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Emily Duncan
A sex positive podcast that provides a shame free perspective on all things sex. Nothing is off bounds in this uncensored podcast, delving into all the juicy and taboo topics you can imagine. Most importantly this podcast aims to break down the stigmas surrounding sex and provide the tools to create a liberating sexual experience for everyone. Disclaimer: the educational information within this podcast does not take place of professional or medical advice. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic. Email your questions, stories and comments to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com
Think being good at sex comes from having lots of experience? Think again.
In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest myths about sex: that the more sex you have had, the better you'll be in bed.
The truth is, great sex has everything to do with communication, curiosity, connection, and a willingness to learn.
We'll explore:
• Why sexual experience doesn't automatically make someone a better lover
• The qualities that actually make someone a great sexual partner
• How communication can transform your sex life
• Why slowing down often leads to more pleasure
• The importance of connection and aftercare
• Why porn isn't sex education
• Evidence-based resources to help you learn about pleasure, even if you've never had sex before
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This episode explores the listener question, "I bought a toy and I'm honestly a little embarrassed about how much I like it more than partnered sex. Does that mean something's wrong?"
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In this episode, Emily discusses a recent scary experience of a man asking for her number in public. Emily also discusses the different ways men have approached her in public, from the ok to the bad.
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There is no new episode this week, instead, enjoy this revisit to episode 134 How to eat pussy.
In this episode, I am joined by Jordana Ezra, a somatic sexologist specialising in LGBTIA+ sex. She is a bisexual lesbian, host of MOIST a sell-out queer speed dating event and founder of the pussy frequency a method devoted to women and non-binary coming out later in life.
Emily and Jordana discuss:
- Performance anxiety to eat pussy
- How to eat pussy
- How to practice pussy worshipping
- How to get to know your pussy
- Getting out of your head and into your body
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Emily a sex and relationship therapist, discusses the most common behaviours that contribute to a bad sex life...they're more common than you'd think.
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Apologies for the error in uploading the same episode for both part one and two of 'how to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips.
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This episode is part one of two episodes - How to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips
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Low desire? Disconnected from your body? Struggle to experience pleasure? This practical episode explores daily practices to connect to your sexuality.
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This episode explores demand and non-demand intimacy. Emily explains what is happening when not only sex has decreased, but physical touch and intimacy have decreased too.
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This episode explores the emotional bank account. A concept often discussed in therapy to determine the health of your relationship and how you can improve it.
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This episode explores 5 things Emily always says as a sex therapist to her clients during their therapy sessions.
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This episode features Coby Baker, a sexologist and devoted artist.
Emily and Coby discussed:
- What is Kink and BDSM
- Development of kinks
- Common practices
- Difference between a kink and a fetish
- How to explore kink and BDSM safely
- Communication
- How to talk to your partner about a kink you want to explore
- Aftercare
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This episode features Lauren Elise Rogers who is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Lauren brings an empathetic and non-judgmental approach, offering practical tools that empower her clients to take ownership of their pleasure and grow in confidence and connection. She is known for creating shame-free spaces, where she invites individuals and couples to navigate complex topics like long-term partnerships, consensual non-monogamy, life transitions, purity culture and LGBTQIA+ issues.
We discuss:
- What is purity culture
- How to overcome purity culture frameworks and sexual shame
- Why talking about sex is important
- What if your partner also contributed to your experience of purity culture
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Website: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult
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This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.
We discuss:
- What is cheating
- Why do people cheat?
- Is an affair the symptom of a troubled relationship or an individual problem?
- Can a relationship survive an affair?
- How couples can rebuild trust through couples therapy
- Misconceptions about affairs
YOUTUBE VIDEO
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This podcast episode features Dr. Maria Sophocles, who has been a practicing gynecologist for 29 years and is an internationally respected expert in menopause and female sexual function. She is the founder of Women's Healthcare of Princeton, a progressive gynecology practice serving over 30,000 women in the U.S.
Emily and Maria discuss:
- Menopause and why everyone needs to learn about it
- How Menopause can affect sex
- The bedroom gap
- Labiaplasty
- Expanding your experience of sex
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Website: https://mariasophoclesmd.com/patient-care/
Instagram: @mariasophoclesmd
TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=alYBnyxMuPk
Erika Lust / TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9LaQtfpP_8
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This episode features Niamh Mannion the founder of My Friend In Sex Ed.
Emily and Niamh discuss:
- ADHD
- How ADHD can have positive impacts on relationships
- Other ways ADHD could impact relationships
- Rejection sensitivity
- Oversharing
- How a neurotypical or non-ADHDer can support an ADHD partner
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How dating rules are changing and is your ‘type’ right for you? with Nicole Colantoni
This episode features Nicole Colantoni who is a dating coach, ehrmony Australia’s dating expert and podcast host of Love uncensored: the modern guide to dating and relationships.
Emily and Nicole discussed:
- Dating rules
- How dating rules differ between generations
- Dating advice
- Is your type really right for you?
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This episode features Laurie Love who is a Certified Erotic Blueprint™ and Intimacy Coach. She empowers individuals and couples to navigate the intricacies of intimacy through the 5 Erotic Blueprint™ types framework which helps us understand how we are wired for pleasure.
Emily and Laurie discuss:
- Laurie's journey to become an intimacy coach
- What is the erotic blueprint?
- How do we discover what our erotic blueprint is?
- Why is this helpful and how can we use it?
- What to do if your partner has a different erotic blueprint
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This episode features Laura Lee who is a psychologist & sexologist with over 17 years of experience in clinical practice and coaching. She is the Director of Blue Space Psychology where she provides individual psychological and sexual therapy. In addition to clinical practice, Laura provides supervision, professional consultation and workshops to healthcare providers. She also offers online courses, education and coaching, and is a sought after speaker and trainer.
Laura‘s work has been published in the Journal of Positive Sexuality, where she explored how communication impacts sexual desire & satisfaction.
Her extensive experience, academic research and practical insights, coupled with her warm and authentic communication style, sees that she is a highly respected voice in the fields of psychology and sexuality.
Emily and Laura discussed:
- What is sexual communication and how is it different to other ways we communicate in relationships?
- How does the relationship between communication, desire and satisfaction interact with each other?
- How to create safety when discussing sex
- What if your partner isn’t open to the idea of talking about sex?
- How to stay regulated during hard conversations
- Creating interpersonal safety
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Laura's Website: https://www.lauralee.com.au/about-1
Blue Space Psychology: https://www.bluespacepsychology.com.au/about
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This episode features Laura Federico and Morgan Miller, the authors of The Cycle Book. Laura is a psychotherapist and certified sex and relationship therapist in private practice. Morgan is a certified professional midwife, lactation consultant, activist, and birth center founder in private practice.
Emily, Laura and Morgan discuss:
- What can you track in your menstrual cycle?
- What are the menstrual phases and what can they feel like?
- The importance of tracking your cycle
- Why you shouldn’t digitally track your health
- How to track your cycle
- How society isn’t set up to support our cycles
- How Donald Trump’s presidency is affecting Women and AFAB health rights
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Laura and Morgan’s website: https://www.itslauraandmorgan.com/
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This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.
We discuss:
- Mismatched desire
- How to rebuild desire in your relationship
- Navigating conflict in relationships
- Not trusting your partner to hold information/explore difficult issues with you
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In this episode, Emily is joined with Matt Barr who has gained notoriety as the man with the world's biggest penis (according to multiple independent medical studies, measuring him at over 36cm/14.5), a title he humorously embraces while shedding light on the complexities of his life. His journey into the public eye began with a Channel 4 documentary entitled My Massive C**k.
In his upcoming memoir, A Long Story: Life With The World’s Large, Matt delves into the physical and mental health aspects associated with his condition. He aims to raise awareness about his challenges, including finding suitable clothing and managing health issues related to blood flow. Matt has shared his experiences, from bizarre direct messages to unexpected date invitations. He humorously recalls requests ranging from cleaning houses naked to more unusual propositions, such as a fan wanting to draw him in cartoon form for a fetish known as macrophilia.
Matt enjoys working with brands like Fleshy because they share his goal of promoting a positive discourse around male sexuality.
Matt's website: https://biggestpenisbook.com/
Fleshy sex toys: getfleshy.com
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Welcome to season 6 of That's Orgasmic! This episode is being released on Emily's 25th birthday, so what better way to celebrate than discussing 25 things Emily has learnt about sex as a sexologist.
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In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof
Emily and Nicole discuss:
- What is anxiety?
- Why do we experience anxiety?
- Difference between being diagnosed with anxiety and experiencing anxiety
- How does anxiety impact romantic relationships?
- Inner child work
- Communication between the brain and your body during an emotional response
- How to regulate during a fight with four steps
- The vagus nerve
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LIFELINE: https://www.lifeline.org.au/
Dr Nicole Cain's links
IG: drnicolecain
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Youtube: DrNicoleCainNMDA
Website: https://drnicolecain.com/
Buy Panic Proof: https://www.amazon.com.au/Panic-Proof-Holistic-Solution-Anxiety-ebook/dp/B0D262P23G
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In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof
Emily and Nicole discuss:
- How to have a scary conversation with someone
- Boundaries
- How a lack of boundaries can impact anxiety
- relationship check-ins
- Flop and fracture response
- what to do if your partner is dissociating
- What to do if your partner is overstimulated
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LIFELINE: https://www.lifeline.org.au/
Dr Nicole Cain's links
IG: drnicolecain
FB: Dr. Nicole Cain
Youtube: DrNicoleCainNMDA
Website: https://drnicolecain.com/
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In this episode, Emily is joined by Anna Rahe.
Anna is the founder of GST Body and a somatic expert with over 25 years of professional experience.
Emily and Anna discuss:
- What is fascia/connective tissue system
- Why fascia is important and how it impacts our sex lives
- Sexual pain and fascia
- Why you may be experience a lack of pleasure during sex
- How to support the pelvic floor muscles
- Sexual trauma and pelvic pain
- Reflective systems in the body (throat to pelvic floor)
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gstbody/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annaraheofgst/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GSTBody
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCixVSo4ZACweqBpZZ_AZJ0A
Website: https://gstbody.com/pages/our-story
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This episode explores different ways that bisexual women in monogamous relationships can connect to their sexuality while respecting and honouring their partnership. Featuring Mim Kempson a dating and relationship coach.
Emily and Mim discuss:
- What is a dating and relationship coach?
- When should you see a relationship coach?
- Biphobia
- Common bisexual myths
- How can a bisexual woman honour her sexuality with a cis-gendered heterosexual man when polyamory and opening the relationship isn't on the table
- If a man feels threatened by their partner's sexuality in this relationship, what can they do to break down that fear and instead support their partner?
Mim's website: https://www.mimkempson.com/
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In this episode, Emily explores losing your sense of self while in a relationship and how you can reclaim your individuality. Emily explores six signs that you may be losing your sense of self and then provides six strategies to overcome this phenomenon.
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In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett.
Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution for men to reclaim intimate connections and rediscover a part of themselves they may have thought was lost forever.
Emily and Melissa discuss:
- Prostate cancer
- How cancer can affect sexual function
- Penis rehabilitation project
- Treating erectile difficulties after cancer
- Prevalence of erectile difficulties after prostate cancer
- What penis owners can do during prostate cancer treatment to support their penis and sexual function
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Melissa's links
The Penis Project Podcast:
Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Audible and at https://melissahadleybarrett.com/podcast/
Websites: https://melissahadleybarrett.com
- Men’s health only https://rshealth.com.au/
- All genders
Use the code MHB10 at the checkout on all the programs (penile rehab, erectile dysfunction and Peyronies) for a 10% discount.
Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/https://www.facebook.com/Restorativeshealthclinic
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/https://www.instagram.com/rshealth_perth/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
TEDX: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjHj1YTmLoA
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In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett.
Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution for men to reclaim intimate connections and rediscover a part of themselves they may have thought was lost forever.
Emily and Melissa discuss:
- The most common concerns in Melissa’s clinic
- Peyronies disease
- Erectile dysfunction
- How to treat erectile dysfunction
- Tips for if you lose your erection during sex
- Tips for a healthier penis
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Melissa's links
The Penis Project Podcast:
Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Audible and at https://melissahadleybarrett.com/podcast/
Websites: https://melissahadleybarrett.com
- Men’s health only https://rshealth.com.au/
- All genders
Use the code MHB10 at the checkout on all the programs (penile rehab, erectile dysfunction and Peyronies) for a 10% discount.
Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/https://www.facebook.com/Restorativeshealthclinic
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/https://www.instagram.com/rshealth_perth/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
TEDX: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjHj1YTmLoA
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In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions.
- Where does the line get drawn between respecting someone’s personal boundaries and expanding their sexual horizons?
- Do women like dick pics?
- Connection games for lovers
- What do I do if sex starts to feel dull?
- Why does it hurt when I have sex?
- Is it normal to have never orgasmed?
- How to bring up non-monogamy with a partner
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In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions.
- My vibrator recommendations
- I want to try anal, but it always hurts, what can I do?
- How much sex do people have?
- Can you desensitise your nerves (clitoris) from using vibrators?
- Is porn bad?
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This episode features Dr. Cathleen Brown who is a board-certified OB/GYN from Philadelphia.
Emily and Dr. Cat discuss:
- What is menopause?
- What is Perimenopause?
- Menopause myths
- Vaginal atrophy
- Sex and menopause
- How to support yourself to have a healthier menopause
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Dr. Cat's Instagram @drcatobgyn
Winona website: https://bywinona.com/authors/dr-brown
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In this episode Emily discusses Cuckolding.
Topics include:
- What is cuckolding?
- Why do people engage in cuckolding?
- How to practice cuckolding
- How to talk to your partner about cuckolding
- Things to think about in terms of cuckolding
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In this episode, Emily discusses NDIS minister Bill Shorten’s proposed changes in the NDIS to remove sex work.
Emily discusses why this should not happen, the impact this would have on disabled people and why sex work should be a service that disabled people can access.
This episode was posted early due to this being a current issue.
Sign the petition: https://www.progressivetherapeutic.com.au/sex-work-counselling
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In this episode Emily discusses what to first do if you want to increase your desire for sex.
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Trigger warning this episode discusses sexual assault.
In this episode, Emily discusses having sex in your sleep AKA sexsomnia,
Emily breaks down what sexsomnia is and what it can look like. She shares stories of people who have experienced sexsomnia, what can cause sexsomnia and how to support someone who lives with sexsomnia.
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References:
Guilleminault, C., Moscovitch, A., Yuen, K., & Poyares, D. (2002). Atypical sexual behaviour during sleep. Psychosomatic Medicine, 64, 328-336
Mangan, M., A. (2004). A Phenomenology of Problematic Sexual Behaviour Occurring in Sleep. Archives of Sexual Behaviour, 33, 287-293.
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This episode features partners Stace and Ty. Stace is an intimacy coach and Ty a health coach. They both want to take the taboo and intimidation out of sex. They want people to embrace sexploration and kinksploration to fulfill their sexual potential. They have a kink for being watched and Only Fans is their means to fulfill this on demand.
Emily, Stace and Ty discuss:
- What is Under the Sheets
- How Under the Sheets support couples and individuals sex lives
- Exhibitionism and how Stace and Ty decided to explore it
- Tips for exploring exhibitionism
- Increasing intimacy and confidence in the bedroom
- What Stace and Ty are exploring in their own sex life
- Blowjob tip
- Thrusting tip for better sex
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Stace and Ty's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spicewithstaceandty/
Stace and Ty's other links (OF, TIKTOK, FANSLY, X): https://www.linkswithstaceandty.com/
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This episode features Irene Fehr, a Sex & Intimacy Coach who weaves together somatic sex coaching, mindfulness, and emotional communication work, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection Sex approach with monogamous long-term couples struggling with a sexless marriage who come to her often as a last resort before divorce to turn things around towards deeper sexual intimacy and passion. She also works with single women on embodying their sexuality and working through the dating process to create a future relationship they desire.
Emily and Irene discuss:
- Irene's experience with a sexless relationship
- What leads to a sexless relationship
- How to reestablish connection in a sexless relationship
- Highly sensitive people and what that looks like
- Sex for a highly sensitive person
- Pre-sex needs for highly sensitive women
- How to cultivate sexual desire
- How a partner of a highly sensitive person can support them
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Irene's website: www.irenefehr.com
Irene's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ignitedwoman/
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This episode feature Niamh Mannion who is a Developmental Educator and Sexologist who loves all things disability and sexuality.
Emily and Niamh discuss:
- What is a developmental educator?
- What is neurodivergence?
- What are sensory needs?
- What is a sexuality sensory diet?
- What is a Sexuality Dopamenu?
- Emily and Niamh create a Sexuality Dopamenu
- Neurodivergent love langauges
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Niamh's website: https://www.myfriendinsexed.com/about
Niamh's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myfriendinsexed/
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In this solo episode, Emily discusses why you don't need a bigger penis.
Emily also shares tips for exploring pleasure and tips for overcoming body image concerns.
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This episode featured Dana Da Silva who is a single mum of two based in Sydney, Australia. She's a part-time media adviser and an indie author with big dreams. She considers putting pen to paper to be an exquisite art, free therapy, and a form of meditation. The Shift is her debut book.
Emily and Dana discuss:
- Dana’s experience with OCD
- Paedophilic OCD
- How to support somebody with OCD
- BDSM
- Is BDSM spiritually good for you?
- Our experiences with orgasm becoming easier to obtain
- Dana’s experience with UTIs
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Dana’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/writerdanadasilva/
Buy Dan’a’s book The Shift’: https://www.amazon.com.au/Shift-memoir-Dana-Silva/dp/0648630005
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This episode features Dr. Sarah Ashton who is a registered psychologist (AHPRA), Board Approved Supervisor (AHPRA), training author, and the Director and Founder of SHIPS. Sarah created SHIPS because she saw a deep need for safe and inclusive spaces to talk about sex and connection. She sees liberating expression of sexuality from fear, isolation, and shame as her personal and professional purpose.
In this episode Emily and Dr. Sarah Ashton discuss:
- What is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)?
- The prevalence of BPD
- Common BPD misconceptions
- How BPD can impact romantic relationships
- How people with BPD can maintain healthy relationships
- How BPD can impact sex
- How a partner of somebody with BPD can support them
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SHIPS Psychology Website: https://www.shipspsychology.com.au/
SHIPS Psychology Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shipspsychology/
SHIPS Training Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shipstraining/
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In this episode, Emily is joined by Nova who is a live streamer, content creator and industry advocate. She owns a studio in Melbourne where she streams from, and also hosts other streamers. In 2023, she was voted Australia’s best porn newcomer. In 2024 she is nominated for a number of awards, including XBIZ Female Streamer of the Year and AAIA Industry Ambassador.
Emily and Nova discuss:
- What is a cam girl
- Unique requests Nova has had
- What is sugaring
- Nova's experience falling in love with her sugar daddy
- Misconceptions of sugaring
- Misconceptions about being a sex worker
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Nova's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nova_hawthorne/?hl=en
Nova's links: https://www.novahawthorne.com/
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In this episode Emily goes solo and discusses why people may not be getting matches on dating apps and what you can do about it.
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DOAC episode with Paul Brunson mentioned: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2QWA2icgSDpvuANneF0EKF?si=342ed0e2607744a9
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In this episode, Emily is joined by Bek Antonucci who is a women’s emotional well-being and confidence coach, workshop and retreat facilitator and podcaster.
Emily and Bek discuss:
- Bek's experience of being diagnosed with herpes
- Should people disclose their herpes status?
- When to disclose your herpes status
- How to disclose your herpes status
- How to deal with rejection
- Tips for getting back into dating after a positive HSV diagnosis
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Bek's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bekantonucci/
Bek's links (website, podcast, masterclasses and boot camps): https://shor.by/mSuQ
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In this episode, I am joined by Oliver Morton-Evans who is a sexuality and disability advocate and educator who is currently studying to become a certified sex coach for men with disabilities.
Emily and Oliver discuss:
- What is sexual expression
- How to create your sexual expression
- Advice for support workers in talking about sex with your client
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Oliver’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oliver_me79/
Resources
TV / Film
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Latecomers, 2022 (SBS)
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Erotic Stories, Ep 3, ‘Bound’ 2023 (SBS)
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Margarita with a Straw, 2014 (Netflix)
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The Intouchables, 2011
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The Sessions, 2012
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Inside I’m Dancing, 2014
Influencers / Educators
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Eva Sweeney (FB: crippingupsex)
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Andrew Gurza (IG: andrewgurza6)
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Hannah Witton (IG: hannahwitton)
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Melinah Viking (IG: melinahviking)
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Shane Burcaw (IG: shaneburcaw)
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Kelly Gordon (IG: mskelgee)
Books
- The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness, C Silverberg etal.
Toys
Bump’n
- https://getbumpn.com/
HotOctopuss
- https://www.hotoctopuss.com/articles/sex-for-all/sex-and-disability/sex-and-disability-products/ -
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In this episode, I am joined by Oliver Morton-Evans who is a sexuality and disability advocate and educator who is currently studying to become a certified sex coach for men with disabilities.
Emily and Oliver discuss:
- Oliver’s experience of growing up in Australia and learning about sex with Spastic Quadriplegic Cerebral Palsy
- Oliver’s experience accessing masturbation and partnered sex
- Oliver’s experience of dating
- Infantilisation
- Oliver's tips for accessing sex with a disability
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Oliver’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oliver_me79/
Resources
TV / Film
-
Latecomers, 2022 (SBS)
-
Erotic Stories, Ep 3, ‘Bound’ 2023 (SBS)
-
Margarita with a Straw, 2014 (Netflix)
-
The Intouchables, 2011
-
The Sessions, 2012
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Inside I’m Dancing, 2014
Influencers / Educators
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Eva Sweeney (FB: crippingupsex)
-
Andrew Gurza (IG: andrewgurza6)
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Hannah Witton (IG: hannahwitton)
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Melinah Viking (IG: melinahviking)
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Shane Burcaw (IG: shaneburcaw)
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Kelly Gordon (IG: mskelgee)
Books
- The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness, C Silverberg etal.
Toys
Bump’n
- https://getbumpn.com/
HotOctopuss
- https://www.hotoctopuss.com/articles/sex-for-all/sex-and-disability/sex-and-disability-products/ -
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In this episode, I am joined by Adrienne Rommel also known as the Yoni Nutritionist who helps people get to the ROOT CAUSE of their chronic vaginal infections with holistic nutrition and wellness practices, so they can feel confident in their sex lives again!
Emily and Adrienne discuss:
- What is vaginal health?
- What impacts vaginal health?
- How menstrual cycles affect vaginal health
- What is Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) and Thrush?
- Why do some people experience recurring infections?
- How to stop recurring infections?
- Can a relationship cause vaginal infections?
- The diet to eat to stop recurring Thrush and improve vaginal health
- Do natural treatments for vaginal infections work?
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Adrienne's Website: https://yoninutritionist.com/
Adrienne's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yoninutritionist/
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In this episode, I am joined by Dr. Joli Hamilton who is a relationship coach for couples who colour outside the lines. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT certified sex educator. Joli also co-hosts the Playing With Fire podcast with her anchor partner, Ken.
Emily and Joli discuss:
- What is jealousy
- What is envy
- Is jealousy bad?
- What jealousy can teach you?
- When jealousy can be harmful
- How to experience jealousy in a healthy way
- How jealousy appears in monogamous and non-monogamous relationships
- Compersion
- The jealousy roadmap
- How to support your partner when they are working through jealousy
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Dr. Joli Hamilton's website: https://www.jolihamilton.com/
Dr. Joli Hamilton's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjoli_hamilton/
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In this episode, I am joined by Jordana Ezra, a somatic sexologist specialising in LGBTIA+ sex. She is a bisexual lesbian, host of MOIST a sell-out queer speed dating event and founder of the pussy frequency a method devoted to women and non-binary coming out later in life.
Emily and Jordana discuss:
- Performance anxiety to eat pussy
- How to eat pussy
- How to practice pussy worshipping
- How to get to know your pussy
- Getting out of your head and into your body
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JORDY'S INSTAGRAM
FREE PLEASURE MAPPING SESSION WITH JORDY
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In this episode, I am joined by Reed Amber Litman-Thomas who is a UK sex educator, activist and co-host of an amazing podcast Come Curious.
Trigger warning this episode discusses consensual non-consensual (CNC) and there are trigger words in this conversation.
Emily and Reed discuss:
- What is OCD
- Intrusive thoughts
- How to let thoughts go
- How OCD impacts sex
- What consensual non-consent (CNC) is
- What CNC can look like
- How to set up CNC
- How to talk about CNC to your partner
- Finding your sexual boundaries and limits
- Tickle fetish
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Reed's Links: https://linktr.ee/reedamberxx
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In this episode, I am joined by Silvia Saige. Silvia is a comedian, writer, social media personality, and podcast host of Sexy Funny Raw. Silvia aims to change how people view - not only women and sex - but the conversation about sex in general.
Trigger warning this episode discusses childhood sexual abuse. It is discussed at the end of the episode when Emily asks the final question ‘What’s something that is orgasmic to you?’
Emily and Silvia discuss:
- The porn industry
- Common misconceptions about Porn
- What Silvia has learnt being in the porn industry
- What makes good sex
- Silvia’s sex tips
- Tips for using butt plugs
- How to dirty talk
- How to be more assertive and active during sex
- Sex positions for women who want to take the reigns but aren’t just cowgirl (on top)
- Silvia’s most orgasmic sexual experience
- Silvia’s least orgasmic sexual experience
- Double penetration
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In today's episode Emily discusses rejection. What it is? Why we experience it? and how to deal with it. Emily focuses on romantic rejection from people we are dating.
Emily gives 7 tips and pieces of advice on how to deal with rejection.
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In this episode, Emily discusses how to pleasure a flaccid penis in different ways.
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This is a bonus episode from the podcast Good Enough Nutrition by Nadia Maxwell.
Good Enough Nutrition podcast is a podcast discussing nutrition, wellbeing, intuitive eating and body image with a sprinkle of all things periods and hormones.
In this episode, we chat about:
- What is a Sexologist
- Why Emily became a Sexologist
- Why you should get to know your genitals
- How body image plays a role in dating and intimacy
- Strategies for improving body image and intimacy
- Sensate Focus
- How you can get to know your body better
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This episode features Dr. Elliot Justin MD, FACEP, is the CEO and Founder of FirmTech, the first sex tech company dedicated to improving men's erectile fitness.
Emily and Dr. Elliot discuss:
- What is erectile health?
- How to have a healthier erection
- The link between cardiovascular health and erections
- What is erectile dysfunction
- How to support erectile difficulties
- Benefits of a cocking
- What Firm Tech cock rings tell you about erectile health
- Penis pumps
- What sex positions impact your erection
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This episode features Evana De Lune, one of Australia's most sought-after Burlesque performers. Evana has over 20 years of dance experience covering jazz, tap, ballet, contemporary and commercial dance styles. As well as performing, Evana is a highly regarded burlesque teacher and mentor, who has shared her wealth of experience with students at Melbourne's, Maison Burlesque and now runs her own Burlesque Workshops around Australia.
In this episode, Emily and Evana discuss:
- Burlesque, what it is and what it isn't
- Evana's story
- The Monash University Christmas Party scandal
- The backlash Burlesque receives
- Is Burlesque anti-feminist?
- A wild performance of Evana's
- What not to do at a Burlesque performance
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This episode features Hugh Crothers, who is the founder of drip, a sexual well-being brand he started in 2020 catering to people who are curious and diverse when it comes to sex.
In this episode Emily and Hugh discuss:
- Why Hugh founded drip
- Where Hugh learnt about Queer sex as a gay man
- Shame attached to lube
- Erectile difficulties
- What makes sex orgasmic for Hugh
- What makes sex not so orgasmic for Hugh
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This episode is part two of a two-part episode
In this episode, Emily is joined with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers who is a licensed sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, best-selling author, researcher, emeriti professor, and media personality whose expertise spans sex therapy, spiritual intimacy, parenting, medicine, and social justice.
Emily and Dr. Tina break down typical scenarios parents find themselves in when it comes to talking about sex with their kids.
They discuss:
- Finding your teenager watching porn and masturbating
- Your child finds your vibrator
- You walk in on your teenager being sexual with another person
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Shameless Parenting Book: https://www.amazon.com/Shameless-Parenting-Everything-Shame-free-Confident/dp/B095GDF9LM
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This episode is part one of a two-part episode.
In this episode, Emily is joined with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers who is a licensed sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, best-selling author, researcher, emeriti professor, and media personality whose expertise spans sex therapy, spiritual intimacy, parenting, medicine, and social justice.
Emily and Dr. Tina discuss how to talk to your kids about sex. They discuss the below topics:
- Who’s responsibility is it to teach kids about sex?
- What does age-appropriate sex mean?
- What is the typical sexual development of a child?
- When we should start teaching our kids about sex
- Common mistakes parents make when they teach their kids about sex
- Where parents should go if their kid has a sex question and doesn’t know the answer
- What to do if you are a parent with sexual shame
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Season 5 of That's Orgasmic is here. Today Emily shares a personal story on her experience with an Anterior Wall Prolapse AKA a Cystocele.
Emily discusses:
- Her personal story
- What prolapses are and the different types
- Why you may develop a prolapse
- Sex and a prolapse
- Treatment
- How to reduce your risk of prolapse
- The reality of living with a prolapse at age 23
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This episode features Miss Kannina who is a proud Yorta Yorta, Djadja Wurrung, Kalkadoon and Yirendali woman who has taken the Australian live music landscape by storm. Miss Kaninna has most recently been awarded as the Triple J Unearthed Music Artist of the Year.
Her song ‘Blak Britney’ arrived in May to critical acclaim. An anti-establishment anthem written to amplify the voices of Blak women, the single landed full rotation and within a fortnight was the #1 most-played song on triple j. Miss Kaninna has also just released her new song Pinnacle Bitch.
Emily and Miss Kaninna discuss:
- Miss Kaninna’s life story
- Miss Kaninna’s experience in the music industry as an Indigenous woman
- How people have responded to Miss Kaninna’s music
- What empowers Miss Kaninna to discuss sexuality in her music
- Miss Kaninna’s advice for anyone wanting to step into their sexuality
- Miss Kaninna’s most orgasmic sex
- Miss Kaninna’s least orgasmic sex
- Food ASMR
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Miss Kaninna’s TikTok: : https://www.tiktok.com/@misskaninna
Can you see Miss Kaninna live below:
Fri 8 Dec: Meredith Music Festival, Wadawurrung Country/Meredith
Sat 9 - Sun 10 Dec: Always Live: HOMETOWN, Yorta Yorta Country/Kanny-goopna/Shepparton
Wed 27 Dec: HAYDAYS Music Festival, Nipaluna/Hobart
Sat 30 Dec: Beyond The Valley, Wadawurrung & Eastern Marr Country/Barunah Plains
Sun 31 Dec: Wildlands, Meanjin/Brisbane
Mon 1 Jan: Sun Cycle, Naarm/Melbourne
Sat 6 Jan: Wildlands, Boorloo/Perth
Sat 3 Feb: Laneway Festival, Brisbane/Meanjin
Sun 4 Feb: Laneway Festival, Eora/Sydney
Fri 9 Feb: Laneway Festival, Kaurna Yerta/Adelaide
Sat 10 Feb: Laneway Festival, Naarm/Melbourne
Sun 11 Feb: Laneway Festival, Boorloo/Perth
Fri 8 -Sat 16 Mar: SXSW 2024, Tonkawa, Comanche & Apache Land/Austin TX
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In this episode Emily answers a listener's question 'My Vagina tears every time I have sex, what can I do?'
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This episode features Jenay who is a certified relationship and life coach and host of her podcast ‘My Naked Mindset’ which is a sex and dating podcast.
Emily and Jenay discuss:
- How Jenay became a relationship and life coach
- Jenay’s experience in her hoe phase
- Why Jenay went on 20 first dates in 2019
- What Jenay learned from her dating experiences
- Jenay’s worst date
- How to find people to date
- Advice for those wanting to date
- Advice for those with shame around hoe phases and dating
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This episode features Celeste Moore an image consultant and dating coach who helps midlife men who have forgotten how to date by providing discreet dating and image consulting to improve their appearance, relationships and confidence.
Emily and Celeste discuss:
- How a dating and image consultant can help you
- Celeste’s client demographic
- The biggest dating issues Celeste sees in men
- Is appearance important?
- What are good first-date questions?
- How to overcome your fear of getting back into dating
- How can we date better?
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This episode features Susan Bratton who is an intimacy expert to millions.
Emily and Susan discuss:
- What Susan’s experience with her sexuality has been like throughout her life
- Semen retention
- Ejaculatory choice
- Vaginal Atrophy and what you can do about it
- Throat orgasms
- Penis pump benefits
- How to use a penis pump
- How to help men not be concerned about performance
- How to care for genitals as we age
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This episode features Alice Lovegood who is a sex educator, life coach and spicy creator.
Emily and Alice discuss:
- How Alice got into this field
- Alice’s favourite thing about creating spicy only fans content
- Alice’s favourite content to create
- Breastmilk play/erotic lactation/milk fetishism
- ADHD and BDSM
- How can kink support those who are neurodiverse
- What is subspace
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This episode features Isiah McKimme, a Couples Therapist, Sex Therapist, Sexologist and Coach who has been helping women and couples discover deeper intimacy and desire for over a decade.
Emily and Isiah discuss:
- How Isiah got into her work
- What is Tantra
- What is Tantric sex
- How Tantra can benefit your sex life
- Practices to do to tap into your sexuality
- Tantric practices for patterned people
- Can you orgasm without touching your body?
- What it is like to experience tantra
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This episode features Samantha Manovski who is a relationship and intimacy coach.
Emily and Sam discuss:
- What Sam thinks of society’s current expectations of romantic relationships
- Common mistakes Sam sees people make in relationships
- How to have better conflict in relationships with the Harmony method
- Attachment styles
- Imposter syndrome as a coach/therapist
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This episode is the live show Emily hosted at Piano Bar Geelong in August 2023 with Bridget Scholes from Sexploration.
Emily and Bridget discuss:
- Desire
- How to talk about your desires with your partner/s
- Kink vs Fetish
- Arse play
- Non-monogamy, threesomes and sex parties
Emily and Bridget also answered the crowd's questions:
- In a libido-imbalanced relationship, how do you initiate/ask for sex and spontaneity in a sexy and unforced way?
- How do I approach girls as a bi girl with a fear of rejection?
- I'm a woman and my AMAB partner recently came out as a trans woman. Do you have any tips for exploring a new sexual dynamic so we can both embrace our femininity?
- How do you get yourself out of a dry spell?
- Do you know much about sexsomnia?
- How can I discuss my sexual health status with new partners safely?
- Do you have any knowledge about vulvadynia?
- Every time I have sex with my partner or partners I get micro tears at the entrance of my vulva. Are there ways to avoid this?
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In this episode, Emily responds to a listener's dilemma about sharing bodily fluids with the people who have sex with his girlfriend and spicing up cuckolding/voyeurism.
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This episode features Marc the founder of Happie Holl. Emily and Marc discuss all things butts and Happie Holl’s products:
- After Anal Cooling Cream
- Sore Butt Soothing Balm
Topics included:
- Marc's relationship with his butt
- Emily’s relationship with her butt
- Anal fissures
- Anal training
- How Happie Holl’s products can benefit you
- What the response has been like creating a butt care product
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In this episode, Emily answers the question 'What lubricant should I use?'
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This episode features Cindra Banks who is a sex coach and sexological body worker. She identifies as queer and polyamorous, and loves bringing "taboo" topics like sex, pleasure and non-traditional relationships into the light.
Emily and Cindra discuss:
- Cindra’s journey with her sexuality
- What queer sex is
- What Cindra has learnt from her queer sexual experiences
- Advice for those wanting to explore queer sex
- Is lesbian sex just scissoring?
- How to explore intimacy
- Shame during sex
- How to bring up difficult feelings during sex instead of pushing through them
- When being lovey, cuddly and cute in your relationship does not translate to hot steamy sex
- Strap ons
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This episode is answering the question ‘how do I become a sexologist?’
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In this episode Emily answers a listeners question 'Can you suggest some new things I could do in bed that would surprise my partner? I mean we have all heard about normal intercourse and oral sex. Apart from these what acts can I do to impress somebody?'
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This episode features Deborah Kagan who is a speaker, author, mentor and Mojo Recovery Specialist with years of practice being a turned-on woman. She supports entrepreneurs, small business owners, consultants, creatives and the career-oriented to tap into their innate power and connect with their mojo – a source of true self-esteem. Her methods combine over 25 years of experience in personal development, metaphysical studies and embodiment practices. She is the creator of the Rock Your Mojo™ programs, author of Find Your ME Spot: 52 Ways to Reclaim Your Confidence, Feel Good in Your Own Skin and Live a Turned On Life. She is also the host of The Real Undressed Podcast.
Emily and Deborah discuss:
- What is it like to be a turned-on woman?
- What is our MOJO?
- How can we tap into our sexual energy?
- Daily pussy check-ins
- Pussy dancing
- Masculine and feminine energy when dating
- Deborah's new book Undressed
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In this episode, Emily answers a listener's question about vulva owners having multiple orgasms.
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This episode features Nicole from Your Say Nicole. Nicole is a coach, leader and podcast host who teaches individuals to stop and embody their power to achieve limitless success and fulfilment in their life.
Emily and Nicole discuss:
- Nicole's journey to becoming a coach
- How Nicole supports those who are feeling lost in their life direction
- Learning how to stop
- Decluttering your life
- What to look for in a coach
- Nicole’s coming out story and her journey with her sexuality
- Not feeling like you fit
- Human Design
- People not accepting you
- Disconnecting from your phone
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In this episode, Emily is answering another listener's question.
The question was 'What is the best sex toy for a submissive wife?'
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This episode features Selina, a relationship and sex therapist working from Gadigal land, Sydney. They work with individuals and couples to unpack everything under the sun about sex and relationships from desire discrepancy to communication issues to what even is monogamy these days.
Emily and Selina discuss common myths and misconceptions surrounding sex and relationships.
They discuss:
- The most common myth Selina sees when working with clients
- What does sex therapy actually look like?
- Should vulva owners orgasm through penetration?
- Do men want sex more than women?
- Does penis size matter?
- Is sex over when a penis ejaculates?
- Is an erection necessary for sex?
- If a penis is erect or a vulva lubricated, does that mean that person wants to have sex?
- Does no desire mean you’re broken
- Can bad sex be an ick?
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Emily is bringing back two episodes a week, except this time Monday's episode will be answering your questions!
This week's question was 'what to do and what not to do in an orgy?'.
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This episode features Bella Johnston an ex-reality star who featured on the Bachelors 2022.
Emily and Bella discuss:
- Navigating life always horny
- Bella's best sexual experience
- The importance of foreplay
- Haemorrhoids
- What make's sex orgasmic for Bella
- Dating people with a blue tick
- Bella's experience reviewing sex toys
- Bella's favourite sex toy
- Bella's sex tips
- Bella's experience on the Bachelor
- Can you masturbate while in the Bachelor mansion?
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In the 100th episode, Emily's Dad features on the podcast.
We discuss:
- What his sex education was like growing up in the 70/80s
- What it has been like having a Sexologist as a daughter
- What he has learnt from Emily about sex and relationships
- His reflections on what he taught Emily about sex
- His green and red flags
- What he thinks Emily's green and red flags are
- What he thinks Emily's ideal partner would look like
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In this episode, Emily answers the question is porn bad for you? Emily discusses both the positives and potential harms of porn.
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In today’s episode, Emily answers a listener’s question about how to engage in belly button play AKA Alvinophilia.
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This is part 2 to a 2-part episode. In this episode, Emily is joined by a friend and they discuss their July ins, period sex, kinks, masturbation, their sexual awakenings, turn-ons and so much more.
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In this episode, Emily is joined by a friend and they discuss their icks, green flags, red flags, orgasming in your sleep, orgasmic sex and rim jobs. This is part 1 of a 2 part episode.
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This episode is all about blowjobs. Emily provides different tips so that you can give your sexual partner or partners the best blowjob for them.
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This episode feature Sexologist Bridget Scholes discussing non-monogamy.
Emily and Bridget discuss:
- What is non-monogamy?
- Bridget's experience with non-monogamy.
- Common 'mistakes' in exploring non-monogamy.
- How to explore non-monogamy when you don't live in a city.
- Advice for bringing up the topic of non-monogamy with your partner.
- Tips for exploring non-monogamy.
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Bridget's websites:
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This episode features Psychologist Emma St John discussing low sexual desire.
Emily and Emma discuss:
- What is sexual desire?
- Spontaneous and responsive desire.
- Our concerns with how high society thinks sexual desire should be.
- What impacts our sexual desire.
- How to begin to reconnect to our sexual desire.
- Mindfulness techniques that could be used to reconnect to desire.
- Emma's 8-week therapy sessions on reconnecting to sexual desire.
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This episode answers a shaggers question “Is the G-Spot real?”
Emily answers this question by unpacking the history, research and issues attached.
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This episode gives you 5 different tips to spice up your sex life when you are single.
There is so much information out there on how to spice up your sex life when in a relationship but not for when you are single. This episode addresses that gap.
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This episode gives you 10 different tips to last longer during sex.
Emily discusses:
- How long the average penis owner and vulva owner can take to orgasm
- How to delay orgasm for both penis owners and hula owners.
- 10 different tips to delay orgasm
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This episode features Eric Weinstein from 69 Whiskey Podcast. Emily and Eric discuss kinks and BDSM.
Topics include:
- Eric’s wildest/funniest sex story
- Eric’s experience in the kink community
- Fire play
- What are high protocol relationships?
- What do Eric’s high protocol relationships look?
- Tips for navigating a high protocol relationship
- Importance of boundaries
- How to begin exploring BDSM
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This episode features Laura Lee a Psychologist based in Geelong. Laura has her own private practice Blue Space Psychology. Emily and Laura discuss body image and sex.
Topics include:
- What are the current conversations around body image?
- What contributes to our perception of our bodies?
- What is good body image?
- How to begin to rewrite the relationship we have with our bodies.
- How body image impacts sex.
- How to enjoy sex more without being concerned about our bodies.
- Using sex for validation.
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This episode answers the question ‘can you masturbate too much?’
Emily discusses:
- How much masturbation is too much masturbation
- Can vibrators desensitise your clitoris
- Impacts of masturbating excessively
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The latest episode is all about Bachelor and Spinster Balls (BNS) AKA country sex parties. Emily discusses what a BNS is, the history of BNS balls and what to expect when attending one. Emily also shares listeners’ stories who have attended a BNS.
BNS video link Emily mentions is below:
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This episode is all about threesomes. Emily discusses what threesomes are and how to have them.
Emily discusses:
- What to do first if you want to have a threesome
- How to find people to have a threesome with
- How to discuss your desire to have a threesome with your partner
- What you need to communicate before, during and after a threesome
- Threesome tips
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This episode features Indi Gage the co-host of Hot Girls Theory. Indi has a Bachelor of Arts in Gender, Sexuality and Diversity studies.
In this episode, Emily and Indi discuss Feminism and sex. Topics include:
- What is feminism?
- How does feminism interact with sex?
- Performative sex, is it ok to do?
- Is it anti-feminist to like blow jobs?
- Condoms during oral sex
- What condoms are good to use for blowjobs
- Will sex ever not revolve around penetration?
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Hot Girls Theory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotgirlstheory/
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This episode features Kate Duncan an Occupational Therapist who works with children and adults on the autism spectrum.
Trigger warning this episode does discuss sexual abuse.
In this episode, Emily and Kate discuss ASD and sex. Topics include:
- How ASD can interact with sex
- Navigating overstimulation
- Ableism and sex
- Navigating sexual relationship with ASD or dating somebody living on the spectrum
- Abuse (TRIGGER WARNING)
- How can we better support those living with ASD
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This episode features Marisa Jayne the host of the podcast Selfish Sesh. Emily and Marisa talk all about self-love in this episode.
Emily and Marisa discuss:
- What is self-love?
- What has Marisa’s journey with self-love been like?
- Maintaining self-love while dating
- Marisa’s experience stopping the use of dating apps
- How to begin your self-love journey
- Toxic positivity
- Building confidence
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Selfish Sesh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/selfishsesh/
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This episode features Jess Matthews from The Boy Detox. Jess is a writer and dating & relationship expert. Jess has over 8 years of experience as a writer focusing on love, dating, sex and relationships. Over the years Jess has used her insights and observations to help educate men and women about how to navigate the ups and downs of dating. Jess coaches clients in a 1:1 capacity, regularly features on podcasts and contributes to various media pieces about the complexities of the modern dating world.
Emily and Jess discuss:
- How to date in your 20's
- What questions to ask somebody to determine their values
- Is chemistry something we can grow?
- What are the benefits of modern-day dating in Western culture
- How to date organically without dating apps
- Partner privileges
- How to navigate fuck boys
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In this episode Emily discusses squirting and how to do it. Emily also discusses how to try and avoid squirting if you don’t want to.
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In this episode, Emily celebrates her 23rd birthday by sharing 23 things she has learned in her 23 years of life.
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This episode features Chloe burger a Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist. Emily and Chloe discuss penis owners’ pelvic health
Emily and Chloe discuss:
- What is a pelvic floor?
- Pelvic floor conditions penis owners experience
- Incontinence and how to treat it
- Prostate cancer surgery and incontinence
- Dyssynergic defecation
- Stress and your pelvic floor
- Pelvic pain
- Erectile difficulties
- When should you see a pelvic floor physio
- What to expect when seeing a pelvic floor physiotherapist
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Trigger Warning this episode discusses strangulation and choking.This episode features Talisin Switch.
Emily and Talisin discuss:
- What is the difference between a kink and a fetish
- The most common fetishes Talisin sees as a sex worker
- How do feet fetishes form?
- What is choking/strangulation?
- How to practice choking more safely (there’s no safe way)
- The issues with choking during sex
- How to protect yourself if you are being choked when you don’t want to be
- Why you may experience chest pain after choking during sex
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This episode features Talisin Switch a BDSM facilitator, kink and sexuality educator, and sex worker who specialises in queer exploration. Talisin considers themselves an academic practitioner and informs their work and teaching in both evidence-based practice and lived experience.
Emily and Talisin discuss:
- How did Talisin get into sex work
- How people can explore their queer identity with sex workers
- Benefits of seeing a sex worker for exploring your sexuality
- Exploring sex with gender dysphoria to affirm gender
- What to expect in your first session with a sex worker
- Tips for people searching for a queer sex worker
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The final episode of season 3.
Emily discusses a personal story of her worst first date...ever.
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This episode features Natasha AKA Lama who is a Malaysian-Indian sex-positive content creator.
Emily and Lama discuss:
- What the sexual culture is like in Malaysia
- Lama’s experience as a Malaysian Indian woman in Australia navigating sex and sexuality
- Encouraging penis owners to use sex toys for their own pleasure
- Exploring pleasure with sex toys
- Internalised shame and colourism
- Advice for those with a similar cultural background who want to further step into their sexuality
- How Lama got into creating sex-positive content
- Assumptions of Lama as a sex-positive creator
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In this episode, Emily discusses the signs to know if you have orgasmed. This episode does have a focus on vulva owner orgasms.
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This episode features Sarah Lajeunesse, a certified and award-winning coach, speaker and shame healer who helps humans heal the areas of shame in their lives that prevent them from experiencing a greater and richer quality of life that's possible.
Emily and Laura discuss:
- Effiel towers
- Shame and sex
- Fish hooks
- What contributes the most to shame
- Having conversations about how you want to be respected in a relationship
- Being supported by others in moments of embarrassment and how that experience can contribute to future shame
- How to recognise shame before it overwhelms you
- Taking responsibility for the harm you may cause in a relationship
- The discomfort of the unknown in sex and dating
- How Sarah works with shame
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This episode features Jess and Lawerence the founders of Our Secret Spot, a sex club in Sydney.
Emily, Jess and Lawerence discuss:
- How they entered the swinging lifestyle and the experiences they have had
- What you can expect when you visit a sex club
- Are there more couples or singles?
- Why they are seeing more single women at these events
- What is the typical age at a sex club?
- How sex clubs can build your confidence in practising consent
- Their favourite experiences in sex clubs/parties
- Advice for single males wanting to attend a sex club
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In this episode, Emily celebrates the podcast’s 2 year anniversary. Emily discusses 5 things she has learned from 2 years of podcasting.
These 5 things include:
- Consistency is key
- Be passionate
- You may outgrow your content and that’s ok
- Networking is key
- Centring your podcast around your audience is great but centring it around what you want to know is even better
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This episode features Sexologist, Nutritionist, Dietitian and Menstrual Blood Witch Gem Campbell (they/them). We discuss periods and how you can tap into your period's power.
Topics discussed:
- Prominent issues surrounding periods within society
- What power do periods hold
- How we can tap into that power
- Healing your relationship with your period
- How your period can allow you to tap into your inner slut
- What needs to change in society to support those who menstruate
- The programs Gem offers
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This episode is a recording from another podcast 'Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable' that Emily was a guest on.
We discuss:
• Being sexually expressed
• How your sexual upbringing influences how you show up in sex
• Shame & guilt around sex
• Tips around feeling more confident in sex
• How to empower yourself
• Our take on cancel culture
Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable podcast link: https://open.spotify.com/show/4JtGyUSUSDJfzqYcjdxg1i?si=n_tt98EpTQKZjCr1W5cX_A
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Alysha Oorjitham features in this episode.
Emily and Alysha discuss:
- Pansexuality, what is it and what does it mean to Alysha?
- Bisexuality vs Pansexuality vs Queer
- Alysha’s journey with her sexuality
- Internalised homophobia
- Am I queer enough?
- Queer sexual and relationship scripts
- Advice for those wanting to explore their sexuality
- Alysha’s experience being HSV+
- Sexual health in vulva and vulva sex
- Herpes testing process
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Here to F*ck Spiders Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/heretofckspiderspodcast/
Here to F*ck Spiders Podcast Spotify link: https://open.spotify.com/show/33qarnMRAs4QJL55ub7JUl?si=-aWKTvosTB6WqVgsDA45KQ
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This episode is about stepping into your power after a relationship to thrive.
Key points:
- Emily shares a personal experience
- Questions to ask yourself if you don’t think your relationship is serving you
- How you can step into your power
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Alysha Oorjitham features in this episode.
Emily and Alysha discuss Occupational Therapy, disability and sexual health.
Topics discussed:
- How Occupational Therapists can support an individual’s sexuality
- The importance of people living with disabilities to be educated on sex, sexual health and sexuality
- What work still needs to be done within Occupational Therapy and sexual health
- Assumptions healthcare professionals make
- Being a token Queer in the workplace
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In this episode, Emily shares all the details of her new business Emily Duncan Sexology launching the 22/11/22.
Emily discusses:
- Being sexual and professional
- What services are offered
- What to expect in a session
- The prices
- Another exciting announcement
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This episode features Zoe a woman in her 20s living with Vaginismus.
Emily and Zoe discuss:
- What is Vaginismus?
- Zoe's experience with getting diagnosed
- Tips for getting a diagnosis
- Zoe's treatment experience
- How has Vaginismus impacted dating for Zoe
- Casual sex and vaginismus
- Tips for those who want to date casually with Vaginismus
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This episode features Victoria Redbard the founder of The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy.
Emily and Victoria discuss:
- How the sexuality industry is developing
- When trauma-informed practice meets the cutting edge
- Letting go of your ego
- Clinical Sexology compared to the Self-Pleasure Certification
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Victoria’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriaredbard/
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This episode features Lanchi the founder of Buzz.selflove, discussing starting her own sex toy company.
Emily and Lanchi discuss:
- Why Lanchi decided to create her own sex toys
- The process of designing sex toys
- How the people around Lanchi responded to creating her company
- What is something that is Orgasmic to Lanchi?
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This episode features Lanchi the founder of Buzz.selflove, discussing how to choose your first sex toy.
Emily and Lanchi discuss:
- What makes a good sex toy?
- Looking at how you use your hand to masturbate to choose a sex toy
- Popular first-time sex toys
- How to clean your sex toy
- How to store your sex toy
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This episode is masturbating tips and tricks for those with a Penis.
Emily discusses:
- Reflecting on how you masturbate
- How you can change your masturbation practice
- Different techniques
- Lube
- Sex toys
- Don’t focus on an erection
- Continuing to pleasure yourself after ejaculation
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This episode is masturbating tips and tricks for those with vulvas.
Emily discusses:
- Breathing
- Pleasure mapping
- Tips if you like the highest setting on your vibrator
- How to use masturbation if you struggle to orgasm with a partner
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This episode is a beginner’s guide to Masturbation for vulva owners.
Emily discusses:
- Benefits of masturbation
- Unpacking the shame attached to masturbation
- How to get horny
- Techniques to touch your vulva
- What sex toy to first use
Resources discussed:
Dipsea (audio porn): https://www.dipseastories.com/
Bellesa (visual porn): https://www.bellesa.co/
OMG Yes! (Masturbation techniques for vulvas) : https://www.omgyes.com/
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This episode is all about orgasms.
Emily discusses:
- What orgasms are
- How orgasms affect the brain and neurotransmitters
- Post-nut clarity
- Are there different types of orgasms?
- Crying after orgasm
- Orgasm facts
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This episode discusses the libido gap and what to do if your sex drive doesn't match your partner's.
Emily discusses:
- What is your libido
- Questions to ask yourself if your libido is different to your partners
- Spontaneous and responsive desire
- How to try and match your libidos
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This episode is on situationships.
Emily and Lily discuss their experiences in situationships: The pros and cons of a situationship Tips and tricks for navigating a situationship
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Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual assault
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode featuring Vanessa Hook
Emily and Vanessa discuss: How to feel safe in your body again after sexual assault Vanessa's experience with sex after sexual assault Dissociating during sex Tips for grounding yourself Holding shame in your body What needs to change in society
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Vanessa's Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/56nccHdAPxLam4AsA0KHEt?si=aCl2JsZnRLuPz0IA0tHr2w
If you need support 1800RESPECT is the national domestic, family and sexual violence counselling, information and support service.
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Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual assault
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode featuring Vanessa Hook.
Emily and Vanessa discuss: Vanessa’s experiences of sexual assault How a person's response to your experience can affect your processing How did sexual assault affect Vanessa's mental health and sexuality Accessing support after sexual assault How to support somebody after sexual assault
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Vanessa's Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/56nccHdAPxLam4AsA0KHEt?si=aCl2JsZnRLuPz0IA0tHr2w
If you need support 1800RESPECT is the national domestic, family and sexual violence counselling, information and support service.
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Emily discusses the Roe VS. Wade ruling being overturned. It is a quick overview of what this means for people who have a uterus.
If you would like to help please donate to abortion organisations in America. Here is a link to one that will donate to 50 different abortion agencies:
https://secure.actblue.com/donate/genzforchoice
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This episode explores different ways that bisexual women in monogamous relationships can connect to their sexuality while respecting and honouring their partnership. Featuring Mim Kempson a dating and relationship coach.
Emily and Mim discuss: What is a dating and relationship coach? When should you see a relationship coach? Biphobia Common bisexual myths How can a bisexual woman honour her sexuality with a cis-gendered heterosexual man when polyamory and opening the relationship isn't on the table
If a man feels threatened by their partner's sexuality in this relationship, what can they do to break down that fear and instead support their partner?
Mim's website: https://www.mimkempson.com/
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This episode is all about using sex for validation.
Emily discusses her own experience using sex for validation and how it has impacted her and her relationships. Emily also discusses tips on how to address this issue (although she is only just starting this journey herself).
Tips include:
Check in with yourself: Why do you have sex? How does sex validate you? How does it make you feel? Is it the sex or other things that are attached to sex that make you feel validated? What keeps you in this position? What do you actually want from your relationships? How can you find validation from within yourself?
Understand your boundaries and how you can implement them.
What situations threaten your boundaries?
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This episode features Steph from The Sexual Wellness Club.
Emily and Steph discuss experiencing pleasure and exploring your sexuality before puberty.
Key points: Children exploring their bodies Finding porn as children Exploring our bodies and pleasure with friends Emily’s experience sexting at a young age Navigating sexuality with children
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Steph's Instagram: @sexualwellnessclub
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This episode features Chiara French discussing confidence.
Key points: What does confidence mean to Chiara What helped both Chiara and Emily become confident Confidence in different environments such as the workplace Drug and alcohol use Dating and body confidence How to practice affirmations in the mirror
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This episode features Laura Ellen who is a sex, love & relationship coach on a mission to empower & equip women to have the best sex of their lives through feminine well-being, sensual leadership and a (very) sexy dose of sexy self-care.
Emily and Laura discuss: How to start working through sexual shame How to have the best casual sex of your life What to do if the sex in your relationship isn't what you want anymore
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Laura Ellen's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_laura_ellen/
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This episode features Laura Ellen who is a sex, love & relationship coach on a mission to empower & equip women to have the best sex of their lives through feminine well-being, sensual leadership and a (very) sexy dose of sexy self-care.
Emily and Laura discuss: How women can have the best sex of their lives Pleasure based living and how we can implement it Sexy self-care
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Laura Ellen's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_laura_ellen/
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The third season is finally here!!!
Emily delves into the hot and not so hot sex she has been having since the last season in December. Emily also discusses the STI Chlamydia, internalised shame surrounding a Chlamydia diagnosis and the issue with trying to blame somebody when contracting the STI.
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We are finishing off the year reflecting on how the past year has been. Emily discusses the Sex Resolutions she set in the first episode of 2021 and how they went. Emily also discusses her mental health and partying.
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This episode features Dr. Nicole Williams a Gynaecologist from Chicago. Emily and Dr. Williams talk all about how to care for your Vulva.
Emily and Dr. Williams discuss: Common myths and misconceptions attached to caring for your vulva Feminine Hygiene washes Douching Pubic Hair The 3 things you need to care for your Vulva What to look out for in case something isn’t quite right
Dr. Williams Website: https://www.gynecologyinstitute.com/about-us
Dr. Williams book: https://www.amazon.com/This-How-You-Vagina-Vajayjay/dp/1626348782
Dr. Willams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drnicolelife/
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Kai shares his journey of transitioning as a Transgender man. He has been on Hormone Replacement Therapy for 1 year.
Emily and Kai discuss: Physical changes since they last spoke Top Surgery Violence as a man How he is now treated as a man compared to when presenting as a woman Bathrooms
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This episode features Madeleine from KnowHQ discussing Fertility Awareness.
Emily and Madeleine discuss: What is Fertility Awareness? How can we practice it? (Cervical Mucus & Temperature) Madeleine's journey with hormonal contraception to Fertility Awareness Can I have penetrative heterosexual sex in my fertile window? Are tracking apps effective?
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Madeleine's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knowhq/
Madeleine's Website: https://www.knowhq.com.au/
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This episode is all about experiencing shame as a sex positive person. Emily discusses her recent holiday and how she realised how much shame she has attached to the podcast, her sexuality and her future career.
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This episode features Lily who has a Sex Positive instagram Cherry Bomb (https://www.instagram.com/69cherry.bomb69/)
Emily and Lily discuss: Bisexuality and their own journey's with understanding their sexuality Having sex with women for the first time Sex and casual dating after a long-term relationship Normalising missing your ex Body count Feeling guilt when trying new things (especially when your family might not approve) Dating sex positive people (fairies) Sex parties Phone sex
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This episode features Christie Lee Austin-Hore who is an Accredited Practising Dietitian with dual specialisation in women’s health and IBS nutrition. This episode is all about managing Endometriosis and IBS with a Dietitian.
Emily and Christie discuss: What is Endometriosis? How does our diet affect Endometriosis? How can a Dietitian help? Are there certain foods that commonly poorly interact with Endometriosis? Diet tips for uncomfortable symptoms during your period. Should we change our diet during our periods?
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Christie Lee Nutrition Website: https://www.christieleenutrition.com/
Christie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/endometriosis.dietitian/
Free Live Private Training with Christie on the 18th and 19th of November 2021: https://courses.christieleenutrition.com/webinar-registration
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This episode features Jocelyn Silva a Sexual Empowerment Coach. Jocelyn and Emily discuss: Religion and sex (with a focus on Catholicism) How religion impacted Jocelyn’s sexuality and sexual experiences How to reduce sexual shame Common issues that interfere with pleasure How to get comfortable with masturbation Spontaneous VS responsive arousal Radical Honesty: What is it? How do we practice this? How do we help the people around us understand this? How to discover what you enjoy sexually
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamjocelynsilva/
TikTok: @iamjocelynsilva
Trigger Warning: sexual abuse is discussed in this episode
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This episode features Jess and Savanna from Learnt My Lesson Podcast. We talk all about the ins and outs of dating and relationships when you experience Anxiety and Depression. Jess and Emily discuss their experiences with Anxiety and Sav discusses her experiences with Anxiety and Depression.
Topics include: Why Jess and Sav started Learnt My Lesson Podcast How has their journey been with their mental health How has their mental health impacted their relationships and dating How Emily's mental health has impacted her dating (especially the goodbyes) Tips for overcoming Anxiety when dating How do the people they are dating respond to their mental health How to support somebody struggling with their mental health Tips on how to reach out for support
If you need support please reach out to any of the below organisations: Lifeline: https://www.lifeline.org.au/ Beyond Blue: https://www.beyondblue.org.au/ For anyone outside of Australia: https://checkpointorg.com/global/
Learnt My Lesson Podcast link: https://open.spotify.com/show/5UepTCdtCrRl6DVWlsKetm?si=1ffqF0tVTLqoF6LJcp2e7w
Learnt My Lesson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/learntmylesson_/
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Trigger Warning: This episode discusses mental health, disordered eating and perceptions of our bodies.
In this episode Emily opens up about her experiences with her mental health. The first half is recorded back in June of 2021 when Emily was really struggling and had just asked for help. Emily then checks back in and discusses how she now feels and the process of beginning Therapy. Emily discusses: Her negative perceptions of mental health and her internalised shame Her mental health in June and now October The process of selecting a psychologist A break down of the psychology appointments The good and bad experiences in therapy so far Revisiting past negative experiences Boundaries Most importantly, why it is important to speak up and ask for help.
If you need support please reach out to any of the below organisations:
Lifeline: https://www.lifeline.org.au/
Beyond Blue: https://www.beyondblue.org.au/
For anyone outside of Australia: https://checkpointorg.com/global/
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This episode is all about contraception. Emily is joined by GP Registrar Karen Freilich to answer all of your contraception questions.
Topics discussed include: Is there such thing as 'natural' contraception? What are Fertility Awareness Methods? What is the Billings method? The contraceptive pill, Implanon, IUD (Hormonal and Copper), The Depo Provera Shot, Vasectomy and condoms Can I skip my period on the pill? Do I even need my period? Are there long-term side effects from taking hormonal contraception? How do we know if our hormone balance is right? How effective is contraception? Is there a contraceptive method that is best?
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Todays episode is all about men, specifically men who engage in heterosexual relationships. Emily is joined by Kristopher Lovestone a Sex Educator and Intimacy Coach. They discuss: The biggest issue Kris sees in relationships Low sexual desire Celibacy Penis size insecurity How men can discuss their sexual desires with their partner What is a conscious cock? How to use a vibrator on your cock
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Kristopher's Website: https://www.consciouscock.com/
Kristopher's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconsciouscock/
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This episode delves into all things Polyamory. What is Polyamory? Are there different types? How do I practice Polyamory? What if I am in a Monogamous relationship and want to explore Polyamory? Aren't Polyamorous people just cheaters? Do Polyamorous people hate Monogamy? All of these questions are discussed by Emily with the help of Manu who identifies as a Solo Polyamorist. Manu shares her own experiences and how she discovered Polyamory. Manu has an instagram page @polyamory_awareness dedicated to posting Polyamorous memes and educational posts.
Manu's Redbuddle shop: https://www.redbubble.com/people/manutz-itzanami/shop
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ORGASMS are the focus in todays episode, especially vulva owners orgasms. Dr. Laurie Mintz joins the host Emily to discuss: What is an orgasm? Are there different types of orgasms? How do we reach an orgasm? What is the orgasm gap? How can we close it? When should I seek help if I am concerned that I cannot orgasm?
Dr. Laurie Mintz's website: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/
Dr. Laurie Mintz's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauriemintz/
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This episode features Chiara French. Chiara French promotes sex education and positivity on her Instagram @sexwithchi
Chi and Emily discuss all things periods, body positivity and social media, body hair, slut shaming and sex education in School. Chi loves to talk about periods and debunk the shame that is attached to periods. Unfortunately for too many uterus owners there is shame and unpleasant experiences that come with their periods. This conversation hopes to help more people feel comfortable within their bodies.
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The first episode of Season 2 delves into why the podcast has rebranded, as well as, an update on Emily's sex life. Emily discusses two stories, one in which she reached multiple new lows and was used as a pocket pussy and the second where she had one nasty case of pash rash (yes it's a real thing).
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This episode features Cam Fraser.
Cam is a Certified Professional Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, Registered Counselor, and Registered Tantric Yoga Teacher. His work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions. As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame.
Emily and Cam discuss: - Cam's background and the work that he does - What can shape a mans sexuality and how does this impacts their sexual relationships with women - How anxiety can affect a penis owner's sexual function (erections and ejaculation) - Tips for overcoming these issues - Post-nut clarity - Are orgasms and ejaculation the same? - How women can better discuss what they want in bed with men
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This episode talks all about nudes. What not to do and how to take a sexy pic. Emily delves into her own experiences taking nudes and how taking one in her early teens left her with a whole lot of trauma. Emily discusses why it is important for those under 18 to not take naked pics and the consequences it can have. Emily then talks about how to take a sexy nude and provides some hot tips. We love nudes, however, we don't love unsolicited dick pics, or any unsolicited nudes for that matter. Please make sure consent is present before you send your nudes. Also don't share them around for everyone to see, no one appreciates it.
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Emily goes solo on this episode and celebrates 6 months of The Sealed SEXtion. Emily discusses how amazing this journey has been so far as well as the challenges she has faced. Emily discusses how having a sex podcast results in being instantly sexualised. They instantly ask and assume things about her sex life, assuming she has a whole lot of sex with a whole heap of different people (she wishes lol). Emily also discusses dating and how terrible she is at goodbyes. She delves into her recent first dates and how she has managed to fuck up each goodbye. If you want to cringe at Emily's experiences this is the episode to listen to.
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Chloe Burger features in this episode. Chloe is the founder of 'The Lady Physio & Pilates' in Port Fairy and is a Women's Health Physiotherapist. Topics Emily and Chloe discuss: What women's health physiotherapy is Pelvic floors Pelvic floor exercises Vulvodynia Vaginismus Endometriosis PCOS Bladder pain/chronic UTIs Pelvic floor dysfunction and hypertonicity Incontinence Conditions that can affect those who have given birth
Prolapse Birth trauma/injury Post childbirth changes such as hormones and lifestyle Menopause and how it can affect our lives and sexual function How a Women's Health Physiotherapist can help treat and potentially prevent these conditions
Chloe's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.lady.physio/
Chloe's website: https://www.theladyphysioandpilates.com/
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Laura Chakir features on this episode.
Genital Herpes is the topic discussed within this episode. Laura Chakir has HSV1 on her genitals and discusses with Emily the impact that this has had on her life. Topics discussed: - What is Herpes? - The experience of being diagnosed - The signs and symptoms of Genital Herpes - The stigma of Herpes - Dating with Herpes - Treating Herpes - Testing for Herpes -Overcoming the stigma of Herpes
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Amber-Shenae Daley features on this episode. Trigger Warning Domestic violence, sexual assault, sexual harassment and rape are discussed in this episode. Amber shares her own personal story of past domestic violent and toxic relationships. Amber also opens up about her own sexual traumas and the effect that the trauma has had on her life. In part 2 Emily and Amber discuss: - Ghosting - Sexual triggers - The concept of 'Daddy Issues' - Identifying red flags in other people - How to support someone with sexual triggers - AA Groups - Coping mechanisms when dealing with trauma - How to communicate about kinks, boundaries, triggers etc. - Resources available for those who have experienced domestic violence/sexual assault and trauma
Amber's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/basilpirate/
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Support services: 1800 Respect https://1800respect.org.au/
Lifeline https://www.lifeline.org.au/
Victims of Crime http://victimsofcrime.com.au/
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Amber-Shenae Daley features on this episode. Trigger Warning Domestic violence, sexual assault, sexual harassment and rape are discussed in this episode. Amber shares her own personal story of past domestic violent and toxic relationships. Amber also opens up about her own sexual traumas and the effect that the trauma has had on her life. In part 1 Emily and Amber discuss: - Domestic violence and Amber's experiences with DV relationships - How Amber used Sex Work as a tool to help heal herself after sexual trauma - Downsides to Sex Work when having trauma - Signs of a toxic/abusive relationship - Consent and guilt, how do we separate it? - Amber's sexual trauma - The process of reporting rape to the authorities - Polyamory
Amber's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/basilpirate/
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Support services: 1800 Respect https://1800respect.org.au/
Lifeline https://www.lifeline.org.au/
Victims of Crime http://victimsofcrime.com.au/
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Kai, a transgender man, features on this episode. Kai shares his journey of transitioning. He has been on Hormone Replacement Therapy for four and a half months. Topics discussed: - How is his mental health and how has HRT affected it - What physical and mental changes has he experienced - What is Passing and how has he experienced it? - How is now perceived compared to when he identified as a woman?
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Cate from Wanderlust Swingers (Formerly known as Swinging Down Under) Podcast features on this episode.
Emily and Cate discuss all things Swinging, Hotwifing and Ethical Non-Monogamy. Topics discussed include: - What is Swinging and Hotwifing - How Cate and Darrell came across this lifestyle - What does Cate love about this alternative relationship - What does Cate not love about alternative relationships - Swinging Clubs - Boundaries - How their relationship has been perceived - How ethical non-monogamy is generally perceived in Australia compared to other countries
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Charlie Forde features on this episode. Emily and Charlie discuss various topics including: - Why Charlie entered the Adult Industry - What qualities help when entering the industry - The experience of coming out and showing her face publicly within the industry - Discrimination from corporate businesses - Safe sex - Consent - The Porn Industry - Rights of Sex Workers - Decriminalisation of Sex Work
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Charlie Forde's website: https://www.charlieforde.com.au/
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Miss Honey Analverkehr features on this episode. Emily and Miss Honey Analverkehr discuss all things butt stuff. Topics Discussed: - How Miss Honey Analverkehr got into the adult industry - How to approach arse play - Tips for prep - Different ways to approach butt stuff - What not to do - What to do if something doesn't go to plan - Clean up - Tips for arse play while giving a blowjob - How to approach anal training
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This Tinder Tuesday episode discusses car sex. Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and Tinder stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.com
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This is part 2 of 2 parts. Lea Nights features on this episode. Emily and Lea discuss the Sex Industry and what it means to be a Sex Worker. Topics discussed: - Female clients - Outcalls and why Lea does not like outcalls - Boundaries as a Sex Worker - Weird requests while working in a Brothel - Dating as a Sex Worker - Decriminalisation
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Lea Nights social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theleanights/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/zxleanx?s=20
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAXEGuST4b6fzejzE5qCqiQ/featured
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This is part 1 of 2 parts. Lea Nights features on this episode. Emily and Lea discuss the Sex Industry and what it means to be a Sex Worker. Topics discussed: - How Lea got into sex work - Lea's experiences Stripping and how it impact her schooling - Lea's experiences in Porn - Lea's experiences in Full Service Sex Work - How working Brothels compares to going on tour - Dealing with shitty potential (actually totally not potential) clients - Groups of young males in Brothels
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Lea Nights social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theleanights/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/zxleanx?s=20
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This episode delves all into the risks of Tinder. Emily recently experienced a Tinder hookup that resulted in her finding out something that horrified her. Emily talks about how we can implement safety measures to try and avoid a situation like hers. Emily also discusses a Tinder story sent in from a listener that portrays a different side to one of the issues raised.
Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and Tinder stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.com
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Elliana Pantazis features on this episode. Emily and Elliana talk about everything Adult Stores and sex toys. Elliana has been working in an Adult Store for 5 years and creates content on Tik Tok that provides a humorous insight into working in a sex shop.
Emily and Elliana discuss: - How Elliana began working at an Adult Store - What Elliana knew about sex before getting the job - How her friends and family responded to her new career choice - Strange requests in store such as Cock Ring measurements - Tips on buying your first sex toy - How penis owners can use vibrators - Gender identity and people labelling your gender - Sexuality and being gay - Misconceptions and stigmas associated with Adult Stores - Do's and don't for customers
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Elliana's LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/ellianapantazis
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Reign Renoylds features on this episode. Reign is a Stripper form Brisbane, Australia. Reign and Emily discuss all things Stripping and Only Fans.
Topics discussed: - How Reign got into Stripping - Reign's Only Fans - Reign delves into her experiences, good and bad, at work - Misconceptions and negative stigmas attached to Stripping - The physical and mental toll of Stripping - How to be a good customer at the Strip Club - How much money a Stripper makes - Periods
Trigger Warning: sexual assault at the Strip Club is discussed
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Reign's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reign_x_/
Reign's Linktree to TikTok and Only Fans https://linktr.ee/Reign151101
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Emily is joined by Vanessa and Nicole to talk all things sex and Christmas. They discuss Grinch Porn, Christmas lingerie, Santaphillia and more.
Reddit reference link: https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/er3a3/i_was_a_shopping_mall_santa_and_ill_bet_you_never/
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Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. Emily discusses one of her own Tinder hookups that got very messy very quickly. Long story short, always go the chick. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and Tinder stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.com
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Steph from the Sexual Wellness Club features on this episode. Emily and Steph talk about all things pleasure, the female orgasm, virginity, consent, 'starfishing', sexting and more. Steph is studying in the hopes to become a Sexologist and has an instagram page "Sexual Wellness Club" aimed at de-stigmatising sex.
Trigger warning: sexual coercion and consent
Stephs instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexualwellnessclub/
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Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. This week a listeners Tinder story sparks a conversation all about period sex.
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Sarah Feagan features in this episode. Sarah delves into her experiences being HIV positive and the dark path she took after her diagnosis. Sarah has come out the other side and is now a leader and advocate within the HIV community. Emily and Sarah discuss various issues such as pleasure, how HIV changed Sarah's sexual experiences and also advice for those who are newly diagnosed.
Trigger Warning: Attempted suicide
FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.com Sarah Feagan contact: sfeagan@livingpositivevictoria.org.au
National Association of People with HIV Australia: https://napwha.org.au/
Living Positive Victoria: https://livingpositivevictoria.org.au/
Positive Life SA: https://positivelifesa228177216.wordpress.com/
ACON: https://www.acon.org.au/
Queensland Positive People: https://www.qpp.org.au/
Western Australia AIDS Council: https://waaids.com/
Northern Territory AIDS & Hepatitis Council: https://www.ntahc.org.au/
Positive Lives Tasmania: https://positivelivestasmania.org.au/
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Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. Emily talks about shooting your shot and has a listener talk about how his tinder date came to a stop. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and Tinder stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.com
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Kai a transgender man, features on this episode. Kai shares his experiences with gender identity and sexuality. Biological sex, gender identity, gender expression, cisgender, transgender, non-binary, agender, intersex and pronouns are all defined and explained. Kai shares his experiences with the first 6 weeks of Hormone Replacement Therapy. Kai also discusses how to talk to people about their gender and how to be active supporters of the trans community.
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Emily speaks with her Mother Yvonne. Yvonne discusses how her marriage has evolved over 25 years. Topics such as having sex with endometriosis to the culture of sex in Europe in the 90's are discussed.
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Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.com
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Emily delves into her own experiences with Chlamydia and Pelvic Inflammatory Disease. Emily covers how she coped with these experiences and what she learned along the way. Resources used: https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/chlamydia https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/pelvic-inflammatory-disease FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thesealedsextion.com
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An introductory episode, explaining what The Sealed SEXtion is and what it hopes to achieve. This episode also delves into the background of the host Emily Duncan.
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