Urban Spinster: Recent Episodes
Sadia Sanders
Celebrating the SINGLE life without judgement and redefining the word “Spinster” Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/urbanspinster/support
Continuing the episodic series on MacLaren Hall, my guest Robert Barela entered the foster care system at the age of 1. Born to drug-addicted parents. He was moved in and out of group homes, mental hospitals, and of course Mac.
After overcoming his own addiction, Robert is on a positive path forward with his newfound faith and wife.
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Sometimes it takes a while for women to reverse the conditioning received from birth. And when we do, often that awakening is met with backlash. Especially from males.--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/urbanspinster/message
Part 2 of the interview with my guest Gilbert Bao.On this episode we discuss his transition after spending 21 years in a California State Prison.Be sure to SUBSCRIBE! anchor.fm/urbanspinster/subscribe --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/urbanspinster/message
Continuing the episodic series on MacLaren Hall, my guest Gilbert Bao has spent more of his life in state custody than he has outside of it. From being removed by children's services at the age of 8, to a revolving door of juvenile detention and then sentenced to 24 years to life in California State Prison, Gilbert has come out on the other side. He admits that there are daily adjustments to be made. But his freedom is worth it.
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On this episode I speak with Los Angeles County MacLaren Hall Children's Center Survivor Tiffany Bowens. Her abusive mother freed her from the facility while on a field trip, then changed her name.
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Civil Justice and personal injury Attorney Ben Crump has joined forces with Adam Slater of Slater, Slater, Schulman LLP to file a lawsuit against Los Angeles County on behalf of Survivors of sexual abuse at "House of Horrors" MacLaren Hall.
I attended a press conference held in downtown LA at Stanley Mosk courthouse.
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Continuing my episodic series on MacLaren Hall, I speak to Claudia Flowers, who began her career in Social Work in 1993 and remained at the facility until its closing. This is Part 2 of 2. MacLaren Hall Children's Center has been called "Los Angeles' Dirty Little Secret". Owned by the county, It once housed thousands of kids removed from their homes for various reasons and placed at what was to be a temporary facility until a suitable foster home became available. Disproportionately, poor single mothers without the proper resources would lose their children to foster care. Many were victimized at the hands of those with a duty to protect them, resulting in lawsuits and the facility shut down.
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Continuing my episodic series on MacLaren Hall, I speak to Claudia Flowers, who began her career in Social Work in 1993 and remained at the facility until its closing. This is Part 1 of 2.
MacLaren Hall Children's Center has been called "Los Angeles' Dirty Little Secret". Owned by the county, It once housed thousands of kids removed from their homes for various reasons and placed at what was to be a temporary facility until a suitable foster home became available. Disproportionately, poor single mothers without the proper resources would lose their children to foster care. Many were victimized at the hands of those with a duty to protect them, resulting in lawsuits and the facility shut down.
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MacLaren Hall Children's Center has been called "Los Angeles' Dirty Little Secret". Owned by the county, It once housed thousands of kids removed from their homes for various reasons and placed at what was to be a temporary facility until a suitable foster home became available.
Disproportionately, poor single mothers without the proper resources would lose their children to foster care. Many were victimized at the hands of those with a duty to protect them, resulting in lawsuits and the facility shut down.
On this episode I speak to Andrew Bridge. He is a Survivor of MacLaren Hall and the LA County foster care system, an Attorney, Author and Children's Advocate.
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The latest social media influencer drama with Darius Williams aka Darius Cooks has me wondering why so many people will not only blindly follow, but staunchly support and defend folks they don't know in real life? Go with me down the #dariuscrooks vs The Kitchenista et al. rabbit hole.
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Social Media will have you believing that being young and single is a non-stop party.
Let's dispel this myth.
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It went down in Dallas, TX this weekend with an all out twerk battle between patrons and the owner of True Kitchen & Kocktails.
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Bishop A. Wyoming Bazemore wants you to know that his wife of less than a year Ann'Gel is a true Jezabel! But why did he choose her when other pastors warned him to stay away?
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Our own bad decisions can lead to us having bitterness that lasts a lifetime.
In an effort to keep our life lists on course, we often justify a significant other's bad behavior.
Listen to my perspective on Teri Knight's story, ex-wife of murderer Manuel Gehring.
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The pastor has been caught cheating again! Would you continue to be a member of Relentless or any church where the principles of the bible continue to be disregarded?
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By now you may have heard about the Prince of Sweetie Pies, Tim Norman being arrested on a federal charge of conspiracy murder-for-hire that killed his nephew Andre Montgomery. On this episode I talk about what lead to this arrest 4 years after Andre's murder. Ya'll pray for Miss Robbie!
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The Flower, Blessing Loom, Gifting Circle etc. are nothing but schemes that will crumble, maybe before you cash or “gift” out. Not to be confused with real Su Su a savings club among close friends and family, these invite only massive groups are illegal scams. And COVID has created the opportunity for people to be taken advantage of as finances have become unstable.
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When single people entangle with married folks we usually get the short end of the deal. Hear my thoughts on this whole August Alsina and Jada mess...
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I've been watching docuseries "Trial by Media" on Netflix. The "King Richard" episode in part is an example of a Civil Rights attorney selling out the Black community in order to serve his own agenda.
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My Aunt Pepper Miller, a multi-cultural market researcher for companies like Bravo, Ulta Beauty and McDonald's, joins me to discuss the signs of a narcissist and how to break free from narcissistic abuse.
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Men still feel like home makers, while important, don’t contribute in the same ways that they do. And therefore should sexually satisfy their needs when desired. Comedian David Arnold’s Netflix special “Fat Ballerina” confirms this way of thinking.
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Do you think it's OK for a married woman to ask her ex for money? On this episode I have a 3rd Party Story Time while I apply my avocado face mask.
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Are you a Mama Bird? 🐦 Constantly feeding someone else with your time, money and resources without receiving much in return?
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" People with aging parents are tired of being stuck between trying to help them and a parent’s denial, resistance, and rejection of ideas."
On this episode I speak with Rhonda Caudell, RN, CCM The Aging Parent Expert. She tells us how to co-create a partnership plan with our aging parents in order to help them have the best quality of life.
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One of my best friends and I talk about her experience marrying a man 7 years her junior.
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Most employees of large organizations have a Flex Spending Account benefit that they are not using. I teach you how to take advantage of this pre-tax savings on out-of-pocket medical expenses.
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Spent a Friday night doing one of my favorite things, watching a good crime documentary. This one is not only suspenseful, but had me confused, sad and angry all at the same time.
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The Peloton Bike Ad and Billy Dee Williams being “fluid”.
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Married or partnered people always try to hook up their Single friends. But get it wrong every time!
On this episode, I give matchmakers 3 tips that will save a lot of time and keep the friendships in tact.
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Sometimes we hold onto things we no longer need in our lives and don't do us any good.
Let's unpack while my clay face mask dries!
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I break down this 1st episode given my experiences with these types of relationships the ladies find themselves in.
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Buying property is stressful enough. Now let’s add selling another to the mix and having to be on alert for fuckery at the same time!
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My guest, comedian Anderi Bailey aka Mr. Amen, joins me to talk about why he is happily divorced. But would marry again for a 3rd time.
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My guest on this episode is a young Black man who loves love! We talk about why he values relationships, the mistakes made and his path to being better.
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My guest and former 8th grade teacher joins me to talk about why she remained single after having her children.
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When people acknowledge that they are falling short there is rarely an attempt to actually “do better”. So why say it out loud? 😩
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Attention isn’t always positive and sometimes not even about you. On this episode of the podcast I talk about how insecurity signs may be missed during the initial stage of a relationship.
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My guest, Credit Repair Expert Larry Baxter and I discuss why people may choose to rent vs own their home. He dispels first time buyer myths also giving tips on how to boost your credit score.
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A woman messed around for 25 years waiting on her estranged husband to go half on the divorce! Now that is petty.
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Single women are often advised to change things about themselves in order to attract and marry a man. But being fake is not sustainable over time. Take a listen to this latest episode and tell me what you think.
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On this episode I address financial manipulation by a spouse and the need to have emergency savings in case things go bad.
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My guest, blogger Laura Reid and I discuss our thoughts on why scammers like Billy McFarland are so successful and also delve into other documentaries we enjoyed.
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Many entrepreneurs don’t have health insurance. It’s expensive, especially when you’re just starting out. But there are ways to cover yourself in the event of an unforeseen illness or injury.
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When relationships end, sometimes without warning, we want to know where it went wrong. But is that really the best thing for our emotional health?
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It seems that women are always having to push back against people that seek to take advantage of us, or who are just being uncooperative. Do men have the same issue?
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Caribbean Top Model contestant says she was “forced” to chemically straighten her hair. But wasn’t this a choice? When faced with an ultimatum we either stand by our convictions or concede.
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I am fascinated with cult documentaries. Why people join them and how the leaders get members to stay. I think today’s racial climate may lend itself to the rise of another group that lures those seeking answers with promises of solving our communities issues.
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My guest Dr. Alvin Abston talks to me about being married 3 times and still having a desire for the right wife.
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We often hear that when praying for something, our “works” are required in order to make it happen. But sometimes we don't wait to find out exactly what that is.
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To what extremes would you go in order to find love? 🤔💘
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My guest on this episode of the podcast is Dr. Alvin Abston, a California State Certified Sex Offender Treatment Provider. We are discussing what makes a person become a sexual predator, possible signs and tips to help in your relationships.
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The rite of passage for graduating high school seniors is attending the prom. It could also mean having their first sexual experience.
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When going against what you know works for you, it results in regret. 😩Listen to my story about a recent visit to the dentist. 😷
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How do you feel about dating someone who has a lot of debt? Whether consumer, personal or investment debt?
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Fellas these dating tips will save you money, time, heartbreak and maybe even your life!
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If a woman prefers to date men who are financially stable, is she a gold digger or simply protecting herself and her assets? 🤔
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When children are raised in a secretive environment, it often results in adults who lie. Sometimes the adult continues to keep their family secrets out of shame.
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Why do you think successful, educated women , date men who are not on their level? Here are my thoughts...
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Does your significant other seem to always need rescuing?
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Do you think that two people of the opposite sex can be in a strictly platonic relationship? Hear my thoughts on this subject
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Violence is never ok. What makes some people stay in abusive relationships?
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Shady repairmen always seek to price gauge customers. Especially the ladies. Here is my latest experience and how I avoided paying too much.
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Our culture plays a huge role in how we manage relationships. Are you being true to yourself or trying to please others?
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Whether buying or renting a new home, there are some things to consider that you may not have as a single person without children. Here are 3 tips.
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When is it appropriate to talk about finances with your significant other and how should we go about it? Larry Baxter of Elite Financial, LLC helps us figure it out.
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Singles are often told that we are too picky. Knowing what you like and what you don’t is healthy! No one can live your life.
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Why is it that many married men look outside of their relationships?
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Ladies, would you allow your new spouse to move into your home and add them to the deed? 🤔
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Many people in our lives want to make demands of our time and resources. They think that because we’re single, we have it to give. Learn how to say no!
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Here are some tips to help you enjoy the holidays while single.
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One of my listeners wrote in and asked if traditional men still exist? I would say yes!
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Are you being you or the Brave version of yourself?
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Everyday there is another story regarding sexual misconduct in the workplace. Let’s talk about it.
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On this episode of the #podcast I interviewed Certified Holistic Doula and Yoni Steam Blend Curator, Yvonne Amis @rootd_n_love. Being a fibroid sufferer, I’m always interested to learn about methods to deal with the symptoms. Yvonne also curates steaming blends for #fertility and overall womb health.
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Be careful loaning money. Think about how of if you’ll get it back.
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Did that guy who ghosted you suddenly pop back up? Listen to the signs of being submarined.
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As a single woman who desires children with no prospects in sight, would you consider in vitro fertilization?
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We are often taught to become self-sufficient as adults versus leaving our parents and cleaving to a spouse. On this episode I talk about what Pastor Donald Bell teaches when it comes to preparing for marriage.
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As singles we sometimes become impatient with our love life being seemingly at a stand still. Here are some tips I’ll share.
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