My Darling Bride Podcast: Recent Episodes

Yemi Emmanuel

Join Host Yemi Emmanuel and Loni O. as they dig and discover precious gems for the building and rebuilding of kingdom homes and relationships one episode at a time. From interview with singles, engaged and married, every episode promises to move you towards a kingdom fulfilled relationship with self, others and most importantly with God.

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What makes a marriage last? Love is important, but liking each other might be the real secret.

In this episode, we share how friendship has shaped our connection—through laughter, fun, and real-life challenges. From rebuilding our friendship in hard seasons to intentionally making time for joy, this conversation will remind you that friendship isn’t extra... it’s essential.

🎙 Topics we cover:

  • Why liking your spouse matters
  • How to stay playful and connected
  • What friendship looks like in real life
  • Fun ideas to build friendship as a couple

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Can you chase personal dreams and still build a strong marriage?

In this episode, we open up about the tension between purpose and partnership. From individual goals to shared vision, we unpack how to grow as individuals without growing apart—and how we’ve learned to cheer each other on without competing.

We talk about:

  • Personal goals we’ve each carried into marriage
  • How we avoid competing or comparing
  • The importance of shared dreams as a couple
  • Why individual growth is not a threat to covenant

If you’ve ever wrestled with purpose, pace, or support in your relationship—this one’s for you.

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In this episode, we open up about how busyness nearly disconnected us—without even realizing it. From work to kids to ministry, life can pull couples in every direction. We share the boundaries, rhythms, and mindset shifts that helped us protect our marriage from burnout and stay connected through it all.

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What do you do when you and your spouse aren’t growing spiritually at the same pace?

In this episode, we open up about seasons when one of us was thriving and the other was struggling—how it impacted our connection, our faith, and our marriage. From dealing with guilt and frustration to discovering tools that helped us realign, we’re sharing what it really looks like to bridge the spiritual gap without pressure or shame.

We talk about:

  • How spiritual misalignment shows up in marriage
  • What NOT to do when you're out of sync
  • How to lead with grace, patience, and love
  • Real rhythms that helped us reconnect spiritually

If you’ve ever felt disconnected in your walk with God and your spouse—this one’s for you.

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Marriage comes with unexpected twists — new jobs, moves, babies, and hard seasons. In this episode, we’re talking honestly about how life transitions have shaped our relationship and how we’ve learned to stay united when everything else around us is shifting.

We open up about:

  • The biggest transitions that tested us
  • How faith, flexibility, and prayer kept us grounded
  • What we’ve learned about grace, communication, and timing
  • Why choosing each other matters—especially in the middle of change

Whether you're preparing for a new season or healing from one, this episode will encourage you to face transitions together, not alone.

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The topic of money and marriage will never get old as this is one of the most sensitive areas in most marriages. it can literally make or even break you is not handled with care.
Join us on a heartfelt journey as we open up about how we’ve navigated finances in marriage—from our first conversations about money as newlyweds to building shared goals, managing budgets, and growing financially as a team. In this episode, we get real about joint vs. separate accounts, financial roles, budgeting styles, and how our values shape every dollar decision we make.

Whether you're newly married, engaged, or looking to get on the same page financially with your partner, this honest conversation will give you insights, laughs, and a few practical takeaways.

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We’d love to hear how you and your spouse approach money in the comments below.

Chapters:
0:00 - Introduction
2:10 - How We Approached Money Early in Marriage
8:45 - Joint or Separate Accounts?
15:20 - Budgeting Styles: What Works for Us
22:35 - Financial Roles and Communication
30:10 - How Faith Shapes Our Money Mindset
38:25 - Our Financial Goals as a Couple
49:45 - Biggest Lessons We’ve Learned About Money & Marriage
58:30 - Final Thoughts and Advice

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They said things that made us question everything. Here’s how we handled outside opinions in our marriage — and what we learned about loyalty, unity, and grace..... Join us on a heartfelt journey as we open up about one of the most common but least talked-about marriage struggles: dealing with outside opinions. In this episode, we get real about how we've handled pressure, interference, and unsolicited advice from family and friends—and how we've learned to stand united, set healthy boundaries, and protect our marriage from gossip, drama, or division.

We even share a personal story about a time we had to choose each other above outside expectations—and what that taught us about unity, loyalty, and spiritual covering in marriage.

Whether you're engaged, newly married, or walking through a challenging season, this episode will give you tools and encouragement to protect what matters most: your covenant.

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Chapters:
0:00 - Introduction
2:05 - How We’ve Handled Family Opinions in Marriage
9:15 - Setting Boundaries with Friends or Relatives
16:20 - Recognizing Unhealthy Outside Influence
22:45 - A Real Moment When We Had to Stand United
30:30 - How Prayer and Unity Protect Our Marriage
37:50 - Navigating Gossip or Third-Party Conflict
47:10 - Loving Family While Guarding Your Home
55:45 - Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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Join us on a heartfelt journey as we open up about the expectations we had going into marriage—and the sometimes surprising, sometimes humbling reality we encountered along the way. In this episode, we get real about managing disappointment, adjusting our mindset, and learning how to grow through the gaps between what we hoped for and what we experienced.

Whether you're engaged, newly married, or have been doing life together for years, we believe this honest conversation will bring wisdom, laughter, and healing to your journey.

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Chapters:
0:00 - Introduction
2:00 - Our Expectations Before Marriage
10:20 - The Most Surprising Realities After Getting Married
19:30 - Dealing with Unmet Expectations
28:15 - Communication vs Assumptions in Marriage
36:00 - How We’ve Grown from Disappointments
44:45 - Grace, Forgiveness & Adjusting Expectations
52:30 - What We’ve Learned About Real Love
58:45 - Final Reflections and Encouragement

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Join us on a heartfelt journey as we open up about how understanding each other's love languages and improving our communication have strengthened our marriage. In this episode, we get real about the ways we express love, handle misunderstandings, and the practical tools we use — like check-ins, therapy, and prayer — to stay connected through every season of life.

Whether you're newly married, preparing for marriage, or simply looking for ways to improve communication in your relationship, we hope this honest conversation encourages and equips you.

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We’d love to hear about your love language or favorite communication tip in the comments below!

Chapters:
0:00 - Introduction
1:30 - What Are Our Love Languages?
6:15 - How We Express Love to Each Other
11:40 - Handling Miscommunication and Misunderstandings
18:20 - Tools That Help Us Communicate Better
26:45 - How Prayer and Spiritual Check-Ins Strengthen Us
34:30 - Why Therapy & Honest Conversations Matter
40:15 - Final Thoughts on Love, Grace, and Growth
44:20 - Closing Reflections and Encouragement

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Join us on a heartfelt journey as we open up about how parenthood has transformed our marriage, deepened our love, and reshaped our family values. In this episode, we get real about the joys, challenges, surprises, and lessons we’ve encountered while building a home rooted in faith, love, and grace.

Whether you’re newly married, expecting your first child, or navigating family life, we hope this honest conversation brings encouragement, laughs, and a few “us too” moments along the way.

If this resonates with you, don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share! We’d love to hear how becoming parents has impacted your relationship in the comments below.

Chapters:
0:00 - Introduction
2:00 - How Becoming Parents Changed Our Marriage
10:30 - Values We Want to Instill in Our Children
18:45 - Balancing Marriage, Parenting, and Personal Time
28:15 - Fun Traditions We Have and Want to Start
36:40 - Supporting Each Other in Our Parenting Roles
45:10 - Lessons From Our Own Childhoods
53:20 - What Has Surprised Us the Most About Family Life
58:45 - Final Thoughts & Reflections

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Join us on a heartfelt journey as we open up about the laughter, lessons, and love that have shaped our marriage. In this episode, we get real about some of our funniest memories, the challenges we've overcome together, and the dreams we're chasing for our future as a couple.

Whether you’re newly married, in a long-term relationship, or simply love hearing authentic marriage stories, we hope this conversation brings laughter, encouragement, and a little inspiration to your journey.

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We’d love to hear about your favorite funny moment or relationship challenge you’ve overcome in the comments below!

Chapters:
0:00 - Introduction
1:30 - Funniest or Most Embarrassing Moments
5:50 - Our Favorite Ways to Spend Quality Time
10:40 - How We Handle Disagreements and Conflict
16:15 - A Moment We Wish We Could Relive
20:00 - Challenges We've Overcome Together
24:10 - Our Dreams for the Next 5–10 Years
28:20 - What Excites Us About the Future
29:30 - Final Reflections and Encouragement

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Join us on a heartfelt journey as we open up about how faith and prayer have shaped our marriage from the very beginning. In this episode, we get real about the spiritual foundation of our relationship—how trusting God, praying together, and applying biblical principles has sustained us through every season of love, conflict, and growth.

Whether you’re newly married, preparing for marriage, or simply seeking inspiration to strengthen your relationship spiritually, we hope this conversation encourages and uplifts you.

If this resonates with you, don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share! We’d love to hear how your faith has impacted your relationship in the comments below.
Chapters:
0:00 - Introduction
1:20 - How Faith Brought Us Together
4:40 - The Power of Prayer in Our Marriage
9:10 - Trusting God Through Tough Seasons
13:25 - Applying Biblical Principles Daily
17:55 - Spiritual Encouragement as a Couple
22:40 - Forgiveness, Grace & Growing Together
27:10 - A Scripture That Defines Our Marriage
31:00 - Final Thoughts & Advice

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Join us on a heartfelt journey as we share our love story – from the moment we met to saying "I Do." In this video, we dive into the highs, the challenges, and the beautiful memories that shaped our relationship. Whether you're looking for relationship advice, wedding inspiration, or just love a good story, we hope our journey brings a smile to your face and maybe even some inspiration.

If you enjoy our story, don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share! We'd love to hear about your own relationship journey in the comments below.

Chapters:
0:00 - Introduction
1:30 - How We Met
5:45 - Our First Date
9:20 - Navigating Long-Distance
13:05 - The Proposal
16:30 - Wedding Planning
20:00 - Our Wedding Day
24:10 - Reflections and Advice

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Marriage is a gift, but let’s be real—it’s not always easy. In this powerful episode, we’re diving into the real, raw truths about what makes marriages thrive and what causes even the strongest relationships to fall apart.

Tap in as we share the lessons we’ve learned, the intentional decisions that keep us connected, and the biblical wisdom that continues to guide us. Whether you’re married, engaged, or just curious about what it takes to build a lasting relationship, this episode is for you.

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Listen to this eye-opening episode where a prominent Ghanaian pastor makes a statement most pastors are too afraid to say - marriages in most African churches are struggling!

Tap in as we explore the tough questions about marriage in the modern church. We’ll dive into biblical wisdom, practical challenges, causes of struggles and what can be done to fix it.

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Listen to this eye-opening episode where a couple decides to live separately while still being married! Can a marriage truly thrive when spouses have their own individual lives, homes, and routines? Is it wise or does it go against the biblical principle of ‘one flesh’?

Tap in as we explore the tough questions about long-distance marriages, personal independence vs. marital unity, and what the Word of God says about spouses living apart. We’ll dive into biblical wisdom, practical challenges, and whether this arrangement strengthens or weakens a marriage.

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Marriage is all about commitment, but what happens when a life-altering event tests that commitment before the wedding even begins? In this episode, we explore a deeply emotional dilemma—a bride-to-be cancels her wedding to support her grieving sister, leaving her fiancé heartbroken. Was she right or wrong? Could she have handled it differently?

Join PY, PL, and P.K. as they dive into the tough questions about balancing family loyalty and marital commitment. We’ll discuss biblical wisdom, practical steps for conflict resolution, and how faith can guide couples through difficult decisions.

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Marriage is beautiful, but sometimes love alone isn’t enough. In this episode, we dive into the hard truths about relationships, exploring why some marriages fail despite love, and how to build a strong foundation that lasts. Whether you're married, single, or dating, this relationship advice will help you navigate love and commitment the right way. Join Pastor Emmanuel Oludahunsi, P.L., and P.K. for a deep conversation on love, trust, and marriage wisdom."

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Finding Love in an Unorthodox Marriage | My Darling Bride Podcast 🎙

Not every marriage starts with love at first sight. For many, marriage begins as a necessity—whether for cultural, financial, legal, or even personal reasons. These unorthodox marriages often come with unique challenges, but can they also blossom into true love?

In this powerful episode of My Darling Bride Podcast, Pastor Emmanuel Oludahunsi, along with P.L., P.K., and Officer, explore:
✅ Can love grow in a marriage that started as an arrangement?
✅ Is love a choice, or does it have to happen naturally?
✅ What happens if one partner develops feelings and the other doesn’t?
✅ How do faith and the Bible help sustain an unorthodox marriage?
✅ What steps can couples take to build lasting love over time?

📖 Biblical Insights: The story of Jacob, Leah, and Rachel (Genesis 29) teaches us that love can be cultivated with patience, commitment, and faith—regardless of how a marriage begins.

💡 News Update: We also discuss the latest U.S. immigration policy changes that provide a new pathway to legal status for undocumented spouses of U.S. citizens—helping couples stay together.

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Was I Wrong for Saying No? How do i Navigate Intimacy, Boundaries & Respect in Marriage”

Marriage is all about covenant of love, respect, and mutual understanding—but what happens when expectations clash? In today’s episode of My Darling Bride Podcast, we unpack a controversial real-life story that has sparked heated debates:
A husband shows up at his wife’s workplace demanding intimacy, and when she refuses, he reacts in a shocking way. Some call it marital abuse, others say it’s an emotional outburst fueled by unmet needs.
Join us as we explore both perspectives and answer tough questions:
- Was the husband’s reaction a violation, or a cry for connection?
- Can a spouse “abuse” their partner by neglecting their emotional and physical needs?
- When does intimacy become an entitlement rather than an act of love?
- What does the Bible say about marital duty, boundaries, and mutual respect?

What to Expect:
• Understanding the balance between emotional security & physical intimacy
• The impact of communication on marital expectations
• Biblical insights on love, respect & mutual giving in marriage
• Practical ways to strengthen intimacy without pressure or neglect
• How to navigate frustrations in a way that builds trust

Let’s have an honest, biblical conversation on what it means to truly honor and cherish your spouse.

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Today, we explore Misplaced Expectations in Marriage: Are You Treating Your Spouse Like a Parent? From faith, emotional wounds, and personal healing to the seemingly small but significant expectations we place on our partners, this episode highlights the dangers of looking to a spouse for what only God can provide.

Inspired by biblical wisdom and real-life experiences, we discuss why trust, healing, and intentionality are essential for building a strong, lasting marriage.

Join us as we unpack how unresolved childhood wounds, unrealistic burdens, and the parent-child dynamic can create tension in relationships—and what couples can do to break free from these unhealthy patterns.
What to Expect:
• Why misplaced expectations are a silent marriage killer
• Signs you may be treating your spouse like a parent
• Biblical insights on healing emotional wounds through faith
• How to set healthy emotional boundaries in marriage
• Practical tips for fostering a true partnership and balanced relationship

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Today, we explore IMPORTANT QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE & AFTER YOU SAY I DO! From faith, finances, and family to the seemingly small but significant habits, this episode highlights the importance of uncovering the unfiltered side of your partner. Inspired by a viral reel from Pastor Creflo Dollar, we discuss why honesty, trust, and intentionality are essential for building a strong, lasting relationship.

Join us as we unpack why deeper conversations about compatibility, emotional regulation, and daily habits are the keys to a thriving marriage.

What to Expect:
• Why it’s crucial to know your partner’s “unfiltered” side
• Essential topics to discuss before saying “I do”
• Biblical insights on building harmony and trust in relationships
• Practical tips for improving communication and understanding
• Wisdom on preparing for marriage and navigating expectations

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What happens when adult film almost destroys your marriage???
Today we dive into the emotional journey of a woman who kept a painful secret from her husband for 15 years—a past adult film that resurfaced online and threatened to disrupt her marriage. It explores the importance of honesty, trust, and confronting past mistakes in building a strong and resilient partnership.

How do secrets impact a marriage? Can love and trust survive the weight of past mistakes? What does it take to navigate these challenges with grace and truth?

Join us as we unpack the lessons from this deeply personal story and discuss why honesty, communication, and forgiveness are vital to a thriving marriage.

This episode is a must-listen for couples navigating challenges, those seeking wisdom on marriage, or anyone struggling to reconcile with their past.
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• Honest conversations about the role of trust in marriage
• Practical steps for addressing difficult truths with your partner
• Biblical insights on forgiveness, redemption, and moving forward
• The importance of self-reflection and vulnerability in relationships
• Tips on building a foundation of openness and mutual respect

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“KNOWING WHEN TO END THE ENGAGEMENT” is an episode dives into the emotional complexity of deciding to end an engagement, especially when love has faded, but the relationship feels too intertwined to let go easily. It explores critical questions: How do you know when it’s truly time to walk away? Can a relationship recover when feelings have changed?

Join us as we discuss the challenges of breaking off an engagement with grace and clarity, even when your partner is still deeply in love. We unpack the importance of communication, boundaries, and emotional wisdom in navigating such a difficult decision.

What to Expect:
• Honest conversations about falling out of love and emotional withdrawal
• Recognizing when efforts to save the relationship may no longer work
• Practical steps for respectfully ending an engagement when you live together
• Insights on overcoming guilt and moving forward with emotional healing
• Biblical wisdom on finding clarity and peace in tough relationship decisions

This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with doubts in their engagement or seeking guidance on ending relationships while maintaining respect and compassion.

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This episode, "Beware of the friends you keep in marriage" explores the significant role that friendships play in shaping our romantic partnerships. Join us as we delve into the critical question: "How can the friends we choose influence our perceptions of our marriage?" We also discuss the importance of discernment when sharing personal issues and the potential impacts of external opinions on our relationships.

In today’s interconnected world, friends can be both a support system and a source of confusion. But how do we navigate the complexities of sharing our marital challenges with friends? We examine the fine line between seeking advice and allowing outside influences to affect our perceptions of our relationships.

What to Expect:
- Insightful discussions on the impact of friendships on relationship dynamics
- Personal stories highlighting experiences of sharing marital issues with friends
- Key considerations for discerning who to confide in regarding personal matters
- The potential risks and benefits of discussing relationship problems with friends
- Expert opinions on maintaining healthy boundaries while seeking support

This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand the influence of friendships on their relationships and how to navigate these dynamics wisely.

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This episode "break off the engagement before its too late" explores the powerful connection between purposeful dating and preparation for marriage. Join us as we ask the question: "Can dating intentionally really prepare you for a lifelong commitment?" Furthermore how do you know when the engagement is not likely to turn into a marriage???

In today’s fast-paced world, casual dating often takes precedence, but what about dating with a clear goal in mind—marriage? We dive into how dating with purpose helps you understand yourself, your values, and your future partner, setting the foundation for a strong and lasting marriage.

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• Personal stories from individuals who approached dating with marriage in mind
• Key lessons learned from dating purposefully and how they shaped their future relationships
• How intentional dating helps clarify what you truly want in a life partner
• Red flags and green flags that indicate readiness for marriage
• Expert insights on using your dating years as a blueprint for a successful marriage

This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to date with intention and build a marriage that stands the test of time.

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In this insightful episode of MDB, we explore the often-underestimated importance of friendship in marriage. Join us as we ask the question: "Can you truly love your partner without being friends?"

In today’s world, romance is often celebrated, but what about the foundational friendship that keeps relationships strong? We dive into how a solid friendship can enhance communication, build trust, and create a deeper connection between partners.

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• Personal stories from couples who prioritize friendship in their marriage
• Signs that friendship is lacking in your relationship
• The benefits of being best friends with your spouse
• Practical tips for cultivating a strong friendship while managing daily life
• Expert insights on nurturing love through friendship

This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to strengthen their marriage through the power of friendship.

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In this eye-opening episode of MDB, we tackle the often-overlooked impact of the hustle culture on our most important relationships—our marriages. Join us as we explore the question: "When does the grind become too much?"

In today’s fast-paced world, ambition and hard work are celebrated, but at what cost? We delve into how the relentless pursuit of career success can lead to emotional distance, communication breakdowns, and ultimately strain on your marriage.

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  • Personal stories from couples who've felt the strain of hustle
  • Signs that your work-life balance may be tipping too far
  • The importance of prioritizing your partner amidst the daily grind
  • Practical tips for fostering connection and intimacy while managing responsibilities
  • Expert insights on creating a supportive and thriving relationship

This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the challenges of balancing professional ambition with a healthy, loving marriage.

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In this thought-provoking episode we explore the complex and often controversial decision of a woman who chose to tie her tubes without informing her husband. What led her to make this choice, and how does it impact their relationship?

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- The reasons behind her decision and the emotional turmoil it caused.
- The importance of communication in relationships, especially regarding family planning.
- The potential consequences of keeping such significant secrets from a partner.
- Insights from experts on reproductive choices and the dynamics of marriage.

This story raises vital questions about autonomy, trust, and the choices we make for our bodies and our families. We want to hear from you! What are your thoughts on this situation?

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On today’s episode, we tackle the intriguing question: How much should you really spend on a wedding ceremony? With recent headlines featuring Asia's richest man reportedly spending a staggering $300 million on his son's wedding, it raises the stakes on what a wedding budget can look like!

Join us as we explore:
- The shocking figures behind extravagant weddings and what they mean for the average couple.
- A breakdown of typical wedding costs, from venues to catering, and how they compare to high-profile celebrations.
- Practical tips for creating a realistic wedding budget that fits your vision without going overboard.
- Insights into how to prioritize your spending while still making your big day memorable.
- The impact of societal expectations and how they can influence wedding budgets across different cultures.

Whether you’re planning a wedding or simply curious about the lavish spending of the wealthy, this video offers a thought-provoking discussion on the balance between dreams and financial realities.

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In this thought-provoking episode, we will listen to a Nigerian lady who shares her controversial perspective on making herself sexually available only to married men.

She believes that if a man is unsatisfied at home, she is there to provide the satisfaction he seeks. Join us as we delve into the implications of her sentiments, exploring whether they contribute to pushing spouses toward adultery, the nature of temptation, and the moral complexities surrounding these choices.

Join us for an honest conversation that challenges conventional views on relationships and examines the emotional and ethical ramifications of seeking fulfillment outside of marriage.

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what happens when men cry??? Recently Tyrese Gibson broke down in tears on national radio station - the breakfast club - when he was asked about his mental health. The host asked acknowledge the fact that he knows Tyrese has been going through a lot over the years and maybe touched on the fact that he had no one to share his grief with or haven't yet found a safe place to express his emotions.

This is a continuous problem that we find to be true amongst men in our culture. This episode would dive into the cultural norms that has kept our men bound for far too long!
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are you thriving or merely surviving in your marriage? Join P.Y and co-host on my darling bride podcast to discuss men and the sometimes unfair expectation that society has placed on men in general and in marriage/relationship.

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what do you do when your wife cheats on you or in this case what happens to this marriage when the woman cheats on her sick husband who had been sick for year!

better yet where is the strength of the wedding vows that says in health and in sickness???

are you thriving or merely surviving in your marriage? Join P.Y and co-host on my darling bride podcast to discuss unfaithfulness in marriage.

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In honor of father's day weekend, today we are discussing the impact of a father's absence on a daughter. Also known as the fatherless daughter syndrome.
answering questions like:
what is the impact of a fatherless on daughters
what does an emotionally absent father do to a daughter
does an absent father affect daughters relationship with men
and more.
hope you enjoy this episode! let us know in the comments below.

We are so glad to be back! we know it has been a while but please know it's for a good reason. soon we will be able to share the news with you all!!!
but on today's episode, P.Y is joined by new co-host P.K and Officer!. they came on as guest last year and this year they will be hosting the show with us! this should be exciting!!!

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This episode reveals the truth about what happens when you abuse your authority especially in the context of marriage. Men who abuse their authority need to understand that this is actually a subtle sign of weakness.

leadership is a call to servitude not lordship. Find out what it means to be an abuser of authority and what are the dangers surrounding it.

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01:25 Last weeks recap
01:45 the danger of abusing your authority
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This episode reveals why you should never question your husbands authority as the head. furthermore on the episode we explore the type of authority that God grants the man, what happens when you question his authority and things you can do instead to help you build kingdom homes and relationships.

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Motivated by a single mission: To reconcile a generation unto right standing with God in all areas of life. Yemi Emmanuel - Oludahunsi is a speaker, teacher, and a home building specialist. An avid advocate of building kingdom fulfilled homes and relationships for the betterment of the future leaders of tomorrow.

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On this episode "How Long Should You Date Before Saying 'i Do'?" we will explore the things to look out for in a relationship before saying "i do" its not a question of how long but how soon!!! how soon can he or she show you what you need to see to make it happen.

many times we ask these questions: how long should you date before getting married, how long should you date before getting exclusive, or if a man says he wants to take things slow is he wasting your time or you need to be patient?? lets find out together on this episode that is focused on building kingdom fulfilled homes and relationships.

Yemi Emmanuel - Oludahunsi is a home building specialist, speaker, preacher and teacher of the word of truth in the areas of relationship and righteousness.
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on this episode "The The Reality of sexual violence in India" P.Y discuss the outrageous rate in which rape cases are growing in India and how they are now getting the attention of the international community.
The question is: Has India become the rape capital of the world? what exactly is going on in India??
According to south China morning post, In India, a rape takes place every 15 minutes, according to government figures. It is so common that many cases go unreported, and few make the news.

NPR.ORG says, “another reason the rape statistics in India may be an undercount. They say that families of women who are raped sometimes shame them into silence because they're afraid that the news of the rape could affect the woman's marriage prospects or the family's reputation.

Earlier this month a Brazilian tourist was raped by 7 men while on tour with her husband in India and it has been spreading like wildfire on social media. Even though she was awarded 12 thousand dollars by the government, the case is still in court and the perpetrators are yet to be fully persecuted.

My Darling Bride Podcast is all about women empowerment and we must all do what we can to empower our women. Sexual violence must be stopped by all means, and our women must be protected at all costs.

Yemi Emmanuel - Oludahunsi is a speaker, teacher, and a home building specialist. An avid advocate for building kingdom fulfilled homes and relationships with a mission to reconcile a generation unto righteousness in love and in life.

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From 00:00 – introduction
From 01:03 – rape statistics in India
From 04:00 – tourist in India
From 05:00 – age long debate about full coverage
From 08:16 – what exactly is going on in India.
From 09:10 – to kill a tiger documentary.
From 11:28 – understanding the importance of a woman.
From 13:33 – speaking up and speaking out.
From 15:00 – actively empower women.
From 16:36 – reward brain more than beauty
From 20:18 – dress how you want to be addressed.
From 29:42 – closing and conclusions.

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she said my body my choice!!! but truth be told Is It Really "my Body, My Choice"? is this even a biblical concept? lets find out together on this episode that is focused on building kingdom fulfilled relationship with self.

Yemi Emmanuel - Oludahunsi is a speaker, preacher and teacher of the word of truth in the areas of relationship and righteousness.
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Regardless of how long you have been married, here are 5 tips for building intimacy in marriage. its never too late to get the spark back. our goal at MDB is to create the Ephesians 5:25-27 kind of marriage for the building and re-building of kingdom homes and relationships.

Let's do marriage the God way, the kingdom way that honors God and is worthy of the Ephesians 5:25-27 description.

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Love is a tricky thing because it deals with the matters of the heart. The question is IS IT POSSIBLE TO LOVE TWO PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME? if so, what can YOU do to navigate being in love with two people.

Many people would admit that at one point or another they have found themselves in a love triangle. intentionally or accidentally. if and when it does happen, what can you do?

Join host Yemi Emmanuel and guest co-host PK!!! as we dive into the episode of "Love Dilemma: Can You Really Be In Love With Two People? "
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    10:00 Discuss having a crush love
    15:00 Discuss loving your co-worker
    20:00 Personal experience on navigating feelings for two people
    30:00 How P.K navigated his emotions before marriage
    40:00 lets talk about the mind and the heart
    50:00 lets talk about choices and decisions
    55:00 closing and conclusions

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Without trust, it is impossible to build anything meaningful. On today's episode "OVERCOMING TRUST ISSUES IN MARRIAGE" P.Y shares key points to note concerning trust. what causes trust issues and how do we deal with them.

Pls note the change in posting times... MDB will be posted on Wednesdays now on youtube and all other podcast platforms!

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P.Y is also an itinerant preacher/speaker. If you would like to invite Pastor Yemi Emmanuel to speak at your next event, please send an email to info@yemiemmanuelministries.com and a member of our team will reach out to you shortly.

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    05:00 honesty and trust
    10:00 causes of trust issues
    15:00 previous experience and personal projections
    20:00 partner mistakes and personal tendencies
    25:00 how to deal with trust issues
    30:00 lets talk about attachment
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Here are five tools needed to build a strong marital foundation. on this episode, P.Y provides discussion provides guidance and insights on the key elements of building a strong foundation for a lasting and fulfilling marriage. Pastor Yemi Emmanuel is a speaker and teacher who teaches on the topics of righteousness and relationships for the building of homes and the reconciliation of a generation unto righteousness. In this video, P.Y shares practical tips and tools to help couples establish a sound, strong and solid foundation that can withstand the tests of time.

The teaching covers important aspects such as love, trust, communication, shared values, respect, and commitment. Viewers may come away from the video with a greater understanding of the importance of building a strong foundation and the steps they can take to create a successful marriage regardless of their dating phase.

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05:00 what do i do commentary
10:00 pure love through sacrifice and commitment
15:00 honesty and trust is needed
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23:00 patience and time
26:00 solid ground - God
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is your marriage starting to feel like a trap or a prison sentence as some would say? Nothing can prepare you for the unexpected but you can position yourself for a blissful journey by preparing for some things and we discussed them here on this episode.

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05:00 what happens after wedding
10:00 prepare for the merging
15:00 prepare for unexpected changes
20:00 prepare for the journey
23:00 prepare for growth
40:00 conclusions and closing

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This is our last episode for the year 2023 and we've got some exciting news for 2024!!!

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David knew he wasn't ready for marriage but he knew for sure she was the one. What he did to secure his place with his wife is what we call a HACK!!!

The journey started from church screen to baking camera cake to business marketing and more. The union is blessed with a beautiful baby girl and the journey has been nothing short of amazing.

On this episode we discussed how to get to know for sure if someone is the one without being in a relationship with them. Furthermore we talked about the journey thus far and the importance of drinking from the same spiritual fountain when it comes to dealing with life difficulties.

watch and listen as we continue on the AT THE CORE season.

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here are four things that really happens after you get past the wedding high!!! and reasons why you need to prepare yourself for the journey ahead especially if you are getting ready for marriage or you are newly married.

Essentially it is almost a fact that you cannot fully have all your i's dotted and all your T's crossed when it comes to life after the wedding ceremony. Nothing can prepare you for the unexpected but you can position yourself for a blissful journey by preparing for some things and we discussed them here on this episode.

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On this episode we discussed the idea of opposite best friends and why it is a no go area for The Brunaches! Furthermore we talked about the challenges of finding young people who have a wholistic understanding of Christian marriage, the importance of respect and education.

They started out as best-friends and have maintained that friendship from their dating phase till now in the marriage phase. watching them grow and continue to blossom in their journey has been nothing short of amazing.

watch and listen as we continue on the AT THE CORE season.

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here are for things marriage wont change!!! and reasons why marriage wont change you. Even if you do eventually change after getting married, the reason will be due to personal realizations or divine interventions it wont be because you got married.

Essentially it is almost a naive expectation to have on your significant other that one or two things about them will change once you get married. please understand that marriage is an amplifier of relationships. whatever is already going on in your relation will only be 10X once you get married. so if there are things you don't like or would like to change in your marriage, fix them now, pray on them now before you say I DO.

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05:00 things marriage wont change
10:00 beliefs in marriage
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On this episode we discussed how to make your marriage work with the akinwusis. Moreover we talked about the difficulties of long distance relationship and how to make a long distance relationship situation work for you.

The journey has not been easy but well worth it for the Akinwusis from the days of friendship to dating exclusively then all the way to marriage.
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00:00 still to come
01:00 introduction
05:00 the akinwusis
10:00 long distance relationship journey
15:00 the difficulties of long distance relationship
20:00 how we made long distance work
30:00 three qualities we looked for
40:00 atim faithwear
50:00 closing and conclusions

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Many people are asking: love or arranged marriage which is better? are arranged marriage better than love marriage? why are arranged marriages bad and love marriage is better? who should enter into an arranged marriage agreement.

Watch as we address this topic on todays episode without bias? or maybe a little bias leaning more towards one over the others.

Join us on the let's talk about it segment of My Darling Bride Podcast. to discuss Love or Arranged Marriage Which is better! have you find arranged marriage worked better than love marriage? we would like to hear from you. this is a HOT debate that really rocks the marriage institution especially is cultures with depth like India and Nigeria. Marriages in India and marriages in Nigeria is a big deal and your choice of love/arranged marriage will always be yours to live with.

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00:00 introduction
01:00 love or arranged marriage which is better
05:00 my darling bride intro
10:00 personal take on love vs arranged
15:00 two dangers of arranged marriage
20:00 where do you stand on love or arrange marriage
27:00 closing remarks

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This video is about the role of cultural differences in A relationship. how it is you can share the same nationality but have so many cultural differences regardless of race or color.

on today's episode we sit with Mr. Femi Falade who recently just got married and shares with us the struggle of dating women from several different cultures and how that played a major role in his past relationship but has also been a learning curve for him in handling his marriage and relationship with his new wife.

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on this episode PY and Loni O. discuss why you should be actively looking for your perfect person, why you should be actively looking for love, why you should be actively looking for relationship, why you should be actively looking for the one God has ordained to be yours, why you should be actively looking for the right moment.

The question is not if you should be actively looking or not. we are a firm believe and advocate of those who seek shall surely find. this is a biblical principal that holds true even in relationships.

so on this episode of the AT THE CORE season, we discuss very briefly why you should be actively looking for love or relationship. waiting and not looking is one strategy that we don't believe is the best strategy although it may have worked for a few - they are the exceptions.

let us know what you think in the comment section about the "why you should be actively looking" episode with PY and Loni O.

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How do you know if she's the one or if he's the one. Even after you think you know them enough, the question still remains do you really know this person at the core - what shapes them, shakes them and breaks them.

on today's episode with Pastor Elijah Ogunyemi of God's grace ministries, we were able to explore signs and signals that he used to determine if his wife was the one for him. From shared values and interest to deep and undeniable emotional connectio

we loved this one, hope you will too.

the goal is to move us one step closer towards a kingdom fulfilled home and relationship one episode at a time.

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This episode shows you the power of decision and how one decision can change your life and relationship forever. one simple decision can change your relationship, your marriage, even the trajectory of your life.

special guest Loni O. opened this season for us as we delved into our life story a little more in depth to try and dig out what was the turning point for our relationship that ultimately changed our life. what decisions did we make that made all the difference.

listen in and watch as we discuss the power of one decision and how one decision can literally change your life and relationship.

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The questions is why so much disagreements in relationships and marriages.

This is the question we asked ourselves about 1 or 2 years into our marriage. almost every week disagreement was inevitable. we had to do something about it.

we noticed there was so much disagreement in our marriage at that time because of these 5 reasons mentioned in this video.

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how to get out of the roommate syndrome is the topic of discussion today!!!
we promise to not only talk about the problem but we will also offer solutions. Roommate syndrome is a real thing and many homes and marriages that end up in divorce starts from a place of roommate. when romance is no longer in the relationship and the only way to explain whatever you have left in the relationship is roommate. simply sharing a roof and living separate lives.

Tap in with us this month as we dive into the series roommate to romance. our hope is that by the end of the series your relationship would take a much better turn, you would look inward and ask the tough questions for the betterment of your marriage/relationship. Roommate syndrome is real and it is breaking homes!!!

on this episode we go into details about 6 sure fire solutions that can help you get our of roommate syndrome and take your relationship to the next level.

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what causes roommate syndrome is relationships? have you ever wondered why things just kind of go stale in relationships? Tap in with us this month as we dive into the series roommate to romance. our hope is that by the end of the series your relationship would take a much better turn, you would look inward and ask the tough questions for the betterment of your marriage/relationship. Roommate syndrome is real and it is breaking homes!!! 

on this episode we go into details about 5 possible causes of roommate syndrome and next week we are going to talk about how to cure once and for all any type of roommate syndrome in your marriage or purposeful relationship. 

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SEXUAL ATTRACTION AND MARRIAGE CONVERSATION WITH PASTOR DANIEL BABLO OF HOPE RESTORATION CHURCH AND PRESIDENT OF SURGE! 

we discussed this topic and more and we hope it blessed both married and single folks alike. 

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Have you ever felt like your partner is more of a roommate than a romantic partner or spouse? its possible you make a good team and have gotten so good with keep things in motion but how is that any different from a roommate? you know youre in something you just know its not romantic. and it doesnt feel like relationship. 

on this episode we go into details about identifying if your marriage has somehow gone from romance to roommate. this is never the intention of couples but someone most marriages end in motions. the romance becomes stale and we maintain a home, simply by being roommates 

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Is Sexual Attraction A Prerequisite for marriage???
what does the bible say about sexual attraction and desires! 

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we almost missed our nigerian wedding!!!! unbelievable 
on todays episode we share the part 4 of our love story particularly our engagement and how we almost missed the whole thing. 

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HOW TO BUILD A MEANING FUL RELATIONSHIP

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What we did before marriage is a relationship advice video for both men and women who are currently in the process of getting married in the nearest future. In this relationship advice video, we will share our story with you on how we met each other's family, how Emmanuel asked Loni's father for his blessings to marry his daughter, how we went into pre marital counseling and so much more. This is relationship advice you will certainly find beneficial.

This is Philia Culture, love culture a safe space created for people who are passionate about taking their relationships to the next level, first with self, with others and with God. This relationship advice that we provide in the most relatable way will help take your kingdom relationship to the next level

We are happy to coach you through all the phases of transition in your relationship. Perhaps you are asking yourself these questions:

  • How to make a long distance relationship work
  • How to survive a long distance relationship
  • How do you date in a long distance relationship
  • Do long distance relationships work
  • Long distance relationship advice
  • Long distance advice
  • Dating long distance
  • Long distance love
  • How to make long distance relationships work
  • Are Online dating still safe
  • How do I have a successful online dating experience

and more, you have come to the right place! why don't you watch the first part of the 4 video series and let us know what you think in the comment below.

Part 1: How We Met: Our love story after 12 years
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BE CAREFUL WHO OR WHAT YOU LET INTO YOUR LIFE AND RELATIONSHIP
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How we made long distance relationship work is a relationship advice video for both men and women who are currently in a long distance relationship with the intention of moving closer together in the nearest future. In this relationship advice video, we will share our story with you on how we survive long distance relationship and how it helped us build a stronger and more successful relationship that eventually led to marriage. Dated six years and married 6 years - 12 year total in a relationship and the journey keeps getting better and better. This is relationship advice you will certainly find beneficial.

If your story is anything like ours and you are wondering how you will make your long distance relationship work then you have come to the right place. this is Philia Culture, love culture a safe space created for people who are passionate about taking their relationships to the next level, first with self, with others and with God. This relationship advice that we provide in the most relatable way will help any long distance couple and anyone interested in getting into a long distance relationship to make their relationship successful.

We are happy to coach you through all the phases of transition in your relationship. Perhaps you are asking yourself these questions:

  • How to make a long distance relationship work
  • How to survive a long distance relationship
  • How do you date in a long distance relationship
  • Do long distance relationships work
  • Long distance relationship advice
  • Long distance advice
  • Dating long distance
  • Long distance love
  • How to make long distance relationships work
  • Are Online dating still safe
  • How do I have a successful online dating experience

and more, you have come to the right place! why don't you watch the first part of the 4 video series and let us know what you think in the comment below.

Part 1: How We Met: Our love story after 12 years
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HOW NAKED ARE YOU

Nakedness is defined as to be without clothing or covering, completely exposed, or uncovered. To be bare or found in the rawest form.

Transparency on the other hand is defined as allowing light to pass through so that objects behind can be distinctly seen.

Another definition – free from pretense or deceit. Talking about being an open book

· What comes to mind when you think about it? open question

· How important is it in general and specifically to you? open question

· What is a popular belief around this topic?

Transparency can be viewed as being weak, or

having too many people in your business,

some believe their spouse don’t need to know everything.

some have this mentality of what you don’t know won’t kill you but how profitable is this mentality especially in the context of marriage or any other relationship for that matter.· Passage of the bible that addresses topic.

Genesis 2:25

25 And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.

Genesis 3:7

7 Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they were naked. And they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths.

Genesis 3:10

*10 And he said, “I heard the sound of you in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked, and I hid myself.”

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It's been a season of L O V E for us so we thought why not share the story of how we met from the beginning. every couple has their story of how they met. This is our unique story but we share some tips here that will definitely help you in finding and choosing your "THE ONE"

we dated for 6 years before marriage and the journey has full of adventure!
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EXPECTATIONS VS REALITY IN RELATIONSHIPS
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Hello friends! WELCOME TO 2023 & happy new year!
February is love month and guess what? WE ARE BACK!

So many things to look forward to this year as God opens up the door of 2023 unto us. what to expect?
1. Philia weekly continues every Sunday
2. Philia Charge every Monday starting next week
3. Philia experience - in person program
4. Truth Thursdays
5. OHMI - Prayer meeting!

It shall indeed be glorious. Tap all the way in and lets journey together.

Website coming out shortly
Merch coming out shortly
and so much more!!!!!

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the question most people should ask before getting married is 
AM I READY FOR MARRIAGE. All things equal, am i still ready?

Join emmanuel oludahunsi as he shares 6 indication to know if you are ready for marriage or not. 

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What are red flags and some consequences of ignoring red flags. In life and in relationships God makes loves us so much that he reveals to us some signs that we should look out for. our conscience speaks to us when something is not going right or when there are things we need to pay attention to whenever we are heading in the wrong direction.

today's message speaks on:
The consequences of ignoring RED FLAGS

  1. What are red flags
  2. what are relationship red flags
  3. what are consequences of ignoring red flags

Judges 16:15-21
15 Then she said to him, “How can you say, ‘I love you,’ when your heart is not with me? You have mocked me these three times, and have not told me where your great strength lies.” 16 And it came to pass, when she pestered him daily with her words and pressed him, so that his soul was [a]vexed to death, 17 that he told her all his heart, and said to her, “No razor has ever come upon my head, for I have been a Nazirite to God from my mother’s womb. If I am shaven, then my strength will leave me, and I shall become weak, and be like any other man.”

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what is satisfaction, how do we become content with what we have in who we have. let her breast satisfy you speaks of being satisfied with your spouse or significant other.
Todays message focuses on contentment and satisfaction with your spouse.

  1. what does the bible say about satisfaction
  2. what does it mean to let her breast satisfy you
  3. how do we become satisfied with the wife of our youth

Proverbs 5:15-23

Drink water from your own cistern,
And running water from your own well.
16 Should your fountains be dispersed abroad,
[a]Streams of water in the streets?
17 Let them be only your own,
And not for strangers with you.
18 Let your fountain be blessed,
And rejoice with the wife of your youth.
19 As a loving deer and a graceful doe,
Let her breasts satisfy you at all times;
And always be [b]enraptured with her love.
20 For why should you, my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman,
And be embraced in the arms of a seductress?

21 For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord,
And He [c]ponders all his paths.
22 His own iniquities entrap the wicked man,
And he is caught in the cords of his sin.
23 He shall die for lack of instruction,
And in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray.

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what to do when you are waiting on the right one. For every individual, there is such a thing as the right one, and it is imperative to be able to wait for such a person. but the real question is what do you do while waiting. are there steps to take while waiting? what are the express benefits of waiting?

here are a few pointers

  1. develop yourself
  2. cultivate your character
  3. pray, pray, pray and so much more!

Isaiah 40:29-31

29 He gives power to the weak,
And to those who have no might He increases strength.
30 Even the youths shall faint and be weary,
And the young men shall utterly fall,
31 But those who wait on the Lord
Shall renew their strength;
They shall mount up with wings like eagles,
They shall run and not be weary,
They shall walk and not faint.

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how to make long distance relationships work????
on today's episode we discuss 5 ways to make long distance relationships work. not just for now but forever if God wills

Matthew 18:19
“Again[a] I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.

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What is time, how do we define time and why is time so precious and not to be taking for granted. todays message focus on time wasters. People who wants to come and derail or delay destiny fulfilment. we have to be more than vigilant enough to see what to do and what not to do.

  1. what is time
  2. who or what is a time waster
  3. how do avoid time wasters

Ephesians 5: 1-17 (beware of time wasters)
Living by the Spirit’s Power

15 So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise. 16 Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days. 17 Don’t act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do.

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long distance relationship is not for the faint at heart. You know yourself well enough and if you are any of these 5 things, you are setting your relationship up for failure.

are you in a long distance relationship? how have you been making it work?
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this is especially applicable in a bf gf relationship or husband and wife relationship, who is attempting long distance relationship for the first time. This video will also help you to know what to work on as well.

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Genesis 31:49 ESV
And Mizpah, for he said, “The Lord watch between you and me, when we are out of one another's sight.

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How do we become one with one another in a marriage ordained and orchestrated by God. what does it mean to be one flesh.
God said this about Adam and Eve, that the two will become one flesh

what two will become one flesh
1. the one that find each other by divine orchestration
2. the ones that have elements of one another
3. the ones that God is the foundation of their relationship

Genesis 2:20-25
So Adam gave names to all cattle, to the birds of the air, and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper comparable to him.

21 And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place. 22 Then the rib which the Lord God had taken from man He [a]made into a woman, and He brought her to the man.

23 And Adam said:

“This is now bone of my bones
And flesh of my flesh;
She shall be called [b]Woman,
Because she was taken out of [c]Man.”

24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be[d] joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

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insecurity is a spirit that must be dealt with. otherwise it would damage something that could have been good - your relationship

on this episode we discussed how to deal with insecurity in relationships,
how can one overcome insecurity in relationship
we gave 5 ways here and would love to hear your opinion
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There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.

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How do you know if you've been unfaithful? the book of hosea paints a picture to us about a wife of whoredom who was paid for to become a wife. yet she finds herself constantly running after many lover thinking they will give her fulfilment.

God is speaking to us individually and collectively as a church to check ourselves and to look inward.

Hear this, God is not obligated to be faithful to those who have been unfaithful to him.
Hosea 2:16
Therefore, behold, I will allure her, and bring her into the wilderness, and speak comfortably unto her.

15 And I will give her her vineyards from thence, and the valley of Achor for a door of hope: and she shall sing there, as in the days of her youth, and as in the day when she came up out of the land of Egypt.

16 And it shall be at that day, saith the Lord, that thou shalt call me Ishi; and shalt call me no more Baali.

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How Did Christ Love His Church? What is Christlike love and how do we show Christlike love in our marriage. this week we take it from the female perspective where Apostle Paul charged women to submit to their husbands as a form of love, honor and respect.

Christ submitted himself to the church by dying for her. As men, our way of submission is sacrificial in all things.

EPHESIANS 5:25 - Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.

22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

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Here are 5 reasons you may be experiencing total insecurity in your relationship. 
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how to stay focused in times of crisis.
the question is really how do we safe from sinking when things gets tough and the noise or the wind around us becomes boisterous according to the bible in the book of Matthew 14.

FOCUS ON THE PROMISE NOT THE PROCESS
The lord dropped this message in my spirit about peter. - The man that walked on water. How he went from walking to sinking in a wink of an eye. why? he shifted focus.
can i encourage you today as i also encourage myself. trust that he who gave the vision, will make provision.
Focus on the caller not the calling
Focus on the promise not the process
Focus peter, focus!

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what changes when you get married. a lot of us go into marriage without setting expectations or properly managing expectations. it is important that we are fully aware that some things will inevitably change when we get married. 

today we discuss only about 5 things that changes when you get married but there are so much more!

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What is Christlike love and how do we show Christlike love in our marriage. this week we take it from the male perspective where Apostle Paul charged men to love their wives are Christ loved the church

EPHESIANS 5:25 - Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

Today's message goes into a case study of how jesus loved his wife during his earthly ministry. The church was his wife and he did a lot of things to express his love for her but today we are going to be looking at SEVEN WAYS JESUS LOVED HIS WIFE (THE CHURCH)

Happy Easter. He is Risen! Glory Hallelujah!

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The death of minister Osinachi shook the world couple days ago and it has been a non-stop discussion among the body of Christ. We take a different perspective to the discussion . 

What are the lessons one can learn from a BEFORE YES perspective. 
Before you say I do to someone, what must you do. 

There are a lot to do but we want to look specifically from this story and pick one or two points of discussion and to shed light on things we all need to watch out for in our significant other. 

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Understanding the power of revelation: the truth about palm Sunday. 
what really is palm Sunday and how do we as Christians ensure we are not just following the crowd. 

How to get a revelation from God that makes the palm Sunday experience that much more powerful. This can only come by the way of REVELATION

Jesus said, who do men say i am. and peter answered and said 
you are Jesus Christ, son of the living God!
By that revelation, Jesus said upon you this rock i will build my church and the gates of hell shall not be able to penetrate. 

Power of revelation cannot be overemphasized. it makes the different between those who are merely speculating and those who truly know.

Pray for continuous revelation. that God continually reveals to us that which is to come.  
Matthew 16:13-19
Deuteronomy 29:29

welcome back to refuge and fortress network - a safe haven. a people lifted
this week on PHILIA, EV Emmanuel O ministered on understanding the power of revelation. how one revelation from the word of God, one revelation from Jesus can change the trajectory of our life forever. 

we pray this messages really does a work on transformation in you 

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we all have our reasons as to why we want to get married but seeing as this is a "BEFORE YES" program, we must ensure we do everything possible to better prepare the mind of our brothers and sisters, nieces and nephews for this wonderful institution called MARRIAGE. 

today we discuss UNHEALTHY REASONS TO GET MARRIED. if some of the things discussed here today are reasons why you want to get married. pls proceed with caution. 

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would you date you? could you be in a relationship with yourself. this message seeks to call us to look inward and perform an internal audit to see how we measure up against our own expectations.

Pray this message blesses you and brings a word of healing and transformation.

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today we are blessed to have pastor Richard Olajide of Christ Touch Ministries in Arlington TX give us the Shekinah Message of the week!

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we conclude our discussion on THY KINGDOM COME
what is the fastest way to fulfilment in the kingdom? SERVICE

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we conclude our teaching on THE LOVE THAT LAST 
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we continue our discussion on thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven!
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the requirements of being a kingdom citizen 
the benefits of being a kingdom citizen 
the code of conduct of being a kingdom citizen 

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There's nothing worse than investing so much time and energy into something only for all that investment to yield nothing.  it is absolute a gut punch when it comes to relationships. 

Today Emmanuel and Loni are discussing 
WHAT TO DO WHEN A LONG STANDING RELATIONSHIP COMES TO AN END

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Shekinah Messages/charge will now be called PHILIA
our mission in a nutshell is to help kingdom citizens to grow in faith and win in relationships

PHILIA - Online Love Church 
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we continue our discussion on thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven!
todays discussions goes into 
the requirements of being a kingdom citizen 
the benefits of being a kingdom citizen 
the code of conduct of being a kingdom citizen 

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4 Clear signs to know when to walk away from a relationship
1. you are in a toxic relationship and you know it
2. you don't feel respected anymore in your relationship - disrespect is often time the mother of most of the other things we do that end up leading to breakup or even worse divorce. there needs to be a level of respect for yourself and your significant other 
3. you are unable to get through to them (this speaks mostly about communication and compromise)
4. They have negative influence on you or bring out the worst in you
5. bonus point: God is no longer involved in your relationship. (this speaks about the fruit of the spirit ) 

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MIRACLE AVENUE MARCH EDITION
Themed "unless you bless me" Gen 32:26

PRAYER AND ANOITING 
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we are starting a new theme or series today on 
THY KINGDOM COME

today we laid the foundation of what the kingdom of God is and our focus was 

1.     To establish that there is a difference between the kingdom of God and the kingdom of heaven

2.     To teach that the kingdom of God is here, is now and it is relevant 

3.     To teach the benefits of the kingdom of God and why one must stay enrolled in the kingdom and constantly look to enroll others in this kingdom

4.     To teach believers therefore that the kingdom of God is a prerequisite for the kingdom of heaven

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This is a question we keep getting over and over again. 
how did you know this person was meant for you
how do i know he is the one for me 
how do i know he was the one for me
listen as we address this topic today! 

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all things are possible if you believe! 

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today we are blessed to have pastor Richard Olajide of Christ Touch Ministries in Arlington TX give us the Shekinah Message of the week!

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listen as we wrap us the theme of the month on this episode.
PRAYER SOLID FOUNDATION! powerful sessions. new series starts next month. hope you have been blessed thus far.

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what are benefits of marriage 
why should i get married 
what is kingdom marriage
is marriage for me

these are questions a lot of people in the now generation are asking. 
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let this message bless you this week, let it serve as a reminder for all believers that our saving grace comes with an expectation!
Have a wonderful week ahead - 

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Gods blessings and love! 
on todays Lighted Living Truth, we discussed the power of corporate prayer! 
we are still on our theme of the month - PRAYER SOLID FOUNDATION 

God bless you richly. listen, share, comment.  

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Should Christians Celebrate Valentines Day???

what does valentines day mean to you or what should it mean? 
comment below and let us know how to celebrated february 14th 

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happy new week

YOUR REACTION DETERMINES YOUR RESULT 
read the book of Jonah chapter 2 meditate on Jonah's prayer that led to his deliverance out of the belly of the fish. God is able to help us out of any trouble we may find ourselves in. 

Let your reaction of thanksgiving and praise help get you to your desired destination

Listen in this morning as EV. Emmanuel brings the in dwelling Shekinah Message title 
YOUR REACTION DETERMINES YOUR RESULT

we pray that this word falls on good soil and brings transformation! 

BE THE LIGHT. BE THE SALT. 

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Isaiah 55:6 Seek the LORD while He may be found,
Call upon Him while He is near.

QUESTION: If God is always there, why does he need to be found?

God needs to be found because he’s not found in every kind of seeking. He is found only when we search with all of our heart.

What does it mean then to do something or search for something with all your heart?

· When we make it a project? When it’s not something we do in passing

· When it is something that occupies our whole heart

· **When it is something, we do with all seriousness

ADVANTAGES OF INDIVIDUAL PRAYERS**

  1. It builds a deeper relationship with God – Isaiah 1:18, gen 21:17

  2. It causes God to take us seriously and fight on our behalf – exo 12:29-32

  3. It activates the power of the word of God in your life and your heart

  4. It gives us the boldness needed to carry out our individual assignments

  5. It gives us the courage to carry fellow brothers and sisters in the lord with us

  6. It helps us to know the perfect will of God for our lives – romans 12:2

  7. It connects us individually with the frequency of heaven

Listen as we discuss today on the advantages of individual prayers. this whole month of February we will be dealing with PRAYER SOLID FOUNDATION

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from us to you. officially. welcome to year 2022!
OUR YEAR OF LOOKING AHEAD!!! - (Great Expectations)
who else is looking ahead for a year like never before?
filled with uncommon favor in high places 
filled with uncommon breakthroughs on all sides 
filled with grace and underserved mercy
filled with testimonies of joy and laughter

this is the year indeed for double blessings!
Our year of Looking ahead

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God's blessings and love. Happy new week!

A whole new world
a world with God dwelling within us and doing a mighty work of miracle, signs and wonders. 

Listen as EV. Emmanuel charges us this week on  A WHOLE NEW WORLD
we pray that this word falls on good soil and brings transformation!

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Happy new Year friends. welcome back to season 2 of the Refuge and Fortress Podcast. 
We want to thank you for your support throughout last year, and we look forward to a powerful 2022! God has been faithful! 

on this episode of The Lighted Living Truth, we discussed the importance of prayer! starting the year with prayer! and the benefits of having a PRAYER SOLID FOUNDATION. 

What is prayer: a clear and direct communication between man and God. an act of getting a point across. a method by which we lay down the tracks for God to move on. 

Prayer is so much more and that much more powerful that we need not joke about it. 

Tap in and leave a comment to let us know your thoughts. 
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God is speaking to us this week on a charge that is titled walking in silence (a definite act of faith)

lets share the audacious gospel to the ends of the earth.

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blessings and love! 
Emmanuel is talking to us today about five things not to do in our relationship/marriage if we want out significant other to come back for more or to stay for good!
What are these five things, can you pin point where you may be falling short even in your own relationship? all have sinned and fallen short! 

Lets find out on this episode 

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Some trust in chariots, some trust in horses 
we will put our trust in God! 

Listen and be blessed as @emmanuelspeakslife charges us putting our complete trust in God.

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blessings and love! 
Emmanuel is talking to us today about getting rid of the other person in order for our relationships to flourish the way they should!
who is the other person? find out on this episode 

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i knew you before i formed you
i set you apart to ordain you as a prophet to the nation
this is the word of the lord to somebody today. he knows you, he planned you, he formed you. you are not an after thought - God has a plan for your life.

connect with us further as Emmanuel Oludahunsi (The revivalist) charges us on God's plan for our life.

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Tap in as the fearless men of R & F discuss what changed for them since getting married. Going from bachelor life to married life is no joke. what did we have to stop doing as a result, what do we miss doing and what are we doing now that marriage pretty much has no effect on.  

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and David strengthened himself in the lord!

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Tap in as we discuss the different types of guys that are willing to go above and beyond to make you have. These 5 types of men will break their necks and bend their backs to make you happy.

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The word of the Lord came to Jonah son of Amittai: 2 “Go to the great city of Nineveh and preach against it, because its wickedness has come up before me.”
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- Now the Lord provided a huge fish to swallow Jonah, and Jonah was in the belly of the fish three days and three nights.

Jonah thought he was committing suicide, but in reality he was letting go and letting God. We must be willing to remove ourselves from our own way and let God lead us in all the right directions.

Listen and be blessed as @emmanuelspeakslife charges us on letting go and letting God.

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1 Kings 4 - Make Room
Make room for that which you prayed for
are you believing God for something? ask yourself, what do you have?
every time we are asking God for a miracle and we need a move, the first question is what do you have?
what do you have that God can work with
what do you have that God can put his breath on
what do you have that God can bless
Jesus used what they had to turn water into wine
Jesus used fish and bread to feed thousand
Jesus used peoples faith to heal them.
it is always a partnership, you will always need to bring something to the table.

This was the case in 1 kings 4. Gods blessings and love as always

Listen and be blessed as @emmanuelspeakslife charges us on making room for what we have been asking God for.

Motivation by @Emmanuelspeakslife
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MONDAYMOTIVATION #MOTIVERSITY #CHARGE #MESSAGE #CHRISTIANMOTIVATION #CHRISTIANMESSAGE #AWORD #SHEKINAHCHARGE

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***NIGERIA BASED VISUAL STORY TELLER MAKING A GLOBAL IMPACT BY EMPOWERING YOUNG ADULTS TO DEVELOP SKILLS IN PHOTOGRAPHY AND FILM MAKING BOTH LOCALLY AND INTERNATIONALLY. MAKING WAVES IN MEDIA SERVICES, FOOD/BEVERAGE, HOSPITALITY, AND LOGISTICS. 

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you can be a Christian in todays sense of things and not be born again
you can go to church, work, sleep, and serve in the church, yet not born again
you can come from a family of pastors and prophets, yet still not born again.
who or what is a born again. this is the question we seek to shed some light on. #mondaymotivation #shekinahcharge .take these lessons from Jesus in John 3.
the fruit of the spirt and its characteristics 
Motivation by @Emmanuelspeakslife
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Tap in as we discuss what's more important to men looks or personality. what brings you in, and what keeps you in.  

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In an encounter with God. Ezekiel was taken out and put in the middle of the valley surrpunded by dry bones. and God asked him a very powerful question that we must ask ourselves now and again

CAN THESE BONES LIVE

Can the relation be revived
can the home, marriage, the career, the business, your joy etc
can they all be revived again. if you belive they can, they prophesy good things unto them and every dry bone in every area will begin to rise again.

This is the charge, this is the message for today. Prophecy and speak life over every situation.

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***NEW YORK BASED BUSINESS MOGUL MAKING A GLOBAL IMPACT BY EMPOWERING MEN AND WOMEN BOTH HOME AND ABROAD WITH JOBS IN MULTIPLE INDUSTRIES INCLUDING CLEANING, LOGISTICS, REAL ESTATES AND TRANSPORTATION

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you tried once and it didn't work, try again
keep trying until you can see it clearly
Before trying again, take these lessons from Jesus in Mark 8.
1. Identify the problem
2. Recognize the solution
3. In whom does the solution lie (you and Jesus)
4. Pull away from distraction and noise
5. Don't ever give up

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On todays episode, the boys are discussing if putting money together is a feasible things to do and at what point is it okay to do so. 
what happens when someone switches up on you half way thru the relationship/marriage? 

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Tap in - as we discuss with soon to be Dr. Mezu Ofoegbu on how he uses art to help people and brand tell their story. He has worked with brands like YouTube, Smokie Robinson and more. His mission is to reinterpret the world through art. 

Along with being a brand manager and art director, He is also a PhD candidate. Mr. Mezu is soon to be Dr. Mezu! - we are all going to have to put some respect on that name!

From being expelled in high school, to moving to Nigeria, then moving back to New York to start one of the largest organization on his campus, then moving back to LA to start all over and reinvent himself, Mezu  is the picture of what inspiration looks like and we celebrate every milestone and cannot wait to see what the future holds for him. 

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BE THE LIGHT. BE THE SALT

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Is it really true that for men, cheating is not "EMOTIONAL" 
This is the popular belief according to most, but we beg to differ because in 2021 we have to define what we mean by that statement. 

listen in as we discuss this topic on the fearless men segment of the refuge and fortress podcast. 

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this is a simple charge yet powerful. every experienced something that makes you wonder why things are not going right? it feels as though the heavens are closed? have you ever wondered maybe the solution lies with you? 

read Deuteronomy 28:12 for yourself and see what the condition is for continuous open heave. 

I pray that your heavens be open and that you continue to enjoy uninterruptible open heaven in Jesus name amen!

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Tap-in as we discuss with Ms. Rachael Folorunso who went from being a teacher to a professional Natural Hair Artist. she is one of New York's finest when it comes to the natural hair industry. she is also the co-founder of gloriously crowned hair care. 

Ms. Folorunso was a school teacher when she started her business on the side all while going to beauty school. it wasn't until one door was closed that God opened another one for her that would position her to where she is now. 

Happily married with her husband and 3 children. she is the picture of what inspiration looks like and we celebrate every milestone and cannot wait to see what the future holds for her. 

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we called a funeral to low self esteem this week. we thought we didn't have what it took to get something. a big contract deal but to the glory of God all that is behind us now. We mustered the needed faith to do what needed to be done and today we are winning. 

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Emmanuel touched on one of the many lessons he got from his pops growing up and how this decision has helped him make most of his life choices even up to this point. listen, share, be uplifted and be encouraged. 

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Tap in - as we discuss with Dr. Precious Adeniyi on how she goes around sharing the love of God through food, clothing, resources, teaching and much more. Her organization is now in 8 countries and this is just the beginning. Dr. Precious is a Nigerian American leader who has made it her life mission to make sure that children from 0-18 will know God even in the most non-traditional way. 

Along with being the president and founder of RSF, she is also a medical doctor trained and certified both in Nigeria and here in America. She also serve on the leadership team of Refuge and Fortress Global

Dr. Precious is the picture of what inspiration looks like and we celebrate every milestone and cannot wait to see what the future holds for her. 

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Tap in - as we discuss with Ms. Aida Guisse  on how she created job opportunities for women in Senegal, empowering them with knowledge and access to the American market.  Ms. Aida is a Senegalese American leader who has made it a life mission to empower women and children both here in America and back home. 

Along with being a business project manager at Microsoft, she is also a women empowerment blogger, a co-host of her own podcast, a small business owner, and a law school student! 

Ms. Aida is the picture of what inspiration looks like and we celebrate every milestone. 

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He said I came that you may have life, life in abundance, life full and well lived. its time to do whatever it takes to get that abundant life and live up to the standard God has set for us not the low standards we set for ourselves. 

There's greatness inside of us we just have to tap into it.
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Allow us to reintroduce ourselves!!!! our names are Emmanuel O. and Loni O. we are your host on this podcast. 
on a weekly basis you can expect us to come to you live with uplifting and encouraging content that is aimed to take your life to the next level. a higher level of performance. 

weekly motivation, weekly discussions on faith, relationship, money, and culture. weekly interviews with people who have taken a leap of faith and jumped into their dreams, calling and purpose!!! 
BE THE LIGHT. BE THE SALT and remember all things are possible if you believe. 
like, comment, share, and download every week. peace and love 

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Get Uncomfortable with a life of average, with not meeting your goals, not performing at the highest level possible, with not hitting your 100%. 

Get uncomfortable with mediocrity 
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we are reminded by the messenger of God Malachi that God is not just sitting around watching wickedness prevail NO. God said, the day will soon come where we will be able to tell sinners from saints, good from evil, righteous from wicked. 

The day will soon come and the day will come with a mighty reward for those who hold on to the hope of salvation THE DAY, THE HOPE will soon come! Don't drop the mic. 

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He is like a REFINER'S fire, and a LAUNDERER'S soap. 

He refines us and purges us to become like gold and silver. He is God and he never changes his mercy covers us and his compassion fails not so he loves us and does not consume us because he has promised never to consume us. Grace however is not automatic room for disrespect. lets be clear on that! 

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this week we touched on what we need to do to invoke the covenant of LIFE & PEACE
the question is what is the difference between the priest and levi. 
what is the difference between the pastor and the members 
are we held to the same standards, should we be held to the same standards. 

we are still on the topic of aligning your heart with God. 

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where is your heart!!!
Malachi came with a message to the people of God to get them to align their heart with God!

How come his message of a thousand years ago still relevant today? are we as human being forgetful or plainly stubborn. listing in as we discuss this topic!

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so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and grounded in love,

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to have a better understanding of what it means to walk in the spirit and not in the flesh. we explored how God's love is not exclusive to saints only but extended to sinners through grace by faith which can only be found in Jesus.

the verse of the week from romans 8 is  verse 31
"What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?"

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Hello R & F nation! this is refuge and fortress the podcast. a safe haven for everyone! believers and nonbelievers alike. we aim to equip, encourage and empower someone one message, one word, one discussion at a time.  to break-forth into a transformed and kingdom fulfilled life as intended by God! 

Jeremiah 29:11"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." 

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