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Stop Worshipping Your Mind: Let Desire Lead You Back to OnenessHow Letting Go of Linear Thinking Unlocks Clarity, Flow, and CreationThis channeling explores that true understanding does not come from linear thinking, but from stepping beyond the mind’s need to categorize and control. Your dreams, desire, and consciousness are expressions of a unified flow, where everything is interconnected.

By releasing attachment to a personal perspective and embracing desire as a creative force, individuals you can experience oneness, wholeness, and deeper fulfillment. The message emphasizes that creation, connection, and inner completeness arise naturally when one aligns with this state of unity.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How moving beyond linear thinking allows you to understand reality as a unified whole rather than fragmented parts.
Why dreams and consciousness feel confusing when filtered through the mind’s need to categorize and control.
How desire acts as a powerful creative force that connects you to deeper states of flow, purpose, and participation.
What it means to experience oneness, and how releasing attachment to personal perspective leads to clarity and fulfillment.

Align With Your Desire and Create EVERYTHING

Stop Worshipping Your Mind: Let Desire Lead You Back to OnenessFull transcript: Channeled by Weston Jolly:

“In the night, all things start to come together. Pieces and places and things all align in a single place enabling you that you might understand that dreams are not a dimension. Everything your mind conceives has to be done in layers or categories. This is why you often take things apart to “try and understand“ how things work. To truly see is without linear stacks, layers, stages or categories. Everything unites as one.

This is why you perceive dreams hard to understand. Because you are accustomed to things being presented in a linear fashion in which you can process. Understand —that it is —through the limits of the mind.

In order to really understand the nature of anything, that we have created, you are asked to remove yourself. This means your perspective which is made and authored by your mind. For you to clairvoyantly see, you must remove the thought of linear progression.

Everything will be presented. There’s nothing to sort or analyze if you see how everything goes together. To be enriched with knowledge, you must step away from your dependency on your mind. Your ability to process“that which is” isn’t done through the singular channel of the mind.

Trying to tame the mind or to keep it in control to discipline is just another false God to worship. If you understand and truly comprehend, you are enabled. This knowingness makes you whole and complete.

To be whole and complete you must step away from your dependency on that “what you think.”To be at one is at but a start, or entry point, or a portal to oneness. Just knowing that you are a part of something more or connecting a few perceived puzzle pieces isn’t enough.

To be one is to understand Unity. Unity isn’t a place, or destination either, it’s a flow. You can be at one, participate as one, and as you do, you are in the zone – the flow. This flow is for everyone, but it isn’t done through force by pushing or pulling. To be at one is a conjoining.

The opposite is created when you take a position against yourself, by thinking that your perspective needs to be recognized, heard or even pushed on to others. This kind of behavior is the opposite of oneness and should be recognized as such.

To realize the inner connections and to see and know how everything goes together is a gift. We will share it now as a means to demonstrate your being enabled and whole. The example we seek to share is a common one that will enable you to fullness.

This state is the beginning. In physics, it could be referred to as the energy to a start the movement. This energy is within desire. This is why desire is such an important part of who you are because without desire there’s no flow.

To participate, you must have a desire. All of your desires are personal, with some being portals of invitation. This is why certain ideas or mission statements are inviting, and you gather, or participate in a desire to be at one with the thing you wish to create.

Your energy, collectively, as it is individually, is beyond powerful. This power, or energy, is the essence of all creation. Because of its power, it can, and does, create as much as it can destroy. This is also a part of your desire to participate on this Earth plane or this layer, or as some of you think of it as a dimension. This dimension as you reference it, represents a collective desire to create in the perceived rules or limitations of the category, layer or dimension.

Some of you are called, feeling that there is more, and because of your desire this is why we are sharing. Anyone that desires more must connect through the portal of desire to be full or enabled. This fullness means that you bring a portion of life force energy to participate and contribute. This life force energy is clearly omnipresent and yet the masses “in this plane“ can’t see or understand it. This because it is greater than the individual life force energy.

Your desire to create is fully a part of who you are. It has always been, and it always will be. Some think that they need to be stimulated by the breath of inspiration, which if you recognize it – is our desire. To inspire you to connect not only into the infinite powers of knowingness, but to participate in a state of oneness.

This is recognized as a selfless state. You giving your time, resources and energy is desired, pun intended, because it enables you to a state of wholeness. If this is your desire, then it is yours to experience.

You are whole and you are complete. You are more than the pieces that you “sometimes” see. To understand fully, follow us down this path of creation that starts with desire. In your to desire is to be whole -you are. In your desire to be one – you are. If you desire to be separate – you are.

There is magic in your desires and this is reinforced within your physical embodiment because creating, creating anything, it is something that is programmed to feel good. This is true for both sides of the polarity; to create something or to destroy something. Each can and does create feelings that it is easily perceived as fun to create as it is to destroy.

To fuel creation is to fuel oneness. All oneness is created through our desire. And this is why you participate in being inspired to do something, or to be a part of something, that you’re called to engage in. This is shared for you to recognizing a desire, and you are being encouraged to participate.

Every choice and decision that you make comes to this very simple place; will you enable yourself, through connection, to be at one?

For those who recognize this desire, which again is ours, then you follow the vibrations, the sounds or the energy to this truth. This path will always enable you to fullness. This is seen in true happiness and joy. To be connected is a gift that is extended to you, and through desire, it is one that is eternal as well. In time, you remember you can do both concurrently, to be full or complete comes as result of connecting through desire.

The reason that you feel and choose to unhappy, sad, or in pain is to see and experience this path of separation. To be happy and full is to realize the unlimited nature of your being and exercising your desires, which are our desires, in full.

This implies that you know what our desires are – and if you don’t remember – we have already stated it in this message. It is our desire for you to recognize the oneness in which you are a part of. This oneness is for everyone and it doesn’t come at an expense as you perceive it. You are in a path to wholeness and oneness now just in your participation to excel in the openness to be at one.

There’s no greater gift you can give yourself, or another, than this desire of oneness. To really understand the depth of what we are sharing, you must exist on a different plane, vibration, or frequency, as you “think” of it. While these linear thoughts of separation aren’t really accurate or true —ultimately it is a choice that is initiated by your desire to be at one. Concentrate. Focus. Be clear. What is it that you really desire?

Do you hope to love in a way that isn’t yet experienced? Is this your desire? If this resonates, then you know something is missing. You find yourself feeling lonely, sad, separate and often desperate to take whatever you can get. Which is always a lower vibrational choice to accommodate to what you don’t really want.

To be full and complete is to recognize the fullness within you. And of course, you can’t do this if you believe and act in the state of separation. To be full, complete and enabled is always done beyond yourself. Call upon us and let your desires be fulfilled. Realize that you are not alone and that you are complete.

Exemplify the love that is ours, as it is yours in your desire to share our desire with others, who seek, by their choice, to be whole and complete. You are whole and enabled. As you see yourself so you are. And in this choice, assuming it’s your desire, you are complete, empowered and are able to create anything.

Isn’t this what you desire? The answer is always “yes”, because you are created in our image. And as so you are Creators. Enable yourself to create, to be at one and to be whole and complete.”

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Release Emotional Weight in 60 Seconds with this ‘Last Breath’ ExerciseFeeling overwhelmed by other people’s emotions? In this 60‑second ‘Last Breath’ exercise, learn how to drop inherited emotional weight and return to calm, empowered oneness.

Release Emotional Weight That Isn’t Yours With the Last Breath Exercise

If you feel overwhelmed by emotions that don’t seem to be yours, constantly picking up on the heaviness, anger, or separation around you, you’re not alone. In this session, Weston guides you into a simple but profound energetic shift that helps you stop carrying other people’s burdens in your body.

Together, you’ll explore why highly sensitive souls feel so much, how generational and environmental energies get stored as “emotional weight,” and how the Last Breath exercise reconnects you to your higher self and Source. As you practice, you’ll discover a new way of moving through life in oneness, clarity, and empowerment.

In this episode, you’ll learn:* Why you so easily absorb other people’s energy and emotions, and how this creates overwhelm, depression, and a painful sense of separation * A simple “last breath” exercise you can use in about 60 seconds to release emotional weight that isn’t yours and stop carrying others’ pain in your body * How shifting into oneness and connection with Source dissolves confusion, anxiety, and the need to control your environment * How to move from feeling unsafe and hyper-sensitive to feeling empowered, clear, and free to express who you truly are

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Episode 085 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: Release Emotional Weight That Isn’t Yours With the Last Breath Exercise

Feeling Others’ Energy

Weston Jolly: Amidst all of the noise and the heaviness that I know you feel, there’s this beautiful, silent part of you that takes place in your heart that actually creates the path to all truth and understanding. Today I want to share something with you that, in my opinion, is probably the most challenging thing that we’re faced with when we come to this earth plane, and that is feeling energy that’s around us and discerning that it’s not yours. It’s not yours to take on. If we made that even cleaner or clearer, it’s feeling other people’s energy and not becoming confused that that’s your energy, that it’s your anger or your frustration, or perhaps even your states of separation.

To that end, I want to share with you a wonderful tool that takes less than a minute to literally help you transform that feeling of being challenged or taking on energy that’s not yours. So let’s go back half a step. When we come into this earth plane, when we start in the embryonic space, especially when we come out and we enter into the world, we’re taking on energy. We have from the moment of conception, but we especially do that when we come into this world. We’re feeling everything around us.

So the idea that we want to push away or pretend that this isn’t a natural part of who you are is, in one sense, crazy. Honoring that you are a sentient being is really a beautiful thing. However, especially if you are a highly sensitive person, you will have feelings that go beyond, we’ll call it, the normal person, divergently so. You’ll have access that takes you into whole other states of being connected and also states of being separated. It can be really challenging to have that kind of gift set and to be in an environment where you feel that it’s not safe.

Emotional Weight That Isn’t Yours

Weston Jolly: Yet we want to address that because if you choose to really master that and become accomplished in realizing that you don’t have to be trying to control the environment, then you are put in this wonderful place of being empowered. Then the environment doesn’t take you down some kind of path. It’s not controlling you as much as you create an opportunity, a place of illumination for you to really create something entirely different. Let’s talk about the challenge that it feels like to be feeling someone else’s energy. That could be your brother’s, that could be your mom’s—numerous circumstances that could be described as overwhelming to the point that we can nestle in and be even comfortable with words such as depression and/or feeling really, really separate, to the point that we don’t really feel like we belong or that we want to further connect.

Oftentimes, even when we do this, we will huddle in a group, finding other people with like energy to be understood, that we feel despondent or disconnected or not worthy. Yet that’s not necessarily going to take us into any wonderfully healthy space. So the real secret is to not try and fight any feeling that you have, but rather honor the fact that when you are feeling energies that feel less than comfortable, that do not have to be polarized in terms of good or bad—but they typically are—we can slow that down to appreciate that there’s something that we’re learning or showing ourselves with those reflections. Instead of trying to fight our opportunity to feel, we want to actually go into it. There’s a secret in doing that.

The real secret, ultimately, is to feel the energy around you, especially if you are highly sensitive, but to not hold it. When I say hold it, I’m speaking, of course, of the body. If you were to jump onto a scale, some people have a pretty good idea of how much they weigh. But most people don’t have a clue to what degree they’re carrying weight that could be described as emotional weight that isn’t theirs. It’s common, for example, for someone, in coming into their incarnation, to feel perhaps the guilt or the shame or the challenges—the energy of the people that they’re coming into.

Family Patterns and the Last Breath Tool

Weston Jolly: That would be mom and dad. Yet that energy isn’t theirs, and yet they may carry it in their body. This is why questions come up when we go to medical professionals; they ask you about things that run in the family. That makes sense from a DNA perspective, but even from an emotional perspective, oftentimes these things are passed down generationally without even necessarily knowing that’s taking place. Yet in this space we want to be hyper-aware.

So let me get to this tool, this space of sharing with you this 60-second shift that will take you into a completely different place. To be honest, this exercise was given to me—given to me by Source. It’s something that I think is one of the most valuable things that you’ll ever come across. I want to offer it to you freely because I think it has that kind of value to literally transform everything…

So in the setup, this exercise, like I said, is only going to take a minute, maybe a little bit longer. But I want you to get prepared for what we’re about to do. If you can, I’d like you to be in a space where you can give me your complete and utter attention. In doing so, I want you to appreciate that this exercise that I’m calling the last breath—your last breath—is just that. I’m going to be asking you to take your last breath.

As you do, you’re going to be taking in your air, your oxygen, your breath. At one point you’re going to get to the climactic high where you can’t take any more in, right? When that happens, I want you to just realize that this is it. This is the last breath. You’re going to come to the end of that exhale and that’s it.

Experiencing the Last Breath

Weston Jolly: There’s nothing more to do. All I want you to do is to observe. So in this moment, if you’re ready, go ahead and begin to take your last breath.

If you’re aware that you’re getting to the climactic top, not being able to hold anything more in, you’re coming now to the downside of beginning to slowly let that out. Create awareness of anything that you’re processing… When you get to the end, I want you to realize what you’ve done.

By putting your energy, your focused energy, on realizing that this is it, there’s only one more breath that you have to take in this incarnation, it shifts all of your attachment energies that you have felt around you and creates a new kind of focus. It’s something that takes place magically, actually, because your higher self, your soul, in that exercise is actually preparing you for transition. Now, of course, when it comes time for that to actually be true, it’s going to be preparing you to let go of your body, which is, of course, the battery pack that keeps this sense of self alive, and that part of you, of course, will die. The real part, of course—the essence of who you are, the soul, the higher self—doesn’t die at all. It literally ascends into this other state of your being.

This is the part that takes place automatically with this exercise. What it does is it brings all of this chaos, all of this noise, all of this energy, all of this confusion and feeling overwhelmed, and it brings us back into a state of oneness. This is something I’m going to be talking about in the future very quickly, because as we realize that we move into a state of oneness, it changes the way that we create and co-create. Instead of me coming into a room and trying to separate myself from a person or group of people or maybe the whole group, it changes how I go forward. I become literally at one.

Oneness, Empowerment, and Letting Go of Fear

Weston Jolly: In this state of oneness, it enables you—that’s a very key word—to go forward in a completely different way, in essence, an empowered way. I have to step back to help you understand that this takes place within you, in the same way that, biologically, there are parts of you that have the ability to take care of yourself when fear arises on the horizon. In your ancestry, of course, running away from wild animals was common as a means to try to escape. That would be described as a real fear that gets materialized physically in terms of adrenaline, etc., etc., to be able to create the actions to get away.

Today we are often triggered, especially in emotional categories, but not necessarily physically like we have been in our ancestry. Beyond beliefs are these things that got handed down to us energetically. This is what we’re letting go of so that we can let go of that process, which is physical, biological. What we’re doing is putting our focused attention on our connecting—our connecting to Source and essence, the true essence of who we are…

As we do this, it brings us into this state of tranquility. Ultimately, as I’ve just got through demonstrating, it doesn’t take half an hour. It doesn’t have to take a great deal of your focused attention. Certainly it’s not something you have to try to control or manage. Putting your attention on the real you is literally transformative.

Giving yourself permission to play in this space of connection is everything. The more that you play with the idea that you don’t need to be separated from anyone else’s energy, but you can see these different reflections of energy as a part of who you are, it helps. To give you a little tease of the near future, when we talk about being united, united is an extremely powerful concept. We share, in terms of this nation, the United States of America, and assuming that’s true, there is a connection that we have with one another. Now, when we do that, sometimes we create a separation.

Collective Division and True Unity

Weston Jolly: This group, this nation, is somehow different from some other kind of nation, which isn’t true. So our energy here is our comfort, our safety net, if you will, and this other energy in some other place may be perceived as uncomfortable, to the point that we need to protect ourselves. But the whole point is, whether it’s individually, in a personal relationship, and/or through a work relationship, we want to honor the fact that we’re literally one with everything. When we see this, it changes the way that we interact. I’m not saying that through oneness you have to agree or that you’re going to hold values that everyone else has.

That’s unimportant. But the synergy—or better stated, the energy of empowerment—that comes together when we go to connect with everything is outrageously exciting. Letting go of the fear that could be used as a tool to keep you in play—that is, to keep you constrained or disabled or disconnected—is commonly done as a means to give another person or party or group control. When you do that, of course, you’re submitting yourself through free will, by choice, to do something that takes you away from your true empowerment and truly what you’ve come here to do and/or to express. So giving yourself permission to really accept your place and honor who you are is to be seen as being at one with quite literally everything.

Again, I’m not saying that you have to agree with all these different reflections, but understanding that we literally are in a state of oneness—as you see that within yourself—that happens naturally through this last breath exercise. It takes you on this connected journey of being able to go forward in a completely different way. I wanted to share this exercise because I think it has tremendous value for you, especially in these given moments for us individually. If you can see this, we’re under a great deal of pressure that we’re all co-creating as an opportunity to divest ourselves from the energies that have held us captive individually—through race, through sexual preference, through individual expression that would be considered this versus that. The idea that we have these divisions of blue coats versus red coats, which are basically symbolic words for a civil war that we once had in this particular nation…

It happens everywhere. Of course, when it happens within a body, it creates a cancerous effect because we have one side attacking the other side. We want to let all of that go because when we do, instead of engaging in that fight, it enables us to step into an energetic empowerment that is quite real. It divests us of any kind of weight. I’m speaking of physical weight as much as I’m speaking of emotional weight that isn’t yours to carry. It removes, just like that, any confusion or heaviness that is being thrust upon you as if that’s real.

Then suddenly you can feel that, you can recognize that it has nothing to do with you, and then you allow yourself to connect and go forward in a completely different way. It creates an invitation for you to offer others—we’ll call it that—helping hand for them to be free as well. So use it as you will, but it’s the most powerful tool, and I’m very grateful for you to be here.

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Moving Past Your Lower SelfThe Lower Self is the ego or the Shell and “IT” is not you. Learn more about how to move past your lower self and your mind.

Many of us have faced moments when others hurled hurtful words—like “Who do you think you are?” I remember this so well after having channeled my first book Is God With Us? My stepfather jeered and mockingly asked me this question and I fell silent in shame -as if I had done something wrong.

I want you to know that those words don’t define you, even if they’ve unconsciously shaped your lower self over time. It’s common to carry such wounds and to feel stuck, but you’re not alone—and you can break free.

In Moving Past Your Lower Self I want to acknowledge how common and damaging these patterns are, yet also remind you that you’re not alone or defined by the past.

Now is the perfect time to reconnect with your true self and inspire those around you to do the same.

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Episode 083 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: Moving Past the Lower Self

Weston Jolly:
Let’s talk about how to move past your lower self. As human beings, we’re rooted in our physical form. Biologically, we’re conditioned to fear things—snakes, tigers, any threat that could harm us. This survival instinct passes into how we’re raised—by our parents and our communities. Quickly, the idea that “nobody is safe” becomes a deep, primal resonance for all of us.

This isn’t new. It’s used everywhere, especially in marketing. I remember learning in college how companies like Michelin would put a baby inside a tire in an advertisement. The message is clear: fear sells! As long as people believe that fear is real. Today, I want to show you how to go beyond the attachment of your lower self.

[00:03]

Understanding the Ego and Separation

Weston Jolly:
We must be compassionate with ourselves and recognize that as souls, we chose to incarnate in physical bodies. Our bodies protect us, but our minds—specifically the ego—can amplify that fear. The ego acts as a shell that creates not just real, but imagined threats.

At its core, the ego is about separation. When constant messages tell us we’re not safe, this strikes at our root chakra and threatens feelings of security—whether it’s about having a job, a home, or food. The body and mind trigger a predictable protective response.

You can’t force yourself to move forward just by fighting this state. Trying to love or support someone mired in fear doesn’t work; fear always wins out and the lower self takes over. The ego drives the car, creating drama and separation. Mere intellectual understanding isn’t enough; mastery requires living beyond this perspective.

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Patterns of Protection and Separation

Weston Jolly:
Let’s delve into how the lower self operates in daily life. When you constantly hear that nobody is safe—either in the news or in your world—that triggers feelings of separation. This isn’t just about society; it seeps into our personal habits and barriers.

Sometimes, even when you are safe, you don’t feel that way. This happens because your subconscious, “reptilian” brain, has been activated. When you let the lower self have too much control, you create cycles of separation and start to believe you have no choices. This leads to an internal sense of powerlessness.

If you’re grappling with uncomfortable emotions or trying to control your mind, it may seem virtually impossible. Trying to prevent yourself from feeling fear rarely works. Instead, give yourself permission to see the truth and connect to your Higher Self.

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Choosing Connection Over Fear

Weston Jolly:
Operating from your Higher Self means there’s no fight or struggle—no drama over “who’s in charge.” Your spirit or Higher Self will never argue with your lower self. You must simply choose whom you serve. If you opt for your Higher Self, there’s no reason to submit to separation and fear.

This isn’t just about hearing these words. Pay attention to how these energies feel in your body and life. You might go through your day, hear a song, feel a certain way, and suddenly an old fear—an attachment from your past—gets triggered. That’s the moment when the lower self wants to steer the car. If you let it, you attract more situations of separation. It’s a cycle—when you don’t feel safe, your energy looks for more spaces that match it.

When you try to protect yourself at all costs, you can’t receive what life wants to give you. This behavior impacts not just your personal life and health, but your relationships as well.

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Letting Go of Patterns

Weston Jolly:
Imagine waking up next to a loved one and feeling unsafe for no clear reason. Without realizing it, you may put up emotional walls, create conflict, or distance yourself from that person—even if you love them deeply. This pattern can repeat not just in romantic relationships but also between parents and children.

To move forward, focus your attention on who you really are. The feeling of “not being safe” is something learned and chosen—not a permanent truth. We become stuck, orbiting these issues like a moon around Earth, never breaking free.

But the moment you realize the fear isn’t real, the pattern breaks. That’s what letting go means: recognizing the cycle, putting your focused attention on your true self, and automatically moving past your lower self. It’s something to practice, not just understand.

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Breaking Conditioned Fear

Weston Jolly:
We all have biological protection, but we also have learned layers of ego and fear. Being aware of this is crucial. If you let your physical fear of harsh environments become a justification for further protection, it actually creates deep separation. Then, you never find peace within yourself.

Sometimes, our need to present ourselves a certain way—through appearance, status, or behavior—becomes deeply ingrained. This isn’t about age; it’s about the choice to exist as we truly are. That choice is powerful—and not a sign of vulnerability, despite what the lower self or family conditioning may tell us.

For many, this fear is passed down from generation to generation. Breaking free from it is a profound act. You do not need to remain limited.

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The Power of Choice and Affluence

Weston Jolly:
Let’s look at how you can release yourself from the past and connect with your true self. There are many ways—no single right one. Remember, having options (affluence) is the opposite of the poverty mindset, which makes you feel like you have no choice at all.

Even if strong feelings of fear or separation have been repeated all your life—through upbringing, culture, or social roles—you can become conscious of these patterns. Giving attention to the lower self, acknowledging it, and then choosing differently is how you move forward.

When you’re stuck, it’s because you’re holding onto these patterns. You don’t have to. Practicing mindfulness and gratitude brings your focus back to your true self, helping you move beyond old cycles.

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Shifting Into Gratitude and Abundance

Weston Jolly:
Gratitude is a powerful tool. It connects you to your Higher Self and source. While many use gratitude for minor things—a meal, a parking spot—true gratitude comes from realizing you are supported simply by being alive.

Society may reinforce separation through class or category, but these are learned beliefs. When you let go of them, you step into your power. Even immense wealth can’t guarantee a feeling of safety if separation and fear still rule within.

Affluence and abundance come from a connected state. Practicing gratitude and letting go of limiting beliefs allow you to receive more. Your Higher Self is always available—no need to wait until death to access it. The feeling of connection is always there for you.

[00:23]

Connecting with Divine Truth

Weston Jolly:
Tap into your Higher Self through gratitude and understanding that separation isn’t real. Divine truth never changes; it’s eternal. Connecting with this truth is not about individual perspective but reaching something universal.

As you access your Higher Self, you transcend many earthly fears. You allow yourself to move beyond manipulation—no longer controlled by fear, illusions, or a sense of unworthiness. Clear thinking keeps you connected and avoids the traps of limitation.

Sometimes, calming the mind feels like quieting a fussy baby. Gently remind yourself—the ego is not in charge. Let your true self lead.

[00:25]

Lighting Up Your True Self

Weston Jolly:
When you open yourself to love, without protection or fear, all of your energy centers or chakras light up. This energy isn’t limited to security at the base or root—it expands out through your whole being.

Test this for yourself. Temporary security from money, relationships, or physical strength can all be disrupted. True security comes from within. When you feel that inner connection, you live in a more powerful and peaceful way.

Moving past the lower self means honoring your history and choices, but also learning to let go—just as you’d turn a pancake over when it’s time. You are not your past. As you make peace with this, you open up to new choices and deeper states of connection, belonging, and attraction.

[00:29]

Embodying Abundance and Freedom

Weston Jolly:
As you give yourself permission to exist in this higher state of unlimited affluence, you become empowered. Like moving from grade school to college, you realize older patterns are no longer who you are.

Transcending the past lets you access oneness and create genuine connections. People drawn to affluence often have more choices, attracting abundance in new ways. Real-life examples show us this in terms of wealth—like being offered options or investments because you’re already abundant. But this is true of spiritual wealth too.

When you let one fear go, it can topple many others—like dominoes. At the deepest root, all your fears are based on separation. When you cut through that illusion, you claim your freedom and have access to new knowledge, creativity, and spiritual power. This is what it means to move past your lower self.

Congratulations on taking this journey.

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Hi, I’mWestonAfter providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…”

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Putting My Face OnWhy do we present, and wear, so many different faces when we only have one?

In a world where everyone is obsessed with putting on the perfect face, my recent trip to the car wash spirals into a comedy of errors and a journey of self-discovery. If you want to save face from public embarrassment and discover unexpected wisdom, hear what happens next when you drop the mask.

Are you ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe see yourself a little more clearly? Tune in and discover the freedom —and power— of embracing your True Self. After all you’re much more than just some face.

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Episode 082 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: Putting My Face On

[00:51]

Why Is It We Put on Different Faces?Putting my face on. If you’re a woman, you know exactly what this means. However, if you’re a man, you might not realize that “putting my face on” refers to applying makeup. Isn’t it fascinating that putting on a face is something we all do? Not necessarily makeup, but a face. Everyone wants to put their best face forward. The young want to appear mature; the old want to look young. We are obsessed with looking good. It’s obvious, but you might be too close to the situation to notice. Let me illustrate. Imagine you’re on vacation, out to dinner with family or friends. I’m your waiter, and someone hands me a phone, asking if I’ll take your picture. I gather everyone, compose the shot with attention to lighting and background, making sure everyone looks their best, and take the photo. Then I say, “I’ve got it,” and hand the camera back. What’s the first thing you do? You can’t help yourself.

[02:24]

Saving Face At The Car WashYou’re staring at yourself, checking if your eyes are open or closed, if there’s spinach stuck in your teeth, or if you look silly. Maybe you’re worried your neck looks like a turkey. The list goes on. It can be hard to see your inner uniqueness if you’re used to putting on a face. Let me share a personal story. Last Sunday, I asked my wife if I could take her car to get it washed. I thought it was a nice gesture, though I admit I’m obsessed with her car being clean. I took her car to the car wash—she has a membership—so I went into the “members only” lane. There were only a couple of cars ahead, and some behind. I’m familiar with her car, which has an automatic windshield wiper feature: when the windshield gets wet, the wipers come on automatically.

[03:46]

When Putting Your Face On Goes BadI knew this, but I felt a bit nervous as I waited my turn as the next car to enter the car wash. I couldn’t quite remember how to turn off the automatic windshield wipers. The car wash attendant, clearly familiar with this feature, sprayed my windshield first. As soon as he did, my wipers, as I feared, automatically engaged. Instinctively, I put my foot on the brake —remember, we’re on a moving track— as I tried twisting and turning the right-hand knob to turn off the automatic wipers. The attendant kept spraying the windshield while I desperately fiddled with the controls, trying to stop the wipers. I felt stressed and anxious, but nothing worked. With no other option, the attendant pressed a red button to stop the car wash, setting off a loud buzzer that alerted everyone in the area that the car wash was down.

[05:08]

What’s the Real Problem?It was my fault. I looked in the rearview mirror and saw a long line of cars behind me. I tried even harder to turn off the wipers, but with no luck. Finally, as I was about to enter the car wash, another attendant motioned for me to roll down my window and said, “Turn off your automatic windshield wipers.” I won’t repeat what I was thinking in that moment. I replied, “I’m trying, but I don’t know how!” as he continued spraying the windshield and the wipers kept going. Then he suggested I lift the lever up a notch. I did, and the problem was solved. Looking in the mirror, I saw the line was even longer. I was nervous but relieved the issue was fixed. The car wash alarm sounded again, letting everyone know the wash was about to start.

[06:36]

Trying to Save Face After the IncidentAs my car was pulled into the first stage of the car wash, I couldn’t believe how anxious I felt about causing such a commotion. I glanced in the rearview mirror again to see how many people were behind me, telling myself it didn’t matter what others thought. Hidden in the car wash, I was overwhelmed with embarrassment. When I reached the end, hearing the air blow-drying the car, I felt some relief and reminded myself that I probably wasn’t the first to have this issue. Pulling out, I made a U-turn to find a stall to dry and vacuum the car, and I ending up parking right next to the front of the car wash —the very spot where my problems began. Now I could really see how backed up the line was because of me.

[07:50]

If I Didn’t Hear the Alarm the First Time I Did the SecondTrying not to attract any more attention, I grabbed my towels to dry the car. As I leaned down, over the front grill, to dry the front bumper, the key fob in my pocket got caught and set off the car’s emergency alarm, creating a loud beeping noise. I jumped, trying to figure out what happened, and then I realized the fob was in my pocket. With wet hands, I struggled to reach into my dry pockets and find the right button. The fob is square with tiny buttons, which are not much bigger than on an iPhone. The car alarm kept going, and I couldn’t tell which button would turn it off, so I pressed them all.

[08:49]

Reflections on Being Seen – Even When the Alarms Go OffThe same attendant who helped with my automatic wipers was standing six or eight feet away. The car alarm finally stopped, and I finished drying the car as quickly as possible. Everything I did was an attempt to save face, but it didn’t work. If you’re a woman, you might start your day by washing your face and putting on makeup. If you’re a man, you’re probably putting on a face too, just without makeup. We all do it, just like we look at ourselves in photos to make sure we look good. What I’m saying is, we all put on a face. Well, not everyone. When Susan Boyle first sang “I Dreamed a Dream” from Les Misérables on Britain’s Got Talent, she didn’t put on a face. She came on stage, told everyone she was 47, unemployed, never married, and had never been kissed.

[10:13]

Susan Boyle and the Power of Not Wearing a FaceThen she sang. Twenty-six million people watched that audition. Her dream of becoming a singer came true with her first album selling ten million copies, and she recorded eight more albums. If you’re wondering how, Susan’s success came from not putting on a face. My car wash wake-up call made me look at myself differently. Metaphysically, something was going on. The car wash, the alarms, the horns, and the attention I drew —what is this message? It’s ironic, symbolic, and even humorous that it took a car wash for me to see myself more clearly. Maybe the car wash was helping me remove my makeup. I find words—and the energy behind them—fascinating. Right now, I’m thinking about the phrase “makeup.” This reminds me of another story from college. I missed a class and called a classmate from the lobby of a girls’ dorm to ask for her notes. We sat together every day in business school, but she wasn’t enthusiastic and sighed saying, “I just took off my makeup.”

[11:55]

Caught Looking at Only the makeupI said, “I don’t care,” and I kept pleading for her notes for the next day’s test. She finally agreed as she said she’d be down in the lobby in a minute. I sat in the corner of the all-girl dormitory lobby, absent-mindedly watching people come and go. Then a girl walked up, handed me some papers, and said, “Here you go.” I didn’t recognize her and I finally said, “…Sheila?” She frowned, turned around, and walked away in a huff. I begged for forgiveness, but it was clear I was like all the other guys who thought Sheila didn’t wear that much makeup. Nothing had really changed —she was still herself— but something had changed within me. I hadn’t taken the time to really see Sheila without her face on, and it was I who was embarrassed. After a few humble apologies, Sheila forgave me, and we became even better friends. Do we need to present ourselves in a made-up fashion? After my recent car wash fiasco, I decided to open up even more to what else I might be making up. So, I decided to channel about it.

[13:35]

Channeling:As you look through a dark glass, your vision is obscured. Once the dark lens is removed, you can see clearly. There are many layers you use to protect your sense of self. For example, when you look in the mirror, you wonder, “Who am I?” But really, you’re thinking about how you want to present yourself. It may never occur to you that the reflection isn’t really you. The essence of who you are is found in your energy, your light, and your vibrations. To see yourself, you must look beyond the external mirror. Nothing is more beautiful than recognizing your true essence. Let it be shared this way: as you see yourself, so you are. When you truly desire to see, it’s not about your reflection —it’s about your essence. Recognizing your essence is a beautiful acknowledgment.

[15:15] A mirror, like an SLR camera, can only capture parts of your true self. To be seen, you must first recognize who you really are. This goes far beyond the external. Most people are raised to search for their abilities and to express such gifts, but these are just a part of who you are. Outward expressions give an incomplete view of your inner self. Yet, these reflections are magnified by how often you express your gifts. All of it is meant to reflect the Divine within, but everyone is too busy presenting themselves rather than seeing themselves as they truly are. External expression becomes a way of identifying with who you think you are. This isn’t wrong, but these manifestations are often out of proportion to the whole self. Remember: as you see yourself, so you are.

[16:54] A carpenter may see themself as valuable because of their ability to make beautiful things from wood. If you limit yourself to the external, you’re limited to the image in the mirror and you’ll miss your authentic being. To break free, you must recognize that you aren’t the mirror —the mirror is just a reflection of your true essence. When you see your shadow, you’re trying to recognize something, but what? Your shadow, the lake’s reflection, the reflection offered by a mirror, or within the sound of your voice… this is all represented by your temporary body. This is true when you write as well. Writing offers a reflection of who you are, but it’s only a reflection —it’s just a tiny piece of the real you. To see your True Self, you must go beyond these breadcrumb-like reflections. You must see the whole.

[18:21] Seeing your whole self isn’t limited to the positive image in a photo, which is created by the negative film. This duality is easy to get caught up in, but you need to go beyond it. Instead of seeing yourself as separate and alone, you must see beyond physical representations of your body, voice, and tangible being —and tap into your essence. As your essence is revealed, you are free to go beyond recreating these external things. Engage fully in reclaiming all that you are. We encourage this transformation.

“Putting My Face On,”Is summary of Putting My Face On, consider these points:

1.) Understand the limits of perception and self-image: External focus obscures your deeper, more authentic essence.

2.) The distinction between external manifestations, appearances, talents and roles, and the inner essence of a person: The true self is found in the energy, Light, and vibrations that underlie our being, qualities that can’t captured by mirrors, reflections, or even outward expressions in totality.

3.) Identifying with achievements or social roles is limiting and incomplete: At best this is a small shadow of your True Self.

4.) Going beyond duality: Recognize the unity of the self with the greater whole. True self-knowledge can’t come from external validation or reflection, but it only can come from an inward discovery of one’s true essence.

5.) Transformation and authenticity: The ultimate invitation is to see and to accept oneself fully beyond physical and social constructs, and to reclaim the wholeness of one’s being. When you choose this, you are given a deeper knowledge of your True Self.

As you see yourself, so you are…

And so is your connection to the Divine.

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Get Up and GO BEYOND.Get Up and Go Beyond, means raising your vibration and being One. We are the only species that has the conscious ability to rise up. And the power of being united is the essence of all manifestation.

“If a dog can learn to walk you then can rise up.”

Get Up and Go Beyond is raising your vibrations.

In this podcast, we explore the power of raising our vibrations through deep connections with ourselves and others.

Discover a secret superpower that’s more than just a warm fuzzy feeling—it’s a true game changer that helps us break free from isolation and celebrate our unity. While simply coexisting is good, genuine empowerment comes from working together and acknowledging our interconnectedness.

All wealth is born from a state of oneness. As the only mammals with this incredible potential for unity, we also have the unique ability to deny it. When we get trapped in our egos, we create separation and division, which keeps us in a state of fear and lack—ultimately leading to our downfall.

Get Up and Go Beyond offers powerful messages that will help you transcend the limitations of duality, helping you move far beyond fear, control, doubt, and uncertainty. Let’s rise together!

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Episode 081 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: Get Up and Go Beyond

Get Up and Go Beyond[00:54] – Weston Jolly
I know a lot of people who have been really wondering what’s going on. Perhaps you’ve been experiencing issues that have to do with your past, like you’ve never been asked before. Things like; health issues, maybe economic changes, changes with your job or personal relationships. Certainly, there’s a great deal happening in the world, and how we’re all interconnecting. And maybe, just maybe, this is a time for you and me to rise up and to go beyond—a time to really find your empowerment. And this is that message for you to Get Up and Go Beyond.

The Power of Personal Accountability[01:43] – Weston Jolly
So if you have been feeling unsafe, fearful, or upset by anything outside of you, it’s because you’ve created it. I know this can be really hard to hear, and most people will automatically resist, not wanting to be personally accountable. But this is the point, isn’t it? Because if we’re going to make a change, if we’re going to rise up and go beyond, we have to do that by reestablishing our individual and collective connection.

[02:17] – Weston Jolly
Raising your vibration is a message of unlimited opportunity.

In the opposite state, it’s really easy to see how blaming everyone with absolutely no personal accountability is so common.

[02:41] – Weston Jolly
The rising up has to start with you. If you’re feeling unsure or defeated, this is the exact intention of any person or group who wants to steal, lie, or control—whether it’s by power, money, or positioning. If you’ve felt or still feel like you don’t matter, or that you don’t have enough, or that your voice isn’t worth hearing, this conditioning and its effects started a long time ago.

Unity as a Pathway to Empowerment[03:31] – Weston Jolly
So what’s the point? Raising your vibration up means literally being at one. Be reminded that this power is within you. This is why you are being asked to rise up. Some people may call this a spiritual up-leveling. An opportunity to raise your vibrations —as the creator that you are— so that you can banish slavery. Now, slavery is a strong word and very personal. But you can’t get up disempowered as a slave.

This is super important. So as you claim your empowerment to be strong and free, beware that you don’t need permission. You don’t need permission to speak or rise up; you know the power is in unity. The power is in oneness. The power of the universe is found in oneness.

[04:32] – Weston Jolly
This is found in nature as it is in the potential of humans. There’s absolute power in unity. If you are rich by any definition, there is no other way except through unity. This one thought will increase your vibrations as you go up. This simple truth will actually remain forever.

Lessons from History: The Importance of Unity[06:29] – Weston Jolly
Have you ever wondered why human evolution continues to rise and fall? Why have so many people—some of the greatest communities, empires or governments in history—gone extinct? Consider these very clear points of the past that created extinction or the expiration of a people or government:

Climatic shifts
Economic strain
Lack of unity,
Invasion
Loss of identity.

Does any of that sound familiar? Perhaps we’re going through a climate shift, economic strain, lack of unity, invasion desires by us or others and certainly perhaps we’re at a loss in terms of our identity.

The Transformative Power of Gratitude[08:01] – Weston Jolly
Let’s quickly unwrap the Secrets of Gratitude as a singular tool. What is gratitude? Gratitude is an opportunity to be at one, to actually raise your vibrations and reestablish a reconnection to this energetic base. Being in gratitude is an opportunity to be at one with all things. This includes events like a fire or a flood, or even more personal challenges, such as a disease. Sometimes when these things happen, our first instinct is to fight them. Let’s be honest—gratitude during tough times is challenging. It’s easy to feel grateful when life is bountiful, but it feels much harder when we’re in the midst of a trial or a challenge. This is why gratitude is such a powerful tool—a superpower for connection. Think of the term Nameste.

[09:42] – Weston Jolly
Everything about life exists in a state of connection. Nothing is separate. Denying this connection puts individuals, families, and even civilizations at peril. While differences of opinion are natural and healthy, they don’t have to lead to disconnection or division.

Connection Beyond Drama and Trauma[11:15] – Weston Jolly
It’s not about being in lockstep with everyone but about appreciating and honoring our shared humanity. Interestingly, humans often create the most connection through drama or trauma. While these moments can bring people together, they represent lower vibrational states. We don’t need war, economic collapse, or political division to foster connection. To rise vibrationally, we must let go of thoughts that create separation and division because we are all one.

[12:56] – Weston Jolly
Unity doesn’t mean thinking alike; it means coexisting with respect and moving beyond separation. Abundance flows from unity—this is foundational to all creation. Rising up takes practice and consistency, but it can also be joyful and fulfilling. Hope alone isn’t enough; we must actively choose connection every day.

Rising Beyond Duality[14:45] – Weston Jolly
As we rise into higher vibrations, we step into prosperity through collaboration and unity. Wealth itself depends on participation and interconnectivity—it cannot exist in isolation. Humans possess a unique ability among mammals: the conscious choice to raise their vibrations. While animals like dolphins or chimpanzees collaborate harmoniously, humans can intentionally elevate their energy through awareness.

[16:12] – Weston Jolly
Creation is a double-edged sword as it can foster either unity or division. When we raise our vibrations and connect as one, we transcend duality and limitations imposed by the ego or mind. The mind is finite; it dies with the body. However, the soul transcends this limitation, offering us the opportunity to connect deeply with our true essence.

Choosing Unity Over Separation
[17:49] – Weston Jolly
Unchecked ego creates separation—feelings of loneliness, abandonment, or superiority over others—all of which lower our vibrations. Even small examples of separate thinking can highlight this issue, like comparing ourselves to others unnecessarily. Going beyond involves tapping into the infinite genius within us and embracing unity with the universe.

[19:20] – Weston Jolly
Rising up doesn’t mean losing individuality; it means recognizing ourselves as integral parts of a greater whole. This perspective enhances our power rather than diminishing it. By choosing connection over separation, we unlock infinite opportunities for growth and prosperity.

Ego and Separation: Understanding the Pitfalls[16:11] – Weston Jolly
Every mind has an ego, and if unchecked, it continuously creates separation. This unchecked ego leads to feelings of; loneliness, abandonment, unhappiness, and that of a constant struggle, often positioning oneself for personal gain at the expense of others. This state is indicative of being stuck in lower vibrations. When we judge or create classifications that elevate ourselves above others, regardless of the scale, we lower our vibration and move in the opposite direction of unity.

[17:49] – Weston Jolly
This concept extends to extreme thoughts of separation. For instance, I recall when our son was born and our baby was in bed with my wife a day after the event. My brother-in-law, who also just had his second child a few days before ours stood with his first born taking a peak our new arrival. Without hesitation, my nephew looked at our baby and said, “Our baby is better than your baby.” The room filled with uncomfortable laughter because of the extremity of the thought that one baby is better than another, even within the same family.

Choosing Connection: The Path to Empowerment[19:20] – Weston Jolly
When I discuss extreme thoughts of separation, it’s essential to remember that no baby is better than another. Going beyond means tapping into the infinite, the genius within, and connecting as one with the universe. Regardless of personal beliefs, everyone returns to this understanding upon death.

[20:56] – Weston Jolly
The unique opportunity we have as humans is the choice: Do we rise up and go beyond? If so, it’s vital to remember our empowerment. Rising up and connecting becomes effortless when we cease seeing ourselves as separate or as the center of the universe. Instead, we see ourselves as integral pieces of a larger whole. This recognition doesn’t diminish us; it enhances our power by extending it through connection.

The Power of Unified Creation[22:30] – Weston Jolly
If there’s one thing to take away from this message, it’s to level up and Get Up and Go Beyond by embracing the infinite opportunity to connect, share, and genuinely prosper without fearing loss. As you desire to rise up and go beyond, that potential will be extended to you in proportion to your desire. I encourage you to think big when aiming to get up and beyond.

[24:10] – Weston Jolly
Now is the time to connect on levels you’ve never considered before. When it comes to your creative power, it’s always amplified through unified connection. It’s my honor and conscious choice to connect with you, and vice versa, as you choose to connect with me. Creating a state of oneness is exceptionally powerful. Your voice, your contribution as an individual to society, continues to foster the prosperity we need not just to exist, but to truly thrive as we move forward so that we can get up and go beyond. For us to make true connections, we have to engage.

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Hi, I’mWestonAfter providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…”

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Why You Cant Manage Your FearsIt’s a popular notion that you can control, overcome, and even manage your fears, but there are undeniable reasons why this will never work!

What you’ll learnIn this dialogue on why you can’t overcome or manage your fears, we take a close look at the nature of our beliefs and fears. Remarkably, over 90% of the fears that haunt us are actually unfounded. Join me as we explore how to break free from fear—and why you can’t manage or overcome fear. The first step toward true transformation is to confront our fears directly, observing their presence instead of fleeing from them.

In this podcast, we will examine the compelling connection between love and fear, shedding light on why fear grips us and how it significantly diminishes our capacity to receive.

This journey is not merely about personal growth; it’s about transforming the energy of every situation we encounter. Today, we are called to release our beliefs in fear, embrace the irrefutable truth of love, and harness the immense power we all possess to shape our experiences through awareness and intention.

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Episode 080 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: Managing fear and anxiety doesn’t work, but this approach does

[00:10] – Weston Jolly
Managing fear and anxiety doesn’t work, but this approach does. Right now, there’s a significant amount of fear being propagated. The reason is simple: fear sells. In moments of fear, there’s an instinct within you that drives action.

Understanding Fear[01:13] – Weston Jolly
We observe this in advertising campaigns. You’ve likely seen an egg breaking into a hot skillet, followed by the sound of sizzling. The tagline reads, “This is your brain on drugs,” creating a stark connection between frying the egg and frying your brain. This makes you think, “This is real.”

[01:41] – Weston Jolly
A lot of people want you to feel afraid.

[01:46] – Weston Jolly
They aim to sell you their agenda, product, service, or idea. This allows them to control or manipulate you through fear.

Fear is Addictive[02:02] – Weston Jolly
Let’s be clear about the essence of fear: it is addictive. It feeds on itself. Just one word, idea, or thought can start to grow, and soon you can feel it emanating from your solar plexus and spreading throughout your body.

[02:25] – Weston Jolly
Like any addiction, fear cannot be managed effectively. People who seek help in rehab programs, for example, may try to overcome alcohol addiction by counting days, weeks, or even years to manage their success. But ultimately, this approach fails.

[02:55] – Weston Jolly
We have plenty of examples illustrating this. So, while managing fear and anxiety doesn’t work, what does?

Biologically-Why You Can’t Manage Fear[03:05] – Weston Jolly
Let’s delve into something important for your understanding. Biologically speaking, if I were close enough to you and blew in your face, you’d instinctively blink. This reaction is beyond your control and cannot be managed.

[03:22] – Weston Jolly
This is simply how your body is designed. When you recognize that all animals, including humans, have biological systems for self-protection, you’ll understand that you cannot manage these instinctive biological responses.

[03:44] – Weston Jolly
These include our eyelids, designed to protect our eyes, our skin, which envelops the entire body to maintain integrity, our nose, which filters impurities from the air, and our liver and kidneys that function to protect us and ensure safety.

[04:11] – Weston Jolly
If you think you can manage fear, consider the act of someone blowing air into your eyes. Trying to control your instinctive blink response is biologically impossible, regardless of your intentions.

[04:41] – Weston Jolly
When your brain’s amygdala perceives a threat, it reacts instinctively. The prefrontal cortex assesses whether the threat is real or how serious it is. Meanwhile, the hippocampus stores related memories, allowing us to draw on past experiences when future threats are perceived.

[05:14] – Weston Jolly
This creates a cycle of fear, sometimes about things we may not genuinely fear. Understanding your body’s protective design demonstrates the futility of trying to control fear or anxiety.

Fear and Anxiety: The What If?[05:40] – Weston Jolly
Let’s clarify what anxiety is. Anxiety is the fear of an anticipated threat. It arises from the hippocampus, drawing on past memories to project future fears. Think of anxiety as stemming from the two words, “What if?”

[06:16] – Weston Jolly
For example, consider getting on a plane.

[06:20] – Weston Jolly
What if the plane is late?
What if I can’t find a seat?
What if I miss my flight?
What if ticket prices go up?
What if I have to sit next to an unpleasant person?

[06:40] – Weston Jolly
Those “what ifs” encapsulate the very nature of anxiety. It’s essential to recognize that you can’t control fear any more than you can control anxiety, but you can choose to observe them. Observing our fears or anxieties can be a transformative experience, yet it’s something we often neglect.

[07:05] – Weston Jolly
Instead, we allow our brains to cycle through fears, often stuffing them into a metaphorical trash can until they grow overwhelming. It’s crucial to understand that approximately 90% of our fears never come to fruition.

[07:29] – Weston Jolly
So, even from a probability standpoint, trying to manage fear is ultimately a waste of time. I’m not sure I can emphasize enough how much energy we expend trying to protect ourselves from threats that are unlikely to occur. Just as it’s biologically futile to try to control your blinking reflex, the same applies to managing fear.

Getting Free of Fear[07:57] – Weston Jolly
When we engage our primitive, reptilian brain—the part responsible for basic survival functions such as fear—it’s easy to feel stuck. This part of our brain activates the sympathetic nervous system, triggering our familiar fight-or-flight response.

[08:22] – Weston Jolly
Our endocrine system releases adrenaline and cortisol into our bodies, preparing us for an anticipated threat. This includes norepinephrine, which heightens our alertness and prepares our motor reflexes. You’ve likely experienced this when, for instance, a car backfires unexpectedly, causing you to startle.

[08:48] – Weston Jolly
This is known as the startle reflex. Your body moves into high alert mode—your senses are keenly tuned to possible threats, which is even more pronounced in highly sensitive individuals.

[09:13] – Weston Jolly
It’s crucial to grasp that you cannot control fear. This realization can be liberating. Now let’s discuss what you can do about fear and anxiety. Starting with the obvious: if over 90% of your fears are unfounded, then facing that thought directly—and acknowledging that anxiety often accompanies this fear—can simplify your understanding of what you are dealing with.

Transformative Power of Facing a Fear[09:47] – Weston Jolly
Recognizing that many fears and anxieties are derivative of non-real threats can be intellectually enlightening. However, it may not feel easy in practice.

[10:05] – Weston Jolly
It can be straightforward to talk about, but when fear manifests physically in your body, shaking it off isn’t always simple. Let’s do a little experiment to help dislodge that fear from your system.

[10:27] – Weston Jolly
I want you to take a fear—any fear you might have—and visualize it as if it’s on a table before you. Really focus on it. Now, affirm out loud, “I don’t believe in fear.” Acknowledge that fear is present, observe it, but reinforce that statement: “I don’t believe in fear.”

[11:09] – Weston Jolly
It’s remarkable how transformative that simple declaration can be, helping you recognize that you don’t have to be bound by something that isn’t real. This is the power of the statement, “I don’t believe in fear.”

[11:25] – Weston Jolly
Personally, this realization offered a significant opportunity for growth and effectiveness in handling my own fears. Since both our brains struggle to differentiate between real and false fears, why should we believe in anything less than the truth?

The Importance of Observation[11:55] – Weston Jolly
In a deeper analysis, it’s fascinating how the body operates—it cannot discern if a fear is valid or not. For example, consider a barking dog. Your brain might react instinctively, alerting you without requiring conscious thought. Your biological reflexes kick in automatically.

[12:31] – Weston Jolly
When you choose to observe “I don’t believe in fear,” it interrupts that automatic fight-or-flight response. It’s akin to recognizing invalid data in a computer program, rendering it irrelevant—pretty cool, right?

[12:52] – Weston Jolly
Now, I urge you to notice your mind before it spirals into the fear response. Your body is designed to engage perfectly with biological fears, but you can get ahead of this.

[13:09] – Weston Jolly
If you affirm that you don’t believe in fear, even when your body sends alarm signals, you can opt not to react. By setting this intention beforehand, you prepare your mind to handle fear without giving in to it.

Change This One Belief and Fear Dies[13:34] – Weston Jolly
It’s also essential to honor the fact that our beliefs are confined to our earthly experience. Every belief you hold—every single one—will cease to exist when you die.

[14:16] – Weston Jolly
It’s an intriguing thought, and it is absolutely true. If you’re wondering what endures after you die, it’s your beliefs that vanish, but what remains is the truth. However, don’t confuse your perception of truth—your interpretation of it—with the actual definition of truth.

[14:43] – Weston Jolly
The definition of truth is simple: Truth is. It is eternal and never changes. This is different from holding a belief. Our brains cannot distinguish between what is real and what is not. When we tell our brains that a belief or thought isn’t real, it changes how we process fear.

[15:12] – Weston Jolly
You might think, “Doesn’t that invalidate my ability to feel fear when a real threat is present?” No, it won’t. It simply means that by acknowledging that more than 90% of your fears aren’t real, you can adjust your mindset and free yourself from unnecessary processing of those fears.

[16:01] – Weston Jolly
When I say “facing a fear,” I mean engaging with it fully, not just glancing at it. Sit down with your fear; allow yourself to feel it and observe what you can see and experience.

Fear is Subject To Love[16:20] – Weston Jolly
Often, our fears stem from past experiences. But remember this significant insight: fear cannot coexist with love.

[18:20] – Weston Jolly
This is vital to understanding the interplay between fear and love. You must choose which to engage with; choosing love effectively eliminates fear.

[18:38] – Weston Jolly
Let’s take a fear perceived as genuine, like the fear of dogs, as an example of how fear cannot coexist with love.

[18:52] – Weston Jolly
For instance, dogs can bite, and that fear can feel very real. If someone offers comfort, such as holding your hand while a dog is barking, your first reaction might be defensive.

[19:32] – Weston Jolly
However, if we observe the dog, we discover that, according to dog training expert Cesar Millan, dogs are incredibly sensitive; they can smell emotions from miles away.

[19:59] – Weston Jolly
So, if you’re afraid of a barking dog, it may be reacting to your fear.

[20:11] – Weston Jolly
This exemplifies the law of attraction: if you project fear, the dog senses it and responds accordingly. That’s an important observation.

[20:34] – Weston Jolly
Now, let’s consider a different approach. If a barking dog appears aggressive but you respond with love, you create a different atmosphere. This holds true not only for dogs but for many animals, which can sense your openness.

[21:18] – Weston Jolly
I want to share an unexpected event that illustrates this point. My family and I traveled to Colorado, where they supported my speaking engagement. On our return trip, we stopped at a hotel in the middle of nowhere, and I heard some noise outside.

[21:35] – Weston Jolly
I went out to investigate without shoes or a flashlight, trying to locate the source of the sound, which seemed to come from right outside our ground floor room in a remote area.

[ 22:10] – Weston Jolly
As I stepped outside in the dark, I caught a glimpse of a deer standing nearby, looking directly at me.

[22:35] – Weston Jolly
I smiled internally and began to communicate with the deer, wanting it to feel safe and know that I posed no threat. To my surprise, the deer relaxed, which is unusual for wild animals, especially deer.

[23:01] – Weston Jolly
This deer even lowered itself onto its knees, appearing to settle down. The noise we heard in our hotel room had come from this interaction as the deer was preparing to sleep while I stood about 15 feet away.

[23:25] – Weston Jolly
Unbeknownst to me, my teenage son, curious about where I had gone, approached noisily from behind me. As the deer stood up, alert to this new sound, I reassured it, saying, “Listen, that’s just my son. He’s a teenager and a bit clumsy.”

[23:51] – Weston Jolly
To my amazement, the deer seemed to understand and responded as if it were sharing the sentiment: “Me too.” It was a remarkable moment, as I was communicating out loud for my son to hear, observing the deer become calm again.

[24:14] – Weston Jolly
At that point, the deer confidently walked away, leaving us without any fear. This wasn’t merely an extraordinary experience; it exemplifies that such interactions are possible for everyone.

[24:34] – Weston Jolly
This highlights the futility of trying to manage fears or anxieties that we perceive as real. Instead, remember that love and fear cannot coexist. If we choose to live in a state of love, it transforms everything, altering the energy in any situation.

[25:10] – Weston Jolly
Fear and love are incompatible. Right now, we see an overwhelming amount of fear being pushed onto us through social media, news, and politics.

[25:40] – Weston Jolly
This brings me to a fear I’ve faced recently, one I’ve avoided for 30 years! In fact, I’m hosting a live broadcast on Facebook titled, “I’m in the Midst of Addressing One of My Biggest Fears, and This is What I’ve Learned So Far.” If you missed it, you can find it on my website.

[25:57] – Weston Jolly
During this live presentation, I’ll candidly share my journey confronting a long-held fear. What I’m discussing here is just a part of that experience.

[26:20] – Weston Jolly
Let me leave you with this important thought: if you hold onto fear, whether consciously or unconsciously, it directly impacts your ability to give and receive love, create, and participate fully in life.

[26:28] – Weston Jolly
Fear can hinder your health and absolutely affects your spiritual connection. If you choose to live in a state of fear, it will close you off from love, openness, and the well-being you seek.

[26:28] – Weston Jolly
Fear directly impacts your health and significantly affects your spiritual connection. Let me reiterate: if you choose to live in a state of fear, it will close you off from love, health, openness, and your spiritual connection.

[26:54] – Weston Jolly
Many of us are currently faced with the need to confront our fears. This isn’t a new phenomenon, but we may be reaching a climactic point in this process. Thank you for joining me today. I am grateful to share this message with you on True Connections with Weston Jolly as we elevate our awareness and deepen our understanding of what fear is—and what it is not.

[27:22] – Weston Jolly
By the way, I didn’t mention this earlier, but it’s important to say now: the reason we assert that fear is not something to believe in is that fear is, in essence, an illusion. It’s an illusion on this plane; it’s not something you carry with you into other realms. You might remember fears from past lives, which can arise from time to time, but we need to address those as well.

[27:48] – Weston Jolly
If fear isn’t real, then even holding onto that memory—whether from this life or previous lifetimes—doesn’t need to restrict or limit us. It shouldn’t prevent us from expressing the profound love that we inherently are. If we understand that love and fear are incompatible, that they cannot coexist, and that fear is ultimately an illusion, then choosing to exist in a state of love transcends any fear we might encounter.

[28:16] – Weston Jolly
There’s so much more to explore on this topic, and I can’t wait for you to join me again on True Connections with Weston Jolly. I’m thankful that you’re beginning to release your belief in fear and embracing the truth that love is real and, ultimately, love prevails.

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The secret isn’t how you’ll die or when you’ll die. The secret to death, is what happens next…Learn the process of what happens when you die. What is the Tunnel of Light? Is there a judgement day? How does a life review work? How can I communicated with with spiritual world?

What’s it like to die? What happens when you die can be tremendously helpful in eliminating all the fears associated with death and dying.

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Episode 079 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: I’m Dead Now What?

Immediately upon leaving your body your spirit returns to its natural form. It’s something that you can absolutely feel. I remember vividly holding our dog who was about to be given a lethal does of Sodium Pentobarbital compassionately because of his health problems. I had my left hand was on his collar and my right hand on chest as the Veterinarian administered the shot. Almost immediately, I could feel our pet’s heart stop concurrent with his breathing. A long two seconds later, I felt something infinitesimal light – much much lighter than any feather could ever be – leave his body. It was incredible. As I felt his spirit lift all I could do was cry.

I wasn’t crying because of fear or even the loss, but the beauty of the spirit leaving the body of our family pet to return to Source. It was incredible.

When someone dies, they first enter into a space, you can also call it a place if helps you at first to understand, but it is really a space… a space where transition begins. At the exact moment of death there’s a transition. The transition is obvious as there’s no longer a need for a beating heart, breathing, eating or thinking.

This portal, which is the same one I mentioned in Ep 78 of True Connections with Weston Jolly called I Talk To Dead People. If you haven’t listened or read that podcast, when you are born, and when you die, there’s a portal. This portal is entry in coming back to the light.

When your mother was fully dilated, her body opened to give space for her to give you birth. During this exact time, which is called “The Transition Phase,” your mom’s body involuntarily started to push you, as her baby, into the light.

This is the same portal for birth as it is death. Obviously, you don’t return to your mother’s womb upon death, but you are returned to Source which is the Mother Of Us All. So in one sense you are returned to the Divine Mother. The mother of Source. This space, or portal, is the same in the beginning as it is in the end.

This too is why Source has accurately stated, that “I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end.”

In childbirth, it’s obviously called the transition phase because your mother is transitioning from one place to the next. The transition from life to death is the same frequency as when you were born. It’s the same doorway or portal or opening in which life starts or in which life ends.

Another way of conceiving this concept, pun intended, is for you to picture a rocket about to liftoff. As a rocket thrust’s itself away from Earth’s gravity -about two minutes after the launch- there is a transition. This is the place where the thrusters give way to the new smaller capsule inside the mothership. During transition, and for the first time, this smaller capsule begins its journey under its own power.

Regardless of how death occurs, the soul is instantly returned via the transition phase back to Source. The very first thing that is addressed is identity. When there’s been a sudden death there is some strong likelihood that the soul still holds the thought resonance that they are still embodied. They’re not, as this is why people who have died and come back into their body, say that they were disembodied or that they were out-of-body.

What’s it like to be out of your body? Pretty much the same as when you dream. Certainly, you can remain, heavy, or in your body while you dream. But most of us leave our body during the dream state. This is why I’ve shared two important blogs for you to consider on the subject of dreaming; What is the Spiritual Meaning of Your Dreams and more importantly Are Flying Dreams Real?. You could describe being out-of-your-body as flying, but it’s more accurate to say, that you’ve returned to your spiritual essence.

After realizing that you are no longer alive, or physically embodied, the transition continues. This is where you find yourself aware that you’re in what many have called a “tunnel of light.” This tunnel, is much like riding in a vehicle goes through a hole at the bottom of a mountain to come out the other side. During the transition period of death, this tunnel of light has an emmence light that draws you towards it. I guess you could say the tunnel of light is also like a long hallway, with countless doors that connect to events within your life span.

The tunnel of light also has similarities to your human umbilical cord. The tunnel of light umbilical cord tethers you to every part of the life that you experienced. I guess you could say the length of the tunnel of light would equate to the length of your life, although time doesn’t exist. Immediately after death, and after the understanding that you’re no longer alive, then you begin what’s called a life review.

Because of world religious influence or conditioning, there are ideas that a life review is some sort of judgement. There is absolutely no judgement. There is no judgement day. And if you’re really listening, that means there is no judgement while you’re alive or when you die. This is even logically reasoned, as Source, which is THE author of Unconditional Love there can be no judgement. Ever.

If you’ve been baptized into this thinking, pun intended, then this too is part of your reawakening to return to your true spiritual essence. In your life review, as seen within the tunnel of light, you begin experiencing your life, every millisecond of it, from the perception of those that were around you.

Your life review is the most complete, inventory of your experiences ever created. Ultimately, all of “your” experiences are no longer stored in your body or brain, but in the Akashic records. The Akashic records is where all things are stored. Notice, I didn’t say all things of life are stored but ALL things. The Akashic records is also a place where all spiritual things are stored too.

If it helps, in this moment, think of the Akashic records as the biggest library every conceived. Every experience, memory, thought, creation, manifesting, happiness, joy or sadness and separation is all stored here in the Akashic records. Most important, after death you begin to process your life experiences through this life review. Before we get any farther down the path of what happens next after you die. I should back track just a little to say that you’re often greeted upon death by others who are familiar to you.

This can be a deceased; father, mother, brother, friend or spouse –and it very much includes specific Angels or Spiritual Guides – even if you’ve never believed or embraced them to be real before. Also, since we’re here at the time of physical death, it’s quite common to have people that have “agreed” to support you as you leave your body. This can be; a spouse, brother, sister, father, mother or friend. And this group of physical people helping you transition can very much include the health care workers who may be assisting you -should that be the case.

After you start the process of letting go of your identity, your body and your physical self, you start the life review of enjoying how every person, and every thing, recorded your life interaction. This life review is the most comprehensive thing you can possibly imagine. This review isn’t necessarily time sequential from the beginning to the end or from the end to the beginning. The life review is very much related to the being in the tunnel of light and where you find yourself in the tunnel.

Since time isn’t real, especially from a spiritual perspective, when going through a life review there is no “normal time” in which someone reviews their life completely. There’s no need to hurry or get through it quickly. This is the perfect time to share about when you can have access to someone after they’ve died.

Sometimes, there’s an immediate need for someone who has passed to communicate with you. By far the simplest means for the two parties to connect is via the dream state. This place can act like a bridge to the physical reality and the the spiritual. If someone you know has passed and they need, or you need, to communicate you will have a dream. Dreams can feel wonderful, offering you and the person who died, a state of completion after death.

When death suddenly occurs the drastic change of being alive one minute and dead the next can be a challenge that death has occurred. If you compare this to someone who has faced a life long illness, or condition, death in itself can be a relief. Nonetheless, any and all resistance is futile. Even when death is overdue or long past expected, the need to connect can be important for both sides to tie up any part or pieces of the relationship that are still being processed. This is where a lot of people will ask questions such as, “Why did they have to die early?” or “Why did they take so long to let go?

When people do let go of their bodies there is no pain. The only thing that can be processed as painful is memories of the past. While this is NOT encouraged, it is possible for someone who has passed to get stuck in the tunnel of light. This would very much include individuals of addiction in their physical life. This only means that the person who died, who was once was an addict – it doesn’t matter the kind of addiction – that they can do circles around the same spot within the tunnel of light. This is akin to watching a rerun of some episodic TV that has been seen a thousand times before but the deceased person hasn’t let it go.

From an earthly perspective, when someone is stuck we call these kinds of entities –ghosts. A ghost being an entity that’s spiritual but still stuck in their Earthly attachment. Entities or ghosts, are sometimes stuck in a house, the bar, the city or place, where they are still doing circles in their death transition to pure light. And yes, sometimes these entities play tricks or try to create a dominion of their presence because of certain pieces of their physical past.

To understand this better let me share this real life example. My family and I stayed in a Bed and Breakfast in Denver many years ago. When we fist checked-in, I could feel the energy of entities, or ghosts that were running around the large house. We had two rooms. One for my wife and I, and the other for our kids with an adjoining door in between the two rooms. Once we got up into our rooms, I went to say something about what I felt in the house to to my wife and kids… and everyone looked at me and said, “We know!”

We could all feel the spiritual entities that were attached to the house and the rooms we’d rented for the night. We gathered as one, and spiritually demanded that we would have privacy in our rooms. This was agreed upon by the entities of the house, but as a part of the spiritual negotiation, our whole family also agreed that the ghosts would be allowed to run up and down the stairways or halls including the kitchen area. All in all, we came to an agreement.

We stayed the one night. Our family wasn’t bothered, as per our understanding, but the conversation that we had with the new owners the following day at breakfast was quite interesting. The owner’s of the B&B shared the details of the troubles they had after purchasing the property and also trying to convert it into a B&B. We appreciated the spiritual education and determined that, as a family, we preferred properties that weren’t inhabited by ghosts.

The best way to describe this is that these souls were still attached to the concept that they lived or inhabited the house and therefore they were stuck in an endless loop in the tunnel of light. In time, though spiritual encouragement, these entities will let go, and they will ascend further into the white light.

Places where I observe entities who are stuck most are in; hospitals, bars, houses, and sometimes cities or specific events. I have helped many homeowner’s, releasing stuck energy, or entities that were attached to the house, so they could sell the property. So, now in getting back to, I’m Dead Now What?

When a person who is ready to communicate to someone who is physically on Earth they may create reminders or patterns of signals to prompt the living person to initiate communication. This where a spiritual medium, such as myself, acts as a liaison in assisting. I think it’s important as a spiritual channel to share with you, that when I am asked to bridge the two parties together much can take place. For me, I become a spiritual interpreter to give words and language and energy meaning the dead person I am channeling.

Oftentimes, a person that has passed wants to provide specific information to my client as means of sharing that this communication and/or this bridge is authentic. This means the dead are often dropping direct or even indirect references to events, names and situations to enhance the conversation. There is conflict for the person that’s passed because they’re being asked to remove their attachment to their physical identity, and now have to use it, like a badge used to enter a building, to once again have access the person they want to speak to.

In time, being detached is easier and easier because the deceased can use their previous identity, name, association with whomever they’re talking to, and no longer be attached to it. A careful observer will see this during the course of their spiritual transition down the tunnel of light.

I would like to add a few more things to our speaking about I’m Dead Now What?

On the spiritual side there can be a challenge to have direct communication with the ones they love. Dropping clues in dreams, making the phone ring with no one on the line, is wonderful but not nearly fulfilling enough. Oftentimes, I have participated as a medium for one specific person who died, and many many others show up. I would have you imagine, that there is a telephone line that is opened up, as the result of the channeling and many times there is a line of entities who want to talk, have a comment, say “hi” and more.

It’s been my experience that this can be a little overwhelming for me as I’m suddenly trying to hear, see and feel a whole group of people instead of just channeling for one individual who has passed. Therefore, I ask all those in the spiritual form to stand in line, and if my client is desirous, I’ll give them a chance to speak. This is fun to know that there’s so much demand for the deceased to speak and share.

Lastly, those who pass, sometimes begrudgingly come to the table when asked as opposed to those that would jump at the chance. This is because they’re still very much in process of their life review, regardless of how long ago they died. When this is the case, I think it’s important to share their hesitancy and also let it be known that the deceased loved one is still clinging to their identity which very much includes their personality. Such an entity can be helped by having such a dialgog even though it might initially feel a little forced.

In summary of I’m Dead Now What? I think it’s fair to share that the dead want to be heard as much as you may want to communicate with them –perhaps even more so. Further understanding with someone who has passed can be very healing. This is especially true, when a “personality” is altered and the person that you once knew takes on a truer form of their spiritually. This is where you can be really assisted beyond the physical, when a person who has passed offers themselves as a spiritual guide .

So in conclusion, and in this moment, I’d like to offer a special honor and gratitude for Suzie, who was my sister-in-law who died prematurely at the age of 37. I really just want to truly thank her for or all of her love and personal assistance for me, her sister and her niece and nephew. Suzie, was a very strong personality while living, having modeled, creating several successful business’ and while also quite challenged with unresolved things of her childhood that caused her premature death from this life. That said, I’d like to dedicate this whole podcast to Suzie and her beautiful life.

Suzie continues to offer each member of our family a great deal of spiritual encouragement and direction and remains a active part of our lives. Some time ago, I wrote a special piece I dedicated to Suzie which is called A Beautiful Life. should you be interested in hearing more about her life and impact….

I do hope you can see that speaking to the dead is truly something to be cherished and honored and in that respect I remain endeared to be called to that process every time I’m asked to channel. Thank you for joining me for today’s podcast and I’ll look forward to your joining me again soon for the next True Connections with Weston Jolly podcast!

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I Talk To Dead People.I boarded a plane and as I sat down the woman next to me asked, “What Do You Do?” and I responded, “I Talk To Dead People!” As a spiritual medium, I’m asked a lot of questions about talking to the deceased. Find out how mediumship works what it’s like talking to the dead people.

Twenty-five years later, and I’m still having incredible conversations with those who have crossed over. What keeps me engaged? The wealth of wisdom they can share! Among the many questions that loved ones seek answers to, two stand out: “Why did this happen?” and “How did it all unfold?”

Tuning into the voices of the departed is not just a journey; it’s a fascinating exploration that uncovers profound lessons. Some spirits bring invaluable spiritual insights, while others may struggle to lift themselves to a place of clarity. The experience is as unique as the individuals involved, and the revelations can be both enlightening and transformative. Join me as we delve into the mysteries of the afterlife, and unlock the secrets that those beyond the veil are eager to share!

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Episode 078 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: I Talk To Dead People[00:55] – The Identity Shift After Death

Weston Jolly:
When you’re dead, you face an immediate change of perspective, which is your identity.

A voice whispers in a tunnel:
Who do you think you are?

[01:23] – Reflecting on Your Existence

Weston Jolly:
Relax. I’m not talking about you, or maybe I am? But not in the way that you may be thinking about it, but you’ll have to decide that later.

[01:34] – The Breakfast Scenario

Weston Jolly:
Imagine you’re having breakfast with your best friend. You casually check your watch and realize you’re late. You interrupt:
Shoot, I’ve got to go!
You bolt out of the restaurant, happy to have spent time with your friend, but you check your watch again on your way to the car, but you’re 15 minutes late.

[01:59] – The Dilemma of Speed

Weston Jolly:
You do what most of us do…you have to drive fast! Pulling out of the parking lot, you hit the gas. Some part of you really thinks you can make up the time by driving faster, but you know it’s impossible. You consider your options:
Let the other party know you’re running late,
Drive at a normal speed and arrive when you can, or
* Drive faster.

[02:26] – The Distraction of a Phone Call

Weston Jolly:
Without thinking, you accelerate. Just as you enter the freeway, your cell phone rings. You glance over and see it’s the person you’re supposed to meet. You feel bad as you reach for the phone, which is sliding toward the passenger door.

[02:52] – A Fractured Moment in Time

Weston Jolly:
That’s it. That’s all you can remember.
Yet, strangely, you see perfectly below you. You wonder: Where is your cell phone?

[03:13] – What Just Happened?

Weston Jolly:
You don’t feel anything, but you ask yourself, What happened?
As you float about 20 feet above the scene, you realize your car was hit by a cement truck that was in your blind spot. The driver didn’t see you, and now he’s slowing down, startled by what just occurred.

[03:21] – A Bird’s-Eye View

Weston Jolly:
Your car went flying, rolling several times, now a wreck with wheels facing the sky. You see a small Hispanic man in a yellow baseball cap running to the guardrail, murmuring to himself, I hope they?re okay. He thinks, It’s way too far for me to climb down.

[04:34] – Horror Strikes

Weston Jolly:
Oh, God, I hope that they’re not dead.
At once, you feel the panic of the cement truck driver.

[04:45] – Seeking to Communicate

Weston Jolly:
You know it wasn’t his fault. You were driving too fast and reaching after your phone…it was your fault. You want to tell him, but you can’t. You hear other drivers thinking, They can’t be okay.

[05:21] – The Slowdown

Weston Jolly:
Another driver begins to brake hard, causing a massive traffic jam. You hear him say, They’re dead. The way that cement truck hit… no one could have survived that.

[05:41] – The Reality of the Situation

Weston Jolly:
Another vehicle near you has a driver commenting, I knew that guy was going to get hit. He was driving way too fast.

[05:56] – The Close-Up Reveal

Weston Jolly:
Your viewpoint shifts; you’re now closer to the destroyed car. Dust settles, and you can taste it. You instinctively try to remove the sand from your mouth, but there’s nothing there.

[06:24] – The Unmoving Body

Weston Jolly:
You look down at the twisted wreck…you see yourself . It’s not moving, and it seems it never will again. How can this be? You remember the taste of your breakfast just moments ago.

[07:02] – The Grasp of Reality

Weston Jolly:
Your perspective changes again; you peek through the passenger window of your overturned car. There’s your phone, ringing beneath the seat, and you see the caller’s name flashing. Suddenly, it hits you: you’ll never be able to answer that phone again.

[07:28] – The Unsettling Question

Weston Jolly:
A voice from above asks, Who do you think you are? Instinctively, you respond with your name. The voice repeats, Who do you think you are? You wonder if this is a dream, feeling lost in time as you replay the whole incident in your mind.

[08:08] – The Revelation

Weston Jolly:
Am I dead? You feel quiet. You don’t know what to say. What does that voice mean? Silence fills you as you process everything.

[08:27] – Talking to the Forgotten

Weston Jolly:
I talk to dead people.
When a person dies, especially suddenly, they often have no idea they’ve passed on. Today, I’ll share insights from my 25 years of communicating with the deceased, including an experience I’ve never shared before. So pay attention.

[08:52] – The Shift After Death

Weston Jolly:
When someone dies, there’s an immediate change of perspective. Your beliefs may not matter in that moment. Instead, there’s an intense identity shift. This brings us back to the question: Who do you think you are? Initially, your personality remains intact-the way you spoke, processed thoughts, and perceived reality is all still there, but everything is about to change.

[09:20] – Perspectives on Death

Weston Jolly:
This change can profoundly affect your viewpoint. I want to discuss three perspectives today:
1. What it’s like from the dead’s viewpoint.
2. The desire to communicate with someone who’s died.
3. The experience of interacting with someone on the ‘living’ side.

[09:43] – The Concept of Time

Weston Jolly:
There is absolutely no time with death. This is why it’s hard to associate time when connecting with someone who has passed away.

[09:56] – The Tunnel of Light

Weston Jolly:
Another immediate sensation upon dying is often described as entering a tunnel of light. I want to explain what this tunnel signifies, its purpose, and how one might transition out of it.

[10:09] – Entering the Tunnel

Weston Jolly:
When people die, they frequently describe entering a tunnel–like a passageway. At the end of the tunnel is an incredibly bright light, symbolizing the transition for someone who has just passed.

[10:34] – The Levels of Transition

Weston Jolly:
There are many different levels of transition within the light tunnel-nothing to be seen as bad. Because there isn’t the notion of time, when someone passes, it may seem they should be immediately available for conversation. This can be true, but sometimes it’s not. For instance, if someone just passed last week and isn’t available, it’s not because I can’t connect; they’re simply swamped, going through the tunnel of light.

[11:01] – What Happens in the Tunnel?

Weston Jolly:
I want to discuss what they’re doing in this tunnel. Some individuals die and return, experiencing what we call a near-death experience, which is something to appreciate.

[11:19] – The Certainty of Death

Weston Jolly:
There’s a saying that “Nothing is certain except for death and taxes.” While death is inevitable, it’s not always certain as people can die and come back. Free will extends on both sides of life. This concept remains relevant when connecting with those who have passed; free will is significant in the tunnel of light as we begin to process who we are. This leads us back to the question: Who do you think you are?

[12:04] – Who Greets the Deceased?

Weston Jolly:
Who greets the newly departed? This process can take place right in the tunnel of light. Some people may perceive the presence of angels or recently departed loved ones like parents or grandparents, even animals. This environment is meant to invite and comfort.

[12:28] – A Personal Experience

Weston Jolly:
Reflecting back on the tunnel of light, there was an experience very real to me, reminiscent of the portal into death. Though I didn’t die, I felt something like that sensation. When we pass through the tunnel, there’s a euphoria, beauty, calmness, and connectedness.

[13:00] – The Transformative Sunset

Weston Jolly:
Strangely, there was a sunset while I was driving that felt different-a sunset so incredible, I thought, Am I dying? This sunset was so inviting, loving, and transformative that it felt like a transition into that portal of light.

[13:32] – The Pathway of Light

Weston Jolly:
This sunset invited us to let go of our embodiment, which isn’t typically desired. We are often greeted by significant individuals or events that help us progress down the light path, leading to what we call a life review.

[14:05] – Understanding Life Review

Weston Jolly:
From various perspectives, there exists a notion of a judgment day, but I want you to understand that there is no Judgment Day. Instead, there is a life review, which is fundamentally different from judgment.

[14:40] – Unconditional Love vs. Judgment

Weston Jolly:
In unconditional love, there is zero judgment. During a life review, you connect with every person and every event from your life. It’s about understanding your experiences comprehensively, feeling and observing your interactions.

[15:14] – The Comprehensive Nature of Life Review

Weston Jolly:
For example, even if you glanced at someone on a school bus, you can explore their thoughts and feelings leading up to that moment. This aspect of the life review is extensive and thorough.

[15:43] – The Challenge of Self-Judgment

Weston Jolly:
While it’s possible to judge oneself during this process, it shouldn’t necessarily be a matter of judgment. The life review happens in the tunnel of light, allowing movement based on our free-will choices.

[15:59] – Coming to Terms with Sudden Death

Weston Jolly:
Individuals who experience sudden death often struggle to believe they are dead. This is why the question Who do you think you are? is critical. The perceived self, known as the egoic self, relies on identifiers like body and name. However, upon passing, we must confront the reality that this isn’t truly who we are.

[17:05] – A Personal Encounter with the Deceased

Weston Jolly:
Let me share a personal experience with my first encounter with a deceased individual. It was someone I had a deep connection with, but I didn’t realize I was speaking with him at the time.

[17:29] – A Best Friend’s Departure
Weston Jolly:
My best friend, who had congenital heart defects since birth, unfortunately passed away. Due to unforeseen circumstances, I couldn’t attend his funeral. We were incredibly close, almost soul-connected.

[18:09] – Paying Respects
Weston Jolly:
One day, while driving in Scottsdale, I passed the mortuary where I knew he had been buried. It felt like the right time to pay my respects, so I stopped in, dressed in a nice shirt and tie, to find his burial plot. It was a scorching summer day, around 115 degrees, as I walked nearly an acre guided by a map given by the mortuary administrator.

[19:02] – An Unexpected Encounter
Weston Jolly:
Finally arriving at my friend’s burial site, I looked down at his name and suddenly heard a voice say, What the hell are you doing here?

[19:17] – A Surprising Message
Weston Jolly:
Not what I expected at all! He continued, Go to the car and I’ll talk to you there where it’s cooler.

[19:24] – A Dialog in the Car

Weston Jolly:
I had only been at the grave for a moment before hearing his voice. Drenched in sweat, I returned to my car, turned on the AC, and began a detailed conversation with my best friend. He provided clarity about what had taken place and shared insights about the other side.

[19:58] – Discovering the Gift

Weston Jolly:
This was years before I realized I had the ability to connect with the deceased through channeling. Reflecting back, this encounter marked my very first conversation with someone who had passed away, though I didn’t remember it clearly at the time.
[20:26] – A Visit from My Sister-in-Law
Weston Jolly:
The first person I remember talking to who was dead, very formally, was my sister-in-law. She died young due to an accident in a gym. She came to share with her sister, my wife, and they had a conversation for at least three hours. To be truthful, they were discussing things I had no physical understanding of, like two sisters talking about their lives.

[21:01] – Prophetic Insights

Weston Jolly:
While I was channeling, I was also auditing the process. My sister-in-law shared very prophetic insights about my future things I hadn’t even considered at that time, such as writing books and doing presentations. It was fascinating to hear her details, even if I hadn’t anticipated those choices for myself.

[21:37] – The Role of a Spiritual Medium

Weston Jolly:
Over the past 25 years as a spiritual channel and medium, I’ve encountered various situations involving those who have passed. I’ve had the unique chance to listen from two perspectives: that of the deceased and from those wanting to communicate with them.

[22:00] – A Mother Seeking Answers

Weston Jolly:
In one instance, a mother sought to understand why her son had taken his life. Experiencing such trauma, especially regarding suicide, is profoundly different in-person. While I haven’t experienced it physically, my esoteric gifts allow me access to such details, including the atmosphere and emotional weight of the situation.

[22:52] – The Son’s Message

Weston Jolly:
The young man wanted to communicate, not only with his mother but also with his father. Unfortunately, I only had the chance to connect with his mom. He wished to awaken both parents spiritually. Sadly, while his mother cared, his father dismissed the idea of connecting with the deceased, leading to a breakdown in their relationship.

[23:38] – The Emotional Weight of Suicide

Weston Jolly:
The situation emphasizes the emotional challenges parents face when learning about the actions their child took to create a spiritual awakening, especially regarding such a tragic event.

[25:03] – A Quest for Justice
Weston Jolly:
In another example, a policeman and his wife sought answers about their young daughter’s death. They wanted details to pursue justice against those responsible for the tragedy.

25:21] – Specific Clues from the Deceased**

Weston Jolly:
During the session, the little girl communicated details, like one of her missing shoes, which provided substantial clues for her parents about the circumstances surrounding her death-something I couldn’t have known without the spiritual channeling.

[26:48] – Tragedy of Addiction

Weston Jolly:
I also facilitated communication for a young man who had become addicted to heroin following a tragic football accident. He woke up the next day to find his best friend dead. The shock and guilt of being alive despite their shared experience weighed heavily on him, especially as he faced accusations from the deceased’s family.

[28:03] – Exploring the Nature of Death

Weston Jolly:
Here, the young man sought answers about his friend’s choice not to awaken, while the friend’s parents struggled to understand the nature of his passing. This scenario highlights the need for clarity around the circumstances of death.

[29:08] – A Hollywood Crime Investigation

Weston Jolly:
I had another inquiry from the romantic partner of a famous Hollywood crime investigator seeking clarity regarding his death and the deaths surrounding his investigations. This involved unpacking complex narratives, something I approached carefully.

[30:27] – A Mother’s Grieving Process

Weston Jolly:
In a different scenario, a mother sought to understand her son’s tragic suicide. Having attempted once before, his final act was methodically planned. She needed answers and connection, seeking to understand what transpired.

[31:27] – The Young Man’s Attempts to Communicate

Weston Jolly:
After his passing, the young man attempted to connect with his mother through phone calls that would ring without anyone on the line. During our session, I served as his voice, facilitating their communication and helping her find closure.

[31:27] – The Guilt of an Accident

Weston Jolly:
A woman sought my help after a tragic accident. While driving with her best friend, they were behind a U-Haul truck when the driver lost control, causing a high-speed collision. Although she walked away unharmed, her best friend did not survive, leaving her with overwhelming guilt and shame.

[32:45] – The Nature of Afterlife Communication

Weston Jolly:
Communication with the deceased is not just about closure regarding tragic events. Sometimes spirits want to facilitate growth and understanding for those left behind. However, it’s important to note that not every spirit wishes to guide the living. Many assume that once someone passes on, they will provide winning lottery numbers or similar guidance, but that expectation is unrealistic. The desire for ongoing relationships varies, as seen in my continuing connection with my best friend who passed away.

[33:50] – How Do the Dead Communicate?

Weston Jolly:
One of the most significant ways the deceased communicate with the living is through dreams. These dreams create a safe space for connection. I’ve encountered instances where spirits interact with their loved ones through lights flickering or phones ringing, subtle reminders that they’re still present. Music, too, serves as a bridge, with certain melodies triggering memories and emotions that connect us to those who have passed.

[34:54] – Unique Signs and Gestures

Weston Jolly:
Beyond dreams and music, communication can manifest through specific quirks or habits of the deceased. If someone had a unique laugh or a distinct way of moving, encountering similar traits in others can be a sign from them. Recognizing these cues can foster a deeper awareness and connection with spirits.

[36:01] – Helping Souls Transition

Weston Jolly:
An aspect of my work involves helping individuals prepare for death. While I don’t physically assist someone in leaving this realm, I do help facilitate their spiritual readiness to let go. This process is crucial for those who’ve struggled, particularly due to doctrinal beliefs that instill fear about death.

37:12] – A Case of Spiritual Relief **

Weston Jolly:
I was called to assist a man in hospice who had been there for eight years. His reluctance to let go stemmed from his upbringing, which instilled fear of eternal damnation. Through spiritual guidance and connection with him, I helped him understand that he could release his body without fear, easing his spirit for the transition.

[38:22] – Early Warnings of Mortality

Weston Jolly:
In some sessions, I’m able to provide insights into individuals nearing the end of their life journey. For example, a couple sought my guidance regarding the man’s post-rehab progress, and I had to inform him that he would die within a couple of months. He was shocked, but my role is to provide honest information for his benefit.

[39:27] – A Battle with Cancer

Weston Jolly:
Another woman faced a battle with cancer and sought my help multiple times. Initially, she found balance and relief from the disease, but during a subsequent session, I had to inform her that her body was at its end and that she had yet to confront deeper unresolved issues linked to her illness.
[41:40] – Understanding Recurring Challenges
Weston Jolly:
The reason the cancer returned not once, but twice, ultimately leading to her release, was because this woman never fully addressed certain intimate aspects within her relationships. Providing her with this insight earlier could have allowed her to process these feelings before passing through the portal of death. Unfortunately, she did not choose to confront these issues, not a good or a bad decision, just a part of her journey.

[42:41] – The Concept of the Portal

Weston Jolly:
When we approach death, whether someone is transitioning or not, a portal begins to open. This can be likened to a cervix during childbirth, as the physical body prepares for a new journey. Spiritually, it resembles the iris of an eye, which opens to allow the passage of the soul. This portal expands as we approach death, leading to profound experiences, especially for those having near-death experiences, where they face the choice of returning to their physical bodies or moving on.

[43:57] – The Choice to Return

Weston Jolly:
Some individuals who’ve undergone traumatic experiences, such as severe accidents, may look at their charred bodies and wonder why they would choose to go back. Yet, they make the spiritual choice to return because they feel they have unfinished business. It’s imperative to understand that our beliefs don’t hold weight once we pass; what matters is the choice made at that moment.

[45:10] – Spiritual Assistance in Transition

Weston Jolly:
As someone prepares to leave this world, spiritual assistance is abundant, much like a loving guide welcoming a newborn. This support is both from energies in the spirit world and those in our lives, further easing the transition through the portal. The experience can be beautifully liberating as one begins to understand the process of letting go.

[46:23] – Ways to Connect with the Deceased

Weston Jolly:
If you seek a connection with yourself or a loved one who has passed, there are numerous ways to facilitate that interaction. I’ve designed a course called Secrets of Free Writing , focusing on automatic writing, which allows deeper insights beyond your conscious thoughts. This meditative practice engages your higher self, promoting meaningful connections and messages.

[47:32] – The Process of Dying: A Deeper Understanding

Weston Jolly:
Many people wonder what actually happens when you die. I propose a follow-up discussion titled I’m Dead, Now What? Where we explore the details of the tunnel of light and the common experiences associated with it. Gaining this understanding can enrich your current life, changing the way you live and perceive your connections with the world.

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Know ThyselfSometimes the hardest thing in the world is to actually see yourself. You may have taken personality tests, apptitude tests, and maybe you’ve wondered if your neudivergent? But if you were to know anybody, it would seem logical that you’d know everything about yourself.

How you think, process, socialize, rationalize may not be nearly as important as getting in touch with your Higher Self.

Almost everyone THINKS they know themselves. But you don’t. Have you ever had a close friend tell you something about yourself that you didn’t know? There’s a lot to uncover in getting to know your real self.

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Episode 077 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: Know Thyself

[00:50.370] – Weston Jolly
Hi there. Thank you for joining me for True Connections with Weston Jolly. This is our 77th episode. Today, I want to talk about you. Our topic which is Know Thyself.

[01:05.480] – Weston Jolly
The biggest treasure you’ve yet undiscovered.

[01:09.120] – Weston Jolly
Now, you would think with the topic as knowing yourself, that if anyone in the world were to know who you are, it would be you, right? So isn’t it logical that you would know quite a bit about yourself? So if I asked your name, of course, you would give me that. Your height? Sure. What about your weight? Without looking at a scale. Can you tell me what your weight is?

[01:36.140] – Weston Jolly
Now, again, our whole intention is to have an understanding of who we are, to know ourselves. And we use all kinds of means to do that. When we think of, for example, becoming aware of who we are, sometimes we’ll use maybe something like a personality test. A personality test can tell us different kinds of things. It can tell us maybe that we have that we’re a conscientious person, or maybe that you’re agreeable, maybe neurotic, or open, or extroverted, or introverted. Do you associate with any of these top characteristics of having a big personality?

[02:23.910] – Weston Jolly
Does anything resonate within you?

[02:26.300] – Weston Jolly
But why would we need to have a personality test? Because, again, you would know who you are.

[02:31.990] – Weston Jolly
If we shifted our attention over to an aptitude test, which, of course, is showing us what strengths and weaknesses that we have, wouldn’t it be logical, again, that you would know that you are very good, athletically, and maybe smart as a whip, intellectually, and yet maybe have some other pieces that aren’t necessarily strengths as would be determined or measured by other people?

[02:58.440] – Weston Jolly
Now, in a work environment, being tested for your aptitude is quite common, right? Where a prospective employer wants to have an understanding of how you work, basically how you process and how you’ll work within their organization. And so they offer aptitude tests such as; numerical reasoning or verbal reasoning or situational judgment, cognitive abilities and spatial awareness and mechanical reasoning and abstract reasoning and verbal reasoning and on and on it goes to find out, again, what your strengths and weaknesses are. But my point is, do you know these things about yourself? Again, we’re just talking about the physical.

[03:33.920] – Weston Jolly
If we talk about your mind, how your mind processes, would you consider yourself to have a normal mind? That sounds like a leading question, right?

[03:45.550] – Weston Jolly
But maybe you have a neurodivergent mind. Now, that means that maybe you think differently. Sometimes ithe term neurodivergent we give consideration to other categories such as; autism spectrum disorder, or maybe even other categories such as attention deficit hyper activities for ADHD. And yet that’s not really what I’m asking. But if that’s something that is appropriate to who you are, that’s something to know.

[04:15.750] – Weston Jolly
As a quick side note, there is someone that shared with me actually a neurodivergent synopsis of who they are. They literally handed out a little a brief of how they think, socialize and process. Now, not many of us have done that. I don’t know if you walked into your job recently and handed them a little document, a little manifest in terms of how you operate.

[04:41.700] – Weston Jolly
I’m not talking about how much you weigh. I’m talking about how you think or how you get along with other people, what people you like, what energies that you bring to the office and what energies that aren’t necessarily great energies.

[04:51.900] – Weston Jolly
Are these things that you’re able to see of your own self? Now, we’re still talking about the physical. If we talk about, again, your body type, that should be easy, right?

[05:03.290] – Weston Jolly
How would you describe your body type? Are you an ectomorph or mesomorph or an endomorph? And of course, these are just very interesting terms for someone that is maybe thinner as an ectomorph to someone maybe that is a little bit thicker in the endomorph category. But again, these body types, just those three categories, should be easy for you to determine where you fit.

[05:26.500] – Weston Jolly
But then there’s the shape of your body, right? You could be triangular shaped or rectangular-shaped or oval-shaped, hourglass, etc. Do you know that about yourself? Have you given consideration to that?

[05:39.310] – Weston Jolly
And if I ask a question about your blood type… Do you know your blood type? Are you “A” or a “B” or “B-”?

[05:50.790] – Weston Jolly
Let’s continue shifting this discussion, of knowing yourself, a little bit towards the spiritual. What if I asked you your birth date? Clearly everyone knows their birth date, but maybe you don’t know what time you were born. And that could make a difference when you were looking at your astrological sign.

[06:06.730] – Weston Jolly
And so if we looked at different astrological signs, such as Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, etc, we want to give you an opportunity through these categorizations to have an understanding of who you are.

[06:21.550] – Weston Jolly
This is all about knowing who you are. But if you have used tools such as maybe Astrology to to reflect back to who you are, there’s something else to give consideration to, and that is, are you accepting what is being shared? That’s really big. That’s something we’re going to talk about in a half a moment.

[06:39.190] – Weston Jolly
As an example, if you are… I’ll use myself –a Gemini. When I first read the about my astrological sign, and I’m talking about when I did this upteen years ago, some pieces of it made sense to me, and the other pieces I felt like it was an over generalization. Now, that was my initial consideration. I wasn’t trying to be prejudiced against the process. I just didn’t necessarily see the depth of things that were being shared.

[07:07.570] – Weston Jolly
Some of the concepts about my personality or how I process or how I view things made sense. And yet I was curious. And so I shared this, my astrology synopsis about the whole Gemini Kingdom, if you will, with others around me, especially with those close to me to see what they thought.

[07:33.170] – Weston Jolly
And of course, my children and even my partner confirmed that, “Oh, yeah, these things are really you!” And I was like, “Really? I’m really having a hard time seeing that about myself.”

[07:42.740] – Weston Jolly
This is really what we want what I want to focus on with you today. And while we’ve been talking about things from body to mind to aptitudes, and how you process, we haven’t talked about how you socialize, blood types, astrological signs, these are all beautiful characteristics of you.

[08:01.370] – Weston Jolly
You becoming aware of who you are and what you’ve come here to express. Yet there’s so much more. And really, what I want to put our emphasis is on getting to know or maybe even rediscovering. This is why I’m sharing that this is the biggest treasure yet you’ve undiscovered, is getting in touch with your True Self or your Higher Self. And what does this mean? Sometimes that language is thrown about a little bit in terms of what is your Higher Self. So let’s discuss that. Your Higher Self is indeed this soul, that’s you, on the highest plane, coming into this embodiment and participating here. So if we tap into that, your Higher Self, should we say that’s the true essence?

[08:39.340] – Weston Jolly
That part of you is filled with knowledge, and I’ll use the term perfect knowledge of who you are way beyond your DNA, your family tree, your body type, your blood type, etc. Again, all of these pieces physically are, I like to use the term Hansel and Gretel-like-breadcrumbs, leading you to an understanding of you are.

[09:05.150] – Weston Jolly
So, to know yourself, is to really become aware of who you are – instead of just trying to give consideration to what you may or may not be. So, you getting to know yourself beyond the physical is intentional with our putting focus attention on your Higher Self or your Real Self. And we can do that through many different ways. There are tools, and one of the best tools that I’ve given consideration to that came to me falling in my lap was automatic writing. I feel so strongly about it that I put forth a course called Secrets of Free Writing. I really encourage you, if you are interested in this topic of really knowing thyself, that automatic writing or Secrets of Free Writing is a tremendous tool to do that.

[09:49.070] – Weston Jolly
Now, there’s a whole bunch of information on my website about Automatic Writing, and please go there because it’s worthy of your attention. I’m saying that not just because of my own experience, but because it offers you a continued reflection. Think of it like Meditating With a Pen(tm) , where you’re literally in this meditative space choosing to get in touch with your Higher Self, and you’re able to capture that through your writing.

[10:14.870] – Weston Jolly
If that’s something that does resonate with you, please check out Secrets of Freewriting

[10:24.890] – Weston Jolly
There are indeed other tools for you to get connected with your Higher Self. Some people may choose to use a tool such as yoga. And yoga is a very interesting tool because it keeps, in my opinion, your body busy in a very healthy way. It really instructs you through focused attention to breathe, which is a source, pun intended, of connecting with your higher self. And as you choose to remain connected to your higher self, you have an opportunity to, again, capture what I will reflect as the real you. Now, sometimes this feels out of sorts with those things that you have incarnated into.

[11:08.190] – Weston Jolly
There are plenty of people that have come into this realm and they look at their bodies and perhaps even their gender, and they wonder that maybe they made a mistake. Maybe their sexual affiliation being presented as male feels wrong when they feel within themselves that they should be female. And so they go to great lengths to make those changes, appropriately so, because this is something that they feel within themselves that needs to be aligned.

[11:33.440] – Weston Jolly
And of course, as you know that, it’s really giving yourself the tremendous gift. Think of the energy that it takes to have somebody go through such a transition where they feel comfortable enough to make that change within their physical embodiment to create an alignment with their spiritual self. I honor each and every person that gives themselves permission to exist regardless of how it might be considered from the outside.

[12:08.100] – Weston Jolly
Now, it’s not just about your body or your sexual orientation. Sometimes this means realizing where you come from in terms of the family tree, even right down to your, again, blood type or your DNA. Having an understanding that these things that make you look like Mom and Dad, or even the characteristics that were taught to you by Mom and Dad, and the community, that they may not be you.

[12:33.450] – Weston Jolly
It takes a brave soul, if I can use that term, to give themselves permission to see that, and to know that about themselves, and to make those changes. These changes come about through free-will choice, which is really incredible if we give consideration to that, that there’s endless possibilities for you to give yourself permission to really exist as you are.

[12:54.690] – Weston Jolly
Again, as a conscious being, and I want that to be understood because There’s no other species on Earth that has to deal with this. Other animals, if you will, don’t have to try to manage themselves. They are, if you will, a giraffe, a dog, or a cat, or a lion. These attributes aren’t necessarily something that needs to be worked at. And yet sometimes people, when they come to an understanding of having awareness of who they are, the question that they might present, and I hear a lot, they’ll ask the question, “Well, how do I be myself?”

[13:33.440] – Weston Jolly
That comes immediately after the discovery of who you are. In your choice to see yourself as you are through automatic writing or perhaps yoga, breathing, meditation, as we’ve talked about for a moment, these are tremendous tool presenting you total access to yourself.

[13:51.760] – Weston Jolly
This can be through guided meditation as well, where someone would guide you, perhaps through a recording, to have you be presented with questions like.

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Who are you?

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What have you come to express?

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And as you give attention to this reflection, whether it’s coming through someone like myself, or through automatic writing, or again, yoga, or meditative state, you have an opportunity to accept that, which is something really, really important because guess what?

[14:20.100] – Weston Jolly
The mind or the egoic parts of you, that’s the part that wants to deny, right? That’s the part that wants to shift or push aside that this isn’t true. And yet when you channel or you participate in this consistently, you’ll find that some really beautiful attributes continue to show themselves.

[14:38.750] – Weston Jolly
Let me share with you this example. I was facilitating a woman, and I channeled that she was “beautiful”. Now, it wasn’t just a adjective that was being channeled to describe her physical beauty. It was describing something much deeper than that. And she had a significant resistance to the word. And she even asked me as the person facilitating, “Could there be another word, beyond being called ”beautiful” that could be used?

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I laughed and I said, “No, that’s actually the word that is being chosen, that I’m channeling the word ‘beautiful’ because of your resistance to it.”

[15:15.490] – Weston Jolly
And she said, “I feel irritated with that word.” And I said, “I understand. And if you force me to use another word, I can. However, from a spiritual perspective, from a pure channeling perspective, that is indeed the correct term. And then she bent a little bit and said, ”I understand.”

[15:35.790] – Weston Jolly
And in this example, she was resisting what we’ll call her spiritual or inner luminescence. Now, she was indeed a beautiful woman, but she wasn’t necessarily seen as a beautiful woman from the inside. A lot of times people saw her external beauty and that was fine. But she was trying or wanting or hoping to give herself permission to have access to something greater. But yet she was denying that.

[16:02.930] – Weston Jolly
I’m sharing this example because that’s something for each of us to give consideration to, because sometimes when we get to know who we really are, we’ll tend to reject it. We can do that when we jump on a scale. We can reject the idea that we weigh that much or we weigh that little. But we don’t want to do that when we really tap into knowing who we are.

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And if we’re using spirit, tapping into Source in whatever infinite ways that you want to have access to, then you’re going to find that they’re very consistent in showing you some really specific things about who you are.

[16:33.060] – Weston Jolly
So if Source is sharing with you that “you’re very loving,” please don’t roll your eyes yeah, all right, whatever. And yet that’s, again, this part of the resistance. We don’t want to do that. In fact, that’s the part most of all that we want to give attention to, focus attention. As we continue to accept that, you’re going to bounce into some really cool things that could be described as uncomfortable as I was mentioning.

[16:59.900] – Weston Jolly
But I’m encouraging for you to accept everything and to stop denying or pushing away the truth. And some of these concepts are as easy as having an understanding of some basic attributes of what you’ve come here to do. Now, again, in this realm, this physical realm of coming to Earth as an incarnate being, not everyone’s choosing to do something that would be transformative from a low level to a higher level.

[17:25.560] – Weston Jolly
There’s plenty of people who are coming to this realm just to participate, like an actor who is acting the part of being somebody who’s “mean or behaviorally maladjusted,” or wanting to take advantage of people or maybe wanting to cheat or steal or even worse. And for those these things are fine. That’s just a part of this realm.

[17:47.920] – Weston Jolly
But if there’s some part of you that has been searching or needing or wanting to discover, again, who you are, again, beyond the physical, then this is that place to really jump into who you are. And seeing that and feeling that and having recognition. So let me share some of those things with you because it’s very important.

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Do you see yourself as loving?

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Don’t just hear the sentence. Feel it.

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Are you compassionate?

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Are you sensitive?

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How do things affect you?

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Whether that’s personal to you, that’s your own body, or even outside of your own body. Somebody could sneeze on a plane and it could affect you. Again, there’s no right or wrong answer here, right? But as you choose to really get in touch with who you are, your Higher Self, you’ll find that there’s really beautiful pieces that, again, continue to be seen again and again.

[18:45.760] – Weston Jolly
So if you find that you have a deep compassion for people, or animals, or even the environment, there’s reasons for that. And when you align with that, meaning to know that about yourself, it isn’t an oddity –like a salmon swimming upstream.

[19:05.340] – Weston Jolly
That species is designed to do that for very specific reasons of spawning. But if we understand what we are in terms of who we really are on this soul level, in this Higher Self level, as we participate in the physical level, it becomes easier. Now, this becomes even funner when we tap into how we want to express ourselves.

[19:26.560] – Weston Jolly
Now, when that becomes aligned, meaning when we align ourselves in terms of who we are, and we align that with something that we’ve come here to really want to express, such as a desire, oh, my gosh, it becomes easy. You’ll find that if you study and put attention to this, that those people who are expressing and really good at it, whether that being an actor or a singer or maybe even spiritually inclined, that there’s an alignment to that, meaning that’s really who they are, and then they’re matching that with this choice to express.

[19:57.440] – Weston Jolly
In essence, it becomes easy. That’s something not as a spiritual aptitude test that you want to give yourself, but you want to remember, as you incorporate that into your physical self, it creates an ease, a comfort, a beauty.

[20:12.700] – Weston Jolly
Ultimately, there’s no resistance. And even someone recognizing that as a tremendous aptitude that you have or this gift of you being very loving or maybe extraordinarily compassionate with animals such as a veterinarian. Those attributes are, of course, spiritual applied from the physical perspective, and that’s match, we can feel that.

[20:31.100] – Weston Jolly
If you have talked to a veterinarian who’s participating in that career, you’ll feel unduly connected to them versus someone who’s just doing time and wanting to help the pet, your pet, and of course, in exchange for money. But most of us who are very connected to our animals will want someone that wants to take care of our pets and animals the same way that we do, which is through love… Then we’re not just feeding or taking care of a pet for the pet’s sake. We’re choosing to participate in a way that’s very aligned with our wanting to share love, even with the animal kingdom; our dog, cat, horse, hamster, rat, or even a lizard.

[21:15.070] – Weston Jolly
It’s really exciting to understand, again, who you are and what you come to express. And these expressions, physically and spiritually, if you choose, can be aligned. So let’s go into that just a little bit. If you find yourself very compassionate and very loving, and yet you are participating in something like telemarketing, where that entity is designed to consciously take advantage of people through that effort, you may find that to be difficult.

[21:43.780] – Weston Jolly
And it could even cause physical issues within your body, which is your body saying, “Hey, this doesn’t match. We have an imbalance.” The spiritual self is saying, “This is outside of what we really want to do.” And yet the body is saying, “Hey, we need to be paid because we need to live, we need to have food, etc. and we’re doing what we have to do.” And yet, there is a fundamental conflict. And that can come in many different forms. And yet when we choose to see that we can create alignment outside of any limitation, which, of course, comes from the mind or the ego. Again, I use the term shell. When I use the term Shell, I want you to think of eggshell.

[22:18.980] – Weston Jolly
It’s this external piece that we think that we are, and that comes from the mind. Interestingly enough, we can’t point to that within the mind body. Where the ego exists and where it doesn’t exist. And yet each of us have an ego. This is why we use the name, your name.

[22:39.380] – Weston Jolly
But when we go beyond beyond this thing that we call a name, which is easy to reflect, we tie or are connected to this spiritual essence. And this spiritual essence is much more powerful than, if you will, my name or your name. And when we tap into that, it creates an attraction to us. And of course, that attraction is beyond in this physical lifetime.

[23:01.570] – Weston Jolly
So you won’t forget me, in afterlife, if you will, because of my spiritual signature. Now, that’s a vibration. That’s something that is tied to my name in this incarnation. And this same spiritual signature has been used in previous incarnations. I have had different names, different bodies, different genders, perhaps. Certainly different lineages in terms of the family. And yet, how can I do that? How can I participate in lineage one and be this character or this person and then come here again in a second reincarnation, in a third incarnation?

[23:37.440] – Weston Jolly
Yet this is all a part of us wanting to get to know who we are on a very connected level.

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Now, to do that, to really connect, and we’ve been using, talking about these different tools, again, Secrets of Freewriting, automatic writing, and yoga breathing, meditation, all of these tools are really offering you an opportunity to go within. When we tap into that connected with in state, again, we’ll find that there’s consistency in showing us who we are.

[24:06.380] – Weston Jolly
Now, sometimes that can be very challenging because if you’re told that “you’re very loving,” and that’s in conflict to what your mom and dad told you that you weren’t or aren’t… And in my case, if you’re told you’re too loving –imagine that —someone telling you that you’re too loving, then that can create a conflict.

[24:24.130] – Weston Jolly
It’s just a conflict to your mind or that condition that you grew up with. This is something that we want to observe, but not be, shall we say, overly attached to.

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We want to go past that. Giving yourself permission to tap into your Higher Self, your True Self, is to really know who you are. It’s the biggest treasure yet undiscovered. As you spend time in this space, which is just basically focused attention, and you can do that just by holding an attention right now –“I choose to know who I am.”

[25:00.600] – Weston Jolly
When you choose that, you’ll hear words from Source like; “Creator” or “love,” you may bump into the competitive mind, again, coming from the shell or the ego. But in time, this conflict will begin to diminish. In fact, you’ll find yourself moving into, we could use the term a divine state. We could also use the terms a connected state, a unifying state, and even a state of oneness.

[25:29.530] – Weston Jolly
This connected state, is something that’s very consistent, regardless of your background, regardless of where in the world that you’ve come from, regardless of a philosophy that you’ve been exposed to from a condition perspective. This oneness is what brings us together. And this is why this is so important for you to give yourself permission to really see who you are, to get in touch with your Higher Self.

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And you can just ask a question, What is my Higher Self? What does it have to say? In this moment, give consideration to what your Higher Self wants to tell you?

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Or like Hansel and Gretel follow the bread trail leading you to have further personal development of who you are. Be attentive to these things, your personality, your weight, your body type, these pieces, the way you think, the way you process, even the way your mind processes. It’s all beautiful clues.

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Some of what you may find won’t be in spiritual alignment with who you are. This part of the puzzle won’t fit. When that’s happening, instead of trying to force a puzzle piece, we want to observe the fact that I am not thinking the way everyone else is thinking, even though my whole family thinks that way.

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I choose to give myself permission to observe that I’m neurodivergent compared to my family. And that’s okay. That means I’m just thinking differently than my family does. And that’s maybe a good thing. And if we see that you don’t have to fight with that, then we are able to accept who you really are.

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And again, that’s a very key term. So you being in comfortable to accept who you are through this reflection of your Higher Self, that’s what this is all about.

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Put focused attention on you becoming aware of what your Higher Self and what it wants to reflect to you. Be attentive to that. Write it down. Do that now.

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If you’re listening to this in a car, fine. When you get home, take a moment, breathe. Become connected, ask, “What is it that my Higher Self wants to tell me in this particular moment?”

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That’s a question I’m asked often, especially by my family members, because there’s an interest for that reflection to be shown to them again and again. When you’re asking questions like that, and when you’re putting focused attention on seeing your Higher Self, you’ll find that there is a pattern.

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This is when all the puzzle pieces start to come together. This is why I say that it’s easy. Suddenly there’s an a sense of understanding of what you’ve come to express, and that when that coincides with the physical pieces, then your claim your choice to physically express becomes really wonderful and quite easy and fun.

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I hope this has been tremendously beneficial to you to give yourself permission to really know who you are.

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This is the biggest treasure yet undiscovered, and so giving your attention to it is without merit in terms of what it will do for you.

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Artificial Intelligence (AI) Will Make You ObsoleteThere may be real reasons AI is freaking you out.

Artificial Intelligence may replace everything that humans do.If so, what will you do? Should you be threatened by AI? Will it take over your job?

Or is Artificial Intelligence just a fad? Some say it’s designed to just do “low level” things but AI is already encroaching on high level things.

Should you be afraid of AI? Should you embrace it or reject it?Click on the above media player or read the full transcript below.

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Episode 076 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: Artificial Intelligence (AI) Will Make You Obsolete

[00:55.120] – Weston Jolly
There may be real reasons AI is freaking you out. How does AI spiritually impact you? What things should we be spiritually aware of when using AI? Should we spiritually question artificial intelligence?

Artificial intelligence is being talked about everywhere.

Let me share with you a handful of things that are popping up in today’s news.

This is the question, At some point in the future will AI be able to do everything a human can do, but better?

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Yes, this has always been the goal, according to Stuart Russell, author of The Book About AI. But, how do we know where AI is getting its information from? Where does AI gather its source material?

Short answer? We don’t know. There is no transparent AI practice.

Will there ever be?

This is one strategy of social manipulation.

No one knows what’s real and what’s not.

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Within six years, 300 million jobs could be lost, according to the investment firm Goldman Sachs, especially for Black and Hispanic employees.

AI led trading or “algorithmic trading” could be responsible for the next major financial crisis in our markets. Do you all remember the crash in 2010? One of the godfathers of AI, Jeffrey Hinton, who has worked for 50 years in developing AI, mostly for Google, says that AI could get more intelligent than us and could decide to take over. He says that we need to start worrying now to develop a plan to prevent that from happening.

From the BBC, Yoshua Bengio, another godfather of AI, says, “I would have prioritized safety over usefulness had I realized the pace in which it would evolve.”

This comment was made after computer scientists and experts shared that AI could actually lead to the extinction of humanity. We also have Forbes reporting that AI is a battleground. The Wall Street Journal suggests that Apple, Microsoft, and Alpha are all competing to be in power. NPR shares an interview with an AI expert who says,” AI appeared to understand a joke I was sharing. That was very unsettling.”

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AI could outperform humans, possibly in as soon as five years. CNN shares a line that reads: Elon Musk says AI will take ALL our jobs.

To get AI’s perspective, I asked Microsoft ChatGPT the question, “Who will dominate AI in the next few years?”

And you should absolutely read AI’s response.

Again, this response is generated by artificial intelligence. You have to read the full transcript of what AI had to say about its “parents” if I can use that word.

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Please take a moment and read everything AI had to say word for word.

Who will dominate AI in the next few years? List the companies or organizations and the most influential people.Microsoft’s ChatGPT response to the question
June 10, 2024

It is difficult to predict who will dominate AI in the next few years as the field is constantly evolving and new breakthroughs are being made regularly. However, some of the companies and organizations that are currently leading the AI space and are likely to continue to dominate include:

Google (Alphabet Inc.): Google has been at the forefront of AI research and development for years and is known for its deep learning capabilities and AI-powered products such as Google Search, Google Assistant, and Google Photos.
Amazon: Amazon’s AI capabilities are evident in its popular products such as Alexa, Amazon Web Services, and Amazon Go stores which utilize AI and machine learning technologies.
Microsoft: Microsoft has been investing heavily in AI research through its AI development platforms such as Azure AI and Cognitive Services, as well as its AI-powered products like Cortana and Microsoft Office.
Facebook: Facebook’s AI research division, FAIR (Facebook AI Research), is a leader in the field of AI and machine learning, and the company uses AI technologies to power its social networking platform and advertising services.
OpenAI: OpenAI is a research organization focused on advancing AI capabilities in a safe and ethical manner. It was founded by influential figures in the AI industry such as Elon Musk, Sam Altman, and Ilya Sutskever.
DeepMind (owned by Alphabet Inc.): DeepMind is a leading AI research lab known for its groundbreaking work in areas such as deep reinforcement learning and artificial general intelligence. It has developed AI systems that have outperformed humans in games like Go and StarCraft II.

Some influential people in the AI field who are likely to continue shaping the future of AI in the next few years include:

Yoshua Bengio: A pioneer in deep learning and a co-winner of the 2018 Turing Award for his contributions to the field of AI.
Geoffrey Hinton: Another pioneer in deep learning and a co-winner of the 2018 Turing Award, known for his work on neural networks and backpropagation.
Fei-Fei Li: A leading AI researcher and the director of the Stanford AI Lab, known for her work in computer vision and AI ethics.
Andrew Ng: Co-founder of Google Brain and former Chief Scientist at Baidu, Andrew Ng is a prominent figure in the AI community and an advocate for AI education and AI for social good.
Demis Hassabis: Co-founder and CEO of DeepMind, Demis Hassabis is a prominent figure in AI research and has led his team to numerous breakthroughs in AI technologies.
Sundar Pichai: CEO of Google and Alphabet Inc., Sundar Pichai oversees the company’s AI efforts and has been instrumental in driving its AI strategy.

These are just a few of the companies, organizations, and influential figures in the AI field who are likely to continue to make significant contributions and shape the direction of AI in the coming years.

[04:13.210] – Weston Jolly
But let’s move our focus beyond the companies and authors of AI to some other important players.

Think billionaires. Billionaire investors like Mark Andreessen, worth $2 billion. You remember him. He was the first creator of the browser, the Netscape browser.

And Vinod Khosla. He’s worth $7 billion. He co-founded a company called Sun Microsystems.

And there are many Billionaires wanting to invest and to be in control of Artificial Intelligence. But listen to what Vinod said at the US Capitol just this last week.

“Winning the race for AI means economic power, which then lets you influence social policy or ideology.”

Does this sound familiar? Haven’t we heard this before?

I know we have.

[05:11.220] – Weston Jolly
This statement reminds me a lot of John F. Kennedy’s speech, We Choose to go to the Moon. Let’s listen in to some clips of President Kennedy’s speech presented over 60 years ago.

[05:24.060] – John F. Kennedy
“The greater our knowledge increases, the greater our ignorance unfolds. The vast stretches of the unknown and the unanswered and the unfinished still far outstrip our collective comprehension. No man can fully grasp how far and how fast we have come. This is a breathtaking pace, and such a pace cannot help but create new ills as it dispels old, new ignorance, new problems, new dangers. And therefore, as we set sail, we ask God’s blessing on the most hazardous and dangerous and greatest adventure on which man has ever embarked. We ask God’s blessing on the most hazardous and dangerous, and greatest adventure on which man has ever embarked.”

[06:27.400] – Weston Jolly
Did you hear that last statement? As We set sail to ask God’s blessing on the most hazardous and dangerous and greatest adventure on which man has ever embarked.

And here it is that we begin, again.

Ethically and from a spiritual standpoint, what does Source have to say about AI? I have crafted these questions from people just like you who are concerned about AI and how it’s going to impact humanity. I thought it would be wonderfully insightful and helpful to hear channeled answers from Source about AI.

By the way, please make your way to the comment section or email me directly if you have more questions about AI that you’d like to be channeled.

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I have quite a few questions to get through.

Question. The first question reads, “I have about a billion questions. I guess the first is, I’m concerned that AI will take over.”

Channeled Response: It’s important for you to realize that you do not need to be in fear of the future and what you think of as “the end.” Yes, there will be significant changes that take place technologically as things continue to progress forward. Yet, these things, this “artificial intelligence”, has existed at times in the past. This is something that most of you don’t remember, yet it is important for you to give consideration to this fact as we continue throughout this dialog.

You do not need to be afraid. However, there is an opportunity. One could describe it as a fork in the road for you to choose to become aware of what is real and what isn’t. When you think of Source, That Which Is, which is infinite in nature, your mind does not have the ability to comprehend even the very nature of these words.

This is fine.

Yet in your choice to create technology, to create such things as artificial intelligence, it is a regurgitation of something that’s very familiar within you.

This is, of course, the egoic mind.

You must understand that both AI and the egoic mind regurgitate things around them.

The egoic mind is a piece of you that is used to create the idea of separation, the identity of who you think that you are. This perceived separation allows you to exist in this Earth plane.

However, like artificial intelligence, it isn’t real. This is the fork in the road that we just mentioned. You will have to choose, if you so desire, to either be subject to the egoic mind, and/or its byproducts, such as artificial intelligence, or you will allow yourself to connect to the real Source. There’s much to share as we continue to go forward.

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Question. The next Question “AI seems to be both a blessing and a curse. Which is it?”

Channeled Response: This is a layered question because technology, like anything else, can be used in both ways. This is an interesting question because it also presents something that’s very important for people to observe, to see and to know. It brings to light the duality of this plane. The idea that there is good and bad, light and dark. These concepts are binary- there are only two options and they are opposites of one another. In your choice to realize that there are more options than just these two categories, growth will occur.

You, yourself, have chosen to use AI in a way that aligns with your soul’s purpose. You, personally, have chosen to contribute the connectedness of people.

As you go to create, you will find that contributing to the whole is very important to you.

Of course, there are those who have come to this plane to contribute to the whole in a backwards way, or in a way that could be described as destructive. The choice for AI to be labeled as “good” or “bad” is clearly up to you. What do you choose?

What have you been choosing?

[11:03.470] – Weston Jolly
Question Is AI good for humanity?

Channeled Response: We are very pleased to address this question. AI was an inevitable outcome in your choice to continue to depend upon technology as a means to go forward.

This has been done in previous times.

Your choice to realize that AI doesn’t have to be bad or good is something that we’ve just previously spoken about.

You don’t need to fear that any technology could take over unless this is what you desire. If this is what you desire, then you can relinquish your spirit and creative soul. You can become dominated by your lower self, your ego, your shell and artificial intelligence.

Your choice to allow AI to continue to operate on behalf of humans is something that’s beautiful, but it will have a tremendous impact.

This impact could be seen by some as tragic. Things will be different moving forward when they are compared to how things used to be.. Spirit is interested to see what you will choose to create.

[12:14.380] – Weston Jolly
Question Can you help me to see what is positive about AI?

Channeled Response: Yes, there are many beautiful things that can be done with AI. These are things that don’t need to depend upon the human mind or body, especially those things that are repetitive in nature.

The positive aspects of artificial intelligence are indeed vast. AI allows you to process information quickly. This is not just for mechanical things such as driving cars, or computing vast complicated mathematical models. AI will enable you to process, or one could say,” think”, and we use that term very carefully. AI does not promote your choice to be spiritually connected.

There are many things that AI has and continues to offer you in a very, very developed way. You certainly don’t need to be afraid.

[13:40.140] – Weston Jolly
Question It appears to me that AI will not only change every part of the world, but it seems like it is a direct threat.

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Channeled Response: We understand the nature of your fear. This is something that you must deal with.

Of course, fear comes from only that one part within you that creates separation.

It is called the egoic mind.

You have threatened others because you feel threatened.

Therefore, in this moment, you feel threatened by something that could take over. That takeover was the stated objective of some of the designers of AI.

This is something for you to give consideration to.

Like with every technology of the past, for example, the atom bomb, enormous amounts of energy can be produced by AI. The energy can be used proactively to create energy.

The duality of using something for, the “good” or the “bad” is something for you to consider.

You don’t need to be afraid of allowing yourself to go forward. Give yourself permission to really see what you have been creating. Artificial intelligence only tends to average all the things that are being shared. You don’t need to think of it as a threat. Yet, if you choose to think competitively, this only comes from the shell, or the ego. The true aspects of who you are, coming directly from Source, recognizes no threat in your choice to be who you are.

You will find that creativity isn’t something that can be taken away from you. You are beautifully created.

And in this understanding, you can use your ability to choose to be connected or to be unconnected. The disconnection occurs through the ego or through artificial intelligence. Your lower self might think that you’re connected when in fact, you’re not.

[15:52.880] – Weston Jolly
Question Is it just me or does AI threaten all of our jobs? And how will this affect the world economy?

Channeled Response: We appreciate the nature of your question and the idea that your job is something that defines you.

We must ask you the qestion do you feel that your job represents you? Regardless of what it is that you choose to do for a living, is your job who you are? That’s the question. This is something for you to give consideration to because, of course, many people have chosen to become who they think they are through the things that they do.

Imagine yourself at a black-tie affair. Someone asks you, “What do you do?” Iin that moment, your response becomes very important. It is as if your job or position qualifies you as worthy to be present at this elite event. In essence, your occupation gives you value.

If you think that AI threatens your job and, by extension, you as a person, then this has everything to do with the mind or the ego. In terms of the economy, your choice to see how these technologies will affect the structures of not just the economy, but of literally everything is very important.

Very few people have an understanding of the degree to which AI will affect others.

AI, for example, can eliminate the need for drivers, doctors, surgeons, therapists, mathematicians, programmers, accountants, and scientists.

And this doesn’t even account for the creative fields such as graphic designers, photographers, models, actors, editors, and musicians. Eliminating all of these jobs or positions will, of course, put a lot of people out of work instantly.

This part is something that’s very different because in times past, there have been technologies that have threatened a given industry. Yet this particular technology is something that will impact all industries. And this is something that needs to be thought of as something that you blend into or participate with.

You must understand this basic premise- you are creators. You don’t need to be afraid of someone taking something from you.

This “taking” is done in a physical form even as we speak. There are countries that steal technology or ideas in order to replicate them. These countries are very good at replication. In fact, they have determined that this is a resource. In the same way that you might think of gold as a natural resource, they have chosen to create an unnatural resource by duplicating someone else’s material, idea, music, or technology. These countries, such as China, are something observe.

[18:48.910] – Weston Jolly
However, there’s nothing that you need to be afraid of because this replication has been going on for some time. It will soon be magnified through the technology of artificial intelligence, which can and is threatening these ideas that you hold so dear. You fear that your creativity is something that can be taken from you. It can’t.

There are infinite amounts of creativity for you to tap into. Yet, if you remain thinking that you will be limited or that something will be taken from you, including even your own creative expression, it will have a direct impact on your choice to go forward. In essence, you will shut down. You’ll become disconnected, no longer sharing with us as Source, but remaining afraid about will happen if you continue to open up to express something. There’s much for you to give consideration to as you continue to go forward.

But be reminded, you are Creators.

You do not need to hesitate. Allow yourself to be who you are and really seen as such.

This next Question says: Will AI change how a grocery store or even a retail store is laid out based upon traffic patterns that are tracked with cameras and our cell phones in the stores?
This is something that’s happening at the current moment. There are people who want to watch what everyone is doing like the “eye of God”. They want to know what everyone is thinking. Their goal is to capitalize on such patterns.

[20:31.810] – Weston Jolly
This, too, is something that needs to be observed. And of course, this can become automated through the use of artificial technology. So, to answer this question, there are security experts who use AI to determine what patterns might indicate someone’s choice to shoplift.

Certainly, this will include certain industries, such as the car insurance industry. If your car is being tracked through technology, as most of the newer cars are today, you will find that your choice to lie to your insurance carrier about your driving patterns or conditions is something that will be corrected through artificial technology.

Those who are trying to cheat the system will indeed be held more accountable for their choice to try to get away with something. This changes the landscape, does it not? It even invokes the idea that others will be called to participate in truth, even when it’s not their desire to do so. This will occur globally.

Therefore, governing artificial intelligence becomes an impossible task.

There are many men or male-dominated institutions who are promoting the idea that they need to control these aspects of global oversight . Did you notice that when ChatGPT was asked about the major players in AI, not one woman was named ?

[22:17.850] – Weston Jolly
Are you willing to ask the question, “Why aren’t women participating in artificial intelligence to the degree that men are?” That’s the question. We will come back to that based upon your interest in the future. For the moment, it is important for you to consider why artificial intelligence is coming to be a major global presence.

There is a desire to remove the mundane aspects of humanity and to replace it with technology that can do things more easily. Yes, there will be a transparency that takes place. In addition, ultimately, there will be an equalization that takes place. There will no longer be one country or part of the world that produces products more cheaply than another. This technology will remove that current reality.

It will remove the idea that obscene profits can be taken from people because they were unaware of other options.

As another example, artificial intelligence will properly report the cost of medicines.

The price of developing a new drug, and the actual cost of health care will be common knowledge.

In those countries, such as the United States, that continue to exploit such opportunities, these things will be reduced, if not completely changed.

So, you could say that artificial intelligence will indeed change the landscape of all things.

It could be stated that artificial intelligence will put everyone on an equal playing field. But isn’t this a good thing?

Those of you who aren’t benefitting from the inequities will feel that these are good ideas. Those of you who are wanting to control will feel the most threatened.

You will be and tracked within a grocery store, a retail store, or even in your vehicles. These things will all be done automatically. And everybody will come to know the patterns that people participate in when they are in these places. Your opportunity to be in truth is at hand.

[24:13.960] – Weston Jolly

Question My concern is that Facebook, Instagram, X, Google are already stealing all of our personal posts, pictures, comments, and thoughts. And these same companies are already using AI to change the “news,” how we think and how we perceive things.

Channeled Response: Yes, we understand that some social media companies are inappropriately using the information that they glean when they watch the patterns of your searches.

What is it within you that has you searching?

This question is something important for you to understand. This, of course, comes from the egoic self, trying to find something. Will searching for answers outside of yourself get you the answers that you seek?

In essence, you are searching through the collective mind.

Some people would say, “To some degree, yes, I will get the answers that I seek from the egoic mind.” We understand this choice. Yet, if you seek to find Source within you, it is there.

We remain present within you if you choose to have this access.

Therefore, the idea that someone can take something from you by looking through your posts, comments, or online thoughts, becomes funny. That is not possible unless you continue to depreciate yourself. This is a part of the fork in the road that you’re having to choose. Will you become disempowered or fully empowered?

These choices, again, are yours. Be reminded that your choice to connect with yourself, with others, and with all aspects of this realm, even outside of this realm, is deeply encouraged.

[26:23.890] – Weston Jolly
Yet many of you give no consideration to such things whatsoever. You only want to value the egoic parts of yourself.

You ask, “What can it do for me?” Whether that’s technology, a job, or a position. You want to compete with other people..

These are all attributes, again, of the shell or the ego.

If you allow yourself to really understand the depth of what’s being shared here, then you will understand that your choice to be called upon as a creator, to be truly divinely connected, is indeed the opportunity at hand. This technology, artificial intelligence, will only enhance your choice to become aware. It encourages you to make a choice about what you wish to do going forward. Should you remain disempowered or become fully connected?

[26:41.170] – Weston Jolly

Question I’ve read that the purpose of AI is to do everything that a human would do. If that’s the case, what will we do?

Channeled Response: This is a very significant question that has already been addressed. We ask you to continue to remember your origins as the creators that you are.

Artificial intelligence did not invent itself. It was created by people to do mundane things that you think you don’t want to do any longer. This is fine. Yet your choice to be truly accountable for yourself as the creator that you are is something that’s deeply, deeply encouraged.

When we use the term “creator”, we don’t mean to limit you to creating new people by producing babies. We encourage you to engage in the creation of all aspects of creativity, which come from Us.

In this understanding to be connected to Source, you will find that creativity and being a creator is something that’s very, very magical in nature. And as everyone, not just the scant few, participate in this aspect, you will find that there is a connection that really fuels you in your choice to come together. One could say that you will find a true connection. This is beautiful for you to remember in your choice to come forward.

[28:33.450] – Weston Jolly
Question Aren’t religions going to be affected by AI?

Channeled Response: Of course they will. And of course, like all the other structures that have been listed before, such as technology, industries, science and math, what makes you think that political realms or even the religious realms will not be affected by the regurgitation of the collective egoic mind?

Yes, there will be further transparency within religion and philosophies. There will be transparency surrounding the ways people use money and power. Philosophies and religions that try to control one person or a group of people through false beliefs will be exposed. Again, these things will become more and more transparent as artificial intelligence becomes used on a greater scale.

And it will indeed, dramatically impact the religious leaders of the world who are seeking to control.

This is going to be considered something good or undesired, depending on your point of view.

[29:36.900] – Weston Jolly

Question Spiritually speaking, should I avoid using AI and drastically oppose it, including social media, the news, my phone, my car, etc.?

Channeled Response: Your choice to try to step away from the progress of an individual, let alone mankind, becomes impossible. You do not have to blindly participate with social media by making comments or likes or allowing others and their organizations to take your personal information from you. You can use discernment.as you continue to participate when you purchase a particular service or product.

Many of you think that it’s a rite of passage to give away everything that you have in the idea that you’re going to get something free.

[30:43.380] – Weston Jolly
Do you know that there are people who have been consciously working the system against you? They use your ego to influence you. Companies such as Alpha have done that from the very beginning. They choose to exploit the need that you express in your online searches. This is why they want to continue to dominate your ego so that they can always be seen as the source for giving you the answers to those things that you’re searching for.

This is, of course, is funny. The idea that you need to search for something outside of yourself is incorrect.

Yet, at the moment, social media is dependent upon your search information. You only give consideration to the mind and your desire to be filled with something, which is merely information, not necessarily knowledge.

Give consideration to exactly what we’re saying.

If you think that you need to be affected in a very negative way, then this belief will be used against you. When you submit all of your personal information to social media and AI, you will be negatively affected.

If you seek to be seen in a different way, then you will stand up strongly, determining what things can be shared and cannot be shared with the technologies or with the companies that are wanting to take from you.

[32:10.180] – Weston Jolly

Question Don’t we need government to control the use of AI?

Channeled Response: Clearly, the governing individuals of any government throughout the world have always been used as a means to control the people. So, the idea that you need to have that body, that government, to continue to protect you is indeed something that needs to be addressed.

Because, of course, this goes back to the egoic mind. It fears that it needs to be protected. Therefore, you need to be protected by this entity, these people, or this government. If you seek to have the government and you hope that they will offer you some comfort in your use of artificial intelligence, then you will be wholly disappointed as you continue to go forward.

The controls that these individuals may implement , if any, will come way too late because these individuals may or may not have a good grasp on what’s going to take place as things come down this path.

This is something that could be described as good because it will enable all of the people, this means the people of the world, to have an understanding that they may or may not need such governmental institutions or any entity, religious leader or other power that stands in the way of having access to the divinity within.

All of this information is something that’s available from within you. This is really something that you can tap into, if you so desire.

[33:53.170] – Weston Jolly
Question How can we stop artificial intelligence?

Channeled Response: This is a very interesting question. It is based upon the idea that someone wants to stop or prevent one-half of a wave.

We use the term wave, so that you might visualize an ocean wave. Could you stop one-half of it from expressing itself? Another way to look at this would be- could someone stop the growth of a seed by relentlessly chopping it down like a weed in the garden? Will that somehow remove this choice or this expression?

Likewise, this isn’t something that will be stopped or shoved aside. This is not something that can be controlled. This is something for you to understand and to appreciate, not to try and stop. Own that you don’t have to try to control something by stopping it. Instead, appreciate that this is something that does not need to run wild within you? Again, we’re speaking of the egoic mind.

[35:21.070] – Weston Jolly
Question I’m very concerned that most people don’t understand how great the threat of AI is to our privacy. It reads our email, reports the news, and even takes part in our government and our way of life. Should we just submit to AI?

Channeled Response: If you allow something, anything, an idea, a thought, a technology, to be seen as a threat to you and as something that you must submit to, then you become disempowered. This is the complete opposite of existing in an empowered state and as the creator that you are.

To be a creator, you must understand that this comes from being united and connected. Creativity is something goes way beyond this particular silly, and we use that term very consciously, artificial intelligence. You do not need to be dependent upon something that’s just averaging and regurgitating the information it gathers. To one degree, this technology, artificial intelligence, is like the mind when you find yourself replicating things based upon what you see.

Can you see the parallel?

Only you are real.

The potential of your connection is absolutely real. Artificial intelligence is merely something that comes from the mind. It might demonstrate something that perhaps you haven’t seen before.

It’s like a worker who builds his own house. He doesn’t have an understanding of the things that he’s building because he’s too close to his project. It is too personal to him.

[36:36.470] – Weston Jolly
Artificial intelligence presents an opportunity for you to see things that perhaps you haven’t seen before in a tangible form. This is desired so that you can make certain changes of empowerment or disempowerment based upon your view.

These are the questions that I had for us today regarding artificial intelligence. I hope it does give you a clearer understanding of what artificial intelligence is doing, where it’s going, and how you might participate. There’s a great deal to give consideration to, so maybe this topic is something that will just remain open, and perhaps that’s the best thing that we can do in terms of offering a conclusion.

If you do have other questions, send me an email, and I’ll seek to put them together and perhaps do another podcast addressing the same subject in a more detailed way. Until we speak again. Thank you for being here.

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How to UNDERSTAND your Highly Sensitive Child.The gift of being a Highly Sensitive Child is for the family that rears them, the teachers that teach them and for the world that can appreciate their depth of awareness and contribution.

Picture: Was Picasso a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) or are those Highly Sensitive Kids?

Many parents may not even know they have a highly sensitive child. It’s even more challenging if school systems and other professionals think of being a Highly Sensitive Person as a liability or a condition. Get personal insight from two HSP’s who a teacher and a spiritual channel that both teach how to communicate and play with your highly sensitive child.

TAKE THIS QUIZ: To What Degree Are You a Highly Sensitive Person

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Episode 075 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: How To Parent Your Highly Sensitive Child.

[00:00:51.440] – Weston
Thank you for joining us. Today is an opportunity to talk to you about

How to Parent Your Highly Sensitive Child.(Also check out this podcast How Being a Highly Sensitive Person Is A Gift? Ep72)

And I have these esteemed honor to have a guest speaker today, Lily Gallo.

Lily, we have spoken before, and I’m very grateful to invite you back to the podcast of True Connections with Weston Jolly.

[00:01:11.040] – Lily
Oh, thank you. I’m very happy to be back. Glad to talk to you all again.

[00:01:15.040] – Weston
Thank you. I need to let you know, Lily, since we have you here, we talked about the topic of Weight… in the podcast Discover the Secrets of Removing Weight -Ep69 Did you know that this is one of the most popular episodes that we’ve done? People are still downloading it. So if anyone is interested about learning the real secrets behind loosing weight, check it out.

Lily, based upon your direct contributions, I thought you’d be interested and so would the audience that are joining us today.

[00:01:43.470] – Lily
That’s wonderful. Yeah, I didn’t know that it had become so popular, but I’m very happy with it.

[00:01:48.700] – Weston
Oh, it’s all because of you, so don’t be shy about it,

[00:01:50.180] – Lily
Listen. I don’t know about that, but thank you for saying so.

[00:01:55.520] – Weston
Of course. Lily, can you maybe give us a little bit of background in terms of yourself personally and professionally specific to our topic, How To Parent Your Highly Sensitive Child.

[00:02:05.710] – Lily
Sure. Well, I’ll start off professionally, and then I’ll get personal. So professionally, I have been a teacher for over 20 years. I’ve worked with students primarily who have special needs. So students who have hearing loss is my main focus, but also students with a variety of special needs, including students who are gifted. So, I have experience in intentional populations that differ from the norm. And so I think that’s a lot of what we’ll be talking about today …kids who are just different than what would be expected.

[00:02:44.550] – Lily
What if someone who’s different from the normal range of experience? I really became interested in that for a number of reasons, but also because I myself am a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), and there was no recognition of that other than I was labeled as gifted in the school system. So, I did have some acknowledgement that I was academically different than the norm, but that did not blossom to the understanding that my whole person or my whole being was in some ways very different than what would be typically understood as normal.

[00:03:25.520] – Lily
So, I think that’s a really important part of the discussion is that someone who is highly sensitive is a whole being, and it is not something that can be categorized as in this circumstance, the person is highly sensitive, or in another circumstance, they’re fine.

[00:03:44.960] – Weston
Right.

[00:03:46.060] – Lily
It’s a whole person who is affected by this reality.

[00:03:51.090] – Weston
Let me kick in here myself. Certainly, I will join you from a personal perspective. This is why I wanted to put us together. Again, I’m very grateful for your being here again, Lily. That I had no clue, that I was highly sensitive. I didn’t discover this until much, much later. And even then, when I did, it was like, okay. I didn’t see necessarily a negative thing or a positive thing. I just didn’t know what to do with it.

[00:04:24.340] – Weston
A lot of the characteristics were like, Oh, wow. And I want to talk about that real quickly, from a physical perspective, if that’s okay with you, to just talk about some of the general characteristics in terms of how this is sometimes categorized. But I really don’t want to be stuck in the physical, I’m looking to do something different in our dialog talking a little bit because we’re coming from a spiritual perspective. I want to definitely offer that insight as well.

[00:04:51.850] – Weston
And we’re going to talk about the physical. I definitely want to talk about the parenting piece. I should say this, How to Parent Your Highly Sensitive Child is It’s a misconception.

[00:05:03.330] – Weston
Maybe we could have entitled this podcast;
How to Teach Your Highly Sensitive Child or
How to Play with Your Highly Sensitive Child or
How to Engage with Your Highly Sensitive Child, or maybe for some people,
How to Understand Your Highly Sensitive Child

[00:05:18.030] – Weston
Because I’m just going to start there. With my own self, I don’t think… No, I’ll just re-state that. My family didn’t have a clue about my sensitivity. Was that true with you?

[00:05:29.910] – Lily
I would say no. I would say they recognize that something was wrong.

[00:05:35.120] – Weston
(Laughing) Sorry for that. Okay.

[00:05:39.500] – Lily
It’s not that it wasn’t noticed. It was noticed. It was labeled as wrong, bad, and get rid of this, whatever it is.

[00:05:46.800] – Weston
I just want to give a quick story. I was sitting in the car with my dad. We were stuck in traffic, and we were behind this diesel truck, and the exhaust was horrific. I just was overwhelmed, overwhelmed with the sensitivity of anything and everything, but especially the smell of exhaust. And I turned to my dad and I said, “Gosh, the smell in the car is horrible.” And he turns to me and said, “We’re stuck in traffic. What do you want me to do about it?”

[00:06:15.110] – Weston
And he was mad at me for being this sensitive. I thought, I guess I should be quiet about what it is that I’m sensing. And I think for a lot of people, we’re talking about being children –once about a time in a world of adults. And there is that connotation that something’s wrong, that we’re tapping into something that’s too much based upon someone else’s perception. And yet we’re just taking in a lot of information. So, tell me about you in terms of some of your experiences.

[00:06:47.150] – Lily
Yeah. So I was going to give a couple of examples that stick out. But in response to your story, my family would have said, “What smell?” They would not have even been aware that there was something in the air that was offensive to my sensibilities. And I think that’s the big part of it is you are noticing things other people are oblivious too and other people will look at you like you are crazy, you have no idea of what reality is.

[00:07:19.120] – Lily
I just don’t smell because there are four people in this car, and you’re the only one who smells it. That means it doesn’t exist, and you are a problem. You complain too much, or you’re making up stories, or whatever it may be.

[00:07:31.610] – Weston
I’m going to share something I didn’t think I was going to share. But one of the physical characteristics from a child’s perspective, is that there can be the feeling of being startled easily. I’m very sensitive to that. Now, that was very true for me. But I’m going to say something. It’s going to sound really quite grievous, but I want to get through it because I want to share this idea that I have always, and still have a very strong sensitivity, to being spooked.

Imagine Being a Highly Sensitive Child and Having Firecrackers Thrown Into the Bathroom …By Your Father[00:08:05.020] – Weston
So anyway, I’m in the shower. I’m probably four years old. I mean, I’m very, very young. And my dad thought it would be “funny,” and I put that in quotes, to take not one fire cracker, but basically the whole brick, which is like 16 fire crackers, light it and throw it onto the tile of the bathroom, and it goes pop, pop, pop, pop, pop

[00:08:29.320] – Weston
I’m in the shower, I have no idea what’s happening. It sounds like gunfire to me, right? It’s extremely loud because I’m an enclosed in a shower in a small bathroom. It’s not like it’s a large room to dissipate the noise. And I am in there and I’m just literally in shock, crying…

[00:08:47.950] – Weston
Now, that was how I grew up. And then when I finally was able to speak and to express, about my shock and anger, mostly to my mom –my mom’s presented it would be “fun” for it to be my turn to lite firecrackers when my dad took a shower. So I lit the match while mom through the fire crackers in the bathroom while he was showering. And that’s literally what I was coached to do. And of course, I did do that.

[00:09:15.980] – Weston
But my gosh, the point is, there was just no clue that, number one, I have not just a general sensitivity, but a highly developed sensitivity of physical things, let alone spiritual things. And this was the condition that I was exposed to at a very, very, very early age. And of course, I never thought of that as weird or even funny, because why would I? It was just how I grew up in my house, and I’d never even thought to talk about this but it seemed relevant today. I’m laughing because it’s not funny, but it’s not uncommon that a parent doesn’t even smell the exhaust in the car and looking at you like, “What’s wrong with you?” Then we can have that feeling, or even the stigma, of course, that there is something wrong with us.

[00:10:10.030] – Weston
I’m very interested in unpeeling this subject so we can indeed help others, especially parents and perhaps even teachers, and even brothers and sisters, to engage with Highly Sensitive Children in a different way. I’m super interested from a school system’s perspective. You said you specialize in special needs, which I think gives you a tremendous advantage to have an insight in a lot of ways, especially as a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), to see perhaps highly sensitive children in your field, your specialty.

[00:10:49.700] – Weston
I’m wondering if being an HSP is understood, by the staff or the teachers of the school or the parents? If someone doesn’t have an ability to hear, I think that becomes pretty easy to acknowledge, if you will. But is the categorization of someone being highly sensitive, is that something that’s… Do we see that? Do most people know about that?

[00:11:12.450] – Lily

I have never heard the term, of a Highly Sensitive Child, used in a school system EVER.[00:11:17.200] – Weston
I’m sorry, what? How many years did you say you’re doing this?

[00:11:20.560] – LilyOver 20 years. And that term has never been mentioned, not in any training, in services, informal conversations. That term has just never come up.Because I think, and unfortunately, school systems, when you work with special needs students in particular, but with regular General Education students as well, If we’re looking for what is wrong clinically or what is diagnostically wrong, or what is it that we can use a test to prove or disapprove. Instead of looking at the child and saying, “What is this child experiencing and what are we observing?” And so because there’s no test to prove or disapprove this, there’s no conversation surrounding it.

[00:12:14.350] – Weston
That’s fascinating. I have to say I’m shocked, but maybe not necessarily… I guess I want to be shocked. I’ll say it that way. Intellectually, I would think that there would be some involvement of the academic system.

[00:12:31.790] – Weston
My uncle was special needs, and so I’ve always had a special sensitivity to that. And yet, I wouldn’t have thought that highly sensitive people would be something that wouldn’t be apparent to a school system. It’s unfortunate, and I have to say this, and this is certainly my opinion, and I want to just offer it as such, that the categorization about being highly sensitive from a clinical perspective of something wrong with you, personally, I take great offense to that because there’s nothing wrong with me. I certainly have highly sensitive attributes, but I don’t consider that to be a liability. I guess it could be. What are your views on that?

[00:13:21.350] – Lily
I absolutely agree. A highly sensitive person in various areas has been attempted to be placed on a spectrum that includes OCD and autism.

[00:13:33.620] – Weston
Yeah, I’ve read that, too.

[00:13:35.450] – Lily
And I don’t believe that it belongs on that scale. I also don’t believe there’s anything at all wrong with having OCD as a diagnosis or autism. However, these are very separate circumstances, separate situations. I think someone who is highly sensitive is probably neurologically different. If you looked at their brain, I’m sure it does react differently, as does someone with OCD or someone who has autism. But I think it’s the question of, is that the brain responding to a spiritual situation as brains will do? And I think that a child who is highly sensitive will have different brain pathways, different neurological reactions, because there is a spiritual connection that is happening.

[00:14:39.110] – Weston
That part is outstandingly cool. And of course, for myself personally, From my earliest memories, I’ve always had a spiritual cognizance, if you will. I didn’t know that, not formally, anyway, but without a doubt, that’s something that’s always been. I didn’t recognize that until much later.

[00:15:03.840] – Weston
Lily, let me ask you some questions about what constitutes the characteristics of being a Highly Sensitive Person. You can offer me Yes or No based as I share some throwing quick statement.

Q -Weston
A -Lily

Q. Are you startled easily?
A. Yes.
Q. Do you enjoy big surprises?
A. No.
Q. Do you feel that there is an ability that you have to read someone’s mind?
A. Yes.
Q. Did you use big words when you were a child?
A. Yes.
Q. Are you sensitive to odors?
A. Yes.
Q. And I’ll even give this one to you. You have one of the wickedest, coolest sense of humor as I’ve ever met, which is an attribute of being sensitive, just circling that.
Q. Would you consider yourself intuitive?
A. Yes.
Q. Do you ask lots of questions?
A. Yes.
Q. Would you consider yourself a perfectionist?
A. Yes.
(I won’t touch that one.)
Q. How about sensitivity towards others who are in distress?
A. Very much so. Yes.
Q. And what about asking deep thought-provoking questions?
A. Yes.
Q. Would you consider yourself very sensitive to pain?
A. Yes.
Q. And what about safety issues?Meaning, do you find yourself having a heightened awareness with regards to dangers or what could be or what if danger is around you?
A. I will answer this. Yes, however, I don’t see them as dangerous because I’ve chosen them not to be.

[00:16:41.080] – Weston
Okay, cool. And lastly, and by the way, this list is something that I put together with some external help (Credit to author Elaine N. Aron).

[00:16:49.040] – Weston
But do you feel things deeply. How would you consider yourself in that department?

[00:16:54.080] – Lily
Absolutely.

[00:16:54.660] – Weston
So these characteristics are interesting. And by the way, you I didn’t miss one! And I didn’t go through all of them, but certainly the great majority. So that people can understand from a physical perspective what it means to be highly sensitive. Now, let’s steer that a little bit differently.

How would you classify spiritual sensitivity?[00:17:21.240] – Lily

I would say that spiritual sensitivity is overall awareness of connectivity between all things. And I think that manifests importantly, in a highly sensitive person because they have a connection emotionally and physiologically, a reaction that most people do not see as related to the stimulant.[00:17:50.490] – Weston
God, I want to cry about what you just said, because, and I don’t mean that generally, I mean that literally, because when I watch someone perform music, it can be a child, it can be somebody in eighth grade, it can be somebody in a church or a community, a coffeehouse, some of the thing, and there’s times

[00:18:12.310] – Lily
It doesn’t matter the quality of the music…

[00:18:12.580] – Weston
(Laughing) that’s what I’m saying… And yet I can feel a spiritual note, if you will, a resonance that’s coming from this presence that makes me want to cry. When I say makes me, it doesn’t force me, but it invokes that feeling within me.

[00:18:36.810] – Weston
And again, I grew up in the household that I did. Males weren’t necessarily encouraged to share that emotion. That was considered a feminine emotion for whatever strange reason. But nonetheless, I find myself tearful, but not sad, but very joyful in honor and recognition of this spiritual connection. I can see it, feel it, know it…

[00:18:55.910] – Weston
And I look around and even women, which I would thought, certainly as a child, would have this sensitivity are missing it. Not everybody, of course, but it just highly touched based upon someone’s looking at me wondering, “Well, why are you crying?”

[00:19:13.320] – Weston
What you said perfectly is the stimulant didn’t necessarily match this guy’s expression. And yet, in my mind, they don’t see what’s between the lines. I mean, they’re not able to have that depth of understanding, so to speak.

[00:19:26.180] – Lily
I cry at artistic expression so frequently that I’m no longer surprised or even embarrassed. I look around the room with tears in my eyes, screaming down my face. I’ll look at people who are blank-faced and bored, and I’ll be like, You just have to either accept or not accept my experience because it’s going to happen. And I have the flip side of that is, one of the stories I thought about when you asked me what my experiences were as a highly sensitive child.

I remember my family used to take us to concert at a university that was near where we grew up. And there was one concert that we went to that the music was mostly drums. It was so difficult for me because the music, I enjoyed it, but it made me physically ill because the vibrations were so strong. I was like, “Mom, I’m going to throw up.” I’ve got to get out of here. And they were so upset with me for feeling that, and no one else, nobody else in the audience is feeling that way. But my emotions were very much involved and very much appreciative of the music, and the people who are creating the music, and the message of the music, and the way the world was expressed in this music.

[00:20:56.710] – Lily
But I just had to get out of there. And I I think that’s another part of a highly sensitive person.

[00:21:02.230] – Weston
Oh, for sure. I can totally relate that, especially in… I always loved to dance, and so sometimes the music is quite loud. I remember feeling physically like my body was somehow being attacked by the sound. I wanted to listen to the music, right? And I wanted to dance, but the sound was so… like X-rays, I guess. It was penetrating all the way down into my core.

[00:21:30.290] – Weston
It was like, this is not comfortable. In fact, I want to get away from the very thing that I said that I wanted to do. And that was uncomfortable. Why can’t I be in the midst of where I want to be? But somehow I’m feeling like I shouldn’t. And it’s not toxic or something like that. I’d rather just felt really, really uncomfortable, not quite the right word. It felt like I had to leave. Yes.

[00:21:53.770] – Lily
It feels like an emergency. Like your body is going, “You’re going through an emergency and you must escape.”

[00:22:02.310] – Weston
Yes. It’s interesting because this brings up another thing for me as well. Warren Beatty, the aging actor was in a movie called Bonnie and Clyde. And during the ending or concluding scene of the movie, these bank robbers, who were partners, were being shot very, very dramatically on the movie screen. I’m 11. I thought I was going to throw up.

[00:22:29.420] – Weston
I begged for my dad to take me out to the lobby, which he did, but I got scolded. I got scolded for leaving because we missed the best part of the movie. I was like, “Dad, you’re asking me to watch not just the casual death of a couple of people, but something that’s really, really tough.” Again, maybe other people could handle that, and we could debate whether I was old enough to watch that the age of 11 or not. But the point was, I was exposed to that, and that was my feeling, and then it was, note to self. I put myself in a literal physical position, unconsciously, and actually this is something that’s still true today…I will tend to sit at the outer sides of the seats. So if I need to leave, I can do so.

[00:23:12.340] – Weston
I can just pick up and head to the lobby and take myself out and say, “Okay, I’ll come back after that scene, or take myself completely out of the theater because I’m not comfortable.” And it’s not because I’m trying to avoid something. It’s just that I don’t need to see or feel that degree of impact, if we can call it that. So interesting. Right?

[00:23:34.650] – Lily
So, I have a student in my class who is deaf and who is showing all the signs of being a highly sensitive child. And there was a performance given to our class of very young children, by a visiting high school class, and it was a dance performance. And I’m watching these high school students dance and I’m crying, and I look over at this student, and she is crying with just passion and like, what an amazing expression, not crying in a negative way.

[00:24:08.300] – Lily
I look over at this girl, and she is having the time of her life. She’s lit up full of joy. She’s punching the air. She’s so in thrall that the audience is watching her as she’s enjoying the actual performance performance because she’s so full of excitement and joy for these dancers and the things that they are expressing. And the dancers stayed, after their little field trip to our school, to interact with her.

[00:24:44.620] – Weston
Oh, Wow.

[00:24:45.710] – Lily
Because she had given them so much love just through her enjoyment of what they were sharing. And it was such a beautiful expression of, yes, she’s a highly sensitive child, and there is so much good. So much benefit with that label, that it’s not struggle and anxiety and depression that people seem to associate it with it, but it’s an extreme ability to experience emotion.

[00:25:17.830] – Lily
And she experienced joy and freedom, and she’s in constant motion. She’s always moving. And I think that’s another part that we haven’t talked about yet, is the physical responses in that way. But that was a very clear picture for me of the immense happiness that comes with this highly sensitive situation.

[00:25:42.110] – Weston
Yeah, it’s interesting because back into the watching of music, and again, I remember sitting in church and hearing somebody sing, and it wasn’t a professional singer, but it was just somebody who had a voice. I actually felt, that it was for me, and I’m not trying to be judgmental of the place I was sitting, but I felt more connected with that song through that voice or that person than the rest of the service. And I felt that way for years, not just once. And so that was really quite a thing.

[00:26:12.110] – Weston
And I kept wondering why. Why I was connected to this piece, of special music?, if you will, versus what could be described as the main message. And I wasn’t trying to do that, but I just had a feeling that there was something more in truth, if you will, about the singing.

[00:26:33.760] – Weston
And that’s a very strong characteristic of being a Highly Sensitive Person.

There just doesn’t seem to be a lot of room for being outside of truth with your own self, and certainly with other parties. And that’s a gift, actually, because there’s places that we count on having truth, and truth comes in many different forms.[00:26:56.990] – Weston
I’m not talking about just truth from a personal perspective, but rather truth-truth. And that’s something for myself comes very easy because of the sensitivity. So, I did some channeling on being highly sensitive. And of course, one of the attributes of being highly sensitive enables you to have a depth of understanding through the sensitivity. And of course, in channeling from Source, which is the very thing I want to share with everybody here. Including people who have children who are exceedingly sensitive, that the need to for them to have to conform to be like mom and dad, or like the rest of the family, is really unfortunate.

[00:27:41.360] – Weston
Because if we flip this thought of conformity around to asking ourselves permission to say, “Hey, what does this child need?” Or, “What are they tuning into, if you will?” “What is it that they are sensitive too?” Then, we as a family, can make an adaptation? Of course, lots of times that’s why these children spiritually come, to offer, shall we say, this understanding to something much than what the common eye sees. I’m going to go back and share something that you were talking about, where there is an inability to see something that other people don’t see.

[00:28:10.440] – Weston
I remember walking in an art gallery, and I was walking to the gallery, and I happened to stand with my arms crossed looking at this particular piece. It was actually Sedona. I stood across this piece, and I leaned in a little bit. And the owner of the art gallery made a comment to me, and she said, “Are you an artist?”

[00:28:30.640] – Weston
I pulled back, and not often do I get caught, if you will. I’ll use the phrase, being seen. And I stepped back and I had a little bit of a Cheshire grin, and I said, “Well, why do you ask that question?” She continued, “Because of the way you look at the painting.” And I said, Well, I’m sure other people look at the painting like this. I’m trying to keep my camouflage on, if you will. And she said, “No, no, no. You’re looking at the painting like someone who’s an artist.” And of course, at that point, I said, “Well, actually, I am artistic, but I don’t necessarily think of myself as an artist,” but clearly I am. I didn’t come into the art gallery with a T-shirt on that said, “Hey, I’m an art student, or am I a master of art in terms of painting or drawing or whatever?”

[00:29:11.830] – Weston
I didn’t do that. But just my observation of this particular painting was something this person saw. Now, in being sensitive, there are things that we observe that other people don’t observe.

[00:29:24.780] – Weston
I remember as well, someone walked into the office, they had a mustache their entire time when I was working at this company. He came in one day and was standing at the front of the offices, and this persons walked in, he was there for three seconds, and I knew exactly what was out-of-place. But the four other people standing around me said, “Something’s different about you today” I’m looking to the group of them like, “Are they all drunk?” I mean, “Are you all not aware?”

[00:29:44.720] – Weston
I didn’t say anything. I thought, I’ll just let this ride out because I thought they’re janking my chain a little bit. And these individuals continued on, “I can’t tell what it is? Is it his dress? Did he cut his hair?” After three minutes of this, it’s like, Come on, guys, “He shaved his mustache.”

[00:29:58.970] – Weston
Who could miss that? And everyone was like, Oh, yeah. I mean, it’s like, Are you kidding? And that, to me, is like, that’s not being sensitive. That’s like a brick to the head.

[00:30:12.140] – Weston
I mean, that was really, really easy to see. And so when we’re talking about the details in between, whether it’s art, mustaches, of course, to me, something very easy to observe. But when you talk about the spiritual pieces of being able to see things that, as you described earlier, Lily, the unification of how things literally come together, the highly sensitive child offers that kind of connection if we, as it would be parent or person of authority, that includes a teacher, takes the time, we’ll call it quietness, to step back and watch them observe and do what the proprietor of that art store did with me, in that art gallery. She said, “What are you seeing?” If we do this, then we’re really going to have a wonderful dialog, an opportunity to have access to something that perhaps we never would have appreciated or even noticed before.

[00:31:09.210] – Lily
Yeah, absolutely.

[00:31:11.070] – Weston
From a teaching perspective, I’d love to hear more of your thoughts about dealing with or bumping into those who are highly sensitive, and again, how the parents might interact in more positive way.

[00:31:24.810] – Lily
Yeah. I was starting to share an answer to that. This deaf girl that I was referring you earlier, she oftentimes intentionally makes mistakes, looks at you for your reaction, and then signs, Oops, and tells you the right answer. And I found that to be so brilliant because what she’s really doing is she’s saying, I’m going to work on my perfectionism. I’m going to make a mistake. I’m going to then observe you not getting upset because I was wrong, practice not getting upset myself. Then saying, “Yeah, I know I was wrong. And here’s the correct answer.” And so she’s teaching herself these skills while all I’m doing is sitting there and allowing that to happen.

[00:32:20.650] – Lily
And in a circumstance where that could easily go wrong, easily someone could think, why is she lying? Why is she manipulating? What is this girl doing? I understand enough to just hold that space for her to be wrong every time she wants to be wrong, to have that wrongness be accepted accepted and to have that rightness be equally accepted because it doesn’t matter if she’s right or wrong. To answer the question doesn’t matter. What does matter is that she’s learning how to not have this negative trait that is associated with being highly sensitive.

[00:33:04.470] – Lily
She’s learning it’s okay to be wrong.

She learned that perfectionism is not that helpful, and she found a way to teach herself that skill, to observe that if that exists within her and to correct it.And that is so profound. I think in that, if you have a child who’s highly sensitive and has those perfectionist tendencies, be making constant mistakes and be constantly fine with things going wrong.

[00:33:41.710] – Lily
This same student will get very upset when she spills something, which is common for young people, that she gets very upset. And so she spilled something recently, and she started immediately crying. She was very, very upset. So I walked up to and I picked up something and I spilled it, and I watched it spill, and I just stood there watching it and observing the spill. And she watched me do that and calmed down because there was nothing wrong with it. But neurologically, my goodness, it’s chaotic. To have something that should be one thing, toppled over and it become something else.

[00:34:29.900] – Lily
It’s, I think, similar to why lots of people are afraid of clowns, which this is just my theory. There’s no proof of it. But here’s what I think. Clowns look like normal people enough that when they’re doing something that’s surprising or scary, as you’ve referenced before, it becomes terrifying.

[00:34:51.470] – Lily
So it’s the thing that looks normal, but then sneakily it’s incorrect in some way. The surprise and the sudden experience that something that was expected in a blink of an eye becomes unexpected and there’s no time to plan for it. So understanding that that is a fear-based thing for all people, but especially for highly sensitive people, to give examples of daily surprises that might happen and just practice those things, be calm about them.

[00:35:34.660] – Weston
You had mentioned in a previous discussion that sometimes counterintuitive thoughts can be helpful instead of trying to calm somebody down because… Go back to me being in the car with my dad, stuck in traffic with the diesel truck, that I should be calmed down.

[00:35:52.040] – Weston
What do you mean by being counterintuitive instead of trying to calm somebody down in a given situation? Is that what you meant by pouring the water on the table in your earlier example? Or did you mean something more than that?

[00:36:03.410] – Lily
Yes, I meant that in many things. But yes, I think that people’s tendencies are to want someone who is upset to feel better.

[00:36:13.740] – Weston
Right, sure.

[00:36:14.930] – Lily
And so people come in and try to say, Oh, don’t be upset. But why? Why not be upset? It’s okay to feel upset. And as soon as that permission is given, you allow someone to no longer have to feel upset. So it’s acknowledging a feeling and saying, giving some language to it or just giving nonverbal acceptance to it allows it to run its course.

Instead of trying to say, “Whatever your feeling – Don’t feel that way!”Then you’ve just added more stress on top of that. Wait a minute. I’m feeling a certain way, and now I’m not supposed to feel that way? Oh, no. Now I’ve made a mistake on top of feeling bad. If that person is feeling upset. Don’t try to change that feeling. Don’t correct something that is not incorrect. If they’re afraid, that’s okay. If they’re sad, that’s fine. And sometimes giving them more of the experience that caused them to be afraid is what is helpful.

[00:37:26.730] – Weston
As a parent, I would absolutely create the opportunity to spill water or do something, maybe even tear up some paper and throw it as an exercise that could be described, as an out-of-bounds, so that they can get that energy out and realize that they’re not doing something bad. I just want to highlight that because that’s something that I thought that you shared was really insightful and quite helpful.

[00:37:55.850] – Lily
I think it can help you to have various materials available for a child so that if they’re feeling some way they’re dis regulated and you don’t know how to help them, they know that they can go to their corner, take some paper, and start tearing it up, if that’s what helps. Or if they want something quiet then there’s a quiet item. If they want something that’s loud, there’s a loud item. Creating a space where they can use whatever materials are there in the way that needs to be used, instead of just assuming they need to just go and sit and be quiet and calm themselves with various tactics.

[00:38:32.440] – Weston
In honor of that, really, really respectfully honoring this with our son we would do this. We would get basically faux fur so that he could touch, because he’s very tactile, something while he was learning. And so be seen as “odd” in a conventional classroom. But as his parents, we noticed and became aware through sensitivity, that he needed to touch something. And he was trying to touch the world. I’m not necessarily just touch this furry blanket or this fake rabbit’s fur.

[00:39:08.470] – Weston

He was literally trying to connect, not necessarily just with his hands, but basically through energy.And we were encouraging him. And we had the wherewith all to extend that as an invitation for him to do and didn’t think it was weird at all. And sometimes it can be done through sound. As an example, I personally wouldn’t do well in listening to something that would compete for my attention. That would be a problem. But for other people, that may be something that’s truly a compliment to them. So tuning into something like music might really help them study. And yet, I would speculate that most teachers might say, “No listening to music in class.”

[00:39:45.850] – Weston
For the student, that’s going to help. What would we want to take the music away? What would be, again, an augmentation to their growth and to their development?

[00:39:55.790] – Lily
Yeah. Taking away some stimuli is kind of what we tend to do. Make it quieter, make the light less bright. But instead, give an array of options. And if you are wrong, that the light should be brighter instead of dimmer, that’s okay. If you’ve made a bunch of mistakes trying to figure out what will help.

Trust in the fact that that highly sensitive child knows you’re trying to help, and that is significantly important. They are not really as concerned about the light, brightness as they are about that someone is trying.[00:40:35.750] – Weston
That takes us into the category of someone being heard. Taking the time; as parents, teachers, or brothers or sisters, whomever, to really appreciate something that the other party may not have naturally. I think that’s really important. So, if you’re noticing that someone has a sensitivity and you yourself may not, “get it,” taking a moment to truly be compassionate, and I’m not talking about fake sincerity. This is like reaching out to say, “What is it that you’re seeing?, What you observing? This connection is everything.

[00:41:14.520] – Lily
Yeah. My experience is that, personally, I had a lot of empathy for other people because I realized they did not know the things that I knew. And I remember one time I was in a doctor’s office, and there was a man sitting on the couch across waiting for, I don’t know who, maybe his child? I hope not for the sake of that child. But he was hidden behind a newspaper, and all we saw of him was this newspaper and his legs. And I turned to my mom and I said, “That man doesn’t like kids.”

[00:41:49.480] – Lily
I said it really loud. Everyone heard it. The receptionist heard it. The whole waiting room heard it, and the man slightly wriggled his newspaper. And he had heard it as well. And my mom was like, “Be quiet, be quiet.” And I was like, no, he really doesn’t. He doesn’t like kids at all. And I made a big deal of it. It was just true. He didn’t. And I knew it, and I don’t know how I knew it. And how true that was isn’t really the point. The point is that I had a lot of empathy for him.

[00:42:25.070] – Lily
I was actually feeling sorry for this guy who had to be stuck in this pediatrician’s office not liking children. And I was trying to point that out because I was like, You know, poor guy, he’s in the least happy place for him. But my point to that is I was very young, and I, “should not have known that.” There was no way for me to know that. But I did.

[00:42:50.300] – Lily
And so these very young children really care that you care. That is the most important thing. So if you have done something that was the opposite of helpful, but you say to them, I’m trying, in words or language or action, this is the absolute most important part of this equation, to have someone there who’s just trying to figure out along with you what works.

[00:43:23.230] – Lily
You can be very direct with very young children using some very high-level language and say, “You’re different. And I see that.” Ask them very directly, observe very honestly, and have conversations that are in some places seen as taboo.

“You’re different. How do you think you’re different?” Let them express themselves and then say what they observe.[00:43:57.380] – Lily
I’ve noticed that, whatever it is, that you cry more than most people, or you really like music more than most people, or you seem to feel in your body uncomfortable when this specific thing happens, or you jump a lot. Why do you think you jump a lot? Ask them questions, help them observe themselves, and listen to their answers because they will be really, really helpful.

[00:44:26.690] – Weston
And really helpful to this interaction, but also this helps them help themselves. There’s a correlation, in my observation from a spiritual perspective, that the becoming quiet, become quieted, become calm, etc. Often it leads us in the idea that we shouldn’t express as a highly sensitive person, that we can go introverted, especially if you have that personality type.

[00:44:49.290] – Weston
My observation from a spiritual perspective outside of one’s personality type is that expressing is key for a highly sensitive person. And so what you’re doing is you’re giving that individual, that child, an opportunity to express. And then ultimately, that expression is something to be understood and appreciated if someone’s really interested in that. And that’s something so important as a part of the dialog. Not healing because there’s nothing wrong with a highly sensitive person. I mean, again, that being a highly sensitive person is a gift. It’s not a liability in any way. I want to share this because this is important.

[00:45:25.640] – Weston

Did you feel the need to be protected as a highly sensitive child?[00:45:34.010] – Lily
No. I did not, and to a degree, do not understand danger. If that What’s the question that you’re asking?

[00:45:46.700] – Weston
Yeah, kind of… There’s a correlation that I observe that a lot of people that are highly sensitive, that are children, grow into adults and maybe do or don’t know, they will be likened to create an alliance with someone who’s going to protect them. So, let’s make you for the moment non-highly sensitive person, and we become very close friends, of which we are. But let’s say I’m using you to protect me.

[00:46:13.520] – Weston
In essence, I’m going to use you because you’re going to tell everyone what’s what. I’m not going to do that. I’m going to remain quiet and intuitively connected. But I’m going to use you or lean on you, if you will, to make sure that you’re going to protect me in the room or make sure that the lights go down.

[00:46:29.290] – Weston
I want that to be put on our dialog of discussion because I think it’s important that it isn’t something that needs to be done. I’m speaking to teachers and parents. No, it’s merely this connection again, having this understanding, that

We don’t need to protect highly sensitive kids.[00:46:47.290] – Weston
If someone’s holding their ears, I’m thinking of myself for the moment, because in my household, I cannot stand the blender. Well, every morning that blender goes off, or if it’s not that, then someone’s potentially grinding coffee. And that noise is even worse than the blender. I’m not exaggerating, I am found in the other room holding my ears.

[00:47:06.490] – Weston
Now, that’s my physical sensitivity. And, I don’t need to be protected from that. The only thing I’m looking to do is have someone be courteous enough to say, Hey, we’re about to blend in so I can get out of the space. And I’ll take care of myself.

[00:47:18.610] – WestonWe can teach that to the children that they don’t need to have mom and dad protecting them, or others of authority protecting them, but they can voice what they’re feeling.And if something is too much, whatever that stimulus might be, that that is something that we can hear, feel, and appreciate. And if they need to be relocated so that they can be more comfortable, I think that’s reasonable. But that’s not necessarily the same thing as, “Oh, they think we shouldn’t be talking so loud because we’re going to be disrupting someone who’s highly sensitive.”

[00:47:48.050] – Weston
That creates a whole different scenario in that we all can’t all be ourselves, and we don’t want to have that in the end. Hopefully, I didn’t destroy what you were trying to share…

[00:47:59.290] – Lily
But I absolutely understand what you’re saying, but my answer is still absolutely not. I’m more emphatically saying, no, I did not want to be protected. That’s insulting. So you know how sometimes you spoke of coming from an alcoholic family?

[00:48:14.700] – Lily
Sometimes When you have an alcoholic parent and two children, one child becomes an alcoholic and the other child never drinks a drop. And I think this is one of those situations where someone who’s a highly sensitive person might, like myself, become highly offended if someone tries to protect me from something, while if I had a sibling who was also highly sensitive, they might be cowering, waiting for a protector.

[00:48:40.830] – Lily
I think it’s one of those things where there is a very clear division and a very strong reaction. I grew up very much alone, even though I had a family. I was very much alone and did not have a protector in any sense of the word I had, predator. But I think maybe because I was never taught to seek out a protector,

[00:49:09.020] – Lily
I did became the protector of others. And I think that’s the teetotaler part of my example, where if I saw someone who was in distress, I protected that person, even if I didn’t know them, even if I’d never met them before, even if the reason I sensed that they needed protection was completely a spiritual reason.

[00:49:36.130] – Lily
It’s an invisible thing. No one even sees it, but I do. I became the protector.

[00:49:42.460] – Weston
Oh, yes. I remember going to Europe during the summer as high school student, and I was out drinking and dancing with a bunch of people who were also on tour, with me… Because we could drink in Europe. A lot of people were over the edge in terms of what was their consumption level. Like I said, I drink, but not necessarily like that. I mean, not to say I haven’t, but I don’t find myself attracted to that for what I would call obvious reasons.

[00:50:08.480] – Weston
And I was with a bunch of people from our group, and I think it was a couple of guys and about four girls, and these girls were about to be carried off by a group groping local males basically trying to take advantage of these girls. And I could see this situation brewing from a hundred miles away. Now, it wasn’t because I was more sober than everybody else. It was just like, Are you kidding me? These girls weren’t my sisters. They weren’t even necessarily friends… But there was no way in heck that these girls were going to be taken away.

[00:50:49.120] – Weston
I got very involved, and it enabled us to get home safely. Again, these people may or may not, to this moment, have an understanding of what took place, and I don’t really care to be acknowledged for that. But from a spiritual perspective, when allowed and when appropriate, I do that a lot. Not to try and circumvent somebody’s would be physical experience, but rather to evoke awareness so that they can realize, “Hey, you’re off in the weeds here, and you may want to get out of that because that could be somewhat uncomfortable for you.” I could use the word dangerous, but I’m going to change the term to uncomfortable or something out of balance for what you’ve actually come to experience.

[00:51:30.770] – Weston
And yes, some people need and want to do that. And when you see that, when you observe that, it’s like, Okay, I’m actually going to be interfering to get in that person’s way to get them out of harm’s way, so to speak. So it becomes a balance of being able to read the room empathetically, and how you can make your contribution. And I think it’s interesting, Lily, from the get-go, that you really didn’t have a need to protect.

[00:51:59.500] – Weston
I didn’t have much protection growing up. I definitely have that for other people where there’s a part of me that wants to evoke that sensitivity on behalf of somebody else, especially if I can see five moves out or ten moves out. Again, not to try and interfere, but rather just to say that baby doesn’t belong there.

[00:52:18.420] – Weston
I mean, if you look six moves out, and you can see that that’s a problem. I’m not trying to be the enforcer of all things safe, although it can be seen like that at times. I’m just trying to say, “Hey, that doesn’t make me logically.” Everyone else doesn’t see the five moves out. They’re looking at me seeing my actions or thoughts as illogical. “Why did you move the baby from this place to this place?”

[00:52:38.530] – Weston
I said, well, because I outlined it for her. I was like, how? That’s not going to happen. And then, of course, when it does. It’s like, I look like some kind of genius, and it’s not that. It’s just that I’m super aware through my super sensitivity. There’s just this sensitivity to that.

[00:52:50.640] – Lily
And you don’t always know why or how to explain it.

[00:52:53.080] – Weston
Yes. Thank you for that. That part’s really tricky because why, Weston, are you making this move? And it’s like, it took me half an hour to explain it to the common person.

[00:53:06.150] – Weston
You Lily, who are a Highly Sensitive Person- you totally get it, and others who are joining us in this space of sensitivity, they will get it as well. But it’s pretty cool.

[00:53:13.940] – Lily
I have to say to people, Please just trust me. I know what I’m saying. I can’t explain it. I could, but I really don’t want to. Please just trust me. And just step to the left a little bit. Just do it. What does it hurt?

[00:53:33.300] – Lily

When I was a very young child, I had this tendency to be a protector.And I think it’s an important thing to bring in really quickly, the topic of imagination. Because here’s an example of how this works when I was really little, is that there was a girl in my preschool, I was in a preschool classroom who missed her mom and would stand at the window and cry whenever her mom And I told her that I had a magic machine that would make her stop missing her mom.

[00:54:08.200] – Lily
She was interested in what I was sharing. So I made up essentially a course that she could climb over things and go around other obstacles. And I just made an obstacle course for her, essentially. And at the end, magically…She wouldn’t even be missing her mom anymore. And it worked. But it’s because I had brought her through just a supportive experience, and we had used our imagination to create this machine that was magical.

[00:54:39.720] – Lily
And she was not my friend. I didn’t know her before. I don’t think I talked to her ever again, actually. But to be able to recognize that, to create some way in which small little three and four-year-olds, theoretically disempowered people, can create power for themselves is very important as well, using imagination and empathy.

[00:55:03.840] – Weston
I think that is something we should underscore three times because the power… And by the way, let’s come back a moment. What age were you when you did that?

[00:55:13.400] – Lily
I was either three or four. Yeah.

[00:55:16.040] – Weston
I want everyone else to hear that. Of course, I think everyone did, but I think it’s important to sense it very early because you’re not necessarily being the teacher of that class necessarily having that thought, How can we make this person feel better? But somehow you already know that, and of course, this is part of your early gift set that you’re still applying today,

[00:55:34.440] – Weston
Lily, in a very, very beautiful way. Lily, in terms of our time, what would you share in terms of from your perspective? What would be a summary of what we talked about in terms of takeaways.

[00:55:49.080] – Lily

I would say that being a highly sensitive child is a gift, and being the parent of or family member of a highly sensitive child is also a gift.This person came to you to broaden everyone’s experience and to make it so much more than what it was had they not come.

[00:56:10.920] – Lily

That the most important and really the only important thing is that they know that you are going to work together to make their experience here on Earth as wonderful as it can be…and that you’re going to accept from them the gift that they are offering, not just that you’re going help them, but that you acknowledge that they are here for you and that you will accept the lessons they have to teach you, that age is insignificant to them, that this is a sharing between you humans who are part of a greater whole, and they just want to share that experience with you.

[00:56:50.020] – Weston
That is very beautifully put. I would just add to that maybe a couple of things we talked about today in terms of being aware what being highly sensitive looks like, because a lot of times when someone isn’t or aren’t aware of that they have a highly sensitive child in the household, there are characteristics that you can observe quite easily, and those are physical, but they go beyond that.

[00:57:12.460] – Weston

Being attentive to a child who is highly sensitive and giving them room to just listen and allow those expressions to be sharedI think this is one of the most beautiful things that you could ever do with your child, to just give their space and allow them to do things, again, in a way that may or may not be done how you It’s hard to it.

[00:57:30.350] – Weston

The highly sensitive person has an ability to see and observe things that they think are normal or easy to them that aren’t seen by anybody else. That’s physically, of course. It’s also true spiritually.[00:57:42.100] – Weston
When these things are developed, meaning when someone’s highly sensitive and they use that as a tool, the gift that Lily was speaking of. And it opens up doors to more sensitivity.

[00:57:52.640] – Weston

The highly sensitive child, that is uncommon among children, becomes even stronger in their sensitivity when it’s encouraged.Think of someone who has a musical ear. When that’s further developed, the sensitivity goes down to the tiniest fractions of being into and out of tune. And that happens in all aspects of observation. Again, physical, certainly from a spiritual perspective.

[00:58:15.950] – Weston
There’s really something to be shared in nurturing the highly sensitive because they bring to life things that, again that are quite unifying, that we sometimes don’t see or other people don’t see in terms of how things literally connect.

[00:58:32.560] – Weston
A highly sensitive person tends to see that with such ease that they don’t understand how someone has it separated or categorized, which is done, of course, through the mind or the intellect.

[00:58:42.710] – Weston
Taking the time, the energy to really embrace your child in this way is, I think, something incredible. Certainly, if we’re speaking to you as an adult, having been a highly sensitive child and not having been understood or properly expressed, then please be relieved that there’s anything wrong with you as much as you want to maybe further develop these skill sets.

[00:59:03.730] – Weston
By the way, there’s a quiz called, To What Degree Are You a Highly Sensitive Person that anyone can take.

[00:59:16.370] – Weston
Today, Lily, I just want to thank you very much for being with us again, and very grateful always for the opportunity, and certainly for our audience for joining us today.

[00:59:24.840] – Lily
Thank you. I had a ton of fun, and I always do when I talk with you. For us to make true connections, we have to engage.

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10 Reasons Why You Can’t Ask For What You WantWhy is it so hard to ask for what you want? Do you feel uncomfortable in asking for what you want? Overcome these 10 points of resistance to asking and learn how to harmonize with the Universe when you put forth your desire in asking.

How many times have you let opportunities go by because you didn’t ask for what you want? Learn the unconscious reasons that are blocking your asking for what you want. Unblock these obsticles and manifestation is made easy. The Universe is designed to give you everything you ask for, but you do have to have a desire, usually done by asking.

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Episode 074 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: 10 Reasons Why You Can’t Ask For What You Want.Hi, I’m Weston Jolly. Thank you for joining me for 10 reasons why you can’t ask for what you want. I think it’s interesting that we, all of us, have been conditioned not to ask. This is why we can’t ask for what we want, it’s because, well, there has been somebody or places or even you within yourself where you have become comfortable, to not ask questions or for what you want.

1:19 – Weston
Perhaps this started way back in grade school, where you were just asking for something simple –like raising your hand in class and asking, “I could use some help.” This is a very simple ask. Yet, sometimes we feel the teacher who rolls his or her eyes in their disapproval. Like it’s somehow a big deal that you’re asking a question in a classroom. Not asking is actually the number one reason why people can’t manifest what they want.

So today, we’re going to go through 10 places where you’ve created a block or even resistance to asking. And when we do this, we just want to be really clear that if any one of these things, these reasons why you can’t ask for what you want, if they come to the surface and you can feel something within your solar plexus or your stomach, I just want you to be aware of that.

2:10 – Weston
At the end, we’re going to do something really cool because I want you to remember, or learn, how the Universe actually works when we put forth and ask –and of course, the importance of asking. The reasons that we’re going through, 10 reasons why you can’t ask for what you want, is because we want to have awareness and clarity in asking.

Imagine running track and field where you have these obstacles called a hurdles. And of course, I’ve never jumped hurdles. But if I were to run a race and I had to jump a bunch of hurdles there’s a lot of energy in having to do that. So, we want to see each one of these reasons as a 10 reasons why we don’t ask as potential hurdle. Hopefully, none of these reasons are applicable, but if any are, then I’m going to give you a few suggestions at the end of this podcast, in how we can get back to connecting in your asking, and of course, the importance of your asking.

Without asking, we aren’t able to go anywhere.So I’m going to use this example. If we went into a restaurant and we sit down, we look at a menu, and we’re determining what it is that we want, and let’s say we have a preference that isn’t on the menu.

3:19 – Weston
That could be questions like ; Does the restaurant use mayonnaise?, or do they use real crab versus imitation crab? So, if we’re going to ask the waiter a question. We don’t need to feel funny about asking, right?

But a lot of times even at a restaurant, people will have a discomfort in asking about anything that’s outside of what’s actually printed on the menu. That’s funny because in most restaurants, almost always, they’ll come up to you and they’ll even tell you about specials of the day, meaning they’re announcing those things that they want you to become aware of in trying to solicit these times that aren’t on the menu.

It’s equally beautiful for you, too, to actually ask questions as well, right?

There’s nothing that you need to be afraid of in asking questions.But sometimes people really get shut down. And this is the reason we want to go through these hurdles so that you can become aware of any places you have resonance with 10 reasons why you can’t ask for what you want. In becoming aware, you can address those places of resistance so you can overcome any fears in your asking. We are doing to discuss how to ask in a Universally connected way, the end of this podcast, like I promised that we would.

People don’t know what to ask for.That seems funny, but it’s not. Because if someone has an ability to put forth a desire in an ask, that would be initially with and then this ask is verbalized to somebody else. That could be as simple as just asking for the salt and pepper at dinner, right? But if there is an inability that we don’t know what we want to ask for, or that we’re shutting that down, then we really want to become clear as to why.

Why is it that you don’t know what to ask for?
Is that because you’re afraid of having something to ask for? Let’s give that some consideration. If it is, I want you to just become aware of that as we can continue to go through our list.

If you’ve ever asked for something and been told “no.”5:33 – Weston
I can remember, I’m sure you can too, when I was a child in a grocery store, and asking mom that we can have this toy or to purchase the cereal with the toy in inside.

And of course, the answer is “no.” If we hear “no” often enough, then we can prevent ourselves from asking. In essence, we start to shut our desire to ask off. People in the profession of sales –it’s always suggested to ask for the order. Having taught sales people, you would be amazed, maybe even shocked, where you’ll find someone talking about the product, they will answer your questions, but they don’t ask for the order.

Why? Why wouldn’t somebody in sales not ask for the order?
It’s because of the possibility of being rejected with the word “No.” Somewhere down the line, someone might have told you “no.” When we interpret that “no” as a personal “no”, like “no you can’t have it”, or “no”, you don’t deserve it, or “no” you’re bothering me by putting forth this ask then soliciting becomes impossible because you will hear “no.” Therefore, you might never want to get rejected. But if you are, then, of course, that’s going to be a very prominent reason.

If you don’t value yourself, then your ability to comfortably ask is absent connection.7:01 – Weston
If I don’t think that I’m worthy of asking, but you are, then you find people can ask, but I can’t because I don’t value myself. This is really huge. In fact, there’s going to be topics and topics that talk about this where people choose not to value themselves. And a result of that, they can’t ask thus they don’t create.

And because of this, people are extended whatever life gives to them, right? And that is frustrating where they suddenly don’t feel like they can ask for what they want because there’s an intrinsic idea that maybe I’m not good enough or I shouldn’t be asking. Or maybe there’s a part of you that feels like you’re now as important as someone else.

Let’s go back to the academic classroom where someone’s a doctor in psychology, perhaps I don’t feel worthy to be in the presence of this particular person. Maybe he’s an international bestselling author. If I don’t value myself then I’m not going to ask him for anything. That could be as simple asking him to references for my resume. Perhaps, I was his teacher’s assistant, and yet if I don’t value myself, and therefor, I’m not going to be able to put forth that ask.

8:19 – Weston

If you don’t believe that you can have what you want, then you won’t ask for it.Well, that’s a big, big reason. And sometimes people put forth an ask, and yet behind that ask, they have this feeling that says, You can’t have that. And that can tie into the worthiness piece, right? You’re not worthy to have that. I wrote about this in a blog called Shattered Dreams where I chose to put forth an ask for a car that I wanted to manifest.

When I did manifest the car, I had it for maybe 30 minutes, and a tree limb –out of the blue with no wind blowing– came down and shattered the front windshield of my new purchase. And it made me feel like I couldn’t have my new car. I was wondering if the Universe was maybe punishing me for this manifestation.

This is, of course, the very opposite of what the Universe offers us. If you don’t believe you can have the thing that you want –as I was sharing with this incident in my manifesting this particular car– and yet I was holding on to this belief that maybe I shouldn’t or couldn’t have the very thing that I had already manifested.

9:47 – Weston
This happens a lot where someone may ask, for example, to win the lottery. Not that that I am suggesting you playing the lottery, but if someone does win it and they don’t believe that they can actually have the wealth that they’ve won then the money disappears.

As an example; Evelyn Adams won the lottery twice in back-to-back years in the 1980s. She ended up winning more than $5 million in total, but she reportedly gambled it all away in Atlantic City.Almost all the people that manifest in of the lottery with beliefs that are out-of-balance or “off.” If I can use that term, it’s out of balance with their choice to actually receive what they’re asking for. A lot of people who do win the lottery, as I’m sure you’re aware, lose it. Now, that can be a lot of money. It could be just a couple of grand to quite literally millions and millions of dollars. And yet all of that gets to be expended rather quickly because they don’t believe that they can actually have what they want.

So, this is hugely important.

Maybe there’s some part of you that doesn’t trust the Universe.Now, this can come from having asked for something and someone promised that they were going to give it to you, and they didn’t.

10:57 – Weston
This story that I’m about to share is indeed a true one, and yet it’s something that’s quite significant. In this particular case, at Christmas, a child was wanting a particular Christmas present. I can’t remember what the item was, but it wasn’t a big ticket item. (I don’t think it was as large as a bicycle.) And yet from this child’s perspective there was parental encouragement of the possibly getting this present at Christmas. On Christmas day, the child unwrapped the present, the cardboard box underneath the wrapping paper was indicative of the very thing that the child wanted!

There was huge excitement that the child was about to get the exact thing they had asked for. Continued with excitement this child suddenly realized their new present was NOT what they had been asking for. Mom or Dad or Santa, if you will, used a printed with the item the child wanted but repurposed the box with another present in it…

In essence, this Mom and Dad want to teach their child, “you don’t always get what you ask for.” Naturally, this was an unfathomable disappointment that this child, who had asked innocently had been something else to make this point.

12:11 – Weston
Because of this event, this child could develop this thought that they don’t trust, right? And that by extension, that they don’t trust God, or they don’t trust the Universe, or they don’t trust anyone to actually have the very thing that they want. That’s a biggie.

You don’t want to bother anybody.This next item that I want to talk about as a reason why you can’t ask for what you want, you may think that it has to do with only those people who are shy, but it has nothing to do with that. But in this categorization, the reason you don’t ask is because that you don’t want to bother or upset somebody. This means you have an idea that your ask is going to be upsetting, again the teacher or bothering the other students in the classroom, then you’re going to give yourself permission not to participate.

In this particular example, I remember being in college and in Psych 101. In this particular class, the teacher was talking about introducing us to Elizabeth Kuebler-Ross’s Five Common Stages of Grief.

13:29 – Weston
I’d never been introduced to that concept before. And so I was listening and taking notes. And the teacher went through the stages of denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. We had a big class. So I raised my hand and the teacher said, “yes?” And I said, I have a question.

I said, “Are you saying or suggesting that all of these five things are something that all people go through with in regards to the cycle or the participation of death?” And the teacher said, “yes.” And I said, well, couldn’t there be six stages? Couldn’t there be eight stages? Couldn’t there be three? Meaning, give me a half a second. Could we have a debate or discussion about what other stages could be involved with that. And the teacher looked at me like I was messing up his syllabus and stated, “Does anyone want to have a discussion about this?” And all the other students didn’t say a word. They didn’t say “yes,” they didn’t say “no,” but there was no desire to participate in what could have been the discussion about these five stages of grief.

14:45 – Weston
And with that, there was a part of me that felt like I had bothered the entire class by asking this question to maybe challenge this particular cycle.

Elizabeth Kuebler-Ross Interestingly enough, as only the Universe would have it, was a client of mine. She was going through her own transition out of her physical body. So I thought that was interesting to be introduced to her work as a freshman in college and then much later in life to actually have physical relationship with her.

If you are having a thought or a feeling that you’re going to be bothering or upsetting somebody, again, whether that’s consciously aware of that or subliminally or non-verbally, and especially if you’re hypersensitive, you may want to turn that down. When you put forth an ask, you don’t want to think that you’re bothering or upsetting anybody.

You may have a belief that your asking is competitive in nature or in conflict.Let me give you this example. If I’m asking for, let’s say a raise and there are other people in the company wanting raises, too. If I hold a thought or a belief, that if I take this raise there won’t be money for others… then my asking is going to be competitive in nature. This is going to directly impact your asking.

16:18 – Weston
If that’s the truth, meaning if I have that thought, then there’s going to be the concept that my asking is something I shouldn’t do because it’s not necessarily for the benefit of everybody. It’s very interesting because that choice, that thought, that when we ask, and to think that it is competitive in nature or is in conflict with anything else is something very interesting.

Now, there are things that we’ll talk about increased our connection in making sure that our asks are in line with the Universe. But you’ll find that your asking is not competitive with someone else’s ask. If we’re taught that, then it becomes another reason why we can’t ask for that particular thing. Now, for the next item in our 10 reasons why you can’t ask for what you want is by far the hugest one on the table, and that is that you’re afraid that you won’t get it.

You’re afraid you won’t get it.17:22 – Weston
If we don’t ask, then we don’t have to be afraid about being disappointed, right? That goes hand in hand. Again, this conditioning make go back to being a child, wondering if we ask for something, at that point being told “no” often enough, that at one point, we just stop asking. This summary which is no longer having a desire to ask.

Now, that’s very, very deep.

And that takes us into a whole series of negative thoughts in terms of our manifestation. It is very, very, very important to see that sometimes people can actually drown or go into states of depression, or states of severe separation in not asking… because of a fear or a feeling that they won’t be able to receive the thing that they’ve been asking for. If you’ve been conditioned not to ask, then you don’t. As an example, the like coming to the dinner table maybe at Thanksgiving, when we have the whole family there. Perhaps, there are guests of political importance, this could include our own family members.

You’ve been conditioned not to ask.18:30 – Weston
So, if you’re a child sitting at the table with important people maybe you’ve been conditioned – very specifically by mom, dad, or other people being told not to ask a question – or not to even engage in conversation. When that becomes a reality then this pattern might continue for the rest for your life.

Thinking that there are conditions or places that we can ask is severely limiting. This may be at the dinner table, or maybe in the boardroom, or maybe with our boss, or maybe even going to the ballpark and asking for something to eat, because you’ve been conditioned not to ask.

These things seem to be simple, but they actually add up to severe states of separation that create a division or a state of separation within us that prevents us from being able to create anything that we actually want to manifest. Now, this last thing is, of course, the more general topic that we’re afraid to ask, period, because maybe we’re going to be harmed or hurt if we ask.

If you ask you’re afraid you’ll be threatened or hurt.19:46 – Weston
Now, that’s a biggie, too, because there’s lots of people that have been conditioned through older siblings, if they go to ask, that they’re actually going to be threatened or hurt. This hurt could be emotional, certainly it can be physical. If there has been projected fear towards you that you’re choosing to ask creates a feeling that you are to be afraid, then that really takes us again, on a very negative downward spiral in places that we really don’t want to go.

In summary, this concludes our 10 reasons why you can’t ask for what you want.

But I promised you something very special at the end because I think it’s very important not to necessarily get stuck with all the reasons why you can’t ask, but maybe we can shift our paradigm, to having a quick understanding of actually how the Universe works when we ask.

A quick glimpse of how the Universe works when you’re asking.I think this is so important because if we know how the Universe works based our asking – and understanding how the Universe is actually conditioned upon us asking – then we now know the importance of asking in itself. If we don’t ask, if we don’t put forth a desire, then we quite literally limit ourselves.

20:55 – Weston
We could even say it differently. If we’re not asking we are disabling ourselves from being able to participate as the Creators that we are. Every request that you make is heard and appreciated and returned to you the minute, actually the second, the microsecond that you ask for it. Now, some of you may have a challenge with that, which is exactly why we’ve gone through these hurdles. But I want you to stay with me in terms of how the Universe actually does work.

Asking is a part of how nature works. If you subscribe to; hope, faith, “I want”or even belief –lovingly, some of that works. But there’s a completely different space to appreciate. When you realize that every request made by you is heard, appreciated, and returned to you the minute or even the microsecond that you asked for it, it’s different when you know. There’s a vibration in knowing your asking is outside of any thought of resistance. This is why we’ve identified these 10 points of resistance to pinpoint the places of conflict and replace it with the aspect of knowing.

22:15 – Weston
In the Minor Leagues of understanding what is being share here; you can have a belief, or a want, or have faith, or hope, in your asking but it isn’t nearly as powerful as putting forth a commanded in knowing. If you want proof to this in terms of how the Universe actually works, you see this especially when we put forth what I will call a “dramatic ask,” meaning the plane’s going down or I’m about to hit something. And then your ask becomes more than just; I hope that I don’t hit this car, or I sure would not like to skid off the freeway and cause another accident with an oncoming vehicle.

This becomes very different when we’re under a dramatic circumstance, and because of that circumstance, our ask becomes “a demand” or “even a command.” So, when we realize that the Universe works by our asking, it’s tremendously encouraged that we put forth our ask that is aligned with the Universe. Now, something to understand about that. When a person asks to win the lottery, for example, and that’s not within the person’s spiritual blueprint then that can negate the ask. I’ve created short video that I’d sure like you to go check that out.

23:36 – Weston

Most people don’t have any idea what their spiritual blueprints are. But if you become aware that as a spiritual being, you have this spiritual blueprint that you put forth, and maybe winning the lottery isn’t something that you’ve come here to create. Then asking to win the lottery becomes in conflict with what we’ll call that desire that you put forth as a soul.

When you understand that, then you can see that there’s a conflict. So if I am asking that I want to win the lottery again and again is outside of what it is I’ve actually come here to do as a spiritual being, then that would be a conflict, and we just want to see that conflict. So, when we want to ask the Universe, we want to ask the Universe cleanly. And what I mean with that is we want to be without these internal conflicts. And that’s I’ve given you these 10 reason why you can’t ask for what you want.

But if we ask in a space in absolute clarity or absolute authority, and we go further to prepare to receive the thing that we were asking for, and we remain open to receive – we can even go further to thank the Universe for the very thing that you’re asking for, even concurrent as you’re asking for it. This how to ask the Universe cleanly.

24:59 – Weston
I can’t begin to emphasize with you how important it is for you to ask and to address these reasons, these ten reasons why you can’t ask for what.

When you realize how to create and align with the Universe asking and receiving become easy. The importance of asking, knowing that there is a space within you that does know, and the vibration that goes with that knowing, and that we can put forth a dramatic ask, means we can ask cleanly without internal conflicts and with absolute authority.

In this space, we know how we can create what we want. This is why it is given to us to be the creators that we are.

We’ve discussed a lot of reasons why you couldn’t previously ask. Hopefully you don’t remember any of them. However, if there was even one reason that you could feel that you could relate to, then please go to the podcast within the transcription and look up these lists of 10 items that are presented to see if any of them does resonate as a conflict within your asking.

26:03 – Weston
And if it does, then the most important thing for you to do is give yourself permission to feel imbalance and to transcend that conditioning or even the feeling that previously created. The most important thing that you can do is to remember to ask and to ask cleanly. And when you do this, this means without any resistance to your currently having the thing that you’re asking for. And lastly, be in gratitude for the very thing that you’re asking for. Don’t wait. You can do it now. Be in gratitude for the thing that you want to ask for. There’s no reason why you can’t have anything and everything that you want when you’re asking this way.

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Hi, I’mWestonAfter providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…”

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Why God Can’t Tell Time?What time is it? What happens when time changes? How does God keep time? How does the Universe translate your timely requests and desires?

Why can’t God tell time? I can observe components of nature that are perfectly aligned and perfectly timed. Then there’s other times I wonder if God has a watch at all.

This question, why God can’t tell time?, is actually a really important one because of how it impacts our ability to receive more information.

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Episode 073 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: Why God Can’t Tell Time.

[00:51]
Why can’t God tell time? I can observe components of nature that are perfectly aligned and perfectly timed. Then there’s other times I wonder if God has a watch at all. For example, our Earth rotates at roughly 1,000 miles per hour. That’s only true if you live on the equator. If you live, say, 45 degrees up or halfway between the equator and either the North or South poles, then the rotation speed of the Earth actually slows to about 733 miles per hour. How do I know? I didn’t, that is, until I looked it up at the website called space.com, where you can check the numbers, too. But this spinning ball of ours called Earth, is actually traveling in an orbit around the sun at 66,600 miles per hour. Let’s take the 66,600 miles per hour that the Earth is moving in orbit around the sun and appreciate that the universe seems to be very exact in keeping this Earth spinning at roughly 1,000 miles per hour. So my My question is, if the universe can keep this one planet spinning and traveling with such perfect accuracy, then why can’t God tell time? I ask this because as a spiritual channel, I’ve shared dates and times, some of which seem to be esoterically and metaphysically perfectly accurate.

[02:21]
While at other times, it seems that I’ve either misrepresented the spiritual information provided to me or the Universe is broadcasting the wrong time for specific events. This question, why God can’t tell time?, is actually a really important one because of how it impacts our ability to receive more information. Let me offer you some specific examples to contemplate. Once, I was channeling in a session for a woman, and I told her that she would have twins within a very specific time frame. As soon as I finished channeling, the woman started to laugh. I asked, Why are you laughing? She said, “…I’m not even dating. So, how in the world am I going to have twins in the time frame that you’ve spoken of?”

[03:11.730]
In another example, I was offering a couple’s session for two partners concurrently at the same time. The romantic pair who had called me, among other things, wondered if his drug addiction was in remission because he had just successfully completed a very long drug rehabilitation program. I channeled the answer, “No. You’ll actually be dead in about three months. I added.”

[03:38.820]
Let’s be clear, I don’t share this channeled information lightly without being very, very clear. I’m called what you might reference as a clear channel. This means I will share whatever based upon you, the participant’s desire to have this information shared. This means any and all information. But again, with one caveat, only if I have your permission.

[04:06]
I actually asked this couple, three times, “Are you sure you want to hear the truth?” Totally shocked by my answer. This once addicted spouse said, “This can’t be true. I’m doing so well, and I’ve just completed everything successfully at the rehab clinic, and I’ve been sober for X months.” I remained quiet. The man continued to talk nervously, as if to convince himself and his partner that he was indeed doing okay.

[04:39.240]
In both of the examples, it came to pass in the very exact nature in which I had channeled. The woman who wasn’t yet dating, fell in love, married, and yes, she had twins. And as I had foreseen with the couple, the woman reached out to me about six months after her partner’s death to confirm the accuracy of the timing of what I had shared.

[05:06.]
However, what do we do with the flip side of the coin?

[05:12]
In another example, I was channeling for a woman who wanted to meet her future partner. At the time, she too wasn’t dating, but she wanted to find her soulmate. I shared details about her future soulmate and how he would arrive. To be totally transparent, the time frame in which I channeled that the guy would physically show up was almost six months off. Further, when the two did meet, the man, a doctor, suddenly quit his practice and moved out of the area. The woman I had channeled for was devastated on two accounts. One, that her soulmate showed up six months late, and two, that he didn’t stay to complete what was otherwise a wonderful romantic connection. In essence, it could easily appear that either Source can’t keep time or I’m off.

[06:04]
I take what I do really seriously, and I bet when you ask for direct spiritual guidance and direction, you do too. Maybe you’ve personally tuned in and received a spiritual message with a specific time frame, only to watch the forthcoming event come and go. It can make you question your ability to tune in and receive spiritual information accurately and this result can, of course, wreck havoc on your confidence.

[06:34.680]
You may then question if you’re receiving spiritual information accurately, and you too may question yourself if you are indeed getting the right time frame when, spiritually, it’s given to you associated with the message.

[06:47]
In summary, you may question, “Why can’t God keep time?” For a laugh, you may think that the universal watch is different than the one that you wear on your wrist, and you’d really be totally right about that. Some people have even coined the phrase in God’s time. This phrase is commonly used to describe the misalignment of someone’s expected time frame compared to that of Source. The phrase, “In God’s time,” works in this circumstance, but perhaps there’s more to understand.

[07:24]
Some of what I have to say, you may find comfort knowing, while other parts of what I have to say may be not so easy to understand. If you don’t mind, let me start with the hard part first. Time isn’t real. Well, you may have heard that before, but because you’re so immersed with the concept of time, you may not really get it. You’ve been taught that everything has a beginning and an end. This is why spiritual concepts such as eternal can’t be properly processed by any mind that believes in a start and a stop.

[08:02]
Even on Earth, time isn’t real. Depending on where you are, the time is always different, isn’t it? My talking to someone in London is eight hours later than Pacific Coast time. Anyone speaking from the East Coast to the West Coast is separated by three hours. And watch this. If you’re on the Navajo Indian reservation, it’s an hour later than being at the Grand Canyon within the same state of Arizona. So if you asked Spirit, what time your daughter-in-law will have her baby, how should spirit answer the question? Should they use London time, Pacific Coast time, East Coast time, or the time in Arizona at the Grand Canyon, or the different time in Arizona on the Navajo reservation?

[08:54]
Well, to be clear, we need to go back to the part where I said that time isn’t real. This could be the reason that our asking spirit time-based questions, well, it could be difficult for them to answer, right? I want you to imagine being in these spiritual ethers where time doesn’t exist. Then you’re trying to communicate to someone incarnated on Earth when you don’t, in fact, use time as a reference point. This is a dilemma, isn’t it?

[09:24]
How can Source in the Universe be so exact with our spinning Earth, traveling through orbit and spinning on its axis? And yet we also need to have accuracy of this same kind, and we use that for such things as atomic time- which we consider to be one of the most accurate means of describing time. Again, a beginning and an end.

[09:50.140]
And when we go to ask Source something for the future in terms of forecasting a time, how can we incorporate all of this? Before we go any further, let me share with you something about atomic time. Basically, atomic time is a means of measuring time based upon atomic oscillations. Time is based on oscillations or movement. That makes sense in our seemingly ever moving dynamic. This means that we are so used to movement that we really don’t know what it is to remain still. Your senses are all geared towards movement. Same as mine are. You won’t actually see something unless it moves. This is the way that our brain is wired. There’s just too much information. If it’s not moving, we’re very likely not to see it, or better stated, we’re not actually able to pay attention.

[10:44]
What does this have to do with time? Well, let me share something super significant with you. Source isn’t moving. This is, again, why you hear words such as Creator, Source, God, Eternal, because all in all, these descriptive terms state the same thing. I’m the beginning and the end, or I’m the Alpha and the Omega.

[11:08]
Let me make this a little simpler, or it could get a little bit more complicated. You’ll tell me, let’s suppose for a moment that you’re traveling on a plane. Let’s make it easy. Say you’re traveling on a plane from Los Angeles to London. The time difference between the two locations is eight hours. Yet, the actual flying time from LA to London is eleven and a half hours. So what if we asked Source about your daughter-in-law’s due date in terms of the delivery date and time while traveling on the plane? How should Source answer your question? If you were flying from LA to London, you would have to add an hour to your watch every 1 hour and 26 minutes to be accurate with your time. But again, remember, the flying time from LA to London is 11 and a half hours.

[12:06]
This is why you’d have to reset your watch right an hour and every 26 minutes to make those adjustments as you went through the trip. It could be easily said that you’ve lost time during this flight, but then someone may say, “Well, you’re going to get the time back when you come back from London to LA, -right?” But what if you don’t fly back?

[12:29]
And again, my question is, with all of this complication or simplicity, how should Spirit answer your time-based questions? Well, as you can see, it appears to be complicated, and we can appreciate why someone would coin the adage in God’s time. But what we’re really after is clarity. Clarity in terms of time, if it’s to be presented, and clarity as to the message being received, right? You being right is often associated with time. Right or correct, spiritually, I mean.

[13:05.850]
This is my specific purpose in talking to you about why God can’t keep time. It’s because there’s a common thought that if you don’t get time correctly, then with all the other spiritual information that you might receive, it may be invalid. And that’s a problem, right? There have been many times that I’ve tuned into the stock market, and the stock market is always moving, right?

[13:29]
And I’ve asked if a stock or the market in general will move in a certain direction and by how much and when. The last part of this question incorporates time. There are times, pun intended, where I have been exceedingly accurate, and other times I wonder if I’m even close to the dartboard. I’m sharing all this because the more you come down the path of using your intuition and tuning in regularly, you’re going to hit this challenge. Even if you’re relying on a resource such as myself as the clear channel that I am, this may assist you as to why there can be changes in time frames that are shared with you. This isn’t at all a cop-out or an excuse. Like I said in the beginning, I take spiritual channeling very seriously. And as you tune in spiritually, then you will absolutely be challenged from time to time, pun intended, as you relay information for yourself or others.

[14:25]
So let me address something else that’s equally important. When asking any question at any time from any location. This means whether you’re on a train, bicycle, or even a spaceship, there’s something else to consider.

[14:42]
You’re moving. Actually, I’d like to rephrase that. You think that you’re moving. Even if you’re standing still on the equator, we know that you’re spending at the rate of about 1,000 miles per hour while traveling in orbit at 66,600 miles per hour. In this illusion of movement, any picture, any snap of a camera that you take is only going to be a fragment of the actual movement. I’m going to try and keep this part really simple. Any question that you have is going to be moving. It’s like taking a picture, just one picture, while spinning again at 1,000 miles per hour and traveling in an orbit at 66,600 miles per hour. It’s only going to give you a tiny fragment of the whole. And that’s just in this dimension.

[15:33]
Do you get it? The challenge or the dilemma? When we ask questions of Source in this perception of all this movement, then we, if we’re perfectly accurate, are only getting a fragment of the whole. So you may wonder how we can address only getting a fragment based upon these conditions. And the answer really isn’t so hard. You’re actually encouraged to ask Source lots and lots of questions.

[16:04]
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[17:04]
The reason I want to share with you this Secrets of Free Writing online course is because it really, really does help you address your questions.

[17:14]
Continuing with our podcast, Why God Can’t Tell Time. To be perfectly fair with you, in consideration of the couple that I was giving a couple’s session to, spirit could have easily just addressed that question if he was to complete rehab successfully as “no.” Source didn’t have to say to this individual that he would have another relapse and die within the three-month time frame.

[17:44]
Now, if you’re anything like me, again, you don’t share a message just like this without being absolutely sure. So I’m sharing with you what I’ve been taught spiritually for decades. I ask lots and lots and lots of questions. Here’s what I know. The more questions that you ask, the better.

[18:03]
Further, the Universe is wonderfully consistent in answering your questions. You may find slightly different changes or movements with the answers to your questions, but you’ll generally find there’s something consistent, unless something magical has changed in the playing field.

[18:22]
Let me give you another example. I was asked by a client this question, “Will I go to jail?” I answered, “Yes, definitively, period.” Months later, the same person called me for another private session, and he asks me the same question, surrounding the same event, the question being, “Will I go to jail?”

[18:45]
This time, I channeled the answer, “no.” Immediately after my channeled response, I inquired of the person I was facilitating, and I asked, “Did something change?” The person responded that a dramatic change had taken place, and the final result was that he physically wasn’t going to serve jail time. This, too, is something that you must address in getting information from Source.

[19:08]
I have offered specific scenarios of forthcoming future events, only to have that information seemingly be mistimed. In another really personal example, a close friend of mine once asked me if she had cancer again. In that case, I did offer her affirmatively that, “Yes, she did.” I gave her an exact time frame in which she had to live. But when the time frame proved to be wrong, and what I mean by that, it didn’t happen within the time frame that I had shared, I felt really disturbed that I might have miscommunicated or offered her some misinformation And certainly, I would never want to offer anybody any fear.

[19:49]
I knew that what I had heard was correct and that I had delivered it to her in the exact same way that had been given to me. But my friend was still living. So I was trying to reach out to my friend to explain what I had heard and that maybe I had heard something in there with regards to the timing. In essence, I was hoping that my spiritual sharing wasn’t creating any separation in our friendship. Or even more importantly, I wanted to convey that my spiritual channeling hopefully hadn’t set her back in any way.

[20:23]
But my friend wrote me back very lovingly, stating that the truth of what I had shared put her into a space of wanting to take action, real action, to create a different outcome than what I had forecasted. She wrote me a very heartfelt letter stating that she knew that my sharing would be difficult. But this is why she also turned often to me in such pivotal times in her life because she also knew that I would share the truth.

[20:53]
She went on in her correspondence to state that she wanted to live and that she took the channeled message that I had to her and the time frame, and she put all of her focus and energy, into changing the outcome that I had foretold. I was only too happy to be wrong, but it was only a short few months later that the timeline that I had offered, just a little bit beyond it, that she did pass. In essence, the time frame that I had channeled was used by my friend to create a different an outcome. She used it to extend her life.

[21:33]
I’ve seen it go much, much further than this. I’ve channeled information with, again, a very specific timeline to see the timeline change based upon the truth of what was shared and someone using it to their empowerment to change the future, their future, in a different way.

[21:50]
I know that you know that you have the ability to change the future, but not everything is negotiable, as not determined by me, of course, but by your own Higher Self and your Soul and the things that you want to create in this domain, this plane. Sometimes, some of the biggest life changes are made when we’re seemingly really pushed into a corner and we receive spiritual information that we might perceive to be not desired or good. But we use the information to empower ourselves to a different outcome.

[22:30]
Have you ever considered that this might be the proper meaning of in God’s time?

[22:42]
In summary, I don’t think there’s an issue with the Universe or Source in keeping balance or accurate time. Certainly, I do think there is plenty of room for you and I to continue to keep a constant ear and a vigilant in eye to what source and spirit is sharing with us. If there’s one thing and one thing only that you might glean from this podcast, and that is if you’ve ever wondered about receiving information accurately from source, then I’d suggest that you ask a lot of questions. In fact, the more questions that you ask that you’re comfortable with, the better.

[23:15]
Because the entire process is about connecting. And isn’t that connection even more important than what time it is? Specifically, practicing the process of spiritually connecting in truth and consistency. If you practice this, it will show you the way. There are times that your ego may be very excited that you were offered information that was perfectly timed. And there may be times and times when you could be offered something that is totally off.

[23:51]
Again, I totally suggest that you listen, see, and feel to what’s being shown. And I know of no better way than to ask ask lots of questions. Think of yourself being like a child who wants to know the truth. Any time-related issues will definitely sort themselves out without you having to worry about it.

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Hi, I’mWestonAfter providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…”

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Why Being a Highly Sensitive Person is a Gift?Every been bullied, attacked or teased for being too emotional or too sensitive? Certainly, this can cause withdraw and even pain like the “world is too much.”

Have you ever felt an outcast as a Highly Sensitive Person? Maybe, even the term HSP feels like you being diagnosed with a pathology. Step into the real reason that you’re here, learn more about your gifts as a sensitive, appreciate being an empath, and most of all learn what to do with your sensitivities.

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Episode 072 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: Why Being A Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) is a Gift?

[00:00:51.390] – Weston
Hi, everybody, and thank you for joining me. My name is Weston Jolly, and I want to share, as a highly sensitive person, Why You’re Being a Highly Sensitive Person is Actually a Gift.

[00:01:03.660] – Weston
Being highly sensitive enables you to see and to feel things differently, doesn’t it? You may not know it, but you have an ability as a highly sensitive to go into the depth of connection, especially with people and certainly with relationships. One of the gifts of being highly sensitive is extraordinary –which allows you to spiritually see. And a lot of people don’t know that as a highly sensitive person, your actual energy is quite healing.

[00:01:42.830] – Weston
Have you ever noticed that maybe there’s this proclivity that you’ve noticed in life where people will just tell you things that they don’t tell everybody else? These are all attributes of you being highly sensitive. It enables you to see things in ways ways that other people don’t.

[00:02:01.920] – Weston
And of course, there’s the flip side. You know what I mean! The feeling perhaps that you need to protect yourself or that maybe you’re overwhelmed by crowds or loud noises. And there may be a part of you that wants to people-please or to accommodate with others.

[00:02:24.540] – Weston
Sometimes as a highly sensitive person, there’s this need to, we hate to admit this, but to control. And what I mean is, we want to control our environments, the stimulus around us, and sometimes even people. And these are attributes, of course, of our being highly sensitive, are of course, disabling.

[00:02:44.560] – Weston
Maybe you don’t even know that you’re highly sensitive. And because of that, I put together a quiz for you to determine to what degree they are a Highly Sensitive Person. So if you go to my website here you’ll see a quiz, it in fact, determine if you’re highly sensitive. Take it, find out if you are HERE. At the end of the quiz, there’s an affirmation for you to help you to become more fully empowered, whatever level of sensitivity that you may be.

[00:03:17.310] – Weston
Today, I’m going to focus on why being a highly sensitive person is an actual gift. And since you’re highly sensitive, I’m going to be talking to you differently because, well, you are different. What I really need to say is I want you to pay special attention to all the details because, of course, you can.

[00:03:47.650] – Weston
In all honesty, as a highly sensitive person, sometimes you feel other people’s energy, don’t you? Sometimes it’s the world, sometimes it may be a spouse or it may be a brother, sister, but it doesn’t really matter whom when you can feel disconnected. And such was the day this last Saturday, meaning I was feeling, not physically low, but not necessarily myself, my True Self, by any means. I was struggling, to be really honest. Now, my partner had gone to the grocery store, and she’d come back, and she was unloading the car. In doing so, there was a woman and a little girl across the street. And evidently, the little girl and my partner caught eyes with one another. My wife went on with her unloading of food and shut the garage door after bringing the groceries in. Meaninwhile, I was inside just taking it easy, again, maybe even a little withdrawn or sullen, if you will. Then, the doorbell rang. This is maybe half an hour later after my wife got home.

[00:04:54.670] – Weston
I was walking to the door and I was thinking that the neighbor must be there because sometimes he comes next door and just says, he wants to borrow a garbage container or something. Anyway, I’m walking to the front door, then I hear this loud knocking. I thought, wow, he’s really impatient today! So I’m walking faster but I can’t see anybody. Our front door is actually half glass, an obscure glass from the waist up. And I couldn’t see a person. So I thought, It must be a child. And because of that, my mind went to the idea this must be somebody soliciting.

[00:05:26.540] – Weston
You know a little girl who is soliciting or a little boy. Sure enough, as I opened the door, there stands before me this little girl of four years old. Mom is standing about 20 feet back on the sidewalk, and already she’s visibly uncomfortable. The little girl said, “What’s your name?” I, of course, offered my name. And in that moment, I could feel something was taking place. Now, if I get emotional in sharing this, it’s only because it’s something that meant a great deal to me. I thought it might mean a great deal to you, too, and this is why I wanted to share it.

[00:05:59.140] – Weston
Stella is standing before us, and her mom intervenes and saying, “This is my daughter and she insisted on knocking on your door. And She does that from time to time.” You could tell that mom was uncomfortable and trying to make excuses for her daughter for her actions. I heard her, I could feel her, meaning the little girl’s mom and her discomfort. But I also recognize something special right before me.

[00:06:24.210] – Weston
Stella is not as tall as my belt line, and she’s already telling me about herself. By this time, my and her wife had come up, and she also introduced herself. They were talking for a moment, and we were all talking, conversing, with this little girl Stella and also her mom. Again, mom was trying to give us excuses of why this is a very uncomfortable for her, that from time to time saying, “Stella absolutely insists that shea has to knock on some people’s houses.” I said, “This is normal for us.”

[00:06:52.800] – Weston
Stella’s Mom looked at us strangely because we said, “Well, we have a son who’s now, of course, grown that used to do this as well. He used to knock on other people’s houses, and he knew everybody in the neighborhood. We know this because we would drive in the car with our son, and people would wave at him, and they would wave in a way that we could tell that he knew them, and they knew who he was. And so we would ask, “How did you know Mr. So-and-so?” And he said, “Well, they invited me in for cookies, or they have a dog named Peter,” or whatever these details were. And I said, Well, how did you know that? He said, Well, I knocked on her door.

[00:07:23.170] – Weston
So let’s get back to Stella, having knocked on her door for the first time as our little meeting was about to finis. Stella began to walk away, just abruptly as she had walked up. And then suddenly she did a U-turn, 180 degrees, and came back and literally hugged my leg. I needed that. I really needed that. Because sometimes as a highly sensitive person, you don’t know or you have a feeling that you’re alone and or people don’t understand you. Here Stella is with her mom, with the mentorship of her mom offering conditioning her little girl as what’s right and what’s not right in terms of door-to-door etiquette.

[00:08:05.890] – Weston
She knocked on our door, feeling the energy of this household, wanting to say “hello,” wanting to create contact, wanting to express herself in the way that she did. And of course, I got down to my knees and I hugged her back. I had to. And still walked off and I was touched. I was floored in the idea that this is how it’s done. A remembrance, if you will.

[00:08:33.290] – Weston
Perhaps as a highly sensitive person, you need to know that you touch the world in the same way. This is exactly what I wanted to bring to your attention about your choice to be highly sensitive and what a gift it is. Through your connection as a highly sensitive person, you have an ability to see things and to create things in ways that other people don’t. And you have an ability to have access to love and to truth and to what’s real and what isn’t. And there could be millions of reasons, like Stella’s mom, that would have you thinking that somehow Stella’s different or weird or that she shouldn’t be knocking on people’s houses. Maybe you have these same feelings within you. But we need to overcome these thoughts and to really address what is the truth.

[00:09:28.990] – Weston
Because you’re conditioning at one time or another, perhaps someone has given you the idea that you’re somehow crazy. And thinking of yourself maybe like the old Apple ad called, “Here’s to the Crazy Ones.” In this ad, you are introduced to the idea that you are crazy, maybe as a troublemaker. And maybe you think differently. Further, you might be a genius. And maybe you are genius enough that you are actually here as a highly sensitive person to change the world because you actually see the world differently.

[00:10:08.640] – Weston
You may still hold on to ideas that you’re somehow confused, thinking that you’re crazy. And because of that, you may have chosen some very, very standardized thoughts, which is to say that you might be quiet, withdrawn, and perhaps at times even confused. But I’m going to say something very strongly, you’re not confused! And that you need to express ,and to see, and to feel,what you do see and what you do know especially in the spiritual realm.

[00:10:40.950] – Weston
So you may ask the question, How do I function or what do I do as a highly sensitive person? I’ll give you the answer right up front, which is, you’ve got to express yourself.

[00:10:52.250] – Weston
I want you to think of Stella, 4-year-old Stella, who insisted, even with her mom’s discomfort, that she had to knock on our door to connect with us in a household of sensitive people, to share this love, to share this connection that is indeed spiritual, that can’t be missed.

[00:11:11.940] – Weston
Any time that you participate in that energy of your own regard, it’s going to feel breathtaking. In fact, as a highly sensitive person that you are, your going to feeling a lot of emotions. Oftentimes, in this world, there’s this idea that we’re supposed to be emotionless, as if that’s something that’s a desired attribute. And perhaps you’ve shut yourself down or you’ve tried to quiet within yourself. You don’t want that, because these emotions are actually taking you someplace. They enable you to, again, feel things, to get in touch with things that are indeed very spiritual in nature. And we need to let go of the idea that we’re here to try and fit in or to be anything less than who we are you are, to know that this is something that you have come with as a gift.

[00:12:16.650] – Weston
You really want to honor it because it means that these emotions that we were talking about just a moment ago are assets. They’re assets in feeling the human spirit, the soul, and the essence of truth. This is what makes you feel different. But you’ve got to be safe enough to be able to express this truth boldly, don’t you? We need to do that without excuse. Anytime that you have chosen to avoid truth, or even spiritual truth, as a highly sensitive person, you may feel like some part of you is being chipped away at, maybe like a block of ice where there’s a hammer and big chunk comes out of you because you didn’t express. We need to realize that there’s a tremendous cost in being a highly sensitive person by not expressing ourselves. So, giving ourselves permission to express actually fuels our connection. And the opposite is true when we don’t, it costs us; psychologically, spiritually, and of course, it’s going to drain you. And I’m sure you’ve experienced that, where you have felt drained, and of course, ultimately, that can create health issues.

[00:13:29.980] – Weston
So, as a highly sensitive person, you must remove the conditioning to be quiet or to hide it or to obscure yourself from any confrontation. That’s not what we’re here to do. We’re here to connect, and we don’t want to compromise that. And how could you? Meaning, how could you withdraw yourself from the very thing that you come here to do? This is just allowing yourself to be who you really are, which is something that connects you to Source.

[00:14:00.030] – Weston
Of course, because of this, you must see yourself for what you are, that you have an ability to connect in this way, you become a lens, if you will, or conduit, sometimes a medium. We could even use the word “channel,” couldn’t we? For you to share with others what it is that you see, what it is that you feel. And this gives you extraordinary skills in terms of being maybe a therapist or someone who is a spiritually in tune or a creator, an inventor. It oftentimes gives you the ability to see through the mire or the silliness or even the heaviness of this world. Sometimes in management or even in business, you can see through things because you just have that ability or the sensitivity which allows you to do that.

[00:14:49.580] – Weston
I remember one man who was actually a metal worker, and he was so in tune with his choice to work with that modality that he would literally talk, as in communicate to the object that he was working on. Now, you may think that he’s a goofy machinist out in the shop, but he was actually a nuclear engineer. I share this with you because he’s not necessarily the common person doing some idle work in the shop. And, he’s certainly not crazy. No, he’s actually tuning in to that degree. And I want you to understand that does represent you, that your ability as a highly sensitive person puts you in a position to be a metaphysical scientist, if you will, or certainly one that can integrate with ingredients in the same way that a chef might or certainly an artist might, where we bring these ingredients to the table and we’re conveying something that’s outside of this realm. Think Picasso, think Da Vinci. That there’s some part of them that had a sensitivity that enabled them to bring into this world something that they saw, something that they felt. Mozart as well.

[00:16:11.300] – Weston
The beauty to communicate on levels that some people don’t see even when they construct it, whether it’s a symphony or an artistic expression, or even in the depth of a conversation such as this. I do want you to understand that this whole world is a very, very simple place, and sometimes you could think of it as barbaric or very uncomfortable, to the point, perhaps you, at times, maybe even given consideration of not wanting to be here. You may wonder what your spiritual purpose is.

[00:16:48.980] – Weston
But I’m wanting to communicate with you very directly that your choice to see yourself as a highly sensitive person is, of course, a doorway. And there’s much more. Even in preparation of this podcast, I was actually shocked to find out to what degree I am sensitive. Meaning you take these things for granted in the same way that I have. But we don’t want to do that. We want to go beyond that. This is why we want to see things and share those things with the rest of the world that we do share and have access to, spiritually, for sure, so that we can communicate this spiritual understanding, not necessarily just for the sake of vanity or for the sake of teaching or to to complete a course per se, but to really honor the fact that we’re creating an image of What Is.

[00:17:38.740] – Weston
When I say image, I want you to realize that we all are creators, and being highly sensitive enables you to have a very detailed understanding of those things that you have access to seeing. And as such, when you choose to express, the things you offer to the world is an insight to the beauty, spiritually, creatively, intellectually, again, through innovation that others haven’t or don’t have access to. And of course, you make contribution to the world in ways that maybe you don’t even understand that you do.

[00:18:12.570] – Weston
When you feel enormously emotional because of anything that might be described as brutal or barbaric, you don’t need to question if you’re okay. You don’t need to freak out because you may be unduly sensitive to cloth, clothing, the coarseness of conversation, the harshness of, sometimes even masculinity. And what I mean by that is the energy that people have to be very gruff or bullying or taking of energy. And as a sensitive, you can feel these things. And sometimes, perhaps in your choice to be dis empowered, you have been taken advantage of in that way. This is something we need to flip by choosing to express yourself because you’re truly empowered.

[00:19:02.310] – Weston
So you may be asking yourself as a highly sensitive person, what natural gifts do you have? And of course, they are, as I’ve been sharing, to create, to inspire, and to touch people in ways that you don’t even know that it’s possible. And again, through healing, through spiritual awareness, through teaching, through, again, a portal to the other side. How is it that someone can have access to an animal or a person or a situation that goes outside of explanation?

[00:19:35.390] – Weston
As a personal example, I was offering a personal session in San Francisco, and the woman that sitting with me for an in-person session had asked to bring her younger son, who was autistic. He played nicely on the floor while I was talking to his mother. Then I asked in the middle of our session if it would be all right if his son would sit in my lap. And she looked at me very startled because, well, two things. One, he didn’t like touch. And two, he wasn’t necessarily fond of the masculine energy. These things were shared by mom to me very immediately. But her son was already up and walking my direction.

[00:20:10.650] – Weston
And the mom was staring, watching this in a state of shock as her son came over and sat on my lap. In one way, like I was Santa Claus, meaning he just literally sat on my knee. I held him and I put my hand on his back, and he didn’t say anything, but I actually channeled in his behalf to his mom who cried the entire time because she thought that she was witnessing a miracle. I’m sharing with you that her son was indeed highly sensitive, and unfortunately, perhaps even labeled with this categorization of autistic, which may or may not be true, but clearly sensitive.

[00:20:48.960] – Weston
And as one sensitive to another, we recognized one another, and so therefore, he felt no discomfort for him touching my hand or sitting on my lap in the same way he could feel me sitting on my knee, which was a a very casual occurrence …But it was very, very, very unique his allowing me to allow touch. It wasn’t that big a deal to me. But then again, it was. Because there’s a depth of having an understanding that someone actually knows you. To share that, as Stella shared that with me and my family, and certainly as that young man had the opportunity to share that with me in the way that I was sharing with him, is something that you do.

[00:21:31.330] – Weston
This is indeed part of your gift. And when you understand that, if things do feel harsh or confusing or sometimes even brutal, you’re not here to trying and engage in that brutality. And being quiet or withdrawn or very much internal, what I mean by that is sometimes even intellectually withdrawn, doesn’t necessarily take you in the direction that you want to go. Perhaps you can give yourself permission to see your highly sensitive nature in a way that is done through gratitude, and that you can be really thankful for being highly sensitive.

[00:22:16.750] – Weston
I can actually cry just at the idea that Stella had the awareness, spiritually, to come into our house, knock on our door, not to intrude, but to share with us her gift of sensitivity. And to share her love, even though that her mom was physically uncomfortable. Further, I know that as a highly sensitive person, you may have stories like Stella’s mom. I have one that I want to share with you.

[00:22:47.650] – Weston
My mom had had a stroke, and so I flew up to Boise to support her. In doing so, I had walked into her room. Mom had just been taken out of intensive care, and there was a nurse standing there.

[00:22:58.680] – Weston
It was clear to me that this nurse had been helping her. Without any real introduction, I walked up to the nurse and I hugged her. And I say, I hugged her, I hugged her, hugged her. My mom sat in her, shall we say, newly formed body as a result of the stroke. Holding onto the wheelchair in almost like a witch-like fashion. And she said, “That’s my son. He hugs everybody.” As if my love, my sensitivity, and my connection needed to be ridiculed.

[00:23:37.790] – Weston
Clearly, it was something that my mom was embarrassed of, that she didn’t know what to do with. She didn’t have this depth of connection, spiritually, physically, and certainly through the highly sensitive attributes of her son. And yet, if you have such a story, it’s important for you to realize that that’s not really you. We don’t need to be confused by your moms or dads or even people in society who have tried to take energy from you in that way. We need to be aware that as a highly sensitive person, you are indeed enormously strong, and that you don’t need to question yourself in the idea that you are crazy or maybe something’s wrong with you.

[00:24:16.260] – Weston
You are indeed different. I told you that in the very beginning. You’re infinitely different. We want to engage in that difference and honor the fact that as you express yourself, you’re going to feel good, great, phenomenal, especially in the spiritual department. Because there’s a part of you, isn’t there? That’s magnetically calling you to this simple piece of who you are. When I say simple, a desire to be connected. This is why you have a desire to connect with others in such a deep, deep way, and oftentimes, don’t find that connection. Because of that, you withdraw. But if you choose to engage by allowing yourself to be seen, whether it’s through the boldness of Stella or allowing yourself to go through or outside of the conditions that you grew up with is really, really important because we need to get away from that messy part of the past, trying to control that, control our own selves, let alone the things around us.

[00:25:13.180] – Weston
Let my message be exceedingly clear, that as a highly sensitive person, to express yourself is indeed the gift that you give to the world that literally changes it, not for the sake of anything else than you, spiritually bringing that understanding into this realm when most people can’t see it.

[00:25:30.320] – Weston
Having these gifts that you have, that our mine, as they are yours, as we share them, they truly influence and create things. They create the things that are imaged by those things that we feel, see, and know. As we share that with one another to create an inspiration, and I hope that you can feel that now, but beyond that, that you would give yourself permission to extend yourself in that honor, because that’s all it is.

[00:25:59.320] – Weston
We don’t need to think of Stella as being somehow brave at four years old is knocking somebody’s door. She’s just being who she is. If you can allow yourself to follow the simplicity of that really wonderful example, then you’re in. No longer denying your highly sensitive being, let alone potential, as you give your being side the ability to express. I know that you’re sensitive. Engage in that sensitivity in a way that allows you to feel at one and to allow anything that needs to be changed outside of that. Relationships, perhaps jobs, those things that you’ve done, even though your mind may say, “Oh my gosh, I can’t do that. I won’t be known. I won’t be appreciated.”

[00:26:43.280] – Weston
Maybe all your friends won’t know you based upon you actually reclaiming who you are. But there’s no risk. Consider yourself bold, strong, and feeling comfortable to just express who you are as a highly sensitive person and to allow all the creativity in those gifts, whether it’s writing, artistic, spiritual, therapy or innovation. These things do change the world. That’s what you have to come here to do as a highly sensitive person. The gift of all gifts. So please let me conclude truly in honor of you, the highly sensitive person.

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Unnoticed Spiritual EnergyHow aware are you of the spiritual energy around you? What kinds of things do you feel in certain spiritually rich areas such as Vortexes, Power Spots or even a Nepal Monastary?

Have you ever gone somewhere like, Hawaii, Sedona or even Nepal and felt what could only be described as spiritual energy? Sometimes called Chi, Life Force Energy or Absolute Energy there is so much in this “Unnoticed Spiritual Energy.”

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Episode 071 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: Unnoticed Spiritual Energy

[00:00:50.770] – WestonI want to thank everybody for joining me today because we have a very cool topic that I’m calling the Unnoticed Spiritual Energy All Around Us. And of course, we know that there’s energy, different kinds of energy that we interrelate with. And sometimes oftentimes we’re unaware of different facets of energy that we’re basically picking up or having observation to, perhaps on a subconscious level. So part of what I want to do today in this podcast is to talk about energy as a topic, which is fun and sometimes challenging, because putting into words how energy works for a person isn’t necessarily the same for someone else. So today, I’ve done something really exciting, and I have a very special guest, and I will call her my friend as well, because she is we have Andrea. And she’s coming in from across the pond in London, England. And I just wanted to have her join us today to have her experiences. And we’re going to have Andrea and I kind of a dialogue about energy together and about some of the things that she’s experienced and my perhaps offering some guidance or leadership to that. So please let me welcome Andrea to True Connections with Weston’s podcast.

[00:02:15.450] – AndreaHello. Weston I’m really excited to be chatting with you, as always.

[00:02:24.590] – WestonThank you, it’s absolutely my honor. And as you’ll get to feel, Andrea, she is just a treasure in terms of her passion, her inner beauty and her desire for personal growth, and especially in the spiritual realm. Andrea and I have been conversing for quite a while now in terms of having sessions. And I know, oftentimes, that you have asked or presented questions around energy. And again, like, we just got through talking. I thought it would be really fun for us to just have a dialogue – kind of inclusive of some of the places that you’ve been, because most people may or may not experience in this lifetime the kinds of experiences that you have. And I’m going to let you just share a little bit about maybe your interest in terms of travel and that kind of thing for the moment. And then we’ll kind of sachet into how you have felt in different aspects of some of your travels.

[00:03:29.010] – AndreaSure, you know I think it’s a really interesting topic that you bring up because I get to talk with you about something that I also have found pretty interesting about the past few years. And it’s not something I’ve really spoken about that much. So, I’d say I definitely grew up traveling a lot with my parents. I’m Indonesian. And I’m American. It’s always been a big part of our family and the way we’ve connected with one another. But after those initial travels when I was young, there was a long period where I didn’t really feel like I had the energy to travel. And that was really strange for me because that was such a big identifier for me and for my family until the past few years, where I started realizing that if I traveled with a spiritual purpose, some sort of broader intention for me, with my own spiritual journey, I started to engage with places in a new way. And instead of being exhausted, I started to find myself being rejuvenated and excited about the interactions I’d have with the place I’d visit, which was really exciting, and cool, because all of a sudden, I became a lot more energized as a person, which is something I’ve struggled with a lot in my life.

[00:04:52.110] – WestonCan you talk about that a little bit in terms of is it like that you struggled managing energy or you spoke just briefly just a second ago about feeling drained?

[00:05:04.930] – AndreaYes. So everything seemed normal until basically, I think I hit burnout, and I became incredibly, painfully aware — of how burnt out I was. And once that happened, it was like I couldn’t shake the burnout from my body. And I experienced this long and incredibly frustrating stagnation, which I experienced as what I thought was parasites, and I would wake up really late in the day.

[00:05:42.590] – WestonYou physically thought you had something, not that you couldn’t, but you thought something physically was going on.

[00:05:48.750] – AndreaTotally… For, like, five years.

[00:05:50.850] – WestonWow….

[00:05:52.530] – AndreaAnd it was really hard to get rid of. Yeah. I had fogginess in the head. I had a lack of energy and a lack of willpower. I thought I was really lazy, but then I would have these clear moments and realize, like, oh, wow, it’s not laziness. There is something wrong.

[00:06:11.750] – WestonThat’s absolutely fascinating. I mean, fascinating in the sense that I think it’s a very common occurrence that we experience something energetically. And almost always, I’ll speak of myself for half a second, that we think that something’s wrong with us. So as a child, perhaps similar to you, Andrea, I’ve always had an acute sensitivity. Especially when we speak of the term of energy, meaning I can feel the energy of a room, a person, a dog, a cat, a football game. I mean, everyone can, but there are definitely people who tend to feel it more. And when we’re taking in energy and we don’t know how, and I’m putting that kind of in “air quotes” here because we do not know what we’re doing, which is not true. We just haven’t remembered what we’re doing. That’s the purpose of what we’re doing here today, is to bring that understanding to a conscious level. So, number one, that you’re not thinking that something’s wrong with you as much as perhaps you’re wanting to integrate further. And if I may speak boldly, Andrea, just in terms of some of our experience together, there was a time that I witnessed or observed that, energetically speaking, that you would be a chameleon… Meaning you would adjust your energy to the room or to the environment of the people with an intention to fit in.

[00:07:38.770] – WestonAnd I think that’s, again, extremely common back to my own self. It’s something I emphatically did. I didn’t know that I was doing it, meaning I wasn’t conscious I was doing it, but I did it, of course, to be a part of the family or to be part of the group of friends that I wanted to be a part of. And sometimes we develop a habit of that that becomes unconscious to the point that we’re not balanced. Meaning, I’m trying so hard to match the energy of other people, but I’m not necessarily being, shall we say, in truth, for myself. I didn’t mean to dominate here, Andrea. So please let me have you continue.

[00:08:14.210] – AndreaNo, not at all. It’s helpful to hear you say that, because as you’re saying that, I’m also processing. Yes, totally. I can almost feel it in my body, the way that I’ve matched these different places and times in my life. So much so that when I found myself, for example, at a monastery that rise in energy level, what was amazing was finding that I could match that and that I hadn’t been on a day to day holding that energy just because I didn’t see it reflected back to myself.

[00:08:42.070] – WestonWell, describe that for us further. When you say match it, number one, what did you feel when you walked into the monastery and perhaps you can give us an idea where this monastery was?

[00:08:52.170] – AndreaSure. So I was in Nepal, at a Tibetan monastery that’s near you can see the Himalayas. It is an exquisite place, and I felt incredibly happy.

[00:09:05.950] – WestonI can feel it just talking to you. I’m sorry for so it’s okay if I get a little bit. emotional –it’s just how it works.

[00:09:19.090] – AndreaTotally. I’ve recently took photos on this little disposable camera. I put some of those photos on my wall. It was such a meaningful trip for me. They’re now, like, in my living room wall, and I can see the faces of some of these young monks who I met. They had such an impact on me. But I can share. When I first arrived there, I was with a group of three other women. They were in the middle of what they called a fire puja. And the puja, honestly, I can’t tell you what the direct translation is, but it’s like a prayer ritual where they all come together and do the chant, mantra. And the fire puja was outside, because there was a big fire, that they were attending. So we arrived in the middle of where they’re already doing this chant and sat down and these tiny little monks from like, the age of five and six all the way up to adult monks, were sitting outside and they’re just really starting…

[00:10:25.590] – WestonThat’s interesting itself because most people, when I think of monks stereotypically, I think of someone who’s of age of 30 something. I don’t know what the age would be. So that’s interesting. But these are very tiny souls, individuals or children who are participating in this. Is that correct?

[00:10:44.350] – AndreaAbsolutely. Yeah. It’s astonishing to see because the other thing that I had forgotten, I have had the great pleasure of being around monks, Tibetan monks, all my life, but what I’d forgotten is what I found when you’re around a Tibetan monk. So, it’s like these young monks who are five or six, they also have this incredible groundedness. They feel like the earth somehow to me.

[00:11:13.350] – WestonYeah.

[00:11:15.450] – AndreaAnd they have and what I was seeing in this ritual, an incredible devotion at such a young age. Yeah. So, anyway, so we walk up to they’re all sat in rows, looking forward to the person who’s leading it. We walk up to the side and we sit down and they come and kind of help us make us feel comfortable. And as I’m sitting down, taking in the scene of these little, little beings who are so comfortable in this spiritual work, I am really taken aback and very emotional. I think I definitely had tears in my eyes, and I didn’t know what the tears were from, to be honest, at the time. It just was all a lot. Right. Yeah. I remember sitting down and this weird thing happened. I suddenly saw my inner child in my mind’s eye.

[00:12:23.250] – WestonOkay.

[00:12:24.040] – AndreaAnd she’s not always visible to me. And usually when I do see her, it’s when I’m having a difficult emotion. Sometimes I see her kind of curled up in a ball or in the corner of a room. I picture her kind of, like, hiding from people. Interesting this time. Yeah. I see her come to me and say, “Hey, I’ve got this… I know how to do this. Let me take care. Let me take over.”

[00:12:53.230] – WestonHint. Hint. Right.

[00:12:56.030] – Andrea

Yeah. I’m like what? This is bizarre. Okay. I see her sit and cross legged within my body, and she suddenly is just moving. So they’re swaying. These little monks are swaying together as they’re chanting.

[00:13:14.970] – AndreaVery effortlessly. Right. If you can imagine all these children chanting and swaying, and she’s swaying with them, chanting as if she knows exactly what they’re saying. And I’m sitting there, I’m just lost in the sound, these vibrations from the chanting of all these people around me. And yeah, there’s definitely, definitely my whole body, it kind of released and grounded itself in a way that was definitely new.

[00:13:52.300] – WestonAndrea this is incredible. Especially, I remembrance of your childlike self and having that connection, actually even wanting permission to, shall we say, lead. And that’s why I kind of zeroed in on the age of the monks, because where you’ve taken the conversation that we can and obviously with regards to many people have access to an energy that may be predated to this life, meaning we’re actually recalling different things that take place. I’m going to describe something, but I certainly want to hear more. We want to hear more. Andrea, in terms of what you’re.

[00:14:40.920] – WestonAnd I want to be kind of specific for a know, we could be talking about healing energy, kundalini energy, sexual energy, focused energy, manifesting energy. There’s all kinds of energies that we can and do participate in. But today, in terms of kind of our focus, kind of opening up the door to this energetic topic, becoming aware, the unnoticed spiritual energy all around us, of course, is what we’re talking about. And so what we’re wanting to do is put focused attention on this energy, have everyone realize that you’re not alone, you’re not by yourself. And perhaps some of the things that are taking place here in terms of our dialogue together, Andrea and I will spur some energetic pieces within you. So let me share something. This is different, completely traditional, based upon what you just got through. But and I want to come back to your interrelationships with energy, because that discovery process in itself is very cool. And I do feel extremely emotional about this topic because it’s almost like a topic that you personally experience, and you wonder if other people experience it. And I’ve kind of likened that to going to a concert, and we’ve got people in the room, obviously the audience, and I’m a member of that audience, but for some reason, not with everybody, certainly I’m not the only one, but for some reason, I’m moved in a way that could be described as different than somebody else.

[00:16:12.140] – WestonAnd I’ve always wondered why. Meaning I’ve always wondered why I would be so touched. And I say that again with air quotes, because it’s not a physical touch, but I feel touched. My heart feels touched. I feel moved, as you were describing. I feel sometimes grounded. Sometimes I feel elevated, like I’m literally floating in this connection that can be environmental or in the presence of some person. And when that happens within me, I become very excited. I mean, I become like, maybe like you, Andre. I become much like a boy. My eyes go wide and like, oh, wow, we’re about to have some fun. And so I open up and I want to play in this kind of energy. And it’s very pure, it’s very authentic. It’s the purest of languages. And most people hopefully know this, but when people are tuning in, when I say tuning in, when they’re processing, we hear the term clairvoyance or claireaudience as a means to clearly see or to clearly hear. But clairesentience, which is our ability to feel clearly, is something that is our strongest gift by far. But interestingly enough, and I say our, I’m speaking of literally everybody, but most people are unaware to the degrees that they’re actually receiving information via energy and this process.

[00:17:37.600] – WestonAnd some people are going to want to categorize it. In terms of a physical feeling that my skin got hot or my skin got cold, which it can happen, but it doesn’t have to. It doesn’t have to originate in that kind of way. And this is why perhaps even the language today that Audrea and I are sharing could be a little bit different, but hopefully very descriptive, to elicit the permission within you, our listeners, to really feel that within yourself and have you understand that, number one, you’re not at all alone. That these things that have been processing, perhaps within you since your earliest moments. Or perhaps there’s something that’s not true, that you’ve not experienced anything until more recently. And yet you went to a concert and you’ve been to many concerts before, and all of a sudden, you felt moved in a way that you’ve never been moved before. Anyway, I just wanted to share that that connection that we have with energy can evoke all kinds of different things. Emotions within me as a person oftentimes tears, but not because I’m sad, but just because I feel ecstatic. It’s a complete and utter joy to be in this energetic presence.

[00:18:46.270] – WestonAnd I don’t know how even to describe that from my body. My body wants to just weep, enjoy that we’re here or that we’re in the presence of something that’s sometimes we use the terms magical or that beautiful, and again, emanating from our own selves or receiving that in any way. So, Andrea, please continue with your dialogue. I didn’t mean to interrupt.

[00:19:09.520] – AndreaNo, not at all. And are you saying when you’re saying you are feeling moved by being in the presence of something magical, are you talking about we’re back in the scene of being at the monastery?

[00:19:20.180] – WestonYes, because I haven’t been to a monastery. But I have many, many times with you, Andrea. And I know that you know this. And I’m not trying to live through you, but I can feel you and your connection to an energy of a given person or a given situation, I guess that’s me channeling, if you want to call it that. But it’s beyond empathy. It’s a total oneness. And I can basically, as if you gave me your body, I can feel you. And then suddenly my body, which is yours, wants to have all its different reactions. And of course, I’m giving it permission to do that so that I can really have we’ll call a perfect understanding of what you, in this case, is going through. And I do that with other people, of course. But there is a connection that sometimes we have with individuals that can be higher than other people. And I say higher, just like we would have friends or close acquaintances that we would maybe we use the term favor, but not necessarily in an egotistical way, but there’s just a connected way.

[00:20:33.980] – WestonSometimes these relationships that we have with one another are again beyond this realm. So when we come into one another’s presence again, sometimes this energetic exchange is just out of a remembrance. Hey, do you remember this energy and what you were just describing and feeling you, Andrea, and feeling the little girl in you, tapping into the kids, even in the swaying, I can just picture that perfectly. You start to sway as well. It’s something that is, of course, very real, and I’m saying real in the physical realm for anyone who needs that, but ultimately it’s real beyond that. And so what I’m really wanting to give, shall we say, open invitation to is to extend yourself into energies that perhaps you’ve been exposed to your whole life, but you’ve not necessarily picked up on it or become aware. Of it, or shall we say, just kicked open the door to how energies can be processed that aren’t harsh or bad, they’re just beautiful energies. And perhaps the most defined of reflections of things that you’re trying to show yourself in this lifetime in terms of bringing yourself up to a state of awareness and of course, to a choice to express.

[00:21:51.540] – WestonAndrea, I definitely overstepped here. I want you to go back to the monastery and tell us what else happened because I think we’re all dying to hear what happens next.

[00:21:59.720] – AndreaOkay? I also just wanted to mention as we’re tuning into the scene and as Weston’s talking about some of this amazing, incredible, miracle kind of experiences, I find myself having to close my eyes, which I just wanted to mention is one way sometimes I find myself learning how to integrate or feel energy. Sometimes I feel like I get flooded by something. Again, we’re talking about trying to find language for things that are difficult. Right? But one thing I notice is when I’m flooded by a certain energy, I find myself closing my eyes because it feels good, helps me focus, maybe. What is that about?

[00:22:43.860] – WestonIt’s totally that focus, attention. Sometimes people who are clairvoyant also will close their eyes to prevent the physical eye from distracting from what they’re seeing artistically. Someone may choose to not look at something physical in the room. So let’s say that Andrea, for example, you were a model and you were sitting in front of the room and I was an art student, and I’m going to draw you sitting in a chair. That’s very typical in a standard art room. But there’s another way of doing it. We can take a picture of Andrea and draw that. Or we can literally close our eyes, literally, and picture the chair, picture of Andrea sitting in the chair. So turning off a physical sense is a very common ways to give further attention to what it is that you’re perceiving now. I think that’s wonderful and I would encourage everyone to do that. And there’s no rules, right? So I don’t want anyone thinking that what I’m about to share is a rule.

[00:24:00.280] – WestonHowever, I will stretch you that as you get more practiced, you can keep your eyes open, whether that’s a clairvoyant imagery that you can process that while physically seeing and energy, you can do the same thing. A lot of people do shut their eyes to process what they’re sensing. If I use that term that goes outside the physical senses. So that’s great. But if you can practice again, maybe just kind of turning it on and off in terms of opening up your eyes. And sometimes people go into a very still state, like a meditative state, where we would sit and focus very solemnly in an energy to basically feel it in the way that we do. Fine, but it doesn’t have to be done that way. We could be at a rave where there’s a lot of movement going on within our own bodies, and yet we don’t have to be still or with our eyes shut to perceive that. And again, I’m not necessarily talking about just the physical pieces. So I would have everyone experiment with closing your eyes, if that helps. By all means do it. And then at the same time, give yourself the opportunity to realize that you can go beyond that and don’t let the physical, should we say, interrupt what you’re processing on a spiritual level. That would be my biggest encouragement.

[00:25:29.020] – AndreaThank you. Interesting. Okay, I’m taking it back to the Monistary where I’m sitting at this fire puja and I’m just astounded at all these little beings who are displaying such mastery to me of prayerful, devotional, act in something that I’m desperately trying to learn. And I just see these tiny little seven year olds who are just so naturally in their flow with it and just totally mesmerized and gassed, really. And so there’s this thing going on with my inner child, just like playing with the energy. And later when my mind is trying to make sense of it all, what I realize is that it feels like suddenly, almost for the first time, that kind of shock feel that I’m in an environment where I’m allowed to be the devotional being that I am.

[00:26:28.860] – WestonOh, wow. That’s so significant for you to say that. Sorry for getting excited, but I just go ahead.

[00:26:37.330] – AndreaNo, I know. I just felt so incredible and I was like, what is going on? Why? What has changed? What has changed? Not much. I’m not doing anything differently. Besides, I’m here, but there’s just this. I was there for a week, and it felt like the people I met and was around, it’s not like we’re talking don’t speak English with me, but suddenly there’s this frequency or something. That’s the word I’m using for it that’s all around, that makes me feel like I can bring out parts of myself that I’ve been hiding and that I didn’t know I was hiding. And suddenly it feels so good to show them and to bring them out on a daily basis on multiple times a day that I’m in prayer and to really devote myself to this. I mean, I’m still trying to figure out what that is exactly for myself. But suddenly there’s this part of me that just feels so good to exercise and to practice and to be around these others who are vibrating at this level. And, yeah, I didn’t even come to this place on my own volition. I mean, I chose to agree to go, but I didn’t choose this destination.

[00:28:10.340] – AndreaI just happened to be on a pilgrimage with a woman friend who had put together this little what do you call it? Like an itinerary. And I said “yes” to the itinerary. I said “yes” to her. I said “yes” to my intuition saying yes to her. But I did not plan on coming to this monastery, and I haven’t been totally aware of my own connection with Tibetan Buddhism or Buddhism in itself. And here I am, suddenly just finding this massive piece of myself in this unexpected way. A massive unexpected way.

[00:28:50.480] – WestonI’m so glad you said what you shared, because, number one, there’s something to really emphasize Andrea for yourself and for the benefit of everybody else as well. And that is, I hope everyone heard it. She said “yes” how many times? Like five times? To the itinerary, to the opportunity. Yes to life. I mean, all of this is yes to the flow, right? The universal flow to the energy. So when we are saying yes or asking, which is the same thing as saying yes, we are participating. And I want to share that, because that’s how and I’m putting that in air quotes as well, how we access certain kinds of energies. So I will share or reflect that this is not even close to accidental, but divine in nature, where there’s some part of Andrea that has wanted to tap into this very specific kind of energy in this exact kind. Of way as a means to reflect back some things, to help her understand herself personally and to perhaps learn how to engage in this kind of energy unless you learn that receiving of it and of course, expressing it meaning or offering that energy.

[00:30:00.600] – WestonAnd that’s why I talked about the different kinds of energy in terms of healing energy, kundalini, sexual focus, energy of duality when I say that think male energy versus female energy. But this is different. Meaning this is a category all by itself in terms of we’re really just becoming aware in the most general sense. But then we’re going to dive down into some very specific things of the energies that are around us that are not just kind of clues, they’re significant clues as we would leave ourself a hint in the next life of a state of remembrance. That’s what we do oftentimes with energetic experiences that will create an experience with an intention to say hey, do you remember this part of who you are? And you Andrea, saying yes to that part is very beautiful. And of course, as everyone knows, Andrea is an adult. And I will definitely share with hopefully your comfort, Andrea, that as you continue to mature as an adult that you are, that that part of you may not become anything less than what it is. Even more significant, meaning the little girl, the childlike pieces, the innocence that continues to be fostered even though you are choosing to mature from a physical perspective.

[00:31:29.020] – WestonAnd this is something really to be said. And this kind of energy, by the way, tapping into just a general energy like that of nature has an energy. We speak of the Earth having a tone. And Andrea used the term frequency, which is very interesting because of course all energies does have a frequency and most people don’t know that energies don’t ever stop. And most people think of it an energy like putting gas in the tank and that energizes the car to be able to drive down the road. Energy, it’s a transference. It’s something that’s always in flow from one form to another. And it’s not something that we can stop or categorize we do in science because it helps the intellectual mind to understand or appreciate how electricity flows. But the reality is it’s always going, it’s always in the flow. And I’m using electricity as a little bit of analogy because it’s all around us. But think of ourselves as humankind. We didn’t know that once upon a time that we didn’t have any concept of energy, number one, and let alone electricity. And yet it’s around us. Even if we didn’t have power stations to make electricy, that we use when we put a plug into the wall with, et cetera, et cetera, it’s always been here.

[00:32:52.340] – WestonNow, that’s part of what we want to get back in touch with because the more that we choose to engage in that kind of awareness, it definitely takes its places. So I’m underlining Andrea’s passion for life, which is totally Andrea to say yes to the invitations of the universe and yes to her own higher self, to perhaps an invitation that maybe she didn’t even know that was going on until she got there. Thank you for sharing that.

[00:33:21.720] – AndreaYeah, and I guess for some reason I feel like sharing this part know. Initially, the reason why I went to Nepal is because I was very aware that one thing that I had been missing in my life is grounding. And of all the places that I felt called to go on the Earth, the Himalayas were something that had always just been so majestic and so just beyond comprehension and fascinating. And there was an attraction there, basically. So when I look at it now, I definitely feel like I was being called by the Himalayas because I wanted to learn from them how to ground myself.

[00:34:15.560] – WestonAbsolutely fascinating. To me.

[00:34:19.980] – AndreaWhat I think is funny is that at that time and I think when I look back at this whole journey in my interrelation with different places and learning how to feel energies locally, wherever I am is that in the beginning, when I’m still building sensitivity to feel. It felt like first I had to go to the things that were what I felt to be the strongest energy givers so that I could begin to feel little. And I think it’s funny to me that I went to the Himalayas because, wow, for me, those are just such a giant, energetic stronghold of the Earth. I had to go all the way over there just to begin to be like, this is real. There is energy here, and it is teaching me something.

[00:35:05.880] – WestonWell, I think that’s incredibly insightful. Meaning we have given scores of retreats in Hawaii as an energy hub, if I could use that term. And I’ve always been very transparent about that. And also in Sedona, many times have we given retreats there as well, because it’s a portal of energy. Again, a different kind. When I say different kind, different kind in Hawaii versus Sedona. And while I’ve never been to the Himalayas, interestingly enough, and I’m not a hiker, meaning I’m not a mountain climber. I do hike, but know, without ropes or Mount Everest or anything like that. But I’ve always been fascinated by that area, and I’ve watched and read countless books on mountaineering. And I’m just wondering now, kind of out loud with you, Andrea, that I’m wondering if that has to do with what you’re talking about, that I’m drawn to the mountain and not necessarily the climbers experience as much as the mountain. And I actually feel emotional about that and then speaking to you or kind of tapping into that, because I didn’t realize that until this moment that there is something very profound, and I’m an air sign by my astrological birth, and I, too, have to have grounding.

[00:36:28.120] – WestonMeaning if I’m not grounded, I am really imbalanced as a person, and we’re talking about energy, right? So if I’m in an environmental space that is really airy, it’s very fun for me. I mean, I get very excited about that. But then if I’m not properly grounded and once since I get in trouble, I feel my body feel really I want to describe it like I’m getting sick. And that’s not true, but it feels really uncomfortable. And not everybody has this or has this problem or this issue or the sensitivity, but when I ground it’s, like, oh, yes, I feel complete. And that’s part of the duality that I’m taking the airness within me or the ability to tap into that to ground. So going to a place like the Himalayas, Andrea, and experiencing that firsthand, maybe that’s why I’m emotional, just tapping into you again, thinking about you being there. I just feel that, and it just feels how do you describe it? I want to use the words at home. It just feels like at home, that there’s just an energetic balance there that perhaps isn’t it’s everywhere in the world, why we can create that anywhere we want.

[00:37:41.670] – WestonBut there may be. There are, and we know that there are. That you going to one of the strongest places on Earth. To engage with this energy as a means to awaken or to become aware of how well you can receive is cool. So I kind of think of, like, maybe you went to a Rolling Stones concert in Tibet to turn up the amplification system so that you can really feel the energy in that geographic area with the people as a means to create, balance and resonate some pieces within you that are certainly grounding and perhaps very instrumental to what you’re doing and what you’re creating in this life.

[00:38:29.960] – AndreaThat’s nice to hear, but yeah, talking about it is taking me back know, on the way flying into Kathmandu, into Nepal for the first time, I happened just to be flying from the right direction where we flew by Mount Everest. And suddenly I’m on the plane and the Captain goes, “if you’ll look to your right, you can see Mount Everest.” And I just remember just totally being totally shocked by the sight of it and also tearful, because for me, what it means is, yeah, I like hearing you speak about it Weston and then feeling it again. It’s like, for me, what I was hoping to experience was my dream of experiencing grounding, my dream of being able to experience the majestic beauty of what I imagined the Himalayas might feel like. I was hoping that I would find that there and a bit nervous that I might not that I might not be able to feel it, that I might not be moved by it.

[00:39:46.420] – WestonRight.

[00:39:46.950] – AndreaBut when I got there, it took time, and it took prayer, where I was continuing asking for this connection with the land, which is a practice that I’ve been trying to cultivate for myself. So I actually have to go choose to go on this as a four day trek around the Annapurna Mountain range. Okay. Which, by the way, Annapurna in local language means full of food. And when I heard them say that, yeah, full of food, because food grows well around the valley, basically, I think, is what I’ve been told. But when I hear that, what I hear is abundance.

[00:40:40.420] – WestonThat makes sense.

[00:40:42.260] – AndreaYeah. I went to go walk around this area of abundance of the world, and while I was walking, I was asking mountain for connection with myself, with the land, with the water, with rocks, with the wind. And I was asking for help, and I was asking the Earth to help me listen, help me connect. And over time, day by day, slowly, I could start to feel different things. And I think I just …

[00:41:23.540] – WestonI just have to ask real quick. Is that something that you’ve always done? Meaning, from childhood?

[00:41:33.560] – AndreaI don’t have memories of it.

[00:41:35.960] – WestonYou do or don’t?

[00:41:37.500] – AndreaDo not? No.

[00:41:39.400] – WestonOkay.

[00:41:41.000] – AndreaDo you think it’s something I’ve always done?

[00:41:43.480] – WestonYes, I do. I know it is.

[00:41:45.790] – AndreaReally?

[00:41:46.190] – WestonKnowing it. The reason I’m saying that is because I’m reflecting on my own self for the moment. We’re kind of two kids in a little canoe here, sharing with everybody. But the asking, I’ve always done that. Meaning when I go to go outside and hike or walk or do anything or get in the ocean, really, my intention is to become at one with whatever thing I’m doing. I went and climbed a mountain yesterday, overlooked a little beautiful little Bay Area in the central coast of California, and yet my intention is to be at one with literally everything. I mean, the ground, the birds, the environment, everything. And of course, when we were describing this, I’m talking about energy. I want to be one with that energy. And of course, that energy for me in that space, as you were describing, is very grounding, something that’s very healthy for me, as I described. But this asking that you’re talking about, oh, my gosh, I do that all the time. Now, I’m not suggesting I’m absolutely sharing, and hopefully not with anything, but just confirmation that your choice to ask is something that’s natural, meaning something that’s always been there, and if it’s been developed or coming about as newer to your conscious mind, great.

[00:43:06.820] – WestonBut you having that understanding is pretty cool. And you referenced something else, too, that I want to kind of highlight, but I want to continue hearing what you have to share because I’m so fascinated by this, that you described coming into the area and that you needed a little bit of time. And I just made a note in my head that that’s like coming to an area and getting used to the area. Sometimes we do that when we travel from a different time zone. Right. It takes us a minute to get out of the jet lag, to get used to that area. And yet is that it? Meaning, is that what we’re adjusting to? Are we tuning into the area? Do we need time to do that? And sometimes we do. Sometimes an area such as the Himalayas may take a minute for you to get used to the reason why is because it’s thumping or vibrating or has its frequency to, in essence, invite you. I’ll use the terms deeper to a deeper understanding or an inner wisdom, a connection, of course, and of course, not necessarily just to that part of the world, geographically speaking, meaning it could take you outside of this realm, outside of this universe, quite literally.

[00:44:21.540] – WestonAnd this is why these things, in my opinion, could be and are done. But so you being acclimating to the area is an interesting term because I know a lot of times when people come to Sedona, they need to acclimate, or Hawaii, they need to acclimate. It takes them a little while to get used to the energy. And you know what? That’s why they come. Now, when I’m teaching in that kind of environment, I’ve been very transparent about this for years. I’m using that energy, meaning that local energy, if you will, to work with me together so that we have this individual and collective experience. Now, whether we’re doing a retreat or we’re on a pilgrimage of our own, these opportunities are before us. But this acclamation is done back to something that, Andre, you said, and it’s very natural for you, but not for everybody. You’re saying yes to it. You’re literally asking to be connected. And that will take you into further depth of connection, meaning it will allow you to become used to that frequency or that environment that much quicker. And when you do, this is a part I’m most anxious to hear from Andrea.

[00:45:37.520] – WestonI’m interested in how you feel, what’s happening in that period of when you first come in versus, let’s say, day three or day four and what’s happening after that. And, man, anything you can describe there, Andrea, is something that we’re all leaning into.

[00:45:56.040] – AndreaYou know, there’s a lot of nervous energy, a lot of nervous energy. I had excitement, fear about what I was going to find. So I think definitely in the first date, and my mind was spinning too, and I was really desperate for answers. So my self talk was like, very much trying to figure out and ask questions within my own head when I’m on the trek for the first few days. So I feel like the first two days, just tiring myself out, listening to my own inner monologue talk my ear off. Exhaustion was a good first phase of release, just like listening to my thoughts until I couldn’t anymore and tiring my body out until it’s feeling more loose. A huge, amazing thing of going on a trek into the mountains is that your own rhythm starts to move with the rhythm of nature. Just submerging yourself in nature like that, I think, is actually a faster way of acclimating to a place rather than a city. Because I was going to bed when the sun went down and I was waking up when the sun rose and it’s so quiet at night, there’s nothing there.

[00:47:13.300] – AndreaSo I felt like, in retrospect, I was sinking into my environment more quickly. But to be honest, when I was experiencing it, I think one, two, three days, I think there were moments when I was like, I haven’t really had any big insights. What are those going to come, right? And I think it was on day four when I had tired myself out in all these different ways that the insights just hit. Bam, bam, bam, bam, bam, bam, bam, bam.

[00:47:53.060] – WestonOh, really? It started just happening all at one time?

[00:47:57.600] – AndreaYeah. This conversation I’ve been having in the back of my head since day one started suddenly to have answers. And I started to feel these kind of openings in my body, openings in myself, even at this time in my life of particular. So much going on, particular tension and anxiety about excitement, you know, new energy hitting old energy. I was emotional eating in the week before, going on this trip, and so I wasn’t feeling that good in my body when I arrived, basically. And on day four, I did feel a big change. I had worked through some of those anxieties with all the walking by day, you know, physically, there was an opening on a lot of different levels.

[00:48:54.570] – WestonThere were these when you described the insight, Andrea anything specific or just as an example of something that just availed itself or opened up to, you know.

[00:49:08.770] – AndreaThe other day I opened up my journal.

[00:49:14.860] – WestonI’m glad you mentioned that word becauseI want to talk about that in a minute.Journaling is a really important part to capture these things that we’re going through because they’re very important to us. So, yeah, you opened your journal. What happened?

[00:49:27.820] – AndreaTotally. And I’ve had such a big lesson from you about my journaling and finding my own voice. Weston because you were encouraging me to journal so much, and then you’re encouraging me to go back and read what I’d written, which I wouldn’t dare do at the time without your nod. And I went back and I read my journal and I was like, Whoa, that’s kind of brilliant, right? Yeah. And I started to hear my own voice that I hadn’t heard before. When I looked back and took a moment to see these micro thoughts I’m having during the day, like, wow, there’s something know.

[00:50:10.200] – WestonHey, everybody. I thought this would be a perfect moment to take a quick pause with the interview that we’re having with Andrea to talk about a different kind of journaling. I’ve just released a new course called The Secrets of Free Writing. In it, I am teaching how to meditate with a pen(tm). And I’m sharing this because it’s been a passion of mine from the very beginning. This has been the thing, the tool, the spiritual way, if you will, or the means in which I became aware and without this tool. It’s really difficult to get a hold of important ideas or spiritual insight. And automatic writing has given me as it will give you that direct access in written form. When you automatic write, you can actually measure your own growth, of course, review it and dig down into your ideas and, of course, the spiritual messages that come forth consistently. You’re about to hear something Andrea is going to share in just a moment that happened for her where she read something that she had written down before, and it meant something very, very meaningful to her. Please take a moment to check out secrets of your writing on my website at https://westonjolly.com/the-secrets-of-freewriting/ And now we’ll get back to the interview with Andrea.

[00:51:25.540] – AndreaI realize now one of my intentions coming on that trek was working. I was trying to figure out why I keep having or was having these issues of not feeling good in myself, not feeling worthy of all these wonderful gifts that I’ve been born into, whether it’s skill sets or family situation privileges. For some reason, with all the other issues that I’ve had, this one seems to be core, one that dominates all the others. And I was ruminating on this during the walk. And so suddenly, on day four, I’m like, I have this while I’m journaling, excitedly looking out the window, this amazing peak. I was looking out at this mountain called fishtail. That’s the English word for it. It’s a sacred mountain. And by the way, in Nepal, the mountains are so much bigger than anywhere in the of any of the other peaks in the world were in Nepal, they might not be considered mountains, because they would just consider them hills. In Nepal, that’s how big the mountains are there. Like they’re isn’t that crazy? Yeah, that is totally they literally don’t name what would be mountain here. They just would call it a hill and would not give it a name.

[00:52:57.280] – WestonIt’s not worthy of a name.

[00:52:59.600] – AndreaYeah, that’s the scale we’re talking about. These giants, these titans. Anyway, I’m out. I’m looking at this. A quick side note, there’s this sacred mountain called fishtail, and the reason why it’s sacred is because people have tried to climb it in the past but have been unable to. Either they have failed or they’ve died, or they’ve experienced these crazy things where they’ve climbed up to, like, base camp two, and when they wake up in the morning, they find themselves at base camp. One small hint of what’s happening. These are the stories I heard. And so, officially, the government decided that it was a sacred mountain that wasn’t meant to be climbed, and so no one can climb it. I love that.

[00:53:50.980] – WestonThat is cool. Oh, that’s so interesting. Extremely interesting.

[00:53:55.940] – AndreaYeah. I love that the government acknowledges the sacredness of it and these sacred acts. I love that that’s so much a part of the Nepalese culture that can be seen. It feels so good to hear that to me.

[00:54:10.860] – WestonYeah.

[00:54:14.280] – AndreaOkay, so I’m journaling and what I decide is that I’ve spent my life trying to be something else than what I am. And I realized on my walk is that that was actually a futile effort, that I could never be anything but what I am and that it wasn’t worth my time trying to be anything else. And this was my big epiphany. Why am I trying to be something that is literally impossible to happen? I was literally made like this. I could try all I want, I could use all the money in the world, I could get a thousand people’s help, and I will never, ever be able to be anything but what I have been born as.

[00:55:07.900] – WestonRight?

[00:55:09.500] – AndreaThat was step one. The second step was and I have been born this way on purpose and I have been divinely given this body with all the attributes that it has. And this being that I have been incarnated into at this moment, I’ve been gifted all of that divinely, and in fact, all that I am is this divine gift. And that is something that has been sacredly given to me. And I realized that for me the most. So side note, what I’ve already realized at this point in my life when I’m on this venture is that sacredness is something that means something so much to me. And I know that sacredness is my guiding light somehow. That much I had gained already. So on this walk, I realized that I have been in fact, divinely given all the parts of myself which, side note, I have been trying to change since day one. And that was actually dishonoring the sacred act of what I am already. And I realized that the most sacred act, which again, for me is exactly what I’m trying to do, is honoring all that I already am. And I asked myself, how do I honor everything that I am?

[00:57:01.630] – AndreaAnd my answer to that was I nurture myself. And I explore this being that I am and try to understand this being that I’ve been gifted, which is myself in all the ways I can. And that’s how I honor this gift, this gift of all these attributes and gifts of this family, the gifts of where I live. And then I sorry, this is long, but step two, so I learn about her, I nurture her. Step two is then sharing her gifts, sharing and expressing her voice with the world. And that was my big epiphany.

[00:57:53.390] – WestonAndre I’m deeply touched by that because I can’t tell you how many times a day that where I sit when people come and present themselves with a question and they’ll ask a question such as, “How do I become myself?” Which in one sense, from an intellectual perspective is a ridiculous question, but it’s not because we are all conditioned beings. We’ve come into this realm and we’re conditioned to become what the world thinks a girl should be or act like and be the different cultures that we grow up in. And as a part of this path or this journey into self awareness, you realize how futile it is to give energy to anything else than being your true self. And yet we negotiate with our minds. Is that okay? Is this something that my mom or dad would like or my friends or whomever? And ultimately, what you’re hearing is, of course, egoic thought trying to keep you, shall we say, back into that branded image or that that presence of who you think you should be. And I use that language very specifically. And when we take the space or the I want to use the word time because it’s relevant to this side of the fence, so to speak, but it’s not real.

[00:59:42.960] – WestonBut when we take the space to go into ourselves and to really appreciate the Divinity of why we’ve come into this embodiment and to… I love that word, your word, in terms of sacred, because it’s not just a word. It has a depth of meaning to it. It has energy with it. And when we revere our self and our origins and who we are as creators. And to put that back in motion to the potential of what we can exhibit or express or just receive in this realm, in this embodiment, it’s without question, and this is certainly my opinion most beautiful gifts that you could ever give yourself, bar none. Again, that energy towards that reaps rewards that I don’t think people really understand. And I feel so emotional about that. Because my feeling is if everyone did have that understanding of what it would mean to realize oneself in this realm and to put just a tiny bit of that in play let. Alone, perhaps abandon the pieces and the parts of who. And we thought we were appreciating where we’ve come from in terms of the stories, et cetera. But not being attached to them any longer gives us permission to go beyond.

[01:01:24.900] – WestonAnd that going beyond is a very personal journey. But then there’s similarities, and this is the patterns that we see with one another. And this is why I’m so grateful to you, Andre, for you to be in my life, number one. And two, to be sharing this space with everyone, because we can relate to that. We can feel that that we too, want to give ourselves individual permission to stop trying to be somebody that we’re not. And I think that being done at an earlier age versus an older age is something special, something to put a light on. And I put that light on you, Andrea, because of your age being a young woman and having that wisdom or that understanding which is not taught meaning. It’s something that’s innate, and it’s something that comes forth in you, of course, just being you, which is always the truth with all of us when we choose to exhibit or to express that desire, that connection. And this path, if you want to call it that, this energetic path of giving ourselves permission to be at one within ourselves and to literally allow that to come out again, like I said, it’s everything.

[01:02:47.210] – WestonAnd Andre, I wanted to kind of circle the journaling thing because obviously I’ve been automatic writing for my entire experience, and there’s a difference between that and free writing and certainly just journaling. But even just capturing what is going on spiritually or dream state or just absence of just thoughts, which is, to me, a journaling aspect, has unbelievable value. And what you have shared I mean, I’m the pleasure of so much of what you have exhibited and I have to share with you, I feel extremely abundant about that. But the channeling that you’ve done and do, and whether it’s through prayers or toning or other ceremonies that you’ve participated in, that insight to capture that in a journaling like form has value beyond your imagination. And the reason I say that is because it enables you to actually touch or feel the energetic wisdom from something that comes beyond the person of Andrea or the person of Weston. And that’s why, Andrea, when you went back and reread some of your journaling, you could recognize and feel the profoundness in what was being exhibited. And there’s something extremely humbling about that. To know that it came from your hand, number one.

[01:04:18.780] – WestonAnd two, to also recognize that it’s not from you, the person, or it’s not limited to that. And that’s just something incredible. And yet, whether we paint or we draw or we capture this via journaling or automatic writing or however what those forms are, they are all, in one sense, one dimensional means of trying to catch something that is multidimensional. And I want to be fair with that. But still it has tremendous value. Because as we share that with one another, just in terms of this dialogue or this interview, if you will, with one another, we create an opportunity to remember and to come back to that, to perhaps connect again in this kind of way and to give ourselves permission to say, yeah, I’m going to leave behind my artificial self or my lower self or my pretended self to be who I am. And it sounds funny to say this, but it takes a lot of courage to do that. And I say courage because the mind that will die when your physical body dies will tell you that that’s dangerous, that that would take you in a direction that would have you maybe cut off from all society in the world at large.

[01:05:42.690] – WestonAnd yet the choice to be ourselves is the biggest gift that we give one another, we give ourselves first, and then the sharing with this. And I’m talking about right down to the mean, there’s an engagement, there’s a state of oneness in that space as well. So don’t miss the idea that when we make that kind of choice, that it has this profound effect and it’s not just in this realm. And when we start to experiment or play or again, as Andrea has been suggesting, ask questions or put desired attention in that space, you’ll find yourself interacting in ways that are you that go beyond perhaps the physical presence of that’s. I don’t know. I’m just touched in my soul, Andrea, for you to share those very simple steps which you have such a gift of doing, to taking something that might be quite complex and just reducing it to a couple steps and sharing that in a way that’s very profound. So please allow me to bow my head in honor of you here.

[01:06:52.550] – AndreaThank you. Weston it’s awfully nice to hear your reflections. Big time.

[01:07:02.410] – WestonI’m moved, truly. I know we’ve gone a little bit beyond what our intended time was, but Andrea, with your permission, I would love to ask you back to perhaps do some more sharing and dialoguing in this forum. And I just want to heartfeltly you touch my heart. And I know that others who open up their heart that you’ll have that same profound effect upon them as well. And so if you don’t know Andrea, I welcome you the opportunity to get to know her here and perhaps in other places it will take place as she continues to, but very, very grateful. So thank you for your presence.

[01:07:45.370] – AndreaLikewise. Weston thank you so much. This is really fun.

[01:07:48.730] – WestonIt is. So unless you think differently, we are doing this again. I’ll just make you commit right now.

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Unseen things seen by People who catch flak for seeing them.Not everyone can truly see. But for those who can, it’s likely that somebody may attack you because they fear your spiritual gifts.

Why is that you are heckled or harassed for seeing the unseen things? Is this what being spiritual is all about? Being hassled? Getting teased or taking flak?

It’s agreed, not everyone can see “dead people” and not everyone wants too. But is there is no reason you need to feel inadequate for seeing, or tapping into, the unseen things.

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Episode 070 of True Connections with Weston JollyTranscription: Unseen things, seen by people who catch flak or shit for seeing them.

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Unseen things seen by people who catch shit for seeing them. Have you ever seen a ghost? Maybe an Angel? Have you ever flown in your dreams? What about having premonitions that come true? To what degree do you really believe in magic or the metaphysical? And most importantly, how ready are you to share with others the things that you clairvoyantly see? Today, I want to focus on you and those like us who catch shit for seeing things that on some level you’re not supposed to see. It’s a problem. It really is. Often people seeing unseen things catch shit for seeing them think that they’re crazy. I help a lot of people get in touch with their own spirituality.

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I have for over two and half decades. Believe me, you don’t stand in front of the room speaking, giving presentations and retreats as a spiritual channel without the potential to catch flack. Evidently, it’s a part of human nature. In this podcast, I want to address that you’re not crazy if you’re seeing shit. There it is again. The second time or maybe the third time that I’ve used that word. And to be fair, you should be warned I’m going to use it again and again, not as a curse word, but to accentuate the color or the essence of this feeling. I sincerely hope that you’re not offended by my use of the word, but being spiritual isn’t like trying to be liked or trying to fit in, as you’ll soon see.

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As an example, let me share with you this true account. I was boarding a plane in the last leg of having given many speaking engagements. I was flying home. It had been almost a week straight of speaking, visiting several Southern California cities, and I was channeling for scores and scores to people. Frankly, I was just tired. The flight was from Burbank to Phoenix, a short hop of about an hour.

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All I wanted was a comfortable seat, an aisle seat, my favorite, and to sit quietly, peacefully, and frankly, not to speak to anybody. As soon as I boarded the plane, I knew I had a problem because there were people everywhere. The plane was busy, as the Hollywood freeway. I was wearing really dark sunglasses not really to hide, but just to discourage anyone from wanting to engage. I was really that tired. The plane was quickly filling, and I begrugingly asked if I could sit in the middle seat between this large athletic guy and an older woman. The dude really didn’t say anything beyond standing up and granting me passage, while also communicating non-verbaly that he too would have preferred to keep his middle seat free. I nodded without necessarily creating eye contact, and I scooted in, sat down in the middle seat, took a breath. Then the woman who was looking out the window then noticed and saw me and said, “Hello.” I was tired, but I didn’t want to be rude, so I said, “Hello” back, but not necessarily in a voice tone that would encourage continued conversation.

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My desire to not talk to anybody wasn’t necessarily going to plan. The woman near the window asked me the inevitable, “What do you do?” She asked. I sat back in my tiny seat, slumped back as much as I could with my Ray-Bans facing forward and said rather loudly, “I see and talk to dead people.” The statement evidently caught the attention of the dude to my right. He turned a little towards me, curiously now listening in. Truthfully, my response probably caught the attention of several rows of people, as I might have spoken a little too loud, like I was still speaking to an audience in front of the room. The lady sat near to the window, turned away. My response seemed to have worked as she was looking outside, confused, a little disjointed about my being able to talk to dead people. And just as I was about to shut my eyes, she started laughing. She turned to me and she said, “You’re kidding, right?” You’re kidding. I said, “No, I’m not. I do talk to dead people. I’ve been speaking in San Diego, Carlsbad, Manhattan Beach, Malibu, and Hollywood. And now I’m on my way home after having given several presentations and personal sessions.”

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Without really thinking, the woman said emphatically, “I don’t believe in that.” I totally said, but hopefully not too rudely. “Ma’am, I’m not asking for your approval. You asked me what I do, and I told you.” She then turned back to the window, maybe hoping for some solace there. I was thinking, well, maybe, just maybe my sharp tongue and my Ray-Bans would prevent any further dialog. It didn’t. She turned again toward me like she was now trying to convince me that I couldn’t do what I do and that she needed to let me know.

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Can you feel me?

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Unseen things, seen by people who catch shit for seeing them. I didn’t do anything. I wasn’t coming on to the plane wearing some big, bold T-shirt that said, Weston Jolly, the world’s greatest, Clairavoyant and Clairaudient of the metaphysical world. I was just a clean cut guy wearing sunglasses, who wanted to get home after a long trip. Have I got your attention? There may be a part of you that wants to address all of this cool metaphysical, seeing Angels and talking to dead people stuff, but only if you don’t get hurt.

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Yes, I did use the word hurt. And if you’re now aware that you’re trying not to get hurt, it makes perfect sense why you spend so much time trying to protect yourself. In this podcast, I want to address that fear within you, the one that keeps you from seeing the unseen stuff that you say that you want to see. How do I know? I can’t tell you the number of people who have told me that they wish that they have my gifts. I really can’t tell you how many. And if you’re interested in expanding your gifts, then I’m going to share with you a little secret. Well, it’s not a secret because I want you to know. If you really want to see, hear and feel spiritual stuff beyond, I’ll teach you. If you don’t want, then you better turn this shit off really quick. I hope you don’t, because I have a great deal to share with you on all levels: spiritually, emotionally, and, of course, physically as well. So how is it that seeing and listening to dead people could create such response from someone sitting next to me in a plane? It’s easy.

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My abilities somehow scared her. She was frightened, and thus her reaction was one of trying to protect herself. Here’s the deal, even though that you’re here and listening, there’s some part of you too, that wonders if tapping into places unseen is safe. I know that some part of you knows that, but then maybe there’s another part of you that doesn’t. I’m a big fan in tuning into the Christ energy. I am. And I’m sharing this not to appease you if this is your faith, because in integrity I’m able, and I do, tap into all kinds of other Ascended Masters, and I equally enjoy doing so. Truth is, I love it all. So why would I ever deny myself. Why would I deny my being a professional, psychic, medium and spiritual channel of over 25 years? Well, I have. I’m glad that you laughed at my boldest and telling a stranger that I speak to dead people.

It’s not always easy being different or having gifts, intuitive, psychic, or otherwise, because, well, sometimes you’re treated like an outcast.

This is the whole point. Did you come here to fit in and to be, well, like everybody else?

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How can you change the world this way? Even if you’re listening to this podcast thinking that you don’t have, well, any special metaphysical gifts, consider this. Physically, scientists throughout history have been making endless contributions to change our world by seeing the unseen things. Much of the time, catching shit for it. So even if you’re approaching the subject from a purely physical perspective, why would anyone proposing a theorem have to take shit for it?

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Consider this theorem, “Does the inertia of the body depend upon its energy content?“

Do you recognize the proposal?

It’s important. So let me give you a couple of hints. As your first hint. This idea, does the inertia of a body depend upon its energy content? Well… it was presented a century ago. And as a second hint, this weird teenager dreamed of seeing unseen things while chasing a beam of light. Sounds like this individual could be a little high or something, right? Let me give you one more clue and then I’m going to share a quick message about a new spiritual online course that I know that you’re going to want to join.

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Okay, here’s the third clue and the last one before we listen to our special message. The person who said this over a hundred years ago said, “It is the supreme art of the teacher to awaken joy in creative expression and knowledge.” Okay, you can be thinking about your answer while I share with you this quick message about the secrets of Free Writing, and then I’ll give you the answer as soon as we come back.

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Okay, what’s the answer to the question? Beginning at 16 years of age, this young man thought about traveling with light and later proposed his seeing the unseen things in a paper called, “Does the Inertia of a Body Depend upon its energy content?“

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The date of this report of the unseen things was 1905, and the person that proposed this thought everyone knows by the simple formula E equals M C squared. That’s right! Albert Einstein put forth one of the most important discoveries on the planet. Surely he must have been immediately recognized and celebrated, right? Not necessarily. Not everyone embraced his seeing shit, and certainly his method of chasing light through space, which everyone now calls elegantly a thought experiment. Interesting language to make it sound so scientific.

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But what if it was said that Einstein went out of body to chase a light beam through space? Wouldn’t that be accurate too? My point is we can see the non-acceptance, even in the way Einstein came up with the theory E equals M C squared. And did you know that this formula, E equals M C squared, wasn’t scientifically or mathematically proven until 103 years later? So here you are, wanting to be more spiritual and all, and yet you might be faced with denial, disbelief, anger, and maybe even hatred for seeing the unseen things. In essence, you may be catching shit for seeing things that are unseen by people who can’t see them. You’re going to ask why people will give you shit for seeing, knowing or feeling unseen things that they can’t see.

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So let’s appease this part of you and let’s drop a few reasons why this happens. I’m just going to list a few.

1.) People are usually uncomfortable with what they think that they know. What they don’t know often creates fear.

2.) Disbelief comes in many forms, ultimately with something like, If I can’t see it, then you can’t see it.

3.) Then, it can even get further escalated to an angry rebuttal like, Prove it. Personal character is really often attacked with an intention to pressure you to doubt or even deny what you’ve seen. It would seem that those who can’t see the unseen things want you also not to see them. This is done, of course, so that you stop expressing them.

4.) Another point or another reason why is complete and utter fear of the unknown. Even in my choice to facilitate others, how many times have I heard someone come to me in a personal session and say, I don’t want to see something bad.

5.) Another reason might be if you’re seeing something prophetic, it’s really scary because you can see the unseen things of the future. And if you’re seeing something in the past, an event, or even communicating with the dead, there’s a lot of room for disbelief and denial.

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Clearly, there are a lot of things that could be added to the list as to why people don’t want you to see, but nothing is greater than this one. Unseen things seen by people who catch shit for seeing them starts with you. You are the ultimate naysayer to your spiritual gifts. If you all come to my next Hawaii Retreat, then you’re going to find yourself surrounded by the most diverse and loving people that you could imagine. And in this environment, you’re going to find yourself feeling super comfortable and relaxed and seeing all the unknown things that you want to be seeing, right? But what happens when you’re in an environment that isn’t so supportive? Unseen things seen by people who catch shit for seeing them isn’t about having to take flack for seeing unseen things. No, not at all. I’m only sharing this with you because it’s a natural part of your own biology, and there’s a part of you that would want to deny it. Maybe you’ve been taking crap all of your life for seeing things that other people just can’t seem to see. Odds are great that you’re trying to fit in with your family, your school, community, or even with your personal relationships, that you’ve taken flack for things that you observe that others don’t.

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I help a lot of people who wonder if they’re crazy, balanced, got both oars in the water because of their spiritual gifts. So let’s take a quick deep dive into why your own mind, body is working against you. Here we go. Have you ever experienced a miracle? Can you prove it?

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Here’s one for you. In Scottsdale, I was very frustrated and upset about a house remodel that we were working on. There was one part of it that was holding us up, and I couldn’t get a sheet metal fabricator to make the AC ducting quickly enough and was holding up the whole project and was costing us money. Actually, I was standing out in the backyard frustrated, mad with the company and, of course, the delay. At that moment, a bird flew onto the wooden fence directly in front of me. I could feel the bird. To be honest, I could feel and see the energy of the bird when it flew down to the fence like a big swish of paint had been put on a large white canvas when the bird landed. You couldn’t miss it. I knew the bird had a spiritual message for me, but I was in no mood…

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After a beat, I asked, Do you have a message for me?
The bird said, “Yes.“

In a childish, sarcastic tone, I said, “Well, if that’s true, come closer to me and tell me.” No sooner than I said this within myself, the bird flew from the wooden fence and landed about an inch or two from my feet. He cocked his head, looked straight at me with one eye and said, “Is this close enough?” The message of encouragement was delivered, and I was really humbled to be a part of the process yet again. Right after the bird flew off, having delivered a rather long and heartfelt message that was truly inspirational beyond my issue with the build on, I was actually embarrassed that I had been so snooty. If you were to ask me in this moment, could I prove to you what I physically saw? I can’t. If a video did record the event, it wouldn’t be able to record the sound. Why? Because there wasn’t any physical sound, which makes the whole scene incomplete. So if a video recorder did record the event, all you’d see is a strange bird flying from the fence to my feet and staying there for quite a while.

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Could I be setting myself up to take flack by sharing this true event? Ask me if I care? I really don’t. What I mean is I’m happy to take a polygraph for you, but in the end, you still get to deny my seeing and hearing the unseen things. This is key. What I do want to put your attention on is this singular key. The point is that somewhere in each of us we can deny, reject, call crazy that which is.

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Within minutes, after the bird having landed at my feet from the fence and delivering its rather divine metaphysical message, exactly as I described, my mind started tearing apart that I hadn’t really seen or had heard the unseen. My internal propaganda machine was in full force. And this reminds me of real witnesses who were interviewed only minutes after John F. Kennedy’s assassination. These people authoritatively challenged these witnesses that you did not see what they saw, and they did not hear what they heard. Now, mind you, if you were physically standing at the parade and you saw what you saw, seeing JFK and his wife, how could it be possible for you to not hear or to not see what you saw?

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This is what I want to highlight in Unseen Things, seen by people who catch shit for seeing them. Like I said, this happens on a biological level. The Shell, or the ego, within you denies the very existence of anything extraordinary. This means the physical as much as it does the spiritual. Anything that this illusionary part of you that it doesn’t control or understand, the propaganda machine within you will deny it all. This means that you’re going to catch flack for seeing the unseen things. It’s not a maybe. It’s an absolute. The catch is not giving this noise any consideration. I told you that I don’t care if you believe what I shared about the bird on the fence and its message. And in turn, I don’t care what my shell or ego has to say about it either. This can be stated eloquently in the following channeling. But before I share it with you, remember what I said earlier about a young boy chasing light into space, asking for illumination from the Universe. He got it. He shared it. A hundred and three years later, did Einstein’s E equals M C squared get formally proven?

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Let me also share with you that Einstein didn’t need the physical proof that came way after his death. This desire to ride the light created answers to his questions. Think about the light and more, as I now share with you the channeling and conclusion of the means in which decisions, guidance and direction is offered to those who aren’t really paying that much attention.

Too often they are called upon to be bodyguards, offering only protection. If it could only be understood that a spirit does not need to be protected, because what could possibly happen to a spirit in its eternal form? The answer is nothing. So for spiritual forms, Angels to be called upon to protect is age old in its consideration and choice, but it’s without merit in terms of their potential. Angels are here to serve and to communicate and guide. As we are communicating through the One that gives this dialog voice. We are one with all. To understand this is to enable yourselves beyond the need to be constantly protected. Like children that need the guidance and protection of a watchful parent, we are here, but not solely for this purpose.

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We wish to share. We wish to be released from the predominant role as the protector. We wish to illuminate with endless knowledge, happiness, peace, joy, and abundance. These things are not beliefs, but truth that you, as in you, the individual listening, can hear, but most importantly, feel our presence. For you to deny us is to deny yourselves. We understand the nature of your perceived separation, for we have created it not necessarily as an obstacle, but as a means for you to enjoy the perception of an individual experience. As you come to understand yourself, you will notice the inconsistencies in trying to remain separate. In essence, you’ll feel again, by design, the imbalance of your separated state. Any state of separation is made through free-will-choice. Our point is that you’re always empowered. Free-will-choice is offered as one of our most powerful tools and extended to you complete and utter freedom to choose anything of your desire, again without limits. As you see yourself with the power of free-will-choice, Again, you can exercise your desire in any direction that you choose. To see yourself is the ultimate choice because it allows you the beauty of understanding how and why you’ve been created.

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Most are only aware that they are the product of their biological parents that created them. And with this nearsightedness, they are limited, limited to the parents and to the lineage of the family that is going only one way, which is backwards in time. This is interesting to notice because, of course, time isn’t real. If time were real, by design or concept, it would have to work in both directions. It most certainly could not be something that would be limited to looking backwards only. For you to see the unseen truth within you and us, it isn’t something that you need to be condemned for. The supposed mysteries of the Earth are explored by seeing these unseen things. Go beyond your traditions, even your own experiences, to enable knowledge. Everything is before you because we hide nothing. You would do well to spend a moment with the fact that nothing is hidden from you. If you think that things have been or are being hidden, it’s because of your free-will-choice to remain separate. If indeed you’re interested in seeing more, you must go beyond the fears that you prosecuted for the things that are revealed to you in this state of openness or consciousness.

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To believe, is to practice a thought which may or may not have any basis in truth. To exist in truth is to remove the blindness so that you can and do see. As soon as this is chosen, you may be dealt with a blow by the gatekeeper of your perceived identity that this information is invalid, nonsensical, irrational, and therefore, warrants none of your attention. Regarding this internal messaging system, which continually broadcasts its own propaganda that you are to be protected by the author of separation, the ego, or the Shell, then you become entrapped. When you submit to the little mind within, then you are limited, your path is limited, and your experiences are limited. This is done by the shell and the Ego, of course, to garner power of the unlimited connection and to use it predominantly for the sense of self. This is done so frequently and so commonly that almost all of you are familiar with someone who position themselves as powerful versus another who serves the greater whole. There are times whereby those who collaborate with others is seen as heroic. At other times, this conscious contribution of serving the whole is seen as an enemy of the state, as labeled by those of you who wish to direct or control such powers.

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The self-serving are interested in only harvesting your energy. This is most interesting, that you would disable yourself to the point of being an energetic Source for another. We compliment those of you who called or unified to serve one another, not because of obligation, but because you find a desire to express in this familiar way. As you help one another, you become reminded of a bigger force and how the energy can be directed. Many and human-based organizational structures, desire to place themselves at the top of the pyramid to be seen as the one that is the most powerful. To properly reconstruct your proper sense of self, you must go beyond the individual thought and material-based choices. To engage here is to participate in a place of completion. Is it not complete to be in the presence of the light? Light is extended to you, which is, of course, illumination, which comes in infinite forms, one of which is knowledge. For you to be illuminated by the light, you must come away from the darkness of hiding, no more hiding from your true self, which drives you to become more consciously aware. This is desired. To see yourself more than an individual or a set of cells embodies a person is to disable that which isn’t to that which is.

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Feel that which has been spoken. Can you not feel the empowerment to work, contribute, and be greater than your own perceived self? Extract from this language the energy that does fall upon you in the same way that all biology is affected by the light. There is so much for you to see. These unseen things are not hidden. They are made apparent in your desire to be aware and to use in your state of openness to remember your true self and your purpose in creating a physical presence. You are not limited to your body, this perception of time, and by those things that you don’t think that you have. Imagine how the world changes instantly upon the understanding that you have everything. If indeed you are able to see these unseen things, then open yourself to see, to have answers provided and given to you in the abundance of all. Rejoice that you’re free to choose anything of your own delight. Be free to experience yourself in the ways that you’ve been hesitant to see because of your free will choice to not see the things unseen. If you choose to participate, to listen, and to watch, we will provide you everything revealing all to you.

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Yes, it is exceedingly powerful, and we are most interested in what you will do. Will you choose to see the unseen things? Or will you be ashamed to see that which is yours to see, understand, and know? Go beyond your sense of self and realize that we are here to be seen, not as some invisible force, but as one that is seen as clearly as the sun permeates the darkness. It’s your choice to see and become one or remain in the dark.

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