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Welcome into my Mind. I Think...then I SHARE. My Thoughts...Your PODCAST! Your Perception...Our Personal Development! IG: @diorbecca Email- diorbeccathoughts@gmail.com. Here, I'll talk about anything and everything practical😁. All my words are absolutely mine. #unscripted #unedited #rawthoughts. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support
None of them got married a year after. I am certain only one couple from the entire season would eventually get married.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/message
Happy father's day.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/message
This time I get to vent, I am human too--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/message
Name your purpose and OWN it.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/message
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As you would've demanded.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/message
There is nothing out here. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/message
Low self esteem is a burden to people around you.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/message
This time around. I MESSED UP🫣--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/message
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But feel free to find out.
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Think about it for a minute.
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Know your partner before making a baby with them, and having a baby will not keep a man that doesn't want to be kept.--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support
Take control of Your Year!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support
Whatever category your wife belongs to, You created it.--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support
Setting boundaries in 2023 will bring about a healthier life ( with focus your mental health). You're the very best🤗--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support
What are you willing to give up for the life you want?--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support
Always comes with a manual. Read in between the lines and apply some wisdom.
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There's no reason your husband should have a female bestie/work wife that isn't you. Men are most vulnerable around such females because they seem to trust them a lot. Without any hesitation, that friendship must be discontinued. #justmyonecent
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As much as You can, try not to marry wrong.
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Bride brags to her friend about her husband, then friend had somethings to share.
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....and leave it with Him.
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Awwwnnn... social Media is such a darling😋
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Don't look too far. They're always with you.
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Shouldn't you give Lemons first before asking what a woman can make out of lemons? Depending on the quantity and available ingredients, she could make a lemonade, slice some into a glass of magarita or just simply squeeze on Oysters. But give her the lemons first!
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Sleep with one Eye open.
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Know the category your man belongs to first before putting unnecessary pressure on yourself.
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Let's touch on duties and obligations.
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Coming back from a failed marriage is okay, coming back in a coffin is NOT. Do not stay for the sake of the kids, leave because of them so you can Live to raise your children.
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Will Smith set himself on fire to keep his wife warm. He got really burned, while his wife said she didn't need his warmth, She is capable of keeping herself warm. In the end, He got a 10yr ban from the academy.
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I watched the show Young, Famous and African and I had somethings to say about it 🤣
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Ms Delena (a pastor's daughter) was happy to share her experience regarding premarital counseling in her church.
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This is an introductory episode to premarital counseling. Who you should talk to and why.
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Let's tap into the difference. 😊
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Errmmm, I have a ton of questions. Let's talk at diorbeccathoughts@gmail.com
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Our wokeness today enables all the very wrong things. Deciding to have children out of wedlock and against your partner's wishes is the most common of all. I was thinking aloud about the consequences of such decisions and most of all, it's effect on the innocent babies.
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Men want what they want. We can't help them determine what is important in a relationship. So if 20% at the loss of 80% is more important, let them have it.
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The picture of my box is on my Instagram page @diorbecca. HAPPY NEW YEAR!😊🥰😊
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In my mother's tongue....Be grateful for all that happened this year, count your lessons and blessings. Actively plan for a great 2022 and rock it like the super star that you are!
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This is my for dirty-thirties!
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A lot of people often want to share a life in the name of marriage without actually "sharing" any part of it. They run marriages like relationships where no commitment is required.
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Today's men wants to know what you're bringing to the empty table they provided.
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Out of six types of intimacy that exists, Why do you practice just ONE? Is it because it is the most enjoyable that requires the least work?
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You can't teach what you haven't learned.
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You teach people in general and your lover specifically how to treat you by what you allow, accept, tolerate, communicate and demand. By not teaching these lessons effectively, you set yourself up for heartbreak and disrespect. Therefore, you have to accept your role as the teacher and realize that you are responsible to set the parameters for what is acceptable and preferred treatment by your partner.
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Is it really love if there's no trust?
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Our moral standards, views and perceptions varies due to our individual differences. However one thing that remains constant is the truth and fact.
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I recently joined club house and it went like.....
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Before either gender decides to get married, there's always a tale of gut feelings (from men). For women, they always require a kind of thoughtfulness that money can't buy. As you have heard from my friends, the certainty of marriage after courtship doesn't require a set of rules written in stone (especially when you feel your money, sex or domestic duties will guarantee marriage). To the best of my knowledge, God and your character will guarantee you marriage before LOVE does. THANK YOU ALL FOR SUPPORTING ME. 😊
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Tell me what you think.
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This is me not minding my business 🙃
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Let's go a little deep into commitments that comes with friendship.
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What's your New Year's resolutions looking like?
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When they tell you who they are, don't just ignore it.
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"Don't throw stones if you live in a glass house".
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"Being a good man is something you do, not something you are".
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"Fear is like a rocking chair. It will keep you busy but take you nowhere".
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Be safe this holiday season so you can celebrate many more holiday seasons to come. Be the reason someone smiles today. Pay kindness forward. Make it rain SURPRISES!😊
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Don't worry about people waltzing in and out of your life. They're either helping you discover new sides to you, or they are leaving you lessons to learn from. Either way, you are growing into an amazing version of yourself.
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Studies into inter-personal connectivity have shown that friendships are the most important relationships we have in terms of our health and happiness, and cultivating them into old age could even help us live longer. Here is our shared experiences so far...
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Old enough to get married? Then act like it for your sake. 🙂
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How about testing yourself to know if you're ready to share your personal space, push your patience limit, practice having a mature conversation and above learning conflict management with your other half.
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No matter how beautiful and successful you are, there's just one important factor that'll always determine the fate of your relationship. This episode details what to expect as a single mom in the dating pond.
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He can look like the husband material all six yards but doesn't want to be your husband even for just a quarter yard.
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It took me a while to realize he was a narcissist, but it's too late now.
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Going all in too soon will make you make permanent plans with temporary people. When they leave, you'll hurt the most.
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ENDSARS is a trending situation in Nigeria. It's a broad issue that could last an entire podcast season. My heart was heavy, and i had to share a summary of the situation with you all. RIP to all lost lives in Africa. May the breath of God bring peace to the continent. Amen.
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Then i took myself out ASAP. It's never too hard to undo anything, with discipline YOU CAN.
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... it's for the same reason that a new Bank, Job or Housing application needs a background check. 😁
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Every great communication has a clear speaker and an attentive listener. I was a guest this time around...HOW DID I DO? 😆
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Sometimes, we only see ourselves in parts and not the entirety. So it's easier to fault others for the things we're responsible for.
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How you met, where you met, when you met shouldn't define how your relationship or Marriage will be.
The most important part of a relationship or marriage will depend on the kind of person that you and your partner are, and what goals you've jointly created and strive to accomplish.
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The happiest, most long-lasting couples are best friends: They enjoy each other's company, rely on one another for emotional support, spend their leisure time together, and share many things in common.
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You can be with anyone you want to be with during the dating phase. The least you could do is give it a shot and see where things take you. You will learn a lot and may go through pain and heart break. But it is worth a try.
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It's not as expensive as you were made to believe. Ask professionals about what opportunities are available to you. YOU CAN DO IT.
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When we get married, we vow to be with that person forever, through sickness and health. We can imagine cancer, some debilitating disease, or life threatening illness. But what if the sickness is a personality disorder or mental illness? Do you still continue to stay? What if their disorder causes them to be abusive, neglectful, or cruel to you or your children? What happens to your vows then?
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Some of us are still "emotionally" present in our past and only "physically" present in real time. It's understandable to want to keep alive the memory of a former spouse that passed away, but for a former living ex, what is the motive for tagging them your soulmate? Maybe if we're all in into our present spouses, we could see that they too could be our soulmate.
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From the moment a relationship becomes exclusive, or even before this point, many women treat their boyfriends like they are their husbands. Unless there is a ring on your finger, you should never treat your boyfriend as if he is your husband!
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Most women would leave you emotionally before they begin to cheat. Affairs are typically more than sexual, and I don't think women are doing it because they want to have more sex. I also don't think they mind if they get it along the way. It is not really about sex per se as much as the experience of BEING with somebody who shows them more affection. People have affairs because they are looking for something, no matter how little that thing is.
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Treat her the way you wish to be treated. Value and Respect her, then watch her build an empire with you. Culture and peer pressure will not take you far in a relationship or marriage. Honoring your vows to her will give you a happy and peaceful life. If you want her to treat you like a king, you must first make her feel like a queen.
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This episode is about CHEATING ONLY. Not all other domestic problems. "If a man only cheats and can buy me private plane and island, i will take a private trip to go and cry expensive tears". But CHEATING in addition to all other forms of abuse is not a relationship/marriage worth saving.
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FORGIVENESS DOESN'T EXCUSE THEIR BEHAVIOR.
FORGIVENESS PREVENTS THEIR BEHAVIOR FROM DESTROYING YOUR HEART.
2 things make Forgiveness hard. The kind of people that hurt you and the kind of memory you have (long-term memory saves all the painful details). People often listen to respond to you, but never listen to understand you, so it'll be difficult to get their apology or grant you forgiveness. After you apologize, their preceeding judgment is BEYOND you. Don't sweat it.
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It seems we have been conditioned to hide the way we feel from the outside world for many reasons. However, if can you open up to the people who relentlessly care to ask you how you really feel, they might just be able to help you feel better, or we can just tell them how you wish to be supported in your silence.
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It's also not about testing your partner's love for you or doing something in order to analyze their reaction. These type of "tests" may actually be manipulative and they can lead to toxicity in your relationship over time.
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The way we often carefully select a job, a house or process a business proposal should be the exact way we search for and acquire peace. You need to validate yourself FIRST before anyone else can validate you. You must prioritize your happiness, peace and sanity above everything else. Do not seek approval of anyone to start anything. Just do it because it's for you and YOU'RE AMAZINGLY ALL THAT!
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.... Often times, women put themselves in situations they can't get themselves out of, for the sake of dating. Dating is not marriage, hence it needs to be handled with a lot of caution to avoid long term suffering. We make messiahs out of men that might not stay in our lives permanently, and when they leave... IT REALLY HURTS.
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Look at your filled out relationship application form. Do you like what it says? Or wait, you don't have a form? Please get one.
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Soulmates don't drop out of the sky. They are people that had always been with you since the beginning, you just missed the signs.
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If you think your partner is mature enough to handle such details, do it at your own risk. If you are unsure, it is not advisable to divulge information that does not grow your Relationship. " What you don't know can't kill you.
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What kind of person are you building your life with? Here, i discussed some fractions to how to prevent an abusive spouse.
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Decided to feature an old friend because i was excited, not only to have being able to reconnect with him but also to hear from a male (his experience with cheating). There are two sides to every story
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Learn about yourselves. Improve communication skills and Forgive each other.
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For love to last and blossom in a marriage, it requires a lot of work, just like a rose garden.
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If you are not ready for the truth... wait for when you are really ready to ask for help, so that you can learn from shared experiences.
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"Till death do you part"?.... Well, do your part by overlooking temptations that will cause you to lose your peace of mind.
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Maybe the reason it didn't work out is because social media didn't allow it.
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My apologies for the glitch. Was unable to cut it out.
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No one tree can make a forest.
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Love is a giant that you don't want to place to an ant to carry for you. If you have a heart full of love, give it to only understanding and deserving people so that you don't constantly end up in pain and turmoil.
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Every relationship has different screws holding it together. How does your spouse wish to be loved, and addressed during a conflict?
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Part 1
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You owe yourself self honesty.
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"Silence is golden". "Silence has never disappointed anyone".
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You are what you do with your time?
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