Parenting After Dark: Recent Episodes
Mark and Kelly Stanton
Tired of listening to all that perfect parenting shi..tuff, looking for something real! Thats Mark and Kelly Stanton. Join them as they tackle todays issues and concerns, and uncover what others are talking about. Getting both, male and female perspective can sometimes lead into a heated debate. Find out who’ll come out on top, or join in an vote for who you think is right. This is a very interactive and informative podcast, that shares in the struggles, that every day parent faces but doesn’t always talk about. And puts a fun positive spin on things, that you can relate too.
What do you do when your in a pissy mood, and need to get out? You change your story. Here’s the thing, you can tell all kinds of stories and still be right. Its a feeling, and when you have been hurt, you go negative. When, you can look at it through many different lenses. Challenge your kids, partner or even yourself, to find an alternate story. Then ask which story do you want to tell?
*Perspective -a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something; a point of view. - In this episode, Kelly and Mark see things a little different when it comes to changing their mindset. Do you look at someone’s situation and think, “what do I have to complain about.” Or do you see it as “if they can do it so can I.” Do you draw your perspective from the strength of others that have it worse, or the strength of others that have made it from nothing? Pick your side.
Have you had enough of this CoVid, what’s your story going to be? Are you fed up and ready to blow your top, or can you see a silver lining? What are you going to focus on during this time, start finding the positive of this pandemic. Start making good memories.
Don’t your hate it when your in a mood, and your partner has all the answers! You just want to be heard. Bad things are going to happen, and you can’t just smile and ignore it. It needs to be addressed before it can get better. In this episode you hear how Kelly and Mark deal with their kids trashing the kitchen making lunch.
How are you being judged as a parent, are you soft or are you more strict? And by who’s standards? Kelly and Mark discuss whether or not they parent soft, or with more of a strong hand. Looking back to their childhood, what would they say they would never do? Are you like your parents? Also has success changed? It’s not about the suit, tie, and corner office... But more about living your true self.
Their is only so much we can do, don’t worry about it. Own your genuine self, your not a barber or aesthetician. Have fun with your new look, try something different. Nows the time, because no one is visiting... Except your spouse!
Dad’s do you have a clue about Mothers Day gifts? Is it better to be funny or serious when picking out the right gift. Also were do you draw the line when complimenting a women? What you can, and can’t say! And... guys, what would you do if you had boobs?
Kelly what’s to know what Mark would do if she gets hit by a bus? As a good parent, what’s the proper age to date after 40. Can you find the joy’s of Divorce, need help to find the positive? Plus, as a parent do you fear the trip to the hospital with your kids? Don’t let fear stop you from getting back on that horse.
Kelly and Mark podcast After their on-line church session with MTC Live. If you believe or not, this episode will make you more powerful each day. Don’t start you day without purpose, give yourself power. Plus, your kids will one day put their family first. Are you prepared for that?
Kelly and Mark talk about a type of subsidy or tax relief for taking on teaching and other rolls. Is it time to through in the towel and stop the madness, and just go back to being a parent.
Are you ready for the new CoVid Caesar Diet. Mark has come up with a new diet that might get traction. How is your school supporting you during this time, now’s a great time to evaluate you school system.
In this special edition or PAD, Kelly and Mark decide to bring the kids on board to see what they have to say. How are they handling staying home with CoVid and do they think their parents are making the cut. Also get some ideas on how the family avoid boredom to the best of their abilities.
Stay productive during this CoVid time, don’t let boredom or laziness take control. Chat with your kids about how to get what they want, give them a little control to make them feel great. Change up the day, learn together as a family. Are you being productive, nows the time.
Mark’s negative attitude changes the entire family dynamics, while Kelly tries to change it positive. Then Marks character comes into questions when Kelly’s mood changes and Mark just sits back and laughs. Would you admit your faults or make them learning lessons.
How’s the personal hygiene going? Ladies do you need to get your nails and hair done? Are you High maintenance? Mark feels brave tackling the topic of women’s needs. Plus Ladies, if you had to pick between a great husband or a great dad, what would you pick. The answer might surprise you!
Happy Hour’s have increased, are you still being productive Parent? Mark cleans out the garage and tosses some of Kellys things, now doesn’t want to tell her, should he? Do you tell your spouse about cleaning house, can you get rid of unused items without permission. Also transform kids boredom into creative ideas.
Don’t loose your morning routine, its the most important part of your day. How to rock you mornings with a powerful routine! Webinars and Podcast are the new normal, make sure your morning influences are inspirational.
Happy Easter everyone! Our Dog ate the Easter bunny and wow, what a mess. Are you managing your teaching skill, are you teaching the right grade? Find out the skills your kids enjoy and want to do, and forget about the rest. Your not a teacher, make it fun.
How do you score yourself as a parent of a 12 year old. Listen to these 30 questions and see if you score more then 50% which Mark classifies as a pass.
Families staying home can take its toll on everyone. Understanding what helps you build a positive attitude and understanding your spouse. Recapping a webinar with John Grey, Author from Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Try being a servant to your wife
Parents, have you went to bed, prepared, and ready to rock the next day. Only to have the wheels fall off. Staying positive can be difficult. Have a listen to how Marks shower fix, turns into a disaster. And when he tries to teach the kids by giving them full control, you can imagine how that day will go. Kelly of coarse, jumps on side with the kids. Does Mark have a point, or do you see his point?
Are you ready to blow your top? Mark pops on this episode after giving the kids control over their day. Things start to fall apart and it affects the entire family. Kelly is quick to agree and give her advise on Marks Tone!
Go out and make someone else’s day special in this time of need. Kelly, Mark and family pile into the family cruiser and join a group of folks driving around a Seniors complex in a honking parade. Playing Elvis for all the residents. Also now’s the time to brush up on your technology. Being knowledgeable about social media and video conferencing is important in a time like this. Mark calls family back home for a Zoom call, and small town has no need for video conferencing. Plan out your tomorrow with purpose, whether you get to it or not.
Being cooped up at home during this time can be very difficult. Isolation and social distancing doesn’t have to shut down your world. Brush up on your internet skills. Play online games, FaceTime friends and family. Not sure how to get started, ask your kids. They will probably know more then you. Give them a task or assignment, you will be surprised how much they can learn if they know they can beat you!
The pressure and guilt of being a parent! Now can be a trying time to stay positive, weather your a family of 2 or 8. The most important thing to remember, is that you are not perfect. If your day was difficult, look forward to tomorrow being just a little bit better!
In this episode, Mark has an important question for Kelly “How would you suggest men tell their spouse they need to pick up on the cleaning?”. Guys you will want to have a listen of what to do and not to do. Also some fun games to play with your family and friends online. Are you smarter then a 5th grader? Kelly and Mark have a couple options for schooling from home.
I hope this podcast finds you and your families safe and well. Trying to stay positive and have fun can be difficult in times like this. As a global society I encourage us all to take CoVid-19 serious, and take time to self isolate and work on yourself. Like we say in our podcast, start conversations with friends and family, and have fun as much as possible. Just please keep you distance.
Now that kids have been sent home for the rest of the school year, what does that mean for us as parents? Excessive drinking!? It’s time to brush up on your grade school and put on another hat, it’s time to play teacher! Except this time you run the insane asylum, your in charge of it all. You will soon have a totally new respect for teachers if you don’t already. Listen how Kelly and Mark manage 3 kids at home, and how they plan to revamp the schools system. It may need some work, a lot of work. However have a listen and see if you agree.
The CoVID19 is getting out of control, Kelly and Mark discuss their concerns. Along with that, Mark feels the kids are pulling the wool over their eyes. Should you give your kids more control or responsibilities? Also if you have a secret you have been keeping from your kids, your going to want to listen to this episode. Kelly and Mark drop a huge secret about a past divorce, and the kids have mixed emotions. Think about this if you have a secret to tell your kids.
This episode has gone off the rails from the get go! From CoVID 19 and no toilet paper, to Kelly going over female anatomy... in detail! Mark goes over his version of the Conspiracy Theory about the virus, but has no idea what a vulva is, or better yet, where its located. Mark also puts his foot in his mouth multiple times, with his lack of female knowledge, and warped sense of a humor. You don’t want to miss this comical podcast about how little, guys know and care about the female parts.
This episode is all about the dollars, and how to save them. This after Kelly and Mark go out for dinner with the kids and drop $40 on milkshakes. However budgeting for that fist year of parenting isn’t as hard as you might think. This episode has lots of cost saving ideas for the first year of parenthood, showing you how to spend next to nothing until they are ready to walk. If that doesn’t work how to get in or out of work.
Mark starts the podcast with a sensitive guilt trip about the kids eating chips in their bed. Leaving the chips on the dresser and telling them not to touch! Kelly sides with the kids, and moves on to an important topic for first time parents. Getting your wife a pushing gift needs some consideration, and Kelly has a list of ideas. If your expecting a baby this podcast is a must for you -guys especially- or if your looking for a conversation starter that is sure to get a laugh, have a listen and see how your peeps will react.
In this episode, Kelly and Mark couldn’t wait until after dark. This episode is live and in the moment. A dispute between how much Kelly cleans the kitchen, and Mark’s idea of carrying the weight. Both are agitated and argumentative, neither one is backing down. Listeners will need to decide if Kelly gets a cleaner or not?
In this episode, Kelly and Mark are talking about how to find Mr/Mrs right and what that looks like. Kelly talks about her next husband and how much money he will have, and Mark is defining Kelly status on the cougar meter. Alternative perspectives on what its like to live with the perfect soul mate.
Have you ever noticed how guys will through each other under the bus every chance they get, and Girls no one even knows their story. Well Kelly and Mark are heading over for dinner with some new friends, and they have no idea about each other. So you need to be prepared, and have a sure fire Icebreaker to set the tone, Mark comes up with a dozy. Also what to... and not to do, with your family on the long weekends. Listen to this podcast and save yourself 4 painstaking hours of LIFE.
Mark the electronics geek is looking to sync the family with google, and get organized. However Kelly is slow to get on board, knowinghow frustrating google can be, and not liking the new era of technology. Google even interrupts her during the podcast. Thinking of getting the family organized, have a listen to this podcast and see if you agree its the right plan. Get on board with Marks master plan, or work with Kelly to take baby steps into the future.
The weekends coming and your kids are having friends over, do you have a plan? Better yet, are you kids part of that plan? Make sure you communicate with your kids and walk through scenarios, give your kids the power! Plus Kelly and Mark talk about always leave on a high, never drag it out, make sure you plan.
Do you remember everyone that was invited to your wedding? Kelly and Mark struggle to remember some of the names on their wedding list after Mark finds it in the basement. People change friends change, and you change. This is no different for your kids. Talking with them and letting them know you understand, you were not always a parent! How you pick your friends is more important than who your friends are, make sure your kids know that.
Kelly and Mark decided to lie to their son, about how painful his knee surgery would be. Both him and momma are strong and ready for this surgery. 2 mins after he is put under, Kelly start to fall apart. Ty changes his tune after the surgery, once just happy to be off school for the week. Now would gladly go back to school in exchange for the pain. See how well this method works, until Mark finds a glitch! Mixing up Expectations with Intentions, Kelly has to set him straight. Find out which one works better and in what situation on this episode of PAD.
In this episode - Mark has a bit of a freak out. Kelly and the kids chuckle, as he’s on his hands and knees cleaning up after their new puppy. This brings up the topic of Praise, how often to you give it and what does it look like to others. Do you describe how your feeling, are you specific? How do you react to frustration, do you beat yourself up? Teaching your kids how to act in these situations, is huge for their development. Make sure your their best role model.
Many of us struggle with anxiety, and get confused on the difference between anxiety and fear. After church Kelly talks about the pastor’s message and puts her spin on it. “The ways to manage anxiety, so your anxiety doesn’t manage you”.
Welcome to 2020 and thank you to all our listeners. In this painful episode Mark and Kelly bring their kids on the Podcast to discuss Goal setting and Vision Boards. Kelly has a great plan, however Mark is constantly trying to derail the conversation. Keeping simple achievable goals is key for kids, however don’t forget to making it fun!
Is their a leader in your household, is that leader you? Remember what is was like to be a kid, the things your parents said and/or did. Were they good leaders? What things did you say you would never do, when you became a parent. Kelly suggest maybe a wife swap to see how good Mark and the kids have it, Mark was thinking something else. Have a listen and see, if your more like your parents then you think. Begin 2020 in the driver’s seat and become the leader you were meant to be.
Christmas can be a stressful time of year. Getting the right gifts, late nights, a dwindling bank account. The stress can be brutal if you don’t plan for it. You know what stress you out, get prepared to handle it. Listen how Kelly has a great experience last minute shopping, telling her own story about the fun and joy with others. Make a game out of it and find joy in each situation.
Have you ever been looking for something, that’s always in the same spot? You can trust it will be there when you need it! Knowing that after multiple warnings of “touch it and die” it was safe from the rest of the family! Well in this episode, you will hear Mark and Kelly try to figure out the rules of ownership. Should you be able to have your own phone charger? Do you have to share? What is the right punishment! Also it’s December, hear how Mark get enjoyment out of other people’s misery.
In this Episode, Kelly and Mark talk about a special Christmas gift, and the best way to bring a dog into your home. Finding a name however, is becoming a little more difficult. You can give them a hand by going to Parenting.After.Dark on Instagram to submit you nomination. When your friends that have pets are traveling, offer to pet sit. It will benefit both families, and you might also get a treat out of it. Also if your thinking of names for your baby, keep them to yourself!!! Kelly and Mark discuss the challenges of telling people your baby names.
The Holidays can be a stressful time, and people expect you to be cheerful and happy. But let’s be honest, sometimes the stress of Christmas can be a real kick in the nuts. Did you remember the Elf on the shelf, get the cards out, respond to..., get your ugly sweater out!!! Want a few tips on how to transition through these stages? Do you want to do something that will make your holidays memorable? Listen and join our RAC challenge! Learn the best way to release stress and have a Jolly Christmas this year. And if that doesn’t work, Mark suggest just flipping them the Bird.
Friends are a major factor in how you live your life, as the old saying goes “show me your friends, I’ll show you your future... Kelly and Mark discuss types of friendships and how to pick the one’s that are right for you. Most often the flaws we see in others are things we struggle with in our own life. See how you can change that struggle, just by adding certain types of friends into your life. It may not be roses at first, however that discomfort will make you a more well rounded individual. Have a listen and see if you need to re-evaluate your friends.
It has been a while since Kelly and Mark Last podcast. That’s because they have been busy, well that’s just an excuse as you will see. We all complain about how busy our lives are, but it doesn’t have to be negative? What if we were more productive then busy, doesn’t that sound more positive! It’s about changing our story and setting the right intention before a situation arises. It’s a great tool for any area in your business, parenting, or personal life... You will also hear Kelly and Mark discuss the possibility of child labour, and going back to our roots, just like our ancestors and farmers did. Do you think it will work??? Have a listen and you be the Judge.
It this special PAD first, Mark flys solo and speaks to just the Dads. This episode works with Dad’s on how its ok to take the blame, and also to encourage it. Life is all about experience’s and sometimes we need a little nudge getting out of our comfort zone! This is were Dad’s step up! We are not perfect, however by sharing stories of what works and what doesn’t. We can all learn with our own experiences and teach our kids the same. Have a listen and see if you don’t agree that as Dad’s we need to stick together to raise the next generation. Let’s face it, these little buggers grow up smart and fast.
Happy Thanksgiving! What are you thankful for, do you have family traditions, or are you ready to make new ones? Kelly and Mark discuss Traditions, and how a extended family weekend vacation in Banff, is just long enough. Thanksgiving is a time for thanks and gratitude, for everything that has been given to us. With that being said, spending time with loved ones is something we all should be grateful for. Even if we don’t always agree, as you will see on this episode of PAD.
The only think that is better then having a Cherished Gift, is giving a one. However, what does that look like? We all have a different perception of what a Cherished gift is, now how do you find out? Kelly and Mark share their insight, as their middle daughter is just about to turn 10 . And after completing a questionnaire about “how well do you know your kids”, it revelled they know nothing about memorable gifts. Now they need to knock it out of the park. However getting these two on the same is difficult, have a listen and see who you think has the better gift. Plus Kelly has a plan to make big money, using their kids for child labour. What can go wrong...
In this episode, Mark talks about his lunch with good friend Donny and Stephen Kluserits -Author of the book “Beat Your Kids”. It’s a fun little ready, about topic’s like “Teaching your kids how to shake hands”. Seems simple, however everyone has come across dainty digits or Mr Universe. A hand shake says a lot about a person, so take the time to teach it right. Kelly also breaks news to Mark, that she is ditching him and branching out. Mark had something else on his mind. Kelly and Mark want to welcome listeners that may not be parents, but they just love hanging out with your kids. This episode is dedicated to Aunties, Uncles, brothers, sisters, etc. That may not have kids but are important influencers in a child’s life.
In this episode Kelly and Mark survey their kids, a challenge every parent should do. Learn about how your kids see them selves and what drives them. Building self-esteem and important values, along with patience. Something Mark seems to be missing, as you will soon hear. Cutting the questionnaire from 30, to just 10 questions. Learn how the one question “what gift of yours, does your child cherish most?” Has Mark and Kelly reevaluating what’s important . Write down your answer then ask your kids, you might be surprised. Also building on your kids gifts or strengths, find out what to ask on this episode of PAD.
Looking for a few tips on building confidence in you, and your children? Have a listen as Kelly and Mark share their secrets, and teeter totter on the difference between confidence and arrogance. Kelly reviews a clip from Amy Schumer talking about “faking it, till ya make it” theory. However Mark isn’t a big fan, and prefers to role play real life scenarios. If that doesn’t work, bribery is his second choice. One think they can both agree on, is that we all have sacred gifts. Kelly reviews her sacred gifts, as well as how she ended up in detention. TWICE! Building up your confidence and living with purpose, are keys to a joyful and happy life. See if you can build yours on this episode of PAD.
Summer is finally over, and so is season 1 of PAD. Now, Kelly and Mark get ready for back to school. However leaving back to school shopping till the last minute is worst then Christmas shopping. As you will see in this episode of PAD. Also the back to school friends, is it better to pick your friends or have them pick you? Protecting your kids from dangers of pure pressures and bad influences. Plus, have a listen to Marks special tip for wowing your mother-in-law, its a doozy.
In this episode, Kelly and Mark have just had a blow up at home. It comes after a weekend Hockey tournament were their record was 0-7, and Mark was the head coach. Their son who was going to be in the tournament tore his ACL. And to top it all off, Kelly has asked the kids to clean up 7 times and they just aren’t listening. If you have ever found yourself fed up and frustrated with your kids, you will want to listen to this episode. Mark puts out a $1,000 reward to any parent that hasn’t gotten upset with their kids.
Do you ever find it funny, that you go to school for years to get the right job or career. And becoming a parent only takes a couple of minutes! On this episode, Kelly and Mark discuss the importance of a career over being a parent. Which one is more important? Plus; Kelly shares what she would do differently, knowing what she knows now “catch them doing something right”! Mark on the other hand, can’t handle the back to school shopping. Wondering how a new lunch bucket will help their lunch taste any better. You only get one shot at being a parent, there is no career change. Have a listen and see which one you find more important.
In this episode the family is just returning home from holidays. Back visiting Marks home town and celebrating Grandma’s 90th birthday. And just like any holiday, their are lots of ups and downs, especially traveling with 3 energetic kids. Kelly was able to fully relax and unplug, leaving social media and her emails in the dust. While Mark on the other hand, was posting and chatting on FB and Instagram like a teenage kid. Doing exactly what he gives Kelly crap for.... Also while Mark is gone for a week long business trip. Kelly takes full control of both pink and blue jobs, and has it running like a well oiled machine. Find out how she does it, and why it’s a little awkward when Mark gets home and struggles to fit into the new family dynamics.
In the Episode Mark confronts Kelly on why it has taken so long to invite friends to #PAD Instagram. Kelly gets backed into a corner and ends up posting the invite during the podcast, you have to listen and hear her reaction. Mark is frustrated with grade 4 home work as his daughter has one last assignment left before the end of the school year. Plus their youngest doesn’t know the difference between lying and joking. And as an added bonus, Mark tip toes head first into the once a month female monster that is every guys nightmare. See how these two handle it, on this episode of PAD.
Kelly and Mark talk about the power of words, and the words you focus on? Planting the seeds for your kids and leading by example. Sounds easy, but did you know that your kids attitude is directly retaliated to you. So if your upset or frustrated by their behaviour, maybe its time to look in the mirror and reflect. Behaviours are learned by influences, make sure you know your intentions. Kelly wants to know, are you stuck in a fixed or growth mindset, find out what’s the difference? Also Mark touches on being content with what you have and thankful. Doesn’t mean you can’t have more, but it can help relieve some of the stress in your life. Looking for a great charity, follow Kelly and Mark as they begin the journey of giving to those in need.
Do you ever guess what someone’s story is, I bet you do it every day with out even noticing. What are the stories you tell yourself, about you and other people? Its all a big mystery, we have no idea what other people are thinking. Imagine if we could??? Well in this episode, Kelly and Mark give us a little insight on how we can tell our stories a little better. Not only about our own lives but the lives of those around us. If your making up stories anyway (which most of us do) why not tell it in a way that makes you feel like a King... or Queen. Kelly shares a story of when she was a little girl, attending her sisters pretend wedding. Excited to be a beautiful bridesmaid, instead being named the very important ring barrier. Kelly was devastated. Listen to how she self sabotage her own story, a story that would stick with her for years to come. Mark’s stories are a little different. He makes up his stories until they come true. A little odd but does it work? Plus an added bonus of how these two get pumped up and ready for the day. It might be just what you need to get that extra boost out of your mornings.
After over 50 episodes on PAD its time for a review, how do Kelly and Mark score themselves? Starting with the kids money management (Roster money) app to get them to do their choirs. However these kids aren’t dumb, living off the previous weeks funds and skipping the choirs for a week... Backfire! Also a quick update on their Friend Di, who was on the show as a surrogate for a male couple. And the infamous -welcoming friends to our podcast email-is still on the back burner. Find out why all the delays, and how you might be able to overcome your own delays.
Happy Mother’s Day to all you amazing moms out there, PAD salutes you! In this episode Kelly decides after dinner, to be part of the community garage sale. The only problem is, its the following day. With less then 4 hours to get ready. Not your ideal Mother’s Day weekend, or is it? Mark tried to put the brakes on the idea, but it’s about the moms and Kelly thinks it will be fun with the kids. Will it turn out as fun as she thinks. What are your Mother’s Day plans? Kelly and Mark discuss a few different options, and one such plan give’s dear old dad a free day to himself. Dad’s you don’t want to miss this.
Kelly opens up this episode with “how to get your kids to clean their rooms”. Seems simple however nothing is ever that simple with these two. Creating successful habits goes a long way but you need to be on the same page. When is it time for your kids to take on certain chores, and what are age appropriate chores? One good example is catering to your kids style, and also setting expectations and staying firm. If your looking for your kids to take pride in cleaning you first have to look in the mirror. As you will see in this episode of PAD
Kelly and Mark get back from a family vacation with Kellys extended family, and Mark ask’s the question “how long is too long”? Do the family dynamic’s ever change, why do you still feel like a kid, are you treated like an equal, an adult? Kelly dives into these questions and gives a little insight into fitting in now that she is a mom. Mark unpacks a book he has been reading - How to Talk so your kids will listen & listen so your kids will talk- if your looking for some advice on dealing with your kids feelings, you will want to have a listen to this. It’s in the second half of the podcast. This episode really focuses on getting in touch with your feelings, and how you can relate it to your kids. A must listen if you need help connecting more with your kids.
What does your Easter look like, are you missing the message? Kelly and Mark discuss how the Easter bunny is becoming more like Santa Claus, and how to explain to your kids the real message. Plus, Kelly gets real about a public issue were a mother is fined for her little boy urinating at a gas station. This also brings up Kellys fear of police, what is their to fear? Well Mark has some answers, a total different perspective that some may not agree with. “You have to remember your childhood and what was important”. Why give fictional creatures all the credit, and what we as a parents should own. Join this debate and walk down memory lane to see how much you remember, and what was really important to that kid in you. Podcoin
Do you remember the first time you crossed the street? For most of us, probably not. Why? Because it wasn’t that big of a deal. Only parents find it a big deal, as you will find out in this episode of PAD. Mark tries to set up a heated, one sided debate with Kelly about age, gender, and responsibilities. When their girls have a hard time crossing a busy street, it’s Mark the one who starts to come unglued. And when it comes to handing out the punishment, Mark loses that battle too. Kelly believes maturity gets you responsibility, Mark thinks it’s responsibility that makes you mature. Listen to this “Chicken or the Egg” episode and you be the judge. Also don’t for get to comment on Facebook or Instagram at Parenting.after.dark
Kelly and Mark share their new allowance strategy with listeners. It’s called the Wela Way method and it will give you and your kids a new respect for managing money. These spending techniques are simple, easy, fun, and will set a good habit for your kids future. Speaking of the future, do you every notice kids are exactly as you see them? Is this your perception or are you manifesting it? See how Kelly tells Mark “if you change your perception to focus only on the strengths, you will manifest great change”. Mark deep in thought, has an “aha” moment “It makes sense!” Together they come up with a plan to test it out with the kids, building only on their positives and strengths. If you want to give your kids a healthy Finacial future you should listen to this podcast.
Kelly and Mark have been secretly podcasting without telling friends or family for the past few months. Fearful of judgement, ridicule, and opinions, its time to spill the beans and make it real. Its all in the story you tell yourself, and what a lot of us will do is self sabotage our stories or success. Really are your friends and family that bad? If so, maybe this is the time to do a friend-endectomy (removal of toxic people in your life). Or trust in your character and the people you surround yourself with. The problem is most of us put the feelings of others ahead of our own. Isn’t it funny how we can be harder on our immediate family (the ones that mean the most to us) then a perfect stranger? Kelly and Mark would like to thank all their listeners for their support and look forward to adding friends and family to that list.
Do you have a morning routine, if not it’s something you should think about! In life you really only have control over how your mornings start and what you do before you go to bed. The rest of the day can be unpredictable, as most of you know. Kelly and Mark’s morning routine’s are a little different, or as Mark puts polar opposite. “Should the snooze button really be part of your routine” Kelly thinks it can be? Have a listen and join the conversation on what makes a good morning routine.
In this episode Kelly and Mark talk about their faith and latest experience at church. It’s their first time taking on such a big project, the Watoto children’s choir is in town. Living busy lives them selves they both volunteer, not sure how they are going to find the time. Needing housing and dinner for the 30+ Watoto kids and chaperones is a big task, but what they get out of it in the end is life changing. Seeing first hand, the many ways a life can be changed by both giving and receiving. The power of faith is a wonderful thing, and Kelly and Mark share that in this special podcast.
Kelly and Mark decided to bring their kids on the show to get another perspective. Each one a little different with different values and wants on how they would parent, and rules for punishment like starvation. Kelly is asking questions on what they think it’s like to be a parent and what will life look like when they grow up? Do they even want kids, how will they support them, and what would they do different? Kelly also reveals a unique allowance structure called “Wela Way” that will get the kids thinking more seriously about money. Plus Mark finds out what he is bad at, and needs to do a better job at, according to Ty.
In this podcast Mark and Kelly continue a heated debate from the night before. Kelly is a rules follower and Mark see’s them as more of a guideline. Kelly can’t stand that Mark thinks its ok to bend the rules “what makes you so special”. Mark believes that bending the rules to benefit a situation or inspire imagination and growth is a good think. Mark also challenges Kelly that he could fire someone regardless of HR recommendations, Kelly just thinks he’s an idiot. See who has the better argument and if you agree. Rules are meant to be broken if you can justify it, or following the rules is the better choice.
Warning, opinions expressed are exaggerate for humour In this episode Mark comes out of the gate swinging, telling Kelly how stay at home dads work harder then moms. Well that doesn’t sit well with Kelly, firing back and even blaming Mark for the recent door slamming around the house. Mark also complains about not getting out with the guys much anymore, so Kelly gives him some advise as she heads out the door to an overnight girls trip to see Justin Timberlake. Mark talks a big game, can he back it up? Or will Kelly have Mark iron her next outfit as she begins planning her next girls night? ***Mark wanted to apologize if he offended any moms, as his opinions were exaggerated for humour... or were they???
In this Episode Kelly is feeling guilty about missing out on one of the kids field trips because of a work function. You can let it beat you down or come up with a solution, its all up to you. Kelly has a great solution, however Mark thinks it might be a little over the top and comes up with a cleaver alternative. Have a listen and see who you think has the better solution. Also share you ideas and comment, on Facebook @ Parenting After Dark Thanks for Listening.
Getting your kids to keep their rooms clean and tidy can often be a job in itself. A late Christmas gift to one of the kids make this task a breeze, and the other kids on board to do the same. Kelly and Mark remodel one of the kids rooms with a lot of input from them, giving them a sense of pride and ownership along with a great life lesson. Kelly also finds it a great bonding experience and would recommend this for any parent looking to connect or reconnect with their kids. Mark likes the idea of starting fresh but wonders how long it will last. Reminding the kids who hate Monday’s that every Monday is a fresh start to the week and its all in the way you look at it. Would you agree?
You need to view this video to better understand this Podcast (link is at bottom) This unexpected debate started to get heated so Mark and Kelly decided to jump on the Mic with friends Travis and Breanne. Travis showed us the Gillette add and their was a definite divide, this one gets heated as the men find it negative and the women see it as a positive for men moving forward. check out the video, have a listen and let us know your thoughts about “is this A best a Man can get” https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=koPmuEyP3a0
Are you looking for that person you fell in love with, or are you looking for someone that has grown as a person? Kelly and Mark discuss questions like this and others that are sure to spark up conversation in your relationship. Like, did you know everything you have in your life begins with a relationship, how good are you at relationships? Is the longer your with someone make your relationship stronger or predictable, easy or challenging? Kelly and Mark both have a different perspective, especially when it comes to complimenting the opposite sex. Can you tell someone of the opposite sex they are hot, and should you? Learn how to be open and honest with your spouse and ask for what you want in a relationship, you might be pleasantly surprised by the outcome.
After learning about a tragedy at a local day home, Kelly and Mark decided to start up a group chat. To help parents when deciding on day-home or day-care. Having been on both sides and also running a day home of their own, they know how tough it can be. That feeling you get dropping your kid off for the first time, will they be safe, am I making the right decision. Kelly goes over some moments of hesitation and gut feelings, as Mark tells us “if you can’t spend 30 mins at the place feeling good, don’t expect your kids to”. This podcast is meant to bring awareness to the challenges of childcare, and we invite you to share and comment. Our goal is to be open and share, in hopes we may save many, and even one is enough
In this first guest podcast, Mark and Kelly interview Nick and Diana about becoming surrogate donors . An amazing gift some folks might not understand fully. Have a listen, as this lovely couple talk about carrying a child for another couple who are wanting to start a family of their own. How do you pick, what’s that first conversation like, and what if someone changes their mind? Also; Does your partner still have all the same baby responsibilities, and who’s doing the foot rubs? Diana has also been an egg donor, find out which one she prefers. Her answer might shock you.
Good by 2018 and Hello 2019. Mark and Kelly ring in the new year traveling around to friends houses in an Uber. Seeing how others are celebrating. One party really stands out, and not for what you might think. It’s a Filipino tradition that Kelly and Mark will adopt for 2020. Also a New Years resolutions with a twist, it might even make you change yours!
In this episode, Mark and Kelly have just finished Christmas. It’s a stressful time for Kelly and Mark is oblivious to it, but not anymore. Kelly let’s lose on Mark watching movies with the kids when he should be getting ready to host Christmas dinner. Mark tries to defend himself with “I am just spending quality time with family” but that just makes things worse. Kelly also dressed up Mark in a tight Santa suit to deliver gifts to an unexpecting family. What’s your favourite Christmas memory this year? Listen and comment for a chance to be on their upcoming special guest segment starting in January.
Mark and Kelly are getting ready for Christmas, but things come to a halt when Mark questions the amount of gifts compared to the cost of the gifts. Not to mention what is Santa’s gift? It the battle of a single child mentality against a younger sister view point. They don’t see eye to eye on each other points and are looking for help from listeners and also their kids. Listen for part two when Mark and Kelly involve their kids for the first time on a podcast to settle the argument. Mark also has a interesting view point on how Santa and how much we believe what we are told.
Labeling or coding kids can be negative, if that’s what you see. Kelly and Mark believe its more of a specific learning ability that makes them, just a little bit different. But anyone, that has done anything, is a little bit different. Find your label and positively learn and grow that label. Kelly and Mark sit mostly on the same side, however professionals might disagree. This can be a slippery slope, and gathering information is sometimes best solution. Have a listen and see were you sit, post comments and views on Facebook. Because in the New Year Kelly plans on interviewing Professionals, Psychologists, and Dr.’s working with ADD cases to get a better understanding.
It’s Christmas time, what does that look like for you. Mark and Kelly finally go to the neighbors 24th annual Christmas party and they are blown off their feet. How to can they compete with these neighbors, Kelly has a few ideas from her childhood days, but Marks not sure it will stand up to the neighbors wonderland of Christmas decor.
Mark gets out witted by his 8 year old daughter in this episode. When asked if he always tells her the truth, followed up with a quick “do you move the elf on the shelf or is he magic?” He had nothing but go ask your mother. Kelly didn’t do much better. But Mark doesn’t stop there, he starts to unravel the whole mystic truths of parenting lies and Kelly disagrees. She unloads about keeping The Big Guy a secret till the end, Have a listen and see who’s story you believe more?
Mark finds a flyer from the church about contentment “what does that really mean”? How do you define success in life and business Mark and Kelly have an idea. Deciding to be okay with what you have, and wanting what others have can make you miserable. Have a listen and join in the debate, find out if you agree or have comments of your own.
After dinner with friends Mark and Kelly talk about what makes a great friend. If you have ever wondered about the difference between a good and great friend you will want to listen. This podcast will answer your questions on being a great friend and how you can be honest and true with the friends you have and want.
In this episode, Mark is caught off guard as Kelly confronts him about washroom breaks, what takes men so long anyway. Then this slowly turns on the Kids and their habits, or lack of. Find out what happens when the kids run out of TP and reach for the Paper towel. Also a funny Story on why Mark had to climb out a window after 40 mins. This one is good for a chuckle.
Coach Mark comes down hard on the team. After another last minute loss as Head Coach is taking its toll. Unfortunately Kelly is away at a well deserved Girls weekend. That doesn’t stop Mark from getting on their first remote podcast for a rant. Concerned about his post game speech, Mark goes over it with Kelly to get her thoughts as a concerned momma bear and hockey mom. Tough love, kid gloves and fair play, can you have it all? How do you get the most out of your team, on this episode of P.A.D.
It’s fall and Mark and Kelly have a few tips for you to get ready for the up coming season. And the big question everyone faces, which jobs are blue jobs and pink jobs? Also listen to the end to hear a sure fire way to avoid a big blow up with your spouse. It’s all real and unscripted, in an attempted enjoy a happy life!
In this episode Mark shares his coaching techniques and tips to a positive mindset with his team, Kelly also has her version of whats working and not working. Listen and add to the conversation on what works for your teams or your type of coaching style
Do you wondering if your being judged or not, do you care, how do you judge others??? Mark and Kelly discus how they judge others and it’s very different. Also how the judge pink and blue jobs is very different (this one is a time bomb)! Mark try’s to avoid this heated topic, but Kelly’s getting fired up! See if Mark can douse out the flames, or adds gas to this little cook out.
Kelly and Mark are doing their 8 year olds school science fair project, what the hell are they thinking, who’s running this ship? Listen in and tell them your thoughts, if you think its nuts . How far would you go, have you gone further?
Are looking for more kick in your morning coffee, want to get out of bed with a bounce in your step? Kelly and Mark discuss morning routines that have a kick and will get you going first thing.
In this episode, Kelly debates the difference between asking and complaining, and Mark can’t see a difference. Can you tell the difference?
Thanksgiving. It’s a time to give thanks, for all you have been given, like staying with family all under one roof.
The Stanton family is grieving the lost of their family dog. Find out how the kids take it and if what Mark and Kelly says will work?
Fundraising with 3 kids and multiple events can seem like a second job, what are you willing to give?
Kelly Tries to convince Mark to pay a $1.00 in exchange for each tiny chocolate bar at Halloween, will she put Mark in the poor house, listen and find out.
Keep your kids safe from your husband. Mark wants to take their 3 kids and float the river, will Kelly let him go...?
In this episode, Kelly and Mark discuss the dreaded hockey evaluations as their oldest son prepares for try outs. What role do parents play in this crucial time, is it more about the parents then the kids? Listen as they discuss attitudes around the rink and how Moms and Dads see things a little different. How do your rank yourself as a sports parent, take a listen and see if you agree.
Are you getting the things you said you would get done at the end of the school year? How to finish off strong.