Why Aren't You Over This By Now?: Recent Episodes
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“I should be over the things that happened to me.”
“I am to blame.”
“It has to be my fault, why else would it have happened?”
These are just a few of the statements many clients have said over the years. The truth is that we all have things happen in our lives. We all have stuff. Dr. James was abused as a child, abused in her marriage, and abused by the legal system and struggled to get over it. She kept searching for anything that would help her feel better; to not feel the way she had felt for so long. Finally, she found a way to heal her past in order to love her future.
As co-author of the book, Why Aren’t You Over This By Now? How Trauma Messes You Up and What To Do About It, Dr. James shares how events in life have negatively affected individuals as a way to help eliminate self-blame, guilt, shame, and negative self-talk. Dr. James has over two decades of experience in the mental health field focusing on how trauma affects you from a neurobiological, body based perspective intermingled with quantum physics.
Dr. Kelly James will be discussing intimate partner abuse and sharing her personal story of abuse.
Dr. Kelly James and Dr. Natalie Feinblatt talk about her new book, The First 90 Days of Sobriety: Recovering from Alcoholism: A Guided Journal and her nearly 20 years of experience in addiction treatment.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Lisa Ruoff will be talking about how she lives an unconventional, adventurous life.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Lisa Ruoff will be talking about how she lives an unconventional, adventurous life.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Wendy Hutchinson talk about how to change your story at any time to live your best life, impact, and change.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Jocelyn Pettit talk about Emotion and Body Code, Psych K and how to heal your life.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Daniel Hodges discuss his new book, From Felonies to Freedom, the 180 Degree Ministry, and getting free from any type of addiction.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Daniel Hodges discuss his new book, From Felonies to Freedom, the 180 Ministry, and getting free from any type of addiction.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Sara Haag talk about the evolution of online dating and dating apps.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Amber Eidem, founder of The Precious Legacy, talk about this important organization serving children of military service members who gave their lives.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Dr. Robert McBain will talk about his story with depression and discuss how the church can play a vital role in helping those suffering with this affliction, find acceptance, and support.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Dr. Robert McBain will talk about his story with depression and discuss how the church can play a vital role in helping those suffering with this affliction, find acceptance, and support.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Kevin Doncaster, founder of WarHawk PTSD Service Dogs talk about how the service dogs help veterans and first responders
Dr. Kelly James and founder, Kevin Doncaster talk about the exciting things happening with the 501c3 WarHawkPTSD Service Dogs.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Alina Garbuz, LPC will be having an honest conversation about suicide, part 2. Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255, Suicide.org
Dr. Kelly James and guest Alina Garbuz, LPC will be having an honest conversation about suicide. Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255, Suicide.org
Dr. Kelly James and Alina Garbuz, LPC, discuss her recent trip to Cameroon, Africa where she participated in a five-day trauma training for local counselors, teachers, and pastors.
Dr. Kelly James and guest, Joanna Majka, LPC, have a more in-depth discussion about the Enneagram numbers in this third interview.
Dr. Kelly James and guest, Joanna Majka, LPC, have a more in-depth discussion about the Enneagram numbers in this second interview.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Sheeba Varghese, Leadership Development Trainer and Executive Coach, will be Inspiring You To Thrive by sharing about the three keys to great leadership and her signature coaching system.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Christie Sears Thompson, LMFT and owner of Trade Winds Therapy and Relationship Counseling will be talking about her workbook, The Partnerhood Workbook: Helping couples gain the resources and knowledge they need for a successful Partnerhood as the grow their families.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Christie Sears Thompson, LMFT and owner of Trade Winds Therapy and Relationship Counseling will be talking about relationship counseling, conflict resolution, and much more.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Joanna Majka, LPC, give an overview of the Enneagram, explain the numbers, an overview of each type, and where to start to find your number.
Dr. Kelly James and Dr. Natalie Feinblatt discuss treatment for addiction, trauma, and former cult members.
Dr. Kelly James and Kristen Hale, LPC and owner of Connect and Restore, talk about the benefits of integrated treatment for children and families.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Lisa Surrency, LPC, Program Director of Counseling Solution for Catholic Charities, discuss signs of COVID fatigue, stigma of mental health services, and how to take care of yourself.
Dr. Kelly James and guest, adventurer Nick Fowler, talk about how to live life with Intentionality to have the life you want.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Alisa Johnson, LPC, talk about the benefits of Emotional Focused Therapy for promoting secure relational bonds and improving view of self.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Paula Merucci, LCSW, talk about the evolution of EMDR therapy and what actual EMDR therapy is like for the client.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Kevin Doncaster, Founder of WarHawk PTSD Service Dogs, talk about the effects of PTSD on military veterans, police, firefighters, and first responders and how specifically trained emotional support dogs can help save lives.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Dr. Mona Robinson talk about the benefits of rehabilitation counseling especially during difficult times like COVID.
Dr. Kelly James and guest, Dr. Anita Knight Kuhnley talk about The Mister Rogers Effect: 7 Secrets to Bringing Out the Best in Yourself and Other’s from America’s Beloved Neighbor.
Dr. Kelly James and guest, Kylee Nelson, LMFT, will be discussing the importance of maternal mental health.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Paula Merucci, LCSW, EMDR Certified, share how EMDR therapy can help with the COVID crisis.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Dr. Greg Meyer, LPC, Associate Professor, discuss the personal and spiritual life of helpers.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Megan Murray talk about why some couples make it and others don’t, benefits of couples counseling, and the Gottman Relationship Method.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Aaron Ashworth talk about blending counseling, chaplaincy, moral injury, crisis and trauma.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Aaron Ashworth, LPC, MDiv, will be sharing about the Oklahoma Governor’s Challenge and the national effort to reduce suicide among service members.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Juliet Fortino, LPC, Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor, and CCTP will share how to use play therapy to help children, families, and adults, especially in times of crisis and trauma.
Dr. Kelly James and Dr. Andrea Walker discuss compassion in light of COVID, racial inequality, spirituality and religiosity, and research.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Robert Holt, Founder and Executive Director of L.O.V.E. (Let Our Violence End) and Healing Waters talk about ways to make a difference.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Christie Casey Braun, owner of Alpine Ranch and Our Local Basket will be talking about the important of good food on mental health and how to create a healthy lifestyle.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Lisa Lothian talk 21st century energetic wellness technology for self care and health empowerment.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Robert Holt, Founder and Executive Director of L.O.V.E. (Let Our Violence End), talk about LOVE.
Dr. Kelly James and Dr. Sarah Stewart-Spencer talk about a variety of things from metaphors, gestalt therapy, trauma, to self-care.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Phil Ball, Wayfarer Life Coach talk about the benefits of using a life coach.
Dr. Jelly James and guest Stacy Roush talk about creating the life you want, grief, and hope.
Dr. Kelly James interviews Dr. Kandiss Taylor, US Senate candidate and discuss the changes that need to happen in politics.
Dr. Kelly James with guests Janice Ross and Allynn Young talk about therapy nuts and bolts.
Dr. Kelly James and author Christine Rose talk about the #MeToo movement and how to coach ourselves to create a new future for the next generation.
Dr. Kelly James features Dr. Edward Ewe as he shares his personal story of grief and loss and how COVID19 is causing the feeling of loss.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Dr. Ronnie Gaines discuss how to create a Master Level Marriage
Dr. Kelly James and guest Dr. Ronnie Gaines talk about how to create a Master Level Marriage.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Pam Nelson talk about Trauma Informed Yoga, and the importance of movement and breathing during times of anxiety.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Christina Conrad will talk about Somatic Experiencing, MDMA Assisted therapy, and iRest therapy.
Dr. Kelly James and Alina Garbuz have a conversation about benefits of online therapy, EMDR therapy, and more.
Dr. Kelly James and guests Susan Bachmann and James Stroope discuss the Body Code healing method focusing on Energy Imbalances.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Susan Bachmann Introduce the emotion code method of releasing trapped emotional energy.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Susan Bachmann share about the what, why, and how to get emotional healing.
Dr. Kelly James and guest Susan Bachmann discuss the stigmas, myths, and truth about mental health therapy.