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James Guttman
James Guttman, the dad behind "Hi Blog! I'm Dad", on raising a non-verbal child with Autism and a non-stop verbal child without Autism. A positive look at parenting and life aiming to normalize how people see families that include children with special needs.
This week’s co-host doesn’t say a word, but his presence says everything.
James sits down with his son Lucas, a non-verbal teenager with autism, for a special episode. With the help of Pirate Booty, duck noises, and an AAC device, Lucas shows listeners what communication looks like when it’s completely authentic. Whether it’s asking for water or no-selling a dad joke, nothing Lucas does is performative and that honesty has become one of James’s greatest parenting lessons.
You’ll hear about real moments: a silly game that’s only funny when Lucas says it is, how years of practice lead to a single successful request on a talker, and the deep frustration of strangers assuming they know your child better than you do. This is more than a podcast episode, it’s a window into trust, growth, and fatherhood that doesn't need subtitles.
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In this episode, James Guttman explores how his nonverbal son with autism, Lucas, redefined the very idea of perfection. It’s not about milestones, math scores, or sports trophies. It’s about honesty, love, and authenticity.
Lucas doesn’t hide his intentions. He doesn’t play emotional games. And while life with severe autism comes with real challenges, James shares how those challenges are matched by something even more powerful: a son who is, in every meaningful way, perfect.
If you’ve ever felt like the world’s definition of “normal” doesn’t fit your life, this is the episode for you.
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What if your child couldn’t speak...but still knew exactly how to make you laugh?
In this heartfelt episode, James Guttman shares the unexpected ways he built a private language of humor with his nonverbal son, Lucas. From early fears about never sharing a laugh to perfectly timed glances and paused songs, this story is a reminder that connection doesn’t need to be spoken. Sometimes, all it takes is a sideways look and a shared moment.
Whether you’re on your own autism journey or just need a reminder of how deep love can go without words, this one’s for you.
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At 35 years old, James Gutman was given just four hours’ notice before undergoing a quintuple bypass with no prior health issues, no medications, and no warning signs. But that life-saving operation wasn’t the end of his story. It was the beginning of a new one.
In this powerful episode of Hi Pod! I’m Dad, James shares how surviving heart surgery changed everything: how he viewed stress, how he approached parenting, and how he discovered a deeper connection with his nonverbal son Lucas through what he now calls “autism appreciation.”
Lucas became an emotional mirror, reflecting James’s calm or stress back at him, and their bond grew stronger when James stopped trying to control everything and instead entered his son’s world. From heart health to emotional growth, this episode is a raw, inspiring look at what happens when life delivers challenges that turn into unexpected gifts.
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Every parent has their share of parenting challenges, but when your child has severe, non-verbal autism, even something as ordinary as a haircut can become a years-long emotional battle.
In this week’s episode of Hi Pod! I’m Dad, James Guttman shares the raw and personal story of how a supposedly “autism-friendly” salon failed his son Lucas and how that painful moment led him down a years-long journey of cutting his son’s hair himself.
From heartbreaking meltdowns to trying every trick in the book (and on Amazon), James reflects on what it truly means to parent through difficulty and how progress often looks nothing like what we expect. The solution? Not special clippers or a miracle strategy, but growth, both his son’s and his own.
This episode is a powerful reminder that yesterday’s impossible struggles can become tomorrow’s triumphs.
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We all have stories we tell ourselves about who our kids will become, how our relationships will unfold, and what life is supposed to look like. But what happens when reality tears those stories apart?
In this week’s episode of Hi Pod! I’m Dad, James Guttman shares a raw, honest reflection on the life he never expected. From a divorce during the pandemic to parenting a nonverbal son with autism, James opens up about the imagined futures he had to grieve and the unexpected beauty he found in letting them go.
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💬 The emotional centerpiece? A memory about almost giving his son the middle name “Charming” so he could impress girls at bars one day. It’s a funny, touching reminder of the hopes we place on unborn children — and how healing it can be to release those hopes when life takes a different turn.
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James Guttman reflects on the emotional milestones of parenting a neurotypical teenager and a nonverbal son with autism. In this week’s heartfelt episode, he shares how Olivia has grown from the little girl who monopolized his time after school into a self-sufficient 17-year-old — and how their bond has evolved along the way.
At the same time, James discusses the equally powerful connection he shares with Lucas, built on unspoken cues and trust. With honesty, humor, and vulnerability, he explores:
- How his blog shifted focus as Olivia requested privacy
- The unique but equal importance of both of his children
- Family values that center on unity, not hierarchy
- Lessons learned from heart surgery, divorce, and parenting through change
- How positivity and self-respect shape the people we attract into our lives
This episode is a tribute to the evolution of parenthood, the power of love without comparison, and the beauty of building a life you’re proud of — one moment at a time.
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Watch This Episode on YouTube - https://youtu.be/ad4q7DE2SlEJames Guttman shares a deeply personal look at the evolution of his parenting journey with Lucas, his 14-year-old son with severe autism. From the emotional tug-of-war over age-appropriate toys to unexpected moments of connection in thrift stores and living rooms, James explores how he learned to stop correcting his son’s play and instead joined him in it.
This episode dives into the beauty of authenticity, the pressure of societal expectations, and the unspoken bond between a father and son. James opens up about dignity, boundaries, and why he now lets Lucas lead the way, because loving a child sometimes means letting go of what the world tells you is “right.”
It’s not just a parenting story. It’s a story about unconditional love, acceptance, and finding peace in unexpected places.
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What does it really mean to appreciate autism - not just accept it? In this personal episode, James Guttman reflects on how his non-verbal son Lucas has reshaped his perspective and brought unexpected joy into their lives.
Through emotional honesty and candid moments, James shares how their bond has grown through trust, gestures, and a shared understanding that goes far beyond words.
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In this special episode, James Guttman celebrates the release of his new book Hi World, I'm Dad and officially launches the video version of his podcast - available here on YouTube. He opens up about autism appreciation, what it truly means to love without conditions, and how his son Lucas, who is non-verbal with autism, has shaped his understanding of life, connection, and purpose. From surviving a heart attack and quintuple bypass to embracing his son’s unfiltered authenticity, James shares the powerful moments that led to his most personal work yet.
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With just days until the release of Hi World, I’m Dad, James Gutman opens up about the journey that inspired his most personal work yet. In this heartfelt episode, James reflects on parenting his non-verbal son, Lucas, the fears that never came true, and the quiet beauty that replaced them. This isn't a tragedy- it’s a love story.
🔹 Hi World, I’m Dad will be available in stores, on Amazon, and as an audiobook narrated by James
🔹 Lucas, now 14, remains non-verbal, but joyful, kind, and fully present
🔹 “Autism appreciation is easy when you love them”
🔹 Acknowledges the unique bond with both his children: Lucas and his neurotypical daughter, Olivia
🔹 Describes the moment he stopped waiting for his son to speak and finally found peace
🔹 Pushes back on fear-based autism stories, offering hope and hard-won wisdom
🔹 Shares how Lucas taught him to live in the moment, let go of expectations, and embrace joy
🔹 New blog posts on HiBlogImDad.com: The Words My Son Never Said and He Never Says I Love You, But I’ve Never Been More Sure
Visit HiBlogImDad.com to read more, and pre-order Hi World, I’m Dad wherever books are sold. Tune in next week to hear James reflect on release day and early reader reactions.
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James Gutman shares his journey of learning to truly see and appreciate his nonverbal son Lucas, transforming what many would consider a challenging situation into a source of profound joy and personal growth. This deeply personal episode explores how a heart surgery became the catalyst for shifting from constant worry about what he wasn't doing for his son to genuine appreciation for who his son actually is.
• The contrast between raising a neurotypical daughter who hit all developmental milestones early and a son with autism who missed them
• How people often take credit for their children's successes but blame themselves for developmental delays
• The transformative impact of heart surgery and facing mortality on James's perspective about what truly matters
• Moving from autism awareness to acceptance to appreciation
• Learning to understand Lucas on his own terms rather than trying to change him
• How Lucas embodies the qualities most parents want in their children—authenticity, joy, and living in the moment
• The beautiful relationship between Lucas and his sister Olivia
• Finding positivity in life's challenges by learning from them
• The upcoming book "Hi World, I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance to Appreciation"
Pre-order my book "Hi World, I'm Dad" available June 19th everywhere books are sold—in print, digital, and as an audiobook narrated by James himself
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James Gutman shares personal stories about raising his son Lucas who has severe autism, revealing how his perspective evolved from fighting against pity to embracing complete appreciation for who his son is.
•James discusses his upcoming book "Hi World, I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance, to Appreciation," releasing globally on June 19, 2025.
• Started blogging in 2017 to share stories about Lucas without the pity that often came with in-person conversations
• Why he's glad early pitches for the book didn't go through until the time was right
• Describes beautiful moments like "Reunion Wednesday" hugs that demonstrate Lucas's clear love
• Shares a breakthrough moment when Lucas understood food needs time to cook
• Explains how these small victories exceed his early expectations when Lucas was first diagnosed
• Emphasizes that his love for Lucas isn't despite autism but encompasses his entire being
• Wouldn't change or "cure" his son even if he could
Follow James on social media @HiJamesGutman and visit HiBlogImDad.com with new content every Monday and Wednesday. Reserve your physical and audiobook copy of "Hi World, I'm Dad" on Amazon, Audible, Google, and everywhere books are sold, available June 19th.
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James Gutman makes a major announcement about his upcoming book "Hi World I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance to Appreciation" being released as an audiobook on June 19th, 2025. He shares personal reflections on recording the audiobook and his authentic approach to parenting his son Lucas.
• The audiobook will be available on multiple platforms including Audible, Amazon, Spotify, Apple Books, Google Play, and Kobo. It is available for pre-order now.
• James describes his initial hesitation about recording the audiobook but ultimately enjoyed the experience
• Authenticity is key to his approach to parenting and advocacy
• He emphasizes finding joy in everyday moments with his son rather than lamenting challenges
• James shares touching anecdotes about his relationship with Lucas, including why he can never stay mad at him for more than five minutes
• The book demonstrates his journey from autism awareness to acceptance to appreciation
Visit HiBlogImDad.com every Monday and Wednesday for new blog posts and follow James on Instagram @Hi_JamesGutman.
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James reflects on his journey from worried father to advocate for autism appreciation, crediting his quintuple bypass surgery at 35 as a turning point in how he viewed his son Lucas's autism. Rather than focusing on what needed to be "fixed," James began appreciating Lucas's unique perspective and finding joy in moments others might misinterpret as sad.
• The podcast grew from James's frustration with not being able to share funny stories about Lucas without receiving sympathy
• James explains the difference between autism awareness, acceptance, and his preferred term: appreciation
• Shares the memorable "pretzel story" that triggered the blog
• Reflects on writing about Lucas from age 5 to 14 and watching him grow through the blog
• Talks about his upcoming book "Hi World I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance to Appreciation"
• Expresses gratitude for the supportive community that has made him feel less alone
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From being unable to say the word "autism" aloud to embracing the term "severe autism," James Gutman shares his transformative seven-year journey with his son Lucas in this heartfelt episode. He recalls a pivotal moment when someone referred to his non-verbal son's condition as "the real autism," triggering both offense and reflection about how we label and understand neurodiversity.
James takes us through his evolution as a father and writer, revealing how his blog "Hi Blog, I'm Dad" (launched in 2017) chronicles their journey from fear to appreciation. He describes the early days of struggling to explain his son's silence to strangers, followed by years of growth that changed his perspective entirely. Rather than defending against pity or judgment, James now focuses on celebrating Lucas's unique way of experiencing the world—from the gentle finger games he plays with his sister to the fascinating way he studies his own hand in the sunlight.
The episode offers rare insight into parenting a child with severe autism, balancing the clinical realities with moments of pure joy. James reflects on how Lucas brings him happiness even during challenging moments, and how his son's unfiltered emotions have taught him to live more authentically. With his book "Hi World I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance to Appreciation" launching soon, James invites listeners to understand that while labels serve their purpose, they never tell the complete story. Pre-order his book now on Amazon to join him on this continuing journey of discovery and appreciation.
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James Gutman explores the evolution from autism awareness to acceptance to appreciation as a father raising his nonverbal son, Lucas. He shares personal stories about appreciating his son's unique perspective on life, including the refreshing honesty that comes with autism even during challenging moments.
• The differences between autism awareness, acceptance, and appreciation from both a parent's and society's perspective
• How public understanding of autism has improved significantly since 2011
• The refreshing honesty and authenticity that comes with autism, even during mischievous moments
• Why James appreciates rather than wants to "cure" his son's autism
• Personal stories about Lucas knowingly breaking the rules while maintaining direct eye contact
• The journey of learning to appreciate autism as an integral part of who his son is
James's new book "Hi World, I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance to Appreciation" will be available June 19th. Pre-order now on Amazon, and follow James on social media at @HiJamesGutman or read his blog at hiblogimdad.com for more stories and updates.
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What does it really mean to love your child unconditionally? In this raw, heartfelt episode, James Gutman tackles the controversial topic of "curing" autism, sharing why he celebrates rather than seeks to change his 14-year-old non-verbal son Lucas.
After his recent HuffPost article went viral, James found himself at the center of an intense debate. Many readers assumed his son must be "high-functioning" simply because he writes positively about him. The reality? Lucas faces significant daily challenges, yet James still wouldn't change who his son fundamentally is. "My son is just a pure person who is so in touch with his feelings and emotions," he explains. "When he's sad, he cries. When he's happy, he screams for joy."
The podcast explores the dangerous assumption that parents of children with more significant support needs should want different kids. James pushes back against this narrative, highlighting the beautiful qualities often overlooked in discussions about autism – authenticity, emotional honesty, and lack of cruelty or deception. He shares his journey from making desperate bargains with God when Lucas was young to reaching a place of genuine appreciation for who his son is.
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Ever wondered what pure, unfiltered humanity looks like? My son Lucas shows me every day. Through the lens of raising a nonverbal child with autism, I've discovered something remarkable about human connection that I never expected to find.
Most people see limitations when they look at someone like Lucas. Politicians make sweeping statements about what autism is, focusing on what's missing rather than what's present. But they're missing the extraordinary gifts hiding in plain sight. Lucas communicates his desires more clearly without words than many people do with thousands of them. There's no social game-playing, no hidden agendas—just pure, authentic expression.
What makes Lucas truly exceptional isn't just how he communicates, but who he is at his core. When he discovers joy in something—even a YouTube video he's watched hundreds of times—his excitement eclipses nearly anything I experience. And what does he do with that joy? He shares it with everyone around him, tapping strangers on the shoulder to include them in his happiness. He feels emotions deeply, loves unconditionally, and lives without the burden of caring what others think about him. He'll never bully anyone. He'll never be intentionally cruel. In many ways, he embodies exactly what I'd hope for in any child.
The journey from hearing "autism" for the first time to where we are today has transformed me completely. The "worst-case scenarios" I feared have come true, yet here we are, living our best life together. That's why I wrote "Hi World, I'm Dad"—to show others that the autism journey holds unexpected treasures for those willing to see beyond society's narrow understanding. Pre-order my book now on Amazon, follow me on social media @HiJamesGutman, and join me every Friday for new podcast episodes where we continue exploring this extraordinary journey together.
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James Gutman explores the journey of raising his nonverbal son Lucas, challenging societal expectations about fatherhood and special needs parenting. Through this experience, he's discovered that the future he once feared has become the life he now cherishes, finding unexpected beauty in raising a child who reflects his purest values.
• Raising a nonverbal child means gradual adaptation rather than sudden change
• Society often sets low expectations for fathers, especially special needs dads
• Growing alongside Lucas has taught James to worry less about everything in life
• The fears we have about future challenges often dissolve when we actually face them
• Character and kindness matter more than developmental milestones or achievements
• Lucas reflects James's values through his kindness, pure heart, and genuine nature
Pre-order James's upcoming book "Hi World I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance, to Appreciation" to join us on this journey.
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James Gutman reflects on Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation Month, sharing personal insights as the father of Lucas, his 14-year-old nonverbal son with autism. He explores how language creates conflict even among those advocating for people with autism, while emphasizing that his son's non-verbal communication has shown him how "overrated" words can be.
• Terminology matters but creates division—"child with autism" vs "autistic"
• Autism Awareness helps others understand behaviors like unexpected loud noises or clapping
• Autism Acceptance benefits those seeking inclusion in workplaces, schools and social settings
• Autism Appreciation recognizes beautiful qualities like honesty and authenticity across the spectrum
• Lucas demonstrates refreshing directness—wanting only what he truly wants without social pretense
• Avoiding both superhero narratives and disability-focused labels helps see the whole person
Pre-order James' new book "Hi World, I'm Dad: A Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance to Appreciation" now on Amazon, available in stores this June.
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James Gutman shares his journey raising his nonverbal son with autism, Lucas, who is about to turn 14, reflecting on how initial fears have transformed into deep appreciation for their perfectly imperfect life together. He describes the breakthrough moment when he joined Lucas in play rather than trying to correct him, leading to a connection that showed him his son understood more than he realized.
• Discussion of James' new book "Hi World, I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance and Appreciation" coming June 19th and the big news still to come.
• Reflections on Lucas turning 14 and how reality has defied early fears about the future
• The joy of having a loving, affectionate teenage son who still wants to spend time with his dad
• The pivotal "toy phone" moment that changed their relationship
• Learning that children don't need to be "fixed" to have a wonderful life
• Understanding that love isn't about getting something in return
• Recent blog posts about sitting with Lucas during meltdowns and learning to hear him without words
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James Gutman announces his upcoming book "Hi World, I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance and Appreciation," now available for pre-order and due in stores June 19th. This deeply personal work chronicles his journey with his 14-year-old nonverbal son Lucas, moving beyond society's fear-based narrative about autism to discover the pure joy and genuine connection that comes from appreciating autism.
• Book explores the journey from fear and confusion to genuine appreciation of autism
• Available for pre-order on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Jessica Kingsley Publishing's website
• Written in the same storytelling style as James's blog and podcast
• Shares both challenging moments and beautiful revelations about raising Lucas
• Describes how the "worst case scenario" became a perfect life
• Highlights the refreshing honesty and purity that autism brings to Lucas's personality
• Intended for new parents, experienced parents, grandparents, and anyone wanting to understand autism
• Contains funny, emotional, and thought-provoking stories from their lives together
• Moves beyond awareness and acceptance to true appreciation
Preorder Today - https://amzn.to/4itLPPL - Let's spread the word about autism appreciation together—it's long overdue and will make the world a better place.
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"Lucas is straightforward. There's no manipulation with him. He doesn't lie... If Lucas loves you, Lucas loves you."
James Gutman reflects on the unexpected joys and profound lessons of raising his nonverbal son Lucas, who has autism. He challenges common misconceptions about special needs parenting and explains his concept of "autism appreciation" – recognizing his son's unique qualities as strengths rather than deficits.
• Distinguishing between wanting certain capabilities for Lucas versus needing him to achieve specific milestones
• Finding beauty in Lucas's authenticity – his inability to manipulate, lie, or be arrogant
• Appreciating the purity of Lucas's emotional expressions, especially his unfiltered joy
• Challenging the imaginary scenarios people create when thinking about special needs parenting
• Writing about Lucas through his blog to share these perspectives with others
• Balancing acknowledgment of real challenges with celebration of unexpected blessings
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This episode delves into the journey of watching my son Lucas grow up and the emotional complexities that accompany it. As he approaches his 14th birthday, I reflect on our experiences, navigating life as a father of a child on the autism spectrum. Every milestone reminds us that time is fleeting, and the transformation from child to young adult can be jarring yet beautiful.
Join me as I recount our recent supermarket adventure where Lucas demonstrated newfound independence, showcasing the progress he has made along his path to adulthood.
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Celebrating milestones and bonding with loved ones brings a deeper understanding of acceptance in parenting a child with autism. Through personal stories, James Guttman explores the significance of appreciating individuality and evolving perceptions about disabilities, focusing on love and growth as his non-verbal son prepares to turn 14.
• Reflections on eight years of blogging about autism parenting
• Celebrating upcoming 14th birthday and family milestones
• Shifts in understanding and bonding across different developmental stages
• The importance of reframing perspectives on autism and acceptance
• Insights on shared joy and the value of individuality in children
• Addressing misconceptions about autism parenting and societal expectations
• Future hopes and upcoming projects related to experiences shared in the podcast
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This episode beautifully captures the joys and challenges of parenting a child with autism (and one without), highlighting the spontaneous love and honest nature of Lucas. Through anecdotes and reflections, the discussion emphasizes the importance of embracing inconvenient moments and fostering open lines of communication in family dynamics.
• Exploring the unique ways a non-verbal kid can irk his dad
• Celebrating the unique quirks and personality traits of Lucas
• Emphasizing the beauty of spontaneous gestures of affection
• Discussing the significance of honesty in Lucas's character
• Highlights from writings on hiblogondad.com about parenting experiences
• Updates and excitement surrounding the upcoming book release
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This episode explores the joys and challenges of parenting a child with autism, revealing personal stories of parenting regrets and the importance of acceptance. The discussion emphasizes the value of embracing children's unique traits and invites listeners to share their stories.
• The beauty of embracing a child’s unique personality
• Reflections on stimming behaviors and their significance
• Personal stories of parenting regrets
• Insights from parenting a neurotypical child alongside a child with autism
• The upcoming book sharing these experiences
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The episode explores the journey of parenting a nonverbal child, focusing on the bond between the host and his son, Lucas, who has autism. It addresses the challenges of communication, the importance of establishing security and connection, and the host's reflections on his ongoing role as a father.
• Discussion on the gate as a symbol of security
• Reflection on eight years of blogging about autism
• Personal insights on the unique aspects of Lucas's relationship
• Exploration of communication beyond verbal language
• Questions of doing enough for a nonverbal child
• Importance of maintaining engagement and connection
• Encouragement to other parents navigating similar experiences
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The conversation focuses on the father-son relationship between James and his son Lucas, who has autism. Through personal anecdotes, James shares the lessons he's learned about understanding autism, fostering connection, and appreciating individuality, while encouraging other parents to embrace their own journeys with hope.
• Discusses the upcoming release of James's book on autism appreciation
• Reflects on past experiences as a published author
• Describes challenges in parenting a nonverbal child with autism
• Highlights moments of joy found in Lucas's unique expressions
• Dispels common misconceptions about autism portrayed in media
• Shares how observing Lucas led to deeper understanding and connection
• Emphasizes the value of acceptance and love in parenting autistic children
• Mentions progress in their journey as father and son over the years
• Encourages parents facing similar situations to maintain hope and celebrate progress
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This episode explores the evolving bond between a father and his nonverbal son, Lucas, who is on the autism spectrum. James Gutman shares heartfelt reflections on acceptance, appreciation, and the value of challenging societal pity towards children with autism.
• Importance of autism appreciation
• Personal journey of parenting Lucas
• Misrepresentation of autism in media
• Lucas's unique traits and experiences
• Navigating challenges and personal growth
• Rejection of pity and embracing joy
• Call for community engagement and understanding
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This first episode of 2025 episode beautifully captures the evolution of autism awareness, acceptance, and appreciation as a father reflects on raising his nonverbal son in a changing world. It highlights personal anecdotes alongside broader societal themes, weaving together love, hope, and the importance of continuous learning.
• The year 2025 brings reflections on societal perceptions of autism
• Sharing personal experiences of parenting a nonverbal autistic child
• Importance of transition from autism awareness to acceptance and appreciation
• Autism advocacy organizations play a crucial role in changing public perception
• Encouraging effective communication methods and celebrating small milestones
• The significance of teaching children everything to embrace knowledge
• Embracing the journey: love and resilience in parenting an autistic child
• Optimism for a more accepting world and brighter future for children on the spectrum
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In the final Hi Pod of 2024, James Guttman looks at his approach to gift giving with his non-verbal son at Christmas, a look ahead towards 2025, and why he needs to drink more water.
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James Guttman has happy holidays now with his non-verbal son and loved ones, but there was a time when they weren't so merry. James talks about why celebrations were difficult when his son was first diagnosed with autism and how he's learned to make the perfect Christmas.
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On the 12 year anniversary, James Guttman looks back at the surprise quintuple bypass that changed his way of thinking, goals for life, and feelings about Autism Appreciation.
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James Guttman returns with a look at his non-verbal son's recent developments, physical growth, and how the things he couldn't do before, he can do now...but only if you know to have him do them.
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On the heels of exciting news regarding his new book coming out next year, James Guttman looks at his reasons for starting HiBlogImDad.com, his previous life, and the importance of keeping things honest when talking about his non-verbal son.
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James Guttman talks about a stranger's kind gesture towards him, his girlfriend, and their special needs children last week. James speaks about how he, like Lauren, takes care to make sure his non-verbal son is a positive part of the community, and why it's important to have good like-minded people around you.
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James Guttman looks at the days gone by, how the kids grow up so fast, and why it's important to remember his son's younger days in order to truly have autism appreciation.
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James Guttman looks at the progress his non-verbal son has made and how some would never be put on his Individualized Education Program. Also, looking back on this past week's speaking event for SEPTA and where you can see the videos.
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James Guttman looks at repetition - whether activities, words, or skills - and how it helps his non-verbal son along in the world.
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James Guttman looks at one of the reasons he started HiBlogImDad.com and focuses on Autism Appreciation.
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James Guttman goes back to the days of making deals with God over when his son would talk, how he felt when those dates would pass, and how he needed to overcome that to find autism appreciation.
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James Guttman looks at the importance of remembering the things your special needs child did and compare them to what they do today, advice he was given early on, and the painful questions new parents to special needs kids struggle to answer.
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James Guttman looks at this week's posts on HiBlogImDad.com and how two topics illustrate that his son's non-verbal autism is something to be appreciated, not pitied.
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James Guttman looks at how his non-verbal son is becoming a little man seemingly overnight, why it's hard to realize sometimes, and the many aspects of this week's blog post "How I Got My Special Needs Son To Wear Jeans".
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James Guttman looks at autism appreciation, finding the good aspects of non-verbal autism in his son's personality, and how to get the most of raising a child like him.
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James Guttman looks at this week's trip to the Fire Island Lighthouse with his non-verbal son and the remarkable job he did. Also, thoughts on his son's cup collection and times he had to carry him miles in Disney World.
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James Guttman looks back on Wednesday's HiBlogImDad.com post about how the behavior his son with autism displays at home might not match what the world sees, why that's OK, and how it makes being open to questions so important for spreading Autism Appreciation.
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James Guttman returns to reflect on autism appreciation and the gift of peace his non-verbal son with autism has given him.
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James Guttman looks at the lies people tell about each other and themselves, how to spot a lie, and how his non-verbal son's intentions and motivations remain truer than anyone else he knows.
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James Guttman looks at the foundation he built with his kids, how he has been his non-verbal son's main caregiver his whole life, and why no one else's opinion matters but theirs.
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James Guttman looks at his non-verbal son's destructive week and the many reasons he doesn't get angry at him for it.
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James Guttman talks about the fears of raising a child with autism vs the reality and the battles he didn't have to fight on his behalf.
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James Guttman looks at the early worries he had over raising a non-verbal son, memories of seeing other special needs children, and what makes it so much easier than he realized it would be.
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James Guttman looks at his non-verbal son at 13 and how the groundwork of today will make him the adult he becomes tomorrow.
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James Guttman looks at positivity, happiness, Autism Appreciation, and some of the ways being a father warps his social interactions.
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James Guttman looks back on the early days of his son's life, the missed milestones, and worries over what nonverbal autism would mean for their lives.
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James Guttman looks at the dream he talked about having on HiBlogImDad.com (link) where his non-verbal son spoke.
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James Guttman is finishing up his upcoming book and getting it to the publisher. JG talks about reliving old stories, the day he stopped caring about stares from strangers, and living the dream.
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James Guttman and Lucas are back. James talks about his epiphany when taking his non-verbal 13 year old to Sesame Street Live.
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James Guttman talks about how the recovery from his quintuple bypass required accepting some realities, but his non-verbal son's autism was one of the easiest of all to embrace.
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The kids are home from school and James Guttman is tired. James talks about his non-verbals son's stubborn moments, similar to a neurotypical kid, and how "no" has to have meaning to deal with that - even when it makes James's life (and sleep schedule) more difficult.
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James Guttman had a rough start to the week, but his kids came back and it all turned around. James speaks on Autism Appreciation and how his non-verbal son pulls him back from overthinking.
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James Guttman hosts this episode of Hi Pod with his non-verbal son, Lucas, shouting in the background. JG looks at this authentic edition of the show and explains how this has become the soundtrack of his life.
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James Guttman looks at the debate between Autism Awareness Month and Autism Acceptance Month by breaking down when each is most needed, then showing how Autism Appreciation encompasses it all.
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James Guttman looks at how he helps his child with autism find his peaceful moments by letting go of things he no longer needs.
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Happy Birthday to Lucas! James Guttman looks at his nonverbal son's entrance into the teens and what it means for his maturity, outlook on life, and future.
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James Guttman on keeping your family happy and teaching his non-verbal son to do new things.
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James Guttman talks about the hand motions that he taught his non-verbal son with autism and why it was important to ignore "expert" advice when doing so.
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James Guttman and Lucas host this one. Talk of why Lucas doesn't wear headphones for his iPad, why he doesn't bring it into restaurants anymore, and why we all should breathe in the moment.
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James Guttman looks at his HiBlogImDad.com blog post about the unexpected upside of his son's nonverbal autism and a story about discovering that Lucas had learned a skill he didn't know about.
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James Guttman is having a great week and it started with his non-verbal son's wonderful behavior at a friend's birthday party. James looks at why that is, how it happened, and lessons learned for everyone.
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Another big news week for Hi Blog! James Guttman talks about signing with Jessica Kingsley Publishers and the upcoming Autism Appreciation book that's in the works,
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James Guttman talks about his appearance on Jubilee's Middle Ground YouTube series looking at Autism and why it's so important that his voice is heard regarding his non-verbal son.
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James Guttman looks at the different role that Autism Acceptance plays for some and why "Autism Appreciation" works best when writing about his non-verbal son, Lucas.
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James Guttman talks about his initial fears about teaching his non-verbal son life lessons and the ways he found to connect without words.
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James Guttman talks about flying across country for the day to appear on Jubilee's Middle Ground YouTube Series featuring autism and neurotypical panelists. JG looks at his reception there and how much it all means to share Autism Appreciation and HiBlogImDad.com with the world.
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Hi Pod! It's 2024. James Guttman returns to talk about morning and bedtime routines for his non-verbal son, the role an iPad plays in disrupting that, and how knowing what's best for your kid is most important whether they're on the spectrum or not.
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Does James Guttman's son with autism understand Christmas? Santa? Presents? Reindeer? Maybe. But even if he doesn't, he's a part of it anyway. James looks at why that is and the road that brought us here in the last edition of Hi Pod for 2023.
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It is the 11 year anniversary of James Guttman's quintuple bypass and JG looks at stress, life changes, and remembering what's important.
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James Guttman talks about seeing the Broadway musical, "How To Dance In Ohio" and how real the subject matter was. James also mentions how those with the most to say about children like his non-verbal son know the least about it.
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James Guttman looks at the fears of raising a child with autism versus the eventual reality and how it affects a parent's life.
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James Guttman checks in for a special weekend edition of Hi Pod. Still slightly sniffly, JG talks about why he's thankful and how writing about Autism Advocacy has changed his life.
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James Guttman kept Lucas home sick today. JG discusses the importance of recognizing when your non-verbal child doesn't feel well...especially when they can't tell you.
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James Guttman looks at what his non-verbal son with autism does now versus what he used to do and why he always takes him to parties.
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James Guttman looks back on Autism Appreciation and the quintuple bypass that made it all possible. Silver linings.
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For James Guttman, 2023 has come in like a lion and is going out like a lamb. It has been a roller coaster year and, during the low moments, his non-verbal son's in-the-moment approach to the world has lifted him up. JG talks about why he appreciates his son so much, how all children (on or off the spectrum) are different, and the way he's changing the way he sees the good times.
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James Guttman looks at life a year ago versus today and how that advice was first given to him for tracking his non-verbal son's milestones, but applies to everyone.
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With Lucas in the background screaming with delight, James Guttman looks at what it takes to be a great special needs dad and how he is trying remember this giant non-verbal 12-year-old boy isn't a baby.
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Chipped tooth, spilled Flat White, and AEW Fight Forever - some frustrations, you can't fix. But when it comes to his family, there are some frustrations for his daughter and non-verbal son that can be fixed with a simple pivot.
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With his non-verbal son by his side, James Guttman talks about the worries he had when Lucas was young and how things turned out great... while staying the same.
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James Guttman looks at why time seems to move faster when you're thinking about your non-verbal child's future...but also for most adults.
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James Guttman looks at this week's posts on HiBlogImDad.com and explains why he doesn't want to "cure" his son's autism.
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James Guttman looks at this week's posts on HiBlogImDad.com including the worries he faces that his non-verbal son with autism can't and how that's a perfect of example of his Autism Appreciation.
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James Guttman talks Autism Awareness, Autism Acceptance, and Autism Appreciation as it relates to parents and society.
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James Guttman talks about the often unmentioned issue of knowing when your non-verbal child with autism is sick...especially when that person is a trooper like his son.
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James Guttman looks at the strange ways in which guilt and shame enter the mind of a new special needs parent...and not in the ways you might think. James looks at how it is important to be honest about that time, despite how much things may have changed since his non-verbal child with autism was a baby.
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People are aware of some of James Guttman's worries as a father to a non-verbal boy. James addresses the worries and fears that are rarely spoken of, but vastly outweigh communication concerns.
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James Guttman talks about his son's attempts to find language and how a communication device didn't hinder that...although he worried it might,
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James Guttman, with Lucas by his side, talks about being a girl dad, the balance of special needs parenting with raising his teenage daughter, and the "idk" text messages that haunt him.
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James Guttman's non-verbal son has just graduated elementary school. James looks at the stark contrast between this ceremony and the debacle that was is preschool one. #AutismAppreciation
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James Guttman looks back on his non-verbal son's last elementary school picnic before moving to his new school and the difficult decision behind it.
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James Guttman looks at his son with autism's meltdowns and how, no matter how frustrating it is for him as parent, it's worse for his boy.
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James Guttman looks at the little gratitude parents get, the overwhelming leeway absentee dads get, and why he sometimes forces his non-verbal to leave the comfort of his room to live life.
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With Lucas in the background, James Guttman talks about things people might say, things people might ask, and a reminder that none of us are alone.
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James Guttman doesn't include hidden references to people in his blogs...kind of. James talks about learning from mistakes, the repeating patterns of his life, how they don't affect his work as an autism advocate for his son or father for his daughter, and why it's all much healthier than it seems.
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James Guttman looks at the lies we tell others about who we are. When it's good, when it's bad, and why being honest actually makes you more relatable.
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James Guttman looks at people evolving as people and the people who try to stop them.
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We are our experiences. Don't let anyone stop you from telling your story.
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James Guttman breaks down what Autism Awareness, Autism Acceptance, and Autism Appreciation means for parents to children on the spectrum and what they mean to the world.
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It's one of the first time in over 25 years that James Guttman is single. He has some thoughts on that.
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James Guttman looks at his non-verbal son's birthday, how a special needs parent's view of that changes through the years, and how to judge if he's giving his boy a great day.
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James Guttman on the most important form of Autism Acceptance that every parent needs to accept as their child grows.
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James Guttman is back after a layoff with an explanation, a plan, and a new outlook on life.
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A decade after his emergency heart surgery, James Guttman looks back at how he has changed.
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This week, James Guttman looks at his journey as a special needs parent and the worry he had early on. JG explains why he began writing HiBlogImDad.com and searching for his place among parents to children with autism as his non-verbal song grew.
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Autism Friendly Podcast. Listen to us on your autism-friendly headphones. James Guttman looks at the phrase "autism-friendly" and discovers a place where it actually meant what it said.
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Last week, James Guttman wasn't feeling it. This week, James Guttman returns to talk about the times he wasn't feeling it. From the near fight with the garbage tattler to a high school kid at lunch, JG recounts tales from the temper.
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Lucas could probably go to school and be fine, but James Guttman kept him home anyway. JG, with his non-verbal son by his side, talks about bad days, why a support system is so important, people who can't understand raising a child with autism, and the good points of parenthood that get lost in the memes.
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James Guttman and Lauren went to see a lady movie this week. JG talks about the massive changes to movie theaters and presents a Lady Movie Trailer of his own.
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James Guttman on Halloween for a non-verbal child with autism, the problem with teal pumpkins, and helping his son find language.
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From the bad to the worse to the painful to the redemption, James Guttman looks at his experience with "family" and how he's ready to finally do it right. (based on this week's blog post)
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How are you doing? James Guttman is doing good and he explains how that changes everything.
James Guttman speaks out about mental health issues and suicidal ideation. JG shares the story of losing a friend to suicide, what he learned after that death, and the ways bipolar depression can overpower many other factors. If you are struggling, dial "988" for help.
James Guttman looks at building a bond between a special needs sibling and his neurotypical sister without micromanaging their relationship. Also, the importance of normalizing how outsiders see special needs families.
James Guttman is back after a major life-changing week. He tells you about it, the road to get there, and the people who made it possible.
Being an advocate for anything requires handling uncomfortable situations, but as the father of a non-verbal child with autism, it's important. James Guttman tells a story about a recent time that happened online and in person.
James Guttman talks about the reasons why he started HiBlogImDad.com and the social media posts that inspired him to speak out.
James Guttman is back and looking at patience as a special needs parent, how his heart surgery lead to his healthy lifestyle, how his kids are the reason he stuck by it, and the long red underwear that isn't underwear.
James Guttman talks about writing Girl Dad, becoming the parent to a daughter, why he lets her watch movies with bad words, and the joke that he still doesn't understand like 40 years later.
This week, James Guttman spoke openly about childhood abuse on HiBlogImDad.com. Now he speaks about how he overcame it to be a better father, the steps he made to recognize the changes he had to make, and the most important thing anyone needs to do in order to break the cycle of mental, emotional, physical, or any form of childhood abuse.
James Guttman is back with a look at who he was, who he is, and how life is all about changes.
James Guttman looks back on stories of his nonverbal son with autism stealing coffee and food from strangers and why the reaction he got differs from the ones others sometimes get. All based on the latest classic repost on HiBlogImDad.com
Building on his recent HiBlogImDad.com post about how people react when your child has autism, James Gutman looks at some of the more outlandish comments he's heard involving his non-verbal son.
James Guttman talks openly about special needs schools, group homes, and the difficult decisions that are always looming in his non-verbal child with autism's future. JG looks at what needs to be done before making these choices and the importance of doing what's right.
James Guttman is raising a teenage daughter. That's it. That's the podcast. If you're the parent to a teen, you get it. If you're not, you're about to...
James Guttman's blog and podcast aren't just for autism parents, girl dads, or divorced parents. JG looks at how he tries to write for everyone and how, for dads, the same courtesy isn't always extended.
James Guttman looks at finding happiness, sharing your happiness with the world, and never letting anyone hide you.
In a new shorter and experimental format, James Guttman speaks out in this Fun Size episode on his former neighbor, who isn't one to gossip, and the thing she said that doomed the Divorce House. James looks at what we don't know about what happens behind the closed doors of others.
This week's podcast is green and white with Lindy Pride as James Guttman talks about Lindenhurst, New York, the town he grew up in. James looks at hometown pride and how it grows the most once you're gone. Plus, talk of the Lindy Docks, Babylon Town House Diner, Lindy Movie Theater/Boat Store/CVS, and more. Also, making sure his non-verbal son with autism lives his best life.
James Guttman is talking about frustration this week. Plus, knowing when his non-verbal son with autism is confused vs. naughty and an unexpected change with drop-off and pick-up.
Going back to a toxic person to hash it out one last time post-relationship? How'd that work out for ya? James Guttman looks at the scam of "getting closure", why you wouldn't need it if the person was capable of it, and how it can stick you in a loop forever. Plus, blaming yourself when your child has special needs...or disabilities? Challenges? James also talks about the difficulty of finding a word that's appropriate when describing how autism manifests itself for his non-verbal child.
James Guttman looks at how feeling damaged can lead to a life where you fear love. JG talks about pushing people away, feeling unworthy, and being happy that he's allowed someone into his life. Plus, talk of his non-verbal son's best friend and amazing mom, the jerky kid on the cruise, and having a 14-year-old. 14?!
James Guttman woke up a different person this week. He talks about living like you're dying, how he lives after his quintuple bypass, thinking he would die, why he doesn't want his non-verbal child with autism melting down in front of people (and it's not why you think), and more.
It's not easy to let people go, but James Guttman has some new insight into it. After a pretty chaotic week, JG looks at finding the people who deserve you, fighting to keep people who don't, and putting yourself first. Plus, the relaxation bowl from Tibet and the stories that go away when you write them down.
James Guttman looks at handling frustration and why that's the secret to everything including how he has changed his point of view on many things. Plus, how Autism Awareness has changed in the past ten years, why Nirvana shocked him this week, and a special cameo from his son Lucas.
Happy Autism Awareness Day. James Guttman looks at how his non-verbal son's journey has gone from Autism Awareness to Autism Acceptance to Autism Appreciation. Plus a segment dripping with machismo.
James Guttman is having kind of a rough week and speaks about how his phone call regarding services for his non-verbal son with autism hit kind of hard. JG looks at wanting his son to be the best he can be, but making sure to focus on the "he can be" part. Plus, a look at bullying and why it's so hard to get rid of it, and more.
James Guttman talks about "handling" his son's autism, how his non-verbal son's achievements are tracked by remembering what he did a year ago, how that holds true for himself too, the reality of his son's future, letting him know that his sister is there for him too, and more. Plus the infamous "You Beat Me To It" story.
It's a massive and personal edition of Hi Pod as James Guttman talks about the emotions surrounding divorce and overcoming fear of his non-verbal son growing up. Plus, a dive into the things he doesn't share (including sharing one) and some insane stories from his time working in the retail/service industry. Along with tales of one former family "friend" who was the worst of the worst to wait staff.
James Guttman is playing the best hits of the 80s, 90s, and today as he talks about special needs parents using their children for pity, why it's unfair to the kids, his non-verbal son with autism's improving behavior at parties, the key to making that happen, and more.
James Guttman is back with a look at humorous moments from his non-verbal son with autism's interactions with others, their reactions, and how accepting him brought about some open, funny, and honest stories. Plus, the vanishing face of offensive music.
The week has taken a turn for James Guttman as he speaks about coping with grief and the shocking religious sign he received the other day. Plus, in the midst of it all, the passing of his 17-year-old cat Tipsy on Thursday.
On the fifth anniversary of HiBlogImDad.com, James Guttman reflects on how things have changed in the past five years, including a look back at the two articles he republished (for the first time) this week. The first dealt with his quintuple bypass and the life-changing effect it had. The other was the first time he had written about his son's autism and evolving understanding of parenting a non-verbal child on the spectrum.
James Guttman tells the story of a teacher who made a difference by being "cool" and expecting the best versus one who let the kids do anything and taught nothing. He examines how he's emulated one in his fathering, how being open and honest changes everything, the way his son with autism overcame haircut fear, and more.
Continuing the week's raw stories started on HiBlogImDad.com earlier, James Guttman tells another tale he never thought he would. It's the purple-tinged tale from 12th-grade health when a merry teacher chose to mock him rather than teach. Plus, the train incident and the insanity of dropping off his kids at school.
James Guttman looks at this week's HiBlogImDad.com posts including a story about someone who talked trash and then proved, when confronted, that their opinions weren't based on reality. Plus, his non-verbal son's sense of humor, Saving The Cheerleader and Saving the World, along with Miracle Berries, the fruit that lets you eat lemons. Seriously.
James Guttman talks in-depth about living with bipolar disorder, how he was diagnosed, the triggers that he looks out for, and how he's learned to push past the feelings that used to rock him. Also, his non-verbal son's recent issues with autism transitions, why he forgot that was a thing, and the ways they've managed it. Plus, the five year anniversary of HiBlogImDad.com, celebrities you never heard of, life resumes, Lil Tay, Linda McMahon, and more.
Ring in 2022 with James Guttman in an episode that looks back on the most challenging and rewarding year of his life. JG looks back on his first post-divorce year, the people he's blessed to have, the people he's blessed to be rid of, and the family he doesn't know who have their Christmas Card hanging upon his whiteboard.
James Guttman has the Christmas Spirit for, perhaps, the first time ever. James looks at this year's autism-inclusive event, past battles with bipolar and seasonal depression, the disastrous 2019 Christmas, JG's big changes this past year, being grateful for new people in his life, and more. Plus, this week's posts on HiBlogImDad.com and discovering Christmas Lights.
Who has two thumbs and a broken toe? James Guttman. J.G. gives the story of how, on his way to record last week's podcast, he broke his toe. The tale includes the return of the soft-spoken corona-doc from March, learning what a fracture is, the punishment of exercise, and more. Plus, the latest on HiBlogImDad.com about his snazzy non-verbal son with autism's attire, leaving parties early with a special needs child, a TV show that will make anyone feel ancient, the old movies at the Lindenhurst Movie Theater, Shel Silverstein, and a 2nd-grade story that has never faded from the annoying memories section.
James Guttman has just put up his tree and, in his first post-divorce Christmas, is learning about the holiday spirit. James talks frankly about being bipolar, triggers, signs when he was younger, and more. Plus, giving his non-verbal son with autism a chance to just be a kid, decorating for the holidays, and 143 (aw).
James Guttman is thankful even on the final Friday of November for finding his people but offers a cautionary look at how those people can be hard to spot after a lifetime of others. Including the recent reminder he had of how far he's come, the big evolutionary year, rewatching his son with autism's baby videos, 90s nostalgia, and the infamous 1994 story of when James met Joey Buttafuoco.
James Guttman talks about his blog post, "The Year Santa Gave Me Coal For Christmas", and why he felt it was time to speak out, how there are stories far worse than that from his childhood, and the realization he had to come to in order to not repeat the cycle of abuse with his own children. Also, watered-down orange juice for his non-verbal son, dated Mr. Belvedere references, and the time James helped a parrot save the day.
Happy Noveaster! James Guttman explains the annual tradition in his home for those who aren't familiar, what gross food they ate this year, how it started, and why he offered to call it off in 2021. Plus, dealing with an autism diagnosis, the Autism Speaks walk that changed everything for James's family, the mega kid, an impromptu Pete Davidson impression, old Big Brother contestants, and more.
James Guttman looks at the checklists special needs parents need to fill out, trusting teachers to have the best interests of his non-verbal child with autism, when his defensive mode softened, what makes him feel old, and more.
It might not be Halloween, but James Guttman's son, Lucas, is all dressed up in his Raffi costume. James discusses the love his non-verbal son has for Raffi's music, the concert they attended, James's word-for-word memorization of Raffi's 1984 concert in Canada, and more. Plus, misconceptions about special needs families, helping his son learn new things, the wonderful person his daughter recently compared him to (in a terrible way), and much more. Remember, you can now listen to this podcast everywhere including directly on Facebook at - https://www.facebook.com/HiPodImDad
James Guttman looks at the post about his son's special education that Facebook said was "too political" to boost, how we are stopping ourselves from being able to discuss important issues with each other, healing broken hearts, a near fight with a college football team, the times he thought he would die, appreciating the sky, taking his non-verbal son on car rides, and more. Plus, a brand new grumpy old segment.
James Guttman returns with stories of his 2021 rebuilding after a divorce, overcoming hard times, his non-verbal son's autism diagnosis, heart surgery, parents helping kids in art contests, and where the family Elf on a Shelf came from. (HiBlogImDad.com Post: "The Boy In My Son's Window")
James Guttman looks at his non-verbal son's journey into middle school next year, his daughter's concerns about it, and why it doesn't cause him as much anxiety as it probably should. Plus, a great parenting moment, times he assumed his kids were being bad when they weren't (and vice versa), and more.
James Guttman takes you to back to school night and how his first time attending his daughter's middle school tour brought with it epiphanies about education, adulthood, and the inspiration those seven minute speedy introductions brought. Plus, celebrating his new achievements, raising a great special needs sibling, and an unforgettable moment from his childhood...that James wasn't even a part of.
James Guttman looks at the weird things our kids do, including similarities to us that we love to see and the similarities we hate to see. Plus, how some are hard-wired into our DNA, insane bedtime stories, and an important lesson about Halloween decorations.
The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men. Those who attempt to poison and destroy my children will know my name when I lay my vengeance upon thee. Then, James Guttman will get free prison pudding. Plus, autism parenting phrases to know, how to feel old instantly, and a back to school jolt of electricty.
James Guttman repeats weird things in his head and sometimes out loud. You do too. James looks at how similar that is to the way his non-verbal son might call out based on impulse, tantrums, chores, and a Moment of Sanity that happened today.
On this week's show, James Guttman looks at the virtue of patience, starting his life over in 2021, other kids in his son's special needs class, Diff'rent Strokes (seriously), and a new feature's musical intro that hopefully everyone doesn't hate - but no promises.
This week, James Guttman talks about his son's meltdown at the pool and kind words from a stranger, his daughter's strange thoughts about s'mores and how he can relate, plus "IEP", Archie Bunker, and not making excuses.
With his son, Lucas, by his side, James Guttman looks at how his kids keep him going, stimming, the freedom of being hated, and what he tells his daughter is the secret to knowing you're good at something.
James Guttman returns with a look at annoying his children, his non-verbal son's evolving social skills, people who let their kids be weird, adults who expect you to correct behavior that you shouldn't correct, and why horror movies don't let 40 year old men play the hero. Momet of Sanity, Word & Phrases, and More - Tell James your thoughts at: HiBlogImDad.com/Contact
Mentioned HiBlogImDad.com Posts: THE CLEVER WAYS I ANNOY MY CHILDREN, EVERY GOOD BOY DESERVES FUN, THE WAYS MY KID MESSES WITH ME
James Guttman is evolving Hi Pod! with a brand new segment, the return of a favorite, and a ton of topics including his place in Autism Acceptance for others, not being so ready to be offended, those who are, rude comments from people, genuine misunderstanding from others, and the day he decided to just "let them look." Tell James your thoughts at: HiBlogImDad.com/Contact
Mentioned HiBlogImDad.com Posts: Let Them Look, Handling People Who Know Nothing About Autism, The Boy In My Son's Window
This is the podcast that is decades in the making. James Guttman takes you behind the basement door as he looks at the state of his life, friends who have gone, friends he sent away, multiple families lost, and how the most important person never left.
James Guttman is back in full form with a look at awkward moments we all share, how alternate timelines of existence have diminished his trepidation around people, his daughter's first "Moment of Awkward", and more. Plus, a look at the term "special needs" and why he sometimes uses it instead of "autism" for his child, plus how extra time with his non-verbal son today can make a world of difference years from now.
James Guttman spent the morning at the emergency walk-in center with stories of insanity. social media aggravation, and more. Plus, talk of this week's blogs about autism, school, and Chromebooks at HiBlogImDad.com.
James Guttman looks at sending his non-verbal son with autism to school and the different things any parent in his situation needs to do, remember, and realize in order to minimize worry.
James Guttman talks tee ball with his son, the reminder that his special needs child is growing in both abilities and height. Plus the negative thoughts that we all sometimes encounter and how he has learned to manage them.
On the heels of a successful, albeit brief, tee ball outing, James Guttman looks at how he helps his special needs son find new activities, toys, and events he enjoys. Why it can feel thankless and requires time, repetition, patience, repetition, energy, repetition, and repetition.
For the first time, James Guttman speaks out about being Bipolar-1 following Wednesday's blog post. Including how it has affected him, how it flies in the face of preconceived notions, and more. Plus, a look at Monday's blog about worrying for a special needs child and how that can manifest itself in productive ways.
James Guttman shares a story about being "hypnotized" that sums up how we should all approach being positive. Plus, his son's third television in the middle of the night and how it all gets better in the morning. Also a look at this week's blog posts.
Are you a special needs parent without a family or support system? James Guttman can relate...because he is one too.
James Guttman offers some "words of wisdom" based on lessons he's picked up from trial, error, and interacting with people in life. These are the things he tells his daughter to help her navigate the world and things he reminds himself of in order to do the same.
James Guttman talks about long-term anxiety and the ways he was able to eliminate it from his life. Plus, forgiveness, crazy teachers, and how his emotional roller coaster has been going haywire a bit.
James Guttman has shared a lot of his life, but these ten things many, even those he knows personally, might not be aware of. JG's list, like any of ours, goes from shocking to silly. From near-death experiences to Hootie & The Blowfish.
James Guttman looks at how the challenges we face can create bitterness for others. He also looks at how the bitterness from others can create bitterness for others too. Yet, staying true to yourself is all that really matters. Plus, his non-verbal son's early morning mosh-pitting, Autism Inclusion, and much more.
James Guttman opens up in a podcast unlike any other he has done, looking at his own childhood and how he managed to avoid the abusive cycle he saw from others. James talks about the methods he used to see the world differently and how others in his position don't have to be like the people that may have hurt them. Plus, his evolving life and a very open week on HiBlogImDad.com
James Guttman is back after a month with a look at Autism Awareness Month and the backlash that it sometimes faces. JG looks at those in the community who are offended at the idea, why he gets it but doesn't always agree, the lines he tries not to cross when writing about his kids, why he began HiBlogImDad.com to start with, and more. Also, the strange lingering effect from his COVID battle last month.
Some people got hammered on St. Patrick's Day. James Guttman got COVID.
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James Guttman talks insane childhood interactions retained within his brain including jokes that made no sense, Luchiese The Boy Wonder, and Bill Walker (go tell your father).
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James Guttman is making things happen and telling his daughter she can too. JG looks at his new position as content editor for TheRichest.com, how it came about, and the piece of advice he was told as a kid that held him back for decades. Plus, coping with good news in a positive way and more.
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After a morning that sadly didn't include coffee, James Guttman gives details on the realities of handicap parking, what made him realize he needed it for his son, why it's not what people think, and the heartbreaking drop-off at school because of it. Plus, a bonehead story left out of this week's blog about how easy it is to accidentally screw your kids up.
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Lucas is the unofficial non-verbal co-host as James Guttman looks at how divorce has affected his sleeping pattern, time with the kids, and why some stories seem sad, when they're not...but kind of still are.
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With Lucas yelling in the background, James Guttman explains how much better life is when you can finally admit to certain things including his son's autism, stories of his upbringing, his insane heart surgery fallout, the cablevision bird man, and more.
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James Guttman continues his unfiltered week with a podcast that is both open and honest about his estranged relationship with his family, the catalyst to his heart attack, and finally betting on himself at 43 years old.
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When the Joker tells his tale, Batman is a jerk. James Guttman looks at accepting the fact that we all are portrayed in different ways when different stories are told by different people.
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James Guttman on two things that he has never discussed before - his estrangement from his family following heart surgery and his upcoming divorce. He looks at the parallels of his life and the reason why no one should ever tell you that you can't tell others your own story.
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Anxiety isn't just stress just like depression isn't just sadness. James Guttman looks at how his own anxious feelings manifest themselves in the absence of stress and how it has evolved through the years.
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Are you happy? It's not a trick question. James Guttman looks at a sentence that can require a lot more thinking than it should and how, as the years go by, he's learning how to truly be happy.
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It's officially 2021 and James Guttman is recording this episode on New Year's Day. JG looks at resolutions, evolutions, and why exactly the new year brings new hope. Plus why sometimes charting a new path in the new year works and why sometimes it doesn't.
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Merry Christmas, 2020! James Guttman looks at a holiday season that definitely had more ups than downs including his Elf on a Shelf disaster, the annual tradition of Sadder Claus fighting his daughter, and the story of Archibald, Reginald, and Captain Crazy Pants!
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Bad day? James Guttman has those. Had one yesterday morning, but it stayed there. James looks at the awful advice to "not let them see that they got to you" and why, if it's not real, it's not helpful. How to stay genuinely positive in the face of adversity and why an extended bout of anger or a false smile doesn't help you in the long-run.
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Brutally honest, this week's episode has James Guttman talking about his personal struggles with depression, both seasonal and otherwise, and how he's learned to get ahead of it. From the tale of his December quintuple bypass that changed his life to the memories the holidays bring up to last year's disastrous Christmas, James bears his soul to talk about something he feels many others can relate to, but few talk about.
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James Guttman on the mandates surrounding COVID-19, understanding both sides of the argument, how those in power aren't helping, and the desire to make it through even when it seems there's nothing there to make it through to.
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What we say to kids stays with them forever. James Guttman offers stories of crazy teachers from his childhood including the gym teacher who beat up a 6th grader and how the things adults say can have long lasting effects on any child.
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Happy Noveaster! James Guttman is back to talk about this year's fifth annual celebration in his house, plus a look at how you - yeah you - may not be able to do anything, but you can do whatever you believe yourself capable of. With personal stories about how the world will try to knock you down for good, but can't unless you let it.
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Do you have toxic people in your world? James Guttman has been around them his whole life and tells you the warning signs to discover who they are, what they do, and how to move forward without letting them spin you back around.
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Social media may tell you to "keep going, mama", but dads are doing their part too. James Guttman is one of them and he talks about the annoyance of reading memes about fathers not doing their part. He gives examples, stories, and insight into why we should expect more from fathers and not make them feel unwanted in a community that needs them. Plus, a look at the term "autism parent" and why he doesn't use the word "autistic" to describe his son (but doesn't have an issue if someone else does).
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James Guttman is having a rare week and, if his blog posts haven't told you, then he will himself. JG's raw grasp of sanity is explained in detail dating back to his surprise quintuple bypass, coming to grips with his son's autism, trying to squash anxiety, and thoughts about karma not existing at all. Unfiltered. That's a good word for it.
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Everyone is busy picking sides and James Guttman, author ofThe Expectant Father's Activity Book, explains how arguing keeps us all divided while discussions can help find a happy medium. He then looks at the new idea of "losing it in front of your kids" is the perfect example of why that thinking is flawed. Plus, JG's newest venture as writer and breaking news analyst for BabyGaga!
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James Guttman, author of The Expectant Father's Activity Book, looks at the plight of picture-taking when your child has autism. Including photo shoots for his non-verbal son, professional "autism-friendly" photographers who weren't, candid shots, class pictures, and the way his boy has done his part to make his picture-loving dad happy. Plus, as is up on Instagram, JG's kids - the DVD series.
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James Guttman, author of The Expectant Father's Activity Book, presents five vital, but overlooked tips that any new dad should take notes on. Plus, this week's blog posts, and all the insanity that comes from raising a non-verbal nine year old son with autism and a nonstop verbal preteen daughter with attitude.
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As James Guttman prepares for the release of his new book this Tuesday, he talks openly about issues he has with celebrating his own achievements. While looking back at some of the struggles releasing his first titles in an industry that eats its own, JG speaks about the overwhelming support from some, the stinging lack of support from others, and why learning to love yourself is the key to it all.
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Prepare to cringe as James Guttman looks back at his time at the Music Together "Mommy and Me" program with his son, Lucas, whose special needs were first becoming apparent. How apparent? He laid down on a baby. What? Yeah. You need to hear this.
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Having a rough day? James Guttman can relate and this is the episode for you. James doesn’t sugar-coat his own struggles. He also talks why he stays brutally honest when telling the story of his non-verbal son with autism, bloggers who veer too far in positive/negative directions, and learning how to be proud of himself.
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After long last, James Guttman can finally announce that his new book, The Expectant Father's Activity Book, is available for preorder on Amazon (https://amzn.to/3klOWMa) and wherever books are sold. JG goes through the process of writing it, how it stands out from other titles, and tons more in a podcast months in the making. Plus, how he tamed his non-verbal Lord of the Living Room on Monday, vowing to not let the summer/lockdown blues keep his child with autism cooped up inside.
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With a big announcement just days away, James Guttman looks at the high price we pay for not spoiling our children, what he's learned about dealing with his non-verbal son's silent protests in public places, and more. Plus the story of a special needs father whose interaction with his daughter in the lobby of a preschool taught him how to deal with his own son years later.
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James Guttman is tired - a two and a half second tired, at that - and his kids are to blame. Channeling Bernie Mack, JG explains it all. Plus, a look at how he still can't stop himself from being the embarrassing dad to his twelve year old daughter and the beautiful gentle nature that autism has given his non-verbal son...and how so many in the world can't even fathom it.
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James Guttman watches plenty of shows below his age range, but his kids appreciate every minute. JG talks about the importance of loving the activities, events, and programs that your kids do from Liv and Maddie to Big Brother and how The Brady Bunch taught him the life lesson that made it happen. Plus, how this point of view extends to his son with Autism too.
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You may have done good things for others and still had people burn you for it. The trick is to not let it change or destroy you. James Guttman is committed to that, but, man, is it ever hard sometimes. So for those who have betrayed, attacked, trolled, and hurt us, and for those who have chosen sides against us before knowing if there even was a side, this is for you.
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James Guttman discusses all the things he has helped his non-verbal child with autism learn including things he never thought possible. Plus, talking about concern over masks in a Covid world for a child with sensory issues, mental health breaks, and more.
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The bonds between a brother and sister go beyond words or spectrums. James Guttman looks at the relationship between his neurotypical daughter and his non-verbal son including what he, as a father, does to help those bonds grow, stories of protection, and the similarities that are hard-wired into their DNA. Plus, sending his special needs child back to school after lockdown, brawling with your kids, and more.
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James Guttman looks at why it's important to remember his life before having a child with Autism and not erasing his days of ignorance about it. His non-verbal son, to some, might be their only exposure to Autism and James works to give them the best possible example while remembering that they could represent an entire community.
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James Guttman looks at how a sudden heart surgery changed a lifetime of stress. How things ranging from having a non-verbal child to frantic bosses seem like they would knock him back, but they don't. Including childhood stories, reasons, and tips. Rate, review, like, and subscribe, Poodle Noodle.
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Sometimes it's not what someone says but how and when they say it. James Guttman looks at comments and questions he's heard about his non-verbal child with autism that can stir up some pretty deep emotions, often unintentionally.
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In what might be one of the most controversial and pointed shows to date, James Guttman looks at the protests and the response people have had to them, how he explains what is happening to his daughter, thoughts on Black Lives Matter, thoughts on good cops vs. bad cops, and more. Also, the battle over his son's summer services and anger with New York deeming liquor stores and summer camps essential, but his son's right to an education falling through the cracks. With the podcast on the verge of some big changes, this is one that you don't want to miss.
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A 15 Minute Day Of Fun: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/06/01/a-15-minute-day-of-fun/ Her Seriously Ridiculous Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/06/03/her-seriously-ridiculous-dad/ Nearly Missing Our Greatest Memories: https://hiblogimdad.com/2017/07/05/nearly-missing-our-greatest-memories/**
Life is returning to normal and James Guttman looks at his first post coronavirus Target run and the toll that cancelled summer school in New York will take on his non-verbal son. Plus, his daughter's first year of middle school being cut short, the clubs James loved that his daughter wouldn't hear of, and more. Then, it's a look at online bullying and torment, the role that Hana Kimura's passing played in the writing of one of his blog posts, and gross stories from parenting young children in an always-evolving, jam-packed show.
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- The Giant Baby Bottle Incident: https://www.instagram.com/p/CAxcrupBHMp/ **---
This Week's Referenced Posts -
- Letting Her Have Her Own Dreams: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/25/letting-her-have-her-own-dreams/ - A Note To The Rude, Bitter, and Broken:** https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/27/a-note-to-the-rude-bitter-and-broken/
With his daughter's birthday around the corner, James Guttman looks at the influx of birthday parades during the coronavirus pandemic - the good, the bad, and the annoying. Plus, the yearly tradition he does each year for her birthday, the woes of being a kid with a summer birthday, and more. Also, JG goes in-depth on his blogs from the week about mental illness, the stigma that surrounds it, the surprising place where he first realized how misunderstood it often is, and what we should all do to support each other. Plus, how to teach a non-verbal child with autism about danger. (Spoiler Alert: It's tough!)
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- The Room Full of Balloons Tradition: https://www.instagram.com/p/CAfeA0Fhviy/ **---
This Week's Referenced Posts -
- The Deafening Silence of Mental Illness: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/18/the-deafening-silence-of-mental-illness/ - Teaching My Non-Verbal Son About Danger: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/20/teaching-my-non-verbal-son-about-danger/ - Sad For No Reason: https://hiblogimdad.com/2018/10/15/sad-for-no-reason/**
James Guttman taught his daughter an important life lesson this week...through socks. Now, JG explains how his partnership with DivvyUp custom socks allowed him to keep the memory of his cat, Buddy, alive for his 11 year old. He looks at grief as a whole, why ignoring the pain only pushes it forward, and all the things he's picked up from loss through the years. Plus, the tales of his non-verbal son's incredibly loud wake-up calls, going nuts in quarantine, the return of his Starbucks, a pool party his son attended, and why his daughter refused to talk to a kid in the pool on vacation.
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This Week's Referenced Posts -
- Two Feet Of Memories: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/11/two-feet-of-memories/ - Cleaning Up The Crash Scene: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/13/cleaning-up-the-crash-scene/ - Before and After: https://hiblogimdad.com/2017/03/08/before-and-after/ - Empty, Tired, and Sick To My Stomach: https://hiblogimdad.com/2019/05/06/empty-tired-and-sick-to-my-stomach/**
This week, James Guttman tackles celebrity culture and how we don't know the people on television like we think we do. Featuring a Moment of Sanity intro from Nickie Weisensee Egan of the Chasing Cosby Podcast and book, James speaks about how that podcast changed his entire view of the Bill Cosby trial, Cosby as a person, and why #MeToo should transcend gender in its supporters. Plus, James offers a story of a wrestler he interacted with who was nothing like people expected. Also, a look at school closing during the coronavirus lockdown, how it has potential to severely impact his non-verbal son, dealing with unexpected grief during a happy family outing in 2014, and more.
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This Week's Referenced Posts -
- And Then They Canceled The Rest Of The School Year: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/04/and-then-they-canceled-the-rest-of-the-school-year/ - An Important Part Of Being A Grown Up: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/06/an-important-part-of-being-a-grown-up/ - Then Why Do We Do It?: https://hiblogimdad.com/2019/03/25/then-why-do-we-do-it/**
It's literal now, but it's always been true. James Guttman can't take these kids anywhere. With his daughter, Olivia, joining him for a Moment of Sanity looking at ridiculous restaurant antics, Tik Tok challenges, Jelly Fruits, and the $30 12-pack of apple juice you bite because it sounds like an apple (what?!), it's a view of life as the dad to a daughter who's eleven going on terrifying. Plus, why smiling at strangers doesn't have the same impact during a pandemic, public views on children with nonverbal autism, and a restaurateur giving back to the community during Covid-19.
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This Week's Referenced Posts -
- If I Had An Autism Magic Wand: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/27/if-i-had-an-autism-magic-wand/ - Eleven Going On Terrifying: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/29/eleven-going-on-terrifying/ - My Kids Embarrass Me At Restaurants: https://hiblogimdad.com/2018/09/05/my-kids-embarrass-me-at-restaurants/**
Hi Pod! It's James Guttman looking at raising kids and wearing masks. After speaking about the support he has received following the pet episode, James talks at how his daughter has handled grief like a champ. Then, JG takes a look at his non-verbal son's propensity for eating, how he uses that to increase communication, the perils of handling disobedience as an autism parent, and why certain things have to be done differently. From there, following a Moment of Sanity from a fraternity brother wise beyond his years, he turns to bullying, the class he took about it, and why he's glad his children are in this generation rather than the one before it.
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This Week's Referenced Posts -
- Please, Kid, Stop Eating: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/20/please-kid-stop-eating/ - Handling Disobedience For My Child With Autism: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/22/handling-disobedience-when-your-child-has-autism/**
Following the loss of his cat, Buddy, after 15 years, James Guttman talks about the importance of pets in our lives, how past grief doesn't soften the blow of losing a long time pet, stories of getting Buddy, how Tipsy (his other cat) immediately protected him, stories of how his pets behaved in ways that he never expected, and more. Plus, talk of raising a daughter, why "losing your baby" isn't really a loss, the ways Autism Awareness affects his family, and other topics.
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- Buddy & Tipsy On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/B_FSpjxh9QM/ **---
This Week's Referenced Posts -
- Where Did That Baby Go?: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/13/where-did-that-baby-go/ - Losing Our Buddy: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/15/losing-our-buddy/ - Why autism awareness, understanding and acceptance is important to us: https://www.autismspeaks.org/blog/why-autism-awareness-understanding-and-acceptance-important-us**
James Guttman is wearing his leather Dexter gloves and a homemade facemask for another week behind locked Covid-19 doors. James looks at how the extended social distance has affected us all including his kids. Plus, his thoughts on Autism Appreciation for his son Lucas, how autism (and far more) make him a wonderful person, stories of the first time they bonded in Lucas's world, and more. Finally, it's a Moment of Sanity intro from the a special education teacher who happens to be the daughter of wrestling's greatest announcer...EVER followed by stories of James bringing his daughter to her first wrestling event, why she was willing to sit through AJ Styles versus Undertaker this week, and the wrestling shirts his son happily lets him force into his wardrobe.
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- Olivia's Magic Trampoline Picture on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/B-kbwcHhXFW/ **---
This Week's Referenced Posts -
- How Are The Kids?: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/06/how-are-the-kids/ - More Than Autism: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/08/more-than-autism/ - Why Does Autism Make Him Do That?: https://hiblogimdad.com/2017/02/15/why-does-autism-make-him-do-that/**
Don’t hate, appreciate. James Guttman is here with a packed edition of Hi Pod looking at Autism Awareness Month, why he says “person with autism” rather than “autistic”, the importance of not building walls around loved ones with autism, what “autism awareness” was like in the 1980s, the Twilight Zone episode that proves autism isn’t new, what Jake The Snake vs. Rick Rude taught him about defending his family’s honor, and more. Plus, appreciation for what we’re all going through right now, those who divide the world up into groups, how insane that it is at a time like this, and more. Then, a Moment of Sanity that looks at the importance of grandparents, including some stories of how his late father-in-law showed him what it meant to be a father figure, and how both he and his wife embraced both their grandchildren – on and off the spectrum.
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Parenting a child with autism during COVID 19 (Autism Speaks): https://www.autismspeaks.org/blog/parenting-child-autism-during-covid-19 Mutual Awareness, Mutual Acceptance: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/30/mutual-awareness-mutual-acceptance/ No Offense For Autism Awareness: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/01/no-offense-for-autism-awareness/
We’re living in the part of the story they skip in the zombie movies. Rick Grimes slept through it. These times “when everything changed” is retold later in the post-apocalyptic world by warriors wearing bones as hats. Anyway, how are you? Good? Good. James Guttman looks at our new normal, roller coaster moods over a quarantined life, his memories as a New Yorker on September 11th, and more Twilight Zone references than he really should. Plus, a welcome Moment of Sanity talking about how our children may grow up before our eyes, but they stay the same – for better or worse.
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This Week's Referenced Posts -
We’re Going To Miss These Chaos Days: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/23/were-going-to-miss-these-chaos-days/ Positively Fed-Up: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/25/positively-fed-up/
So...what's new this week? Oh yeah. Armageddon. James Guttman is locked in his house as Coronamania sweeps the world. It's a look at how to talk to your kids about pressing times, homeschoolin' with sock puppets, stealing cookies, and more. Plus a Moment of Sanity that praises the teachers, teaching aids, and all educators of the world while also going over the time the aggressively pleasant Dad on the microphone almost started a high school brawl on the way to his son's class party.
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This Week's Referenced Posts -
Calmly Talking To Your Kids About The End Of The World: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/16/calmly-talking-to-your-kids-about-the-end-of-the-world/ The Social Distance Of An Autism Parent: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/18/the-social-distance-of-an-autism-parent/ Click, Click, Boom: https://hiblogimdad.com/2019/05/20/click-click-boom/
With his non-verbal son's birthday around the corner, James Guttman looks at how the annual celebration has changed (for the better) through the years. Plus, the importance of both his children supporting each other, thoughts on meeting your child's friends when your child can't tell you who they are, a random act of kindness from a stranger on a plane, writing for Autism Speaks, thoughts for those who forget that autism might mean something different for different people, and more. Plus, a Moment of Sanity from long time friends, a story that can finally be told without anonymity, a well-deserved trip up a bouncy ladder, and the Mandisa song that has been changing mornings since preschool.
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This Week's Posts -
Autism Speaks - A moment of unexpected kindness towards my son: https://www.autismspeaks.org/blog/moment-unexpected-kindness-towards-my-son Autism Support Goes Both Ways: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/09/autism-support-goes-both-ways/ A Perfect Nonverbal Birthday: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/11/a-perfect-non-verbal-birthday/ Posts Mentioned On This Week's Episode:
It's His Favorite Song: https://hiblogimdad.com/2019/07/01/its-his-favorite-song/ Hi Pod! Episode 3 - Because I'm The Daddy, That's Not Why: http://hipodimdad.com.buzzsprout.com/659650/2018796-because-i-m-the-daddy-that-s-not-why**
In, what has been a whirlwind week James Guttman discusses his debut blog post for Autism Speaks. JG talks about how this piece of the puzzle fits perfectly in his life and the pride he has bringing stories of his children to AutismSpeaks.org just as he has for HiBlogImDad.com. Plus, a look back at showing his daughter the importance of being a friend, how his own grief made the lesson so important, focusing on milestones your child reaches rather than misses, and more. Then, it's a Moment of Sanity on learning about his non-verbal son's life at school including friends, goals, and achievements, and how that can sometimes take some extra work to find out.
Autism Speaks Debut: "My Son May Be Different, But We're All Different": https://www.autismspeaks.org/blog/my-son-may-be-different-were-all-different
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This Week's Posts -
Raising Her To Be The Friend I Wasn't: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/02/raising-her-to-be-the-friend-i-wasnt/
Autism Isn't About Impossibilities: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/04/autism-isnt-about-impossibilities/**
It's been a big week for James Guttman and, as he prepares for some exciting news, he looks back on the posts that dealt with raising kids in a world where it's sometimes hard to face another day, defining what he meant by calling out the people who judge those with autism in a harsh way online, what those people don't understand, and more. Then, after a Moment of Sanity intro from Maureen of the Autism at the Parks, JG goes back to Disney for a life lesson he taught his daughter in the face of a rude interaction and the impromptu sociological experiment that played out before their eyes.
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Check Out The Awesome "Autism At The Parks" Story: http://www.autismattheparks.com/index.html ---
This Week's Posts -
If Not For These Kids: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/02/24/if-not-for-these-kids/
For Those Who Judge My Child's Autism From Afar: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/02/26/for-those-who-judge-my-childs-autism-from-afar/**
Haters gonna hate. That doesn't make it any less infuriating. James Guttman talks about how that one tormenter can drown out the positives, but why you shouldn't beat yourself up for letting that happen. Plus, the plight of teaching his son not to steal your food, not being a parenting cliche to his children, and more. Then, in a Moment of Sanity, he's joined by his daughter Olivia to talk about middle school issues ranging from puke on the school bus pickles and cheese on a sleepover and Creeped Out on Netlfix.
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You Don’t Have To Be A Parenting Cliché: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/02/17/you-dont-have-to-be-a-parenting-cliche/
Teaching My Son To Not Steal Your French Fries: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/02/19/teaching-my-son-to-not-steal-your-french-fries/**
Let’s head back to the 1990s with James Guttman, The Simpsons, Girl Scout Cookies, and Playstation One. Including the stories from his fraternity that he’s legally allowed to share, Boys 2 Men, plus brothers he’s lost and memories he’s ready to remember again. So, come on. Let’s go back to Hofstra. It’ll be funny. People will be like, “wha-a-a?”
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This Week's Posts -
My Family Deals Girl Scout Cookies: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/02/10/my-family-deals-girl-scout-cookies/ I Want To Give My Non-Verbal Son Everything...But Shouldn't: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/02/12/i-want-to-give-my-non-verbal-son-everything-but-shouldnt/ ---
Moment of Sanity Posts -
Survivor's Guilt: https://hiblogimdad.com/2018/09/24/survivors-guilt/ Empty, Tired, and Sick To My Stomach: https://hiblogimdad.com/2019/05/06/empty-tired-and-sick-to-my-stomach/**
It's the three year anniversary of Hi Blog! I'm Dad and James Guttman looks back on the main reason why he began writing about his family to begin with. Plus, a look at trips to Walt Disney World, the accommodations they offer to guests with special needs, the Michael Jackson Snow White, and the time Grandpa beat up Alice in Wonderland. Plus, a reminder that our kids aren't as cute to the outside world as they are to us.
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Autism Acceptance? Great. Autism Appreciation? Even better. Autism Awareness? Well...not so much. James Guttman looks at why this hashtag, often looked down upon in some circles, can be important for those who aren't exposed to Autism on a daily basis with real-life examples of terrible plane rides that weren't so terrible because of it. Plus, some stories about the ways in which his non-verbal son's Autism has affected his family's life including delicious chalk, sneezy sushi, and birds that don't exist (no matter what the cable guy says).
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It's a question often wondered but rarely asked. How does a parent communicate with their non-verbal child? James Guttman reveals that it's not just one, but five different approaches that makes something that once seemed impossible more than possible. He details the different methods that he and his son with Autism use to interact including the way his family implemented each one, the order they happened, and a side rant about the way companies charge far more for "special needs" necessities than they need to (and the sled that proves his point). Plus, crane games, arcade tickets, and a story that can only be told now that the statue of limitations has run out.
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Sending a non-verbal child onto the school bus can be more difficult for the parent than the kid. That was the case for James Guttman as JG looks at the challenges that came with that first bus ride, the peace of mind conversation he couldn't have beforehand with "the baby of the family", crazy stories of crazy bus aides, and much more. Plus a Moment of Insanity intro from the coolest wrestler in WCW history and a look at the shows you can share with your kids including Fifteen, The Next Step, Liv and Maddie, and the Diff'rent Strokes where Sam almost got his parents killed.
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A child on the autism spectrum might learn in unique ways at times. James Guttman looks at one way that he and his daughter used an unconventional technique to teach his non-verbal son an important lesson. Plus, the cartoonish Gamestop visit that made it important, why keeping a list of milestones is even more important, and other reasons Godzilla was unleashed. Plus, a look at James's return to The Mighty (https://themighty.com/2020/01/dad-son-autism-not-hero/) and an in-depth look at Monday's post about losing the "crown jewel" behind his son's behavioral therapy (https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/01/06/losing-his-crown-jewel/). Then it's a clutter-clearing Moment of Sanity that looks at youth sports and how JG's little league record shows that wins and losses don't mean much at that age.
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Oh...and that Al Leiter picture... https://www.instagram.com/p/B7I8_LUBGEq//
Twas the month after Christmas and James Guttman was thrilled. JG returns for season two with a look back on the disaster that was the holiday season, how the festive spirit can kick the tinsel out of the best of us, the red flag story of his crazy eyed boss and his buggy permanent tree, and more. Plus, a lesson about making memories...and the Great Boston Molasses Flood of 1919.
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It's the Hi Pod! Holiday Special that any fan of toys, wrestling, and special guests needs to hear. James Guttman is joined by his daughter, Olivia, for the first time to give you a guide on how to talk to kids about the popular gifts of the season. You'll never have to hear "OK Boomer" again!
Then, it's a major surprise from the wrestling world for the Moment of Sanity intro as JG takes a look back at his past world of wrestling insanity and talks about conducting some of the Internet's first ever wrestling podcasts with stories about tons of stars like Kevin Nash, Buff Bagwell, The Rock's mom, Donald Trump (?) and more. Plus, a personal story about how the passing of Lance Cade changed his perspective on celebrity culture and the wrestling industry as a whole. (starting at the 23:14 marker)
It all closes out with a message from RD Lee of Pops For Patients on how you can brighten a hospitalized child's day this holiday season. You don't want to miss this jam-packed edition!
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Thinking about going to therapy? James Guttman wasn't, but he's glad he did. James talks about all the reasons he didn't want to and provides answers to all the questions he had that kept him away for his entire life. Plus, why he speaks openly about a subject he was raised to keep private. Plus, a Moment of Sanity that went from being the least favorite thing he did to something he barely notices.
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Parenting stories are fun to share, but there's a delicate balance when it comes to maintaining the privacy of your child. James Guttman looks at how he strives to do that with both his non-verbal son and his overly-verbal daughter. Plus, a Moment of Sanity that shows how keeping memories alive is rewarded in the long run.
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If an adult can wear a pony costume to a comic convention, an eight year old with Autism can watch Sesame Street. James Guttman talks about his non-verbal son's unique views on entertainment including Sesame Street Live, the thrift store salesperson from the Twilight Zone, a speech teacher that steered him in the wrong direction, and more. Plus, a Moment of Sanity that embodies the phrase "Reading Is Fundamental."
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In the latest edition of Hi Pod! I’m Dad, James Guttman explains the desire to have his son with Autism included in all the places he deserves to be, but for the right reasons. Plus, the Facebook post that led to the creation of Hi Blog, the unexpected source that made him see his child had more than just “delays”, the story of how a joyous preschool graduation became a heart-breaking nightmare, and emerging from the other side of it all with happiness and pride. Plus, a Moment of Sanity that talks about Noveaster, Sadder Claus, and patriotic inception photos that redefined his holidays.
Saying "I'm not their friend, I'm their father" depends on how you define friend. James Guttman explains his definition and looks at teaching them not just right from wrong but why. Plus, the deal he made with his daughter, a lesson in karma, shock over his own age, the guy who never apologized, and many more parenting moments that seem to fly in the face of conventional wisdom. Plus, this week's Moment of Sanity found in the most unexpected places.
You can be aware of it. You can accept it. Autism Appreciation, however, is an entirely different thing. James Guttman explains how his non-verbal son taught him exactly what that means. From the early days of uncertainty to the realization that Autism isn't the boogeyman it was portrayed to be, it's a frank explanation of why he wouldn't wave a magic wand to change his son into anything other than the eight year old boy he has grown to be.
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Everyone has their own unique story. In our debut episode, James Guttman tells his full story for the first time ever. From becoming a parent and dealing with his son's early signs of Autism to how an unexpected heart surgery literally changed everything. Plus, the first ever weekly "Moment of Sanity".
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From James Guttman, the Dad behind "Hi Blog! I'm Dad", Hi Pod looks at raising a non-verbal child with Autism and a non-stop verbal child without after surviving a quintuple bypass at 35 years old.
After getting a new lease on a life and a new stress-free point of view, JG breaks free of past insanity to show that families, no matter the needs of those in them, are all really the same. Focusing not just on Autism Awareness, but Autism Acceptance, and Autism Appreciation. New episodes every Friday starting on October 25th!