, as well as thoughts on to mask or not to mask from the Bible.   Resources mentioned in today’s episode: - "Thriving in Babylon" - Larry Osborne   Scripture passages to meditate on: Daniel 1-7 Proverbs 1 Peter 1  James 4 Romans 12 1 Corinthians 13     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast How to make your student happy 08.24.2020   Today, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about the secret to making your student happy.   RESOURCES - Philippians 3:8-10; 4:11-13 - Psalm 23; 42:1-2; 68:1-8 - Habakkuk 3:17-19 - Discontentment booklet (Amazon link)     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Opening Up, The Mission, The Fall Semester 08.17.2020   Today, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh open up a bit about some of the hard things about student ministry during COVID, how the mission statement is relevant no matter the circumstance, and how to be encouraging to your student's leaders.     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast What is Cancel Culture? 08.10.2020   What is “Cancel Culture”? A form of shunning where a person or group of people publicly disagree with a particular person, organization, or thought.   Today, Aaron, Stephen, and Kyle talk about Cancel Culture, what it is, the pros and cons, and what is a Biblical response to how to interact with people and ideas that we disagree with.     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Pastor Brad's 3/30 Challenge 08.03.20   Today, Stephen, Kyle, Josh, and Aaron talk about Pastor Brad's challenge to the church to read the Bible, pray, and fast for 30 days and how you can do that with your students.   Send your questions or comments to podcast@graceky.org.     Resources:

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The Couch Time Podcast Part 1 of 2 - What is Modesty? 07.27.20   Today, Stephen, Kyle, and Aaron talk about modesty: what it is and some ways to think about it. Join us for part 1 of this discussion.   Do YOU have questions about modesty that you'd like us to talk about?   Send your questions to podcast@graceky.org before 08.02.20 and we'll cover it on part 2 of the discussion.      🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Friendship & Family 07.20.20   Today, Stephen, Kyle, and Josh talk about what makes a good friend, thoughts about how you view your student's friends, and how relationships within your family can impact how your student views relationships.   Book Kyle mentions: "The Company We Keep"     PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.       🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast All About Identity 07.13.20   Today, Stephen, Kyle, and Josh talk about identity: what it is, how it's formed, and how to think about it.   Tools/Things to think about: - Where am I receiving my identity from? - How can I pray for and encourage my student to find their identity in Christ?     PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Are You Not Entertained? 07.06.20   Today, Stephen, Aaron, and Josh talk about boredom, what it is, is it bad, and what can you do about it.   Main Points Boredom is usually a lack of interest. Boredom is not a problem to be solved but a mindset to train. How to help you student with boredom: Encourage creativity Help find important goals Encourage Rest Encourage your teen to name their real emotions Encourage things without end goals. Encourage serving others Practice gratitude

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The Couch Time Podcast 1 Peter 5, Memes, & Humility 06.29.20   Today, Stephen, Aaron, Kyle, and Josh talk about what memes are and how to help your student cultivate humility.   Article on Memes   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast TikTok, the Good, & the Bad 06.22.20   Stephen, Aaron, and Kyle talk about Tiktok, why it is such a popular app, and the influence it has on your student. Additional resources: What is Elite Tiktok? Connected More than Ever    PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast 1 Peter 3, Hospitality, & Gifts 06.15.20 Stephen, Aaron, and Kyle talk about 1 Peter 4 and how you can encourage your student to show hospitality like Jesus did and to use the gifts the Lord has given them.   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast 1 Peter 3, Marriage, & How We Talk 06.01.20   Today, Stephen and Josh talk about 1 Peter chapter 3, how to talk about marriage passages in the Bible with your middle or high schooler, and how we should talk to others, with gentleness and respect.     PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast 1 Peter 2, George Floyd, & Understanding 06.01.20   Today, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about 1 Peter chapter 2, where to start with talking about racism, how Gen Z is the least religious generation, and the basics of how to disciple your students.   Video: George Floyd & Ideas of Where to Start https://youtu.be/IuM66fGMJkQ      Video: BibleProject on Justice https://bibleproject.com/explore/justice/      Article: "Get Z Is The Least Religious Generation" https://psmag.com/ideas/gen-z-is-the-least-religious-generation-heres-why-that-could-be-a-good-thing      Article: "5 Ways to Disciple Your Teen" https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/5-ways-to-disciple-your-teen-while-in-quarantine/      PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Deciding It's Worth It 05.25.20   Today, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about 1 Peter chapter 1, hope in trials, and the importance of deciding the fight is worth it.   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Trusting & Following the Good Shepherd 05.18.20     Today, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about Psalm 23 and the amazing blessing of trusting and following the Good Shepherd.   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Don't Waste COVID-19 (Redeeming the Time) 05.11.20   Today, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk give an encouragement and ideas about how to not waste this time of quarantine.   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H       🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Sunday Night Live Update & Thinking About Mother's Day 05.04.20     Today, Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about last night's Sunday Night Live, things to be thinking about with Mother's Day, and some other updates for the coming weeks.     PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Patience and Looking to Jesus 04.27.20     In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about James 5, and some key encouragements for those "in the wait".   Lesson on James 5 (Aaron Barnett): https://youtu.be/ZnAwkHpuYf4     PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.     Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Humility Is Saying "God Has Better Plans" 04.19.20     In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about James 4, humility, and submission.   Lesson on James 4 (Kyle Chambers): https://youtu.be/RS_icgjkJIg     "Understanding Temptation" by Dr. Mark Shaw https://smile.amazon.com/dp/193614123X/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_U_x_D0DNEbXFHEP15   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast. Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H   🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Camp is cancelled, Stephen cries, and hope in a faithful God 04.13.20   In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about being sad about camp and putting our hope in a faithful God.     PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast James 3 & Words That Put Motives On Display 04.05.20     In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about James 3 and how it's important to go after the motivation behind what you say and do.   Check out the 3rd Lesson in the James series here:https://youtu.be/hQHvzYy3n8I   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.     Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast James 2, Dead Faith, & Prayer 03.29.20   In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast Aaron, Stephen, and Josh talk about James 2, faith, and prayer.   Check out the 2nd Lesson in the James series here: https://youtu.be/kZgIHDNbiOI   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H   🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast James 1 & Quarantine Encouragements 03.22.20   In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast Aaron, Stephen, Josh, and SPECIAL GUEST, Kyle Chambers, talk about James chapter 1, encouragements in trials, handling grief, and family rhythms.   Check out the 1st Lesson in the James series here: https://youtu.be/anwTHvbuXEY   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast. Grace Students Swag Storehttps://buff.ly/2Z6p38H   🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast The COVID-19 Episode 03.16.20   In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast Aaron and Josh talk about the craziness that is COVID-19 and encouragements to live with peace, hope, and help.   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Parent Equip Night Recap 03.06.20   In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast Aaron and Josh talk about the Parent Equip Night on LGBTQ+ and your student.   Click HERE for the Axis.org LGBTQ+ guide   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.     Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Connected to and being like Jesus 03.01.20   In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen, Aaron, and Josh talk about the last lesson in the Who Is Jesus series, and what it means to be connected to and being like Jesus.   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H       🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Love, Jesus, Answers, & Listening 02.23.20   Register for the Parent Equip Night HERE.   In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen, Aaron, and Josh talk about love, Jesus, the "right answers", and listening well.   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H   🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Ugly Feet & Serving 02.16.20   Register for the Parent Equip Night HERE   In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen, Aaron, and Josh talk about how Jesus showed us what it looks like to serve others.   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H   🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Busted & Lost 02.09.20   Register for the Parent Equip Night HERE: https://www.graceky.org/events/parent-equip-night   In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast, Aaron and Josh talk about how Jesus came to the busted and the lost.   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast. Grace Students Swag Store https://buff.ly/2Z6p38H  🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast How to Talk to God Differently 02.02.20   Register for the Parent Equip Night HERE. In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen and Josh talk about how to pray differently for your student, the impact of prayer, camp dates, and the Parent Equip Night on March 6.   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time PodcastWho IS Jesus?01.26.20   In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen, Aaron, and Josh talk about the new teaching series "Who is Jesus?" and the importance of know the answer to the question, "Who do YOU say that Jesus is?"   PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.   🎧 The Couch Time Podcast📱 graceky.org/students📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Community, Connections, Jesus, & Mission 01.19.20   In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen, Aaron, and Josh talk about the mission statement of Grace Students, how that ties in with Grace Fellowship Church, and how this can help you as a parent. PLEASE email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast What's a Leader Gala? 01.12.20   In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen, Aaron, and Josh talk about the 2020 Leader Gala, praying for your student's leaders, and always be asking the questions "what are you looking forward to" and "what do you want to see God do?"   Email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast.     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast What Do YOU Want? 01.07.20   In this episode of The Couch Time Podcast, Stephen, Aaron, and Josh need YOUR feedback on the podcast! Email us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas or suggestions of what would be helpful to you on the podcast. We also talk about what we're up to this semester and WHY we're excited about what the Lord could do through it.     🎧 The Couch Time Podcast 📱 graceky.org/students 📍 Florence | Fort Thomas | Independence 💡 Send feedback to podcast@graceky.org


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The Couch Time Podcast Intentional Parenting in the New Year 12.30.19   Notes: What goals do you want to set in 2020? Be realistic about your goals. What are the things that you are wanting to change in your family culture?- What's one step you can take to get there? What are words that your students need to hear this year? What are are rhythms that your family needs to start? What are conversations you need to have with your student this year? Web - https://graceky.org/students


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The Couch Time Podcast Smartphones, Technology, & Your Students 12.23.19   There may be a smart device under your Christmas tree. You may have been asked for a smart device. Maybe everyone in your family has a smart device. No matter where your family is, there are several things we would recommend you to think about with your family and technology. Just like with anything, there are good and bad uses for technology. There are horror stories all over the internet about students making bad decisions or people preying on students. This can make you want to run & hide, OR, we can figure out how to engage and help our students navigate the digital world. This is a BIG CONVERSATION that will take more than one podcast to go over, but here are 3 Key Things to start with:   1. Learn about technology. Because technology can be used in a destructive way, it's really important that you understand what is out there and how devices work. Learn about the pros & cons of social media, what is the legal age to have certain kinds of social media, Android vs iOS devices, and the different monitoring/filtering apps that are out there (Covenant Eyes and Accountable2You are really good ones). Read about and how to approach technology. (see resources below) RESOURCES axis.org - Check out the Culture Translator (free) & the Parent Guides (paid)   "The Tech-Wise Family" - Andy Crouchhttps://smile.amazon.com/dp/0801018668/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_U_x_yRM-DbX58Z5BE   "The Next Story" - Tim Challies https://smile.amazon.com/dp/031051505X/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_U_x_YSM-Db20R0FA6   "Every Parents Guide to Navigating the Digital World" - Kara Powell https://smile.amazon.com/dp/0991488075/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_U_x_JTM-DbJ17P2F5     2. Make a plan for your family. Do Google search for "Family Cell Phone Rules" Make guidelines for how your family will and will not use technology. Train your kids how to use their phone. Technology can be really destructive unless it's used well. Use filtering/monitoring software on all devices. (Check out Covenant Eyes or Accountable2You) Have ONGOING conversations and draw your kids out. Help them feel understood. This is one of the BEST ways to train them.   3. Remember. Jesus is King, and He will give you want you need.   Merry Christmas!     Web - https://graceky.org/students


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The Couch Time Podcast Christmas & Creating Meaning 12.15.19   - There is a lot of symbolism around Christmas. Take opportunities to tell the true meaning or to infuse meaning into the saying and symbols around us. - Don't forget to take care of your own soul during this season. It's not about all the things. Fill up first!   Store - https://gracefellowshipchurchshirts.i... Web - https://graceky.org/students


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The Couch Time Podcast Creating Comfortable Contexts 12.08.19   - Be on the lookout for ways you can create or find comfortable contexts to have discussions with your kids. - Take advantage of car rides. - Tell what you see God doing and ask them how they see God working.     Store - https://gracefellowshipchurchshirts.itemorder.com/sale Web - https://graceky.org/students


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The Couch Time Podcast Holiday (Advent) Edition 12.02.19   - How can you use Advent to spend time in God's word as a family? - Who can you pray for as a family? - What can you make a tradition this year to do as a family?


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The Couch Time Podcast Thanksgiving Thoughts from Philippians 4 11.24.19 Recap   - What are the praiseworthy things you can call out in your student this week? - Give your burdens to the Lord. He is near.      Sign up for Winter Retreats! Florence & Independence High School https://www.graceky.org/flo-ind-hswr Florence Middle School https://www.graceky.org/flomswr Fort Thomas - CLOSED!


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The Couch Time Podcast Thoughts from Romans 12 11.17.19 Recap   - What helps you to remember God's mercy toward you? - How can you let your student know that you love them unconditionally? - What ways can you encourage them this week with what is true, good, lovely, or anything praiseworthy about them? - Are your students seeing you lead the way in showing value to others in the church?     Sign up for Winter Retreats!   Florence & Independence High School https://www.graceky.org/flo-ind-hswr/   Florence Middle School https://www.graceky.org/locations/flo...   Fort Thomas - CLOSED!


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The Couch Time PodcastLove Your Neighbor | Loved 2 Love Series11/10/19 Recap Josh, Stephen, & Aaron talk about the second lesson of our current series called Loved 2 Love. 📖 Key Passages: Mark 12:28-30, Luke 10:27, Matthew 22:34-38 ⚠️Main Points-Loving your neighbor is not an option, it's a command. -How you love people is through awareness, attitude, and action. -Your neighbors are the people around you- be aware of those around you that you can be loving. 💡 Questions:- Who do we need to stop ignoring? - What’s your natural attitude response to your neighbors? - How are you thinking about people/talking about people? Is it true and in love?


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The Couch Time Podcast Love God With All Of You | Loved 2 Love series 11/03/19 Recap   Josh & Stephen talk about the first lesson of our new series called Loved 2 Love. 📖 Key Passages: Mark 12:28-30 & Matthew 22:34-38   ❝Love FOR God is based on love FROM God.❞   💡 Questions: - What reminds you of God's love? - What do you really like about God's love for you? - Are you spending time being affected by God's love?   💻 Register for the Dating & Students webinar! (11/4) https://zoom.us/webinar/register/5615...


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The Couch Time Podcast Why Fun Matters 10/27/19 Recap   Josh, Stephen, and Joey talk about the importance of fun and how you can incorporate fun into your family culture. - Fun is about building relationships and breaking down barriers. - Fun lets your student know that you like and care about them. - How can you say "yes" more than you say "no"? - Invite your student's friend over and interact with them. - What are ways you can create memories with your student? - Plan ahead! Brainstorm ways of having fun and make it "spontaneous" with your student. - What is one step you can take to start making more time for your student? - Do you view your family as a collection of individuals or as a unified team? - Do you sacrifice your time intentionally for your student? - Ask your student for ideas of what they would want to do.   LINKS 1. The Parent Equip Night with guests Ryan & Julia Petrie https://youtu.be/J5fUIXvjmz0   2. Pastor Brian's Update on the Director of High School Ministry at Florence https://youtu.be/og2_UQ4K-Ww    3. Register for the Dating & Students webinar! (11/4) https://zoom.us/webinar/register/5615722846675/WN_1Ptz7A-dQW2YLJ-BZ__HCA


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The Couch Time Podcast | 10/21/19Community, Mission, and Story Each Campus did something a little different, so Josh, Aaron, and Stephen will be talking about the importance of community, always being on mission, and knowing your story. Community- Are you, as a parent, in a community group? https://www.graceky.org/community-groups/- Talk with your student about how to be in a group with others. How to listen, to "lean-in" and be present with your group. Mission- Keep talking with your students about who to reach out to.- Pray with your students for their friends. Testimony- Talk with your student about their story.- Do they KNOW for a fact of what their life was like before Jesus, how they need and have trusted in Jesus, and how Jesus has been working in their life since?   Grace & Peace,Josh, Aaron, & Stephen


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Going TO the Brokenness with the Good News Recap of Sunday, 10.13.19   Ryan, Stephen, and Aaron talk about the final lesson in the "Back to the Start" series, as well as a few ways you can encourage and model what it looks like to obey the great commission. (Matthew 28:16-20)   Sharing the Gospel is not just a missionary passage, but a calling to EVERY disciple of Jesus. Jesus has all authority, His mission is clear, and His presence is promised. Do you SEE people's brokenness or do you AVOID it? Are you modeling for your students how to share the Good News with others? Are there ways you can practice sharing the Gospel? What are regular family rhythms you can set up to remind your family of personal sin and the amazing news of the Gospel?


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SPECIAL EPISODE!! How To Navigate Change   In today's SPECIAL EPISODE Josh and Ryan talk with Fort Thomas Campus Pastor, Peter LaRuffa, about how to help your students navigate different kinds of change.   - Be careful to acknowledge the loss. Even in good change, change always results in a loss, and it's important in the grief process to acknowledge the loss. - Don't expect your student to grieve just like you grieve. - Don't try to fix the sadness right away. Don't jump to hope too quickly. Sit with the tears. - Don't misinterpret your student's response for a lack of support or trust in you. Give your student a "grace pass". Put yourself in THEIR shoes at THEIR age. - The more you listen, the more you'll get from your son or daughter. - A helpful acronym: R.A.F.T. Reconciliation - Are there relationships you need to mend before the change occurs? Affirmation - Are there people you need to thank before the change occurs? Farewell - Say goodbye! (to the person, place, or thing) Think about the destination - What good will be able to come out of this change? - Do something visual or symbolic to seal that memory or milestone in your mind. - Don't bypass the grief process. Help your student do things that will put them in a space to think and potentially feel emotions. - Ask your student, "What's one last thing you'd like to do?" - Especially when important leaders transition, it's important to encourage your student to not compare the new person with the last person. Look for the good in the new leader. - Pray together and remember the character and promises of God! What promises, what about God is relevant in this change right now?


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The Couch Time Podcast   Repent & Believe | Back to the Start series   10/6/19   This week Ryan, Stephen, and Josh talk about some ways for you to connect with your student around what it really means to be a Christian.   Key passage: Romans 10:5-13   - Question: Are there kinds of people or certain kinds of sin that cannot be forgiven by God? Remember “everyone and all” means “everyone and all”.   - Be careful about putting your hope in your student “praying the prayer” and not seeing them commit to follow Jesus.   - Also, be careful about casting doubt that will make your student question their salvation, when maybe sometimes it’s a maturity issue, not a sin/following Jesus issue.   - What’s keeping you from the next step in your faith journey?   - What’s keeping you from trusting in Jesus for the first time?   - What’s keeping you from following Jesus with everything now?   - Who do you know that doesn’t love Jesus? Does it break your heart?   - Are you praying for your student’s friends, with your student, for those who don’t love Jesus?     *It’s really important that we spend time DAILY, looking up to Jesus, and being grateful for the grace and forgiveness we have in Jesus.     Website: graceky.org/students


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The Couch Time Podcast  Today Stephen, Aaron, and Josh talk about reacting to sin, living sacrificial lives, and motives behind sacrifice.     Talk to your kids about their reaction to their sin: Where is your student at with how they view their sin and Jesus’ sacrifice for them? Do they see themselves as a sinner? Do they think their sin is so bad that it's unforgivable?   Remind them of the power of Jesus’ sacrifice!   Talk to your kids about sacrifice: How can they sacrifice to love people around them? As a family, how can you sacrifice something to love another family?  What are ways to think about people more than you think about yourself? Remind them sacrifice comes at a cost. Stay focused on the reason you sacrifice; it should not be out of guilt but in light of what Jesus has done for us.


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The Couch Time Podcast Today Joey, Stephen, Aaron, and Josh talk about this week’s lesson on sin and 9 questions and thoughts for how to connect with your student this week.   1. Question to ask: Where are you saying “NO” to God? 2. Question to ask: What is the story you believe about God and does that line up with what the Bible says? 3. Be transparent and model what it looks like to talk about your sin. 4. Question to ask: How do you feel about God being the one that says what is right and wrong? 5. Question to ask: What does it look like to take sin seriously? 6. Question to ask: What does it look like to battle your sin? 7. Do Bible Reading Plans as a family! Keep each other accountable. 8. Question to think about: How do I react when my student confesses sin to me? 9. Quesiton to think about: Do we call sin what the Bible calls it?


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Last night kicked off our first week of our new teaching series!   So what happened last night?   All campuses teaching on Back to the Start   We love in a broken world, students feel that and experience it on a regular basis.   In recognition of our brokenness, let’s see what things were supposed to be when they were made right.   Mankind is made specifically in the Image of God.   God’s design was perfectly good, and our students were designed to be a reflection of Him.   If we are going to reflect God, then we need to know what He is like.   The world is trying to redefine design, but we have God’s word and we need learn that foundation.   Remember that your students are seeing brokenness on a daily basis. Allow the brokenness to be a reminder that this is not how God designed things to be. Take moments of brokenness and point them to Jesus.   Pray about the hard things your kids are working through, things are different as culture changes. Suicide is rising and so is confusion of identity.   Remember that God’s design was perfect and we will live in that glory. Be excited!


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It's a new year, we have a new campus, and we are changing it up with a new vision for our podcast.   Join us as we talk about how to pray for our kids: Pray for soft hearts. Pray for motivations, and for students to ask, “What do I have to offer?” It’s easy to forget how many things your kid is juggling, pray for openness and confidence in Christ, and for a willingness to be different for Jesus. Pray for the leaders of your kids. Next week starts a new series...Back to The Start! We are looking at the essentials of the gospel, connecting it back to Genesis and throughout scripture. Check out the reading plan and read through it with your kids.


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We have wrapped up Alongside and another summer is in the books. There are some good questions we have received about the book and "what now?" Join us for part 2 of a great dialogue about your questions! Name two things that your parents did or said that encouraged you in your walk with Jesus?   Ryan: Waking up and seeing my dad reading his Bible, or having just finished it—I wanted to be disciplined and love God’s word.   My mom modeled loving people well. It was all less of what they told me but their modeling Jesus in how they lived their life.   Josh: My mom often said, “Just always do what Jesus wants you to do regardless of our reactions.”   My dad modeled the kindness and gentleness of there Lord.   Talk about a time where you have seen God work in the life of a student and if you could do your teenage years over again name two things you would change? Check out the podcast for the answers!!!


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We have wrapped up Alongside and another summer is in the books. There are some good questions we have received about the book and "what now?" Join us for a great dialogue about your questions!   Question 1: What insights in this book have helped you be a better youth leader?   Question 2: How would you encourage parents to encourage your kids to follow Jesus?   Next steps: Setting up rhythms in the home. Keep it in practice. Neglected Grace. You showed up. That’s a win.


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In this Episode: Josh & Ryan get to interview author Drew Hill & talk about Chapter 29 of Alongside   (interviewing Drew Hill)   You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: - Listen & take notes. - Listen, read, and take notes. - Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars: - Middle School - High School


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In this Episode: Chapters 27 & 28 of Alongside   Chapter 27: Strategy “They key to discipling children is for us as parents to actually live the lives we are inviting them into.” What kind of life are we leading our children into? Intentionally setting time aside to rest and remember Jesus Build into your family culture

When kids call us out on something we should actually own it We need to be agreeing with God in how we should live

Our kids are in the group of people we are supposed to disciple   Chapter 28: Squad There is nothing more bonding than being on mission together Reaching out to your kids and your community There is a sharing of experiences in investing in your kids together and with student ministry

Making sure that we’re focusing on our marriage as well The community of believers is beautiful Jesus redefined family

Parent Meeting Childcare registration closes Sunday LINK TO EVENT PAGE AND CHILDCARE REGISTRATION HERE | https://www.graceky.org/events/parent-meeting/

You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: - Listen & take notes. - Listen, read, and take notes. - Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars: - Middle School - High School


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In this Episode: Chapters 25 & 26 of Alongside   Chapter 25 Fear Faith is the opposite of the fear of man | taking steps based on who God is and what He has done. If I fear man too much I need to grow my faith in God. Why don’t we pursue teenagers? What keeps us from pressing into a conversation about sex, faith, persecution? What keeps us silent?

Where do I take appropriate risks and how do I step into uncomfortable areas. “Are your kids watching you take any risks or step outside of your comfort zone?” Parents have the most consistent opportunities to show faith played out and live life day after day.

Teaching our kids how to engage with fear. Bring the fear into the light and show your kids by modeling this.   Chapter 26 Strings God's love came to us when we couldn’t attain it ourselves. Confronting selfishness. Jesus loved with no strings attached. We may not know what the strings are in the love we pour out…until they are not met. Are we pressing into the things we need to do regardless of the cost? Parent Meeting —August 25th from 3pm-5pm! We want to support, and work with, parents!

You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: - Listen & take notes. - Listen, read, and take notes. - Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars: - Middle School - High School


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Join our Summer Book Club ➡️ Click Here   In this Episode: Chapters 23 & 24 of Alongside   Chapter 23 War It’s all about prayer! How much are praying for, over, and with our kids throughout the day? Let’s bring God and our need for his help every day and let that increase our prayer life. The longer we pray for more excited we get about it and then we start remembering the character and resources of the God of the universe who is our father. Pray for your kids and your kid’s friends.   Chapter 24 Solo Jesus got alone to spend time with His Father. Jesus ministry flowed out of His solitude, regularly spending time with His Father. Do your kids see you spending time with God? How are you modeling that to your kids? If regular time away with God is difficult, maybe spend some time thinking of how you can do that more often and invest. You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: - Listen & take notes. - Listen, read, and take notes. - Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars: - Middle School - High School


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Chapters 21 Fix Are we quick to want to fix before we show that we care. Initial care is not usually difficult, long-suffering care is difficult. Jesus cared for Judas, cleansed his feet, the feet of a young man who would hand him over to be murdered. Do you love your kid because your kid is lovable? Or because you want something out of it? Or because it shows them Jesus? Is your first impulse care, or say “you should have…”   Chapter 22 Grace We have to remember our sin and the grace we have received in order to extend it to others. We can speak with authority on hope when we have hope. Lord willing, your kids will be the ones to show grace on others, we should lead by example. We have the privilege and opportunity to set the tone for our family each day. You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: - Listen & take notes. - Listen, read, and take notes. - Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars: - Middle School - High School


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In this Episode: Chapters 19 & 20 of Alongside   Chapter 19: Question Asking questions that draw your kids out. Be a listening ear to tear down walls. Learn how to ask questions that make your kids feel like experts. Even when answers seemed obvious Jesus allowed time. How to become the kind of parent who your kids want to know what you think and what matters to do: Tell me more about that. How did that make you feel? Echo back answers that show you listened.

Chapter 20: Serve What attitude do you serve your kids with? There is a limited amount of weeks that your kids have in this season of life. What is one significant way that you can lay your life down for your children this month.   You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: - Listen & take notes. - Listen, read, and take notes. - Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars: - Middle School - High School


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Join our Summer Book Club ➡️ Click Here   In this Episode: Chapters 17 & 18 of Alongside   Chapter 17: Crowns - It's important to say what is true about your kids. - There are so many narratives that are fighting for your kid's attention, so it's important to speak what is true about what God has for them. - Josh tells about his favorite movie: Cool Runnings - What would your kids say that you see in them?   Chapter 18: Walk - Physically walking and moving can help conversations.   You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: - Listen & take notes. - Listen, read, and take notes. - Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars: - Middle School - High School


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Join our Summer Book Club ➡️ Click Here   In this Episode: Chapters 15 & 16 of Alongside   Chapter 15: Skin Why appropriate physical touch matters.   Chapter 16: Showing Up Showing up shows you like your child.   You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: - Listen & take notes. - Listen, read, and take notes. - Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars: - Middle School - High School


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Chapter 13 - Feasting together - Eating together—The Difference Maker The difference in our children - Are your feasts for insiders only? How do outsiders feel? Jesus example Home Mission Reaching the unreached in your child's life - Making your house the place for shepherding Examples Encouragement   Chapter 14 - Shame can come from many different places Our past, our words, our pain Our children's perception - Jesus understands, and has walked the walk We have a great High Priest - Think back to your own childhood, what caused you shame? - Be slow to speak, slow to anger, and quick to forgive Our reaction can make a big difference - Go toward your kids when they have shame, you can’t do that without compassion   You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: - Listen & take notes. - Listen, read, and take notes. - Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars: - Middle School - High School


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Chapter 11 - Names are powerful. The things we call people are powerful. Calling our children by name. The "things" we call them. - We have influence on other people’s children as well. - Do you really know your kid’s friend’s names? - The Mission in your home. - Teams work better when they’re working together.   Chapter 12 - Hospitality is such an incredible way to love children. Our children grow up in our home. What does our home tell their friends about Jesus? - How to enter into the private world of your children.  Removing the barriers in the home. - Showing up in their world. What are they into now? - Going after the root instead of the symptom.   You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: - Listen & take notes. - Listen, read, and take notes. - Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars: - Middle School - High School


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CHAPTER 9 - Doing whatever it takes to bring students to Jesus: Shapes what we think. Shapes what we do. Shapes what we how we spent our energy. It radically effects everything. - Every-time I am aimless I am ineffective and defaulting to all the wrong things: Fear Insecurity - Hebrews 12: there is a destination and His name is Jesus. - Be careful about competing destinations. - Bringing face-to-face with Jesus > Mere behavioral modification - What is the goal, direction, and destination that we are communicating to kids?   CHAPTER 10 - Create memories and milestones for students to learn about Jesus in our lives. - Are we sharing some of the defining moments in our lives with our children? - Helping our kids learn about milestones in their own lives. - Help your kids see Jesus in their milestones.   You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: - Listen & take notes. - Listen, read, and take notes. - Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars: - Middle School - High School


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Join our Summer Book Club ➡️ Click Here   In this Episode: Chapters 7 & 8 of Alongside   Chapter 7 - God's unconditional love. - Do you believe that God really loves you, not because of anything that you do? - Do your kids know that you love them, not because of anything they do?   Chapter 8 - Jesus is reminding you that you're not alone. - What does it change in your parenting to know that the Holy Spirit is with you and working in and through you?   You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: - Listen & take notes. - Listen, read, and take notes. - Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars: - Middle School - High School


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Join our Summer Book Club ➡️Click Here   In this Episode: Chapters 5 & 6 of Alongside   Chapter 5 - The importance of empathy - How to have empathy and compassion for your student - What are ways you unintentionally shut down conversations?   Chapter 6 - Abiding in Jesus fuels the ability to love your student - False Evidence Appearing Real & conclusions - Beggars make the best parents   You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: - Listen & take notes. - Listen, read, and take notes. - Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars: - Middle School - High School


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graceky.org   In this episode: We talking about chapters 3 & 4 of Alongside, by Drew Hill   Chapter 3 - The Deep End   How will you notice your student? Will you jump into the deep end in spite of the lies that try to hold you back?   Chapter 4 - Hijacked   Do you see your student as precious? How do you share your life with your student?   You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: Listen & take notes. Listen, read, and take notes. Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Check the website this week for our Summer Calendars.


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In this episode: We walk through the first two chapters of Alongside, by Drew Hill Chapter 1 - Broken Heart Bring the gospel home and make it real Being a wounded healer 2 Corinthains 1:3-5   Chapter 2 - S.O.S. Being actively dependent on God Leading our children in dependency on God by example   You can this book on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: Listen & take notes. Listen, read, and take notes. Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements Kona Party this Sunday, May 19th! Pizza and a Kona Truck will be provided (a free Kona for each student). Camp Registration CLOSES May May 19th at midnight! Register for camp by clicking the link below: graceky.org/msmcamp graceky.org/hsmcamp


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Today, we're starting our summer book club series!   We'll be going through the book "Alongside" by Drew Hill. You can find it on Amazon, or in the Florence Campus Resource Center.   How you can participate: Listen & take notes. Listen, read, and take notes. Listen, read, and discuss with others.   Announcements: No Student Ministry activities on Sunday, May 12 (happy Mother's Day!) Register for Camp ASAP! (Registration closes May 19) Middle School Camp High School Camp


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In this Episode: Reactions to Harrison Bigney's Testimony (video) How to respond when your child wants to be baptized. Can your child tell your story? Can they tell their own if they are a follower of Jesus? Elements of telling your story. Announcements: 1. CAMP REGISTRATION IS OPEN High School Camp Middle School Camp   2. Book Club Study starting next week "Alongside" by Drew Hill


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Have any suggestions for the podcast? Email us at podcast@graceky.org   Why Does The Resurrection Matter? Passage: 1 Corinthians 15:17, 19, 58 It matters because the power of Jesus' resurrection means you are completely forgiven. It matters because the power of Jesus' resurrection gives you hope that He will work in YOU. It matters because the power of Jesus' resurrection gives you purpose. It matters because the power of Jesus' resurrection gives you a new perspective on the goal of parenting. It matters because the power of Jesus' resurrection means that you can pray with HOPE, EXPECTING God to work somehow.   Questions for you: Do I believe that God has the power to work in my parenting? Like, REALLY? How do I need to remind myself every day that this power is real and working? How should I pray for my student because JESUS IS ALIVE? What ways can I pursue my student in this season and remind them of Jesus' power and love?   Announcements: Camp Registration opens THIS SUNDAY!!! (4/28)


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Have any suggestions for the podcast? Email us at podcast@graceky.org   Passage: Hebrews 13 Final exhortations to believers to be: Outward focused Unashamed Obey, submit, & pray for their leaders.

Discussion / Questions: What does it look like to extend your friendship, your time, your talents, your resources for others? What would it like to be intentional in showing hospitality to friends and strangers as a family? Check out the Joshua Project for ways to be praying for the unreached and persecuted around the world. Consider helping out with Capernaum Day Camps for those with disabilities. What are situations where doing things God's way will make you look weird? Talk about it and process it with your students.

Pray for your student's small group leaders regularly!   Announcements No student ministry activities on Easter (4/21) CAMP REGISTRATION OPENS 4/28!


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Feedback or topic ideas? Email us at podcast@graceky.org   Passage: Hebrews 12:3-17 An encouragement to not give up in suffering What the purpose of suffering is Who God is in suffering   Discussions / Questions: What are some things you've experienced that you would call suffering? How does God discipline His kids? Do you think God disciplines well? Why or why not? What are things I believe about God in suffering? What's my attitude? Is God doing this TO ME or FOR ME? What keeps you from "embracing the pain?"   Parents: Do you model what it looks like to suffer well, or do you try to shield your kids from it? Show your kids what's it's like to suffer well so they know how to do it.   Announcements: CAMP REGISTRATION OPENS APRIL 28!


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What questions do you want us to talk about on the podcast? Email us at podcast@graceky.org   Parent Equip Night Topic: How to have faith-building conversations with your kids. Interview with Ryan & Julia Petrie, as well as the Q&R time, will be posted in the near future.   Hebrews 11:1-12:3 This passage talks about story after story of messed up people who were called faithful by God because they were characterized by their trust in Him. Faith is a confident, active dependence on the character and promises of God. Knowledge is knowing things about God. Faith is knowledge that leads to action.   Questions Where do you run when you are stressed or sad? What do you do when you see evil or injustice in the world? What are some things you need to lay aside to follow Jesus?   Announcement CAMP REGISTRATION OPENS APRIL 28! Middle School High School


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Do you have any questions about how to connect with your kids or other topics you are dealing with? Email us at podcast@graceky.org   Curtains, Creative Intentionality, and $$$ for Camp   Passage: Hebrews 10:19-25 Through Jesus, we have direct access to God, and He wants us to draw close, hold onto hope, and be intentional with others.   "When (God) calls us to do something, He provides the means to accomplish those things." - Ryan   Draw Near (Close) Attitude/belief: Wanted, not just allowed. Action: Coming to God in prayer Action: Coming to God by listening to Him through His word   What do you turn to when things get hard? When things are good? Have you had any "God-sightings" this week? What are things about who God is that give you hope today?   Holding onto hope (Confident) Identify lies & distractions that keep us from belief. What are things that can help remind us of what is true? (music, books, journaling, people)   Creative Intentionality (Creative) Consider/think about: "direct one's whole mind to a certain object or something" How can we stir/motivate others to love others and do good things? How can you bring your kids along as you love and bless others?   *Don't forget to participate in normal rhythms of being a part of Sunday morning services and a community group?   What is 1 thing that you can do this week to be creatively intentional with your kid(s)?   Announcements: 3/31 - Sunday NIGHT: Parent Equip Night with guest speakers and 4 families getting money towards camp!   G.O.A.T. Reading Plan --> Download HERE.


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Suggestions for the podcast? Emails us at podcast@graceky.org with ideas.   BLOOD. (How's that for a teaser?)   Passage: Hebrews 10:1-18 Our sin was so bad that it needed to be paid for by blood, by something or someone dying. Jesus came to pay for sin once for all.   Points & Questions: Are you setting the tone in your home for what it looks like to see, acknowledge, seek forgiveness, and repent of sin? Do your kids see you do this? Guards come down when you are honest with your sin with your kids and set the example. Spend time thinking about how bad your sin is that it required the perfect Son of God, Jesus, to die. View and interact with your kids in the joy of your sins being forgiven.   Announcements: 3/24 - Sunday MORNING sermon topic: Pastor Peter will be speaking on abuse. 3/31 - Sunday NIGHT: Parent Equip Night with guest speakers and 4 families getting money towards camp!   G.O.A.T. Reading Plan --> Download HERE.


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Ways to be present with your kids and lead by example.   Principle #1: Be Present - Show Up Mentally (intentional engagement) - Show Up Randomly (randomly find ways of drawing near to your kids)   Principle #2: Making It Personal (Lead example) - Be in a community group (find one HERE) - Set priorities (spiritually and relationally) - Be real (show your kids how to go through hard things while clinging to and being affected by Jesus)   Ultimately: Pursue Jesus, for JESUS...be an example as an overflow or a by-product.   The best thing you can do for your kids is to work on your relationship with your Savior.   PARENT EQUIP NIGHT - March 31 | 5-7:15pm - 2 Middle School & 2 High School families who come will be chosen at random for some money towards camp!   G.O.A.T. Reading Plan --> Download HERE.


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Do you have a question or topic you'd like us to cover? Email us at podcast@graceky.org and we'll do our best to give a response. 😁   Sunday Recap | 3/3/19 Jesus' obedience vs your obedience Who do you think is going to win?   Hebrews 8 talks about the old and new covenants. What's a covenant you may ask? It's an agreement between two parties.   A few bullet points on conversations you can continue this week: - What stood out to you? - Was there anything that was confusing? - Do you feel like you have to do things to earn God's approval? - How does you're relationship with God work? (what do you do, and how do you receive from God?) - How would you live differently if you really believed that God has shown you mercy and has completely forgiven your sin?   📢 ANNOUNCEMENTS 📢 - March 10 | OFF WEEK (Leader Equip Night) - March 31 | Parent Equip Night (5-7:15pm)   📖 G.O.A.T. Reading Plan --> click HERE to download


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Who is Melchizedek? Real rest. Will God change His mind about you?     Hebrews 7 Overview - Remember the Priest-King Melchizedek? (see Gen 14) - Jesus is like Melchizedek - Jesus is the ultimate Priest - He is indestructible - He is always on the job - He's the mediator of a better hope so that we can draw near to God - He's the guarantee of a better covenant - His priesthood is permanent - He can save to the uttermost - His sacrifice is perfect, and only needed to be offered once     Other thoughts on the passage - The Mission of God = Restoration - Jesus calls us to rest in Him as our eternal and perfect high priest. - Jesus has given us unlimited, all-access to a relationship with God.     Questions & Follow Up *Lead with your own life experience and vulnerability. - What stood out to you? - Where didn't make sense? - How do you think God sees you? - How can you help others "hold fast" to their faith? - Do you ever feel like there are people that God can't or won't forgive?    - Any specific actions or sins that He can't or won't forgive?    - Do you ever feel like that person or that you've done those things that God won't forgive?   ANNOUNCEMENTS: 📧 Email us at podcast[at]graceky[dot]org with any ideas for topics that you'd like us to cover on the podcast! 🗓 Leader Equip Night is on March 10 (NO STUDENT ACTIVITIES) 🗓 Parent Equip Night is on March 31 📖 G.O.A.T. Reading Plan --> click HERE to download


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What are some of the reasons YOU don't come near to God?   Teaching recap and discussion questions based on Hebrews 4:14-5:10   High School Jesus is the Greatest High Priest of all time. 1- Draw near, because He's the high priest that understands. - What are some reasons you don't draw near to God? - What are the reasons you feel like you can't? - Jesus sympathizes with our weakness. - Jesus is the mediator, the go-between that brings 2 parties together. - The idea of approaching people in power. (White house story) 2 - Hold fast, because He's the high priest that reigns. 3 - Trust, because He's the high priest that saves. - Source of eternal salvation.   Middle School Christians have a CONNECTION in Jesus that understands and gives mercy, grace, & help. Jesus is our connection to God, the reason why we can have a relationship with him.   - There are things that keep us from coming to Jesus, that break the connection.   - Fear & shame box. Living inside that box is terrible. Feeling trapped.   - But - Jesus understands. He gets it. Tempted in the same kinds of ways.   - Jesus is so gentle.   - He gives us 3 precious gifts: Mercy/grace/help!   - Help - binding up a ship that is falling apart.   - So when you’re falling apart, in your time of need, Jesus brings help.   - Come to Jesus. Come boldly. Without fear & shame.   Questions & Follow Up Lead with your own life experience and vulnerability. - What are the lies you believe about who you are and how God sees you that keep you from coming to Jesus? - What keeps you in the fear and shame box? - Parents - What are some things you can do as a family where you can model coming to the Lord?   ANNOUNCEMENTS: 📧 Email us at podcast[at]graceky[dot]org with any ideas for topics that you'd like us to cover on the podcast! 🗓 Parent Equip Night is on March 31 📖 G.O.A.T. Reading Plan --> click HERE to download


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Sunday Recap | 2/10/19 Teaching recap and discussion questions based on Hebrews 3:1-4:13   High School Hold fast to Jesus because He is the greatest of all time, and He offers eternal rest for those who persevere. 3 Tools To Help You Persevere Consider Jesus (3:1) Learn from history, specifically the Bible (3:7-11) Fight together (3:12-13)

Middle School Jesus’s rest is the best. So, today, if you hear God’s voice, don’t harden your heart. Do everything you can to get the best. Jesus’ rest is the best. Listen to God’s voice Don't harden your heart Turn to Jesus TODAY!   Questions & Follow Up Exercises *Lead with your own life experience and vulnerability.

Write down 1-3 things that you have a hard time believing about God. (Character, intentions, promises)

Write what makes you feel this way.

Write down what is true about God in that situation.

What are things that you are tempted to consider more important than Jesus?   G.O.A.T. Reading Plan --> CLICK HERE


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Show Notes Answering the question: why does fun matter? "Fun is the context where relationships are cultivated." - Ryan Parts of Fun Laughter Brings down our guard Helps us breathe Helps us be more open-minded

Doing things together creates: Shared experiences Teachable moments Point them to Jesus Encourage them

In what ways can you build fun into your family culture? What is ONE THING you can do this week?

Ideas for Family Activities Poker Hiking Camping Boardgames Drafts Secret Adventure (an activity you planned that your kids don't know about) Movie Night     *Email us at podcasts[at]graceky[dot]org with any ideas for topics that you'd like us to cover on the podcast!


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Show Notes

Started a new teaching series on the book of Hebrews (G.O.A.T. – Greatest Of All Time) Taught this past Sunday on Hebrews 1:1-4

High School teaching points

God speaks and has spoken to you We need to pay attention because Jesus is the Greatest Of All Time

Middle School teaching points

No one is greater than Jesus

Jesus is the best way for God to show His love for us Jesus keeps the UNIVERSE going at His command Jesus made His people clean, then took a seat

Discussion Questions

What is ONE THING that stood out to you? Do you believe God loves you? Why or why not? What makes you feel unloved by God? What is one characteristic about Jesus that stood out to you?

Reading Plan for the Hebrews Series (click HERE to download)     CREDITS Hosts: Ryan Fultz (Director of High School Ministry) & Joshua Lewis (Director of Middle School Ministry) Music: "2 Tha Left" by PRFCT Beats


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