Ageless: Recent Episodes
Arik Xander, Aurelia Xander
Lighthearted, humorous and intense discussions on human life, spirituality and all the confusion most people find themselves in.
In this episode of Ageless Podcast, Arik and Aurelia explore the illusions of life, the nature of enlightenment, and how to break free from false realities. With Pisces season as a backdrop, they examine the fine line between embracing responsibility and surrendering to the flow. Are we merely actors in a pre-written script, or do we have the power to choose our path? Expect deep insights, humor, and a refreshing take on what it really means to awaken.
Are your friendships built on real connection, or are they just routines you keep out of habit? In this episode of Ageless, Arik and Aurelia dive into the difference between true friendships and companionships of convenience.
Do we keep certain people around just because it’s easier than letting go? Are most adult friendships just gym buddies, hiking partners, or work acquaintances we never actually open up to? And why is loneliness such a universal experience, even for people who seem surrounded by friends?
The emotional toll of self-censorship and breaking free from societal expectations.
How hatred blinds us and perpetuates cycles of rejection and fear.
Reflections on political division and what it reveals about collective consciousness.
The karmic implications of collective events, like natural disasters, and what they teach us about group energy.
Personal stories of transformation and the power of taking responsibility for one’s patterns.
Key Takeaway: True freedom lies in staying authentic to your path, even when it challenges societal norms or personal comfort.
"What does it mean to belong?" Arik asks, kicking off the episode with the kind of contemplative question we all dream of answering. It's a question that doesn't just hang in the air—it ignites a journey through the tribal instincts of our ancestors, the complexities of modern digital communities, and the haunting implications of displacement. Aurelia's wisdom offers listeners a lens that merges practicality with spiritual clarity.
The hosts also share a playful yet profound card-pull ritual, offering personalized messages for 2025. Whether you choose the grounded wisdom of the Queen of Pentacles or the bold individuality of the Seven of Wands, this episode promises guidance, inspiration, and a touch of magic to help you navigate the year ahead. Perfect for those ready to dissolve old patterns, embrace freedom, and move boldly into the future.
Listen in to Ageless as Arik and Aurelia blend timeless wisdom with contemporary relevance, making this episode a must-hear for seekers and skeptics alike.
In this transformative episode of Ageless, Arik and Aurelia dive into the profound journey from being a seeker to becoming a committed student on the path of enlightenment. Drawing parallels with iconic films like The Matrix, they explore the nuanced stages of spiritual evolution, the importance of teachers, and the pitfalls of staying a seeker without committing to growth. With candid humor and deep insights, they tackle topics such as dogma, the role of a true teacher, and how spiritual liberation differs from enlightenment. Whether you're a curious listener or a seasoned student, this episode is a must-hear for anyone striving for a deeper understanding of life.
The hosts also share a playful yet profound card-pull ritual, offering personalized messages for 2025. Whether you choose the grounded wisdom of the Queen of Pentacles or the bold individuality of the Seven of Wands, this episode promises guidance, inspiration, and a touch of magic to help you navigate the year ahead. Perfect for those ready to dissolve old patterns, embrace freedom, and move boldly into the future.
Listen in to Ageless as Arik and Aurelia blend timeless wisdom with contemporary relevance, making this episode a must-hear for seekers and skeptics alike.
In this special New Year’s Eve episode of Ageless, Arik and Aurelia dive deep into the celestial and philosophical shifts of 2025. Against the backdrop of fireworks and festivities, they explore the year’s cosmic themes, including Neptune’s transition into Aries and Saturn’s powerful presence, highlighting the delicate dance between dissolution and creation. Through rich metaphors, tarot insights, and astrological forecasts, they challenge listeners to embrace endings as gateways to higher beginnings.
The hosts also share a playful yet profound card-pull ritual, offering personalized messages for 2025. Whether you choose the grounded wisdom of the Queen of Pentacles or the bold individuality of the Seven of Wands, this episode promises guidance, inspiration, and a touch of magic to help you navigate the year ahead. Perfect for those ready to dissolve old patterns, embrace freedom, and move boldly into the future.
Listen in to Ageless as Arik and Aurelia blend timeless wisdom with contemporary relevance, making this episode a must-hear for seekers and skeptics alike.
Miracles are always around us, but they require awareness, gratitude, and a willingness to confront the shadow. In this season of light, are you ready to do the inner work that brings true transformation?
From the challenges of modern social media’s inconsistency to reflections on Sagittarius energy and spiritual seekers, Arik and Aurelia discuss how habits can either trap us in patterns or free us through intentional effort. As we approach the winter solstice, the hosts share insights on facing our inner darkness and embracing the light as it begins to grow again—a powerful metaphor for transformation during this festive, yet often challenging, season.
In the Season 4 premiere of the Ageless podcast, Arik and Aurelia dive deep into the nuanced world of sensitivity, refinement, and intelligence. They explore the fascinating influence of astrology on our physical bodies, discussing how planetary movements, like the full moon, can manifest in our daily lives—whether through physical sensations or emotional responses. The conversation also delves into the distinctions between true sensitivity and mere emotional reactions, the importance of refinement in spirituality, and how superstitions can evolve into traditions over time. This episode offers a rich dialogue on how we can become more refined, open-minded, and spiritually aware beings. Tune in for thought-provoking insights that challenge conventional thinking and inspire personal growth.
This podcast episode explores the theme of control and the fear of change, which often manifests as anticipating negative outcomes. Arik and Aurelia discuss how individuals cope with the uncertainty of life and the tendency to expect bad news, delving into the psychological and philosophical aspects of control, mindfulness, and belief in the inherent goodness of life. They highlight practical ways to shift one's mindset, such as believing in the intention of the All Good, practicing mindfulness to see the good in every situation, and tackling inner work to anticipate beneficial outcomes instead of negative ones. The conversation underscores the importance of self-responsibility and the potential for personal growth and transformation through conscious effort and perspective shifts.
Dive into the latest episode of "Ageless" with hosts Arik and Aurelia, where the concept of time takes center stage. In this thought-provoking conversation, they explore the fascinating intersection of time and perception. From reminiscing about the Y2K bug and its future equivalents to discussing the nuances of time in astrology and technology, this episode is a treasure trove of insights.
The duo delves deep into how different cultures and personal beliefs shape our understanding of time. They challenge the notion of linear time, presenting intriguing arguments about making time work for us, not against us. With a blend of personal anecdotes, philosophical musings, and a touch of humor, Arik and Aurelia invite listeners to rethink their relationship with time.
Whether it's dissecting the astrological influences on our daily lives or musing over the quirks of the Gregorian calendar, "Ageless" offers a unique perspective on time management and quality of life. This episode is not just a podcast; it's an invitation to journey through the fluidity of time and emerge with a newfound appreciation for the moments we live in.
Tune in to "Ageless: Mastering Time in a Modern World" for an enlightening discussion that transcends the conventional, bringing the mysteries of time into the realm of the understandable.
In this special Halloween episode, join Arik and Aurelia as they delve into the mystical realms of the unseen world. From pondering the powers of witches to navigating the intertwining realms of magic and technology, this episode promises a deep dive into the supernatural. Amidst lighthearted banter, they grapple with the age-old belief that the boundaries between the tangible and the ethereal blur during this mystical season. With unexpected technical hiccups and reflections on parallel realities, this episode serves as a delightful blend of humor, wonder, and revelation. Tune in and uncover the ageless mysteries of the unseen.
”The "Ageless" episode on friendship blew me away. Arik's personal anecdote about his father's rehab and the therapy groups added such a raw and real dimension to the conversation. It's rare to find such vulnerability in a podcast.” - LT
“I was hooked to "Ageless" the moment Aurelia started sharing her perspective on friendship. Her definition of a friend as someone with whom she can be totally open was so relatable. It got me reflecting on my own relationships.” - PK
“The way "Ageless" tackled the adaptability of friendship was spot on. The discussion about whether friendships can endure changes, especially when one person evolves and the other doesn't, hit close to home. Kudos to Arik and Aurelia for such depth.” - CV
”I loved the "Sailor Moon" analogy in the latest "Ageless" episode! Using Usagi's relationships to explore the unique qualities friends bring into our lives was both nostalgic and insightful. It's an episode I'll definitely be sharing with my anime-loving friends.” - JY
In this thought-provoking episode of “Ageless”, hosts Arik and Aurelia explore the multifaceted nature of friendship. Delving into personal anecdotes, cultural references, and even the world of anime, they examine the depth, authenticity, and dynamics of genuine connections. Using the beloved series "Sailor Moon" as a metaphor, they highlight the diverse roles friends play in our lives and how each brings unique qualities to the table. The episode raises compelling questions: Can one maintain multiple deep friendships? Is friendship more profound than familial ties? Tune in to "Ageless" for a heartwarming and insightful journey into the heart of human relationships.
”The "Ageless" episode on friendship blew me away. Arik's personal anecdote about his father's rehab and the therapy groups added such a raw and real dimension to the conversation. It's rare to find such vulnerability in a podcast.” - LT
“I was hooked to "Ageless" the moment Aurelia started sharing her perspective on friendship. Her definition of a friend as someone with whom she can be totally open was so relatable. It got me reflecting on my own relationships.” - PK
“The way "Ageless" tackled the adaptability of friendship was spot on. The discussion about whether friendships can endure changes, especially when one person evolves and the other doesn't, hit close to home. Kudos to Arik and Aurelia for such depth.” - CV
”I loved the "Sailor Moon" analogy in the latest "Ageless" episode! Using Usagi's relationships to explore the unique qualities friends bring into our lives was both nostalgic and insightful. It's an episode I'll definitely be sharing with my anime-loving friends.” - JY
In a riveting episode of "Ageless," Arik and Aurelia tackle the shadowy domain of spiritual abuse. While the contours of physical and emotional trauma are recognized, spiritual abuse remains elusive. What does it mean to be spiritually abused? How does one even recognize it, especially when the wounds are so deeply hidden? Aurelia poses thought-provoking questions, while Arik grapples with the challenge of defining such an intangible form of harm. "Or so we think," muses Aurelia, inviting listeners into a realm where beliefs are questioned, and perceptions are continually challenged. Join this engaging discourse as the duo seeks to illuminate a topic that many prefer to leave in the dark.
In this episode of "Ageless," hosts Arik and Aurelia dive into a contemplative discussion about the concept of 'rest.' Arik initiates the conversation, emphasizing the pivotal role that rest plays not only in our spiritual journey but also in maintaining the physical well-being of our bodies. He poses a query regarding the perceived dichotomy between laziness and rest, sparking a thoughtful exploration of these terms. The conversation segues into Aurelia drawing a poignant analogy between rest and a musical pause, highlighting that just as a piece of music necessitates pauses to create a harmonious melody, our lives too require moments of rest to maintain balance and harmony. The hosts navigate through various dimensions of resting, relaxation, and taking a pause, while also pondering upon its potential importance or lack thereof.
In this enlightening episode of Ageless, Arik and Aurelia peel back the layers of a subtle yet pervasive emotional state - bitterness. Be navigated through a rich dialogue exploring its manifestations across different life stages and societal interactions. Arik and Aurelia thoughtfully dissect the impact of societal expectations, enhanced by advertising and social media, on our self-perception and interpersonal relationships. The discussion delves deep into the contrast between physical aging and the timeless spirit, exploring how our intrinsic self evolves – or remains static – through time. Embark on a journey of self-reflection, appreciate the silver linings, and ponder the profound question: How can we savor the taste of life amidst the bitter and the sweet? Tune in for a soulful exploration into understanding bitterness and uncovering pathways toward appreciation and authentic living.
Dive into a captivating exploration of life's ever-evolving priorities with hosts Arik and Aurelia. In this episode of "Ageless," the duo delves deep into the heart of what truly matters at different stages of life. Arik, drawing from his unique experiences as a healer, unravels the mysteries of human needs, challenging the assumptions we often make. Meanwhile, Aurelia's insightful interjections add layers to this introspective conversation. Together, they weave a narrative that's both personal and universal, prompting listeners to reflect on their own life choices. Join them in this timeless discussion that transcends age and beckons self-discovery. A must-listen for those seeking clarity in the maze of life's decisions.
In a riveting episode of what feels like a philosophical deep dive into the human psyche, the Ageless podcast hosted by Arik and Aurelia grapples with the nature of risks, desires, rejection, and our relationships with them.
At its heart, the discussion centers around the very nature of wanting something, be it as lavish as a $3,000,000 car or as intangible as personal validation. Aurelia presents a nuanced perspective suggesting that true desire, coupled with the will to overcome numerous internal barriers, can be a path to enlightenment.
The discussion takes a curious turn as it delves into the anxiety of risks. Both hosts agree that there's a profound difference between living vicariously – experiencing life through others, like a passive observer – and actually stepping up to confront one's fears, dreams, and potential rejections.
With a nod to the age of social media, Arik addresses the delusion that many might be under: thinking they are taking risks when in reality they're merely performing acts of false bravado. They touch upon the art of Tibetan debate, pointing out the value of nonattachment and challenging one's beliefs – a practice that seems to be fading in today's echo-chamber culture.
Aurelia beautifully ties in the notion that being open to risks is akin to being honest. In a world where such honesty seems to be lacking, being truly aware of the risks we're taking – be it as grand as a life choice or as minute as a single breath – will lead to a magical existence.
In sum, this episode of Ageless offers a profound spiritual reflection on the essence of human experience. For those seeking a break from the mundane, Arik and Aurelia provide a lens that's both contemplative and challenging. The listener is left to ponder: Are we merely existing in a web of delusions or are we truly brave enough to face life's inherent risks?
In this thought-provoking episode of Ageless, Arik and Aurelia delve into the unconventional wisdom of "being stupid." Unpack the layers of control, the illusion of knowledge, and the art of letting go. Drawing inspiration from popular culture references like Star Trek's Data, the conversation seamlessly melds science fiction with spiritual insight. Can impatience really affect our physical well-being? And how does humbly embracing our own ignorance pave the path for true enlightenment? Join us on a journey where being "stupid" might just be the smartest thing you ever embrace. Don't forget to share, rate, and review.
Step into an evocative episode of Ageless, expertly helmed by the dynamic duo, Arik Xander and Aurelia Xander. This episode delves deep into a topic many shy away from: our clandestine love affair with our traumas and comfort zones. As they unravel the threads of why we often become ensnared in patterns that don't serve our higher purpose, Arik and Aurelia shed light on the urgent call for change. Immerse yourself in a realm where profound insights are seamlessly blended with light-hearted humor and fervent passion. In a world that often unknowingly clings to familiar pains, this episode stands as a clarion call to self-awareness, urging listeners to break free and embrace transformative growth. Join us in Ageless for a journey that promises introspection, enlightenment, and the tools to traverse the terrains of our deepest vulnerabilities.
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From solar return trips to full moon meditations, from karmic winds to locating your soulmate — this engaging episode of Ageless finds Arik and Aurelia talking about the connections between changing your destiny, understanding your relationships, completing your one purpose in life — and why it’s so important to drink your coffee in a good state of mind.
It’s in the daily grind, even in the smallest moments of your life, wherever you are, that situations bring opportunities for you to work within yourself and find the spirituality within your life — as you’ll hear in this candid conversation with Arik and Aurelia about what is really happening when things don’t go the way you expected.
So, who made you the judge? Before you answer that question, you’ll want to listen to this intense, honest discussion on the topic of judgement, as Arik and Aurelia continue to explore the deeper realms of acceptance, and of rejection — in this Ageless episode about the necessity for finding true meaning in your life, what keeps you from doing that, and what it takes to have a truly meaningful lifestyle.
Following their amazing episode about acceptance, Arik and Aurelia venture further into the subject of the Journey of the Cosmic Pixels with a talk about the “bigger picture” — what is meant by having a bigger picture, how to get it, how big is big, and also, what it is not. You won’t want to miss this beautiful, informative, and in-depth conversation about the true nature of having an open — let’s say, fertile — mind.
In this episode of Ageless, Arik and Aurelia talk about acceptance — what it is, what blocks your ability to do it, what love has to do with it — what it means in terms of your relationships, to yourself and to others — and how it works as you step through the Archetypal Journey of the Cosmic Pixels. An insightful look into the obstacles posed by addictions to social media influences, unhappiness, and narcissism — and what it takes to open yourself to a greater vision for your life and in your relationships, by moving into a place of acceptance.
Talking about life that has not been lived, and how to stop the endless scrolling on 2D.
Sometimes we are excited about the wrong thing and we end up doing things we'd rather not. Let's talk about passion and the astrological influences of the time.
Where have we been? We’ll we’ve been living without our wifi network for five months! Can you believe it!? It’s inspired us as always to share about relevant issues such as Abandonment Issues!
Episode 36: To create this episode, I just started recording Aurelia over breakfast. She had no idea I was recording her. I just hit the record button on my phone because her words were just so amazing. See where the convo takes us! Unplanned, unedited, without ego agenda!!!
Episode 35: In this episode, we talk about energy imprints, fear, and what to do during the pandemic. It’s never too late to change, pretending to run away from fears, the injection, the building up of fear, Shiba Dogecoin and become fearless during the pandemic.
In this episode, we talk about Easter and the meaning of resurrection as well as Tarot connections with the holiday and: the origins and archetypes of Easter, the spiritual power of eggs, how the Tarot is connected to Easter, astrological Easter explanations, keeping the ego small, spring cleaning and even more.
In this episode, we discussed how to remain neutral without sacrificing yourself as well as the power of the Full Moon of Battles, understanding where people are coming from and more.
Setting priorities and getting joy out of what you’re doing. What it means to be tired and what we do when we sleep. Connecting with your unconscious mind. The Astrological New Year and the 12 Days of Aries. The power of the Zodiac. The power of intention and planting seeds with the astrological cycles. Accessing the mainframe of the Zodiac to create your reality.
Episode 30: In this episode, we talk about denial, ignorance, rejection, censorship, ignorance as rejection, dulling yourself down, denial as rejection, and how much energy denial needs.
In this episode, we talk about 1% reality vs 99% Reality, spiritual battles, and spiritual wars, the battles that we face are part of the war, taking care of the inner war to prevent external war, complaining, and complacency, what purposes do crises serve? We also discuss hatred and psychic attacks, judgment, blaming, outgrowing your environment, The Devil’s Advocate, the illusion of happily ever after, knowing when people haven’t changed, and more.
In this episode, we talk about what is transparency and seeing through things that are there without limitation of perception.
In this episode, we talk about the consequences of spinning in delusion and how to deal with people who are spun our. We also address how to step out of these delusions and more.
In this episode, we talk about the Christmas Spirit, Chanukah, and Christ Consciousness as well as miracles and wonders. Arik reveals how Jesus was not a Capricorn, hence his birthday was not December 25 but emphasizes the discovery of Jesus on December 25 by the three astrologers.
In this episode, we talk about how to deal with angry people and narcissism. It’s an enlightening discussion about perception and the way you see the world is how you experience it.
In this episode, we talk about the election counting, channeling information, the Jupiter/Saturn conjunction, and if there is a difference between a teacher and the teachings.
In this episode, we tackle denial and discuss the difference between ignorance and denial. The conversation is intense!
Welcome to season 2! Our lifestyle has been destroyed and life will not go back to how things were. In this season debut, we talk about how what we can do to move forward through these times of darkness. We have moved from times of plague into the times of war, civil war in the US. The Stuff will hit the fan in Scorpio esp. on the Blue Full Moon on Halloween!
In this episode, we talk about fair-weather friends and opportunists as well as atonement, Virgo-Libra and the Autumn Equinox; entitlement and when does karma begin?
In this episode, we talk about corona dilemmas, speaking up and when to let people spin and when to speak up.
In this episode, we talk about the dangers of the saying "Releasing What No Longer Serves You" and the illusions of cancel culture.
In this episode, we talk about how to define relationship boundaries and why our staycation has proved to be useless during COVID-19.
In this episode, we talk about what sincere self-importance and how it acts out in our world today.
In this episode, we talk about the difference between an oath and a vow and how they relate to the spiritual path.
The state of The States and talking about what’s going on from a spiritual perspective. Also, what are half-truths and what can we do to help the global situation and remove hatred.
Welcome to summer! In this episode, we talk about Cancer season, travel plans, can you be spiritual on vacation? Are there breaks in spirituality? Going to church has nothing to do with spirituality, life during social distancing, nothing being authentically religious or spiritual, being spiritual on vacation, not going to the beach with the mask on, how to help your partner become spiritual, what is ASMR, kundalini, channels in the body, the dangers of ASMR, reincarnation, using the senses, mastication, not being hedonistic, making things positive, the homeland generation, bringing things on the spiritual path, sensory overload, jack black, Shirley MacLaine.
In this episode we talk about enabling, opportunist, and staying true to yourself without codependence.
In this episode, we talk about what’s the difference between what is correct and what is right, the Holocaust, following orders, being a rebellion, concentration camps, being politically correct, war, what are social orders, Nazis, World War 2, being an outsider, being an outcast, freedom of speech, speaking the true mind, all life matters, black life matters, putting out fires, racism, anger outlets, the United States has a karma of racism, Abraham Lincoln freed the slaves, COVID-19, refilling negativity energy, forecast, planets of pandemic, thinking for yourself vs. mass concept, community vs. self-reliance, the Great Depression, generational planets, astrological transits, what is divine, what orders are you following?
In this episode we talk about labels, getting intimidated in spirituality, spiritual labels, masks, unnecessary experiments, marketing tips, horoscopes, how to title a piece of work, being too mental, the way of being, putting labels on the material, being a “spiritual” person, feeling through the chakras, awareness and more!
In this episode, we talk about what freedom and what is free will. We also talk about triggers, patterns, and the reactive mind. How to use free will and not engage in the reactive mind.
In this episode, we answer your questions! We cover topics like: How to deal with people that don’t like you, unrequited love, love, and relationships, liking and loving others, how to be likable (lol), compassion and pity, why struggle is needed, what is forgiveness, when to forgive, and much much more!
In this episode, we talk about money, changes, the economy, Uranus in Taurus, free vs. paid meditations, getting what you pay for, giving away things for free, seeing the value, receiving appreciation, giving back, increasing the value of anything, greed, donations, giving up the ego, how to set up a good context for your spiritual path, self-importance, narcissism, hoarding, Aurelia’s encounter with Falkor/Fuchur, seeing the new in the old, why the ego wants things for free, having the right attitude, abundance is an attitude, it pays off to think about situations where we do let our environment change us for the worst.
Podcast Note: When doing some research after recording the podcast, we learned that The original name Fuchur is derived from the Japanese Fukuryū (福竜/福龍, "good luck dragon"). Seiya is of Japanese descent, her dad is from Sapporo.
Note: Sorry about the audio quality. We have corrected the tech error since then, but as our listener’s say, “it’s what you say that’s important”
In this episode we talk about: what are spiritual seekers, The two types of spiritual seekers, Quick to seek, even quicker to move on, The entitlement that arises on the spiritual path, When the spiritual path gets difficult and painful, How to identify a true spiritual aspirant, Letting go of material attachments, When to give advice, Spiritual Entertainment vs. Spiritual Transformation, The lack of gratitude, Living in a state of gratitude, Beauty, self-care and taking care of your looks, what facilitates transformation and having gratitude for it, commitment and loyalty to spiritual work, commitment brings freedom.
In this episode we talk about: the Akashic Records and Akashic Readings, quantum fields, the High Priestess, Spiritual Traps, Knowledge and Truth, Spiritual Traps, Finding truth that suits your ego, astral beings with bad intentions causing mischief, how we attract astral beings or angels, ego spirituality, the burning passion to better yourself, giving up material attachments, when ‘truth’ is really a justification, chakras and truth, false teachers, the hallmark of ego and more
Join us in our debut discussion on how to not care what other people think or project onto you! Join us in our debut discussion on how to not care what other people think or project onto you! In this episode we talk about: opinions, how to not let other people's opinions about you bother you, projections, allowing other people to spin in their reality, how to avoid war, intimate relationships, the responsibility to keep your vibration high, bubbles and boundaries, the consequences of projection, the spiritual inner war, turning hatred back into love and more.