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Romayle Wade
The personal development podcast, which inspires and motivates you to become all that you were created to be. Hosted by Romayle Wade.
Want to live a life of fulfilment and a life of purpose? Then you have stop playing small! In this episode I cover the reasons why we play small, such as the different fears and self doubt, and how we overcome the things that stop us from stepping into a life of purpose. Romz ✌🏾
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If we want to fulfil our purpose, we cannot have a victim mentality. When difficult seasons come, hold on to your faith and weather the storm. God can use that very storm to develop you into the person which you need to become in order to fulfil the purpose which he has for you.Romz ✌🏾◽️◽️◽️◽️◽️◽️Get More Personal Development Resources: www.romzwade.com
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Habits are the key to success!
If you want to have a successful year, then you don't only need to set goals, you need to create good habits.
Having effective habits is the only way to achieve those goals that you've set.
I hope you enjoy this episode, where we touch the surface on the importance of having effective habits.
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This week I dive into why just taking action is more effective than over planning and waiting until you have everything perfectly aligned.
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Whether you like it or not, right here, right now, your legacy is being created.
The question is, is it being created by you intentionally, or are you leaving it to chance?
Where are your daily habits taking you? And are you creating a life that displays who you truly are?
We dive into the above questions in this weeks episode.
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Fault vs Responsibility..
Have you ever found yourself saying, "but it wasn't my fault!"? I'm sure we all have at some point.
In this episode I dig a little into the idea that whether or not you believe something is your fault, it's still your responsibility to respond optimistically and get yourself back on track.
It's this mindset that will set you up for success.
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We have one pandemic that the whole world is constantly talking about, but there's another pandemic that has been ongoing for years and it isn't spoken about enough.
That pandemic is the virus of unhappiness.
In this episode, I touch on one layer that may be the cause of unhappiness and discuss a few things that we can do to change it.
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Why do we take our individual gifts for granted? In this episode I discuss the value of our gifts, and the life we could create if we focused more on our unique gifts as individuals.
Is social media a positive tool or negative one? Does it have a positive impact on our mental health or a negative impact?
Let's talk about it.
Are you frustrated about where you currently are in life? Do you feel like you're underachieving? Do you feel like everyone around you is progressing but you're stagnant?
If so, maybe this episode is for you.
Pressure creates diamonds, without it diamonds cannot be created. It's key to understand the importance of pressure and why we must not try to avoid it, but rather learn how to navigate through it in order to become successful in anything that we aspire to do.
Why do most people live mediocre lives? It's because they conform, rather than create. Creating our future is the only way we can truly succeed. I break down the idea of being someone who leads, rather than someone who follows in all aspects of life.
One of the most common asked questions in society today, "How do I become successful?"
There are so many different answers that pop up, and I have a simple answer, but that's for another day. However, there are 2 key ingredients that people miss.
I cover them in this episode and discuss why I believe they go hand in hand.
What part do our feelings play in the daily decisions that we make? Our feelings are a crucial part of our make up as human beings, but should they play as much of a part as they usually do when we're making decisions?
What gets you up in the morning? What keeps you going when you're not motivated? What picks you back up when you get knocked down?
It's your why! Everything we do has a reason, but for us to achieve the greatness that we can achieve our reason has to be big enough. Big enough to the point that it's bigger than us!
There is a process to take your goals and dreams from a small thought into a great reality. In this episode, I discuss the necessary steps that are needed to be taken in order to intentionally create the life that we have always dreamed of living.
Do you really know what you want in life? Do you really know who you want to become? If not, it's time to work out what you want and it's time get specific with it.
Who we share our future plans with can be either beneficial or detrimental. I explain why I believe who we're talking to about what we have planned for our future is important.
In this influencer society, it's easy to strive for fame rather than doing all we can to add value to people's lives. This episode I discuss the idea of seeking to be valuable rather than being famous.
What you do today will have a direct impact on tomorrow. When making decisions about how you're going to spend your day today, think about how you want tomorrow to look.
What's the fastest way to work something out? By giving it a go!
Failing forward is the best way to work life out. You won't know what you like, what you don't like, or what you're good at or not good out without giving it a go. In this episode I discuss why I believe failing forward is the most effective way to live our lives.
Patience. The one word that the majority of us dread, but why? Because we want so much, and we want it all now. In reality, to build anything of significance it's going to take hard work, diligence and of course patience. In this episode I discuss why I believe our lack of patience is stopping us from succeeding.
Your reality shouldn't shape your future but it's important to understand your reality in order to build your future.
We need to know where we're coming from in order to get to where we want to go to. Know who you are and know where you're coming from.
Dreams are the very thing that get so many people up and out of bed in the morning. Why? Because it gives them something to aim for, something to build, something to look forward to. If you don't have any dreams then one could argue that you don't really have much of a life. If this is the case then this episode is for you. Start dreaming again!
We spend a lot of time and money investing in things that don't really matter. How about we spend time and money when investing in our mind? It makes the world of a difference when it comes to your personal development. Do not neglect your mind.
In this episode I briefly discuss the idea that having a lack of knowledge or network are not valid excuses for attacking your goals, as these are some more excuses that we come with.
Lack of time and lack of money, some common excuses. We all have the same 24 hours in a day, and you can always take steps without having a load of money at your disposal. Remember, winners always find a way to win!
As we go into the New Year, it' time to drop all excuses. Excuses breed mediocrity and give us false security when we're underachieving. No more excuses, it's time for results.
The greatest breakthroughs often come when we're about to break.
The moments where we feel like giving up are the moments that either make or break us. They're the moments where champions are made. Wanting to give up at times isn't a problem, but giving up is.
You didn't come this far just to give up. Keep going, it'll be worth it.
Your words create your future. Hence why it's imperative that we're thinking the right thoughts in order to speak the right words. Grasp this concept and watch your life change.
Your gifts and talents are needed. Not for your sake, but for everyone else's. Get over yourself, attack your fear and insecurity, and then step out! Fulfil your full potential.
If not now then when? Why wait until tomorrow when today is here?
Waiting until the right time to attack your goals is the biggest mistake we could make. There is never a perfect time, which means that today is the right time to get started.
How are you measuring your progress? Are you measuring your progress and success against your goals? Or are you measuring your progress and success against the goals that society has set for you? Getting this right is crucial to not just your fulfilment, but also your legacy.
Idea's have never changed the world. It's the people who execute on their ideas that do. Stop thinking, stop strategising, stop talking and start executing.
When should you give up on your goals and dreams? Is there any point in continuing to work on your goals if you're not making much progress? I discuss the idea of giving up, when we should keep going and when it may be time to pivot and change direction. Feel free to subscribe to my channel if you're enjoying my videos. Thanks for listening.
With so much focus on the skills that people have, it's very easy for us as a society to neglect our character because we're so focused on skillset. While both character and skillset are important, I believe that when it comes to longevity and legacy, one is slightly more important than the other.
Decisions, decisions, decisions! There are tons of decisions that we make daily, with some being more important than others. The question is do we truly understand the power behind all of the decisions that we're making?
Do we understand that it's the daily decisions that shape our lives? Sit down and listen to me discuss the different types of decisions that we must make and the importance of them.
What shall I do with my life? The massive question that everyone asks. Thing is, the only way to work out what you want to do is by trying everything that you MAY want to do. Keep trying new things until you hit your sweet spot!
The fastest way to kill something special is to compare it. Comparing ourselves with others is one of the worse things that we can do. It leaves us frustrated, knocks our confidence, or makes us feel superior when we are not. Avoid comparing yourself with others and you'll be doing yourself a massive favour!
At the end of the day, it's all about what you do, not what you said you were going to do.
So many of us are scared of failing. In order to become successful, failing is something that we cannot avoid. We must become comfortable with failing if we're going to try new things and create the lives that we want. We must overcome the fear of failing now, not tomorrow, not next week or next month, but now.
Don't allow negative comments to ruin your day. Some people online are mean and there will always be horrible people online.
Build your confidence and self-esteem, know who you are and know your worth. Those comments don't mean a thing!
For the majority of people, their lack of money, resources or education stops them from taking action. Even with these roadblocks, I believe that this should never be the case because we always have enough within our grasp to take the next step. If we focus on what we have in our hands, we'll open up a whole new world of opportunity.
Marvin is a successful fitness professional with a television show called 'Fit in 5' which is on Sky One. Fitness is not all that Marvin is known for though. Listen in to hear about his journey and the lessons we can take from his journey.
Are you doing the things in your life for the accolades or are you doing it for the cause? As human beings we can be selfish without even realising it. This can have a detrimental impact on the work that we do.
We often hear people say that they are safe made, but this is never the case. Every single one of us would have had help along the way at some point. Don't try to do the journey alone, it was never meant to be that way.
Just because something is difficult, it doesn't mean that it's not for you. The difficult times in our lives are essential for us to develop and grow in character and skillset. Do not avoid the difficult times, but instead change your perspective on how you see them.
Losing has an important part to play in our lives. It gives us balance and it adjusts our perspective. Could we really enjoy winning if we never understood what it meant to lose?
Stop focusing on the fact that you may lose, and start focusing on the fact that you may win.
It's easy to become envious and distracted by the success of others. Which means that we begin to look at what other people are doing and sometimes imitate them. This is a recipe for disaster. It's important to stay in our own lane and do what we want and love to do. The success will follow.
Planning ahead makes us more productive and it protects us from mishaps. Life throws so many curve balls our way and the best way to defend against them is by planning ahead. Planning ahead sets us up for the win.
Life is meant to be lived with other people. It's meant to be lived in a community. Don't keep yourself to yourself, actually do life with people and life becomes a lot more fulfilling.
Don't wait until you're great at something until you start it. How about you learn on the go? Many opportunities are missed because we think that our lack of knowledge or skills makes us unsuitable for the job. When in fact, we should jump at the opportunity and work out how to do it as soon as we can.
Waiting for the perfect time to start anything is a strategy that is destined for failure. There is never a right time. Hoping that everything in our lives will line up perfectly is a waste of time, because every area of our lives will never be perfect at the same time. Stop waiting and get started.
Having high expectations of people isn't necessarily a bad thing but it can set us up for disappointment. As we all know, people are not perfect. Understanding that people will make mistakes and may even offend you in life is important, but it's even more important to understand that there are usually underlying reasons why they behave this way. Be patient with people, because there will be a time where you will hope that they will be patient with you.
When we look for perfection it can cripple us. This is because we are not perfect, therefore we cannot produce perfection. Drop the expectation of perfection and you give yourself freedom to express yourself without striving to be perfect in all that you do.
We all need to make time in our calendars to reflect. It's important to look how far we've come, in regards to our goals as well as our growth as people. If we don't, we're unable to be grateful for the progress that we have made. Make sure you make time to reflect.
Writing things down is powerful. Why? Who knows? I don't have all the answers, but I'm sure that there any many psychological and philosophical reasons for this. Try writing down your goals and dreams, then see if it feels any different in comparison to just having them in your head.
Just because something is popular it doesn't mean that it's right. Hence why it's important to lead rather than follow. Live life based on your values, be yourself and stay authentic to you.
It's easy to live life on the defence, most people do that. Try living life on the offence, it changes everything.
Imagine if we did everything in our lives based on how we feel. We would create a mediocre life, and perhaps even a messy one. Our emotions are not loyal, hence why it's important not to live our lives based on how we feel, but to live our lives based on how we want to feel, and force our emotions to catch up.
The truth is, if you're not willing to start today it's likely that you're not willing to start at all. There is no better time than now.
An episode created solely to encourage you to be bold in any new things that you are starting in life.
Drop the notion that you have to work hard all around the clock and even miss out on sleep in order to be successful. Sleep is important. It's what you do when you are awake that counts. When you're tired, get your necessary amount of sleep. When you're awake, work as hard as you can.
Working smart can fast track you on your journey to achieving your goals and dreams, but it isn't a replacement for working hard. Working smart and working hard come hand in hand, one without the other has the potential to to set you up for failure.
Work rate is the one variable to success that every single one of us has full control over. So we should never allow our lack of work rate to be the reason for our failure or lack of success. No matter where we find ourselves on our journey, we must always work hard.
Self belief is at the core of all success. Developing this inner confidence and mindset within yourself is key in order to be successful. If you don't believe in yourself, you are able to develop that belief by training your mind and being around the right kind of people. Do whatever it takes to develop that belief within yourself.
Some say that comfort is the enemy of progress. I would agree. Comfort means that there is plenty room for us to do more and be more. When we get uncomfortable we push ourselves, we develop and we become all that God created us to be. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
Don't give up on that one dream that you have, to settle for the mediocre life that you never wanted. I believe that we all have enough within us in order to achieve our desired goal. Don't throw in the towel too soon. Keep believing and working towards that Plan A.
Romantic relationships have the power to make or break a person. Depending on who we choose as our romantic partner, it can have a direct impact the person we become and how successful we are in life.
How many friends do you have that you can be yourself around? If the answer isn't very many, perhaps you may have to question how many of your friendships are authentic? Get around the right people and they will assist you on your journey to success and a fulfilled life.
We spend a huge chunk of our lives at work. So why do we settle for jobs and businesses that we hate? In this episode I talk about working in a job or starting a business that we love. Life is too short to hate the time that we spend at work.
Authenticity is at the core to living a fulfilled life. I believe that many of our generation have lost this core. Over the next few episodes I will be going into the specific areas of our lives and talk about why I believe we need to make sure that we're being as true to ourselves as possible.
Success isn't achieved on the days when you feel like it. It's achieved on the days when we don't feel like it. Whether you feel like it or not, we have to put the work in anyway. Have a great week!
We may be products of our environment, but we can also create our environments. We can turn negative environments into positive ones. This is extremely important in order to keep our minds in a positive space. Have an amazing week.
Consistency is something that doesn't get the attention that it should. To have success that lasts long term, consistency is a must. In this episode, I talk about why I believe consistency is powerful and the positive effect that it has when you apply it to whatever you're doing in life. Let me know if you enjoy this episode.
I believe that you get what you expect. It's all about state of mind and perspective. Perhaps it's time for you to recalibrate your mindset, and look for the positive rather than the negative. I hope you enjoy this one.
We can either pay now and play later, or play now and pay later. The choice is yours, but whatever you choose will have implications, so choose wisely. Have a great week.
Losing is part of the process, but how do you respond when you lose? Your response is what determines the long term outcome. I break down the different responses and why they're important. I hope you enjoy this episode.
A reminder to focus on yourself rather than focusing on the things that the people around you are doing. Have a great week.
Often when we are going through the difficult times in life, all it needs is a mindset shift to change our mood and outlook. In this episode I talk about how changing your perspective can be the catalyst to changing your week.
How do people stay motivated? How do people have the same enthusiasm in regards to their working life year after year? I believe that part of it is down to their internal flame. In this episode I break down what it means to reignite your flame, or ignite the flame that you've never had. I hope you enjoy this one.
Each Monday morning I'll leave you with a quick moment of motivation to help you kick start your week. This week is all about attacking your week. I hope you enjoy it.
Many of us are crippled due to the fear of the opinions of everyone else. It's a common issue but it's one that we must overcome. I break down how and why we need to overcome this fear, and also what will happen if we don't. I'm sure that you'll get value from this episode.
Technology is amazing and it's changed absolutely everything. The problem is, due to the amount of things that we can now consume, it means that we are always consuming unless we intentionally make time to focus on our work and be productive with our time. Hopefully this episode is useful in reminding you to be vigilant with the amount of unnecessary time that you're spending using technology.
Far too many of us live for the weekend. We're wishing away our lives instead of making the most of every day that we have. I explain why we must stop living for the weekend and the steps we can take to enable us to look forward to Monday mornings. I hope you enjoy this episode.