The Fairest Love Shrine Podcast: Recent Episodes
Shrine to Mary, Mother of Fairest Love
Whether we've been married for 50 years or called to give up marriage to build up the kingdom of God, our Lord calls us to live "fairest love" within family life. The Fairest Love Reflection Series is spiritual content that will help us better understand what this means for our own lives, inspiring us to respond generously to God's loving call.
Confession is not a shame ritual, it is the place where mercy meets your real life.
This week we are joined again by Fr. Matt Wheeler who uncovers why this sacrament is one of the clearest gifts Jesus ever gave the Church, and why families who practice it together build something stronger than good intentions.
Fr. Matt traces confession back to Easter Sunday, when the risen Christ enters the locked room, breathes the Holy Spirit on the apostles, and says, "Whose sins you forgive are forgiven them." He explains how that moment becomes the foundation for sacramental reconciliation, why the early Church handled penance so differently, and how the Church's practice developed over time under the guidance of the Holy Spirit. We discuss why going to confession as a family forms children in humility, peace, and accountability and how to explain confession to young kids without making it terrifying.
Connect with Father Matt Wheeler on Instagram and at Catholic Trojan Center
When it comes to marriage, most conversations focus solely on the couple, but what about the intricate web of family relationships that come with it?
Kevin Pesak, director of OCIA and marriage preparation at St. Mary’s Catholic Center, shares invaluable insights on how couples can leave and cleave well—treading the delicate line between honoring family traditions and building a new normal together.
His perspective reveals that the secret to a successful marriage isn’t just about two people, but about navigating and integrating two entirely new family systems with grace and humility. Kevin unpacks practical strategies for both couples and parents. You'll discover why honesty, humility, and early conversations about expectations are critical for avoiding tension and misunderstandings—especially around holidays, traditions, and in-law relationships. Kevin shares specific advice for parents on how to support their children’s marital journey, from offering wisdom without criticism, to encouraging couples to seek outside mentorship. He also discusses when and how to have those tough conversations about readiness for marriage and the importance of church-approved steps like the right of betrothal.
https://www.aggiecatholic.org/marriage
In this episode, Amy sits down with Ana Samuel of CanaVox to explore the meaning of marriage, natural law, and how parents can talk to kids about sexuality, identity, and family with both clarity and compassion.
Ana shares her academic background, the personal journey that led her into this work, and the framework she uses to explain why marriage is a comprehensive union built on permanence, fidelity, and openness to children.
The conversation also gets practical: Ana offers age-appropriate strategies for parents, including how to use ordinary everyday moments to start hard conversations with middle schoolers, how to help children develop a healthy “filter” for confusing cultural messages, and how to respond to family differences without losing unity or integrity.
If you're looking for a thoughtful discussion about parenting, marriage, and maintaining relationships across deep differences, this episode is for you!
Learn more about Ana
CanaVox
In this week's episode, Michelle Lentz, author of Hey Beginner Wife, reveals how decades of marriage and parenting have shown her the importance of staying present amidst a tech-saturated world and how intentional strategies can revitalize your family life. Most families today are losing the simple, yet profound connection that screens and technology have quietly replaced—like meaningful dinner conversations and car rides without distractions.
In this episode, you'll discover the subtle ways screens quietly erode intimacy without even realizing it—from the dinner table to the car seat—and why slowing down is the key to true connection. Michelle shares practical tips on creating a family rhythm grounded in presence, including how to build bedtime routines that foster closeness, and the powerful influence of modeling selfless love in marriage. She emphasizes the importance of eye contact, intentional listening, and small daily habits—like giving your spouse the first hug or praying together—to deepen your bond.
If you're a parent or spouse overwhelmed by the pace of today's digital world but craving authentic connection, this episode is your practical guide to reclaiming presence. Get ready to transform your family rhythm, boost your marriage’s emotional intimacy, and create a home where everyone feels truly seen and known.
https://www.heybeginnerwife.com/
Most parents feel overwhelmed by today’s hyper-scheduled childhood, but Mike and Alicia from the Messy Family Project reveal a counterintuitive approach rooted in timeless principles. Imagine reclaiming hours of your child's day through boredom, self-reliance, and a nurturing home culture — all while easing your own stress.
In this week's episode, Mike and Alicia break down concrete tactics: how to handle boredom as a parenting superpower, the importance of daily couple connection amidst chaos, and prioritizing the spiritual and cultural health of your family above house chores. They share real stories of traditions that strengthen family bonds, from water play to summer retreats, plus the pitfalls of modern social media and the importance of community support.
Learn how to intentionally craft a family life that values virtue over perfection, renounces endless overscheduling, and invites God's grace into your daily routine. Whether you're in the trenches of raising toddlers or navigating adolescent seasons, this conversation equips you with practical tools and a renewed vision to nurture a joyful, resilient, and faith-filled family.
https://messyfamilyproject.org/
In this episode of the Fairest Love Podcast, we sat down with Dr. Greg and Lisa Popcak to explore a powerful new study on what helps Catholic families raise children who remain faithful into adulthood. The conversation reveals why so many parenting strategies fall short: kids don’t just need church attendance or busy schedules, they need to experience faith as the source of warmth, connection, and peace in the home.
From family prayer and shared meals to working, playing, talking, and praying together, the Popcaks offer practical, research-backed ways to build a more connected domestic church.
If you’re a parent who wants to strengthen your family bonds and pass on faith in a lasting way, this episode is full of encouragement, clarity, and hope.
https://catholiccounselors.com/
This week we are joined by Dr. Gerald Sperrazzo to explore the beautiful, complex role of grandparents in family life.
Dr. Sperrazzo shares what he sees as the greatest gifts grandparents can offer: unconditional love, patience, generosity, wisdom, and faith, and explains how these gifts can strengthen children, parents, and the wider family.
This conversation also looks honestly at what can make grandparenting ineffective, from emotional distance and criticism to overindulgence and poor emotional control.
Dr. Sperrazzo offers thoughtful guidance for grandparents who want to build healthier relationships, including practical ways to stay connected with grandchildren who live far away and how to support family life without undermining the parents.
If you’re a grandparent, parent, or someone hoping to build a strong, faith-filled family legacy, this episode offers encouragement, perspective, and timeless advice.
Join us for the second part of our conversation with John Edwards (Just A Guy in the Pew)!This week we finish up John's testimony as he shares how surrendering to God's mercy radically changed his life and emphasizes the importance of community for men.If you’ve ever felt stuck in shame, isolated by pride, or unsure how to deepen your relationship with Christ and others, this episode is for you!
https://justaguyinthepew.com/https://store.justaguyinthepew.com/
Join us for part one of our conversation with John Edwards (Just A Guy in the Pew)!
Unlock the transformative power of humility and authentic community in this gripping episode. From a life marked by addiction, loneliness, and fractured faith, John shares how confronting his deepest wounds and surrendering to God's mercy radically changed his trajectory—ultimately leading him to become a leader in men's ministry.If you’ve ever felt stuck in shame, isolated by pride, or unsure how to deepen your relationship with Christ and others, this episode is for you!
https://justaguyinthepew.com/
https://store.justaguyinthepew.com/
This week Father Griffin, rector of St. John Paul II Seminary and author of Reclaimed: Win the War of Freedom, Self-Mastery, and Holy Purity, shares candid insights on how today's digital culture warps young men's view of masculinity and purity.
What if masculinity isn't about power, conquest, or superficial success? Father Carter Griffin reveals how the real essence of manhood is rooted in sacrificial love, self-mastery, and living with intentionality and how society's false promises have distorted that vision. This episode is a wake-up call for men struggling with identity, for parents seeking to guide effectively, and for anyone tired of the shame, despair, and cultural lies that keep us from genuine virtue.
Want to unlock the Power of True Manhood and Purity? This conversation challenges the lies holding young men back from living heroically.
Buy Fr. Carter Griffin's book here
Most parents overlook how sports can shape more than just bodies — they can build character, confidence, and faith. But in today’s culture, the pressure and confusion surrounding female athletics threaten to distort these vital lessons.
In this week's episode, Samantha Kelley, founder of Fierce Athlete, reveals how sports can be a powerful tool in nurturing young women’s identity, femininity, and virtue—if we understand how to harness them. Imagine a world where athletic competition isn't just about winning trophies but cultivating resilience, humility, and a deep-rooted sense of worth as children of God.
Samantha, a former Division I soccer player turned spiritual mentor, exposes the toxic culture that can distort young girls’ sense of identity and offers a blueprint for parents committed to raising confident, virtuous daughters rooted in faith. She dives into how athletic environments influence body image, mental health, and even gender identity—arming parents with strategies to protect their children’s innocence while encouraging their talents.
You can find Samantha and learn more about her organization here
Most couples facing infertility overlook a powerful, love-filled alternative—adoption.
Chrissy and CJ Curtis share their inspiring journey from struggles with infertility to building a family through adoption, revealing the unexpected joys and profound family bonds that can blossom when we open our hearts. Their story shatters misconceptions and highlights how love, faith, and community transform the challenge of infertility into a blessing beyond biology.
You'll discover how their faith guided their decision to adopt and foster, the real stories behind loving children who aren't biologically theirs, and the importance of honesty and openness when explaining adoption to young children. Chrissy and CJ unpack the misconceptions about love, biological ties, and the idea that adopted children are somehow less "real" than biological ones, demonstrating instead that love is limitless—built on trust, sacrifice, and connection. They emphasize that every adoption involves brokenness, but also remarkable healing—showing that love does not replace pain; it transcends it.
If you'd like to reach out to the Curtis family to talk about their adoption story you can reach them at chrissy.mo.curtis@gmail.com
This week Father Daniel Chowning shares profound insights from St. John of the Cross, revealing the path to healing that’s rooted in God's merciful love—because true healing begins when we recognize our wounds and invite God into them.
If you've ever struggled with distorted views of love, or feel stuck in the past, this episode offers practical steps to rediscover authentic love, heal old wounds, and live more fully in God's grace.
Father Daniel, a Carmelite friar with decades of ministry experience, including studying in Spain, living in Rome, and authoring Healed by Love—breaks down the profound relationship between prayer, self-knowledge, and love’s transformative power. You'll discover how the dark night isn’t just a metaphor, but a universal stage of healing where God's love penetrates our deepest brokenness. We explore how love as a self-giving act aligns with Jesus’s example, and why learning to love as God loves is our lifelong vocation; one that’s impossible without divine grace.
You can find Fr. Daniel's book here.
In this episode, Amy Snell from the Charlotte Mason Educational Center shares insights on how building a supportive homeschooling community enriches the educational experience and personal growth of mothers. We explore the international reach of the CMEC, the importance of connection, and practical steps to foster community and personal renewal.
Connect with Amy
https://www.instagram.com/learninghowtolivecm/https://thecmec.org/
In this week's episode we are joined by Courtney Roach @becoming.courtney a Catholic marketer and podcaster, who shares her journey of faith, highlighting how beauty, prayer, and self-awareness become powerful tools for evangelization. She explains her process on crafting content rooted in authenticity rather than perfection, and how to navigate the pitfalls of vanity and comparison—all while remaining rooted in God's love. Dive into the art of intentionality and vulnerability in social media with us and learn how embracing your true self and inviting Jesus into every part can inspire genuine connection and transform your online presence. This conversation is a must-listen for any Catholic woman feeling the pressure to do it all, or searching for ways to infuse more beauty and purpose into her daily routine.If you've ever felt unsure about sharing your true self online or struggling with balancing faith and ambition, Courtney’s insights offer comfort, clarity, and a call to live boldly and authentically—guided by love, rooted in prayer, and open to God's creative work through you.
Connect with Courtney
Daily Nothings Podcast
In this bonus episode, Lauren from On This Rock Designs shares how her viral painting of a family as their patron saints is transforming how Catholics see devotion, beauty, and their faith in everyday life. Discover creative ways to introduce children to the saints beyond commissioning artwork—through stained-glass windows, children's books, and family traditions. Lauren emphasizes the importance of making the faith tangible, beautiful, and engaging for every generation. She shares insights from her favorite saints, her love for sacred beauty, and her vision for how art can foster a more vibrant, prayerful domestic life.If you’ve ever wondered how modern depictions of saints might evolve—think saints with iPhones or backpacks—Lauren’s thoughts are both humorous and insightful. She reflects on the power of sacred art to unveil truth, beauty, and goodness, pointing us toward God’s divine wonder through visual storytelling that reaches thousands online and in churches. Connect with Lauren
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In this episode, Ben West, creative director at Tiny Saints, shares how tiny keychains inspire massive conversations about saints, faith, and God's love. We discuss the process of creating these cute, faith-filled keychains, including the surprising ways art and aesthetics elevate the message of the Gospel. Ben also shares the vision for the Tiny Saints animated show—an innovative series blending heaven and earth, humor and depth, all rooted in family and unity.Get inspired to make faith beautiful, approachable, and fun, whether through storytelling, art, or everyday encounters with the saints.Ben highlights practical ways parents can foster an appreciation for beauty with their kids—through art, nature, music, and meaningful conversations. Discover how slowing down and beholding creation reconnects us with the innocence and joy of heaven.
Connect with Ben West
Tiny Saints
This week we are joined by Laura-Anne Smid, a talented Catholic wedding photographer with 15 years of experience! In this episode she shares how intentionality, gratitude, and genuine faith transform ordinary moments into eternal memories. Learn simple yet powerful ways to foster appreciation for what is true, good, and beautiful in a noisy digital age. Laura-Anne discusses her unique resources that go beyond photography, helping couples prepare spiritually for their wedding day and beyond. She emphasizes that true beauty is rooted in our hearts and expressed through tangible, meaningful memories—reminding us that authentic connection and gratitude are the keys to noticing God's goodness every day. We break down practical steps to see and nurture beauty in your family life: from intentional home decor rooted in sacred art to cultivating a gratitude practice that sharpens your awareness of God's blessings.
Discover insights on teaching children to recognize the beauty around them and balancing the desire for polished family photos with genuine, relaxed moments.If you're ready to cultivate gratitude, deepen your faith, and learn how intentionality can reveal beauty hidden in plain sight, this conversation is your next step. Whether you're looking to enrich your spiritual life, craft a more intentional family culture, or simply see the world through a renewed lens of gratitude, this episode will transform how you view and capture the beauty all around you.
Connect with Laura-Anne: https://laura-anne.ca/https://www.instagram.com/lauraannesmid/
This week we continue our conversation with Jacob Beranek and Christa Dalmazio from Higher Word Orchestra. In this episode we continue our conversation about the role of music in our society and introducing classical music to our families! Join us in rediscovering the divine potential of music to transform hearts and connect with our families!Connect with Higher Word Orchestra! https://higherword.org/
What if concert halls could become sacred spaces that both inspire awe and deepen faith?This week, Jacob Beranek and Christa Dalmazio from Higher Word Orchestra reveal how they blend Catholic faith, education, and transcendent beauty to create concerts that do more than entertain—they touch souls and inspire spiritual reflection.They share the behind-the-scenes of their mission: crafting concerts that intertwine sacred stories, composer insights, and spiritual themes—all in a way that welcomes everyone, regardless of background.
Join us in rediscovering the divine potential of music to transform hearts, connect generations, and revive a culture in desperate need of true beauty.Connect with Higher Word Orchestra and stay tuned for part 2 next week! https://higherword.org/April 10th Concert
In this rebroadcasted podcast episode, Fr. Luke Mata shares a reflection on how we can better accompany Christ in his Passion this Holy Week. We hope you have a wonderful Easter!
In this episode, Father Matt Wheeler shares insights on supporting college students’ faith, navigating parenting adult children, and the spiritual challenges facing young people today.
Discover practical advice rooted in Catholic teaching, from fostering deep conversations to handling spiritual influences and understanding the maturity process.Connect with Father Matt Wheeler on Instagram and at Catholic Trojan Center
In this week's episode, we say goodbye to our host, Mary Grace, and hello to the new host, Amy!Amy and MaryGrace discuss their favorite past episodes and how this Marian devotion has shaped their view of motherhood and divine love.Dive into a behind-the-scenes look at the stories, relationships, and faith that have shaped this journey and learn how Amy plans to deepen the conversation about family, devotion, and hope!
This week, we are joined by Msgr. Charles Pope to discuss his book, The Hell There Is, and why a healthy understanding of eternal justice is essential for modern families.We explore how a diminished awareness of Hell has led to a trivialized view of God and discuss the vital importance of teaching children about repentance and spiritual reality without fear. Msgr. Pope offers pastoral guidance on balancing God’s infinite love with His justice, helping parents prioritize their children's eternal salvation over worldly success.
You can find Msgr. Charles Pope’s book, The Hell There Is, through TAN Books and check out more of his appearances and writings on his website.
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This week, we are joined by Dr. Mary Ruth Hackett to discuss her new book, Discernment of Spirits for Beginners, and how Ignatian rules of discernment apply to the busy lives of parents and children.We dive into how parents can distinguish between psychological struggles and spiritual desolation, offering a roadmap for guiding children through fear and confusion in today's digital age. Dr. Hackett shares how understanding these spiritual movements empowers families, even in the midst of the most demanding developmental milestones.
To pick up a copy of Discernment of Spirits for Beginners, visit Sophia Institute Press. You can find more of Dr. Hackett’s work on child development and resources on her website.
This week, we spoke with Michael Pakaluk to discuss the extraordinary life of his late wife, Ruth Pakaluk, whose cause for canonization is currently moving forward in the Church.We discuss Michael and Ruth’s journey from atheism at Harvard to a life of deep Catholic faith, highlighting how they lived out the beauty of sacrificial love through seven children and a terminal cancer diagnosis. Michael offers a rare, husband’s-eye view of what heroic virtue looks like in the middle of a busy home and provides profound advice for couples navigating their own seasons of crisis or illness.
To learn more about Ruth Pakaluk’s life and the progress of her cause for sainthood, visit the official website for her cause or read Michael's compilation of her letters, "The Appalling Strangeness of the Mercy of God". Also, be sure to check out his book, "The Company We Keep: True Friendship and Why it Matters", through Scepter Publishers.
This week, we are joined by licensed marriage and family therapist Doug Hinderer to discuss how shifting from "scorekeeping" to sacrificial love can transform a struggling marriage.We dive into the practical difference between holy sacrifice and unhealthy people-pleasing, exploring how to prioritize your spouse even amidst the exhausting demands of parenting. Doug shares how to view your spouse's defects as opportunities for personal growth and offers guidance on navigating seasons of dryness with a commitment rooted in "total self-gift."To purchase Doug’s book, Rekindled Hearts, visit Scepter Publishers.
Also, be sure to check out his Relevant Radio show, Marriage Unhindered, Monday-Friday from 5pm-6pm cst.
This week, we welcomed back JL Marti, CEO of the Fairest Love Family Project, to discuss the meaning behind the title of Mary, Mother of Fairest Love.We look at how this title serves as a roadmap for families navigating the modern world and why Mary is the ultimate source of hope for parents. JL shares practical ways to invite the Mother of Fairest Love into your home through prayer and the Novena, offering a vision for a family life rooted in beauty and virtue. To learn more about the project, visit the Fairest Love Family Project. You can also find the Novena to Mary, Mother of Fairest Love on the website.
This week, we are joined by Dr. Johann D'Souza to explore how couples can navigate the hidden ways anxiety and stress impact a marriage. We discuss how anxiety manifests differently in men and women and why treating love as a deliberate choice is the key to overcoming fear and avoidance behaviors. Dr. D'Souza offers practical mindfulness techniques and insights on managing digital stress to help you better support your spouse during seasons of emotional struggle.
You can find Dr. D'Souza's work at Values First Therapy or dive deeper into his resources on his Substack and YouTube series.
In this week's episode, we are joined by author and speaker Colleen Carroll Campbell for a thoughtful conversation on perfectionism and faith. Colleen reflects on how impossible expectations, especially in motherhood, can quietly take root and drain joy. We explore how surrender, grace, and humility help parents model trust in God rather than control.
Be sure to check out Colleen's Substack for reflections on the everyday. You can purchase her book by following this link.
In this week's episode we spoke with Lisa Canning, The Possibility Mom, to talk about how to dream again after seasons of defeat.Lisa shares her journey as a mother of eleven and entrepreneur, offering honest wisdom on surrender, control, and finding beauty amid chaos. She gives practical tools for overcoming decision fatigue, strengthening your prayer life, and leaning on community when life feels overwhelming.This conversation will inspire parents to slow down, reconnect, and dare to dream again together !
Curious what life with 11 kids looks like? Follow Lisa on Instagram (@lisacanning) and be sure to check out her website for her coaching, podcast, and other offerings.
In this week's episode, we spoke with writer and mother of six, Rachel Balducci, for an honest conversation about building a home rooted in peace and simplicity. Rachel shares real-life wisdom on parenting without comparison, letting children exercise free will, and creating stronger family relationships through ordinary living.Rachel has written several notable books including Make My Life Simple and How Do You Tuck in a Superhero?
Be sure to check out her additional work on her website!
Happy New Year and welcome to Season 6 of the Fairest Love Podcast!Today on the show we interview Carolyn Madigan, founder of Solé Atelier, a Catholic lifestyle company creating products that bridge the human and the divine for the striving professional.In this episode, we explore how beauty, order, and simple routines can transform family life especially for busy parents. Carolyn shares practical ways to build habits that bring peace to the home, how to stay flexible while still being intentional, and what truly defines success within family life.Listen today for a refreshing and encouraging conversation to help you start the new year right! And be sure to check out Solé Atelier's beautiful weekly planner.
In this reflection, Fr. Luke Mata shares how Advent is a gentle wake-up call for parents to step out of distraction and make room for Christ in the midst of family life. Through prayer, Confession, and simple acts of love, he helps us prepare our hearts for Jesus’ coming.A meaningful listen as we prepare for the coming of Christ at Christmas!
Take a moment before the Thanksgiving holiday to reflect with Fr. Luke Mata on the power of gratitude! Cultivating gratitude, especially during the holiday season, helps open our hearts to the grace and love that Our Lord wants to bestow upon us.We are so grateful for your continued prayers and support! Mary, Mother of Fairest Love, pray for us!
From the New Year and New Beginnings to building up the family culture and protecting your time, we’ve striven to find experts and guests that have been able to help you navigate the challenges you face in raising your families in today’s society. Thank you for listening!
We can't wait to bring you new guests and exciting topics next season. Be on the look out for our Advent and Christmas reflections! Do you have a guest or topic you’d love to hear on the Fairest Love Podcast? We’d love to hear from you!
Send your suggestions or interview recommendations to info@fairestlovefamilyproject.org.
This week we are rebroadcasting from our conversation with Alex Dee, co-founder of Saints Alive, a podcast for children that provides epic dramas of the lives of the Saints, shares with us the history of the podcast, the fruits he’s seen from it, and how to help our children grown in love with this super heroes of the Church.
This week we're taking a look at some hidden gems on the Fairest Love Podcast... guests and topics YOU recommended. These guests shared incredible stories and insights, and if you missed the episode when it first aired, we highly encourage you to take a listen to the full episode below!
Beauty Through the Lens of the World with Grace Galligan
Self-Surrendering Service with Blake Brouillette
Overcoming Stress and Anxiety with Dr. Mario Sacasa (After Cana episode)
The Importance of Good Books and Reading as a Habit with Marcie Stockman
Do you have a guest or topic you’d love to hear on the Fairest Love Podcast?
We’d love to hear from you! Send your suggestions or interview recommendations to info@fairestlovefamilyproject.org.
Did you know the Fairest Love Family Project has a podcast specifically geared towards newly engaged and married couples? The After Cana podcast explores the vocation of marriage through stories, advice, and insights from experts and seasoned couples.
We're sharing a conversation with Blythe Fike, a mother of 12, who shares her experience about the postpartum season and how women can prepare for it.
Take a listen and if you like what you hear, be sure to listen to more of the podcast!
In this special episode, we’re revisiting some of your favorite conversations — the ones that have resonated most deeply with our listeners. Each of these episodes explores what it means to live family life well: from decluttering the heart to healing relationships, finding holiness in everyday life, and creating homes that reflect cheerfulness and joy.Listen to the full episodes below!
Declutter Your Heart and Home with Julia Ubbenga
Opus Dei: A Path to Holiness with JL Marti
Creating a Bright and Cheerful Home (Rebroadcast)
Navigating Your Relationships with Your In-Laws with Janet Quinlan
Antidotes to Resentment & Solutions for Healing with Dr. Bob Schuchts
Do you have a guest or topic you’d love to hear on the Fairest Love Podcast?
We’d love to hear from you! Send your suggestions or interview recommendations to info@fairestlovefamilyproject.org.
In this episode of the Fairest Love Podcast, we discuss ten practical ways to build a devotion to Mary during the month of October. We emphasize the importance of Mary in our faith and provide actionable steps for families to grow closer to her through prayer, reflection, and celebration of Marian feasts.October is the Month of the Rosary! How will you grow in your devotion to Mary this month?
Pray to Mary, Mother of Fairest Love and listen to more podcast episodes HERE.
This week, we are rebroadcasting our conversation with Jeff Schiefelbein, the founder of the consulting firm, Undivided Life, which aims at making businesses more human through strategy and culture consulting. He shares his experience in business and how creating an environment within the work place directed towards serving others provides many avenues for success within companies. Listen in as he shares 3 key aspects to build selflessness in work as well as within the family.
We’re keeping Jeff’s son, Benedict, in our prayers! See more updates about Benedict and his treatment HERE.
You can view Jeff’s company by visiting https://www.undivided.life/ , view his Speaking Page, or visit his LinkedIn for daily reflections on life and business.
In this week's episode, we share a presentation from JL Marti, CEO of the Fairest Love Family Project, on the urgent challenges families face with pornography and social media addiction.JL explores how these issues impact relationships and family life, underscoring the importance of open and honest communication between parents and children. He discusses practical ways to approach conversations about love, sexuality, and the influence of technology, encouraging families to foster resilience and trust. Be sure to visit our website for more resources to help your family face the challenges of modern-day family dynamics!
On this week's podcast episode, we take a look back at previous guests' answers to the question, "How has Mary been a mother to you?"Be sure to check out the full length episodes by following the links below!
The Role of Faith and the Family in Shaping Good Citizens with Dr. Timothy O’Malley
Gratitude as the Core of Our Identity with Sr. Mary Dominic
Managing AI and Protecting Family Time in a Digital World with Katie Hinderer
Building Traditions That Strengthen Family Values with Kendra Tierney Norton
In this episode, we spoke with Kendra Tierney Norton, author, mother of ten, and founder of Catholic All Year, about the power of incorporating Catholic traditions into everyday family life.Kendra shares her personal journey of embracing the liturgical calendar at home and how it has strengthened her family’s values, provided resilience during challenges, and fostered unity and joy.
Visit Catholic All Year's website for more resources and be sure to check out Kendra's book!
In this episode of the Fairest Love Podcast, we spoke with Mary Hunt, a professor of psychology and business at Ave Maria University, about the evolving challenges families face in balancing work and home life. Mary shares her insights on the cultural and technological shifts that influence family dynamics today and offers strategies for fostering better communication and intentionality in daily routines. She discusses how mindset plays a key role in achieving true work-life integration and explains how parents can model healthy habits for their children.Stay tuned for more information about Home Advantage, but check out Home Unlimited who Mary will be working with!
In this week's episode, we speak with Victor Saenz, Executive Director of the Houston Institute, about how philosophical inquiry shapes students’ understanding of human flourishing, marriage, and family. Victor shared how his work introduces college students to moral reasoning and classical thought, helping them reevaluate cultural assumptions and rediscover timeless truths. We explored how perceptions of marriage and family evolve on campus, the challenges of navigating ideological divides, and why young adults benefit from engaging with great thinkers. This conversation offers a hopeful look at how higher education can spark virtue, dialogue, and deeper meaning in the next generation!
In this episode of the Fairest Love podcast, we explored the evolving landscape of artificial intelligence with Katie Hinderer of Rosebud Social Strategies. The conversation examines the promises and pitfalls of AI—how it’s changing education, shaping relationships, and influencing family routines. Katie offers thoughtful insights into how parents can approach AI with discernment, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and protecting real-life connection. We also discussed how families can foster creativity, virtue, and intentional time together in an increasingly tech-driven world.
On today's show, we sat down with Jordan Langdon, licensed clinical social worker and host of the Families of Character podcast. Jordan shared how intentional family routines can strengthen emotional health, build character, and increase quality time together.She discussed the benefits of structure for children, including reduced anxiety and clearer expectations. We explored practical ways to implement family routines, how to identify when routines are breaking down, and how “family huddles” can create space for open communication and teamwork.
Check out Jordan's work at familiesofcharacter.com and be sure to download the FREE Family Huddle guide to get started with making routines in your own family!
In this special podcast originally aired by the St. Josemaria Institute, Fr. Javier del Castillo reflects on the feast of Mary, Mother of Fairest Love (February 14th), and the significance of this Marian title in the life of the Church and the history of Opus Dei.
Listen to dive into the history of Mary, Mother of Fairest Love starting from the Old Testament, to how St. Josemaria Escriva helped to revive the devotion to Mary as “the guardian of the beauty of chastity” and “as a way of praying for holy purity, for the sanctity of marriage, for the sanctity of the family, and for vocations to celibacy.”
This week we are rebroadcasting, an episode from season 4 with Dr. Susan Hanssen, history professor at the University of Dallas in Irving, Texas. Dr. Hanssen shares with us an extensive yet approachable view of the history of the American family and our foundations rooted in freedom.
Dr. Hanssen has written numerous scholarly articles on history within Western Civilization and the world. A notable article from our conversation today can be found on The Public Discourse titled “Complementarity: Lessons from Little House in the Big Woods.”
For parents wanting to have a deeper appreciation for the American family, Dr. Hanssen recommends reading The Little House on the Prairie series as well as A Midwife’s Tale: The Life of Martha Ballard.
In this week's episode, we spoke with Dr. Timothy O’Malley from the McGrath Institute for Church Life at the University of Notre Dame about the powerful connection between faith, family, and citizenship. Dr. O’Malley reflected on the family as the first school of virtue and a foundational space for forming responsible, engaged citizens. The conversation explored how Catholic social teaching can guide families in addressing cultural challenges with humility and courage. Dr. O’Malley emphasized the role of the domestic church in building a society rooted in love, service, and moral clarity.
Check out the writings he mentioned in the podcast here:
Gabriel Marcel and the Discovery of Fatherhood
Motherhood: A Confession (by Natalie Carnes)
Review Dr. O'Malley's current work on the liturgy and children HERE!
We spoke with Alex Vazquez, United Nations representative for the International Federation for Family Development (IFFD), about the vital role families play in shaping strong societies—and how policy, advocacy, and grassroots engagement can support that mission. Alex shared how IFFD works on bothglobal and local levels to promote family well-being, touching on the challenges posed by technology, urbanization, and demographic changes. The conversation highlighted the importance of family-friendly policies, collaboration across sectors, and the growing need for public dialogue around the real needs of families today. Through examples of effective initiatives from around the world, Alex encourages listeners to become active participants in their local communities, engaging with decision-makers to advocate for policies that truly strengthen family life.
Read the Venice Declaration HERE and learn more about IFFD and their work by visiting their website.
Bishop Gomez's homily from the Mass of Enthronement of Mary Mother Fairest Love on June 26th, 2025 at St. Louise de Marillac in Covina, CA.
In this this week's episode, we spoke with Dr. Ryan Hanning, professor, author, and co-writer of The Willpower Advantage, about the essential role of fortitude in family life. Dr. Hanning offers a compelling look at how this virtue—rooted in strength, perseverance, and trust—can be intentionally cultivated through the ordinary challenges of daily living. The conversation explores how fortitude and willpower work together to form resilient children and steadfast parents. Dr. Hanning shares practical strategies for helping families embrace discomfort, grow through failure, and build lasting character. Be sure to check out his website and book!
In this episode, we welcome Gerard Migeon and Jackie Aguilar from Natural Womanhood for an insightful conversation on fertility awareness and natural family planning. Together, we explore the growing movement toward education-based, body-literate approaches to women’s health and the cultural shift away from one-size-fits-all solutions. Gerard and Jackie discuss common misconceptions around fertility awareness, the value of open dialogue between parents and children, and how understanding the female cycle empowers women at every stage of life.
To learn more about their mission and educational resources, visit https://naturalwomanhood.org
In this week's episode, we spoke with Sr. Mary Dominic of the Dominican Sisters of Mary, Mother of the Eucharist, about the power of gratitude in daily life. Sister shares her journey of faith and offers gentle, practical wisdom on how to foster a grateful heart—especially in the midst of everyday challenges. The conversation centers on the connection between gratitude and our identity as children of God, and how cultivating a spirit of thankfulness can renew both family life and personal holiness. Her words serve as a reminder that gratitude is not only a virtue but a way of encountering God’s love more deeply in our ordinary days.
Check out the virtue program she mentions at Open Light Media!
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In this episode of the Fairest Love Podcast, we sit down with Alexandre Havard, founder of the Virtuous Leadership Institute, to explore the heart of authentic leadership and its foundation in virtue. Havard explains why magnanimity and humility are essential for anyone seeking to lead well—especially within the context of family life. The conversation dives into how different temperaments influence leadership styles, the importance of overcoming past wounds or negative leadership experiences, and the role of personal planning in growing in virtue.We also discuss how parents can inspire their children to take ownership of their own leadership journeys, beginning right at home.
Learn more about Alexandre Havard and Virtuous Leadership by visiting https://hvli.org/
In this episode, we speak with Peter and Theresa Martin, founders of the Wojtyła Community & Institute, about the power of community in supporting marriage and family life. Rooted in the teachings of St. John Paul II, the Martins share their inspiring journey of creating a movement that helps couples grow in conjugal spirituality, mutual support, and shared purpose.The conversation explores how intentional communities can strengthen family culture, revive struggling marriages, and create spaces where faith and joy flourish. Like what you heard?
Check them out on the After Cana podcast! Learn more about their mission on their website.
In this episode of the Fairest Love podcast, we speak with JL Marti, CEO of the Fairest Love Family Project, about the profound connection between vocation, family, and faith. JL shares his personal journey from Spain to the U.S., his life as a numerary in Opus Dei, and how his vocation has shaped his understanding of love, presence, and purpose.The conversation explores the importance of discernment, the quiet beauty of finding God in daily life, and the vital role families play in helping children recognize and pursue their unique callings.JL reflects on the influence of his own parents in his vocational journey, the mission of Opus Dei in the modern world, and the hope he sees for the future of family life—rooted in unconditional love, faith, and devotion to Mary, Mother of Fair Love.
To learn more about the Fairest Love Family Project, visit: https://www.fairestlovefamilyproject.org/
At the Family Enrichment Conference in San Antonio this past March, we spoke with Leticia Rodriguez, Director of the International Federation for Family Development (IFFD), about the beauty and significance of marriage in building strong families and a flourishing society. Drawing from years of experience in family enrichment and global advocacy, Leticia shares why she believes marriage is the masterpiece of our lives. The conversation explores how couples can strengthen their relationship through intentional communication, emotional connection, and shared purpose. Leticia references insights from John Gottman's research on marital stability and the practical wisdom of the Love Languages to help couples understand and serve one another more deeply.
To learn more about IFFD and their work, visit there website at https://iffd.org/
In this episode of the Fairest Love Podcast, we speak with Rosa Pich, one of the most inspiring voices on family life in Europe and the author of How to Be Happy with 1, 2, 3... Children.Rosa, a mother of 18, shares her powerful testimony of love, faith, and perseverance in raising a large family while enduring suffering and loss. She offers a deeply joyful perspective on the vocation of motherhood, the value of family prayer and unity, and how to remain hopeful and faithful in the face of trials.
To learn more about Rosa, visit her website.
You can find her book Rosa, What's Your Secret? Raising a Large Family with Love on Scepter Publishers' website.
We're sharing how Mary has been a mother to previous guests on the show!Through her intercession, she has provided peace and consolation to those who have placed their intentions before her. Join the Fairest Love Prayer Circle to make a request or prayer for others and be sure to save the prayer to Mary, Mother of Fairest Love!
Be sure to listen to the full episode of each of our guests by following the links below!
The Value of Our Participation in Politics with Louis Jones
The Power of Relationships in Vocations with Sr. M. Karolyn
Accompanying Parents Through a Prenatal Diagnosis with Tracy Winsor
In this SPECIAL episode of the Fairest Love podcast, CEO of the Fairest Love Family Project, JL Marti, explores how parents can support their children through some of the most difficult emotional challenges of growing up in today’s digital culture—namely, the pressures of social media and the rising issue of pornography addiction.
This conversation unpacks the emotional imprints left by these key life experiences and offers practical advice on how to recognize the signs of addiction, prevent harmful behaviors, and communicate with love and clarity.
and check out our transcript with resources and other links mentioned in this talk.
DISCLAIMER: This episode contains conversations about pornography and addiction.
In this episode of the podcast, we sit down with Catholic mindset coach Kylie Hein to explore how understanding the four temperaments—choleric, sanguine, melancholic, and phlegmatic—can transform the way we relate to our family members. Kylie explains how each temperament influences emotions, communication, and behavior, offering practical advice for recognizing and nurturing the temperaments of both ourselves and our children. With an emphasis on virtue, gratitude, and intentional parenting, Kylie shares how the temperaments can be a powerful tool for personal growth and family unity.
You can book Kylie for a coaching session or listen to her podcast on her website. Check out Metanoia Catholic for more information about the Temperaments!
In this episode of the Fairest Love Podcast, we're joined by Deb Meyer, financial advisor and founder of Worthy Nest, to explore the role of money in family life through the lens of stewardship and gratitude. Deb shares her own journey with finances, including how faith and values shape her approach to saving, spending, and giving. Together, we discuss practical ways parents can model healthy financial habits, teach children about money, and stay grounded in generosity—especially in times of financial stress.
Listen to Deb's finance podcast, Beyond Budgets, and/or connect with her on LinkedIn!
In this episode, certified nutrition coach Lindsey Marie explores the powerful link between nutrition and mental health. She shares her personal journey of overcoming exhaustion and discovering how targeted nutrition can restore energy, improve mood, and support overall well-being. Lindsey highlights the role of amino acids and protein in brain function and offers practical tips for parents to nourish themselves and their children.
Visit Lindsey's website to learn more about amino acid therapy and her coaching.
She's also on Facebook!
In this episode, Monica Hinderer, a licensed clinical professional counselor, discusses how parents can recognize signs of anxiety and stress in their children.We explore when it may be time to seek professional help, the importance of parental involvement in therapy, and practical coping strategies for families. Monica offers guidance on trusting parental instincts, communicating with children about mental health, and finding the right therapist.
You can hear more from Monica on the Relevant Radio show, Marriage Unhindered, Thursdays from 5-6pm cst.
Parenting today comes with plenty of stress—but how can families navigate it in a healthy way?In this episode of the podcast, Dr. Mario Sacasa, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, shares practical strategies for managing stress and anxiety, fostering resilience, and strengthening family connections.He explores the impact of technology on mental health, the power of open communication, and how parents can support their children through life’s challenges. Learn more from Dr. Sacasa by visiting his website, exploring his Stress & Anxiety course, and listening to his podcast.
Moms today have a lot on their plates, maybe more so than previous generations. This week we are rebroadcasting our episode with guest, Catholic Mom Coach Sterling Jaquith, shares simple tips and tricks to overcome that mommy overwhelm. Her advice comes not just from being a certified life coach but also from experiencing the overwhelm and burnout herself – and realizing there had to be a better way!
In this episode, Hannah Morgan, founder of Heron House Management, discusses the realities of parenting and household management in today’s fast-paced world. As a working mom, Hannah understands the daily struggles families face and shares how her virtual house management service helps reduce stress and bring order to family life. She offers practical advice on creating clear routines, managing emotional stress, and involving children in household tasks to build a sense of teamwork. The conversation also explores common challenges parents face when implementing new systems and how to overcome them.Learn more about Hannah’s work at Heron House Management and listen to her podcast, Destress the Nest. IG: @heronhousemanagement
In this class, Fr. Paul Donlan explains that the human person is made in God’s image and likeness, not just because he is endowed with an intellect and will, but because he is called to live in a communion of persons––namely, in a family.
In this episode, Sister Karolyn, the vocations director for the Sisters of St. Francis of the Martyr St. George, shares her inspiring vocation story and the beauty of life in religious community. She discusses the importance of relationships—both within her community and with the families who support vocations. Sister Karolyn offers practical ways parents can encourage their children in discernment and incorporate faith into family life through the liturgical year.
In this episode of the Fairest Love Podcast, licensed marriage and family therapist Doug Hinderer shares insights on building a strong, enduring marriage through intentionality, prayer, and forgiveness.He highlights the importance of daily investment in the relationship, practicing gratitude, and understanding the spiritual aspects of suffering within marriage.Doug also introduces his book, Rekindled Hearts: A Spiritual Journey to Marital Healing, which offers a faith-based approach to marital healing, blending spiritual growth with practical guidance.Doug’s book will be available everywhere on February 14, but you can preorder it on Scepter Publishers’ website! Be sure to catch Doug on his Relevant Radio Show, Marriage Unhindered, Monday through Friday from 5-6pm cst.
In this episode of the Fairest Love Podcast, we hear from Catholic life coach and mom of 7, Janet Quinlan, to discuss the essential elements of building strong family relationships. We explore the different stages of parenting, the importance of setting family goals, and the challenges of balancing friendship and authority with children. Janet shares valuable insights on fostering connection through communication, consistency, and faith while maintaining healthy boundaries. You can find Janet’s parenting course and resources designed to support moms in their families on her website.
In this episode of the Fairest Love podcast, we chat with professional organizer Claire Pelletier, who shares her expert advice on creating functional and beautiful spaces for families.Claire opens up about her journey into professional organizing, her unique client-focused approach, and practical tips for tackling clutter in family homes. She emphasizes the value of involving kids in the organizing process, offers solutions to common challenges, and reveals her favorite tools and products for staying organized. You can follow Claire on social media @simplifywithclaire and visit her website to learn about her services and contact information!
We are joined by author Julia Ubbenga as she shares her inspiring journey to minimalism and insights from her upcoming book, Declutter Your Heart and Your Home. Julia explores how modern life’s excess can overwhelm families and explains how minimalism fosters peace and intentional living. She offers practical tips for decluttering both physical spaces and mental burdens, making this lifestyle accessible for everyone. Julia also discusses teaching children about minimalism, navigating relationships with loved ones who may not share the same mindset, and how faith shapes her approach to simplicity. You can pre-order Julia’s book on Amazon, visit her website, or follow her on social media (@richinwhatmatters)
In this episode of the newest season of the Fairest Love Podcast, author Dia Boyle discusses her book, The Thoughtful Home, and the importance of creating a nurturing, intentional family environment.She shares practical advice, like prioritizing family meals and human connection, to counter the distractions of modern life. Dia offers insights on overcoming challenges to build a home filled with joy, peace, and meaningful relationships. Listen in to learn how thoughtful habits can transform your home into a haven of love and connection. You can purchase Dia’s book, The Thoughtful Home, at Scepter Publishers. You can find the book study guide and other information on her website.
In this episode, we’re thrilled to welcome Tim Reckart, the talented director of the heartwarming animated film The Star. Released in 2017, this film offers a unique retelling of the Nativity story through the eyes of the animals who witnessed it. Tim takes us behind the scenes of this unforgettable journey, sharing insights into his creative process, the beauty of storytelling through different characters, and the message he hopes viewers carry with them long after the credits roll. Visit www.sycamorestudios.com to see more projects that Tim is working on in hopes of bringing truth, goodness, and beauty to culture!
As we begin the Advent season, we wanted to share a special reflection from Fr. Luke Mata to help prepare our hearts and minds for the coming of Christ at Christmas.We hope you find great joy and anticipation as you journey through this most beautiful season!
In this episode, we welcome Kenzie Covarrubias and Amber Hassett from Held in Hope, a nonprofit dedicated to supporting women and families experiencing miscarriage. Together, we discuss the healing process after a miscarriage, practical ways family members can offer support, and how Held in Hope provides tools and resources to aid in the healing journey. Kenzie and Amber share powerful insights and resources to encourage charity toward others and oneself during times of loss. Learn more about their mission and access resources at Held in Hope.
DISCLAIMER: This podcast contains topics of conversation that may be sensitive for some listeners.
As we continue discussing the topic of grief this month, we had the opportunity to interview psychiatrist, Dr. Julian Lagoy from California.Dr. Lagoy has extensive experience in the mental health field and provides important insights into depression and mental health within families.This podcast shares warning signs, possible treatments, and clarifies terminology that can help parents in understanding how to help their children who may be struggling. If you’re in California and are in need of services, visit Dr. Julian’s webpage at Mindpath Health.
As we continue this month of grief and finding hope, we spoke with Amanda, the founder and director of Alienated Grandparents Anonymous. We discuss the significant impact that grandparents have on their grandchildren and how removing them from that relationship can be detrimental to both the grandparent and grandchild. Amanda shares steps grandparents can take to recover the lost relationship with their children in hopes of forgiveness and healing. Want to learn more about this organization? Receive the newsletter and information about support sessions by emailing againternationalheadquarters@gmail.com Read Amanda’s book, I Thought I Was the Only One: Grandparent Alienation: A Global Epidemic
On this episode of the podcast, we brought on Tracy Winsor, co-founder and Parent Director of the organization Be Not Afraid, to discuss hope in the midst of a prenatal diagnosis. Through experience of her own, Tracy found that there was no help or guidance for parents who receive a prenatal diagnosis that respected the dignity of the child in the womb. She co-founded the organization Be Not Afraid to do just that, remaining in line with Church teaching and the research. Be Not Afraid has transformed into an organization that trains other entities through their BNA model to walk with parents and provide support and encouragement throughout pregnancy. You can learn more about Be Not Afraid by visiting their website. Instagram: @benotafraidofficial Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BeNotAfraid.Net
In this special broadcast, we sat down with engagement director at Them Before Us, Patience Sunne. She shares with us the importance of being informed so as to protect the rights of children throughout the United States.Them Before Us is an organization that educates on the rights of children, especially towards having a mother and father. They encourage understanding policies and laws that could affect a child’s rights and provide many resources for people interested in protecting children.Sign the Vote Pro-Child Pledge here and make the commitment to vote in the 2024 elections for the rights of children. You can visit their website at https://thembeforeus.com/ or follow them on Instagram @them_before_us
On the podcast today, we are joined by Dr. Jonathan Culp, Department Chair and professor of politics at the University of Dallas, to discuss the American political system and how to evaluate a political candidate when it comes to voting. Dr. Culp shares tools for discerning the truth and strengthening your own personal development when it comes to understanding politics. To learn more about American History and our political system, visit teachingamericanhistory.org and/or read The Federalist Papers And for teens and middle schoolers, check out The Young Citizen’s Reader
Did you know that the Church has a social doctrine that establishes principles for civic participation? On this episode of the podcast, we spoke with Louis Jones, licensed social worker and behavioral health therapist, to understand how the Church helps inform us in our voting and the responsibility to make our communities reflections of Christ.Louis walks us through the Church’s social teaching and values as well as our responsibilities as lay members of the Church to participate in community elections and growth.You can see all of Louis’ works and conversations by following this link.
Have you considered praying to Mary, Mother of Fairest Love, for the needs of your family or children? That’s just what Laurel Johnson did when she discovered that her granddaughter needed medical intervention and miraculous healing. In this very special episode, Laurel shares why and how she turned to Mary during the most difficult times of her life and the fruits of trusting in Mary’s intercession. This interview is an inspiration to grow in a deeper relationship with Mary! View the prayer card to Mary, Mother of Fairest Love, and join the prayer circle by visiting the website.
Author of the new book, Awake Not Woke, Noelle Mering joins us for this episode. She shared insights from her research on the woke movement, how to navigate this trend within the family, and more.
Her book can be found at Tan Books. Noelle is also the co-author and contributor of Theology of Home.
In this special podcast episode, we had the opportunity to interview Sam Goodwin, entrepreneur and author of the book Saving Sam about his experiences of being held captive in Syria. Sam shares the story of how he was wrongfully imprisoned in Syria as well as the little things his parents did throughout his childhood that strengthened his faith and resiliency during this time of crisis. Sam speaks on a number of topics including embracing uncertainty. You can learn more about his story by reading his book Saving Sam and visiting his website.
On the podcast today, we had the privilege of speaking with Courtney Brown from the Ruah Woods Institute on how to teach children and teens the Theology of the Body. We discuss the Institute’s K-12 curriculum, the importance of forming identity through TOB, and how it helps children navigate today’s culture. Learn practical ways to bring these teachings into your home and guide your child’s understanding of relationships, dignity, and self-worth. You can find the curriculum on Ruah Woods Institute’s website as well as view other resources and sign up for their newsletter!
On this episode of the podcast we’re diving into classical education and how it aims to educate the whole person. William Perales, the Director of the University of Dallas’ Saint Ambrose Center, shares his passion and knowledge of classical education. Through the Five Essential Marks, storytelling, and the development of the imagination, classical education helps foster the foundations of who we are as human beings and prepares young minds for a lifelong love of learning. The Saint Ambrose Center aims to help bring classical education to schools throughout the United States by providing professional development and consultation.
On today’s podcast, we’re discussing how to begin the conversation about sex with your teens and children with licensed psychologist, Dr. Julia Sadusky.Julia has specialities in working with families, individuals, and couples around sexuality and gender. She provides thoughtful insights on how to help prepare parents in supporting their children as conversations about sexuality arise. You can purchase Julia’s book, Talking with Your Teen About Sex: A Practical Guide for Catholics, here and visit her website here. Instagram: @drsadusky Facebook: facebook.com/drsadusky
Continuing the conversation about human dignity and sexuality, we brought Christina Valenzuela on the show to share with us practical advice on how to approach the conversation with our daughters about their changing bodies.Christina has been a Natural Family Planning instructor for over a decade and found the desire to share St. John Paul II’s beauty of the “language of the body” with parents and children. Christina has several courses on her website for women at all different stages of development to help them better understand their bodies and to help parents explain the changes to their daughters. You can purchase her book, The Language of Your Body: Embracing God’s Design for Your Cycle, here. Instagram: @pearlandthistle Facebook: facebook.com/pearlandthistle
On today’s episode of the Fairest Love podcast, we’re speaking with Brendan McCauley, co-founder of the Humanum Project, an organization dedicated to navigating topics around human identity and sexuality. Brendan shares his knowledge of John Paul II’s Theology of the Body while giving practical tips for parents to consider when discussing human dignity with their children. You can learn more about the Humanum Project by visiting their website or following them on social media. Instagram: @humanumproject Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/humanumproject
Enjoy this rebroadcast from season 2 with registered oncology nurse and certified health and nutrition coach Cris Bofill shares some helpful tips with us about healthy eating. She provides insights into shopping, nutrition labels, and even how to get picky eaters to eat their veggies!
Cris can be found online here.
We’re sitting down with Mary Rice Hasson to discuss the importance of choosing a school that values and encourages the truth of your child’s identity and safeguards your family’s values. Mary organized the Catholic Women’s Forum, and as she continued to research the issues related to femininity and identity, she found the incorporation of ideologies in schools that were detrimental to the human person. Mary co-founded and directs the Person and Identity Project, an initiative that educates and equips parents and faith-based institutions to promote the truth about the human person. Twitter: @maryricehasson and @personandid Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PersonandIdentity
On this episode of the Fairest Love Podcast, we’re diving into advice from the experts we previously interviewed on the show. As we explore the beauty of family life this month, we wanted to share the thoughts and words of several guests who have provided their experience to help us learn how to raise children well.
You can find the link to the full episode below.
0:20 - Jordan Langdon (Saying No When Other Parents are Saying Yes)
5:33 - Pilar Caranti (Forming the Will of Your Children)
12:46 - Karen Bohlin (Literature and its Role in a Child’s Life)
18:25 - Amanda & Jonathan Teixeira (Working Through Finances in Marriage)
Adolescent therapist, Monica Hinderer, joins us again this week to talk about the best ways to navigate the start of a new school year. This is an opportunity for a fresh start, not just for the school-aged children but for the whole family. She shares three words to keep in mind: Patience, Schedule, and Balance.
In this episode of the Fairest Love Podcast, we had the opportunity to speak with Dr. Susan Hanssen, history professor at the University of Dallas in Irving, Texas. Dr. Hanssen shares with us an extensive yet approachable view of the history of the American family and our foundations rooted in freedom.Dr. Hanssen has written numerous scholarly articles on history within Western Civilization and the world. A notable article from our conversation today can be found on The Public Discourse titled “Complementarity: Lessons from Little House in the Big Woods.” For parents wanting to have a deeper appreciation for the American family, Dr. Hanssen recommends reading The Little House on the Prairie series as well as A Midwife’s Tale: The Life of Martha Ballard.
Prior to heading to the National Eucharistic Congress in Indianapolis, we wanted to share a brief episode with some responses from previous guests answering the question, “How has Mary been a mother to you?”We hope that their words can inspire you to grow in a deeper relationship with Mary.View the prayer to Mary, Mother of Fairest Love HERE and join in the Prayer Circle on our website.
DISCLAIMER - This episode contains discussion of sensitive content. Please be advised. As we continue to discuss freedom, Steve Pokorny, founder of Freedom Coaching, joins us on the show to talk about finding freedom from pornography and maintaining it.Steve’s insights are powerful and help us to understand the difference between addiction and compulsion. His coaching-based program highlights the importance of strengthening the understanding of human sexuality in order to work against a compulsion to pornography. You can learn more about Steve’s program by visiting freedom-coaching.net or by reading his book, Redeemed Vision.
As we prepare to celebrate the Fourth of July, we have army chaplain, Fr. Peter Pomposello, discussing the value of freedom and his experiences ministering to those in the armed forces.Through his various anecdotes and analogies, Fr. Peter paints a clear picture of the beauty of freedom, how we can use it responsibly, and how we can honor those who have safeguarded it. You can find Fr. Peter on Instagram! @fr.unclesam
On this week’s podcast we are joined by Julie Larkin, founder of the nonprofit Girl Talk. Through profound experiences of her own, Julie saw a need for sisterhood and friendship amongst girls who experience loneliness and self-doubt. Julie shares her thoughts on how parents can encourage their children to grow in their identities as sons and daughters of God as well as in self-confidence and friendship with others. You can learn more about Girl Talk by visiting their website or following on Instagram (@ourgirltalk).
What does it mean to be truly confident and how can we help our children establish a sense of their unique worth and dignity? This week, mental health expert and a co-founder of Cana Vox, Ana Bethencourt Yrasquin shares her insights.
We are excited to share this conversation with Brya Hanan, licensed marriage and family therapist and author of Befriending Your Inner Child. Brya discusses her model for connecting with your inner child when working through struggles. Through her “5 A’s” approach, she provides tools to help you and your family access your inner child and remember your dignity as children of God. You can learn more about Brya’s practice by visiting her website, following her on Instagram @bryahananlmft, or purchase her book, Befriending Your Inner Child.
We had the opportunity to interview host of the Seeking Excellence podcast, Nathan Crankfield. Nathan shares his views on masculinity, what it means to be a man, the struggles men face in society, the staggering statistics about the decline in men pursuing marriage and purpose, and the steps men can take to embrace their identity. Follow Nathan on Instagram @nathancrankfield and Youtube or listen to his podcast, Seeking Excellence.
Enjoy this rebroadcast with Jordan Langdon from Families of Character to discuss how we can cultivate a giving mindset in ourselves, with our spouses and in our children!
Resources Found on Website:
- "The Best Me I Can Be" Kids Journal for kids age 5-11 to develop a GIVING Mindset
- Option to subscribe to Jordan's email newsletter for FREE weekly printables like our Giving Mindset printable, Grit Interviews, Date Night Ideas
- The Thrive Community by Families of Character Private Parenting Facebook Group
On today’s podcast, we spoke with Managing Director of Christ in the City, Blake Brouillette. Christ in the City is a formational organization for young adults who desire to bring Christ to the homeless in Denver and Philadelphia. Blake shares his personal experience of being a missionary as well as gives insights into the root of service from a relational and Christian viewpoint. Learn more about Christ in the City by visiting their website or listening to the Homeless but Human podcast that Blake hosts!
We had the privilege of speaking with Jeff Schiefelbein on the podcast. Jeff is the founder of the consulting firm, Undivided Life, which aims at making businesses more human through strategy and culture consulting. He shares his experience in business and how creating an environment within the work place directed towards serving others provides many avenues for success within companies.Jeff shares 3 key aspects to build selflessness in work as well as within the family.We’re keeping Jeff’s son, Benedict, in our prayers! See more updates about Benedict and his treatment HERE. You can view Jeff’s company by visiting https://www.undivided.life/ , view his Speaking Page, or visit his LinkedIn for daily reflections on life and business.
On today’s podcast, we are joined by social media expert, Katie Hinderer. Katie shares her knowledge of social media platforms and using them well in order to better help parents navigate the online world with their children. She highlights the specific virtues necessary for having a healthy balance of usage while also avoiding content that is negative.Katie’s experience and advice will help parents navigate the challenging realm of social media while encouraging their children to practice good virtues and not fall into comparison or isolation. You can learn more about Katie’s work by visiting her website rosebudsocial.com or find her instagram at @rosebudsocial
In this special in-person interview, we sat down with Maggie Eckburg, Chicago-based lifestyle photographer. From an early age, Maggie had a great love for photography, but it wasn’t until a health scare that she realized God’s desire for her to pursue this profession.Maggie shares how she found grace through the many hardships she faced and how she desires to capture the beautiful stories of her clients. Listen to Maggie’s testimony here and view her business and portfolio at https://everythingisgracephotography.com/
Instagram: @everythingisgrace_photography
Facebook: facebook.com/maggie.eckburg
Continuing our discussion on beauty, we spoke with Cori Nations about her experience in photography and capturing special moments with families. Cori shares ideas on how to get children used to taking pictures as well as her favorite moments to capture during weddings and other times of family gatherings. Her expertise brings families together and keeps the joy of family life alive! You can view Cori’s work at corinationsphotography.com or her wedding portfolio at coriandkiera.com and find her instagram @corinationsphotography
As technology becomes increasingly more advanced, capturing those simple moments of life is more attainable for parents and families! Grace Galligan, professional photographer and videographer, shares insightful thoughts about capturing beauty through her work in film. Through years of practice and exploration, Grace has been able to create beautiful works of art through her knowledge of light and scene. She provides practical ways parents and families can record their time together.
You can view Grace’s work on her website at https://gracegalligan.com/ or on her Instagram @graceanngalligan
The video Grace discusses in the podcast can be viewed here https://vimeo.com/223012958
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Certified Life Coach, Janet Quinlan shares her insights and expertise on creating a bright and cheerful home. She points out that making a home is not just about the physical environment but also the emotional and spiritual environment. This mother of 7 and life coach to mothers around the world, offers practical tips for building up all three of these environments so each member of the family feels connected, safe, needed, and loved.
During the month of April, the Fairest Love Podcast is focusing on beauty within the world, our homes, and our relationships. Today we are discussing how we can seek beauty in our daily lives through fine art. We are joined by George and Polly Capps, a sibling duo who founded Goretti Fine Art, an art studio dedicated to creating sacred artwork. George and Polly share their inspirations for their artwork as well as provide advice on how families can instill a deeper appreciation for beauty in art and the home. You can purchase prints of their work and learn more about their art studio by visiting their website at www.gorettifineart.com
In this special podcast episode, Fr. Luke Mata shares a reflection on how we can better accompany Christ in his Passion this Holy Week.We hope our followers have wonderful Easter!
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DISCLAIMER: This episode contains some discussion of sensitive topics regarding trauma and different forms of abuse. Discretion is advised.
In this episode of the Fairest Love Podcast, we discuss how parents can help children learn to heal and forgive after experiencing difficulties or trauma. Lindsey Zitzmann, a trauma-informed certified life coach, discusses the signs of trauma in children while also sharing how we can teach our children to forgive through our example as well as returning back to childhood innocence. You can read about Lindsey’s work and articles from her blog at https://www.lindseyzitzmann.com/blog/
This Lenten reflection from Fr. Luke Mata helps us to recenter our intentions for Lent. Through our daily sacrifices and opportunities to love God, we are able to convert our hearts and turn towards the Cross. Whether it’s the very beginning or more than halfway through, Lent is a time for conversion. We can always begin again!
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DISCLAIMER: This episode contains the discussion of sensitive topics regarding pornography and addiction. Discretion is advised.Forgiveness is not one moment in the course of your relationship. It happens everyday and requires the conscious decision to allow the pain and hurt to be overcome by charity and healing.On today’s show, we are joined by Mary Lenaburg, author of Be Brave in the Scared and Be Bold in the Broken, as well as a mentor for women dealing with loss, addiction, and trauma.Mary shares with us how through the many trials and sufferings within marriage, forgiveness is possible. She explains how by the inspiration of her children and the help of friends and spiritual directors, she and her husband were able to heal from their addictions and come to better love each other.Learn more about Mary’s story and the mentorship program that she is providing for women by visiting her website at marylenaburg.comYou can listen to the Mary & Jerry Podcast here.
There are many instances throughout marriage where couples may grow in resentment and find it hard to forgive each other. Dr. Bob Schuchts, founder of the John Paul II Healing Center, shares with us how we can build the muscle of forgiveness through humility. He explains the powerful example that parents can be to their children by showing charity and patience to each other.The John Paul II Healing Center has a number of events throughout the country that help marriages and individuals heal and grow in love. You can view their events on their website at jpiihealingcenter.org
In this episode, we discuss the effects of pornography on marriages and how one can heal from this addiction. We are joined by Dr. Peter Kleponis, founder of Integrity Starts Here! — a program designed to help men and women recover from sexual addictions. Dr. Pete shares his insights on the nature of porn and how it affects the brain as well as how parents can protect their children from exposure.
DISCLAIMER: This episode contains the discussion of sensitive topics regarding pornography and addiction. Discretion is advised.
You can find Dr. Peter’s program on the Integrity Starts Here! website as well as Integrity Restored.
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Recognizing that a lot of challenges from in-laws may be rooted in misunderstanding or even unmet expectations, what better way to maneuver through those relationships than allowing for the benefit-of-the-doubt and a charitable acceptance of who they are? Janet Quinlan, certified life coach for mothers and women, explains how to navigate your relationships with in-laws, establish boundaries (on both sides), and change your thoughts to better understand and love your spouse’s parents. Janet’s podcast Finding Joy in Marriage & Motherhood can be found on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and other platforms.
You can visit her website at janetquinlan.com
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The Lenten season brings opportunities to reflect on many important aspects of our faith. Fr. Luke Mata offers a reflection on sin and the need for confession especially during this season of prayer and penance. May we seek forgiveness and desire to better imitate Christ!Subscribe to the Fairest Love newsletter for more podcasts, insightful blog posts, and updates!
How might we better serve our families and children in a nurturing and holistic way? Jackie Mulligan, founder of Reform Wellness, discusses how having a Christ-centered approach to health and wellness creates a greater capacity for us to love and serve others. She shares how families can grow both physically and spiritually through building virtue and how to intentionally live for family members. For more information about the wellness apostolate that Jackie founded, visit reformwellness.co or Instagram at @reform_wellness Subscribe to the Fairest Love newsletter for more podcasts, insightful blog posts, and updates!
We begin the month of February looking at how we can overcome the sense of loneliness felt in relationships by developing a stronger emotional intimacy with those we are close to.Regina Boyd, licensed mental health and family therapist, discusses how our emotional connections are a core need within our relationships. She shares ideas on how to develop this emotional intimacy with our spouses and children.Regina’s book, Leaving Loneliness Behind, can be purchased at Ave Maria Press, and you can explore her services at reginaboyd.com IG: @boydcounselingservices Subscribe to the Fairest Love newsletter for more podcasts, insightful blog posts, and updates!
As we wrap up the month of new beginnings, we’re excited to share the advice and wisdom of Jonathan and Amanda Teixeira, founders of WalletWin.It is never too late to create financial goals as a family, and they will bring you much peace! Jonathan and Amanda share their suggestions for starting a budget and how to help your children grow in financial literacy so that everyone can be good stewards of their money.You can explore their products at https://walletwin.com/ as well as download a free budget guide at https://catholicbudgetguide.comSubscribe to the Fairest Love newsletter for more podcasts, insightful blog posts, and updates!
As we continue to form our resolutions and plans for the coming year, we are joined by Emily Jaminet who shares with us how the Sacred Heart can inspire us to grow in virtue and love for our families, friends, and neighbors. She shares the habits that make us more inclined to serve others and to be strong examples in the Church.You can purchase Emily’s book Holy Habits of the Sacred Heart and explore her other works by going to https://www.emilyjaminet.com/If you’d like to learn more about how you can bring the devotion to the Sacred Heart into your family life, visit https://welcomehisheart.com/IG: @_emilyjaminet
As adults, finding the time to read can be a challenge and oftentimes not a priority… but Marcie Stockman helps illuminate the importance of creating that time to read especially in community with others. Founder of the Well-Read Mom, Marcie shares with us how choosing quality literature and sharing conversations and questions with others helps in the growth of virtue and knowledge of truth.You can learn more about the Well-Read Mom and join the community by going to www.wellreadmom.com
Beginning the New Year with resolutions and goals can be daunting, but Dr. Amber Curtis provides several practical tips and science-backed methods to encourage making schedules and keeping them! You can see more of the work Amber does to help women create solutions for the overwhelm by visiting her website solutionsforsimplicity.com or downloading her priorities playbook at bit.ly/pinpointyourpriorities .
As we begin the Advent Season, Fr. Luke Mata offers some thoughts on how we can use this time to prepare well for the birth of the Christ Child. Today, we can resolve to run forth to meet Christ.
In this compilation episode, and our final episode of Season 3, we’re focusing on dealing with stress. We know with the holidays quickly approaching this is oftern a time of high-stress and overwhelm for parents. Our experts offer some helpful tips for dealing with it during the Christmas season and beyond. We’ll hear from mom coach Sterling Jacquith, counselor Catherine DiNuzzo, and therapist Julia Hogan-Werner.
As the holidays approach, a season that is often characterized by more drinking, we’ve brought on sobriety coach Christie Walker to talk about her journey to sobriety, how faith plays a role and what steps we can take to begin drinking less. Her helpful insights into alcohol and its impact on the body, and her personal testimony is sure to inspire.Christie can be found at: https://catholicrecoverycoach.com/ (edited)
Teaching your children our rich Catholic cultural inheritance can be as simple as celebrating the day they were baptized, or a themed dinner around a Church feast. Founder of Catholic All Year, Kendra Tierney talks with us about how she began incorporating the liturgical calendar into her family life and how you can do the same.Catholic All Year: https://catholicallyear.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendra_tierney/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/catholicallyear/
This week's compilation episode pulls the best words of wisdom from three previous guests: Mike and Alicia Hernon from the Messy Family Project, Kara Fransted from KMH Financial Services, and Jonathan and Amanda Teixeira from Wallet Win! If you love this information, you can hear the full interviews at Episodes 20 and 22 of Season 2 and Episode 18 of Season 3.
This week on the podcast, we're talking with the founder of Catholic in Recovery, a non-profit that offers hope and healing for those recovering from addictions, compulsions, and unhealthy attachments. Together, we talk about the importance of recovery programs paired with prayer, our need for the Sacraments especially during recovery, how to help a loved one who struggles with addiction, and how to seek help if we are an addict.Catholic in Recovery: https://catholicinrecovery.comCIR Workbook: https://my.catholicinrecovery.com/product/the-catholic-in-recovery-workbook/The 12 Steps and the Sacraments: https://my.catholicinrecovery.com/product/the-twelve-steps-and-the-sacraments-a-catholic-journey-through-recovery/
We’ve pulled together a compilation episode featuring the best snippets from Motherhood Coach Janet Quinlan’s three-part series on how our thoughts make us who we are. On the various episodes, she talked about how our thoughts make us who we are as a person, a spouse, and a parent. Tune in to hear some of the best bits from these episodes. If you'd like to listen to all of these episodes individually, you can find them this season on episodes 27, 15 and 10.Janet can be found at: https://janetquinlan.com
This week we're bringing you a special epsiode from our newest podcast: After Cana. Not only have Matt and Mindy been married for 32 years, but they have also coached other Catholic couples to discover the grace that comes through the sacrament of marriage. We hope you enjoy this crossover episode and consider subscribing to our latest podcast.
When it comes to establishing your authority as a parent, it can be tempting to be permissive or authoritarian. But Life Coach Pilar Caranti walks us through how to find the median between those two extremes.
Deciding if your child needs a therapist and how to go about finding one is no simple task. Child therapist, Monica Hinderer, walks us through how to determine if your child needs additional help outside the home, and how to find a therapist that aligns with your goals as a parent. Monica can be found at: https://www.monicahinderer.com
Senior Scholar at Boston University’s Center for Character and Social Responsibility, Karen Bohlin talks with us about the importance of introducing good literature to children and how to avoid becoming reluctant readers. She talks about the importance of going deep into the meaning and messages found in great literature, and how that illuminates the intricacies of life.
Marriage Therapist Doug Hinderer returns to the Fairest Love podcast to share 5 things every couple should discuss before they get married. This episode is perfect for those who have engaged children or even those recently married.You can find Doug at: https://www.happymarriageforlife.comMarriage Discernment Course: https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/marriage-discernment
Life coach, Janet Quinlan wraps up her 3-part series on how our thoughts impact our lives with this episode on how our thoughts create who we are. She offers a number of helpful tips for acknowledging the thoughts we have, identifying the stories we've been repeating, and rewriting those for our betterment.You can find Janet at: https://janetquinlan.com/Grab her free Beliefs workbook: https://janetquinlan.com/beliefs
After episode 25 looked at how parents can encourage their children to consider a life of celibacy for the kingdom, Fr. Jeff offers words of wisdom for parents who are struggling with the religious vocation their child feels called to.
This week, Fr. Jeff shares some insights into how we, as parents, can encourage and foster a celibate vocation in our children.
Author and COO of the National Eucharistic Congress, Joel Stepanek, shares his insights on humility - a virtue we rarely talk about. Joel provides some helpful tips for growing in humility as a parent and teaching the virtue to our children.His book, Chasing Humility, can be found at: https://joelstepanek.com/books/chasing-humility/
This week, Fr. Pete Arriagada takes on a question about whether anxiety as a parent is inherently unholy. He offers helpful insights for parents at any stage of the journey.
Establishing boundaries with yourself and with others is a common idea today, but also one that leaves people wondering whether they are truly Christian. Coach Lisa Gormley walks us through why healthy boundaries are actually a form of charity.Lisa can be found at @lisarosegormley on Instagram. Resources recommended: Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
According to therapist Regina Boyd, trust is essential, foundational, and necessary for a healthy relationship to stand. In this episode of the Fairest Love podcast we discuss how to build trust again once its been lost and how to continue to strengthen it throughout your life. Regina can be found at https://www.reginaboyd.com
This week, Fr. Jeff answers this timely listener submitted question about the rainbow marketing that has filled our storefronts, libraries, and computer screens. Here's what he has to say.
This week we're talking with author Emily Stimpson Chapman on her adoption journey. She shares her story of infertility, the decision to adopt, and the three children that now grace her home. Emily can be found: https://emilystimpsonchapman.comResources she shared: Springs of Love: https://springsoflove.orgSprings in the Desert: https://springsinthedesert.org
Mike and Alicia Hernon from the Messy Family Project joined us this week to discuss one of the most difficult topics for most couples - money! They talked about how to determine the vision and values of your family in order to make financial decisions easier and the value of the family board meeting. There words of wisdom are sure to hit home, whether you are just starting out or have been married for decades.Find Mike and Alicia at The Messy Family Project: https://messyfamilyproject.orgListen to their podcast: https://messyfamilyproject.org/media/podcastLearn more about this summer's Catholic Money Summit: https://event.catholicmoneysummit.com
Fr. Jeff Langan answers this timely question about the May pilgrimages to Our Lady. He shares thoughts on the first pilgrimage he made, instructions on how to do one yourself, and what we can ask Our Lady during these times of prayer. Have a question you'd like Fr. Jeff to answer in a future episode? Email us at info@fairestloveshrine.org to have your question added to our lineup!
For this episode we’re talking with Monica Hinderer, a licensed professional therapist who works with adolescents. With the rise in anxiety so prevalent in teens today, Monica shares how to know the difference between anxiety and stress, when to seek professional help, and what you can do as a parent to help your child navigate anxiety.
We've brought back Parenting Coach Janet Quinlan for Part II of her three part series on how our thoughts make a difference in our marriages, parenting, and lives. This week she shares her insights on how your thoughts matter when it comes to your parenting, and how you can re-write the internal narrative. If you missed Part I, listen in to episode 10 of this season!
Janet can be found at: https://janetquinlan.com
Listen to her Finding Joy in Marriage and Motherhood podcast: https://janetquinlan.com/podcast/
Conflict is an unavoidable part of marriage and of life. Rather than try to avoid conflict at all costs, Marriage Therapist Doug Hinderer walks us through a new way to see it and how to address conflict for the betterment of ourselves and our marriages! Doug can be found at: https://www.happymarriageforlife.com
Conflict is an unavoidable part of marriage and of life. Rather than try to avoid conflict at all costs, Marriage Therapist Doug Hinderer walks us through a new way to see it and how to address conflict for the betterment of ourselves and our marriages! Doug can be found at: https://www.happymarriageforlife.com
What does it mean to be truly confident and how can we help our children establish a sense of their unique worth and dignity? This week, mental health expert and a co-founder of Cana Vox, Ana Bethencourt Yrasquin shares her insights.
As we quickly approach the Easter Season, Fr. Jeff Langan answers this question on how we can bring our children back to the faith, especially in this special season that is full of grace.
Description: Millikin University Basketball Coach Kramer Soderberg joins us on this episode to talk about how it's hard to be great, but the pursuit is worthwhile. He shares practical wisdom and tips for pursuing greatness in every area of your life and how to encourage your children to do the same.
Kramer can be found at: https://kramersoderberg.com
On Instagram @acatholiccoach
Motherhood Coach Janet Quinlan joins us this season to talk about how our thoughts create our reality. In this first episode of a 3-part series we'll be sharing over the next couple months, Janet helps us re-think the thoughts we have about our marriages and spouses to better set us up for success.
You can find Janet online at https://janetquinlan.com
And her podcast, Finding Joy in Motherhood: https://janetquinlan.com/podcast/
A listener asked, "I find the mass boring and difficult to engage in. How can I change that?' Fr. Jeff Langon shares his insights in response.
Have a question of your own that you'd like Fr. Jeff to answer? Send it to us at info@fairestloveshrine.org or message us on Instagram or Facebook.
For current high school seniors, it's almost time to make those final college decisions, and for current juniors that journey is just beginning. Dr. John Boyle, from University of St Thomas, walks us through how to navigate the higher education decision by outlining three goals.
John can be found: https://cas.stthomas.edu/departments/faculty/john-boyle/
We've brought back Held in Hope co-founders, Amber Hasset and Kenzie Covarrubias, for a special episode on losing a child through miscarriage. They share support and advice for the mothers who experience this intimately.
Held in Hope can be found at: https://www.heldinhope.org
February is the season of love, so this week we are talking with Jordan Langdon from Families of Character to discuss how we can cultivate a giving mindset in ourselves, with our spouses and in our children!
Find Jordan at: https://www.familiesofcharacter.com
Extra Resources:
"The Best Me I Can Be" Kids Journal for kids age 5-11 to develop a GIVING Mindset
The Thrive Community by Families of Character Private Parenting Facebook Group
Subscribe to our email newsletter for FREE weekly printables like our Giving Mindset printable, Grit Interviews, Date Night Ideas
Alex Dee, co-founder of Saints Alive, a podcast for children that provides epic dramas of the lives of the Saints, shares with us the history of the podcast, the fruits he's seen from it, and how to help our children grown in love with this super heroes of the Church.
Website: https://www.saintsalivepodcast.com
Last time Sterling joined us, she talked about overcoming overwhelm. This time she's back to discuss how to identify the various stress responses we have, and what to do with these feelings when they occur.
Sterling can be found at Made for Greatness: https://www.madeforgreatness.co
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madeforgreatnesscoaching/
Today we’re launching our new Q&A style episodes which you will hear sporadically throughout the third season. Fr. Jeff Langan provides an answer to this listener-submitted question: My college-aged children have stopped going to Mass. How can I help them return to the beauty of this sacrament?
After experiencing the tragedy of her own miscarriage and finding herself uninformed after the doctor's visit that delivered the news, Held In Hope co-founder Amber Hasset decided to help other women experiencing the loss of miscarriage. Held in Hope creates miscarriage boxes full of helpful information and self-care items to support a woman through this moment.
Held in Hope website.
Held in Hope on Instagram.
To kick off Season 3 of the Fairest Love podcast, we've brought back Julia M. Hogan-Werner, owner and clinical director at Vita Optimum Counseling & Consulting, to talk about one of her favorite topics - self-care! The winter can be a difficult time for many of us, so Julia walks us through navigating those winter blues and learning how to care for ourselves physically, mentally/emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.
Find Julia online at Vita Optimum Counseling
Explore her digital Winter Self Care workbook.
As we live the Advent season and anticipate the coming of Christ,, Fr. Luke shares some words for reflection on the Advent season and how we can prepare for this great event. Christ comes to be our model; to teach us how to love, and how to be truly human.
Moms today have a lot on their plates, maybe more so than previous generations. This week's guest, Catholic Mom Coach Sterling Jaquith, shares simple tips and tricks to overcome that mommy overwhelm. Her advice comes not just from being a certified life coach but also from experiencing the overwhelm and burnout herself - and realizing there had to be a better way!
As parents, we have the responsibility to educate our children in all areas of life - including finances! Kara Fransted, COO of KMH Financial Services, shares her insights on how to start teaching your children about money. In this episode, we discuss when to begin the money discussion, steps along the way, and what can happen if we neglect this aspect of a child’s formation.
Capturing the moments that made your family what it is today can be a beautiful bonding moment between family members. Film director Crystal Avila Floeder shares what inspired her to capture the history of her own family, and how you can start doing this in your own family.
Crystal can be found: https://www.buenasnochesproductions.com
Crystal’s movie Beneath the Trees: https://vimeo.com/306893329
For many, there is a touch of anxiety when the words of faith and finance are so close together. But that doesn’t have to be the case. Money mentors Jonathan and Amanda Teixeira of Wallet Win enlighten us on the matter. We discuss stewardship, the classic mistakes couples make, why to start budgeting now, and the idea of maximum fruitfulness.
The Teixeiras can be found: https://walletwin.com
Their podcast, the Catholic Money Show: https://walletwin.com/podcast/
Certified Life Coach Pilar Caranti shares with us tips for forming the will of your children. She talks about the importance of the virtues of order when children are very young, and fortitude throughout the whole of the developmental years.
Pilar can be found: https://www.pilarcaranti.com
Forgiveness is difficult but essential, especially within marriage. Licensed marriage and family therapist, Doug Hinderer shares his insights into what forgiveness in marriage is, what it isn’t, and how our spouse’s defects are something to be loved.
Doug can be found: https://www.happymarriageforlife.com
Adolescent therapist, Monica Hinderer, joins us again this week to talk about the best ways to navigate the start of a new school year. This is an opportunity for a fresh start, not just for the school-aged children but for the whole family. She shares three words to keep in mind: Patience, Schedule, and Balance.
Monica can be found: https://www.vitaoptimumcounseling.com
Marriage Therapist Doug Hinderer is back for another episode! This time he’s share tips on how to keep the love alive in your marriage. The tools he shares will apply to couples in any stage of married life, from newly weds to those celebrating 50 years together.
Sources he references in this episode:
- The 4 Loves by C.S. Lewis
- The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
- Marriage Insurance: 12 Rules to Live By by Fr. Francis Hoffman (Fr. Rocky)
Doug can be found: https://www.happymarriageforlife.com
Previously we’ve looked at anxiety in our children, so for this week’s episode we’re turning the focus inward and looking at our anxiety as parents and adults. Professional Counselor and Author of the Catholic Guide Through Anxiety, Catherine DiNuzzo shares her thoughts, wisdom and practical tips on the topic.
Catherine can be found: https://dinuzzocounseling.com and http://sacredheartmentalwellness.com
Her book: https://www.sacredheartmentalwellness.com/catholic-guide-through-anxiety
In this episode, we’ve brought back Social Worker Jordan Langdon to talk about saying no to your child when other parents are saying yes! She walks us through some helpful tips for navigating that parenting reality and getting your kids on board with your answer!
Jordan can be found: https://www.familiesofcharacter.com
Author of the new book, Awake Not Woke, Noelle Mering joins us for this episode. She shared insights from her research on the woke movement, how to navigate this trend within the family, and more.
Her book can be found at Tan Books: https://tanbooks.com
Noelle is also the co-author and contributor of Theology of Home: https://theologyofhome.com
Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Parent Coach Jordan Langdon shares her advice on going from a team of one to a family in which everyone is pitching in! Trying to do it all by herself was something this week’s guest struggled with in the early years of raising her family. But her perspective shifted after her 4-year-old made an innocent comment. Listen in as she shares her personal story and how that inspired her to help other parents make that essential shift.
Jordan can be found: https://www.familiesofcharacter.com
With anxiety in teens up 25% in recent years, we’ve brought Monica Hinderer, LPC, back for a second episode. Here she talks about two of the major factors that have contributed to this rise - COVID and Social Media - as well as what parents can do to combat this trend.
Monica can be found: https://www.vitaoptimumcounseling.com
For this episode we’re talking with Monica Hinderer, a licensed professional therapist who works with adolescents. With the rise in anxiety so prevalent in teens today, Monica shares how to know the difference between anxiety and stress, when to seek professional help, and what you can do as a parent to help your child navigate anxiety.
This is the first of two episodes with Monica on anxiety in children.
Monica can be found: https://www.vitaoptimumcounseling.com
This week registered oncology nurse and certified health and nutrition coach Cris Bofill shares some helpful tips with us about healthy eating. She provides insights into shopping, nutrition labels, and even how to get picky eaters to eat their veggies!
Cris can be found at: https://www.wellnutritionsolutions.com
In this episode we’re talking about authentic self care with Julia Hogan, author, therapist, owner and clinical director of Vita Optimum Counseling. She walks us through the issue with today’s treat yourself self care mentality, what is authentic self care and how to figure out what revives you.
Julia can be found at: https://www.juliamariehogan.com
Resources mentioned:
It’s Okay to Start with You by Julia Hogan: https://www.juliamariehogan.com/shop/signed-book
A Work in Progress: Embracing the Life God Gave You by Julia Hogan: https://www.juliamariehogan.com/shop/preorder-a-work-in-progress-embracing-the-life-god-gave-you-signed-copy
Book by Dr. Gregory Popcak: https://amzn.to/3L6T8fI
Boundaries by Henry Cloud: https://amzn.to/3Ey0VAw
Boundaries with Kids by Henry Cloud: https://amzn.to/3jY2WMT
Boundaries with Teens by Henry Cloud: https://amzn.to/3Oq2UeR
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown: https://amzn.to/3L7qZ87
We’ve brought Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Doug Hinderer back to discuss marriage therapy - specifically hot to know if your marriage needs it! He walks us through 4 red flags that could indicate therapy is the next right step for your marriage, and discusses the value couples find in talking to a therapist even if nothing is seriously wrong.
Resources mentions:
Catholic Therapists: https://www.catholictherapists.com
The Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com
ICEEFT: http://iceeft.com
Registered nurse and Marquette-method NFP instructor, Amanda Smith shares some insights into Natural Family Planning. She discusses how the marital act is always meant to be unitive and procreative, how NFP is not Catholic birth control, and clears up some common misconceptions she encounters.
Amanda can be found: https://www.vitaefertility.com
Resources mentioned:
Humanae Vitae by Pope Paul VI
Sinner’s Guide to Natural Family Planning by Simcha Fisher
Kids: A Right? A Curse? Or a Gift? by Fr. Mike Schmitz
The Secret about Sex and Holiness by Fr. Mike Schmitz
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Doug Hinderer is back again sharing his insights on how to prepare for marriage - before you’re engaged or even seriously dating. He walks us through how to cultivate the virtues that will be needed in married life, things like: friendship, kindness, patience, meekness, and more
Doug can be found: https://www.happymarriageforlife.com
In this class, Fr. Paul Donlan explains that the human person is made in God's image and likeness, not just because he is endowed with an intellect and will, but because he is called to live in a communion of persons––namely, in a family.
Certified Life Coach, Janet Quinlan shares her insights and expertise on creating a bright and cheerful home. She points out that making a home is not just about the physical environment but also the emotional and spiritual environment. This mother of 7 and life coach to mothers around the world, offers practical tips for building up all three of these environments so each member of the family feels connected, safe, needed, and loved.
Janet can be found at: https://janetquinlan.com
Senior Scholar at Boston University’s Center for Character and Social Responsibility, Karen Bohlin talks with us about the importance of introducing good literature to children and how to avoid becoming reluctant readers. She talks about the importance of going deep into the meaning and messages found in great literature, and how that illuminates the intricacies of life.
Doug Hinderer, licensed marriage and family therapist, shares insights into God’s plan for marriage. In this episode, we look at CS Lewis’ Four Loves, and then dive into Agape love and what that is meant to look like for married couples today. You’ll learn about the four characteristics of Agape love: permanent, exclusive, public, and fruitful. And lastly, Doug shares insights into what marriage truly IS.
Resources mentioned:
CS Lewis: The Four Loves https://www.cslewis.com/four-types-of-love/
Doug can be found at: https://www.happymarriageforlife.com
In this episode, Fr. Jeffrey Langan explains that marriage is a sacrificial bond between husband and wife and God. The time before marriage, or one's single life, is an important time to grow in the sacrificial love that one may be called to live as part of marriage.
In this episode, Fr. Jeffrey Langan encourages us to reframe our perspective of the trials and sufferings we encounter in life, and to place our total trust in God.
In this reflection, Fr. Paul Donlan explains how the virtue of patriotism stems from the natural virtue of piety, the same virtue that allows us to respect and honor our parents. It is, therefore, the school of the family where the virtue of patriotism is first instilled.
In this meditation, Fr. Paul Donlan explores the importance of forgiveness in family life. Though "I forgive you" can be the hardest words to say, the whole Gospel can be summarized in those words.
We begin this month of May with a reflection by Fr. Paul Donlan on Mary's role as a mother and patroness of America. We invoke her intercession as "[she] is our great ally in a long uphill battle to bring the conscience of our nation back to the inviolable sanctity of human life and what it really means to be a mother."
In this episode, Fr. Matt Wheeler reflects on how Catholics serve and build the Catholic Church by focusing on the family.
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In this podcast, Fr. Paul Donlan reflects on how we are called to imitate Christ in laying down our lives for the love of others. Today, Holy Thursday, marks the beginning of the Paschal Triduum-- the three days commemorating the crucifixion, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. As we contemplate these events, may we remember that Christ’s great sacrifice is something we should aspire to emulate in our everyday lives through “the humdrum tasks of daily life-- in marriage, in family, in the workplace, in moving about our local communities, with people we don’t even know personally.”
In this podcast, Fr. Peter Armenio reflects on the gifts God gave St. Joseph to live his vocation as the foster father of Jesus. On tomorrow's Feast of St. Joseph, we marvel and give thanks that, in the words of Fr. Peter, "God would choose an obscure carpenter living in this insignificant village of Nazareth" to "contribute to the most important 33 years in the history of the universe."