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Ever After
Ever After is a podcast answering hard questions about singleness dating and marriage. Our hope is that these episodes help you think deeply about what makes relationships in Christ different, and how using those principles can help your relationships succeed.
Show Update: We are back!! Thanks for sticking with us while we have been gone. Life has been crazy but we are back and ready with all new content! You could call it season 2.. but this is the season that we don't plan on ending. Thanks for sticking with us in this down time! Show Notes:
Be intentional
Focusing on building up the other person Learning what it means to love sacrificially Make time for each other
Communication
Open and honest with where you are in your relationship Discuss your needs Ask the other person how you can serve/love them better Share what the other person has done well
Don’t over think dating and where you are
You don’t have to be perfect Enjoy each other, but have a purpose in what you are doing The other person has feelings and they are sharing their life with you
Successful dating doesn’t always end in marriage
Maintain your boundaries Treat the other person with respect, kindness and grace But it’s great practice for how to love someone else
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Long distance relationships can be challenging. Often the topic is met with hesitation. Do you really want to date that person if they are far away? Is it worth it? If your answer is yes listen to us talk about tips to make your long distance relationship last! View the show notes online at https://everaftertalk.com/blog-013.html
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On today's show we discuss some of our all time favorite books that help you live a more Christ like life in dating or marriage. Check out our website for the full list.
Stop right now and take a moment, do any of you have a person you go to when you need council, when life is hard, when you have questions, or when you just need someone to listen? On today's episode Seth and Allie talk about the importance of a mentor, what you should look for in a mentor, and how to go about finding one. We were not meant to live life alone, we were meant for discipleship/mentorship! Do you have a mentor? How did you find them? How have they shaped you spiritually? We would love to know!
Why you will benefit from having a mentor:
- They have already experienced the season of life that you are in and approach that season with a different perspective.
- They have an outside perspective on things. They can spot red flags that you can't see.
- They are more spirituality mature and more experienced in life.
- They will hold you accountable.
- A Protection or a Safehaven.
How to find a mentor?
- Look for someone from your church. Ask a small group leader or if you can't find or don't know anyone, ask a pastor.
- Be Bold: Ask someone you admire and respect.
- Go to Christian group on your campus. (if you are in College)
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We are back from a short holiday break! We hope you had a wonderful Christmas and a great New Year celebration!
On today's episode we answer one of our most frequently asked questions: Can seriously dating or engaged couples live together? Join us as we look at what culture is telling us, what we see the Bible telling us, and then dive into some deep questions for both men and women.
Scripture
- Songs of Solomon 2:7, 3:5, 8:4
- Hebrews 13:4
- 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5
- 1 Corinthians 6:18
- Philippians 2:15
- Genesis 39 (The story of Joseph and Potiphar’s wife)
- Matthew 6:9-13 (The Lord's Prayer)
Footnotes
- Waiting to Awaken Love - Iain Duguid, Professor, Westminster Theological Seminary
- Time to go ahead and shack up? - Scott Stanley, PhD
- Should Dating or Engaged Couples Live Together? - Geoff Ashley
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Today we want to talk about what has often been referred to as the silent relationship killer, unmet expectations. Expectations can be a good thing, but it takes communication and teamwork to help those expectations be met in a way that further grows the relationship.
This weeks episode we want to talk about how to win an argument and while loving your significant other and honoring Christ.
Points: 1. Take a break 2. Be honest, yet nice 3. Humble yourself. Try to things from your significant other's perspective. 4. Don't let your conflict ruin your time together. Spend time enjoying each other and having fun than arguing. 5. Romans 12:10 ESV: Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.
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For today's show, we talk about how to date intentionally for marriage. Join us as we talk about what steps you can take to make sure your dating relationship is on the right track for dating. Today's episode is brought to you by our Instagram account, check it out here! https://www.instagram.com/everaftertalk/
Today on the Ever After podcast we talk about if it's okay to date an unbeliever. We bring up a few things that we have seen and experienced, as well as talk about some scripture that should really help you answer this questoin. If you like the show please make sure to check us out on Instagram @EverAfterTalk and tell us what you think about this episode in the comments!
Today on the Ever After podcast we discuss what are good boundaries for dating, how to set them and why you need them.
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There are so many people that use the term "keep Jesus in the middle" when talking about the key to have a Godly relationship/Godly marriage but what does that actually mean? What does dating with purpose look like? In this episode, Seth and Allie discuss three practical ways to keep Jesus in the middle of your relationship and what it looks like to date with purpose.
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Much of the advice Christians get when it comes to dating is "just don't date an unbeliever." But it takes more than just being a believer to be able to date, fall in love, and choose to marry and stay married to that person for the rest of your life. That's what we share on today's show we talk about what else you should be looking for when you start dating. Thanks for checking out the Ever After podcast! If you like the podcast please leave us a review on Apple or Google Podcasts! Make sure you check us out on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/everaftertalk/
Today on the show, we talk about what it means to have a Godly relationship. More than that, we hope to give more clarity to what that looks like day to day!
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Introducing The Ever After Podcast! Join us each week as we discuss how to build Christ-like marriages by intentional dating.