R and R with Danah and Stacy: Recent Episodes
Danah and Stacy Gutierrez
Updates from our recent Vietnam trip, our thoughts on biological males insisting to be called women, and what we love about being a woman. (Recorded on March 15, 2024)
Here's the backstory of the love scam that Lou experienced! How did it even get to scamming? What did we miss? This is one insightful videocast with our bestie, Lou Batac! (Recorded February 24, 2024)
From love bombing to love scamming? Yep, this happened. Lou, our bestie, shares her insights and personal stories after experiencing being conned by a former boyfriend. Ingat, mga swissyyy!!! It's a dangerous dating world out there! (Recorded February 16, 2024)
Hello, we're back!!!! Muni-muni muna tayo about the past year! (Recorded on Feb. 9, 2024)
A follow-up episode to our previous discussion on Pride Month, with our special guest, Sass Roganda Sasot. (Recorded June 19, 2023)
Our hot take and unpopular opinion about the Pride Movement. (Recorded June 16, 2023)Note:We see this episode being edited and posted out of context with our strong opinions over the Pride Movement that's taken way out of context. Our views are stated because of what we see in the US media, which our country is heavily influenced by. We are against female erasure and child corruption--an agenda that's being pushed in Western Society. There's a strong divide among the LGBTQ movement clearly because of this.This is were we're coming from, and we understand that this is a dividing issue no matter how careful and vulnerable we are in discussing. But before jumping to conclusions and deeming this hateful, we want to reiterate that disagreement is not hate nor "phobic."
Gave our two cents on a hot topic surrounding a famous couple's public separation, as well as our own thoughts on marriage. (Recorded June 4, 2023)
Discussions on what toxic femininity is with lots of extra chikahans on the side. (Recorded May 19, 2023)
We discuss the process of choosing the future self you've always aspired to become. (Recorded May 10, 2023)
We discuss the dangers of making the ideologies you believe in your core identity. (Recorded April 28, 2023)
We talk about the refreshing concept of seeing and treating men as brothers, instead of always seeing them as "prospects." (Recorded April 19, 2023)
We made our mark as body positive advocates, but even our perspective about bodies and body image evolve and change. We talk about it in this episode! (Recorded April 13, 2023)
Ok ok we're back... Again. Sorna! 💖 Here's what's been happening and what we want to discuss in future episodes! (Recorded April 10, 2023)
We get raw and real about getting anxious despite being in a good season in our lives. (Recorded on September 23, 2022)
Fresh from recording! Sorry for not publishing an episode last week! In this episode, we hash out why it's so hard to change, and how to start. (Recorded on September 16, 2022)
We talk about the times we were part of shallow cliques and the unspoken—and sometimes weird—dynamics in different girl groups. We also talk about what cultivating real and meaningful friendships means to us today. (Recorded on September 1, 2022)
We give different reasons why our 20-year-old selves would be shookt to meet us now, at 31 years old. (Recorded on August 20, 2022)
Stacy shares some of the major signs that tell she's in a healthy relationship with her new beau. May iyakan pang naganap sa huli!!! (Recorded on August 14, 2022)Â
We've been gone for a looooong 11 months. What changed since the last episode?! (Recorded August 9, 2022)
G na g kami sa episode na 'to! We talk about the BS that so-called "nice guys" (READ: FAKE) try to pull with girls, and how to spot it from a mile away! Of course, based on our own experiences. (Recorded live on September 26, 2021 via @thedanahsoars Kumu account)
People like to label the sameness and differences of twins most of the time, so in this episode, we do that ourselves. (Recorded on September 20, 2021 live on @thedanahsoars' Kumu account.)
Our special guest in this episode is famous actor, Baron Geisler! He gets raw and real on his life journey, from hitting rock bottom to being redeemed. (Recorded on September 16, 2021 live on @thedanahsoars' Kumu account.)
The title says it all. ;) Recorded live on Kumu, September 13, 2021. If you wanna watch our live podcast recording, follow @thedanahsoars on Kumu! We go live every Mondays and Thursdays, and start around 7-8 PM.Â
The first guesting with our mom got so much good feedback, we decided to do a part 2! (Recorded live on Kumu, September 10, 2021. Catch our live podcast recording every Mondays and Thursdays, on @thedanahsoars' Kumu account! We start any time between 7-8PM!)
Much-requested and much-awaited! We have our momma bear on the show and she shares everything about being a teen-age mom back in the '90s! (Recorded September 6, 2021)
We candidly talk about what a "coercive abusive relationship" is, the red flags that tell if a person might be abusive, and Stacy's personal experience with a similar toxic relationship. (Recorded August 31, 2021)
We received a long message from a follower asking for advice in her current relationship. "Dear Danah & Stacy, I just want us to talk often. Is it too much too ask?" (Recorded August 23, 2021)
We rarely have male guests over our show, but when we do, they're quality men (but of course). 💯 In this episode, we pick the brain of Pastor and Husband, Joe Bonifacio, on red flags, relationships, and what it means to be a wife. (Recorded August 17, 2021)
We give our personal insights on these 3 concepts.
(Recorded August 16, 2021 LIVE on KUMU. If you wanna watch our live broadcast of the podcast recording, follow @thedanahsoars on KUMU. We go live every Mondays and Thursdays, 7PM.)
We discuss the lessons we're learning in our new season of being thirty that just wouldn't make sense to us in our twenties. (Recorded August 14, 2021)
First episode after 3 months of hiatus! A little catch up about where we are now, living independently, and some vague stuff! (Recorded August 10, 2021)
In this episode, we talk about how to deal with all the emotions of kilig and attraction... THE WISE WAY. Mature mature din tayo mga swissss! (Recorded May 17, 2021)
If you find yourself losing your identity in relationships or changing your personality to be liked by everyone else except yourself... This episode is for you! With our favorite guests, life coaches and power couple, RR and Carelle Herrera! (Recorded May 10, 2021)
We have special guests for this meaty episode that's all about patterns! Let us introduce Racquel (aka Carell) and RR Herrera, our favorite power couple and neuro-linguistic practitioners! (Recorded April 22, 2021)
We asked you to send us questions for us to answer, from the most mundane to the the most scandalous you can think of! We answer ALL of them in this episode! (Recorded February 23, 2021)
We talk about unprofessional ways of working and our personal pet peeves when it comes to work! (Recorded February 12, 2020)
The title says it all, friends! We take a trip down memory lane on all the mistakes, kagagahan, and karupukan we've made in our twenties, as well as all the lessons we've learned the hard way. With our special guest and friend, Aleli Espiritu. (Recorded January 31, 2020)
We recorded this episode on Valentine's Day, which we prefer to call Galentine's Day, and we talk about the myths we used to believe about singlehood. (Recorded February 14, 2020)
Welcome to Season 4! If you made it this far with us, THANK YOU! It's our birthday and we talk about making February 13 our personal new year! Why not, right? (Recorded February 9, 2020)
Yep, maybe we all have that one annoying tita or tito who loves to comment about everything you're not. 😒🤣 Listen to our candid take on our own experiences and how we process these situations moving forward. With special guest, Lou Batac. (Recorded December 30, 2020)
Impromptu recording with our guest, Miakka Lim! We hash out the importance of "spark" in relationships, the art of decluttering, and the value of grooming. (Recorded December 18, 2020)
This year has been tough, but there's always a silver lining if you look hard enough. We reflect about our own personal highlights for this insane year and our realizations on each one. (Recorded December 12, 2020)
We hash out the importance of family culture and dynamics in our adulthood. (Recorded December 12, 2020)
Another live podcast recording on Boiling Waters Facebook Page! We discuss this episode with Rescue Kabataan's founder and president, Abe Mesa Raymundo. (Recorded October 23, 2020)
Whenever we feel like victims in relationships, are we really victims or do we just hate accountability? We also talk about the freedom in admitting that we're insufficient, AND THAT'S OKAY! (Recorded October 19, 2020)
We talk to Applied Neuroscience Life Coach, Carelle Herrera, about what makes a toxic relationship, why we ignore the red flags, and how to start over. (Recorded October 9, 2020)
This is our podcast recording streamed live on Boiling Waters social media platforms! In this episode, we talk about the fake forms of women empowerment. (Recorded September 25, 2020)
In this episode, we reminisce and talk about the artists we used to idolize, and we break down the values in pop music. (Recorded September 19, 2020)
We discuss how social media affects us for better and for worse. (Recorded September 16, 2020)
Stacy gets honest about her struggles with self-pity and singlehood. (Recorded September 9, 2020)
A follower asked us how to deal with the feeling of being worth what you earn. (Recorded September 6, 2020)
We talk about where we are in our singlehood, how we view it now, and confronting our own issues with ourselves. (Recorded September 2, 2020)
Out first guest for this season is Chaplain and Writer, J.S. Park. (Recorded May 29, 2020)
We're back! This episode is all about what to expect for season 3, and what we've been up to during our break. (Recorded Aug. 25, 2020)
With our special guest, celebrity-mom-slash-public-figure Cheska Kramer, we engage in a fun conversation on family, insecurities, and her dating life with Doug. (Recorded April 28, 2020)
We answer a follower's question, "how do I start over in my relationship with God?" (Recorded June 27, 2020)
Our guest today is a queen! A beauty queen! We chat about her journey towards knowing Christ and her new-found convictions. (Recorded May 7, 2020)
How do we "let it go?" Whether it be relationships or thoughts or feelings? Listen and find out. (Recorded June 23, 2020)
Here's part 2 of our conversation with Coco, where she talks about motherhood, dealing with her son's rare heart condition, and seeing suffering as a privilege. (Recorded May 26, 2020)
The title says it all. Our guest in this episode is an epitome of a strong and outspoken woman, Coco Opeña-Fenix. Listen and enjoy our fun conversation on her life as a single woman! (Recorded May 26, 2020)
Modesty and rape is such a hot and heavy topic on the interwebs lately, thanks to the trending exchange on Twitter between Ben Tulfo and Frankie Pangilinan. Listen as we discuss what we believe is the main problem of our society today with regards to to this issue. (Recorded June 15, 2020)
In light of Independence Day, we talk about the real freedom found when you become a slave to Christ. (Recorded June 13, 2020)
Fun and insightful conversation with President and Co-founder of Human Nature, Anna Meloto-Wilk. So many nuggets of wisdom specially in having boundaries in dating!
In this episode, we discuss worldly regret and goldly regret, and how to ultimately break free from patterns of guilt and shame. (Recorded June 8, 2020)
We talk about the different sources of our anxieties and how to cast them all on God. (Recorded June 6, 2020)
We talk to actress and makeup artist, Marlann Flores, about her family dynamics and past life, and the new life she has found in Christ. (Recorded May 13, 2020)
Do we have regrets? Yes. Is it okay to have them? Of course, but it shouldn't just stop there. Listen to us and our friend Lou Batac as we discuss the things we regret doing and the healthy way to deal with them. (Recorded May 24, 2020)
We have a great conversation with our good friend, Tiffany Mallillin, about her life in her '30s. All about singlehood, faith, and living a committed life to Christ! (Recorded May 19, 2020)
What does friendship mean to us? How did we pursue friendships before? What were our motives? What are healthy friendships? Just some of the questions we tackle in this episode. Hope you learn something and reassess your friendships too! (Recorded May 24, 2020)
Since we keep talking about boundaries, we discuss how that actually looks like. In this episode, we discuss the practical boundaries we want to enforce in dating and relationships with the opposite sex. (Recorded May 22, 2020)
An honest conversation on worldly feminism, promiscuity, and redeemed womanhood with our special guest and friend, Lourdes Batac. (Recorded May 1, 2020)
Twin interviews twin. Danah asking Stacy about random stuff. The first of many twinterviews to come! (Recorded April 14, 2020)
What kind of entertainment do we consume and how is it really affecting us? (Recorded April 21, 2020)
In today's episode, we talk to Dr. Lex Ledesma about psychology, spirituality, and how to re-parent ourselves.
We discuss the "orgasm face" trend on Tiktok and our concerns about women who flaunt their sexuality this way for attention. (Recorded May 6, 2020)
We answer a follower's question: Is closure necessary to move on? (Recorded April 26, 2020)
Conversations with our special guest, singer-songwriter, Roy Antonio (Recorded April 21, 2020)
And you're still here, listening to us! LOL! SALAMAT! Welcome to Season 2! We talk about the times in our lives when the enemy would try to crush us, but he didn't know we're actually glitter. Praise God for His faithfulness! (Recorded April 23, 2020)
We discuss the traditional practices of our culture during Holy Week, and if this form of sacrifices pleases God. (Recorded April 10, 2020)
We talk about the different "attachment" styles and the category where we fall under. (Recorded April 7, 2020)
We share our personal experiences on online dating, and Danah's story on being catfished almost a decade ago. (Recorded April 4, 2020)
A follower asked us for advice as she goes through a season of heartbreak and pain. Her emotions are getting the best of her despite wanting to move on. How does she deal? Can we even control our emotions? Listen and find out. (Recorded March 30, 2020)
We discuss the different gospels we've been exposed to, how it affected our Christian walk, and how learning about our utter depravity has lead us to the REAL ONE. (Recorded March 28, 2020)
In this episode, we answer a question from a follower on how to deal with days when the craving for a man's attention is just too strong! Warning: this episode might not be appropriate for children. (Recorded March 24, 2020)
In this episode, we talk about our past toxic relationships and how low we've compromised our personal standards! Why and how did we even get soooo loooooow? Listen and find out. (Recorded March 21, 2020)
Prayer has become this one-sided way of talking to God, often treating Him as a genie who should just give the person praying what he/she wants. But is this really how prayer should be practiced and viewed? In this episode, we talk about the "problem" of prayer and how we ought to pray. (Recorded March 15, 2020)
The COVID-19 virus has officially been declared a pandemic by the World Health Organization, and we are all significantly affected with its current spread in our country. We discuss how "self-love" and consumerism affect the way we're handling this, and how ultimately, the greatest virus we need to deal with is the sin in us. (Recorded March 12, 2020)
Is feeding our ego good or bad? Why? In this episode, we discuss the ways we let our ego get in the way of growth, and the best way to deal with it. Â (Recorded March 7, 2020)
Society tells us that single people are "kawawa." Movies and TV tell us that finding a romantic partner is life's ultimate "happy ending." Are these all true? We beg to differ! Listen to our this episode that aims to empower single people. Â Oh yeahhhh. (Recorded March 1, 2020)
Part 2 of 2: Do you find yourself chasing the title "girlfriend" over and over? Do you get boy crazy a lot? Maybe that's an indicator that you're looking to relationships as your main source of identity. Pag-usapan na natin yan, the raw and real way! (Recorded February 29, 2020)
Part 1 of 2: We talk about our identity anchors from the past (our achievements, how we were brought up and more), and how it all just ultimately crumbled to pieces. Let's talk about our pursuit of identity the raw and real way! (Recorded February 29, 2020)
The title says it all! But to have some context, our discussion here is definitely in line with what the bible teaches about sex! (Recorded February 14, 2020)
We talk about the many times our own stubbornness have lead to deep pain and heartaches :( MASAQUETTE BUT MADAMING LEARNINGS! (Recorded February 8, 2020)
We discuss the reason why we went missing-in-action for a while. Juicy juicy! (Recorded January 26, 2020)
After 10 years of promoting body positivity and self-love, do we still consider ourselves as self-love advocates? (Recorded January 26, 2020)
Our definition of body positivity from our early '20s vs. now. (Recorded January 18, 2020)
We've been silent for the past 2 years. What really happened to PLUMP.ph and our advocacy? Listen and find out. (Recorded January 18, 2020)