Sex Talk Radio Network: Recent Episodes
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Join us for a lively chat and readings from Naughty Nonsense and Lascivious Limericks with author David Ellis. You will laugh until your panties are wet. Ellis, captures the essence of multiple social stratas as he explores the depths and surfaces of sexual nuance and questions. Pick up this book for the coffee table at a party – and pass it around for some rip-roaring and ribald laughs.
Pull back the curtain with author Ali Bushell as we peek into a world of sex of all kinds, for every taste and desire. The Sex Party Handbook is not all flavored condoms and canapé, it is way, way more!
Ali has done his homework about the history of group sex and how it has evolved over the centuries, even millennia. Turns out that early Homo sapiens took turns, and really just for the fun of it.
You’ll explore how to create the most welcoming, and the safest event to attract the people that fit your party’s theme. But if you are just curious about this often not discussed world and want to know more … then this book is absolutely for you too.
Ali has worked in the UK government education sector for some time. He works now as a therapist in London with specialist focus on helping men, queer people and those looking for internal family systems therapy.
You will love the beautifully written and organized guide: The Sex Party Handbook!
This is a fun one! Today Laurie and Michael react to the relationship advice given by Tiko and Moon on the Youtube channel “Moon Tell That”. Some big failures and some happy agreements. Let’s see what you think.
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What do men want? Find out as Laurie and Michael run down the top five ways men wish they could be loved. This episode is based on the article by Mitzi Bockman in “Your Tango”. Find out more about Laurie and Michael at: https://lauriehandlers.com Email: laurie@lauriehandlers.com Visit our Sponsors: https://siddhalabs.com (Use: SexAndHappiness for a 10% Discount) https://golovecbd.com/discount/SexAndHappiness (Use: SexAndHappiness for a 10% Discount) […]
This show examines the concept of self-responsibility. Laurie and Michael discuss personal accountability within your relationships. What does this mean for you? Tune in for an enlightening discussion. Find out more about Laurie and Michael at: https://lauriehandlers.com Email: laurie@lauriehandlers.com Visit our Sponsors: https://siddhalabs.com (Use: SexAndHappiness for a 10% Discount) https://golovecbd.com/discount/SexAndHappiness (Use: SexAndHappiness for a 10% Discount) Check out our discussion about this here:
Laurie and Michael react to a clip from Alison Armstrong about vulnerability and what it means when men say “I care about you”. When you know it’s right it can conjure up all kinds of feelings. So what does it mean to you to truly care about someone? Find out more about Laurie and Michael at: https://lauriehandlers.com Email: laurie@lauriehandlers.com […]
After watching Lucy and Desi, the Amy Poehler-directed documentary about Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz, Laurie and Michael examine some of the parallels in their own lives and the importance of finding a way to be together even if that means working together. It’s a cautionary tale. Check out our discussion about this here:
What’s your reasoning for not taking care of yourself? Laurie and Michael discuss the importance of self-love and practicing self-care. As our schedules intensify we tend to overlook self-care but there are simple things we can do routinely to care for our mind and bodies. Check out our discussion about this here: Find out more […]
Love, Lust, Betrayal, and Control Is a fictional story of how three people from different worlds with similar addictions become tied into one person. River is driven by Nash’s control and ability to use energy that attract her wants, needs, and desires. As J. stands lurking in the shadows, he rules with an iron fist. […]
Summertime Sunshine Who’s ready for a summer fling? Let’s go out, lets be adventurous, Lets share our passions for living. Let’s us fall into our highest and feel the sunshine down on us. This epsoide is about what can you do to kept those summer vibes alive.
Despite what most of us hope for, marriage isn’t always sunshine and roses because LIFE! But the challenging times don’t have to sink your relationship. Handled well, they can make your marriage stronger and more resilient. And there are things you can do to increase your chances of riding out both the normal ups and […]
When the mantra is so powerful, it changes everything. This week I consider a new mantra; Heal my mindHeal my bodyHeal my soulHeal my loveHeal my moneyHeal my angerHeal my sorrowHeal my hateHeal my ignoranceHeal my shameShow me how to let goShow me how to let growGive me new eyes so I can see the […]
Nothing thrives on neglect and your marriage is no different. But it’s easy to let things go because “it’s not that bad” or other things take priority—your kids, job, social media. If you have lost touch with each other, being stuck together without your usual outlets may feel like torture. But it doesn’t have to. […]
When you meet your sexual counterpartSexual chemistry feels incredible, it’s deep, it is satisfying and it is soulful. It is what we all have dreams about and when we encounter it, many of us questions its power. In this episode, I talk about how you know this is a tantalizing connection, and what you should […]
Is Social Media setting us up for loneliness? I have noticed a new trend on social media outlets. In this episode, I discuss if these platforms are setting us up, for loneliness?
I hear it all the time, “It’s my job to make my partner happy”. Further discussion reveals that it’s actually not working. That’s because it can’t. Happiness is always an inside job. But there are things you can do to make you happier and, as a result, your marriage will be too. If you want […]
What is Intimacy?People thrive off closeness.However when most of us think of intimacy, when often first think sex. In this episode we consider a few more intimate options to fill our cups. – Experiential Intimacy– Emotional Intimacy– Intellectual Intimacy– Sexual Intimacy
Are Vibrators Turning You Off? Some myths about Vibrators.Are they the key to sexual satisfaction or sexual dysfunction? This week we talk about my experiences about my new toy and hit on some common myths and worries about vibrator use.
Marriage should be a place where you feel loved, accepted, and supported. It should not be a place where you have to walk on eggshells. But it’s easier to end up in a toxic relationship than most people think. The relationships that get all the attention are the ones high in drama so many people […]
The Extraordinary Lovers Retreat is an opportunity to meet other lovers and couples who share your vision of a world where love and connection are extraordinary. In this video we recap the event, give our feedback on what it was like in person and how it can help you create a loving relationship that goes […]
Sexual aftercare for when you’re not feeling so fresh.These ideas are things I have done and tried on my own body and are not a substitute for medical advice or treatments. When we feel off in our genitals, we tend to bring judgment back on ourselves.I want you to stop that, and love yourself even harder.The yoni talks, and […]
Relationships are hard. But if you’re having some of these five signs, it is time to make a change. In this video Laurie and Michael share the five signs that your relationship is in trouble and offer three tips for getting out of it. Find our more about Laurie and Michael at: https://lauriehandlers.com Email: laurie@lauriehandlers.com https://golovecbd.com/discount/SexAndHappiness […]
How do we relate to each other and ourselves during relationships? Created by a man named John Bowlby way back in the 1950s.He came up with four distinct styles; 1. Anxious – Preoccupied2. Avoiddant- Dismissive3. Disorganized – Fearful- Avoidance4. Secure Each style has its unique qualities and understanding. This episode does a quick breakdown of […]
In this video, we’re going to talk about the secret that got left out of The Secret. The Secret is all about manifestation, and while it’s great for manifesting things like cars and money, it doesn’t mention one of the most powerful manifestations you can do: Sex magic. Sex magic is the act of using […]
Early life experiences leave imprintson how we connect to others in relationships.These are considered to be attachment styles,this week we look over three styles, from the book, “Wired for Love” by Stan Tatkin.Each style has strengths and weaknesses.The three styles areIslands, Waves, and Anchors. Islands:Low maintenanceIndependentExceptional self-careCreative and productiveEspecially when given space. Waves:Likes to be […]
Why you Should be taking Selfies Especially naked ones. There are many different reasons why we take selfies, but I want to focus on a few of the healthy things it does for your mind and your body. – Empowerment– Allows you to love more of you– Builds self-love– Confidence Join me this week, and let’s unfold the mystery […]
Keeping the spark alive in your relationship is key to a happy and healthy partnership. In this week’s podcast, we share three secrets to keeping things hot between you and your partner. Follow these tips and you’ll be on your way to a sexy and fulfilling relationship!
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One of the most wonderful aspects of marriage is the deep connection that it allows. For many people, that means physical intimacy. Not just sex but affection as well. Unfortunately, too many couples feel disconnected from each other. Sex, if it happens, is mundane and often unsatisfying. That’s often because they haven’t invested in the relationship in other ways. Psychotherapist and Intimacy Specialist Debbie Marielle Elzea reveals how couples lose their way and what they can do to reconnect.
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| Back the Fuck off, I’m afraid you are getting too closeWhy do we push away intimacy, connection, and love?Our minds are so protective of us. There is a powerful defense mechanism that’s only mission is to keep us safe from harm.Trauma has four distinct response styles;Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn.These responses are many times why we have trouble relating.In this episode, I rant, rave and find the understanding of why we push away love, even when it’s what we what and surely need. |
Research shows that married people as a whole have better and more frequent sex than singles. But that’s no comfort if you’re one of the many couples struggling with sex and intimacy. If you are in a sexless marriage or there is a big difference in your libidos, it can be very painful. And talking about sex is really tough for most couples. But, if you can’t talk about it, you can’t improve it. Searah Deysach, owner of the sex store Early to Bed, is here with some suggestions for how to get started.
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| Reclamation Part 4 The Practice Keep doing the practice. This is for you, reclamation is a gift you keep giving yourself on ongoing bases. Do not give up on yourself ever, this is no longer an option. You are a whole functional person, living the experience of you. The golden ticket to all of this is that you can be a whole person while going through the process. So allow us to connect to our flow, allow for the messages of our inner core, and let our song play loudly over the airways. This is your dance, and who cares who is watching. |
Ever wonder if the sexual issues couples face in other countries are the same as the ones experienced in your country? Dr. Martha Tara Lee became the first Certified Sexologist in Singapore and has a lot of experience with couples and individuals who are experiencing a myriad of issues.
Maybe you will relate to some of these couples’ difficulties and learn something helpful for your own sex life? If you enjoy what Martha shares in this video, be sure to say so below! Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. She provides sexuality and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples, conducts sexual education workshops and speaks at public events. And you can learn more about her sex coaching here: https://www.eroscoaching.com/profile/
Many people think marriage is about finding personal happiness. Maybe that’s you.
But trying to find happiness outside yourself or trying to be the source of someone else’s happiness is an exercise in futility and frustration. But there is a simple, though not necessarily easy, path to happiness for all of us. Author and Executive Director of the Center for Spiritual Exchange, Don Goewey is here to tell you what it is and how to get started today.
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This is your Temple.
Welcome to the divine.
Ask yourself, how do I want to connect with her.
Do I wish to listen, look, touch, exercise, stimulate, hold, cleanse, or breath with her?
This is your body. This is your ritual.
This episode talks about ways to re-connect with your pussy.
Reclamation Part 2 – We Belong
Reclamation means we belong to ourselves.
I own it
It’s mine.
The body is not a shelter for pain and trauma.
This is where I open, manifest, and birth my powerful existence.
We belong.
Let’s talk about taking the time to live in our truth. To play life loud, to stand bold and in color.
In this episode of the Sex and Happiness podcast, we’re talking about sex and aging: how to stay sexy and happy as you get older. Laurie shares her wisdom on the matter, and we cover how to create a healthy libido, how to keep your mind active and how to ask for what you want in bed. So whether you’re just starting to age or you’re already well into it, this episode is for you!
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As humans, we are not meant to live in isolation. Loneliness has real implications for your mental, emotional, and, yes, physical health. Physical touch of all kinds is essential for good health and well-being. So, it’s no surprise that people in relationships where physical interaction is limited feel disconnected and, often, pain. But what if there was a path to better connection and more physical interaction with your partner? Never fear, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Alysha Jeney is here to provide guidance on how to do this.
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| This is My ___________, and I love it.What is in a name?Especially when we refer to our genitals.Does the name we call our genitals, affect how we treat it?Does the word your partner uses to refer to your genitals, affect how they treat it?What if we used a word that turns us on, made us feel powerful,And helped us tap into who we are?My advice is that we find the word or words that help us fall in love with it….This is how we start to take pride in ourselves, in our bodies.Remember words can link us to our past, to our shame, to our negligence.And now, right now is the time we reclaim our power for ourselves.This is part one in a reclamation series….. 1 of 4… Name Your V |
| Let me introduce you to Chuck CopenspirePossibilitarian. Trans Dude. Solo Parent. Somatic Activist. Eco Romantic. Relationship AutonomistIn this week episode,Chuck and I speak about shame and how to integrate this with being our whole selves. How to embody more of ourselves by confronting who we are.Chuck is great at speaking the truth and expressing himself as it is.The realness,the emotional intelligence,The weirdness.To find more about Chuck Copenspire visithttps://chuckcopenspire.carrd.co/ |
In any relationship, there will be times when you lose that lovin’ feeling. But don’t worry, because there are three ways to fall back in love with your partner and get the spark back! In this video, Laurie and Michael share those three ways with you and help you get your relationship back on track.
Here they are:
1) Choose To Be In Love with your partner every day by choosing positive thoughts and feelings over negative ones.
2) Handle Breakdowns in a Private setting. Always deal with breakdowns behind closed doors so that no one’s credibility or dignity are hurt. Also remember not to let things linger, it is vitally important to speak your truth in kindness.
3) Forgive – do not hesitate to offer your partner another chance or to offer an apology; after all we’re human and sometimes our best intentions go awry.
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Love is not a game.
The author Na’Im Najieb. Speaks with me today and speaks about how we go about healing toxic relationships.
I have always questioned; How do we create healthy relationships when this wasn’t shown to us, share with us or a part of our journey.
Na’Im shows us the systems of love. Using what’s he calls
The Universal F. A. C. T. S. Of Love and Fear.
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Do you ever feel that sex has become just a chore? That’s because it is! And if you’re not careful, your Ego will kill intimacy in the bedroom. But there are some things to do about it. This is one of the most important videos you’ll watch today. Understanding how ego in the bedroom can kill intimacy and what to do about it!
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| The Seven Senses Yes, I said seven… They are ways our bodies integrate information. The senses are a way we organize this input and use it to participate in activities. We all can be on different spectrums of our sensory processing. From being too sensitive to not having enough sensation. In this episode, I share with you – The seven senses – What sense matches with each elemeent. – Different types of sensory preceptions – Four types of sensory sensations – Ways to explore each and find balance |
What are the best things to say to make your partner happy?
If you’ve found yourself asking the question, “How can I make my Partner Happy?” then this video is for you! In this video Laurie and Michael explore some of the best ways to show love and appreciation to your partner. We’ll also talk about how to make requests that will create ease in getting what you need from your partner. Acknowledgement is the lubrication in your relationship and makes you feel loved so be generous with your acknowledgements!
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Unchanging Laws of the UniverseUnchanging Laws of the Universe
We have all heard of the lan of attraction,
Did you know there are actually 12 universal laws?
In this episode, I briefly go over each law and how you can tap into and use it in your life.
As women age their ability to naturally produce lubrication becomes more difficult.
Laurie’s here to share her three favorite ways to stay juicy as you age.
- Have your Hormone Levels Evaluated by a Holistic Doctor
- Begin using Bio-Identical Hormones to support your hormonal balance
- Use Lubrication liberally
What are the best sensual lubes for making love?
You’ll learn what ingredients to look for in a good lubricant, how to choose one that’s right for you and your partner, and some of our favorite brands on the market! There’s no reason to feel sexy and happy only once in your life! 50 is just another number, that when added up with all the other numbers before it makes you an expert on living well. The key ingredients for a juicy future? A little bit of knowledge combined with some effort–and voila: Staying Juicy after Forty isn’t hard at all…
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| Coming Full Circle In this episode, I have the pleasure of having one of my favorite people on the show. Pollyanna Amazing. https://linktr.ee/BuriedPleasures Together we talk about our current experiences with death, orgasms, grieving and wrap up the conversation by answering the question, what is a quality pussy? This is a heart-to-heart between two friends that have been going through a lot lately, and want to openly share our stories… | | |
You Are Not Broken
This week I speak about the misconception of believing you are broken and that you need to be healed.
And I touch on some why’s and how’s we should embrace ourselves….
Are you interested in hiring an intimacy coach?
Before you do, watch this video to find out the warning signs for unqualified coaches. The goal is not to scare people away from hiring someone but rather to help them have a better understanding of what they are getting into before they take the plunge. Because finding an intimacy coach can be difficult. There are so many different types of coaches out there with varying degrees of qualifications and experience.
In this video, We offer practical advice on how to select the best coach for you by looking at their background, certifications, and any books they have written. It pays to do your homework before taking on this serious decision and we’re here to help!
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Money and Tantra
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How do we improve our relationship with money
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The same way we improve any relationship through awareness, compassion, understanding, and love
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You can’t have a wonderful relationship with money unless you are willing to stand with it through thick and thin, it is a committed relationship.
So all of this ties us back to building ourselves up, creating safety, creating trust, compassion, awareness.
When we respect, honor, trust, enjoy ourselves, in return, we can enjoy others and we can build beautiful relationships with things, even money.
Welcome to the New and Improved Sex and Happiness Podcast with Laurie Handlers and Michael Gibson.
In this episode, Laurie and Michael answer a question from their Facebook Group. How do I not give up part of myself for a relationship? So many find themselves in this situation. The solution might seem simple and yet it is profound.
Vetting Your Partner
Welcome to the New and Improved Sex and Happiness Podcast with Laurie Handlers and Michael Gibson.
In this episode, Laurie and Michael discuss how to date and what are ways to make sure that you don’t make the same mistakes in getting to know someone that you’ve made in the past. We call it vetting your partner, a selection process that empowers you to make better choices with potential partners.