Boy vs. Girl: A Podcast: Recent Episodes
Rachel Leventhal-Weiner & Matthew Dicks
A podcast about gender and gender stereotypes from a self-described expert on gender issues (the boy) (Matthew Dicks) who has spent the last two decades immersed in female culture and a sociologist (the girl) (Rachel Leventhal-Weiner) who is an actual scholar with actual credentials.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matthew Dicks and Rachel Leventhal Weiner discuss the sexualized moves of young dances on Dancing with the Stars Junior, the implications of male urination in the world of physics, and they answer a question about why men don't wear dresses.
On this episode of Boy vs. Girl, hosts Matt and Rachel discuss women preferring women in politics, men choosing to play field hockey, and they answer a listener question about why Lean Cuisine is ignoring men.
In #113, Rachel thinks out loud about the interactions between people and specifically the little gestures that happen every day. There's a call for "beach body" stories and thoughts and as ever, we appreciate your reviews and ratings--it helps other people find Boy vs. Girl.
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In #112, we return with a conversation that ranges from household chores to gender neutral clothing to interview attire. Matt and Rachel wonder whether dishes are wrecking their marriages (Matt says no, Rachel says also no but Matt wonders whether that's true) and in our mystery segment, we learn Matt may not have a current resume.
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On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt questions why three specific things in the world remain gendered and invites listeners to be on the lookout for similarly gendered things.
On this episode of Boy vs. Girl, hosts Matt and Rachel discuss the recent kerfuffle between Samantha Bee and Ivanka Trump, the media storm surrounding J. Crew's feminist boy tee shirt, and they answer a listener question about the royal wedding.
LINKS:
J.Crew feminist tee-shirt:
https://www.fastcompany.com/40580488/j-crew-under-fire-for-promoting-boy-in-a-feminist-t-shirt
On this minipod, Rachel discusses a video making the rounds on social media and how two levels of stereotypes are really destructive to kids and parents. Check out the video on our Facebook page: facebook.com/boyvgirlpodcast
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We're back with another conversation about gender and gender stereotypes.
On #108, Rachel loves how James Comey was given the "who are you wearing" treatment by GQ at the start of his book junket. Matt relays a story about a husband protecting his wife on an airplane. And together Rachel and Matt answer a mystery question about waging war on the patriarchy while studying abroad.
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On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt talks about his recent experience on Boston's very male-centric Freedom Trail.
On this episode, we're back with a new conversation about gender and gender stereotypes! Matt wants to know why women won't go for the joke. Rachel wants to know if guys really support changing the Senate rules. And we both respond to a question about gender and road rage. As ever, check out our Facebook page: facebook.com.boyvgirlpodcast. Tweet at us: @boyvgirlpodcast. And send us feedback about the show to bvgpodcast@gmail.com.
On this episode of the podcast, Matt talks about a recent trip to a Mohawk reservation and his decision to confront gender inequity and his indecision over whether or not he was right.
In #104, Matt gets furious over a tweet that divides rather than unites us. Then Rachel gets furious over what she thinks are silly hygiene products. And in our mystery segment, Matt and Rachel puzzle through whether being into a body part is sexist.
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In this minipod, Rachel wants to know how her daughter feels about American Girl Dolls. Enjoy this minipod where we think about gender and dolls.
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On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel discuss the pressures associated with being boys and girls, the challenges of crying at work, and they answer a question about reactions to appearing on the big screen at sporting events.
A cameo appearance by Rachel's husband, David, as well.
In this episode, Matt and his five year-old son, Charlie, talk about Charlie's unusual kindergarten class and almost as unusual dance class. They also cover a little bit of anatomy, and Matt learns who Charlie likes more: him or his wife.
On our 100th episode, we reflect on the episodes we've produced and we answer new exceptional mystery questions. We love to hear your feedback and ideas--keep your emails and comments coming. Send feedback to bvgpodcast@gmail.com and check us out on Facebook: facebook.com/boyvgirlpodcast.
We're racking up the episodes--finally some new conversations! On #99, we think about masculinity and the Olympics, the circumstances of infidelity, and gender and sizeism. As ever, we love to hear your feedback--rate or review us on Apple Podcasts and send us feedback about the show to bvgpodcast@gmail.com.
We may have discussed that whole man flu thing too soon, because the flu has taken Rachel out of commission. While we prep some new material, enjoy this oldie by goodie--our first discussion of the man cold from Episode 6!
This episode started out as an exploration of gendered morning routines and ended with querying beauty standards. Thanks to co-host David Weiner and loyal listeners for their contributions!
It's episode #97! We're so close to 100! In this episode, Matt and Rachel discuss pay equity in Iceland and scientific evidence of the man flu. Plus they get a hilarious (and curious) mystery question about whether male yogis should take prenatal yoga.
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On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt discusses the gender disparity of storytellers in the workshops that he teaches.
In our 95th episode, we discuss the evolution of Getty images and a recent study of self-censorship in graduate school. We also take on a listener question about the stereotypes about the other gender we wish we could adopt. As always, check out extra content on facebook.com/boyvgirlpodcast and leave us a review or a rating wherever you listen!
Matt and Rachel will be recording together again soon. In the meantime, enjoy this rebroadcast of last year's new year's resolution show. Check out our 2017 resolution progress and our 2018 goals at our respective websites: Rachel's on www.roguecheerios.com and Matt's on www.matthewdicks.com.
Happy new year!
On this last episode of 2016, Matt and Rachel set some gender based resolutions for 2017 and think about the Million Woman March. In the mystery question segment, they try (with little success) to understand what the hell happened.
In this minipod, Rachel is inspired by her daughter's experience in phys ed to explore girls and sports.
Rachel and Matt will be back together soon with new content. In the meantime, remember to leave us a review or a rating wherever you get your podcasts and send us feedback about the show to bvgpodcast@gmail.com.
In our 93rd episode, we discuss a social experiment about taking compliments and what it takes for ladies to get to the top of the career ladder. And in a hilarious (to Rachel) mystery segment, we discuss everyone's favorite topic: flatulence.
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In this episode of Boy vs. Girl. Matt brings Elysha to the table to discuss something they oddly have in common:
They both attended all-women's colleges.
On this 91st episode, we try to understand all men in light of the Matt Lauer announcement, Rachel offers Matt Dicks some advice about responding to rage on social media, and we take a listener question about aging. As ever, rate or review us and please share the podcast with a friend. Thanks for listening!
Listeners, you have been patient! We have a brand new episode coming on Tuesday but in the meantime, I couldn't resist sharing this quick little blooper reel from our most recent recording session. Matt's menagerie usually interrupts once a session but this time, they were pretty active. Hope you enjoy!
In this minipod, Rachel interviews her husband, David, and a podcast listener about their thoughts on the mental load.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matthew Dicks and Rachel Leventhal-Weiner debate the gendered nature of homelessness, the Democrat-Republican split when it comes to female advancement in America, and they answer a question about Hillary Clinton's new book.
On this episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt talks to his eight year-old daughter, Clara, about gender and gender-related issues.
Om this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel discuss Harvey Weinstein and sexual harassment and assault. Then they answer a mystery question about the stigma behind one night stands.
On #86, we wonder if sexism is too pervasive at work, if men working has prevented the apocalypse and whether first day of school blues are gendered. We love your mystery questions so keep them coming--send them to bvgquestion@gmail.com.
In this episode, we wonder whether shorts can save the planet, how we'll survive four years with this Commander in Chief, and who has more stuff. Take a minute to share the podcast, rate or review us and send us feedback (bvgpodcast@gmail.com). You can send mystery questions to bvgquestion@gmail.com.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel discuss if it's ever appropriate for men to touch women in a social setting, the nature of male friendship, and a mystery topic on the hazards of streaking.
On this episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel discuss if video games are ruining the lives of young men, was Louise Linton's apology gendered, and should we be angry with white American women for voting for Donald Trump?
Matt and Rachel discuss how gender shows up in job ads and Matt wonders about menstrual cramps. Then they discuss whether Matt or Rachel's husband should wear makeup. Enjoy this 82nd episode and as always, rate or review the podcast in Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen!
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We're back for an 81st episode! On this episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel discuss a recent body image scuffle, the newest press secretary, Sarah Sanders, and a mystery topic. As ever, send us feedback about the show to bvgpodcast@gmail.com and send questions for our mystery segment to bvgquestion@gmail.com.
We've got 80 episodes!! On this episode, Rachel and Matt break down the mental load at home and dating advice before taking a mystery question about teachers and gender.
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In this episode, Matt and Rachel are back on the mic to discuss the recent outrage over the Senate dress code, whether removing stereotypes from advertising brings us closer to gender equity and how gender factors in to resistance on Twitter.
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It's the return of our spouses, David and Elysha! In his episode, Matt and Rachel wrote questions for each other about gender and gender stereotypes that they tackle with their husband and wife.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel debate how to raise a feminist boy, the gendered nature of "getting in trouble," and they talk about public hair AGAIN.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl. Matt and Rachel discuss the reasons behind handbags and wallets, the tendency for women to be interrupted more than men, and they answer a question about staring at a woman's cleavage.
In our 75th episode, Matt wonders why we use the word "stripper" as a pejorative and Rachel wonders why men can't show off their legs in the summer. It's our 75th episode and we hope you enjoy! As always, be sure to like our Facebook page: facebook.com/boyvgirlpodcast. You can tweet at us (@boyvgirlpodcast) or send us feedback about the show (bvgpodcast@gmail.com). And keep those mystery questions coming: bvgquestion@gmail.com
Matt and Rachel are back after a week hiatus to discuss three topics related to gender and gender stereotypes. In this episode, they talk about how we talk about girls, they argue about whether women owe other women unconditional feminist support, and they discuss gender in the workplace (kind of). Remember to like the Boy vs. Girl Facebook page: facebook.com/boyvgirlpodcast
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Rachel and I take our thoughts on gender out into the world again, and some of our listeners have done the same thing. Thanks to Jessica in New Hampshire, Laura in Philadelphia, and Margaret in Oregon for joining us on this episode.
In #72, Matt recalls a story he told about a face off in McDonald's and wonders whether gender played a role in people's reaction to his actions. Rachel raises new images of working fatherhood. And in the mystery segment, Matt and Rachel discuss gender equity in town budget decisions.
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On this episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel discuss the unrealistic expectations of motherhood as presented by social media, Dove's recent hack of the Shutterstock algorithm, and they answer a question about the hashtag #boymom.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl. Rachel and Matt discuss the disparity that exists between men and women as they try to get out of the house, the possibly gendered nature of volunteerism, and they answer a question about the obligations of the victims of Bill O'Reilly.
On this episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel debate the gendered nature of vegetarianism, the possibility of a male dominated culture, and Rachel answers a question about the authentic Matt.
We're back with a new episode! This week, we try to understand Mike Pence's rules of engagement at work (spoiler: we don't get him and we don't agree). We discuss millenials and whether they're taking gender equity backwards. And we discuss a mystery topic about who would fight an intruder (and who would win in a fight).
We are back podcasting together on this 67th episode of Boy vs. Girl--we take on the prom, the penis seat on the Mexican subway, and we take a question about what happens after we fight when we're podcasting.
It's our third installment of gender in everyday life: Matt and Rachel capture observations about gender and gender stereotypes at the library, the school auction, the gym, and the White House. It's the last week of March #trypod so please share the podcast with a friend!
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel debate the datability of men over the age of 30, they FIGHT over vasectomies, and they try to help a listener choose her future career.
On #64, Matt and Rachel has logged a few more snippets of gender and gender stereotypes in their everyday lives. Hear Matt describe his ways of communicating with friends and parents during parent-teacher conferences. Hear Rachel wonder why more women don't shovel snow. And hear Matt gripe about Rachel as this week's podcast editor. Tell us what you think--send us feedback to bvgpodcast@gmail.com.
On this week's episode, Rachel and Matt discuss the American Girl Doll Company's addition of a boy to the collection, Playboy's decision to return nudity to its pages, and we answer a question about allowing our Jewish girls to choose the course of their lives even if this means them turning away from Judaism.
Matt and Rachel had a busy month of February. Between packed schedules and Matt getting sick, we were not able to connect to record. Instead, we mined our everyday lives for the gender observations we normally discuss on tape. Rachel threaded them together these audio journals and we hope you enjoy!
In this rebroadcast, Matt and Rachel tackle Valentine's Day, Girl Scout cookies and a funny Yiddish verb.
On this episode, Rachel and Matt discuss some possible baked-in gender in the gym, a study that reveals that men cite themselves in research far more often than women, and they answer a listener question about girl's handwriting.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Rachel and Matt discuss the Women's March, and they answer a question about men receiving flowers.
On this episode, Matt and Rachel explore invisible mental labor and how its gendered, whether men or women are more interested in other people's careers and how we respond to victims of interpersonal violence.
On #58, Matt and Rachel discuss pink collar employment, Matt's disdain for expectant mother parking, and what we're looking for in a guy or gal.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Rachel and Matt decide if sentimentality is gendered, examine the differences between how fathers and mothers dress their children, and debate how you should feel about institutions that have made progress away from sexism and discrimination but have not made it all the way there.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel debate the gendered way in which men and women approach getting their children dressed, discuss the reasons why women don't become wedding DJs, and they answer a listener question about when and if it's okay to feel good about a sexist institution for making some progress.
On this last episode of 2016, Matt and Rachel set some gender based resolutions for 2017 and think about the Million Woman March. In the mystery question segment, they try (with little success) to understand what the hell happened.
It's an eclectic mix of topics on this week's episode. Matt and Rachel discover Rachel is a terrible gift giver, Matt wonders why men delay health care, and they both try to understand what's happening with Wonderwoman at the UN.
On this episode we combine the serious (going topless after mastectomy) and the irreverent (she sheds) into one cohesive chat. In our mystery segment, we wonder whether and how selling cars is gendered. Listen, rate, review and share!
We're back! After a brief hiatus, we are back to discuss some new topics related to gender and gender stereotypes. On this episode, we muddle through male birth control and the large age differences in relationships.
On this episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel talk about their reaction to the election of Donald Trump as President of the United States.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel discuss the lack of men in the public school system, the possible positive impact of Trump on feminism, and we consider the idea that we may see gender issues in too many things.
On this week's episode, Rachel rejoices in the surge in superhero costumes on little girls (while Matt attempts to ruin her day, Matt challenges Rachel on the idea of her husband wearing makeup, and they debate the gendered nature of gift giving.
In this week's episode, Rachel and Matt discuss adventures in changing diapers and the Babies Act. They wonder whether we should replace the term, "housewife," and they reminisce about their video game playing. It's a sweet little podcast about gender and gender stereotypes ready for your ears!
On this episode of Boy vs. Girl, Rachel and Matt wade into the cesspool that is the American presidential race. Matt worries about how women perceive conversations behind closed doors. Rachel wonders how #notokay will influence the outcome of the election and our national conversation about sexual violence. And a listener asks whether Rachel and Matt have ever fought on or off mic.
On this week's show, Rachel and Matt discuss the ramifications of crying at work, the merits of de-criminalizing prostitution, and we admit to our greatest fears for our daughter's futures.
On this week's Boy vs. Girl, Rachel and Matt dissect the recent Presidential debate, discuss the gendered nature of cheerleading, and answer a listener question about the manliness of sending photos of your penis to other people.
In this week's episode, Rachel delights in Matt's confusion over faking it in the bedroom. We discuss the PTO and whether men and women should be paid equally in the same sports. Listen, share, enjoy!
In this episode, Rachel wonders why Matt didn't notice her haircut and Matt wonders why Rachel won't stop wearing makeup. It's beauty time on Boy vs. Girl!
On this episode, Rachel and Matt work out some confusion over when to hug it out and when to shake on it. Then they take on hoarding and Rachel mansplains ladies' underwear.
In this episode, Matt & Rachel revisit their discussion of salutations with a focus on whether using a title at all garners respect. They discuss the way our political candidates are prepping for debate and they end the show with a rousing discussion of who gets hit on more. Listen and share this 42nd episode!
On this episode, Matt wonders whether Rachel is suffering because she can't pee on a tree whenever she wants. Rachel wonders whether Matt supports her excitement for gender equity in Richard Scarry books. And the Matt and Rachel face off about how they order off the menu.
On this week's episode, Rachel and Matt discuss the Olympics. They also answer a reader's question about the decision by female musicians to dress provocatively.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel are on vacation, and instead of their thoughtful consideration of all affairs gender, they offer a collection of gaffs and glitches, off-the-mic conversations, and at least one angry rant.
On this week's Boy vs. Girl. Matt and Rachel discuss the sexual harassment at Fox News, a thought experiment involving abortion and feminism, and they respond to a question about required religious conformity.
In this episode, Matt and Rachel try to understand why ladies always open the conversation with praise, why more boys don't babysit and why people reject being called a feminist.
In this episode, Matt grills Rachel about gender differs in pubic hair "grooming," Rachel grills Matt about ladies playing Major League baseball, and the two co-hosts spar over snippy emails at work.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel discuss feminism in Father's Day advertising, the UK's proposal dealing with body shaming advertising, and they reveal their least feminist moments. Also followup on swearing and gender.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Matt and Rachel discuss their opinion on gender reveal events, gender and color, and they debate if men or women swear more often. They also return to the question of male and female proficiency when working with little girl's hair.
On this episode, Matt and Rachel sort out competition and gender--who is competing in their off hours. They break down dance recitals and chit chat about what it's like to have a penis. Run of the mill stuff.
On this episode, Rachel and Matt try to end catcalling and sort through some gender stereotypes in pictograms. And it wouldn't be Boy vs. Girl without a mystery segment about public nudity.
On this week's episode of Boy vs. Girl, Rachel and Matt discuss the appropriateness of school dress codes, the greater prevalence of nicknames and last names in male culture, and wonder what it might be like to be married to each other.
A delightful exchange between Rachel and Matt on gender and vanity (do men care about going gray?), men reading about masculinity, and fertility treatments.
In #27, Rachel and Matt break down acting awards at the Oscars, the woman card in politics and losing virginity. You know, nothing too heavy.
When you can't get together to face off boy vs. girl, you do thenext best thing, podcast with your spouse! In this episode, Racheland Matt check in with their spouses, David and Elysha, to gettheir take on the podcast.
We get cozy in this episode, discussing the importance of income when dating, mansplaining, and double standards among scantily clad waitstaff.
On this episode, Matt and Rachel discuss the gendered nature of emojis, humor in dating, and the way in which they discipline their children.
In this week's episode, Rachel and Matt debate female perfectionism versus bravery,. the moniker "boyfriend jeans," and the notion that a woman might break up with a man over penis size.
On this episode, Rachel and Matt debate the notion of female perfectionism versus bravery, the nomenclature around boyfriend jeans, and the impact of a large penis on a relationship.
Matt and Rachel discuss feminism in dating apps, and whether companies can or should mandate menstrual leave. In the mystery segment, they face off about cocktails.